I was told I had a sister who was put up for adoption about 6 years ago. She was born in the 90s. While looking for that sister I found a brother I didn't know I had. I found my sister this past August... only to find out that we had three more brothers who were also adopted out. We are still looking for them. Edit 04/24/2019: I have found my remaining siblings. Four more!

@ah.b9510

6 жыл бұрын

hi you should take dna test by any of the dna companies best of luck!!

@micaheldarby9426

5 жыл бұрын

Hi I lost track of my son and daughter. Found my son after 19 years and daughter after 25 years. Dont give up. Wish you all the best in your search

@teenabump5433

4 жыл бұрын

I am so glad that you found your sibblings.

@esterherschkovich6499

4 жыл бұрын

Wow..what a story..pray you all get together one day🌹

@ebabiimocha8891

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like someone was partying too much n didnt wanna handle all her unsafe sex responsibilities.. sad

The sibling story broke my heart I couldn’t imagine being torn apart from my sister “I want my brother!” Killed me :( glad they found each other ❤️

@dawahkids4

4 жыл бұрын

Mee too God almighty imagined her crying for her brother :(

As an adoptee, I honestly never cared about bio info. But DNA tests that were "for fun" ended up connecting me with a billion people. The technology is really crazy.

@kevlutu

5 жыл бұрын

I can relate to that very much, I am 68 years old now, I was told from an early age ( 6-7) that I was adopted and what that meant. But I was also told that My Birth Parents were deceased, No sense looking , so I never did until much later in College, I was curious and tried to get information, I got absolutely no where.. I recently requested Medical Information from the Agency involved, to My great surprise and utter dismay was soon told that My Birth Mother was still alive, Contact was initiated but refused, OK I do know that I have at least one Half Brother born about 18 months after Me,, to a Man not My biological Father.. Pretty much all I can do is wait for My Birth Mother to die , I did the Ancester.com thing as well. and so far no Half Brother, but there is a Very close first Cousin match and about 4 relatively ( pardon the pun ) close second Cousin matches and then about 1500 fourth and fifth Cousin match's. So far no one knows who I am, so I am the best kept secret. Unfortunately without at least one accurate and correct last Name, I am completely stumped. Good luck finding Your Blood People. God Bless. Kevin

@esterherschkovich6499

4 жыл бұрын

I think if you have a good Adoption,you do not feel the need to search,mine was not so perfect more the so called mother who adopted,she never wanted me..told me enough..long story short. I did Ancestry.Com..helped me so much,answers🤗

@esterherschkovich6499

4 жыл бұрын

Connected me with relatives in the USA🤗I am in the UK...amazing!

God answers prayers! That got me, I've been praying so hard to be reunited with my grandson that has been viciously taken away from me after my son passed away..His mother will not let me see him and I was close to him for 5 years..I'm so heartbroken for him and myself..I miss him so much!

I can't stop crying it's so sweet.

Sometimes the parents who keep us dont want or love us eirher

@teenabump5433

4 жыл бұрын

It seems sadly that is true sometimes.

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!! My sister and I call our mother Satan!! I’d love to have a long lost mother out there, but unfortunately, I’m stuck with Satan.

Hi adopted people , I was adopted as well when i was 6 months old and iv never located my birth parents, i was a rebel and depressed girl growing up even tried to commit suicide many times but the Lord was good enough and he is the reason i am still here... my life was horrible until i gave up my life to Jesus..u kept saying u wanted to find out who u are... i just want u to know that u cannot find who u are in people.. people fail.. u will only be able to find out who u really are and be truly and COMPLETELY HAPPY AND WHOLE in JESUS CHRIST.. i looked out in people to fill the void the emptiness that i had but i couldnt find it..cause people do fail us.. but Jesus doesnt.. when i found him i tell u now lady i am 100% HAPPY 100% WHOLE 100% KNOW WHO I AM..dont look in people what u can find only in Jesus Christ darling.. May the Lord bless and change ur life... Much love ... Giselle...Lopes... xx Romans 15:13 “I pray that God, the source of hope, will FILL you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.” Jesus loves you and he will never forsake you girl.. i dont even feel a abandoned child anymore.. cause the Lord jesus became my father the day i let him cure me and took all the pain away.... i want happy and i found my family in HIM!!! You have to try jesus so u can feel what i feel living and trusting in the Holy Spirit.. words can never tell you what it feels like to have his love and mercy...Your are loved by jesus u have no idea.. i pray that someday u will be happy and filled with the holy ghost love to the poibt that u wont want to find ur real parents anymore.. because the lord wil make you whole.. and happier than many kids with real parents... What ur looking for is right in front of ur eyes.. its not in people that u will fill the hole...only jesus can fill the hole in ur heart...amen..trust in the Lord..dear..

