I'm 45 and twice divorced, looking to get married again. I wish I received this kind of advice as part of my education when I was a teenager. I hope this kind of training can be rolled out to much younger audiences in the early 20s. Though, I say Alhamdoulilah ala kulli hall as Allah Azzawajal is The Best Planner.

@sahibaar5266

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In a similar boat. May Allah make it easy for us all. Between toxic masculinity and feminism, confusion of roles in a marriage and each gender taking advantage of the other- it doesn’t leave much hope for the future. But we ask Allah for goodness آمیـــــــــــــن.

@muhammadjawwad4863

6 ай бұрын

May Allah bless you and make it easy for you 😊.

At the beginning of marriage I relate more to Aisyah 😘. Now, after years of marriage, I relate more to Khadijah 😁. May my husband and I be together 'till Jannah 💕

@ya-chandesu6340

11 ай бұрын

Nah Sis, not 'till Jannah, you should aim for even in Jannah! 😁

JazakAllah khair!!!!! You guys made my day I’ve been impatiently waiting for episode 4 😂😭😭😭. Please upload every week. These are sooo good MashaAllah MashaAllah may Allah reward you guys!

Subhanallah We are married for 21 days and it feels like we just met We keep the flame whr it belongs My husband will never get me looking like a drab I always look and smell good My house smells good My cooking is perfect for him 10x a day we say I love u He also dress up and smell amazing with his athar, subhanallah In the evening we always sit and catch up We truly blessed ALHUMDULLILLAH ❣️ MAY ALLAH AZA WAJAL KEEP US IN THIS STATE AND GRANT US AAFIYA AMEEN

@highesteem2778

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Its just 21 days. Let's see how well u do when u multitask,5 kids ,very little sleep, breastfeeding 24/7 ,cleaning ,cooking ,laundry, other chores ,other duties and responsibilities, hobbies, jobs, community, quran memorisation, other dars ,sick family, etc etc

@fathimazahan4151

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Allahumma baarik lahum 🤲

@faizagelleh5139

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Please learn from the sheikh and keep your marriage happy forever Insha’allah. I will personally include you in my du’as. May Allah increase you in happiness Amiin.

@zaharaomar9875

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@@highesteem2778 don’t discourage her but make dua form them and u will be blessed

@zaharaomar9875

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Tabarakallah may Allah keep you in that state and blessed you more

I couldn't stop crying when he narrated all those tales of love blessed by `Allah. it is something we can only pray for in this materialistic generation..

And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about. Watch your thoughts, they become words. Watch your words, they become actions. Watch your actions, they become habits. Watch your habits, they become character. Watch your character, they become destiny. “Allah knows the fraud of the eyes, and all that the hearts conceal.” The Holy Quran - [Surah al-Ghafir 40:19]

@321SalmaR

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Wow where is the quote from above the quranic quote?

My brother at this point I don’t even mind taking your old clothes to look as presentable as you look. You look clean I not only will I take the knowledge you share I will take note of how you look and present yourself and I will do the same. Young men always look up to good men and I look up to you

On episode 4 just now and I’ve learnt so so much. Bless you for this.

@Ibrahim-fg5zj

9 ай бұрын

SubhanaAllah Islam is beautiful by the way thy say that no matter how much you want something no matter how available it is if it's not good for you and Allah doesn't want to give it to you because He knows it's not good for you it will be difficult for you to get it no matter how near it is subhanaAllah how beautiful is Islam❤

What greater advice and guide than Quran and our prophetic exemplar SAW. As the sheik says aptly this is Pre marriage knowledge and I can see all marital problems is from lack of implementing these fundamentals. So young folks listen attentively and practice this priceless lectures. Wallahi this advice is golden and this religion is so complete.👆 Alhamdulilah. Allah TA preserve the sheik, he is so knowledgeable and eloquent.

