End your self destruction in 5 MINUTES

Ойын-сауық

If you have been silencing your soul for too long, you need to watch this. You DESERVE to create whatever it is you feel called to, and you'd be doing the world a favour if you did.
My latest analysis video is blocked at the mo, so I thought this would be a good opportunity to remind you how magical you are in the meantime.
Thank you for guiding me. You inspire me every day 💜
have a look at my new Channel! ➡️@MoreFairyVoiceMother
For voice lessons, workshops and video submissions please check out my website www.thefairyvoicemother.com
I'm so excited to be a part of your singing journey, It's one that truly never ends.
Love you forever,
The Fairy Voice Mother x
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  • @MikeMayArt
    @MikeMayArt3 ай бұрын

    I genuinely adore you. This is so you, and underscores why you transcend vocal coaching and become family to all of us "beautiful humans." Thank you so much for always being you.

  • @TheFairyVoiceMother

    @TheFairyVoiceMother

    3 ай бұрын

    Oh Mike! It means the world to me to have such a big, beautiful family of humans that ARE SO BLOODY GORGEOUS like you. Thank you 💜

  • @dangelerinter1810

    @dangelerinter1810

    3 ай бұрын

    How angelic and adorable you are! I can't figure out out which is bigger, your oversize heart or your oversize brain. An abundance of my love to you.

  • @noah_d_turtle1435
    @noah_d_turtle14353 ай бұрын

    As a Fan, you create a welcoming environment and your intro “hello gorgeous” is cherished and appreciated so…so…so very much. Thank you! You are a beacon of light. ❤

  • @falsemcnuggethope

    @falsemcnuggethope

    3 ай бұрын

    The greeting actually kind of alienates me, since I know I'm ugly as butt but I wear it with pride. I find it hilarious, nonetheless.

  • @user-jh3ze8or2h

    @user-jh3ze8or2h

    3 ай бұрын

    @@falsemcnuggethope you are not ugly, i've never seen someone really ugly in all my life.

  • @Rakku
    @Rakku3 ай бұрын

    Man this hits hard. Currently sick for about 4 months, working on my mental health. Was time, was struggling heavily around two decades. Its starting to look better. Lost 31 pounds/14 kg and feel a lot better. I really love your content, it brings a smile on my face and entertains me to no end. Thank you!

  • @TheFairyVoiceMother

    @TheFairyVoiceMother

    3 ай бұрын

    This is such an incredible achievement!!! I am so proud of you fellow human, thank you for sharing 💜

  • @vasotoe
    @vasotoe3 ай бұрын

    Wow...this hits home, thank you so much for sharing Lolli 💜 you are a beautiful human being

  • @TheFairyVoiceMother

    @TheFairyVoiceMother

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much, gorgeous Valeria 💜

  • @jasonklenetsky5687

    @jasonklenetsky5687

    3 ай бұрын

    I commented with a ❤, but this is what I meant to say

  • @Antilli
    @Antilli3 ай бұрын

    If anyone watched this and has not immediately become a fan, they are not human.

  • @mastod0n1
    @mastod0n13 ай бұрын

    I think what's worse than criticism from friends and family is just complete indifference. I'd rather hear what they hate about it than them not even attempting to pay attention to what I'm showing them.

  • @cherylmontgomery9753
    @cherylmontgomery97533 ай бұрын

    I truly appreciate your honesty and resilience. I also suffer from depression, anxiety disorder and complex PTSD. I am also disabled that ended my career at the age of 36. Can't thank you enough for making so much sense out of dealing with life and people including difficult people. I love your channel and never expected a video like this one from you. Thank you for putting some of life's difficulties into perspective. You're a very wise woman. Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @thegoatchild3545
    @thegoatchild35453 ай бұрын

    It's always heartwarming to find someone who is beautiful inside and outside. Thank you for your encouraging words, Lolli. A lot of us need them. You are a bright light in this often dark world, never change.

  • @Domonkos_K
    @Domonkos_K3 ай бұрын

    I am not a "creator", but just now making the biggest change in my life, locality, perspective, and culturally. Your words resonated with me a lot. Thank you.

