It’s not the rejection, it’s that they are rude with impossible standards. I am worthy, they are not.

@clark7290

Жыл бұрын

W comment

@Amirreza82021

Жыл бұрын

Keep on Rocking King

@Denzamusic

Жыл бұрын

Now everything is fucked up. Men are disgusting creatures, men do not earn 400.000 dollars per year, all men are dirty rapists. Wtf is happening. The feminism extreme shit you have in USA is spreading to Sweden. 2 weeks ago a woman stod alone by the road and needed lift. She had her thumb out. My friend was like "pick her up, she may be in danger or need our help" I answered no way. I don't want to end up on tiktok because I look at her and ending up being a rapist that pick up women. So I did not stop. Maybe she needed help, I don't know and I won't take a chance. They can handle themselves they say, they are strong they say.

@bugarskisvercerduvana3436

Жыл бұрын

This

@Mr.Telekinetic

Жыл бұрын

Men create their value, women are given there’s. But somehow women’s innate value has gotten to their egos, so even a girl that has nothing but looks to offer thinks she’s a queen. But really she’s an empty shell with a huge ego. Pretty to look at tho, but that’s about it.

I don't fear rejection, i fear public shaming or worse, being called a rapist or something

@mattleofric1766

Жыл бұрын

Bingo.

@Lightflames85

Жыл бұрын

if it helps only 10- 15% on max will be directly mean to you if you approach 100 people and it has nothing to do with you anyways. They are either bad people or in a bad mood that day.

@nicholasmuro1742

Жыл бұрын

False accusations. "We believe the woman" is an impossible obstacle to overcome. It can ruin your life. I'd rather be alone, or pay a pro. Better than jail

@kennethlopez6334

Жыл бұрын

I think men have to have to balls to approach. But yes, the feminists that say rape when you look at them is what I fear. The other thing I despise is the attention whores that waste your time.

@pablodmdp

Жыл бұрын

Same

If I tell a woman that she looks pretty, it is sexual harassment. But if Chad says it, it's sexy.

@semilogoosunderu8956

7 ай бұрын

If Tyrone says this, he’s the man

@kingsgold

7 ай бұрын

Telling her she looks pretty isn’t harassment, but it does say you only value her appearance over any of her other traits. Rather than go for the low hanging fruit that is her appearance, try for something else. Because anyone in the same room as that woman also notices she is pretty.

@Kinyr

7 ай бұрын

Societal collapse inbound when incel culture becomes mainstream

@sjonnieplayfull5859

7 ай бұрын

​@@kingsgoldgood point. So what do I know about a woman that I have not talked to before and know nothing of, besides the things I can see (like everyone else) ?

@kingsgold

7 ай бұрын

@@sjonnieplayfull5859 connect with them about something they are doing. look at her actions. if she is reading, maybe start a conversation about the book or author. or just drinking coffee, maybe start a conversation about their favorite drink at the shop. these things tend to get more response from a woman and able to start a more genuine connection with them.

I’m 25, I stopped talking to women shortly after high school. I talk to everyone about anything, and when I compliment men, they’re always excited and happy to talk. I told a man he had a nice jacket a couple weeks ago and he talked all about it, where he got it, what he likes about it. I never once had a bad interaction with any random man I talked to. Pretty much all the women I tried to talk to would just roll their eyes, give me a snappy one word response, or not even acknowledge me at all.

@Sawers014

8 ай бұрын

women in current times are Just rude

@BeanBon_X3

7 ай бұрын

Just date the homies. 😂

@JosiahBlackstock-zn3cf

7 ай бұрын

Older women are easier to talk too I've noticed. With young women you have to get to know them first before talking to them.

@meghasanyal4861

6 ай бұрын

Men are not honest and definitely not progressive, so women don't trust intentions of any man. I was on a vacation and a man at the hotel reception told me that all girls in my group are very pretty and because of us he started liking Indian girls a lot. He recognised me from the morning he saw me etc. I took it in a good way laughing and saying thank you. Few hours later, when I came back to the reception with a friend, he kept staring at me rudely, I never understood what was he angry for. If you talk to a man freely, they think they can talk rubbish to you or you are into them, or a woman shouldn't be that free in talking to men. Not progressive. There are reasons women do what they do.

@joelhassed3913

6 ай бұрын

​@JosiahBlackstock-zn3cf that's so true, older women are definitely much easier to talk to and that's the world we're living in now. Sadly social media and feminism are ruining traditional values and biology for what men and women want from the opposing gender when it comes to relationships.

"will you ruin my life & eventually take half my shit" just isn't all that appealing to men any more 😆

@Fred-ff6bv

Жыл бұрын

half? nope, today they get ALL of it and future payments too.

@swayp5715

Жыл бұрын

Exaaaaactly

@antclerfont8478

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@kaboom6157

Жыл бұрын

​@@Fred-ff6bv word

@darrenstango9376

Жыл бұрын

That's right I hear just pearly things and fresh and fit say that

Correction. If women say "No men are approaching me", what they mean is "The top 10% most attractive and confident men aren't approaching me".

@treznor6992

Жыл бұрын

bingo. just like when they say "where are all the good men" they mean where are all the rich men who will commit to me.

@warriorson7979

Жыл бұрын

@@treznor6992 Exactly.

@Ali-rb3ir

Жыл бұрын

If you wanna become a top 10% man you either are born in wealth or go throught studf like cold approaching to get there and prove to yourself you are worthy.

@patrickday8067

Жыл бұрын

You forgot “rich.”

@aisu5544

Жыл бұрын

I mean- guys don't approach me, but I can definitely see that I'm responsible for that I barely even go out, so how would they even notice me if I'm not there in the first place?

I am a 24 year old man. I’ve been rejected so many times and treated like a damn bug. Finally got fed up with it and stopped trying. I’m not gonna sit here and paint a pretty picture- I want a wife. But I am far happier being single than being treated like trash, trying to just get a date with a woman.

@joshua50101

5 ай бұрын

Acording to JP, it's all your fault. Try cleaning your bedroom bro, or take a shower bro. xD

@hockeyfanatic6630

4 ай бұрын

I’m 28 and I’m in the same boat as you brother!!

@TimmyRock

4 ай бұрын

​@@joshua50101bro is mad cause he can't get no girls

@notPeacefulOne

3 ай бұрын

25 years old here. Got rejected multiple times. Now I lost hope and it will not make me sad if my bloodline end with me. But sometime loneliness hits littlebit

@bartosz8723

3 ай бұрын

31

It’s not exactly the rejection. I can take a friendly rejection. A harsh rejection like “Ew! As if!” is what scares us mostly.

@Mus34679

4 ай бұрын

Or having accusations thrown our way, when we’re just trying to be polite.

@MDE128

4 ай бұрын

@@Mus34679 That’s even worse.

@johnnymember

3 ай бұрын

I introduced myself to a woman one time not even trying to hit on her and she said “ wow you’re short as fuck”

@sleeken

2 ай бұрын

yeah she said ew…. Hurts like hell

@PurXion_777

2 ай бұрын

​​@@sleekenremember she'd rather die and be buried 1,000ft in the ground than have the courage to initiate an approach. Girls who say "Ew" will definitely cry after getting a friendly rejection from a man.

