End Of My Having Babies Era | Ellie and Jared
Hi guys. We've been sitting down for the last while reflecting on parenthood. It's important to recognize the changes in life, and today - we are doing just that. We're saying goodbye to an era of our lives and refocus on another.
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Just sending deep love and empathy. ❤ Love you guys.
Praying for you guys. My kids used to watch you and so I have watched you a little bit too. You’ve always seemed so sweet and genuine. I just wanted to let you know that we see you and we believe that you did what you could to help the kids.
I lost my precious daddy a few years ago. Nothing matters but the memories. The laughs, the times together…the memories. Just keep making memories!
It's going to be Ellies thriving Era !!! 🎉❤❤❤ Everything has a season!
I miss you guys, I bet June bug must be walking by now. Take whatever time you need to heal. Love you.
@AnnaNehls
8 ай бұрын
She's not old enough but she might be an early walker
Miss seeing videos , but I understand you need time to come to terms ❤ prayers to you all 🙏
My advice is a 61-year-old woman with three grown children, and eight grandchildren. I looked back and one of the things I think about are that I followed through. If I said I was gonna do something I did it that’s really important to show children. Great vlog guys.
@leahostrum6055
10 ай бұрын
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Ellie and Jared I just want you to know when you guys are ready to come back I'm going to be here. I miss you and your babies but I understand. Family comes first. I love you all. 💜💜💜
I have been here since Jackson was born and I can’t believe 😢 he is 9 years old ❤❤❤❤❤ love from uk 🇬🇧 keep up with the great work guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ellie and Jared, I just wanted to say I miss your smiling faces, but please take all the time you need and hold your babies tight ❤
@foxyred1015
9 ай бұрын
What happened?
@NoodlesDoodles-zb3uv
9 ай бұрын
@@foxyred1015 They not having anymore babies They having family problems
I remember saying to my husband that we’ve spent all these years teaching our children how to not need us. We raised them to work hard and think independently, but it’s so hard to see them grow and fly away. It’s pure love and joy seeing our kids grow, but it pulls the heart strings.
@nancyfarkas3592
10 ай бұрын
Your kids will always need you. For people to think they can teach their kids to not need them is truly sad!
I miss you guys so much, sending you and your family so much love❤️ take your time and comeback when your ready, we’ll be here whenever you are!
Ellie Jared and family I love and support you You are all in my prayers. 🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️💜💜💜
No more videos from you Ellie and Jared. I can understand that your finished with You tube. Enjoy your family and your lovely home. Stay happy and positive. I wish you both all the best .. 🌈🌻🌈
Rewatching videos cause I miss your faces and smiles 💓 hope to see you when you’re ready. Social media family loves y’all so much!
Ellie and Jared, I’m sorry for what your family has endured. I work in mental healthcare and I know how trauma effects the entire family. It’s really easy for others to judge. Praying for you all
@Caroline2208-ro8uh
9 ай бұрын
Did I miss something??? What happened?? 😢
@NoodlesDoodles-zb3uv
9 ай бұрын
@@Caroline2208-ro8uh They not having anymore babies They having family problems
@lisacrews9860
8 ай бұрын
@@NoodlesDoodles-zb3uvnot entirely true
I used to watch you guys back when Jackson was learning to ride his little balance bike and now coming back seeing him at almost 9 is crazy! So happy for you guys and glad to see Ellie finally got her little girl she dreamed about for all of those years. All the best to you
I miss the Mecham family! Come back to KZread!!
Miss you guys!! I hope you decide to come back to KZread soon!
We sure do miss you. I am praying and hoping you get to see your nieces and nephews. Nothing but love.
Sending love and prayers ❤
Ellie looks so relieved! She is glowing with this decision. Although it is bittersweet, I know we are about to get Ellie's thriving era!!! 🥰🥰
Miss you all so much. Thinking of you during this difficult time. ❤
Helpful hint from a grandmother. Positive affirmation. You see and hear behavior you want from them you point it out. When you see or hear them work through problem solving with anger or jealousy. Let them know you see them trying. Always make your No no but before you do give them options. I also do a anger meter or how upset meter. This that your upset with you should try to be angry or mad for a little bit or go cry for a few about this but then let’s work it out when your ready to talk. Look at vocabulary you can give your children to help them express there selves. Managing emotions.
Is the Mormon religion really that strange?
I miss you guys. You are all in my prayers!
I hope You all come back I miss you guys and how big Jennifer is getting ❤
Ellie and Jared, I’ve watched you since I was pregnant with my first born. Jaxon and my son are the same age. Two months apart. You all always seemed so genuine. I’m really sorry you all are going through the family drama so publicly. Stay strong and I am praying for you two and the kids. We love you!