  • @JakeKoenig
    @JakeKoenig3 ай бұрын

    You are too pure for this world, Lolli. You always radiate joy and positivity, which is something I want to do more often in my own life. I'm not mean to anyone, but I could always be nicer. I'm not negative toward anyone, but I could always be more positive. You are the kind of person I'd like to be. Thank you for being you. 🤍

  • @gerbil_horde
    @gerbil_horde3 ай бұрын

    If I ever get beamed up by aliens and have to choose a handful of humans to join me in a trek across the stars, you'd be on that list. You just embody everything I think defines a lovely human 💕

  • @davidbrobb
    @davidbrobb3 ай бұрын

    Got sent this from a friend - what a lovely surprise. It can be hard when a friend doesn’t like what you’re putting out for whatever reason but much like life, not everyone is going to be your target audience anyway! What you’ve framed here I will definitely steal (thanks) for the mental component when that happens. Such a lovely video. Thank you.

  • @SebastianEduardoAranedaGamboni

    @SebastianEduardoAranedaGamboni

    3 ай бұрын

    Amazing comment, glad you find it useful 😊

  • @falsemcnuggethope
    @falsemcnuggethope3 ай бұрын

    This video dropped at a strange time for me. You might not have hoped for how hard the intro hit me in this moment. I haven't as much as touched an instrument in years since I quit my band. In recent days, I've been warming up to the idea of finally grabbing my guitar or keyboard and creating something new. This interest was sparked by recently hearing new bands that brought me back to my roots as a player. I'm a bit afraid of lacking the technical gear and ability that I might want to be able to use in the creative process. The creative part itself I'm not so afraid about, because I've previously created something I'm proud of that I've kept secret from all but one person. In fact, I've let go of the idea of gaining any sort of attention to the point I'm almost against ever publishing what I might create. I feel like the rest of the video didn't fit my motivation since I'm approaching music as just a hobby at this point, although I might still feel jealous if I don't sound like music I'm a fan of. It still feels like one of the most important things in my life. All in all, the intro spoke straight into my heart and I was moved the first time I heard it. Thank you. Now I really feel like I need to find my gear and get going.

  • @Penfold101
    @Penfold1013 ай бұрын

    Nah, I’d want my family and friends to be as honest as everyone else about what I was making - there’s no point in them all bigging you up about something that is genuinely rubbish, it just makes them liars. Brutal honesty is what’s needed - not an echo chamber. Just my opinion, obviously…

  • @TheFairyVoiceMother

    @TheFairyVoiceMother

    3 ай бұрын

    I am also very anti-echo chamber indeed. Immersion into different groups filled with different people and their perspectives is crucial to learn and develop our characters. The difference, in my eyes, is the intention behind the feedback. This is why I mentioned that one job for friends, family member or fans is to "let you know what they think". For me, this is different. Criticism is so often delivered with an overarching tone of dissuasion, with the motive to 'spare any embarrassment' for the creator. But I believe there should be nothing embarrassing about releasing something that isn't spectacular. We need to remember that most things are subjective, and part of a journey. The worst of our creations are usually amongst the first, so we need to start creating and keep creating in order to improve. Your FFF's should let you know what they think, with the intention of supporting your growth as opposed to imploring you to give up. Giving up helps nobody, and if we listen to too many non-specific negative criticisms, that is exactly the outcome.💜

  • @joshuaalt9448
    @joshuaalt94483 ай бұрын

    “Art is truth setting itself to work.” -Martin Heidegger

  • @robsmackhead
    @robsmackhead3 ай бұрын

    Nicely put. As a song co writer we sometimes think something we wrote is awesome just to hear a comment like “well they can’t all be gems”. I think we’ve all dealt with it but we have support from one or all of the FFF’s to comfort and help you. Sometimes depression can be severe and hopefully people who suffer can find at least one of the FFF’s to help. Thanks lady for pointing and shedding some light

  • @MattyZC113
    @MattyZC1133 ай бұрын

    What wise words! Beautifully said. Thank you Lolli ❤

  • @domramsey
    @domramsey3 ай бұрын

    Well aren't you just freaking amazing. Also those two words you start your video with are just the most uplifting and heartfelt words. It might just be a five minute KZread video, but it made me smile instantly and made me think, both about myself and the people around me who I could maybe do a better job of being an FFF. Genuinely, thank you.

  • @stephenlindsey8262
    @stephenlindsey82623 ай бұрын

    Fan here, I've never considered myself a creator. I seem to spend too much time in my own head. But I would like to change that, and I really liked what you shared here as a framework to begin the process. You are an inspiration, and I appreciate you and this channel very much! Thank you for always spreading such amazing positivity!

