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@mikeclarke5732

Жыл бұрын

Nice

@nabanshugogoi3515

Жыл бұрын

Nice

@psychicfish1592

Жыл бұрын

Nice 😎

@ChamplainValleyRailSnapshots

Жыл бұрын

Nice.

@ghost_fueled_scarecrow

Жыл бұрын

nice 😎

The absolute psychopathy of "hah, boy, I wish I was raped when I was a kid"

@crayondevourer2267

Жыл бұрын

And the "it wasn't r*pe if he enjoyed it", like wtf that's like saying "it's not a war crime if they didn't feel pain"

@Power11112

Жыл бұрын

What 30+ years no sex does to an mfer

@zoidberg444

Жыл бұрын

My great grandfather was serving in the army in France in 1915 when he was 14 and won the military medal for bravery during the 100 days offensive when he was 17. He was very nearly killed at the battle of Amiens and most of his unit was wiped out. Lord Nelson had already been in the Navy for 2 years when he was 14. If being bedded by a sexy cougar and getting rid of the V-card is the most traumatic thing that happened to you at 14 I'll swap you. Most kids I went to school with were sexually active at that age except for me and a few other nerds. Getting rid of my V-card cost me £150 in the end.

@theopdiamond8349

Жыл бұрын

@@zoidberg444 I can see why it cost you.

@donovanlocust1106

Жыл бұрын

@@theopdiamond8349 Does anyone have a phone? We need to report a murder.

I remember South Park made a joke about this when Ike was 'dating' his School Teacher. Ironically, when Kyle, Ike's brother, reported it to the police, they didnt take it seriously and wanted to congratulate Ike for it. That's one of the first times my mind was blown at how real South Park was.

@RG_Rizzy

Жыл бұрын

Kyle and his mom were the only ones who cared

@spunkinator5000

Жыл бұрын

"Did she perform oral sex on him?" "Yeah I think so." "Nice... nice."

@BessieRiggs

Жыл бұрын

….nice.

@theUNDERFISTER

Жыл бұрын

...nice

@setsers1

Жыл бұрын

Didn't Cartman spray that teacher for that?

There was a girl in my high school that molested her friend's 12 y/o brother. The kid's sister ended up beating her ass in the lunch room when she found out.

@doctorheck2186

Жыл бұрын

Good

@jiwanlal7149

Жыл бұрын

@@doctorheck2186 Based

@justaninksearcher

6 ай бұрын

We need more people like her in this world

@TheConservativeinaction

5 ай бұрын

Good

@BlackbeltHitoshi

2 ай бұрын

200 IQ move.

“You can’t rape the willing” is so sinister

@jiwanlal7149

11 ай бұрын

they say gays will bring ruin NO THESE MOFUS WILL

@seraphim9429

8 ай бұрын

It’s not sinister, it’s demonic!

@pandoratheclay

8 ай бұрын

@@seraphim9429 worse, it’s downright ominous

@Hat-Kid

8 ай бұрын

@@pandoratheclay i'd even argue it's despicable

@poopymaster_kingXxninjaXX69420

7 ай бұрын

@@Hat-Kid despicable me👽

Shoe, this kinda crap is why it took me years to tell I was abused. It's like oh yeah a women slept with you? What you hated it? Are you gay? Like people think it's cool if it's a woman but a dude people are ready to burn the world! The psychological effects are devastating.

@mousysaint9143

Жыл бұрын

God, people trying to call sexually abused boys 'gay' is so sexist and homophobic. Its so sad you faced harassment for this shit. These double standards are so fucked.

@briancrosby152

Жыл бұрын

@@mousysaint9143 oh pretty much, it's made it hard for myself to feel "Okay" & having to hear all that 💩. Nobody should endure this !

@bayardkyyako7427

Жыл бұрын

"Are you gay?" "No I'm attracted to women" "Doesn't mean you aren't gay" That's an actual conversation I had with someone like that. Just another fucking idiot who deserves a bit of a memory jogging via a forced head slam on a sturdy table.

@xXluluchanelXx

Жыл бұрын

@@briancrosby152 you didn't deserve to. :( the extra piled-on trauma that boys and men have to feel about this stuff is one reason the way things work now cannot be how it works in the future

@TheKarret

Жыл бұрын

Man that's so fucked. Sorry you have to deal with that! I hope you are seeking treatment for it, if possible! :C

On top of the female double standard , there’s also attractive privilege: if she wasn’t a smoke show and was an overweight lady with an eye patch they would be calling it rape I bet . You’re absolutely correct when you say they’re projecting

@Jo-sx8yi

Жыл бұрын

Hmmm I think comedian amy schumer, who is very overweight, admitted to SA'ing a man and it was laughed off? Idk anymore correct me if i am wrong

@flosophy

Жыл бұрын

was looking for this comment. you could easily reduce the age-gap by ten to twenty years, it doesn't matter - if she didn't look great, they'd immediately call it rape.

@92brunod

Жыл бұрын

If it's a woman it still wouldn't be called rape, as the other case mentioned proves. But there would be much less supportive messages for sure.

@129das

Жыл бұрын

She not even that attractive her upper body is like skin and bones

@abadenoughdude300

Жыл бұрын

Yeah the messages would probably be more along the lines of "dang son you could've picked better oh well maybe they did it in the dark a score is a score" or some such crap.

I worked at a psychiatric facility for years. The double standard in the psyche field is crazy. If a male staff member was discovered having an inappropriate relationship with a client they were immediately fired, arrested, and imprisoned. If a male staff was even accused of any inappropriate touching or anything sexually inappropriate with a client, they would be immediately suspended until an investigation was complete (female patients weaponized this and would falsely accuse male staff all the time). I personally walked in on a female nurse having "relations" with a male patient multiple times. Not only was she not fired and arrested after myself and another staff reported it, she wasn't even suspended. To my shock she was back at work the next day. My manager told me that the female nurse "had issues right now" and we had to be supporting of her. She was eventually fired after multiple incidents with multiple clients. This was not an isolated incident there. While I worked there, female staff were caught being sexually inappropriate with patients at about three times the rate that male staff were. I will not speculate as to why that was, but female and male staff were treated very, very differently after the fact. Our rule/policies even stated that it was illegal for a male staff to have inappropriate sexual relationships with patients. It actually said, and specifically stated "male" staff. I was told they finally changed the terminology in that policy just recently to just say "staff".

@paccawacca4069

Жыл бұрын

And people try and say men enforce these double standards and not women, who dominate the medical field.

@geraldyeager7652

10 ай бұрын

Wow your job was just hanging by a thread

@lemur1129

7 ай бұрын

​@@geraldyeager7652Oh brother this guy stinks.

@fukkitful

6 ай бұрын

I had a 17 yo female coworker touch my butt. When I said something to my managers they laughed...

@LegioXXI

6 ай бұрын

S*xual abuse (especially with minors) is usually a result of power dynamic, not gender. And since nowadays many women are in position of power (especially in medicine and education) its no surprise to see an increase there. Even at "normal" r*pe, its usually the power dynamic of plain physical strength. But its still surprising that many of these (recorded) cases happen in the US. In Europe for example you rarely find these cases. I think the overall toxic dating and hookup culture in the US is also a contributing factor.

Anyone who says, "statuatory shouldn't apply when the kid is a boy" would be calling for the death penalty if it were a boy and a man.

@keithhunt5328

10 ай бұрын

Yup.

You can FEEL how proud that author was of those puns

@korganrocks3995

Жыл бұрын

I could feel their UNBRIDLED joy from here.

@DevineInnovations

Жыл бұрын

The fact that he was making puns in an article about this seems like a bad joke in itself.

@pauldee1577

Жыл бұрын

the author deserved to be punched for making the puns in the first place, but the palpable pride he had of making them makes him deserving of insertion into volcano.

@nigelft

Жыл бұрын

@@korganrocks3995 ... or that his editor didn't keep a tight enough reigns on their reporters ...

@nigelft

Жыл бұрын

@@DevineInnovations Quite ... One could say that humour wasn't very pun-ney at all ... and the reporter had a bad case of hoof in mouth ...

It’s like giving a kid 2 lbs of coke. Saying “wow, what a lucky kid, I’d snort that all in one go”

@AllWillBeRevealed957

Жыл бұрын

Yep. People just don't understand.

@satelliteprime

Жыл бұрын

@@DDRWakaLaka Agreed, it's excellent, I am using this from now on

@paul715

Жыл бұрын

@@satelliteprime it's a very bad analogy

@videogamecoverss

Жыл бұрын

I mean, I would snort that in one go but the couldn't shouldn't have it. I should :) Actually 2lbs is WAYYY too much but I would work through it like a champ....

