Emotion Regulation Hacks: Two Powerful Calming Techniques

Are you often overwhelmed by powerful emotions? Do you wish there were some simple, yet effective ways to reduce the emotional overload? Today I’m going to tell you about two remarkably effective techniques that can help you achieve just that.
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Marmolejo-Ramos, F., Murata, A., Sasaki, K., Yamada, Y., Ikeda, A., Hinojosa, J. A., Watanabe, K., Parzuchowski, M., Tirado, C., & Ospina, R. (2020). Your face and moves seem happier when I smile: Facial action influences the perception of emotional faces and biological motion stimuli. Experimental Psychology, 67(1), 14-22.
Söderkvist S, Ohlén K, Dimberg U. How the Experience of Emotion is Modulated by Facial Feedback. J Nonverbal Behav. 2018;42(1):129-151. doi: 10.1007/s10919-017-0264-1. Epub 2017 Sep 27. PMID: 29497224; PMCID: PMC5816132.
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  • @lmzaadi
    @lmzaadi11 ай бұрын

    the Mona Tracy is my new favorite piece of art

  • @Elonakase47

    @Elonakase47

    11 ай бұрын

    I second that!

  • @mason4966

    @mason4966

    11 ай бұрын

    Mine too! I want that hanging in my room.

  • @crow_feather

    @crow_feather

    11 ай бұрын

    SAME! I just moved into a new apartment, and want a print hanging on my wall as my very first piece of art in my new place!

  • @gaili2098

    @gaili2098

    11 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @versexscape7540

    @versexscape7540

    10 ай бұрын

    I was thinking the same thing! I will be thinking of Mona Lisa when I'm practicing this

  • @Jessanangel
    @Jessanangel11 ай бұрын

    I haven't commented in a while but I've marveled at your channel's growth. Thus channel was/is so necessary. You're an awesome teaching Dr.

  • @ranc1977

    @ranc1977

    11 ай бұрын

    She started to turn to Humanistic psychology and trauma informed after my critical comment last year. First she was hysterical, but accepted the facts of life - and now she has more quality features than before.

  • @GeorgideMarne

    @GeorgideMarne

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@ranc1977 you must be delusional 😂. Half smiling..

  • @ranc1977

    @ranc1977

    11 ай бұрын

    @@GeorgideMarne I am not topic here.

  • @Koda881
    @Koda88111 ай бұрын

    Im literally crying right now, this worked so well?? I'm always ruminating and making my emotions worse and I feel like this is a game changer. Thank you ❤

  • @luizguilherme5251

    @luizguilherme5251

    7 ай бұрын

    The half smile technique had me crying out of nowhere, I'm really shocked by how well it worked for me

  • @tsaftaridis
    @tsaftaridis11 ай бұрын

    That thumbnail deserves a prize though

  • @drj4u2b
    @drj4u2b11 ай бұрын

    DBT trained therapist here, Those techniques are the best!!!! And easy to handle intense emotions

  • @Heyu7her3

    @Heyu7her3

    11 ай бұрын

    How does this work for someone whose feelings or thoughts don't match up with their bodily expression? For instance, neurodivergent people and people with alexithymia. Personally, I will half-smile a lot yet still feel hellish, and I don't clench my fists when stressed or tense (I stim with hands/ my body shakes like I'm shivering).

  • @caitpitts2384
    @caitpitts23844 ай бұрын

    This is so crazy! I instinctively did willing hands AND a half smile in an attempt to stay calm during labor. No one told me to do it... I just felt like if I could keep my hands and face relaxed, everything else could relax too. I made it through 18 hours of labor in an amazing state of peace, and now it all makes sense!

  • @MiliMehta
    @MiliMehta11 ай бұрын

    Great video! Can you please make a video on how to stop absorbing others emotions as an HSP (highly sensitive person)

  • @arttulip100561
    @arttulip10056110 ай бұрын

    I use this while driving to prevent road rage and it really helps. It also gets a better response from other drivers than my former rage did! Im going to use it in your other suggestions. Thanks❤️

  • @DrTraceyMarks

    @DrTraceyMarks

    10 ай бұрын

    You're welcome. So glad to hear it's helpful!

