The concept of someone wanting to touch my private parts, but his payslip & bank statements are too “private” for me to see…. Is something I will never ever ever understand…. If you’re unable to show me your payslip, and your bank statements, and your credit score & history…. we are not making it to the altar…. 😭😭😭

@mantoatshabalala4159

2 ай бұрын

I couldn’t have put it better!!!

@nokuhlekumalo

2 ай бұрын

😭😭😭 these are my exact sentiments !!!! Like kanjaaaani guys ?!? Are we married or are we roommates?? 100% agree with you Zizi 🤣

@siszama2294

2 ай бұрын

Its really wild.

@sinesiphontlebi3639

2 ай бұрын

Zizi😂😂😂

Last story, I’m taking my R3000. But as a principle I don’t lend friends or family money. I generally feel very disrespected when someone doesn’t repay me. So I’d rather not open myself to that.

@nokuhlekumalo

2 ай бұрын

😭😭😭 you and I are the SAME. Every one gets ONE chance and if you disappoint me? Never again.

@user-vs6kr1ic6h

2 ай бұрын

I have a friend who has a tendency to ask me to pay when we out like at restaurants in the name of " i'll pay you my portion when i get home or the card i have doesn't have enough cash". I never get it back. Imagine you plan to pay about R300-R400 but you end up with a R900 bill, it is starting to affect me

@nombulelonhlapo4802

2 ай бұрын

Your "friend" is a parasite . Don't go out with her/him​@@user-vs6kr1ic6h

Others don't show their spouses payslips because they are paying maintenance they are hiding from their partners.

Lmao! Your edits are dusting me 😂😂😂 on a serious note- these are such important lessons. I’ll admit- I’ve def been the “what I don’t know won’t hurt me” esp when it comes to my partners finances but ai- this video is making me reconsider that mindset 😅 Please keep these videos coming, Miss K

I’m not married but my policy has always been, let’s pick the lowest earner and we live according to what they can afford should the relationship not work. I’m not extravagant, I’ll live at half the lifestyle I’m accustomed to if we love each other. However if she makes it big, and she wants to live it up I won’t stand in her way. As long as she doesn’t try to inflate my lifestyle because I’m a cheapskate and I love my 3 day work weeks twice a month😎

Yooooo the betway story is so saaaaad, she probably thought she could make more money quickly...

@nokuhlekumalo

2 ай бұрын

😭💀 Ay Ay Ay I wonder if she made any money (some form of inflow) because right now we only have sight of the outflows

on the last story, I'm keeping the 5k - the fact that I had to chase you for my money, you will chase me for yours just like I did. 😂😂😂😂

I do not understand how you can not know your partners income, like how on earth do you you make financial decisions. Like where you buy groceries, where you send your kids to school, which cars you buy, where you live!?!? This is how people spouses pass on and you find out that no everything is just debt and you end up homeless. Like does that person even have life cover, yoh!!!!

@babalwandamase9509

2 ай бұрын

Possible if you have a selfish partner

I can relate to the whole car buying surprise thing. I dont expect my husband to buy me a car without us making an informed decision based on our financial circumstances “TOGETHER “. Maybe one day when we have reached financial freedom.

I didn't even know it was possible for one to bet for R10k.

Hi Miss K I am keeping all the R5000 . will come up with stories ... the R2000 i will be lending it to my self I will send it back as soon as i get stable 🙃🙃🙃

With the R3000 one I would take my money back and pay back the R2000 exactly one year later!😂😂😂😂

@nokuhlekumalo

2 ай бұрын

🤣🤣😭 Ohmyword you’re so petty (good!!)

@NthabisengMotaung-du8rh

2 ай бұрын

😂😂

@hydrualxthepudi6637

2 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 diabolical 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@rebirthpodcast2023

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@No2HeartStoppingClotShots

2 ай бұрын

Same!