@JosefZeethuven

Жыл бұрын

@@paul715 How about you explain why "paul"

As a guys that got graped by woman when I was 14, I wanted to puke when I saw people say "good for him" in the comments below the article, let me tell you, it's not even slightly pleasurable, it hurts, makes you feel powerless, your whole throat goes sore, and leaves you scarred for the rest of your life, it's disgusting how people can joke about it or even say that it's good that it happened, I loathe this kind of behaviour, and I feel great pity for the boy in question

@Ryuko-T72

3 ай бұрын

I'm sorry you had to go through that

@krzycki9688

3 ай бұрын

@@Ryuko-T72 it's alright, I already dealt with it in a large capacity, though it'll never fully go away

@ktv9247

17 күн бұрын

@@krzycki9688 i call bs its funny a kid can get charged as an adult for murder but...

@WarPigstheHun

12 күн бұрын

@@ktv9247 I call bs, you think people give a shit about you, but they don't!

Sex with someone under the age of consent is a crime. No elaboration needed. I would have happily done it when I was a kid. And I would have been traumatized and filled with regret afterwards. Both can be true.

@askosefamerve

Ай бұрын

This. Kids in that age think sex is something godly. The shame of being "used" they will feel afterwards is so ignored on that tweet.

@sssaasdsd

26 күн бұрын

i cant agree more

@Formalec

20 күн бұрын

It is simply super duper criminal.

@ktv9247

17 күн бұрын

there are literally incels that exist

As a victim of rape done on me by women, when I was 12, I want to thank you for making this video. I kept silent for 17 years and I have to say even after I have counseling and therapy, sometime it's hard for me to cope. And what hurts probably the most is how society look at this situation. I want to reward any voice speaking about this, so I sent some coffee money. And besides I watch you for like 10 years or how long you are here, many times with adblock on, so I guess we are even. Thank you and have a nice day.

@shred1894

Жыл бұрын

The sad thing is there's not much in the way of support for male victims of sexual abuse. I also was a victim when I was really young, and it messed me up emotionally to where I've never been able to have a normal relationship. Every relationship I've had has ended badly because I am emotionally damaged and not able to connect properly with the person I'm dating. Feelings of love end up expressed by alternating between apathy and obsession, and it doesn't help that it more-or-less turned me into a sociopath until I finally had an emotional breakdown when I was 18 caused by antidepressants, after which I could finally feel emotions. I'm 28 now and I can't barely hold a stable job, every relationship I've had ended in disaster and broke me back down emotionally back to where I was when I was 18/19, and I'm worse off financially now than when I graduated high school. If I didn't have my family to help support me with certain things I probably would be either homeless or dead (self-inflicted). Therapy and counseling can only go so far, and if the person you are in a relationship with doesn't understand and support you through your emotional issues, your relationship collapses and you end up worse off than before you started dating in the first place. And society tells you to 'man up' like you skinned your knee ignoring the fact that you are either emotionally dead or a completely broken mess that has no choice but to kill the part of yourself that makes you who you are. And if you don't 'man up' you end up collapsing into your own spiral of self-loathing and depression where the only thing that you have to look forward to is a new cheap thing that will allow you to temporarily forget your pain for a few hours or days until the novelty of whatever the new cheap thing is wears off.

@giocommentary

Жыл бұрын

thank you for having the courage to stand and share our story with you, thank you for that

@82jp

Жыл бұрын

@@shred1894 thank you for sharing! I know it's hard, and I don't know you, but I'm glad you are still here and still sharing your experiences! You matter and your voice matters! ♥️ ❤️❤️

@82jp

Жыл бұрын

Michal, I'm so sad that you had that experience and haven't gotten the support you've needed. Thank you for speaking up. Please don't ever stop.

@ruzasuka

Жыл бұрын

You´re from Czechia?

“girls and boys are different” is not an argument here. regardless of gender, minor’s brains have not developed yet therefor they cannot consent. why is that hard for these people to understand

@abdiabdi3225

Жыл бұрын

in case someone wants to know a person's brain becomes fully developed around 25 with the prefrontal cortex taking from around 16-25 to fully develop now each most countries have it in and around that age bracket as the age of majority so a 14 yr hasn't even reached that stage just adds to how messed up this and of course she is also rich which puts her in a second level of power because of her monetary might.

@BakaGaijinSama

Жыл бұрын

They think consent is about desire. In reality, that is only really the tip of the iceberg. Without full understanding, control, lack of coercion, comfort, and even just the whims of sometimes not being up for something, there can be no consent. A child cant have full understanding, a child doesn't have that control, a child can easily be coerced by an authoritative figure; so the fact that a child can genuinely experience sexual desire and be comfortable in the moment is not enough. It's also in this situation, the implicit misogyny of not being able to see women as dangerous or predatory.

@kevincorncone

Жыл бұрын

@@BakaGaijinSama 💯!!!

@unoriginal1086

Жыл бұрын

@Jamal Ramadan i mean it's sexist both ways, it implies also that women are more emotional and therefore more traumatized whereas men are tough and should be able to 'deal with it' which is wrong obviously but it comes from patriarchy and toxic masculinity.

@CyberCripX

Жыл бұрын

@@BakaGaijinSama not misogeny, its misandry. But, i agree.

"they would have to identify the body using a cotton swab." - my respect for you just tripled

I love how they just absolutely forget that there are little girls that desperately want attention from male and female teachers too

@belypeprime3838

25 күн бұрын

I think it there is an implicit, underlying sentiment within society that is rarely - if ever - spoken. That men enjoy sex, but women endure it. Many people will base opinions and statements on this without even thinking that they hold this sentiment, I believe thay is how implicit this sentiment is. That leads people to assume that, even if both a young boy and a young girl "consent" to sexual actions with an adult, then one of them really wanted it and the other one was simply mislead or groomed. It's a disgusting double-standard that I think also ties into the general infantilisation and wider underestimation of women as people.

@bushturkey798

11 күн бұрын

​@@belypeprime3838and yet, I'm expected to treat them as equals.

As a Male SA survivor I will say that shockingly other men have been the most supportive and empathetic. Whereas numerous women have doubted me, mocked me, told me I was lying or hell a few even told me I deserved it. I know I'll never get justice for what was done to me. But I really hope future generations wont have to go through what I have. What Shoe said at 5:06 is so important. The trauma ruins so many avenues of your life from relationships and intimacy to trust to just having the ability to feel safe. To clarify, this isn't a "Men vs. Women" comment and this isnt a "Men vs Women" issue. It's a far more complex and deeply ingrained issue in our society.

@Mr_Ozone

Жыл бұрын

A few told you that you DESERVED IT?! That is beyond fucked up, I'm sorry that you had to go through that shit, those women are completely heartless.

@gem9535

Жыл бұрын

As a woman, I hope those women get the worst

@evelynn1173

Жыл бұрын

I'm really sorry that other women have said these horrendous stuff to you. You deserve much better then the treatment you've received.

@stephaniemoore8013

Жыл бұрын

Almost all of the commentors saying it was okay what this teacher did were male. So your anecdote doesnt mean a whole lot. I also honestly dont believe you. In my life its always been men who didnt believe my abuse. Or thought I did something to provoke it.

@redikaicore

Жыл бұрын

@@stephaniemoore8013 You just proved their point.

what's really upsetting is that young male victims often don't get to express how they were indeed traumatised, ive read more than one account where the child mentions how they are mocked when they express how the experience was bad, resulting in recurrent nightmares, loss of friendships, family issues, etc.... Its truly heart-breaking, this double standard should not exist, but it does.

@tomfoolery7797

Жыл бұрын

I've seen a youtube video about male abuse victims and how they often don't get help or aren't taken seriously, when they call in to a abuse hotline they are often told they don't help male victims and are redirected to the male abuser hotline where abusers can get help to become better... I know it isn't about child rape/abuse but it also shows the double standard men/boys face in our society.

@Muonium1

Жыл бұрын

can someone explain the 'smell toast' thing in this video to me? I'm a gen-xer and therefore hopelessly out of the loop. Help me millennials. like...some sort of weird reference to neurosurgeon Wilder Penfield is all I can think of here or maybe 'bread tube' but that doesn't really make sense.

@CyberCripX

Жыл бұрын

@@Muonium1 im a fellow zoomer, and i gotchu. So when people have strokes, typically they describe a smell of burnt toast. So, her joke was "am i having a stroke" basically.

@iAmNothingness

Жыл бұрын

Hmm, i am alone. 32. I hate all human beings. I wonder why. No one cares because "i was lucky". The sadest part is this is our peak. This is the peak of humanity. This is the peak of our "intelligence". Do you not feel that is time for something new?

@akoilngas1215

Жыл бұрын

Knew a kid in high school who was being molested by a friend's mom. He was absolutely embarrassed and traumatized as his behavior changed after it started. It only got worse when the molestation was discovered. He killed himself a week later. He was 15. The mom was not prosecuted.

I am a male that was routinely sexually molested by women in their 30s & 40s. It started when I was 13. You might say, I was an "apt pupil". Friends told friends and I reaped the rewards. If an exceptionally good-looking woman came to get me to "help" with something, my father would even pull me off the tractor. Chest all puffed out, "that's MY boy".

@countlazuli8753

10 ай бұрын

What in the actual hell! The fact that your friends and dad encouraged this to go on is just infuriating!

@taegutzzz

6 ай бұрын

what the actual fuck… i’m so sorry..

