Don't let them bother you

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  • @merveceylan8636
    @merveceylan863615 күн бұрын

    Watching your video was for me being in the right spot at the right moment (as always). I would like to comment if I may. Well, you create your own reality even before you incarnate to this world. To advance your spiritual development, you follow a path that is unique to you as billions of other life forms. This morning I read a quote from Lao Tzu that says something like this: "God gives you people you need, not the ones you want. These people are gonna help you, hurt you, harm you, leave you, love you... In this way, they will make you turn into who you should become to be. So, to sum up, how can you exclude or ignore the "bad" things that are happening outside? They're not for avoiding/ running away, they're there for our attention for us to "see" the real purpose of them. Of course, I'm not saying "let's enjoy suffering" but greeting them with an awareness and a conscious mindset, without labeling them as "good" or "bad", seeing them as just experiences, and allowing them to happen may open new perspectives. Then you can free yourself from yourself (you don't necessarily need an external source to criticize yourself). I know saying these things is easy but implementing is much more difficult. Good luck to all of you in your journeys!

  • @khushiii344

    @khushiii344

    14 күн бұрын

    wow! your comment is powerful. thank you for commenting this! i’m blessed and grateful.

  • @turiiya1921

    @turiiya1921

    12 күн бұрын

    you are very correct. In fact we are all moving around the nucleus, getting closer and closer to our Supreme desideratum. And obstacles, challenges are the forces that help us to become stronger and to move ahead on the path. Seen in the light of this perspective, you can say that struggle against these obstacles is the very essence of life without which we would move towards retardation, toward our animalistic tendencies. But we must move ahead, with heads held high, not only in the physical and psychic strata but also in the spiritual arena. We must subtilize and channelise our mind's restlessness into the grand ocean of inner peace and fulfilment. This is only done through spiritual practice.

  • @luminar2
    @luminar217 күн бұрын

    "The human soul degrades itself when it is overpowered by pleasure or pain."

  • @swasti6906
    @swasti690617 күн бұрын

    Your videos come out just when im about to re enter my slump and pull me back standing strong on my own two feet

  • @ablejose6171

    @ablejose6171

    17 күн бұрын

    But, is this how it's supposed to be everytime, working for few days and fall back, iam in a similar phase btw what do you work on?

  • @zthehero

    @zthehero

    17 күн бұрын

    Are you from uttrakhand?

  • @ayuntey69

    @ayuntey69

    16 күн бұрын

    ​@@ablejose6171having phases is really normal. It's kinda like a cycle. Just don't let the lower phases define u. And u should always aim for the ones that brings u closer to ur goals. Keep it up random stranger online

  • @angelagrosso2162

    @angelagrosso2162

    16 күн бұрын

    Awesome video every time I listen to you speak I become closer to where I'd would like to be. Thanks so much.

  • @A-jl1ql

    @A-jl1ql

    5 күн бұрын

    You are not alone, we all are fighting our own thoughts constantly. But if you have examples of putting restraint on yourself it maybe on food & sexual urges etc. Remember those successes and use them as fuel to prevent yourself from entring into a slump. Again and again. Just dont get distracted and soon you will be fine. This comment is for the viewer as well as for me as a reference point.

  • @MiaMichelucci000
    @MiaMichelucci00016 күн бұрын

    "Start to be indifferent to indifferent things". Thank you

  • @Annabelle99356
    @Annabelle9935616 күн бұрын

    You speak with such calmness, articulation and eloquence, can tell that you are a deep thinker who values his solitude and does not like to follow the crowd. How refreshing. I very much love and appreciate you. Thank you again!

  • @witchitachick

    @witchitachick

    16 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @NhungNguyen-zf3bh

    @NhungNguyen-zf3bh

    16 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤ i'm telling myself the same thing about him😮. Thanks. My new favorite youtuber.

  • @georgiafrancis9059

    @georgiafrancis9059

    3 күн бұрын

    I totally agree. Goad I found this. He makes sense.

