Dog Breeds NOT for 1st Time Dog Owners

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This is a video for wanna-be/first-time dog owners. I take you through some of the breeds that should be avoided because, honestly, first-time dog owners can be overwhelmed having to care for a four-legged baby or child who doesn't speak the same language.
This listing is just a small sample of popular dogs that you may recognize, and my criteria for adding them to the "avoid" list are:
1) High Maintenance - Not only dogs who shed a great deal, vet costs and grooming. I'm talking about the dogs where owners need eyes 360 around their heads. If you can't see your dog, hear your dog, that means it's into something it shouldn't. Also included are dogs who need special care and handling.
2) Size of Breed - The larger the dog, the more it costs. But, size also relates to what you can safely handle. Most first-time owners do not understand how strong a 50/70/90 lbs+ can be. A dog not trained can cause you serious injury, like face-planting on the sidewalk, or knocking you over if it jumps on you.
3) Intelligence of the Breed - Why wouldn't you want an intelligent dog? Well you do, but there are many very, very intelligent breeds out there. You are your dog's leader and protector. If the dog senses you are neither, it takes over and starts running you.
4) Temperament - Temperament is a dog's personality and is predominantly determined by genetics; it's part of the dog's DNA. Many dog behaviors can be trained away, but not temperament. It's from the parents, the nurturing from the mother dog, the socialization and care from the breeder.
Timestamps:
02:30 Group 1 - Australian Cattle Dog, Australian Shepherd, Border Collie
04:11 Group 2 - Belgian Malinois, German Shepherd Dog, Rottweiler, Doberman Pinscher
06:02 Group 3 - Cane Corso as standard bearer for the Mastiff breeds
07:31 Group 4 - Siberian Husky, Boxer, Standard Poodle, Jack Russell Terrier
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  • @nogames8982
    @nogames898220 күн бұрын

    Many years ago, a friend of mine, who happens to be a professional dog trainer, told me the worst thing that can happen to a breed of dog is for it to become popular. She was right.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thx so much for watching and your comment. Your trainer is soooo right. German Shepherds were once ranked #2 on the AKC list of most popular dogs in America, and that led to so many backyard breeders trying to cash in on the popularity. GSDs are the 3rd most surrendered dog in country. Now, I've noticed more Cane Corsos landing in shelters. The breed recently climbed 4 spots on the AKC list, going from #20 to now #16.

  • @ginacirelli1581

    @ginacirelli1581

    18 күн бұрын

    I am so glad that most people think Italian Greyhounds are "too skinny" and "yappy". Neither of these things are true, but for once I'm grateful for the ignorance. I've had IGs for over 30 years and the little velcro pixies are just right for me. Before I got my first one I went to the Westminster show and spoke at length with one of the breeders there.

  • @lesliemoore1656

    @lesliemoore1656

    18 күн бұрын

    That is why I hate it so much that Corgis have become popular. I have had 5, 1988-2021 and they are definitely not for novice dog owners. They are a small shepherd in every way, not the cute popular status symbol so sought after now. They are a breed that is very misunderstood because of their appearance. They need an owner that has done their homework and has experience with this breed. Its not is a Corgi right for you, its are you right for a Corgi. My first Corgi came from owners that did not have the needed time for him, he was a puppy gift from a relative of theirs, and he bit a neighbors teasing child. Instead of the pound he went to me. He quickly settled in just fine, eventually wound up being more my mothers dog, she had just lost her last dog and they became inseparable, he passed away 1993.

  • @cheesedemon88

    @cheesedemon88

    14 күн бұрын

    Yeah, i fear for my favourite Shiba Inu being adopted as “the Internet dog”

  • @voltrondefenderoftheuniver8658

    @voltrondefenderoftheuniver8658

    14 күн бұрын

    Yup, I blame John P Colby for the popularity of the Pitbull. The Pitbull was never meant to get to the general public.

  • @emmabovary1228
    @emmabovary122822 күн бұрын

    There’s a KZread channel where a woman just loves filming her Cane Corso being teased and becoming frustrated. She thinks it’s funny. I wrote her and strongly recommended she stop and take the dog to a qualified trainer. She’s setting this beautiful animal up for disaster. Some dogs should require a license to own. That includes pit bulls. Too many death and injuries due to selfish, immature people failing them.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    22 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comment. I'm not familiar with the KZread channel you mentioned, but I'll look it up and add my voice. Have you see Jason Corey's channel. He owns two black Canes and is an excellent resource if someone is thinking about getting the breed. I hate to see any dog set up for disaster, and it happens more often then we think. My IG feed is full of parents who think their young children playing with their dog is so cute, until the dog snaps.

  • @user-tb4ij7zx1y

    @user-tb4ij7zx1y

    21 күн бұрын

    That's always a problem with any dog. People have to be trained how to treat an animal- not the animal how to treat a human/kids. If you teach kids to respect an animal they will have a lifelong lesson on how to treat people too

  • @gullinvarg

    @gullinvarg

    20 күн бұрын

    ​​@@user-tb4ij7zx1y I think both are needed. You never know when your dog might have to deal with a poorly trained human. For the dog's sake and your own, they need to be able to deal with it to a certain degree. That said, deliberately pushing a dog's boundaries (as opposed to exposing them to a variety of situations without overly stressing them) is unwise.

  • @sandrastevens4418

    @sandrastevens4418

    19 күн бұрын

    Children and dogs unsupervised are a set up for disaster. Dogs at some point will defend themselves out of aggression from being teased or out of fear. In both scenarios it's the dog who ends up dead.

  • @lorigreenleaf4297

    @lorigreenleaf4297

    18 күн бұрын

    I totally agree with you. We have to have a license to show that we know how to drive, we should have to prove we can have a dog....both can kill if not handled properly. My dogs are always socialized and trained with love. They are our Furkids and should be taught proper behavior as our kids are.

  • @TreehouseLover
    @TreehouseLover14 күн бұрын

    I just rescued a chihuahua who was found in a rural area fending for himself. Nobody claimed him for weeks so the local shelter put him up for adoption. I was only going to visit, not adopt. I specifically require a calm, zen like environment as an introverted minimalist. The calmest, sweetest little 5yr old chi and I connected as if I raised him from birth. He’s more than I could ask for. I’m so blessed. Love my little nugget.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    11 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your comment and wonderful story. While I'm not overtly religious, I do know that God has a way of putting us in the right places at the right time. That's how I got my Nabucco. I had a contractor doing some work on my deck, when he held up his phone with Nabu's photo. He had a client who owned a pet store, who had a client who needed to find a home for his GSD bc of landlord issues. Long story short, I became the owner of German Shepherd in addition to the four pups I already owned. Little did I know that I would lose my two GSDs later in the year. God gave me a replacement --- another pup who needed a owner. I found out the paperwork left with me that I was this Shepherd's FIFTH owner in 9 months. Wishing you many happy years with you wonderful pup. I love happy endings.

  • @sherunswithscissors

    @sherunswithscissors

    10 күн бұрын

    I just adopted a little chihuahua who is 4 years old - she is wonderful - never barks or misbehaves - and is smart learning everything.

  • @lilbatz
    @lilbatz21 күн бұрын

    You forgot Shiba Inu’s and Basenjis. Both are not easy to train for a first time owner.

  • @thedreamingdruid1

    @thedreamingdruid1

    20 күн бұрын

    Akitas too

  • @lilbatz

    @lilbatz

    20 күн бұрын

    @@thedreamingdruid1 Akitas aren’t trained. They decide if you are worthy of them reacting to what you want. Lol My friend’s Basenji was shut up in the bedroom when a contractor came over. It destroyed a full visor motorcycle helmet in under an hour. “I will NOT be ignored.” He is a good little dog. My friend shows Basenjis. But you never know when they’ll cop an attitude. XD

  • @RiRyn27

    @RiRyn27

    18 күн бұрын

    Any basal breed is a no for first time owners.

  • @cheesedemon88

    @cheesedemon88

    14 күн бұрын

    I got a Shiba as a first, but I did a lot of research, and went into it with the full knowledge that it was not going to be like training a golden retriever. Worked out well, perfect dog for my partner and I.

  • @MrMaynardWR

    @MrMaynardWR

    14 күн бұрын

    @@lilbatz Akitas train humans. But seriously they are wonderful dogs. Very playful and personable nut stubborn as they come.

  • @Lovesapuzzle
    @Lovesapuzzle22 күн бұрын

    My fist dog was a Siberian Husky after her previous owners decided she was too much work for them. She was everything you say; active. smart and a hunter. She was a huge time commitment. Brisk walks/jogs 3 times a day, everyday were a must. Bathing her was a workout and cleaning up her hair was a constant. She was also calm and patient with children, strangers, other dogs and brought joy to my life for 15 years.

  • @burf90

    @burf90

    17 күн бұрын

    You're the kind of person that *should* have a dog. Not giving up just because it's harder than you expected is most of the battle. Even if you've never gotten another pet since then, you did right by the one you had. Thank you for being the pet owner people can look up to.

  • @Lovesapuzzle

    @Lovesapuzzle

    17 күн бұрын

    @@burf90 Thanks for your kind words. Actually, I've had several dogs and a few cats since then. At one point, I had a small pack of castoffs and unclaimed strays. They did consume most of my time, a lot of my money and each deaths broke my heart. Still, I have no regrets. Looking back, I'm surprised at how manageable the pack was. I don't recommend having that many animals in a suburban home but somehow, it worked. Currently, I have 1 dog (from a good Samaritan that saved her from the side of the highway) and 2 cats (from the shelter).

  • @forcelightningcable9639

    @forcelightningcable9639

    16 күн бұрын

    So, what you’re saying is, it’s not the breed, it’s how you accommodate the breed? I think that’s a more reasonable statement than the 11 minutes she spent talking.

  • @Lovesapuzzle

    @Lovesapuzzle

    15 күн бұрын

    @@forcelightningcable9639 IMO, breeds have tendencies but every dog has it's own personality. Any dog can be a good fit if the person is committed to making it work.

  • @ChessieChess

    @ChessieChess

    2 күн бұрын

    @@forcelightningcable9639what a nasty comment, why are you here then? Surprised 4 people agree with you

  • @burf90
    @burf9018 күн бұрын

    You've just highlighted every reason why I will never have a dog. I love all animals, including dogs and I've had all sorts of other pets. But I have enough intelligence of my own to know I would NOT be a good dog owner. I wish more people would do their homework before getting any dog, because it's the dog that pays the price for every bad decision by a human.

  • @kaz1388

    @kaz1388

    18 күн бұрын

    💯 agree. Regret is hard.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    18 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your comment and for watching. You bring to mind a gentleman who contacted me a few months ago about helping him find his first dog. He worked from home, in his 40's, never had a dog. I gave him a link to my e-book, "To Puppy or Not to Puppy." I told read the table of contents and then skim through the book. He came back to me several days later and said, "I think I'll wait." To me that was a win-win. He knew he wasn't ready. Good for you in recognizing that you're not a potential dog owner. I tell people puppies are four-legged babies, dogs are four-legged children. If you're not ready for a baby or a child, don't get a dog.

  • @randomletter-5i4

    @randomletter-5i4

    17 күн бұрын

    ditto for me...I have watched enough YT dog videos now and fostered a dog once to know not to get sucked in to the dog craze, as tempting as it is.

  • @JessicaGross-gt1dd

    @JessicaGross-gt1dd

    16 күн бұрын

    Good for you that you are self aware enough to realize it is not a good fit for you.

  • @JessicaGross-gt1dd

    @JessicaGross-gt1dd

    16 күн бұрын

    When other parents ask me if they should get a dog because their kids want one, I tell them to borrow a dog first. It is a lot of work and no matter what your kids say, you cannot count on them to take care of it. We got a dog that came already trained. She was 6 years old and her owner had terminal cancer. I knew I didn’t have time to train a puppy.

  • @nogames8982
    @nogames898220 күн бұрын

    The general public doesn’t know a darn thing about dogs. They pick one out because it’s pretty sure it’s cute. They know nothing about the breed, nothing about what it requires, and most people are not willing to put in the hard work it takes. No matter what breed they get. It’s going to be a disaster. especially the terriers, working dogs, and guard dogs.

  • @roravenclaw7797

    @roravenclaw7797

    18 күн бұрын

    True. As popular as Labradors are, people get them but don't realize Labs require an hour of running, not walking, running every day at least when they're young. OR they need a job to do or they will get destructive. I have labs and I take them swimming, biking, hiking, etc. Walks aren't enough.

  • @leecox6241

    @leecox6241

    18 күн бұрын

    I could agree more, but only so much time. I have come to realize the average person does as much harm to their dog as someone who abuses them. Animal guardianship ought not be as common as it is. Not everyone is cut out for the job. Just like parenting a human.

  • @pbe6965

    @pbe6965

    18 күн бұрын

    I didn't knew much at the time and got a terrier, that was before internet was even a thing, and despite having done a bit of research beforehand and knowing it would not be the easiest dog (very stubborn and not the most obedient type). But it was cheap, and tiny. Was sold as a mixed "fox" but she was mostly jack russel. And her parent were used for hunting, so she had a strong prey drive. I wouldn't change a thing if I could, wonderful family dog, only real annoying traits was getting her back at 23pm when she was barking in the yard because she found a rodent (as if it would leave it's hole with the dog barking in front 🙄I loved that dog, but not the sharpest knife in the drawer). And not as "high energy" as I feared, she had her puppy phase but could sleep pretty much all day after that (still needed a yard though, that was NOT an appartement dog). But I couldn't have the same dog now that I'm single and working outside 2 days a week, she had huge separation anxiety, in the end she couldn't be left alone at all for even 10 minutes, but was fine as long as there was someone else somewhere in the house.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    18 күн бұрын

    Thx so much for watching and your comment. That is the purpose behind this video and The Pup Mommy business model. I want to help people find the right dog that matches their personality and lifestyle, and in some cases, maybe they also should realize that they're not cut out for dog ownership. I have an e-book "To Puppy or Not to Puppy" to help people make that decision. I'll be having another video out later today or tomorrow, "more dogs....." and the three groups that you mentioned will also be on that list.

  • @marissashantez6051

    @marissashantez6051

    18 күн бұрын

    It wouldn't matter if they did. Too many dogs do not act like their breed is supposed to act.

  • @betqpublic9901
    @betqpublic990121 күн бұрын

    I wish people would read what their dog breed is bred for and their behaviors

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thx for watching. It's the one piece of information that I try to convey and drill into people. Know the breed's function and temperament before you adopt.

