This certainly hit home. If a book can't distract me from the night demons I get up and move around...pray....clean closets...we have all done the best we could with the information we had and the people we were at the time.

@teresaj.5550

2 жыл бұрын

This is so right..

@Freedommjw

2 жыл бұрын

Well said 😊

@azjersee

Жыл бұрын

ME every night.

@TheAAnne123

Жыл бұрын

You named it perfectly “Night Demons” !

@dorisbilter9711

Жыл бұрын

Yes, why can’t we sleep at night?

I am very lonely so often. But I don’t want to live with anyone else like a roommate, but I also don’t really want to have a relationship again. Probably because I’m scared of being left alone if I did actually go for it. People are complex aren’t we.

Oh my dear ....I thought I was the only woman going through ALL these feelings. I feel trapped by them and do not know how to rid myself of the constant " over thinking " all of these topics. Fear, worry, regret , despair , feeling alone, idleness, chronic illness, All of it. I haven't anyone in my life that I can truly open up to and the people I used to talk to seem preoccupied with their own lives, grandkids and other activities so I feel uncomfortable bringing up my sadness or fear. I don't want to seem self absorbed or disinterested in their lives. So I don't say anything and then feel like I'm sinking in the muck. My life has changed so much since the pandemic and I feel isolated sometimes and out of the loop with even my dear family. It feels like a weight on my body and soul and like it will always be this way. I truly do not know where, or how to begin to resurface and enjoy what is left of my life. Thank you for opening up about this often taboo subject, it couldn't have come at a better moment for me!!

@fredjohnsonfj07628

2 жыл бұрын

Hope you're having a wonderful day ahead??

@susanm2804

2 жыл бұрын

I am feeling exact this and so are my female friends. We have to adjust to the changes that the whole world has gone through. I have barley left the house for 2 years and I am still scared to go out. But ,I am doing the best I can and staying positive.

@fredjohnsonfj07628

2 жыл бұрын

@@susanm2804 Well am from California but currently working in the gulf of mexico

@fredjohnsonfj07628

2 жыл бұрын

@@susanm2804 If I may asked, where exactly are you from??

@Briardie

Жыл бұрын

You are not alone in how you are feeling Becky. It is all understandable. I am in a rut myself. My beloved husband of 30+ years died this February. Our only child died 12 years ago aged 16. I am truly alone. All my friends have disappeared over the years because of various reasons, or they moved far away. My husband's family and friends stopped texting or checking up on my at the 12 week mark after my husband passed. I had no car once my husband died, so I am isolated at home, haven't been in a shop since April. I can't even get to the cemetery to my husband and daughters grave. I can count on one hand now many people I have seen in the last three months. My 60th birthday in June I spent alone. My neighbour has drink and drug problems and bangs on the walls at night and screams at me to die. I listen to his swearing at me and abuse every week. I felt useless and not wanted and not needed for the first time in my life. It is tough, I am dealing with so much, at least when my daughter died I had my husband, now I have no one. I do have a plan, my two dogs give me a daily purpose too, it just means we have to realise our worth, know we have so much more to do and to give and find a new life for ourselves. I am struggling yet I do know this is transient and will pass. The purpose of being is Love, and to be needed. We can all do that. Good luck with making plans for your future. We are on the same path. We are never truly alone. Big hugs xxx. Also you won't have chance to read it but thank you Margaret for your kindness, encouragement and the joy and support of your channel. It means so much x

Remember that, throughout life, we all do the very best with what we have and what we know at the moment.

@jklynb

2 жыл бұрын

Good point!

@suzanneadamson1306

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. We're not always enlightened enough to make the best decisions.

@holaforistas

11 ай бұрын

Exactly! If we survived all these years, we can do anything.

This is so true because we’re thinking about subjects never faced before n our life. We’ve never had to look at this illnesses, inabilities, vulnerability of who is going to take care of us, how we’re going to die, is it going to be painful, long, what will our children suffer along with our health issues, etc. so yes now and then we would be foolish if we didn’t consider these possibilities about our future. I believe it’s good to be pro active in our thoughts and to deal with the uncertainties but to also acknowledge that in truth, our whole life has been a uncertain. None of us knew how we would get to 60, 70, … when we were 21, 31. We were busy getting our livelihoods together. In the end what matters, is that we give back to world for as long as we’re able and be the blessing to those placed on our path. We all have contributions to offer to our communities, towns, and country. I have a lot to do yet. So, like I used to tell my son. Stay on the pity pot for whatever time you specify, then get up and walk away from the irritation or disappointment you’re dealing with. Hi do something about it. Don’t stay stuck in that position. It’s not healthy for any of us

Chronic pain you can't let go of. It has a hold of you. I've tried everything. You have to try and "manage" it.