You’ve just earned another subbie!!! Like you a lot already

😂😂I would send them R500 and tell them thats what I can afford right now.....give them a taste of their own medicine 💊

these stories are wild😭 first time watching the final storiy video style we need more of these

@nokuhlekumalo

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 I’m glad you enjoyed these as much as I enjoyed recording this!! Till next time

New subbie. Love your content! ❤

This is also my favorite segment❤❤

I am keeping all the money. The difference is considered interest and lesson to be learned. The payslip part, I am not married or in any relationship but my policy is that all of us must contribute 80% of our salaries including bonuses into family fund which that money will be used to fund any family expenditure either be school fees, grocery or any investment opportunity we deem appropriate for the benefit of the family. Also, every two years we must show each other our payslips and advice each other on how we can improve our income prospects.

That betway girl was probably playing aviator🤣😭

I really enjoyed this episode 😊

@nokuhlekumalo

2 ай бұрын

☺️🙏🏾 I’m glad!! Thank you for watching

🙌🙌🙌love this,thanks for this truly enjoyed this. P.S who needs an partner when you can do things yourself🤗

@nokuhlekumalo

2 ай бұрын

🤭🚀 yayyyy!! I’m glad you enjoyed this (I LOVE this segment). 😅😭 in the partner thing, I love feeling spoilt so I’ll defs forever be a lover girl BUT I also know I can always buy myself those things if I really wanted to.

@itumelengmonare6516

2 ай бұрын

@@nokuhlekumalo that's a more reasonable enough option👍

I love your videos

Interesting content ❤😂😅😂

Last story 😂😂😂 i want to take my money plus interest but coz im a nice person kodwa i dont want to be taken for a ride i'll go with taking my R3000 and send back R2000. Also agree with you i only borrow people money I'm "willing" to loose

Finally found my people! ❤

My pettiness says I should keep the R5000, but wouldn’t that have any theft implications since she only owed R3000😂

@rebirthpodcast2023

2 ай бұрын

Theft?😂😂 can't prove it at the bank you made the transaction ain't nobody taking your side😂 and there is texts to prove you promised to send me money.

@tloporomamabolo7141

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂​@@rebirthpodcast2023

The prerequisite to anything that is jointly must emanate from an individual's solo experiences. A part of me feels like people must have financial structures which they bring into the marriage/ partnership, from their single and early dating stages. When the serious conversations transpire, the 2 people should at least set boundaries and share ideas of how money will be spent/ invested from a percentage point of view, based on how they used to allocate their monies for themselves. In a sense that they can be open and honest as well account for overspending. Women love money that's a fact but I think it's only fair that they know their spending limits even in the midst of their bad spending habits.

Based on the last story, for me it would depend on how our much our friendship has deteriorated, but at minimum, I’d keep R3500, R500 being ‘interest’ to compensate for the emotion turmoil, ONE YEAR.

Story 3 is similar to those Nigerian inheritance scams. They would say they’ve opened an account for you and in order to get the inheritance you must deposit $100 to activate the account. Don’t ask how I know 🤭

@nokuhlekumalo

2 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣😭 we’re going to need the full story please, are you also a relative of a Nigerian Prince !?!

@Zamazizi

2 ай бұрын

Apparently I do have Nigerian royalty relatives 😂😂

On the borrowing money chat, I will give back 500 and keep 4500, unemali mos.

I’d send back R1500. R500 for the trouble. It once happened to me. Someone was owing me x amount and was delaying payment then mistakenly sent money to me when trying to transfer to someone else

I'm definitely taking back my R3000 😂😂

Wild wild west out here 😂😂😂😂😂 me i would take my money and return that 2k. Borrowing people money is hectic! Andizi 🤞

When I was in college. I got in a accident with my mother's car. Outsurance said my momma must take me to court and risk me going to prison for her to get her insurance money.😢😮

I'm taking my R3k and sending him his R2k back but he can forget about ever borrowing money from me again. It shows he could've paid me in full and chose to be untrustworthy and lied.

Haiiiii 😂😂😂😂😂sis you finished me at I called my partner to say I'm making money here lol... Im laughing cause I would have done that too🤣🤣😭

Hhha I Never advise someone to be a home maker! My friend after 23 years, is dumped for a younger girl and now my friend is no longer 'pulling her weight' he says she just takes and takes... Such a sad life! She has no financial security, no plan. The guy moved out and left her and their child and is now living with this young lady who works....

