My dad once said: "some people are so poor, but so poor, that the only thing they have is money. Take that from them and there's nothing left. Just a shell of a human being."

@annarasmus8737

Жыл бұрын

Well said

@viviansmith1443

Жыл бұрын

Excellent! Never heard that one and will save. My Dad told me " A beggars pride is that he is not a thief "🤗

@christinehrycan7869

Жыл бұрын

A very wise Man 🙏🇨🇦❤️

@danawilliams601

Жыл бұрын

Well said!!

@stephanieprine1908

Жыл бұрын

You would love the song Just Visiting, by wookiefoot

How sad that the little girl in the car implied that their driver’s accent was somehow inferior to theirs simply because it was different. The parents have clearly instilled their own prejudices in them from an early age.

@janicem9225

Жыл бұрын

I actually loved his accent.... much better than their stuffy, nasal accents.

@loonygirl4047

Жыл бұрын

I wonder how that girl will react when she hears the many accents throughout England.

@Windigo-OAK

Жыл бұрын

The driver handled that so well!

@sssssssss111

Жыл бұрын

Result of being enclosed in a circle of entitledness. When I met my rich boss’ child for the first time they did not say hello, they said “how are you from Europe with that skin color” (my US boss hired me from western EU). No one corrected her so after some silence I had to explain my family history It’s not the kids fault, they usually mean no harm at all. The parents need to do a better job

@killarney1977

Жыл бұрын

Very telling that the children don't even consider them English. Some really deeply ingrained (learned) prejudices there. Which is ironic, given that their mother's own accent doesn't really sound like it's English either.

I worked at a expensive daycare that many wealthy families would send their children to for socialization. I basically raised these children for five hours everyday for three years. Most had no relationship with their parents they were emotionally neglected and out of control. I even raised a few from as early as 14 months old all the way until they were 3. After a while parents started coming to me and asking what my tricks were as their children started to become happier and more behaved, it looked like I had punched them in the gut when all I said was I gave them my time and attention. I had one little girl who told me she wished I was her mommy because I played dolls with her and gave her hugs. I left that job with trauma from seeing how terrible these kids lives truly were.

@JanetMacCallum

6 ай бұрын

This is so sad 😞

@thatonedog819

2 ай бұрын

I hope those parents took your words to heart. Especially when they came to you for advice in the first place

@mirellymiranda9591

Ай бұрын

This is so sad. Children under 4 don’t need “socialization” they need love and attention from mom and dad

@thatonedog819

Ай бұрын

@@mirellymiranda9591 I mean it is an important part of development at that age....but they still need their parents.

@bwwamber8327

29 күн бұрын

These parents don’t care because their are focus in money and pretending be good parents

Connie's story broke my heart. The fact that she had to leave her children and become an essential stranger to them, just to break the cycle of poverty, is insane to consider. I'm glad that her children, in particular her daughter, won't need to make the same sacrifice now that they have university degrees.

@marinal1040

Ай бұрын

hers is a story of so so so many

If your relationship is so insecure that the nanny has to be "ugly" (a disgusting descriptor/requirement anyways), then it's already too far gone.

@sharonh4944

Жыл бұрын

Actually that I do agree with. Its only sensible.

@cristinaaristizabal9882

Жыл бұрын

Well, she just said out loud what many women who employ nannies think..

@smoovbuttah

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@fehyndana7725

Жыл бұрын

lol and when the husband cheats with a young and beautiful nanny everyone says “what was she thinking, putting such a temptation into her house?!”🙄

@solaris5922

Жыл бұрын

@@cristinaaristizabal9882 I actually can’t wrap my head around it. Knowingly staying with a man that will cheat on you with any opportunity he gets.

I wish they showed more of the dads in the pictures too. They only seemed to have villianized the moms. Dads are also equally responsible for taking care of their children.

@liad0x

Жыл бұрын

Very true! But im assuming these moms were single moms because… i dont think i ever saw a dad in those 50 mins or so

@MariaM-wp4zg

Жыл бұрын

Agree

@KNYD

Жыл бұрын

@@liad0x Well at least one of the mothers said they wanted the nanny and maid to be ugly so that their "love doesn't have to get distracted once". The boss of the nanny and butler agency also said " many mothers, they prefer not too beautiful nannies." So based on that they are not single parents. Some of them also speak of their husbands.

@liad0x

Жыл бұрын

@@KNYD that comment by one of the women more sounded like possible boyfriend to me, not really a husband. For example like i want to be the prettiest in this house, if i ever bring a man into this house he shouldnt be distracted. But if she meant her husband then yikes!!! I mean they clearly have a horrible relationship if she gets insecure by a not ugly nanny so it would make sense for them to be used to old sexist gender roles.

@KNYD

Жыл бұрын

@@liad0x She was wearing a wedding ring.

I can’t imagine letting my children make fun of someone taking care of them, because of an accent. Or laughing while the nanny deals with cleaning up after a dog.

@jackiemarini3203

Жыл бұрын

There parents are ignorant maybe rich but they're ignorant.

@whoneedslovewhenyouhaves..859

Жыл бұрын

Who cares

@kimhaughton3771

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@abhiam18

Жыл бұрын

That's come from parents.

@poodlegirl56

Жыл бұрын

I am a highly educated woman who reared her children. I chose to work as a Nanny. It is insane how people allow their children to speak and act towards the help. I informed a mother once was there is a difference between money and power. Your child cries when I leave the residence, that is power. I am giving you my notice that is power. What you have is money. Your children don't expect candy and treats from me. Though they are excited to see me. It was an ugly morning

No matter how much money you have,the bond you develop with your child is priceless.Not every parent deserves a child.

@faithlena1881

Жыл бұрын

You're right

@MAMMASALI86

9 ай бұрын

Ooh goodness lord, 💯 agree and it's unbelievable to see all this thing.

@brendaechols5929

Ай бұрын

Most of these rich people's kids are not as smart as they think. The parents just pay the school to get in. It's rigged.

Shoutout to Amanda for swindling rich people who are too lazy to teach their own kids to use the toilet $$$. She seems like a very kind person with the way she speaks.

@jasoncasey6667

Жыл бұрын

Yap I agree 😂😂😂

@sharonh4944

Жыл бұрын

I don't agree. From what I read a lot of people find it very difficult and stressful. This puts pressure on the child. Having a kind professional train a child is very kind!

@cheberur

Жыл бұрын

I wouldn't call it swindling. It's a business agreement between willing parties.

@Kat-yq6vw

Жыл бұрын

@@cheberur completely on the same page. I was just using the word in a playful way. She’s doing great work with these kids and we all have different service needs, so it’s really awesome.

@KimAhrina11

Жыл бұрын

It's a part of her job, basically all nanies like that... But usually the parents would teach/ask the kids about it. It seems that different society/countries that do not usually use nannies/housemaids have different responses. All the nannies in this videos seem have a fine life tho since they work with upper class families.

Not letting your nanny see her children by providing flights and expenses every six months when you are drowning in money is obscene. These are the people who are running the world, no wonder we’re living how we are in 2022.

@GOTTshua

Жыл бұрын

Each soul will stand before Jesus after death. Every knee shall bow & every tongue will confess that "Jesus is Lord God Almighty."

@canesugar911

Жыл бұрын

The nanny was hired in the home country of the clients, they didn't shuffle her from her home country so why is it their fault. They pay her the appropriate wages.

@suesmith5381

Жыл бұрын

This is the part I don't understand. Let the nanny go home every six months even if it's for a week or instead of two years each year. Stay home and look after your kids then, leave them with family or anything but let them be with their children more. It's so cruel!!!!!

@canesugar911

Жыл бұрын

@@suesmith5381 cruel? That is the contract she signed. They got her from an agency they didn't yank her away from her children.

@vixxxenfoxxx3660

Жыл бұрын

This is why they are keeping the racial divide alive and thriving, if we are focused on it then we aren't focused on the real issue, Rich VS Poor

I was a nanny for an extremely wealthy family in Denver. They were and are the most wonderful down to earth people. I still talk to and see the kids and just stayed with the parents in Jackson hole - we are still very fond of each other after 25 years and they still treat me like family. Seeing these screwed up families makes me cringe.

@QueenSchatz

10 ай бұрын

It sheds a terrible light on families who use a nanny. We've hired a nanny simply as a second hand so I can safely clean the house, prep meals, and run errands while someone is watching/keeping him safe. We don't have a village of family to help.

@Quaker-tc8ue

10 ай бұрын

@@QueenSchatz all due respect, ‘family’ doesn’t have to be blood.

@HRR76

10 ай бұрын

I also was a nanny for a wealthy family. They were kind, generous, and loved their children. They made me feel very appreciated and like part of their family and to this day we remain in contact. That was the best nanny experience I ever had.

@thesurvivoraunt13

6 ай бұрын

I was also a nanny to several families, both wealthy and upper middle class, and all were great to work for, overall. I was treated as a member of the family and still communicate with the children, who are now adults with children of their own!❤️🥹🥹🥲

@lotusgrl444

6 ай бұрын

@@QueenSchatz exactly sometimes you do need that outside help and its far from being a resource that only well off people use.

24:20 💔 to hear Connie, the Filipino nanny, had to leave her 6 and 3 yr old children back in the Philippines with her parents so she could earn enough to get them an education. No words for how wrong this inequality is.

@Nessa___

Жыл бұрын

With 47 bedrooms in that castle, you think Connie’s kids could come live with her there

@lyrebird9749

Жыл бұрын

@@Nessa___ Exactly. Imagine how enriching that would be for the British kids as well, having basically an extended family close by.

@chetyoubetya8565

Жыл бұрын

And what time in world history has that not been the case??She didn't have to leave her children at all she chose to.Plenty of parents in the Philippines who are not rich raise happy successful children and they dont leave the country to do so.

@cookingforme4711

Жыл бұрын

No one forced her, she chose it.