  • @winstonelston5743

    @winstonelston5743

    16 күн бұрын

    My Mom had a Norwegian Elkhound pick her out after her shepherd-mixes moved on to the Rainbow Bridge. Mom knew nothing except that this puppy was beautiful and loved to cuddle (all pups do at that age). I did some basic research in those pre-Google days and expected the pairing of a dog bred to hunt moose and herd reindeer with a lady of my Mom's fragile constitution to be disastrous. She turned out to be one of the best dogs I ever knew, and when the first elkhound departed at age 14 and Mom swore never to get another dog, it was another elkhound puppy that weakened the resolve. 15 years later we brought a seven-year-old retired champion bitch into the house, and that pup went straight to Mom's side and stayed there After Mom passed and the old dog was in declining health, I contacted the breeder and we hit a deal in a male puppy I had met the day he was born and who came to live with me and the old dog to whom he had bonded when he was four months old. He's a handful, but he's also a great buddy and always glad to see me when I get home, and always happy to run errands with me. I go into the bank without him and the first comment from the tellers is, "Where's Dash?" Likewise the home center, likewise the hardware store... He has quite the fan club.

  • @301Goldstar
    @301Goldstar22 күн бұрын

    I have 2 standard poodles, awesome dogs. I believe that poodle and border collies are ties in 1st place for smarts. What I hate, is people breeding poodles with every dog under the sun.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    22 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching and your comment. Border collies I think are in 1st place, then Poodles, and then 3rd might be Shepherds. As for the breeding, I'm a purist. I don't care for designer dogs. My cousin has a Bernedoodle (whatever) and my neighbor next door, retired couple in their 60's, got their first dog last year, a Goldendoodle. The wife can't even walk the dog anymore because she'll faceplant into the sidewalk. I already saved her once. People simply do not understand what breeds to avoid if they are truly first time owners.

  • @kalikeleka

    @kalikeleka

    22 күн бұрын

    Cross breeding with poodles lets breeders create a fancy name and charge thousands of dollars for what we used to call a mutt.

  • @kiki__21

    @kiki__21

    21 күн бұрын

    Border Collies are 1st in every reputable publication I’ve ever seen. Poodles are typically 2nd or 3rd. I could not agree more about poodle crosses. There are so many poorly breed doodles with health and behavioral issues. I don’t get the appeal at all and hope the fad of these dogs goes away soon. It’s really a shame because poodle is such a great breed, assuming the owner trains them properly and provides the mental and physical needs they have.

  • @karyannfontaine8757

    @karyannfontaine8757

    20 күн бұрын

    My Aunt always had Poodles, they were wonderfully groomed, lovely dogs. I loved them. If I were to get a dog, it would be a Poodle! I love the Standard Poodle.

  • @Fubar2024

    @Fubar2024

    20 күн бұрын

    Standard poodles and Shephards

  • @CCOREY5
    @CCOREY58 күн бұрын

    Most dogs in US shelters that I have seen are overwhelmingly Pitties, Pitt-mixes, all types of mixed dogs not known, and huskies.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    8 күн бұрын

    Yes, to a certain extent you are correct. A recent study from last year by the National Animal Interest Alliance about the percentage of mixed breeds vs purebreds, found that only 4% of dogs in shelters are purebreds, not the 25% or so that some other people were quoting. Shepherds are also highly surrendered, and now I'm seeing more Malinois, Great Pyrenees and Australian Cattle Dogs. I will say this too, that county shelters, at least my county, has a network of breed rescues that are contacted when they get a purebred. I saw a Doberman on Petfinder and contacted my local Dobe Rescue, and they told me they had already received a call from the county and were on their way. Yesterday, on my Instagram feed, first time I saw a Weimaraner.

  • @sarahjhigh5
    @sarahjhigh56 күн бұрын

    First time dog owner here with a little toddler, loving my little bischon frise mix rescue. Not too energetic, not *too* smart, small but not fragile, no shedding or drooling or yapping, and really snuggly and sweet and eager to please. Real sweetie, PERFECT first dog.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    4 күн бұрын

    Thx for watching and your comment. I'm glad that you found the perfect pup for you and your family. With a little toddler, it is so important to find the right breed with the right chemistry mix for small children. But kudos to you as well as a parent, who I'm sure has taught your toddler, how to love and respect dogs. Wishing you many happy years with your pup.

  • @kathycuster1714
    @kathycuster171418 күн бұрын

    II had a massive boxer. He was the greatest dog I ever had! He absolutely adored my granddaughter. We went to a dog training class run by a K9 officer. He was trained in German. He and my son wrestled all the time. He loved the whole family but I was HIS person. I moss that boy every day! I now.have a senior American Bulldog. She is a fantastic dog too! As I am getting older and can't be as active as I used to ne, when my old girl goes, I will go rescue an older dog that doesn't need as much exercise but needs someone to love him or her. One has to be aware of what you can physically do with a dog and what the dogs needs are.

  • @diane9247

    @diane9247

    8 күн бұрын

    I love boxers. Clancy was my childhood dog and he ran with the kids in the neighborhood. This was in the '50s, when people let their kids AND dogs out in the morning to roam the fields, irrigation ditches and streets. He was a real character and loved everybody, especially his gang of kids!😊

  • @joelaichner3025

    @joelaichner3025

    2 күн бұрын

    My American Boxer Max passed away at home last year , 115 lbs , at his biggest , yet still trim , came from a Texas breeder , flown into Green Bay Wisconsin , where we picked him up , what an awesome dog he was ! He had personality, never had another dog that did the head tilt as much as him , when talking to him , gentle boy

  • @tracik1277

    @tracik1277

    12 сағат бұрын

    I loved my Boxer, Lisa ❤

  • @Kuro_Reaper
    @Kuro_Reaper18 күн бұрын

    As someone who has worked in progressional grooming salons in Europe and UK; I would personaly say that curly coated breeds (Poodles, Doodles etc) are really not first time dogs. People get them because they are cute/have a good temperment etc but it was extremely rare to get a Doodle or Poodle that was not matted. Often owners never brushed the dogs or if they did they didn't brush parts or only brushed the top of the coat and so it would matt solid underneith. Curly coated breeds do not shed outwards, so their coat basically sheds inwards and basically collects the hair and causes more matting. They need daily burshing all over, with the correct brushes, even if they are "short". Most people don't know how much grooming they need and neglect to groom them, pushing it onto the groomer. In addition to that; most people do not teach their dogs to be okay with being touched in certain places (such as to get their face cut, nails trimmed or tail touched), which makes grooming them SO much harder and way more stressful on the dog.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and for your comments. People so underestimate the cost of dog ownership and Poodles landed on my list because of the high maintenance. I very much appreciate your sharing your experience and knowledge with me and the viewers of this video.

  • @blissfuljoy6049

    @blissfuljoy6049

    Күн бұрын

    ​@@thepupmommy are poodles usually ok with kids? I had a standard once we got from a family member and she was an absolute angel. I didn't see her much as a puppy though. Do the different sizes have different temperaments?

  • @Shezrie
    @Shezrie22 күн бұрын

    I am shocked at the stats for returning dogs to shelters in the USA, I had no idea it was that bad. I utterly agree on border collies, they are definitely not a first time dog, or in my personal opinion (which could be wrong), not good as a family dog. They are intense and require so much attention and also they bond with one person in the family. Border collies rarely appear in shelters here, this is farming country here in the south of France, and the border collies bred here are working sheep herders. I found my 3 year old male border collie in my local shelter 10 months ago and it was fate or something with the timing. He was literally starved by his last owner and finally surrendered to the local shelter (the French version of the SPCA) with all his papers and breeder info. I went through a rigorous process to get him. In addition to filling out the usual forms of personal info, I had to bring in the other border collie that the new dog would be living with to meet the new dog at the shelter, provide proof of the size of property I was taking the dog to (1 hectare of land), and even sign a government mandated form testifying that I knew how to look after a dog and that I would ensure feeding, vet care, grooming, exercise etc. In addition I was charged almost 300 euros for the dog, to cover the shelter's costs. After that I was supposed to wait 7 days before I could pick him up, but they offered to let me have him after two days as he was really not doing well at the shelter. The shelter said that he was a problem dog, aggressive to other dogs over food, hyper obsessive and inattentive. But as this would be the 6th border collie I would have I recognized and recognised a distressed border collie and their unique way of acting out their distress. They were wrong about him, he is the sweetest, gentlest angel that I wouldn't part with for love nor money. Not remotely agressive to other dogs or over food at all. You can do anything with him or to him, he is so gentle. You really cannot get a good handle on a dog's personality for months after bringing them home, as they take time to settle in and reveal their true personality so I cannot blame the shelter for not knowing him better. Anyway, I am not sure what the process for adoption from a shelter is over there, but the system here certainly weeds out inexperienced potential first time owners from making breed mistakes.

  • @kiki__21

    @kiki__21

    21 күн бұрын

    Many non-working line Border Collies can be good family dog if this is instilled in them as puppies and if they have the right personality. But this is no guarantee even if you do everything right. There’s the obvious problems that arise from chaotic movement and noise that children have and the herding instinct, which again is why working lines in particular may not be the best for family dog. They bond very strongly with their families (I do disagree about the just one person thing) and are often reserved or wary of strangers. This can make having other children over to play or many houseguests a challenge. Then there’s the exercise and mental stimulation they need, which is incredibly hard for families to meet. So, it can be possible to make a BC puppy into a great family dog if all the stars align, but I wouldn’t risk it. There’s so many other breeds that are better suited to be a family dog.

  • @ericabrotzman4342

    @ericabrotzman4342

    20 күн бұрын

    the stats in the top of this video are incorrect, or don’t align with resources i’ve been able to find. an initial google search reports that 15-20% of adopted dogs are returned or not in their original adopters’ home after 6months. would love to know what sources the poster is referencing, bc that’s a huge disparity.

  • @horsemanshipundpadagogik-p8522

    @horsemanshipundpadagogik-p8522

    19 күн бұрын

    In Germany the adoption process also became such a nuisance that I am abstaining now from getting a dog from a shelter AT ALL. Better to look for owners that need to sell their dog and do it directly. Or get a puppy. There's enough market there. Tough luck, shelter dogs! They will stay in the shelter for a long time.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    18 күн бұрын

    Some stats came from a rescue working with the PA SPCA.

  • @craftyhobbit7623

    @craftyhobbit7623

    14 күн бұрын

    I've had five border collies and I'm on my sixth now. The main problem I've found with them is nervousness and anxiety, especially with rescue collies, which all but one have been. They are highly sensitive and once you recognize that you can work around it. The hardest collie we had though was my first collie - we had him from a pup when I was 10 and made mistakes with him. As this was the 90's, there was a lot of misinformation about alpha dogs and I'm pretty sure that what we thought was dominant behaviour was really just an anxious dog, but we never considered getting rid of him. It's not that they are a difficult breed, but impatient (and sometimes cruel) owners not caring for them properly or giving them a chance to settle.

  • @lesliemoore1656
    @lesliemoore165626 күн бұрын

    Add to this the Welsh Corgi, both types. I have had 5 from 1988-2021. They have requirements that many novice dog owners may not be able to give them, they are not for beginners. Its not if a Corgi right for you, its are you right for a Corgi. They need an assertive confident owner and training for both dog and owner, they need a fenced in yard, they dont need a home with many stairs they can have back problems that can cost big $$$, they dont need a home with or the potential of small children or children that are rough, they WILL defend themselves, they need very good quality food in 2 small meals daily, they have very strong herding instincts and will herd children, animals and adults, they need daily brushing they shed massively year round, they will live 12-15 years. Anyone not up for this physically, financially or mentally, dont get a Corgi. Their popularity now has some winding up in shelters because owners did not do the homework.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    25 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching and your comments. I totally agree with everything you written, and by the way, I will be having another video out in the next couple of days, "MORE, Dog Breeds NOT for 1st Time Dog Owners" and Corgis are on that list among others. I try to be cognizant of people's time so I sometimes break up topics into multi-part series. Thx again for your time.

  • @kiki__21

    @kiki__21

    21 күн бұрын

    I’ve met soooo many dog and people reactive Corgis. Based on how their owners handle them, they clearly have little knowledge of how to raise a puppy and train dogs. The breed seems to attract owners who want a cute and popular breed but who have no idea what they’re getting into. Doodles fall into this category as well.

  • @lesliemoore1656

    @lesliemoore1656

    20 күн бұрын

    @@kiki__21 That is why they are showing up at shelters and being neglected. Corgis had a popularity surge late 80s early 90s until those that got them realized too late they were not the right owners. I got my first in 88 because of this.

  • @ann-mariemeyers9978

    @ann-mariemeyers9978

    7 күн бұрын

    My vet used to say, "A corgi wants you to be happy, and if you just do what he says, you'll be happy."

  • @lesliemoore1656

    @lesliemoore1656

    7 күн бұрын

    @@ann-mariemeyers9978 A Corgi will put you in the position to see just how much you will take, then look at you " I was just kidding" ..."NOT" then do it again.

  • @eforde2
    @eforde216 күн бұрын

    I have a doberman.He is the sweetest most loyal animal ever. He is a great protector and has never attacked anyone.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comment. I've owned Dobermans, a male and a female, and they are a wonderful breed. A colleague from a consulting firm I worked at also has a Dobe whom he loves. But, I will say this, and this is why they're on my list --- When it comes to dogs, certain behaviors and issues a dog develops can be trained away with the right methods and tools. But a dog's temperament, is genetic and depends upon the mother's socialization of her pups and the breeder's handling. I had a female with some pretty wonky DNA, and she was a challenge. Very reactive, despite the fact she never growled or bit. I had to take her to a professional trainer who specialized in Working Group dogs. I found an outlet for her through agility. She just blossomed. I'm glad you have a wonderful Dobe. You found the perfect pup for your lifestyle and personality and that's what it's all about.

  • @jfterrell
    @jfterrell22 күн бұрын

    Growing up we had lots of pets, now just cats but first dog when we was little was a miniature poodle. My mother spoiled that dog which resulted in us on the receiving in of sometimes vicious behavior. Years later one of my brothers came home with a Doberman, which I ended up raising. My rules were nobody teases this dog, no tug of war period. I’m 5 feet tall and on all fours she was half my height. The she had no formal training but when I went outside and she was excited and she put her paws up on me I’d gently hold them a moment until she wanted down, she stopped doing it. And when I needed to groom her I put a leash around her neck and she learned to stand still and behave when that leash was on, no pain or violence needed. She, Star, was the sweetest dog and I never thought about her as a guard dog except from looks. One day she surprised me. And cousin needed to leave his dog over for the day and they seem okay together. But I went outside once to check on them and my cousin’s dog start barking at me and Star came charging across that yard and backed my cousin’s dog all way to the other side of the yard without touching and that dog didn’t make another peep again while it was there. She impressed me.

  • @darlenelarochelle4011

    @darlenelarochelle4011

    21 күн бұрын

    Doberman- smart dogs. Mine were great dogs. Miss them.

  • @elizamccroskey1708
    @elizamccroskey170822 күн бұрын

    I would also add almost any kind of terrier to this list. Lots of energy, smart, enormous prey drive. I know you did have JRT on your list but it applies to any terrier. Great advice! I think that some mention of the health problems and extra care in having brachycephalic (squish faced) dogs should be another caution.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    22 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching and your comments. I have another video coming out either today or tomorrow on even MORE dogs not for the first time owner and terriers will be on the list, along with Pugs. Haven't fully decided. I have a girlfriend who years ago lived in a 3rd floor apt. No A/C. She had four pugs. Came home from work, two were dead from the heat. Utterly destroyed with guilt. And thank you for the health problem suggestion.

