Drug Addicted Couple-Ashley and Patrick

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  • @buddhaganesh6318
    @buddhaganesh631827 күн бұрын

    How dare he want to make another family when he's got six kids that he does not take care of

  • @robinblix4079

    @robinblix4079

    26 күн бұрын

    Agreed

  • @AnaFernandez-jp5uh

    @AnaFernandez-jp5uh

    25 күн бұрын

    And this genius thinks he cannot be extradited from Colorado. The states set a hearing and off you go!

  • @tundrawomansays694

    @tundrawomansays694

    24 күн бұрын

    It’s hard to know other people’s lives. I listen and learn. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone. I wish people understood some people who come from traumatic backgrounds are successful. We live in your neighborhood. We’re your neighbors. We serve our families, our communities and care deeply about them. *Please know it’s a hella climb out but it can be done.* Show up for yourselves. What else have ya got?

  • @Decades-pl2kl

    @Decades-pl2kl

    22 күн бұрын

    Taking custody of kids once they reach 13 so they can live on the streets or in a hotel while your girl is nodding out, is a pipe dream.

  • @billybarrett1

    @billybarrett1

    21 күн бұрын

    I know that is 🤢 sick

  • @MeghanS9883
    @MeghanS988327 күн бұрын

    He hyperfoucuses on her addiction etc so he doesn't have to discuss his own failures and addictions.

  • @leneo1731

    @leneo1731

    26 күн бұрын

    Denial at it's best. The fact that he believes they can get it good if she just stops the Fentanyl is just mind blowing. If he'd been 16, I'd totally got it but he's a grown man. It's so ery sad to see people in such denial, especially when there are children involved.

  • @AngryHateMusic

    @AngryHateMusic

    26 күн бұрын

    13:39 His worst addiction is more than just chemical... and he "loves it."

  • @eightbitsurrenderomi4148

    @eightbitsurrenderomi4148

    26 күн бұрын

    True but she could easily die from fentanyl

  • @leneo1731

    @leneo1731

    25 күн бұрын

    @@eightbitsurrenderomi4148 Yes, she could. So could he. Almost all drugs available on the streets of LA is laced with Fentanyl. People who've smoked meth their whole life suddenly find themselves doing crazy things they've never done before, like having hours and hours they can't remember or falling asleep just after smoking. Many addicts have stated that they're in fact afraid of smoking meth these days because they fear they won't wake up afterwards. They're at risk both of them, not only her dying of an overdose. They're prostitutes. That put their lives at risk. Also being around the people on Skid Row in general is a highly dangerous way of living. So again, he's delutional when he's making her Fentanyl use out as the only problem they're having.

  • @electricsnut

    @electricsnut

    24 күн бұрын

    To be fair, you don’t even realise you’re doing it

  • @tiffanyandrus08
    @tiffanyandrus0827 күн бұрын

    They speak of the brother in disgust who's an addict and has 8 kids that he doesn't take care of. Meanwhile they are addicts who have 8 children between the two of them, that they don't take care of. It's sad to see the false sense of reality that addiction causes.

  • @baublesanddolls

    @baublesanddolls

    27 күн бұрын

    I noticed that too, especially when he said it and has five kids of his own. They’re in such denial. Where does he think he’s going to live when he gets his kids, which will never happen.

  • @angelc8712

    @angelc8712

    27 күн бұрын

    Yesssss I thought the same thing. “Yes he worse, he still lives at home” okay at least he has a place to lay his head.

  • @meredithdanenberg3723

    @meredithdanenberg3723

    27 күн бұрын

    These two especially the guy are delusional. You do not have your kids due to your life choices.

  • @theonotmybrotherskeeper

    @theonotmybrotherskeeper

    27 күн бұрын

    And they laughed at the idea that there's multiple women he's fathered children with. Um excuse me? That's funny to you?

  • @Robin-yq4ro

    @Robin-yq4ro

    27 күн бұрын

    So True.. So into thier Addiction Textbook, denial

  • @heyyou228
    @heyyou22827 күн бұрын

    Of course he doesnt mind her escorting she probably pays for everything

  • @ksouthern1212

    @ksouthern1212

    26 күн бұрын

    Hey, you!

  • @jeff1130
    @jeff113027 күн бұрын

    When I was 14 years old. My parents. Found cigarettis marijuana on me.... They watched everything I did. They check my bags. They check my clothes. They talked to my teachers.they wouldn't let me have any time to myself They made my life hell....when i turned 16 i asked my parents for a car. They told me to get a job. At that time. I was so mad at them... Now I am 50 and I appreciate everything. My parents did for me.

  • @frederick5569

    @frederick5569

    27 күн бұрын

    god bless

  • @michaelbays4419

    @michaelbays4419

    27 күн бұрын

    Ashley Patrick don't be a statistic get your s*** together and let's do something good in this world for the rest of our years in Jesus name we pray amen

  • @deboramckinnon6982

    @deboramckinnon6982

    27 күн бұрын

    My parents were exactly the same way

  • @jareds9863

    @jareds9863

    27 күн бұрын

    Nope. Glad it worked for you though

  • @silasmarner7586

    @silasmarner7586

    27 күн бұрын

    Standard Operating Procedure. I have no complaints whatsoever.

  • @thexbooksx
    @thexbooksx27 күн бұрын

    the aggressive hand-holding couples are never good.

  • @zoiefinnian3540

    @zoiefinnian3540

    12 күн бұрын

    Your comment is Stupid.

  • @tambourine36

    @tambourine36

    6 сағат бұрын

    It's creepy

  • @rubyb525
    @rubyb52527 күн бұрын

    he is guilt tripping her! they are both a MESS!

  • @williamsherman2776

    @williamsherman2776

    26 күн бұрын

    But she’s worse tho and she at least can acknowledge that

  • @Decades-pl2kl

    @Decades-pl2kl

    22 күн бұрын

    She was doing the same thing unless you just want to focus on one person

  • @MikeyD0
    @MikeyD027 күн бұрын

    8 kids without their parents. Sad stuff man. Pathetic really.

  • @Lilliesandlilacs

    @Lilliesandlilacs

    27 күн бұрын

    It was sad when it happened to these two also. I guess what people don't understand when they make comments like yours, is that less it stopped unless the issue is fixed those children are going to also have a bunch of children without parents. And then you'll blame them .

  • @Lilliesandlilacs

    @Lilliesandlilacs

    27 күн бұрын

    It was sad when it happened to these two also. I guess what people don't understand when they make comments like yours, is that less it stopped unless the issue is fixed those children are going to also have a bunch of children without parents. And then you'll blame them .

  • @Noah204.

    @Noah204.

    27 күн бұрын

    Yup… just keep breading all doped up too.

  • @thanos7110

    @thanos7110

    27 күн бұрын

    16 counting the brother

  • @chicaliqc

    @chicaliqc

    27 күн бұрын

    The cycle continues

  • @JennHawk
    @JennHawk27 күн бұрын

    He is her pimp. Plain and simple. He won't let go of his cash cow. She thinks he loves her. He should be scared for the day she can see clearly enough she will see right through him.

  • @Treefiddy35054

    @Treefiddy35054

    26 күн бұрын

    You’re right!