  • @adamw36
    @adamw3616 күн бұрын

    "What is in the way, becomes the way." Damn, that's kinda hardcore. I love that.

  • @Kris-bg5nw
    @Kris-bg5nw16 күн бұрын

    What stood out about you which made me keep coming back is the simplicity of your videos, the titles are catchy enough to attract curiosity and that's it. The way you speak so calmly unlike other youtubers who talk enthusiastically fast, and the fact that there's no motivational bg music and edits is really soothing. And also it feels like talking to a friend who read a book (whenever you quote seneca or other thinkers) and is giving me advice based on what he read instead of acting like he's a "know it all"

  • @bl1506
    @bl15062 күн бұрын

    You are that “friend” we call and you’ll stay on the phone for hours to help us to self aware, think, question and challenge ourselves

  • @soufianeelalaoui
    @soufianeelalaoui15 күн бұрын

    External events are neutral. Our perspective is anxiety inducing. Conditions for your happiness are premeditated disappointments

  • @playfulsteps9249
    @playfulsteps924914 күн бұрын

    There is an incredible power in not forming a mental and verbal opinion. How often we give over our power to people and things that have no bearing on our lives.

  • @fawnmalone410
    @fawnmalone41017 күн бұрын

    The Serenity Prayer....a world of philosophy bound up in a prayer. 'Accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things i can...' i always need to self improve.

  • @desiredecove5815

    @desiredecove5815

    7 күн бұрын

    Just thought the same

  • @mariasalloua
    @mariasalloua6 күн бұрын

    How this man be addressing those quotes 13min straight without even editing his vids

  • @ExistentialSadness
    @ExistentialSadness17 күн бұрын

    My biggest problem lately has been feeling like since I finished university, my social life and friends have drifted away from me. I'm getting older, approaching 30, I'll be 27 this year, and most of my friends have moved away, either far away or abroad. It was difficult for a while to come to terms with this, but now I've reached a point where I can be completely happy alone. Many people are not capable of being alone; I think this is something you have to learn. My best friend has become my girlfriend, although I still meet with 'buddies' a few times a month, my true, best friends are far away from me, and we mostly keep in touch online, but we talk about everything every day and sometimes meet. We might have to see the experience of friends drifting away as an opportunity for personal transformation and the cultivation of inner strength. So, the essence is: you have to learn to be alone and accept the changes in life. Edit: this guy's hair is insane as always! :D

  • @TheXabl0

    @TheXabl0

    17 күн бұрын

    “If you’re terrified of being alone, you are in bad company.” -Sarte

  • @maraL_A

    @maraL_A

    16 күн бұрын

    It's consoling to hear that so many other people go through similar things. It makes it acceptable and easier, I apluad you for speaking up 🤍

  • @avoyagerinsearchofbeauty
    @avoyagerinsearchofbeauty17 күн бұрын

    This topic resonates with my current situation. All of your video are therapeutic.

  • @someonesjournal1
    @someonesjournal116 күн бұрын

    How can I be indifferent towards the injustice taking place in the world? how can this injustice be changed if everyone was indifferent?? Even if it's out of our control, we can at least draw attention to it so the ones in control can change it 🙁

  • @Judge_RR
    @Judge_RR17 күн бұрын

    You are clearly a scholar, Mr., but you also double as a psychologist. And you read, and share this wisdom here with us. Thank you.

  • @wiktoriagorka3980
    @wiktoriagorka398016 күн бұрын

    My favourite videos to watch before going to bed, such simple yet important message to reflect on before falling asleep

  • @Cat-and-Tilly
    @Cat-and-Tilly14 күн бұрын

    …and he does it in one take. Amazing.

  • @macviviezca
    @macviviezca17 күн бұрын

    Thank you for helping me go through the toughest time in my life! I appreciate you.

  • @begimai_
    @begimai_17 күн бұрын

    I'm so happy I found your channel now, while going through a crisis. I don't have the courage to put into words what I feel. But I do listen. Your videos help me understand many thought patterns I had. Thank you!