  • @NS-xt5wv
    @NS-xt5wv11 ай бұрын

    This half-smile technique sure as hell made me smile throughout the entire video 😅 Now I understand all these people who smile only with their mouths 😝

  • @crow_feather
    @crow_feather11 ай бұрын

    Thank You, Dr.Marks, so much for these techniques! I tried them both for the first time just now, and they helped calm my mood immensely in just a few short minutes! I've needed something like this for so long! Thank You, from the bottom of my heart, for the help! ❤️

  • @GrammyAmanda
    @GrammyAmanda11 ай бұрын

    This the the exact video I need right now. I’m having trouble with anger and resentment because of a particular person and situation ❤

  • @natnat8393
    @natnat839310 ай бұрын

    This is so fascinating because I've been doing the half smile one for many years without realising lol Edit: I do the open hands ones too. This is so interesting

  • @alexandria3004
    @alexandria300410 ай бұрын

    DBT saved my life. It really helped me because of my intense emotions.

  • @LuzdoSol00
    @LuzdoSol0010 ай бұрын

    I loved how she half smile at the end of the video.

  • @fatherbewithme
    @fatherbewithme11 ай бұрын

    Thanks to one of your videos I discovered what neuroticism is & oddly enough I was extremely neurotic as a teen & young adult being in certain public settings (school work) around the wrong crowds made my neurotic symptoms a thousand times worse but whenever I was with the right ppl who were supportive I notice I wasn't so neurotic

  • @whitefairytails
    @whitefairytails11 ай бұрын

    already can foresee people especially my mum calling me a crazy person when i practice the half-smile when im pissed off

  • @michelekurlan2580
    @michelekurlan258011 ай бұрын

    Had a 💡 moment when Dr. M told us to "do the Mona Lisa." Thought to myself, that's a GREAT mantra to remind us to half-smile and open our hands. Thanks Dr. Marks. This talk was particularly helpful.

  • @nickdavis3550
    @nickdavis355011 ай бұрын

    THANK YOU. My therapist wanted me to go to a DBT therapy specialist. I looked up, sounded stupid but this video, I'm trying all your suggestions I have PTSD, Bad Anxiety, panic. Attacks etc I would love to have you as my own therapist. I love your channel, very informative and straight forward. I know you spend a lot of time editing. I just want you to know that I appreciate you! , 💯%

  • @Catlily5

    @Catlily5

    11 ай бұрын

    DBT helped me.

  • @leeboriack8054
    @leeboriack80542 күн бұрын

    The Mona Tracy is an absolute scream. Love it ❤

  • @booksale5
    @booksale511 ай бұрын

    Hi Doc, i’m not sure if it’s been a while or there’s a new artistic Director, but these new video formats are very creative! Whomever or the team behind the creative compositions are doing a phenomenal job! That aside when I first started watching this video, I was sitting with my confusion of the feel your feelings at the same time. Don’t feel your feelings with your address towards the end of the video so that answers that long-standing question I’ve had. The other long-standing question I still have yet to get answered, is emotions are inherently neutral, and they are ways of communicating, a deep inner experience, so why do we continue to emphasize this culture of “appropriate” versus “inappropriate” emotions. Especially with neurodivergent individuals getting more recognition, I hope one day as a society we will move forward with a more open society to express emotions in healthy ways without penalty. As a stereotypical, nice guy, it’s always befuddled me that my once in a blue moon expression of anger is far too unacceptable than the person who’s day today, overall unpleasant. That individual may not suffer any consequences however, the person who gets upset once in a blue moon Has all hell to pay.

  • @bestrongandloveyourself2370
    @bestrongandloveyourself237011 ай бұрын

    Great tips! Thank you so much! 🥰🥰🥰 I like to listen to guided meditation where they say to smile softly and to turn palms of the hands up and it usually makes me very peaceful 😊 these hacks definitely work for me! 😊

  • @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    11 ай бұрын

    🎉♥️♥️🤝🤝🔝

  • @chicanova1359

    @chicanova1359

    7 ай бұрын

    Can you recommend me the one you're talking about? I could really need it lol

  • @SirQuantization
    @SirQuantization11 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Tracey. I needed this and I know many others did too. I love your channel and I hope you're taking care of yourself, too!

  • @komaliwings7209
    @komaliwings720911 ай бұрын

    The thumbnail is amazing.

  • @cendinoteme
    @cendinoteme11 ай бұрын

    Wow, I’m laying here in this morning and trying it I feel so light and my body is tingling. Thank you!

  • @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    11 ай бұрын

    🎉♥️♥️🤝🤝🔝

  • @tmeyer2022
    @tmeyer202211 ай бұрын

    Thank you. I started using Mindfullness techniques ages ago (without knowing what what that was) at the suggestion of someone older and wiser than I ever was. The difficult part for me is recognizing the onset of excessive stress. Highly stressful situations often build out of what seems to be a no/low stress situation.

