Don't Talk to Me Like That

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Jimmy Evans overviews five common areas of dysfunctional communication in relationships. From hurt and unforgiveness to dominance and control, we all have unhealthy communication habits that can be overcome.

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  • @natashakean8414
    @natashakean8414 Жыл бұрын

    I continue to fail as a wife, and everytime I feel like my marriage is on auto pilot i pull up these sermons and just get lost in the word and it recharges me.... Thank you so much Jimmy and Karen for telling the world your story and being called to serve for marriages.... it is sooooooo NEEDED in the world today. and God has blessed ya ll to bring the word to help us have better marriages. I can't thank you enough for being here for me when I need it the most.

  • @marye5828

    @marye5828

    Жыл бұрын

  • @faithfulservant200
    @faithfulservant2003 жыл бұрын

    Until we let our past die, God won't let our future live...

  • @catomellark4942
    @catomellark49425 жыл бұрын

    Teachability breeds success. Dear Lord I choose to be teachable. Whatever You show me I will do.

  • @sonyahartley6320

    @sonyahartley6320

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pastor you are so right about this

  • @laragreene8328

    @laragreene8328

    3 жыл бұрын

    Life is simple but we insist on making it complicated!!

  • @marilia2084

    @marilia2084

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sonyahartley6320 lelvojl

  • @Mila-yp4vr

    @Mila-yp4vr

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sonyahartley6320 49th.

  • @rethatew1617

    @rethatew1617

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope it works out for us

  • @soulsaver1000
    @soulsaver10005 жыл бұрын

    These messages saved my marriage by changing me and helping me to recognize the things that I was doing there was not strengthening developing encouraging me to begin to wash my wife in the word of the Lord it also allowed her to see the changes in me was Drew her back from distant position she had taken up to one of acceptance

  • @tilladuplessis9523

    @tilladuplessis9523

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ll

  • @miss007kimm

    @miss007kimm

    5 жыл бұрын

    GloryB2God. I am ecstatic in the Lord that transformation has taken place for you and your wife. Heaven rejoices at such a victory. Satan didn't win!!!

  • @TheSoughtAfter1

    @TheSoughtAfter1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @abisoyewilliams-mumuni4881

    @abisoyewilliams-mumuni4881

    2 жыл бұрын

    I truly respect men that are willing to listen to these messages and actively work on their marriages. GOD bless and keep you Sir and your marriage. May everything you lay your hands on be richly blessed as you treat your wife gracefully!

  • @sramirez777

    @sramirez777

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve sent these videos to my husband but instead of being receptive, he yells at me to stop sending him these “stuff.” I feel defeated. My question is how you allowed yourself to be receptive? I have been praying for my husband to be open minded.

  • @GodsChosenMekAmoR
    @GodsChosenMekAmoR5 жыл бұрын

    You are amazing. The Holy Spirit truly gave wisdom. To hear you and your wife's testimony makes my heart rejoice.

  • @stephanielovedandadoredbyg8976
    @stephanielovedandadoredbyg8976 Жыл бұрын

    I’m determined and chosen to heal my inner wounds from childhood and teenager years. This ministry is a vital educational tool. I so need it