  • @elizamccroskey1708

    @elizamccroskey1708

    22 күн бұрын

    @@thepupmommy Oh my, that story about the pugs is so sad. Dogs and other animals can be blessings as long as you know what you're getting yourself into!

  • @anitapaulus937
    @anitapaulus9377 күн бұрын

    I’ve had 3 Dobermans in my lifetime. They are very smart, high energy and love their families. I am now 70, and I won’t get another because I’m not physically able to exercise and put in the necessary training. It breaks my heart, I lost my last one, Samson, in October, and I miss him every day. He was so kind and loving and well behaved. I don’t know what I will choose next.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    6 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching and your comment. I'm so very sorry over the loss of your beautiful dog. I've lost six dogs in 12 years. No matter how many dogs we have in our life, there will always be that ONE (two if we're lucky) who sings to our heart. I'll be 70 in September, and currently have 4 dogs, two Shepherds, 8-1/2 and 5 yrs; and two 6 yr old Bostons. You are correct that they dogs take time and energy and I'm in my own home yet on 1/2 acre, and they pups keep me busy. Have you considered a Manchester Terrier? Since I don't know where you live or if you have a fenced yard, these are great dogs who are lap cuddlers but also love to chase a ball. If you need additional assistance, contact me at my email address in the description section of the video.

  • @anitapaulus937

    @anitapaulus937

    6 күн бұрын

    @@thepupmommy Thank you for your kind words, and your suggestion. Yes, I do have a large back yard, fenced. I will look into your suggestion.

  • @barbarapaine8054
    @barbarapaine80546 күн бұрын

    I have seen farmers use Jack Russells to track large game animals in Africa. Those little dogs are fearless

  • @saralynn518
    @saralynn51820 күн бұрын

    Those are great categories. Seasoned dog person here. A lot of people don't realize with giant dogs, the medical conditions they will likely have, the shorter life expectancy, and the food they eat comes out in huge dino piles. Not saying people shouldn't get them, but for a lot of these dogs, you need the right lifestyle for THEM. They will not be accommodating yours for quite some time until there is routine. I adopted a dog from a County shelter. I knew he was pug and something else. I couldn't figure it out until one day, "boing! Boing! Boing! boing!", off the back door. I just sighed and said, "you're a damn Jack Russell!!!" Jack Russell's are the Tiggers of the dog world.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thx so much for watching and your comment. One aspect that I did not mention in my video is exactly the size of the dog's elimination. Let me tell you, that my girlfriend's horse have nothing on my Shepherds when it comes to size of output. If I didn't have the house and land that I do, I wouldn't have large dogs (and it cost me a small fortune to fence 1/2 acre.) And you have a Pug/JR? My goodness, that's a combination. But I'm sure, one that you'd never give up for the world.

  • @saralynn518

    @saralynn518

    19 күн бұрын

    @@thepupmommy I would think a Dane could rival a horse, but WOW! This is when you hire young high schoolers to do work for like $20 and the "experience" lol. He passed a couple years ago. I currently have a giant Black Lab, a mix of some sort maybe Shibi Inu and Shephard, and my gal pal is maltese, poodle, and shih tzu mix. My Golden Retriever just passed away on the 11th. There was an "accident" twice during his neuter surgery. He wasn't even 2 yet.

  • @Spungle15

    @Spungle15

    17 күн бұрын

    Dang, you would think the pug would mellow out the JRT 😅

  • @nothingbutmilk6576
    @nothingbutmilk657622 күн бұрын

    I would also include pointing dogs as being unsuitable for 1st time dog owners. As a long time German Shorthair owner, I can't believe GSPs are now the 10th most popular breed in America according to the AKC. They are great dogs but their activity level, intelligence, and stubbornness can be a challenge even for an experienced dog owner.

  • @lilbatz

    @lilbatz

    21 күн бұрын

    I have an idiot neighbor with a GPS in a one bedroom apartment. And no, it doesn’t get walked. Poor thing barks all day.

  • @XXC0Y

    @XXC0Y

    21 күн бұрын

    True. Most allrounder hunting dogs that are competent to make their own decisions while being on a hunt are a handful and usually not a good fit to be a family pet. I have owned three GSPs in a row and - not being a hunter - had to fully adjust my life to the needs of such a high-strung animal. (First one was a elderly rescue and even with her being 9 ys old and me having had dogs all my life I was not prepared for the energy she threw at me. Today, I dont want any other dog.) As the Wirehaired Pointer, Viszla, English Pointer or English Setter, the GSP needs consequent and patient training from a very young age - be hard with them and they'll shut down - and when they reach puberty, you probably can start all over again. They question everything. ^^ And what they need most is a job that challenges them. In my country, breeders usually will not sell them as family pet, only to hunters or pple who will provide the conditions that dog needs. They are very strict, so unless they are rescues you'll rarely see GSPs around. Im astonished they are apparently just given to anyone in the states.

  • @phauser3817

    @phauser3817

    20 күн бұрын

    We have a GSP on 50 acres. She runs 3x a day for an hour. When she doesn't she literally bounces off the walls. I can't imagine what it would be like in a home with no yard and inactive owners. We love her, best dog ever, but if we had her in our last home, with a tiny yard, it would have been a nightmare.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    20 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comment. I'll be having a second video coming out shortly, and Pointers will be on the list.

  • @juicesnap

    @juicesnap

    19 күн бұрын

    My uncle recently adopted a senior GSP.... she is still pretty high energy and active at almost 13... she is loving running in woods. Very cute and smart dog, but they would definitely not fit my urban apartment lifestyle (i think it is madness when i see apartment people with GSPs

  • @valerieellison2483
    @valerieellison248319 күн бұрын

    Every time I meet someone who jogs, I tell them they should adopt a dog. Most dogs surrendered to the shelter have high energy levels and would be great running companions.

  • @sheilamarkland6071

    @sheilamarkland6071

    11 күн бұрын

    up to a point. most joggers are also busy workers and a run a day might not be enough for many breeds. The doberman comes to mind, or vislas, Weimaraners, or GSPs. all pretty velcro dogs who will not do well home alone for over 8hrs a day. Hopefully with more remote work being available, people will be better able to look after their dogs.

  • @valerieellison2483

    @valerieellison2483

    10 күн бұрын

    @@sheilamarkland6071In the area I live in, It's pretty rare to see those breeds of dog in the shelter. Usually it's labradors, huskies and terriers.

  • @Servali

    @Servali

    6 күн бұрын

    All of my GSDs and White Swiss Shepherds have had no problems during my work day. If they have enough physical and mental exercise when I am home, they are absolutely fine.

  • @sheilamarkland6071

    @sheilamarkland6071

    Күн бұрын

    @@Servali you are lucky. most GSPs need at least 4hrs of exercise a day, plus mental stimulation and training outside that. I dread that they are becoming more popular because of their stylish looks. We biked our GSPs 70km/day and they would happily have done more. that's not a dog breed who should be home 8hrs a day, even if they seem to tolerate it.

  • @Servali

    @Servali

    Күн бұрын

    @sheilamarkland6071 They usually get 3 hours of exercise a day during the week and more on weekends. I haven't counted how much mental exercise they get outside of training sessions (those are usually an hour but not every day, depends on if I have too many other things to do), because I like to do random stuff with them whenever the mood strikes. If I'm watching TV, I usually try to teach them on ad breaks some small trick or go over the old tricks. My dogs are always ready for anything we do but they go to their preferred spots immediately when they see I have settled down. That's why I love these dogs, I can be active with them but they are so calm when the activity stops.

  • @jimjensen1096
    @jimjensen109619 күн бұрын

    What, no Chow Chow? Deserves its own category.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    18 күн бұрын

    Thx for watching. Chow Chows are in my next video "More dogs not for the ...." that will be coming out in the next day or so.

  • @cherylgraves7382

    @cherylgraves7382

    17 күн бұрын

    Chows are my favorite! Mine were socialized and not aggressive at all. Well, my black chow hated hot air balloons with a passion.

  • @moodieforhoodie

    @moodieforhoodie

    14 күн бұрын

    My first dog was a Chow Chow! We lived 13 amazing years with her. The house feels empty without her.

  • @pantoffelslippers

    @pantoffelslippers

    9 күн бұрын

    My first dog was a chow chow. Had many more most my life. Fantastic dog. As a toddler i abused it, hanging on ears etc. The chows have always been so patient, protective, just a wonderful dog

  • @tarafotty3149
    @tarafotty31493 күн бұрын

    I find the best way to find the best dog for you is through fostering. It’s less commitment than adopting, it’s usually lower cost (or free) depending on the rescue, and you’re helping to save lives. It’s sort of like trying before buying. Many rescues are desperate for foster homes 🥰

  • @you_already_have_it

    @you_already_have_it

    2 күн бұрын

    Recently found about this in my city and I want to do that, but I have a cat, so can't be done. Another thing is to dog sitting for a day or two a friend's gentle dog that easy to handle.

  • @mountainstream8351
    @mountainstream83513 күн бұрын

    I got a standard poodle because they are "high energy" and they ARE high energy. She doesn't want to be in the house. She wants to be in the yard all of the time busy doing something like guarding the fence. Searching for cats. Chasing flies. Watching birds. Running around as fast as she can. I take her hiking and she is also my running buddy. She is terrific for me because she always has energy for outdoor sports. And yes, she does pull me on the leash until she gets a bit tired and then she behaves perfectly on the leash. You just have to let them get some of their energy out because they have a TON of energy.

  • @susankuhlman6514
    @susankuhlman651419 күн бұрын

    Many years ago my daughter and her husband, my other daughter and I went to a dog shelter looking for a dog my daughter and husband could adopt. There was not much to choose from (luckily most had been adopted) but one stood out to me. I was a lab mix with shorter legs and curly ears. A staff member whispered to me that she would be euthanized the next week if no one adopted her and that she had a gentle and friendly personality. I whispered this to my son in law knowing he has a tender heart and he stated: "This one is coming home with us and if you want another one, it will come home too." My daughter woke up the next morning with this dog sleeping next to her with her head on her husband's pillow. She became the ultimate family dog, lived to a very old age. I will warn you that I adopted two dogs over the years and had much experience with dogs so I was able to work with their "triggers." All of my other dogs I had as puppies so they never had bad experiences and were carefully trained and socialized.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watcing and your comment. You are my idea of the kind of owner every dog dreams of (I think they dream :-) ). Like you, I've raised puppies to seniors, and have invested countless hours and $$ in their training and socialization. I'll be adding another "More dogs not for the 1st time owner" shortly. With so many dogs in shelters, while others are passed around because people get in over their heads, I'm trying to reach the first time owners so that they make good decisions when adopting. My German Shepherd, Nabucco, was adopted by me when he was 9 months old. His photo was shown to me by a contractor doing some home repair work for me. Long story short, when I decided to adopt the pup, the paperwork left with me showed that I was the dog's 5th owner in 9 months. So case in point about people getting overwhelmed and/or not checking their lease.

  • @danielcollins7588

    @danielcollins7588

    16 күн бұрын

    If you get a boxer, you need 10 to 30 kids to play with, very smart and lovable. Loves going to school with kids, well be on first name basis with animal control. Mine would hide and run home flew over 6 ft gate couldn't catch it. That boxer could jump up ontop of 5 ft block wall, walk down the top and get out to play with kids. Then it found out what female boxers where for ha ha. Its athletic abilty thripled at least, it could undoe dog chains too.

  • @diane9247

    @diane9247

    8 күн бұрын

    @@danielcollins7588 Love your comment! I just wrote above somewhere that I had a boxer in childhood. Clancy "ran with the neighborhood kids" everyday, all seasons, morning to night. We loved him SO much. Of course, neither kids nor dogs can just run loose anymore.😀

  • @user-ww5ru8pm9z
    @user-ww5ru8pm9zКүн бұрын

    My son came home with a husky pup. We have never had a dog before. And didn’t know where to start. We invested hours into expensive training, walking and cycling with him. I really wouldn’t recommend it to anyone who is not prepared to put the time and effort in. 4 years later he is a wonderful boy friendly, loving, and patient with other dogs and grandkids. I now couldn’t imagine life without him even though he still needs 2 hours a day minimum exercise, lot’s of cuddles and expensive dinners.

  • @foxdl5
    @foxdl522 күн бұрын

    I adopted a 7 month old Siberian husky, he is now 15 months old and I totally love him. I had a GSD growing up and I thought that counted as a good experience cause I remembered the high energy, the shedding, and just how to handle big strong dogs, but boy I was definitely not that ready; huskies really don’t listen unless they want to, and that was the hardest part for me to work, but with a lot of patience (and a bit of professional help) we have made lots of progress. The bright side is that he is great with kids and people (my children adore him), and really chill if he gets the right amount of exercise. Thanks for the great video

  • @buffalogal9139

    @buffalogal9139

    21 күн бұрын

    My neighbors S. Husky makes Houdini look like an amateur. He loves to come sit in my driveway when he gets loose; so I return him regularly. He killed another neighbors chickens and stacked them up in my driveway which I could see no humor in whatsoever. However, I do love him and he knows it. Thought you might like a humorous little tale, that is in my hindsight.

  • @kinley.-.

    @kinley.-.

    10 күн бұрын

    It’s all about that exercise! High value treats help a lot too :) my dogs love boiled chicken!

  • @tracik1277
    @tracik127712 сағат бұрын

    This advice is so important. People easily get drawn to certain breeds for the wrong reasons. The dog I grew up with was a Boxer, she was rescued in effect because she had been returned to her breeder at 4 months old ( her breeder was Kay White who authored some books on Boxer ownership; this was in the U.K.) I can vouch for the fact that Boxers are a bouncy ball of energy and fun. My Lisa was a beautiful brindle, surprisingly elegant for this breed as many Boxers, cute as puppies, can turn out to be bullish, drooly and goofy looking! They are also very powerful with a loud, deep bark, and very loyal and protective. Many people are scared of them. The thing is, my parents had kept Boxers twice before, so they knew what they were doing, and Lisa was very obedient and tolerant of kids as a result. I do still miss her 30 years later, maybe we have these favouritisms about our childhood pets.

  • @kst6959
    @kst695921 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this helpful video. I volunteer at a shelter and when I first started, I thought they kennels would be full of pitties. The vast majority are shepherds and huskies or a mix thereof. Breaks my heart. So many probably would've been successes if the owners had invested in a trainer.

  • @nogames8982

    @nogames8982

    20 күн бұрын

    It totally depends on where you live. Yes, my local shelter has a lot of shepherd crosses and huskies, but they also have a great many Pitbulls.

  • @drmsd14

    @drmsd14

    18 күн бұрын

    Yep! Petfinder is filled with pitties/huskies/GSD and their various mixes.

