I know one thing, my future man better not do a public proposal. I hate that whole concept.

@kayecee5970

5 жыл бұрын

gigglyfitzgirl im running away

@yatirayau824

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@Ice_48

5 жыл бұрын

I feel you on that. I’m proposing to my girl next month and she told me a while ago she doesn’t like public proposals. What’s the reason why you don’t like that concept?

@NMDPKR

5 жыл бұрын

Ice48 omg congratulations! Most girls don’t like the attention they get from the audience. I wouldn’t want a public proposal as well. I believe having a proposal in a private area makes it more intimate/special and more about you two, whereas public proposals make it more about the public. I hope that helps!

@elinamokae-yeboah3929

5 жыл бұрын

@@Ice_48 Congratulations!

I agree with Tamar and Tamera. Don't ask me if you're not really ready.

@melissaherndon3211

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Children and marriage are decisions that should not be taken lightly.

@MsSonnencreme

4 жыл бұрын

It’s fine if you know you still need some time even though you’re sure about the person But then don’t propose

@gab5072

4 жыл бұрын

Stephanie K. congrats 💗🍾🍾

@latoyajohnson8695

4 жыл бұрын

Stephanie K. I’m with Tam and Tamar DO NOT ask me if you’re not ready because homeboy will run the risk of getting embarrassed 😳

@denisheabates6922

3 жыл бұрын

Do NOT ask if you are not ready

I still love these old clips with Tamar

@IamMarisaChrista

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! Same here

@Zzucia

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah. She made the show so lively and the whole vibe seemed happier when she was on most of the time.

@nduh2232

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@kamomothusi

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. I watch old clips with Tamar. I am back here in 2020

@ednajay5724

3 жыл бұрын

@@kamomothusi I consciously went to seek out old clips with Tamar. They're just so much better

My husband and I planned our wedding the day of our engagement. We got married 3 months after. We have now been married for 13 years.

@Parisroam

5 жыл бұрын

Whats the secret to a happy marriage?

@amarelogan7081

4 жыл бұрын

@@Parisroam focusing on YOUR marriage cause YOUR marriage will be different from EVERYONE else's marriage 🤷‍♂️

@prico3358

4 жыл бұрын

I always say to make it easier.. Engage and get merried the same date as boyfriend and girlfriend anyversary.. You are already keeping track of that..

@rara7805

4 жыл бұрын

First thing, we put God first. We pray together, we go to church together. You gotta have that trust. When we disagree about something, we talk it out instead of arguing, and we come to an agreement. Everybody marriage is different, and everyone are going to have different problems. whatever problem you have, never go to bed angry with each other. Pray about it and talk it out. Arguing doesn't get you anywhere. We spend time together, but we also give each other space. My husband parents have been married for 63 years, now that's a blessing 😊.

@rara7805

4 жыл бұрын

I pray that God will bless my husband and I to continue to have a long and happy, healthy marriage

I think they forgot to mention that many people get engaged but dont have enough money for the wedding so they hold off until they have enough

@loreah2794

8 жыл бұрын

true cos these ladies actually have the money lol

@itszbebabaybee

8 жыл бұрын

I think in that case the man should wait to propose until the finances are ok

@qliphaus

8 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@stephaniei.3424

8 жыл бұрын

don't propose then

@brittany.381

8 жыл бұрын

+Stefany Brown lol straight no chaser

Yup. I was engaged for two years. My fiancé at the time got mad at me when I asked when we would set a date AND I was never excited or started planning. I ended up breaking up with him and married my husband after dating for 6 months. He proposed and a month later we were married. When you know; you know!!

@peggyoneal325

4 жыл бұрын

KiKiCheeks, what a beautiful story! Many Blessings on your marriage!

@eb7608

4 жыл бұрын

That’s amazing!

@strawberriesncandii

3 жыл бұрын

Amen! Girl you did that!

@amirareadschannel

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I can’t wait for marriage

@candacehall4776

3 жыл бұрын

I totally believe that.

