everyone wants DRAMA. ⎮ Unedited Q+A

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FRIENDS FRIENDS FRIENDS!!! Today is an unedited Q+A where I get honest and real about things. We talk about the drama of moving, everyones assumptions, and why I have been distant.
“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." Romans 12:21
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  • @ashlynnlemos8676
    @ashlynnlemos8676 Жыл бұрын

    for the drama aspect! i heard a pastor say recently, we crave gossip because we were created to spread the good news. & if we are not spreading the good news we are gonna be spreading something because that’s our nature.

  • @maggykitoto

    @maggykitoto

    Жыл бұрын

    Woww that’s deep, that makes a lot of sense!

  • @ilyneventura

    @ilyneventura

    Жыл бұрын

    Ooooooo that’s good

  • @danyellaw21
    @danyellaw21 Жыл бұрын

    I love what you did here Kian. Refraining from sharing all the drama/details is such a powerful act of leadership and spiritual maturity that as Christians we sometimes need to be reminded of. Feeding into drama takes our eyes away from the bigger picture, and some things are just better kept private. So thank you for using your channel to point us back to God and his better plan. His work is brightly evident in you and Kyle. Keep shining, girly!

  • @imariapassao

    @imariapassao

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen ❤

  • @Simonejoy12345

    @Simonejoy12345

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree, she has great wisdom.

  • @BethelGreeen

    @BethelGreeen

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @chrissijohnson1091
    @chrissijohnson1091 Жыл бұрын

    Something that I've been walking through in my own life is learning that not every perfect opportunity or open door is from God or the will of God for my life. Sometimes things just don't work out and that's okay. Other times, the enemy is cunning and knows how to deceive, distract and what will appeal to our flesh. We must lean into the Lord and carefully discern to stay on the narrow path. God is merciful however and can use any opportunity for good if we humble ourselves and surrender it to Him and ask Him how we need to grow or learn from it for the future. God Bless

  • @MollysStory
    @MollysStory Жыл бұрын

    I love your self restraint to not share drama. Seriously, we need more of that in the Christian community. This video blessed me Kian! :) Thankful for your channel and that you are still here and posting.

  • @JarisaM
    @JarisaM Жыл бұрын

    “I was bitter and annoyed at Christians … and prideful” 😂🤣 that part was funny but SUCH a real point you shared!

  • @BrittanyDawn
    @BrittanyDawn Жыл бұрын

    I see so much spiritual maturity in you through this video and I’m proud of you for that! love you sister!

  • @vierrra8507
    @vierrra8507 Жыл бұрын

    The moving situation reminded me of something similar that happened in my life. I had a job that I dreaded. Going to work everyday was a battle because the job pushed me out of my comfort zone. But I knew it was God's will for me to be there. Even though I barely lasted one year I eventually got a new job, my dream job that was only available to me because of the experience that I got from the first job. God helped me through the year and ultimately gave me what I had been asking for 😊

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, you never know what a hard situation is leading into next 😊

  • @bethanydel
    @bethanydel Жыл бұрын

    The internet is a wild place and I couldn't imagine having so many strangers having strong opinions on my life. Love you and your vulnerability, your youtube channel has been a huge encouragement in me trying to re-connect with a Church community and my faith.

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    Жыл бұрын

    It is quite a wild experience 😅 I'm so glad that you are reconnecting with the body of christ and your faith. That's all I could ever want from my videos.

  • @JarisaM

    @JarisaM

    Жыл бұрын

    RIGHT?! omg, like, the audacity of them!!! At the end of the day it’s HER/kyle’s business and they didn’t even ever have to go into details about ANYthing for them to even be able to speculate in the first place. Viewers be way too entitled but you’d think maybe not on a Christian channel… 🙄 the devil really doesn’t rest 👎🏽 It’s so messed up to me because kian out of all ppl? Like FR?? Kian’s channel has been such a blessing to me as well and I just love her as a person! ❤️ May God bless the hearts of those attacking her situation.