  • @nogames8982

    @nogames8982

    18 күн бұрын

    @@drmsd14 because they are popular. Worst thing that can happen to a dog breed is to become popular.

  • @FITZIEBLUE
    @FITZIEBLUE21 күн бұрын

    great tutorial video. I wish shelters would share information like this to avoid the sad revolving door experience.

  • @emsies8116
    @emsies81165 күн бұрын

    My first dog was a Jack Russell....He wasn't difficult at all, best dog ever in fact!

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    5 күн бұрын

    Thx for watching and your comment. It's all in the genetics and the owner's investment in caring for, loving and training their dog. Then you have a BFF and a happy life. And that's what it's all about.

  • @TheVeggiekat
    @TheVeggiekatКүн бұрын

    When my son was young I had a border collie-husky mix. That dog was awesome. All I had to do was open the door and say “go get kid” and ZOOM. It did not matter how far my son had gotten on his bike the dog would herd him home. I eventually had that dog trained to fetch my neighbors grandkids, who they were raising, as well. The dog would also make sure the kids stayed in the yard when we didn’t want them wandering. That dog was brilliant.

  • @mikelouis9389
    @mikelouis938917 күн бұрын

    My sister adopts retired standard Poodle show dogs. Incredibly quirky yet laid back. I love the big barkers, Malamutes, Shepherds, Dobermans and the joy of my life, Dexter. Dexter, I thought on adoption, was a mostly Boxer. Turned out, he had a LOT of Bull Mastiff and that Incredibly muscular variety of Pit Bull in him. He quickly grew to be 150 pounds of gym rat with the most Alpha personality in a dog that I ever encountered. He would have been a waking nightmare for a firsty or a timid type. He became a joy. Loved playing with smaller dogs, loved kitty's, super dedicated guard dog yet never was a bit aggressive with visitors if I was present. The only thing he had a problem with was wild turkeys. I swear the dog wanted to get a hunting license for turkey season and nothing else. I was friends with all the dogs in my neighborhood growing up so I knew what time it was from jump, but I also know that trendsetter thinking has doomed a lot of undeserving dogs. Keep doing the Lords work.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for your comments and for watching. I love a good story, and you're certainly someone who was attuned to her dog and able to meet its needs, while Dexter, in turn was just being the wonderful Dexter. No matter how many dogs we have in our lives, there will always be that one (two, if we're lucky) who sing to our heart. I've lost six dogs in 12 yrs., and not a day goes by that I don't remember with a smile on my face their hijinx, quirkiness, and the pure joy that they gave me. Thank you so much for your kind words. I do believe God is behind me in what I want to accomplish.

  • @joannagodfrey5111
    @joannagodfrey511117 күн бұрын

    my first dog was my Border Collie, her mother belonged to a neighbour and I often walked her, once the puppies arrived, Mama was eager to show me her babies, and so Meg became my treasured companion, she was a joy to train, and loved going on walks with me. I lost her 2 years ago and miss her greatly, I currently have a 12 year chocolate Lab, who is love on paws and is everyone's friend.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thx so much for watching and a very touching post. No matter how many dogs we have in our lives, there will always be that one (or two, if we're lucky) who will sing to our hearts. You found your perfect pups, and that's what it's all about. Wishing you well and more years with your Lab.

  • @ermBubbles
    @ermBubbles13 күн бұрын

    I dont understand how someone can 1. not do any research and 2. return a dog - im planning on getting a border collie in may 2025 and im literally planning and researching a YEAR before i get it to make sure i know everything and am prepared for everything :) to be the best dog owner

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    11 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your comment and for watching. What I will say is this. I don't know where you live, but will say that a Border Collie is not for the urban/suburban environment, in my not so humble opinion. Border Collies are herding dogs, extremely smart, and very high energy. That last character trait is the one that most people misunderstand. We're not talking a game of frisbee in the back yard once a day, or a jog for two miles. These dogs are happiest when they're in constant motion and when they have a job to do. I urge you to think very long and hard about getting a Border Collie unless you can meet the dog's needs and have the environment where they (and you, in turn) will thrive.

  • @kennethanderson-co7fw

    @kennethanderson-co7fw

    2 күн бұрын

    To be sure. Doing the research is so important. Personally I would love to have a German Shepherd, and even though I work from home, I know that I would not have the time to dedicate to that dog.

  • @xDarkTrinityx
    @xDarkTrinityx3 күн бұрын

    Big agree on these, especially for the majority just wanting a good family dog. These dogs require WORK and dedication. Sorry for the wall of text... but I have 3 stories about 3 of these breeds that I just wanted to share. (And really not trying to counter any claims of the video. Just topics I can relate on) I'd like to introduce a proud exception which is my sister. She'd always wanted a dog, did a lot of research on breeds and what fit her lifestyle. Her first dog was a mini aussie that she got in college. In fairness, she did consider rehoming at one point because she felt she was too busy with school and couldn't give her the life she needed. Thankfully, we convinced her otherwise. Her dog has seen (and lived in)more states than I have, has gone on countless hiking adventures, road trips, took agility classes and was spoiled and loved immensely by all who knew her. She passed just earlier this year at the wonderful age of 16. My sister also has a border collie and another mini aussie now that she does both agility and flyball with. I on the other hand, technically my first dog is a husky. (Granted I live with my sister for a time with her dog/s and my bf grew up with dogs his whole life so I wasn't all alone in this). I also did research on the breed to know what I was getting into. (The breeder also makes potential buyers fill out questionnaires before approving) He was handful if I'm being honest, especially around 2 years old.. I 100% get why the unprepared would be overwhelmed. But my husky is now 7, a momma's boy, good with our cat and I wouldn't trade him for the world. Flipside, we have a neighbor who had a lab, sweetheart, who passed away maybe 3 years ago now. He then went and got a shepherd mix... totally energetic and unhinged dog... but I never see him exercise her outside... well dog becomes more unhinged, barks and snaps at neighbors walking by at the end of her leash... so what does he do? He gets a male puppy german shepherd... but then refuses to take them out separately so the female is barking nonstop so eventually the puppy grows up learning this behavior and starts acting somewhat like the female just less aggressive... My bf, myself and a TRAINER told him to take them out separately so they dont feed off eachothers energy... and he doesnt listen :/ instead takes them out for quick potty breaks and gets them back inside as soon as he can to avoid people and other dogs... it's sad honestly. :(

  • @xDarkTrinityx

    @xDarkTrinityx

    3 күн бұрын

    Also had an old acquaintance from highschool who was looking for a good family dog, saw I had a husky and asked me about what they're like and I gave it to her straight about the prey drive, the shedding, the unlikely ability to be trained off leash, the howling/talking back, the independent nature, the amount of energy... I also gave the positives about their intelligence, how rewarding it is to own one once you overcome the obstacles, how he is a sweetheart when he's tired and likes to cuddle.. (she also just had a baby recently) so needless to say she did not end up with a husky. lol.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    2 күн бұрын

    I probably will cause some consternation with some viewers with this comment, but here goes. Unless a couple already owns a dog for a number of years and then decides to have a baby, a puppy or dog should not be in a family with very young children. My Boston Terrier breeder, and in fact, there are may breeders who have a non-negotiable list of criteria when it comes to whom they'll send their puppies to.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    Күн бұрын

    Thank you so very much for watching and your sharing your experience me with and the viewers. I think viewer comments are very important especially as so many comments related to this video have supported the selection of dogs on this list and are pretty much in agreement. Regarding your sister and her mini-Aussie, in full transparency, with my Boston Terrier, Spunky -- I adopted him at ~9 mos of age when I lost one of my two Bostons to meningoencephalitis. Spunky was the half-brother to my other Boston Chipper. Spunky was in my home one day before he demolished my silk lampshade ribbon, and I discovered he wasn't quite housebroken. Spunky went through four gastro surgeries in his just shy of 12 yr life, because there was nothing he wouldn't swallow or destroy. Second comment: There are more and more savvy breeders now who are doing preliminary screening of applicants with online applications for their puppies. Those who pass get an email or call/text, otherwise, radio silence. Many highly reputable breeders will not adopt out their pups without a network referral, and many won't even consider adopting the puppies to famlies with small children. As for your neighbor, I feel sooo sorry for those two dogs. If they don't end up in a shelter, or passed to another newbie owner, I'll be surprised. Your neighbor is in over his head and in denial. Those dogs need professional training and exercise, otherwise they're going to get worse, until one day, they snap and bite their owner, or someone else. Dogs with a bite history go to the top of the euthanasia list. There's a KZread channel that might help your neighbor: www.youtube.com/@tomdavisofficial I have personally worked with Tom twice so can vouch for him. He handles problem children, and has 942K subscribers, hundreds of videos. What I like about this channel is that he trains the dogs in front of their owners, mentoring them at the same time. I sincerely hope your neighbor gets some help and those dogs get the help they need as well.

  • @Starry_Night_Sky7455

    @Starry_Night_Sky7455

    17 сағат бұрын

    The best "good family dog" is a stuffed plush dog 😅. Best one for everything really. Quiet, non-shedding, no bite, no begging, no vet bills. Should get along with cats, kids, and won't maul strangers, but can look fierce set up just right in the window 😅.

  • @issnake1109
    @issnake110910 күн бұрын

    I’m a boxer person. I currently own a GSD but I’ve had five boxers so far in my life. Not only are boxers high energy and stubborn, but they’re rather difficult to train. A well bred boxer tends to have high protective instincts so they need socialized as much as possible, and a poorly bred boxer is more likely to be a bit, well, slower. They don’t pick up on training quite as fast and will ignore you if you let them (not because they don’t love you, they definitely do. But because they’re so hyperactive that the smallest things can distract them). One thing I’ve noticed with boxers though is that they will very quickly become their owners. A boxer with a calm and confident owner will be a calm and confident dog. A boxer that is around children will either be very calm and mother/fatherly or if they don’t have the best training then they may be hyperactive and not understand boundaries. A boxer whose owner just likes to rest on the couch all day will usually be right there on the couch with them. They are extremely versatile dogs. But it takes about three years for them to really settle down into their place in the world. From 6 months to 3 years of age, boxers are all just gangly, energetic goofballs and tend to be more speed than intelligence. Once they reach 3 years however, you will suddenly have the best dog you’ve ever known. They are sadly very prone to health conditions (mostly heart problems) and most don’t live very long. My oldest boxer passed at age 13, and the youngest at 7. All from some health condition or another. My grandparents have a young boxer, just 2.5 years, and he has developed a degenerative spine disease. If you can handle the heartache, the three years of mildly intense training, and the slobber, then boxers can be wonderful pets. But they are like trying to grow a rare plant. They need years of cultivated growth and training to become that perfect specimen, or else they will end up wildly overgrown and taking over your house

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    7 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and for your very detailed, informative comment. I so appreciate your sharing your knowledge and your insights into this wonderful breed. My mom had a Boxer growing up, and as I mentioned in the video, my neighbor down the street. His son recently took the dog with him to downtown Chicago where he moved, so I have no idea how that's working out. I video box of the 141st Westminster that I ordered (because Rumor, the GSD won and I'm a GSD owner) and in that year, the Boxer had won the Working Group. I remember going back and forth in texts with my Boston Terrier breeder about the Boxer, whom she believes should have won. Gorgeous dog and the handler was over the moon with her. You could defininitely see all the incredible traits that a Boxer has within it. So sorry to hear what your grandparents are experiencing. I've had my share of health problems with all my dogs. I've been through spinal surgery for IVDD with one of my Shepherds, so totally understand. Thank you again for sharing your experience with me and the viewers. Much appreciated.

  • @E.T.42

    @E.T.42

    5 күн бұрын

    Thanks for the explanation. I was very surprised at the inclusion of the boxer,, because I met a lot of them that were always easy-going, great with children and happy to play. But that was probably because all of them had been around children all their life

  • @jadakowers590
    @jadakowers59012 күн бұрын

    Thank you for a much needed video. Both my Poodles have been rescues (AKA Pound Poodles). I did not see either of them in person until the day I adopted them. One was a miniature and the other is a large toy. I always figured that whatever their personalities were, we’d adjust to one another. After all, having to adapt to a second home after losing your first home and then being caged in a shelter has got to be difficult and scary. Since I was so lucky with both of my Pound Poodles, I was surprised to see a Standard Poodle on your list. Later, in your comments, you mentioned that Standard Poodles have different energy levels than other Poodles sizes. Sadly, because of the fact that there are no set standards for Poos or Doodles, when you get one of these designer dogs, you really have no idea what breeds of dog you’re getting. Your helping people to choose the right breed of dog is a blessing. As a child growing up, one of my uncles had a Chihuahua. Another uncle had a Toy Poodle. I spent a lot of time with the Poodle. Yet, when it came to choosing a dog breed, I repeatedly took the test in Dr, Stanley Corin’s book, WHY WE LOVE THE DOGS WE DO. Poodles were in the group that I always scored highest in. That same group contains GSD, Dobermans, Boarder Collies, Papillons and Shelties. For me choosing a Poodle was a no brainer. I was very familiar with Poodles and love that they don’t shed. For others, this is where they could really use your expertise. There’s a big difference in a Papillon and a Doberman. I’ve heard from many Poodle owners, that, “Once you go Poodle, you never go back.” While the breeds charming nature makes them a favorite, a Poodle requires a lot of grooming. They need to be brushed daily. They need their anal glams expressed. They need their teeth brushed. They need their nails trimmed. They need to be bathed regularly. My vet said no more than once a week for a bath. With a white Poodle, twice a week bathing would be better to keep her clean. Poodle’s hair has to be regularly trimmed. Having some basic knowledge on how to use clippers is important. Fortunately, the hot climate I live in allows me to give my Poodle a vet approved buzz cuts. Once a now more mature vet reflected about of the practice of veterinary medicine. He recounted the advice he gave an elderly woman, who asked him what breed og dog she should get after losing her beloved canine companion of many years. Being young and full of youthful enthusiasm for his favorite breed, Golden Retrievers, he told the elderly lady that Golden’s were the way to go. She got a Golden Retriever puppy. First the puppies wagging tail knocked ever and ruined many of her sentimental bibelots. As the puppy grew, his rambunctiousness made going for walks difficult. The final straw came when the growing puppy jumped up on the elderly woman and knocked her down. Her ankle was broken from that fall. Some family members rehomed the puppy, while the elderly lady was in the hospital having surgery on her ankle so she could walk on her leg again. When she recovered, she got a cat. Mean time, somewhere there was a small dog, who would have blossomed under her care and would have become her boon companion. Take the advice from someone more knowledgeable than you about what breed of dog to get. Don’t get any dog, if you don’t want to put the time into taking care of the dog and training the dog. Remember a dog is a lifetime commitment. A dog is a baby, who never grows up. Just like people, dogs are not perfect. Yet, they love their people unconditionally. Dog’s give us their whole hearts and souls. We should give them ours in return.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    11 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much and your wonderful reply. I put the Standard Poodle on my list because the breed is high energy and high maintenance. It's one thing to own a Toy (which won Westminster on Tuesday night) or Miniature, but quite another to own a Standard. My neighbors next door, retired, in their 60's, got their first dog ever about 18 months ago. What did they get? A Goldendoodle. Not the smaller type but the standard. Yesterday, I'm outside trimming grass when the 3rd trainer they've employed showed up for a handling lesson. The wife, is about 110 lbs soaking wet, and can't even walk the dog anymore because of fear of pancaking into the sidewalk. They don't have a fenced yard, but except for my fence and a neighbor's on the NW sides. The dog has boundless energy that I can see is frustrated because he wants to run and play with my dogs and can't because he's long-lined to the railing. My neighbors are perfect examples of people who got a breed they knew nothing about (they listened to the 30-something live-in son who does absolutely nothing to care for the dog). This is why I'm going to continue to make breed videos and dogs best for.. to help educate people that the dog must complement their lifestyle and personality. There are too many dogs in shelters because the owners made a poor judgment call.

