" you think just being able to walk is such a treat for women" Made me spit my tea, you two are really funny x

My husband is paralyzed and we have a very normal sex life . Together for 6 years now and still going strong.

@epochmellifluous9810

4 жыл бұрын

good for you

@mercygrace9314

3 жыл бұрын

great happy for you

@gabbeat

3 жыл бұрын

wtf isyour channel

@TheSimme15

3 жыл бұрын

Show your husband in a video!

@ivelisseys7285

3 жыл бұрын

@@gabbeat lmaoooo

My grandparents were like this , my grandmother at age 27 lost use of her legs due to MS. My grandfather did everything for her never lost any love for her . They were married 65 years before she passed he passed 10 years later from cancer at 96 . They raised me from age 5 my grandfather was my hero.

It's actually cool asf that they finish each others sentences so subconsciously

@ghostsof6tharmy644

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah it's like there isn't huge cue cards behind the camera they totally aren't reading...welcome to the show sucker!

@creampuff9934

3 жыл бұрын

Ummm more like talking over each other passive aggressively

@keishahildebrand7512

2 жыл бұрын

@@ghostsof6tharmy644 right

@l.258

2 жыл бұрын

@@creampuff9934 my 1st time seeing them and that's what I thought. A lot of talking over each other and her just saying yeah yeah

@Labyrinthine_Complexities

2 жыл бұрын

Right? I was gushing over that

This lady was raised right. Bravo to her parents for never filling her head with judgement or entitlements etc. she was taught to be open minded and compassionate for everyone. Because she didn’t judge him from the outside appearances she was rewarded with an amazing partner who truely loves her... for her. You may never know what you’ve missed out on by judgeing someone right from the get go and that’s the sad part. You may have already lost your soul mate and didn’t even know it.

@nessy4424

3 жыл бұрын

So was he! Great couple!! 😁

@hajadabo5330

3 жыл бұрын

BIG TOUCANSAM your disgusting to assume that of a person.

@Sarakate601

3 жыл бұрын

My parents raised me the same way.. but I’m still attracted to who I’m attracted to. Not to mention basic human instinct tells us to be attracted to the most fit and good quality baring individuals in order to reproduce and create more humans able to thrive and survive.

@apollom-1990

3 жыл бұрын

I agree she was raised right that being said if she was my daughter I will not be comftarble knowing that she has to take care to of her man when they decide to have kids its going to be super hard for her

@doesntmatter1543

3 жыл бұрын

Judgement is just so f****** up. Who is ANYONE to judge someone else. Period.

Can you imagine though like them getting into a fight and then Shane goes like “I know you’re mad at me right now but can you move my leg to the right.”

@kturby5489

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahahaha this comment is so underrated!! I’m laughing so hard cause I could totally see that with them

@shesonice6786

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@ashleyho7271

4 жыл бұрын

LMAOOOOOOOOO

@marias7599

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@austyn5004

4 жыл бұрын

I legit just ugly laughed 💀💀💀

Lesson: There is someone out there for everyone, and it’s a beautiful thing

@ghostsof6tharmy644

3 жыл бұрын

Look I'm disabled and this sherade/scam of a life is offense. I think the real pun is there is a idiot to believe the stupidest B.S

@wonderlaund

3 жыл бұрын

@@ghostsof6tharmy644 i really hope you find someone who will love you even if you can’t love yourself yet :)

@patervin9019

3 жыл бұрын

@@wonderlaund you are so naive!! This is a scam lady,a fantasy

@oAgL214

3 жыл бұрын

@@wonderlaund don't bother, they won't find anyone to love them because they don't love themselves. They don't believe they're worthy of love, of someone who can actually love them for who they are.

@wonderlaund

3 жыл бұрын

@@oAgL214 they’re their own enemy yet they think the world is, it’s really just jealousy and self hatred telling them it’s not possible. it’s sad :(

Every couple goes between giving care and intimacy. Widowed, but I was married 23 yrs. He cared for me after surgeries, I cared for him through a broken leg. He cared for me through pregnancies and births. We cared for each other through flus. Just like every couple, who becomes each others partner and family, it includes both parts of physical care.

@2lovelaughlive

2 жыл бұрын

This is an excellent point!!