  • @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    11 ай бұрын

    🎉♥️♥️🤝🤝🔝

  • @PJBISD
    @PJBISD8 ай бұрын

    You rock. The suggestion to "half smile" makes me smile.

  • @AnnointedCai
    @AnnointedCai11 ай бұрын

    WE LOVE YOU DR.TRACY!!

  • @hilarystewart366
    @hilarystewart3668 ай бұрын

    That is so cool! Going to try out both. Thank you!

  • @earncryptoz
    @earncryptoz11 ай бұрын

    Wow. This is so transformational. Thank you so much for your kind sharing ❤️❤️❤️

  • @musicme1313
    @musicme13139 ай бұрын

    These videos are really helpful, thank you for making them ❤

  • @MyKrabi
    @MyKrabi11 ай бұрын

    Thank you for such practical resources!!!! You are helping so many people.

  • @switchpathbyamypreston5428
    @switchpathbyamypreston542811 ай бұрын

    Thank you Doctor!

  • @languageandmana9255
    @languageandmana925510 ай бұрын

    I love when you give the scientific names of theories and techniques as well because as a premed student I love to learn them

  • @MP-bx3uj
    @MP-bx3uj7 ай бұрын

    Omg this is so helpful. This whole series has been great, but oh my goodness this video is exactly what I’ve been needing for years 🥹thank you so much

  • @Jessanangel
    @Jessanangel11 ай бұрын

    Wow...awesome mindfulness tips. My hands brought to my attention the need for me to engage in more mindful practice. I pray open minds find this video.

  • @alexandrearenales9300
    @alexandrearenales93007 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing those techiniques!

  • @AntW11
    @AntW1111 ай бұрын

    Thank you very much for your insightful content. You are a real tonic ❤❤❤

  • @MichaelGarcia-hw7yh
    @MichaelGarcia-hw7yh11 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Doctor.

  • @quietmountainwellness7916
    @quietmountainwellness79166 ай бұрын

    Wow. Amazing! Thanks for sharing.

  • @marcussampaio9535
    @marcussampaio95357 ай бұрын

    Thank you again. Please keep going, world is needing every help. We're building new perspectives that are opening the doors of a healthy future.

  • @nerdbamarich2063
    @nerdbamarich206311 ай бұрын

    Fantastic info as always doctor.

  • @kookkookkookkook8863
    @kookkookkookkook88638 ай бұрын

    6:05 this is the most important disclaimer to me, never suppress to eliminate or invalidate emotions ✍️

  • @Itsrichardash
    @Itsrichardash11 ай бұрын

    I can’t wait to try these out

  • @margarida.larchae
    @margarida.larchae7 ай бұрын

    this is one of the most useful videos I've seen in a long time. I have such difficulty with regulating emotions and it seems like I'll never be able to get a hold on them and stop them from taking the power. This is very practical and will be very useful in the future

  • @tuxedoneko9837
    @tuxedoneko983711 ай бұрын

    Luv the thumbnail Ty for teaching us such practical skills, simple yet effect and powerful ❤

  • @drsandhyathumsikumar4479
    @drsandhyathumsikumar447910 ай бұрын

    Thanks ..your tips are practical and the way u communicate with calmness help me to be calmer ❤

  • @rosediddynorelation4824
    @rosediddynorelation48248 ай бұрын

    Thank you sister, you are a blessing and inspiration

  • @Robertopendic
    @Robertopendic24 күн бұрын

    Thank you Dr Tracy Marks

  • @margo5919
    @margo5919Ай бұрын

    Good stuff, thanks so much!

  • @MrBibi86
    @MrBibi8611 ай бұрын

    *I have major depression and general anxiety along with Aspergers and I tried ecstasy for the first time the other day. never felt so good in my life. it was like the cloud lifted. I have tried over 8 antidepressants with no relief*

  • @banksarenotyourfriends

    @banksarenotyourfriends

    11 ай бұрын

    I had a similar experience with mushrooms a little while ago. It's obviously not a solution to anything but it was nice to be reminded of what I *can* feel like. Almost like having a target to work towards. I don't know about you but for me it was also evidence that it's not necessarily my circumstances but my *judgement* about my circumstances that makes me unhappy. I wish you all the best :)

  • @healthyandrew5294

    @healthyandrew5294

    11 ай бұрын

    Drugs are a chain of diminishing returns

  • @NS-xt5wv

    @NS-xt5wv

    11 ай бұрын

    I had it with Ketamine treatment, but it lasted only a couple of hours and then I was back to depressed again, although I did it as a part of Ketamine-Assisted-Paychotherapy, it made me feel more depressed in the weeks to follow, because I felt like myself when I was under Ketamine and I felt so good, was very relaxed and humorous like in my pre-depressed days, tasting my old self made me feel worse afterwards because I was kinda reminded of how I used to be but then I was back to my depressed normal and it was heartbreaking 💔 It’s like waking up to reality from a very pleasant dream.