  • @veevee2704

    @veevee2704

    20 күн бұрын

    I agree, he is using her !

  • @carlitasway2477

    @carlitasway2477

    8 күн бұрын

    She knows he’s using her

  • @jessicam5712

    @jessicam5712

    8 күн бұрын

    If she gets sober, this relationship is over.

  • @kylee2942

    @kylee2942

    6 күн бұрын

    ​@@jessicam5712 *she will only get sober if she leaves him*

  • @ddz1375
    @ddz137527 күн бұрын

    He is so proud of himself yet screams insecure weak man.

  • @Noah204.

    @Noah204.

    27 күн бұрын

    He looks like a coward

  • @RougeMaster

    @RougeMaster

    27 күн бұрын

    ​@@Noah204. Yeah POS can get it together for his children let alone for himself

  • @LoloO42

    @LoloO42

    27 күн бұрын

    What??!!! He's a high end escort! Isn't he gorgeous? I mean, any woman would pay big bucks for a piece of that. 😅😂

  • @gailmendez5465

    @gailmendez5465

    27 күн бұрын

    They still love their lifestyle. So they not ready to change yet.

  • @LP-jn4tw

    @LP-jn4tw

    26 күн бұрын

    Well, any man who thinks he gets to "allow" a woman to live her life his way is textbook toxic controlling.

  • @morgenmachen2400
    @morgenmachen240027 күн бұрын

    The way mark chuckled when guy said he's a straight male escort💀

  • @Gram72534

    @Gram72534

    27 күн бұрын

    Hi, MM. Lol I laughed as well!! You know Mark almost said who would pay to sleep with someone like you??? He caught himself in the end, LMAO!!! Have a great day my friend! They just said they were coming to Colorado, I will have to keep an eye out...

  • @sherilyngiordano886

    @sherilyngiordano886

    27 күн бұрын

    Facts...who he fooling 😅

  • @morgenmachen2400

    @morgenmachen2400

    27 күн бұрын

    @@Gram72534 just finished the interview.. the self delusion is almost infuriating. He better stay the hell away from those kids until he's had it together for an extended amount of time. Then, maybe if they want to contact him.. He acts like he even has an OPTION for custody of those boys (who certainly DO need therapy after all he's put them through). Oh Gram I'm getting mad and it's too early lol. Is it true there's no extradition in CO?

  • @MrImadummy

    @MrImadummy

    27 күн бұрын

    Lmao then he was like who would pay for that

  • @JB-ku7kv

    @JB-ku7kv

    27 күн бұрын

    Yeah Marks a clown and a degenerate, just a diff style

  • @Walterliquori
    @Walterliquori27 күн бұрын

    Addiction is so powerful it makes you choose up over your kids . In 2002 my daughter was born at the time I was addicted to heroin . The first time I saw her in the hospital I knew I had to change . That was my last detox stint and then I got on methadone for a few years . I haven’t don’t drugs since my daughter is 22 now and thriving a great human . The love I had for that little kid made me stop . It can be done .

  • @carolseven3802

    @carolseven3802

    27 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! Every little girl wants her daddy and it’s for life.

  • @Robin-yq4ro

    @Robin-yq4ro

    27 күн бұрын

    Methadone Sober? Just curious, if that's even a thing?

  • @Walterliquori

    @Walterliquori

    27 күн бұрын

    @@Robin-yq4ro yeah it’s from a doctor . Like insulin for diabetes . You don’t get high in the program . Also you aren’t scoring street drugs

  • @Walterliquori

    @Walterliquori

    27 күн бұрын

    @@carolseven3802 🙏

  • @Cotillion308

    @Cotillion308

    27 күн бұрын

    It doesnt get a person high if they have a tolerance. Especially coming from fentanyl. Same with suboxone. That stuff dont do nothing if you are coming off of H or fentanyl. ​@Robin-yq4ro

  • @Ryan-KushLifeDragons
    @Ryan-KushLifeDragons27 күн бұрын

    Codependency is a twisted addiction.

  • @JBE608

    @JBE608

    26 күн бұрын

    💯

  • @roniatx
    @roniatx25 күн бұрын

    This dude is a sociopath. He's controlling this woman. She knows it. But too late. So now she stays high to avoid facing it. He's smiling, she's broken.

  • @lovejoy7
    @lovejoy726 күн бұрын

    he actually makes me sick. Ashley wake up, get away from him and get clean

  • @StudioSouster
    @StudioSouster26 күн бұрын

    I PMSL when he said he was a straight male escort and Mark asked who would pay for that. Exactly the question everyone wanted answering 😂

  • @ironzude7762

    @ironzude7762

    8 күн бұрын

    Right!!! 😂

  • @potterlinda02
    @potterlinda0227 күн бұрын

    stop having children!!!!

  • @carolseven3802

    @carolseven3802

    27 күн бұрын

    He wants more with her.

  • @lburton8281

    @lburton8281

    27 күн бұрын

    Spay and neuter

  • @Cotillion308

    @Cotillion308

    27 күн бұрын

    I don't get it. My buddy works and is there for his son, yet if he so much as turns child support in an hour late he gets a warrant put on him. Then you have people like this. Multiple children with thousands in unpaid child support and the law doesn't care. The system is rigged against those that try.

  • @917hazel

    @917hazel

    24 күн бұрын

    @@carolseven3802 They are disconnected from reality, even tho the reality they are in is so very harsh. Hence, the drugs and other addictions…

  • @billybarrett1

    @billybarrett1

    21 күн бұрын

    Ikr

  • @katethewholenesshomeembody6024
    @katethewholenesshomeembody602427 күн бұрын

    “I want to start a naked house cleaning business, it’s time to grow up”

  • @notreallyafamousartist695

    @notreallyafamousartist695

    27 күн бұрын

    ☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️

  • @DonnellOkafor-pd7yn

    @DonnellOkafor-pd7yn

    26 күн бұрын

    Noone would hire a naked junkie to clean their house. She'd rob them blind

  • @hellraisincraisin
    @hellraisincraisin27 күн бұрын

    There’s 8 children out there right now wondering about their mother and father 😞 Edit to add: right after I posted this comment, Mark asked them what they think about this lifestyle? The gentleman excitedly explains “I love it!” Think about the children man….

  • @sandradee4391

    @sandradee4391

    27 күн бұрын

    Made me sad when they both laughed when asked about children. 😢

  • @crystallc8871

    @crystallc8871

    27 күн бұрын

    For me it was the chuckle after him saying he has 5 kids with 3 different women. 🤦‍♀️

  • @sharong8511

    @sharong8511

    27 күн бұрын

    Now there’s a father to look up to with respect, huh 🤔 Unemployed. Face tattoos. Methhead. Uneducated. Sperm donor of six, father of none.

  • @sarahnoah3693

    @sarahnoah3693

    27 күн бұрын

    When you’re on drugs, you can’t feel. Totally self-centered.

  • @SammyJoe-xc2ky

    @SammyJoe-xc2ky

    27 күн бұрын

    I immediately tought of the movie idiocracy 😂

  • @lauriebrown9714
    @lauriebrown971427 күн бұрын

    The body language on these drug addicted couples is always the same.

