I dont open up because people (especially women) will judge you and later use the info as a weapon against you. I have regretted everytime i opened up to someone

@justinbrooks7286

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly you are 1,000% correct

@JDJDYOULIVE

2 жыл бұрын

Relate more than you could ever believe

@randlemarsh

2 жыл бұрын

You're not wrong on this. You're dammed if you do or if you don't.

@chris7285

2 жыл бұрын

This is why I avoid jobs with women. I’m not anti women but women are more in tune with their emotions and more open about them so when they see someone like me with Avoidant Personality Disorder it’s quite obvious who’s the mental case. I’m bad at pretending like I’m fine but I still try to hide. I feel like Tyler Durden from fight club. I can’t stand it because they’re not at all nihilistic in thinking like me. They’re all about their natural form. What I mean is that if they see a dude like me who’s pathetic but also not trying his luck with them or showing any signs of attraction to them…..I don’t know it just feels like I wouldn’t last very long working at these jobs because of how out of tune I am with the natural human order. It honestly makes me wonder if women ever experience long periods of nihilistic thinking. Men are just expected to perform but we’re not always up. Sometimes we’re down and in recovery. I just got charged with a DUI last year so that alone lowers my self esteem severely, I’ve only got $600 in my bank account, living with my alcoholic uncle, car is a piece of junk, my clothes are torn and old, I’ve become very scrawny from years of just laying in bed defeated, I’ve lost all my friends, my physical health is declining at 25 especially from all the drinking, etc. It wasn’t till recently that I’ve been even just thinking about MAYBE getting back up and trying again. I don’t mind working hard for money. You can have me out in the hot sun all day working but that’s not my worry. I’m worried that people will see how weak I am and use that against me. People prey on the weak and right now I’m weak and I know it. I just wish I could throw myself into an inferno of masculinity. I’m waiting for my probation to end so that I can maybe join a backbreaking job like you see on tv with men on boats battling with the high and violent tides of the ocean or out on the oil fields working 12 hour shifts. I can’t fake smiles or confidence so that’s why I hate working customer service jobs that have more women than other jobs.

@gabrielguzman6018

2 жыл бұрын

@@chris7285 It's women's for not trying to be more understanding considering their the ones who are nurturing/caring

I don't open up telling someone how i feel and fear because they listen but don't hear. I feel majority of staff to help with depression and addiction haven't experienced it (they've had a good childhood and supportive friends and family).

@myflymkultra268

3 жыл бұрын

Sad but really true

@jumpingfrog740

2 жыл бұрын

hey, i’m a girl and i just want you to know that your mental health will ALWAYS matter. you aren’t “less of a man” or a “burden” for crying, putting yourself first (as long as it’s not selfish. i myself have made that mistake in the past), and choosing to become better. if anything, men who cry are the bravest. hope you’re doing well right now, you deserve it. 💗🙏🏽.

@jumpingfrog740

2 жыл бұрын

@@myflymkultra268 same for you^^

@histman3133

2 жыл бұрын

Butbutbut they read a book and took a test in school therefore they're perfectly capable of tackling these issues.

@kwuiki23

Жыл бұрын

I'm a medical doctor as well as a depression patient and I can whole heartedly second this sentiment. actually what's even more accurate is that mid level providers in psychology that are not trained to diagnose at all are the first point of contact many people are sent to. they also come riddled with their biases largely fueled by what they have been programmed to believe is true through a corrupt social sciences and humanities divisions in our educational institutions which like to vilify men under some misconceived idea of the male patriarchy (which as a student of history I can say is less reflective of real history and more reflective of the spin culture we unfortunately live in). sexism against men is real and its actually VERY VERY common 75% or more now of the social sciences and humanities are dominated by women now and I mean the radical feminist types. this huge bias is reflected in the way we manage male mental health patients, why most therapists are trained for violence against women and almost none are trained for violence against men. a society in which men aren't cared for is also a society in which women are unhappy. this is reflected in population wide studies of the west on repeated occasions. until we bring the downfall of the radical feminist institutions that we live under nothing will change.

"People forgot I was a human being "... very true and powerful in that statement

Society: why don't men open up about there struggles. Man opens up Society: ha what a pansy.