  • @jameswoodall9261
    @jameswoodall926111 ай бұрын

    Now this was a surprise! Simple physical things to help mentally. You can bet I'll try these

  • @hellisheretostay
    @hellisheretostay11 ай бұрын

    Dr. Tracey Marks coming back with the best thumbnails ever again

  • @newyorknewart
    @newyorknewart11 ай бұрын

    AHHH, YOU MAKE A LOVELY "MONA LISA"... A CLASSIC BEAUTY!

  • @bensweiss
    @bensweiss11 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @Anukii
    @Anukii11 ай бұрын

    Oh I am LOVING the new look of this channel!!! 😍💖

  • @Pheistyherbalist
    @Pheistyherbalist7 ай бұрын

    These techniques videos are a God send. Thank you Dr. Marks

  • @retsuki2154
    @retsuki215411 ай бұрын

    waoo its posted exactly when i really need it. Thank you so much Dr.

  • @daisyholzmacher6948
    @daisyholzmacher694811 ай бұрын

    Awesome suggestions.

  • @ahzuresears161
    @ahzuresears1619 ай бұрын

    ❤ you have helped me understand my bipolar disorder so much better and I appreciate you so much for that thank you 🙏🏾

  • @user-zq7dk4fk2y
    @user-zq7dk4fk2y3 ай бұрын

    Dr. Tracey is Amazing, and her videos are always extremely helpful! :)

  • @zsauffi
    @zsauffi10 ай бұрын

    This is fantastic!

  • @nykaid1585
    @nykaid158510 ай бұрын

    These are very very great tips thank you so much 😊

  • @sashachamberlin5904
    @sashachamberlin59045 ай бұрын

    Love this video

  • @McGMumof3
    @McGMumof3Ай бұрын

    THANK YOU for sharing these techniques for FREE!! Nice to see a professional care enough yo share some help fee free!!

  • @addysaw
    @addysaw11 ай бұрын

    Dr. Tracey we love you ❤

  • @Basedbeauty3
    @Basedbeauty35 ай бұрын

    It works instantaneously. Will use this often

  • @thisoneT
    @thisoneT11 ай бұрын

    Great video!

  • @edsonpires4199
    @edsonpires41996 ай бұрын

    Tks ❤❤❤ it's amazing

  • @thepudge6953
    @thepudge695311 ай бұрын

    Dr Tracey Marks, I noticed you have no videos explaining schizoid personality disorder, I have it and would like to learn more,

  • @thebigoaktree8401
    @thebigoaktree840110 ай бұрын

    Thank you ❤

  • @syedanifrizvi
    @syedanifrizvi11 ай бұрын

    I have invented some techniques and I will love to see more videos like this. Love this one😊

  • @goodtimes54
    @goodtimes5410 ай бұрын

    thank you

  • @lavellans
    @lavellans11 ай бұрын

    I loved this editing!

  • @charlenebrownlow4677
    @charlenebrownlow4677Ай бұрын

    PTL Dr. Marks…thank you for sharing your knowledge; been very helpful to me, especially mindfulness. The willing hands was my learn for the day💯💌!

  • @kmoyao50
    @kmoyao5011 ай бұрын

    Thank you Dr. Tracy. I appreciate the infographics too :)

  • @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    11 ай бұрын

    🎉♥️♥️🤝🤝🔝

  • @caseyjones5145
    @caseyjones514511 ай бұрын

    ADHD & road rage is my biggest problem lately

  • @SilentTrip
    @SilentTrip5 ай бұрын

    these tips are fun, thank you I will try them 😊

  • @richardcarter5314
    @richardcarter531411 ай бұрын

    i really enjoyed the Mona Lisa graphics, and the rest was pretty good too!

