Don't Help People Who Are Not Willing To Change | Derek Prince

Bible teacher Derek Prince, tells us about his important experience in counseling people. In pastoral care, he advices us (and he is quoting Paul here, in his letter to Timothy) not to help people who are not willing to change. It's a waste of time. Off course, this might come across very loveless. So how do we deal with this?
This is the eighth clip, part of Derek Prince's full sermon 'God Will Shake The Nations'. Full video: • God Will Shake All Thi...
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  • @susanbrown2909
    @susanbrown29094 жыл бұрын

    Derek Prince is my all time favourite preacher of the ministry. A lovely English speaking gent. The true man of Gods word. He is sorely missed;but he’s legacy lives on.

  • @jc98103

    @jc98103

    Жыл бұрын

    My favourite too

  • @aubriellemorgan

    @aubriellemorgan

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed ❤

  • @nancyking2867
    @nancyking28674 жыл бұрын

    That's true, if I have already witnessed, and warned them about being unruly, and told them what is coming on this earth, I will dust off my feet, and move on. I'm not going to beg anyone to be saved, however I do live with my family, and I just continue to set an example, like I told them, on that day when Jesus comes, no matter what happens, I'll be leaving with Jesus.

  • @kathymravintz9218
    @kathymravintz92182 жыл бұрын

    God have mercy on me. The darkness is all around me daily. Give me strength to wear all of your armor all of the time, Lord. Ephesians 6:20! Amen.

  • @clairefitzpatrick7183

    @clairefitzpatrick7183

    2 жыл бұрын

    Watch Derek Princes sermon on prayers and proclamations. I do believe it makes a difference by proclaiming God's word over your life daily.

  • @shuiwahlee5836

    @shuiwahlee5836

    Жыл бұрын

    Same 🙏🙏🙏

  • @jc98103
    @jc98103 Жыл бұрын

    Oh Lord may I be moveable and changeable. Lord may you examine my heart and rip out the iniquity. I repent of my sins Father in Heaven. Praise be to your Holy name forever and ever. May I always hear your voice and never be like the people who claim to know you. May we all turns from our ways in Jesus name. Amen.

  • @jeremiahkirby6552
    @jeremiahkirby65524 жыл бұрын

    If you're in pain you're not alone. If it seems like the world is crushing you you're not alone. If you've wasted ten years you're not alone. If your future is uncertain you're not alone. If you're thinking of killing yourself you're not alone. If nothing seems to work out you're not alone. If you're at your limit and you're ready to throw in the towel you're not alone. When you're alone you're NOT ALONE! If you relate to anything I just wrote you're not alone. I'm right here with you and so is God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. Everyday is ONE day closer. One day closer. Lord Jesus! Psalm 23:4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Psalm 27:1 The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid? Deuteronomy 31:6 Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the Lord thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee. Hebrews 13:5 Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.

  • @bernadetterawles8150

    @bernadetterawles8150

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏🏽Maranatha Come Lord Jesus Come