  • @suewolfgang5130
    @suewolfgang5130 Жыл бұрын

    Kian, I’m always impressed with how you handle yourself and how you passionately share your faith with all of us!!! Avoiding drama shows that God has gifted you with His wisdom and discernment!!! Love and hugs!!! 🙌💛🙏

  • @angelicaortiz263
    @angelicaortiz263 Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes we won’t know what happened in the spirit. Being obedient when he calls us somewhere can sow seeds in the spirit. You mentioned maybe you missed it but HE knows why he called you there. I heard something today that said when a seed grows, it grows underground before you can see it. We don’t always get to see the end result but you are still open to him and pursuing your relationship with him. Its through relationship that things flow from. Glad you stay true to that and not to every voice that has an opinion ❤

  • @kylewolfgang
    @kylewolfgang Жыл бұрын

    DANNNGGG THIS IS DEFINITELY MY NEW FAVORITE VIDEO!!!! So real. So true. So powerful. This is just a testament to how the Lord truly uses everything and makes all things good for those who love Him according to His purposes. Also more of God's plan and purpose as to why He had us move to the farm in the first place for just that season... on a spiritual level 👀👀 Love how He uses you! That ending got me lit babe! That was the fire of the Holy Spirit delivering you, healing you, filling you, and empowering you... and now spreading out to all of us through you! Thank you Jesus! I'm so proud of you and love you so much!

  • @JarisaM

    @JarisaM

    Жыл бұрын

    I LOVE YALL FR! 😭❤️ suchhhh cuties! May God keep blessing you guys and your marriage 😊🙌🏽🙏🏽

  • @happyy9479
    @happyy9479 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Kian, I love how you were so honest and vulnerable in your video. I can imagine how hard it must be to be surrounded by negativity and criticizing comments from social media sometimes, but remember that no matter how many negative comments you may receive there will always be a community who is greatly encouraged by your videos and your words. I love how you mention Jesus and your faith randomly in your videos at times. You’re videos have always been a blessing to me and the fact that you show don’t always work out „perfectly“ (like the farm house situation) just makes everything more real and relatable :) Feel appreciated and be blessed 💖

  • @emilywing359
    @emilywing359 Жыл бұрын

    Kian you are a blessing. Your videos, especially talks like this are refreshing and genuine. You have a light that leaves people hopeful and uplifted afterwards and that is rare on social medias! I have followed you and Kyle for a very long time- I feel proud of you and admire you! I always love to get wisdom from you. Thank you!

  • @allthingshealthy2314
    @allthingshealthy2314 Жыл бұрын

    I love your perspective on things and I never thought ill of you and Kyle for moving a lot. Hope this new place is a better situation for ya’ll. Sending love

  • @kileyw.9
    @kileyw.9 Жыл бұрын

    You choose to share your life on social media and constantly leave things out but then allude to the fact that it wasn't good. If you didn't want to put it out there, then just say you were moving. Pretty simple. Also - I totally agree - the nonstop "God's will" is insulting to people who truly pray and seek His will. You seek your own fleshly wants and then blame everything but yourselves when it constantly doesn't work. Stop using His name for views, for your ego. Admit that certainly wasn't God's will and maybe people would respect you more.

  • @gabl3400
    @gabl3400 Жыл бұрын

    I love that you’re trusting God no matter what! And like you said just because you are moving around a lot doesn’t mean God isn’t working in your life-in fact that means God IS on the move and that’s a good thing. Stay positive girl!!

  • @minnie777
    @minnie777 Жыл бұрын

    Love the way you approach situations like this and how you're talking about it. You are very mature and constantly growing. and I can see it through your videos. Proud of you girl. God bless

  • @isabellalacy9901
    @isabellalacy9901 Жыл бұрын

    Wow wow wow kian!!! This was so so good! Felt like a sermon! You are such an inspiration to me and so many other girls! You truly explain things so well and my jaw was on the floor watching this! Hope you are having an amazing day! Ilysm

  • @nikarosiehaasbroek
    @nikarosiehaasbroek Жыл бұрын

    I admire your trust in God with all that's been going on in your life. It's so refreshing to see someone be so free in knowing that God is in control. May God bless you❤️

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Nika, bless you too!

  • @sophialutz7537
    @sophialutz7537 Жыл бұрын

    I can't imagine the people at the farm and their family would be very thrilled to have the darkness/heaviness etc shared so publicly without permission. Isn't this adding to gossip as well? Just a thought 🤍

  • @kaeski2345
    @kaeski2345 Жыл бұрын

    Loved all of this!! Thank you for being so real. You’re making such an impact in people’s lives and God is using you even from doing this video! It was so inspiring and encouraging.

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Kaelin!

  • @breannaleigh321
    @breannaleigh321 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤ love this, needed to hear this message too!!! God bless sis!

  • @nancydroge7682
    @nancydroge7682 Жыл бұрын

    Amen! You nailed it Kian! You are wise beyond your years, you have an amazing heart for the Lord & always, you reflect back to God all the honor & glory! This is a Q. & A. the world would benefit from watching!