  • @wockqueefa

    @wockqueefa

    26 күн бұрын

    the women always have their arms on their lap & the guys hand is always on the.

  • @elledub412

    @elledub412

    25 күн бұрын

    I know all weird and clingy

  • @toddjohnson1899

    @toddjohnson1899

    25 күн бұрын

    She hates his guts n would be gone in a second. I bet he's spent alot time wondering where she is. When it all falls down these 2 need each other to survive. She won't be here to much longer n he will fall off way worse than he is now til he completely burns out.

  • @beacarr9652

    @beacarr9652

    22 күн бұрын

    The females are literally an appendage of the controlling man. Throwback to Lil Mama and her narcissistic abusive pimp. Really sad.

  • @faroshscale

    @faroshscale

    2 күн бұрын

    the woman always looks extremely uncomfortable and dissociative and the man is always weirdly touchy feely.

  • @user-li7lt4xq2t
    @user-li7lt4xq2t27 күн бұрын

    Just imagine if illegal drugs were laced with birth control. That's what is needed!

  • @jensandersen7011

    @jensandersen7011

    27 күн бұрын

    Well said.

  • @alyssachausse6752

    @alyssachausse6752

    20 күн бұрын

    Not a bad idea

  • @Faithmadelegacy

    @Faithmadelegacy

    19 күн бұрын

    This

  • @ministryofpeacekmk

    @ministryofpeacekmk

    19 күн бұрын

    ✔️

  • @Trees100

    @Trees100

    12 күн бұрын

    Excellent idea! How can it happen?

  • @powerralley
    @powerralley26 күн бұрын

    No love here. He's her pimp. When she uses fentanyl she cannot turn tricks and is at an increased risk of overdose. If he loses her, he loses his own fix and he's scared of that. He plays on her emotions with fake crying, but all he can think of is drugs. This situation is more predatory than it appears. She no angel, but she might be able to get out of this if he stopped holding her down.

  • @airadaimagery692

    @airadaimagery692

    25 күн бұрын

    Whatchoo talkin about, he’s an escort!!

  • @7777VANITY

    @7777VANITY

    18 күн бұрын

    Exactly 💯 my thoughts too 🎯

  • @menlikegods363
    @menlikegods36327 күн бұрын

    Some people aren't happy unless they're miserable and misery loves company. This couple is a prime example of both of those axioms.

  • @amaralanaysia1101

    @amaralanaysia1101

    27 күн бұрын

    Not sure if that’s the case

  • @theonotmybrotherskeeper

    @theonotmybrotherskeeper

    27 күн бұрын

    They're both miserable, definitely. He seems upset about her using a different drug than his, and upset that she gets more calls for escorts than he does, and clearly does think differently for what she does. And she doesn't seem to care about him wanting her off fentanyl and is allowing this man to talk over her and answer for her. This seems very similar to a relationship I was in. "Oh we fight and bicker constantly but we're lifers, we'll be together forever." No you guys are sick and fueling each other's addictions and delusions of how life actually works. This could spiral into the final overdose, or one of them killing the other. This. Is. Not. Healthy. And knowing they love the lifestyle, an addict told me once "you have to want to quit, and I don't want to quit, therefore they'll never be able to make me" Also, "My kids will choose me" but "I broke into their mom's house" in the same conversation scares me. "They got my son going to fucking therapy" um yeah he probably needs it, his father is an addict and prostitute who isn't part of his life, and who knows what his mom is like??

  • @plutoplatters

    @plutoplatters

    27 күн бұрын

    Soooooooo true. Known a few in my life.

  • @Phor0phor

    @Phor0phor

    27 күн бұрын

    “Some people aren’t happy unless they’re miserable.”. Who are you picturing when you say this? Someone you’re bitter with? Because that’s one of the most ignorant comments here. What you’re doing is victim blaming. “Well, they could stop so they must be happy”. How 2 dimensional your thinking must be. Life must be so simply for you in black and white.

  • @Cotillion308

    @Cotillion308

    27 күн бұрын

    They are exactly like a couple I know. The guy was even a brick layer. Fight all the time, yet will never leave one another. They both whine about loving their kids yet when they had them all they did was stay high. He even complains about his mother not taking his kids in.

  • @swimmachica
    @swimmachica26 күн бұрын

    He has 6 kids with 3 women and says he wants to start another family… so irresponsible

  • @unicornhollowhomestead
    @unicornhollowhomestead26 күн бұрын

    Living in a total fantasy land. I remember those days. Thankful to be celebrating 10 years clean this summer. I hope these two find their way out of the darkness.

  • @celticwarrior777

    @celticwarrior777

    24 күн бұрын

    Well done getting clean ❤

  • @janejohnson9429

    @janejohnson9429

    23 күн бұрын

    I was just thinking they are living in a fantasy land and wondering about the psychological process going on here. Do you think they believe the things they say?

  • @anubisthacutest4752

    @anubisthacutest4752

    22 күн бұрын

    You get to the point where you actually do believe the bs coming out of your mouth. ​@@janejohnson9429

  • @jessicam5712

    @jessicam5712

    8 күн бұрын

    I just made it to ten years in February, congratulations!

  • @mtbiker4life918
    @mtbiker4life91827 күн бұрын

    No happy ending to this story.

  • @Jess023
    @Jess02327 күн бұрын

    Dude you can't have any of your kids until you are clean with a home

  • @notreallyafamousartist695

    @notreallyafamousartist695

    27 күн бұрын

    Still can’t have any kids, don’t throw them into that😭, on top of that they’re going to have addict genetics it’s just evil to do that to a kid for no reason

  • @stephanies7284

    @stephanies7284

    20 күн бұрын

    He's delusional. I have a dad like him and they love to blame others for their life circumstances. They never take accountability. I went no contact with him 14 years ago and I don't regret it.

  • @Jess023

    @Jess023

    20 күн бұрын

    @@stephanies7284 yeah my child's other parent isn't an addict but a narcissist so never takes accountability and chooses themselves and others over my child and isn't in his life much.

  • @Jess023

    @Jess023

    20 күн бұрын

    @@notreallyafamousartist695 I can see if he stayed clean with a home that would be different but I honestly don't see that happening anytime soon. Especially when it matters most with his kids being under 18

  • @Jess023

    @Jess023

    20 күн бұрын

    @@notreallyafamousartist695 and didn't he say he loves this lifestyle? Not sure cuz I watch so many of these 😂 so he won't change imo

  • @jamiepreston1490
    @jamiepreston149027 күн бұрын

    Anybody calling them for a escort needs a checkup from the neck up.

  • @k_j_n1242

    @k_j_n1242

    26 күн бұрын

    ​@CalestineUberAlles-yv8gq🤣🤣🤣💀

  • @k_j_n1242

    @k_j_n1242

    26 күн бұрын

    Right 💯

  • @seefeelsixtynine
    @seefeelsixtynine27 күн бұрын

    8 children have suffered from their selfishness

  • @rebeccabourque7704

    @rebeccabourque7704

    27 күн бұрын

    It’ll be more than that if the kids don’t break the cycle.