@Jjunl614

3 ай бұрын

Man wtf. I hope you're okay now

@ADekuKid

2 ай бұрын

Wow dude.

@darjeerling

Ай бұрын

That's disgusting. You were basically fucking pimped out. I'm so, so sorry.

I was a sophomore in high school and this girl sat next to me in lunch and started rubbing my thigh and I told her to stop which she didn’t, so I walked off, I stay away from her now.

@gabagool3502

10 ай бұрын

That’s good man you did the right thing

Ayyo, they got issues.

@OmarrMcinnis

Жыл бұрын

I believe the term you're looking for is: AY-YO, OH-AY... THEY CAPPIN'...!!! Such is the proper vernacular.

@thedragon133

Жыл бұрын

*tissues

@morgurathemightyone8266

Жыл бұрын

@Don't Read My Profile Photo shut up

@glyph241

Жыл бұрын

🇦🇺🕳🇦🇺

@optimusprime1848

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

A society that cannot agree to protecting children is worthless.

@watermelonheadiego

11 ай бұрын

Instead they attack people for their thoughts yet there are real predators in the streets they feel stronger attacking the week and are scared of going at actual bad people. Theyre also scared of their own fucking shit in their closet coming to life. Society is a failure as we know it today

@At0mic0la48

11 ай бұрын

F*CKING RIGHT

@the_seer_0421

10 ай бұрын

Or hate a whole gender

@rastalique8114

10 ай бұрын

Feminist call boys "future oppressors" & punish boys for no reason. Deny them benefits, then wonder why they are messed up.

@ganachepanache

9 ай бұрын

You said it!

I'm also remembering the fun times (Hermesmann v. Seyer and Olivias v. Arizona) when a female rapist successfully sued her underage victim for child support. Imagine getting betrayed, manipulated, and raped by an adult you thought you could trust, then relentlessly mocked by horny men, and then sternly told by a judge "victims have rights, but in this case victims also have responsibilities" and ordered to hand over a massive portion of your paychecks for the first 20 years of your working life for the person who raped you to use as their personal fun-money fund! 😵

@armind4555

9 ай бұрын

Alright never taking a step in Arizona if I come to the US noted.

Kids can’t consent. Keep up the great work.

@abcdefghilihgfedcba

7 ай бұрын

Laws worldwide disagree… but you can keep telling yourself that.

@johnmarley2046

6 ай бұрын

​@@abcdefghilihgfedcbaYou better watch your tongue before you lose it. Where I'm from saying shit like that will get you're ass beat beyond recognition. (I don't care if you're a man, woman, gay, or straight). It's never okay to diddle or beat a child what plannet do you live on?

@1Luhreezy

6 ай бұрын

@@abcdefghilihgfedcba???

@justalonelypoteto

5 ай бұрын

​@@abcdefghilihgfedcba laws worldwide also disagree on if the right to be legally recognized as a couple should be given to gay people, they also disagree on whether kissing someone of the same sex is grounds for stoning you to death. Your point?

@abcdefghilihgfedcba

5 ай бұрын

@@justalonelypoteto Maybe the fact you completely made that up. Try learning the meaning of words before you use them.

Had a discussion with a friend about the Kylie Strickland incident and he said “so you would be mad at her if she flashed your son?” and I asked him “would you be mad if a man did that same thing to your daughter?” He tried making excuses, then ended the conversation

@CharlieSmurffy

Жыл бұрын

And that conversations name? Albert Einstein.

@miscl_anon

Жыл бұрын

@@CharlieSmurffy wait what

@xXluluchanelXx

Жыл бұрын

@@miscl_anon think they're trying to imply it didn't happen, maybe? otherwise I got nothing

@ultrabigfella

Жыл бұрын

"So you would be mad if she flashed your son?" YES

@kekkonr7773

Жыл бұрын

@@CharlieSmurffy 2070

Gotta give the journo props for all them horse puns in an article about child diddling.

@peaceandloveusa6656

Жыл бұрын

No kidding. Makes me want someone to check their hard drive, but they were on point with them puns.

@korganrocks3995

Жыл бұрын

I'm 99% certain that every single journalist in the UK chose their career purely for the puns. You'd think an article about pedophelia would make them put the breaks on, but apparently not...

@kristiannoetorres

Жыл бұрын

@@peaceandloveusa6656 I don't know how you can find humor in something this horrible. The level of normality on issues like this are beyond disturbing.

@peaceandloveusa6656

Жыл бұрын

@@kristiannoetorres Tell me you don't understand dark humor is a coping mechanism without telling me you don't understand dark humor is a coping mechanism.

@Znijik

Жыл бұрын

"Court, you're gonna have to cover the pedo cougar thing, but here's some good news: she's a HORSE heiress."

You cant convince me these aren't pedophiles outing themselves

@gekuul9616

16 күн бұрын

Or just sad virgins who are desperate for sex, and think doing it at that age would be "fun"

Brings to mind the South Park episode involving Ike and his teacher. The cops’ jealous reaction is hilarious as animated parody (because it is something that feels unreal), but hideous when espoused by actual people. Keep the fire under these folks’ toes, Shoe!

This is the same double standard we have for movies too, Women getting sexually assaulted is like a tragic backstory but men getting sexually assaulted is played for laughs

@adultdeleted

Жыл бұрын

can't even think of any modern western media where a main male character has that as their backstory. even if in the source material it is part of the backstory, it's conveniently left out.

@mo.trademarked

Жыл бұрын

@@adultdeleted You Know It's Bad When Japan is Better at Highlighting this Issue Then We Are.

@SunwardRanger83

Жыл бұрын

First thing I thought of was Jennifer Anniston's character in Horrible Bosses. To be honest, I still think it's funny because of how over-the-top and ridiculous it was, but it made me try to think of a single time a woman getting assaulted was supposed to be funny, or a man getting assaulted by a woman was supposed to be serious. I honestly can't think of an example.

@Nerobyrne

Жыл бұрын

Wonder woman 1984 Turned her from a hero to a villain in the worst way possible

@bipstymcbipste5641

Жыл бұрын

Actually, funnily enough it's a game I don't really like but Fear 2 ends with Alma raping the protagonist Beckett and getting pregnant. He's tied down to a chair so he can't push her off while he's trying to fight off a psychological demon cause Alma's a powerful psychic. It doesn't make fun of it or anything and Beckett's completely and absolutely disgusted by it and thinks the pregnancy afterwards is evil. That whole thing was just so uncomfortable to play through but that was the one part I kinda liked about it. They didn't explore that trauma much though

5:05 Without going into too much detail I can say from personal experience that this is true. When I was a child I had... an experience with a grown woman and it left me with both an obsession with sex and a deep fear of sex. I will be 32 this year and to this day it is the only sexual experience I've ever had because of the fear it left me.

@shorb2289

Жыл бұрын

Interesting way to reveal you got no bitches

@cyrusthegreat7030

Жыл бұрын

Feel for you brother.

@urmomgay

Жыл бұрын

I know how you feel..

@Brandon_Powell

Жыл бұрын

@@cyrusthegreat7030 That's kind of you to say.

@elcatrinc1996

Жыл бұрын

thats what these people refuse to see, actual consecuence of this behavior, they try to insist that we are different when we are humans like everyone else and can be harmed in a lot of the same ways

Imagine being the kid. Being confused emotionally about the whole situation and everyone online is saying he's lucky but inside he's in pain. Actually terrible

@Cassian457

2 ай бұрын

I mean I'm 14 the only reason this is totally disgusting to me is that I'm religious cause really, some mf I know would hella enjoy this

You know what I love about your channel ShoeOnHead ... its where reasonable people, whether they are conservative or liberal, come to point at the crazies at either end of the spectrum and yell "NO! STOP!" It gives me hope, that things might eventually normalize ... Also your reactions are hysterical!

@lucas23453

5 ай бұрын

Indeed. Im not even liberal but I come to this channel for an occasional dose of wokeness, helps keep me balanced and sane.

When I was a teen girl in HS, I had a problem with a male security guard. He'd make me late to class so he could walk me to the principal, touched my hair, demanded my name and even followed me home a few times. They didn't believe me entirely but he was removed from the school. There's a female security guard in the same school. She was a younger security guard, in her mid-late 20s to early 30s and very well endowed in curves so a lot of the boys had a crush on her. I know several of the boys were friends with her son. It got out that she had sex with several of them and the rumors flew around school like wildfire. But was she ever removed? Did she lose her job over this? Nope... I graduated in 2009 and she's STILL THERE. My younger brother graduated in 2021 and he even told me stories about her; not knowing I already knew her and her ways. It is absolutely DISGUSTING, this double standard. I'll make note that the male security guard didn't get in real trouble until the following year when he was caught buying alcohol for minor girls and making them give him a BJ . They really need to care about kids more. I have a friend who's been r***ed as a child who grew up to be schizophrenic from it and has completely lost touch with reality. Pray this world will one day soon heal from the madness ✨ ❤

@lostconciousness4255

Жыл бұрын

rumors are not proof unfortunately. Lots of peoples reputations get ruined because of these. If she really did, shame on her but rumors aren't proof.