@desertkhaat

Жыл бұрын

@@Nessa___ perhaps there are immigration reasons why. The UK is pretty intense re: visa issues & such... Also, Connie has a network back in the Philippines to help her raise her children- she wouldn't have that support if the kids were in England.

"she's not with us for the money" the disconnect is Astounding

@prg4647

Жыл бұрын

I mean, when Connie brought the child to her, the baby was holding her and wanted to give her a hug and she held that baby like she was holding a dog that wanted to lick her🤣🤣🤣. Those children are just props in these ppls lives

@randomchance7796

Жыл бұрын

Try not paying them and see how fast they get hired elsewhere, lol.

@MagickMulatta

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@rebeccacarlson9166

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing! The nanny admitted right there that she did it for the money! She is making sure her Filipino kids get a college education. I hope she does make a lot of money, she deserves it...I can't imagine seeing my own children once every couple of years...so sad!

@CreamIceMs

Жыл бұрын

@@rebeccacarlson9166 listening to Connie's story made me so sad... I was hoping to hear her say she would at least see her family every 6 months... Every 2 years? Heartbreaking! 💔

I felt so sorry for Mo when he got mocked by these brats. Sure, they're just kids right? But is shows you how the grown ups think and talk about him. Looked down upon whilst HE provides safety and protection to this family. Not the parents. It's Mo.

@halloweenallyearround4889

Жыл бұрын

It was horrifying. They are being raised to be awful people. And poor Mo cares for them so much that he's come to terms with being mistreated..

@lilyblossom1240

Жыл бұрын

Most of the upper class looks down on the majority. They think of us as either useless or just servants. Doesn’t matter if your an engineer. To them your still beneath them because of their wealth and social class.

@iween270

Жыл бұрын

The way the girls tried punching him in the face everytime when he was showing them boxing techniques is just disgusting and shows how little respect they were taught to show him

@-chenlanying5818

Жыл бұрын

@@iween270 it's the parent fault, the kids don't know it

@marylusunshine

Жыл бұрын

exactly, my same remark above

The hairdresser lady is so correct: teaching your kids for life is so prescious and helps to bond. what will the relationships look like between the parents and kids in a few years if the parents never really took time for the kids and outsourced almost everything? poor rich people. :(

@tobymahaney7219

Жыл бұрын

Royal family is a good example of that.

@mrshappilymarried1

Жыл бұрын

We see the consequences every day via drug overdoses, prison times, etc..

@GhostSamaritan

Жыл бұрын

Could be the reason the wealth class lacks humanity.

I think Heidi's parenting is already backfiring on her. By completely forbidding sweets, sugar, soft drinks and meat she makes it even more tempting for her daughters to try. That's probably why they find sneaky ways to get it anyway, like lying to the Nanny about what they're allowed to have.

@rosmarbal

6 ай бұрын

Orthorexic eater. Not good

@t_MattMan

5 ай бұрын

That's like saying we're all more tempted to try drugs because we weren't allowed to have any.

@bunyipdragon9499

4 ай бұрын

My friend would never allow tomato ketchup amongst a myriad of other food items and the one thing they went crazy on when ever they could was tomato sauce. Neither of these kids when they grew up had strict rules around food because they remembered feeling nothing but deprived and sometimes shame - just because their friends could and they were not allowed. They have found a balance that works for them without the strictness being the main focus.

@KennyChesty

4 ай бұрын

@@t_MattMan Its about the messaging. Kids who have gone through the anti-drug DARE program were found to be more likely to do drugs. The fear and use of the "NEVER" concept tends to bring more curiosity and desire for the forbidden.

@sophiachavez3377

3 ай бұрын

A vegetarian lifestyle is a fad and not very healthy.

My heart broke when Connie describes leaving her children in her home country to take care of other people's children to provide a better life for them. This world...:(

@alleycat616

Жыл бұрын

So awful. I can’t imagine not being able to see my kids for weeks at a time, much less years! That is absolutely heartbreaking.

@robynvercetti9476

Жыл бұрын

Dude I actually cried. We do the same in South Africa. But the nannies do not abandon their kids. Sometimes the employers even let kids stay with them and be friends with the kids. And pay for their schooling. If the employers have the means. It's like one big family. And the babies kids are not seen as less and do no miss out on opportunities. I was truly disgusted to see this still happening in the world.

@alexoolau

Жыл бұрын

Warren Buffett embarrassed

@cassygray1343

Жыл бұрын

The nanny was more heartbroken for leaving her own kids and raising someone else then the mother that want cocktail parties and don't give a dam

@blu3bugjunkie420

Жыл бұрын

@@cassygray1343 it's the same thing .... both woman are abandoning their children so they can work and build a better life the only difference is one is so much more successful then the otherw therefore they have the money to have their children taken Care of at home where they'll probably see them throughout the day but they also have to work to be able to live like this

The spa owner said it perfectly. Parenting is stressful but so precious.

@dagmarbeeke6163

Жыл бұрын

Well stress is a chosen consequence..

@bohuslav5019

Жыл бұрын

I agree. I have no children, but if I did, I'd be afraid to miss out on important memories. For that reason I don't think I'd hire staff except for perhaps a sitter on special occasions.

@finallythere100

Жыл бұрын

45:00. They pay so much $$ for every detail, but mother casually, repeatedly uses God's name in vain right in front of her children. (Not bashing her, they seem like a lovely family, but just pointing out an observation that what all counts as fine details is in the eye of the beholder. - but it is something a child with good upbringing should know not to do, as it is not considered appropriate in lots of settings.) Thinking there should be , for the right families, a real demand for nannies that also have children utilize religious principles in everyday life (processing forgiveness, challenges, gratitude, as well as praying, and just generally raising therm to live the faith in all the little ways that count in everyday life. For the right family, such qualities in a nanny would be highly desirable. and even required.

@bellona6356

Жыл бұрын

@@finallythere100 last thing children need is to be indoctrinated with religious brainwashing. Morals and good manners has nothing to do with religion.

@finallythere100

Жыл бұрын

@@bellona6356 - You are misfiring here. FYI - It is STILL considered ill-mannered to use God's name in vain in public situations. as well as STILL considered highly unprofessional and inappropriate in the professional workplace. I(t has nothing to do with your personal opinion on religion as brainwashing. ). I have no idea of your age range or background, so you are evidently clueless about time honored civility and professionalism. This is YT so anyone can sound off as you have and one will have to consider the source. perhaps your opinion is the norm in your world, but thankfully, not everyone dwells there. As for what children need, you will have your day, and you can tell it to Him when your day comes. He has given you free will, and I'm quite sure He can learn a thing or two from you!.

My mom left me in Jamaica and raised 2 doctors kids in Boston. That's how we facilitate the immigration process. My mom is very close to the middle child, who became a successful lawyer. She tells my mom, who she affectionately calls Lally. "Lally anything you need, all you have to do is ask." God bless that child.

@evelynzlon9492

Жыл бұрын

It's pointless to immigrate from Jamaica to the US. Most especially if you're a black female. Statistically, black American women have the highest average levels of the stress hormone cortisol of any demographic group in the world. Half-starved black African women, even, have more serene cortisol levels. America is fundamentally a rung down from Africa. It's where blacks who lacked even the power to fend off slave traders ended up. Nor could these black Americans be choosy about WHERE they were enslaved, because the journey across the Atlantic Ocean was pure torture and blacks are also a minority in America. In the big scheme of things, civil rights equal employment/fair housing laws are a joke. I have a B.A. in Economics so I can put them into perspective. These laws succeeded at rehashing the slave system by another name. Especially since blacks are also a minority in America.

@evelynzlon9492

Жыл бұрын

There are two main reasons why black American females are under so much chronic stress. One, since the 1960's, most high-income blacks have migrated out of predominantly black neighborhoods into the suburbs. These defectors are overwhelmingly male as men of all races have an income advantage over females, rendering black females largely desolate. By the same stroke, the heightened market competition for white-owned homes automatically triggers supply and demand pricing adjustments. It further elevates the values of white homes and depletes black housing values. Black females are less likely to earn enough money to fill this imploding real estate money pit. So on the whole, civil rights laws are actually disadvantageous to black females in particular. Plus in one of his speeches, Martin Luther King decreed that blacks' love for our enemies should be primarily impersonal and "spiritual" in nature, as opposed to emotional or erotic. That means the US government and general population may scrutinize and regulate your deeply personal intimate desires and relationships BEFORE YOUR CIVIL RIGHTS EVEN KICK IN. That is of course a profound violation which defeats the purpose of said rights. I myself am an ostensibly all-black female with a white father which makes this policy particularly discomfiting. Nor am I privileged, which renders me financially susceptible to slave policies.

@evelynzlon9492

Жыл бұрын

Martin Luther King is venerated in America...by our racist government. His barbaric racist motives were strategically understated so as to gloss over them while promulgating the tall tale of his heroism. All that glitters is not gold. Look before you leap. And READ THE FINE PRINT.

@evelynzlon9492

Жыл бұрын

And there are some things money can't buy. England is equally to blame for America's "new racism". All black American churches, especially Southern ones, were founded by antebellum slaveholders. The British contributed their suavity and diplomatic skill to help these black preachers deceive their parishioners. Dr. King was a freelance puppet activist who sold his services to the highest bidder. It really doesn't matter whether his masters were of American or British origin. I really hope a large army invades England and sends some white soldiers to pry Kate Middleton's legs open for some ugly, low-caste black guys. Just sayin'.

@summaz_

Жыл бұрын

@@evelynzlon9492 no offense, but don't assume someone is black when they say they are Jamaican

When she said the nanny has to be ugly that was just the end for me. I could NEVER be a nanny to rich people. The sheer audacity alone would send me straight to jail, not to mention the whoopin I would give some of these brats . Smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

@electricpurple4112

Жыл бұрын

What's bratty about these kids? What an imbecile comment this is. You want to assault the kids because you think they're "bratty"? You're right, you could never be a nanny to people with money.

@N0N4M30

Жыл бұрын

Same 😂

@ninalisazu1521

Жыл бұрын

Literally, that was the last straw, and when they said no leggings 💀

@MsAmique

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣 I hear you!