I have nothing to offer except love and affection, and that's worthless.

@Opticaltemperrr

Жыл бұрын

Felt that one ^

@808yorkie

Жыл бұрын

Not to all of them

@loner4life83

Жыл бұрын

Same here buddy.

@esan0715

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, it's not what they want

@_Lumiere_

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, those are the only things thay we want, but they also want materialistic things and status. We should really encourage men to also seek virtue and great character in women.

A female friend told me that a few months after her divorce she was at a bar and asked a man to dance and he said no. She said that rejection hit her so hard she was never going to try again. I told her, men go through that all the time.

@letsarray5712

10 ай бұрын

What happen to her?

@numskulltheory7133

9 ай бұрын

This is beaten into boys in HS, then you hit adulthood and assume you will get some polite or kind responses. And the truth is, it doesn't change. Very easy for a guy to just say fuck it, it's not worth it anymore.

@andrewq159

9 ай бұрын

Yes, and men don't have the option of waiting for women to approach them.

@PJOZeus

8 ай бұрын

At least it's not as bad as the ones who sexually harass men, take it even further when they get told no, forcing the man to defend himself physically, and is then called a monster or pervert for doing so, whatever demonisation you can think of

@onlyweatherlol93

8 ай бұрын

Pretty standard for many women to lack awareness like that. The way they reject men sometimes is downright vicious and cruel. It's almost like they want to humiliate the man for having the courage and belief to ask them out. Rejection is fine, people are entitled to do it... it's the way they say it that bugs me.

Unattractive men approaching women is seen as harassment these days and is an arrestable offence these days not to mention humiliating when the women rejects you!

@notPeacefulOne

3 ай бұрын

Ugly men are not stupid. We can assume what will happen if we approach. that's why we don't do that.

My wife just abandoned me and our family. And is currently maliciously attacking my life. Thank for making these videos, it keeps me having hope.

@lavelander5124

11 ай бұрын

Damn sorry bout that bro, you stay strong 🙏🙏🙏

@timothydonley9049

11 ай бұрын

@@lavelander5124 up is the only way

@witherking584

9 ай бұрын

Get legal action and maybe sue her once or twice and maybe she'll leave. Otherwise get help from intimidating friends to scare her off. She may be crazy, but she isn't dumb enough to walk into a potentially dangerous situation.

@vitkomusic6624

8 ай бұрын

Same here.

@darkice7669

8 ай бұрын

KZread The black Philip show. It will help, a great comedian hosts it. Hope you heal, laugh and gain knowledge man. Best of luck bruh

In a few words : The internet came along and ruined everybody's life

@nv_chino

Жыл бұрын

Kind of. Good and bad to everything but if you choose to embrace that bad ugly dark side then yea it will

@davidd.8519

Жыл бұрын

It ruined the whole world

@RIPJimmyA7X

Жыл бұрын

Bingo

@amadeuscrossing7061

Жыл бұрын

Facts

@Lorens4444

Жыл бұрын

Aristotle: "The written word came along and ruined everybody's life" XD

100% facts it's not even worth anymore getting into a relationship these days

@rosscardenas6636

Жыл бұрын

why not?

@craniax_editz2458

Жыл бұрын

@@rosscardenas6636 youll know

@TheRealEMURSE

Жыл бұрын

End up in jail where I live

@rickreese5794

Жыл бұрын

Woke gals earned it😂

@sevenmajesticmcglotten-bon5132

Жыл бұрын

​@@rosscardenas6636 Me too, allows for your x to ruin your career 20 years later. Half of all paternity tests show the kids not his, an women wait till your dating them 2 cheat at your expense

Agree. Impossible standards... also, many "modern" women bring no value, extremely disrespectful, entitled, and simply not happy.

@Unknownhope777

2 ай бұрын

I'm a woman and agree with you. Of course not all women but most are that way and it's sad

@redfatseal2407

Ай бұрын

Yeah I’m a man and these are fax. But there’s still a lot of good women out there. Plus us men are not perfect either.

When I approach a woman, I feel that I have not only a fear of rejection, I feel that I'm worthless.

Rejection is meh when it's respectful. However, when it is spiteful malicious and public, that damages your ability to interact socially. Especially in the internet age

@Mangix974

Жыл бұрын

There's no rejection that is respectful, if she rejects you it's because you're not respected enough according to her metrics... otherwise she would worship you with respect, and perhaps "submit" because in love or desire at least...

@LucasMartins-en9er

Жыл бұрын

@@Mangix974 nah, you can say you’re not interested without being disrespectful

@ahhwe-any7434

Жыл бұрын

Rejection is when u block a channel bc you think the channels whack. But the channels rapey so all u can do is start on a dislike binge. 🙄 I saw 1 vid & was like hell no she's stupid. STOP SHOWING UP ON MY FEED. I DIDNT ASK. CREEP

@Hunter-dj9ld

Жыл бұрын

@@Mangix974 This has gotta be one of the worst takes I’ve seen. We aren’t out here trying to force women to be with us. Most of us aren’t anyway. Men just don’t want to be shamed or humiliated when being rejected.

@protorhinocerator142

Жыл бұрын

@@Mangix974 How about a simple "no thanks"? Why is that off the table?

That creep one hit me hard. I was talking to some female coworkers a little while ago and they were telling me about this “creepy” experience they had. They said that this guy came up to them and told them that their presentation was nice after they presented it. The guy complimented them but was awkward. How do you win? All he was trying to do was talk to you but now he’s a creep.

@unkownnameless2699

Жыл бұрын

Women labelling men who are unattractive as bad people is going to be an attitude that hurts when very hard when it's finally turned around against them.

@oceanrocks

11 ай бұрын

@@unkownnameless2699Men have been doing it to unattractive women since forever. It goes both ways

@LeeEverett1

11 ай бұрын

Because he didnt win the genetic lottery and they didn't find him attracrive

@Wuehewnqnejejwebdbd

11 ай бұрын

​@oceanrocks We, however, never say they are harassing us, unlike y'all. And we don't ugly people, bad people.

@uraldixon9673

11 ай бұрын

​@@oceanrocksWomen do it more

I was laughed at buy a woman thats a 3 on a good day because she thought my phone wasn't up to her standards!

As a woman i totally agree! It breaks my heart seeing whats going on out in the world today. I've seen countless amounts of Media where women call men wird or disgusting. For simply being polite. No wonder they're so afraid of rejection.

It’s all about her, she never attempts to ask me something about me. If I don’t write, she don’t write.

@KM-wb5zu

Жыл бұрын

With most women

@nathanbeales8900

Жыл бұрын

Even if they do it's always about money

@Rob-hb7wh

Жыл бұрын

Bro, for real. So real, it almost hurts

@murat9268

Жыл бұрын

It is called reciprocity. They make you feel irrelevant. But, they get angry, when you became more and more distant after this treatment.

@sreville

11 ай бұрын

Exactly, attentiveness appears to mean far less than it used to. Many just want the attention and to be asked about, rather than reciprocation, let alone be involved in a conversation. The silver lining at least, is that can make it much easier to lose interest completely and move on from them, once you realise talking to them is a waste of your time.

"The worst thing she could say is no" they said

@mrtyrant1680

10 ай бұрын

I learned the hard way that is bullshit.

