The problem is too many men take their partners for granted. They do everything and beyond at the beginning of the relationship, and as time goes by, they no longer appreciate you. I'm fed up to be honest.

@arijana9006

2 жыл бұрын

Same situation.. And then I'm bad person because I ask him to help with hous chores, he's not working, all day staring at the TV, if I don't insist he wouldn't brush his teeth, must tell him what to wear when we go to some fancier event, and also find that clothes. He is 11 years older but I feel like I have brat child.. I'm so tired 😴

@arijana9006

2 жыл бұрын

First 3, 5 years was everything so amazing, laughing, sex was amazing, we could go to the rave parties or fancy event and everyone would telling us "how amazing we are together". We would reservate airplane tickets, take passports and go.. Last 2,5 years it's all opposite. I'm trying to lift him up, but I'm afraid that he will pull me down..

@nitabrozowski4021

2 жыл бұрын

@@arijana9006 All that and he doesn’t work?! Time to say bye bye

@josheidt6123

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like some of you make poor choices in men. Don't group in all men cuz u made a few bad choices. That's on you

@tomino5201

Жыл бұрын

Problem of many woman is that take their partners for granted so they promise them heaven and give them hell

1. Get busy 2. Make time for yourself 3. Do things that make you happy 4. Boost your confidence 5. Step outside your comfort zone, get your adrenaline pumping =attraction .. he will refocus on you 6. Patience, it takes time 7. Encourage each other

I change my heart completely once they start this change of neglect.

@samxsara

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

Literally crying and watching this

My partner always expressed how much he wanted a baby. And when I became pregnant he supported me throughout the pregnancy. Then when I had the baby suddenly he became distant and his family began pushing him to visit me and the baby. All his friends are married with kids and living with their wives. And he is still living like he is younger than 30. I hate him now. I am planning to move away and never see him again.

@maddisonkrieger3610

2 жыл бұрын

i’m so sorry

@juice8037

2 жыл бұрын

I FEEL YA!!!!

@juice8037

2 жыл бұрын

Except my partners friends and family are selfish they don’t care if hes not by me and our kids LOL

@CatCat-hc8dr

2 жыл бұрын

Update I saw messages from him to another woman In his phone. I'm not surprised because his behaviour told me everything

@lifeistooshort8934

2 жыл бұрын

I’m in the exact same situation.

That's makes a lot of sense to me. He doesn't make time for me when I ask him to make time for me

I’m always working he doesn’t work, I bust my ass day in and day out, and when we have time when I have time to spend time together he doesn’t take advantage of that. I’m always wanting to be with him, he’s the highlight of my days he’s my motivation to keep going but with him it just feels like he could care less whether he gets to spend time with me that day or not. I just feel like I’m not important anymore.

@qu33n831

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like this right now….

@clairebear2975

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like that too.

@thatgirl5630

2 жыл бұрын

For me it’s the other way around, he is so so busy and literally works from 6am to 7pm, and he’s so tired…but he comes to see me still sometimes but it’s always him just tired and I hate that I feel bad I just get scared that I will never feel like a priority again, and he has a little girl that he needs to care for. I want to try harder bc I just can’t let him go he’s amazing, I just feel stuck

@clairebear2975

2 жыл бұрын

@@thatgirl5630 hey, i understand.. is there anything you can do for him perhaps to lighten his daily work load? Best wishes to you.

@juice8037

2 жыл бұрын

FEELING THIS!!!! 😒 me and my kids get neglected by my partner not by me but they don’t get to see their dad hardly unless it’s convenient for him (yes we’re together) he hasn’t turned up to our house after work for 2 days now!

My husbands first choice is to always .. always run to his family. I could be home alone … kids gone.. naked on the couch if one of them call he gets to running. He will give me his best 3 minutes and get up and go. I’m just feeling like I’m losing it. I’m always lonely. Always going everywhere by myself doing everything by myself. They just need him for everything. I have no life but it looks like it’s time for me to get one. I need to get back to life and put me first.

This video has some great tips, but what if the OH has just got lazy and literally just takes you for granted, so feelings are valid, and when subject is brought up they have no idea of their neglectful behaviour and is also not one to communicate healthily without going on the defense/shutting down or getting annoyed?