@logicdiary3179

Жыл бұрын

@@lostconciousness4255 there's a way they could investigate. No offense but this comment is also the double standard. I didn't have pictures of the one who followed me home or any witnesses but they REMOVED him for student safety and put him in a school of elementary kids. I don't want this woman to have her life ruined but if students are speaking up, it should be looked into. What does it say to the students that their voices aren't heard and concerns aren't brought to light? There's a whole lot of steps between the investigation and the loss of her job. I don't suppirt "cancel culture" but the point June made in this video is the double standard. I know you have a good heart by what you say however I'm just looking at the bigger picture. They don't treat cases with women predators as hashly at all.

@kishagiazuka3447

Жыл бұрын

@@logicdiary3179 " if students are speaking up, it should be looked into." Are the students complaining about her?

@jubacelmesias1154

Жыл бұрын

@@kishagiazuka3447 If any of them talk, the rest will bulling him so hard fr xddd.

@jubacelmesias1154

Жыл бұрын

Oh COME ON!!!

The problem is that we as a society, has fetishize the horrible act of teachers grooming and raping their underage students. Regardless of attractiveness, these people have a serious mental problem when they are in a position of power when watching over kids.

@kubaw459

Жыл бұрын

Nah, it's normalization of sexual assault in general Depending on attractiveness, a woman can get away with things that a man would be arrested for Things like that happen to adult men too, like getting someone so intoxicated they can't do anything about it (which tbf, there's surprisingly huge amount of people who think it's ok, regardless of victims gender )

@darkdaxterversionz

Жыл бұрын

I don't think it's necessarily the fantasy that's bad. I can fully understand liking a messed up fantasy. The bad part is tying that fantasy to reality and expecting it to work out well because happy brain chemicals. No stop thinking with the head between your legs, and start thinking with your heart! Why can't people just roleplay with consenting adults?

@tasnica2438

Жыл бұрын

@@darkdaxterversionz Completely agreed. Yes, it's totally okay to have kinky and weird (to others) fantasies. No, it's not okay to force others into those fantasies who can't or won't consent. I'm constantly surprised by how many people seem to oppose the former, and equally surprised by how many people seem to forget the latter. Is it that difficult to distinguish fantasy and reality?

@darkdaxterversionz

Жыл бұрын

@@tasnica2438 Apparently so. You would think that the studies from Germany supporting Anonymous Therapy initiatives would prove that, but apparently not.

@suruxstrawde8322

Жыл бұрын

Aught now I gOtta know how many children have libido in this situation and why- I assume it'd be male culture to push sexual expectations onto them but I wanna know the neurology.

Pornography has destroyed our cultures' sense of decency.

@lordlammi1562

9 ай бұрын

So true

@zednumar6917

9 ай бұрын

Nah, if we had been decent to begin with porn would never have become popular.

@confusedashell020

9 ай бұрын

@@zednumar6917 Yup, we just stupid monkeys with decent propaganda and elevated sense of self-importance. If/when a race of space traveling peoples find the husk of our civilization it will just be another tick mark added to failures.

@seraphim9429

8 ай бұрын

I believe porn was born from the need of those unwilling to rise up the first step. And people with ambitions saw this opportunity.

@zednumar6917

8 ай бұрын

@seraphim9429 no, people like to screw so they like watching other people screw. It's not that deep.

When I was 5, I was “molested” by a neighbor girl who was 9 and already starting puberty. It felt good for a couple minutes then the shame set in. My parents apparently knew about it but never talked to me about it. I think it definitely contributed to sexual dysfunction when I finally became sexually active around 16-18. I still feel shame about it and honestly havent completely dealt with it. I turn 49 this year. I am a man in case my ambisextrous name threw you off.

@theSuzuki

7 ай бұрын

if she was 9 and knew how to do that i would assume she was being sexually abused.

@MDG-mykys

19 күн бұрын

What can you even feel at 5? I'm surprised you realized or even remembered what happened.

Imagine really liking a teacher, and being excited that they give you special attention. Then imagine them forcing themselves on you where your first sexual experience is completely confusing and lacking of any agency. Then your teacher, whom you adored and respected, tells you you have to live with these incredibly complicated and sick feelings of what just happened in total silence or your favorite teacher will lose their job, you'll never see them again, and it will be all your fault. Then months, even years later, some suburban dad who works at OfficeMax says you're ungrateful for daring to open up about how your childhood was destroyed by someone you trusted. No wonder kids like this end up mentally shattered.

@uhJerryJackson

Жыл бұрын

That would be fucking awesome if she was hot. Don't be a femboy your whole life.

@Bepetoni

Жыл бұрын

... fuck, sib, that's depressing, thanks for putting it into words like that, that's a new perspective for me.

@billh.1940

Жыл бұрын

Wait until she gets pregnant!

@RobertWilkinsonJKekMaloy

Жыл бұрын

KZread epsteiend three comments off to gitmo

@mongoose6685

11 ай бұрын

You inserted "forcing themselves" as if all such relationships were violent rapes...

The “keep his mouth shut” irritated me for a lot of reasons. But the thing that gets me is that a lot of guys ask the question of “why don’t people care about men when they’re abused?” And that segment was the answer right there.

@gayfield420

Жыл бұрын

they only love to bring up the "what about men?" argument when it's a woman speaking out on her abuse and inequalities. and once men speak out on their abuse and inequalities, they're hit with the "man up and shut up" from those same "men's rights activist" crowd.

@TomyrisTK

Жыл бұрын

@@gayfield420 it’s so depressing. They think sjws or feminist or the “woke”crowd are so awful when we’re the reaction to the system. Men, white men specifically just didn’t react with us. They understand somethings wrong but they don’t understand they’re defending the problem

@olagarto1917

Жыл бұрын

de diference betwin "stop braging" and "keep your problems tu yourself"

@krzysztofg3572

Жыл бұрын

@@TomyrisTK Wow" white man" really ? And you think you're the good one?

@TomyrisTK

Жыл бұрын

@@krzysztofg3572 are you seriously offended rn?

Thank you for speaking out on this! You earned a sub! I hate the double standard so much! As a victim of abuse by a female predator it sickens me when Simps thirst over a female predator & think the victim is lucky. Those nitwit simps ought to be ashamed of themselves and they are the reason those disgusting perverts get away with their actions. Those comments you showed that they made angered me so much. I think they should rot in hell for those comments. Not gonna lie I'd slap somebody in the mouth if I caught them simping over a predator. And if I had a son/daughter who got abused by a female predator. That predator would be permanently injured & crippled

@hinnybee

3 ай бұрын

Dumbledore said calmly

If I did choose to have children, and if any of them say that this happened, the person who did it would not be recognized in the water.

I thought I was awesome when I was 14 and had a thing with a woman in her late 30s. After a string of failed relationships in my adult life, I learned a lot about attachment in therapy. Weird to have “mommy issues” when you have a great relationship with your mom 👀 any adult who seeks a relationship with a child is not doing it for any reason other than the P word

@Blue_708

Жыл бұрын

thank u todd howard

@sorryoutlandish

Жыл бұрын

You are incredibly strong for sharing this! Wish you all the best!

@fish4814

Жыл бұрын

People who write these articles need to take this kinda thing way more seriously. The fact that there's crap like this where they just talk about what she does outside of the horrible crime she committed and downplay it like a mf when, if it were a dude, that'd be priority #1 with the same journalist(s)...yuck. Absolutely disgusting.

@BartvG88

Жыл бұрын

You were abused as a child… now it makes sense why bethesda games are buggy

@brajuhani

Жыл бұрын

Todd, you lying again, hmmm?

"he probably wanted it" yeah sure... in the moment you can feel like what's happening is a good thing, actually the person in the position of power committing the crime or abuse may be what makes the victim think it's okay, "wow my teacher is this into me, she must think I'm really mature for my age" "I must be her favorite student". But after the fact, the horror of what they had actually experienced can settle in. This is why children cannot consent. They lack the power and authority of an adult, they can't govern their own choices the same way. When one party holds an unbalanced amount of power and control over the livelihood, wellbeing, and safety of the other party it's not consensual, its a trap, it's abuse.

@miscstomp568

Жыл бұрын

👌🏾

@Lazypackmule

Жыл бұрын

Framing it as if sex itself is some horrific regrettable act regardless of circumstance is just doing the same shit from the opposite direction, and sidesteps all the actual reasons behind the concept of consent Focusing on making people feel bad about the act, and not on the actual realistic consequences of sex and relationships which make these values important fucks kids up- the same as those weird religious drives to push celibacy on teens

@dimwitgang5544

Жыл бұрын

As a child molestation victim, I can confirm that this take is accurate. You might enjoy it in the moment or think it's cool or not even care at all, but as you mature, things start to click in your head and you realize what actually happened. If you're lucky, you realize this before you grow up and try to be intimate with someone else, and get the opportunity to press charges and see the other person served justice.

