I hope she doesn’t get bed or food privileges in her prison cell, because if she did she wouldn’t learn her lesson

@DracoHandsome

10 ай бұрын

you're joking but this is literally what solitary confinement is, a prisoner acts up and they get chucked in a pit and forgotten about for a few hours to a few days

@w2cky400

10 ай бұрын

I also hope in that cell, she cant keep secrets or have any privacy.

@raptorcrasherinc.9823

10 ай бұрын

We shouldn't stoop to her level, but she needs to spend years there until she learns and the children need to be taken away and given real parents.

@rognogog5092

10 ай бұрын

@@raptorcrasherinc.9823 the comment is clearly trying to mock her for what she said about her children during one of her "lessons"

@regan8471

10 ай бұрын

Funny enough a lot of female prisoners will target child abusers (similar to male prisons with pedophiles) so she is going experience some trouble while in there

I am so, so, so tired of CPS failing children.

@ciscornBIG

10 ай бұрын

Well, you'll be extra tired once I tell you that they also sell children :( our foster system feeds child predators and no one stops it.

@cream5439

10 ай бұрын

@@ciscornBIG its like that by design, working as intended.

@yangpaan453

10 ай бұрын

It doesnt really fail children, it has red tape and cannot do anything without enough evidence. I used to get spanked by my parents when I did something wrong, and at the time as a dumb kid I hated them for it. But looking back on it I turned into a well adjusted adult and rarely make big mistakes that I see most zoomers making. If I had the chance I probably wouldve cried to CPS and had they taken me away from my family I always would have regretted it. So it's a good thing CPS does not have the power to simply break up families because the kid asked them to. And it's incredibly ignorant to blame them for this situation.

@CloudyOrchards

10 ай бұрын

@ciscornBIG My mother was a foster kid, she was lucky, my nana was an amazing woman and foster mom. Sounds like shes one of the few. There are... Horrible, horrible stories from so many foster kids, and CPS fails them time and time again. It's genuinely so horrific, and it's not changing. Its not quite a foster situation but a kid my younger brother knows took refuge at my parents place a while, but kept getting sent back to her very abusive(documented, she's got multiple assaults on file) grandma because CPS would rather "keep her in the family." And "not cause unnecessary trauma", cause y'know beaten little girls running half naked to a neighbors home at 2AM is clearly just a "misunderstanding" and "different generation" problem

@hyruleanate

10 ай бұрын

Well, CPS has a long history of child trafficking so. I'd prefer it be dismantled and something else take it's place that actually helps children

Update: the judge has denied her bail, which means she will have to remain in jail until her trial, which could possibly take a year or more

@VSJJSICIIAOJWNJFKFICIIFIISIWJH

9 ай бұрын

today its a good day

@Hello-ll7ht

5 ай бұрын

February 20th of this year is when she gets sentenced!!

@Paleowgh

4 ай бұрын

@@Hello-ll7htLes fuckin gooooooo!

@jt.008

4 ай бұрын

@@Hello-ll7htyooo its the day

@Hello-ll7ht

4 ай бұрын

@@jt.008 AHHHH IT IS

The "how did cps not listen to the actual victim" line was just... They don't, ever, listen to the actual victims unless someone dies. I reported my own stepfather to cps, and I was terrified that they'd mishandle the case like they had with so many others (I'd seen what happened to one of my friends when cps told her abuser to his face who reported him, and I still called them, I was that desperate), but they didn't, because they never even picked it up. I never reached out for help again, and I still have issues trusting reporting agencies.

@airplanemaniacgaming7877

6 ай бұрын

And people wonder why nobody trusts the government that is "supposed to be there for them."

@TheNinja94a

5 ай бұрын

I have no personal experience, but when he said that, I was like, “look up Gabriel Fernandez”

@magicalgrim3471

5 ай бұрын

That’s really rough I hope you’re doing better these days

@yourboy_Vox

4 ай бұрын

child protection services? more like child endangerment services, they sell their kids so potential p3d0s, they have had a history of child trafficking. how is this allowed

@user-mn8bp7uc4r

2 ай бұрын

my sister did that when she was like... 15 for attention (my family is absolutely amazing except my previous step dad he sucks) and they rolled up and nearly took us from our parents in a case with zero evidence... they go too hard in cases with zero evidence and too soft in cases with all the evidence

"food privileges" "bedroom privileges" the fact that such bare necessities were seen as privileges in the household is absolutely terrifying

@CadetRedShirt

10 ай бұрын

This is what narcissists do, they make bare necessities in the home any sort of privilege. I had this happen when i was a kid too and it took a long time to know that it was abuse

@grob420

10 ай бұрын

​@@CadetRedShirtyour not alone man

10 ай бұрын

@@CadetRedShirt I hope you're in a much better place now

@LightBlueVans

10 ай бұрын

my first thought exactly

@venre-gamingandmore4330

10 ай бұрын

@@CadetRedShirtI didn’t realize that my parents were abusive until I joined the military, sometimes being distant gives the necessary view change to see through the lies that cover up abuse

The fact that she was abusive is one thing, the fact that she was successful for openly admitting it is another entirely.

@windy8544

10 ай бұрын

shows you how many such parents are out there

@InstagramUser420

10 ай бұрын

W to Ruby and Jody. L to the kids.

@RobbieStacks90

10 ай бұрын

If we were back in the old days of KZread when users didn't get paid, I guarantee you that at least 9 out of 10 KZreadrs wouldn't act the way they do for the cameras. The ones who aren't spreading wisdom are doing wacky things for clicks.

@DeezN00tz99

10 ай бұрын

probably had a primarily religious fanbase which is fine with beating their children, u want proof go look up how to train up your child from the pearl family, its a whole book on how to physically and mentally abuse their kids.

@PaperPlateClorox

10 ай бұрын

White woman

Not the dad acting like the kids are torn up that their self proclaimed demon of a mom is arrested lol. “Trying to keep the family together after her arrest” sounds more like “I care about my psychotic wife more than my kids.”

@godofmath1039

8 ай бұрын

Have you any idea how taxing it is being a single parent? It's good that she got arrested and is facing justice, but to act like this isn't putting a huge burden on the man for him to have to balance caring for his kids, maintaining the household, and keeping his career so as to be able to financially provide for the family is just incongruous with his reality.

@dimsufferer9951

8 ай бұрын

@@godofmath1039he also perpetrated the abuse, he is not a single father, he’s a single monster and I hope those kids get an *actual* escape because he isn’t it

@zaynes5094

5 ай бұрын

@@godofmath1039 You please, 2 of them are already adults and 3 of the kids are able to work part-time while going to school to help out pay some things.

@relaxxed_

29 күн бұрын

@@zaynes5094 late to the party, but they are already VERY wealthy. I doubt the financial aspect is hard either. AFAIK the two oldest got out as soon as they legally could. The younger ones are the ones that have it really rough

I come from an abusive household. I normally can handle things discussing abuse but this made me ugly cry. Charlie saying “it’s not tough love its FUCKING ABUSE” had me crying not in a good way. I shouldn’t have been abused like I was. I shouldn’t have had to waste so many years trying to drink the pain away. I shouldn’t have had to do years of medication so I didn’t try to kill myself every waking moment. I shouldnt flinch everyone someone raises their hand at me. People don’t realize it but a lot of parents and people deem actual abuse as good parenting. CPS is also to blame. Gabriel Hernandez died from the abuse he received from his parents before CPS even stepped in and said okay that’s enough. It’s tragic.

@stutiarya7623

9 ай бұрын

im so sorry you had to go all through that. i am very proud of you for staying strong man. My parents love me to death but my heart aches to the kids who dont get love from someone they expect the most of it. My heart goes out to all the people who suffer this type of situation. I just pray to god that they get out of it soon and strong. Again, im proud of you man and i hope that you live your life with much more happiness and peace now. Jai shree ram :)

@searsbear7965

9 ай бұрын

@@stutiarya7623 thank you!! I’m much happier now since I’ve left my parents. I hate seeing or knowing that other kids are gettting abused because I know what it’s like firsthand. It’s kind of given me a superpower though that I can easily tell if someone is a good or shitty person. Sucks tho when I know they’re a shitty person and they have kids cause it’s likely they’ll grow up to be suicidal:/

@zipporahh7948

9 ай бұрын

Ik when he said “how did cps not believe the legitimate victim “ flashed me back to the dozens of cops and cps workers therapist etc video audibly and physically having proof of abuse and being told I was hitting Jayden or orchestrating it even as an adult my peers seem to not believe or understand how bad it rly wat

@theregenedmoogles741

9 ай бұрын

I'm a survivor of filicide and extremely severe life threateneing child abuse in a domestically abuisve home, I also saw the documentary of Gabrield Fernandez, and wholeheartedly 100% agree and relate to your comment above. I am now permantelty disabled in multiple ways more than just 3 ways and now need living aid assitnence because of my familys toxic abuse. it has virutally destroyed my life. albiet THANK FUCK I did not grow up in a Family YT channel so at least all those fucking moments of torture were never caught on camera for the world to see, but I feel very strongly that those children should have been taken out of their home STAT as soon as there was evidence enough to take them out. and I really *REALLY* hope Ruby Franke never gets out of prison and I also hope they forget to feed her too.

@J3nJ3nl0llip0p

9 ай бұрын

I feel ya. When we hear others validate our feelings of unfairness, it's frightening because we expect to not only not be believed, but to get chastised for speaking up. So, yeah. The ugly crying comes, but please, PLEASE let it. KNOW that we're here. That people understand, care AND want you to heal. I'm so proud of you for sharing a little bit with us! I know it's not easy! ❤❤❤

What is extra sickening is when you think of the fact that even if they are convicted they will be sent to prison... Where they will get a bed, not a bean bag, and get 3 meals a day. They will be receiving a lighter criminal punishment for child abuse in a literal jail than the punishment their child faced for pranking a sibling.

@ladyyananumber1200

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, but bean bags are more comfortable than those prison beds. And the food isn't good either. I get what you're trying to say ... but it's inaccurate in reality.