@ElderCreationist

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like this isn't your person

@Sharzad

5 ай бұрын

I think this stuff would help even if the guy has just gotten lazy. And the woman’s feelings are valid no matter what the guy’s reason is. Sounds to me like you are equating thinking with feeling. We don’t choose our feelings, so you can’t ever tell someone how to feel or not feel. We CAN choose to challenge and change our thoughts and interpretations though, and often changing how we are looking at something can change how we feel. Also, I am not a fan of the word lazy. I find lazy to be a lazy explanation for motivation and behavior. All human behavior boils down to a. Trying to get something, b. Trying to avoid something c. Protesting something or d. A combination of the three. If you think it’s not a matter of not wanting to rather than not being able to, ask yourself what is he trying to get, avoid, or protest with his neglectful behavior?

This is great advice. I'm sorry that all of u feel this way you should be part of your partners life. U are probably feeling the truth. They have excuses for days but if they want to be with you they will

Your energy is really subtle and solid , so nice and balanced personality, reflecting confidence and clarity , grateful about finding your chanel .

@HappilyCommitted

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!

Me and my partner have been together for 7 years as friends and 3 years in a relationship. I wonder how much time he needs to be emotionally available for me. I have been patient with his routine with his personal problems but I wonder for how long this is going to happen? In tired of explaining him tired of saying him what I desire what I look for but alas it feels like I am never being heard...

@thatgirl5630

2 жыл бұрын

Has It gotten better?

You are the best I have ever heard. Wonderful job my friend!! 👏🥰

@HappilyCommitted

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words Rebecca! -Coach Danny

Well this opened my eyes and made so much sense to me. My bf works 10-12 hrs a day and im self employed doing maybe 2 bookings a day. When he gets home its hi dinner on his phone or speaking with his parents. I started feeling taken for granted but i see i have way to much time on my hands hence here i am watching this .....

I feel like there are times where you’re deeply in love with your partner that you want to spend time with them/need attention from them. I feel like in as much these are distractions to help you not feel neglected, there are just times like those where you need them.

@cressiddabreo5683

7 ай бұрын

Exactly

Great advice!

@HappilyCommitted

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Coach Natalie

Hey so I'm w 18 gay guy and I watched your vid and it helped open my eyes to other outcome to we're I felt alone in my relationship this vid showed me what to do and I wanted to say thank you

Its better to find someone eho is more able to meet your needs

Great advice

@HappilyCommitted

3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate your feedback. Thank you for watching! Coach Natalie

Thank you this helps a lot

@HappilyCommitted

2 жыл бұрын

Happy the video was helpful for you, Annie. Coach Natalie

My partner wants to travel alone next year.. It will be a 2 week trekking tour abroad. I was really emotional when he first told me because I was scared and felt neglected. I dont understand shy he wants to do that. Without me ☹️

He EXPECTS! I’m Chill - Whatever happen to being your own entity?

This made a lot of sense to me

@HappilyCommitted

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Justin, I'm glad you connected with the message! -Coach Danny

I tell him if hes still doing it i neglect him

Thank you for this

Hi I'm in LDR with someone. And feel that he doesn't care. When I asked him to spend time with me sometimes. And he always get sick when I ask him to spend time with me.

We been a year together and this been going on for mostly 6 months . I feel like he doesn't see me or care about our relationship he stresses so much about work and i do everything in my power to help him in any way i can .. but what about me ??

@HappilyCommitted

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Yenzia, I am sorry you're going through this. I know how hurtful this can be and it seems like you are overly stressed. I highly suggest you book a coaching call with us so we can guide you on the next step to take in your relationship. www.happilycommitted.com

I've tried getting busy and 2 years later is even worst. You advices may be useful for people without children. We have 4 years old. I am not able to give myself much self care because I am responsible for her needs. He is not bothered and only works to make his money. After that he won't share his wealth because is his ow. What do you think about that?