  • @JarisaM
    @JarisaM Жыл бұрын

    Wowwww mannnnn…. The part abt protecting our hearts while dating! 😅 so relatable. I have given far too much away to such short term things on multiple occasions 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ May the Lord keep molding us in his sovereign ways 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @lightofthecross4513
    @lightofthecross4513 Жыл бұрын

    That part where you said see your husband not as where they are but what they'll be !! I needed to hear that 🙏🏾 🙌🏽 💯

  • @karalyneirene1591
    @karalyneirene1591 Жыл бұрын

    I think it's awesome you guys are really leaning into the Lord and trusting Him on these moves! Its cool to watch you grow on this channel and encourages me to work harder at my relationship with God- so thank you!

  • @portiawebb533
    @portiawebb533 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your transparency and for keeping it 💯, Kian! Blessings to your and your family❣️🕊

  • @joyfullyjaycee
    @joyfullyjaycee Жыл бұрын

    The part where you said you felt like God was sending Christian’s to that property to reach the owners. Phewwww!!!!! It makes so much sense now. And you meeting the previous couple seems like confirmation. I can relate to missing the opportunity to battle in the spirit at a specific place or time. He always has more appointments.

  • @zillalovesjesus
    @zillalovesjesus Жыл бұрын

    thank you for talking so good on bitternes and how its shifted

  • @amberh476
    @amberh476 Жыл бұрын

    Would be great to hear more about how you learned to let your guard down with Kyle after being betrayed. It's no small thing to learn how to move past and it is inspiring to hear that you have been able to successfully navigate that.

  • @lucycoons
    @lucycoons Жыл бұрын

    So wise! Thank you for sharing, Kian. You’re doing great 😊

  • @KatieMusser
    @KatieMusser Жыл бұрын

    Love this & you Kian!!!!

  • @briggyjudith
    @briggyjudith Жыл бұрын

    I love these honest chat videos from you!

  • @lightofthecross4513
    @lightofthecross4513 Жыл бұрын

    I also loved how you shared the last part "little story" I agree, I think sometimes we do need to pray for others who don't have Jesus or know Jesus and not get bitter about how they treat us or how they are, God is using you and I appreciate you sharing with us. May God continue to use you more for his kingdom

  • @ashleyhardy3434
    @ashleyhardy3434 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video you gave me something to listen to while driving that felt more real and raw. Refreshing. Eye opening.

  • @JarisaM
    @JarisaM Жыл бұрын

    Perioddddddd sis!!!! 😭🤧 let these faithless or maybe just undiscernful Christians speculate 🙄✋🏽 may the Lord deliver them and in the meantime help them work on being slow to speak/ hushing upon what they don’t understand! 😅🙏🏽

  • @celinaspeakslife
    @celinaspeakslife Жыл бұрын

    Love this Kian, loved the older version too, but you get it lol! Just so happy to see you bill of life and it’s showing and I feel encouraged to go pray and love Jesus all the more after watching this!

  • @karen_hockaday
    @karen_hockaday Жыл бұрын

    Amen! Thank you Kian. The shift is amazing once you realize you can control your focus. We were all sinners

  • @keziahu1428
    @keziahu1428 Жыл бұрын

    It's the wisdom for me!!! So Jesus evident, and I love that for you Kian.

  • @oliviadixson
    @oliviadixson Жыл бұрын

    Kian I just want to say that I absolutely love your channel! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Olivia! 🤎

  • @sherbetstraw8605
    @sherbetstraw8605 Жыл бұрын

    Love your story about respecting and supporting your husband. Powerful and love your openness as always!

  • @estherjhernandez
    @estherjhernandez Жыл бұрын

    Praying for you! ❤ Keep shining God’s light 💡 I’m sure it’s not easy having a platform but always remember why you do what you do. Regardless of what people may say, just be obedient to Gods Word and He’ll work the the rest out for you 😊

  • @wisdomforhealthhappinessandsaf

    @wisdomforhealthhappinessandsaf

    Жыл бұрын

    Well said Esther, Amen!

  • @ItsEverythingEuodia
    @ItsEverythingEuodia Жыл бұрын

    Yeesss guarding your heart is definitely important 🤍

  • @hereiam1041
    @hereiam1041 Жыл бұрын

    People forget that God's ways are not our ways. If he says move, you move. If he says stay still, stay still. I believe that these instances were ways for him to show you that he hears you as well as showing you that you can trust him. Just from what I observed. Love ya Kian 😘.