  • @susanbrown2909

    @susanbrown2909

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @gardeno

    @gardeno

    4 жыл бұрын

    MY LAWS WERE MENT TO FREE YOU “I Created you…mankind, in My Image…My very Breath Breathed into you, so that you would be extensions of Me, in this place. I did not create you to be here for you, so that you could have your own will & desires to satisfy you, but rather you were Created to be My Reflections here…so that Light and Love could be experienced by everyone. This life I have given you is about Our Journey together, as you learn My Truths and come to know Me more and more intimately the more you seek Me. I want to have a Relationship with you and I want you to understand how much each one of you are loved. You are each Created with a very important Purpose and in your Journey with Me, I will reveal to you individually why you are here and how you can fulfill the purposes you were Created for…because I Love you so much I have provided Instructions for you in My Word, so that you will have a guide to follow, as The Words that are Written there reveal very clearly Who I AM, My Heart, and how you who choose Me and recognize Me, as your Saviour should conduct yourselves. The Commandments I have given you should not be viewed as a set of rules to check off, as My Purpose and Motive in providing these Instructions are to be a model for you in how to Walk worthy of what I have called each of you to do…a Life of Holiness, Purity, and Righteousness…Walking in My Example. Please, do not look at My Commandments, as a list of do’s & don’t’s, but rather as My Way of warning you ahead of time of the things all around you in this life that can and do cause you to stumble. Sin is separating yourselves away from Me, by doing things your way and believing you have the correct answers for you and being wise in your own eyes. Just as I share so often, when I teach…everything you do is a matter of your HEART. Look at it this way…in learning My Commandments, as you set out to do something that I have warned you not to do…ask yourselves “what is my heart motive for doing this?” I want this to be very simple for you to understand…everything you do and everything you speak comes from your HEART.You are either for Me or against Me. When you know what is Holy in My Eyes and you know what The Truth is, you are accountable for the choices you make. My Commandments to you are My Ways of making very clear the things in your life that will separate you from Me and hinder you in the process of getting close with Me. When you have these Instructions that have come directly from Me, but make the choices to not heed them anyway, then you are exercising your own free will and therefore, you are the ones distancing yourselves from Me. I will always be here for you. It is you who pull away from Me. This world constantly throws temptations and seductions in your face, because I am not the ruler of this world. I have given dominion to satan for a time;however, because you were made in My Image when you Walk with Me in obedience, to what I am teaching you in My Word…you walk in the same Power and Authority that I had, when I came to this earth…so, in following My Commandments…you become ONE with Me, as it was always intended for My Creation to do. In Walking in obedience frees you from guilt, condemnation, and bondage…rather than putting you under these things, which is all this world offers you. My Commandments should be viewed as My opportunity for you to be truly free in this life and experience the incredible plans I have Created you for, while you are here. They are meant to encourage you, build you up in Me, and strengthen you, as you go about your lives here…giving you a means to escape the limitations this fallen realm puts on you. Pray for understanding in what I have told you here. Yahushua, your Father, The Creator of all things. “My Laws Were Meant To Free You” Message received by Behold I Come - Julie Whedbee April 14.2018

  • @rosangeladeazevedo6681

    @rosangeladeazevedo6681

    2 жыл бұрын

    If you are oppressed and in pain, you need Deliverance. Which was what Jesus did everywhere He went. We are not to walk around depressed or with suicidal thoughts or with a life that only has tears. Jesus made it clear we are in warfare and we are ro cast out demons. Those who are His disciples are to : PREACH THE GOSPEL. CAST OUT DEMONS, AND HEAL THE SICK. Mark16:17. Hands on the work. Not sitting in a pew or just promising prayer to those who suffer

  • @NavyVetE5
    @NavyVetE54 жыл бұрын

    AMEN. AMEN. AMEN!!!! Give them the Gospel. If they receive the good news, disciple them. If they don't receive, let them go!

  • @maureen348

    @maureen348

    4 жыл бұрын

    We walk away when they drain us but we must never stop praying,who knows may be the repentant criminal who was crucified beside Jesus had a praying mother.

  • @TrailBlazer1955
    @TrailBlazer19553 жыл бұрын

    That is my weakness...........All you get is stress .Leave people alone.like he said.As the Bible teaches.

  • @Chris-uq4jw
    @Chris-uq4jw Жыл бұрын

    Though I was raised a catholic and still a Catholic I will listen to what you have to say because I like reading and learning about Jesus Seems you are very knowledgeable about such things I've heard you say very attracted things about our Father God and Jesus you seem to have a lot of knowledge and wisdom about the bible though I read the KJV I just want to say I appreciate you and thank you for sharing Amen

  • @carolmaplesden916

    @carolmaplesden916

    Жыл бұрын

    was or is Jesus a Catholic? then why are you? catholic is a deseption ment to decive

  • @chaz4471

    @chaz4471

    Жыл бұрын

    Bro, you need to leave Catholic Church. It’s not a true church of Jesus.