  • @seefeelsixtynine

    @seefeelsixtynine

    27 күн бұрын

    @@rebeccabourque7704 so true..the trauma and dysfunction becomes intergenerational..

  • @tarheelpetey2283
    @tarheelpetey228327 күн бұрын

    Ol boy has learned that his fake cry cuts deep with her. Never seen a dude fake cry so much. He uses that yo control her

  • @notreallyafamousartist695

    @notreallyafamousartist695

    27 күн бұрын

    I just got to that part, damn she’s cooked She’s super cooked it’s over he got her bad

  • @Mizz.Person

    @Mizz.Person

    23 күн бұрын

    On and off like a switch. The "nice" comments he says are backhanded. As in little digs and insults. He blames her a lot and seems to not be a very nice guy.

  • @thebjm1967

    @thebjm1967

    8 күн бұрын

    He turns that on and off like a switch. So manipulative

  • @ctrl_alt_delete4729
    @ctrl_alt_delete472927 күн бұрын

    She’s actually very smart if you listen to her. She knows right from wrong but her actions don’t show how articulate she really is. It’s a shame she doesn’t make the right decisions due to the drugs. They have 8 kids between the two of them that’s what’s the sad part is.

  • @user-li7lt4xq2t

    @user-li7lt4xq2t

    27 күн бұрын

    I don't understand how they take every drug but birth control.

  • @ctrl_alt_delete4729

    @ctrl_alt_delete4729

    27 күн бұрын

    @@user-li7lt4xq2t no shit!

  • @Cotillion308

    @Cotillion308

    27 күн бұрын

    ​@@user-li7lt4xq2t right! Every drug but

  • @leneo1731

    @leneo1731

    26 күн бұрын

    @@user-li7lt4xq2t Did you listen? She's obviously on birth control now. These two have been together for 9 years and have no children together.

  • @leneo1731

    @leneo1731

    26 күн бұрын

    She's a lot wiser than him. And she's being responsible and not getting any more children. So her actions are actually not all bad.

  • @pablofanito6308
    @pablofanito630827 күн бұрын

    CLEAN AND SOBER SINCE 2017 YOU CAN DO IT ,,,YOU ALL CAN DO IT,,, I ROBBED A BANK AT END OF MY DOWNSLIDE ,,,, TURNED MYSELF IN AND GOT DRUG COURT,,, GRADUATED DRUG COURT AND BEEN CLEAN ,,,,FEELING GREAT ,,,LIFE IS GREAT GOD IS GREAT

  • @Rita-yw2tn

    @Rita-yw2tn

    27 күн бұрын

    Good for you ! Although, I’ve never met you before I’m very proud of you ! I’m 3 years myself and like you said anyone can do it we’re proof of it ! 👏👏👏

  • @mollyswanner1607

    @mollyswanner1607

    26 күн бұрын

    Congratulations!

  • @kaileymcclain2391

    @kaileymcclain2391

    26 күн бұрын

    Please learn to use periods, not commas when continuing a thought ❤ one foot in front of the other

  • @myredpencil

    @myredpencil

    26 күн бұрын

    @@kaileymcclain2391 Even I of the Red Pencil would cut Pablo a break. His commas are like structural breaks between powerful caps. Sober caps. And sober commas, because Pablo isn't done. He gets commas because he earned some damn commas,,,,

  • @BIGGER_RED

    @BIGGER_RED

    26 күн бұрын

    So proud of you!! Seriously!!

  • @megancolasono1108
    @megancolasono110827 күн бұрын

    This couple is the definition of codependency. “A psychological condition or a relationship in which a person manifesting low self-esteem and a strong desire for approval has an unhealthy attachment to another person and places the needs of that person before his or her own.” -Marriam Webster Also I think that because she doesn’t use his “drug of choice” he is so against her using drugs/opiates. But I guarantee if she used uppers he would be just fine with her drug use.

  • @sharong8511

    @sharong8511

    27 күн бұрын

    No he wouldn’t. He’d have to share it with her then.

  • @rp42069

    @rp42069

    27 күн бұрын

    He does fent, it's in everything. The meth he does certainly has it in it. So he is only fooling himself

  • @THEALCOHOLICdAYTRADER-vd5ti

    @THEALCOHOLICdAYTRADER-vd5ti

    27 күн бұрын

    That's actually not the definition of codependency, but you did put it in "quotes".

  • @oldenoneinMT

    @oldenoneinMT

    27 күн бұрын

    In all fairness I get that he doesn't want her to risk overdosing again and again. It's a scarey thing to have someone's life in your hands.

  • @notreallyafamousartist695

    @notreallyafamousartist695

    27 күн бұрын

    @@THEALCOHOLICdAYTRADER-vd5tithis couple actually is the definition of codependency, the commenter above just used an example that had nothing to do with it lmfao idk why

  • @joeandersen6553
    @joeandersen655327 күн бұрын

    She is pretty sharp. Drugs steal your light.

  • @babygayle6842
    @babygayle684220 күн бұрын

    This reminds me so much of my relationship with my ex. Thank God I finally saw the light and left. I supported that man for over 10 years selling my body while he pretended to love me. I’m clean and sober for over 5 years now and he’s with the next young girl doing exactly what I used to do. He’ll never change.

  • @Mrs.P2021

    @Mrs.P2021

    9 күн бұрын

    I am so proud of you for getting away from that life! I have almost 5 years clean myself! We do recover!!

  • @Slim_T_ODB
    @Slim_T_ODB27 күн бұрын

    She wants to leave him.

  • @ItsN3rdy

    @ItsN3rdy

    27 күн бұрын

    she'll stay using fent and OD

  • @carolseven3802

    @carolseven3802

    27 күн бұрын

    @@ItsN3rdyI believe so too. She said she doesn’t care.

  • @chelseacrum7562

    @chelseacrum7562

    26 күн бұрын

    I want her to leave him!!!!

  • @airadaimagery692

    @airadaimagery692

    25 күн бұрын

    @@chelseacrum7562she’s is. She’s going to be leaving everybody at the rate she’s going.

  • @user-sk2px6ox7m

    @user-sk2px6ox7m

    24 күн бұрын

    But he will save her life others wont

  • @randyc9656
    @randyc965627 күн бұрын

    She’s just a meal ticket for his food and drugs

  • @adams8830
    @adams883027 күн бұрын

    When the time comes, his children will NOT choose to go and live with him. The delusion of addiction. Wow.

  • @carolseven3802

    @carolseven3802

    27 күн бұрын

    Right?!! How delusional.

  • @DeeAnn-ef7sy

    @DeeAnn-ef7sy

    23 күн бұрын

    How could they? Dude is living on streets and hotels lol smh

  • @cherylbritt7227

    @cherylbritt7227

    18 күн бұрын

    That is absolutely NOT a thing. The courts will take it into consideration, but if he is a loser, on drugs with no stable place to live you’re not get any of those kids..

  • @elliemaree99

    @elliemaree99

    5 күн бұрын

    Even if they wanted to, there’s no way they would be allowed to. The dude is an addict on the streets, that’s no place for children

  • @CassieBee88
    @CassieBee8827 күн бұрын

    I think she fell into his trap. He’s probably the reason she relies on fentanyl so much. She looks done and tired, he looks satisfied with where he has her.