@cbeautifulworld11

Жыл бұрын

For years I had a petsitting business with extremely wealthy clientele. At times I would spend a month or more at beautiful estates with wonderful animals while the clients traveled. Every single husband showed interest. 98% of them made passes toward me and/or were uncomfortably affectionate with obvious sexual tones to test the waters. As bad as their statements sound, I get what they're saying. Very wealthy men often feel entitled to cheat, especially if their wives are financially dependent upon them, which wasn't even the case with my clients. It's harsh, mean and unreasonable to say that a nanny should be "ugly", yet they could have asked for middle aged or grandmotherly type nannies, though their energy levels would be different than a younger person. I quit jobs because of amorous husbands. To me, it was not only uncomfortable it was pretty disgusting to experience their assumptions that their money allowed them to disrespect their wives and myself and to imagine that because they had money I would be interested in them.

Round of applause for the dude who came out and yelled at those entitled idiots for using his doorstep as their personal photoshoot display. Imagine dropping dirt and spreading smoke wherever you please.

@annaknight6177

Жыл бұрын

I was waiting for someone to mention this! Absolute best part of the show

@glossyraspberries9124

Жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼

@angel31356

Жыл бұрын

But seriously I thought they'd check with the owner of the property to do something like that beforehand. That's just basic knowledge.

@travelerforever8849

Жыл бұрын

@@angel31356 They feel they are entilted to do anything because they are rich.

@antayafairless9028

Жыл бұрын

What's the timestamp?

It's funny how the children lied to the nanny about eating things their parents don't want to, yet the nanny is scolded instead of the children. You can even see the girl smile to the camera satisfied that she put the nanny in some trouble. That's NOT how you teach your children to be good people. The children should feel at least a little ashamed for putting another person into trouble with their lies. The problem with these people is not their immense wealth but their immense stupidity.

@shiva_689

Жыл бұрын

The immense wealth just amplifies it :D

@prurose8939

Жыл бұрын

That was very sad

@Jk-ey7mp

Жыл бұрын

it was quite funny that the mom said they didnt know what fanta even means when it was quite clear what they were putting themselves into when manipulating the nanny into getting something they know they arent allowed to get

@jessn.3851

Жыл бұрын

The children just wanted a soda, which they're never allowed to have. My mom rarely, if ever, let me have soda at that age. It sounds like the woman didn't have any experience with strict diets or keeping junk food out of the house. I would have known not to give them soda and I'm sure I'm not the only one. As for the food portions, has she never cared for young children? She would have had a better idea of how much food to give them if she had cared for children their age before. She's just inexperienced, and she is trying for a difficult nanny position. If possible, she should have researched more before trying.

@twincherry4958

Жыл бұрын

Kids do that regardless of wealth

I love that the one family bought their nanny a home, and appreciated her good care of their children. I wish the other family did the same for their nanny so she could be near her children. So many lives would be improved with this kind of compassion and generosity.

@ThinWaistedPrimaDonna

Жыл бұрын

The nannies with young children should have been provided for by their husbands or baby’s fathers. Their men failed them.

@itoo3654

Жыл бұрын

Of course, my suspicious mind thinks that the father was having an affair with the nanny, but don't mind me, I'm jaded a little. 🤣

@m.r.e.5731

Жыл бұрын

These women as a group strike me as too self-centered to care about The Help.

@vickimarlene4905

6 ай бұрын

It’s rare. I was a nanny part time to a girl a few years ago. I was with this family for 7 years. I was terminated at short notice because the mother gave up work. I got nothing as termination pay. I felt really hurt. I made a difference in their lives. I cooked for them and tidied up. This still hurts today four years later. I’m still friendly with the family and I love the girl dearly. The rich get richer.

@ira2016

Ай бұрын

Nobody gives away a house for free. Some other type of exchange might have happened.

I worked around rich people doing a public service job. The funny thing happened when I was holding a lady's daughter and playing with her. She had seen how well her daughter was taking a liking to me and asked me who I was and I turned the question back around and asked her who she was because I had been coming to the house for two years and never seen her before. She took offense to that and answered, "I'm her mother." I replied, "Are you?"

@yanickotto7756

10 ай бұрын

🤣 WTF she did not know who was during the day around her child.

@H.JudahMack

10 ай бұрын

@Yanick Otto most people don't get to see their meter reader. So, when they do see you, it's such a surprise to them that it throws them off, a little, with their reaction or response.

@JanetMacCallum

6 ай бұрын

Wow! And how sad 😔

@thatonedog819

2 ай бұрын

@@H.JudahMack but enough that your kid knows them well? No. You should know that person

@estefaniaboujon6830

2 ай бұрын

​@@H.JudahMack what kind of meter reader is always comming inside a family's house and playing with their kids?🤨

If these kids don’t inherit enough money when they’re older, it’s going to be ROUGH for them, and especially everyone around them.

@IINVICTA

Жыл бұрын

You ain’t lying

@lizh4933

Жыл бұрын

@@IINVICTA Life skills 101.

@winterlite3243

Жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly!

@mattkaustickomments

Жыл бұрын

@@susanarsoniadou3588 I agree, I see many comments that belie jealousy of the rich. But not in this thread. Just plain facts.

@kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934

Жыл бұрын

Boo hoo😢

That one mom parented the 7 dogs more than she patented her kids. The little girl was beating her brother he’s screaming and no one bats an eye. The dogs bark for 5 seconds and she actually ran. What the heck. I respect the decision to parent how ever you feel best but for me I could never ever give up those few precious firsts in those lives. I just lost my 12 year old unexpectedly and I would give anything for that time back.

@thecook8964

Жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss❤️

@jameskkk9467

Жыл бұрын

Sending you strength.

@sharonh4944

Жыл бұрын

Im sorry

@veniaminf5105

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry to hear that… Stay strong

@falynoliver81

Жыл бұрын

Words serve no purpose with what you have gone through. I’m so sorry. Wishing you peace

Hats off to all the men and women working like this to make a living.

Why did these people choose to have children?!? They clearly don't want them for anything but for the status of having them. This is genuinely sad.

@mrshappilymarried1

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. They had them for bragging rights,tax deductions and heirs. They clearly didn't have a yearning to be parents.

@btsarmyforever3816

Жыл бұрын

@@mrshappilymarried1 If they don't have kids who's gonna inherit it all? Some random strangers who don't have their blood or not going to expand that business? Point is: They don't parent even three hours per day, which is really sad.

@nomagcisacawe3297

Жыл бұрын

@@mrshappilymarried1 Millions of the poor neglect their kids. At least these are provided for materially.

@charliblake8551

Жыл бұрын

Gotta lock down the rich hubby by giving him heirs…obvi 🤷🏻‍♀️

@esbee1868

Жыл бұрын

Everyone who choose to have children do it for their own selfish reason.

I love the different moms’ priorities. The socialites want a loving, homely nanny, the vegan mom wants a vegan nanny who skis, and the Russian mom wants a badass nanny who can fight. 😂

@chandracox6814

Жыл бұрын

But none of them can be pretty?! Like...wtf?! Talk about issues and obviously they dont trust their husbands either. Sad life.

@michellemcbee5168

Жыл бұрын

I don't like anything about any of these " moms". They are out of touch with reality and I don't even know why they had children if they didn't want to raise them. And to only want unattractive nannies just shows they don't have strong marriages either.

@florisoarele174

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@tp8087

Жыл бұрын

😂

@wyzolma99

Жыл бұрын

@@michellemcbee5168 exactly

I love the Potty Lady. She know's she's got the skill and she knows that people will pay because they are literally too posh to parent so why not. She's so self-aware, she know's it's ridiculous but she's living her life doing her service and working with adorable babies so kudos to her XD

@alexoolau

Жыл бұрын

Warren Buffett embarrassed. His children went to public schools, no servants, no luxury lifestyle. According to Paul Fussell, real wealthiest do not care for luxuries. It is the pretenders who are showing off.

@terrybuckalew6874

Жыл бұрын

replacing a mom and doing a moms job sad

@mavisiu1387

Жыл бұрын

its smart actually

@derrikawright5795

Жыл бұрын

If I could pay for the potty lady, I would.

@luisai.6258

Жыл бұрын

Her business idea is smart, because these "parents" have no idea of how to raise children. In real life, kids need to indicate themselves when they are ready, because it's a matter of physical and mental development and it's something super private and intimate. Also changing nappies - super important for bonding and everything. It hurts my heart to see, how little these people care. Their kids are more like accessories to them, much like the Chihuahuas.

Every Filipino woman I have ever met has been the epitome of kindness and strength. I don't know if it's the culture they come from. Maybe it's that you have to already be that brave: to leave your home behind for a chance at a better life. Whichever it is, Filipino women always have and always will have my utmost repect.

@user-jb8vn7vf1y

Жыл бұрын

As a korean they rich people should respect Flipino nanny. Not respecting Filipinos is what bugs do.

@chetyoubetya8565

Жыл бұрын

There also is a massive issue with domestic violence in the Philippines so don't generalize what anyone is.

@alonagsofly

Жыл бұрын

_❤️

@jcymngo

2 ай бұрын

My experience has been very very different.

When she said that the maids and the nannies had to be ugly, so her love wasn't distracted, I laughed so hard! One of our anesthesiologists hired a Russian nanny, because she was brilliant, but very plain-looking. She was so taken by her good character that she paid for her to complete additional degrees to be a certified nurse anesthetist. The kids grew too old to have a nanny, and she met a wonderful and handsome man. They married, and she has 3 children of her own. She is such a smart and lovely person.

@Siye8899

5 ай бұрын

Así que el médico anestesiólogo se compró una esposa y tuvo una aventura con ella mientras estaba casado, no es algo que se deba tomar como romántico

It breaks my heart to know that she sees her children once in 2 years. The rich employer could pay for her to go home twice a year, and get a replacement during a short period easily. Taking care of those who sacrifice their own children to look after yours, will make your staff happier.