@kevondavis6934

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY MY GOOD MAN!!!

@GenXMusicMan

2 жыл бұрын

Nah, that’s not how it works dude. lol

@carolinestone8485

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah and that society needs to change

@DollEyedNurse

2 жыл бұрын

Toxic masculinity in our society really needs to leave

@oasis4life014

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!!!! Finally someone can see it

We don’t forget. It’s looked down upon to show emotion. When we tell someone they just throw it in our face. Nobody really cares. They might in the moment but not after that moment.

Unfortunately, a lot of men don’t believe their significant other or family members will help them or not judge them. They also feel like women will not be as attracted to them if they come across as too negative. They don’t think these things for no reason

@unknowntosociety01

2 жыл бұрын

They think that because its true. Soon as you show this weakness your woman is repulsed by you and will find a mentally stronger partner to mate with

@PhantomMagician1846

Жыл бұрын

I had a GF once who could care less about my mental health issues. I'm glad I am not with her anymore

@strikergamer2979

Жыл бұрын

Well it is true ain't it?

@strikergamer2979

Жыл бұрын

Most of the time, they'll just use it against you

Only opened up twice in my 23 years of existence. Once to my sister and once to my girlfriend. Both made a joke out of it, worst mistake of my life and decided since then never to open up in front of anyone. That's life guy, women love to be victim in every situation, but reality is for us. It's better to work on ourselves alone, talk to our guy friends and try to work things out, because no one gives a f about men.

@GenXMusicMan

2 жыл бұрын

Derrrrrr that’s not how it works dude. This is why you seek professional help, not help from your sister or old girlfriend. They are not therapists. A therapist keeps everything confidential between you and him/her. It’s federal law that they do that and it’s a complete safe space for you.

@carolinestone8485

2 жыл бұрын

We do care. It’s all society making the people that way but deep down we care.

@dawson6196

2 жыл бұрын

@@carolinestone8485 Do you really though? That's literally what every women says. When a man opens up, he's always made fun of, it's used against him and nobody really gives a f**k.

@blacklyfe5543

2 жыл бұрын

You need to talk to other guys about your problems or seek a therapist

@blacklyfe5543

2 жыл бұрын

@@carolinestone8485 most of y'all don't

Ladies, want a man to melt? Anytime randomly, go up to him, don’t stop him from what he is doing but give him a hug, a kiss on the cheek, say you love him and proud of him…. Watch

@ogreman-lll-957

2 жыл бұрын

Your right

@akira564

Жыл бұрын

Dont worry, i already do that with my husband .

Ever since middle school, I have been betrayed and used by every friend I ever had, and now I feel I can't trust anyone

Thanks, I've been going thru it by myself. It only make us men strong.

If men talk about depression no one helps but they call us week..

@GGA007Gaming

2 жыл бұрын

Or stare at us with a confused look like so your a guy why do you care.

@TopGun_-

2 жыл бұрын

Know that you’re not alone in this. Lots of us men go through this. A lot of times it’s even worse than the women because they actually DO have others to open up to and be understood. But, take comfort in knowing that there are others out there whom you can connect with (like in chat rooms on KZread) where we can help each other out by sharing techniques we’ve used to help overcome our moments. Hope all is peaceful for you right now. 🙏🏻

@GGA007Gaming

2 жыл бұрын

@@TopGun_- idk about the op but I just wish there was someone around me I could hang with that I could hang with and talk to. Sucks being alone all the time. Most dudes on social sites are just trying to get laid wether your a man or a women. I just want a brother.

@TopGun_-

2 жыл бұрын

@@GGA007Gaming I hear ya. I feel the same way. I’m 50 yrs old, live by myself and work a management/office job where I am in my office alone all day. It used to not be like this for me. I used to work in a larger office with other coworkers. I moved to from a large metropolitan area to a smaller city, hours away from my friends and family. I think that way you do / as you put it... I’m too comfortable in my own ways to want to begin an intimate relationship with a woman , but would just appreciate having others around for mere conversation and company. I’d like to find a way to bring a lot of us together online and share insights, experiences, etc. I think it would help tremendously.