  • @Tripoutski
    @Tripoutski3 ай бұрын

    What a great unexpected video! Yesterday my freshman college (university) daughter called me with a severe bout of anxiety and self-doubt. I sent this to her this morning the minute that I finished it. She is not a content creator by any means, but in reality we are all creating, right? She is creating her future and struggling to figure that out. Nice one, Lolli!

  • @henryaction
    @henryaction3 ай бұрын

    The part about fleeting heats of moments that might still be sparked within someone else really struck me. Years of pieces lost on lost hard drives or which never even made it there - I had the reoccurring suspicion that maybe they didn't all "turn" bad, listened to them again - no, they're bad - and went on. Depression played its role too. Hearing those words from you might just have flicked a switch inside me, at least for the heat of this moment. I will try to apply your concept to my own creation even though it won't be an easy adjustment to not criticize myself. Thank you for this and for being open about the struggles of your own creative process! That alone can help others.

  • @Duffercity1
    @Duffercity13 ай бұрын

    Even at my advanced age, I found your message to be inspiring, enlightening, and informative. I will use your words of (empathetic) wisdom to re-ignite my passion for creating and posting music videos. You are truly the 'Fairy Voice Mother'. Thank you so much!

  • @privatebaldric8767
    @privatebaldric87673 ай бұрын

    I just read "End your self" and got a wildly unrepresentative impression of this video

  • @stephenlackey5852
    @stephenlackey585223 күн бұрын

    “Favorites list” immediately.

  • @willmccoy
    @willmccoy3 ай бұрын

    Oh wow. I'm at a loss for words. That was amazingly inspirational. Thank you so much.

  • @TheFairyVoiceMother

    @TheFairyVoiceMother

    3 ай бұрын

    You're welcome, gorgeous Will. Thank you 💜

  • @WanderlustWarrior46
    @WanderlustWarrior463 ай бұрын

    I love you, Loli. I'm definitely one of you FFF (if allowed to be, of course) you've helped me through a really rough 2023 so thank you

  • @TheFinePlayer
    @TheFinePlayer3 ай бұрын

    Wow! While not an active creator, this hits a lot. I've had, and still has to some degree, a specific person that among the few people that means the absolute most to me. So it's just one person in this instance, yet that person has created some my darkest days in life. Said person also fails to see and accept her impact. Which is very hurtful. I've always gone about life with her guidance, not realizing I've tucked away my own desires and wills of the world. Instead living through somebody else's perspective. Basically one of the most important "FFF" but with "everyone else" behavior. I didn't know any other life than that. I was so close to just ending it. But, I made it through that moment thanks to "FFF's" that truly were able to hear my struggle. Half a year later with constant therapy a new world opened up to me. One that I had never before set my eyes on. Everything was different when I was thinking for my own and I started finding out that I in fact had lots of interests and things I'd love to peruse and could see my self doing. But as a punch to the stomach I've recently found out that I'm still, after most my life being depressive, in a very influenced state. Similar feelings as "back then" finds it way back. It feels like a betrayal by the world. I now find that I have so many dreams of things I'd love to do, but being stopped at the very thought of it as once again I feel afraid of the eyes upon me. More so than anything, my own eyes. Probably the strongest thing holding me back, just myself. But it's a behavior from back then in some ways. I feel stuck and don't know how to break the chain. So anyways, thanks for bringing me another perspective on this. It honestly feels refreshing to hear certain thoughts be told in new ways!

  • @DarrellW_UK
    @DarrellW_UK3 ай бұрын

    Boy oh boy did this hit home! It’s sort of the way that I’ve approached coping with Fibromyalgia; I’ve ignored the people who think I’m just lazy, but those that know and understand what I go through are the good friends that I keep close to me. Those who say it’s all in your head get a shocking (for them) answer - Yes I know that, my brain isn’t working properly. Then depending upon their answer their fate is decided. The turning point for me was accepting who I am now and living with it instead of being a mental and physical mess, I am in a much better place. Having a good group of interests has really helped, music being the biggest one, this is where you came in - that chirpy bundle of fun Londoner 😂 I’ve been following you for a long while and never got bored, because you are an absolutely beautiful soul and a born entertainer. Love you 🌹🌹🌹