@brendonurieonice5303

Жыл бұрын

I agree fully but slight correction *Filipino :>>

@Masatisan

Жыл бұрын

They could have paid for her to fly home a dozen times a year, once a month at least, she deserved to see her kids grow up.

@angielyntorres6357

Жыл бұрын

@@brendonurieonice5303 how do you onow that Filipino words

@husnainahashim3489

Жыл бұрын

Yes to that..all the love😊💓

@verenas3536

Жыл бұрын

I wonder how much shemakes. When I hear, that some positions come with 1500 a week, I seriously hope she is not criminally underpaid in comparison....

I'm a vegetarian, but sorry to say those kids are going to head straight for McDonald's the second they are on their own. Why didn't she give her a clear outline of what was expected of her, rather than wait for her to fail. She should've shopped and prepared the 1st meal herself with Maria as she explained their lifestyle, since she's so strict. Marie keeps apologizing, but it's not her fault.

@tinnie75

Жыл бұрын

The kids were already sneaky enough to tell the nanny that they have Fanta all the time. The mom is in for a rude awakening the moment they have any kind of independence.

@HelloNewMoon

Жыл бұрын

I was never allowed it either and then once I was in high school and driving on my own with a little it money i had from my after school job I ate it like it had crack in it!

@claireconolly8355

Жыл бұрын

Agree!

@Patricia-xz1vz

Жыл бұрын

@@HelloNewMoon lol...

@kimberlyhawkins

Жыл бұрын

Why doesn’t she hire a chef or subscribe to a meal program? Not nanny’s job to be a vegan chef also?

There are a lot of nannies from the Philippines in the middle east. I've seen families that eat at a restaurant at 2 separate tables: 1 for the husband and wife, and 1 table for the nanny and kids. I've seen a preschool child cry at a school event on stage and wouldn't stop crying when the dad came up or the mom came up. Finally the nanny came up to hold the child and the child stopped crying.

I remember Tori Spelling saying she was basically raised by her nanny and that she actually had more love for her than her actual parents

I was horrified when at one point an agency worker interviewing a mother about hiring a tutor for her child, asked her what she wants the child to achieve. Kidding about him winning a nobel prize. The child was sitting there, and nobody cares what he wanted! He was just a vehicle for his mother's ambitions.

@lilygreen221

Жыл бұрын

She said "its MY dream" poor kid, he doesnt have a choice

@namehere4954

Жыл бұрын

The only expectation I have for my kids is to be their best selves. And they're doing it - phenomenally kind humans with very different interests & talents. Expectations/goals/dreams/hopes are double edged swords because if not met, there is shame, guilt, rejection, abandonment, anxiety, etc.

@lilygreen221

Жыл бұрын

@@namehere4954 this is good parenting

@voyance4elle

Жыл бұрын

I agree one hundred percent!

@fernandagoncalvesoliveirab2083

Жыл бұрын

That one I understand, she was hiring, not him. The tutor is her employee, not his. Even though the boy was just siting there akwardly, It was normal.

Love the hairdresser in the beginning. She is absolutely right about parents missing out on a whole lot of special. Really love this lady. Fresh breeze in a world full of crazy.

@ginb981

Жыл бұрын

Love it 💗

@marijag3253

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@rzkkmrth6059

Жыл бұрын

agreed. but not everyone is born to be a good parent. if they could afford it then it's better to hire experts instead of abandon the children just because the mom still "wants to be me".

@JJ-mp5ye

Жыл бұрын

@@rzkkmrth6059 good parents? Just because someone could hire someone else to do a job for them doesn’t mean they love their kids less than you! There are plenty of rich folk who love their children and are great parents but they don’t have the time to do the things you assume makes a “good parent!”

@delphinepallud9030

Жыл бұрын

@@JJ-mp5ye I think you missed the point. Being a good parent is about taking time to be with your children, giving them attention and doing things for them and with them. Ultimately that is what they will remember. For ex. spending the night with them when they are sick will make you bond with them more than any expensive gift or holiday. Just my opinion.

The logic, understanding and respect the Russian investment banker showed to the nanny (by buying her a home) is notable. It shows his bond with his child is of great personal importance. He’s not just saying he cares, he demonstrated it. An admirable quality. He’s correct one of the best investments he’s made.

@anovemberstar

Жыл бұрын

And we are to think he doesn't expect anything in return??, yeah right!

@toebeans6568

Жыл бұрын

@@anovemberstar yeah my 1st thought is he bought his side woman a house to keep her quiet. There's no way he bought her a house just because he's kind. He's definitely having an affair with her!

@jmt2192

Жыл бұрын

That’s unfortunate that you see the world in that false way. My husband and I would absolutely buy a home for our child’s nanny if they were with us for 13 years and were helping us to raise our child in a nice way. We both have extremely busy and demanding jobs and a nanny can become part of your family. My own nanny was like family to us. Of course you want to help your staff and their family too when they become that close!

I was a full-time nanny/babysitter here in the States, I was always treated like a servant, if anything went wrong even if I wasn't there It was always my fault, one family I was with full-time for over 11 years since the oldest was a few weeks old, that was over 30 years ago, I loved those 3 children, still do, but unfortunately they turned into snobs just like their parents, one of them married last fall, I was not invited, broke my heart, there's hidden abuse too, you're paid peanuts, one family called me Nanny, no name, you don't have to be rich to mistreat those who are loving and caring for your most precious possessions - your children!

@googleuser7454

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry that you went through that. I wish more people treated workers (especially those close to the family) with more respect

@missgui4400

Жыл бұрын

Good thing the children are not their possessions, they are gifts from God.

My heart breaks for the sweet woman who had to leave her kids behind, at least they were with her parents. She is so proud of her kids going to university. I hope someday her kids understand her sacrifice so they could have a better life, that is truly a mother's love.

@suntanbeach6504

Жыл бұрын

In a perfect world that would be ideal but the reality is their mother is a stranger to them and always will be as long as she keeps working in other countries. Hopefully at least they don't have huge resentment towards her for giving what they should have had to other people's children. I suspect those feelings would be present until they are adults and can really understand why they grew up without a mom.

@sarahp.3772

Жыл бұрын

That's why it's so important to think B4 having children. If you can't give them all they need, then don't have them.

@Areyousayingidontknowmyname

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahp.3772 Plenty of countries that the women still do not have a right to say no or they will be looked down on as pointless if they don't have children. Then you bring into it religion. How many Catholics are going to listen to your words. Don't get me wrong. In a perfect world we wouldn't need rape kits, abortions just a right to say no and an ability to say no.

@carinnavidad7825

Жыл бұрын

It's a common situation here in the Philippines...mothers leave and work abroad to take care of children of rich people, in exchange to leaving their children in the care of relatives...poverty that is...😔

@Ebrill_Owen

Жыл бұрын

She had to sacrifice being a mom to her child to be a nanny to those spoiled little monsters. Just to make enough money to keep her and her baby’s head above water. The world is so cruel and unfair.

Insane, simply insane. I couldn’t stop shaking my head. And it’s not envy. I don’t envy them one bit. Having money is a good thing, no doubt, but being as filthy rich as the people featured here, is a burden. It takes away from real human bond. Those mothers might think they’re the most important person in their kids’ life because they make the decisions, but as the violin playing girl said, she calls the nanny when there’s a problem. And then there’s the other girl that said she misses her nanny when she’s gone for two days. You reap what you sow.

@rosejack7738

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@cynthiawilson5066

Жыл бұрын

So 😔 the one Nanny from the Philippines takes care of this rich women's kids and she has to leave her two kids THAT'S MESSED UP

@suesmith5381

Жыл бұрын

@@cynthiawilson5066 That made me cry. I know she is giving her kids a good education so get that but still... no mummy around.

@brega6286

Жыл бұрын

@@cynthiawilson5066 Yes it is but...if they have opportunity and good salary they can go home on holidays and that is the best situation for all. They provide their family with very needed income and have fulfilling work. But I could never have someone work for me without going home at least every 6 months. Preferrably every 4 months. Well..I do not have to worry because I cannot afford to even hire someone for a day !

@brambigdeli5021

Жыл бұрын

Thank you preach I was thinking the same thing I’ve never fancy or cared for money unfortunately we need to have it to buy things especially way the world economy is right now but I’m glad I see a lot of the comments saying the same thing I couldn’t stop shaking my head it’s absolutely disgusting

the nanny with the vegan family...i nannied for a family with a pretty strict, healthy diet and the kids telling her something is ok and not knowing if it's true or not hits me right in the feels!! It is a thing that happens alot!!

@arajczewski9253

Жыл бұрын

I feel like the kids will grow up to have eating disorders with their mom being the way she is

@LivvyAlexW

Жыл бұрын

I can only imagine. Part of the reason being a nanny would be difficult

@jealvarado68

Жыл бұрын

That little girl did know the word Fanta for sure! Mom is clueless that the girls wouldn’t have heard soda names from other friends or TV 😅

@brittaniesidebottom

Жыл бұрын

And I’m betting that they have had that sort of thing at a friend’s house and mom never knew, which is why they said they have it all the time.

@BloodInTheStrawberries

6 ай бұрын

She's an almond mom. 🧍

I’m not a parent yet, but one day I may decide to try to be a daddy. Waking my child up in the morning, driving them to school, picking them up, listening to them about their day, and helping them with their homework would be the greatest parts of my day and life. I want to be there on the beautiful days, the good days, the bad days, and the ugly days. All of those experiences are what it means to truly be a dad. Those times when I’ll wake up in the middle of the night to comfort them when they are having a nightmare and are crying. The times when I would normally rest but instead take up my child’s hobbies and play with them. To the day I’ll be crying watching them go off to college and one day watching them get married. Even as a prospective dad I can’t imagine missing any of it. One day we’re all gonna be on our death bed and leave our loved ones behind. It doesn’t matter if we were rich or powerful. What matters is love. If I have kids and the day comes that I pass I want them to remember me, their dad, not by the material goods or money I gave them, but by the constant love, support, and presence I showed them. Peace and love to all the parents and prospective parents out there 💙🤙.