  • @TheTillmanSneakerReview

    @TheTillmanSneakerReview

    26 күн бұрын

    She was already screwed up. He's just another screwed up person.

  • @anubisthacutest4752

    @anubisthacutest4752

    22 күн бұрын

    Don't blame her addiction on him

  • @CassieBee88

    @CassieBee88

    22 күн бұрын

    @@anubisthacutest4752 thought police, that you? That’s why I threw in “so much”. I don’t doubt she was using before she met him, that was part of the allure for him.

  • @JesusHernandez-ri6yg
    @JesusHernandez-ri6yg27 күн бұрын

    He really believes he has some sort of moral high ground 😅

  • @robinblix4079

    @robinblix4079

    26 күн бұрын

    For real RIGHT!!!

  • @dudeaciousmonstrosity7650
    @dudeaciousmonstrosity765026 күн бұрын

    At this point if 8 kids are not enough for them to change, nothing will.

  • @Slim_T_ODB
    @Slim_T_ODB27 күн бұрын

    Straight escort 😂 I'm in tears right now 😂 she's like yeah he doesnt get as many calls as i do 😂 i cannot!! 😂😂

  • @sgrfpprmnt

    @sgrfpprmnt

    26 күн бұрын

    It is exactly the weight of this judgemental disdain from the plebs which brings kind people like hom to escape in drugs.

  • @Slim_T_ODB

    @Slim_T_ODB

    26 күн бұрын

    @@sgrfpprmnt you're one his customers aren't you?

  • @ksouthern1212

    @ksouthern1212

    26 күн бұрын

    @@Slim_T_ODBI know this person, I saw them with Patrick one time walking towards skid row holding hands and before they departed Patrick was handed 3 100$ bills. They kissed and went their separate ways. Yes this is one of Patrick’s customers

  • @heatherh.197
    @heatherh.19727 күн бұрын

    He can't let her exit his life because she pays the bills so to speak

  • @tomdonahue4224
    @tomdonahue422427 күн бұрын

    Its just great that they can laugh at all the kids they have created but don't raise.

  • @TammyRutherford-hi4ov
    @TammyRutherford-hi4ov26 күн бұрын

    Dude has control issues and skews everything to him knowing the right way. He’s so wrong.

  • @user-je7qx6ft9i
    @user-je7qx6ft9i27 күн бұрын

    The older I get the less patience I have for this type of behavior. I understand that addiction is a disease, however there are 8 lost and abandoned children between them and all I hear are excuses and justifications for not being accountable or to those babies!

  • @user-mx4bb8jv2u
    @user-mx4bb8jv2u27 күн бұрын

    No judge will give him his kids back!

  • @tenfold7493

    @tenfold7493

    27 күн бұрын

    Good. He’s a fucking embarrassment to the male species

  • @morgenmachen2400

    @morgenmachen2400

    26 күн бұрын

    Sounds like he's not above kidnapping them. These two are dangerously delusional, imo.

  • @dmwehrer7094
    @dmwehrer709427 күн бұрын

    I dont think she's really in love with him. Her body language is an easy indicator.

  • @Slim_T_ODB

    @Slim_T_ODB

    27 күн бұрын

    100%

  • @jordinkie

    @jordinkie

    27 күн бұрын

    also talking over him every chance she gets

  • @Slim_T_ODB

    @Slim_T_ODB

    27 күн бұрын

    @@jordinkie he's the hero in his mind 😂 this goof ball thinks very highly of himself

  • @Slim_T_ODB

    @Slim_T_ODB

    27 күн бұрын

    She's leaning so far away from him she's damn near in another room. She's got so much more street in her than this kid. She's babysitting

  • @Chevy-Sunshine

    @Chevy-Sunshine

    27 күн бұрын

    Agreed

  • @mustachadon
    @mustachadon27 күн бұрын

    He hit his baby momma 100%

  • @deedeehellovadame5797

    @deedeehellovadame5797

    25 күн бұрын

    Absofuckinglutely!!

  • @Decades-pl2kl

    @Decades-pl2kl

    22 күн бұрын

    Did you record it on your iPhone

  • @mustachadon

    @mustachadon

    22 күн бұрын

    @@Decades-pl2kl android for life.

  • @BrandiFultz-bq6er

    @BrandiFultz-bq6er

    12 күн бұрын

    My daughter in law beat her self several times in front of my daughters . One time she beat her self in the face ,went to the sheriff's house with her made up story and tears and pressed charges.My son had never been in jail ,never done drugs,worshipped the ground the girl walked on .He spent 2 weeks in jail on domestic abuse and a choking charge . I had to hire a lawyer and post a huge bail . My son's life was ruined . Not to mention how the community was judging him. Finally when he was about to go to court,she went to the lawyers office and admitted that Blake hadn't done nothing but threaten to smack her ,after she had broke his nose ,busted his tooth, bite the blood out of his jaw ,and held a knife to his throat and told him to try and leave so she could kill him . ..... So it happens plus drugs don't have to be a factor . Oh yeah and bless his heart he went back to her. This unfortunately wasn't the last time it happened . Thank God the abuse and the serial cheating he finally got his belly full.

  • @teamsheribail
    @teamsheribail27 күн бұрын

    Belive you me , Im a older woman but no way would pay him for S.X lmao

  • @Shortkonner

    @Shortkonner

    26 күн бұрын

    That was funny.

  • @edwingibson628

    @edwingibson628

    26 күн бұрын

    I think his prices are low

  • @celinemccutcheon1988

    @celinemccutcheon1988

    26 күн бұрын

    Me either🤮🤮🤮

  • @airadaimagery692

    @airadaimagery692

    25 күн бұрын

    How old? Maybe they have to be real old...

  • @unencumberedeliquent
    @unencumberedeliquent27 күн бұрын

    These two will be the death of each other.

  • @maureent8653
    @maureent865327 күн бұрын

    They would like a child together?? Boy I hope not!! 8 kids between them already that don’t have their parents!!!

  • @Lainey-vy9qw
    @Lainey-vy9qw26 күн бұрын

    He deflects everything on to her. He guilts her constantly.

  • @buddhaganesh6318
    @buddhaganesh631827 күн бұрын

    I love how addicts like to put other people down for not taking their responsibility...😒

  • @JoyPaul-pe7ij
    @JoyPaul-pe7ij27 күн бұрын

    Drugs, toxic relationships, and so many children born between them that are abandoned 😢 Drugs destroy so many lives. So sad.

  • @ashleymckenna2808
    @ashleymckenna280827 күн бұрын

    My name is Ashley and my husband of 15 years is named Patrick. This is like looking into a alternative Universe! I pray for their sobriety!

  • @Kree901

    @Kree901

    27 күн бұрын

    I too kno a married couple Ashley an patrick..not really too far off frm these guys here

  • @ashleymckenna2808

    @ashleymckenna2808

    27 күн бұрын

    @@Kree901 I pray for their sobriety too. It's awful to watch people struggle with addiction.

  • @user-li7lt4xq2t

    @user-li7lt4xq2t

    27 күн бұрын

    ​@@ashleymckenna2808I agree but most people know drugs are addicting and still make the decision to try them.