  • @leslieholland7843

    @leslieholland7843

    3 ай бұрын

    I have fibro as well. Your answer helped me. Thank you!❤❤

  • @DarrellW_UK

    @DarrellW_UK

    3 ай бұрын

    @@leslieholland7843 I’m really happy that it has, it’s been so very different to be able to feel the way I do now. The other biggest and possibly most important thing to remember, if you’re like me and gone through every test in the book to get diagnosed and like me there was nothing untoward then you know that your body is OK and that you’re in reasonably good health - so now if I want to do something I just do it! The only time things go wrong is when you give in to it and don’t do the things you should to keep yourself fit and healthy. An interesting thing I learned is to learn the difference between Fibro pain and real pain, occasionally if I start to get in doubt then I have a good scratch - get a bit too enthusiastic and you soon know 😆 Take care and be positive!

  • @Maizerus
    @Maizerus3 ай бұрын

    Guess I've been doing this for years and didn't realise it. The problem is that all my FFFs have been demoted due to toxicity, and I have no one to promote that's genuinely interested.

  • @CaptainJedidiah
    @CaptainJedidiah3 ай бұрын

    Long time watcher, first time commenting, and I couldn't not after this one. Thank you oh so much, Lolli. Your positivity is infectious because it's undeniable how connected you are to craft and experience. "Positivity" is truly a small word for it, your... "alive-ness?" God only knows, and maybe Wikipedia, the ratio of energy you put back out into the world. Cheers, Jed

  • @user-sw5ot9wv9p

    @user-sw5ot9wv9p

    3 ай бұрын

    She's truly amazing. I just followed recently and this video was astoundingly direct, positive and hit home in ways other than creating content. Good luck to you, Jed, in creating...be it artistically or in life!

  • @jgodshall80
    @jgodshall80Ай бұрын

    The world needs more people like you

  • @jimmy-stevenbiemans1486
    @jimmy-stevenbiemans14862 ай бұрын

    4:15 I made a short video of myself imitating a slow whoop siren, got a lifetime fan with that one. They told me that it made them cry and that they needed that energy at the moment 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • @filakyle3663
    @filakyle36633 ай бұрын

    I am happy. I am not only one who experience not having that middle FFF. I felt so wierd from start of this video where it was showed to have. Uh. It gave me many times hard punch to continue my singing.

  • @bowwing333
    @bowwing3333 ай бұрын

    Here is a channel where I've found myself to hang on every word said, and after each video, it feels like nourishment to parts of me that never receive it. You're timing with this video feels completely supernatural, and it was the first thing that popped up when I woke up this morning to check my phone. This might as well been sent as a direct message. I honestly only clicked on the video because I felt suddendly frightened like I just got caught and had to check and find out for sure. Sure enough, you definitely were watching me destroy myself and all I do extra hard this week and start to actually fully give up. So just thank you for what you do and who you are inside. God bless you.

  • @jamest745
    @jamest7453 ай бұрын

    Thanks for adding your voice to my thoughts in this early morning. :)

  • @TheFairyVoiceMother

    @TheFairyVoiceMother

    3 ай бұрын

    Awh you're welcome 🥰 Wishing you a glorious day.

  • @Rosiepooh75
    @Rosiepooh753 ай бұрын

    You are amazing. I've been stuck in the criticizing myself to the nth degree stage for years, so have literally stopped creating. So hard to get out of this mindset ❤

  • @dxnxz53
    @dxnxz53Ай бұрын

    i think this does not only work for creating but for life in general :)

  • @Y-42
    @Y-423 ай бұрын

    Nice video, I have been working on soapstone carvings for about 6 years as a hobby. I am now trying to get it out there for everyone to see. I just have to make a video of my work and your video is helping me to do it. Thank you from Canada.

  • @twisted2291
    @twisted22913 ай бұрын

    Prime example of creating something only to turn around and truly hate it. Radiohead - Creep. The band got to such a point of hating that song. That if a fan shouted it out as a request. They would be removed from the show.