@j.d.445

6 ай бұрын

Super Star: Will you marry me? 😁

@kathidori8504

6 ай бұрын

Please, adopt me. 😊

Would love to see a follow-up when all the kids are in their teens. And then at 35. Secure attachment and bonding with your parent is invaluable for learning how to be a human, and your own human.

@belle3055

Жыл бұрын

I grew up with both my parents, no nunnies and still emotional bonding didn't exist. My father was a computer engineer always working, my mother was a stay-at-home mom (she didn't work) but she had her own life, she would drop us at school and then go do whatever, visit her friends or sisters. After school I went home with school bus, most of the time I stayed at home alone watching tv, my brothers were in school, we studied at different schedules, me in the morning, them at noon. We are not rich but never went hungry, maybe middle class / working class. Just to say that even families who are not rich still fail to bond.

@TiOZAO1966

Жыл бұрын

up

@TiOZAO1966

Жыл бұрын

@@belle3055 Everybody knows that.

@mimimarusig957

Жыл бұрын

Let's see if they are potty trained!

@TB-rx1ue

Жыл бұрын

Secure attachments don’t have to be from a parent… sometimes it takes a village. We have moved away from the village raises the kid, and put most of the responsibilities on the mother alone. It’s not the way it’s been for centuries and there are still parts of the world where the village still raises the children. Now the screens are the nannies which is even worse 💀

The lady in the salon nailed it...children are precious, and time with them is even more so.

@baconlife9095

Жыл бұрын

unfortunately, there are a lot of ppl who is willing to outsource these precious opportunity if they can afford. It all has to do with money. in some countries where man power cost is cheap, not so rich ppl can also live like a king. Its just a choice.

@NoctLightCloud

Жыл бұрын

not to everyone... you won't believe how many people don't care about their kids.

@janrees4887

8 ай бұрын

This is why I've put my career on hold to be home with my kids until they're big enough to go to school. I still do some work from home and we've had to cut back on a lot of luxuries, but I'd rather have a good bond with my children than an expensive designer pram to walk them around in.

@sstitt0440

7 ай бұрын

Why do they even have kids😢

@lorihoop3831

6 ай бұрын

@janerees4887 It's why I settled for less material things and stayed home with my girls. I worked nights 2 days a week just to get out of the house and either my husband or mom watched them.

This is very sad. Being a Mother is the most difficult but rewarding experience in the whole world. These Mums and Dads are truly missing out.

I feel so bad for the Russian mother, she seems very sweet and like she’s been through a lot. I also like that she described the woman who unfortunately ended up stealing from her as extra help as it shows she’s involved in her kids lives and as a single parent, just needs some extra help. I feel like she, far more so than the other mothers featured in the video, actually needed the help she was seeking since she was after security for herself and her kids.

The mom spending more time and care dressing her 7 dogs than she does her kids is where I draw the line. I’m a firm believer that you shouldn’t have kids if you’re too busy to take care of them. I was still relatively happy to see that the mom takes time to pick the right people for her kids and that all their needs are met. It was when I saw her pay more attention to her DOGS that I came back to reality.

@thienkimnguyen1260

Жыл бұрын

Me too. But i think she is better than other parents in this documentary: at least she takes her children with her when she’s flying around the globe, not leaving them at home.

@Derlet30

Жыл бұрын

Agree! That is the epitome of absurdity, arrogance and vanity. Truly awful 🤮

@xanperia

Жыл бұрын

I don't like dogs wearing clothes, but that being said - I didn't find the part where she picked the clothes for their dogs most disturbing. She was, afterall, dressing the dogs together with her children after what they went on a walk together. I'm sure dressing the dogs is a fun activity for the children. Not by far the worst thing shown in this docu in my opinion.

@danderson4740

Жыл бұрын

Those children's needs have definitely not been met. They have neglectful parents and that's going to have some consequences. I wouldn't be surprised if it were the personal assistant who located, vetted, and hired everyone else. Why bother having kids if you don't want to do anything with them or have anything to do with them? Sad

@percyjackson5417

Жыл бұрын

@@danderson4740 i mean they seem quite loving and happy with their mother.. so

The hairdresser summed it up precisely, time with your babies is soo beyond precious, its hard to imagine giving soooo much of that time to others. This is so sad.

@famiilliii

Жыл бұрын

Did you also notice how awkward it got when the lady was promoting her business of potty training? (Or she just have stage fright)

@CommanderShepardSR2

Жыл бұрын

@@famiilliii yeah, it was like …. Uh people really hire you todo that with THEIR child? (At least that’s what I got from her face😬)

@sc-ie6kg

Жыл бұрын

That's what happens when people have kids purely because it is needed to complete the image of a "perfect" family. Like an accessory. Have unfortunately know many who also have kids to fulfill any emotional void left behind by family or husband

@charsiu_808

Жыл бұрын

Yet people do it all the time!! Even the poor..they give their children up to babysitters whilst they work and then up to the public school system when they are of school age..wake up

@sallyenki4440

Жыл бұрын

Babies are annoying af.

No wonder so many of these kids grow to be narcissist. This was so sad to watch. When I was a child my parents were very wealthy in Africa. I was told my parent's were so detached that when I cried they will wait for the nanny to come pick me up. I was their first born, and they never spend anytime with me. When I grew up they were still very detached. Never even asked me how was school, or how was I feeling. My aunt brought me to America at the age of four. She and the rest of the family found me to be a strange child, because I never cried or asked for my parents. I was so detached they said.

@lyrebird9749

Жыл бұрын

Very sorry to hear that. I hope you got the love and support you needed from your aunt and other members of your family.

@53mandevilla

Жыл бұрын

Aww…Blessings to you…that is a terrible way to grow up! I don’t approve & most of us don’t approve…rather disgusting…worship $ more is what it is

@sharonotori3725

Жыл бұрын

O dear

The Potty Lady saw opportunities and ran! Kudos to her! $2,000 in 3 days🤑🤑

My best friend was a nanny for a extremely wealthy family in Texas. They had a newborn baby and another child under two. She stayed for a year or so but had to leave when the children started calling her Mom. She said the parents just treated them like accessories and everything was always for show. They didn’t actually spend any time with the children outside of being in public. It’s really sad.

@Crispytuba328

Жыл бұрын

I had a very similar experience, but them calling me mom didnt make me leave, it was the mom being manipulative, gaslighting me and screaming at me everytime something was out of place. I still feel bad leaving those kids, but I hope CPS can do their job. Doubtful but I hope

@dredubz5825

Жыл бұрын

@@jess-nd1kz what was she supposed to do!? She was 21 years old. Is she supposed to stay in a job she doesn’t like for someone else’s children for 18 years because she doesn’t want to upset them? Not to mention she couldn’t stay because she was foreign. The children are the responsibility of the parents not the nanny who is barely an adult herself.

@youdroppedsomething4334

Жыл бұрын

@@jess-nd1kz she has her own life to live, selfless can only go so far

@101.1.0

Жыл бұрын

@@jess-nd1kz she had to leave. i am sure the biological mother got upset when the kids called her mummy, took offence and let her go. its heartbreaking.

@malikast-pierre1217

Жыл бұрын

That is so sad...

OMG the Philippine nanny she is so sweet. I cried when she was talking about leaving her own children with her parents to support them. that's so hard :(

@janicem9225

Жыл бұрын

And these rich fools could care less about her or her children, because they're ignorant narcissists.

@raimeyewens7518

Жыл бұрын

That was sad. And her nursing friend having to leave her newborn behind. How hard it must be for her.

@forestrot666

Жыл бұрын

I was very sad about that too. I cannot imagine how difficult that must be.

@martita441

Жыл бұрын

@@raimeyewens7518 Totally 💯 I left my son at daycare when he was 13 months and I cried for six months every time I drope him off because he didn’t wanted to stayed. I can’t imagine a new born. 🥺🥺

@martita441

Жыл бұрын

@@forestrot666 me neither. Just the thought of it my heart breaks. The fact that I know and seen so many Philippine ladies as Nannies here in Canada. Knowing that they are sacrificing so much is so sad. And btw Philippine’s nannies are the best. They are amazing. 🙏

These children are beautiful, as all children are. I hope that these nannies, tutors, and bodyguards can love and raise these children to be wonderful adults.

These people might be spoiled with riches, but many of us don't realize how lucky we are to have a caring parent in our lives.

It's both disgusting and laughable. Hopefully not every wealthy person is like that. She calls herself a fashion designer, but she clearly suffers from the lack of taste.

@Rose-uf1eh

Жыл бұрын

Have you seen most of Britain's fashion?

@heloisez5235

Жыл бұрын

lmao，she had her horrible taste esp in her home interior😂

@Laaibahsheriff

Жыл бұрын

Bro says u let me guess us hop at goodwill 💀💀💀

@artisthusnatalal3099

Жыл бұрын

*I almost thought where is the chic look? She wears what I used to wear in my 20s 20 years ago and I have the same black bow tie she's wearing but mine is pink and I'm not rich* 😂😂😂

@opulence6224

Жыл бұрын

Judging by the furs in her closet thing her taste is impeccable

My dad and his sister had a nanny as children and were only presented to their parents once a day before bed usually. My dad was very close with his nanny and thought that she was his mother and was very traumatized when they let her go when he was around 9 years old. He was closer with some of the house staff and his teachers than his own parents. Very sad. I would rather be poor and have family and I am so happy he always wants to spend time with us

@melonie_peppers

Жыл бұрын

Regardless, I would not under any circumstances wish to be poor

@Gilsworth

Жыл бұрын

@@melonie_peppers You know nothing of poverty if you think of it only in monetary terms.

@majammmmh

Жыл бұрын

​@@melonie_peppers so you'd rather be wealthy but never see any of your family members than be poor but have a close, loving relationship with your family??