🌺📖✍️assalammualaikom warrahmahtullahhi wabarrakkatuhhu ✍️📖sakinah-is when you lack a partner but are able to keep your tongue from slandering him. mawaddah-is when we know the partner's shortcomings but are able to choose to close one eye on his shortcomings and open the other eye to focus on his advantages rahmah-is when we make the lack of a partner a field of charity for ourselves

Sunan an-Nasa'i 705 It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "When a man goes out of his house to his Masjid, one foot records a good deed and the other erases a bad deed."

I love this series. Jazak Allah Khayr 🤍

@sisterfleur7523

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The gambia ? 🙂

Al-Hamdulillah❣ Very informative & certainly beneficial.💫 JazakAllahu Khairan🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

Allahuma Barik, I have not heard a series of lectures this beneficial in a long time. May Allah reward this brother.

This series are so beneficial Allahuma barikkkk la hum

Jazakallahu Khairun.

Jazak Allah for sharing this beneficial reminder, this whole series has been informative and beneficial, Allah reward you for speaking about these relevant topics Ameen

Riyad as-Salihin 34 Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) saying, "Allah, the Glorious and Exalted said: 'When I afflict my slave in his two dear things (ie, his eyes), and he endures patiently, I shall compensate him for them with Jannah."

MashAllah sir you are the one of greatest scholars, Listening you is never being bored ever May Allah help us to follow these teachings! Wise man 🤎

@shynettebrown2482

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I agree he is such a great teachher! Allahu akbar

I'm so jiddy about the series I never had anyone explain this to me

Thank you very much for this pure inspiration to be the best spouse we can be in our families. Affection and Mercy, indeed it’s the fondamentale of Marital relations. I wish and hope for every couple to have it mutually.

BarakkahAllahu fikum very pleasing and intresting darsa. Ya Rabb grant us all goodness, i enjoy listening to u 🤩😍🤩

السلام عليكم ماشاالله The most intelligent man I have heard on the topic of marriage ماشاالله I wish he would advise more on how to develop mercy in a marriage

Yaa Rabb grant us what is good in this world and the next 🤲🏽

@Ibrahim-fg5zj

9 ай бұрын

If we think something is good for us while You know it's not Yaa Rabb guide us and protect us

My heart always melt because of the mercy aspect in marriage more than anything else , mercy is really greater than love in many ways

there are prayers for fixing divorce and broken marriages. Although me and my wife are now back together and our love is even stronger but I was a total mess when she first dumped me.

جزاك الله خيرا. may almighty Allah reward you with goodness

SubhanAllah, JazakAllah khyair this series is very educational and heart touching.

Jazakullahu khairan for this informative talk.

Masha Allah sheikh I appreciate the amount of time effort and research you put into these episodes and the the wealth of experience that you have since I have seen from the examples that you give that you are a family counsellor. May Allah reward you and make us of those who benefit from these great lessons and implement them in our marriages future or present.

Barakallah Fikum.

@ermasintya7652

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Allah hibarik

This is so beautiful ❤️❤️😍. May almighty Allah grant you a blessed path to jannatul firdaus

Do you think that homes are only built upon love? Were is the idea of care and were is the sense of shyness from being kind? SUBHANAALLAH ❤❤ LITASKUNUU ILAYHA❤❤ 😢

@Ibrahim-fg5zj

9 ай бұрын

From not being kind ❤❤❤❤ LITASKUNUU ILAYHAA❤

جزاك الله خير.. ما شاء الله تبارك الله ♥

Subhanallah ❤

thank you for this blessing hahhmudda may allah be good to you for ever and ever jallah, see the light

Great stuff ❤ Jazakalahukhair

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Barakalllah

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Alhamdulillah masha Allah let's read the Quran everyday and put it in practice 🙏 Amin

this should be teached in every school

May Allah bless you sheikhana...very much needed

Married Ever After playlist kzread.info/head/PL9OPVukugS7zpgJ8Unee_FvS3xgqnwFPe

You are truthful

1.b4 marrige 1.1 marrige is an act of worship 1.2 they have taken from you firm covenant 1.3 unrighteous search for righteous spouse 1.4 male is not like female

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At the 10m mark I dislike how we are told that the Prophet peace be upon him used to speak of Khadija RA in front of Aisha RA. Isn't that a bit insensitive? Can someone explain if I am misunderstanding?

