Ep. 202: "You Can't Trust Him"

Our hosts enjoy a spirited debate on cheating while looking back at Jessica and Jason’s tumultuous and short-lived relationship. Plus, find out why scenes filmed in cars were generally the most authentic.
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  • @Eva._.94
    @Eva._.94 Жыл бұрын

    how stephen remembers all the details is like he's still so crazy about kristin❣

  • @chipper1001

    @chipper1001

    Жыл бұрын

    lol someone has to remember them, Kristin certainly doesn't

  • @Heal_withmarisoul

    @Heal_withmarisoul

    Жыл бұрын

    I mean when a person makes you go thru so much, you can’t forgot those small details. It’s easier for Kristin to forget lol

  • @32ghostworld

    @32ghostworld

    Жыл бұрын

    He is obsessed over her buddy try to play it off like he is not. I know because I was in his same situation where I was still obsessed over an ex and she clearly got over it and she would barely remember little details but I seem to remember every single thing

  • @OopThereItIs77777

    @OopThereItIs77777

    6 ай бұрын

    @@32ghostworldpsych major here; you were the one mentally traumatized…of course you remember it all. The traumatizer/antagonist rarely remembers pain they inflicted

  • @lmkk9118
    @lmkk9118 Жыл бұрын

    One of the best episodes. I love when Stephen and Kristin talk about scenes that were not filmed. The one they talk about is epic!!!!

  • @madisonshirley8231

    @madisonshirley8231

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for giving me something exciting to look forward to without spoiling it. So rare!

  • @maybe4003

    @maybe4003

    Жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/pGZhzpSlYceaYNI.html are deleted scenes where they all went skydiving without Kristin.

  • @katiecannon9564
    @katiecannon9564 Жыл бұрын

    OMG I can’t wait for Jessica to be on!

  • @dianebeaudoin4796

    @dianebeaudoin4796

    Жыл бұрын

    ARE THEY HAVING JESSICA ON FOR SURE? LOVE IT!

  • @SammyCamilleKyle
    @SammyCamilleKyle Жыл бұрын

    Kristin!!! I so admire your growth and how easily you take accountability. I have soooo much love for you 🥰🥰🥰

  • @jazminejones3479
    @jazminejones3479 Жыл бұрын

    I wish in this episode we could see them! I like watching Kristin!

  • @leam7018
    @leam7018 Жыл бұрын

    I hope they bring back the video portion of these posts. I enjoy listening but I want to see their faces as well.

  • @lovelettersandlace

    @lovelettersandlace

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! I thought that was the whole point of having the podcasts on YT, was to see the video!

  • @OopThereItIs77777

    @OopThereItIs77777

    6 ай бұрын

    Kristin doesn’t want that. Seeing their body language, eyes, & watching them revisit moments will be too much for the audience. They’ll go talking

  • @deena8929
    @deena892911 ай бұрын

    When kristin takes it to the chin about admitting she was talking about Stephen TO stephen when it came to lying and cheating ...i also love how honest she is. Kristin knows she wasnt perfect, but has learned and grown

  • @yespls4184
    @yespls418411 ай бұрын

    Glad that they're so transparent about the sh*t that they did when they were younger and the mistakes they made when they were drinking.. I've definitely done things that i was extremely unproud of when I would binge drink as a teen/young adult and felt embarassed, so I'm glad I'm not alone. Doesn't excuse it, but shows that we all do stupid things and can own up to them yet ultimately move on and do better.

  • @lololololol1111
    @lololololol1111 Жыл бұрын

    The Dave and Busters scene is so effing funny

  • @chellwithme
    @chellwithme Жыл бұрын

    Stephen better not say it was only a friendship with LC on next week’s episode 😂

  • @swiminthesea6724

    @swiminthesea6724

    Жыл бұрын

    That would be bollocks 😅

  • @ajfulson123
    @ajfulson123 Жыл бұрын

    I LOVED THIS EPISODE! Hearing y'alls perceptive now is so refreshing and wholesome ❤❤

  • @tshay7
    @tshay7 Жыл бұрын

    This podcast episode WAS TERRIFIC 🥳 checked all the boxes!!!!

  • @lobaybe5
    @lobaybe5 Жыл бұрын

    So excited for Jessica to come on !

  • @ninamc6116
    @ninamc6116 Жыл бұрын

    This was one of my favorite episodes of the series. Classic!