  • @jordyreads
    @jordyreads Жыл бұрын

    just an alternative perspective, you have purposefully created a channel where people are meant to invest in your life. The things you say, the stories you tell, etc. I’ve been following for a while and you use certain titles or “clickbait” that can even entice or make people want to know more. Off the top of my head I can think of the exact video title that brought me to this channel and it was very …idk… intense or provocative? I also totally agree that our culture IS addicted to drama and gossip and you are not wrong about that. Just food for thought. I think we all play a role in this. ❤️

  • @alexsimone804
    @alexsimone804 Жыл бұрын

    Kyle is working with Jeff Bethke!!! Can’t gloss over that! That is so freaking cool. Also yes yes yes to all you said about gossip.

  • @imariapassao
    @imariapassao Жыл бұрын

    Not everyone, I asked about your hair care routine 😂😂😂😂😂 I trust that you and your husband have a good relationship with God, so how you deal with it is your’s and God’s business. Continue to be authentic like this ❤️

  • @JarisaM

    @JarisaM

    Жыл бұрын

    Period!

  • @aineraffertyart
    @aineraffertyart Жыл бұрын

    Love the way you wanted to starve the flesh and the drama, definitely a mature approach to take especially being online with a large following. Very classy and mature Kian 🥰🙌🏻 keep on shining your light for God you guys! ❤

  • @shayanaprice8744
    @shayanaprice8744 Жыл бұрын

    The accountability 👏🏾🙏🏾 I really needed this video 😢😅

  • @Simonejoy12345
    @Simonejoy12345 Жыл бұрын

    Your matured beautifully. So much wisdom in this video. You were beautiful before but as we get older and experience life, God speaks life and we learn and grow. Your right about the season on the farm. Your seeing from a Spiritual perspective. Our war is in the spiritual realm. I am going through something ATM, and even though someone has really hurt me over the years. Now God is showing me where I went wrong, and how I could of treated the situation better. It's being soft, so God can speak to us. Allowing God to break down our walls, to change and grow. I love how you cover Kyle too, your covering your husband. Amazing xx

  • @samanthaferch8124
    @samanthaferch8124 Жыл бұрын

    Wow! What an example of God’s strength being made perfect in our weakness

  • @Finn-ex8kl
    @Finn-ex8kl Жыл бұрын

    I think, for many of us, it was NOT about “wanting drama” or about how your exciting video about your “God story” didn’t work out (I believe it was all part of His plan)…. the reason why most were probably curious is that you just swept it under the carpet and didn’t address it. One minute you were there, the next you were packing up and moving elsewhere. It was all just so sudden and there was no explanation so it was confusing. You said that you would elaborate in next video but then weeks passed and it was all forgotten about. Whether you perceive it this way or not, you have a very big online following and people kind of look up to you (in a way). We are curious and invested in your channel and your lives. You’ve always been very open and honest and share a lot of personal stuff so it was just strange that you dismissed the whole moving from the farm thing. We didn’t need details, just a brief summary like you did just now. I think you’ll find that most people love and care for you both and always want the best for you but we were just confused as you usually would share this kind of thing. God bless you both. 💞

  • @warrior7787
    @warrior7787 Жыл бұрын

    But you sharing what happened and how you handled it helps us and encouraging us to handle problems

  • @sarafehr7217
    @sarafehr7217 Жыл бұрын

    You are so inspirational❤

  • @JG-ii5nt
    @JG-ii5nt Жыл бұрын

    I am proud of you, Kian. I see spiritual maturity in you❤️❤️❤️❤️. You did the right thing. Also, as Christians, we need to learn how and when to communicate our opinions in a loving way or to just pray instead of talking. Lately God has been showing me that things I say (with a good intention), are not always necessary or well received by my Christian friends. Anyways, I just want to apologize if any comments I posted, hurt you in a way or another. Be blessed, my sister.🙏✨️✨️

  • @mjalphonse
    @mjalphonse Жыл бұрын

    I think people asked about what happened at the farm because you mentioned in a prior video that you would talk more about it in a future video. But I respect that you set boundaries and didn’t share the dirt with the situation out of honor of the owners of the farm ❤️

  • @samandhannahehst4777
    @samandhannahehst4777 Жыл бұрын

    Praise the Lord for ur light in this world

  • @wendyg-su7bm
    @wendyg-su7bm11 ай бұрын

    I love you Kian❤❤❤ you are beautiful inside and out. I had two dreams we were together. you grasp that the gospel is about freedom.