Margaret, I've experienced "all of the above"! Life takes us on paths we don't always choose. How I wish I could have done everything perfectly and made all the perfect decisions...But, that's not realistic! No one does. My biggest lesson to myself in these dark moments now is to try to be compassionate to myself...I've always felt compassion for others...You are such a light in the darkness. Thank you!🕯

I’m retiring at 62. I’ll be 60 in November. My mom lived with me since 2010 and she just passed from vascular dementia. We’re Christian and I’ve got faith which is everything. My daughter is almost 20 so she’ll probably marry before I retire. I plan to sell everything, move to my mom’s land on family property and Is like to build a small cabin (not tiny). There’s a lot of changes going on and much to do in the next two years. The world has gone of its axis and I just want to be at peace and live simply, communing with God and nature. I’ll be there for my daughter when she has children. I’ll come and help. Sometimes I just have to stop thinking.

all these negative thoughts hit me at bed time, but mostly i wake up in the early hours of the morning with feelings of dread. i have always been a worrier, once i get up i am usually ok after half an hour or so. thank you for this video, it is helpful.

@annetterudolph1598

Жыл бұрын

That describes me perfectly, too!

@gretchenbruner5571

10 ай бұрын

Margaret, you are the most compassionate person! You are a tremendous blessing to thousands of women and I thank you from the bottom of my heart that you are out there!

@gretchenbruner5571

10 ай бұрын

⁠I totally understand as this happens to me too.

@angelasims2759

10 ай бұрын

@@nexium333 thank you, a drink does make a difference. (but it does make me pee) 🤫

All of these points are where I am now. Whew. It’s overwhelming at times. Thank you for this.

I am 66, a cancer survivor and a grammy to 3 beautiful girls. 2 live far away, the other 15 mins away. Yet, I am the second choice gma for both of my kids. It breaks my heart as I fight a battle every day about how my cancer treatments have wrecked my body and I just don't always feel the best. Toss in that I still have to have a part time job after 40 years in teaching.....I just want closeness with my grandbabies. Nighttime and waking up too early is the worst for me. My mother is 86 and in better health than me. I will not see 86. Oh life

Thank you, Margaret.It's easy to make myself believe that I'm alone in these feelings.I can see that I'm not.

@fredjohnsonfj07628

2 жыл бұрын

How are you doing joyce??

Excellent 👌. My sister (66) and I (62) were chatting. I introduced her to your channel after the adult children estrangement discussion. I am thankful sister and I are a part of this era when OUR GENERATION has this capability of working together via these outlets to navigate aging into 60's and beyond. Prior generations were not as fortunate to have these opportunities to connect with a large audience of US and to discuss topics uniquely relating to our challenges. I believe we are setting a good example for our younger sisters. I am thankful for my community and for you.

@markc1234golf

5 ай бұрын

Prior generations still lived together as a family into death, from birth to death part of the family household. We are insane and call this progress it's inhumane and typically capitalist society.

Thank you for helping me realize that I am not alone in my big/little emotional struggles now that I'm 65. I wonder if anyone out there is experiencing what I am ... I just don't have a friend my age who understands. There's really nobody I can have a cup of tea with who is in the same spot as I am. It's good to know "I'm not alone" but I AM alone. How wonderful if I had a neighbor and we truly "got" each other. I've been searching for new friendships since my children left home....the search goes on. (I'm an introvert which doesn't help.) The people in this community boost me though. Thanks to all of you!

@houndmother2398

10 ай бұрын

You're not alone. I used to have at least a couple of friends I could have tea with and I don't really know what happened there. This community does help though.

@ThePossumone

9 ай бұрын

Seniors centre ?

@Julieglam3

2 ай бұрын

I totally understand what you're saying. I'm 66 and feel exactly the same way. I teach Diamond Painting at my local senior center one day a week but have found most of the people there more irritable and entitled than friendly. I guess maybe I'm just not old enough yet to fit in there 😂. I have begun hitting the gym more regularly and focusing on eating a much healthier diet. I will be retiring in a few months and looking forward to it after a lifetime of working retail. I write articles for a writers blog but have gotten away from it. I plan on returning to my writing once I'm fully retired. I think finding what interests you and keeps you curious going forward is critical to your mental health.