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl9 күн бұрын

    Absolutely! 🙌 Finding happiness is often simpler than we think-it's about taking control of our mindset and focusing on what truly matters. Remember, true freedom comes from mastering our reactions to external events and embracing the power we have over our own happiness.

  • @mothman943
    @mothman94316 күн бұрын

    I experienced a flash flood. Water got in my basement. In the general scheme of things the outcome could have been worse. I ended up throwing away junk and decluttering my basement. Sometimes a positive outcome can bloom from something like a flood that I had no control over and had to watch. This was a good lesson thank you

  • @Englishroserebecca
    @Englishroserebecca17 күн бұрын

    Thank you, helps to be reminded to be content. When I try and stay grateful for every little thing and not complain or be negative I always feel happier.

  • @shelbourne2875
    @shelbourne28752 күн бұрын

    He gotta make a video on how to be a good speaker in a way that people would want to sit and listen to your words. How to keep the flow, use the right words, and be relatable to other people's experiences. Just like the way he is!

  • @MavaHendsenmayajs19442
    @MavaHendsenmayajs1944216 күн бұрын

    There's an unexplainable feeling that I get when I listen to you. I have learned so much from your videos. Thanks a lot! 😍

  • @sljay639
    @sljay6397 сағат бұрын

    Thank you for this. Only recently discovered your channel this week and just got fired from my job yesterday. I’ve been exploring a lot of new passions and have been really trying to better myself and grow as a person this year. I was so focused on my personal stuff my performance started dropping at work a lot. This led to me ultimately being let go. I had the hardest time going to sleep. Regretting and questioning everything I had done that led to that point. It’s now the 2nd night and I’m in bed again with the same problem. This is where your video has reached me. As sad as I am to have this black mark on my record, this is also a chance to learn and grow from my mistakes. I will turn my failure into an opportunity.

  • @ohharshuparshu
    @ohharshuparshu16 күн бұрын

    Thank you for creating a hub where I not only get to enjoy watching these thought provoking videos but also enjoy reading some of the insightful comments on this channel 💙

  • @Lady_Ima2
    @Lady_Ima215 күн бұрын

    Truly resonates with my personal experience: I had a job which paid very well until the day it stopped. I was overworked and enslaved until it came to an end. Some would say that was ‘bad’. However, I since started working less altogether. I cut expenses and live more frugally. I have more quality time to myself, time to exercise, read, reflect… Biggest take out from this experience; accept the universe! Thank you.

  • @soulsearchingwithstina
    @soulsearchingwithstina14 күн бұрын

    "Learn to be indifferent to indifferent things" is a very specific & incredible point you made in this video. Sometimes, the people who cause the most chaos in our lives are actually indifferent about everything & they simply float around like that. It is our own reaction to them that causes a lack of peace within ourselves. Something which is telling. I've recently learned that many people tend to be indifferent towards me or they don't pay any attention to anything in general. Only mindless topics. This however dictates nothing when it comes to our own value & our potential. So yes, learning to be indifferent towards indifferent things truly is a conscious choice one must make again & again whilst reminding themselves as to what naturally aligns & sparks passion. Indifferent things being indifferent towards us do not dictate our value, unless we let it.

  • @user-re3vd1pt9w
    @user-re3vd1pt9w16 күн бұрын

    احببت كلامك كثيراً خاصتاّ عندما تكلمت عن السعادة وهي تنبع من الداخل ويمكننا ان نصنع ساعدتنا بانفسنا بدلاً من انتظارها من شخص آخر

  • @benjaminamundsen7812
    @benjaminamundsen781216 күн бұрын

    Yes! I completely agree with your take on frugality.

  • @brandi_everett_author
    @brandi_everett_author17 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for creating this reflective space for us. 🌱

  • @Seagram_Hstiung
    @Seagram_Hstiung17 күн бұрын

    Your video came up just when I was looking to be comforted. Went through so much at work. Just when I thought the storm blew over, there’s more stuff resurfacing. Thank you for your video, truly appreciate it

  • @user-yn6zo4wp5b
    @user-yn6zo4wp5b16 күн бұрын

    Each of your videos are resonating pearls of wisdom. Thank you for being here brother.