@blacklyfe5543

2 жыл бұрын

*weak

I’m a proud little guy 5 feet 2 stature & 130 pound adult man. I love being a very short adult man! I love being very different than average men I love being small

the truth is even when a man opens up its so stigmatized that it makes people uncomfortable.

To all man out there, I just want to tell u guys I m proud of you guys, u are important to someone if not then to me too as a brother, this world need us we have to life our life for our upcoming generation so that when they have such problems we would be there with them, it's not the end of your life don't think of yr self as a borden to others, if u think as a borden so get up change it u have the power take one step and other u will get it, wake up it doesn't matter what people think about u bit it matters what u think about yourself and make amendments or built yourself, u have the power just you have to be positive and grind, I know it's hard u have to do it and in last I want to say I m proud of you guys.

@blacklyfe5543

2 жыл бұрын

*Live

@hodb3906

Жыл бұрын

This was so painful to read. Not the message but just because it’s such a generic incoherent mess.

Separation anxiety also isn’t talked about enough and its effect.

There is a very big difference in relationships as well. Many more women are able to find a partner if they have a mental illness, especially a more a-typical condition like schizophrenia or OCD. Men have more of an urge to take care of a woman even if she is ill. Women on the other hand, want to feel secure and Having a boyfriend or husband with a mental illness makes that extremely difficult.

The pain of my depression gets pushed down so far until it ERUPTS and I lash out. I’ve been trying to use the gym to blow off steam and rip those terrible thoughts from my head. It helps ✌🏻

I did not even know there was a mens mental health month

@tyvillianheartthrob1856

Жыл бұрын

Of course. Society doesn't care enough to advertise it

@truthshallsetufree1295

Жыл бұрын

Yeah and thats because us men dont have a pie between there legs and society tells us only woman are sad

we are afraid to open up because we live in a society that judges the men for being weak and it adds up to the burden we carry

@user-vo3zh7gr2z

Жыл бұрын

a society created by men btw

yeah pay for my help and maybe i'll go.

@YoutubeJailhouseWine

3 жыл бұрын

For real

We are embarrassed because men are taught and drilled into them since day one that we must be men and not show emotion

I relized nobody cares about my problems. I hold it together because I have no choice.

Not worth it every time I tried to open up to my mom or sisters what I said was just used in a argument later on down the line and from then forward I just block everything out and keep moving forward

I am speaking up and getting ignored, i even spoke to someone who destroyed my mental health and they blocked me, but speak up speak loud and speak often.

Hey everyone, i been feeling quite depressed and sad with working from home during the pandemic. Its my first job and I don’t know who to really turn to to really talk about these topics. Its a stressful first role and I don’t really know if you peeps may be familiar with some healthy coping mechanisms? I struggle due to the stress with lack of appetite to eat and motivation to do my work well.

@GGA007Gaming

2 жыл бұрын

Hope your not one of those drugs are always bad for you people. Cause medical marijuana sativa might help. It's what I use I just don't have the money for a medical card. But it's makes me hungry and it makes cleaning and stuff fun for me. ☺️ Well when I'm in the mood I work in a kitchen so I clean and cook all day so last thing I wanna do is do the same at home most the time. Even if I am all full of motivation from smoking.

@k.t.7507

2 жыл бұрын

Perhaps try to stay connected with people via facetime, texting, calling. Communicating with family and friends helps me not feel alone during these times. Try out some new hobbies, or writing your emotions out on paper through journaling(you'd be surprised how much it helps), or if need be to a professional. You can always go out with a couple of friends( safely of course). Hope this helps

I’m a man who loves ballads & love music & I love Mexican soap opera tv shows. Being a man & loves ballads music is who I am

Because no one cares. They see u drowning and just don't wanna help.

the happiest moment in my life is the one i don't wake up from my sleep in.