  • @britneyrenee2252
    @britneyrenee2252 Жыл бұрын

    Also the DVDs have the audition tapes and extras. Would be cool if you guys checked those out just for giggles

  • @lovelettersandlace

    @lovelettersandlace

    Жыл бұрын

    YES!

  • @jenniferdavis3561
    @jenniferdavis3561 Жыл бұрын

    I wish I could see the video of this conversation

  • @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey

    @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @HannahKkim
    @HannahKkim Жыл бұрын

    I could listen to you guys all day ❤

  • @Heal_withmarisoul
    @Heal_withmarisoul Жыл бұрын

    Alright I’m gonna re watch each episode per week with you guys 💕

  • @gloriasalazar6769
    @gloriasalazar6769 Жыл бұрын

    I love everything about this podcast ! I just wish I could see them lol

  • @geminifox475

    @geminifox475

    Жыл бұрын

    Why aren’t they on ???

  • @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey

    @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey

    Жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @lobaybe5
    @lobaybe5 Жыл бұрын

    Best one yet !

  • @AngelDiazP90
    @AngelDiazP90 Жыл бұрын

    I love this podcast 😂❤

  • @SSssss-iy3vl
    @SSssss-iy3vl Жыл бұрын

    Love you guys so much!! Laguna beach was my youth!!! ❤️🙌🏼

  • @laurah2050
    @laurah2050 Жыл бұрын

    How does Stephen remember so much! Lol! I cannot even remember what I did last year let alone 15+ years ago with the guys I dated in high school lol! Love these throwbacks. Brings back such nostalgia as teens for Laguna Beach as well as makes me think of my own memories I probably have forgotten about! Lol

  • @shereeny7775

    @shereeny7775

    Жыл бұрын

    Same, I can't remember anything from last week. I think he remembered all the negative memories he had with Kristin because he was really in love with her and she hurt him really bad. You can still hear it in his voice now when he describes how he felt then.

  • @googlypub

    @googlypub

    Жыл бұрын

    I think it’s because they got famous from it so it’s like cemented in his memory

  • @smellslikefreespirit

    @smellslikefreespirit

    Жыл бұрын

    Because a lot of this shit with him and Kristin was traumatic and he’s literally working through it still during these episodes lol. Hence why he brings it up multiple times in a jokingly way. A lot of this still hurts him

  • @lovelettersandlace

    @lovelettersandlace

    Жыл бұрын

    Some people just have really good memories lol. Besides I think a lot of the stuff he's remembering is memorable... I'd remember being punched in the face and cheated on. Maybe Kristin blocks it out since it puts her in a bad light and she's blocked out things she's done to people, or was just very drunk and doesn't remember? Love Kristin now but I think it's weird she doesn't remember cheating on her boyfriend so much!

  • @untilwemeetagain2010

    @untilwemeetagain2010

    Жыл бұрын

    Well, Stephen constantly tries to paint himself in a certain light and seems to not want to talk about his relationship with Lauren say for instance WHAT did or didn't happen in SAN FRAN when they went off together after Kristin made that pact with him. We can't forget the guy that went off on her in Cancun either because maybe he wasn't as nice as Kristin remembers, and that led to her making bad choices at times. We just don't know the whole story, and Steph-en filling in the blanks all the time about HER exploits and NOT his own is really sus to me. Oh, we met at 4:00 a.m. with a BUNCH of other people. Okay, that's enough excuses, Stephen. Still, I love hearing them interact, but I just wish it had some balance, and I wonder how he's going to excuse his behavior coming up with Lauren...:)

  • @nhouse7962
    @nhouse7962 Жыл бұрын

    Made sure to watch the LB episode before listening to this!

  • @britneyrenee2252
    @britneyrenee2252 Жыл бұрын

    Omg the story about Kristin cheating! Wow

  • @BeChanneled

    @BeChanneled

    Жыл бұрын

    Right. It sounds so TRAGIC! 😭

  • @pegahrashidi7582
    @pegahrashidi7582 Жыл бұрын

    why did the video image go away?!?!? that was much better!

  • @Ena48145
    @Ena48145 Жыл бұрын

    Excuse me. I had absolutely no idea this existed 🥺 I'm 32 so you two are my entire childhood/teen years. Neither of you have aged a DAY. I wish this wasn't just audio. Imagine Kristin and Stephen getting back together after so many years 😭

  • @carolinehenson5505
    @carolinehenson5505 Жыл бұрын

    i watched this show when i was in 5th grade (lmao) and thought you guys were so fucking sick and couldn't wait to get to high school to do what you guys were doing. thanks for making this podcast - it's so fun to take a stroll down memory lane and hear your side of the story.

