I am scandinavian and my husband’s parents are from Nayarit. We will be celebrating 40 years of marriage next September. We laugh so hard at your videos…..I pretty much conformed to his family as I feel it is important for the man to be the leader in the family. We are very happy.🤣

@BrownLAshley26

5 ай бұрын

That's exactly what I'm doing. My husband is Jamaican, leader, and head of our family. ..

Honestly this guy has enough patience with his girl. In my opinion the compromise is not 50,50. I love my culture and the way I see it is that he does way more to keep the family together. Hope you guys the best and girl you're so lucky to have a Mexican guy like him.

@michelles22

9 ай бұрын

Absolutely agree!

@marelycontreras8388

9 ай бұрын

Poor guy

@richardfrank4959

9 ай бұрын

Poor guy I just don't know if I could do that for love his family is always about family and she is more about controlling the situation you are selfish it's like it's your way or the high way

@Fr3ck1e_Face1

8 ай бұрын

I think mentally after having kids effects alot as well. So it's always a balance

@Fr3ck1e_Face1

8 ай бұрын

Can tell the lacking of what she's lacking. Health wise. Especially from having kids. Takes a toll on us. Plus they both are alike. She's very annoyed when he's not in sync with her. He's sync with doing what he didn't have as a father.

interracial couple here ! 🙋🏼‍♀️ i’m black and white, my husband is mexican. we have been together for almost 11 years now, almost 4 married. have a beautiful daughter. these topics have been SPOT ON. There are other topics as well that were missed but given the time frame i like how you guys included enough. i’m glad that this was talked about/viewed bc not many people talk about it. i love how others can relate ! keep them coming !

Great podcast. I agree with Cisco. Just because you live in an area where there’s gang activity doesn’t mean your kids are going to turn out that way. It’s up to the parents to have a strong relationship with there kids.

@Pretty_Praise

4 ай бұрын

I totally agree. I’ve been with my husband for 32 years and we live in the ghetto as some people may college we live in Bridgeport Connecticut in the heart of the heat and our kids were raised with morals, discipline and God and I feel like just because you live in the ghetto in areas where there’s gangbangers and drug dealers. That doesn’t mean that your kids are gonna be the same my kids my oldest graduated from UConn my second Child works and has two kids and my daughter goes to southern Connecticut college and I think it’s in the way that you raise your kids. It’s not really where you live.

it’s culture. it’s a celebration of life. of religion. we celebrate everything. it’s part of our culture 🥺🇲🇽

Seems more like a her way or the highway relationship

My nephews lives in a 1 bedroom with lots of crime and they all turned out very successfully. It comes down to parenting. Girly sorry I disagree with you. He needs to see reality. Suburbs also has a lot of people with mental issues and introvert. You can’t keep them in a bubble because it will not let them grow and see reality.

@tuenana31

10 ай бұрын

100%. And it’s not like suburb kids aren’t exposed to things. Living in a affluent county…..these white kids have access and do more drugs than any kid I ever grew up with!

@Moi-ty1qf

10 ай бұрын

Good parenting is the key but some individuals make bad choices we're the parents have nothing to do with

@miguelzambrano2260

10 ай бұрын

To a point…it’s about parenting… the majority is about whom they FALL IN LOVE with! I can be the best parent, but if my son falls in love with a no good female….then my hard work went down the drain

@Moi-ty1qf

10 ай бұрын

@@miguelzambrano2260 yes sir agree

@frederickvalencia4976

9 ай бұрын

​@@miguelzambrano2260 I don't agree, part of falling in love is falling for a person that has same views and values as you do. Pretty girls are in every coner.I grew up in the ghetto in a bad area then moved to collage to a school were is 1 guy to 7 girls. I never drank or smoke nor had sex. I had many friends because i am very social and i am decent looking guy. I had rejected many drugs and women in my life.I got married at age 27 I am not religious aswell. I don't think I am any special. I am mexican for the record I have meet others like me even outside my race,white and black guys. Parenting is not easy but at the same time it's easy is just doing the work that is hard. The rewards come when the kids are adults

5:50pm. It is up to Cisco to Speak Spanish and teach the kid's. You need to speak it all the time, day in and day out. "You have to speak it to keep it alive in your home!" Especially Now that they are So young. Their little brains soak up Everything!!! Please just do it. It will benefit them so much in the long run, when they grow up and in life 🙏🏼✌🏼❣️

@rosemarie-dj4bn

10 ай бұрын

My mom always had music 24 hrs a day on Spanish, so I loved learning as got older.