  • @itsintheword230
    @itsintheword2306 ай бұрын

    This is on point and liberating

  • @missionforministries
    @missionforministries Жыл бұрын

    I really believe the sooner people quickly get into sanctification with the three catagories of repentance: confession, remorse and renouncing. The power of transformation of the gospel is found in measuring ourselves to God's standard to become justified. It really works.

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 Жыл бұрын

    I bind every devisive man that is unwilling to change according to God his will in my life,the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquintances, opponents and the body of Christ, to be left over to themselves, in accordance with this word and titus 3:10, matthew 6:10, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

  • @USNBLUE
    @USNBLUE3 жыл бұрын

    It’s the TRUTH. Accept the things you can NOT change. Walk away.

  • @solaceboy
    @solaceboy4 жыл бұрын

    I've wasted so much time with so many people that lingered on about getting the Help they needed and I said no more.

  • @christinalw19
    @christinalw194 жыл бұрын

    I recently sent my brother my favorite verses, Jeremiah 29:11-14. Told him if he truly wanted to find God and see what is going on around him in the world, God would reveal it. I’m just praying from now on. Exhausting. 😉🙏🏼

  • @dovetales3
    @dovetales34 жыл бұрын

    Amen Amen Amen! I will not try to help people who do not want to change. In Jesus name! 🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️

  • @aliciasquaire9001

    @aliciasquaire9001

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen to that, some people want you to help them, but they are not willing to change,They are very miserable.

  • @whitelily227
    @whitelily2274 жыл бұрын

    So good! I would add that there are counselors who are not willing to confront people and their sins. They are weak and want to cuddle them. I've counseled some women and the quickest way to weed out which ones actually want to change is to listen intently but be direct about their sins. I do not allow them to just pass blame; they must take responsibility for their actions.

  • @bobbiebabb9305
    @bobbiebabb9305 Жыл бұрын

    Wish I had learned this many,many years ago. I COULD HAVE ADVOIDED SO MUCH GREIF,PAIN AND HURT THINKING I COULD HELP THOSE WHO DIDNT WANT TO CHANGE AND HAVE NO LOVE IN THEM BUT FOR THEMSELFS.

  • @monicawilson896
    @monicawilson8963 жыл бұрын

    Don’t throw pearl before swine. I wouldn’t shake the dust off my feet until I’ve prayed about it though.

  • @aprilholton1150
    @aprilholton11504 жыл бұрын

    I understand this in theory! But when you are around people who you LOVE but won't listen to you, it is hard. Day in and day out you are around these loved ones, and it comes up!! I get so frustrated sometimes because I KNOW I have Jesus in my heart, and I KNOW His love for us. I guess I know the truth is to leave them alone, but it is easier said than done, that's all I'm saying.........

  • @flyfishing1776
    @flyfishing17764 жыл бұрын

    ONLY BE SUBMISSIVE TO GOD FEARING, OBEYING, Otherwise get the hell OUT of an abusive relationship,NO woman should be beaten, threaten or gas lighted

  • @incorectulpolitic

    @incorectulpolitic

    4 жыл бұрын

    ONLY BE SUBMISSIVE TO GOD FEARING, OBEYING, Otherwise get the hell OUT of an abusive relationship,NO man should be beaten, threaten or gas lighted and divorce raped.

  • @gigiluvfammartinez1854

    @gigiluvfammartinez1854

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree . I believe god really does delivery the broken hearted battered and manipulated. The demons are for god not for the empathetic heart. God is real.

  • @karellt2355

    @karellt2355

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@incorectulpolitic true! 😊

  • @kaym.h.3583
    @kaym.h.35834 жыл бұрын

    👀 open! Amen🙏

  • @JacquesMcLean
    @JacquesMcLeanАй бұрын

    Amen 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @marylinelai8073
    @marylinelai807310 ай бұрын

    So very true !