  • @ct6852

    @ct6852

    Жыл бұрын

    Super fun to watch. Made me kind of happy high school was over though, tbh.

  • @xoxdesire

    @xoxdesire

    Жыл бұрын

    Same lol, I can't believe how grown they seemed in high school! I was like a little nerd scared of everything. They looked like they had sm fun.

  • @Ena48145

    @Ena48145

    Жыл бұрын

    You couldn't wait to get to high school to have unprotected seggs with a bunch of people and get wasted every other night? That's really sad.

  • @jillkubitschek2145
    @jillkubitschek2145 Жыл бұрын

    The rocket dog shoes! 😂😂😂

  • @ew7554
    @ew7554 Жыл бұрын

    The background story of the cheating of the relationship was great 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @007tinkles
    @007tinkles Жыл бұрын

    Love listening to you guys❤️

  • @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey

    @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey

    Жыл бұрын

    Would much rather watch!

  • @Drivenaway89
    @Drivenaway89 Жыл бұрын

    Reminiscing about high school is so much fun lol

  • @Thesidehustleconnoisseur
    @Thesidehustleconnoisseur Жыл бұрын

    Guys skedaddle is a word. It’s in the Oxford dictionary and means to depart quickly. Haha love you though!

  • @ct6852

    @ct6852

    Жыл бұрын

    Woah really? The more you know. 💫

  • @EmilyD0113

    @EmilyD0113

    Жыл бұрын

    It is! I’ve used it quite a few times, and heard it a ton.

  • @ct6852
    @ct6852 Жыл бұрын

    Feel like maybe some of these kids were doing more than just drinking in the back of cars. Def remember a scene of Jenn Bunney rubbing something white into her gums on the way to prom...

  • @ct6852

    @ct6852

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tiffanydaniel4261 Can't believe they'd keep that in. It's high school kids. Even for Mtv that's pretty...something.

  • @derekwebster8442

    @derekwebster8442

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tiffanydaniel4261 I loved Nikki,lol.

  • @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey
    @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey Жыл бұрын

    Can you guys please just film these again? I don't just want audio. Many of us on here don't😐

  • @beanzpunjabi
    @beanzpunjabi Жыл бұрын

    Stephen still has feelings for Kristen. It's so obvious. He's a keeper, she's crazy if she doesn't see it.

  • @jazminejones3479

    @jazminejones3479

    Жыл бұрын

    She’s crazy if she doesn’t take him back! They were the BEST!

  • @untilwemeetagain2010

    @untilwemeetagain2010

    Жыл бұрын

    He has a gf, guys! lol

  • @maybe4003

    @maybe4003

    Жыл бұрын

    Actually it’s Kristen that sounds like feelings of jealousy resurface when Lauren gets brought up. Stephen sounds like he’s over it and can just laugh about it.

  • @beanzpunjabi

    @beanzpunjabi

    Жыл бұрын

    @untilwemeetagain2010 I know but wishful thinking 😂

  • @OopThereItIs77777

    @OopThereItIs77777

    6 ай бұрын

    This is exactly why they only do audio

  • @ct6852
    @ct6852 Жыл бұрын

    Feel like whenever Jason was on the show he was, mentally, somewhere else. Like five other places. Anywhere but with Jessica. Then he pulled the same shit with Lauren on The Hills. Cameras, no cameras...zero f's given.

  • @Bjh-ot2xz

    @Bjh-ot2xz

    Жыл бұрын

    I really believe he was intoxicated during those scenes

  • @ct6852

    @ct6852

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Bjh-ot2xz Yeah I think so too. The one where he was with Lauren and kissed Jessica...when he was sitting there with his buddies he looked f'd up. And just the fact that he had his ex girlfriend on his lap was kind of a tell. lol.

  • @ropasidi5154
    @ropasidi5154 Жыл бұрын

    Love the music intro

  • @Camilaguero
    @Camilaguero Жыл бұрын

    STEPHEN IS SUCH AN ANGEL 😭😭😭

  • @snb_angels
    @snb_angels Жыл бұрын

    @Stephen… I didn’t think that the scene where Lauren made you breakfast was after your dinner date. The audience knows the show films at different times. IJS 😂

  • @AbiCroCro
    @AbiCroCro Жыл бұрын

    Skidaddle is an oooold thing. My mum used to say it to me when I was little (I’m 34 lol).