  • @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    11 ай бұрын

    🎉♥️♥️🤝🤝🔝

  • @kindware6323
    @kindware632311 ай бұрын

    Im half smiling as I watch this & it is lifting my mood. 😊

  • @willrose5424
    @willrose54248 ай бұрын

    Adding this to my daily schedule

  • @oliverrojas3185
    @oliverrojas31856 ай бұрын

    Thanks

  • @jayd3337
    @jayd333711 ай бұрын

    Thank you for explaining this. I think this is something I need to do. He can help me with troubling thoughts that are often hit me. It c6so help me through tasks I don't want to do. I'm working with my adult adhd. I am going to start building successes with your help

  • @47beena
    @47beena7 ай бұрын

    I am 77 . And facing Narsasist abuse . I did not know this half smile technique . But Just from childhood I have learnt to smile most of the time . That is my way of saying the world is beutiful . This my habit of smiling helped in healing I guess . But I will learn to use open hands technique . Thank you

  • @nahojagalam5280
    @nahojagalam528010 ай бұрын

    More power n health for you

  • @lenoraberendt750
    @lenoraberendt75011 ай бұрын

    Very cool. Thanks Dr. Tracy! 🌞

  • @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    11 ай бұрын

    🎉♥️♥️🤝🤝🔝

  • @ducphan8638
    @ducphan863810 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much. I will practice half smile and willing hands.

  • @Kirkcarr
    @Kirkcarr2 ай бұрын

    Way more beautiful art piece, this woman is not only beautiful outside but inside and she is hear to help heal, so selfless teaching us to be selfish the right way. Your incredible, woman like you make me think that god is a woman.

  • @TheOvenCoven108
    @TheOvenCoven1089 ай бұрын

    This helped

  • @Scott-vl8gy
    @Scott-vl8gy8 ай бұрын

    You are definitely Mona Lisa, Dr. Marks. 😊👍

  • @midrashchannel9940
    @midrashchannel994011 ай бұрын

    Hello Dr. Marks, I'm completing my internship at an adult😊 drug and adolescent hospital. Also I'm doing a DBT certification course. This week our adult theme is EMOTIONAL REGULATION! Do I have permission to show our client THIS VIDEO? Also do you have any words of encouragement for them? Thanks for these gems!

  • @yderelio
    @yderelio11 ай бұрын

    Thank you! 🙏🏻😻🧿💃🏻💜

  • @brendaplumley4491
    @brendaplumley449111 ай бұрын

    This is awesome. I notice when I am "relaxing" my mouth is aggressively frowning. I just recognized it recently and I am so aware of it now that I'm like wtf?

  • @zeezas1241
    @zeezas124111 ай бұрын

    I need to try this for a while but testing it right now seemed to work!

  • @breeft9357
    @breeft935711 ай бұрын

    Hi Doctor Tracey, I've just bought your book "Why am I so anxious".

  • @irene_f.
    @irene_f.11 ай бұрын

    Yes! Yes and Yes! Living with Panic/Anxiety disorders and ADHD - it's a daily roller coaster ride. 😬

  • @NerdyNerdUHeard

    @NerdyNerdUHeard

    11 ай бұрын

    same

  • @irene_f.

    @irene_f.

    11 ай бұрын

    @@NerdyNerdUHeard 💜

  • @benalisawebb5898
    @benalisawebb589810 ай бұрын

    Is True...."Smile & Dial" Expectation of connecting with right ppl

  • @harleysantillanes9677
    @harleysantillanes96774 ай бұрын

    Your videos que better and better

  • @philiple3054
    @philiple30549 ай бұрын

    Thank you Dr. It will help my wife well, she has bipolar and gets mad oftentimes.

  • @ItsSoarTime
    @ItsSoarTime7 ай бұрын

    i just discovered the doc thanks to YT's recommendation! excited that she is a trained professional giving advice and not just someone who might have done some great research. i appreciate those people. i appreciate her more! anyhu, yeah, i do this as a coping/defense mechanism when i'm too shocked to speak or too pissed off to speak. there's a lady on YT with a great channel--YoQi, i think it's called--and she...gives similar advice in her vids. what i learned here is to wake up doing such and more consciously engage in such and not just let it be a reaction... gonna be using this in the courtroom as a pro se litigant WHEN the attorney tries to pull me...into my...negative emotions for a case he CAN'T win as long as i present my documented facts with a...HALF SMILE!!!! as for "willing hands" it's a prayer pose ...

  • @janejarve
    @janejarve11 ай бұрын

    I remember doing the half smile in school donkey's years ago when I lived in fear of a particular teacher berating me. Trouble was, she always thought I was laughing and would berate me even more. I get what you're saying, but our interpretation of the "half smile" & its meaning, can be different to that of another person's understanding of it.

  • @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    @Tracey_Marks.on.tele.gram.

    11 ай бұрын

    🎉♥️♥️🤝🤝🔝