Learning how to send love to ourselves, self compassion and forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves.

I’ve been walking around with so much sadness and fear that something bad is going to happen. It’s crippling. For reasons that are too long to go into here, I have not one person other than my husband who I can confide in, share feelings with. It’s a terribly lonely way to live.

@createone100

2 жыл бұрын

Please check out the KZread channel ‘Crappy Childhood Fairy’. It is truly excellent. You could very well be dealing with old issues from childhood. I have some idea what you’re experiencing. I wish you happiness and freedom from anxiety. 🤗

@deborahpellerito6117

2 жыл бұрын

Me too but I count my blessings

@KaLu224

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Pippa, Despite having people in my life, like you I have no one to confide in. So, I found an amazing therapist. She listens with compassion, sometimes I cry and sometimes we laugh. I highly recommend it.

@private15

2 жыл бұрын

I also have no one to confide in. I have no husband and my sons are hard to confide to. You are lucky to have a husband but I wonder if husbands really listen with compassion

@pippa212

2 жыл бұрын

@@KaLu224 I recently got one. It’s a tremendous help! The best to you ❤️

As i sat here crying for no reason i could identify with , i saw this , thank you

@Alwayslearnimg

10 ай бұрын

I’m right there with you

I love how you call us all sisters! And that IS how we should always treat each other. You hit the nail on the head again, Margaret, and thank you for your compassion and willingness to share all of this with your sisters. You brought tears to my eyes, both for the truth, but also for the honesty of wanting to help us all.

Margaret, what a gift you have for getting straight to the heart of things in a very kind, loving and direct way. There's such a tendency to roll the past by in the depth of the night when I'm tired. Geesh, the self condemnation can be really bad. But trying to find daily growth and optimism seems to help. Great words and ideas. Thank you for naming the elephant in the room. Bless you~!! :)

@fredjohnsonfj07628

2 жыл бұрын

Hey jan...

Dreams are so bad... because there's nothing you can do about them, they come without us knowing it... hating the dreams. The bad one's 😥❣️

Thank you, Margaret. I'm home alone for a week and some of these very things have crept into my thoughts in the evening hours. The saddest three words I've ever known are "It's too late". So many examples of this in my lifetime. Sometimes we need to search our memory for things we did right and be satisfied with that. Listening to you is like visiting with a friend. Brightens up my day and helps me be positive that all is as it should be!

I need to hear this so badly.

@christophermarkmark5416

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Grace..how you doing today?

Thank you for this. I feel better knowing I am not alone with these feelings.

@aungar2403

2 жыл бұрын

It makes a big difference to realize that these feelings are normal.

Margaret, I think you hit a nerve with this video. So many heartfelt responses. I am so glad you did this. I do love all the happy, positive, optimistic blogs, I read them all! But I was wondering recently if you might address these issues of fear, despair, and worry. I could check all the boxes on the list of things some women 60+ are feeling according to the author. I know I am not alone in this, but it does help a lot to hear it once in a while. Thank you. I can't begin to tell you what a positive impact you have made in my life these last few months since I 'found' you. Thanks for what you do. Love.

@roseyc.5846

2 жыл бұрын

Karen Broth I agree...Margaret is a true blessing! 🙏❤️🌷

So I'm not going nuts? Thank you so much ❤🙏

This subject breaks my heart. I think it does matter where you live as well. Being in a beach community there are so many things to do and because our homes are close together, we are great neighbors. With that said it’s got to be hard being alone. To all of you, you are not alone. Thank you Margaret for helping so many. Blessings 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa

@fredjohnsonfj07628

2 жыл бұрын

Are you there??

I feel so bad for women in this situation. I just turned 71 have no regrets about my past and living my best life, Believe in yourself and stay strong

@tallchicknvegas

6 ай бұрын

Women in this situation reading that you feel bad, can make them feel worse. It's OK for women to be in such thoughts. Hopefully, there's someone around to help guide, or they jump on KZread, or pick up a self-help book to lift themselves up ❤

I think we all go through this.Sometimes I cry because all of my family are just about gone.But I sit and meditate and think over my life and remember the good times the laughter with my family and friends.I think about all the beautiful people God has place in my life over time.I cannot thank him enough.I say thank you over and over again.He has always been there through the good and trials and tribulations of my life, he has always been there.zI thank him for each and every day when I wake up.This makes me feel better and volunteering really helps also.I feel all you and I go there a lot but I cannot unring the bell so I pray and move on .God Bless all of you.🙏🏾❤️💞💕🌹

Thank you for your videos. It sure fits and most of all, I don't feel so alone! 🙏🏻❤️🤗

@christophermarkmark5416

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Sue... how you doing today?