@amberhall9182

Жыл бұрын

Exactly ❤

@BloomingMeadowsCo.

Жыл бұрын

This!

@joninapepperell1151

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for putting that. I was trying to think how to word it because Shane and Hannas relationship is totally normal. X

@stimorolish

Жыл бұрын

But did you have to carry him to the toilet and clean him after intimacy , year after year?

I have spinal injury and my wife complains when she have to take care of me. So I told her if your not happy and can't handle it. You can leave it is ok. Today she packing her stuff and ready to leave. I watching this videos and I was so happy for him.

@oh.its.mellissa4852

3 жыл бұрын

:(

@herrlich3720

3 жыл бұрын

Im sorry

@sharonstarkey309

3 жыл бұрын

How sad

@tstheloner153

3 жыл бұрын

WOW 🥺

@leilashalhoub7040

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry. That simply means she isn’t deserving of you 🧡

It’s more of a jealousy thing. Most people will never meet anyone who loves them for themselves so when they see a couple that actually does they don’t want to accept it.

@sugarsore

3 жыл бұрын

@SveltOperator you copy and paste that comment on every video. Why so obsessed?

@jimmyboe25

3 жыл бұрын

Jealousy is a bitch i cant hang out with other couples with my SO cuz other people get jealous of how happy we are

@Colbyw74

3 жыл бұрын

@@jimmyboe25 well i havnt hung out with anyone since last february

@cosmicangel832

3 жыл бұрын

@@sugarsore because obviously they are a fan, is that ok with you🤷🏼‍♀️

@intentionalliving7326

3 жыл бұрын

And not willing to do the work to get there 🤷🏻‍♀️

I am only partially physically disabled and in a relationship of 8 years. My other half does 90% of all the work in our home and even prepares my meals. Love has no judgment and has no burden. People shouldn't be judging just because Shane has a physical disability. People should be able to see the person beyond the surface! God bless you both! Continue to be you! Hugs!

@Number8Swan

2 жыл бұрын

I wish my son could know this kind of love.

@msdustismith8919

2 жыл бұрын

How is that not a burden, if one does 90%? Yes, it must be love...

@LPS-ww4wl

9 ай бұрын

Caring. For someone as you say ..its love and not a burden . People who have not been in this position of caring for a partner they just dont understand . You have to help ...you just get on with it .❤

I love how open you guys are about your life and educating us and answering questions. You are such warm spirits and the world needs more people like you in it

The way Hannah stares at him is golden. Shane your sense of humor is what many men lack. I love you guys!

@lisanewzealand

3 жыл бұрын

She is not attrected 2 him

@raegenemitchell2677

3 жыл бұрын

@@lisanewzealand i agree. It's a business.

@lisanewzealand

3 жыл бұрын

@@raegenemitchell2677 yep...thats awful...hope she wont kill im one day...

@zackorywyatt8986

3 жыл бұрын

Agree totally!! She puts up with him not in love .. like a lil brother with problem

@raegenemitchell2677

3 жыл бұрын

@@lisanewzealand attracted i meant lol

I’m really digging Shane’s hair cropped short.

@eej1983able

4 жыл бұрын

Me too!! It looks so good

@sarahpfft3507

4 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@Refiningforge

4 жыл бұрын

And the facial hair. Looks good on him

@beccanaeg5377

4 жыл бұрын

I'm digging the look too!

@odinbolt

4 жыл бұрын

Hannah gave Shane the same haircut I give my nine-year-old son. It's very functional! :P

I taught my son when he was old enough to understand, to never stare at anyone who may be different in some way. I told him they are exactly like we are just different. He is 29 now and I noticed he is so respectful to everyone. He is the type of person that can carry on a convo with anyone and at the same time making them feel comfortable. He doesn't even try, he is just like his mom.....ME. 🤐😄😁 ANYWAY, may I add that I am so glad he learned SOMETHING for me. Kids listen guys.....teach them well!! Love you guys!!

@AlexandreG

Жыл бұрын

Then you told your son to never stare at anyone. Everyobody is different in some way. Staring just means you're curious, there's nothing wrong with that, you were just teaching him wrong, but I'm glad you still found a way to pat yourself on the back on some KZread comments!