  • @jimmyj8161
    @jimmyj8161Күн бұрын

    Another helpful and meaningful video ❤❤❤

  • @sunnyheaven369
    @sunnyheaven36915 күн бұрын

    That was spoken right out of my heart! 😊

  • @andreajoylu
    @andreajoylu16 күн бұрын

    I can't thank you enough for your content and always look forward to your videos. The one you did last week was life changing for me and I keep going back to it. I hope you keep these up because it is helping so many others as well. 😊

  • @samada5656
    @samada565617 күн бұрын

    I enjoy the deep talk in this channel. Good job!

  • @none377
    @none3772 күн бұрын

    I needed this video. Thank you, and I'm glad I discovered your channel.

  • @-lee7867
    @-lee78673 күн бұрын

    u are very well spoken .. needed to hear this.

  • @gursharankaur5796
    @gursharankaur579616 күн бұрын

    Here for my weekly dose of goodness. I swear I feel grounded and calmer everytime I watch one of these. Also the complex concepts, which he always succeeds at explaining them so elegantly, with a hint of simplicity, not the easiest, but simple enough to comprehend and bring change.

  • @wanderunner8971
    @wanderunner89714 күн бұрын

    I love your calming voice, and that you are just simple. I always listen to your videos before sleeping. :D

  • @caty9995
    @caty999516 күн бұрын

    Thank you. I needed to hear this today. ❤

  • @katatarot597
    @katatarot59716 күн бұрын

    This is certainly helpful, especially when things in life go really bad, which they did for me recently. It almost looks like we are being tested to become better versions of ourselves. Maybe also being this resilient is one of the ways of becoming wiser. Thank you.

  • @dyafaraidun8032
    @dyafaraidun803216 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your insightful and profound introspection. Your willingness to delve deeply into your inner self and share your findings is commendable. I have spent the past few days reflecting on my own internal aspects, seeking to detach myself from external constraints. Your words have been helpful. Thank you for being you.

  • @margueritecurtis2168
    @margueritecurtis216816 күн бұрын

    Just discovered your videos, love them. Have shared them with friends. Thanks 😘

  • @MaeseVan
    @MaeseVan5 күн бұрын

    What it bugs me about morally good and morally bad is when I think about something that is not bad but maybe other people will see it that way.

  • @minimcune
    @minimcune16 күн бұрын

    Im glad im alive at the same time that you are alive. Thank you for this wonderful video.

  • @BabygalG
    @BabygalG16 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this 🙏

  • @user-kj2gf1cn1p
    @user-kj2gf1cn1p16 күн бұрын

    I am beyond words of gratitude for your channel and you taking the time to share the wisdom youve come to learn through life so openly and loving. I've been wanting to start my own channel of the same sort.... Just talk. Find like minded people and maybe even leave an impact along the way.

  • @sydrii
    @sydrii16 күн бұрын

    It is worth mentioning that while you should be indifferent to indifferent things, this does not mean you should act indifferently to these things. Indifference to our happiness, not indifference to our actions. Say you are walking to the bus stop and it unexpectedly starts raining. You shouldn’t be upset at the rain or the fact you are now wet, but you should still act rationally and seek shelter from the rain. Someone steals one of your possessions - your happiness should be unaffected but you should still rationally pursue the steps to try get the possession back if it would be worthwhile to do so. Indifference to our happiness, not indifference to our actions.

  • @margerdei
    @margerdei16 күн бұрын

    Once again, another thoughtful and insightful video - thank you.