  • @DS-ky9dl
    @DS-ky9dl6 күн бұрын

    Excellent video, wonderfully presented with easy to follow info. And I totally agree!

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    6 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching and your vote of confidence. I have a part 2 video with more dogs, and in the not too distant future will be doing breed specific videos and best dogs for ..... other categories of owners.

  • @tyv3229
    @tyv322920 күн бұрын

    My sister-in-law desperately wants a Siberian Husky because her best friend wants one and she thinks they’re cute. It’d technically be her first dog ever owned. As a dog-obsessed individual, for years I have been educating her why NOT to get one. She’s a germaphobe, doesn’t like too much shedding, and is clueless how to train or care for a dog. Thank goodness, my brother has more sense and refuses to get a dog, period. He, too, is a germaphobe. Your video beautifully confirms why a husky is not for her. Thank you.

  • @eabryn

    @eabryn

    19 күн бұрын

    Lately vizlas and Weimaraner are popular and both are extremely high energy. Beautiful and loving but need running and if you don’t they will bounce off the walls

  • @tyv3229

    @tyv3229

    19 күн бұрын

    @@eabryn Coincidentally, my cousin had a vizsla, but gave it up to a shelter for precisely the reason you mentioned. Such a shame. I knew my relatives were not right for him, though.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comment. If your brother and sister-in-law are both germaphobes, then a dog is not for them. There are breeds that are hypoallergenic, and also others that do not shed. However, that doesn't address the germophobia. And you are absolutely correct that a Husky is not the breed for your sister-in-law. My neighbor's son once told me that he wanted a Husky. Asked him why, same reason, "they're cute." With that answer, I thought he had his head on backwards. Not a reason to get a dog, not a reason to get that breed. Btw, son is now in his 30's, still living at home, and talked his retired, in their 60's parents, into getting a dog. They got a Goldendoodle. O.M.G. His parents take care of the dog, and the wife can't walk it because she'll faceplant into the sidewalk. Sigh.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Indeed, you're absolutely correct. Both dogs are from the AKC Sporting Group. One of my goals is to help wannabe and new dog owners understand the breed and its function before they adopt. These two breeds are not for people who have no time to exercise their dogs or have the backyard/acreage in case they don't have the time.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thx for your comment. I do so hope that the dog was able to be rehomed successfully. One of the reasons in my videos that I keep trying to drive home that people need to understand a breed's function and purpose before they invest in that breed.

  • @becketthutchinson9208
    @becketthutchinson9208Сағат бұрын

    I have a standard poodle, he is just about 7 now. He's my first dog, but he is also a very chill dog as an individual, and not necessarily the norm. Grooming wise I learned to do it myself. Not impossible for a first time dog, but definitely lucked out with mine.

  • @keapixhoudini6263
    @keapixhoudini62634 күн бұрын

    As a cat servant ill never want to own a dog, i lack the temperment, i used to even fear dogs for many years, until introduced to some truly lovely, friendly, trained dogs. They aren't for everyone. In my country, huskies and labs are popular, and so end up dumped in rescues, as they are high energy

  • @amacuro
    @amacuro19 күн бұрын

    Not sure what I was expecting when I clicked this video but I was surprised that I agreed with absolutely everything. Cesar Millan always said that when people go to pick up a dog, they get the one that was jumping in the front trying to catch their attention. But that's the highest energy dog that you would find, which often ends in the dog getting returned, or having a life where dog and owner make each other miserable. Cesar says "get the one sleeping at the back". I did that with my Goldendoodle and, even though he has a lot of energy and can play non stop for hours, when he is in the house he's very calm and delicate with his actions, and likes to nap a lot. I couldn't be happier with him.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comment. I made a 3-part series about adopting a shelter dog, and pointedly tell people not to dismiss the dogs lying in the back of the cage or who appear shut down. Also, given the noisy shelter environment, a dog's behavior inside the cage may not be entirely indicative of its temperament when you get it home. 96% of dogs surrendered to shelters received no training at all from their owners, according to a study that was done a couple of years ago. My neighbors next door have a Goldendoodle, and it has boundless energy. The neighbors don't have a fenced yard unfortunately, so the dog is on a long lead line. When my pups are outside chasing around, I feel so sorry for that dog because I know it wants to play. I'm arranging for a come and visit for the pup so it can chase around my backyard as well.

  • @amacuro

    @amacuro

    19 күн бұрын

    @@thepupmommy Aww that would be very nice if you can convince your neighbor to let their doggy to play with yours. I always try to help people in my local dog park if I see they are having some issues.

  • @cindilouwho8681
    @cindilouwho86818 күн бұрын

    My first dog (as an adult) and subsequent dogs, have been huskies. My husband and I did our research prior to getting our first pup but it was a true challenge, down to my allergies for the first month. That first husky was a unicorn after he hit 1, he immediately flipped his switch and stopped eating his beds, the furniture and became a true gentleman. Our subsequent huskies have taken way longer to mature, we joke around that they fell off the tree still green (never matured) and we have faced health issues with them (diabetes in one and many GI issues on the other). We have had to replace our baseboards twice during their lifetime but we would not trade them for the world. They have been the funniest, sweetest and friendliest boys and have brought us endless joy.

  • @MrPPunch69
    @MrPPunch6911 сағат бұрын

    Good video, but I have 2 additions to make (i hope you don't mind): 1. The most dangerous type of dog breed (espacially for 1st timers) is the herd-protection dog, like the Sarplaninac, the Owtscharka or the Pyrenean mountain dog. They are big, strong, highly independent and absolut fearless. They (have to) make decisions complete on their own, some of this dogs accept their owners only as partners, not as their "Master & Commander". 2. The are no serious studies about a dogs biteforce (how do know that the tested dog uses his full force while biting on a measuring device?) Rule of thumb: the bigger the dog, the stronger the bite And the behavior of a herding/working dog can explained as: If you give them no (or not enough) tasks, they will search for work by themself. Like herding the children...

  • @goymedhundDogtrainingBehavior
    @goymedhundDogtrainingBehavior3 күн бұрын

    Great video. I am a trainer and behaviorist. Owning GSds since 1989.. i waited until 2021 before i got my first Dutch shepherd - short haired.. And 1 month ago i got my first Malinois.. they need A LOT!

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    3 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comments. Sounds like you have your hands full, but then as a professional, you knew what you were getting into. Sadly, I’m seeing more Malinois in shelters, which is another reason this breed is on the list. Wishing you many happy years with your dogs.

  • @birdiemcchicken1471
    @birdiemcchicken147122 сағат бұрын

    More people need to see this video-series. I am sick to death of people getting Rottweilers, Pit-Bulls, German Shepherds, etc-etc-etc, purely because it makes them feel like a tough alpha-male, then toss them into a tiny back-yard and just let them bark and be super-aggressive towards any and all pedestrians. The ambience of my life is my neighbours' pit-bulls barking non-stop from 5 in the morning to late into the night.

  • @yippee8570
    @yippee857020 күн бұрын

    We have a Jack Russell x lurcher rescue. He is a reactive dog due to being under-socialised as a puppy, but not high energy. Because of his reactivity he is walked once a day, with the opportunity to go in the garden whenever he asks. He has me well trained so that his "I need to go in the garden right now" looks exactly the same as his "I want a treat"! But that's ok because he struggles with his weight, so if he asks for a treat, he gets it. He also gets a lot of attention because we both work from home, so maybe he gets more exercise than it seems, because we play with him a lot, through the day, and interact with him a lot so he has a lot of mental stimulation. When he's not interacting with one of us, he's on 'guard dog duty' looking out the window, or curled up by my feet. Such a sweet boy, but very nervous. Not a first time dog unless you have the time to figure out what he needs and then to give it to him. I do love him and wish he could be a bit better trained, but he's made a lot of improvement from the Scrappy Doo wannabe that he started off as. Now he's only a quarter of a Scrappy Doo! Good video, thank you.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    11 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comment. With close to 20,000 views of this video, I've been awash in comments and responding to all. I can tell through your words how much you love your pup. Jack Russells are so charming and there are some breeds, (and I've owned many) that have those eyes, that body language, that have you eating out of their paws. I'll admit that I've had some pups that I would forgive them any bad behavior (short of biting) because they look at me and I melt. I'm so glad that you're an owner who recognizes your pup's foibles, and has never given up on him. You're A-plus in my book .

  • @IBLV2DOU
    @IBLV2DOUКүн бұрын

    I think your videos are well needed. I’ve had dogs since age 4, over 60 years, and what I see people buy, amazes me. I had a German Shepherd, And her pup. She was clever, stubborn, protective. We were pals. I was a teen. Today, I can’t control a large dog. We had 26 years of Mini Schnauzers! Wonderful dogs, still need to be groomed, and also prone to certain illness. Another consideration. We now rescued a senior terrier, 16 pounds, so adorable. We want another pup, or adult dog, just so hard. Thanks for explaining to newbie’s what they should expect, and save not only the owners from problems, but a dog in trouble for being that dog breed they were bred to be!

  • @parkerbrown-nesbit1747
    @parkerbrown-nesbit17475 күн бұрын

    I bred, raised, and trained Border Collies with my grandfather. I always tell people that having a Border Collie is like having a child with an IQ of 200. They are really scary smart (one of ours watched us twice and learned to open the refrigerator door). We bred for what my grandfather called balance. During the day they were working dogs, but after the work was done, they came inside and were pets. I was allowed to roam our farm as long as the dogs were with me (they don't nip ankles. They move stock by eye and movement alone).

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    3 күн бұрын

    Thank you very much for your comment and for watching. I recently saw a video, I think on the X platform, of a Border Collie herding a flock of about 50 sheep from a hill to the pasture, and then climbed into the farmer's truck and smiled at the camera. They are great dogs for the right owner and the right environment. Appreciate sharing your experience with me and the viewers.

  • @ayinyang555z
    @ayinyang555z27 күн бұрын

    I love this video. Thank you so much for the information. ❤

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    26 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching. I'm going to have another video on the same subject coming out in another couple of days, since there are even MORE dogs to add. :-) Hoping the info was helpful.

  • @pamcunningham9608
    @pamcunningham9608Күн бұрын

    I had owned cats for many years, and decided I wanted a dog. I love big dogs, so it had to be large. I wanted a dog with guarding instincts for my safety, as I'm a bit older and don't have the physical strength I used to. Finally, I wanted something unusual, a breed not often seen, and preferably striking in appearance. I settled on a Black Russian Terrier. My puppy was adorable; I took great pains to make sure he was well socialized, did puppy school, fenced in a huge portion of my yard, so we could train and play, and worked with him daily. It was a disaster. BRTs are extremely independent and make their own choices, and I had no clue how to make him want to please me. In addition they are tremendously strong, and walking him was just like you described, me on one end of the leash trying desperately not to get dragged all over the place. After almost two years of hiring trainers and trying, he knocked me down for the fourth time. I was determined not to fail this sweet dog and worked with my friend who is a groomer (she even took a course to learn the specialized haircut for BRTs!) and found him a home with a woman who had just lost her own BRT recently and was very experienced with them. She adopted him and now he has a list of titles as long as my arm, including his canine good citizen and trick dog! She sends me pictures and I get to visit him occasionally, but the important thing is that he's happy with an owner who can fulfill his needs. While I did do my homework I did not have realistic expectations and fell in love with the idea of this gorgeous dog being my pet, without being honest with myself about what that would really mean. I hope your videos help keep other people from making the same mistake I did.

  • @suzannethepatriot8049
    @suzannethepatriot80492 сағат бұрын

    My first and second dog were both Dobermans. Adore the breed. If you know how to raise good well-behaved kids, you will know how to be a responsible dog owner. If you are lazy, don’t even think about it.

  • @Happy11807
    @Happy11807Күн бұрын

    I HAVE HAD LABS FOR66 years,great family Dogs,and with children! Raised properly,conditioned to children at a very early age ,they are trustworthy and gentle! I hunted all my Dogs,never kenneled any of them,and they lived in my home like one of my children,grandchildren and the rest of my family! Good health,care and training made these Dogs a joy in my life and made the SHEDDING AND MISCHIEF THEY CAN GET INTO WELL WORTH THE EXPERIENCE.MY WIFE AND I DO NOT REGRET A MINUTE OF IT !

  • @winstonelston5743
    @winstonelston574316 күн бұрын

    I've had Norwegian Elkhounds for nearly forty years, and shepherd mixes before that. Each dog I have had was an individual, and I can't think of one that didn't exasperate at one time or another, but the Elkhounds, well, there's something special about the breed. Not the best fit for everybody, but they are for me.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comment. You bring to mind Pat Trotter, a legendary breeder of Elkhounds who won the Westminster Group, I think about 8 times. I found her very inspiring because at the 141st Westminster, the last time she won the Group, I learned that she was 80 yrs old. And I thought 80! and running around a show ring with her beloved dog. They are a beautiful, compact breed and I'm happy that you found your perfect breed that gives you happiness. That's what it's all about.

  • @winstonelston5743

    @winstonelston5743

    9 күн бұрын

    @@thepupmommy There's a beautiful picture of BIS Champion Vin Melca's _Before Dawn_ posing with Betty White on the cover of _Kennel Review_ (I forget which issue, but sometime in 1983), a bitch from Pat Trotter's kennel, image available on the internet, look up the dog's name. Hard to tell which was smiling wider, and I recently saw a vintage game show rerun in which the panelists were teasing Betty about her appearance as a "cover girl." The thing about Elkhounds is, the people who recognize the breed always had one or had a friend who had one, and every one of them say it was the best dog they ever had.

  • @chrazzl
    @chrazzl2 күн бұрын

    My sister and her boyfriend got a great pyrenees as their first dog together. My sister was quite well adapted with dogs, but he was not. She sadly passed away tragically soon after they adopted him, leaving her boyfriend to take care of this puppy all by himself. When I heard you talk about 60% of dogs being rehomed within 6 months, I can say for certain this is true. Before that puppy was even fully grown, my sister's boyfriend was looking for people to rehome him to. We eventually took him in and he's finally in a home where he's loved.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    2 күн бұрын

    My sincere condolences to you over the loss of your sister. It sounds like her heart was a big as the Pyrenees that she brought home. These dogs can so easily overwhelm people with their size and their needs. Great Pyrenees on the list in my Part 2 video on this topic. I'm so very glad the pup has found a loving home with you. Because that's what it's all about.