@Nov_Net

10 ай бұрын

​@@ladyyananumber1200the fact is that they are living better than some homless people

@quantum.code.x

10 ай бұрын

I've also heard that prisoners have a tendency to beat the shit out of pedophiles and child abusers. So... fingers crossed

@littledevil1857

10 ай бұрын

Just wait till their prison buddies find out they are child abusers

@ladyyananumber1200

10 ай бұрын

@@Nov_Net everyone lives better than homeless people. That's a pretty low bar.

A wise man once said: “Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.”

@RonDoncombe

10 ай бұрын

basically every kids need good parents but some parents are evil and should never had kids shows how life isn't black and white

@rl318

10 ай бұрын

Truth...

@theelitecipherfan300dude2

10 ай бұрын

Overused! But true!

@jordy9606

10 ай бұрын

@@Nyj_ff2Absolutely not underrated.. W quote nonetheless

@ShinbrigTV

10 ай бұрын

And I'm the literal embodiment of it!!

I was a victim of child abuse. I tried to get cps involved, my friends and their families tried to get cps involved, my school tried to get cps involved and there was no rescuer, I had to endure s*ual, violent and verbal assult for 19 years of my life because I couldn't show a written statement of them admitting to anything regardless of my scars, bruises or mental health so long as they kept denying and the ''family'' kept singing their praises and protecting them - either knowing or acting oblivious to what they were doing - NOTHING gets done. I may not be from the US but its safe to say cps is a flawed and broken system accross the globee and I have to live with a lifetime of mental scars for it. I hope these kids can find some sembelance of a happy life going forward, they'll never have normalicy but at least they can hopefully find security and heal.

@magicalgrim3471

8 ай бұрын

Sorry you went through that, I hope you found a way better family and help.

@rainwaysyt

7 ай бұрын

jesus fucking christ. i hope youre doing good bro after that

@Zortan12

7 ай бұрын

I hope you also managed to find a happy life

As someone from an abusive household (in different ways from this), it infuriates me that the general public supports these kinds of parents because “tough love!! This is REAL parenting!!” Or “back in my day…” like no, Karen, hitting your kids and berating them , beating them, staving them and locking them up is not just “good old fashioned parenting”, it’s awful, it’s abusive, and it’s why I’m studying to be a child psychologist right now

@UnpaidInternNo.9472

2 ай бұрын

**this is a critique of morons who abuse their children** You don't beat your children, starve them, and revoke theirhuman rights? What kind of parent are you? How are they going to get disciplined?

The fact that people had been reporting this for years, and the police didn’t get involved until they were forced to because a child escaped is unfathomable to me.

@ClownHoundII

10 ай бұрын

It's all about money and the government. Not saying that CPS is greedy, just underfunded. A lot of the times they don't have enough staff or money to care for the child in need. And the government doesn't care unless there they are forced too. Same reason orphanages and foster homes suck: government doesn't care about kids.

@Alik_Odess

10 ай бұрын

@@ClownHoundII CPS doesn't give a shit about children. There's a ton of cases where they prefer to keep the child in a meth house than with a father or other relatives that are normal and willing to take in the child just because: "Children need their mother" excuse.

@armoredanteater609

10 ай бұрын

​@horrorhoundII in my experience, CPS is also disproportionately more inclined to sweep things under the rug from white cis christian households

@dalekthump2590

10 ай бұрын

@@ClownHoundII yup. outlawing abortion is a tool to control birth rates, not save babies/children. govt doesnt care about kids.

@madamlt5758

10 ай бұрын

That’s pretty normal. Police doing their jobs and investigating people when there are concerns raised is like pulling teeth.

She's smirking when she talks about her child starving. She is genuinely getting a kick out of it.

@venuae

10 ай бұрын

she has 2.5 million subscribers most who are supporting her, of course she feels like what shes doing is okay. what people should take from this situation is that the general population cant be trusted to understand reality

@Nabium

10 ай бұрын

@@venuae but it's not about feeling if it's okay, it's about enjoying it in a sadistic way. most of the abuse these children experienced was not documented, not filmed. the bruises from being tied up, the bruises from being beaten, the malnourishment. so it goes beyond just what her viewers thinks is okay. we need to understand that there's people in this world who thrives on the sense of power that hurting others cause. there's genuinely sadistic people who gets enjoyment out of causing suffering on other people, even their own children. this woman has a personality disorder.

@johnjesseapril560

10 ай бұрын

​@@Nabiumyep. Not only did she want to abuse them but she wanted the public to validate her horrible actions and gaslight the kids with it.

@RLeezyDeezy

10 ай бұрын

I think it's more of her having feelings of accomplishment, still crazy

@kaysee2428

10 ай бұрын

And the kid was 6 years old. That's it. She was 6 when Ruby refused to bring the kid food. A six year old child was "responsible" of packing her own lunch.

as someone who comes from an abusive home, I can tell you what happens when CPS gets called They take the children to a separate room and interview them as to what they experienced and then they talk the child down saying "that's not so bad" and then they warn the parents not to be too obvious or they will have to get involved next time. they do not want the paper work or headache of actually doing their jobs. they do not believe anything short of actual broken bones is real abuse and they think a slap on the wrist will set all parents straight. they do not realize that for a parent to have gotten this bad even once means they have mentally checked out of being parents and now see their children as leaches. They do not feel remorse and they do not stop when warned.

I am from Utah, where this family is based, and I grew up in a broken household with an abusive mother that refused to get proper treatment for her bipolar disorder, PTSD and severe depression. CPS services were involved in my life for a majority of my childhood, and I can confidently say that CPS and DCFS are completely useless more than 90% of the time in Utah. The abuse has to be blatant, the conditions for the children have to be deplorable for them to even act, and even then they are lacking. We told them that we didn’t feel safe, that my mother would stay in bed for days or weeks at a time and leave me and my 5 year old sister to fend for ourselves, expecting a 7 year old boy to prepare dinner and take care of everything. When CPS would be involved, we told them we had no food and she wouldn’t feed us. Yet CPS fell for every lie and trick that my mother could come up with. They are incredibly unsympathetic to the child and will almost always believe the parent/legal guardian. All my mother has to do was maintain appearances when CPS would get involved and they would fall for it. Every. Single. Time.

Her daughter, Eve, was 6 at the time of the lunch thing. Imagine even expecting a six year old to make and pack their own lunch every morning. That alone is a red flag.

@MelissaK-nl2cx

9 ай бұрын

i did

@Mxtxloverr

9 ай бұрын

@MelissaK-nl2cx Difference is, the way that kid was being "disciplined" didn't help her

@wesir427

9 ай бұрын

Thanks for the context, if the kid was in middle/highschool I'd 100% agree that their lunch could be their own responsibility, she could probably have done it herself if her mother actually bothered to teach her and remind her until it became routine but I'm guessing she just said "make your own food" and walked away.

@warframehunter7298

9 ай бұрын

​​@@MelissaK-nl2cxsame, mine was out of necessity though not spiteful like that witch

@chrismcbride4839

9 ай бұрын

​@@MelissaK-nl2cxand everyone clapped

Throw her in prison and throw away the key. Abusing children is one of the worst crimes you can commit.

@-RandomlyRandom

10 ай бұрын

@CrewmateComplexClanno your not 💀

@USSAnimeNCC-

10 ай бұрын

The father too how the hell he didn't do anything

@rainblue4789

10 ай бұрын

@@USSAnimeNCC- and the sisters since they confirmed they knew and stayed quiet, might as well be complicit

@remcodevries536

10 ай бұрын

@@USSAnimeNCC- I also agree with Charlie, the sister needs to be looked at aswell

@Nzg41

10 ай бұрын

No fireing squad

As someone who suffered through parental abuse, i will say. I went to authorities three times, with evidence even of the abuse that myself and two younger sisters, (one being in a wheelchair due to genetic disabilities) suffered through and was ignored as a "rebellious teen". All of this happened in the state of Utah, to me and my sisters as well.

I feel the main reason nobody did anything for so long is because MANY MANY adults with kids who hate them have a 1950’s mindset where they UNIRONICALLY think emotional availability, food, and care will raise “a soft generation.” Realistically, Kevin probably took some sort of plea deal with heavy restrictions surrounding his children and the internet, since people would really prefer that kids don’t have both of their parents arrested. Since it was implied that the mom was the executor of most of the abuse, she’s probably the one people want arrested the most. The dad is just as wrong for letting it happen, but it gets really nuanced and complicated from here.

I hope she loses her “food privilege” more than a couple times in prison

@A-TALKING-TOASTER

10 ай бұрын

I wouldn't feel bad if they accidentally sent her to a men's prison I know they would treat her very very well down there lol

@Jules.69

10 ай бұрын

​@@A-TALKING-TOASTERgod damn ☠️

@paulblart8798

10 ай бұрын

menace

@deathlight4210

10 ай бұрын

@@A-TALKING-TOASTERI’m pretty sure that could happen in the women’s prison too

@viodesa3

10 ай бұрын

Being sent to bed without dinner isn’t abuse. I think a lot of people commenting were either coddled or are female.

When I became a father, I started to notice the number of other parents that took it as a point of pride to brag about how harsh they punished their kids… Never understood it myself

@sizzlebuzz

10 ай бұрын

Maybe you will some day.

@milkyy4168

10 ай бұрын

Good, that means you’re not a terrible human being

@Pastellera2video

10 ай бұрын

@@sizzlebuzz why do parents take pride in harshly punishing their kids???