@lisathiessen3565
8 ай бұрын
I agree. But we have to remember that if Russell has not had the courage to get help , we would probably not have known about this until it was too late
The moment I realized my baby was not a baby no more was when I was shopping for him in the little kid section, the section where I would walk first thing when I’d enter the store. I couldn’t find his size anymore and that’s when I realized I have to move to the bigger kid section. I just stood for a few minutes staring at the clothes that he no longer will fit in anymore and kinda broke me that he’s growing up into a young boy 😭
I love you guys so much. I been watching sense Jackson has been a baby. I love watching your videos because it helped so much for my own life. Your videos helped me so much during my brother’s cancer journey.
I miss you guys ❤😢 praying for your whole family
Bless your beautiful family at this time. 🙏🏻 I cannot really explain it well, but I hate seeing happy pictures or videos of people right before their world imploded. I am like," They didn't even know what was about to happen.... Ugh." 😭
@LeahFairfield
10 ай бұрын
@@B-ch6ukwhat’s your point? You actually think they didn’t try to Fo something about it, just because they didn’t vlog it? How stupid are you? You clearly don’t know how hard it is to get justice for children.
@bkang
10 ай бұрын
I agree 💔💔
Praying for you! 🙏
I love you all Prayers for your family, for your peace, prayers for your comfort, prayers for your conditions. Heavenly Father knows how this all will end and in prayer i ask he surround your family with his special angels and guide you thru this chapter. ❤
I really miss you guys!!!! 😭😭
It is such a bitter sweet decision to make. My husband and I are currently pregnant with our last baby. The decision was something I never thought I'd come to, but something felt right about this decision. Younger me had the goal of 6-8 kids, and here I am stopping at 4. The Lord is so gracious and kind to us throughout our lives. Blessings to you, Mecham family!
As sad as it is, the thought of just rasing my kids and not getting pregnant ever again has been amazing 😅
I miss so much seeing your videos. Hope and praying all is well.
I am missing you guys! I understand the need to take a step away for a while, but I hope that you know how much love and support is waiting for you when you get back!
Missing y'all! 🙏🙏🙏
Sending love and pariys fir a steady recovery
Thank you. Momma to 4 here 11,7,5,2 and I reallllly needed to hear this... "patients"
@EllieandJared I miss you guys. Please dont let this video be the end. Take the time away but please come back. Please..we are praying for you. We want to hear from you. Please come back.
@kimberlyearly8918
8 ай бұрын
You say take time away but are begging them to come back. What if they decide to never come back? Will you be ok?
Miss you guys so much! I know Christ has been with you all. Sending all the positive vibes, thoughts and prayers your way ❤❤❤
Ellie I totally get what you said to listen more and watch . You sound like me. I like that you cry Jared😊
I miss u guys. I understand why u had to take a break, at least I hope it’s a break. But I really really miss ur family. Those of us who have been here know you guys and we love you and we support you. And I hope you come back when you are ready. I miss watching June Bug grow. She was so little. And ur boys! Omg they will be big boys before you know it and I don’t want to miss it! I’m wish you all well! ❤️❤️❤️
Heavenly Father has truly blessed you. Your family is in my prayers. ❤
thinking about you guys xo sending love and peace your way
@katinadiep9268
9 ай бұрын
If they check the comments from a distance I'm sure they will feel the support of their followers! ❤
I support all of your family Ellie. I know this hard for you right now. But you will always have my support. I love your family please keep vlogging
I love the bowling bumper analogy.
I'm sending love and hugs❤❤❤
Beautiful bittersweet vlog ❤😢😊🎉
Ellie , you are glowing 😍
Love you guys❤❤❤❤❤
I have 3 kids 1 girl and 2 boys. I always tell my 9 yr old girl and my 8yr old boy we need to be patient with each other because Mommy has never been a mom to a 9 year old girl or a 8 year old boy I’m just trying to figure it out, and then I tell them you have never been an 9 year old or an 8 year old so let’s be patient with each other. We are going to mess up and that’s ok 🤍🤍🤍
Wow! Can’t believe I’ve been here since you guys where in journey of your fist baby 🥹 God bless you and your family ❤
8:09 As a mother who has been out of the baby stage for 8 years, I assure you that each future stage is just as easy and difficult in different ways. Bringing the same level of joy in other ways. You’re going to love the ride ❤️
They are all sick people:(
Miss you so much!! 😥
Sending you love and prayers in this difficult time. Knowing you guys, you are probably really taking your time to process and to decide how to respond to all of this. We will be here when you're ready.
@katinadiep9268
9 ай бұрын
Same here. They've managed to grow this channel and uploaded regularly for years. They exude happiness. ❤
And you made the cutest babies! 😍 I'm so excited to see what your next adventures are 🤗
Always remember your doing great! ( quote from Disney Jr Bluey )
Falling silent and deleting comments is not the way. Might as well grab a ukelele.