@zachxloftin

9 ай бұрын

The worst she could say is" Im a lesbian

@clintonalver2715

8 ай бұрын

The word Creep: Am I a joke to you?

@michaelfriscia8166

8 ай бұрын

Know the worst thing she could say is yes and then ruin your life by being a giant parasite.

@RedTom0

8 ай бұрын

The worst thing she can say is … “ that’s him officer, he is the one that has been harassing me and many other women here” - i just said “good morning “officer

I asked a girl out in middle school, tried to be super respectful about it and everything, never tried anything like it before and I remember her laughing at me and saying no, and proceeding to tell her friends about it, haven’t been able to approach a woman with confidence since, it’s more the fear of disrespect than rejection

@thatguy4d916

7 ай бұрын

Worth mentioning her friends didn’t make things better by poking fun at me and talking about me in classes just loud enough that I could hear them, awful stuff man

Women accused me of being salty because she didn’t want to date me. I wasn’t salty about that, I was salty because I couldn’t stand her pursuing me to be friends after rejecting me. Just leave me the fuck alone! Damn.

@miguelrobb5719

8 ай бұрын

You did good for declining her friendship offer. No use sticking around just to be her emotional dumpster

@joshua50101

5 ай бұрын

She was losing the opportunity of having a walking ATM, or a doormat, a guy in the friendzone or a person that validates her pretty often. What's wrong with you? You def wanted a bit of it. Sounds like a good deal for every man.

@robertfootball1

5 ай бұрын

@@joshua50101 looking back that’s exactly what she was doing. She admitted she had never been in many relationships but had a lot of guy friends.

@hockeyfanatic6630

4 ай бұрын

Dude, WORD!!!

@Meldrick-jv7sy

2 ай бұрын

Good on you man.

It’s not rejection. It’s disrespectful, obnoxious rejection and the social consequences.

I remember asking a girl out and being met with "No way, in your dreams", so I came back with "Looks like I just dodged a bullet."

@CommandoMaster

Жыл бұрын

Girls are super entitled these days. They won't give most men a chance.

@superklown4087

Жыл бұрын

It’s not a dodge if it’s not even aimed at you

@Jester343

Жыл бұрын

​@@superklown4087 Well it can be. I'll un-metaphor the metaphor if a bullet is shot but it's aimed at somebody in front of you and the shooter is in front of them and they dodge it then it would be coming at you for you to dodge it. Therefore you can dodge a bullet even if it isn't aimed at you.

@timbob1145

Жыл бұрын

@@Jester343 that was some solid work there.

@atompunk5575

Жыл бұрын

Hell, not even close, we're huddling in the trenches, as artillery falls

I’m happily married, but my wife and I have talked about if something happened to her, and how she’d want me to move on and find someone. Told her that if I lose her, I’m NOT going back to dating, I’d rather die a single, widowed father then deal with modern dating.

@rogue_spirit

6 ай бұрын

What about her if she loses you?

I went on literally hundreds of dates before I met my wife, dating was brutal. There was a perception that if I was not making 6 figures, 6 feet tall, handsome like Ryan Reynolds, driving a Mercedes, and hilarious like a professional comedian that I was some kind of loser. Most of the women I dated were just average ladies expecting far beyond average men... most of which couldn't even carry on a conversation or contributed very little. Most couldn't get off the phone for the short time I took them to dinner. It was not a pleasant experience, and that was back in like 2014 before feminism had really taken over like it has now... I can only imagine the nightmare that it is for men today.

Most of them don't even give you the chance to get to know you, they inmediately try to friendzone you instantly, when that happens I just shut the door in their face and move on. I ain't going to be no girls emotional dumpster, which is usually what happens when they friendzone you. Just avoid them in silence, or just tell them you are not interested, both of them usually leaves them flabbergasted, just because a man did not want to be their friend, works like a charm.

@sore_forey9259

Жыл бұрын

Dude this can’t be true, theres something else going on here, women like sex just as much as men, they can’t just friend zone every guy they meet indiscriminately?

@sevenmajesticmcglotten-bon5132

Жыл бұрын

Friend zone a waste of energy FACTS

@markshepard7606

Жыл бұрын

@@sore_forey9259 lol, they are all fucking the giga chad. 6 foot tall, 6 pack abs, 6 figure income, 600 HP car 6" below the waist... you get the idea, aka top 5% this dude knows he has options, treats woman like shit because, why not? they keep throwing themselves at him, after all. then these women turn around and cry "where have all the good men gone" when they hit the wall at 35 after getting railed by 100 dudes. women wouldn't know what a good man looked like if it hit them in the face, witch a good man wont, for more than one reason.

@nicolajane7389

Жыл бұрын

@@sore_forey9259 gen z is having less sex all round. The recent resurgence in the manosphere has lead to the old double standards again, men are studs women are 304s or something. Living exclusively online doesn’t help, people don’t remember how to relate to each other, how to give and read cues, how to develop confidence. Then they hear the manosphere telling them it’s all women’s fault which makes them both angry and despondent and virtually guaranteed not to get what they want. It’s not rocket science.

@sore_forey9259

Жыл бұрын

@Eros Caerus I dunno man, perhaps the most unsightly of the gender go without, but I’d say most have as much pork sausage as they like.

Asking out a co-worker is considered sexual harassment and a terminable offense. No warning. Every man is treated like a sex offender and 'creep' means 'not attractive enough to be asking me out' based on some nebulous criteria where a room temperature body count, tats, and an anti-depressant habit are somehow desirable. You can be a '10' or you can be 250lbs. You can't be both. Women seem to think since they were once bedded by a 6'2" guy making $150k that somehow they can marry a 6'2" guy making $150k if they just wait long enough. It is madness. Women have totally overplayed their hand and made a huge mistake listening to the angry, man-hating lesbians teaching their Feminist Studies class. And even if a man does manage to marry she can leave him for any reason or no reason at all and walk off with half of what he's earned, the kids, and child support. 80% of divorce is initiated by women, usually over finances, not infidelity.

@sarahnobelois3085

4 ай бұрын

Don't know where country you're talking aboit but in mine, infidelity is the first cause of divorce (then there is egoism, personnality compatibility, lack of compassion, excessive jealousy, etc and only 10% are because of financial problèms, which is as much as divorces because of problems with your in-laws). Divorces are indeed more initiated by women (when it was mostly by men before), they are at the origin of ¾ of divorces, but I think conjugal violences might also play a role on this number since women are more victims of it than men

@hockeyfanatic6630

3 ай бұрын

@@sarahnobelois3085 Women definitely are the victims considering that domestic abuse is highest among lesbian couples.

I ran into a 42 year old woman, never married. At first she seemed fun etc. After a short while she'd try to humiliate me in front of other guys. She'd talk to me for a minute or two then walk away and talk with other guys. I told her to go away.

It's true about the creep part. You can barely talk to women anymore without them thinking a guy is a creep. At the same time, those same women are creepy themselves or just toxic as fck.