Update 2022: Adrienne is happily married, Grammy nominated, and trying to have children. Loni is in a lovely relationship with a man named James Jeannie is married!! And has a daughter named Monaco. Tamera is a lifetime movie queen with a winery and has left the show Tamar is still Tamar. Causing drama and singing her lil heart out. The Real is canceled. Thank you for this amazing and unique show, the first all woman of color talk show 😭

@tgc228

2 жыл бұрын

You ain't have to do Tamar like that now 😅 she seems happy with her man and booked and busy 😂

@valleyofthedawlz

2 жыл бұрын

Them removing Tamar was what got this show cancelled

@mariaduvnjak236

2 жыл бұрын

When did they cancel and whyyyy

@taz22196

2 жыл бұрын

@@tgc228 THANK YOU!

@taz22196

2 жыл бұрын

Get OFF my girl Tamar 🙄🙄 You just don’t like her because she is REAL 💯

"If you put a ring on it that mean you are ready for commitment, let's do this" YEAP! Say it louuuuuder🤚🏼💍 *Getting married on march 28 of 2020*

@megan5445

5 жыл бұрын

Yay! I hope it goes well

@shantell4847

5 жыл бұрын

Congratulation

@jaxx2449

4 жыл бұрын

Congrats☺️

@thekahleahkaior

4 жыл бұрын

congrats 😝 !

@NissaTheGamer

4 жыл бұрын

Giselle Johan congrats!!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️

I'm pretty sure a Nigerian came up with that statement. #witchcraft

@vnchezor

8 жыл бұрын

Lol yes true nigerian

@s.1340

8 жыл бұрын

Lmao I thought so too. #yorubademons

@RenieNostalgic

8 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@africanmindedwoman

8 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I originally saw that a few years ago on a Nigerian Facebook page or group.

@oluwatonimakinde7944

8 жыл бұрын

me too😂😂😂

That ring has an expiry date of one year! After that it’s just a gift.

@radwahussein669

4 жыл бұрын

Ashley Monique I think when it hits 1 year and you don’t have a plan, then it’s just a gift. But if you are planning and it’s over a year then that’s fine.

@writerspen010

3 жыл бұрын

@Jenna P nope, not necessarily. Especially if you're getting married during peak season, when a lot of dates have been snatched up. If you're doing the whole scha-bang, the wedding dress alone takes a minimum of 6-8 months to prepare. Plus, weddings are expensive. It's not unreasonable to take over a year if it takes you that long to have the money saved up for the various deposits you'll make over time.

If you propose to somebody, you should be ready to marry them the next damn day! People these days focus way too much on the wedding ceremony and not enough Fucus on the actual marriage. Get married in court, plan your grand ceremonies later.

@mrstrellbrown23

8 жыл бұрын

yep the wedding aint gon make your marriage work, we got married a few months after proposal and i accepted ehen he didnt have a ring. all about the love

@loverofallthingsbeautiful2

8 жыл бұрын

yessssss

@olgarodionova27

6 жыл бұрын

miniimufin exactly. We spent more on our honeymoon. We were high school sweethearts. I knew him for 10 years. We were officially together for 8 months before he proposed. Got married 3 months later. Have been together for over 3 years and even though we've gone through rough patches, marriage is work. You don't just quit when life gets hard. When you're going through some issues, it's to test your commitment.

@aaliyahgriffin781

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@colormyworld249

5 жыл бұрын

same thing if you say yes

It's segments like this where I think how can they get rid of Tamar. I feel like sometimes she's the only one who really gives good motivational advice while the others just tell personal experiences. Tamar does both she speaks from her past & motivates your future.

@saffs001

8 жыл бұрын

so damn true!

@kingtoyab69

8 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@acharich

8 жыл бұрын

Mmm.. 💭

@nickaylah.671

7 жыл бұрын

I have to disagree. Tamar was very REAL about the advice she gave from her personal opinion but her delivery was not always necessary and it was her way or the highway during discussion. It is segments like this, that show me she was a little rude. Why she lookin like that when Jeannie had something to say? Discretion was necessary for Tamar to continue.

@gospeldva

7 жыл бұрын

Nickayla H. I agree she's very dominant in her opinion

Tamar looks amazing!!