  • @anthonytristan2844
    @anthonytristan2844 Жыл бұрын

    I've been watching Netflix. Didn't know it was on other streaming services

  • @captainofmysoul6162
    @captainofmysoul6162 Жыл бұрын

    You guys seem to love each other. No, you do love each other. What does the future hold?

  • @captainofmysoul6162

    @captainofmysoul6162

    Жыл бұрын

    blessings to all involved

  • @Bea56601

    @Bea56601

    Жыл бұрын

    They seem like soulmates, but not the kind you marry. I wish I had a friendship like this one.

  • @kateteve
    @kateteve Жыл бұрын

    Omg these 2 should just get together ( sorry Stephan’s current girlfriend). They could have a show. They have such great chemistry together.

  • @echenton
    @echenton Жыл бұрын

    Question: Do you guys have any thoughts or knowledge around why Netflix took out the narration? It totally stinks and changes the vibe of the show because the narration is definitely a key part. Really want to know why they cut it out.

  • @ninamc6116

    @ninamc6116

    Жыл бұрын

    Ugh the narration was integral to the show. Sounds like they ruined it

  • @laurasouza1907
    @laurasouza1907 Жыл бұрын

    I am so shocked that Kristin doesn't remember anything hahaha

  • @danyellejones5871

    @danyellejones5871

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't blame her

  • @sarahb_
    @sarahb_ Жыл бұрын

    We say skidaddle across the pond in the UK too

  • @dunawaysdorealestate1091
    @dunawaysdorealestate1091 Жыл бұрын

    WHERE CAN I WATCH THIS?! 😩😩

  • @mcflyy263

    @mcflyy263

    Жыл бұрын

    Netflix has laguna beach now

  • @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey

    @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mcflyy263 i think they mean the podcast

  • @PearlTower45
    @PearlTower45 Жыл бұрын

    Hey guys, so maybe I'm just being nosy, but I and many others would love to know how you guys met and started dating. #kcavfan

  • @MissPatty818

    @MissPatty818

    Жыл бұрын

    I second that! ❤

  • @lmkk9118

    @lmkk9118

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MissPatty818 I third that!

  • @ct6852

    @ct6852

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah curious as well. I don't think they went to the same school when they met.

  • @tshay7

    @tshay7

    Жыл бұрын

    YES

  • @ell4875

    @ell4875

    Жыл бұрын

    They already discussed it. Stephen was a friend of her late older brother Mike. And when Kristin joined LB high school Stephen asked her out

  • @justicefor-all3129
    @justicefor-all3129 Жыл бұрын

    My dad said scadattle to us as kids. I am 42 now. So the term has been around before these guys.

  • @dahnila05
    @dahnila05 Жыл бұрын

    They were driving and drinking? Damn

  • @stephaniemcavey4637
    @stephaniemcavey4637 Жыл бұрын

    Why aren’t you guys doing this on video instead of just audio? I guarantee everyone would rather that, so why not??

  • @OopThereItIs77777

    @OopThereItIs77777

    6 ай бұрын

    Read the comments…THATS WHY

  • @connorc6596
    @connorc6596 Жыл бұрын

    I wonder what they think of season 3. Completely forgot Jessica was dating Cameron when she’d already graduated.

  • @moreadventure3627
    @moreadventure3627 Жыл бұрын

    There was never proof of Jason cheating on Jessica. Poor Jessica

  • @ninamc6116

    @ninamc6116

    Жыл бұрын

    He did. He was all over Alex. So immature

  • @maybe4003
    @maybe4003 Жыл бұрын

    Here are deleted scenes where Stephen, Lauren, and a few others went skydiving without Kristin kzread.info/dash/bejne/pGZhzpSlYceaYNI.html. They all looked so happy.

  • @geminifox475
    @geminifox475 Жыл бұрын

    Why can’t I see them ?? Just their voices ??

  • @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey

    @CourageousDreamerAllon4journey

    Жыл бұрын

    Right??