@northstar2621

Жыл бұрын

@@AlexandreG It's rude to stare, apparently YOU weren't told that.

@AlexandreG

Жыл бұрын

@northstar2621 your son will be staring at everyone like the little kid that he is, but then you gonna tell him to not stare specifically at THIS one person and somehow you standing in your moral high ground, I'm sure your son wont grow up to be a judgemental person after your picky eyes telling him to specifically stop staring at people with big disabilities, basicaly picking them apart from everybody else, you're such a nice and wholesone person! 😂🤡

@northstar2621

Жыл бұрын

@@AlexandreG No one said he's taught not to stare only certain people except you. Relax

@stevedavis6879

5 ай бұрын

.wise words indeed . You should be so proud 👌

I fell in love with a man with no disabilities and he still wasn’t shit. So you’re winning girl ❤️

@otmama2

Жыл бұрын

😂

@Secter84

Жыл бұрын

That's cause you're stupid. Like 95% of chicks out there...single moms with 4 different kids from 4 different dads.

@BerryKind

Жыл бұрын

Amen girl. Lol

@anitamaltun6331

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like he was actually 100% disabled. He couldn’t rise above his own excrement!

@AlexandreG

Жыл бұрын

I don't know if you're burning yourself or if you really are trying to burn your ex here, but this is definitely on you for probably chasing bad boys with a millions of funny and loving man out there like Shane...

I Love this, intimacy for all couples is about trial and error and talking about it! (Perhaps even the occasional injury 😂) It doesn't matter if you are abled bodied or not, everyone's needs are different!

@justinamoniz

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@basil_leaf

4 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@chiaradelia829

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@natahliasmith9533

4 жыл бұрын

You are 100% correct. As soon as he mentioned injury I could stop laughing at some of the stupid things my husband and I have tried and failed with over the years 😂😂😂 I think that's half the fun. It's like every couple have their own little personal comedy about their sexual experiences together 😂😂😂

@luminatrixfanfiction

4 жыл бұрын

@@basil_leaf You can't be serious? This disabled couple stooped low and resorted to virgin shaming. What the hell is wrong with you all of you? The worst part? Some of those comments might actually be written by real 12 year olds. So not only did these two...people, virgin shamed but they also attacked 12 year olds. Jeez, you people are disgusting.

Seriously “the penis is not a muscle” quote needs to be on a tshirt. Love you two

@tisme13

4 жыл бұрын

it so should be .... :)

@sophysio2234

4 жыл бұрын

However the heart is a muscle ♥️

@joebanana4697

4 жыл бұрын

🤣😂🤣

@iamcornholio5319

4 жыл бұрын

Its a love bone

@amberflurry9571

4 жыл бұрын

I'm on it.

Love how you two communicate, there is just an amazing vibe. Thank you guys for being awesome!

I don't think ppl question the functionality of your sexual organs, they question your ability to use them, you guys have been very clear that you don't have much mobility

Ok. Shane’s haircut is proof that everything happens for a reason. So suave.

@haleydubberke3622

4 жыл бұрын

In a military way?

@sunshinesara79

4 жыл бұрын

Totally agree, he should keep it

@domsmom725

4 жыл бұрын

Was just about to say the same thing in so many words... he looks GREAT!! Loving the new haircut:)

@kathleenr.9406

3 жыл бұрын

I really like it too.

I get so confused when people ask about a “line” between caregiving and intimacy. Like have you never done things for a partner while they’re sick or tired or emotional? It’s not different than just being in any relationship and simultaneously doing things for the other person that you love.....

@xnataliex2254

4 жыл бұрын

I legitimately don't know how people can't comprehend that.🙄

@jodoodlyboi2963

4 жыл бұрын

I'm not disabled and I thought that too. Some people just can't comprehend it I guess, or they're just not educated enough

@bkh23859

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I took care of my husband when he was sick with his cancer treatment. It was intimate but not sexual. It defies comprehension that they don't understand the difference

@mrs.k6169

4 жыл бұрын

I know right! That was a dumb question, but I guess a lot of people/kids never see someone getting cared for by a family member. It's sad ... My mom was a CNA and my grandmother and I myself have one because I love caring for people. It is a special bond you get when you care for someone, even more so if it was a lover. But there's no line to someone actions of love. Work and love come one in the same. The problem with people these days is they think love is only about sex.