@esterherschkovich6499

4 жыл бұрын

You found him but others are of other Faiths Jesus who was Jewish helped you..happiness to you.

@dawahkids4

4 жыл бұрын

I pray trust and turn to God almighty .. the one who created jesus

Secrets,lies,rejection,Mothers who did not wish to give up the child they loved but it was the times,so much pain+heart ache..families split up+parents who openly leave their children😥😥

You know these are pretty good I wish I could hear them

So sad..feel for them..😥

Adoptees should know that unwed girls and women were routinely punished or shamed into giving their children up. It was considered selfish and shameful to keep the children. It makes no sense except to demean women.

Hunter Wolfe it seems that you have people who love you and it seems like you've done well with your life, what a handsome young and sweet man you seem to be.

yeah i had cold heartless parents too, when they separated we were stuck into the care system

@teenabump5433

4 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry.

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

Amen

Some one needs to be held accountable an see the government

Apprently AncestryDNA has found two full-sisters and perhaps at least a half sister and half brother. My adoption records were sealed and I have spent a life wishing to find my biological family. Sadly they have not answered my polite and restrained messages on ancestry; a messaging system that would insure they remain anonymous. In five years my state will open my records due to my age. Oh well...

@kevlutu

5 жыл бұрын

I share Your frustration completely. While I know that I have a Half Brother, He is not on Ancestry's database. He could be elsewhere, and I just have not found Him, although I don't hold out a lot of hope that direction as I am 68 He would 66 1/2 A lot of Us at this age just don't get into the DNA thing even adoptee's like Me. I began My search for other reasons , I wanted Medical information, I got precious little of nothing from the paperwork from the adoption. I had an earache when I was 2 months old ! nothing on Birth Mother or Birth father. Ancestry.com has found a Female First Cousin so closely matched that She is nearly a Sibling the match is so good. unfortunately My inquiries have also remained unanswered, This Woman almost HAS to know the story, but nothing for the past 4 months. I have several second Cousin match's as well and over 1500 3rd 4th and 5th Cousin match's and the only one that has replied to Me at all let alone positively is a Match so far down the list that She and or We are finding it nearly impossible to find a common Name unfortunately the First Cousin is Female and very likely registered in Her Married name, which helps Me not at all. With out at least one accurate Name, even DNA is not foolproof and still a very difficult process. Which side is My First Cousin on ? Mom or Dad ? the overlay of the ethnicity Maps suggest that She is probably on My Birth Fathers side and He would be about 99 if still alive. This miserable State will not release the un amended Birth record until after the Birth Mother dies or gives permission, and that has not happened at this time. Good Luck on Your search and God Bless. kevin

@esterherschkovich6499

4 жыл бұрын

Lucky in the UK we can see our files.

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

Y’all are breaking my heart. I’m a landman by profession and I find people for work all the time. I’m not working much right now, though. I have to track down the relatives from people that were born in the 1800’s! I’m really good at finding people. If you would like free help in your search reply. I have access to several databases and experience in finding people. Best of luck to y’all. ❤️ Edit: my work title is independent petroleum landman ( but I’m a 51 year old female) :))

We was born in the 71 in cable Huntington hospital

Long Lost Family does not do any heavy lifting. I found out through the help of women, Angels, who combined their strengths and determination to find out. LLF did nothing even though I applied. Basically they want the family to already to found.

Met long loss siblings in church.

i adopted my own nephew so i know his history medically as before he come to me i know they had have gene tests. i know adopting my kids and two bio sisters and two twin sisters and they bio brother. we had health history of all our kids

And one of my sisters is my twin we were born on the same day nov 21 1971

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

I’m going to search ancestry for you :) I hope you have had luck in the past year. Bless you.

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

Are you Shawn Marie Haskell? There is a delayed birth record for a Shawn Marie born nov 20, 1969! In WV. Could that be you?

Finally I see some one who was soooo sad like myself when I came home and my brothers were gone to a children's home. About a month later my sister and I were sent to a children's home. The next 4 years was a huge depression until I saw them again.