  • @Toothpickkilla
    @Toothpickkilla Жыл бұрын

    🙌🙌🙌

  • @sarahb_
    @sarahb_ Жыл бұрын

    Just get back together and make up for everything that happened in the past. No one can make the best decisions at that age. Brains aren’t fully developed til mid - late 20s ya know. Well for most people. Some people it never happens 😂

  • @untilwemeetagain2010
    @untilwemeetagain2010 Жыл бұрын

    Until it is addressed, every week my comment is going to be did ANYTHING happen with YOU and Lauren in SAN FRAN, Steph-en? Seriously, don't bring up her cheating AFTER you guys had fixed everything and forget you running off with clinger? I love Kris for being straight up and honest, but there are three sides to every story just remember that.

  • @stephaniemcavey4637
    @stephaniemcavey4637 Жыл бұрын

    They need to stop calling these kinds of shows reality shows, they should call them unscripted shows, cause that’s much more true…I literally thought this stuff was really reality when I was like 17 lol

  • @GenF91
    @GenF91 Жыл бұрын

    Lol wonder who are they mentioning that they keep bleeping all of a sudden? Cause obviously they’re allowed to curse lol. But it’s ok though.

  • @wmedinaful
    @wmedinaful Жыл бұрын

    I hated how Stephen always went back to Lauren everytime Kristin didnt want him, he just used her and took advantage of her feelings for him. That wasnt fair. But I know its real and it happens, Ive been in Lauren's position and it really hurts.

  • @steevenhyde3505
    @steevenhyde3505 Жыл бұрын

    Okay, h The hair conversation went on for too long...

  • @cassiemaljkovic4654
    @cassiemaljkovic465410 ай бұрын

    First of all Kristin good on you for taking accountability for the whole cheating on Stephen ... but wow! I feel so badly for Stephen now. After hearing that bloody nose story and the multiple times getting cheated on. All this time and all the comments that say you two should get back together and after this I'm thinking ... absolutely not... he went through trauma. He probably spent alot of time wondering what was wrong with him and why he deserved that. I know he can laugh about it now but still. There's a reason they broke up y'all

  • @nista4ever
    @nista4ever Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry but Steven explains waaaayyy too much. lol Kristin obviously doesn't care.

  • @maybe4003
    @maybe4003 Жыл бұрын

    On these episodes, Kristen still sounds like jealousy resurfaces whenever any past connection with Lauren comes up. Stephen can talk about Matt Leinart and Hot Sam like it’s nothing. Or maybe it’s just her ego that gets hurt.

  • @maybe4003
    @maybe4003 Жыл бұрын

    Man, Kristen was so horrible and selfish. And sill blames everything that she did bad on the Stephen/Lauren thing.

  • @britneyrenee2252
    @britneyrenee2252 Жыл бұрын

    This whole podcast is shadow work lol

  • @captainofmysoul6162
    @captainofmysoul6162 Жыл бұрын

    Kristin, with love you have sin in your life. You cannot be happy without conquering that)with love)

  • @ell4875
    @ell4875 Жыл бұрын

    Why doesn't Kristin remember anything to do with her cheating? Yet she recalls everything to do with Stephen supposedly cheating?? Am so glad hot as f Stephen escaped the toxicity!

  • @williamg7267

    @williamg7267

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s not that serious

  • @ell4875

    @ell4875

    Жыл бұрын

    @@williamg7267 who said it was cheater?

  • @joshuakteal

    @joshuakteal

    Жыл бұрын

    Because it was 18 years ago and it sounds like a lot of it involved partying and heavy drinking. I personally think both parties contributed to the toxicity - but, they were in high school so it is what it is.

  • @ell4875

    @ell4875

    Жыл бұрын

    @@joshuakteal 18 years ago lol, Kristin kissed Stephen when she had a bf only 2 years ago! She admitted it hahaha

  • @ambershaffer6047

    @ambershaffer6047

    Жыл бұрын

    Who else is excited for the reunion for Kristin and Jessica ??

  • @loleeta3670
    @loleeta3670 Жыл бұрын

    Kristin I love you, but please stop scream laughing into the mic

  • @seattlehi554
    @seattlehi554 Жыл бұрын

    I Love you Kristin, but did you forget you cheated on Stephen with Sam? You are a different person now, and this doesn't take away from the growth you have made in your life. But we all remember Sam! Not Talan! lol

  • @captainofmysoul6162
    @captainofmysoul6162 Жыл бұрын

    In advance of this show, sin has been downplayed, you are great, but we are not meant to fornicate outside of marriage. sinn does have spiritual consequences. Not normal to sin Peace.