I’m loving your podcast thank you for sharing some of your personal life. Can’t wait for the next episode

This episode made me realize a lot of interracial couples go through the same thing. Maybe not the exact stuff but there are barriers that have challenged my relationship. I could tell you guys are still working through some stuff and I hope everything lines up for both. Great insight, I feel like you guys covered some of the stuff I was seeking to know. I always referred “compromising” as “who will bend their arm first” and that’s probably not the best reference, so I’m just gonna stick to the word “compromising” will save me a lot of arguments 🤣.

Omgg I love this podcast. Y’all were having very raw conversations it almost reminding me on my husband and myself daily conversations

I love this couple. I look at the way they look at each other. This is what emotional maturity looks like....❤❤❤.

Love the topics! Compromising is a beast! But with love it can happen, not easy at all but worth the struggle 😊

Wow!!! You guys are so real!!! All the topic you spoke about are all so real and challenging in a relationship, not just biracial.

So far loving your podcasts. I’ve stayed up late beyond my bedtime lol to listen to the podcast.

I am so hooked guys! Over here watching your podcast instead of working lol love your topics!

LOVE AND SUPPORT SINCE DAY ONE SENDING MY BLESSING AND PRAYER KEEP KILLIN it

Your an amazing couple! It’s true what your both saying. I’m glad your reaching out to married couples. These are very important issues. Problem today is everyone is on the fast lane and don’t put these life decisions first. That’s why this new generation of children are not caring about any family values. Your bringing awareness and that’s great! Your truly blessed to have each other!! 🙏🏼🥰

Hell yeah, just subscribed, love both your vibes. Keep pushing forward. 💯🔥🔥

I personally think that that's the reason why it's such a high rate of divorce with interracial marriages because people try to change because they love the person but in reality they are who they are you were raised that way and she was raised that way you're in love and you try to change for the other person but in reality nobody should be asking anybody to change you should be able to be who you are

I cracked a beer as well when I saw your beer. Cheers 🍻 and congrats on all of the success you two have had. I hope it continues for many more years to come.

I love both of you! You two are amazing! You keep me laughing all the time with your differences, and I can see that you both come together so nicely! Keep on with what you're doing, it's working great! ♥️♥️💋🌺🎶🎶

Great stuff guys, keep doing your thing. Much Love!

For me & my husband. Life is the same living together before marriage & married now. You guys are awesome even if you are a different race, embrace it, we are all human. Love you guys.

Sounds like Cisco is doing everything to please her. Hispanic families are big on religion. Crime is everywhere. Suburban areas are just as bad as living in the city. I don’t think Chicago is where she wants to live. I live in Chicago, she wants to move to the burbs. Other than the City in which you live in, what else is she doing cause it sounds to me like you’re giving up Or changing everything for her.

Love your love story on the 1st episode. Love concurs all. Much love to the both of love and keep up the greatness. 💙

❤ you guys.. love the fact that I can relate to most of what you post, being raised in a Mexican family .. keep them coming.... ❤❤❤

I am white and my husband is full Mexican . My mother in-law only speaks Spanish and my father in-law knows a little English yes it is a barrier and we do the sign language between my mother in-law and I. but I do know bits and pieces of Spanish and I somewhat understand it when they all talk lol. AND we ALL live in the same house and sometimes it can be difficult THANK GOODNESS FOR TRANSLATOR!! love you guys keep thriving

I love your content ❤ I went though so many of the things you guys have talked about. I am mexican and white. My dad is from Mexico. My dad and his family enabled us from learning Spanish. They would let us speak to them in English, and they would speak to us in Spanish. To this day, that is still how it works. They all still only speak spanish. My mom is bilingual she did try, but she speaks more spanglish as she would say.