@jennahoward-delman3104

4 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing! If a partner is drunk too, you're going to be doing a fair amount of caregiving but that's just how it is...

Every time I see the two of you together I get a strong sense that there is hope for this world.

When you think about every single healthy relationship has caregiving aspects to it... so makes sense that you don't separate the two :)

This guy is soooooo funny, I love when hes being inapporpriate and she cant get him to stop.

@doesntmatter1543

3 жыл бұрын

Like ALWAYS!!!lol

@mooniepeters8426

3 жыл бұрын

He has a wicked sense of humor. They fit so well together

@ronaldogutierrez8807

3 жыл бұрын

"The libido is raging" 💀💀

@hanna4434

3 жыл бұрын

I just about choked at Alabama Snakerider. Then yeah, googled and it’s a thing. Not sure if it’s funnier that it’s actually a thing or if Shane had just made it up which was my first thought. 😂🤭🤗 Also, if this relationship isn’t proof that women fall in love with someone’s HEART, SOUL and PERSONALITY... 💜

@hayleydoorenbos2933

3 жыл бұрын

Funny? I think he’s an idiot

Thank you for adding subtitles again! I have audio processing disorder and I'm sure your viewers who are HoH, deaf or with APD appreciate it too!

I can’t get enough of you two! Disability or not, your love for each other is so beautiful ❤️

Your authenticity, sense of humours and love never fail to make me smile. Thanks for this awesome content. My teenage students love learning about your life and it does so much to help me humanize and normalize interabled relationships and people with disabilities. 👌

Haha Shane is savage, know family and friends are watching 😂

@nancykahuho

4 жыл бұрын

Your profile pic is just not right please remove it

@nancykahuho

4 жыл бұрын

The fact that you would decide to put such a picture that clearly is not you is so offensive in different levels that it beats me how you would not have empathy . What a shame .

@char7945

4 жыл бұрын

nancy Kahuho lmfaooo

@mummysmonkey

4 жыл бұрын

I know, why tf do they POST this shit?

@rialequay1787

4 жыл бұрын

Wtf is up with your profile pic? If that’s you. I’m sorry. 😞

Shane sounds like his speech has improved , as in he speaks much faster and fluent than before. 😊

@sariscadavidc

4 жыл бұрын

Or maybe we are used to his voice now and it's easier to understand everything he says 🤔

@dykenerd

4 жыл бұрын

The new meds definitely seem to be helping.

@jecece8961

4 жыл бұрын

I actually haven't watched their videos in a while but I know he has been talking meds . So if it the meds I'm beyond happy to see such am improvement ♥️

@jecece8961

4 жыл бұрын

@@johnlucian5768 nah . Not even I like to listen to them when cook so I was basically just listening not actually watching the screen

@lorettatomplait4979

4 жыл бұрын

@@johnlucian5768 I agree!

I just saw you guys for the first time on SBk! I wish there were more people like you two in the world! We need positivity among relationships especially if one or both partners have a disability. My partner is on the spectrum and does have a hard time in the public setting but we are working through it. I am very excited to share your videos with him and show that love is love!

Thank you for the education and for your willingness to share so much of yourselves in the process. You guys are totally special and fun and brave and generous and ...the best!

People don’t tend to be grossed out or really rude in public but sadly feel that over the internet they can say whatever they feel as they don’t have to look you in the face.

@carlyhughes3290

4 жыл бұрын

I feel like people’s over the top nice reactions in person are super rude and evident that they are grossed out or at least shocked and are trying not to be .....

@wheelie26

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with both of you.

@SarcasmForDummies

4 жыл бұрын

And that is exactly how cowards behave. I try to look in the mirror before I pass judgement on anyone... and that usually shuts me right up.

@TheEroina

4 жыл бұрын

lol i'll be honest and say that i am very much grossed out by them. but in real life i would never show it to their faces because it's plain rude. i believe most people feel the same way.