@toreyetheservant1437

10 ай бұрын

I guess often is speaking the reality and not always bringing up himself and is natural for the human to have ghirah and fact that is the prophet in the picture is a big deal and as the sheikh said the prophet sallalahu aleyhi wasallam accommodated that…just my thoughts and the fact that she has passed and he has not compared her like some husbands do .

@user-et2ng1qb2m

6 ай бұрын

No, it isn't. Because the Rasoul s.a.w used to shower Aisha r.a. with affection at the same time. Khadija r.a. is not just the wife of RasoulAllah s.a.w- her status is immeasurable. This is someone, in fact the only person of this Ummah, who Allah SWT sent His Salam down to and then Gabriel a.s. added his salam on top. Aisha r.a. may have gotten jealous due to human nature and even her personality (there are other examples where Aisha r.a. got jealous), and of course the starus of Aisha r.a. is exteremly high and valuable- she is also our Mother , but that doesn't take from the right of Khadija r.a. to be mentioned and praised. This was her right upon RasoulAllah s.a.w and her right upon us as well. I don't know if it's a matter of misunderstanding as it is a matter of personality. Firstly, we seek refugee in Allah swt from having incorrect adab toward RasoulAllah s.a.w. We know his character, we know his immense compassion and empathy. Allah swt has described him as a Mercy to Mankind and Aisha r.a. said he s.a.w was the walking embodiment of the Quran. The Rasoul s.a.w was not being insensitive to his beloved wife and it is inappropriate for us to attribute that lack of empathy to the Rasoul s.a.w. However, you might find the idea of such an occurrence insensitive if you applied it personally. And that's OK. But we're talking about people that are beyond us. And remember, Aisha r.a. got jealous on this occasion and many other occasions but there were probably other wives of RasoulAllah s.a.w who heard similar praises of Khadija r.a. and didn't get jealous due to their personalities and perspectives. Even I myself, as a fellow woman, didn't feel the same thing as you regarding this.

jazzakAllah khair sheikh

MashaAllah... Listening to Sheikh has been a moment of repair n redemption for me..... May Allah continue to make us better......

I need to know what to do if a husband is a nitpicker and beats his wife and everyone is trying to settle it when the wife clearly wants a divorce