@ElderCreationist

2 жыл бұрын

I think you chose a selfish asshole to procreate with. Leave him and hope you can find a loving man willing to be a step father. Or stay and be miserable. Sadly those are the only options as a man will not change unless he sees fit to do so within himself

@Miniflower25

Жыл бұрын

Can't you divorce him? Life patner mean someone who shares life with you not someone who don't care about you at all, Generally in india this type of stories exist a lot , woman will stay in wrong relationship for lifetime knowing he is wrong, for strict society rules, children many more reasons eventually dragging themselves and entire family into pain...My advice is try to talk to him or atleast both go to relationship counselling, if he change okay or if not probably he will never change. .I can understand you have kid, does he atleast care about your kid, is he responsible about her in that case if u wanna adjust ok or if he not even responsible about her then what is use of him? I am saying this because i saw my sibling stay with uncaring patner everyday feeling alone..think again

You are great 👍

@HappilyCommitted

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! 😃

Hmm. You say do what you like but what if I would like some dating. When my boyfriend is neglecting me and I go out meet people with same interests somehow single men unfortunately can sense/ read from my energy/ body language me being insecure as a result of this lack of affection in my relationship and my gatherings end up in heavy sparkling between me and other men. That makes my man disgustingly vicious and jeallous, a cursed circle. All i want is that he hugs me when i need it, also in public, and finds a work we can do together, or at least same times. He often rejects cuddles and enjoys observing me suffering with any emotions.

Wish I saw this yesterday.

@HappilyCommitted

3 жыл бұрын

I hope this video was helpful for you, Steven. Coach Natalie

@stevendgrissom1968

3 жыл бұрын

@@HappilyCommitted I keep screwing it all up. I dont know what to do. I cant stand myself anymore. I never thought I was as bad as shes told. me. We still live under same roof with kids. ILL keep watching. Thanks for the acknowledgment of my comment. Somebody hears me.

@jlee3921

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

My partner nd I lives together for a yr now. Im frm BGC used of city busy life. He is from UK, now we move in the province of Subic which is more layback. He still do his job online and deals with some baggage he got from UK. (ie ex wife child support case he got the kids with us now) I am doing my job as his partner, left my career in the city nd live with him. Yet I feel neglected on a daily basis, he is always on his IPAD. We tried to talk abt my feelings but he said its not valid he says i know he loves me. Yes i know that but I need affection. We argued abt this 3 times alrdy but my emotions arent validated. Evryday i feel lonely even if im not alone, im longing for him he is beside me but in separate world coz he is in ipad watching youtube lol and doing shares at night. I will try this steps. Maybe Ive been pushing myself so hard.

Mine left on a vacation with his parents, sister and brother in law for 2 weeks while I work like a dog and take care of my son. I wasn’t invited.

What if he’s occupying his time with video games and his friends after work over spending time with me.

@HappilyCommitted

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for reaching out, Jennifer. ⭐ Want To Tell Us More About What You Are Going Through? Call Our Hotline Now 👇:786.635.8373 Coach Natalie

@ElderCreationist

2 жыл бұрын

Depends if he makes time for you sometimes or if you're simply being selfish and wanting all of his time. Would it upset you if he only did it half the time or would you still want more of his time. Be honest with yourself. If you aren't just being selfish, then you probably need to find someone who will make time for you. But you can never be a "priority" as he has a life to live as well.

HASHTAG I'M NOT PLAYING HIS GAMES. HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME NOT BEING BUSY. HE IS A CHEATER AND IS CRUEL. EVERY HOLIDAY HE DOES THIS. HE CAN'T STAND OTHER PEOPLE GETTING CELEBRATIONS ANYONE ELSE THAN HIM. I'M LEAVING HIM. HE'S CRUEL AND A USER.

Im not important to him at all. Because he is always complaining about he sick. And the only time I hear from him is when he needs something from me

What if you try these and still nothing

@ElderCreationist

2 жыл бұрын

Then leave

@cassaundra8462

Жыл бұрын

@PATIENCE SILAS i will try to seek his help I have asked before for him to show me the anwser but I haven’t heard back

@Elysa284

Жыл бұрын

@@cassaundra8462 how are you now?

Horrible advice, especially if you involved with high value man or man with options. When I busy man is available and you not, someone else will fill the void. Horrible advice!