This is my new favorite Ester Perel interview. Everyone was so respectful and listened to each other.

“You are not what happened to you, you are what you become” oooffff life changing! Glad I came here from TikTok! Going to watch more full versions now 😂😜

One advice I got one day, which works for any kind of relationship, I think, is that when you and someone else need to do something (like the dishes, talk to a parent, etc...) but neither of you are well and feel able to do the task : then, it's not a competition of who's feeling the worst but a "who's the most capable, right now, to do this thing". So that, when you and your partner both feel down, tired or something, choosing to be the one to do the dishes doesn't mean that you're not feeling that bad or that they have it worse or that they'll think you over exaggerated. It just means that right now you were more capable of doing it. For exemple you might "have it worst" in some way but you know that you can push yourself and recover from it more easily. I really hope this makes sense. It's meant for people with bad mental health or mental illnesses but I believe it works even in the case of pure physical exhaustion. Also English isn't my first language 😅

I absolutely loved this interview. So insightful and I loved that everyone played the game!

I was so so soooooooooooo happy to see the guest was another expert, and the audio was 🌟. I’m watching so I can listen twice!

CANNOT wait for this!!!!!! She is a true gem and I know the team will ask all the right questions for those of us in relationships, single, married and just pearls of wisdom in general. Keep up the wonderful work with the podcast

set my alarm for this one I LOVEEEEE ESTHER

You need to have Santos Bonacci on your show who is well known for his incredible teachings on astrology and Matias De Stefano.

What a Awesome way of sounding like so many of us Women💯 Thanks for your knowledge you give to us🌻🌷

I am so happy to see you Penn Badgley

we need Kelly Rutherford on!!!

16 hours early, damn I don’t think I’ve ever been so fast 😂 for real though, I cannot wait to see this ❤

It is amazing how people intrepretate the same events among sublings. Purpose one feels looks like abuse to others.

not related to the podcast but any updates on season 5 of You or when it’s estimated to come out?

hello, you W episode

Sounds like normal family relations due to age. We also hsd fights at table. When else are you all going to meet.

In terms of piano playing/quiting there are two types of people - those whose parents made them continue when they didn't want piano any more and they think their parents are deemed wrong. And those whose parents let them quit, and the parents are deemed wrong. Either way, as a parent if you're involved in the decision, you've made a wrong choice for your child 😅 because if you don't blame the parent whose fault is it then?

Wohooo

Penn please come to my senior prom with me🙏Utah resident just out of love or even friendships with single guy friends😮‍💨I go to a poorish school so it may be mid but still

angelica mom from rugrats

I'm curious to know what happened to Penn's first gf ....

Love your podcast guys! Penn, if I sent you fan mail, would you send back? We can be pen pals! (Pun intended)

Emma Stone!

Sorry ~ I'm currently at minute 44:00 and since the beginning of the discussion I've been thinking more and more HEY "STOP"!!! WHY? OK ~ I'll try to keep it short: See ~ What, was the topic hm! The topic is completely missed here! Well ~ in the first part, the lady only talks about self-reflection in her own life story! All the time, she spoke in the past tense, and spoke in her own "first person" form! Not in the here and now! Now, in the next part, she talks in "phrases" like from a textbook for "psychology" and there are empty words like: ~ trust ~ security ~ stability etc.pp! A boring book has the same effect! But, this topic is far too sensitive and has to do with a lot of feeling and empathy & more! This can never be explained as “scheme” as is the case here! Yes, even if the lady tries to disguise everything in a "private touch"! 👗 Sorry, I really like the moderators and the topic is really interesting, but this interview is not right for this topic! No! And for me personally, the "body language" and her energy ~ the manner of her voice was really "torture"! Tsss! For me, this clearly shows that people who have studied such "things" professionally only say the same things they learned there! Her own words last "In the game"! Absolutely far from natural explanation! And note: “Older people”, or educated ~ are not automatically all wise! No! Sorry ~ I don't mean it in a bad way ~ I always speak directly! ✌️

Never trust experts because there's no universal good advice. We are similar but also unique. Experts are so annoying and narcissistic.

I feel she is a brand and that's all that matters now. She moved from family relationships to work relationships but won't touch what's going on right now in Israel? Let's just laugh.