  • @user-dq8xm5hg9v
    @user-dq8xm5hg9v19 күн бұрын

    Unfortunately it's all too common that I see these breeds at shelters because people don't bother to know these breeds and how they work and what's involved for their care. I thought this was an excellent video.

  • @user-dq8xm5hg9v

    @user-dq8xm5hg9v

    19 күн бұрын

    I think it would be nice if you could make a video on good first time breeds I would love to see and hear your recommendations

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for your comment and for watching. Entirely correct as to the point of the video and why I made it.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    I do have a video addressing this that I made a couple of years ago. But, I will be making a new video addressing the topic of best dogs for 1st time owners. Also will have another video, "more dogs not for the ....." that will be coming out shortly.

  • @user-dq8xm5hg9v

    @user-dq8xm5hg9v

    18 күн бұрын

    @@thepupmommy that's sweet I definitely look forward to that

  • @cocky_potato
    @cocky_potato17 күн бұрын

    Great video! I would also add the Akita; both the Japanese and the American. I think people get dogs based on their appearance and make that the only criteria (mistake nr.1) and also do not commit to understand and train and socialise their pups.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    17 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching. I have another video coming out later today and the Akita is in it.

  • @kelvinh8327
    @kelvinh83278 күн бұрын

    Excellent information, thank-you

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    8 күн бұрын

    And thank you for watching and for your comment. I will never stop saying people need to find the dog, and there are plenty out there, that fits their lifestyle and personality. That's how you stay friends forever.

  • @NorthernLace
    @NorthernLace17 күн бұрын

    Brilliant! So much sense. This needs to be said again and again. Thank you.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you very much for watching and your comment. I'll keep trying to produce the videos where I can help people learn about why it is so important to find a breed that complements their personality and lifestyle. Too many dogs in shelters because of owners' mistakes.

  • @LisaWeiss-ic6kk
    @LisaWeiss-ic6kk26 күн бұрын

    Well said! I've been around thousands of dogs during the ten years working with them in a large shelter. It is definitely a learned trait of what to expect from certain breed groups!

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    26 күн бұрын

    Thanks so much for watching and the comment. One of my goals with The Pup Mommy is to help educate people about the breed groups and dogs so that they don't get overwhelmed and in over their heads when choosing a dog. Just recently, I read about the dog surrendered to a shelter, a 4 mo Great Pyrenees. The lady was a single mom, small children, living in an apartment. What was, or was not, she thinking. P.S. Thank you for your work at the shelter. Takes a special person. I have a shelter video series out now, finishing the third part. Very emotional place for me.

  • @nicolethompson8613

    @nicolethompson8613

    22 күн бұрын

    ​@@thepupmommyyes any working dog breed needs a job, at least in my experience as a foster and owner. Especially the herding dogs and guard dogs. I had a Caucasian shepherd once as a foster and had to move her to a foster with a farm, she became the chicken guard and was then a very happy girl!

  • @Solidrock-jq6rp
    @Solidrock-jq6rp4 күн бұрын

    As a poodle owner for years, I think they are great dogs & easy to train. It’s true you have to invest time to groom them but I love not having dog hair all over the house & on our clothes. We walk daily & I’ve had no problems with excess energy.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    3 күн бұрын

    Thx for watching. Definitely sounds like you’re a very happy owner with the perfect pup for your lifestyle and personality. And that’s what it’s all about.

  • @dragonmomandahamster
    @dragonmomandahamster20 күн бұрын

    Love this video! We had huskies for many years, and absolutely love the intelligence and problem solving skills they have..... They take a sense of humor and lots of love and time (notice my profile picture here - our sweet girl Tasha who lived to 16). Now that we are older, we have moved to Shetland sheepdogs!! We don't have the time or energy to truly care for a Sibe anymore.

  • @user-mz3ly9yh1y
    @user-mz3ly9yh1y5 күн бұрын

    Very helpful video, thank you

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    4 күн бұрын

    Thx for watching. I'm really passionate about doing what I can to help first time dog owners from making a mistake. Our shelters and rescues are full, overwhelmed, with owner mistakes. I'd like to see if I can make a dent, no matter how small, in that number.

  • @Speurneuscosmo
    @Speurneuscosmo7 күн бұрын

    No matter if it is your first dog or your 10th. If an owner is not willing to train, no breed is right for them. Some breeds need more challenge. Like you said in the video. The working dogs. Breeders should be more aware of who is selling a dog. There are to much backyard breeders or breeders think they sell dogs because it is there income. But I think that isn’t the way you want to give your dogs a good life. First ask, than breed. Not breed and than sell. Unfortunately the government in many countries can handle animal abuse, shelters get to full and more dogs become agressive because of bad ownership. This problem will be bigger. Or you have to oblige breeders first take care of the shelter dogs. Also breeders have to get a kind of prove they got the knowlegde about breeding and now how to train the breed, that they are breeding. Breeders should get a certified training program for first time dog owners. And extra training that is obliged for owners who get a working dogs. A dog can be a pet, a lovely familymember. But they need a job to, an owner who works with them and know what the needs are. Also, very important, most dogtrainers can teach you a command or a trick. But a few paying attention for the dog body language.if you got a dog, that is very important. Also to prevent dogfights and ignore nervous dogs. Thanks for the information and I hope people are more prepared to own a dog in the future ❤

  • @suewilliamsbrawn2600
    @suewilliamsbrawn26005 күн бұрын

    Might depend on your circumstances. My first dog as an independent adult was a border collie Aussie shepherd x - she was perfect for us as a newly married couple with no kids, a good yard, and lots of time and energy for training and activity! (I was only working part time then) I’m 60 and an experienced owner (mostly of herding types) and have a 3 year old lh German shepherd and while she is a big floofy cuddle monster who is exceptionally social with dogs and people alike, (she didn’t read the German shepherd handbook about being aloof) I agree they are NOT for first timers, just because she was a very challenging puppy, and she was essentially a puppy for first two years! That brain, energy and size is not for the faint of heart! The upside is she now is my very best, sweet friend. Also had a standard poodle border collie x and apart from the fact that she took 4 years to grow out of her puppy brain she was a delight. Hardest dog I’ve had? Cocker spaniel that was dumped on me by a family member when she was a year old and we decided she deserved a forever home with us. She just passed her 16th birthday and hadn’t learned a gd thing. Total character, and not the least bit interested in making her people happy. We are here to serve her lol.

  • @brandillysmom
    @brandillysmom21 күн бұрын

    My daughter brought home a 10 week old female Cowboy Corgi-Australian Shepherd…… Herding is strong with this one. I love the now 3-1/2 month old nipper, but I need a break. Everyone else in the family does too, including my daughter. The pup was taught to sit, lay down and is learning to wait. She needs her 3rd series of shots before my daughter can take her out into the community. I think that part of the issue is lack of energy expenditure, as she needs at least 1 or 2 hours per day(or more!). I don’t think that my daughter will be willing to re-home her. I will be looking for the trainer of Malinois and German Shepherds that I saw in my neighborhood to help with the puppy.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comment. My response, omg. Someone is going to have her hands full. A combo Corgi and Aussie???!!! Yikes. And you're right in using "nipper" because that's what herding dogs do, they nip at the hocks (or ankles etc.) to herd the flock (or humans). I hope you have a fenced backyard? so this pup has somewhere to run if it's not walked daily (and I do mean daily.) Malinois and GSDs are both in the Herding Group category, so a trainer familiar with this breed group can certainly help. But remember, the lifespan of this pup is over 10 yrs, and for the next few years, you're going to be a busy family.

  • @Thylax_
    @Thylax_4 күн бұрын

    Great list! For once I'm happy to see the Jack Russel on this list. I feel like many people underestimate them because they are small dogs.. They are not easy dogs if you dont know what you are doing.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    3 күн бұрын

    Thank for watching and your vote of confidence. I’ve added more pups to the list in Part 2.

  • @Fubar2024
    @Fubar202420 күн бұрын

    My daughter got her her first dog from pound, and it's a Shephard/ Doberman cross. After being locked up for a month of its life ( she is only a year and a half), she is turning out beautifully. My daughter just loves her to pieces, and the dog gets to go to the ocean or a park 3 times a day. She is getting socialized nicely, whether at a dog park, or sitting at a coffee shop, and has even had her off leash. She's only had her three weeks and lives in an apartment. It working out awesome for a big dog. But i get your point. My daughter only has her dog to take care of so its easy to get her out. Plus she never plans to have children. So this pup will never be going back to the pound.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    18 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your comment and for watching. Your daughter is really to be commended for working with and loving her dog so much. You don't realize how truly special she is, or maybe you do, because most people want instant "Lassie." Dogs are four-legged children, and the time you put into them pays off in the end. Wishing your daughter many wonderful years with her beloved pup.

  • @ravent3016
    @ravent30166 күн бұрын

    One thing to consider with any dog that needs a lot of exercise is how healthy are you? Can you walk that much? How big is your yard? I know that many people are renters, and I feel like some high-energy breeds really deserve the room to run. Also, anyone getting a larger breed should think about how you could lift or carry the dog if necessary.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    6 күн бұрын

    Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge and watching. I think I have a video out there, unless I'm confusing it with an X (Twitter) post that I did, where I mention to people who want a large breed dog --- if your dog becomes ill or injured, will you have the strength to lift it into the car to take it to the vet. Because that happened to me with my 85# dead-weight German Shepherd. Took me 20 minutes of heave-ho to get her into my SUV. And you raise an excellent point about personal health, because many high-energy dogs (and I explain high-energy vs regular exercise in my Part 2 of this series) require someone who can take them on long walks, but more importantly have a place where these dogs can run free and exercise on their own. I'm on 1/2 acre, fenced, so my Shepherds can run around chasing their ball. My neighbor next door, learned the hard way. They bought a Goldendoodle 18 months ago, and now JULIE was staking their property the other day for utilities. Finally broke down and are getting a fence bc the couple can't handle the dog for walking.

  • @fiprosha

    @fiprosha

    Күн бұрын

    I personally don't think a garden or yard is that important and actually often leads to the wrong assumption of "I have a big yard, I don't need to walk my dog." Smart dogs like shepherds want meaningful interaction and activity. If you have two dogs, then yeah, a garden gives them the room for social play. But if I let my Shepherd outside into our garden and stay inside, she'll just sniff for a bit to see if everything's in order and is then done. What's important is that you give working dogs an actual job, whether that is in your garden, in the park or even inside your flat doesn't matter imo.

  • @stefjordan
    @stefjordan19 күн бұрын

    Would have liked to see Livestock Guardian breeds included on here! Noteably the Great Pyrenees which has been increasingly flooding the shelters in many areas due to urban families wanting a "family friendly", fluffy giant and then finding all they want to do is bark, escape, and roam....

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thx so much for your comment and for watching. I'm going to be releasing another video, "more dogs not for ...." and the Great Pyrenees is on the list.

  • @doubles1545

    @doubles1545

    8 күн бұрын

    I was thinking this, too. I have two Maremmas on my property. Smart and independent, they can be a challenge. They test my authority constantly. They keep the coyotes away, though!

  • @llfsmith1
    @llfsmith115 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this, great information.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    15 күн бұрын

    You're welcome, I'm glad you found it useful.

  • @givowl2160
    @givowl216012 күн бұрын

    This is why i am being very picky about my next dog, I want to make sure I am able to provide what the dog needs. Thank you for the video

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    11 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your comment and for watching. I love picky people because I know you'll take your time to ensure you find the breed that is right for you. Should you ever need any help or have questions, please feel free to contact me. Email is in the description section.

  • @romytjuh7106
    @romytjuh710612 сағат бұрын

    Our dogs are Australian Shepherds. Yes we got them both as a puppy as "first time" owners. Laidback is how they are and yes they are both full aussies. But we walk atleast 4 hours a day included on and off leash.

  • @tinaelton2759
    @tinaelton275917 күн бұрын

    Great advice! I’ve had so many from Great Dane at180 lbs to teacup poodle at 3 lbs. they all have specific needs! Raised Golden Retrievers for ten years and would recommend the hunting breeds but all dogs need constant training and attention!

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thx for watching and commenting. I do appreciate when my viewers share their knowledge and insights with me and others. Goldens are beautiful dogs, and you're so right about the exercise. Interesting side note about dog personalities. My German Shepherd, Czarina, who I had for a little over 12 yrs, was pretty Shepherd, until she saw a Golden. 😆 There was just something about that breed. She was lying at my feet at the vet office one day, different dogs coming and going, indifferent, just watching. A Golden came out of the exam room and BOOM! she was on her feet with BARK! I dunno. But you certainly have experience and thx so much for sharing.

  • @sebastiangua3230
    @sebastiangua323016 сағат бұрын

    Also, Australian Kelpie. A wonderful dog, but it’s also a lot of investment to train it, then giving it appropriate level of activity. This kind of dog becomes a center of your life.

  • @WibblyMart
    @WibblyMart3 күн бұрын

    Mu first dog was border collie/australian shepherd mix, and she's been an absolute joy. She's 3yo atm. I agree border collies are Not for new dog owners. I have a lot of experience training and working with dogs, which is why my border collie is so well behaved and does well in an apartment. I put in hours upon hours of training into her from the day she got home(7wo). Within a week she knew sit, lay down, and bang bang!(play dead). I was 20 when I got her, and we lived on 3 acres in the middle of farmland where I worked from home. Because I was home so much, I was able to supervise her 24/7 and make sure she got all the exercise she needed. We moved to a town when she was a year and a half, I was worried at first at how she'd do in an apartment. And she's been incredible, as long as I take her to get a good run in and long game of ball every afternoon, otherwise she gets irritable.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    3 күн бұрын

    Thx for watching and sharing your experience with me and the viewers. You are an owner who’s done it the right way where your dog is concerned, and by that I mean training in combo with love and care. So,so many people don’t put in the time needed training their dog or are inconsistent, then wonder why their dog is out of control or misbehaves. Wishing you many wonderful years with your wonderful pup.

  • @colleenborchardt9895
    @colleenborchardt98958 күн бұрын

    I really enjoyed your video and agree with you. I would add Pembroke Welsh Corgi to your list. As herding dogs, they can be a handful and they are being surrendered a lot lately. I am on my 2nd and 3rd Corgi and I warn first time owners all the time and make sure they are prepared. ❤️

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    6 күн бұрын

    Thx so much for watching. The Pembroke Welsh Corgi was added to the list in Part 2 of the video series. I'm thinking I'll get a Corgi perhaps in a few years, but I have four pups now, two Bostons and two Shepherds, and adding a 5th would be a handful with a large house and the size property I have. Appreciate your comment and insights.