@shadow-squid4872

10 ай бұрын

So many parents think that simply having a child by itself means that they must be respected, instead of respecting the work it takes to actually be a GOOD parent

@6ix9ineshairline

10 ай бұрын

Chose love. Always

I lived in a household with an emotionally and mentally abusive step parent, who made it clear that she loathed my very existence (as did most of her family). Living in that house was fucking hell and I was basically the glorified maid and babysitter, who couldn’t do a damn thing right and would get screamed at for it, and everything had to be done perfectly. Then she would take all the credit for the things I would do, while telling everyone what an ungrateful, lazy, antisocial asshole I was, when I just wanted to make myself as small as possible and get away from all the bullshit. But trying to avoid the source of the problem apparent makes one a “hermit” and warrants more instigation. There were also a few nights I had “food privileges” revoked, because I pissed her off. (I was the scapegoat in a narcissistic family unit and my half sister was the golden child… for those who know, you know…) CPS got called a few times… but it was on my half siblings. Someone called in saying they were getting beat because they had bruises, when the reality was they would just beat the shit out of each other or jump off of the couch/out of trees and shit (because no one was watching them most of the time- something I’d get screeched at for, when my step mom slept all day) and CPS didn’t even acknowledge my existence, any of the times they were called out. In therapy sessions, she would sit in with me and pretend to be my best friend. Like, of course I’m not going to say, “this bitch has been doing some abusive shit”, while she’s in the room, but I didn’t even really register what was going on, either, back then, and that it was wrong, because it had become so normalized for me. It took me being out of the situation for about 10 years to realize something had been wrong. And when I came forward to family members about it, the biggest slap in the goddamn face was, exactly like in this case, them knowing (or suspecting) something was going on and doing nothing about it… And I get that there’s nothing to be done, now, but most just treat it like, “whoopsie poopsie. Our bad! Be like jesus and just forgive and forget, eh?” That shit just makes me even more spiteful, like wow… you suspected some shit was amiss and now you’re pulling the, “sorry fam. We good?”, card…

the fact that one of the children had to escape the house to be saved while all of this information was PUBLICLY available is sickening. meanwhile good parents who are financially struggling lose their children all the time

RF is a hero. He was so brave to escape and tell his neighbors. He saved his siblings and got that monster arrested

@ProtonXz

10 ай бұрын

Fr! I’m so happy that he dosent have to live like that anymore and hopefully has a good life.

@foofofdeath

10 ай бұрын

I’m so proud of him, if it weren’t for his bravery, they might’ve never made it out of that heinous situation

Russell deserves an award for his bravery, i cannot believe how scared he must’ve been climbing out of that window. he saved 3 of his siblings. i feel for all of them and cannot believe the authorities and extended family let it get to this point. also, the day Ruby got arrested was Eve’s 10th birthday, i hope she gets all the healing she deserves and every birthday after is out of her wildest dreams.

@y0urm_nl0v3sm3

10 ай бұрын

Isn’t that full circle bc wasn’t eve born on KZread?

@kindnessandgracestaysmilin5990

10 ай бұрын

@@y0urm_nl0v3sm3woah. Literally though.

@osuk

10 ай бұрын

@serchmaabaatarchuluun5761

10 ай бұрын

The saddest part is that he did to only get food, not to seek help. That's just shows that those kids are so used to the abuse that they think it's normal. Jody should rot in jail for the rest of her life along with her colleagues.

@ezzb

10 ай бұрын

​@@y0urm_nl0v3sm3yes. Their first video was Eve's gender reveal. This kid is on KZread since the womb

"8 passengers sounds like a horror movie" The subtitle for the Polish theater release of Alien was "Nostromo's eighth passenger" lol

Speaking from experience as an abuse victim that faced similar "punishments" as the victims here, Ive been crying for help since the age of 9 and no one ever took me seriously. My little sister and I were actively scavenging for food and sneaking them into the house in order to survive and when I told our mom about it she assumed i was exaggerating because I was a kid. When i told my classmates about it they assumed i was lying because they met my father and he "didnt look abusive". I told my cousin, she didn’t believe me. I told my aunt, grandma, and grandpa how much i disliked my father because of his punishments and they told me he is my flesh and blood and i have to love him no matter what. Crazy thing is 14 years later after my mom finally realized that he was a piece of shit and divorced him, they still never took the abuse allegations seriously until THIS YEAR. So this story truly breaks my heart, but I am so glad they were able to escape this situation. I wish them nothing but love

theres so many family youtubers like this out there its actually sick

@user-rc7bc9um4e

10 ай бұрын

daddyofive was one

@jytvreal

10 ай бұрын

Daddyothree

@jamestomlin5525

10 ай бұрын

​@@user-rc7bc9um4eI thought that's what this was about at first

@RogosRinted

10 ай бұрын

narcissists having kids for their own benefit

@DB-sd3cw

10 ай бұрын

When content creation takes priority over your actual family, you've already crossed into malicious territory.

This lady came and spoke at my church to all the moms and she apparently said a lot of crazy stuff and after all of the moms questioned her advice she stormed out of the church. So glad her kids are ok now

@alainaaugust1932

10 ай бұрын

Good for all the intelligent, compassionate moms in your church.

@RacingSnails64

9 ай бұрын

Glad they all instantly called her out and saw her actions as horrible.

@bobnotbobff

9 ай бұрын

Probably her being Mormon and your church is normie and don't vibe with her bs

@iisxftestmxnster1839

9 ай бұрын

Oh god, i know they probably worried about those kids for a long time.

@guydude1110

9 ай бұрын

@@NachoC9chill

Being from Utah and knowing how poorly they handle abuse cases, similar to the Gabby Petito case, I'm saddened to say that I'm not surprised they let this situation fall through the cracks.

The reason nobody in Ruby’s life questioned her “parenting” (besides maybe a select few) like we on the internet did is bc she surrounded herself with people who were doing the same damn thing as her and agreed with her “parenting style”

@shaggy4real97

8 ай бұрын

Exactly. She cherrypicked to make her own majority group to create the idea that it was "normal" Glad you said it first

There’s so much more to her evil than this. She would film her kids in the bath, film them crying and just film so many personal moments and embarrassing the children. It’s so beyond disgusting.

@seashellgarden2227

9 ай бұрын

Saw a clip of her filming her and one of her daughters' first times getting a bra... it was so awful and horrific knowing the exact kind of audience that goes to; now her classmates might know also. I feel like a creep making a comment about it, but it should be said that some of her videos about "puberty" and overall emberessing her kids are probably heavily used by pedos. Really infuriating.

@cicelypatterson3927

9 ай бұрын

@@seashellgarden2227 thats so fucking gross, makes me even madder that this as ignored by authorities

@MartiniiYeah

9 ай бұрын

thats literal fcking cp....

@daintycaked

9 ай бұрын

she basically said several times she hated her kids (in a matter of words).

@emboarepic

9 ай бұрын

Its a small world after all!

The idea that this channel had 2.5 million subscribers who were most likely trying to use it to justify their own abusive parenting is nauseating

@ana-ze2fw

9 ай бұрын

i know it was definitely mostl;y kids also who just didnt know what was wrong. ive seen alot of kids saying they grew up with 8 passengers

@Grigeral

9 ай бұрын

Or using it to get their rocks off, which I can't tell which of the two would be worse...

@drvictorvondooooom103

9 ай бұрын

@@GrigeralI think the pedos would be worse

@bird2797

9 ай бұрын

​@@Grigeralnah pedos would be waaay worse

@Grigeral

9 ай бұрын

@@bird2797 yes if actually doing it themselves. But if you're comparing specifically looking at something like these videos, compared to actively abusing them I'd say it's a little more blurry. Although, everyone sucks here regardless...

she did this openly and laughed about it. if this doesn’t tell you that cps is corrupt and ineffective idk what does. cps came to my house a total of 7 times growing up and did absolutely nothing. the abuse i suffered lasted for my entire childhood. i had a case record longer than the fucking bible and cps didn’t gaf. i hope she gets what she deserves

The fact that all of this happened for as long as it did and she's still only been arrested on SUSPICION of child abuse makes me sick. No wonder CPS never paid any attention to my little verbal/emotional abuse case, it's ridiculous how much of this shit she decided was OKAY to show on the internet and she still is almost getting away with this! Imagine what insane shit she does OFF CAMERA!

As someone who was raised like this, someone needs to tell her straight up: her kids don’t love her, and she isn’t getting a funeral. She’s getting thrown in the river, if they even think to give her that luxury.

@windy8544

10 ай бұрын

i don't think she cares

@Pastellera2video

10 ай бұрын

@@windy8544 honestly, though she seems so narcissistic and delusional to the point where she actually probably believes that they love her And even if she won’t believe them because she’s so “great” it’s still something she deserves to hear

@boedacious

10 ай бұрын

Sorry ma, we're revoking your funeral privileges

@enk335

10 ай бұрын

@@windy8544she'll care when she's getting her ass beat in prison.

@drunkenhobo8020

10 ай бұрын

@@Pastellera2video Will have the standard comebacks "I did it because I love you" and "One day you'll realise how good a mother I was to you."

As a former foster kid, I can confirm that CPS is incredibly bad at their job. They prefer to blame the child in the majority of the cases to avoid having to do paperwork. Actually trying to get help just causes more harm, so it's very easy to just accept the new normal. I'm glad they were finally able to escape. Still a very long road to recovery though. Trauma can be rough.

@Sly-Moose

10 ай бұрын

Former foster child here too! I still feel bad to this day that I was one of the lucky ones tho, while other foster siblings weren't so fortunate, even just the ones who missed their parents. The fact that I ultimately feel grateful for the foster system saving my life, cuz I most certainly would have died if I was left with my dad as a baby, I feel I don't reserve the right to say I've still also struggled, just not at the hands of the system, but by family. Was abused by my Aunt until doctor's found drugs in her urine. Yet again it was thanks to the rules of the foster system that I was able to get out of that household that very night. Wrote a whole essay on that experience.

@RasenKamehamehaX100

10 ай бұрын

As someone whose family was investigated by CPS several times, they also seem far more worried about families that really don't need their intervention (I lived a happy life. It wasn't always great, but certainly never bad enough for CPS.)