@crowned_in_beauty

8 жыл бұрын

totally agree

@Aurora-skiess

8 жыл бұрын

looks like a muppet

@tater4442

8 жыл бұрын

+Sana Rose when you make comments like that make sure you put your picture next to it so we can't tell you what you look like ✌✌✌✌✌✌✌

@eshaa8192

8 жыл бұрын

YAASSSS style on fleek

@jennakaufman4471

6 жыл бұрын

Mara Thebaddie that’s not true don’t be so rude because she’s gorgeous

I believe Lenny propose to Adrienne to shut her up

@77deerose

8 жыл бұрын

lol

@amandamatana5712

8 жыл бұрын

omg lol

@CoCoGemel

8 жыл бұрын

lmfao

@santriciajones2579

8 жыл бұрын

her and everybody else

@ashasheera8441

8 жыл бұрын

When Adrienne says "My friends", we all know she's actually talking about herself and her own experience.

Watching these old episodes I see clearly that Jeanie and Freddie were not meant for each other..hindsight is 20/20.

Adrienne's makeup is always slaying

@vivianb5325

8 жыл бұрын

yesss 😍😍😍

@sarasalone3060

3 ай бұрын

Who’s her makeup artist ?

Tamar is the kind of friend who will give you the truth even if it hurts you but it will set you free....I like all her advises and life lessons she give on the show , they really have huge gap to fill after her and 100% the show won't be the same without her. btw I only learned about Tamar through this show then I started watching her reality shows 😥😥😥

@loaloa2020

8 жыл бұрын

Dorian Black well i do feel like Loni is next

@tylalynn9726

4 жыл бұрын

nana blue They won an Emmy and Tamar is still bitter and talking ☕️👀

@CeliniacForLife

2 жыл бұрын

Wait until you hear her music. She’s a four-time Grammy nominated R&B songstress. Her best album is Calling All Lovers. I suggest you listen to that one first.

I really don't think Tamar is as bad as everyone makes her seem. I don't think Tamera would be friends with her if she was that much of a diva behind the scenes. I will miss her TONS, I don't know how the show will be after her, but I still want to support the other four women.

@dreamycalm

8 жыл бұрын

Hm or pretend to like her and be friends with her just for the shows sake?

@jolufsen7847

8 жыл бұрын

+msjuicy naaaaa that's bs

@1perle

8 жыл бұрын

I find her rude at times, but didn't wish her to be fired.

@grintsgirl051

8 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

@littleprincesszz

8 жыл бұрын

Preach!

I love how Tamar keeps it real. Lol! “You don’t have to rush into it right away.” “Why come?? YOU wasn’t ready.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

If you don't have money for the wedding, hold that ring. Propose when you have the money

@plutostarr8605

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

My boyfriend and I have been together since I was 16 and he was 17. We'll make 6 years this summer! We plan on being engaged later this year, and getting married late next year. :') So happy to be in a healthy, loving relationship!

@lilipurr

8 жыл бұрын

Congrats!!!

@eveevolution1607

4 жыл бұрын

Are u still together today?

@autumnhayesart6084

4 жыл бұрын

How did it go . Are you married yet?

@francis2339

4 жыл бұрын

They split smh🤣

@realityclips6052

3 жыл бұрын

Did you get married?

My husband proposed to me a year after we started dating, and we were married 6 months later. We are 8 years married and happy as can be expecting our 4th baby

I agree with Adrienne what she said. If your getting engaged in teens or early 20s you should probably have a longer engagement be your young and you want to make sure your not naive. This is a life time thing so yes I agree.

@ebonyeverything2751

2 жыл бұрын

No teens should be getting engaged. Their brains aren't even finished developing. They are not the people they're actually going to be.

jeannie was not ready and was never ready for freddie

I got engaged in March and our wedding is 5 months later. 12 days from today! He was ready and so was I. We have been together 15 months. We both felt the “ the one” feeling from day 1 💕💍

@elora179

Жыл бұрын

If I got married, we’d just go to Vegas over the weekend. Cheap and cheerful 😂

My husband and I were engaged for two years before we got married. We wanted to save up money so we could have our dream destination wedding. Some people have a good reason for a longer engagement.