Another great subject,,yes regrets ,wrong choices, bad decisions, will I ever be in love again.will my physical promise get better..Personally I hold on to the hope and promises of God and Jesus, and I am lifted up.

I’m 33 years old and I’m already starting to worry about these things. My biggest hope is that when I die, it happens quickly. My biggest fear is slowly dying from a chronic illness

One other thing, you may enjoy reading Matthew Haig's book, Midnight Library. The main character gets to revisit all those crossroads (regrets) and see what life would have been like if she had made a different choice.

@aletawalter9342

2 жыл бұрын

An amazing book!

@kittywisdom4534

Жыл бұрын

Hey Karen: I think Margaret actually mentioned the book in a video. So I read it and then passed it on to my friend (a librarian) who also loved it. I view it as a trip through the Akashic Records. It was a great read! Thanx. (my Sunday Name is also Karen.)

I find if I review my past I get only more depressed. Cannot change the past so why torture myself? My way coping with the demons is just breed in and out and let it go......and keep moving forward

Thanks for bringing these issues up for discussion. I think the pandemic actually exacerbated these concerns. I worry about women on this channel being vulnerable to predators. I hope they know not to respond to trolls wanting to meet up. *See some male comments below.

Ugh. I’m gaining belly fat with ease and constantly think about what’s after this life plus I’m working full time through joint and stomach pain that I never had before. There’s no “future “ thought , only regrets from the past. Getting old sucks but at least I’m smarter than I ever have been.

You hit the nail on the head Margaret. The birthday review is brilliant! Life is challenging and we need to take stock. Aging makes us feel more vulnerable as we peel those layers. Thank you for the reminders. 💕💕💕

@christophermarkmark5416

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Ana... How you doing today?

The only regret that I have is starting to smoke, all other “bad decisions” that I made have all turned out wonderfully. My problem is fear of running out of money, especially with the inflation! I know so many older people have that fear. Evenings are when I tend to get sad, lonely, and a bit scared! Should I downsize, should I get a part-time job, should I date, should I hire someone to fix things in the house, and just stuff. You are so right about how we have managed to get this far and will manage anything! Your eye shadow is beautiful and you look lovely in that color!

When I go back in my childhood, I can see what effects my abusive alcoholic father had on all my dysfunctional family. We five kids all still struggle with the after-effects as senior adults. And we see how it tends to be generational as it says in the Bible. We do learn to cope and be happy at times buy it's always there.

@sixtyandme

5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing a very, very difficult childhood and background. It sounds like you’ve made a lot of your life even though you’re still struggling. Thank you so much for sharing.

This made me emotional as I’m estranged from my son and the complex dynamics of a wife that has shown me nothing but disrespectful behaviour and my sins are doing the blame mum for everything . Its very lonely and no friends where I live in a clicky small town . Ive tried for 10 years but it’s so hard unless you fit in . I’m ready to jump ship and move after serious illness and trauma so kids don’t help at all so I’m realising I have to let it all go . Thanks for sharing this 🙏🏽

I am totally alone. I have to move in a month and have nowhere to go. I’m on government help due to divorce so my income is very limited. Because of this I feel shame. Yes yes this is me.

Margaret. This video is so, so timely for me. Especially today! I turned 64 just 2.5 weeks ago. Today, I had a partial knee replacement surgery. The hubs and I will celebrate our 38 year anniversary. My hubby is an awesome guy and we love each other greatly. I have live a fantastic life. I am not a CEO, a president or even some high level corporate person. Just someone that has enjoyed helping people in my job. I have been harassed, gaslight and not treated by many of the companies. Corporate entities are mean and very self serving. They definitely do not care about their people they way they should. My story is not unique. I had a mother that did me no favors in loving me and giving me good direction. Ahhh life.