  • @speakrighttogod
    @speakrighttogod Жыл бұрын

    Uhhhhhhhh...in general (excluding traumatic experiences, fears, UNREASONABLE expectations), if a woman does not want to have sex with her husband, it's PROBABLY because he is driven by his desire to PLEASE HIMSELF ONLY. He PROBABLY is also SELFISH and does NOT EVEN BOTHER to find out what rocks her world. If he does not make it his business to find out what buttons to push because It... IS...ALWAYS...ABOUT HIM, wouldn't you think that the wife would think, "There's nothing in it for me?!" In reality it SHOULD BE that BOTH spouses desire to please each other and know each other inside out (spirit soul & body), but some things are just NOT what they should be. Furthermore, tired of hearing the 'men want sex' (and women don't) angle from almost every one that dares to address the topic. WHEN DO MEN EVER STOP AND CONSIDER that their wives JUST MIGHT...BE...PHYSICALLY... TIRED/EXHAUSTED, especially with children in the picture, considering that she is usually the one doing most/if not all of the work/care with them ALL DAY AND PART OF THE NIGHT?????? From the time her feet hit the floor in the morning until she finally gets to put her feet up...in the bed...ready to sleep, she has SERVED as the wife, mother, cook, teacher, laundress, nurse, referee, maid, chauffeur, landscaper, financial manager, customer service negotiator, etc, etc, etc seven days a week, almost around the clock. SOMETIMES.... do you think husbands could be mindful/thoughtful/caring/understanding/appreciative and offer to massage the wife's back/feet, run a hot bath for her and/or SOMETHING along those lines. If hubby is NOT SELFISH, and 'does her right' in AND out of the bed, the declines would likely be minimal to none.

  • @nadinecolbath5584
    @nadinecolbath55844 жыл бұрын

    This was really insightful!!! I've just started watching these videos and I'm learning a lot from them. Thanks for posting these so we can make our marriages better!!!

  • @miltonacevedo2412
    @miltonacevedo24125 жыл бұрын

    Excellent words, God bless those who spends time learning in providing and improving marriage.

  • @mchelegreen7269
    @mchelegreen72694 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Karen & Jimmy for sharing these most valuable messages

  • @ygbowee34
    @ygbowee344 жыл бұрын

    Your Ministry is Helping my Heart everyday! Thank God for using you!

  • @MrAllysonn
    @MrAllysonn3 жыл бұрын

    The greatest reminder. Such a great sermons.

  • @suzonne100
    @suzonne1004 жыл бұрын

    Wow! This was a such a good sermon. Thank you.

  • @diamonte18
    @diamonte185 жыл бұрын

    This speaks to me real deep right now.

  • @romanapintek3596
    @romanapintek35964 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, amazing message, so helpful and spiritual. God bless you.

  • @tammyvo8880
    @tammyvo8880 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Pastor. I’m new to your Chanel. Please continue to pray for all of us🙏in the midst of our marital struggles.

  • @iw9338
    @iw93384 жыл бұрын

    Good message. God asked me to give Him my score card.

  • @0901sandman
    @0901sandman5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, thank you, thank you for this video. It may save a marriage. God bless you both.

  • @kabzakathunder3323
    @kabzakathunder33233 жыл бұрын

    I love this talk... it's most amazing thing to listen to such... thank you

  • @debrahilliard7541
    @debrahilliard75413 жыл бұрын

    Great information I'm not getting married anytime soon but it's great to hear this before jumping the broom

  • @shariclifford5065
    @shariclifford50655 жыл бұрын

    Amazing wisdom

  • @sharodeley675
    @sharodeley6754 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful message

  • @patriotgirl3163
    @patriotgirl31635 жыл бұрын

    My husband will not communicate. When I try I get Shhhh, or Hush. I do NOT tolerate that and tell him to stop saying that to me. I am at a loss. 34 year marriage and a lot of things have changed for the negative. I’m tired of hearing more “words” spoken to me that I have to deal with later. The hurt that’s left. I’m so tired of it. I’m sorry, just venting. 😢

  • @gabyflowers3010

    @gabyflowers3010

    5 жыл бұрын

    dpw4him kzread.info/dash/bejne/hourl7GvltHahpM.html

  • @gabyflowers3010

    @gabyflowers3010

    5 жыл бұрын

    This helped me. I hope it can help you

  • @gabyflowers3010

    @gabyflowers3010

    5 жыл бұрын

    May God heal and Bless your marriage

  • @shelleyd9910

    @shelleyd9910

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes exactly. How do we get them to listen to this instead of us. Prideful, arrogant men who claim to know Jesus.