@larajensen1821

2 жыл бұрын

I agree

I MISS TAMAR. She added soooo much to the show!

I was engaged for almost 4 years :) just got married September 21 on the day we made NINE years together. 😬😬😬

@zeynand4039

3 жыл бұрын

Can I ask why it tool 4 years? were you in college for example and you wanted to wait after graduation?

@Thollis1987

3 жыл бұрын

That’s just weird...we’re y’all trying to save for a big wedding and honeymoon ?

@candacehall4776

3 жыл бұрын

Were yal together for those 4 years? Or was there breakups and makeups in those 4 years.

@Curlsl

3 жыл бұрын

It's ok I don't get why people want to get married so quickly ? It's the same anyway if you live together. At least you know each other well enough to get married. You should know each other for at least 3 or 4 years before getting married. I don't get it.

@pitbullscrookedjiyong6269

3 жыл бұрын

Looool

My sisters engagement lasted two years. The first year was her last year finishing nursing school. The moment she walked across the stage they started to plan the wedding haha She even told my brother in law don’t you dare propose to me while in finishing nursing school. I guess he couldn’t wait 😂

jennie KNEW she ain’t wanna marry that man 🙄

My spouse and I dated for 5 yrs, engaged for 2 yrs, been married for 3 yrs. We are in our early 30's now and I wouldn't change a thing. I married my best friend and the love of my life. I think it is different for everyone. You move at your own pace and if it's meant to be it will be.

"Why come"? I laughed so hard when Tamar said that 😂

Chileeee, I thought I read “Entanglement” I never clicked so fast thinking they were back talking about will & jada! 😂

@neyyy352

4 жыл бұрын

not entanglement 😭😭🤣🤣

@Ndeka

3 жыл бұрын

Me and you both sis😂

@sinosakambana

3 жыл бұрын

Ma’am 🤣🤣😭

I was 22 when I got engaged, 4 months shy of 23. We got married when I was 25 (2 months after my birthday). So the engagement was about 2.5 years long. But, we lived in different states until 8 months before the wedding. Once we lived in the same location, planning went into over drive. Money was partially a factor. We paid for our own wedding out of pocket, without going into debt. I did all the cooking and decorating and everything. I even did my own wedding photos (hello timer and tripod)...and they turned out great, btw. Sometimes there are legitimately reasons for a longer engagement. For me, I just wanted some sense of commitment since we had already been dating at the point for close to 5 years when he proposed.

@MeleenGames

2 жыл бұрын

Thats amazing!

@annelyceyawingu6678

6 ай бұрын

Are you still married?❤

@cathkails

6 ай бұрын

​@@annelyceyawingu6678Yes, I am. Been together for 20 years this April and married for 13 years this May. Have 3 beautiful children together and our fourth is due at the beginning of February.❤

I’ve been with my fiancé for a little over four years. We got engaged on our four year anniversary and we plan to get married on our 6 year anniversary. We decided on a long engagement to have time to plan and to save up (we’re both 21). Two years may seem like a long engagement to some, but we both felt that it was the right amount of time. Even though it’s still a year and eight months away, we talk about the wedding daily and are saving up. I think your engagement can be as long as you feel works for you, as long as both parties are in agreement. Plus, the engaged part of a relationship is super fun and I’m just enjoying all that goes along with it. 💕

@blairf7118

3 жыл бұрын

Ppl just have to do what's right for them and their relationship...there is no standard or required blueprint and timeframe

@carmenblk440

2 жыл бұрын

Are yall married?

@palesakgabanyane887

2 жыл бұрын

Are y'all married now ?

@simonag2312

Жыл бұрын

Me n my bf just celebrated our 4th dating anniversary, I was hoping for a ring :( I'm tired of waiting and even when he'll get me the ring ik he'll keep me waiting for the actual marriage. Why do I feel so upset

@selfloveandcoffee2914

5 ай бұрын

he is just comfortable with you girl! He knows you are not going to leave and wait around for him. LEAVE NOW. You want someone who is excited and cant wait to marry you@@simonag2312

My fiancé proposed last week, and we decided to marry this May :) he’s so involved in the wedding planning process 😇 we can’t wait !