Wow! Everything yall have said I am going through. My husband and I have been together for 11 years. His parents are in Mexico and we see them once a year and our kids don't know any Spanish. He works 14 hour shifts every day and only gets 4 days off a month. We both grew up differently and there have been arguments about going to certain party's or paying for other ppls party's that we don't even attend. I wish yall post more and had more podcast. Makes me realize we are not alone. Much love to yall from Texas!!❤

What a great Podcast! Love the topic tonight. Thank you for keeping it real. I love you watching you both. Keena is Bad Ass lol

Kids brains pick up languages really well their first 5 years of life. Speak Spanish to them and they’ll pick it up. Great podcast! ❤

Love you guys! Loving this pod. 🤍

The way she lights up when he says he loves her and does what he does because he wants to be with her ❤️ so sweet! The love is strong and it's beautiful to see. That's what keeps cross-race marriages together. As a Mexican married to a wyt guy, I can completely relate to all this.

@SakenahSamarah-oh4th

10 ай бұрын

Thank you! I’m glad you are enjoying it ❤

Hi guys❤ love you! I can't get enough of you both. I love that you're talking about real life struggles. I'm married to my white boy and let me tell you that it's been super tough these past few months. We have 2 different parenting styles and it's so annoying because it confuses the kids. Anyways he speaks no Spanish as well but he loves to be around my family. He doesn't see it as a problem because I keep him in the loop of what the conversation is about. I do want him to learn more Spanish tho because I mean we've been together for over 6 years and, es para que ya supiera algunas oraciones que no? But with the kids I think you just need to speak to them in Spanish more and also to your wife so that they can at least understand. The speaking can come later. Omg I can go on and on with you both. I'm here for everything! Love you have the best day!❤❤❤❤ you kids are so beautiful!

Interracial marriage here. My husband is white/Hungarian and I’m Mexican/German. He’s from Canada, I’m from Texas. We both met online and talked online for 5 yrs. We talked on the phone, did Skype, and also slept with our cams on to watch each other sleep. We have now been married for 21 yrs (happily) but yes he had to get use to the difference in culture. Everyone said our relationship wouldn’t last and we proved them all wrong. We love you guys! Y’all got this. Main thing to remember is respect the other’s beliefs and culture. Keep the communication open at all times. Trust each other always, and always be honest with each other. ❤

Such a great podcast! Good topics to touch on !! I understand her point regarding the environment children grow up in but I will tell you that regardless of where they grow up they will choose their own paths. As much as I would one wants to protect them I do believe that a certain level of the cruel reality of what the world is is needed. I believe it’s necessary for them to know that certain things exist and not be oblivious to it, otherwise I would be setting them up to failure. But girl Chicago it’s just the same if not worse. I’ve never been offered crack in the middle of the day walking downtown like I did in Chicago !!!😅 I could understand a lot more if you said Kansas or Wichita cause those places are far from the city and all the nonsense. Anywho, I am excited to see what all yall come up with else for the topics !

I just subscribed , You guys are great & make my day primos !

My husband and I are our own village with 4 kids. We moved from Cali to Vegas a couple a years ago. To share its hard to be your own village and away from family. I think it’s our biggest struggle to be away from family. We miss majority of all family functions. I believe that is the con for us. As a pro we can provide more, we feel less stress of course which makes it a happy foundation for our kids to enjoy us happy. But I believe any place we feel is a sacrifice to provide for our children will always come with pros and cons.