@axlegend30

10 ай бұрын

I moved from one foster home where I was literally thrown across the room when my carer was angry at me and as a 7 year old I just assumed it was normal so when I casually brought it up to my social worker and she told me it was because of something I did I just kept quiet about it

@SpookyGhostpeppers

10 ай бұрын

Not a foster kid, but my Dad and I called CPS on his ex multiple times due to her abuse to her elementary school child (she was an alcoholic who often DUI'd with her kid in the car and was generally very unstable, while also refusing to accept help for her addiction). It took months until anything was actually done (because the SCHOOL her kid went to had to get involved..she showed up like 5 hours after hours to pick up her kid drunk as hell), and even then this woman is still allowed to see her kid in the summer? feel like if you got CPS on your ass several times that should keep you from seeing your child ever again but! "mothers rights" I guess :/

@verdant2215

10 ай бұрын

CPS tried to ruin my family. Treated me and my sister like items.

Unfortunately charlie, as someone who comes from an abusive home. My whole family knew my father was hitting me. But there wasnt any proof that he was. Honestly reaching out to authorities HAS A CHANCE of being worse for the victims than reaching out and getting help. Its a sad messed up world we live in

True story: I was being disruptive during afternoon 2nd grade class. After my teacher told my parents about it my dad said he was going to turn me in to the cops. I still remember sitting there in the back seat of our car scared, contemplating jail time at such a young age. After what felt like 20 minutes, he stopped by at a dead end in some unknown neighborhood. He coerced me to get off the car and I kid you fucking not, as soon as I got off and closed that car door he proceeded to drive away. He wasn't bluffing. He wasn't scaring me into behaving better. He LITERALLY attempted to get rid of me. Just for petty bad behavior. I still remember frantically running after that car, terrified, my face covered in tears, begging for him not to do this to me. Thankfully, he only drove a short distance before stopping (probably at a stop sign) and the first chance I got I got back on the car again. My dad told me why I got back on and I don't remember what happened afterwards. I'm NOT making any of this shit up.

As an abuse vic, CPS is a joke. They visited my house 8 times and no steps were taken to get me or my siblings out of our situation. Half the time they didn't even interact with any of us, just spoke with my parents. I'm not surprised that they failed here, too. As long as a house looks somewhat clean and doesn't smell like actual fecal matter, a child is probably not getting out of an abusive situation and if they do, you'd be surprised to see the parents actually punished. EDIT: To clarify, I mean CPS incompetent in both ways--They'll step in when there are little to no issues present and won't do anything in actual cases of abuse.

@queendefaultdefault1080

10 ай бұрын

not true my house was so messy growing up when CPS came, never took us away.....not even a messy house works, if you have parents who can talk their way out of it your fucked and stuck in an abusive household

@mastertainment116

10 ай бұрын

@@queendefaultdefault1080 CPS/Dyfcs is a joke only designed to make others feel like we are doing something about children but the truth is that system isn't designed to really handle taking children. That is why they keep kids with the abusive parent. I reality its no hope, and only thing you can do is escape and hope some good soul is willing to help.

@sidepai

10 ай бұрын

​@queendefaultdefault1080 agreed. I went through something similar. It took my teacher noticing bruises I unintentionally revealed to get an investigation started. Granted, my family talked their way out of it, until my oldest brother ended up in juvenile detention. When they did a physical on him, they discovered all the broken bones he had (a vast majority weren't set, and healed wrong). ONLY THEN did CPS step up and take me, and my middle brother out. And yes, my brother and I also had fudged up broken bones. It's a darn shame it took my oldest brother getting a criminal record to get us out of there. And it was also the kick in the pants my mother needed to get away from our abuser, cuz it was the only way to get us back.

@oscar3153

10 ай бұрын

Because studies have proven that relatively speaking taking a child away from their family does more damage psychological. I’m not at all defending abuse but it’s a lose lose for the child no matter what. It’s extremely traumatic to take a child away from their home, even if it is abusive. Obviously I’m this case it was necessary but imagine a preteen being placed in a foster home, that would most likely do more l damage to the child than an average abusive house hold. And again, for the cases that involves injury, potential death etc. it’s obviously more beneficial to go to a foster home. You can’t cure or fix bad parenting, no matter what the child will most likely suffer, CPS tends to go for the lesser evil of just letting the child stay in the abusive household since studies have proven that a child ON AVERAGE will be more traumatized and will have a worse environment

@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395

10 ай бұрын

CPS can’t just take kids lmao

The worst part is that she was promoting her abusive actions as 'parenting tips', so there is a possibility that some of her 2.5 million viewers used her actions as an example on how to parent their kids

@jeremydale4548

10 ай бұрын

THAT should be an additional charge. MASS CHILD ABUSE. Because you just KNOW FULL WELL some of her watchers knew nothing about parenting and this was the first thing they saw on KZread. Honestly KZread ITSELF should face repercussions for allowing this shit in the first place!

@brainrot4919

10 ай бұрын

@@jeremydale4548Should come under some sort of terrorism charge or something.

@seashellgarden2227

9 ай бұрын

The fact that they're religious too just expands their influence even further, (I think they're Mormon?) Combined with the weird additional "therapist" self-help guru lady, and I wouldn't be shocked if hundreds were already copying this behavior because of them.

@ninjacats1647

9 ай бұрын

Karl Marx once argued that we should abolish the family. He was wrong, but not entirely wrong. Some families should be abolished. This family and Daddy of FIve are great examples.

@brobrofog

9 ай бұрын

@@ninjacats1647 communism is an ideology with good views that can help its people, but is exploited and the people suffer. Like how these parents exploited their children.

It’s insane for someone to choose to have 6 children and then be so abusive to them. What a monster! Any adult responsible for allowing this to continue to happen should be arrested too!

As someone that went through almost the same thing. CPS showed up multiple times but I was too afraid to tell them the truth, I didn't know they could help me, so I talked to them as if they were the teachers and other strangers asking me what was going on.

The family is Mormon, and their image is everything. It’s totally possible the sisters were keeping quite not only out of some obligation to protect Jody from prison, but to not taint their own extremely pristine public image. They all have family channels. All 3 of the sisters. Honestly, CPS should probably be in their houses too, considering this is the type of “parenting style” they seem to not be completely separating themselves from.

@marieogara1036

10 ай бұрын

Money -- like corporations protecting their "Brand" at all costs.

@deadshot4245

10 ай бұрын

Oh yeah lots for Mormons are super cool loving and kind to children but I have seen negatives of some and its all about the ego and image to some of them. I've witnessed verbal abuse from one inside my home towards my step kids and this dudes real kids and after it I got extremely angry told him to get out of my house he refused and almost got shot for refusing to get out. Then I'm the bad guy and have to leave the state for defending his own kids from his abuse funny how those types project what they are on to others

@FYCY

10 ай бұрын

Yeah with Mormons it's usually the mom that gets bullied by the other ladies on how to be a better parent or some shit. Molly Mormons are the worst.

@QtheLaserDude

10 ай бұрын

​@I_Got_Hit_With_A_Brick I'm a member, too. It baffles my mind to think there is this kind of evil out there. Hope the kids are okay.

@youvegotnojams2678

10 ай бұрын

@@I_Got_Hit_With_A_Brick Hi, I have a question. :] What's the thing about self-image to Mormons? Do ya'll have the whole "worry-more-about-what-God-thinks-than-what-others-think" teaching as well? How does it work out?

People who openly brag about their sociopathic behaviour online are the scariest

@caponeboxerx

10 ай бұрын

💯💯💯💯

@boodledemic6430

10 ай бұрын

Twitter users

@msthecommentator2863

10 ай бұрын

The internet has really fucked up a lot of people in regards of what is and isn't okay to share

@Xxicewolf97xX

10 ай бұрын

I'd say the scariest are the ones who go unknown to the world or even to the people close to them. At least with these people publicly displaying their atrocious behaviours, intervention can take place much sooner & the kids can be rehomed in safer environments.

@joekuvorkian

10 ай бұрын

I'm glad they do so they can get busted and whatever they posted can be used in court

As someone that grew up in a home with devout Mormon parents, I went through these same kinds of punishments and it’s weird to see that this wasn’t “normal” discipline for even the smallest screw ups. Including losing room privileges and made to sleep outside in the yard, meals and bathroom privileges with held to even physical and emotional abuse. Our bishop even wrote a letter to CPS and informed my parents he was sending it and nothing happened. I honestly just thought this was common for every child growing up. As an adult with my own family I would never and have ever inflicted any of this behavior but the more people I ask if their parents treated them the same way I’m shocked when they respond in horror.

@psychicbyinternet

8 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry. Those shouldn't be privileges.

Oh Charlie my sweet summer child. I know it’s surprising to hear but there are soooooo many families (mine included) that abuse their children for years and never face consequences for it. I’m super glad it’s not the case here, but there are innumerable cases just like this one that never see justice done. It’s a sad, shitty world we live in for sure.

The scariest thing is that out there, right freaking now, there are hundreds if not possibly thousands of parents applying her lessons of discipline to their kids...

@Obvioustroller

10 ай бұрын

Less childhood obesity ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

@Thr33Ps

10 ай бұрын

By the looks of the subscriber count to video views, I would venture to say at least 20% of her audience watched regularly and I imagine would apply it in some form. That would indicate that around 250-500 thousand families were subjected to this in some form or another :[

@mrnarfynoof

10 ай бұрын

Yikes…

@sebd9690

10 ай бұрын

The worst I've seen is when my cousins came to sleep at our house alone, my aunt weren't there (don't remember the reason). One of them was quite picky and didn't want to eat vegetables, he was 14-16 yrs old at the time. My dad sat with him for 2 hours, playing the local bingo and whatever, while he was crying that he was hungry and my father just kept repeating that there would be no 2nd serving or snacks tonight if he didn't eat the vegetables on his plate. That's tough parenting, not whatever that KZreadr was doing.

@santoscarrillo2996

10 ай бұрын

Nit your kids not your problem.

The fact that there are parents out there that don’t love their own children is heartbreaking enough, but abusing them? Let them rot in prison.

@zeal9442

10 ай бұрын

This is unfortunately way, way, WAY more common then most people think, and CPS doesn't bat an eye because it's not profitable.

@GiuseppeGaetanoSabatelli

10 ай бұрын

Not to mention she couldn't help but make 6 kids. She needs to be sterilized.

@vegpuppy255

10 ай бұрын

In one of her videos, Ruby stated something like, “I love Principals more than my children.”