Everybody hating on Tamar but I am actually gonna miss her! :( Especially her being next to Tamera and them cracking jokes!

@odesza7327

8 жыл бұрын

I'm going I miss her too .but she cracked way too many jokes for alot people's liking.

@hopethepope9541

8 жыл бұрын

Yeah still cant believe this has happend!!

@jennakaufman4471

6 жыл бұрын

Mena T me too I like her You Tried It segments

Some men propose to to get their women to be quiet.

@TT.3123

6 ай бұрын

But if they want quiet they could just leave the woman and be in peace and solidarity?

If your engaged for longer than a year... It's called a "shut up ring"... You know the rest... ... and I'm not having it! No thanks!!!

@shutit4024

2 жыл бұрын

Does age play a roll?

Watching these old clips it's crazy how the script flipped for Jeannie and she's found a love that she was ready for and it was ready for her and she's the happiest she's ever been👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I miss this dynamic with the five of them

@lisakinsale7761

7 жыл бұрын

#Tamar

I got engaged at 19 & got married when I turned 21 because I at least wanted to drink. I agree with Adrienne on the young engagements

Who's still watching these Tamar videos in 2020🙋‍♀️

@jmeiahb2608

3 жыл бұрын

🙋🏾‍♀️

@maliksomers19

3 жыл бұрын

Still do in 2021

Finances can also dictate wedding plans though. Even if you're both ready for it, even a small wedding costs money. I think the proposal should come with a rough timeline, though, and concerns like paying for the wedding should all be mentioned early if not at the same time. Some people do have long engagements because they're saving up for the wedding rather than because someone isn't ready.

@coppersulphate002

8 жыл бұрын

Exacty!

@BeautifulDreamerK

8 жыл бұрын

Amen! This is a big reason why I'm waiting. Weddings are expensive. Finances are a huge factor and I wish they would've talked about this.

@elisharoze455

5 жыл бұрын

Get married in a court and have your ceremony later. A wedding is just a big party in the grand scheme of things

@nmoomoo

5 жыл бұрын

Elisha Roze culturally weddings are really important so some people may save that reason

@MsSassydiva12

3 жыл бұрын

That part!!

I WISH WE KNEW WHAT EXACTLY HAPPENED!........

@jackitzatziki

8 жыл бұрын

Loni just put up a video. Go watch it!!!

@jchidi

8 жыл бұрын

Its none of our business.

@SallyandPaul

8 жыл бұрын

where???

@LisaIrby

8 жыл бұрын

Here's Loni's video kzread.info/dash/bejne/iJt3j6euodLZcsY.html

@dianaramirez4401

8 жыл бұрын

I know!! I hope it wasnt any of the other hosts. but i will be hard to watch without her :(

After 5 years that’s a stfu ring 😂🤣

I'm 35 in may 36,dating since nearly two years with my boyfriend. If he does not propose soon after 2 years I'm out, too many people asking me out ,and I am not getting any younger.

Never pressurise you partner to marry. You both have to want it and you both have to agree on the terms and conditions of your relationship. And please as women you have to take accountability for your part in your relationship. And remember, If it's not working, Guy has every right to walk away as much as you do😉

I was engaged for 3 years but that’s because life hit hard, my mom got sick, we knew we were absolutely ready for each other’s commitment but we had to push things back. 8 years strong so it just depends

Jeannie never wanted to marry Freddy. She was never in love with him the things that she said on the show like she wasn’t ready. She wasn’t excited 😆. Things you would say out of context like marriage is hard marriage is so hard like it’s obvious it wasn’t meant to be. I’m pretty sure it’s not supposed to be that hard. Not to mention the awkward moment when Freddy told everybody that Jeannie is not sexually attracted to him.

I dated my hubby for 3 months, got engaged at 19, married 5 months later at 20 and had my baby at 20 (the day before I was 21) going on 3 years of marriage, going on strong, loving my life, husband and son and I do t regret it one bit. However, I’m also LDS 😂

LONNIE!!!!!!!! "you'ved lived your life adrienne baillon" 😂😂😂😂

Well, I see it as a case by case basis. For me personally, I’m engaged at 23. Yet my fiancée and I agreed to finish college together first and then get married in Europe. Smaller party, but the experience will be worth it. Plus having the college memories together is a plus. We get to grow together too. It just depends on circumstances.