@SummerAlleriaWindrunner

Жыл бұрын

@@melonie_peppers No one said you had to

@melonie_peppers

Жыл бұрын

@@majammmmh That's not what I said. Who said you can't be moderately comfortable (as opposed to super rich) and not have a loving family? Why do you want to be poor? Stop romanticizing poverty because there's nothing fun about it.

I feel so bad for some of these kids. The amount of pressure that's being put on them at such a young age is crazy.

I used to be a stay-in nanny for a super wealthy family in South Africa and well I only lasted a year. They were narcissists and I basically never rested. The little girl loved me but was ill mannered and was basically a brat. I actually developed an autoimmune disorder while working there and they never cared. Worst time of my life.

Why do they even bother to have kids in the first place if they don’t have time for them? It is so sad for a kid to be raised by the employee only …

@victoriachaneledberg302

Жыл бұрын

Umm really? I’m a completely single mom and never have time to see my kid!! I work two jobs just to keep a roof over our head. But I can tell you this- I would much rather hire a professional nanny than to bring my kid to a daycare! If I had the choice to do so

@debbiemohekey1509

Жыл бұрын

@@victoriachaneledberg302 I think the children spend a lot more time with a nanny than they would with daycare staff.They stay with the nanny not just working hours but social engagements, of which there are many including overnight trips. Daycare could never provide the hours needed so it wouldn't be a case of one or the other. Daycare just couldn't provide the hours of care.

@KnowWhat

Жыл бұрын

To carryon their bloodline / the family name

@frenchtoast7742

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. It’s true. It’s one thing to be a single mom and work two jobs . But these families are two parents who are billionaires who one of them can stay home or parent . Or do without a nanny like most working families do. Ridiculous.

@caprice3110

Жыл бұрын

@@victoriachaneledberg302 they aren't single mums, nor are they struggling financially.....the comparison is irrelevant.....

I worked at an “independent summer camp” (ie camp for wealthy kids) & the stories of so many of the kids were heartbreaking. There was the 5 yr old from Korea who was sent to camp for weeks to be immersed in the language because his family were moving to America - no one spoke his language at camp so he spent most of his time in frustrated tears & learned all the swear words other kids could teach him. Then there were the brother & sister who had come straight from boarding school to camp for 10 weeks & had not even met their new stepmother. They would go home for a couple of short holidays per year & that’s it. Then there was a young girl, Hannah, who had an anxiety attack because she had volunteered to do a swimming leg for a camp competition & couldn’t do it when the time came, because of her anxiety. And she had tonsillitis & was apparently told that she had to take her medication every day or she could die 😳 She was such a sweet girl & so anxious about achieving & doing everything well that she was tied up in knots of anxiety...at 8 years old. I’ve thought about her a lot over the last couple of decades & hope she has learned to conquer her anxiety. Some of the kids were loved & their parents were involved in their lives, but far too many hardly saw their parents at all.

@rezaadara7866

Жыл бұрын

I hope I can hug Hannah

@jlgibbo6116

Жыл бұрын

Well shame on those parents

@jaiylahjaii

Жыл бұрын

why u saying their names just say "little boy " little girl"

@Joytous

Жыл бұрын

@@jaiylahjaii Oh who cares. There's millions of kids with those first names.

@allisonjames2923

Жыл бұрын

@@jaiylahjaii I said one kid’s name because I kind of hope that she maybe reads this & realises that one of her camp counsellors actually cared about her enough to think of her numerous times over several decades. No one but her would know who it is as I’ve given no other identifying details.

So much money and 47 rooms in a castle but the children’s playground isn’t well maintained nor is the lawn around the play area…I hope they treat Connie well. She is a wonderful woman and it does look like she has to do everything with the kids. 😢

I was a nanny for about a year, and I loved it. It was a small family but it was a great time in my life. I felt so loved and I loved the kiddos. It was a different experience than these cases, but it can be an incredible relationship.

How traumatic must in be for these kids to grow up and have a vital character from their upbringing up and leave when their services are no longer needed.. can't imagine how horrifying it is for them in their teen years to have their nannies head out permanently.

@calrey

Жыл бұрын

When I was a child my family wasn't as wealthy as these people but I had a nanny from when I was a baby until about 6 years old. She had to leave and return to her country due to some issues that came up but it was incredibly traumatic. She had been my entire world and it had felt like everything was upside down. As an adult, I still think about her and hope she's ok.

@michlblacksmith

Жыл бұрын

You get used to it, like with every other thing life throws at you. Most likely a small price to pay in return of living such a life. Rich people also have mental problems, like any other people do.

@camelliabell9046

Жыл бұрын

@@michlblacksmith While of course they'll have to find ways to deal with it because they have no choice, this is the person who was essentially taking on the mother-role that is suddenly being ripped away. For all intents and purposes, that would be just as traumatic as a child or teenager losing their mother in a similar way. It could certainly be a trigger that leads to even more mental issues.

@samanthabloom9811

Жыл бұрын

Yeah having the woman I considered my mom just fired like nothing has been something I still won’t forgive my parents for all these years later

@HAIRHOLIC_1

Жыл бұрын

My mother used to babysit this rich family child, they child started to get so attached to my mother and even called her mum, didn’t want to be picked up by her own mother she would run to mine so they fired my mother because they where jealous of the child’s attachment to her

imagine how Heidi will feel if she ever finds out that there is as much sugar in apple juice as there is in fanta...

@One-Ring-To-Rule-Them-All

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 Love your comment 😂😂😂

@amyramirez736

Жыл бұрын

@June Bug , it's the overcontrolling parents that raise the sneakiest liars. This will backfire on her.

@larushka1

Жыл бұрын

It’s not the sugar. It’s the dye.

@alarmz4344

Жыл бұрын

Yep! I used to buy 100% juice and dilute it with a lot of water for the kids

@katherinewilson1853

Жыл бұрын

As Heidi explained, they do not have sweets or cakes either.

The little girl at the end, holding on to Connie "when you die you can leave", "no, when you grow up, I go"

@emeraldhope8829

Жыл бұрын

Right and the Russian young lady playing the violin was not happy. Some of these parents are trying to force their children to be who they want them to be. Boy, are they in for a surprise. Their control is going to backfire on them.

@lindagithaiga1974

Жыл бұрын

What about the bro and sis fighting in the closet and the little boy crying for some comfort 😢

Love the hairdresser’s view on parenthood! It is so so precious and so valuable!

The portrait artist gushing over the mother . And the driver rolling his eyes. I can relate to the driver.

@5014chizuka

Жыл бұрын

The painter knows who’s paying

@lizarrgh

Жыл бұрын

Artist gotta do what the artist gotta do

@PrimaBlablarina

Жыл бұрын

This awful painting has nothing in common with art. And the painter is no artist.

@voyance4elle

Жыл бұрын

No one inside the art world would call that art.

@divahc1

Жыл бұрын

@@voyance4elle 🤣👏

I feel bad for Connie…but more so for her kids. Imagine growing up knowing that your mother had to give her love to other kids and they had a second mother while you had no mom. It’s not her fault because she needed to support her family, but I feel for the kids.

@tsundere8532

Жыл бұрын

my mom was a therapist and I grew up watching her therapy kids love her and she'd give them attention (I would wait for her after school in the break room) but then when she got off work she couldn't handle talking to me. she admitted to ignoring me on purpose multiple times and it led me to believe that love is paid for bc those kids paid for her attention...

@bertram5806

Жыл бұрын

@@tsundere8532 it sucks…I personally didn’t really grow up with my mom. My brothers lived with my mom and I lived with my grandmother on my fathers side. I resented my siblings for being able to have a mom, but I never realized how much they sacrificed for me to be happy until there came a time when we all didn’t have a mom. My father lived with my other sisters and I resented my sisters as well for having a father, but nowadays I want to be closer to my siblings despite where my parents are. I think parents want the best for their kids even if that means sacrificing a bond with their child, but they don’t understand how much of an impact it has on a child. For example there’s a Korean family in another show and the father was absent for 17 years playing baseball. Everyone says he was providing for his children, but why must emotions come after finances. A kid won’t understand that you left them at a young age to put food in the table, but a kid would understand why you can’t buy them expensive toys..but yet you’re always their to support and cheer for them. Of course it is good to be financially stable, but at some point you must make sure your children are emotionally stable. Sorry you went through that..I know how much emotional trauma that gives you and hopefully you are currently healing or have already started healing. Also, sorry for the rant…I’ve just been seeing so many things children have to go through.

@blue...

Жыл бұрын

I don't think this was her only choice to support her family. This job for posh people doesn't worth it.. being a stranger to your own children... she is just a visitor for them. And honestly most of rich people in this video are not good people. They are so self absorbed it is astonishing. There is nothing wrong to have help, but normal people do it so they could have more quality time with their families when they actually have free time from daily job..

@bertram5806

Жыл бұрын

@@blue... obviously…it wasn’t her only choice, but a lot of jobs in the Philippines do not pay enough to take care of a whole family and still have money to send them to study. A lot of women can’t get higher paying jobs as well due to sexism. I also acknowledged that no matter what I feel for the kids and no parent should prioritize other children before their own. Do I feel bad for Connie?..of course, she has a lot of regrets, but she also has a lot of explaining and making up to do although she could never replace those years she left her children with money.

@blue...

Жыл бұрын

@@bertram5806 I don't know what is her situation in life...or was .. I am not judgmental.. but it doesn't seems logical that you have to sacrifice 20 years not being in your children life .. it is not like they are going to be homeless if she leaves this high payment job.. or are they? university is not worth it honestly..

42:30 the look of "am i good enough for you" is so sad. You can just see the sadness in her face and she is not doing this because she wants to, shes doing it for approval of her parents.

How incredibly sad. And, they have no idea how sad it is.