  • @wendyg-su7bm

    @wendyg-su7bm

    11 ай бұрын

    🦋🦅🦋

  • @wendyg-su7bm

    @wendyg-su7bm

    11 ай бұрын

    Proverbs 22:11 He (or she) who loves a pure heart and whose speech is gracious will have the king for his (or her) friend

  • @wisdomforhealthhappinessandsaf
    @wisdomforhealthhappinessandsaf Жыл бұрын

    Hi Kian, after watching some of your videos especially your testimony, I am convinced you are struggling so much because you have such an incredibly kind and genuine heart, and this makes you a threat to the devil. I believe both you and Kyle are threats to the devil, so he is working on throwing as many distractions as he can in front of both of you. I believe you and Kyle will be victorious because Jesus knows your hearts and He so appreciates what truly wonderful Souls that you are. Please know you are both in my prayers. James 4 vs 7 Resist the devil and he will flee from you.

  • @belleingersoll6240
    @belleingersoll6240 Жыл бұрын

    beautiful kian , W O W ! where do i even start ? this is such a beautiful video && a beautiful testament of His faithfulness to us ! i am in awe of the work that the Lord has done in your ♥︎ ! before i could see the resentment towards kyle && just recently i have seen the loving side of kian && it is so so beautiful . i also could saw you being very distant in your relationship with the Lord because of all the bitterness && for a while i was worried but i am so so grateful && so so in awe of how the Lord has grown you so so much ! i wholeheartedly can see that the Lord has worked on your ♡ && it is so beautiful to see you step out in His obedience ! continue to lean into Him && His goodness && not on what people say or think of you ! 🕊️🤎

  • @taylorberthusen
    @taylorberthusen Жыл бұрын

    This video was so refreshing! I missed hearing you talk so in depth about your faith. I have a Q about speaking in tongues. Growing up Christian I’ve always heard it’s something that isn’t relevant anymore because anyone can talk directly to God. In the past you had to speak in tongues to speak to God. So why do it now when that bridge has been gapped by Jesus? Would be curious to hear your thoughts❤️

  • @FearlessLeis
    @FearlessLeis Жыл бұрын

    😆 love when she said i feel like im rich. Haha. I feel that. I used to be a penny pincher, but after getting a taste of a credit card, reverse uno.

  • @mzbreannaa
    @mzbreannaa Жыл бұрын

    Hi Kian, I just want to input on when you talk about being content and how it can be hard to be content. 1 Timothy 6:6-8. Even if you have food and clothing with these we will be content. We all needy humans so I get it but God will grace is sufficient for us and godliness with contentment is a great gain 😊

  • @shealovesfashio
    @shealovesfashio Жыл бұрын

    Okay can we give Kyle credit here! Not that there is anything AT ALL to critique about Kian’s gorgeous manifestation. But I was just watching Nate and Suttons last video, and it’s clear to me that Kyle already has enough emotional intelligence to understand his wife’s needs in the self esteem department, and that he would never make those kind of comments to Kian. I don’t know its so bad to gossip and I shouldn’t compare. But it’s awesome to hear your husband makes you feel Hot and secure! Because you are hot, and your relationship is secure in the lord. So yeah just great things between Kian and Kyle!

  • @amygiommetti1661
    @amygiommetti1661 Жыл бұрын

    Great video love you Kian

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    Жыл бұрын

    Love you Amy!

  • @ItsEverythingEuodia
    @ItsEverythingEuodia Жыл бұрын

    Hi Kian about the move What you’re saying completely makes sense. Makes me think about the parable where the owner of a farm kept sending servants and then eventually his son I think it’s somewhere in Luke?

  • @sherbetstraw8605
    @sherbetstraw8605 Жыл бұрын

    5:15 you can still battle now for the place - pray in retrospect ! Maybe that was part of the plan. Massive respect to you guys.

