I literally started this video thinking “if one more person says ‘you’ll know’ I’m gonna scream.” Thank you for going into detail - many don’t!

@vanessaandxander

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Kayla! Thanks for watching!

@pakto9570

3 ай бұрын

😊q​@@vanessaandxander

@JasmineBuckley-fj7ny

Ай бұрын

Right??? I had a lot of problems of not knowing if I reached it at all when I first started with toys. Just when I discovered Sila I understood what what going on and learned more about my body. Stay positive! ❤

@leahl2321

26 күн бұрын

IKR, ITS SO ANNOYING

I was sooo hung up on not knowing if I did or didn’t have an orgasm that it was actual blocking my brain from just relaxing

You guys are really professional and loved the way you’re presenting ❤

@vanessaandxander

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😁

I have always felt like the guys I slept with were having a lot more fun than I ever did. Haven't experienced any of these but thanks for the upload.

@Sofia-lw4fl

24 күн бұрын

try toys

@nacarreira777

24 күн бұрын

@@Sofia-lw4fl It's not that important. I prefer gardening.

Wow, I had really been wondering. I had a sensation a couple times, but didn't know if it was an orgasm or if I was overexaggerating the truth. Thanks for letting me know.

Thank you so much for this informative video ❤️

This is such great content. Thanks so much for sharing❤

@vanessaandxander

11 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

It feels good to know the last person I had sex with was experiencing majority of these descriptions ☺️

Sometimes it's a small but it makes my headache go away. So light n nice

Very insightful and and and all that

The difference in intensity is so real. Also the difference between your SO and a random person, a person and a toy and a luxurious toy like the Enigma and a cheap one you get for 17$. Everything plays a role and everything's different.

Orgasm intensity varies. Usually they are more fulfilling and intense if a person really feels love ❤ for their partner(s). The love in mind and soul, intensifies the brain / genital connection. Yet, I remember one time with a casual girlfriend and the orgasm felt like my whole body exploded into millions of delicate pieces !!! My mind and body felt like a nuclear explosion !!!!

The wave and the sneeze are true for me.

I get the body spasms, it feels like waves of pressure. It feels like my genitals feel like a warm but cold sensation. But it feel like it's not enough after the pleasure goes. It feels good but it feels like it's not enough. Like I want more so I over use it until my genitals are sensitive but even then it's not enough. It feels very anti climatic. And this is been happening for YEARS.

@vanessaandxander

Жыл бұрын

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@asthaupadhyaya8298

Жыл бұрын

I CAN LEGIT RELATE LIKE CRAZY

@kobeibryant4356

Жыл бұрын

I been waiting for this type comment couldn’t find it. I experienced a woman who 5 minutes straight entire body was shaking in spasms while squirting the SHII was unreal to where I didn’t know what was going on all I could do was watch. Meanwhile once she was done I tried to touch her and it was oh no “I’m done” and she just layed there wouldn’t move nothing definitely definition of nothing left

@AedanBlackheart

Жыл бұрын

​@Kobei Bryant then you did a great job and now she's gotta make you do that lol

@GooglePlusPages

Ай бұрын

Your Gentiles? I hope you give equal time to the Jews…

Ok so yes I had one know I know thank you 😄

Hello, thank you so much for such great content that is so scarce on youtube!!! I want to ask one question, if there were some of the signs but there were no pleasant sensations themselves, only that it should stop or loss of sensitivity as if I was about to finish, but at that moment sensitivity is lost, what is it?

@ashleyruthtolman3697

Жыл бұрын

Following because I have the same question!

There is no question in my mind!! MMMMMMM🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Stars!!! Or on top of a mountain Bliss

It feels so good that how do i explain 😂 but at the moment you don't want to stop and after that you want to stop 😅❤

Yes

Our body’s are so amazing

I have a question! Is it possible to get one while working out? I was doing some push-ups and I felt a weird sensation similar to what you described and it freaked me out because it seemed to come out of nowhere. Thank you for this informational video btw!

@cfour7672

Жыл бұрын

Yes. Cause blood is pumping down there. Endorphins too

@flutenanyidk1806

3 ай бұрын

As a matter a fact yes it is

Thank you so much!

@vanessaandxander

2 жыл бұрын

Of course Sanne! Glad you found this helpful! Be sure to check out our IG (instagram.com/vanessamarintherapy), where we have something exciting coming on this topic this week!

@sannehol6942

2 жыл бұрын

@@vanessaandxander I will check it out thank you so much ;)

@jamestrentham8576

3 ай бұрын

Hi, how are you now, any progress? Don't feel any pressure if you're sexually active. Take you're time

Interesting

Omg .. except goosebumps I have experienced all the other kinds of orgasms .. I also had brain freeze few times afterwards 😅..

It feels like I’m in another world

@vanessaandxander

2 жыл бұрын

Love that description!!

Biggest thing is feeling extremely euphoric like how people describe ecstasy/MDMA

So to describe how a small one might feel… It starts with my legs they get cloudy and fuzzy feeling the I get a little hot in my head. My head also feels cloudy. Some of my muscles throughout my body something slightly twitch, but nothing to crazy. This is a what it feels for me

@anushkasrivastava.__

2 ай бұрын

Same

The sudden not wanting any more stimulation is an orgasm? Not to be critical, bit are you sure? It feels like my brain simply shutting down any action.