  • @ericaprice3987

    @ericaprice3987

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes actions speak louder than words

  • @MrsDburnett923
    @MrsDburnett9234 жыл бұрын

    This was good... Thank you!

  • @siphelelethelmamkhize4786
    @siphelelethelmamkhize47865 жыл бұрын

    I like your teachings

  • @marye5828
    @marye5828 Жыл бұрын

    Grateful for your transparent testimonies and your videos . I know God is no respector of persons . Im so hopefilled. When we do things God's way we have a better chance at success in our marriages. These videos show us the practicality how to walk that out. Many including me had no godly examples of marriage . That's why sound biblical marital teachings are important. Thank you. . I pray grace grace for ea of us gleaning & our spouses to be teachable, and to have a wonderful thriving biblical marriage the way Jesus intended.

  • @noraramirez5354
    @noraramirez53544 жыл бұрын

    Why no body told me this before. 👍

  • @laragreene8328

    @laragreene8328

    3 жыл бұрын

    Life is simple but we insist on making it complicated!!

  • @kabzakathunder3323
    @kabzakathunder33233 жыл бұрын

    This is beautiful

  • @leonardroldan2476
    @leonardroldan24763 жыл бұрын

    I love these videos. I wise Christian 98 year old woman of God have me the best advice when I found out my husband was having an emotional affair. She said she was married 60 years the secret was to always say yes. In love, in sex, and in needs. Our marriage is thriving! I didnt realize I was on autopilot after 17 years of marriage. We've got to cherish our spouses. God blesses us with our wives, husbands. Let's appreciate and flourish our marriages!

  • @hereiam587

    @hereiam587

    Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes you need to say no, it's all about balance.

  • @lorraineellis777
    @lorraineellis777 Жыл бұрын

    Communication is key and Keeping the lord in front and praying everyday, support one another❤️encouragement as well

  • @henrychika9525
    @henrychika95253 жыл бұрын

    Good one!

  • @kimhawkes2570
    @kimhawkes25704 жыл бұрын

    Great teaching

  • @Bonnie-fh8up
    @Bonnie-fh8up4 жыл бұрын

    This was hard to hear but incredibly helpful.

  • @FlawedmanServingajustGod

    @FlawedmanServingajustGod

    4 жыл бұрын

    God bless you for being honest was hard but you still listened and you said it was helpful so you must have applied you are truly strong and blessed 😃

  • @timlucasentertainment
    @timlucasentertainment3 жыл бұрын

    Marriage Today is changing my life and my marriage

  • @patriotgirl3163
    @patriotgirl31635 жыл бұрын

    Yes unhealed hurts. Big time!!!

  • @shelleyd9910
    @shelleyd99105 жыл бұрын

    I hate how men can be so sure that their wife isn't "normal" when every single woman has similar needs.

  • @Lili-Benovent

    @Lili-Benovent

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like you are very frustrated, get yourself a toy boy.

  • @mattlove9066

    @mattlove9066

    4 жыл бұрын

    Noooo never the woman's fault poor little ol me

  • @Lili-Benovent

    @Lili-Benovent

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mattlove9066 The mans first love, Beer and football.

  • @ericaprice3987

    @ericaprice3987

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mattlove9066Are you angry at women?

  • @mattlove9066

    @mattlove9066

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ericaprice3987 no

  • @2bethankful48
    @2bethankful483 жыл бұрын

    Wow going through a divorce right now. But theses are so good to me . I have learned a lot from you both . that way when God does bless me with a Good Godly man . I will be more educated and more wise to how me and my future partner can be successful and healthier in our relationship.

  • @marcellofunhouse1234

    @marcellofunhouse1234

    Жыл бұрын

    Not supposed to get remarried

  • @MT-kj2zv
    @MT-kj2zv Жыл бұрын

    He also talks about repenting that most So- Called preachers try to avoid. This is a good man and says what he means in a simple way.

  • @TheSolidheroes
    @TheSolidheroes3 жыл бұрын

    I have great admiration for any man who can live together with a woman for more than a week.They are the real heroes imho.