@georgiadavis670
9 ай бұрын
I noticed that too.
@debbiewenckowski4670
9 ай бұрын
@@georgiadavis670 God judges all!! God even judges the keyboard warriers who spew assumptions around like candy, without knowing the FULL N TRUE STORY!
@georgiadavis670
9 ай бұрын
@@debbiewenckowski4670 How do you know what I’m assuming? That was just my personal feelings. The families did know. There was a lot more that should have been done.
We miss you guys,, plz make more videos 😊
I honestly think this entire family needs to be investigated. These family Channels are all sick. To use your kids for views has never sat well with many, yet we seem to ignore it.
@familyoffour247
8 ай бұрын
You searched for this family just to comment this?
@dragonmationsjcg8785
8 ай бұрын
@@familyoffour247do you even know what they did?
Missing you guys 😢😢😢😢
And I sympathize with Shari and h r needing to ignore her family but found family love for her through deru crew❤😮😢🎉
I miss you guys come back plz
It feels sad to say but when I was diagnosis with PCOS and Endometriosis, I really looked forward to this time of life. TTC is very exhausting. Now I’m pregnant with my first and I am trying to not wish the days away. Being pregnant is hard! Along with the hard, there is so much good too.
@Sunnybrook69
10 ай бұрын
Congratulations 🎉❤🤰and prayers for a healthy pregnancy, uncomplicated birth and most of all a healthy & content new baby!
Praying for you all! I hope things turn around and all of you come together for those babies. 🙏🏻❤️
Just watched Bonnie’s video! So proud of her! Hope to see you back when you are ready! Prayers to all of you!
@user-mn9mc3ec6l
9 ай бұрын
Glad she told her side
@debdav7168
9 ай бұрын
Me too!!❤
Where’d you guys go? Everything okay?
You guys should go camping more. Those are special precious years and your kids are at great ages for that. Camping, hiking, biking, canoeing etc.
@dearleah7299
10 ай бұрын
That’s kinda hard for Jared to do right now being that he has had a hip replacement.
Miss you guys❤
Miss watching yall
I cannot read that book I Will Love You Forever to my grandchildren. My son is 40 and it makes me sob.
You have all beautiful children .
Please come back, I miss you all !
We miss you guys
Been here since you guys were pregnant with Jackson. It's crazy to see this chapter of your lives come to an end! We're due with #2 in October & undecided if we're done yet.
Missing you all very much. 💕 Big hug’s, sending healing prayers and good vibes to you all. 💞
Not me crying I’ve been with y’all since you found out you were pregnant with Jackson
We miss you and hope you guys are ok
Thanks you for share and you have wonderful four of children 🩷🩷
Ahhhhhh you guys! My kids are 26 & 23.. watching your family brings me back to my most favorite days of my life! I miss those little kids of ours. They were so sweet and fun. It's been a new chapter for us for quite a while. It's all good, but I enjoy remembering those days through you. Soak it up & enjoy your journey forward! Xoxoxo
@kathleenclark815
10 ай бұрын
Just wait until you have grandbabies...it's so great!
Hope to see new videos soon!!
The only constant in life is change
You two are wonderful role models, raising with LOVE and guidance etc. I gotta say Jared you are a special motivational person. You have a genuine and caring way of delivering the message. Bless your family 🙏🏼❤️
It is bittersweet all my emotions right now I sad this happen.
When are you guys making another video
Miss you guys and hope you keep posting!! Take all the time you need with your family.
I feel this way too!! We have 5! 1 girl same age as Jackson and 4 boy! Our last baby is almost 9 months old! I always feel really peaceful for this decision as well! I think I will miss our time in the hospital, I just love that time! Bring a baby in the world and spending that time in the hospital, but I feel the same as you guys! I am just so excited about just raising them, and excited for the next stage!
Love this video. Very nice and great words of wisdom! Love how Jared used that bumper analogy! That’s actually quite amazing. :) also caboose is a great nickname for Junebug :) lol too darn cute- she’s your little caboose! ❤❤
Grew up with u guys❤
We all miss you all ❤you all.,
Miss you guys ❤
Comeback guys. We all miss you 😢
Wish y'all would come back
Hope all is well miss the vlogs
Seems like a great time in your life. No pressure of wondering if you're pregnant, checking the time of the month, making dr. appts. etc.
@ragadalfaqeeh7922
10 ай бұрын
What does the time of the month mean!???
@quintbhonorsfantage
10 ай бұрын
@@ragadalfaqeeh7922Period
@ChelseyWithLove
10 ай бұрын
@@ragadalfaqeeh7922to see if you’re ovulating. You need to ovulate to get pregnant. Women aren’t fertile every day of the year.
@cari8282
10 ай бұрын
@@ragadalfaqeeh7922may I ask your age?