@meuforever123

10 ай бұрын

ruby only had kids to spread the word of God, not to love them

@Coolvzz

10 ай бұрын

Prison? na hell, people who torture/abuse deserve the absolute worst

I’m glad I’m finding out about this on your channel. I will say as an abuse victim for my entire childhood this cuts deep into my psyche. I can also understand the we kept quiet to keep the children safe. Cos I know this might be hard for some people to understand, but when you’re already being punished daily and there’s no light at the end to focus on. You just pray that each day is one without more abuse than the day before. When your abuser gets wind of CPS or anything that pains them in a bad light or shining a light on their abusive ways most times is worse than your regular abuse. They feel threatened and lash out at the victims even more. I just hope the kids are happy. But from experience it’s going to damage them in ways you can’t imagine.

The worst thing is this stuff happens all the time.. I had a coworker who had a classmate when she was in middle school who was being SA by her father and everyone knew! The school and her classmates contacted CPS and Police over and over again with evidence and nothing happened till they found out she was pregnant at like 13/14…

As someone who had the displeasure of working with CPS on multiple occasions, they are the most useless organization I've ever dealt with. They either ignore our calls about kids being abused by their parents or call the police on us for harassment. The one time we did manage to get out there and meet the kid and parents, they decided that since the kid was diagnosed with ASD, staying with the family was better for his development. The same family that refuses to feed and makes the kid sleeps outside.

@Sohalia06

10 ай бұрын

I'm curious what industry you work in if you have to contact CPS but also are considered "harassing" them for calling, but I also don't want to make you say what it is if you aren't comfortable doing so. Bare minimum, it's a bit nuts that legitimate calls alerting to abuse can ever be considered "harassment" of an organization whose whole purpose is dealing with such calls.

@steffimaier7297

10 ай бұрын

Tried to report an abuse case online and all they did was directing me from one place to another. No seem to want to take care of that case. Also made similar experiences with animal rescues/protection. They are useless when it comes to protect and rescuing animals, but super engaged when it comes to asking and collecting donation money.

@Hunterr8

10 ай бұрын

They're too busy going after parents not affirming a kid that says they're the opposite gender.

@YourLocalGroceryStoreManager

10 ай бұрын

The police are just as useless as CPS. Labelled criminals in Saint Louis seem to be more capable heroes than any fucking government agent.

@Hunterr8

10 ай бұрын

@@certifiedjamie Critical thinking and a reading is tough, huh?

This isn’t just child abuse, intentionally starving your children is attempted murder imo Edit: Did y’all really take this that seriously? To be specific, she should definitely get charged with felony reckless endangerment and criminal negligence and torture as well as the child abuse to be specific. Those should be her actual charges. Also the open wounds on the kid’s arms indicate she assaulted them with a deadly weapon which is another charge.

@skachor

10 ай бұрын

It's bad enough without the hyperbole...

@loveableheathen7441

10 ай бұрын

​@@skachorfr people always on some medieval peasant shit

@jamievenables4711

10 ай бұрын

​@skachor yeah not feeding someone and attempted murder seem "slightly" different 😅

@eoghanley

10 ай бұрын

@@skachorwhat hyperbole?

@VastDeath

10 ай бұрын

Jesus christ 100 people have no idea what attempted murder is when it comes to the court 🤦

The amount of times I heard that CPS has failed to discover the problem in situations like this is alarming.

8 Passengers sound like a college spin-off band of 21 Pilots

I want to mention one extra bit of the abuse that a lot of people don’t know about…the mom’s recordings. The mom recorded EVERY waking second of their lives. The kids didn’t have a single shred of privacy because the mom refused to give them any. There were multiple times when the kids basically begged for their mom to put the camera down and she just never did. Because of this, none of the kids were ever able to make any friends. Everyone kept their distance because of their mom J Aubrey made a whole video about this years ago, I recommend checking it out

@tornadodee148

10 ай бұрын

She filmed every second of every day for years on end of her abusing them and posted it on the net for millions to see yet she was able to get away with it for THIS FUCKING LONG. What is wrong with this world!!!

@tuskactu4820

10 ай бұрын

​@tornadodee148 Only clout matters nowadays, no one can go five seconds without internet attention lest they go insane.

@CamMackay96

10 ай бұрын

Reminds me of Daddy o Five. The clips of the younger kid crying his eyes out begging them to stop filming him will be burned in my brain forever. So glad that got stopped quickly after Phillip DeFranco called it out.

@TezzyRs

10 ай бұрын

How sad. Our society is sick with social media. People loose their moral compass and common decency all for likes and follows. We truly live in a black mirror episode. How scary. Poor kids

@KingOfGaymes

10 ай бұрын

@@TezzyRsThankfully most people out there don’t do things like this, so there’s that.. but attention seekers and fame hungry people like this woman are scary

This woman does not love her children. She needs to stay locked up at LEAST until the children are grown and can stay away from her by their own means.

@TotalHooman

9 ай бұрын

You should just end it at stay locked up

@lukespatola1184

9 ай бұрын

locked up for life and starved

@NewscasterNews4

9 ай бұрын

Nah death penalty for anyone who abuses children

@Jordanpaardekooper2002

9 ай бұрын

​@@NewscasterNews4dead is to easy

@Human_01

9 ай бұрын

Most women** "Child support" is for the narcissist/woman.

As someone who grew up in the social services they never help until permanent mental or physical damage has occurred and when they do the foster homes they put you in are almost as bad as where you were

In my experience, alerting authorities comes with the risk of spooking mom and causing worse things for the children. Sometimes it is better to just be a supportive family member who can show them love. Not saying they should have stayed silent, but sometimes you have to choose the right moment to bring in authorities and that can be really difficult.

With how deplorable some of these family channels are, it’s shocking that it took this long for an arrest to happen.

@bluntdocto2571

10 ай бұрын

bro did not finish the video

@sinoist742

10 ай бұрын

@@bluntdocto2571 I don’t need to, I already read the numerous articles before this video dropped.

@jabik9895

10 ай бұрын

It’s Utah. I’m not surprised.

@crispy7499

10 ай бұрын

Love watching people find out how useless CPS is.

@F0rever.B0red

10 ай бұрын

CPS is useless that's why. Everyone jokes about them being extremely incompetent for helping real victims and forcefully separating happy families. Their motives are backwards and slow to act and it's always too damn late

It’s the fact that she genuinely sounded happy and proud of herself for legitimately starving her kids

@ironicweeb4111

10 ай бұрын

It’s funny how people gave my parents shit for spanking me and my brother when we beat the shit out of each other, sure we were punished but they never starved us

@parsath_2584

10 ай бұрын

Everyone who supports her content needs investigated.

@EugeneOneguine

9 ай бұрын

Your sentenced is unfinished. "It's fact that she genuinely sounded happy..." which did what ?

@Desto_OP

9 ай бұрын

​@@ironicweeb4111I'd be glad if I was u ngl

@ironicweeb4111

9 ай бұрын

@@Desto_OP I am very glad my parents never went as far as starving us or locking us out of our rooms

If You're Gonna Gloat about "Punishing" Your Child, You've Absolutely Failed as a Parent.

I'm glad that this type of abuse is finally being cracked down on. I remember being 14 in school using my computer time to Google "is it child abuse to not give a kid breakfast or lunch money". I ate once a day for years, my dinners were portioned for me and I was not allowed to have seconds because I was not allowed to gain weight. I was just barely over 100lbs all through high school. I was not allowed snacks. And when I tried to become vegetarian I was starved for days until I agreed to eat meat. I was also forced to do intense workouts daily and was not allowed to stop running to take a break. Thank you for agreeing that this parenting style is disgusting and abusive, it was my normal life for a long time.

What makes me even more mad is that Jodi is a therapist and is legally required to report abuse-- the fact that she knew that this was happening, did nothing and participated in the abuse makes my blood boil. She also once shared details about a therapy patient to the Mormon Church without their permission, her therapy license was put on probation for 18 months then uses her medical knowledge to brainwash patients with ideologies and methods that would surely end in license revocation. Ruby is a horrible person, and Jodi makes me sick abusing her medical license, as a healthcare worker, I hope they get the book thrown at them, and Jodi losing her therapy license.

@caphowdy666

10 ай бұрын

From what I have heard over the last year or so on other channels, while Ruby has always been a nasty piece of work, by all accounts Jodi actually made her worse.

@raew9290

10 ай бұрын

It happened in Jodi's house. I think she was very hands on with the abuse of these children.

@AToneForOurSins

10 ай бұрын

How did I know they would end up being Mormons.....

@Bfkcjscbsnjc

10 ай бұрын

Hi I'm Charlie, and I think I'm being edgy cool scene by wearing no script glasses randomly because I'm a over the top zaney guy. They also match my stupid arm tattoos 🤡

@annienunyabiz6627

10 ай бұрын

Jodi had her license suspended once already in 2012 for 18 months for reporting private patient information to his church leaders which led to him being excommunicated and thrown out of college. Direct quote from the guy who's privacy she violated, “She just lied wherever she went to [further] an agenda to destroy my life,” said the man, who objected to bills that were as high as $2,000 a month. “We came there for marriage counseling, and she pulled us into her porn marathon.” She's always been a shit therapist.

So, I was taken off of my mom by CPS but not until I was around 12. I told people but no adults remotely took me seriously. Once I told the principal at school that my mom was abusive and she said “mommies don’t do that” and did nothing, but she told my parents so guess what happened. How messed up is it that people were actually concerned and no one was doing ANYTHING for these poor kids. It just continues.

@mago_malvado96

10 ай бұрын

And that's just sad!

@Pktommy1

10 ай бұрын

@@mago_malvado96 it just goes to show nothing is changing

@Veltrosstho

10 ай бұрын

Children are responsible for their own actions, unless they're calling out adults, they're just stupid little kids when that happens. 🙄

@dangerxbadger2300

10 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I really hope that you were able to move on and heal from that and that you were placed somewhere where you were loved and cared for, with people who helped you process and heal and thrive.