  • @lorraineellis777
    @lorraineellis777 Жыл бұрын

    I love my husband - through it all

  • @Plantladytiff
    @Plantladytiff Жыл бұрын

    I’m dealing with this right now. Verbal abuse. I am trying to continue to love and forgive. Hurting people hurt people. I pray my significant other releases his hurt and pain and anger so that he can love me purely and honestly and righteously

  • @XOMarriage

    @XOMarriage

    Жыл бұрын

    Praying for you.

  • @bc2109
    @bc2109 Жыл бұрын

    Sad that I can totally relate to how Jimmy felt when he heard his friend talking sweetly to his wife.

  • @nanadanarocks
    @nanadanarocks4 жыл бұрын

    Wow!

  • @SorryIAteYourCookiesSanta
    @SorryIAteYourCookiesSanta4 жыл бұрын

    I love listening to this pastor, but i must stress that it's not only men that need sex. Women need it and desire it too. Also men like to talk and to be listened to as well. We're human beings (: God bless

  • @bcsherod4366

    @bcsherod4366

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen! Sadly society and culture has over the centuries objectives women. It’s still a huge problem.

  • @crgislimes984
    @crgislimes9843 жыл бұрын

    I would love to talk to this guy n his wife!

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves3922 жыл бұрын

    Dear God🙏♥️💕 in heaven, I come to you in the name of Jesus. I acknowledge to You that I am a sinner, and I am sorry for my sins and the life that I have lived; I need your forgiveness. I believe that your only begotten Son Jesus Christ shed His precious blood on the cross at Calvary and died for my sins, and I am now willing to turn from my sin. You said in the bible that if we confess the Lord our God and believe in our hearts that God raised Jesus from the dead, we shall be saved. Right now I confess Jesus as my Lord. With my heart, I believe that God raised Jesus from the dead. This very moment I accept Jesus Christ as my own personal Savior and according to His Word, right now I am saved. Amen.

  • @TheTechCguy
    @TheTechCguy4 жыл бұрын

    Imagine having someone with a loud and booming voice wake you up when you don't want to in the morning. Yeah, that's real normal.

  • @jacquelinegoring9002
    @jacquelinegoring90024 жыл бұрын

    Marrage-- mark ch10: 6-9. Mathew ch22--30. Hey ch13 --4

  • @solstice1681
    @solstice16814 жыл бұрын

    My husband suffers from tremendous pride, so bad that he even thinks he knows more than doctors, he's an alcoholic in denial and the world is as he says it is, not as it is. The need for sex is in me, not in him, and I keep myself fit and attractive, but I only get attention from other men, never from my husband. Pray for him, please pray for us.

  • @togodbetheglory3353

    @togodbetheglory3353

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂 sounds just like my husband!! Haha literally had an argument the other day where I told him what doctor's are saying and STILL he thinks he is right. Every time I say something that is different than what he believes, he always has to go and look it up just to prove me wrong....btw I have my bachelor's degree and my husband has his GED....get what I'm saying?! I so desperately want him to stop being prideful before God makes him...which will only be tougher 🙄 praying for you!

  • @realtorgiftee

    @realtorgiftee

    Жыл бұрын

    Same sis!

  • @pdpode8978
    @pdpode89784 жыл бұрын

    Was enjoying it till it abruptly quit and they started asking for money 😒

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves3922 жыл бұрын

    🙏“Padre, sé que he violado tus leyes y mis pecados me han separado de ti. Realmente lo siento, y ahora quiero alejarme de mi vida pecaminosa pasada hacia ti. Perdóname y ayúdame a evitar volver a pecar. Creo que su hijo, Jesucristo, murió por mis pecados, resucitó de entre los muertos, está vivo y escucha mi oración. Invito a Jesús a convertirse en el Señor de mi vida, a gobernar y reinar en mi corazón desde este día en adelante. Por favor envía tu Espíritu Santo para ayudarme a obedecerte y hacer tu voluntad por el resto de mi vida. En el nombre de Jesús oro, Amén "

  • @GloriaSol
    @GloriaSol5 жыл бұрын

    “Get out the house!” Why do husbands do that?