It's totaly inhumane how people treat those people who are suffering..not only they suffering but they are also shamed and blamed and demoralized for suffering... To be honest it's those people who treat ill badly .... Are stupid .. Imagine winning a game and people appreciating u that's good right..but here it's the opposite...and bad U not losing or winning at all..even if u lose still no one should devalue u .. ..u suffering and instead of helping or sharing some love ❤and showings some Care .. They judge even more and disrespect even more ... Plz let me know your broader views on this topic .. My last words would be no matter what happens wheather it's physical or mental pain or challenges . u must keep living and fulfill your purpose of life and find a way of happiness .and find love ❤ and share love and compassion . Life is worth living ✨ 😌 no matter what challenges we gonna die anyway .keep going and pushing and see the shackles break. life is worth living for purpose and love and some injury or some challenges , dely ,losses and difficulty are still never any enough reason for u to stop..

Exists: A great worker but gets a bad random laps of insomnia, tries to work with it for weeks but physically can't do it because the human body needs sleep. Family: Be a man, learn how to not sleep anymore, its all in your head, can't be a loser(never had insomnia but claims if I had it it wouldn't phase me) Me: But I need sleep to survive according to anatomy Family: Stop being a victim Me: ?

@GGA007Gaming

2 жыл бұрын

Know exactly how you feel bro suffer from anxiety and depression. whenever I ask for advice its all in my head it's cause I watch this it's cause you do this. Your not a doctor you don't know. Or my favorite just take melatonin when to do that healthy you need a regular schedule and recommends at least 8 hours I think to sleep after taking. In today's workforce how you ever gonna have a regular schedule I'm afraid I'll sleep to much and miss work or something. Just wanted you to know your not alone.

@TopGun_-

2 жыл бұрын

Yet, there are many of us who know EXACTLY what you’re going through. Your health is most important. Without that, nothing else matters. So be sure to listen to what your body is telling you, and for your mental and emotional health, know that many of us are out here ready to support you through conversation and providing a different perspective to things. Praying for you brother!

@DollEyedNurse

2 жыл бұрын

The mental health stigma is mad high here. I'm so sorry your family is not being supportive or understanding of basic mental health 101.

I wouldn't say I'm embarrassed. As a man, I get sad and angry too. It's just I never want to stay like that and have it define me as a person. Don't feel the need to talk about it because I've already started working on it. People who don't do this or can't are the ones that need to open up and go to therapy. However people need to stop trying to bring people down to their level just because their miserable.

as man I'm depressed every time, and I hide all the time, but honestly I once found angels that understood, but didn't. so.... yeah my anxiety, is high. I'm still alive but I feel like I'm dying

@justfelix30

Жыл бұрын

I'm already dead within someone just told me to exist when I didn't want to...

@lifeisbeautiful5998

Жыл бұрын

​@@justfelix30 tell me how is your life going bro ...u will feel free 😌 by expressing your thoughts ??

awesome men!

@julianbastian6723

3 жыл бұрын

That's the nicest thing someone has ever said about us men ❤️,, thank you

@julianbastian6723

3 жыл бұрын

@Jaime Paiva tf is wrong with you?

@halal_pork7009

3 жыл бұрын

@Jaime Paiva why

@wakeup6778

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed men are awesome! ;)

5 years later and it only got worse

@april-ludgate-karate-dwyer9556

2 жыл бұрын

Because men don't want to help and support feminism

@lifeisbeautiful5998

Жыл бұрын

How ?? Explain ..I want to understand

@BloodBornShadowWalker

Жыл бұрын

​@@april-ludgate-karate-dwyer9556 why help support the movement that encourages shutting on men

Great video. Super insightful

Men need to share their feelings with other men and if they laugh at you they are not the people to be around. Never ever open up to women. They will use it against you. I learnt that the hard way!

Yes, but i never cry i must be masculine. I cant show weakness as it means im vunrable.

Hey chaps, post Covid is when we as men come to terms with our inner emotions or “inner demons”, call whatever you want but we are only humans. And I beseech you to find help before it’s too late. I witness men suicide and leaving behind nothing by empty family without daddy, it’s nothing but tragedy. It’s okay to cry, f it. Just f-ing cry and feel human. The older we are, the more sensitive we are. Stop desensitising your soft side and acknowledge and be comfortable. Movember is coming, let’s come together as brothers-in-arms and get ready for a new revolution!

@justfelix30

Жыл бұрын

I'm tired of seeking for help I've did what I could I just dont want to live in this world anymore I just wanna die in peace..