  • @colleenborchardt9895

    @colleenborchardt9895

    6 күн бұрын

    I will definitely watch part 2!!!! Thank you! Wow!!! That's a handful. I have a hard enough time with 2 Corgis I could not imagine having 4 dogs of any breed. You are a busy lady!!!

  • @EnzoLeon85
    @EnzoLeon859 күн бұрын

    I have a Doberman as my first dog and it's definitely a lot of work. Not impossible, but probably way more than the average person wants. As soon as you get one, the dog is your life. I became a member of a dog club for classes and took private lessons from a dog trainer. Because only a puppy class definitely isn't enough. She's 20 months now and I've been doing weekly classes at the club for about 75% of her life. Also almost every walk is a training session in some way. To work on the rough edges, on reactivity, on ignoring things around her in busy streets, or to work on her focus on me. I took a dive into the deep and I'm happy I did it. Always wanted a companion, a hobby and a dog. A Doberman is all 3 of those in one. But like you, I don't think I would recommend them to a first time dog owner.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    7 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for your comments and for watching the video. Dobermans were my first "big" dogs; had a female, Lexus, and a male, Luxor (in addition two Bostons.) I took them both to a trainer who trained Working Line/Group dogs because this breed needs professionals who understand these dogs. Both of my Dobes had the cropped ears, black and tan, so when I walked them I had the sidewalks to myself. Wonderful dogs, but as you pointed out, they need people willing to invest the time, training, and LOVE, to have their Dobes be remarkable dogs. And, don't underestimate of how the genetics of a well-bred dog play into its temperament.

  • @EnzoLeon85

    @EnzoLeon85

    6 күн бұрын

    @@thepupmommy yeah they are a really good deterrent haha. Mine doesn't have cropped ears, but people still cross the road. And same for the trainer. I had one who trained working breeds and the club I go to does obedience. I'm now looking into mondioring. Genetics is definitely a factor. I'm from Europe, where both parents of mine got tested. Dad is from a working line and got ZTP tested. Mother from a show line, but she also got a behavior test from the Dutch doberman club. Went to a breeder specifically for that, because they're forced to test behavior and various genetic diseases like DCM and von Willebrand.

  • @Gothikah
    @Gothikah6 күн бұрын

    I had a Rottweiler-Shephy cross. He shedded a lot! He was also the best dog I ever had, BUTBUTBUT- I brought him with me EVERYWHERE. In the Train, in Town, To my Horse, Next to my Bike, The Bus, The Metro, The Forest, To the water to swim. I socialised him with other dogs as much as I could, and found out he got stressed around young kids. You NEED to give them excersize, keep their brain busy with search and find. If they're getting too pushy, you need to be able to stand your ground and be able to stop this behaviour, and you need to be very clear with your boundaries. Whenever we'd go somewhere he'd literally Bounce around the house out of excitement. He wasn't much vocal but he was a bit protective , and when people came over I had to tell them they needed to just let him sniff, not pay attention to him, sit down, and let him come to them. Then all was fine. He had a bit of a user manual. But for me, he was the best dog and I sadly had to put him to sleep due to leukemia when he was 12. He was abused by his previous owners, and a rotty/sheph cross that didnt have proper care the first 2 years of their life, is OUT OF CONTROL!!! It took me 2 years for him to be a good k9. If he'd been dumped in the shelter, he'd probably either sit a long time and 'rot away' or returned alot, or been put down because he was very high anxiety when I got him. I went to him to protective training and first they told me he was a bit too sidetracked for it. But when I told them his past they where like : Oh my Gosh, You did a great job! I still miss him every day. He was such a fun, happy, smart, high energy guy. I still have 2 dogs. They are both 12, but they are easy maintenance. ( 1 has arthritis and is some kind of staffy mix and the other is a tiny shephy, both rescued from a Bulgarian shelter) I love them too though, but I miss my noisy beast haha.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    6 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watcing and sharing your story. You have a wonderful heart and soul to have taken on your pup, but I've no doubt your love was returned ten-fold by your dog. I think the most important part of your story is the patience, understanding, and not giving up on your pup knowing its history. You put in the time and care with him because you loved him, as you love your other dogs now. That can't be understated when it comes to the importance of owning a dog. Dogs instinctively know when they are wanted and loved vs. merely tolerated. Kudos to you for doing such a fantastic job raising and loving your pups.

  • @judithgockel1001
    @judithgockel10016 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your informational video. I am perpetually heartbroken by the animals in shelters. As living becomes closer for many people, a dog’s needs can so easily overwhelm the wrong owner. Dogs bark. They dig. They play roughly. They can easily overwhelm a budget. And on and on. Cost alone can be out of reach for seniors, who desperately need a companion, but will wind up paying for vet care that exceeds their ability to pay, or leave them sharing kibble with the beloved pet for dinner.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    6 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comment. I will be doing some videos in the future regarding best dogs for seniors, but dividing it into a multi-part series, e.g., active seniors, seniors with disabilities, seniors on a budget, etc. My mom was 83 when she moved in with me, and my Boston Terriers were beloved pets. She adored them until she passed 10 yrs later.

  • @BosomBuddyCreations
    @BosomBuddyCreations20 күн бұрын

    THANK YOU so much for doing this video. As a dog trainer is just blows my mind when I see new dog owners getting a breed that is such a bad match for them.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thx so much for watching and your vote of confidence. I have a second, "not for the 1st time owner ..." video coming out shortly. I want to try and reach as many 1st time wannabe owners as possible. Goal? to keep dogs out of shelters because the owners made a bad mistake.

  • @BosomBuddyCreations

    @BosomBuddyCreations

    19 күн бұрын

    @@thepupmommy I love it! Cant wait to see it. It pains me when I tell owners that they either have to change their lifestyle or re-home their dog. They need to remember a dog is like a 2 or 3 year old toddler their WHOLE life. Either commit to taking care of the dog, or give it a better home.

  • @alreadytired6515
    @alreadytired6515Күн бұрын

    Whatever dog you get, please choose based on your lifestyle. If you run into behavior issues consider that you may have a hand in it. We had a hound that was so sweet, but she played keep away because she wanted to play. We got her a sister and we never had another issue. We also taught her sister to drop things very early. 😂

  • @keirenle
    @keirenle4 күн бұрын

    It s all about the time and the commitment. I have a mini Schauser atm because I am too busy for a doberman. If you only have 1 hour for a dog a day. Go for one that would tired out after 30 mins walk

  • @Du-Masses
    @Du-Masses5 күн бұрын

    My first dog is a herding dog and she needs a lot (I mean a lot) of exercise. We trained her as a puppy not to nip and make sure she gets her cardio….she is a total sweetheart and well behaved. We did our homework and give her the activity and training she needs…so I think it’s about how much research and time people are willing to do/give and not necessarily about “first” timers.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    2 күн бұрын

    Thx for watching and your comment. Poodles make great dogs, don't get me wrong,. But as you mentioned, you did your homework and knew what you were getting into. The majority of people out there adopting dogs don't. To your last comment, I'll say this, people don't know what it's like to own a dog, until they own a dog. There are two keys to successful dog ownership. 1) The human/owner component. Really being honest with yourself about your lifestyle and personality. Are you a get up and go type, a glued to the computer type, a work-long hours type, an outdoorsy type or multiple combinations. 2) The dog breed's function and temperament. Certain behaviors can be addressed and professionally trained away, but genetics and DNA are entirely different. You are an owner who is more the exception than the rule, which is one of the reasons why we have shelters full of owner mistakes. My neighbors are a case in point. Retired, 60's, and they get a Goldendoodle as their first dog. Totally overwhelmed. After 18 months, they finally installed a fence two days ago. And now the dog chases up and down the fence line with my Shepherds.

  • @LiveForever13
    @LiveForever1315 күн бұрын

    My last dog passed away early April 2024, she was a shelter dog. She was 9/10 when I got her, and she passed at around 17 years old. I adopted a senior knowing she may not have a long life, but boy was I wrong! She was an amazing jack russell x. Shelter dogs are amazing dogs, as are seniors. When we get our next dog, will depend on what our lifestyle is going to look like in a few years. Mixed breeds, seniors, shelter dogs, all great. Just be ready to put time into the shelter dog, be patient. For first time owners? I totally agree with you. Great information! (im in the UK btw)

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comment. My sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved pup. Having your pup as long as you did is a kudo to what your love and care were able to do for your lovable pup. Many people assume that senior dogs are always ready to keel over after they're called "senior", but I, too, have had senior dogs, and they have a lot of pep and living yet to do. Shelter dogs present their own unique set of challenges, some more than others. But as long as people adopt knowing ahead of time what to expect, that they have the patience, and know how to get access to resources for help, chances are that they will find the contentment and happiness with their pup. I have a 3-part series, Adopting a Shelter pup available on my channel. Best wishes to you when you're ready for your next dog.

  • @Althesia
    @Althesia15 күн бұрын

    The return rate on shelter dogs really isn’t surprising. My first dog was an American bulldog pit mix who before we even left the shelter pissed on a mop that was up next to the door. When we got home within 5 minutes he hiked his leg and peed on our wall. This would become a habit so much so that he had to be kenneled if I didn’t feel like having my eyes on him constantly. I left the room to clean my cat’s litter boxes for 5 minutes and came out to him pissing on the wall again. He can’t even live outside because he whines and howls when he wants inside and digs holes all over the yard making it very dangerous and difficult to mow. We tried everything for 3 years before I returned him to a shelter. The shelter we got him from, an SPCA organization, wouldn’t even take him back. We contacted them twice and every time it came to “we’ll call you to schedule a surrender” they never called. It’s crazy when the shelter you got an animal from ghosts you, not to mention we had 3 separate people while we were meeting the dog for the first time tell us a copy/paste line of “he’s such a good dog!”… I think that shelter not only knew that was BS but also he had probably been returned before. He wasn’t housebroken when we got him, that little bit of information wasn’t made clear to us til we already adopted him and it was on the file that they only give you once you sign and pay for a dog. He was hell to walk on a leash despite being told he’s great on leash, and he would get very aggressive with us when we first got him, it took him snapping at me while I was petting him and me immediately popping him good in the face to end that. Shelter dogs have major baggage and undisclosed issues. Even the shelter we gave him to and told him all his issues didn’t reveal those issues. I saw his ad on their website and it didn’t mention a single issue. So he’s probably going to be adopted by a naive person like I was and then they get slammed with a terrible dog. Shelters lying and misleading is a large reason why dogs get returned no doubt. Also a dog being stuck in a tiny concrete prison with barking going on all around all day surely adds to the neurotic behavior. I’ll never be adopting again, my second dog I got before we returned the first was an AKC standard poodle who is still going amazingly well, so smart, has issues but she’s still a puppy and for a puppy the issues are very workable. At least I can trust this one not to mark inside the house, walk well on a leash, listen amazingly, and learn super quickly.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching and for your very detailed story, which I hope is read by other people. I do have a 3-part series, "Adopting a Shelter Dog" which I hope will help some people. I am a very strong advocate for shelter dogs, but I'm an equally strong advocate for people getting the right dog for their personality and lifestyle, no matter what adoption path they should take. People who adamantly advocate "ADOPT, DON'T SHOP" with their friends and family, don't have to live with the dog on a daily basis. From personal experience, not all breeders, rescues, shelters are created equal. Many dogs are mislabeled, and good dogs wallow in shelters, while other wonky dogs who are victims of poor breeding or neglect/abuse are adopted out to people who are not prepared for the trials and tribulations these dogs present. Many times when I see the Adoption Events, I just cringe, because I know the shelters want to clear the house, and people adopt on impulse based on the dog's backend story or because of how the dog looks. Then they get home and after a few days, realsville settles in. In my second video on this topic, I open with a video of a shelter dog under extreme kennel stress, and tell people after the video, "this is what happens when you make a mistake." Finally, Standard Poodles are amazing dogs. We have several in my neighborhood. Incredibly smart and very active, and you're right they are trainable. A dog's temperament is determined by its genetics, and how it is socialized by its mother and the breeder. You can train away a lot of behaviors, but not genetics. I'm sorry the other shelter pup didn't work out, and maybe it will still find a home. But I'm glad that you had the patience for those years to try as hard as you did to make it work.