Love seeing these pod🎉

Being in a relationship outside your race is one of the hardest obstacles I’ve ever had to face. The change in cultures is so hard! You two are by far my favorite TikTokers…. I wanna be your friend 😂

I love seeing yous especially a lunch hour I hope you make more videos and is very true every subject used talk about is reality

I just started watching your KZread channel I have always followed your instagram love every video you guys make. Also I I noticed you guys did say you guys are trying to move out of LA I would maybe suggest you looking into the southside of Orange Country it’s very calm and good place to live in grow up living her in lake forest beautiful area. And keep up the video can’t wait to see more❤.

Much respect to u two. I hope you guys show blow up. I'm a new fan Cisco is a fool..the wife is funny AF..magic!

Loveed the video guys 💯🔥

Hi from the beautiful Napa Valley. Love the podcast. Keep up the good work. Viva México!

Going to deffinatly to watch all your podcast love it keep it up...cicko I'm a niner fan dude what do you think of what's going on right now 3 straight loses bro..just wondering what you thought.

Back in Black AC/DC! You guys got this~you’ll be married forever bcuz of the struggles you handled. Now you’re a beautiful family.

Love your guys podcast!❤ I can sorta relate at a certain level with being in a interracial marriage. My husband is Mexican and I’m half white/Mexican but I’m not aware of my dad’s Mexican side nor have I met him so I don’t know Spanish fluently (Ik a little bit but not too much for a convo). My mother-in-law doesn’t speak any English so we had a struggle communicating but I feel it is getting better after our son was born(now 1 and a half) I decided to learn more Spanish because it’s true… if you don’t teach them another language at an early age it will be hard to communicate with the other side of the family! So I totally understand that. I get so happy when my son knows some Spanish words already bcus it’s a start and I would love for him to full on communicate with his abuela❤ it’s something that I don’t want to see him struggle with like I do. Also pointing out to what you guys said about Mexican parties! They’re so LIT 😂 I’m an introvert and a homebody but my husband’s primos/as would get me drunk af 😅 that’s how I know they party PARTY haha but I love his fam❤

I freakin love how relatable this is!! My daughter is 2 and I haven’t baptized her and if I had a dime for every time I got asked when I’m going to baptize her I would probably have enough for the damn party already!! 😂😂😂😂

I love your pov both of you, I agreee yess you touch base in the beginning but I don't think people really stop to think about what it actually means. And more when you have kids because you want to raise them a certain way. And important your spouse has same values and ideas as you. I agree, love the podcast

You guys are so awesome. Power couple for sure!! My lady and I love watching your videos and now your podcast. But I have one question???...How does someone from south central become a 49ers fan hahaha!!! P.S. Thanks for the pic when I met you at Levi's stadium last season. Much love yall❤️💛❤️💛

love y’all & keep the ending! 😂🤍

Love your podcast 💙

Some of us grew up in LA and are thriving and we’re NOT gang bangers!!! Your kids will grow up to be who they are meant to be regardless of where you raise them. LA is a beautiful place to race your family.

Carnal watch how your wife looked at you when you sipped that beer she low key hated😂

Mexican here married white completely relate to everything y’all said!!! 11 years later and there are still things we compromise on because of the way we grew up, especially on my side because us Mexicans can be too much sometimes lol

Excellent conversation here. Me myself I'm a black Mexican. My mother is from Jaurez 🇲🇽 Mexico. Identify as black. Because this is America. But I love my mother I'm definitely a mama's boy just like you. My parents have been married for 61 years. Hell my father even got deported from Mexico that's how she ended up in the United States. But my mother was very very insecure about her accent and her education. My older brother and sister are not my father's biological children. My older brother Javier is the only one that spoke Spanish because he was 7 years old when he came to the US but my sister Rosa who was 4 years old when she came to the US. Forgot how to speak Spanish because basically if you don't use it you lose it.... But my black and Mexican family has thrived but I wish I knew Spanish... Keep posting I love your content. 💪🏾🙏🏾💪🏾🙏🏾💪🏾 And I'm on your wife's side teach your son Spanish he's young enough he'll get it..

Im not in an interracial relationship but i love you podcast. Good topics!!!