  • @dawnmorgan6249
    @dawnmorgan6249 Жыл бұрын

    Like a few others …. I often enjoy your videos but with your most recent move I felt a bit jerked around by your theology of “God provided so miraculously for you to be at the farm” and then your attitude being there seemed to change so quickly. Even if 3 months was the plan all along, I guess I don’t hear you equally considering that maybe God is wanting to teach/train you how to be more discerning in trusting God, praying, and doing a bit more prayerful research in your moving decisions? (Humility :-) BTW, when you moved to Hawaii you also said you were going for ministry there. What do you consider your ministries? You tube? Or you just wanted to get away from the pace of the mainland? Take care. 💗

  • @r.m5883

    @r.m5883

    Жыл бұрын

    Toxic like Dawn soap. “Humility:-)”

  • @maddielinch2046
    @maddielinch2046 Жыл бұрын

    Just because something doesn't work out how we expected DOES NOT MEAN it wasn't God's will. He might have had important lessons for you to learn while living on the farm and it's not anybody's job to question how God leads you in your life. I'm sorry people are so entitled and try to act like they know God's purposes and plans for your life. If you are walking closely to Him, seeking His will, and praying about everything then you can act in faith and still not have everything exactly how you expected. We cannot fit God into a box! Even if you put parts of your life online, it doesn't give anybody the right to butt in and accuse you for things they only see fragments from. Keep your head up and keep seeking God!

  • @sabrinanicoara4797

    @sabrinanicoara4797

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! I remember praying so hard for a renter to occupy our rental home and we got someone who we were so excited to have renting from us. It seemed like the perfect fit and a definite answer to our prayers! Only it turned out to be a huge stressful mess with only problems after problems with the renter. Eventually we had to evict them and afterwards couldn’t find a renter for months. At the time we didn’t know why it was happening like that, especially when we prayed so much about it. But God then gave us a much better arrangement with new renters at the right time. It taught us patience, faith, and reliance on God like we’ve never experienced before. It’s such a blessing to take everything from God’s hand and trust Him!!❤️ my point is that sometimes God takes us through situations that we don’t understand and we’re tempted to question Him but we are in no position to do that. What may look like a huge mess might be exactly what you need to learn invaluable lessons!

  • @saralynwhite
    @saralynwhite Жыл бұрын

    “Not a bible study but a prophesy event”… What does prophesy event mean? Like a prayer meeting?

  • @r.m5883

    @r.m5883

    Жыл бұрын

    Where some people tell the future especially pertaining to the lives of others

  • @KimlovesOT
    @KimlovesOT Жыл бұрын

    Great video, thanks for sharing! Will you explain what a “prophecy night” is? I go to a Baptist church (but really try to focus on the Bible rather than denominations) and we don’t talk much about prophecy other than OT prophecy. Just interested! Thank you ❤

  • @Jjjjjj-to6wd

    @Jjjjjj-to6wd

    Жыл бұрын

    I would like to hear more about these prophecy nights too. And some Bible reading ”quiet time” /being in the word of God -moments . I liked this video because there was a lot talking about faith and God . These Christian topics is the reason why I started watching this channel. I hope these will have bigger emphazise in the future videos too.

  • @FearlessLeis

    @FearlessLeis

    Жыл бұрын

    Greek word for inspired word of God is rhema. Anyone can hear from God as in John 10 His sheep hear His voice... so the prophetic is basically just hearing God speak to us through various ways (internal visions, impressions, much more) a rhema word is an inspired word from the logos (written word) similar to when youre reading the bible and. Verse stands out. Thats God speaking to us, since He lives within. 😊 to prophesy is just to capture Gods heart and speak what Hes saying in that moment. Some have the gift of prophecy, others are in the office of a Prophet... but we all have the spirit and ability to prophesy. Just like in the book of Joel chapter 2.... and also when Moses said he wished all would prophesy. 😇😇 hope this helps a little. Its a loaded question and would take much more than a youtube comment to explain in full.

  • @KimlovesOT

    @KimlovesOT

    Жыл бұрын

    @@FearlessLeis that is helpful, thank you! I knew a little bit about the gift of prophecy and it not meaning that people can necessarily prophesy the future but that’s all I knew. Your explanation helped a lot!

  • @FearlessLeis

    @FearlessLeis

    Жыл бұрын

    @@KimlovesOT praise God! 😇 my pleasure.

  • @KizNic
    @KizNic Жыл бұрын

    Hey Kian! Thanks for coming back on in the ending with that story girl! I have people who have hurt me. Both inside and outside the Kingdom. And as I always say, the ones in the Kingdom seem to hurt more because they should know better. I am not saying that we are perfect. No one is (whether you follow Jesus or not). But those who do follow Him should have a bit more wisdom, care and love right? Anyway... when these people hurt me I tend to want to not look them in the eye or speak to them. I don't like conflict either (but I have come a long way because before it was not that I didn't like it but that I was afraid and could not speak up for myself). But now I see that I don't have to confront them if I am not called to but I can pray for them. Amen! 🧡

  • @karisd.4730
    @karisd.4730 Жыл бұрын

    What is a prophecy night?