@dreamsociety3421

Жыл бұрын

or on antidepressants

@stateofalawites4039

Жыл бұрын

​@@dreamsociety3421 stop using this expression Antidepressants have nothing to do with this or anything else

@adriannegonzalez3277

10 ай бұрын

Most of the time you aren't actually a creep she just didn't find you attractive so the interaction made her feel uncomfortable men just wait for a woman to approach you and if they aren't evaluate yourself honestly and level up

@bms2010

10 ай бұрын

​@@adriannegonzalez3277how about you women stop judging us based off of what you see on social media a s what you are trained to like

Go talk to a random woman and at least 75% of the time you're met with rudeness like "who the fck are you talking to me?"

@CommandoMaster

Жыл бұрын

I have a BF is the most common. Then it's not interested or she walks away like ur a weirdo for trying to talk to her.

@Shotzno

Жыл бұрын

I agree but that’s why you need to get used to rejection because that’s how it’s been forever. The guys that do can get tons of women. I for one couldn’t take it so I feel ya.

@treznor6992

Жыл бұрын

yep got that today and i wasn't even trying to hit on her, i just happened to be getting back into my car after i saw the grocery store closed. then she pulled up and i tried to tell her it was closed and she acted like how dare you talk to me.

@BoleDaPole

Жыл бұрын

75% of the time you get a rude response?? What do you say to them lol

@savire.ergheiz

Жыл бұрын

​@@BoleDaPole You get even if you dont say anything, thats the beauty of a woman 😂

I think the main issue is women don’t create the opportunities for us to approach them. They seem angry and hostile out in public and always on their phones. They never smile, or say good morning/good evening etc, or exchange looks. Even if we talk to them it’s usually a forced conversation where we have to carry it and they act like we need to move mountains to even be worthy of talking to them. I blame everyone. Parents, society, women, men. Everyone is to blame and everyone needs to do better.

@faisalalenezi4662

7 ай бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@rogue_spirit

6 ай бұрын

💯💯💯 👏🏻

@vliciouss

6 ай бұрын

.

@Sisisjehdjdjsh

5 ай бұрын

because most of the time while men are scared of rejection women are literally scared for they’re lives and don’t want to be put in a position where if they say no something bad could happen to them

@joshua50101

5 ай бұрын

@@Sisisjehdjdjsh Only a small % of men are rapist. And the ones that are, have their way of operating. What the hell are you talking about?

Gen X here. I have never been shy to approach women. Especially very attractive. Nothing to lose but time. Everything to gain. Now I am married.

I'm 74, and used a single text message to ask a 69-year old woman to go to church with me. She accused me of stalking her.

@RAYX07

Жыл бұрын

You deserve better king 👑

@cathyandresiak

Жыл бұрын

She is afraid of you, for what reason, I do not know.

@x_MrYAYA_x

Жыл бұрын

Holy shiitt.... I thought women drop the games as they age.

@rebsarge

Жыл бұрын

@@x_MrYAYA_x I reckon most do, but it's like crossing a mine field on a pogo stick.

@x_MrYAYA_x

Жыл бұрын

@@rebsarge 😂 great visual analogy.

For me, I can relate to the one that says "I have nothing to offer but a boring life". This is too real for me. I'm a lowkey dude, I like to be alone a lot, but I know a lot of girls are social butterflies and I'm just not like that. I wouldn't say that's a flaw on women's part though, I'm just a shy dude.

@bradyvelvet9432

Жыл бұрын

I said this in a different video - don’t think in terms of “approaching” a girl. The key is to look out for a “bonding” moment with a young lady. Offer to let the girl go ahead of you in a grocery line or if both of you witnessed a bank robbery you both have something to talk about. Also, this is big - if you want to be an interesting person, you have to DO interesting things. And don’t do these things for girls - do it FOR YOURSELF. Baby steps - so small things to improve yourself - learn a second language, master a recipe, grow a bonsai tree, take an art class. The key is to gradually ADD to your repertoire. Eventually you’re gonna look in the mirror and suddenly realize all this cool stuff you know how to do and then you’ll start feeling good about yourself and guess what - that positive energy will be picked up by others, including girls. Remember, the key to attracting girls is to love yourself first - the rest will follow.

@afreakingtree

Жыл бұрын

I dont like to be alone but im asocial and dont do anything 😢

@CockyBalboa

Жыл бұрын

You don’t have to be social,just assertive. Most girls want to hang out alone if they’re interested in you anyway. Hanging out at your house and cooking for them, watching a movie and talking pretty much is the best date night you can give them anyway, almost always leads to the bedroom.

@treznor6992

Жыл бұрын

it's absolutely a flaw on women's part. it's a weakness they are biologically born with. women are incapable of forming their own opinions or thoughts. they need to be led by a strong man or they group up and destroy everyone around them. it's sad

@keithbell9348

Жыл бұрын

Women are attracted to guys with genuine confidence. It isnt something that one is born with. It has to be developed. Do research on how to develop it. Don't worry about the women, that will come later. Next step: little by little learn to open up and step out of your own shell. Be interested in others and they will show interest in you. Many guys have discovered that when they do this, and aren't looking for a partner, she will show up and find you!

From intermediate/middle school to my early 20s I've been laughed at, told I was ugly, basically humiliated just by trying to initiate any type of conversation. I've had a handful of relationships but only let 1 person in and got cheated on. All these caused me to quit dating. I've been single for 10+ years. I'm relieved to see that this video. It shows I'm not alone.

@JD-dw2bw

7 ай бұрын

Get your passport. SE. Asia and the Philippines, you'll find women who are worth your time and affection.

Meeting women is easy. Finding a quality person is hard.

This is 100% CORRECT! Even in the 90’s. I’d have girls staring at me for HOURS! I’d finally think, “she’s definitely interested.” I’d approach them and I’d get the, “UHH! As if! Like totally!” And I mean every time I’d glance they were staring. WTF IS THAT!?🤔

@504cp

Жыл бұрын

That's women testing their bait. I've learned a lot of them try to attract you just to see they are still desired. They like to make sure they "still got it." It's toxic AF. But a lot of girls are teases. They're whole life evolves around 2 things. Men's attention and the NEED to be desired. Even if the desire comes from ugly dudes. They need all men to desire them.

@sevenmajesticmcglotten-bon5132

Жыл бұрын

Any hesistation is viewed by women as weakness (hes not approching bc he has aids or some other horrible reason to not b confident etc)

@happyapple4269

Жыл бұрын

You probably had some shit on your lip or something.

@n.sadequi4381

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes girls give chosing Signals just to make random guys come up to them. They were never attracted to u they just wanted to feel pretty and wanted.

@devinreed5725

Жыл бұрын

beta simp

Once I hit my late 30s I realized they need us way more than we need them. Turns into a headache after a month.

@ModMax69

Жыл бұрын

after the first bang

@FranekWrobel-hp7zp

Жыл бұрын

I realize it in early thirties.

@edelweiss-

Жыл бұрын

Wdym

@Mike-In-O-Town

Жыл бұрын

Bingo. I'm a bit older than you are and had a woman flirt with me at a party recently. I simply smiled and asked her "How much?" She walked off in a snit and I went back to enjoying my evening.

@patrickstogsdill74

Жыл бұрын

Lol 😂

Not afraid of rejection... afraid to fall in love and she'll destroy my life just like every woman before them.

The "i have nothing to offer but a boring life" is so sad. No life is boring if you live it with someone you love.

@joshua50101

5 ай бұрын

If you traslated that well enough, it would be sth more like: I won't give you the ups and downs, the adrenaline of a bad boy, I am so predictable, so loyal that your dady issues and trauma won't fit with my lifestyle.