  • @corinnetodd4807

    @corinnetodd4807

    6 күн бұрын

    They lie alot

  • @Starry_Night_Sky7455

    @Starry_Night_Sky7455

    19 сағат бұрын

    You really are the one to blame, not the shelter. You had a brain. You didn't use it. You just lacked commitment and willingness to learn anything yourself regarding canine behavior, and you hold a stupid preconceived bias (like a Pygmalion Bias). I've had over 21 dogs of my own. Some were shelter dogs, some came to me as strays, and I have my own titled working dogs (field retrievers). I've worked with a lot of dogs! You just didn't like that dog, and that was the case (again, Pygmalion bias). Stop blaming everyone else here. I know stupid when I hear someone utter AKC as if that's a stamp of approval 🙄. Boy, I cringe when I hear AKC uttered. It's just a registry, and they're full of internal controversies. Sorry, I'm a bit p.o.'d here that you chose that dog at a shelter, generally had an idea of his temperament, then gave up on him. I have never rehomed a dog. I have managed aggression issues which resolved with some rather mild intervention. I'm also wise enough to unfortunately make a hard last resort decision if a dog truly is dangerous (never have needed to do such a thing). But usually the dog isn't the problem. It's the inexperienced clueless person setting the dog up to fail. Im reading that you ignored him ("live outside" you said 😕 "whines and howls" you said and "digs holes" this is common dog behavior dear). "Pissing" as in marking is easy to fix over time. You didn't leash him, or confine him in the house. That is a start! I don't think you did much. It takes a good 12 months where the newbie adjusts and learns your house rules. They know nothing. You need to teach by positive reinforced repetition for months! This is for any dog. Sure some have a more receptive drive so, they appear to "learn" faster. You have to see what they can do, maybe adjust your expectations, and be patient. Ever try training a hound? That's a fun challenge. Why did you adopt in the first place? I can assess dogs quickly very easily. They are not hiding anything. They may let loose and ease up after a few months in an established home but, no, the shelter isn't hiding anything. The shelters are just painfully overwhelmed. Can you manage 20 to 200 dogs daily? No, you can't. Do you make the day to day decision which 5 to 15 healthy (on average) dogs will get killed for space (every week)? Imagine having that on your mind. Ah well, at least you were honest telling your story (cruel you were). Enjoy your pup. I'm glad you went with a Standard Poodle, not these faddish doodles (I hate the breeders not the dogs). Hopefully you chose a REPUTABLE SOURCE. You ought to know that poodles can make fantastic working retriever dogs. The show coat cuts are not my thing. I generally dislike what goes on with show dogs, as the conformation trends are often just unhealthy. Performance bred dogs are often the real deal. Poodles are a sporting breed (nevermind AKC rubbish classification as non-sporting, as Standard Poodles make fine hunting retrievers). Ahh, your whole post angers me.... You really need to make right what you did to the dog you gave up. Maybe check and support him from afar like a sponsor. Perhaps he wasn't suitable for you, okay, but I could not carry in my conscience what you did by dumping him. I've had one American Bulldog myself. He was fantastic! Fine with cats. Of course he required training. I got him as an unknown stray. Initially, he would bound after cars on a leash. Very tenacious and "bullheaded"😅. Taught me plenty. This is how you learn and gain experience. You don't blame or move a "problem" to someone else. You get help via quality training. Thanks for being blame-y and a quitter. Pups from a good source also require a good 2 years of socialization and phased stepped training. An un-altered male of any breed may be inclined to mark. That last dog was probably awesome but you didn't see it 😕. I have had some priceless mutts. I've also had my agility, SAR field Golden, a Husky (from awful first home), Beagles, Basset-Beagles, JRT and Fox Terriers, Springer Spaniel, English and American Cocker Spaniels, German Shepherds, more Shepherds, more hounds, Field type Labrador Retrievers, several beautiful mutts I wish I had DNA tested!, and more! Ahhh dogs, we don't deserve them. Friggin! Your comment has me thinking about some healthy dogs I know died at shelters ☹️ in Texas and California. I was too late to adopt (Im not in those states. I didn't know how to get Code Red dogs tagged and pulled for out of state adoption). It makes my gut knot up. I feel like hell for not being in time. Have you even witnessed euthanasia ever, or had to make that decision? It's supposed to be a last merciful resort for a terminal issue not something for healthy dogs. It's a sad shame we have this throwaway society. I have their faces in my mind forever. I dont forget them. There are thousands of dogs in shelters. Thousands! There are many great dogs there. You think your one rather biased experience means shelter dogs come with "baggage" ??? Seriously??? You need to think this through. You're definitely naive here. I have a couple specific spots with massive holes in my yard thanks to my awesome Golden Retriever x Treeing Walker Coonhound that I picked up as a wormy starved mystery. He has turned out fabulous! He looks like a chocolate lab with a white blaze on his chest. He is novice friendly. No pull. Great with kids. Excellent since the beginning in formal classes for socialization purposes. Sure he digs. He is a dog. He loves mud too. Well, it's several acres, and I have zero reason to stop his fun. I can call him off if needed (that took time, yes). I guess I mow adventurously 😅 (I have guys mow for me). Soooo, did that American Bulldog just not match your sofa, so you fabricated bs that he was soo awful 🙄? Oooo marking behavior ooooo, not too difficult to manage. Did he truly snap at you, or was that mouthy behavior, or your misguided correction? Hopefully you're not like that disgusting S. Dakota governor Kristi Noem. Stop blaming the overwhelmed shelter. Yes they are desperate to find homes. The intake rates are beyond tragic! You're just a jerk that chose to quit. Cruel. Just cruel. Nothing you described is difficult to manage. You need to be clear what temperament and drive you want. There are easy ways to behavior assess a newbie dog. Hopefully you chose your poodle from a responsible source, not an unethical greed breeder. Sorry if I roasted you. I have seen what euthanasia days look like. I'm not cool with it. You want to see what I mean? Look up *Kiss The Animals Goodbye* It is a vintage documentary from I guess early 80s. It is hella hard to watch. But it is honest. Germany forbids lethal injection of homeless dogs. Why oh why can't the USA do the same??? Do not blame shelters. They are over-capacity and overwhelmed! They need our HELP. We need to stop irresponsible breeders of all kinds (responsible breeders are not the problem). We need to stop these stupid people that think dogs are not a forever commitment. People need to do their research before getting a dog. Dogs are a huge commitment! Your story is like a green rider buying a horse at a haphazard auction, then aiming to ride the horse over a course of jumps the next day. That's dumb. Yes fools do this. It takes many months (or a few years) of gradual phased training. Dogs take time too! Good grief! I'm so angry reading what you did! You were biased. You took it out on the dog. You didn't approach this as someone wanting to grow, or learn. Maybe get a stuffed plush dog. They're perfect! They are quiet, don't dig, or pee. I wrote a lot there as an overflow. It touched a nerve. 😭 All those dogs. We don't deserve dogs. Dogs get returned to shelters because of quitter mentality, ridiculous expectations, impulsive thinking, and lack of forethought. Most Americans really aren't suitable for getting any dogs. Yeah, we don't deserve dogs 😢. I wrote a bit much. Here is a trophy 🏆 for anyone that made it this far. Thank you. 🐶

  • @Starry_Night_Sky7455

    @Starry_Night_Sky7455

    17 сағат бұрын

    ​@corinnetodd4807 that's not true. You're as biased as the commenter above blaming everyone else. How can you all not do your own behavior assessment? Really, most Americans shouldn't have dogs. The mention of AKC 🙄🙄🙄. Oh Lord no. The original person commenting on their experience has me wondering why they ever adopted? I'm betting the dog didn't match their sofa so, they make things up to fake an excuse to quit.

  • @corinnetodd4807

    @corinnetodd4807

    8 сағат бұрын

    ​@@Starry_Night_Sky7455yes it is Ive caught themselves on several occasions. Robert Cabral even had a video out on that and he's been around shelters most of his life.

  • @mkshffr4936
    @mkshffr493619 күн бұрын

    Our first dog was a Labbie. A perfect first dog IMO. For my second I upped the ante and just adopted a Rottsky. He does have a stubborn independent streak but he is very chill and loves people.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    19 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comment. I'll be doing a video in the near future about good dogs for first time owners. Labs are great dogs; I've had one. And are they strong! Glad you've found your perfect pups.

  • @diane9247
    @diane92478 күн бұрын

    I've never owned a dog as an adult, though grew up with a beloved boxer. My dad, who loved dogs all his life, said something that every dog owner needs to know: "A dog is always waiting for orders." The biggest mistake I've seen over the years of knowing dog owners is being too lazy or timid to be in charge. Be honest with yourself. If this is you, either skip owning a dog or get a lazy breed that doesn't need to be busy. But, even then, you still need to set basic boundaries - unless you don't mind your English bulldog pooping in the house.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    7 күн бұрын

    Thank you for warching, your comment and insights. One point that I make to people is that a dog looks to its owner as its leader and protector. If it senses you are neither, it will take over and start running you. Your comment about "timid to be in charge" reminds me of dozens of videos that I've watched on Tom Davis' KZread channel. I've worked with Tom twice, great guy. But if you watch his videos, you'll see so many owners who fit exactly your description. Tom trains the dogs and teaches the owners. Check him out if you like and get ready for plenty of "jeez" and eyerolls.

  • @irmaamri6249
    @irmaamri62492 күн бұрын

    My first dog as a kid was a border collie who lived to the age of 19. The most perfect family dog. She climbed trees with me. She saved me from a pervy guy with a shotgun. I’ve never had another breed. Honestly, I think I’d be bored with one of the easier dogs. Border collies are healthy, intelligent, and emotional; they’re individuals. They need a lot of exercise, which is a plus if you enjoy the outdoors (mine get 4hrs walking a day) and they need mental stimulation too.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    2 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your comments. I appreciate it very much when people who own/have owned these breeds share their experiences with me and other viewers. It sounds like you found your perfect match, and that's really what it's all about.

  • @SavageSniperGirl
    @SavageSniperGirl11 күн бұрын

    Spot on. I'm a Cattle Dog devotee' but herding breeds are a very real challenge. Loyal and loving but you really do need to understand them and adjust accordingly.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    11 күн бұрын

    Appreciate your watcing and your comment. Absolutely agree. Too many people adopting dogs because they're popular and/or cute, without understanding the breed's function/temperament and how it would fit into their lifestyle. This is why I'll continue to do breed videos and videos about "best dog for....." The goal is to keep dogs out of shelters because the owners made a mistake.

  • @ivyrose779

    @ivyrose779

    10 күн бұрын

    I feel like a lot of people don’t realize how serious cattle dogs can be.

  • @jessicasanghera6310
    @jessicasanghera631018 күн бұрын

    As the human of a Jack Russell, I completely agree. I have had many dogs in my life, my Jack is extremely smart, very active and incredibly sassy. Love her to bits

  • @ettoceb
    @ettoceb16 күн бұрын

    I had two Husky and I also took care quite a few time of a Samoyed. When you got a sledge dog, you got a work out partner to walk and run around for at least 1 hour every day and a lot more if possible. I was walking every day and also sometime having one of them run along while I was biking on country roads. I was never slimmer nor fitter than when I was taking care of those dogs. Also, for the escape artist part, one of them was able to jump over me (over 1.80, 6ft) without touching me. If you want to keep them in a pen, you need at least 1m/3ft deep (if the ground is easy to dig) and 3m/10ft high. Less than that and they can dig or jump over the fence while you're out for work.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you for watching and your very knowledgeable reply. I totally agree that dogs will keep you physically fit. I just have to keep my Shepherds moving at a regular pace, because they have to stop and sniff everything. Appreciate your insights into this great breed.

  • @rosariocastro6386
    @rosariocastro638617 күн бұрын

    Great video. My family had dogs all my life, more than one at the time usually, and my mother had dogs all her life too, so we are all pretty experience dog owners. From your list I've had an neapolitan mastiff, 4 different boxers and a german shepard, and yes, they are all challenging dog breeds, that would create different problems for a inexperience owner. Our boxers required so much exercise, had no real control over their appetite, and were too smart for their own good (one even learned to open the fridge, to steal food), but we had them as kids so they were well exercised and didn't have the energy for evil. Our mastiff was not well socialized in her first months and caused some problems when she was a puppy, but my mother is a fantastic trainer, and all of our dogs obeyd without hesitation, something important particularly with powerful dogs like mastiffs and german shepherds. We also had a great dane, 2 irish setters, a finnish lapphund, and three big mutts, so as you can see, we're not small dogs people.

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching and your comments. My apologies for the late reply, but I'm slowly going down the list of over 450 comments and answering each one. I do appreciate when my viewers share their stories and experiences because we can all learn from each other. There are so many dogs in shelters because of owner mistakes in selecting the wrong/dog and breed. I grew up with Boston Terriers, but when I moved into my present home, I fenced the yard and got the bigger dogs while I'm still able to handle them. Currently, I own Shepherds and the redoubtable Bostons. All my big dogs were trained by professionals with decades of experience in handling Working Group dogs. My neighbor down the street has a Boxer, and is a perfect example of when a dog owner does not exercise the dog enough. The dog pulls the owner down the street and when he stops to talk to me, the dog is boing! boing! You truly are an experienced dog owner and I hope people who have read your comments learn from them.

  • @n2skiing76
    @n2skiing763 күн бұрын

    You’re right on the Siberian husky. I have one and had labradors mostly before. Husky you have to be an alpha and not a first time dog owner. But he is extremely smart. One of the smartest dogs I’ve seen. He is wonderful. As for exercise they don’t have to go near as much as some think. A trainer once posted on a Facebook group I’m part of for huskies. And he said don’t exercise so much that you can’t handle it. They adjust to what you give them. Just like a human. You run 3 times a day u get accustomed to that and expect it. Same with a husky. They don’t require that. Not saying not to give them exercise just don’t have to go to extremes. He is a wonderful dog. Honestly think huskies should be on the top list of smart dogs. But u think the people who judge the breeds think it goes by obedience. Mine is obedient but also has mind of his own lol.

  • @suzannejohnstone1810
    @suzannejohnstone181018 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for making this video 🤗 I’m going to share this with Several people I believe would benefit Greatly from your observations ☺️🦮🙌

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    18 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your comment and for watching. I'll be having another video out probably later today or tomorrow on even more dogs not tor the first time owner, because I believe it is SO IMPORTANT that people understand the breed and its function before they adopt.

  • @Marcus-vo1tt
    @Marcus-vo1tt18 күн бұрын

    I'm thinking about getting my first dog and it will probably be a Dobermann or Ceskoslovenský vlciak The thing I see is that people DON'T do their research about the breed they want or just very little and that's probably 1 of the reasons why dogs end up in shelter(just a thought and I could be wrong to some degree) So i'm currently looking for as much information as possible about the breeds and dogs in general. Looking in my city for a shelter where I can volunteer at so I can get more information and experience Also took care of my brothers 10 month old German shepherd for only a month(not long though sadly) damn I were unsure at the if I were going to do well but it went good and learned a lot from it(It was my first time so I were shaky at first) You got a like for informative and well made video. Sub because I will watch more of your videos :)

  • @joyn.8407

    @joyn.8407

    16 күн бұрын

    European Dobermans are prone to separation anxiety, have high prey drive, VERY active and needy. Lots of health issues! But the most loyal dog ever. I've have 2 dobies and they wear my husband and I out everyday!

  • @thepupmommy

    @thepupmommy

    10 күн бұрын

    Thank you very much for your comments and for watching. Regarding your first dog, that's a big difference between the two dogs you mentioned. We have so many full shelters because the dogs pay the price for their owners mistakes. I'm not sure where you're located, but if you're looking for a Doberman, at least here in the US, there are not that many Dobes in shelters, for some reason. If you're intent on a Doberman, go to the source: Doberman Pinscher Club of America - dpca.org/ Here, you'll get factual information from breeders/owners/handlers. I have owned two Dobermans and they are GREAT dogs. I now have Shepherds, but would consider get a Dobe again in the future. Just be sure that the breed you get fits your personality and lifestyle, and that you have the space for the breed, the time to care for it, and the space to exercise it. Wishing you the best for finding your first pup.

  • @AlysiaPetak-dh4yo

    @AlysiaPetak-dh4yo

    10 күн бұрын

    With dobermans, just make sure you choice a reputable breeder. American/ European, they are just Velcro dogs & are prone to a lots of genetic health issues, some will shorten their life span. We only had our rescue for 4yrs before she needed put down, she wasn't even 6yrs old. She was 1 of our best dogs so if I ever have thousands to spend on a dog, it'll be another Doby.

  • @Dlt814
    @Dlt81421 күн бұрын

    I totally agree with almost every breed on this list but I am surprised to see boxers on it. I've never had one myself but have been told repeatedly over the years that they're the ideal family dog. I can see them being rough for someone without kids if they were expecting a lap dog and didn't give it the attention and exercise it needed. I would also add beagles to the list. We've owned two. They are babies their whole life and you literally become their pack. But they think for themselves and weigh everything you tell them with whether or not it will benefit them. They are one of the most stubborn breeds out there. They are exceptionally needy dogs and you must watch them like a hawk because their aim every second is to get into some kind of trouble. So many see a cute little dog and 9/10 they end up in a shelter where they do not do well. Again, we love ours (though spaniels are my soulmates), but I wouldn't recommend them to beginners.

  • @forensicgirl

    @forensicgirl

    19 күн бұрын

    I think the big problem with boxes is their extremely high energy levels. Nearly all of the ones I've met (I have worked in pet supply stores for over 15 years) have been super sweet and friendly, but they are large dogs and never really grow out of being a puppy. A co-worker has one and at 8 years old he is still to bouncy to bring into our store, although he was instantly best friends with me when I met him.

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