So far not a word about how men are shut up & by whom. Our matriarchy & other feminist dominated societies around the world hold the clues.

I suffer with PDD (persistent depressive disorder. My ex wife didn't understand my current wife treat's it as no big deal. So, no one really cares.

Be kind 🤙

I mainly blame toxic masculinity in society. If we didn't have that I feel men would be more open about this stuff. At a younger age we are programmed with this false notion of being strong and happy 24/7 but that's not always the case for some people. You are not less of a "man" getting help. All that matters is your personal healing journey!

@seneca1932

2 жыл бұрын

No, that’s not it at all. We don’t open up because we don’t want our struggles weaponized against us, especially by women. I know this is true because it happened to me. It’s like waiving your Miranda rights: anything you say can and will be used against you.

@april-ludgate-karate-dwyer9556

2 жыл бұрын

Yep, definitely

@andreasfi4244

Жыл бұрын

then the infrastructure would break down, you all dont know what u talking about. i dont blame u for it, but its sad how little u women know of the struggles of a mans life and also dont really care about it.

@badrex2013

Жыл бұрын

I find it's mostly women who push those ideas never heard another man say things like that mostly only women

@bdsmgaming3627

Жыл бұрын

Toxic masculinity and toxic feminism, it's like the polar opposites with the same aim to destroy men of today

Open up. No. It's hard. It's not leaving. It's here to stay. I can't do nothing

I'm not afraid to talk about it just nobody gets a s*** If I'm not successful I'm a loser if I am successful I'm part of the patriarchy And evil I've learned that nobody is going To cheer for me when I have my small victories nobody's gonna come save me and I don't have anybody to call I have to save myself I have to be stoic I have to cheer for myself when I have my small victories because nobody else will that's just my reality

To you reading this right now: Something WONDERFUL is going to happen to you and for you today. Know that all of this right now is temporary. You will , in just a short while, fill yourself with tranquil feelings and lucid dreams. All you need to do is look to God, right now, and pray with me... LORD; Give me the strength and clarity of mind to find my purpose and walk the path you've laid out for me. ReInstill in my heart that are a good God and faithful, and you will help me challenge my worries with life-building truth instead of destructive thoughts. I ask that you take these anxious feelings off of me, and carry this away for me. Help me to feel only your peace and pure love wash through me right now and allow me to rest in your serenity. Whatever it is you want me to hear from you speaking through all this, please put it into my heart as I rest. I am so thankful that you are here to be this friend for me. As you hold me right now, I feel Your peace guarding my heart and mind in Jesus’ name. AMEN.

@g--br1el985

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

I don’t trust any more in this doctor.

Because men want to be. listened to, when you're crazy no one listens to you.

Check out Dr Jackie's Mental Health Miment

@dr.jackiesmentalhealthmome4962

7 жыл бұрын

Moment

Why are there comments agreeing with society?

@Mason-.-

Жыл бұрын

Npcs

「もっと多くの人が必要なので、このビデオをもっと

we're not embarrassed we're massively afraid of the repercussions from feminists and their lackies if we actually do decide to speak out though....Dr. oz is a loonie

@lifeisbeautiful5998

Жыл бұрын

So u telling me u will let your fear or afraid-ness stop u from living a better life.

I can't get with this dude

Battle Field Mentality? Ok; all men know that and we know exactly what the battle is because we're losing. Damned if you do & damned if you don't. So just keep it to yourself. haha

This should be a reminder for all men to be feminists and actually help themselves as well as women

@andreasfi4244

Жыл бұрын

real feminism yes, not the feminists we have today.

@dunemae

Жыл бұрын

@@andreasfi4244 “we have today”

Dr. Oz is the last person u should get life advices from & don't let me start what i think about Matt Lauer....😒🤢🤢🤢🤢🤐🤐

Hmm it’s crazy that people cancel stuff that men are going through and put them down like mens mental health month because women go through so much more 🫢 but you guys aren’t ready for that yet

@lifeisbeautiful5998

Жыл бұрын

What u trying to say can u clearify ...I want to understand 😊

「もっと多くの人が必要なので、このビデオをもっと

「もっと多くの人が必要なので、このビデオをもっと