  • @SayBootsey
    @SayBootsey24 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video. I've been struggling with similar things for almost 18 years, and only recently were able to start composing again. Just one remark, perhaps it's a cultural difference or something getting lost in translation... my 3Fs are people who don't always agree with and praise everything i do. On the contrary, they're brutally honest, often smarter than me, super direct and challenging because they love me not just for who i am but also for the best potential version of myself. So i would never think of "demoting" any of them to the "others"-group, as long as their criticism is respectful and in good faith. And even if there happens to break out a fight with a friend or family member... Aren't most conflicts just a healthy part of relationships? Isn't discourse, ideally, a chance for both sides to grow? Not talking about abusive, vioent or otherwise negativity-projecting people, of course. But this culture of surrounding yourself with only enablers and toxic positivity seems really weird and dangerous to me. I'm not saying that this is what you suggested in your video though - which, again, i'm utterly grateful for 🙂 You're definitely a great force of good in this world, and i'm happy to call myself a fan of your's. Would be curious to hear your thoughts on all this. Keep up the good work, all the best to you and have a bless-ed Sunday!

  • @TheFairyVoiceMother

    @TheFairyVoiceMother

    24 күн бұрын

    Hello Gorgeous! The people you are describing that give you constructive criticism in your best interest are most definitely part of your 3 Fs! It is a wonderful thing to have these people as part of your lives. Those who take the time to give their opinions because they genuinely care. If someone becomes destructive because their speech has become over emotional, you can just demote them to ‘everyone else’ even just for 5 minutes. To ensure you can protect your energy enough to prevent heading down a spiral. Then, when you feel as though they are ready to be constructive again without emotional language, they come back into your circle. I am very against ‘toxic positivity’, or any kind of criticism with ill intent. I am aware though, that creative people are often sensitive by design, and it’s no good to anyone they’re absorbing so much doubt from the wrong sources as it could end up crippling them. 💜 Lots of love xx

  • @SayBootsey

    @SayBootsey

    24 күн бұрын

    @@TheFairyVoiceMother that clarifies it, and you give brilliant advice that i'll try to implement 🙂 also as a member of others' 3Fs, i should not take it personal when somebody looks after themselves more (actually, i should take an example from them) - lots of love back from Switzerland

  • @LonesomeTwin
    @LonesomeTwin3 ай бұрын

    The time is gone, the song is over Desperation is the English way

  • @andreyvasiliev5557
    @andreyvasiliev55572 ай бұрын

    Ok, I hoped in to say how 1 singlular Space in the title set meaning 180.

  • @Crumsie
    @Crumsie3 ай бұрын

    I feel so seen when you talk about this stuff. I feel like you are an alternate reality version of me who happens to be able to sing like an angel (as opposed to me, who sings like a drunk elephant lol). Your words are kind and they reach far. If you're like me then I know how hard it is to take your own advice and to practice what you preach, I genuinely hope you believe your message for yourself as well. You are absolutely doing the world a favour by creating what you create!

  • @cihads4698
    @cihads46983 ай бұрын

    Instructions uncleard I ended myself. Jokes aside. Thank you for this!

  • @reverendzombie72
    @reverendzombie723 ай бұрын

    Hello gorgeous! I'm so happy to be one of your fans! I am also a fan of other peoples work but I don't think I've ever felt as appreciated as I do being yours! ❤

  • @jonathanwetherell3609
    @jonathanwetherell36093 ай бұрын

    Feeling inferior, feeling inadequate, is just normal. By that I mean it is a natural consequence of being an infant. Some get it harder but as an adult we can learn that we are just as valuable as every one else. It takes some self convincing and practise. Clinical depression is debilitating. Unless you have ben there you can not understand. I understand. Love the blogs, keep going, keep believing.

  • @scott2836
    @scott28363 ай бұрын

    it’s interesting. Strictly speaking, I am probably tend to move myself into the EE category for some creators voluntarily. Not because I want to criticize someone, but typically because a series of their works are not resonating with me any longer. I don’t believe in trashing people’s creations to their physical or virtual faces; I would find it personally painful, and who needs that?

  • @stephenlambe3210
    @stephenlambe32103 ай бұрын

    This is great and thank you. I also like the idea of seeking out loving critics who will help you with good advice even if it can be hard to hear because its coming from the right place with the reght level of analysis, and differentiating that from the feedback we sometimes get from unctritical lovers, which whilst nice doesnt give me something to work on or downplays a real need or error im making

  • @TheFairyVoiceMother

    @TheFairyVoiceMother

    3 ай бұрын

    OH most definitely! This is why I mentioned that one job for friends, family member or fans is to "let you know what they think". For me, this is different. Specific, well intentioned feedback is one of the best ways for us to grow.💜

  • @HardThrasher
    @HardThrasherАй бұрын

    What a really lovley video to make - thank you for doing this

  • @HardThrasher

    @HardThrasher

    Ай бұрын

    PS Fuck 'em all, keep Buggering On, you're awesome

  • @tonygreen6357
    @tonygreen63573 ай бұрын

    Thank you Lolli😊❤ . Your positivity is just what I need right now. You are a wonderful shining light in a gloomy dark world. 🌟

  • @jeffreyringenberger1690
    @jeffreyringenberger16903 ай бұрын

    This is absolutely awesome. However, you have the most amazingly beautiful blue eyes that makes everything you do and say amazing. Not trying to be weird, but.. .yeah. Please don't block me.