@firmak2

Жыл бұрын

So whats the horror they later realise?

@SleepyGirl95

Жыл бұрын

@@firmak2 if you don't already know you're too immature to be part of this conversation

I can’t believe it’s hard to get that boys can have sexual trauma too.

We did have a female predetor as a kid. 1998, Our 8th grade science teacher. She would bring boys into the back room for what she called 'extra credit'. We all knew what was going on. Somone called her out and she got fired for it.

@perennialxennial

Жыл бұрын

But not prosecuted?

@LedZesty

Жыл бұрын

@@perennialxennial I was 14 or 15 at the time. I'm not sure I would have known what that word meant at the time... To busy learning Quadratic Equations. 😂 I just know she was fired for it. I honestly don't know what else became of it.

@SunwardRanger83

Жыл бұрын

Lots of possible outcomes to the story, and I'd imagine most of them would have been kept away from the students, but just knowing she was exposed and fired is definitely better than nothing.

@ooooneeee

Жыл бұрын

I love that she got actually fired. Usually they don't. That's how low the bar is.

I was sexually abused as a kid and it took almost like 2 decades to realize it was in fact not poggers and was why I never developed romantic relationships and had intense social anxiety.

@TheKarret

Жыл бұрын

Bruh, that sucks, I'm sorry you went through that. :C Hope you're seeing help

@___IG

Жыл бұрын

It's poggers that you know that now, though. Keep working on it bro you can do it

That whole thread needs to be on a list

Boys and girls ARE different... but they're not different enough to justify this, WTF 🤣

I had a sexual interaction w a 32 year old when I was 15… she was good looking and I always tried to view It as a point of pride but now I’m 23 and I’ve always struggled w relationships… not that I cant talk to other or anything I just find It difficult. Never thought I was cool bc of my interaction but seeing this video… The double standards so beyond gross and I’m realizing I should prolly seek counseling for this issue alone. I got “lucky” like all these sickos claim but I’m struggling to foster new relationships in a situation where I do wish to form new ones. Idk if it’s because of this experience I’ve had but I’m not going to pretend like It isn’t a potential cause. I should prolly seek counseling, and it took me 8 years to realize. Thank you Shoe for enlightening me, you’re doing a truly great job. You should post more often, need voices like yours now more than ever

@theredhunter4997

Жыл бұрын

I hope the counseling helps man, best of luck to you

@Scarmanderg

Жыл бұрын

You should get counselling, I hope you are able to live a happy life man.

@nineinchthread

Жыл бұрын

Sorry you had to experience it I know the feeling it ruins you in wats alot of people who weren't victims of that wouldn't understand how deep it goes

@pogboy537

Жыл бұрын

first things first change your profile pic bro

@pogboy537

Жыл бұрын

yes bro get help

Your take on "I'm not a fan of watering down the term groomer like they did with nazi." Is the most based thing I've heard in a month

@owningdishonestshills7435

Жыл бұрын

Yes people throw the term groomer around all the time.

@pjabber5679

Жыл бұрын

@@owningdishonestshills7435 Yep, same as "predatory", "creepy" etc, these words are used wrongly so often but then when they should be used, they're dismissed. It's like "the boy who cried wolf" but all over the place, wrongful usage of it when it doesn't apply, then when it actually happens nobody believes it. Really is a sick world.

@owningdishonestshills7435

Жыл бұрын

@@pjabber5679 You have adult women who sleep around clam the men groomed them.

@pjabber5679

Жыл бұрын

@@owningdishonestshills7435 What?

@owningdishonestshills7435

Жыл бұрын

@@pjabber5679 Adult sleep with adult men, they get caught, both get in trouble over it as sleeping with co workers is not allowed in that job, the woman then claims she was groomed. It has happened countless times.

If you're too young to REFUSE, you're too young to consent. Maybe if it was called the "age of refusal", people would start taking it a little more seriously... ...probably not, but maybe.

Just never stop. A bad day is easily turned upside down when I watch any of your content

Being a male survivor of child sexual abuse, I am shocked - but yet not surprised - by the number of fellow men coming forth with their own stories of being sexual abused ... Yet, whilst I feel overwhelmed by that, I'm also touched, deeply , by the wellspring of compassion shown ... it reminds me all is far from not lost, yet, and there is loving-kindness towards victims, and survivors ...

@exotixzamateurva8957

Жыл бұрын

I'd like to imagine all the people replying with creepy comments in shoe's video are predators themselves

@charliestewart5164

Жыл бұрын

@@exotixzamateurva8957 Wethinks you protesteth too much?

@pjabber5679

Жыл бұрын

@@exotixzamateurva8957 What type of "creepy comments"?

@coreywilliams4678

Жыл бұрын

I'm here with you brother. Happened to me multiple times growing up by both men and women. It's a hard thing to talk about for us men, but being open about our experiences is a step towards de-normalizing pedophilia. Thanks for being brave enough to share this!

@sole__doubt

Жыл бұрын

@@pjabber5679 they mean obvious jokes.

This is so sick. I have a male cousins who was molested when they were young and I know how much it's messed up his life. Yes, some boys want it. But like all parents should know, just because a kid wants something in no way means it's good for them to get it. Thank you for fighting the good fight Shoe.

@gups6662

Жыл бұрын

Even then, a boy may want it but may not be ready for everything that comes from it. Pretty sure that is exactly how it would play out when I was that age. Something that could become very self destructive

@tigewilson6209

Жыл бұрын

@@gups6662 Absolutely. There is such a rapid change in boy's (and girl's) hormones at that age. Using it to take advantage of them, however they may feel about it, is disgusting. "Doing it" is a very adult action and is more than just the act. It's repercussions effect people for years, if not their entire adult lives. Trying to joke it away because, "boys want it LOL" is repulsive.

@gups6662

Жыл бұрын

@@tigewilson6209 Shoe had it right, the guys joking about are just placing themselves in that position and not considering the aspect of being 14 but view it as themselves now. But we really need to people to use their primary head a bit more. Guys are coming around to this, but you know how dumb we can be when a women were attracted to is involved. Some of us never get out of H.S. lol. That and guys that maybe have had this type thing will joke about it as a defense mechanism

@92brunod

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. If we decided everything a kid wants is ok, legal and acceptable then they would be eating junk food all day, drinking and driving before they turned 14 for starters. But we don't do that. Adults have a responsibility to NOT just have a kid do whatever they want but what's good for them. Let alone be complicit, endorse, enable or take advantage of the things they want to do.

@nineinchthread

Жыл бұрын

@@gups6662 your right it's sad tbh

This video touches a LOT of painful strings in my soul I was molested by an adult woman when I was 15 She spiked my drink and had her way with me But of course police refused to take this case because, in their words "you wouldn't be able to prove it"

@user-yb5if8kr3i

9 ай бұрын

Also, this still haunts my interpersonal relationships, no matter how I try, I cannot fully trust any woman in my life decade after what happened, and it even affected my sexual life, as I am still potent, but cannot ejaculate with a woman, only when masturbating Sorry for details, if anyone reads this. It's just that it hurts me to watch stupid people on internet say stupid shit

@cglnarcissist5700

9 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that

@user-yb5if8kr3i

9 ай бұрын

@@cglnarcissist5700 thank you man, I appreciate the support

@navy_ranger5657

2 ай бұрын

If the genders were reversed, they arrest the perpetrator on the spot. I'm sorry man.

You are amazing and I love your straight to the point attitude. Thank you so much for standing up for the victims who are sexually molested by either a teacher or a parent or someone else they trust

I've been s3xually assaulted several times by women. When I plucked up the courage to tell people in positions of responsibility (university staff/work manager) I was either laughed at or got eye rolls and told to "get a life". With the job incident, when the woman found out (gold knows how) I complained about her, she made false allegations about me, which were ofc taken seriously right away and I was put through hell for months till I just quit. Most of my male friends have also been assaulted by women. But men are the ones constantly told how awful they are and how all women are victims of us terrible men . The hypocrisy regarding this issue is infuriating. Thank you Shoe for highlighting this.

@itsyourdestiny17

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience💔 I'm so sorry you went through that

@korosuke1788

Жыл бұрын

Well, at least now you know how it works. There's a lot of victim blaming so you're actually better off just getting therapy and avoid putting yourself in the same situation again. :(

@TheFibie007

Жыл бұрын

How did those assaults look like? What constituted them?

@_Lumiere_

Жыл бұрын

It's just crazy how widespread and normalized sexual assault done by women is. I have so many stories I can tell about it. Similarly to violence (hitting etc) we don't seem to teach girls about boundaries like how we do with boys. It's quite unfortunate. And there is nothing we can do about it if it does happen, in fact we can easily be lied about and have it be turned around despite us being the victims. I know that most women are good people, but I have noticed some behavior that even the good ones partake in simply because they are just unaware that it isn't OK. Really don't know how this will be solved.

@clvrswine

Жыл бұрын

Doubt it.

A horse heiress? That makes perfect sense why the double standard exists, she was a rich woman. She is also a neuropath?? Well of course she was.