So good to feel I am not alone. Been going through health issues--home while the rest of the world moves around me--and hopefully will be better after my next surgery in a week. Been a very lonely time. Looking for renewal as my life transitions . Blessings!

Yes all of the above, the last few years its been an emotional roller-coaster, many family members and friends my age or younger, in good health have passed. There before the grace of God go I, I keep saying to myself. The overwhelming anxiety of losing someone closer to me or me leaving this world, I'm not done yet! My 90 year old aunt says to live like everyday is your last... easier said than done right? Blessings to all

@fredjohnsonfj07628

2 жыл бұрын

How are you doing??

Oh wow, I've been going through some tough times these days too. I don't want to but I'm considering going back on Prozac after many years. I just feel so overwhelmed. I love my husband but he's a hoarder and the older I get the more the clutter gets on my nerves. Between that and regrets and what's going on in the world, it just gets to be too much. I find myself getting so angry about how I've ended up. My grandmother was a bitter, cranky old woman and fear I'm going down the same path. 😢

@KaLu224

2 жыл бұрын

There is nothing wrong with a chemical rebalance. If depression or anxiety meds help, then go for it. Why suffer if there is relief available to you? I hope things get better.

@roseyc.5846

2 жыл бұрын

I feel I'm going down that path, too. I take the meds I need; don't hesitate to do so if they can help. 🙏❤️🌷

@debfincher1741

2 жыл бұрын

@Julie Johnson-Hunt I wish your surgery goes well for you.

@pixieheart9303

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so afraid of turning into a bitter old lady. I'm alone and fearful of the society we live in and the awfulness going on around the world. I wish I didn't know about any it. Ignorance is bliss.

@barbarahunter1555

2 жыл бұрын

You won't because you are aware. Much love to you🥰

Oh my goodness, you have touched a Lot of concerns of mine at this moment 🙏🌷, Thank you. It's really nice to know I'm not alone on this level,but that we can work on it TOGETHER 💕🌻🕊

@christophermarkmark5416

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Veronica.. how you doing today?

That's exactly how I feel! You described my feelings 100%. Thank you for posting this, now I know I'm not alone. ❤

Thank you, Margaret, for going deeper. And you are correct, they are demons. The opposite of love is fear. We need to have a true spiritual healing. It is good hearing most of us go through the same emotions. It is reassuring. I was listening to a video of a very wise older woman, and she said old age is a gift. I hope to get to that point one day where I can experience that belief. You look so lovely again today. ❤️

@fredjohnsonfj07628

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Maria....

Felt this way most of my life but the older I get the more frequently I feel this way and the more intense that feeling is.. the hope dwindling with every minute. I'm dying of loneliness and fear. I want to connect with and help others like me but I'm too self-centred maybe.. too fearful for sure. I feel paralysed. I'm sick in every way from this now. Afraid to try for sleep now because of the doom of waking up and that is usually in only s couple of hours.somtimes I think I would almost crawl into bed beside a sworn enemy just by impulse for the feeling of comfort of contact with another human. Nothing sheds any shred of pride like lonely desperation .

@doloresaquines

Жыл бұрын

Justine. You do realise that there is no shame attached to seeking professional help,? Such help can be invaluable. If you are in intense physical pain do you not visit a doctor,,? And yes, I realise that therapy/ counselling is expensive, depending where you are. But so well worth It. Take care.

@kittywisdom4534

Жыл бұрын

Not to discount your sad feelings, but you are quite witty. I sense you have a wicked sense of humor to say "I'd crawl in bed with a sworn enemy ... for comfort." Open up to the idea of expressing yourself. Write some poetry about your view on life. xoxox

Margaret, thank you SO much. You could have been speaking directly to me; I have gone through all of that. At times, I wake up in the very early hours and can't get back to sleep because of my anxieties. I pray, have my coffee and take my meds; sometimes it helps, sometimes not so much. I am pretty terrified of the future, more so now due to the estrangement between my daughter and myself. It's been six months, and, due to her nature, I see no hope for reconciliation. That's just one thing, but, it's been huge for me. I appreciate your addressing this topic SO very much; you are such a source of wisdom and comfort to all in our community/family. Many blessings to you. Rosemarie 💖

@barbarahunter1555

2 жыл бұрын

Rosey I have been reunited with my daughter after 5 years of estrangement- so there is always hope🥰

@joyce7310

2 жыл бұрын

I could have written this,Rosey.Early morning coffee and prayer.Estrangement .It can be terrifying. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Thank you very much for addressing this issue. Since i entered my seventies sleepness nights and overthinking the smallest things, doubting my decisions and feeling lost.