  • @sweetyjones1756
    @sweetyjones17562 жыл бұрын

    Thank you thank you! I've been pondering on this with someone who is now a Christian but refuses to change his ways.. I've prayed for him and given him scripture to confirm what I've told him but it's no use!

  • @josephmccain614
    @josephmccain6148 ай бұрын

    that;s how we roll down at the club come on in we gone enchant you

  • @barbstenkorang3194
    @barbstenkorang31949 ай бұрын

    Noted ✅️ Bless you

  • @propertyofjesusyahbeatrice
    @propertyofjesusyahbeatrice4 жыл бұрын

    This is so true 💯..... PRAISE GOD 🙏

  • @hisremnant9957
    @hisremnant9957 Жыл бұрын

    Truth!

  • @421sap
    @421sap7 ай бұрын

    In Father and King Jesus' Name, Amen ✝️✨

  • @Ace-fl1zm
    @Ace-fl1zm3 жыл бұрын

    I agree. I never Help people who wont change

  • @messianicteachingspage
    @messianicteachingspage4 жыл бұрын

    There was a child who was a bit stubborn. He put his finger inside one of the holes of his extendable window hook. He couldn't get it out screamed, and his mother helped him. 5 days later, when the kid had forgotten what happened to him, he put his finger inside one of these holes again. He screamed, and his mother helped him, again. 1 day later, when the kid had not forgotten what happened, he put his finger in one of those holes, again. He screamed, again. His mother helped him, again... but only after 2 hours when she came back from the store! That kid did not put his finger into one of the the window hook holes anymore.

  • @mononokee5322

    @mononokee5322

    4 жыл бұрын

    "1 day later, when the kid had not forgotten what happened, he put his finger in one of those holes, again. He screamed, again. His mother helped him, again... but only after 2 hours when she came back from the store! That kid did not put his finger into one of the the window hook holes anymore." I did not get it .. means all ended up well . Boy stopped put finger into the hole ..

  • @dongee6351

    @dongee6351

    4 жыл бұрын

    What on Earth are talking about?

  • @andrewvidler6693

    @andrewvidler6693

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dongee6351 Don't be so rude. It was a very good analogy and made complete sense to me.

  • @dongee1664

    @dongee1664

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@andrewvidler6693 I'm glad that it made sense to you and so as not to offend although I haven't a clue what this is about I will pretend that I understand completely. Is that better? Actually Mr Prince is so removed from reality, in my opinion, sorry, that I would expect such comments here.

  • @andrewvidler6693

    @andrewvidler6693

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dongee1664 God bless you Don. Any relation to the famous preacher Donald Gee?

  • @MarcoRodriguez-bv3lo
    @MarcoRodriguez-bv3lo3 жыл бұрын

    This is very hard because I love my mom and dad and two sisters but they aren’t truly saved. They have not truly repented and made Jesus Christ their LORD AND SAVIOR. WHAT DO I DO!?! PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE

  • @one7decimal2eight

    @one7decimal2eight

    2 жыл бұрын

    The only thing you can do is pray for them.

  • @olotunsunday1007
    @olotunsunday10072 жыл бұрын

    blessed art thou oh LORD king of the universe who reigns and rules over the affairs of men

  • @quantumfieldinitiation9843
    @quantumfieldinitiation98434 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏 Amen 🙏 Amen 🙏 Amen🙏 Let's keep moving forward to other people ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💝

  • @clairefitzpatrick7183
    @clairefitzpatrick71832 жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏

  • @derealovesurvival7549
    @derealovesurvival75494 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the video God bless you

  • @marynanayakkara5001
    @marynanayakkara50013 жыл бұрын

    God be with you pastor

  • @chaz4471

    @chaz4471

    Жыл бұрын

    He’s in heaven now 🙏

  • @chrisspencer8815
    @chrisspencer88153 жыл бұрын

    Amenn

  • @priestmorrison6564
    @priestmorrison65644 жыл бұрын

    EXCELLENT piece, BRAVA!!