@simplysparedxx25

10 ай бұрын

Sad story man

I work with adolescents in behavioral health and it's terrifying what some "parents" resort to in order to feel like they're maintaining control. It's sick.

To be fair, people are scared of the foster system, and the abuse kids can continue to go through. I kept quiet about my own abuse for years, because I was scared about what might happen to my brother. As far as I could tell, he was not being abused. If anything, he was part of my abuse, because of imitating my parents. I also didn't want to potentially make things harder on myself than they already were....

The scariest part is that thousands and thousands of people reached out to help and its still taken this damn long

@Hay_Bay

10 ай бұрын

Exactly. My heart aches for all the kids that don’t have thousands of ppl fighting for them.

@Hay_Bay

10 ай бұрын

I mean and obv my heart aches for these kids too it’s just horrific to think of all the awful things being swept under the rug. SMH

@YaMomsMilkMan

10 ай бұрын

no the real scariest part is that this happens all the time, and the childeren arent always lucky enough that the parents posted the crimes on social media

CPS harassed me and my family for months because one of our neighbors said we were home on a school day. We were homeschooled, had all the correct paperwork, had engaging social lives and a super healthy family. Still CPS showed up at our door asking for me (I was 9) every two weeks. We had to go to court. Anyway, I CANNOT believe that cps will take a call from a Karen in our neighborhood into account, and not take legitimate calls of abuse into account. Cps has limited resources and it uses it on nothing. It’s infuriating. Even when I was 9 I kept on thinking “don’t they have better stuff to do?” Yes, yes they do.

@WindowLickingDeer

10 ай бұрын

That's government agencies in the USA for you. Instead of going after the stuff they're actually supposed to, they go after stuff that either isn't illegal, or shouldn't be illegal. People talk about how cops have a power trip issue, but government agents are SO much worse, and aside from the FBI, they barely handle the real issues.

@Dewwwwwlwkkw

10 ай бұрын

Same here ill edit this comment later cuz i gtg somewhere rn

@NateS917

10 ай бұрын

CPS also harassed us. We were poor but made things work. But they'd look for anything they could find to take us away. It's always the families that aren't abusive and fucked up that they wanna destroy, working months to have those kids taken. But when children are actually being abused and neglected, when kids are part of an actual shitty household, CPS turns the other cheek so fast you wouldn't believe.

@freakymoejoe2

10 ай бұрын

Homeschooled you say? Your parents happen to be in a goofier branch of christianity?

@midnight_x_edits

10 ай бұрын

@@freakymoejoe2homeschool isnt always in religious families sometimes its parents who want their children to have an actual education instead of what they’re being “taught” at school

The incredibly sad thing is how many children get abused like this and often nothing is ever done about it. Poor kids, like you said, how on earth could they have gotten away with that for soo long dispite them literally uploading evidence if their abuse on the Internet! Madness.

what saddens me about this situation is how i wish the teacher could've reported this sooner, they're literally mandated reporters for child abuse and such but not everyone can see the signs. i'm just hoping the children will get their justice and hopefully, get taken in by someone who actually cares about them. i don't trust the father at all.

You’d be surprised how common it is for children to not get help from either authorities or cps when dealing with child abuse and or neglect no matter how much evidence or witnesses or anything are in play and it’s a genuinely massive issue No one talks about

@LilChuunosuke

10 ай бұрын

The only ones who talk about it are the survivors, but we are seen as hysterical, especially since many of us developed mental illnesses as a result of the trauma of being raised in an abusive home for 18+ years

@error-try-again-later

10 ай бұрын

The only thing people hate more than an abuser is a truth teller.

@ladyyananumber1200

10 ай бұрын

Who would be surprised? People who haven't been paying attention? CPS under-reacts when the situation is serious and overreacts when it's minor. How many dead children have we seen on the news? When the abuse was apparent to everyone - except the government? But they don't hesitate to save the children from the poor and weed smoke.

@kiaheat1920

10 ай бұрын

@@error-try-again-later🙏🙏🙏

@DeadBrainDead

10 ай бұрын

I cannot agree with this statement more. It's horrible.

As a fully grown adult who had an abusive father that did some of the exact things this monster did to those kids, I truly feel for them. No child deserves to go hungry for misbehaving. Ever. My dad was a monster, and this woman is too.

@Prplex.

10 ай бұрын

Exactly terribly parenting to even think letting them go hungry is teaching them a lesson. Do some actual parenting instead of abusing them and calling it a lessom

@all-star953

10 ай бұрын

sadly, this kind of stuff is more common than it shows on the internet. That's why I feel like all of us should be talking about this sort of stuff more often. What the mom of '8 passengers' did was just about as bad as the Turpin parents@@Prplex.

@sammyi2505

10 ай бұрын

My parents tried using food as a punishment on my little sister only once. They sent her to bed without dinner, so I got up from the table and took her my plate instead. They only ever tried it once. My parents weren't perfect, I certainly wouldn't call them abusive. But I wasn't going to let that slide and I think that was enough of a reason for them to agree not to try again. I could tell they didn't want to do it anyway.

@cthulahoopisntreal

10 ай бұрын

As another fully grown adult who has an abusive step mom, who also ticked a bunch of these boxes, anyone - and I mean ANYONE - who would keep food from their kids is abusive. Once, multiple times, it doesn't matter; abuse is abuse and calling it otherwise changes nothing.

@Barack_Oballin

10 ай бұрын

Yeah my dad did a lot of the things that this mom has done, other than tie me up. Did probably more to my sisters. He got put in jail cause he had some warrants on him. Beat his ass about a year ago cause him and my sister saw each other at where she had a probation meeting when she called me crying cause he approached her in the parking lot and like yelled at her or something. But yeah, horrible guy, but he’s in prison for probably life

Every kid deserves a parent,but not every parent deserves a kid

"deep lacerations from being tied up with rope" sends shivers down my spine. People don't understand how dangerous this is if you actually try to use it to restrain someone. Even within the BDSM community rope is treated with the upmost respect because of how much damage you can accidentally do, from cutting off blood flow to damaging nerves if you don't know exactly what you're doing you can really quickly cause permanent damage to someone or even kill them, especially if you leave them unattended which she evidently seemed to do.

@shroomyk

10 ай бұрын

*utmost

@SylverScourge

10 ай бұрын

​@@shroomyk now isn't the time for a fucking english lesson buddy.

@fullbin1162

10 ай бұрын

EXACTLY. you can cause permanent nerve damage to a fully grown adult, i cant imagine how serious it could get with a growing kid. i feel so fucking bad for those kids and hope that boy hasnt sustained any permanent physical damage because. lord knows those kids will have years of mental scars, i cant imagine the constant reminder of the abuse through sustained nerve damage...

@tubax926

10 ай бұрын

​@@shroomykreally bro 😂😂😂 dowtmost*

@windy8544

10 ай бұрын

what do you mean, even bsdm? obviously people tying each other up for fun are going to be more careful than the ones torturing someone for real

Family KZreadrs should be the number one priority in child abuse investigations. The children are thought of as tools by the parents, rather than living beings.

@loveableheathen7441

10 ай бұрын

Definitely this. It's a huge red flag

@ashurad_fox5991

10 ай бұрын

yup, and it also sets a really bad example on how life with a family should be for the audience. What if the audience expect that family life will always go that way, but isn't? They will try to control the family to go that way, leading to a miserable family life.

@dreadtrain2846

10 ай бұрын

KZreadrs, etc are normally horrible people.

@AngryTableflipMusic

10 ай бұрын

yeah i have the same feeling about those predator hunters.

@ashurad_fox5991

10 ай бұрын

@@dreadtrain2846 not really per say, most are likely seeking opportunity to stand out or an opportunity to make money another way. (which really depends on the circumstance a person is going through in life, so making a hasty generalization using those criteria is not a really a good example to judge people)

these poor kids. I know what it's like to be denied food because a chore isnt done. I hope they heal :((

what sucks is most of the time when CPS gets involved, the parent just lies (and forces their kid(s) to lie) about the situation, and CPS just leaves. it’s a corrupt system and rarely ACTUALLY helps the kid(s). the parents also sometimes make their kid(s) believe that it would be safer to stay with them and not to call police/CPS, and a Lot will go unreported. so sadly it’s never as simple as “oh just call CPS and they’ll all be saved”

@bluelynx12

7 ай бұрын

basically as long as the abuse isn’t visible (thin from starvation, cuts/bruises from being hit) then CPS does nothing majority of the time

Not even did they take Chad's bedroom away, but they also sent him to a wilderness camp (one of the flavors of child abuse camps where careless parents send their kids to strip them of any life force) and if you look at footage of him before and after, it looks like he aged 10 years in a few months. And do you know WHY they punishes him so severely? For telling his little brother that they were going to Disneyland when they weren't.

@ollytropics1735

10 ай бұрын

Isn't this old news though? Like I thought j Aubrey covered this years ago

@TwoCagedBirds

10 ай бұрын

@@ollytropics1735 Doesn't change the fact that they did it though. Those "troubled teen" camps are f*cking awful. There is little to no oversight. Physical, mental, and sexual abuse runs rampant. Multiple children have died at these places, and even more have gone on to commit suicide after leaving. Some parents literally sign their parental rights over to these facilities. Some places will kidnap kids from their beds in the middle of the night. It's absolutely disgusting that these awful places are allowed to still operate and continue to hurt children.

@jra_josh2479

10 ай бұрын

@@ollytropics1735 that’s why it’s even more fucked up, people knew about this for years and she’s just now getting arrested for it

@claudesilveira2350

10 ай бұрын

That’s probably not why. They are super duper Mormon, and there is a strong purity culture there. It’s more likely that they caught him jerking off, or something they think of as the same thing, like watching media they think of as too sexual. In that world, sexual ‘sin’ is akin to murder. And they probably wouldn’t be willing to tell the whole internet that their child was ‘sinning’ in such a way, but it wouldn’t be unusual to send a kid away to one of these punitive camps over some manner of sexual ‘sin’.

@RGC_animation

10 ай бұрын

"We don't have a favorite child" they say, "We love all of you equally" they say.