  • @elianamankel4573
    @elianamankel4573 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful testimony at the end! May our hearts break fro what breaks yours Jesus - let us see them as you do! We don’t need to live only ever doing as good as people are treating us - it’s not about that, we’re living for Jesus and we get to reach for a peace that surpasses all understanding and a joy that overflows even when circumstances tempt us into bitterness and frustration we don’t need to submit! Sending lots of love and prayers to you and Kyle

  • @loudlittleroar675
    @loudlittleroar675 Жыл бұрын

    Kian, not sure if you and Kyle are in or near Maui? (I know nothing about Hawaii.) Kevin Zadai is there right now with warrior notes and warrior school.

  • @makaylatroller4147
    @makaylatroller4147 Жыл бұрын

    Where did you hear the advice, “See your husband for who he will be? And “1 negative things will need 10 positive to make up for it” I’m interested to here these within context.

  • @zillalovesjesus
    @zillalovesjesus Жыл бұрын

    not everyone

  • @carson2646
    @carson2646 Жыл бұрын

    Im not sure it matters so much the details of why this move didn't work. Sometimes it just doesn't for reasons we may not even understand. You guys are young and can afford to change direction some without it being a big deal. Im a lot older than you guys but I can remember well that the first 5 years of marriage were really hard. Hang in there guys and you'll figure it out

  • @taniadenise5145
    @taniadenise5145 Жыл бұрын

    Bless you Kian!!! Only if led both yourself & Kyle could offer to pray for them & bring a thoughtful gift (if game a daily devotional or a Godly book of encouragement) Don’t justify yourself with anything and just keep living your life being led by Yahweh!!! 🙏🏻💛🕊😘🥰🤗

  • @whitney3585
    @whitney3585 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the update! I thought we weren’t sinless before the fall? Is that not true?

  • @KianTilton

    @KianTilton

    Жыл бұрын

    I could be wrong, I thought eve committed the first sin and that is when we fell. If anyone knows, please comment here

  • @whitney3585

    @whitney3585

    Жыл бұрын

    @@KianTilton yeah, that is what I have believed. I’m mostly asking because if we weren’t sinful before the fall, why would discontentment show up? It only showed up because the devil deceived them. Definitely interesting to think about!

  • @SmittenInLove

    @SmittenInLove

    Жыл бұрын

    @@whitney3585 yeah i think thats it. The point of the tree of knowing good and evil. Only then when they ate it were their eyes opened to sin. Why did they eat it? maybe not from discontentment per se but curiosity? simply not trusting what God said was enough

  • @marydolim4108
    @marydolim4108 Жыл бұрын

    My husband and I had a similar experience a few years ago. We were living on a farm doing trade work for rent and there was a lot of darkness and evil on that property. We didn't handle it well and I can completely relate to what you said; if I had been spiritually stronger and in a better place I could have battled in the spirit. Unfortunately we battled in the flesh and it's one of those seasons in our lives I think about often. It did lead us to a wonderful place to live and to a beautiful Bible teaching church. ❤️

  • @Pointblankhome
    @Pointblankhome Жыл бұрын

    i think a lot of it is subconscious fear. We see people going through some thing that we consciously dont want to experience and subconsciously we want to get every detail to be able to prepare ourselves if that ever happened to us. Now im sure there are hurting people who seek out peoples pain to ease their own but i really think that number is smaller than believed. Kinda like when people have babies and get married, consciously we want it, subconsciously our brains are taking in every detail to help prepare for these events. Its an interesting coping mechanism but i think our extreme ability to access anyones drama (good or bad) isnt the healthiest

  • @user-ch7zi7zn8t
    @user-ch7zi7zn8t Жыл бұрын

    Who's to say that is wasn't God's will for your life to go to the farm? Whos to say that yall moving there was for YOU? What if God wanted you to be a testimony, even if it was for a short while. PLUS none of us really know you guys so its the business of the people you are actually in fellowship with. Those are the ones that should be trying to keep you accountable. The world is mad yall, you guys keep following God and forget the rest. Blessings brother and sister ♡

  • @Jade-kx2gm
    @Jade-kx2gm Жыл бұрын

    We don't need to know every part off your life and its not our places to know everything - you share what you want share

  • @karen_hockaday
    @karen_hockaday Жыл бұрын

    Lol I see the chicken in the background. My sister said that they are protected in Hawaii

  • @ItsEverythingEuodia
    @ItsEverythingEuodia Жыл бұрын

    Love peace and Jesus ❤️😌✝️

  • @imjustcookingpizza9354
    @imjustcookingpizza9354 Жыл бұрын

    damn not sure why this popped up in my recommended. girl is crazy brainwashed. heartbreaking.