  • @clarkwright2371
    @clarkwright23713 жыл бұрын

    YOU ARE SO RIGHT SIR.

  • @truthteller1973
    @truthteller19732 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 💜

  • @debbiecomeau9783
    @debbiecomeau97834 жыл бұрын

    Derek Prince I appreciate your videos you are a true disciple for Jesus and God and given messages for the people to wake up I understanding of the scriptures you explain to them so complete understanding and thank you for that myself I was put here as an Earth Angel also for the Divine creator peace love and light dolphin girl 🐬

  • @sandrawiley1755

    @sandrawiley1755

    4 жыл бұрын

    Your talking like the man is still alive,he's not.Also,you are not talking scripture, your talking nonsense.Sounds like you follow new age,and believe in the marine kingdom.God help you.

  • @MIGHTYRIVERS19
    @MIGHTYRIVERS192 жыл бұрын

    YES AMEN

  • @internetuser3213
    @internetuser32134 жыл бұрын

    I believe certain people want to be helped, except it takes longer than usual, it doesn't mean you give up on them and walk away!

  • @bukIau

    @bukIau

    4 жыл бұрын

    My brother told me this but now I found this video. Which is true? Thank you.

  • @kylapatriciac.salvador6532

    @kylapatriciac.salvador6532

    3 жыл бұрын

    U can and will see it if they are helping themselves.

  • @magdalenenorman6243
    @magdalenenorman624325 күн бұрын

    People don't want to hear word of God they are in darkness and want to stay there we myst pray for them

  • @alephtav4254
    @alephtav42544 жыл бұрын

    Amen.. Share GODs word for those who are wiling to Hear though some werr just testing your Faith, or how do you understand the message, yet most important let them see GOD works and character in You. Though GOD is Perfecg and were not let them Hear and see how you praise Yeshua as your Saviour and KING, having him as best friend forever because You Believe.. They have their own time to See GOD in theier HEARTS.. As they say let your life be a lifesaving example when one day Your Story will turn out as GOD designed You to Be.. and they be questioned in them How Did You Do it.. 😊🙏 Let GOD speaks because itbis not your Battle.. The battle is the LORDs.. 😊👍🙏

  • @dorothyjesudasan6617

    @dorothyjesudasan6617

    4 жыл бұрын

    SUPERB TASTY MESSAGES.I LIKE ALL HIS BOOKS AND CDS.NOW 2 GET INSTANT ANSWERS 4 ALL MY PRAYER PETITION I STARTED READING LOUDLY 3 HRS A DAY REGÙLARLY AND ENJOYING HEAVENLY HAPPINESS AND PERFECT PROTECTION.PROSPERTY AND HEALTH EVERY DAY

  • @cynthiatorres1678
    @cynthiatorres1678 Жыл бұрын

    What scripture did Derek prince use where Paul tells Timothy to leave them alone?

  • @Z1nny

    @Z1nny

    3 ай бұрын

    2 Timothy 3:5

  • @benjimankekou5655
    @benjimankekou56552 жыл бұрын

    What is the Bible verse for this?

  • @g-max2810
    @g-max28104 жыл бұрын

    You Reuploaded ☺️🌹

  • @heather2help960
    @heather2help9604 жыл бұрын

    What to do with an elderly woman I help many hours a week? she gave her life to Christ as a young teen but has denied Him her whole adult life. She, the evil in her, spits at the mention of His Holy name. She has lost or alienated everyone from her life. She is often times very cross, even mean, but always eventually asks for forgiveness. Jesus says forgive seventy times seven. I've been praying on this for over 7 years. I see God at work in so many other areas of my life and my family. This woman has no one except me and I have no peace concerning her. Jesus says love your enemies, that is what she is. The Holy Spirit moved me to post this. Any like experiences out here in the iot?