  • @TheApeCeasar

    @TheApeCeasar

    27 күн бұрын

    @@ashleymckenna2808they can turn it all around if they let God into their lives I used to be addicted to drugs but I humbled myself and stopped relying on my own self and ask God to intervene and he did praise the Lord!

  • @michaelwhitaker5882

    @michaelwhitaker5882

    27 күн бұрын

    only Jesus can heal in this situation; call out to Him!

  • @joannauclair2908
    @joannauclair290826 күн бұрын

    that dude needs to get out of denial! his addiction is just as bad! SHE'S 'escorting' to supply HIS addiction also! couldn't wake her up and he went to the beach? thought he was worried about her overdosing? right dude.....

  • @Lainey-vy9qw
    @Lainey-vy9qw26 күн бұрын

    If only he could use his bullshitting & manipulation skills to be in sales and provide for those babies

  • @IgorMironov-rq4ye
    @IgorMironov-rq4ye26 күн бұрын

    Arent drugs a lovely recreational pastime? At: 19:29, you can literally see the death, despair, and emptyness in Ashley's eyes. No joy, just sadness, and pathetic existence, addicted to the hustle of drug addiction.

  • @dangoldstein7416
    @dangoldstein741627 күн бұрын

    Doesn't the boyfriend know the "ice" he uses most likely had fentanyl in it many many times?

  • @MrImadummy
    @MrImadummy27 күн бұрын

    Bro said I'm anti fent/opiates but I'm down with the meth.....then downing his brother to make themselves sound better

  • @thebjm1967

    @thebjm1967

    8 күн бұрын

    lol exactly and then later tried to say he hardly does any drugs anymore bc he’s so worried about her drug use!? lol dude can’t keep his stories straight

  • @beetlejuice4693
    @beetlejuice469327 күн бұрын

    A face tattoo is the ultimate loser move

  • @cinnamonappple

    @cinnamonappple

    26 күн бұрын

    Let people live. Let’s hear about all the loser moves you pulled throughout your life.

  • @k_j_n1242

    @k_j_n1242

    26 күн бұрын

    It harms no one. Practice a little less judgement for things that are not in need of judging. Feel free to judge away on actions... but how someone looks, or their body art is their choice.

  • @cherylbritt7227

    @cherylbritt7227

    18 күн бұрын

    I don’t necessarily have a problem with with face tattoos. But if you are going to put it on your face, make sure it’s quality work AND your career ls something that will allow it. Believe it or not, there are many decent paying careers where it would be an issue. If you pause video and zoom in on his face it’s like scribble. It’s like someone did it in a dark basement , high and with a dirty needle. I mean how do you trust someone who can’t even respect his own face.

  • @crystallc8871
    @crystallc887127 күн бұрын

    They’re both still very much addicted & not ready to give up getting high. You have to be able to admit that prostituting yourself to feed your addiction, losing your children and living on skid row is NOT something you love. Justifying all of these things is straight denial. I hope they decide to clean up before one of them passes. ❤ Addiction is a bitch.

  • @morgenmachen2400

    @morgenmachen2400

    26 күн бұрын

    Absolutely. Addict in recovery, here, also parent to three young children. I don't hear anything from these two that says they want sobriety. I do hear the misguided thought patterns that accompany self delusion - I told myself the same lies. Smh. I hope they get clean before they OD for real, get murdered, or develop endocarditis, stroke out, freeze to death etc..but more than that I hope they stay the hell away from those kids until they get sober and get their lives together.

  • @ksouthern1212

    @ksouthern1212

    26 күн бұрын

    Crystal I know you’re still doing adderal presses, please don’t lie to me

  • @jopo8281

    @jopo8281

    26 күн бұрын

    Addiction and dispair are a fucking riot together.

  • @crystallc8871

    @crystallc8871

    25 күн бұрын

    @@ksouthern1212 What the hell are adderal presses? Ik what adderal is but not a clue what you’re talking about. I was never into speed.

  • @cmacstunts4286
    @cmacstunts428627 күн бұрын

    I’m from Chattanooga and have seen these two cats. Didn’t think they would make it to skid row I hope the best for these two

  • @joeandersen6553

    @joeandersen6553

    27 күн бұрын

    He ain't done yet

  • @susankeith326

    @susankeith326

    26 күн бұрын

    They're definitely in need of it.

  • @l5r90
    @l5r9027 күн бұрын

    Drug manipulation can be VERY very very DANGEROUS!!!.....

  • @leneo1731

    @leneo1731

    27 күн бұрын

    Stupid question, but what do you mean by drug manipualation?

  • @l5r90

    @l5r90

    27 күн бұрын

    @@leneo1731 When a person takes advantage of another by giving them drug!!!..

  • @leddmask

    @leddmask

    27 күн бұрын

    What do you even mean by that lol

  • @wockqueefa

    @wockqueefa

    26 күн бұрын

    @@leneo1731i’m not sure if this is what they mean but this is what i think, he’s addicted to meth, she’s addicted to fent. he’s upset about her addiction when he’s just as bad with his. he wants her off the dope so she will tweak w him. essentially tricking her into thinking the ice will be better for her

  • @annahazlett19
    @annahazlett1927 күн бұрын

    Where is your responsibility to your childreen, what about them? Why did he laugh when his children were mentioned. The circle of children being abused and abandoned must be broken

  • @--_-_-_-74..

    @--_-_-_-74..

    27 күн бұрын

    The father wound is real !

  • @LoloO42

    @LoloO42

    27 күн бұрын

    Just as well. I wouldn't let them parent a rock.

  • @bayoubabe6698

    @bayoubabe6698

    24 күн бұрын

    They have to get clean & sober before they will even understand that concept of responsibility to/for their children. Hopefully those kids are in loving & nurturing homes ♥️

  • @robertamcmunn3642
    @robertamcmunn364227 күн бұрын

    These two are scary and he is totally controlling her.

  • @keeper6458

    @keeper6458

    27 күн бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @ValentinMichelle

    @ValentinMichelle

    27 күн бұрын

    Manipulation and narcissism at their best! The whole situation sucks, but it breaks my heart that she can’t see just how controlling he is. One addiction is not better than the other guys.

  • @mrbee145

    @mrbee145

    27 күн бұрын

    His fault 😂. Wake up. She knows what’s happening

  • @DCH20H9

    @DCH20H9

    27 күн бұрын

    Actually, I think the drugs are in control.

  • @amaralanaysia1101

    @amaralanaysia1101

    27 күн бұрын

    He’s clearly not🤦🏾‍♀️ most people in these early comments really have never seen trauma outside of what they go through or movies…

  • @Chungalhunga
    @Chungalhunga27 күн бұрын

    He seems to be scared of losing source of money, not love. She knows how this is going to end. Thanks for sharing and good luck out there.

  • @dw56644

    @dw56644

    26 күн бұрын

    Oh yeah I only just woke up to the fact that he is her pimp

  • @TheScotian82
    @TheScotian8227 күн бұрын

    "Uma straight male escort" lmfao Riiiight bud 🫡

  • @leddmask

    @leddmask

    27 күн бұрын

    Exaactly

  • @lesliebates2108

    @lesliebates2108

    26 күн бұрын

    I believe him. He said he was straight immediately and emphatically.