@STARDRIVE

4 ай бұрын

Boring is good. It´s underrated.

I worked at target and would try to be nice and positive to all my coworkers, both male and female, asking how they’re days going etc.. not even being flirty in the slightest. Turns out all the girls were telling each other I was a creep, simply because I talked to them and tried to be nice, so I stopped talking to them, and just did my job and went home

@WolffQuam

11 ай бұрын

Wow man... It's terrible how a lot of women acts this days. You can't even talk to them anymore without being called a creep or whatever. And if you are flirty, it's even worse. Espacially for men like me who barely go out, I'm very homebody. So basically, I need to be flirty with girls I don't know yet. But if I do, I'm called a creep. So the solution would be to be flirty with a girl I know, but how can I know a girl if I can't even approach them in the start... It's just depressing honestly.

@3skFq7pSM8tcFfF

10 ай бұрын

You are doing the right thing. A lot of people at work aren't your friend. Go to work, get your paycheck, and go home. It's better than being misunderstood by girls who don't have anything better to do.

One thing THAT NEEDS to be mentioned: Women tend to feel like you are solely responsible for making them feel some way, ex. "he made me feel uncomfortable" But on the other hand, she can do the man dirty and then play the "you're responsible for your feelings" followed by a victim card, when the man speaks up for himself

@winterwulf1995

5 ай бұрын

Well that's because women are all selfish monsters who think they're the main character

@hockeyfanatic6630

4 ай бұрын

Perfectly summed up!!

Keep your heads up, Kings. 🤴👑 Never let a woman determine your worth. Never let anyone but yourself determine your worth.

@rogue_spirit

6 ай бұрын

👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻

@hockeyfanatic6630

4 ай бұрын

Women say that about themselves and get praised for it. If we say it we’re misogynistic and insecure. I’m totally done with their BS.

Not having money will get you called a creep

It's not fun when you work up the courage to go talk to someone and they reject you and then she sits there and laughs with her girlfriends about how you don't meet her standards and call you a creep.

@CommandoMaster

Жыл бұрын

I have a BF is the most common. Then it's not interested or she walks away like ur a weirdo for trying to talk to her.

@BlakeGurnee

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@akiheavenly6

Жыл бұрын

Oh I see a keypoint why you failed here! You approached her when she's having fun with her friends! Be honest, you came up to her when she was talking or in the middle of a conversation, didn't you? So you interrupted her while she was talking or busy doing something. Do you understand now why your interruption is met with an annoyed attitude from the woman? Timing is everything, my guy. Approach a girl when she's not busy with something and when she's in a place where she feels safe. So don't talk to her when she's alone on a street at night. Don't come up to her when you see she's engaged in a long conversation with her friends. Introduce yourself and make your intentions known straight away when you step up to her. Don't hit her with one-liners or dumb questions; she'll be thinking the whole time what does this man wants from me. The longer you are in front of her without introducing yourself and making your intentions known, the more of a creep you become to her.

@sulemanmughal5397

Жыл бұрын

We have all been their bro

@nerdyginger7430

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, it's not necessarily the rejection. It's the humiliation they create afterwards. Like, is it really that hard to say "he seemed sweet but just wasn't interested?" Like I've actually rejected a girl before. She was a little to abnormal for me. But I never said anything like that to my friends. Just that I wasn't feeling any interest at that moment.

I've made the choice to stay single for the last seven years. The last couple of relationships really fucked me, and my life, up.

@briankellogg7241

Жыл бұрын

Amen bro

@hoedemakerbart

Жыл бұрын

Im single for the last 15 years. Don't regret it. Piece of mind not worth the pussy

@AlexHarrisDigital

Жыл бұрын

Same man. 8 years for me.

@ryanjacob8568

Жыл бұрын

I’m going on 10 years. Got totally fed up after dealing with the same crap over and over again.

@thenotanclan

Жыл бұрын

Yup - all they want to do is force change upon you - then they leave you ‘because you’ve changed’

I was out with my friend about a year ago and I approached two women and asked if they had boyfriends (so I didn't seem rude and if they were single me and my friend could talk to them) and they just laughed, haven't spoken to a women since hahah

Just got rejected yesterday, in a way that afforded me no dignity. Then she thanked me lol, like feeding her vanity is some sort of consolation. The whole thing is one sided.

Here's one;.. when you talk to a lady, she acts shocked, petrified, bewildered

@elpatron7916

Жыл бұрын

And hateful

@McKeeW10000

Жыл бұрын

Well, the shocked and petrified thing can come back to bite you in the ass if she decides to tell someone who has some authority that you made her uncomfortable. She's now labeled you a predator and you're in trouble for it. 💯

@daveman5860

Жыл бұрын

@@McKeeW10000 weird comment breh 😆⚡

Worst response I ever got was "Eww. No" after saying "Hi". How does one recover from that?

@eswain28

Жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one who got this before

@andrecostermans7109

Жыл бұрын

Respond; 'yikes' , than pinch your nose strongly as there was an unnameble stench and walk away with some fear in your eyes .

@mangosaurusrex3416

Жыл бұрын

From just “hi” lmao? If that’s the case you dodged a 50. cal with that bitch

@michaelparsons2290

Жыл бұрын

Just smile and keep on going. Don't let that get you down. Their are plenty of women that won't act that way.

@cathyandresiak

Жыл бұрын

That is extremely rude, any women that says that to a man is an immature brat and isn't worth your time.

No, ladies. 100% keep it up. You are getting EXACTLY what you have asked for. Keep being brutally and remorselessly cruel to men. We’ll be fine in the long run.

@RANDassociatesinc

8 ай бұрын

@@angelrios4775 when looking at the whole this is sad but true. The bible describes all this rather thoroughly.

@olihausermann5379

7 ай бұрын

@@RANDassociatesinc where in the bible? Which verses?

@RANDassociatesinc

7 ай бұрын

@@olihausermann5379 suggestion: pick up a bible for the first time in your life. Open it. Start reading it. Annddd….find all your answers.

@Croissant..61

7 ай бұрын

Have fun being single your whole life😊

@filippavlakovic4478

7 ай бұрын

​@@Croissant..61as if it's a bad thing nowadays

It's the saying "hi" asking an icebreaker like "crazy weather today, huh?" And getting a completely rude or egotistical reply. You want no contact, message recieved LOUD and clear!

I was talking to a girl a week ago and I thought no was the worst reaction I could get, so I asked her out and she said “ew, no you look like Sid from ice age”. obliterated my self worth

@sayitaintso417

Жыл бұрын

That’s vile.

@protorhinocerator142

Жыл бұрын

This says more about her than it does you. Don't give horrible people control over your self-worth.

@erinkarendaring7021

Жыл бұрын

The wall will get her, don't worry, just take of urself

@McKeeW10000

Жыл бұрын

That's a prime example why I don't try to talk to a woman in person anymore. Of course, being ignored when you write on dating sites is quite deflating as well. 😔

@TheRisible

Жыл бұрын

That is next level nasty. Don’t worry bro you wouldn’t want to date a women like that anyway. Just based off that response I can tell you she’s not worth it.