  • @tamaraslay
    @tamaraslay Жыл бұрын

    I think if you don’t live on Maui it’s really difficult to understand the unique way housing works.

  • @nourishedheiress
    @nourishedheiress Жыл бұрын

    It did seem like you were very hurt over what people said. Can’t blame you though. But I’m glad you decided to continue making content! Love to see the lovely way you’re speaking about praying in tongues and battling in the spirit 😁 yay Lord Jesus!!!

  • @aalexisdaniellee
    @aalexisdaniellee Жыл бұрын

    What happened? I’m lost what drama ?

  • @allig1415
    @allig1415 Жыл бұрын

    Its never a SetBack its a SetUp! God uses ALL situatuons to better us & thank God for thar! Sometimes we do it our way but God is always teaching us a lesson especially stubborn people, like myself. If we knew the information God has for us, which is always good, our Minds would probley blow up from over stimulation. Yeah let that one sink it for a sec for those that are reading on that part. We were made to only handle what God gave us. I'm understanding to Trust God in all things not just some in my life. God always has a plan to his plan, we just gotta trust. Jesus is for "US" its in his Name! He loves us more then anyone could possibly love. Which so big to think about. You guys are for him! He gives us beauty for Ashes & You two are truly Beautiful People, it really shows from the inside out. Baring good fruit ✌️🍎🍇🍐 Love you guys.

  • @kileyw.9
    @kileyw.9 Жыл бұрын

    Also you say you're against gossiping but then share you were gossiping about your "experience" with the people on the farm with another couple... Lmao. While those who know that farm and those people are on the receiving end of your trash talking publicly. Real Christian, huh? I can't even with the hypocrisy. Please.

  • @gj1489

    @gj1489

    Жыл бұрын

    don't be silly gossiping is not the same as sharing/retelling an experience with someone

  • @mabatho.mohaleamalla
    @mabatho.mohaleamalla Жыл бұрын

    It's something normalized in our society so it's quite "normal" to want the tea.

  • @karen_hockaday
    @karen_hockaday Жыл бұрын

    For people who want drama...read the Bible , it's full. I think even the small steps are God's way of building our faith and trust. If we think "I know God was calling me to this but...." And we took the step He was calling us to, sometimes I think it's God's way of saying "Ok, you trusted Me in this, now I want to see you go here. ". I believe it is Him working all things together beyond our comprehension. And isn't that point of faith, if we understood things we wouldn't have to depend on God.

  • @gardenfairybliss
    @gardenfairybliss Жыл бұрын

  • @gabsl143
    @gabsl143 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bellavita3097
    @bellavita3097 Жыл бұрын

    Some forms of gossip are healthy when you’re face-to-face eyeball to eyeball did you see Susie so-and-so got a new blah blah blah but this is pure sheer boredom people behind their keyboards probably with little ones at home that are bored out of their minds that have absolutely nothing better to do. That’s what’s going on.

  • @Believe_Jesus9
    @Believe_Jesus9 Жыл бұрын

    Hi, I like how a lot of people that are getting closer to Jesus and building a stronger relationship with God are actually rejecting Christianity or just religion because it comes with such false attitudes that actually go against what Jesus is and his 10 Commandments. It kinda cast him out in a away.not cool at all.And just what Christianity has done through out history. Jesus was not for religion. I’ve been subscribing to people on here that love Jesus they readThe Bible they dissect the word and they do their best to live by Jesus. But they are not religious. We are a different kind of people that are gonna come together I just know it in Jesus Christ name I pray amen!

  • @robyn905

    @robyn905

    Жыл бұрын

    Christianity is the belief in Jesus as our Messiah so saying that people are growing closer to Jesus, are rejecting Christianity is an oxymoron and makes no sense.

  • @sinothandosirunu

    @sinothandosirunu

    Жыл бұрын

    @Robyn, I agree with you.

  • @r.m5883

    @r.m5883

    Жыл бұрын

    Jesus literally built the first Church. Check the early church fathers (the descendants of people who walked and talked with Jesus himself) and see if they were “religious” or not

  • @debraroth2388
    @debraroth2388 Жыл бұрын

    No I don't like drama don't see why people would want the drama at all

  • @warrior7787
    @warrior7787 Жыл бұрын

    Maybe you guys missed God and went to the wrong place!

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