  • @mattlove9066

    @mattlove9066

    4 жыл бұрын

    BECAUSE THEY CAN AND HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO, WHAT GETS ME IS WHEN A WIFE TRIES TO DO IT TO HER HUSBAND ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S HIS HOUSE

  • @Frostop162

    @Frostop162

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mattlove9066 it's never his hosue! If youre married it's your house. What in the world 😂

  • @mattlove9066

    @mattlove9066

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Frostop162 not if the husband is paying the bills

  • @Frostop162

    @Frostop162

    4 жыл бұрын

    How sexist to assume women don't work, I make more then most men I know, but even if I didn't. If a women is raising a man kids, cleaning thier house, cooking their dinner, grocery shopping, hes not just paying the bills. That's his children nurse, their daycare worker, the maid, the cook, the personal shopper, the one who makes sure the bills are paid on time and money is where it needs to go, makes sure the kids get to school volunteers. She is who makes him look good and makes life easier. Try to change your thatd my house mind set or pay someone else to do all of that.

  • @togodbetheglory3353

    @togodbetheglory3353

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mattlove9066 misogynist....women do more than men even if the woman works too...the men just don't see everything they do to keep their life afloat

  • @speedskater5613
    @speedskater56135 жыл бұрын

    What if one is doing it gods way and the other isn’t, uses porn and is disrespectful. How long do you hold on?

  • @oleandra3759
    @oleandra37594 жыл бұрын

    That laughter seems so contrived

  • @laragreene8328
    @laragreene83283 жыл бұрын

    MY YOKE IS EASY!! ..........LOVE IS THE ONLY REQUIREMENT IN A GOOD MARRIAGE!!.......... MARRY SOMEBODY YOU LOVE THAT LOVES YOU! AND BOTH LOVE GOD!! SIMPLE!!.......THE WORLDLY WAYS ARE COMPLICATED,GOD ISNT!!..........STOP BEING WORLDLY!!

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves3922 жыл бұрын

    Querido Deus🙏no céu, venho até você em nome de Jesus. Reconheço-te que sou um pecador e sinto muito pelos meus pecados e pela vida que tenho vivido; Eu preciso do seu perdão. Eu creio que o seu filho unigênito Jesus Cristo derramou Seu sangue precioso na cruz no Calvário e morreu por meus pecados, e agora estou disposto a abandonar meus pecados. Você disse na bíblia que se confessarmos o Senhor nosso Deus e crermos em nossos corações que Deus ressuscitou Jesus dos mortos, seremos salvos. Agora mesmo eu confesso Jesus como meu Senhor. De coração, acredito que Deus ressuscitou Jesus dos mortos. Neste exato momento eu aceito Jesus Cristo como meu Salvador pessoal e de acordo com Sua Palavra, agora estou salvo. Um homem.

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves3922 жыл бұрын

    The Gospel of salvation of our souls: 💜💕💜💖💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,

  • @davidvanderveer5882
    @davidvanderveer58824 жыл бұрын

    You talk so fast that it is easy to dismiss what you are saying. My wife will not listen to me! Even when I make a great point she says I am just making excuses and the best I can hope for is to have her walk away, rethink what I said, come to the conclusion - I should change myself! Needless to say, that never happens.