Last story: send back R2000 and keep my R3000!!!!

Finances in partnership & marriage are important. I personally feel before you even get to living together or getting they should be discussed enough to g8be comfort on the expectations, future goals and lifestyle. You need to know if your partner is a saver or a spender their financial downfall e.g. online shopping...gambling...excessive drinking. Last question I'd keep the whole R5000 for the pain and suffering you put me through having to run after you the whole year begging you to keep your word and also to teach you a lesson that if you donpay in time there's always interest charged. I feel this person was never a friend to begin with they just there for benefits you just didn't know it

Yhoooo it be your own kids sana 😮😮😮

@nokuhlekumalo

2 ай бұрын

🤣😭😭😭💔💔 yerrrrr.

Relationship aren't suppose toblast forever, marriage or umjolo. Hide your money so that you cannot be sued or bleed money to your partner.

I would take my R3000 and send back the R1950 (R50 for Bank charges as well as my data for sending back the money😂)

@tloporomamabolo7141

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

I'm keeping the entire R5000 because o sele 😂😂😂

@IsabellaS967

2 ай бұрын

Sentle fela shem 😂😂 phela e boile le interest

😭😭😭i would disown the child.

Ms K I'd take R3500 and return R1500. I'm charging them R500 for lying that they didn't have the money and for the fact that i had to beg them to pay back my money.😂

😂😂😂 cant wait to find out your opinion after youre married.

Am keeping my R3000 🎉

I'm keeping R3000 and not responding to anything thereafter

3. I'm keeping R5000 I can't beg you for my money. Please... but also I don't borrow people money my answer will always be "I don't have" people move weird when money is involved.

I'd take the whole 5k. And stop the friendship

I'm keeping my R3k and only sending her back her R2k

looooooool ungijwayela kabu number 2 I Want my R3000 back

Send back R2000 a year later.

Take my full R3000😂

Hey Nokuhle. I'de take my R3000 and resend the remainder

@nokuhlekumalo

2 ай бұрын

😂🤧 you’re a good person Mziwakhe!!! better than most of us.

I’d take my 3k but the pettiness in me would also want me to make her chase me the same way I way chasing her. The friendship is ruined anyways

Yoh that gambling story💔💔💔

I would take back my 3000

I’m not sending anything back I block her everywhere 😌

I will thank God for the R5000 and block and delete my friend 😊

@nokuhlekumalo

Ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lol😅 because i am kind,i will just take my R3000 then giver her R2000 back because she made me a full but hey friends don't pay back your money on time even loose friendship thrgh that...

I would take my R3000 and send back the R2000

@mmamolemomodisadife2726

2 ай бұрын

I would send the R2000 either after 2 years or R100 every month for 20 months.

But surely you know a person's title, experience and work place so you can look up his/her estimated salary on the internet.

@nokuhlekumalo

2 ай бұрын

😅😅😅 I don’t think so: for example when I did articles salaries across the different firms varied (slightly) BUT those doing articles at a bank had salaries way different to ours. Another example is if someone is a financial manager as a small entity / start-up, they would potentially make a fraction of what a financial manager at a Top 40 JSE-listed entity. so it’s sometimes hard to ‘estimate’ (I think) 😅🤧.

@Zamazizi

2 ай бұрын

It’s not available. You’ll get a very general estimate. But each employer has a different remuneration strategy so it is impossible to know exactly how much anyone earns.

@godsfavouritedaughter3476

2 ай бұрын

But do you even have access to that money as a wife? If you have to go that route😮

So you wanna be compensated for cleaning the house and taking care of your kids?

@ekarhi3425

2 ай бұрын

Imagine 😂😂and the husband too will need to be compensated I don't know how that will work

In our home we live according to biblical principles. Important to keep tabs with your banker, update your details. Do your due diligence.

Kumalo less Yada Yada and more evidence please because damn you talk alot 🤦🤦🤦