@majura3743

Жыл бұрын

It’s wild how you can get away with damn near anything if you’re rich

@OttoVonGarfield

Жыл бұрын

Honestly, I was fine with her getting jail time up to the Naturopath part. Now I think she must be destroyed.

@gavinjenkins899

Жыл бұрын

@@UncommonSense-wm5fd No, she has psionic powers. She uses them to aid her predation

@pluubooruu

Жыл бұрын

@@majura3743 rich and pretty. If she was only rich she wouldn't have gotten the weirdo fans too.

@gavinjenkins899

Жыл бұрын

@@UncommonSense-wm5fd Yeah, the disease unlocked her mutated genetic potential.

as a male survivor... i can confirm it had a severe effect on my mental health! 👍

@boopbeepbop154

8 ай бұрын

male online abuse victim and COCSA perpetrator, can confirm.

@drowsyspook3455

8 ай бұрын

"you probably enjoyed it"

I am so glad Nux Taku reacted to you. I never heard of you prior and your takes are quite refreshing to hear.

The horse puns _alone_ should get the writer fired, blacklisted, forbidden from using any form of communication, and the soles of his feet worked over with a meat tenderizer.

@jillybeangaming

Жыл бұрын

without question one of the most disgusting things i’ve seen in an article recently.

@atashgallagher5139

Жыл бұрын

Nah, he deserves a tub of salty water and some alone time with a goat.

@inokeinari7

Жыл бұрын

The first pun was a lot, but then he just KEPT ON GOING and I nearly lost my mind

@tommyliu7020

Жыл бұрын

Neigh. I disagree that puns are bad.

@lesgobrandon9826

Жыл бұрын

No, that was the high point. Get off your high horse.. :P

I was really emotionally toxic to girls I dated in high school because I would have flashbacks to being assaulted by a female, teenage neighbor as a kid. People have litterally told me I am like 2 different people. It is not fun and takes a lot of therapy.

@Ahmonza

Жыл бұрын

similar story for me. I was 9 when a teenage girl of 16 molested and groomed me. never talked about it till I was 20, never formed any relationships with girls growing up because I would duck-out anytime things got even slightly physical. cant stand be touched by girl without feeling uncomfortable. it fucking sucks cause I never developed the necessary relationship skills/wisdom for interpersonal relations with a significant other. 27 now and I'm the most alone ever been. I cant seem to get passed myself in this regard. fucking sucks

@lethaldream50

Жыл бұрын

@@Ahmonza that's horrifying and i'm so sorry. i reallly hope you are able to find and afford the right therapist and right kind of therapy. being alone is so hard when youre unable to deal with touch or physicality in a relationship, but there are other people out there who have similar experiences or still want relationships but also have an aversion to touch and physicalness themselves. i wouldnt know the first thing about how to find them but they exist, theres someone who understands how you feel because they feel something similar themselves, somewhere. but i'm sure you know you need therapy for this no matter what, if you're not already in it, i really pray (in a nonreligious way) that you can get it. again im so sorry this happened to you

@Ace-pc2cm

Жыл бұрын

@@Ahmonza don't listen to these people that keep trying to convince you you're broken just because you had some fun when you were a kid. Find a therapist you feel comfortable talking to. There's a million reasons you could be having these issues. And even if that experience is one of those reasons, it's only traumatic if you believe it to be traumatic. Don't underestimate how strong you are. You just need a therapist to show you the way.

@Ahmonza

Жыл бұрын

@@Ace-pc2cm thank you I think. keep in mind I told her no many times. she did not care for my protest. I did not have "fun"

@Ace-pc2cm

Жыл бұрын

@@Ahmonza That's absolutely non-consensual in that case, but what I said still applies. I'm a therapist and I've had many clients go through very traumatic events and come out perfectly fine, until someone years later convinces them that it was traumatic. I really fucking hate TikTok for spreading all this bullshit pop psychology that makes everyone think they're an expert when all they're doing is spreading harm. Mental illness is like something to brag about now, it's ridiculous.

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Anyone who thinks that any child is lucky to be molested by any adult, is either broken or dumb. The example of a boy being attacked by a woman, and people basically saying he's fortunate, is the kind of mental abuse that churns out toxic masculinity. Imagine the genders reversed and telling a little girl she's lucky and has bragging rights after being subjected to the perversions and hedonism of an adult. It's so far beyond blaming the victim when it's a little boy because they're not even acknowledging that there's a victim, they're literally trying to say that the trauma is something to associate with success and incorporate into the sense of manhood. I agree with you and I love that you're calling bullshit.

I'm glad that this issue is getting brought to attention more. It's utterly disgusting that so many people find it okay to pretend that these things are somehow good and talk about their own desires when a child has been greatly harmed by someone who started to be protected over them just because of their gender and appearance. I'm glad the world is finally starting to see just how disgusting this behavior is with these videos and a new manga that is surprisingly open-minded and gaining popularity in Japan (Sensitive Boy is the title if you're interested), and just how terrible these acts are for all victims, not just those whose attackers were male.

@alexneuman600

9 ай бұрын

Can you explain what's happening in that manga? I think it might be triggering but maybe i'll give it a try.

@TheHelper151

26 күн бұрын

@@alexneuman600 The MC got graped in middle school by a female teacher and he had to go to an all-boys school to not have female teachers again. He tries to be societies version of "normal" and get a girlfriend but is so fucked up that he can't form proper relationships to the opposite sex.

I seriously question the morality of people who will defend rape of any kind

@600795621

Жыл бұрын

no one is defending any "rapes"

@OzixiThrill

Жыл бұрын

@@600795621 One participant was under the age of consent. The situation defaults to being rape. No, the kid could have literally, publicly begged for it, with thousands of sources for video evidence of it and it still would be. That's how age of consent works.

@600795621

Жыл бұрын

@@OzixiThrill so in major part of Europe it's not a rape, but in USA it is :D

@poopymaster_kingXxninjaXX69420

7 ай бұрын

they are pedos themselves dont you see?

It makes me think of the wrestler Jake Roberts who lived through an incident like this when he was a child, and he was molested several times by his step-mother who was 21 at the time. He's very eloquently spoken when talking about the trauma/mistrust that it brought him, and it's sad that so many people's first question towards him is "was she hot?". It's not about what you're feeling in that moment, it's about how it will effect you in the future, and how it might warp your perception of relationships!

@TheMidnightSaucier

Жыл бұрын

Jake’s a great example too cause he’s been wildly successful but is fucked up in so many ways and a lot of it goes back to that experience.

@4zafinc

Жыл бұрын

Jake had such a brutal life. His father was an inces*uous molester too, and Jake dint take his daughter on his life for a long time out of fear he might act out like his dad too

@paul715

Жыл бұрын

@@TheMidnightSaucier Don't be dishonest, it was against his will, and Jake Roberts was mostly abused by his father

Thank you for this. Watching your video is always a "finally someone normal"

People who say things "statutory rape shouldn't apply when it's a boy" and "little boys can consent" absolutely need their hard drives checked

@schnegva7801

3 ай бұрын

I'm convinced the person writing that was some catholic priest on trial because of a certain incident because holy shit how are you that out of touch

2 videos from Sh0e in less than a month? Fucking sweet

@demiru.2833

Жыл бұрын

in only a week infact

@danielgonzalez5787

Жыл бұрын

kinda sus but ill allow it :D

@phantom12321800

Жыл бұрын

@@danielgonzalez5787 why? I'm a patron so my comment is up early

@danielgonzalez5787

Жыл бұрын

@@phantom12321800 no, not that you're sus, but that ShOe put out two videos in the same week

@danielgonzalez5787

Жыл бұрын

@@grey5626 im not on twitter

I know more guys who were sexually assaulted in college than weren't, and not one of us has reported anything to anyone. Just last week one of my friends brought up how he got too drunk and woke up to his ex going down on him. I had experienced almost exactly the same thing, so I wanted to support him, but the other guys just made the typical jokes about how there are worse ways to wake up and how he had to have liked it. I've avoided/lost many relationships due to sexual trauma, and seeing the cycle perpetuated like this is heartbreaking. Guys, we have to support each other and abolish these notions that girls can do what they want and that we should be grateful for whatever we get. This machismo horndog bullshit has got to go.

@jamesinzeo7726

Жыл бұрын

I was eighteen. Thanks McGee.

@PH-vv1ky

Жыл бұрын

I've been in a similar position. And I believe guys act like that because that's how society tells them too and they know they won't be taken seriously, so they deal with it by making a joke if it. You're right, It does have to stop

@TheKarret

Жыл бұрын

Sorry you and your friends etc went through all that, that's fucked up. I hope dudes everywhere can start taking the shit seriously, and also that women can recognize and support the dudes, too. @__@!

@nathanbarnhart7823

Жыл бұрын

They were “ex” at the time? Or it was his current girlfriend? Because I don’t think that’s actually bad.

@pluubooruu

Жыл бұрын

@@nathanbarnhart7823 ahh, cause couples do not need to consent obviously.