I'm much happier and at peace since my recent divorce. But I'm really concerned about watching my 401 and 403 accounts diminish drastically since January--and I have to split them with my ex husband who refused to work for most of our marriage. I'm 62 and will work until 68 or 70 but am very worried about having enough to live on for just a modest lifestyle.

Thank you. I haven't gotten up for 2 days, having all of the feelings you describe. I'm busy most always but have felt myself sinking with a myriad of regret and guilt and pain and panic. Realizing I've gotten older and still surrounded by stress. You were like a friend having coffee with me today. It's made such a difference knowing all those emotions are shared by others. :-/

@sixtyandme

5 ай бұрын

You’ve got this!

Thank you Margaret for this very relatable video!!

@Dy8632

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Judy Kekesi

@fredjohnsonfj07628

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Judy👋👋👋

In your "shorts" it was interesting to see your apartment. I think that it's lovely.

Great video! I try to do an art therapy/journal page each day at 3 pm. It’s transforming and so helpful as I age. As are these videos! Ty! 💖💃🏽🌷

@jklynb

2 жыл бұрын

I may try this. Maybe it’ll keep my regrets at bay.

i’m 66 year old widow living with my adult children because of finances. i really struggling with depression and feeling like my life has no purpose

Good. Wise words. Thank you

thank you , Margaret! This was very personal for me. As a 61 year old American woman living in Yokohama, japan ( I am from the Detroit area living here going on 37 years now) I feel this deeply. To all of you out there, feel free any time to contact me----I have a lot of life experiences ( good & some not so good:( ) living here!

@judithmarcus3963

2 жыл бұрын

Your KZread page has no content so I don't know whether or not you are a real person. I wanted to contact you because I have friends in Japan and am interested in your experience as an expat. I don't know how to contact you or you to contact me.

@judithmarcus3963

2 жыл бұрын

I just realized probably most of us do not have content on our KZread page. I'm too paranoid to post my email address on a public page. I wish you well.

@misty55ms

Жыл бұрын

What can l say. I am German living in UK near 40 years. Home in my heart is Baveria, it was because of abuse experiences l run away and the home sickness is a constant feeling especially since getting older 67 and children left home.

@doloresaquines

Жыл бұрын

​@@judithmarcus3963 You are right. Never post personal details on the internet. Ever.

You are so loving and encouraging. Thank you for your open heart and wisdom!

@sixtyandme

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

And the tears flowed.

@fredjohnsonfj07628

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Deborah👋👋👋

Thank you for this post. It came at a very hard time for me and helped me understand what I am feeling is pretty normal. ❤

This was video was so helpful. Somehow I had managed to believe I was the only one. I have never been a fearful person, though could get anxious over things. But for a long while now I can be fearful in the night in a way I've never experienced before. Hopefully this video will help me put it in some sort of perspective...and that in turn will help the fear. 🙏

Thank you. So great to hear you discuss this and so great to read comments. Live : be gentle with yourself. Peace.

I know this is a channel for senior women, bit what you are spwaking aboutwe men feel it ,too Sometimes I get stuck and feel lonely and think of all the things that did not go right in my life. From divorce to not being the parent I should have to if I will have enought money to last till I die, and a host of other things. I am not able to shake these thoughts at times. Reading some of your post helps me feel better and not so alone. I thank you for this. It makes a difference!

I'm so scared of being alone without anyone.

I live in constant fear after the estrangement of my daughter and grandchildren.

@Freedommjw

2 жыл бұрын

Honey, I'm right there with you. My relationship with my daughter is terrible. Thankfully, I have a good relationship with my son, daughter-in-law and grandsons. I honestly don't understand why my daughter hates me so much. She saw everything I went through with her father and said she would never marry because she'd never be controlled the way he controlled me. When I finally got the courage to leave (she was grown and gone) she completely turned on me. I'm still puzzled over her baffling behavior. Heavy sigh.

@nancyinthegarden3160

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry don’t know if you have your faith but I find it helps me to pray for those those loved ones I can’t help. Sometimes, patience is all we need to things evolve into better days for those in the muck

@pixieheart9303

2 жыл бұрын

I am alone in city without friends or any support system. I bought a house a year ago, to be near her, with her blessings. It was the worst decision I made. Now I'm stuck as I spent everything to buy this place and the housing market is no longer affordable to me even with the little I'll make selling my current home. Right now, I'm saddled with severe depression and crippling anxiety. Somehow, I will find my way out.