Not all Hispanic families wear shoes in the house and definitely do NOT put them on the bed and not all Hispanic families party all the time (kids parties, baptism parties).

Wow what a 49er game it was on Saturday. I am sure you were celebrating!

You guys are the best! ❤

Love you guys!!

HOW DID I JUST GET ADDICTED TO YOUR PODCAST 😵‍💫🙃

It’s definitely about your kids. Their well being and their safety is what’s most important. Never forget where you came from and always show your children your background but get them out of city life. I’m from Chicago and currently live in southern Illinois but Illinois is a terrible move for sure. It’s a very hard decision to make!

Beautiful mix u guys got, your kids are gonna be lit. Im half ecua n half arab lebanese myself

She’s disrespectful she expects him to respect her morals but she don’t care about his!?!?

It’s a big thing in Asian cultures to also take off your shoes when you go inside someone’s home. I always ask if I go into a non-Asian person’s house, if they want me to remove my shoes. You never know. Also, I’m with Kenna on the whole getting back into pajamas when you enter your house. You don’t want that outside thing on your couch, on your bed, and your furniture. Oh, heck no. There’s a term for rent in Tagalog called pambahay. It means house clothes. You go home and change into clothes that are pambahay

Masha’Allah . I can see how you too are putting the work into the marriage. May Allah (God) bless your beautiful family always 🤲🏻.

My hats off to those whom marry out of race and out of culture. I love too much my Mexican race and Mexican culture! Born in Mexico and raised in the USA since I was 2, I dated some beautiful white women, but I love my ppl, my music, my tacos, and my TAMALES! Changing the subject… Francisco… I know you grew up in LA and understand why you’re a DODGERS fan….my question to you is How did you become a 49ers fan (49er fan here!). And on a 3rd note: you should bring your jefita on one podcast and Kenna should bring her mom on a separate podcast and asked them questions on what they thought about what they liked or disliked on how you met and your current situation. Much love from FRESNO, CA!!!

Hey hey Listen up here buddy I’m Mexican snd im married to an Israeli(Jew)been with her since 92 married in 98.. My wife taught all of our kids Spanish,Hebrew,Farsi and Arabic Which my kids went on to learn more languages but in our home my kids will only speak Hebrew or Farsi and when they talk to me it’ll be in Spanglish😎when they’ll go to my moms they’ll speak Spanish to my mom it was law They’ll learn English in school is what my wife will say Almost all my nephews don’t speak Spanish and both their parents are Latinos So yeah have your kids and family learn the language they’ll learn English in school

I loved all your topics. I am from San Pedro, Ca and have lived in North Carolina for the past 10 years. I can honestly say I never want to move back to California. You should really take a step back and think of finding that common ground on moving. I have a 3 bedroom house front yard back yard we pay $825.00 And yes it does take a village. But realistically Keena and your babies are your family now. Keep up the great podcasts.

Hello guys I think you guys are so hilarious Make me laugh all the time.. My husband is black and I'm Mexican and we're not married we've lived together for 25 years so we are common law husband and wife legally so it's worked out for us. For me doesn't matter what nationality you are when you click you click. Love you guys again Priscilla from Frisco Texas.❤❤

@angelah1759

7 ай бұрын

Please check your state law because it matters usually when someone dies.

I love Francisco .... Keena hàs a strong vibe but she is good for him she keeps him real and on the same page there is some obstacles but I love her with him .... I love you guys ... Merry Christmas 🎄

Aww, cute couple! First time watching. Sounds like the husband is the one compromising the most, but he’s good about it. Happy wife happy life!

I can totally relate! My husband is from Yemen and Muslim and I am Mexican we have a beautiful daughter and we are also raising her Muslim.

I love your program because some of the things you say and do are so true I’m mexican also

Interracial relationship here. I’m Native American with a Hispanic. Going on 2 1/2 years. Yes. We have our little challenges. But hanging in there together. Love your podcast. 😊

Come to live in Madera county. We live 15-20 drive from Fresno, Ca in country living setting. We love it and now our grandson is also enjoying it!