The “best” part is the “Where was she what I was in school?!” crowd are the exact same mf’ers who will barge into women’s discussions of rape with “Well what about MALE victims??”

@Kintsugi23

Жыл бұрын

With a side order of hysteria over the idea of trans women using public spaces because “Would you want YOUR wife/girlfriend/daughter in the same locker room as a MAN?”

I'm shocked how this is so much more widespread of a problem, I had my abuse at 16 with a 28yo lesbian who I learned after the act was looking to get knocked up for her and her wife to raise a child together... mind you we were both tourists in Jamaica from different countries so i never found closure and am now 17 years celibate due to this. Thanks for this vid and all the comments showing me that I'm not crazy for feeling traumatized and not alone in this issue ❤

@Ryuko-T72

3 ай бұрын

Hope you're doing well

I was sexually harassed by a 40-50 year old woman once and I was 18 at the time. I still feel uneasy thinking back at it, though luckily nowhere near traumatised. I CANNOT imagine how a 14 year old boy would feel about literal rape. That shit is mentally scarring.

@tsfbaf303

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. They make up these dream fantasies in their minds but don’t think that it won’t be their dream partner, it will be someone they don’t want forcing themselves on them.

@andreiradu1945

Жыл бұрын

Was she hot? Cuz if she was, I have a slight doubt you would have found it traumatizing.

@frozi7711

Жыл бұрын

Yeah it is :/

@enagrubesic6080

Жыл бұрын

@@andreiradu1945 mf came to this video just to add to trauma

@audiotap8332

Жыл бұрын

@@andreiradu1945 i bet you're enjoyable to be around

I was xually assaulted by a woman as a child. I was maybe 9 and simply didn't have the toolkit to even understand what had happened. I thought my parents would be mad and didn't tell a soul until I was an adult. (My parents are unbelievably decent people, and absolutely would not have been mad at me)

@aceous99

Жыл бұрын

ya female boy rape is bad because some boys will not take it well. People should wait til they are the age of consent before exposing chilfren to this adult content.

@edwardoaponte1855

Жыл бұрын

I feel you. I was 6 when a friend of the family decided to introduce x-time and physical abuse. She (21 at the time) was the trusted family friend and one point tried to kidnap me. Being Hispanic was told that what being a man was, also men do not kiss and tell (This was the 1970's). That set how I dealt with relationship in the future. For the longest time with abusive females. This changed when my daughters were x abused (At the same age I was) by their mother's boyfriend, after their mother and I broke up (I was oversea with the military), did I get help. Granted it was during my daughters therapy treatment I broke down. For those closet pedo's supporters. At 14 both boy's and girls are having feels, if girls did not we would not have the underage mother issue we have today, does not mean they are ready. They looking for someone to accept them and show them affection. It is victimizes like you encourage others to bring pain into someone else's life.

@derek96720

Жыл бұрын

@@l01230123 right? It's always hilarious the dudes who think that they got molested as a young boy and somehow didn't have it affect their emotional and sexual development. News flash: it did. They're just too lacking in self-awareness to be fully cognizant of how it affected them. That might sound condescending, and I honestly don't care. It's basic psychology.

@darkestkhan

Жыл бұрын

@@l01230123 Not 'all'. 'Most' would probably be better term here. Then again I just avoid universal quantifiers when referring to people.

@BullofCrete

Жыл бұрын

See, it's stuff like "I didn't have the toolkit" that makes me so angry when people oppose sex-ed being taught in schools. If you're a kid and someone rapes you but you don't even know what sex is, let alone that an adult doing it to you is taking advantage of you, how do you even express that? It's why so much of the child testimony around this is told in euphamisms and in ways adults have to interpret. Not to mention that it's again worse for men in this respect because most sex-ed still defines rape as penerative.

Society is messed up in lots of ways and this case is just one of many examples.

Again, you are spot on and grateful for your content. Blessed BE

As a 32-year-old man who teaches adolescents, I’d like to disavow what these dirty old men said 🧐

@ThinWhiteAxe

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being the bare minimum of decent adult human being. It's a lot to ask these days, it seems.

I was 13 when my dad got a prostitute for me, I was in a foreign country with him on a business trip. Him and a business partner of his pressured me into going through with it doing the whole "Oh you're so lucky! I would have loved if my dad did this for me when I was your age" thing. I wanted to "be a man" and was attracted to her (very beautiful Chinese lady of the night) so I went through with it, afterwards I did the whole scrubbing myself in the shower "oh God I'm so unclean, what did I do!?" cliché. It still affects me to this day 22 years later and has contributed a lot to my feelings of hypervigilance/trust issues and self loathing.

@steffimaier7297

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear this. May I ask; how is the relationship towards your dad now? And did your mom know about it? For me it would be a reason to ditch such family members.

@EmptyAltruism

Жыл бұрын

Oh dude, nice. Big trouble in little china. Awesome. I didn’t get a prostitute, I was just molested 🤷🏼‍♂️ Anyways yeah all that stuff you mentioned sucks.

@LunaWitcherArt

Жыл бұрын

Sorry that you went through it, but I'm glad you're able to speak about it cuz people need to hear it. People literally gaslight teenage boys into liking sexual activities they were forced into. Of course that's gonna leave a serious mark, and people need to know.

@BlitzkriegBryce

Жыл бұрын

@@steffimaier7297 I'm an open book so it's no problem. My relationship with my father is the best it ever has been, oddly enough, though I still feel a deep dread and unease around him. My mother was no Saint either, my parents were way overdue for a divorce and it was better for the both of them. My mother did find out, she could tell that I was very quiet and distant after we got home. I ended up telling her which was hard since I was threatened about not to say anything. They hated each other before that but that moment is when it went septic.

@Adamant_Adam

Жыл бұрын

​@@BlitzkriegBryce " I ended up telling her which was hard since I was threatened about not to say anything" So basically, your dad knew what he did was fucked up so he threatened you? Sorry, but what type of threat? if you don't mind my asking-- just super messed up i couldn't imagine my relationship recovering after all that.

Much much much much much needed, highly underrated video. What a real issue we’ve got ourselves in as a society.

Thank you for your work. You have a great delivery, awesome back drop.

As a British person I’m so glad to see Americans adopt the word “nonce,” it’s definitely one of the best things we’ve invented

@unoriginal1086

Жыл бұрын

@Jamal Ramadan US would've been better if it was never colonized probably

@brandonhughes4076

Жыл бұрын

@Jamal Ramadan inventing the US isn’t a good thing tho

@bullettime1116

Жыл бұрын

@Jamal Ramadan and how did that invention go?

@bullettime1116

Жыл бұрын

@Jamal Ramadan makes sense, as an American the place is meh 5/10

@ReptarKingOfMeat

Жыл бұрын

@Jamal Ramadan their

"Should of kept his mouth shut" Can't imagine why male victims are afraid to speak out. Can't imagine why male suicide rates are on the rise. Can't imagine why the perception of healthy relationships continues to get worse and worse.

@nullbuttler5908

Жыл бұрын

Its almost like men are humans too!

@clvrswine

Жыл бұрын

Should have. No where in English is it "should of" ... it's should have or maybe should've. Never, at any point is the language "should of" as you quote.

My ex gf raped me. Very weird situation to be in. Needless to say, she ended up slandering my name, told everyone she knew i was a predator lol. Guess who was believed...

@beatblocksgaming

2 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry, you didnt deserve that and I hope you’re in a better place now

@I.D.I.O.C.R.A.C.Y.

2 ай бұрын

@beatblocksgaming yea, it is what is is. And oh, yea, I'm 2800 miles away now. Thank you

Funny how those same ‘me too’ people will literally type out “its not rape if they like it” when the genders are reversed. crazy world

@justalonelypoteto

5 ай бұрын

"Your body's pleasure receptors fired off because they cannot distinguish reproduction from being raped? Proposterous, you must have enjoyed it"

I always find it weird when people pretend that they understand the experience of someone who's gone through something they haven't. It's like assuming a woman should be okay with rape because you fantasize about rough sex. There's an astronomically huge gap between your personal fantasy and someone's lived hellish experience. Even if the boy *did* enjoy it, there's a non-zero chance that it's going to completely skew his views on relationships, dating, and sex, particularly if she was his first. There's a chance he's going to assume that all women want is to have sex four times a day and have no commitment or relationship beyond that. That's going to really mess him up if he ever dates a girl his own age, or any woman who isn't simply just a sexual predator. He's going to wonder why she's withholding sex, and why she wants to go on dates and get to know him and spend time together and develop a relationship.

@ladyville3

Жыл бұрын

or it might not? Since you said in the beginning pretending to experience someone else's experience? No teacher should be having sex with students, but the worst possible outcome doesn't always happen. males are less emotionally attach to sex than women so maybe he be fine. Im sorry I just don't like one sided absolute thinking.

@kailgale

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. Also, there's an astronomically huge gap between having a fantasy and actually realizing a similar situation because, lets be honest, real life rarely lives up to fantasy. When I was a kid, I used to fantasize about being alone in a survival situation. I'm pretty sure it wouldn't have been the greatest thing ever to have happened to me if I really was, say, in a plane crash and had to survive completely alone. The fantasy was just that. Escapism in my room while I waited for my mom to tell me dinner was ready...