My wife used to work for the school system and she would contact cps all the time for real physical and even sexual abuse by parents and they never did anything. It’s such a shame I hope these kids can grow up more to be okay and stay away from those monsters

@user-pq2jy3yh6d

10 ай бұрын

Yeah 😢

@djtoby5275

10 ай бұрын

yup, CPS is unfortunately incredibly underfunded

@sageann7490

10 ай бұрын

i never got s'ad by my caregivers but i had by multiple boys in my life and even by a family friend by the age of 7. People dont know what types of abuses can affect a childs pysche. i was flirting w every body in my school and i had a deep seeded hatred for everyone around me

@FeebleCatSoup

10 ай бұрын

A lot of times, CPS doesn't want to take a kid away from a family because then the state would have to take care of it.

@stinkyspider9181

10 ай бұрын

​@djtoby5275 then they need to get funds because children are always going to be here and there's always going to be issues regarding abused children. If the government gave a fuck shit like this would be helped immediately. But they dont

For some reason at first my ears heard 'this is gonna take that smile off your face faster than a Jim Sterling clip' and I was like damn, that bad?

This is so terrible it hurts to watch and hear about. The worse thing is these children will never recover. The first year of your life decides what connection you form with your caregivers. If they treat you properly, you feel safe, comfortable, and you trust them. If not, many many things can happen and affect you through your life. This changes the way you form attachments to everyone, even outside of family. And that’s just the first YEAR. The first 5-6 years are also so so important that you really cannot fully recover if abused during this time period. My heart goes out to these kids and I hope they find a psychiatrist/psychologist who they trust and can help them through this now and in the future. Bless these kids I hope they can find a new home they feel better in and can relearn how to love and be loved. Poor things. 💔

I knew a social worker. She said you wouldn't believe how hard it is to to get a child out of an abusive family.

@MrZoomah

10 ай бұрын

As a former social worker... I think it's too easy. This is why 96% of our budget was spent on removing kids and only 4% on supporting families to become better. Worse one I've seen is a boy who came through my home. He was removed because he wasn't getting food. His mum actually called CPS for help because she had such severe depression and anxiety she couldn't get to the shop. Instead of helping her get the shopping, which she had money to do, they removed her kid. As a foster carer I ended up helping her to find a lawyer to get him back but it took 6 months and he had been through the dreaded group homes before getting to me. They damaged that boy so much. As a foster care I can say that foster care is often worse than an abusive home. I take the most difficult kids and I can point to two I've had who haven't been abused by foster carers, their kids or other kids in care. One of my kids had PTSD from the act of being removed.

@jessbellis9510

10 ай бұрын

@@MrZoomah You ever think that so much money is spent on that _because_ it's incredibly hard to achieve? Also, as someone with major clinical depression who can't go off meds, I can say 100% that at my most depressed I was 100% incapable of looking after _myself_ let alone a child. Depression isn't something that just quickly goes away either. If you can't look after a child that is solely reliant on you, you shouldn't have them in your care.

@MrZoomah

10 ай бұрын

@@jessbellis9510 No matter how much money it costs supporting families, it's cheaper than foster care and much cheaper than the torture placements known as group homes. (Which I have worked in for 3 years). Placing a kid in a group home costs $1800 in Australian dollars... per day. That's right. $650,000 per year. That's on the low end too we some estimates pushing $1mil a year. And in over 90% of cases the kid will come out with a criminal record and addiction due to the other traumatised kids they are placed with. (Note, it's similar in the USA but it varies by state) You could employ a nurse, a psychologist and a chef to spend 8 hours per day with the mum for the same cost as to put a child in a group home. (Not that I think that's what is needed to support a mum) So the cost of a friendly face coming around to drop off some shopping, or to even come around every day to offer some supports is nothing compared to putting a kid in care. People have to remember that most parents love their children. I've seen parents do amazing things...but only with help. Unfortunately, governments worldwide refuse to do this. In my area they reduced kids in foster care by 20% by a nurse visiting at risk mum's once a week for the first 6 months of the babies life. Post natal depression also fell in the area. They cut the funding last year.

@exosproudmamabear558

10 ай бұрын

​​@@jessbellis9510It is not like depression says I am coming as long as ypu do not have bipolar disorder or such. You can get it anytime in your life and if you dont have a partner,family that can look after children at the time what are you gonna do? As the person said they abuse the children in foster care that the children fare worse than staying with their parents. It is big problem that needs systemical solutions such as government supporting the family financially and physically. Giving the woman free healthcare for the depression.

@chickensdone1

10 ай бұрын

I believe it. I live in a rural town in PA. I have a piece of ish cousin that’s on government assistance and continues to pop babies out left and right. She makes her 8 year old boy make food and care for the brothers/sisters she does have (she had 6 kids total, two taken from her custody). My wife’s mother has custody of the other two children of hers (one has autism, the other had his arm broken as a baby by his father). She took up for the guy that broke her son’s arm, and still defends him today. This p.o.s. has since moved on to another guy and popped out some kids to him. One day this guy was shooting a pellet gun in his backyard and left the children unattended. According to the p.o.s. Mother and father, their youngest boy ran in front of the father and the father shot him in the head with the pellet gun. The boy suffered a TBI and is never going to live a normal life without requiring assistance. His brother, the 8 y/o who has to cook and clean for his siblings, witnessed everything and requires extensive therapy. He went from being an ornery, playful boy to being mean and callous. He no longer has a youthful spark in his eyes. Instead, he has cold/dead eyes. The father and mother had the nerve to blame him for not watching his younger brother, and the father is constantly cruel to him as a result. Since then, he has become increasingly violent, and has even pulled knives and other weapons on people. I have no doubt he will turn to drugs and/or be a killer when he grows up. The father was initially arrested, but somehow got a sweetheart deal in court where he was only sentenced with probation and time served. CPS has been called on them numerous times since. They have done absolutely nothing to help those poor children. And she continues to collect from government assistance, popping out baby after baby. I don’t typically support the death penalty or sterilization… but just thinking of her being free while actively ruining her kids’ lives makes me think otherwise.

What's worse, this vile woman didn't even _try_ to hide how psychotic she is! She showed & *proudly* told everyone exactly how cruel she was to her kids. And still, this was allowed to continue for YEARS. So many people failed those kids. This has to be stopped.

@enotsnavdier6867

10 ай бұрын

Because there are so many people who consider themselves "tough parents" but are just abusive. And they don't view that kinda of stuff as serious red flags

@Kjf365

10 ай бұрын

If she really was trying to be a good parent, she would at least be upset about it. My parents spanked me as a kid, but they didn't want to and always treated it as a last resort. If you are smiling about punishing your children, take that as a sign there's something wrong with you and get help.

@ScottyDoesntKnow69

10 ай бұрын

Anyone who has dealt with CPS knows that it’s a terrible organization that couldn’t care less about kids

@saltworth2570

10 ай бұрын

You know whats the worst thing about psychopathic behaviour? Its that they dont think anything is wrong, its all fine for them.

@sensienccneicnec5317

10 ай бұрын

@@ScottyDoesntKnow69me and my family were in the system. no matter how many cries me and my brother gave telling these fucks that we loved our mother they still threatened to take us away cause she would sometimes spank us. then one lady who was with CPS ditched me in the middle of a busy street cause i have adhd and was an annoying ass kid. cant stress it enough, FUCK cps

I had sort of the same thing where we weren't allowed to eat until the chores were done, but the only chores we had to get done were feeding the animals.

Not wanting to tell the authorities part, while it isn't right, actually makes sense. When you're in a 3rd person perspective of that situation, it would make sense to immediately contact authorities. But when you have connections to these people, like siblings, it makes things harder. Yes you want to protect the kids, but you're also going to lose your relationship with your sister. It's tough. I have a friend that has an abusive dad, and I've told my parents about it, but I'm terrified to tell authorities because the dad is a really bad guy, and would probably harm me. It's a really hard situation to be put in.

Imagine the uphill battle those kids are gonna have regarding maintaining any faith in authority or humanity… “My mom abused us while thousands watched, and nothing was done about it.” Like they’re gonna grow up to be activists or nihilists cause no way can you trust a system that allowed that to happen to you once you’ve wrapped your head around it… Lacerations and duct tape… I can scarcely imagine.

@vibevizier6512

10 ай бұрын

Activism would be a good thing to come from them tbh. They have a horrifying perspective on the eorst of the world, and using that to help others escape similarly terrible shit situations would be invaluable. I just wish em the best.

@madisonlongley5082

10 ай бұрын

That is if the kids are able to seek therapy and don’t commit suicide if they have those kinds of ideations. I hope they are able to rise above the situation.

@An_Average_Idiot

10 ай бұрын

There is absolutely no way none of those kids will grow up without any form of bias/distaste for the government/superiors (I cant remember the word for it rn). One of the worst parts about all this was that the thousands that watched their abuser _tried_ to do something about it but the law/people enforcing the law was inadequate and refused to help them.

@JBravo69

9 ай бұрын

Witnessing a crime and doing nothing… isn’t that kinda criminal? Lock those 2m parents up!!

@Kitsuragi556

9 ай бұрын

​@JBravo69 Witnessing a crime on video doesn't count unless possession of the material itself is illegal, like cp. Watching an isis beheading video, for example, isn't illegal, so neither is this. Plus, the content they posted was subjectively immoral but not exactly illegal.

As someone who has had their "food privileges" and "bedroom privileges" taken away when they were younger, I feel horrible for those kids. That's not something you can just recover from in a few weeks, months, even years. It impacts you physically, mentally, even socially, and my heart goes out to everybody else who's had to go through that.

@RenEatsHands

10 ай бұрын

Not sure why but your comment specifically struck me very hard and i just wanted to say thank you. I went without a proper bedroom for 7 years, and only had one for half the year for as long as i can remember before that. Most people I've spoken to about it has seemed rather unfazed, but i hope comments like yours and others put into perspective the shear weight it can have. Not just by how many things end up damaged, but by how long it stays.