  • @afkhoso
    @afkhoso17 күн бұрын

    A Calvin Klein model teaching philosophy. OK bad joke. But LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. ADDICTED SINCE I DISCOVERED YOU A MONTH AGO. ❤

  • @Lameeslily
    @Lameeslily11 күн бұрын

    What a wise intelligent knowledgeable handsome man! I’m sending you lots of love💕 God bless you

  • @terri2583
    @terri258317 күн бұрын

    Love how your videos always leave me with deep thoughts 🤔

  • @manzar42
    @manzar4216 күн бұрын

    what a pleasure to start the day in your company, good words, a cool new hair style!

  • @silverapples4197
    @silverapples41973 күн бұрын

    i'm so glad to find your channel. this is the second video of you that i watched. you are very helpful.

  • @kmgraphic.design
    @kmgraphic.design15 күн бұрын

    Wise words, well said.

  • @konnorjames5615
    @konnorjames561516 күн бұрын

    For the past little while I’ve felt like I’ve falling of the path of a good life, Watching your videos help me feel like I’m finding my way back

  • @kareemmohammed5270
    @kareemmohammed52709 күн бұрын

    resonates, much appreciated.

  • @jason-hc3du
    @jason-hc3du4 күн бұрын

    Become indifferent to indifferent things.

  • @alfredoistic
    @alfredoistic17 күн бұрын

    Hey man, just wanted to say, I'm a huge fan of your videos, dude. Thanks a ton for always sharing your thoughts and knowledge about this stuff, It's a constant challenge, it's like trying to navigate through a maze of opinions without getting lost in the urge to slap a "good" or "bad" sticker on everything, very interesting video thanks a lot !

  • @AdrianThonyNava
    @AdrianThonyNava16 күн бұрын

    Brother, your content is great. And that’s in your control. I truly hope you are going great

  • @pinkpalace6117
    @pinkpalace61178 күн бұрын

    Your voice is so calming ❤

  • @elenabarrionuevo
    @elenabarrionuevo13 күн бұрын

    Wow, perfect timing in my life for this, it feels magical. Thanks for sharing and inspiring 🤍

  • @faleesha3366
    @faleesha336617 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this❤

  • @alanfleming196
    @alanfleming19615 күн бұрын

    This video helped me a lot today. God bless you.

  • @weierhai4112
    @weierhai411216 күн бұрын

    Some of your videos, I watch them more than once.

  • @aa-ml6ud
    @aa-ml6ud16 күн бұрын

    Your voice is so soothing I want to fall asleep

  • @SaraAider
    @SaraAider17 күн бұрын

    Thank you for these videos

  • @shredmastercomicsans679
    @shredmastercomicsans67915 күн бұрын

    I love this man

  • @max_s557
    @max_s55716 күн бұрын

    Watching your videos are like having a private conversation with a close friend....thank you.

  • @sissalovesbeingalive
    @sissalovesbeingalive17 күн бұрын

    Excellent video!!!!!!!!!!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I hope you keep reaching more and more people!🤗🤗

  • @diptya_g
    @diptya_g16 күн бұрын

    Please start an audio podcast, listen to these while working, it's great

  • @DS40764
    @DS4076417 күн бұрын

    OKAY. Thanks for your contributions here. A lot to ponder.

  • @Yvefutura
    @Yvefutura16 күн бұрын

    Your videos are very soothing haha

  • @AA-oe6su
    @AA-oe6su16 күн бұрын

    That color is great on you and your hair looks amazing

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets17 күн бұрын

    Always enjoy your videos. Thanks

  • @kris.sublimeart3323
    @kris.sublimeart332316 күн бұрын

    Nothing is random, and everything is the mirror to our own perception of reality, filtered by our own fears and trauma.... that's why is important to heal and become self aware thus the reality around us can change and we can experience it through a new lense,hopefully through love towards the self and that love will be mirrored outside in our reality🥰✨️

  • @flyingfeathers_
    @flyingfeathers_16 күн бұрын

    you need to talk about the philosophy of beauty, physical beauty that is

  • @chednair
    @chednair12 күн бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @JJoy_21
    @JJoy_2117 күн бұрын

    What stands in the way becomes the way

  • @marissaclaridge7627
    @marissaclaridge76278 күн бұрын

    Such a lovely videoxxxthank you❤

  • @A.s.s.777
    @A.s.s.77716 күн бұрын

    I do love your videos just for the content and the message you are spreading. But I must say that your pace, speaking slowly and taking your time, is very dearing to me. I am a slow speaker, I like to think carefully about words and what I really want to say, but somehow is disconnected with my enviroment at present. So I thank you for that.