My wife and I actually planned our wedding before we were “engaged” I couldn’t find the ring she deserved and so I wanted to wait to make it official until then but we planned everything. The colors the flowers the venue she went dress shopping everything. Then I bought the ring and proposed and we got married 6 months later because everything was planned and it was just about getting everything paid for and set up. Buying the decorations and the invitations and all that but if it had been up to her we would’ve gotten everything set up gotten engaged and then gotten married the next day. But I told her we needed to give other people time to situate themselves and plan if they were coming or not and buy wedding gifts and all that.

@ebonyeverything2751

2 жыл бұрын

Damn, so there was no surprise or romance in it for her?

I was engaged for 2.5 years bcuz I had a single woman goal I wanted to have before I got married, which was getting my bachelors degree. I graduated in may 2017, we got married that September.

Engagements is testing the waters. I was engaged until my fiance died in the military. I am newly engaged. However , I agree with Jeanie mai when she said not to rush. I explained to my fiance what came with friends , boyfriend/girlfriend , fiance , and marriage. Theirs levels and steps you have to take to being engaged to be married.

@Sagesmoke

Жыл бұрын

Sorry for your loss

What's the point of getting engaged to someone to shut them up? That clearly means you do not want it to happen, so why not just break up with them and not waste their time!!

@tormentorchick1755

3 жыл бұрын

They want to keep the woman around without the commitment. He can have her and have no ties for an easy exit once he finds what he really wants.

@shutit4024

2 жыл бұрын

@@tormentorchick1755 smh that’s f**ked up but I remember my dad took 3 years to marry my mom and they ended the marriage with in 10 months smh he was cheating the whole time

I love what tamera said about her mother “there’s a season for everything. Enjoy.....”

we got engaged after 3 months togeather didnt get married till almost 5 years after. we needed that time

I'm getting married in 5 days! My engagement was 2 and a half months long. I loved the short engagement! 😊

So what happens to the "You Tried It" and "Lies You Tell" segments? Do they give Tamar back all her intellectual properties? Do they keep using her lingo as titles on KZread videos, Instagram posts and Facebook statuses? Her creativeness made up roughly a nice portion of the show, and lets be honest, they capitalized off it.

@zora99ny

8 жыл бұрын

Tamar should trademark her catchphrases.

@umar609040

8 жыл бұрын

She owned those trademarks way before this show.

@ImJerkBoii

8 жыл бұрын

A lot of gay mannerisms come from black women though. Slang phrases like "You tried it," "Lies," and "Shade" and all that comes from gay culture. But tongue smacking and what a lot of people call "acting ghetto" come from black women.

@ImJerkBoii

8 жыл бұрын

***** I did not say ghetto behavior comes from black women. I said behavior that people consider "ghetto" come from black women. Slight - yet important - distinction. Ghetto only has a negative connotation when it is given one. I was simply using it to indicate the behavior in a way that most could understand. What I should have said to not confuse - and am saying now - is that Tamar (and effeminate gay men) act in the typical fashion of SOME black women who are typically from the hood, who act in an "exaggerated" manner. Think Sheneneh from Martin. Gay men (and Tamar by extension) portray a caricature of the "ghetto black woman." That caricature includes a lot of tongue smacking, eye and neck rolling, snapping, etc.

@brittany.381

8 жыл бұрын

I was just going to ask

What’s more important? The wedding? Or the marriage? They talked about the wedding here and didn’t focus on the actual Marriage at all.

Aidrienne just looks amazingggggg all the damn time her style team is amazing 👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼

These clips will never get old

People are sayin' Lenny proposed to shut A up. But he proposed to shut those heiffers up lol

@positivevibes8516

8 жыл бұрын

Welp

@javiruiz4405

5 жыл бұрын

And know A married a cheater fat ass

CAN I JUST SAY THIS IS A DOUBLE STANDARD! Women- say yes even if your not sure. Men- You better be sure.