@dawahkids4

4 жыл бұрын

Ooo glad to hear you saw them again! Can't even imagine

I would do anything to find the daughter I placed for adoption in 1997. I just sent off an Ancestry DNA test kit to hopefully find her. She is now 22 years old. I placed her out of love. I was young and in college and knew I wouldn't be able to give her the life she deserved. But since the day she was born my heart has been broken. I have missed her every day for 22 years. I cry often. I also live in Georgia and keep hitting closed doors. Usually it's a birth child looking for the birth mother but I am the birth mother looking for my birth daughter. Does anyone have any ideas what I can do. Thank you.

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

Have you found any information through ancestry yet? Do you know the last name of the people that adopted her?

@melissawilson3739

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sabbathissaturday I found my daughter through Ancestry. We found each other 1 year ago and talk several times a week. We are planning to meet in person soon. Because of covid it has not been safe to meet. But we both just recently got vaccinated.

There's 2 sides to DNA searches... both *have to be willing* to connect. I made frequent donations to sperm banks over 7 years while in college. A lot of us did that in the 60-70's as it was easy money. DNA sequencing was science fiction back then, and it was before computer records. I tried 23andme for the health profile, which included ancestry. It was a shock, the number of biological children and grandchildren. I tried two more ancestry testing companies. Same shocking results. Thankfully I did these tests anonymously. I don't want to suddenly have 100's of people contacting me. I don't want to be found. I've never wanted a family. My concern though is people marrying a sibling.

hi Ms. Jenni would it be ok to talk? I was adopted I live in Augusta

In Huntington West Virginia at cable Huntington hospital

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

I found your mom and dad. I’m so sorry. It appears your mother died in childbirth in 1973, along with your sibling. That must be why your dad gave you and your sister up for adoption. West Virginia is not an open birth record state. You can obtain your certificate. Maybe your sister will be listed too? I would contact a judge or clerk and plead with them to let you know your sisters adopted name. ❤️❤️ I wish you the best of luck.

My original birth name was Valerie, don't know if it was originally spelled that way but I've been told i have siblings somewere out there. Born in i believe Berkeley county wv and apparently my birth mom was named Susan. Don't have a last name.

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

Do the dna on ancestry. My cousin found her birth father that way.

I don't know where to start to look for answers to family history. Regarding my mom who passed in 2008. And the mystery to answers I would like to find out about my heritage. My mom was adopted born in Vancouver B.C. Canada. By my grandparents who then moved to United States, Idaho then Washington State. But no questions were answered before they passed & also before my mother passed to where she came from. Also my mother have up a baby boy 3 yrs + before I was born. So I don't even know where to start to look for him. I don't know his bday or anything about him. It just pains me not knowing & also knowing what my background is & where my mother came from & history. Don't know where to even begin. And why does it have to cost so much for us to get answers thru DNA TESTING.

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

Ancestry has DNA tests for 49.99 all the time. Do it if you haven’t already. My cousin did it and found her birth father. ❤️

I am looking for my sisters because we were in a black market adopted and we were spit up from birth and I am trying to find my family I have been searching for them all my life but I am not getting any where the Huntington county houses will not open my adoption files so I don’t know wat to do now

@2011Ecstatic

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss.

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

Trying doing DNA on ancestry.

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

I found your parents on ancestry. I saw where your mom died in childbirth in 1973. Are you sure your father couldn’t cope and gave y’all up? I’m so sorry you have had to endure this. West Virginia does not have open birth records so, I couldn’t search for your sister. Gosh, my heart just bleeds for you. Can you sue the courts for your sisters last name?

What about Long Lost Family series. Are you against that show?

@karensmith4599

5 жыл бұрын

I love that show in England and America

@esterherschkovich6499

4 жыл бұрын

@@karensmith4599 me too..any show or KZread to help🤗is fab!

My real last name was brummage which my dad name was David r brummage and my mom was glory jean Brummage but her name was Jackson before it became brummage

We were both adopted i mwt my father Edward mowery wouldn't tell us about his family and then his wife made him choose us or her

I'm trying to find my fathers family medical background my sister had bone cancer i had to pull life support on her she died at 40 with 2 children I know his name

@Sabbathissaturday

3 жыл бұрын

Ancestry DNA!!!

Do dna test

I don’t believe that the question is about medical history. It is the need to belong.

@esterherschkovich6499

4 жыл бұрын

Spot in,it is useful health info..but belonging...

This show is a real jumbled up mess, it aimlessly jumps from one story to another, really hard to follow!