@rivviegobrr714

10 ай бұрын

I feel for you 🩵 I literally ran away from home at 15 because of the same type of stuff

@aaricanderson9160

10 ай бұрын

Happens hope u doin better now

@deftd0ll99

10 ай бұрын

​@@RenEatsHandshow could anyone hear that and be unfazed? im so sorry love and i hope your future makes up for all that pain you went through

Not the sister saying she kept quiet for the children while the children were getting starved and getting their bedroom taken away FOR 3 YEARS

My mom used to (and still kinda does) starve me after i got in trouble for measly stuff like making noise in the house or wetting my bed (i was 6-9 with anxiety and PTSD). Im so glad this woman is gone, and i hope these kids can heal properly with her gone, so they dont have to go through internalized trauma like me.

@POSTERIZED109

9 ай бұрын

I am sorry that you had to experience those moments and still do, it's horrible how some people think that is okay to treat their child.

@psychicbyinternet

8 ай бұрын

I'm really sorry you had to go through that. That's not ok. Have you considered reaching out to a teacher or school counselor or calling CPS? If you don't feel safe doing so, that's ok. Maybe you could reach out to an adult you trust. That's awful what is happening to you.

@POSTERIZED109

7 ай бұрын

@@psychicbyinternet Absolutely they should do so. That is literally abuse

This is why as a survivor of child abuse will say that just because someone has the biological ability to create a child does not mean they should be a parent. I hope this woman and her sister are locked away for life and the children get better parental figures and lots of therapy.

@sirandy105

9 ай бұрын

Another quote that relates to that is "Every child deserves a parent but not all parents deserves a child"

@Tamo_thehighschoolartist

9 ай бұрын

I've heard actual horror stories about CA from others. Must've been absolute hell for you. Glad you're doing well now man!

@AA-mm6wu

9 ай бұрын

@@Tamo_thehighschoolartist Thanks! I’ve been in therapy for the past 10 years to process what I have been through. It was hell for sure and I ended up cutting off contact with my abusive parent for my own mental health and betterment.

@neonhalos

9 ай бұрын

it's not her sister, actually. hildebrant is a cult leader that roped ruby into another cult after ruby and kevin split. not that ruby needed to be in *another* cult to be abusive, but her actual sisters are pretty appalled by this information apparently

@emboarepic

9 ай бұрын

Probably 20 years

I can’t imagine being a child and having to be afraid of the person who’s supposed to love and protect you the most.

@DoopamineHit

10 ай бұрын

Many kids unfortunately are experiencing this right now, hope they will go through this and become what they parents aren’t. I’m trying to be what my father wasn’t, unfortunately in his way he thought me what to not be in life.

@ghost_curse

10 ай бұрын

It's not fun.

@megan_james

10 ай бұрын

You deny your own feelings, creating immense feelings of guilt and shame for simply existing let alone feeling. Perception is blurred from reality, and until you get out of it- it continues to eat away your sense of self and any potential happiness…. ❤ poor babies, hope they get therapy

@StrayShaz

10 ай бұрын

I experienced it as a child. It is awful and terrifying and has lasting psychological effects/damage

@theantitroll

10 ай бұрын

@@StrayShaz I’m so so sorry. I hope you can find peace and that your abusers meet a painful death.

This happens a lot. Im 24 now, but my siblings were and I were abused by our step father. My mum has a mental illness. My brother and me asked for help. They would come and view. However that was it, they would be like aw nothing is wrong. My brother and me got waterboarded if we ate a piece of toast with peanut butter if we didn't ask for it… He is now finally out of our lives, after one of my siblings passed away. There are countless cases like this going on.

@Aries_TheBull

12 күн бұрын

It’s always the Step Fathers

Tbeh there's a specific kind of parenting media that deadass convinces me a nontrivial percentage of parents had kids specifically because they wanted to abuse someone who had very little knowledge, independence or legal recourse

as someone who was a victim of child abuse, cps is worthless half the time. and it doesn’t help the situation if the children are scared of the outcome and won’t fess up and they just take that at face value. we had cops coming to our house EVERY NIGHT and they kept us there. holes in the walls and visible broken furniture and these dipsticks were just like “oh yeah that’s fine just go to ur grandmas for the night and your literal nightmare will be out in the morning” our justice system and our system in place to protect children is so badly flawed.

@dawgholup

10 ай бұрын

Some parents view kids as some sort of toy, a plaything to mess with. And that is nothing short of fucking revolting. I'm so sorry that had happened to you, I wish someone had tooken action, and I truly wish you and whatever victim was in that hellhole was provided with safety and love.

@kenirainseeker539

10 ай бұрын

The sad truth of the matter is, the state doesn't want abused kids. CPS goes after normal families instead because they want healthy young kids to sell to the highest bidder. The state doesn't want to have to care for mentally/physically unhealthy children until they're 18, they want kids they can quickly adopt out and make a quick buck from.

@kikidoesitall

10 ай бұрын

In many places CPS is afraid to do anything because well - look at the comments on videos of CPS removing children in a lot of cases and watch how many people say CPS is evil, CPS is child traffickers, this and that. Add to the fact that the social workers within CPS are woefully overworked, underpaid, barely able to make student loan payments (often they have to have a Master's degree for this absolutely thankless job) and have none of the resources they need to do their job the way it needs to be done. We can't blame CPS for this - society is the one who made CPS as non-functional as it is. We need to blame legislators for not funding them properly and as a society judge them fairly for doing the job instead of berating them no matter what they do.

@kikidoesitall

10 ай бұрын

@@kenirainseeker539 See? My exact point. Apparently the social workers getting paid pennies are now in on this grand conspiracy to steal healthy children from "normal" families? Like...conspiracies have destroyed so many functions of government in this country because people think that when they function poorly it's out of malice.

@s4ferin

10 ай бұрын

@@kenirainseeker539So true

Sadly, the fact that child protective services brushed it off for that long is really not that bizarre, nor is the fact that she had such a huge following. I only know who she is because I follow a ton of accounts that talk about childhood trauma, child abuse, gentle parenting, etc. and this woman was called out for being an abuser YEARS ago only to have people insist that they were "too soft" and their children were going to end up spoiled if they thought this woman was abusive. Child abuse survivors can clock these things from a mile away. Remember that people will always show the best version of themselves in public to protect their image. Starving her daughter was the best version of herself. Also social workers are extremely overworked, underpaid, undertrained people with some of the least consequences for their behaviors. I dont know a single abuse victim who was actually taken seriously by CPS even if they had perfect adult sized hand-shaped bruises on their arms. Social workers abandon hundreds if not thousands of children to die in abusive homes every year because they dont care, dont want to put in the work, and dont have consequences for their behaviors. I once spoke to someone who said their social worker told her "your parents have every right to hit you. If you don't like it, then learn to do what they ask of you." In most cases, the police & CPS don't actually intervene until the child is dying or dead. I'm glad that little boy was able to save himself before it was too late.

@abagailrisch2178

10 ай бұрын

This exact reason I am going to school so I can be DCFS when I was younger I was let down by so many I want to make sure I can help everyone in that situation

@LyaJen

10 ай бұрын

I was with you until “they don’t care, don’t want to put in the work” That’s generalizing. It is true SOMETIMES, but not all of the time. I’m a social worker myself and I have plenty of colleagues who do their absolute best, but let me tell you the burn out is real. They don’t do enough to support social workers, and the over all structure and policies are not always beneficial to those in need. It’s very sad when you know someone needs a specific type of help but cannot get them that help

@Hydroxoid

10 ай бұрын

CPS in general is notorious for being lazy and not doing their jobs

@LilChuunosuke

10 ай бұрын

@LyaJen my aunt is a social worker and my parents called her to talk to me when they caught me moving out at 18. she literally did not care when i told her my mother gave me tips on how to kill myself in the least inconvenient way. She told me i needed to stop hurting my parents' feelings and stay by their side. Children of abuse are systemically oppressed by the people who are PAID to protect us. I have made DOZENS of comments online about this issue, the majority of which defend good social workers. I shouldn't have to "ACAB doesn't include the 1% of good cops" every single time I talk about the system that doesn't punish adults for knowingly and intentionally leaving children to die. I'm sorry your job fucking sucks. But i should be allowed to talk about how it ENDANGERED MY LIFE without making an aside to fawn over how kind-hearted and hard-working some of you are every time I talk about being left to die as a literal child by every system that was put in place to protect me from harm.

@Tenuous.tomato

10 ай бұрын

It’s a more complex issue than that. While yes many social workers don’t care (which is horrid), so much of it is burnout/being overworked and not enough pay. There’s a lack of social workers because of how many cases each person is responsible for (upwards of 100+) with no resources for the workers feeling burnt out/compassion fatigue and the pay isn’t worth the toll it takes on the worker. It doesn’t excuse the behavior and overlooking of cases but there are larger systematic issues contributing to the apathy in workers

It's funny Charlie described "8 Passengers" as sounding like a horror movie because the very first Alien movie was based on a horror short story called "The 8th Passenger."

You are one of the most kind hearted people on not just this platform, but on the planet, Charlie, kids should not have to go through that type of life, kids deserve love, comfort, and care.

Now we're finding out the other children were in a locked panic room. This case is sickening and seriously makes my blood boil. And yes, the father needs to be arrested also.

@loml_quanxi

10 ай бұрын

right? there's no way that the father is innocent. Why would the kids go ask for the neighbours' help instead of their own father? Or maybe they did, but he's just as abusive as his wife.

@sytherwusky

10 ай бұрын

I think that KZread needs an actual human monitoring team

@tinminator8905

10 ай бұрын

​@@loml_quanxiOr this is an abusive relationship. In many of those the kids are also abused and the partner is a victim too. We have no clue what was going on in that house.

@carlosperalta1714

10 ай бұрын

That is extra effed up!!!!!

@elseggs6504

10 ай бұрын

​@@tinminator8905He can go fuck himself with a barbed traffic cone. Theres no way he couldnt have done anything to get the kids away from that disgusting ghoul. Either he was in on this or he is so incredibly incompetent as a father that he cant be trusted to keep them safe ever again.