@vickss9306

5 жыл бұрын

Anthoney Ferrell and she too is dumb, why say yes if you’re unsure? The planning of the wedding is the engagement. The courtship is when you decide if you see longevity

@tormentorchick1755

3 жыл бұрын

This is the first time I'm hearing women doing that, so it's probably rare, but I don't know. Men tend to propose just because they want her to shut up about it and want to keep her around without the commitment but women tend to be more serious about it.

I'm going to miss Tamar's energy and input, every one of them is important. But yeah, I agree with them, I'm not waiting forever, within a year, let's go.

Oh my sister Tamera,those pieces from Mama are a thing to hold and cherish in your day today life.Thanks for sharing

I’ve been engaged for 4 years and I’m getting married in another week . So happy we are finally walking the isle. We went through a flood and a lot of hard times so it just was put on a back burner

I love Tamera's look and I love that top knot,simple yet elegant!

I am addicted to these little talk show segments!! Loves it!!!

we had an 18 month engagement bc we wanted to have a nice wedding fully paid for to go into our marriage debt free.

Loni, please continue to act the way you did in this specific discussion. You added your own opinion and even added a thought provoking question to the ladies. It's nice seeing a REAL discussion going on without you cracking a brown liquor or bacon joke.

1-2 years max is how long an engagement should last

Glad for the changes the producers made, kudos for going forward in a positive direction. Business is business... and...thank you for keeping it "REAL".

I don't want a "stand-by" ring.

I agree. It should be within months like a year. Engagement means you are ready to get married but need a little to prepare for the celebration.

I agree, the least he could do besides propose to let me know he's really ready is set the date!

Evelyn Lozada still engaged after 2years later...and Lala was engaged for 5 years 😂😂

@sadepayne

5 жыл бұрын

That's right! Noticed LaLa man wasn't ready

@jojoc326

4 жыл бұрын

And both women ended up divorced.

Going to miss Tamar's adlibs, lip smacking, finger snapping and commentary!!! Segments won't feel the same

@nmoomoo

5 жыл бұрын

saysBEZA I really found her to be entertaining. I miss her

@magu9841

4 жыл бұрын

That was disgusting!!!! 🤢 I’m glad she’s gone!

& just think when jeezy proposed , they married a year later 😂

Never Trust your Co- workers, they are just Co workers not friends! Tamar learned it the hard way!

@JonnieDavis

8 жыл бұрын

Her Co- workers had nothing to do with it

@dori9090

8 жыл бұрын

Stop with the rumors they didn't have anything to do with it Tamar is mad at lo I cuz she took and hour to reply to here, so stop with the rumors

@reecemarshall7322

8 жыл бұрын

Silly man bitch

@LaythWazir

8 жыл бұрын

+Reece Marshall "silly man Bitch" Who?me?

@taybri458

8 жыл бұрын

+pizzaholic She's not mad at loni

No way, this show will never be the same. But as Tamera said, "enjoy each season you're in" and it was great having all those personalities together on the show, a great dynamic. Wish them all the best in the new seasons to come

I am in my late 20's and got engaged a year ago. I wanted to enjoy my engagement. I personally was in shock because my fiancé proposed to me after we dated for 9 months. We have been friends for over 10 years and he's my best friend. Our wedding is in 6 months. When we got engaged I waited a few months before I even started planning. We are a long distance couple and it is hard but we are making it work and coming together.

I’m recently engaged... you also have to remember people have longer engagements because weddings aren’t cheap!! Plus not to mention venues book years in advance. 3 years or more way too long. But I think up to 3 years is reasonable.

I don't like to plan too much, things never work out, We can set a date, but the actual planning, we should take it a step at a time.

@umar609040

8 жыл бұрын

Same, I let my mom and sister plan my wedding.

@cassandratype4

8 жыл бұрын

But if you let 1 year pass and never address it nor plan, it means you are not ready..

@VHale-yz7hc

8 жыл бұрын

If you can't plan a wedding how are u going to plan a life with someone

@MasonPerry7

8 жыл бұрын

From my experience, I am more successful, when I just wing it. Because when I plan, I tend to set high/borderline unachievable standards. I have ideas, and goals, but I always change my mind, or a better idea, or a new goal replaces what I originally had.