@xVibra

Жыл бұрын

It's also an authority figure. You CAN walk away from a sexual assault, or an imbalanced relationship without baggage if you did enjoy it. It's just not typical, and there's always residue from anything you experience. It will change the way you interact with authority figures, workplace relationships, and pleasure. It can skew the way you feel about pleasure. "It was pleasurable, that means I can't complain. I don't have any scars, so let's just stay in this bad situation."

@dimwitgang5544

Жыл бұрын

@@ladyville3 child molestation victim here, bad take. You're gonna have to just trust me when I tell you that there is a 100% chance he will experience negative consequences for this his entire life. It really doesn't matter what gender you are or what gender you like, being raped or molested at any age will fuck with you for life. The only things that differ between individuals is how exactly it fucks with you and the frequency at which it does.

@InfernosReaper

Жыл бұрын

@@kailgale part of that is that people have a weird tendency to fantasy they're more capable or more in control than they really are, while everything is an idealized version of people and/or events. that's assuming they even actually understand what they think they want, which is a whole other mess to deal with

I support calling people groomers if they are normalizing sex with 14-year-old children.

@it-s-a-mystery

Жыл бұрын

I'm glad, because they are by definition

@jiwanlal7149

11 ай бұрын

I CALL THE PEOPLE SHOW SPECIFICALLY CALLED OUT HYPOCRITES GROOMERS WHEN GAY LUCKY WHEN MALE

@TheDesertFox-1891

10 ай бұрын

Agreed!

thanks for doing a video on this and spreading awareness on this. It's just wildly disgusting.

I've recently started watching your content, and I have to say I love all the It's Always Sunny references, been a mega fan of that show for years.

The Hulu series Fosse/Verdon is one of the only depictions I’ve seen in modern media about a man who is coping with the trauma of being sexually preyed on by adult women as a boy. Shows how these experiences are abusive and can result in some people coping through substance abuse and leading to difficulty in having healthy romantic relationships. And his own male friends do the whole “lucky kid” thing when they hear the story of what happened to him. Good series overall, and I think they handled this issue responsibly for once.

@dimwitgang5544

Жыл бұрын

I've never heard of this show but I will definitely be giving it a watch. Could be useful to use as a tool to help teach others about how difficult it is to be a victim of this type.

@Super_BeastGirl

Жыл бұрын

I need to check this out now thanks

@Steak_frites

Жыл бұрын

"A Teacher" is heartbreaking but also a good watch IMO.

@20Justin1

Жыл бұрын

Perks of Being a Wallflower talks about trauma about a buy who got sexually assaulted as a kid from his aunt.

@newb4038

Жыл бұрын

@@Steak_frites I checked this and there's a movie and a TV show about it. Which one are you referring to?

As a male sexual assault victim, this is cruelty. Male or female, it doesn't matter. It is grooming

@kennylaysh2776

Жыл бұрын

All the people supporting such a thing, haven't had it happen to them, and they are literally living in a Manga/anime fantasy. Because they can only view it in the form of fantasy/fetish at this point, they can't understand the real world ramifications. It's really disturbing that people think that way.

@captainsh0ts425

Жыл бұрын

@@kennylaysh2776 the people thinking it would be soo awesome if it were them have probably never had sex with a real woman, only their right hands

@zaldigr863

Жыл бұрын

It's literally not grooming, it's outright r@pe. It's literally a kid. Call it by what it is, r@pe by a nonce.

@OzixiThrill

Жыл бұрын

@@kennylaysh2776 As much as I despise the people trying to excuse the events, I'd like to play devil's advocate here. The people trying to make excuses could have been victims themselves, and by downplaying the events as a "lucky break" for the child, they are trying to convince themselves of the validity of the claims. That being the mindset that the kid wasn't abused, but fortunate, because if they admitted that the kid was abused, they would have to face the reality that they were abused, weak, vulnerable and most importantly betrayed by someone they trusted too much. And that is my devil's advocate case; Do I buy it? Obviously not. But it's a distinct possibility that popped into my head here.

I love how youre serious and funny at the same time

Brilliantly crafted!

2:32 Woman: *commits rape* New York Post: YASS GIRLBOSS

I remember this one reddit post about a guy who got predated as a child. I cant remember the specifics of most of it, but one thing in particular made the story stick in my mind. He described experiencing a lot of shit, including a full fucking panick attack, from just visiting his hometown where it happened. Not even the specific place (if im remembering correctly), but just the town. Now imagine having trauma like that and trying to form a healthy relationship with a woman.

@meganravizza5535

Жыл бұрын

And then people telling you “ I bet you liked it!” So awful!

@dimwitgang5544

Жыл бұрын

I don't know what post you saw but as a victim myself I can confirm that whatever he was saying is probably valid. A lot of people don't realize that minors are almost always coaxed into the situation that leads to the abuse. Being sexually victimized just changes how you have to go about your life in order to be comfortable.

When I was 10, my nanny used to get off on forcing me drink her piss or orgasm after she masturbates to my face. This always happens when my parents are off to work, and it caused me to have a throat infection that changed my voice till this day. My dad eventually found out, and murdered her. He went into prison, and died there due to prison violence. This events warped my life. Besides my own mother, every time I see another women, I saw the face my nanny. It makes me hate every women I've met instantly, I admit that I even committed violence against women before out of a misplaced grudge that I now regret. This all changed when I met my wife and have a daughter, and isn't that ironic?... My wife for some reason decided that she wants to be with me even before she found out what happened to me from my mother. No matter what I did to her, even physical abuse, she always bounce back to me, I used to mockingly calls her a masochist for that. She leads me to Jesus Christ and remake my heart, her patience and perseverance broke through me, and to this day, I secretly believe that perhaps God sends me an angel in a disguise to heal me. When I married her and have our daughter, I promised to change, and so far, everythings been great and peaceful... I tell this story so that those of you who have similar experience doesn't loose hope for a better future, don't let your tragic past defines you, seek GOD, or even if you don't seek HIM, just wait, HE will seek HIS children, and when HE finds you, please, don't hesitate to take HIS hands.

@user-rt6cz2ip5k

Жыл бұрын

Sick story, thanks for sharing. It's helped reevaluate my mind on a topic much more than a video

@Puchuchi747

9 ай бұрын

Well... thats ONE way to look at it. But just know, you, YOU changed yourself after you realized you were doing bad things. Ypu can interpret it to be an angel that God sent, but ultimately YOU made the last decision to change who you WERE, because someone twisted your mind. Whatever helps you, but just know you changed because you wanted to and regret your past. It LITERALLY has nothing to do with god/satan/angels. It's your life, and you can interpret it how you want to, but At the VERY LEAST, give yourself SOME credit, thar ypu made it out of your hole. A hole you did not ask to be put in. Congrats

@poopymaster_kingXxninjaXX69420

7 ай бұрын

holy shit your a trooper also respect to your dad

@KDarkmoon1

5 ай бұрын

Any man who gives his life to protect his children, dies a hero. You pulling through and being able to eventually have a family and children of your own honors his sacrifice by carrying on his legacy.

Us male victims appreciate the attention you and others bring to the problem it's a serious issue which needs to be tackled more seriously because God knows for years any survivors especially males won't get justice for many years to come

As a kid I would've said the same, but later on weird things happened to me from a teacher in hs. I had a bit of a crush on her, but it wasn't what younger me would've dreamed or "wished". This is horrible, and the response from those people make me sick

I know several guys that were molested by woemn when they were kids. and all of them are not 'health' sexually. Dudes will put up a front, but it damages them. One guy I know has never had a healthy relationship, and he says point blank cuz of the babysitter that molested him. He was 13, she was in her 30s. That article really does show the double standard. Wanna bet she gets a slap on the wrists?

@aceous99

Жыл бұрын

ya female boy rape is bad because some boys will not take it well. People should wait til they are the age of consent before exposing chilfren to this adult content.

@DevineInnovations

Жыл бұрын

She's rich. She could probably get her own talk show after this, and the intro would be "Hot for Teacher." I'm not exaggerating.

@LordVader1094

Жыл бұрын

@@DevineInnovations I fucking hate that you're right.

@germankaiser79

Жыл бұрын

@@aceous99 any boy will not take it well

@_Lumiere_

Жыл бұрын

This really affects you in ways that only become apparent over time. And there is no way anyone will see it from the outside. You will try to repress it as much as you can. Even the boy himself will not understand it until later a lot of the time. It hits you like a truck, the fact that you didnt actually like that situation. The person you are at 13 is drastically different from when you are 20 (including sexual maturity, which a lot of men and women seem to not be able to understand). The stats don't lie, the rate of mental issues and suicide skyrocket for victims like these once they grow up.

I love that Australian journalists are so focussed on making puns that they forgot it was a story about a child being raped multiple times.

@gronkpatrol

Жыл бұрын

It was a new yorker article.

another banger from Shoe