I thought Heidi was *almost* somewhat normal until she just magically expected Marie to read her mind regarding how and what to feed her children. If you have a certain plate or meal structure, like x amount of vegetetables and x amount of main course, make a little diagram for your employee! Or just have a conversation, for goodnesssake. Moreover, that was an INCREDIBLY awkward and inappropriate to discuss in front of the children around minute 27. First of all, if you say a child (or an adult for that matter) cannot have something, they'll just want it even more lol. And you can see on the girls' faces that they KNOW Marie is being reprimanded... Just so CRINGE.

@theroliver9138

Жыл бұрын

on my departure I would leave Hersey kisses under their pillow! That is just over the top to expect this nanny to know it all. And her discussing in front of the children in this way is red flag of what she would mostly likely face, lack of respect and understanding. Wait till the kids get older - they will eat sugary treats and there is not damn thing this mother can do about it.

@MargotHypnos

Жыл бұрын

You could see the kids were craving other foods as they manipulated the nanny into buying them Fanta.

@mstwelvedeadlycyns

Жыл бұрын

That is a recipe for "Wife Swap"!!!!

@lissamk3990

Жыл бұрын

Any time you are leaving your children or some aspect of their care (for example, their meals) to someone else, the very first thing you should do is to give clear instruction on what you expect and what needs to be done. It was ridiculous that she didn't have a more in depth conversation about the dietary expectations in advance of actually having Marie in charge of their food/drink intake.

@MargotHypnos

Жыл бұрын

@@lissamk3990 the mother was "far too" busy doing her high paid work to take time out to explain it to the nanny.

I was a nanny for a few years. Although I love the kids I felt awkward when they said I was "family", but I just assumed that I was just taking the word too literally. Until the last time they left their 4 kids and two dogs for 6 days in my house (because the parents were going on a business trip) and assumed I was doing them a favor because I love them and we were "family". They ended up "tipping me out of the goodness of their heart" (gave me 1/3 of what I deserved) and when I nicely tried to clear the "misunderstanding" the dad literally said that the kids take care of themselves LOL and that I really didn't need to do much (BEAR IN MIND: they're homeschooled, not allowed to play videogames nor watch TV). So yes, I cried out of frustration for a few days and had to pray hard to let any resentment go. I feel sad that some bitterness lingers when I think of that family, even though I still love the kids.

@suzannelove

Жыл бұрын

I would take them to court and get the full value of taking care of kids, room n board n those dogs.

@anipigs

Жыл бұрын

@@suzannelove I hadn't had any issues before, and the mom was usually generous and giving. I took it as a sign to move on to a different job more economically rewarding.

@miyukiharley

Жыл бұрын

I went through something similar . There's no price to put on the people in your child's life , that have loved and cared for them. Yes before my own , I was a nanny / Auntie . I was an only child . The kids I nannyed in my twenties even looked like me . 2 1/2 -3 years I did this , ( some difficult moments? yes ! ) But we did become family . They came to visit me during some hard times during their puberty. Adolescing. They are young families now and Aunties , Uncle's to my own kids . I was wanting to go to school at that time . I gave it up long story . But to be a part of their childhood priceless . What is Love is what is real and lives on . Bless your life and your lessons. Learning to love yourself so you don't get compromised ? Taken me a lifetime . Those kids may end up picking their life partner because they are more like their nanny or care giver you never know . Love does choose. ❤️💖💜

@bymitteiy

Жыл бұрын

Nah, child care is a lot of work that's why people who can afford it get help! It's so rude to drop them off and not pay you your worth, "if they practically take care of themselves" why didn't they take them on the trip... Kmt.

@greekgirl9897

Жыл бұрын

I'll tell you the same thing I ALWAYS TAUGHT MY CHILDREN, ask questions and express concerns, take a little time to think over your decision, if you need more info, such as HOW MUCH DOES THIS JOB PAY and WHAT DO YOU EXPECT FROM ME then ASK! Know what you are getting into BEFORE you agree.

Thank you,mom and dad, for ever been there when we needed you! My parents had a business,too. But they never "outsourced" education, "potty training" or planing our birthdays!

"Everybody should have a nanny!" enthuses the woman who has taken another woman away from her own kids to spend all her time looking after hers

@Siye8899

5 ай бұрын

Esa mujer le quitó el hambre a los hijos de la madre que no tenía qué darles a sus hijos, gracias a que la contrató sus hijos pudieron estudiar la universidad. O prefieres que se hubiera quedado en Filipinas a pasar penurias y hambre?

The vegetarian mom is the most evil kind of employer. She didn't TELL that poor woman what she wanted then was all huffy when she didn't get what she wanted.

@b-chu9747

Жыл бұрын

I can't wait for her husband to dump her aaaa s

@broadwaybaby05

Жыл бұрын

Yes.

@luisai.6258

Жыл бұрын

It felt to me as if she knowingly set her up. And this in front of her children and the TV - you coud see how uncomfortable Marie felt in this scene at the table.

@corriedallas

Жыл бұрын

Agreed! She should have said something in the interview. If she did, it was edited out and the rest was a script.

@prurose8939

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I don't get the logic behind that.

" She loves the family so much " " She is not doing it for the money ". How naive can one be ?

@Brendacikes

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing, so self possessed. Really, she had to sacrifice being with her own children to support them and you think it’s not for money she loves your kids that much. She should be ashamed to let those words come out her mouth.

@honeybunch5765

Жыл бұрын

Ignorant I would say.

@bethewalt7385

Жыл бұрын

This is the grandiose level her delusions have reached, she probably thinks her 💩 doesn't stink anymore as well, this woman is laughable and devoid of soul her husband's wealth stripped her of all her humanity

@The25Sister

Жыл бұрын

She lives in lala land, has no clue.

@charmainetrautwein3018

Жыл бұрын

Entitled

If I had money, I'd definitely hire a chef and a tutor. That's all!

"I have someone else take them to school. Why should "I" have to take them to school??" Answer: Bonding. My 3 yr old son and I actually developed a children's book in the car on the way to daycare. SO MUCH BONDING!

"She doesn't do it for the money..." Anybody else hear _"...because we barely pay her as it is already."_ I really hope Mrs Posh lady is paying Connie what she is worth. She's talking care of 5 kids! I've heard horror stories of nannies -especially the nannies that go to live as a foreigner in a strange country, who are being taken advantage of by their employers. I really hope her salary was increased with each child she saw come into this world.

@ruthmaier755

Жыл бұрын

3…there are 3 childrens

@JannyMaha

Жыл бұрын

@@ruthmaier755 5... Connie takes care of her 5 children.

@luisai.6258

Жыл бұрын

@@ruthmaier755 I think Yanire is right with her number. But even 3 would be a good number for an increased salary. I babysittet 3 kids for some time and they were lovely and kind, but it was still a lot of work - and babysitting is not even close to being a full-time nanny.

@heyheymey8405

Жыл бұрын

Her phone 24:41

@Nae00

Жыл бұрын

Compared to the Austrian lady she seemed nice but it was very obvious she has no idea how much her nanny has had to sacrifice in her life to be there. Like don't think shes a bad boss shes just incredibly oblivious to what regular ppl go through.

Irene Major, former model and wife to oil tycoon, describes her nanny like a sister to her but is depicted as a narcissist with no awareness or care for her nanny who is giving up raising her own children to raise hers. With the amount of money, her and her husband have they could surely afford to pay for visits for the kids so that her “sister” can see her kids more than once ever two years.

@mickidee6714

Жыл бұрын

Agreed! That woman was the worst!! She needs to understand that she’s NO DIFFERENT than the wealthy plantation owners that had slaves. Her mindset is the same. Disgusting.

@sarahm5936

Жыл бұрын

But why would a narcissist care?

@tipsycat27

Жыл бұрын

yes!! That woman has a ludicrous amount of money. It would be a drop in the ocean to even BRING her children to her to live in the UK. There has to be work/life balance and it's the responsibility of the employer to create an equal relationship between the two.

@HAITIANGURL2THICK

Жыл бұрын

I was wondering who she was,

@r.m9437

Жыл бұрын

I would like to know if Irene came from money and not from some shanty village. Funny how these sort of women marry rich and forget their roots. Humble down lady, that would make you so much more attractive and earthly. Tacky gold furniture in that house. no taste whatsoever

There’s definitely an unexpressed emptiness in these mothers investing in these nannies. I see anxiety, insecurity, and broken homes. I wonder what these women’s backgrounds are and their stories…😢💔

Giving your kids your time is precious

There was an emptiness in the young Violin player's eyes... She didn't seem to really love the violin, despite her talent. The young boy who heard his mother say he was to become a scientist gave an epic eye roll. There really is something missing for these kids 💔💔

@RockGodBabe

Жыл бұрын

I've read the comment that she committed suicided at 17, Poor girl.

@user-jo3st1xs1q

Жыл бұрын

@@RockGodBabe NOOOOO please tell me that’s not true!!! 😭 ლ(ٱ٥ٱლ)

@lukeo.6410

Жыл бұрын

@@RockGodBabe it wasn’t suicide. It was an accidental drug overdose. Still very tragic.

@RockGodBabe

Жыл бұрын

@@lukeo.6410 Thank you. It's really tragic.

@rit.x

Жыл бұрын

@@lukeo.6410 Wait what? How? This documentary is recently made, no? How did she turn 17?

The vegan Mum should have given proper and full instructions and directions when the nanny first arrived!

@yay-cat

Жыл бұрын

yeah exactly - if you’re going to be particular then make some lists

@stephanieb7311

Жыл бұрын

Yes especially because the kids lied to the nanny.

@mattkaustickomments

Жыл бұрын

Plus she needs to lighten up a little. I personally hate fizzy drinks & junk food, but let them try it once in awhile or they’ll develop a secret addiction to it later in life. And to just let them be kids! Btw, Fanta was developed by Nazis. I’m not kidding.

@notever_everytime5074

Жыл бұрын

The super rich love to nitpick others, it's their great joy. What else are they to do with their time? If they gave full instructions, they'd miss out on their fun.

@Emanuella166

Жыл бұрын

she sould get a vegan nanny, not a

Heidi should have made the expectations clear concerning the children’s diet, especially since she said it was so important to her.