Real love can break any barriers. Including religion. I'm Lutheran and my husband is Jewish. We had been married for 20 years and counting l.

12 years biracial married couple going strong over here. I'm white and my husband is born and raised in Neza, Mexico I agree a really hard thing is the language barrier for our kids, myself and his family.

@darcandelaria

10 ай бұрын

Neza? What state is that located?

@sanchezm8181

9 ай бұрын

​@@darcandelarianezahucoyolt

My kids parties are like kennas, we stick to something more intimate, and we're hispanic, and something they will actually enjoy and we didn't do it for them until they were school age/ have friends and before that we would take them out somewhere. Kenna don't get discouraged, I'm hispanic and wasn't able to speak spanish fluently until my late 20s, practicing it everyday slowly even one word a day will help.

As a mexican it is true what cisco saying when you live with your partner we mexican is like we are married 😂

Great topic !

I completely understand. I'm Hispanic and my husband is Black. Just like her my husband hasn't really had a conversation with my mother. This is bc of the language barrier. We have a beautiful daughter and she doesn't really speak Spanish. So she doesn't really talk to my mom ( her grandmother). It's hard to teach Spanish when in the main household the language spoken is English.

In regards to language, the good thing is that y’all live in LA. My kids just started preschool in Eagle Rock and they’re learning Spanish. So many options for Spanish immersion in California, especially Los Angeles

Real talk here enjoyed this podcast 👍🙏

This is Ruben, your grammar Nazi, and it's said "It's neither here nor there". I really enjoy your KZread shorts. Keep them coming. I enjoyed your first podcast, how you guys got together and now I'm working on the second one. Hi to the Mrs.😊

Great topic I keep hearing Francisco say compromise and talking about all the compromises he has made to be with his wife but what compromises has she made?? From the outside looking in it seems as though he is compromising the most

So u changed for her

@frannyhernandez922

10 ай бұрын

I agree. They speak about compromise but I counted all the supposed compromises and it’s what she’s requested of Cisco. But hey if that makes him happy, who are we to judge! She’s also very judgmental in her comments. I love this couple but this podcast I guess is really bringing out their true personalities and views.

I enjoyed your podcast love conquer all now matter what religion or where your from once you have that chemistry you can't fight it off love is love

Man I totally understand where you guys are coming from from being married with someone from a different culture my (wife) we ain’t married but by common law we are in a way idk how that works entirely but anyways she is American I’m Mexican and we moved in together after 3 months of dating and we lived with my parents and we rented there basement for awhile and she doesn’t speak Spanish so communicating with my family was difficult for her but she picked up some Spanish too fast forward a few years later COVID time we had our first child together and a year later we had our second child and it’s different we have different styles of parenting, and teaching my kids Spanish is a struggle because me and my wife only talk in English but I try my best to teach them Spanish but it’s hard when all they hear is English in the home but I’m definitely trying my best to teach both of my boys. Anyways you guys I love you and your videos

I so agree on the birthday party thing. A kid later… with my first child I went all out. 13 years later I finally figured it out that the parties were for the adults so I opted to take my son with a friend for a weekend celebration at Disneyland, Sea World, Legoland, etc. and it ended up being cheaper and my son enjoyed it completely.

Perfect couple. I feel the love they have for eachother. How it should be. Keep up the great comedy

Yo! I just wish I could sit with y’all and go into this topic! Legit my wife and I go through this hard core! She’s British and I’m Mexican

Love watching you guys. Chicago has the highest crime now very dangerous these days. You should look for a nice place to move in a low crime. Best of luck.

I love this couple ! They are funny and real .

You guys are funny n fun together love guys!!!!

The shoe topic was supper funny. 😂😂😂😂

The new generation of mixed cultures is more common. Personally, i have experienced all about being latina in a Mexican household. There was somewhat freedom. My parents wouldn't explain why this, this and this. Both you guys make a cute couple. That's what makes a relationship work when you talk it out. Love you both. 😁❤❤