  • @xp8969

    @xp8969

    26 күн бұрын

    😂☠️😂☠️😂​@@lesliebates2108

  • @sgrfpprmnt

    @sgrfpprmnt

    26 күн бұрын

    Sexist! Racist? He looks hella better than 90 percent of the figueroa prossies on this channel.

  • @ohtomi5021
    @ohtomi502127 күн бұрын

    "I want to start a naked house cleaning business. It's time to grow up." 🤣🤣🤣

  • @MudGod1969

    @MudGod1969

    27 күн бұрын

    can we use your shower first? we been sleepong in a bush ..lol

  • @Cotillion308

    @Cotillion308

    27 күн бұрын

    Crazy that, that would be a step up for them.

  • @DogDaze66
    @DogDaze6627 күн бұрын

    I got me 6 kids ha ha ha he he hee haw! Pay nothing for any of em.

  • @basilmahmud6398
    @basilmahmud639827 күн бұрын

    Correct me,if i'm wrong ,but i think,this might be the 2nd time in over 8000 Interviews, that mark could not hold the laughter back...

  • @celticwarrior777

    @celticwarrior777

    24 күн бұрын

    😂

  • @waltanthony1988
    @waltanthony198826 күн бұрын

    These 2 are responsible for 8 children?! EIGHT. I don't mean to be harsh but... I am getting Idiocracy vibes.

  • @OL_BK11
    @OL_BK1126 күн бұрын

    “I broke into their house” Duuuuuude….he is frightening.

  • @nancykaufman1632
    @nancykaufman163227 күн бұрын

    Dude she hasn’t changed or wanted to change her ways for her 2 young sons. How can she change for you. Hopefully she will make the decision on her own for help. Always have faith.

  • @jameshoyle5918
    @jameshoyle591827 күн бұрын

    What a horrible couple, especially the bloke

  • @user-ib1bo2sr8i

    @user-ib1bo2sr8i

    26 күн бұрын

    Straight fucking trash. I have 0 empathy for either of these demons.

  • @brendanbourke5487
    @brendanbourke548727 күн бұрын

    Nobody fears this guy seriously I just see through him

  • @MLG-Sapago
    @MLG-Sapago27 күн бұрын

    8 children. EIGHT. Hear that voters in Iowa, Florida, Texas...etc? YOU and every person who votes for candidates that are against a woman's right to choose should, by law, pay for these children all over this country. smh. Vote carefully people. Vote very carefully.

  • @TeamAwesomeDad

    @TeamAwesomeDad

    27 күн бұрын

    This is what happens when religion infects government

  • @k_j_n1242

    @k_j_n1242

    26 күн бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @celticwarrior777

    @celticwarrior777

    24 күн бұрын

    This will happen more..women forcee into birthing kids they dont wabt.will be abandoned abused thrown away into foster system. All yhrse pto lifers but noo es layi g yo raise the kids they force a woman to grow

  • @katielehuta8733

    @katielehuta8733

    14 күн бұрын

    Ummm these two had their kids long before roe v wade was overturned and states got the power of that decision back …. Just saying. Don’t blame this specific situation on that. They could have had abortions they chose not to.

  • @deannatrendel5296
    @deannatrendel529627 күн бұрын

    They need to take accountability for there actions instead of blaming the system

  • @Sammydx1
    @Sammydx127 күн бұрын

    8 kids total ? Sad

  • @morgenmachen2400

    @morgenmachen2400

    27 күн бұрын

    Right? Eight lives with the odds triple stacked against them before they get started.

  • @megancolasono1108

    @megancolasono1108

    27 күн бұрын

    Right! I made a comment about how some of the most screwed up people are also some of the most fertile! Like watching so many of my friends trying for kids for 5 years and having to spend so much time and money for a child they want so deeply. And they are only able to have one or two if they can at all! And then these kind of people just hook up with someone one time, on a random day and time and 💨 poof, they conceive! So wrong!

  • @keeper6458

    @keeper6458

    27 күн бұрын

    ​@@morgenmachen2400Absolutely

  • @MrSamrobz

    @MrSamrobz

    27 күн бұрын

    I'm always staggered that a human could choose drugs over their own babies. I have twin boys, and I would never abandon them for anything in this world. Addiction is brutal for some people.

  • @izzydeadyet7336

    @izzydeadyet7336

    27 күн бұрын

    And he mentioned having kids with her! Imagining having a family together when there's eight kids out there fatherless and mother less

  • @leneo1731
    @leneo173127 күн бұрын

    This man manipualated a poor girl for one and a half year, acting like he loved her and even got her pregnant! He used her as a tool so he could get what he wanted.. Why? To get close to her aunt who had got custody of his sons. He even got totally clean for that period, which he never have done before or after if I got it right. So instead of getting clean before he lost his children, or got clean and go ahead through the court system and get his two sons back after losing custody, this man used a girl, got her pregnant and put another innocent child into this world. I've heard and experienced a lot having been in close relationships with several men with sociopathic traits. But what he did not only to the girl he manipualated but also made a baby to get revenge on the person having custody of his sons. That's so insane, egoistic, manipualative, and horrible my head is spinning! I mean, seriously, that's so cruel it's scares the shit out of me. I know people who use don't always have normal emotions. They're often numbed and also have a tendency to not thi k about consequences. However he says he was clean meaning his emotions should be rather normal. That's so far from normal as it comes!

  • @Fapsahoyx

    @Fapsahoyx

    27 күн бұрын

    Blah blah blah poor victim. She needs to take responsibility for her own bad life choices.

  • @TheTillmanSneakerReview

    @TheTillmanSneakerReview

    26 күн бұрын

    Don't blame him for all the problems. Those women were fully aware that he was a broke druggy and still gave him children.

  • @leneo1731

    @leneo1731

    24 күн бұрын

    @@TheTillmanSneakerReview I'm not talking about "those women". I'm not even mentioning the woman he's with now, and their disfunctional relationship. I'm specifically talking about the niese of the woman having his two oldest children. The term niece tells me it's a rather young girl he's talking about. Not to mention that he is bragging about manipulating her into the relationship and getting her pregnant! The fact that you're defending that is almost as mind blowing as what he did.

  • @rp42069
    @rp4206927 күн бұрын

    30:50 NOT YOUR FAULT YOUR KIDS AREN'T IN YOUR LIFE?!? GTFOH YOU GOTTA HAVE A HOME FOR THE KIDS TO COME HOME TO 😂

  • @adams8830

    @adams8830

    27 күн бұрын

    This. The utter delusion. Those kids are not gonna come live with him. Shout out to Mark for not laughing at this deranged statement.

  • @maggiefisker994
    @maggiefisker99427 күн бұрын

    Who is calling him to be an escort

  • @user-qn1kz7dk3t

    @user-qn1kz7dk3t

    27 күн бұрын

    Ikr?!

  • @ladev91

    @ladev91

    27 күн бұрын

    Me. He got a small pecker, but he know how to werk it

  • @angelapeters9358

    @angelapeters9358

    27 күн бұрын

    I’m betting men. And he don’t want to admit it.