Ok guys. One of two thing's a female has to offer is pooder or a lawsuit if you don't meet their standards to even approach them. They've made themselves a scary gender.

@bellagatto9670

Жыл бұрын

That's been the goal of feminism: to destroy families. Best way to shut it down is to make women so toxic men won't even approach them.

I always makes the first move with confidence, well dressed and then..... they don't show up at the first date after getting her number. I don't understand.

It's not about the rejection. It's the public ridicule & harassment that often follows, in addition to gossip and slander once you leave.

I was in Starbucks once and I noticed a small bug in a young girls hair. She was at least in her early 20's. I looked at her her so I could tell her she had a bug in her hair and she got mad and started cussing at me in front of everybody. I looked away without saying anything and everybody looked at me like I was a creep. After she left, I told people that I saw a bug in her hair and I was going to tell her, but after she cussed at me, I let her carry the bug in her hair. Some other guys noticed the bug too and they said, they noticed the bug too but they didn't want to say anything for the way women act nowadays. So, I decided to let women die without help!

@hawshimagical

Жыл бұрын

wow, what an ending

@NobleWolf.

Жыл бұрын

@@hawshimagical yup! If I ever see a Western feminist woman in danger, I will just look and walk away. Feminism makes Western women repulsive, undesirable, and worthless. They will all die alone!

@protorhinocerator142

Жыл бұрын

A well played "fine be that way" encounter. I'd have done the same.

@fmills1583

Жыл бұрын

I feel that I am not alone when I say I am not offended by last sentence, BTW.

@415campos4

Жыл бұрын

​@@hawshimagical 😂😂😂

Personally when I’m walking around & smiling, saying hi to people. It’s so often that when I’m walking past a women she won’t even make eye contact, so if women aren’t even willing to look you in the eye and say hello like a polite human, you’re not going to get me to want to get your number if you’re that closed off.

@bobbyscalchi4013

Жыл бұрын

I had that same thought 20 years ago. That's when my mind shifted from "I'm not good enough, to Im f#ckin awesome!" I only want to interact with people that are receptive to me. 6 billion people on the planet. Why would I give a $hit about anyone that wasn't receptive to who I am and what I have to offer if they can't have the patience and longevity to stick around and find out?

@ihikebc2295

Жыл бұрын

Chances are these women are already taken, and they do not wish to smile / make eye contact and make you think they are interested in you hitting on them, so don't take it personally.

@jaaptendijk7192

Жыл бұрын

Fr women think acting tough and resting bitch face is attractive and inviting. I think because they like it on guys, but we like joyful friendly smiling feminine women

@romans003

Жыл бұрын

Very good point

@AlexHarrisDigital

Жыл бұрын

@@ihikebc2295 yeh this. They don’t even know you exist. Quite sad really. And when they do it’s only when they are moving from one branch to the next. It’s always about them not you.

Can’t be rejected by her if you reject her by not talking to her.

@Goose-sp3zk

Жыл бұрын

lol yeeeeees

@inorite4553

Жыл бұрын

Rejectception!!!!!

@_khaine

Жыл бұрын

Yeah they won't care.

@lambmaster27

Жыл бұрын

But then no one’s connecting at that point lol

@ajaypanhani5350

Жыл бұрын

@@lambmaster27 and?

The reason I don’t date is because my ex destroyed me, and my focus is on my kids only.

FINALLY a woman from my generation understands how men in my generation feel thank you for making this video and understanding 🙏🙏🙏

"Nothing to offer them except boring, normal life"

@lilben4184

Жыл бұрын

Most women are boring and normal yet they think they deserve a man that isn't? LOL in your dreams 304

@Mykhos

Жыл бұрын

Like @w1cked Rcl said, boring normal thing/life like love,familly, share, support, work, litles moments. Like they seem worthless , if thier feeling/excitment arent over the top ... 🤷🏻‍♂️🤦‍♂️

@Feature0311

Жыл бұрын

Yyyyyep, Apparently paying my bills, putting food in the fridge, keeping my place clean and in order is not enough anymore. They want you to spend 1000s on them, take them across the world, fancy dinners every months. Blah blah blah while they do nothing. Thats not ALL of them, but its a rarity to find a decent woman whose under 35 that also isnt knocked up already with kids.

@Zach-ju5vi

11 ай бұрын

I felt that one. I feel average so I feel like I don't have a shot even though I'm probably much better off than most. I like being a nice person and upstanding citizen but it's always looked at as weakness by women.

@andrewrobertson3894

11 ай бұрын

Be patient, guys. Time is on our side. We, as men, get better with age. Being nattached, free of debt, with savings, a nice car, a nice pad and no baggage. Work towards it and bide your time. The worm will certainly turn and we hold all the power.

I have 3 reasons 1. I have nothing to offer a woman except myself and that has never been acceptable. 2. The environment around dating is too dangerous for a Man these days, 1 wrong misstep and you’re up on a s*xual harassment charge or worse. 3. I have autism and that means a couple of things. 1, I am socially awkward and don’t understand the social rules so a misstep that could get me on a s*xual harassment charge (or worse) is easy to happen and I won’t understand what happened. 2, I have difficulties that will never go away and need lifelong support, it will take a miracle to find someone who is willing to work with that. I’m doomed.

@Fred-ff6bv

Жыл бұрын

this is me in a nutshell.

@MonterreyBlueman66

Жыл бұрын

Your not doomed overseas 😊

@thedragonreborn9856

Жыл бұрын

@@MonterreyBlueman66 Even they want someone to look after them, especially financially, these days getting a job that isn’t a delivery job is incredibly difficult and right now I don’t even have a car for delivery jobs

@Sonicstillpoint83

Жыл бұрын

I was convinced that I was the problem until I spent a summer study abroad program in Germany. Because everyone intuitively understood that I would not understand all of the local customs, that was just enough for me to be able t begin a conversation and take it from there. Even people in a random coffee shop were willing to just talk to a stranger: from janitors to models. i’ve never felt that socially included or confident in my life no matter how many skills I acquire. Just remember that you are most likely not the problem but the other people are. The more you work on yourself, have fun doing it and focus on the people who didn’t want you around, the more you can be confident that you are becoming better and better person.

@MonterreyBlueman66

Жыл бұрын

@@Sonicstillpoint83 Funny how that works I went through the same thing in Mexico. No it,s not us. And I now have been with my foreign wife for 30 years ending those problems.

Rejection isn’t the thing that scares me, what scares me is I don’t who the girl is, I don’t know if she is crazy or has some mental issues, and then shortly after, even though everything seems to be ok, I get accused of harassment and being investigated.

Spot on! I approached a woman a couple of days ago after yrs of not doing so and it went fairly well. She wasn't too helpful, but I felt confident. I'm gearing up for many more!

One was missing. She's buried in her phone continuously as if she really doesn't want to be spoken to by anyone outside of her phone.

@melissachartres3219

Жыл бұрын

It's no accident that they always have earbuds stuck in their head.... they DO NOT WANT to be approached.

@R3FL3CTI0NS.

11 ай бұрын

​@@melissachartres3219Anyone who has earbuds in doesn't wanna be approached lmao. Personally, listening to white noise or static helps me with sensory overload in social spaces. I barely go out anyways, partly for that exact reason.

I don't need more problems in my life.