@NatashaW1

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah same here. I always thought I just needed to go on longer but it hurts? But it doesn't hurt? It's a weird feeling and I feel like I can no longer go on any longer

@shutit4024

Жыл бұрын

@@NatashaW1 same here I just gotta wait like 5-10 minutes than go again

Idk I’ve never not known. I think we’re calling lots of things that are arousal and sexual reaction “orgasm.” They certainly can be varying intensities but I don’t think you’d be confused.

I have! 😂😊 my head back far !

I still don’t know 😭😭😭

It’s like finding that itchy spot

Idk how I got here but as a female, this comment section makes me so sad :(

@ness-lee-crunch

Ай бұрын

Me too.

I sure know when I am having an organism it so sweet I wine so hard and then I laugh

i have a question. is there anyway to have a one on one. my husband keeps insisting that an orgasum is something different and it has been coasing issues in our relationship. he wants me to orgasim . but i think i do on a regular basis now it’s just not what he wants it to be.

@vanessaandxander

5 ай бұрын

While we no longer do 1:1 counseling, we definitely think this a great situation to engage a sex therapist's help! -Team V&X

@jamestrentham8576

3 ай бұрын

Was there any issue before, or do you feel you're doubting yourself?

@desireeperham7093

Ай бұрын

Erm... he's telling you how you should be orgasming? Wow.

@xdxdxdxd4575

Ай бұрын

You're husband has no idea of how females work, he need to learn about it immediatly, coz that thing can lead to not getting you any orgasm, later on, and you end up just faking it with the "simptoms" he wish for.

What is that question

Should all the signs happen together or even one of them is considered that you had an orgasm?

@vanessaandxander

24 күн бұрын

It could be. If you have more questions, please feel free to email us at info @ vmtherapy.com so we can see if we have some resources that would interest you. - Jackie with TeamV&X

I can't tell for myself. Sometimes i feel a number of those signs mentioned especially the clit pulsation, the breathing, the interest change, the flush and so on and it has happened when I'm by myself reading or thinking about those stimulating things. I can remain perfectly quiet during those moments, like no sounds of pleasure and it also doesn't feel like there's a whole lot that comes out? Idek how much counts as a small orgasm and if what i have is less than that. I also feel dizzy afterwards and my ears get blocked out, so does my vision temporarily but idk what to make of it. So yeah I'm super confused and I'd appreciate if someone can help me understand wtf this all means for me😭

@meagain2222

Ай бұрын

your body looks like your blood pressure may have dropped.Have someone measure that for you at the time.

@samia6888

18 күн бұрын

@@meagain2222yeah the last part sounds exactly like that when my blood pressure drops.

Legs shaking and gush of wetness is reported by my partner. But my vagina is not contracting... nor do i have pulsation... i feel like peeing 😢 EXTRA LUBRICATION... YES... THOUGH...OMG😮i intentionally go pee now in advance. But i still dont know 😕

@nolwazikhumalo5655

11 ай бұрын

Sounds like you're about to squirt, not pee

@MariaL42709

6 ай бұрын

that’s me

@elinanilsson6476

Ай бұрын

Same

@teresapeevey970

21 күн бұрын

Same here.

@sarahlawson1695

13 күн бұрын

Yeah for me I feel like I pissed myself and like I almost have to contract my muscles to get it to release. Idk either man

It’s hard for me to tell if I’m about to have one, having one, or just had one lmao. They should show this in sec ed at school they didn’t teach us shit.

@vanessaandxander

Ай бұрын

If you REALLY want to learn how, email us at info@vmtherapy.com and I will get you some resources! - Team V&X

Feels like climbing a mountain and escalating until you reach the top and then there is a massive, satisfying explosion of pleasure.

Women orgasm are way strong full body experiences & they can enjoy it infinite times ! Women are very lucky

@cfour7672

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@xdxdxdxd4575

Ай бұрын

No, we are not. A lot of women never ever experience that feeling. Some of them sometimes, and just very few had it. I didnt count that, but I had just under 10 times in my life during sex. And I don't know about other woman, but for me clitolyc and G spot orgasm is not the same. Clitolyc is kinda centers just at the female parts of the body and stays there (I think that is more likely as a male orgasm), while G spot orgasm goes to the full body, and explodes, plus it can be longer. If you make come a woman at G spot she wold experiece not just one moment but she can be high till you doing her (at least tgat is my experience). More woman experience clitolyc than G spot, and lot of them never ever experience G spot (that is why it is more important to go to clyt and not focus on penetration). I am 42, and had just three G spot orgasms through penis in in my whole life.

@ktxtenskz7441

Ай бұрын

Some women aren’t so lucky lol. Some of us physically cannot have one.

Most times I feel like electric shocks in my legs during sex ...is it normal

@MariaL42709

6 ай бұрын

happens to me so ig 🤷‍♀️

What??? I KNOW whem i have had one. How can you not know?

@ktxtenskz7441

Ай бұрын

Cos some of us physically can’t do it lol

I've never had that during sex

Oh honey, you'll know.

"You will know" is true though. There is nothing similar to an orgasm. If you are questioning yourself whether you had one, you didn't. It is true that orgasms vary in intensity and sort, but they are always recognizable, I don't know how one could possibly not know they had one

Brain fog and lethargy.

If you have to ask, then no😅

Vanessa is so hot!