  • @acgamingandentertainment958

    @acgamingandentertainment958

    27 күн бұрын

    Facts 😭😭😭

  • @vanessa-gx8bg

    @vanessa-gx8bg

    27 күн бұрын

    Donald Trump 😂

  • @buddhaganesh6318
    @buddhaganesh631827 күн бұрын

    Six kids with five different women is no joke I don't know why these two are laughing???

  • @dianeNoneYa1157

    @dianeNoneYa1157

    27 күн бұрын

    This guy is a manipulator! He says he doesn't want her doing fentanol because she could die. Then he goes to the beach when he wake her!!

  • @claudiaahwireng873

    @claudiaahwireng873

    26 күн бұрын

    I thought he said 3 women? Don't make it worse than it is. It's still very bad. I can't get over a guy letting his woman sleep with random people as a prostitute. There is no consideration for her trauma. It's deeper than just the drugs. He is not a good person 😢

  • @ivanaveltmeyer6373
    @ivanaveltmeyer637326 күн бұрын

    He is controlling and speaks over her a lot. Please lady- get out of there and get addiction specialist.

  • @iamhear_officially
    @iamhear_officially26 күн бұрын

    I never seen such an interview where 2 people desperately needed to communicate with each other but didn't know how.... Which Mark deserves the utmost respect for facilitating 🙏❤️

  • @baublesanddolls
    @baublesanddolls27 күн бұрын

    What a mess! She’s high as a kite! It sounds like he doesn’t realize that you just can’t stop fentanyl. It’s not that simple. She needs to want to quit, which she doesn’t, and suboxone. Suboxone is the only thing that will help her, other than methadone, but you can still use while on methadone. If you use while taking suboxone you’ll go into immediate withdrawal. She’s so close to dying and looks much older than him. They’re both in denial.

  • @vonbueren

    @vonbueren

    26 күн бұрын

    R u saying it's impossible to quit fentanyl cold? 😂 Most people who really want to do it, Suboxone and other legal crap like methadone is more toxic and harder to quit than fentanyl so to switch from one drug to another that's worse only legal is not exactly getting clean, actually it's making sure u will never get clean, all the people I know who quit opiates did it cold and these r people with money, they could've gotten any BS substitute and any BS rehab but in the end those who wanna be clean and change their lives do it cold and without any cults like AA 😂 they just accept that they'll suffer acutely for a month or longer but that's nothing compared to suffering from using, people suffer pain from hell when Fighting cancer and doing chemo and radio and that's only to buy 5 more years coz they all die eventually but no one even thinks about the suffering, they happily do it thinking they'll best cancer with poison 😂 which they can only do temporarily, the point being the suffering from cancer "treatment" I. The west is hell yet people do it and no one complains but when it comes to tiny acute wd pain that's a month long and yes once it's over it's over, there's no metastasizes of addiction 😂 people act like that's something unbearable, it's not, it's only big pharma that wants u to take Suboxone and methadone for life, the only way to get clean and again I know people who did it and they were not homeless or broke but they still had brains and knew that cold is the only way to go unless u wanna be a victim forever and be hooked on big pharma poison for life so they suffered for a month and then it started getting better and better and finally they feel perfect after only 3 to 6 months which is nothing compared to freedom they have and compared to suffering of addiction. So don't spread BS ideas to people who don't know, don't push them into cults like AA or big pharma traps like methadone, the ones who wanna get rid of poison do it without any of that extra crap in their lives :)

  • @ajvanced4167
    @ajvanced416727 күн бұрын

    Patrick--something is wrong with your son--he has you for a father. I hope the therapy is helping.

  • @rebeccakaysen
    @rebeccakaysen27 күн бұрын

    31:46 it's selfish to even consider taking those kids in your situation!

  • @baublesanddolls

    @baublesanddolls

    27 күн бұрын

    It won’t happen. Just another pipe dream. The two of them are delusional.

  • @sandradee4391
    @sandradee439127 күн бұрын

    Not your fault you’re not in your kids life???

  • @adams8830

    @adams8830

    27 күн бұрын

    If it's not his fault then whose fault is it?! 😂😂😂

  • @JudyMoore-lw4qi
    @JudyMoore-lw4qi26 күн бұрын

    She’s wasted right now. She keeps nodding off.

  • @TheScotian82
    @TheScotian8227 күн бұрын

    Yeah Im sure people are "scared" of him 🙄 Maybe they avoid you, bud.

  • @tinabennett1985
    @tinabennett198527 күн бұрын

    Problem for him is he is gonna find her dead Best thing they could do is get to a state Where he can sign her in somewhere for treatment Not a short 10 days Then sign himself into a different place Her in shape shes in now she will die

  • @baublesanddolls

    @baublesanddolls

    27 күн бұрын

    She doesn’t want to be clean.

  • @Meditations2024
    @Meditations202427 күн бұрын

    See, this is how the cycle continues, they have so many kids; responsible parents have so few. Society has to step in to stop the cycle...

  • @user-li7lt4xq2t

    @user-li7lt4xq2t

    27 күн бұрын

    We need to start putting birth control in illegal drugs! That's the only thing I can think of. Knowing drugs are addictive isn't a deterrent, knowing unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy doesn't help, but it's the kids that suffer.

  • @oldenoneinMT

    @oldenoneinMT

    27 күн бұрын

    We need to raise healthy kids in healthy environments. It starts with the parents. Some kids do what they learn and do what they have to to survive unhealthy homes.

  • @Cotillion308

    @Cotillion308

    27 күн бұрын

    ​@@user-li7lt4xq2t they are from the south where birth control is seen as evil. It is a back assward land in the bible belt.

  • @Shortkonner

    @Shortkonner

    26 күн бұрын

    Its a problem for sure. I understand it's hard to get but as an addict it's kinda fucked up to think about people lacing drugs. Birth control is a drug too. Just want to be reasonable. This extreme shit is a problem.

  • @Kris_Si
    @Kris_Si26 күн бұрын

    Mark thank you for what you do. When i can’t go to my NA or AA meetings listening to these videos ALWAYS humbles me.

  • @kayanderson2048
    @kayanderson204826 күн бұрын

    He wants to start a family?!?! He definitely doesn’t need anymore children.

  • @randallranson4229
    @randallranson422927 күн бұрын

    Codependency beyond anything ive seen on swu

  • @nhlibra
    @nhlibra27 күн бұрын

    Kids want to feel proud of their parents. Please think about this. And Patrick, what will you have to offer your children when they hit 13? You have no home and are a fugitive on the run right now. Get honest with yourself.

  • @PG-kd9mc
    @PG-kd9mc27 күн бұрын

    The light is gone, just Fade away How true

  • @kteeverey3706
    @kteeverey370627 күн бұрын

    the epitome of a co dependent relationship... toxic to the point where you can see, without knowing them, that without each other she will thrive, but then she has been on self destructive path on her own. I've been there, used harder to overcome who I was with, and who I had become. If your reading this Ashley, please don't say never, I have been off heroin and methadone for 20 years, and it was only by being strong, going to N.A and realizing my potential. And getting away from the man who I used with. Peace love Respect.

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