@KaLu224

2 жыл бұрын

@@pixieheart9303 Yes, you will find your way. I am sorry you are dealing with this.

@Freedommjw

2 жыл бұрын

@@pixieheart9303 Oh wow! What a situation. Praying for you. 🙏 Hopefully, your daughter will come around soon.

Margaret, I'm amazed at how you tap into the feelings many of us experience. I'm grateful, that for myself, these feelings only visit me on a temporary basis. But I sympathize with others overwhelmed by these feelings. Thank you for addressing this.

Been overwhelmed with this for two years...thank you

Simply ...Thank You 💖

Me too

Thank you!!

…great information… like you, around my birthday I reflect on childhood and first marriage experiences… the good moments and the not so good moments. It’s taken many years to learn to take the best moments and move forward with the knowledge I have before me. A few years ago a daughter ask me to write my stories. I’ve written many , many pages of memories and experiences. I’ve cried many tears… all the writing and crying were very therapeutic to help me grow emotionally and move forward with forgiveness , more compassion and love.

I’ve identified with every single thing 💫

I like to listen to your videos as I'm doing housework - it makes the work so pleasant! Thank you, Margaret ❤❤❤

Thank you! I needed to hear this tonite. I'm going through some difficult feelings. Thank you.

This resignatated with me beyond belief. I turned 65 last June. Single again, working full time and scared to death and all the feelings and thoughts you mention. Thank you, I thought I was going crazy

@sixtyandme

5 ай бұрын

Stay strong. It’s going to be OK.

All of the above….and I’m too tired to cry……but I am learning to let go….

@christophermarkmark5416

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Rose.. how you doing today?

It's so difficult to let go....

It reminds me of the poem m by Mary Oliver called Wild Geese, worth a read xx thank you for this video ❤

@sixtyandme

5 ай бұрын

I love that poem, too

Thank you. ❤

This is me in a nutshell. Just feel stuck, sad and alone these days.

@sixtyandme

Ай бұрын

Hope that you can find a way through the sadness

I need to here this thank you and wishing you lots of love and happiness too.

Living alone is tough, but at times I love isolating my self from outside world and feeling glad not having any responsibilities any more. Was single mom with doing everything by myself.

You are so kind and empathetic. I love your channel. You truly cover many subjects that are relevant, helpful and encouraging. Thank you.

me too

Thank you Margaret as always. I find the conversation to be very motivating. I appreciate that you are beautiful and attractive and intelligent. Thank you for inspiring all of us. I appreciate that you are stimulating the thinking about the things that we’re all thinking at the same time. It is very good to have this community to be able to share her thoughts and to commiserate. Thank you for a positive forum!!

@fredjohnsonfj07628

2 жыл бұрын

How are you doing today??

I totally identified with more than one feelings. Anxiety, chronic pain, worry, loss, sadness. Thank you for addressing these emotions that can really make havoc of quality of life. We do and you are right, have to feel and let go. And, keep present all that we have yo be greatful. I enjoy listening to you speak and address women of this very special age. Take care.

Thank you ❤

Oh my! This was so encouraging.

Love ur vlogs, I believe equally applies to both men & women alike. Keep up the great work! Motivating…..!

Thank you Margaret. Yes live is not a pony farm. Yes regrets, decisions made etc. Difficult, i am just on a turning point in my life... All the best and love

~watching this at Christmas time …I’m hoping the feelings pass some s the holidays pass. Thank you for all this 🤗🤗

Thank you for this. I love your pieces for thought

Hi Margaret, you really summed it up beautifully..that’s exactly how it is ,,,,thank you for your support..❤️🙏😘😘😘

Yes sadly I have this st night and early mornings - can feel despairing 😢

Thank you so much Margaret, you are so comforting, calm and positive ❤

Thank you for this. Really meant a lot to me to hear this. Love the purple top too.

True one choice can change everything. Enjoyed this post due to feeling lost at 59.

So true, thank you, Margaret!

Thank you for the community and honesty. I so appreciate your topics and discussions that aline with my worries and concerns as I age. Thank you also for the lightheaded moments and the encouragement to put some things into perspective.

@sixtyandme

Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!