  • @josephanthony4868
    @josephanthony48683 ай бұрын

    I hit the like button because youtube has no love button and I loved this.

  • @alsadekalkhayer7007
    @alsadekalkhayer70073 ай бұрын

    Please be Okay, listen we're sorry for tiring you out 😊

  • @victorarellano1191
    @victorarellano11913 ай бұрын

    Wow, as a musician who struggles with putting out my material on Social Media because I think its "not good enough" this was very needed. I have a strong following but I haven't posted in about 2 years, that will change very soon. Thanks for this video, truly

  • @baraktownsley2569
    @baraktownsley25693 ай бұрын

    What a wonderful way to begin my day! Thank you for this!

  • @TheFairyVoiceMother

    @TheFairyVoiceMother

    3 ай бұрын

    Awh I am so glad! Thank you 💜

  • @yCherkashin
    @yCherkashin3 ай бұрын

    I'm everyone else. And you are a beautiful soul. I hope you can navigate the environment such that it comes out, as it does in your videos.

  • @gokaycan-Endriosty-
    @gokaycan-Endriosty-3 ай бұрын

    can u pls make a video for the acoustic version of Sertab Erener "AŞK" ?

  • @user-ou7wd9oo5l
    @user-ou7wd9oo5l3 ай бұрын

    Bless you - you've nudged me a bit closer to starting to write again, after several blocked years 😊.

  • @kevinlangley3782
    @kevinlangley37823 ай бұрын

    All this time I've had the 3 F's wrong... 😁

  • @michaelfaith
    @michaelfaith3 ай бұрын

    **hugs** all around

  • @Kodiak660
    @Kodiak6603 ай бұрын

    Good morning Lolli❤

  • @TheFairyVoiceMother

    @TheFairyVoiceMother

    3 ай бұрын

    Good morning lovely one 💜

  • @sorenm.lairdsorries7547
    @sorenm.lairdsorries7547Ай бұрын

    Nailing down a thought that cropped up while listening before it rushes away: So if a member of the FFF group negatively criticises you, and maybe does it repeadedly and irks you... following the flow of the video, it should be alright to dismiss them to the Everyone else group. Hang on, yes, it is alright, but far from necessary: you also might keep them as an FFF and accept their negative criticism as part of them or their-towards-you-and-your-art dynamic if you are good to handle it. Especially when they are otherwise great to have around. I think I got that. Thank you for reading. ... Ah, continuing with the video, this was already in it 🙂 Thank you 🙏 for sharing ❤ Fairy Voice Mother! ❤

  • @macezarbhz
    @macezarbhz3 ай бұрын

    Thank you. I'm not on the music side of the creative part, mostly about stories and books, and it is a real struggle to like the things I create.

  • @IAmUBro
    @IAmUBro3 ай бұрын

    This is why I actually subscribed. Such a beautiful mindset absolutely needs to be shared. Thank you so much for all that you do

  • @mr.puckerie4800
    @mr.puckerie48003 ай бұрын

    Mojo Nixon died today. If you can do a breakdown of one of his songs, it would sure cheer alot of us up. my favorite is "Gonna Put My Face on a Nuclear Bomb" (it's an anti-war tune)

  • @DeansMayhem
    @DeansMayhem3 ай бұрын

    You are wise way beyond your years. ❤

  • @mspicer3262
    @mspicer32623 ай бұрын

    I do like the framework you made, it will work for most people. For those of us that have become a bit more isolated, we may sort of lack the FFF part, which seems pretty important. I'd expect that the kind of social-isolation that I face isn't that common though.

  • @jonc7330
    @jonc7330Ай бұрын

    What a multi flavoured Lollipop you are...daaamn 😄

  • @MartinMcMartin
    @MartinMcMartin3 ай бұрын

    I hate to think of you being depressed Lolli, but so glad you have found a strategy to work through lt❤❤❤❤

  • @tsparks4133
    @tsparks41333 ай бұрын

    You're talented, smart, and pretty. Get on with it.