Narrated `Aisha: Eleven women sat (at a place) and promised and contracted that they would not conceal anything of the news of their husbands. The first one said, "My husband is like the meat of a slim weak camel which is kept on the top of a mountain which is neither easy to climb, nor is the meat fat, so that one might put up with the trouble of fetching it." The second one said, "I shall not relate my husband's news, for I fear that I may not be able to finish his story, for if I describe him, I will mention all his defects and bad traits." The third one said, "My husband, the "too-tall"! if I describe him (and he hears of that) he will divorce me, and if I keep quiet, he will keep me hanging (neither divorcing me nor treating me as a wife)." The fourth one said, "My husband is (moderate in temper) like the night of Tihama: neither hot nor cold; I am neither afraid of him, nor am I discontented with him." The fifth one said, "My husband, when entering (the house) is a leopard (sleeps a lot), and when going out, is a lion (boasts a lot). He does not ask about whatever is in the house." The sixth one said, "If my husband eats, he eats too much (leaving the dishes empty), and if he drinks he leaves nothing; if he sleeps he sleeps he rolls himself (alone in our blankets); and he does not insert his palm to inquire about my feelings." The seventh one said, "My husband is a wrong-doer or weak and foolish. All the defects are present in him. He may injure your head or your body or may do both." The eighth one said, "My husband is soft to touch like a rabbit and smells like a Zarnab (a kind of good smelling grass)." The ninth one said, "My husband is a tall generous man wearing a long strap for carrying his sword. His ashes are abundant (i.e. generous to his guests) and his house is near to the people (who would easily consult him)." The tenth one said, "My husband is Malik (possessor), and what is Malik? Malik is greater than whatever I say about him. (He is beyond and above all praises which can come to my mind). Most of his camels are kept at home (ready to be slaughtered for the guests) and only a few are taken to the pastures. When the camels hear the sound of the lute (or the tambourine) they realize that they are going to be slaughtered for the guests." The eleventh one said, "My husband is Abu Zar` and what is Abu Zar` (i.e., what should I say about him)? He has given me many ornaments and my ears are heavily loaded with them and my arms have become fat (i.e., I have become fat). And he has pleased me, and I have become so happy that I feel proud of myself. He found me with my family who were mere owners of sheep and living in poverty, and brought me to a respected family having horses and camels and threshing and purifying grain. Whatever I say, he does not rebuke or insult me. When I sleep, I sleep till late in the morning, and when I drink water (or milk), I drink my fill. The mother of Abu Zar and what may one say in praise of the mother of Abu Zar? Her saddle bags were always full of provision and her house was spacious. As for the son of Abu Zar, what may one say of the son of Abu Zar? His bed is as narrow as an unsheathed sword and an arm of a kid (of four months) satisfies his hunger. As for the daughter of Abu Zar, she is obedient to her father and to her mother. She has a fat well-built body and that arouses the jealousy of her husband's other wife. As for the (maid) slave girl of Abu Zar, what may one say of the (maid) slavegirl of Abu Zar? She does not uncover our secrets but keeps them, and does not waste our provisions and does not leave the rubbish scattered everywhere in our house." The eleventh lady added, "One day it so happened that Abu Zar went out at the time when the milk was being milked from the animals, and he saw a woman who had two sons like two leopards playing with her two breasts. (On seeing her) he divorced me and married her. Thereafter I married a noble man who used to ride a fast tireless horse and keep a spear in his hand. He gave me many things, and also a pair of every kind of livestock and said, Eat (of this), O Um Zar, and give provision to your relatives." She added, "Yet, all those things which my second husband gave me could not fill the smallest utensil of Abu Zar's." `Aisha then said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "I am to you as Abu Zar was to his wife Um Zar." Sahih Bukhari

@mensurali1992

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source?

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I am a Muslim, Islam is beautiful

Mash’Allah ❤

Jazakallah kheyr Sheikh Ali. We need this lectures on 21st century marriage failing more than ever. May Allah make us those who hear & implement it all🙏🙏 Allah yahfaduk Sheikh🙏🙏

It’s atrophy, not entropy

@1OddlyOdd

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No he is correct, entropy is gradual decline into disorder

@sumayyashehu3915

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Entropy is more of a physics terminology atrophy is more medical terminology

شيخ you said ما غرت " على " أحد من نساء النبي ما غرت على خديجة This is wrong It's" ما غرت " من " أحد من نساء النبي ما غرت من خديجة So it's not " على " it's " مِن "

Trigger Alert: Single people don't watch this unless you want to go in depression.

@Diamondraw4Real

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Singles can go back to the previous ep which has a dua for them. Then calmly watch this ep insha Allah, bc they need to know this information.

@salmanmemon1000

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@@Diamondraw4Real It was a joke (A true joke lol)

@salmanmemon1000

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@@Diamondraw4Real Also, a calm mind has nothing to do with not getting depressed.

@nimoahmedhassan3124

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Atleast u said its a joke😇.....here i am n very single n enjoying listening to our beloved sheikh but to some extend i feel there's somthing missing (with us the singles)

@salmanmemon1000

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@@nimoahmedhassan3124 🤣🤣🤣

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