  • @jcerille5812

    @jcerille5812

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Heather! Continue to pray to God & Jesus Christ about it. I feel in my heart we all have our own responsibility Individually to get right with God & Jesus Christ & we can only help as much as we can. It’s wonderful that you have been trying to help her! I hope she will acknowledge as she prays that she has her own responsibility to get right with our Lord Jesus Christ! & our Heavenly Father. That she may continue to strengthen her faith! May God continue to bless you Heather 😇

  • @22aef

    @22aef

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Heather, the Lord has been taking me through a season of letting go of certain people in my life that have taken a lot of my time & energy. No good fruit was coming out of my relationships with them. In one instance I wrongly thought I had to give give give even to the point of exhaustion because she was a believer. But I've learned that there should be healthy boundaries in our relationships & we need to guard our hearts. And right now we are being prepared for a major outpouring of the Holy Spirit & a harvest of souls like never seen before, so many believers are finding that the Lord is making changes in their lives in preparation for what's coming. The process for me has been painful & not free from difficulties but my own spiritual life is now bearing so much more fruit & I'm experiencing physical & emotional healing instead of stress & frustration. Be mindful that the enemy will send people into your life to drain you & distract you. This lady may never return to the Lord. Let peace be your guide. Your lack of peace suggests to me it's time to place her entirely into the Lord's hands. If so pray the Lord's prayer over her & ask God for peace for both of you & move on. I hope this helps. I'll pray the Lord gives you clear direction. God bless xx

  • @michaelmccoy2621
    @michaelmccoy26214 жыл бұрын

    Great video father...but when it hits even Gods people will turn bad and maybe kill for food for thier family's or commit suicide...I'm so worried..GOD BLESS US ALL..I'm praying this does not happen..

  • @MakwanaGamingHQ
    @MakwanaGamingHQ4 жыл бұрын

    True. But if new Christian ask so many questions and want to learn from you then what you will do?

  • @D.O.R.E.I

    @D.O.R.E.I

    2 жыл бұрын

    Then should turn to God, ask Him and read His Word

  • @tedb7402
    @tedb74022 жыл бұрын

    I was forced 2 months ago to move out of my apartment after 8 year's. Rent was raised over 300 dollar's per month. 1 family member let me live in a small room in a large garage for 300 a month, which I thought was good, but I can do nothing here unless I first get her approval! It's All done her way or no way at all! No compromise, no negotiation! Such arrogance, so depressing! I may be forced to live in a tent until someone may take me in.

  • @lcs_myr

    @lcs_myr

    Жыл бұрын

    Check Win Worley's teaching N° 1084, Ancestral Sins and Curses. Starting at minute 10.

  • @amornratteerawan5895

    @amornratteerawan5895

    Жыл бұрын

    @Ted B คุยเรื่องที่เกิดขึ้น ต่อพระวิญญาณบริสุทธิ์ ว่าพระองค์ต้องการสอนอะไรแก่เรา ... เรียนรู้ถึงความรู้สึกนี้ เมื่อเวลาผ่านไป ได้เข้าใจ เพื่อส่งต่อ ความรู้สึกนี้ เข้าใจผู้อื่นมากขึ้น อดทนมากขึ้น ไตร่ตรองเขาและเรา ทดสอบความเชื่อ อยากใกล้ชิดมากขึ้น พระองค์มีแผนการดีสำหรับทุกคนเสมอ พระองค์อยู่ในเรา

  • @tedb7402

    @tedb7402

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amornratteerawan5895 Sir or ma'am, since I do not understand you're language, I'll take that as a positive response and I thank you and may God the father and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ Bless you in every way!

  • @chaz4471

    @chaz4471

    Жыл бұрын

    Pray and rebuke the demon who attacked you!

  • @hellenicculture8169
    @hellenicculture81694 жыл бұрын

    yes this is terrible none of them they like slavery even they start to blame me