  • @justitia257
    @justitia2573 ай бұрын

    Your eyes are beautiful

  • @c-channel800
    @c-channel8003 ай бұрын

    Consider me your fan.

  • @vincemarino1939
    @vincemarino19393 ай бұрын

    You're more awesome than I thought....and I thought that wasn't possible. ❤

  • @MickKingOfficial
    @MickKingOfficial3 ай бұрын

    Ok so when is your book coming out please thank you

  • @lesgrice4419
    @lesgrice44193 ай бұрын

    This is wonderful advice for anyone who creates and is scared of rejection, which you will get a lot of, but rejection is not something to take personally even though we do, it's important to plough your own furrow whilst listening to advice and understanding where to apply it. Not everyone will get you or your work but if it comes from a place of authenticity sooner or later you can connect as long as you don't hide your light under a bushel. Probably all the great artists in all fields were at one time criticised and misunderstood from The Beatles to Beethoven but the fact is they were ahead of their time and everyone else had to catch up...as Will said it's about 'suffering the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune'.

  • @MayorMikeHaggar
    @MayorMikeHaggar3 ай бұрын

    I dunno what this lady's talking about, but I think Nickeback's Leader Of Men acoustic is good and I don't care who knows it

  • @jasonsomething6003
    @jasonsomething60033 ай бұрын

    Nice effort young lady... I do love your attitude. As a 55yr old man that's been married for 28yrs with 3 grown men as my kids I can't help to fear for their future. Perhaps I'm fed up with the reality of LIFE or the negativity daily that we all have to deal with! Love YA GORGEOUS..... KEEP UP THE GOOD FIGHT!!!!!!! Hopefully you inspire MANY people! I believe I'm burnt out!

  • @xstatic13
    @xstatic133 ай бұрын

    You have simply put, a beautiful soul.

  • @ridley3704
    @ridley37042 ай бұрын

    Preach ❤

  • @kwasg3
    @kwasg33 ай бұрын

    Well, thank you gorgeous! However long ago it was that I discovered, subscribed, and have enjoyed you and your channel = you became into my FFF category thru your inspiring encouragement. Its a real thing, and its tangible. I fight alot of the things you mentioned and so rarely do I get to say thanks for genuine infectious empathy and compassion.... Thanks!

  • @MikaTarkela
    @MikaTarkela2 ай бұрын

    In my honest opinion you are allowed to love your creations as much as you want, especially if the main reason you are creating anything, is for your own enjoyment and exploration of your imagination and creativity. As selfish as it sounds, everyone else should come last and their opinions shouldn't matter if you really like what you do / have done. It is still an inspiring video and I know its from a point of content creator who makes content for others to enjoy. Thank you for sharing!

  • @MGZ63
    @MGZ633 ай бұрын

    Thanks for your hard warming advice, can I make a suggestion to react on the aging voice of Gary Brooker (RIP) from the 1967 song A whiter shade of pale till the wonderful performance of the live 2006 version of this song in Denmark? Title: Procol Harum - A Whiter Shade of Pale, live in Denmark 2006.

  • @TheTriumphbsa
    @TheTriumphbsa3 ай бұрын

    Thanks Lolli. Afa the FFF member being critical: there also can very well be in secure jealously from the criticizer. If you get to be better at something, they may no longer see the relationship as equal. They try and drag you back to equallibrium through harsh criticism and discouragement. That is a relationship based on their self-centered insecurities. The Real ones want you to get better by polite criticism. The other seeks to keep your from bettering yourself. Keep the first close, distance the second. Misery (and Sloth) loves company; and in this case, demands it. Let them keep crawling through life, while you learn to fly.

  • @Meine.Postma
    @Meine.Postma3 ай бұрын

    the one solution there is not just learn to bend or got broken what is light without shadow? everyone learns not one without the other so there is not the one solution All love to you Lolli

  • @shades_of_twine
    @shades_of_twineАй бұрын

    Seriously, you're amazing. And this is definitely the best vocal-coach/reaction/analysis channel I've found on YT! You deserve way more subscribers. Keep up the good work, and thanks for the encouragement here (I needed this right now). Cheers and best wishes.