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves3922 жыл бұрын

    O Evangelho: 💜💕💜💖💞💜💕Pelo que recebi, passei a vocês como de [primeira importância]: que Cristo morreu pelos nossos pecados segundo as Escrituras, que foi sepultado, que ressuscitou ao terceiro dia de acordo com as Escrituras, e que ele apareceu a Pedro e depois aos Doze. Depois disso, ele apareceu para mais de quinhentos irmãos e irmãs ao mesmo tempo,

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves3922 жыл бұрын

    Evangelio para la salvación de tus almas💞💕💜💕❤💞💕💜 Porque ante todo les transmití a ustedes lo que yo mismo recibí: que Cristo murió por nuestros pecados según las Escrituras, que fue sepultado, que resucitó al tercer día según las Escrituras, y que se apareció a Pedro, y luego a los doce. Después se apareció a más de quinientos hermanos a la vez,

  • @ginnyperdue3157
    @ginnyperdue31574 жыл бұрын

    I divorced a narrcisstic psychopath

  • @carolsmite
    @carolsmite3 жыл бұрын

    What if a woman over 70 years old has no sex drive at all but her husband does?

  • @sf808opalaman

    @sf808opalaman

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can a husband who is NOT emotionally open/ emotionally available to you, change his ways??

  • @marcellofunhouse1234
    @marcellofunhouse1234 Жыл бұрын

    My dad stole my moms inheritance behind her back verbally abuses me persacutes my mom for being Christian threatened to skin me alive or kill me last year

  • @allenketzer9872
    @allenketzer98725 жыл бұрын

    Why try to sell what God gave you in the night wisdom just tell us what God told you it helps God will give you what you need

  • @ladykay917

    @ladykay917

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen...so true

  • @elizabethrodriguez7905

    @elizabethrodriguez7905

    4 жыл бұрын

    It takes money to have ministry that’s why

  • @mattlove9066
    @mattlove90664 жыл бұрын

    A MAN SHOULD NEVER SHOW ANY WEAKNESS TOWARD HIS WIFE AS SHE WILL HARP ON THAT FOREVER, WOMEN HAVE A HARD TIME FORGIVING AND FORGETTING, THEY TAKE FULL ADVANTAGE OF A MANS WEAK POINTS TO GET THE UPPER HAND, MEN , NEVER EVER SHARE EMOTIONS OR WEAKNESS TO YOUR WIFE, WOMEN CAN'T HANDLE IT NOT EVEN THEIR OWN WEAKNESSES, EXAMPLE, IF YOU.HAVE A BAD DAY AT WORK, WHEN YOU COME HOME AND YOUR WIFE ASKS HOW YOUR DAY WAS YOU SAY GOOD

  • @shelleyd9910

    @shelleyd9910

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like you are mistaking Satans voice for your wife. She is not your enemy. Watch the latest Marriage Today podcast. It will set you free.

  • @mattlove9066

    @mattlove9066

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@shelleyd9910 we're divorced anyway well in the process, that was an old post

  • @shelleyd9910

    @shelleyd9910

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mattlove9066 that's sad Matt. Happens too much. Marriage is hard work. And today's. Culture actively fights it. But Jesus can heal all broken hearts. Because I have been there,. Jimmy and Karen can still help with this ministry. Bless you

  • @Joniyah444
    @Joniyah4444 жыл бұрын

    God help us if this is who is teaching the masses. There is no solid advice on being a true man or real woman. Even agnostic pages have success then some flimsy half hearted message.

  • @shelleyd9910

    @shelleyd9910

    3 жыл бұрын

    ? Scripture quoted all through this ministry. He sends people straight to Jesus.

  • @ShaeThompsonthehairdiva

    @ShaeThompsonthehairdiva

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are not very smart are you?!

  • @Joniyah444

    @Joniyah444

    3 жыл бұрын

    Shae Thompson nope. Definitely not. Anything else ?

  • @lindasanderlin4444
    @lindasanderlin44444 ай бұрын

    I love your Sermons and they have changed my life, marriage and family. I find it exceedingly sad that you are always selling your complete sets of sermons so unless a family is rich, they can’t gain access to all your sermons. It feels like televangelism and sinfulness to refuse access to people who need your full lessons unless they can pay for it. Wouldn’t it be more Godly to offer your full sermons for the donation people can afford?