As a boy, and asking a girl out, because of peer pressure, and getting rejected, I feel that

They're just using dm's instead, and plenty are still making a pass at them

Due to past experiences and social anxiety, most of the time I feel like I’m bothering a girl if I talk to her unless she’s already a close friend

@treznor6992

Жыл бұрын

bro the good thing is women have no problem whatsoever letting you know you bother them. talk to them and sometimes they talk back, the ones who act like you're bothering them end the conversation and move on.

@xicetrayx2023

11 ай бұрын

I feel that, but also there are so many girls out there that feel alone that want someone to talk to! Pretty girls and not so pretty girls alike. Don’t give up on talking to them just because you’ve been rejected or they’ve acted like you’re bothering them. Instead remember and realize that there is only 1 girl out there for you… she’s just waiting on you to say hi and talk to her. There may be a few dragons that need slaying along the way but the princess is at the end waiting on you. Then there will be no more slaying my friend.

Yes, the fear of rejection is new. Mine came in the mail yesterday.

In current society, men have been taught that any unwanted attention is harassment: it’s a catch-22 for them. How do you know the attention is unwanted unless you ask (asking requires interaction/attention)?

Last time I asked a woman for her number ,she looked me up and down and laughed "you really think I'd go out with you" in front of the whole pub too. That was unpleasant to say the least.

@CommandoMaster

Жыл бұрын

That sucks dude. Not interested is the most common. Or they find an excuse to leave u.

@VastIceGaming

Жыл бұрын

That's when you say loudly and proudly, "I clearly misjudged you. I withdraw my request." Then walk away grateful you didn't end up buying dinner for an uppity wretch with an attitude problem.

@CommandoMaster

Жыл бұрын

Or the girl's friend will try to save her by lying and saying she has a BF. Usually girls will try to avoid confrontation or directly hurting ur feelings by rejecting u.

@dragonkingsports

Жыл бұрын

I said hi to a girl outside a club and she just looked at me and said “Nope”. Lol

@VastIceGaming

Жыл бұрын

@@dragonkingsports Future member of the "Where Have All the Good Men Gone?" Club.

That second one. Gentlemen, don't you ever let a woman make you feel you're not worthy enough to talk to them. I fell for that BS in high school and it's not but psych. If you yourself, don't feel you're worthy step up your game, but don't ever let them put that on you, if you're a man, they you're more than worthy!

@sumomaster5585

Жыл бұрын

I struggle with that and just being a man doesn't mean shit...some men somehow are great with women, but many of us here struggle to even get a date

@averythecoolcat

Жыл бұрын

@@sumomaster5585 Yes, but at that point it's where you have to believe in yourself and have confidence. No, it's not easy, it's fucking hard. Women sometimes invent new and improved ways to make men feel insecure about approaching them, but have to take a hard look at yourself and ask what is it that makes *me* special. Stop making them so important, like if I don't get them, then I'm nothing. Do something, excel at something. You like to play music, do that. You like to play ball, do that. Find something that makes you special, focus on that and build confidence that way. The better you start to feel about yourself and who you are, the easier it will be to get women, because they will see it and believe me it gets easier and easier. It all starts with you. 🙂

@farojaco

Жыл бұрын

Really difficult in today's society but i have been able to get better with this working really really hard on my self-esteem

@randallcomeaux5111

Жыл бұрын

@ Avery Pack hell yeah. That’s exactly the kind of advice young men need to hear.

@averythecoolcat

Жыл бұрын

@@randallcomeaux5111 Thanks! Indeed! I went through it.

I'm hyping myself up over here, my last rejection was so bad, I almost don't want to try anymore

"Where are all the good men with a stable job, a car and who treat their women right?" - in your friend zone.

Everytime I try to talk to a girl I end up being called a creep no matter what I talk about no matter what I say so I just don't even try anymore

@averythecoolcat

Жыл бұрын

Hmm...every girl? Time to look in the mirror and find out why that is and I'm serious I'm not saying that to be insulting, but sounds like there's something about you that they're finding "creepy" if it's every girl...

@mikesmotorsportsgamingrevi4814

Жыл бұрын

@@averythecoolcat nothing wrong with me besides a little overweight. Raised right polite and chivalrous.

@benitocamela174

Жыл бұрын

@@mikesmotorsportsgamingrevi4814 a little? Bruh.. get your ass in the gym and i can assure you those women will change up fast

@averythecoolcat

Жыл бұрын

@@mikesmotorsportsgamingrevi4814 The overweight isn't the thing for me, so much as the chivalry part. It's a good thing, but what we nice guys can do (I'm reformed) is to overdo it, to the point that we try to hard to prove to them were safe. (Like sending her roses and we just met a week ago) I'm not saying that's what you're doing, but some times you can try so hard to be nice, that it seems intense to them, and it scares some girls off. It something to think about girls can be weird like that. I would say loose maybe tone down the chivalry just a little bit and see what happens. I'm saying this blindly though from my own experience, I don't know what your approach is like.

@mikesmotorsportsgamingrevi4814

Жыл бұрын

@@averythecoolcat it was nothing like that I agreed with what she said when she said her and her sister look alike or saying a girl has a beautiful smile

As an average man I get rejected 80-90% of the time. Rejection stings but it’s no big deal. The problem is roughly have of those rejections can be cruel. Getting called out rudely, treated like some lesser human, and being embarrassed. Spoken in such a way that if a man had done that violence would occur. Only with women you have to swallow that shit down and walk away with what feels like all eyes on you. You can’t retaliate or hit them because other men would attack you, you would go to jail, you would be labeled as a man that beats women and you would never have a chance with dating another women in that state. You just have to eat the disrespect. Who in TF do women think they are to go to that level when a simple “not interested” would suffice.

@peopleofearth6250

Жыл бұрын

If you don't like that then change it, and if you can't then STFU.

@andrecostermans7109

Жыл бұрын

Respond; yeh , I hear you , I never ever was interested in you anyway , just wanted to see your reaction , proofs me right ... allelujah .

@deadcell1

Жыл бұрын

A 10% success rate is very good. Mine hovers between 5-7% and it varies based on how I dress and the environment I'm in. Dating is like a card game, even the worst player can win a few games if he plays long enough.

@user-ko9tc1go3h

Жыл бұрын

Lol so you wanna hit people because they hurt your feelings?

@jecsquire9508

Жыл бұрын

@@user-ko9tc1go3h The main reason a lot of the shitty behavior perpetuates in society is because plenty of people have never been hit, and think it'll never happen to them: don't be a c*nt, don't end up with a fist in you. Not saying go out and hit people, but if you're a dick AND you've never been hit, then stay in your safe little bubble and never go to an inner city, or you'll learn to act differently real rapid.

I hope you win the lottery young lady. That is all sadly true. I am older and have given up at this point... my fear is for all the 20 - 30 something males. I see what's going on and hope all of this changes, for their sakes.

Modern women will never change.No partner,no kids.

If someone doesn't return eye contact, there is an 80% chance they want nothing to do with you.

@Vegetoyesh

Жыл бұрын

I don't like maintaining long eye contact.

@glennhavinoviski8128

Жыл бұрын

Most people under 25 have no idea what eye contact is.