  • @Nayz13
    @Nayz133 ай бұрын

    So grateful for this video, I’ve been trying to write songs and I haven’t written a thing since high school 30 years ago, so scared to show anyone or work on the noisy bits while the hubby is home 😂

  • @cranialfluids09
    @cranialfluids093 ай бұрын

    I really needed this, thank you so much. This is a gem that I think I will go back to anytime I need strength. You are an amazing person. ❤

  • @finding7
    @finding73 ай бұрын

    This is pure gold.

  • @joyflowmonger248
    @joyflowmonger2483 ай бұрын

    You simply must must must (please, please, please) react to Eva Cassidy's "Somewhere Over The Rainbow", which will assuredly make you swoon with blissfull delight, and garner you a BUNCH of new subscribers, who will love all your expressions/offerings! And please tell us how she makes her voice sound that good; just the way you evaluated Karen Carpenter's voice!

  • @Hechete
    @Hechete3 ай бұрын

    Oh. OHH! THIS felt good! I've been creating stuff for a long, long time, but I've only shared it with nearest and dearest for fear of rejection. This advice from a (seemingly) fearless content creator may very well help me start sharing some of it.

  • @davidmarsh9897
    @davidmarsh98973 ай бұрын

    Am I right in thinking that you're suggesting that I should create something then?

  • @gedece
    @gedece3 ай бұрын

    You are one of the three creators that make me happy when I see they posted something new. One of the others is Simon's Cat, and you can't possibly compete with that cuteness. But at least you ar in the same category. The Third one is Sly flousrish with his RPG content, and you also can't compete with my passion for RPGs. the others I just follow and every now and then the do something great. and there are others that are improving an might one day join the first group. For example I'm starting to fall in love with the content from The Arcane Library. and once I've gone through all of it it might join the other 3. In other words, not everybody that follows does it for the same reason or the same emotions. So everything we say must be taken as a personal opinion, and not as a fact. In your case, I knew I must follow you after your Jinjer Pisces reaction.

  • @razorlp1530
    @razorlp15303 ай бұрын

    Hey The Fairy Voice Mother, i've been watching you for a while now and its really nice to see someone being into his work as much as you do. One can really see your enjoyment in your work, especially when you talk about sounds created by voice. But what i am actually trying to say is, i am thankful that i found you and especially for that video. I've been thinking about starting a book myself for over half a year and this Video might actually help me to start it. I hope you have a nice day. :) (sorry about my name, its kinda embarrassing and old)

  • @faselblaDer3te
    @faselblaDer3te3 ай бұрын

    I am also infinitely gorgeous 💃

  • @546Scott
    @546Scott3 ай бұрын

    Just an amazing human being!! love this women and her channel!!!

  • @ianmitnick8245
    @ianmitnick82453 ай бұрын

    Hi - I suggest and request you consider reacting to any of these 3 groups and songs (or eventually all 3) - the 1st rock music group is called Dream Theater with their song "On The Backs Of Angels" a Grammy nominated song (a RUSH inspired music group they are) -- the 2nd rock band is called King's X with their song "Dogman" (voted one of the best rock music bands in the whole world) -- the 3rd group is called HAKEN (rhymes with BACON) - a British band, Haken's song is called "Puzzle Box" - as they are super talented musicians in what's called a Prog Math Rock music group (band) - you will love all 3 songs - I promise.

  • @michaellorettahaines1898
    @michaellorettahaines18983 ай бұрын

    These words are perfect! Not for content creators, but life/relationship dynamics as well! Agree with the fact that you are perfect and can do anything you set your mind on! And being a gorgeous ginger, just makes my old bones come alive! 😍 Keep up with your amazing work! Naysayers will always be around, but it’s their insecurities that keep them stagnant and bitter!

  • @user-qj6tu8pg2t
    @user-qj6tu8pg2t3 ай бұрын

    Thank you, you really are a fairy. I really like your way of not feeling guilty about moving away from family or friends to create what you really feel. But I think you can get along very well with your inner critic if he supports you completely even if he is ruthless. 🧚

  • @mreyeballz
    @mreyeballz3 ай бұрын

  • @NaturalChaos
    @NaturalChaos3 ай бұрын

    It's such a wonderful sentiment and I want very much to take it to heart. Sadly, not only am I incapable of creating anything, I have zero Fs to support me even if I did. Still love the video though and I do try to be a good F on the rare occasion anyone let's me.

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