I was engaged by 23 and married that year...I was also with my boyfriend for 5 years beforehand so...my husband and I have been married for four years and together for 9. Whoohoo!

They all got a word in they all had something to bring to the conversation I miss this💖

#bringbacktamar

@nicm2608

8 жыл бұрын

But she is the one who chose to leave

@tater4442

8 жыл бұрын

+Nichole M she was fired , and I suspect treason from her co-stars😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐

@debbyrowey

7 жыл бұрын

TheCursedGardener Tamar is not coming back, she banned them from mentioning her name. How on earth does one come back from that?

@debbyrowey

7 жыл бұрын

potato_master ಠ_ಠ What are you talking about.

@jcode9638

7 жыл бұрын

Potato_Territory ಠ_ಠ her Co stars had nothing to do with it , they had all done the photo shoot for season 3 so there were no signs indicating her being fired. It was unexpected and not at all the casts fault :c

Tamar was the only one who was not afraid to give her real opinions, she didn't try to be politically correct

Enjoy every moment. I have a cousin who got married and got pregnant the same week. No planning, nothing ! Don't rush into serious things people. Some mistakes cannot be repaired.

Tamar pretty much knew jeanie wasn’t ready then jeanie realized years later and found happiest

This makes me sad watching this because I genuinely love the show and it WILL NOT be the same without Tamar! I just lover her so much and she is the person I can relate to the most. She will be missed 100 percent!

They were wrong to fire Tamar Braxton... it's never been the same

Ladies take it from a man point of view, if you are in a relationship for 2 to 3 years and he is still trying to figure it out, he is not the one. He is only there for the Cookie, "Why Buy The Milk When The Cow Is Free" Do you understand ladies, I can see if you are taking time to save money for the marriage, but it doesn't take 3 years to do so ladies. We as men know and it's not going to take 5 years, we will definitely know within 2 years.

@blackbutterfly233ify

5 жыл бұрын

Ldmaze that's absolutely not true.

@lang-ed3bk

5 жыл бұрын

Interesting take from a man

@m.h6858

4 жыл бұрын

So true!!! My husband was with his ex for 7 years and was engaged to her for 4 of those years, they broke up, he met me months later and after 9 months of us dating we talked about marriage and did so 3 months later and had a baby the next year! So your right, a man knows when and who he wants to marry, when he waits so long he's holding out to see if something better comes along!

My fiancé and I have been engaged going on two years but we haven’t had much money and kept waiting to be able to have a wedding. Well now we are just tempted to get eloped because a wedding just isn’t justifiable with how expensive things have gotten. I sometimes feel embarrassed because we haven’t gotten married but weddings are hard so we just going to elope or maybe a small get together

Once again, I agree with Jeannie. I wish she would've expressed my feelings on Weddings, in general. Y'all know how expensive Weddings are? I understand I can have a small Wedding, but I want the people I love there. I've been engaged for three years, now and still not in a hurry. IK he ain't leaving me, and the term "husband" is merely a title, anyway. The contract just legally binds us, together. Besides, my relationship is my business, anyway. We're happy and share the same feelings. When we get married, we get married. I'm in no hurry to rush to get there.

@marier1542

8 жыл бұрын

its true if youre certain in your relationship there's no need to rush. i think ppl rush to get married after the engagement bcus theyre afraid the other person might change their mind or go astray, but thats not a good sign either! the only thing is , if something happened to the person (like death) i guess the partner's biggest regret would be that they never got the chance to get married.

@xAaeiynx

8 жыл бұрын

marie R I agree to an extent. I've never been good with handling the aftermath of death, anyway.

@xAaeiynx

4 жыл бұрын

@@marier1542 It's been a few years, now, and I happen to come back to this comment. I'm married, now ^_^

I really loved Tamar. I really wish her back on the show! she is soo funny and brings something new to the table

Aww I love the original 5. Also 5 seems to be a good number, they need 5 hosts again!

I got married at 18- and had an eight month engagement. It was right for us! We were ready to enjoy being married 😊