I was upper class when I was little (my dad’s company that specialized in manufacturing took a hit after manufacturing mostly moved to china) and my nanny was definitely like a second mom. Obviously I loved and love my mom and she has always made sure to be present for important milestones, but me and my brothers were super attached to the nanny and we all cried when she had to leave the family bc of personal life stuff. I don’t really remember her that well now though since I was really young when she had to go. We had a lot of staff and people that would do all the work in the house

I gave up my high paying job when I had my girl because I couldn't imagine leaving her with someone else. This was a shock to watch. These kids have everything in the world except the most important thing every kid needs and craves, the caring attention that only parents can provide.

@angelabarnes1675

Жыл бұрын

MOST of them are raised like this... Robin Williams, Trump, Angelina Jolie when she 1st got all the kids, theres many many more. I really think that's why so many deal with major depression and are constantly doing destructive behavior. It's sad, it really is!! I don't envy them at all, it's a hollow life.

@sofia_aa

Жыл бұрын

My dad did something similar when i was a kid. Me and my brother were having some attitude problems so we went to see a therapist. She revealed to my parents that me and my brother didnt perceive our dad as part of our family. So he left his job and started to spend more time with us. It was like meeting someone for the first time. It took us a long time to construct a good relationship but it was worth it. We may not be as economically privileged as many years ago what we do have a strong family bond. Now that i think about it i feel really really grateful for all the things both my parents gave up to raise me and my brother.

@memawknowsbest4978

Жыл бұрын

I had 4 kids under the age of 3, the oldest was diagnosed as severely autistic while I was pregnant with the youngest which were twins, and all boys. My husband and I made a decision that I should stay at home and be a mom, unless we had no other option than for me to work. Between the first being born and the last moving out (the oldest still lives at home) I only worked outside the home for about one year total. And we are glad we did it that way. I wouldn't trade the time I got to spend with my kids for any amount of money, and they didn't seem to notice that we weren't rich. They have gone on to college, marriage and fatherhood, so now I get to be a grandma and have fun watching the next generation of our family grow up. It breaks my heart that my grandkids had to go to daycare so early, but we don't live close enough to help out with childcare. But the kids seem to be doing ok with it, and I understand the need for it. But these women seemed to be just selfish about taking the time to raise their own kids. The one seemed more maternal towards her dogs than to her kids, and they were all kind of horrible people.

@mw2341

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! I would use paid help so I can be with my kids. Lol! I know this is the reverse but I'd like to be around my kids most of the time. . Someone else can do the cleaning and the cooking and the washing , etc.,

@eliza-janebreseman5844

Жыл бұрын

@@mw2341 me too! I would totally do that too

As a single mother who worked as a nanny for an ultra wealthy family the only thing I ever envied about their life was the free time the mother had. They always chose to spend their time away from their children. I couldn’t understand why when that was the most precious to me and I had to miss out on in order to support my child. The biggest disappointment of my life so far has been having to put my child in daycare. My heart goes out to that nanny who only sees her kids once every two years.

@juliannehannes11

Жыл бұрын

Daycare teaches kids to socialize, make friends, and to share, its workers are required to take child development courses and psychology and most are college students and empty nesters and most daycares today offer STEM workshops and motor skills development aide and ALL daycares have strict safety protocols. Kids love daycare because they're with kids their own age in a casual play setting and play games, build, and do creative projects.

@juliannehannes11

Жыл бұрын

@@ANEEAMA I agree, I'm a daycare worker, to children I am Miss Julie who feeds them healthy snacks, gatekeeper to the cabodle of endless stick on rhinestones, the one who reads with silly voices, and recess mediator, I am anything but their mom, I am basically a caregiver camp conselor snack lady. Only one kid has called me mom and it was as a joke as she calls the pet turtle mom and everyone mom.

@Hallelujur

Жыл бұрын

I agree, it's also my regret that I put my child in daycare. There's no place like home!

@ReemTahir

Жыл бұрын

@@juliannehannes11 I think you misunderstood her point. It's not that day care is bad for kids, it's that as a working mom she regrets not being able to spend quality time with her own children while having to expend that energy to a strangers child.

@percyjackson5417

Жыл бұрын

@@ReemTahir well having that being her biggest disappointment insinuates that she wouldnt do that again if given another chance. Daycare is important whether the parent likes it or not. Having a child form unhealthy attachments to parents is not good. Its not about what u want, its about what ur child needs

I’d like to see a follow-up documentary when these kids hit their 30s and have a mental breakdown because they finally realize how messed up their childhood was.

Oh, and that portrait is absolutely gorgeous! He's a gifted portrait artist!

@saschamayer4050

2 ай бұрын

Is that a joke or are you serious?

Insane that these people would agree to do this documentary because all it did was prove that rich people are completely out of touch with the normal human experience and are possibly raising a bunch of entitled children with no ability to form normal relationships when you’ve taught them to offload all relationship burdens on a paid professional instead of dealing with any difficulties yourself. The super rich couldn’t survive 1 second as a normal person, and I only find disgust in my heart for them.

@Sue700

Жыл бұрын

The children grow up not even knowing their own parents !!Poor excuse ..They r raising a generation of Borderline personality disorders !! Quite sad really.

@happycook6737

Жыл бұрын

The UHNW families are secretly proud to be the way they are.

@chrisathian5450

Жыл бұрын

dont be jealous of the rich.

@Peace.Beyond.All.Understanding

Жыл бұрын

Textbook narcissism

@pinlight97

Жыл бұрын

They’re narcissists so they love it.

My career was very demanding, so I had a live in nanny for the first couple of years after my child was born. One day my toddler called her mama and it stopped me in my tracks. I sat in my beautiful corner glass window office with a gorgeous view and thought how I was missing out on my family life for what? For money? My mom grew up with a staff of help and I still hear her talk about how much fun she had with her nannies, and how she was the favorite over my aunts, etc. I don't recall that sort of affection towards my grandmother. I still keep in touch with my nanny. Thankfully, my mother was more involved. I realized my son's nanny, as much as I got to adore her, was living my life. She was enjoying my house, my child, my pool, my cars, my life. Whilst I was away just working for all that which I would enjoy on spare time. I thought long and hard about my life and priorities. Long story short, I retired in my mid 30s and have been a stay at home mom since. There isn't a dinner I miss with my family now. My son once asked me if I've ever regretted leaving my "posh" life to be a "soccer mom" per say, not one bit! Its the best decision I've ever made. Gucci doesn't give me random hugs bc it loves me, or build memories.

@allisonjames2923

Жыл бұрын

I wish you were able to share that insight with many of these women. Particularly the ones who bust their butts working at high demand jobs to have a certain lifestyle that they don’t really get to enjoy.

@denisenoe7746

Жыл бұрын

You have your preferences and other moms have theirs.

@redrightsue1346

Жыл бұрын

@@denisenoe7746 True. Others will have really great Dr's and Nurses by their death beds, hopefully not regretting missing on love and affection from their children.

@denisenoe7746

Жыл бұрын

@@redrightsue1346 You can't know their kids love them less. Donald Trump delegated parenthood and has good relations with his kids. I respect your preferences but you can't dictate what other moms choose. Their kids may love them for selecting such good caregivers.

@denisenoe7746

Жыл бұрын

@@redrightsue1346 I don't care. I am childless and jobless.

"They don't even know the word Fanta" yeah ok. They don't live under a rock. Of course they have. 🙄

It's not healthy for a child to just be allowed to punch a grown man, the chaufeur. He doesn't dare set limits, but that is what that girl is looking for.

That mother who said she WANTS her son to go to Cambridge or Oxford and she WANTS him to be a scientist is probably the worst kind of parent. Kids are more than just what YOU want them to be. They’re their own person and they have their own dreams and aspirations in life. Parents should GUIDE and not FORCE kids into what they want to be in life or what they want to do. It’s just sad seeing when she said she wants him to be a scientist, he rolled his eyes and sighed like he’s probably heard her saying that to every person she’s ever introduced him to. It’s just sad, very sad.

@heidiheidi0

Жыл бұрын

I thought that was funny that she said that because scientists do not get paid anywhere near the lifestyle that she has.

@eM_eM77x

Жыл бұрын

Very sad indeed. He's being treated as if he's some kind of product off an assembly line. Just in that quick moment though, I sense he's going to be an amazing man one day. Maybe he will writhe against the control and become a great person despite it all.

@rayva1

Жыл бұрын

In Asia, there is a term called “Tiger Mom.” She fits the perfect description of such.

@amandafeliciano542

Жыл бұрын

I tell my kids all the time, it's not my job to tell them who they are, it's their job to tell me who they are.

A girl punches her brother with a boxing glove, he cries and no one is there to hug and comfort him and discipline her. No nanny, no chauffeur, no chef, no assistant, no siblings and most important no parents...meanwhile mum is talking about her (she said well mannered-one makes fun of chauffeur's accent, other hits her brother) children's modeling in her catalog. Isn't that sad?

@HelloNewMoon

Жыл бұрын

For real. All that staff and 0 supervision or care somehow.

@thisfacebelievesyou8862

Жыл бұрын

That’s the thing though. While no one was there to comfort that little boy, there definitely was a camera capturing every moment of his distress. Meanwhile mommy is hamming it up in another room and the father is just a picture on the wall.

@partainkara

Жыл бұрын

and i could be wrong but i doubt those kids are getting paid. so she just gets to use them for free labor.

@qdkittenb2655

Жыл бұрын

Bur..the cameras are watching them 😳

@naadilee1316

Жыл бұрын

Im confused? Why does he need comforting? Kids or siblings play fight and end up hurting each other all the time. It's part of growing up. Running to comfort a child over something so trivial is not a good thing. If anything that is the one normal, non spoiled thing going on in this video.

Salute to Connie also to all my fellow filipino who left their family behind to give their child a good future👏👏👏

That chauffeur those three kids have is the classiest person in this whole video. ❤️👌😁