  • @douaaberroho7893
    @douaaberroho789315 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your amazing advice as usual. I wonder if you could start an online book club. It would be great if many people bring different points of views about these topics.

  • @MaddalenaPB
    @MaddalenaPB12 күн бұрын

    Hello! Just discovered your channel (lol was going to write challenge! ) and wanted to say Hi! I perceive Aquarius/Gemini energy here :D Thank you for being (you!). Bye!

  • @NimaHrobi
    @NimaHrobi16 күн бұрын

    Following you from Saudi Arabia, keep up with your content

  • @EB321
    @EB32116 күн бұрын

    Rather than asking, “how can we turn this thing [that’s in the way] into something in our control”, wouldn’t we be better to ask, “how can we discover in which way this thing IS the way (ie acquiesce to wtv comes)?” I only ask because I feel it is better to keep the mind as clear as possible to what might surprise me; amor faté, absurdism, etc. Love your channel btw ❤

  • @zensvlognotapro
    @zensvlognotapro16 күн бұрын

    I have my own quote 😊: there is no good and bad only consequences, outcomes and experiences.😊. I see you smiling 😊

  • @Melli_4
    @Melli_417 күн бұрын

    Love your channel 🥰

  • @roshansamrobert
    @roshansamrobert3 күн бұрын

    always the best videos on YT

  • @ameeraalgahmdi1111
    @ameeraalgahmdi111115 күн бұрын

    For me now I want to sit a lot with nature and a very, very little with humans

  • @Djellowman
    @Djellowman16 күн бұрын

    Some can not be happy without, and therefore cannot be indifferent towards, something external. For example; love. What if you are with someone and they end it without any explanation, and you can not feel happy knowing what life was like with that specific person and the fact that you haven't met another person like than in all the years you've been alive. How can we be indifferent to that even though we have no control over it? You could say that life is how you deal with what happens, but life is also being lucky to be able to get what makes you happy.

  • @323martyrstreet8
    @323martyrstreet816 күн бұрын

    I like that you talk about lying.. really like had to lie to survive and now i want to come back on the way of truth. If it's possible. I'm not perfect..

  • @Annabelle99356

    @Annabelle99356

    16 күн бұрын

    There's always a chance to grow and learn from our mistakes in life. We humans are all flawed.

  • @Anthony-kx8qf
    @Anthony-kx8qf2 күн бұрын

    Happiness results from pursuing your end, which is God.

  • @MDKS_
    @MDKS_8 күн бұрын

    brother from another mother❤

  • @farrrahh
    @farrrahh16 күн бұрын

    please please please make a podcast. i love this channel so much

  • @KhatijaSacranie
    @KhatijaSacranie16 күн бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @metallicmuse
    @metallicmuse16 күн бұрын

    Two things: Firstly, I've really been struggling with this lately so thank you! Much appreciated. Really and truly. Secondly, I've listened to every one of your lectures (a lot of them more than once) and I'd like to know: Do you find that there is a point where or when Philosophy and Metaphysics (my specialty) intersect? The reason I ask is because you often mention a lot of the same points that ring true in the realm of Metaphysics. The only thing I've not heard you mention directly is the concept of energetic frequency and how it applies to essentially everything we know and experience in our lives. Beyond that, I would go so far as to say they're "companion concepts" in a way. I'd love to hear your thoughts on this if you're willing to discuss the two concepts a bit further.

  • @RealSaadKhurshid
    @RealSaadKhurshid10 күн бұрын

    Great video, taught me to be indifferent to indifferent things. That quote is really valuable but very simple. Also, I ain't gay but you look really hot and masculine.