@chebaca8

Жыл бұрын

​@@glennhavinoviski8128 that's so tru

I spent weeks plucking up the courage to talk to a girl in a club i used to go to. When i eventually said hi, she just gave me this look as if i was bothering her. I said "shall i just f off?" she replied. "Yep" That's the last time i approached a woman.

@viktor2338

Жыл бұрын

You approached wrong woman

@mattbarnard1

Жыл бұрын

@@viktor2338 I did. She was a cnt.

@ihikebc2295

Жыл бұрын

Here's a tip. If you like a girl, approach her, say "excuse me, I got to run now, but I have a small business to discuss with you, so here is my number, call me when you have a chance". Give her a piece of paper with your name and number (just GIVE it to her, don't stand there hoping she would stick her hand out), and then immediately walk away. If she likes you, she will get in touch. Then, you would say you liked her and wondering if she would be interested in going out. Rejection is much less awkward over the phone than in person. And, if she calls, chances are she won't say no. Try it, man, life is all about taking chances!

@ferd1775

Жыл бұрын

​@@ihikebc2295 this is solid advice

@tomberver1075

Жыл бұрын

Don’t look for a woman in the club lol

This is so facts I actually asked out 22 girls today in public and was kind and they all rejected me. Most woman aren’t kind like you 🤦‍♂️ your awesome 😊

Kindness is the sexiest flair a person can ever have, i thought about a while ago. And my opinion still stands

I have a friend that is a successful and good looking man. He spent two months trying to get to know this woman only to find out from one of her friends that she had a one night stand with a complete loser with face tattoos and no car.😂 Needless to say, he came to his senses immediately and pursued other options. Wth is wrong with these women??

@MasterBlaster3545

Жыл бұрын

You can be a good looking guy and find it hard to get laid. You can be the £@ttest ugli£$t girl and because she has that between her legs, she will never have a problem.

@korinogaro

Жыл бұрын

Nothing changed in women, there is just no social pressure anymore and fast slapping consequences are no longer in place (no correcting mechanism). So their nature can show it's true face uncontested in a full sun for everyone to see.

I'm afraid to approach a girl I think is cute because I don't want to end up being publicly shamed or be called a weirdo/creep. I already have rock bottom self esteem and I'm afraid of it possibly going any lower

@amadeuscrossing7061

Жыл бұрын

Facts

@whitewolf6730

Жыл бұрын

What is funny about that is that when aI was single, I was very confident and did not even care. My Dsd told me “Son, there’s other fish in the sea”. Dad was right. I only got turned down once, but she was nice about it. Even funnier, I asked her to go a concert with me because I heard she was lonely and was crying herself to sleep! I am fairly attractive, even 47 years later I catch the eye from younger women even. But, the gist of the story was that back in High School I used to make fun of the way she laughed and probably she did not want to go somewhere with a smart Ass like me. But it worked out….for me anyway, I married a prettier girl and we have been married 44 years.

@saramayr5416

Жыл бұрын

Why should anyone do that if u just say sth normal to someone? U r weird bc u said hi? Makes no sense. Build ur self esteem up. Why is it so low? Do u think u have nothing to offer? Build urself up so u have sth to offer. And aim for a woman in ur league not higher. It won't work 99% of the time. Most men get rejected bc they aim for women who r way out of their league.

@denisborzov8406

Жыл бұрын

@@whitewolf6730 and the relevance of your story is..? Sounds like you just wanted to brag. By the way, the times have changed, drastically. Being perceived as "creepy" back then was less likely and wasn't as risky.

@katherinechase3674

Жыл бұрын

There is nothing wrong with taking your time, and letting things happen naturally, like in a friends first scenario. Most people aren't part of this 1% silliness.

Here Queen , you dropped this 👑

Being labelled as a creep, is number one… i’m married and thankfully not in this situation, but I totally get it!

It's not fear of rejection for me. It's the fact that I like women with friendly personalities and warm smiles, yet all I've encountered in the last few years are women with permanent RBF. And RBF doesn't translate to "friendly personality" to me. So there's no reason for me to approach if she is already telling me she will be a headache.

@freakinccdevilleiv380

Жыл бұрын

Not even eye contact. Today's wmn have zero "game"

@hawshimagical

Жыл бұрын

sounds like you know how to tell right away if someone is the wrong person for you. use that to find a good one

@manuelhernandez2430

Жыл бұрын

I feel like there is no such thing as rbf. Never met a person with rbf and was actually pleasant. Also never met a happy looking person who was mean. Rbf is an exterior representation of the inside

@mikeypeinado383

Жыл бұрын

Wtf is rbf mean plz

@hawshimagical

Жыл бұрын

@@mikeypeinado383 resting beach face. when somebody looks angry/disgruntled by default

Easier to pay prostitutes

@0rez1

Жыл бұрын

“That‘s misogynistic!” the same people who call sex work female empowerment 😂

@SpiralPegasus

Жыл бұрын

Can't tell whether the original comment or the response is more blessed

@Han-nk3io

Жыл бұрын

@@0rez1 some chicks said men that pay prostitutes are disgusting but they support onlyfans 😂

@0rez1

Жыл бұрын

@@Han-nk3io backwards logic seems undefeated lmao

@m.t-thoughts8919

11 ай бұрын

@@0rez1 Well still hoes atleast they are direct with it. Thanks for making it easy for us, lol

Worried being Judged 👍

..you did some dirty work for sooo many of us, thanks and deep respect for that..!! 🤗 hugg for you..

Finally a mature woman 💯

@beckysam3913

Жыл бұрын

no, she seeks appreciation from men, she is craving attention from males. its unhealthy to pressure women and make them guilty for nothing. cis male tears. lol

@sacrosanctus318

Жыл бұрын

Not really, she's just cashing in on this trend.

@m.t-thoughts8919

11 ай бұрын

@@sacrosanctus318 Yep, I'm just here for the comments

That Tik Tok reference was right out of the ball park. A girl I was talking to created a fake number and asked me to guess who it was. So I guessed , responded with a different name because I literally got off the phone with the girl I was dating not that long before the message. She Accused me of cheating and posted the convo on Tik Tok and went viral. So she said that she’s gonna ghost me on the video. So I gave her what she wanted. And it wasn’t long until she noticed she made a mistake with me and tried crawling back into my life. And you know what i did. I gave her a taste of her on medicine. Ghosted her ✌🏼👻🤣🤣. These Gen Z women are something else.

@edwardnygma5549

Жыл бұрын

my guy 💪🏿

@Mangix974

Жыл бұрын

Gen Z overall is a problem, they be like: "bla bla boomer get a life, avoid facts like in Matrix "😂

I enjoy talking to kind ladies.

My life is peaceful without the chaos

I'm glad you finally got it. It was never about rejection. It was about how we're rejected and humiliated in the process. Telling a guy you have a boyfriend or smiling and saying sorry not interested is how you're supposed to reject someone. Not filming them or humiliating them in public.

@Sagefrakrobatik

Жыл бұрын

A simple "sorry not interested" so you can move on to the next one.

@jobob9643

Жыл бұрын

I'ld like the no thank you one over the social niceties of lies. It's insulting as they are insinuating that your a dangerous creep who wouldn't be able to handing the truth or a tactic to put you into a position for manipulating ie just being friends.. in an unreciprical relationship of giving. (Attention, money&or service.)