@animeaunty

4 жыл бұрын

@@englishlad6286 I also wonder how long Hannah will b happy with her sex life. I know what I was happy with n my 20's no longer satisfies n my 40's. We humans change & evolve over time. I like to think that when she does start needing more that they will both b smart & mature enough to bring n a 3rd occasionally to act as a surrogate for Shane. Sex problems can KILL a relationship sadly. I hope they will be smart enough to figure it out. Lad, why should they care what his legs look like n shorts? They have stated he had the body of a child...it's a fact. Its a waste of living to worry about trying to hide it.

Because of these videos I asked my husband if he would like to “engage in severe intimacy” with no context and his was response was, “That sounds scary, but yes!” 😂

@sinjon

4 жыл бұрын

Good man! lol

@foxyshazaam3310

4 жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@eej1983able

4 жыл бұрын

Best answer hubby lolol

@naomimay82

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@1ninjamom359

4 жыл бұрын

😂🤣

Omg I love your twin souls and sense of humor! It's so evident how well you both understand each other and make it work. Love to watch yoy both 💜

Guys, thanks for this video. Your Q&As bridge a lot of gaps between various societal expectations, and actually offers a beacon of hope too - I sent this particular video to my friend, who’s disabled, and she found it to be very empowering.

The fact that this couple decided to explain their intimate life because of the mean and skeptical comments they frequently get, speaks loudly about the lack of love that exists in the society. I actually feel sorry for the people who cannot understand or have experienced the real love this couple have.

@cherilynlarsen8104

3 жыл бұрын

Why is this anyone's business but your own?

@mooniepeters8426

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, it's total jealousy. Most of the ones questioning can't believe it as they can't get partners. I salute this couple for their unbreakable loving bond.

@kareenwatson6084

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing is wrong in having doubts or questions. Nobody is forcing them bare their lives to the world. They have chosen to do so. If you ask questions and find their situation incredulous, it's not because you have never experienced love. Come on. This is a world of diversity.

@luisagoribar4720

3 жыл бұрын

@@kareenwatson6084 Yes, their are people with innocent curiosity and it is understandable, but they mention several times the rude comments they get. How many couples decide to do a series of videos to legitimize that they actually have an enjoyable sex life?

@brianmckenzie7957

3 жыл бұрын

@@mooniepeters8426 we

I’m a 65 yr. old man recently disabled. Love crosses all barriers.

@leviathandiabolo6296

3 жыл бұрын

There's no such thing as love.

@getshreked8768

3 жыл бұрын

Not that barrier this couple is some bull

@sometimes1

3 жыл бұрын

@@leviathandiabolo6296 ok edgy boy, we get it.

@Elias-ub8wk

3 жыл бұрын

Go watch the news

@1llusion673

3 жыл бұрын

So tru... Love has no barriers

Just started watching your videos and I am so happy for the both of you!! Image is a big deal these days. And it seems most relationships are unfaithful. But with you both it’s so genuine and none of that other stuff interferes with your life. Keep blocking out the bad comments. Most the men that comment are just jealous of you man and they have every right to be. Best of luck to you both

It’s nice that you all were able to dispel misconceptions. Thank you.

She's so lucky to have found such a witty, sweet and intelligent guy. Shane's a good man. He's lucky too. Hannah's a goddess.

"Yup, but that leaves more time for intimacy. So, let's go. The libido is raging." lmao Shane, you're a nightmare, but in the best possible way. Also, kind of loving how Hannah seems to be getting more savage with each new video. haha

It's always nice to know that there is a person out there for each of us. The fun about doing a puzzle is putting all the pieces together and you 2 just seem to fit perfectly together. I enjoy the videos and how genuine you are with all of us.

I've been watching you both for a while and I just want to thank you for educating me, as well as everyone else to what all types of relationships appear and how they can come in different packages. There is NO "normal," it's just love. I love seeing the love you two have. God bless you both.

"Can he still feel in that area?" "I assume you mean my butt and yes" Hahahahaha fuck dude stop Im trying to breathe here

@williamfoster9328

3 жыл бұрын

Literally what I was going to say

@PorshaLaVieBelle

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😂😂😂 he’s hilarious

@intentionalliving7326

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@sadeyescreations1702

2 жыл бұрын

Freakin' Shane always has laughing way too loud. 🤦🏻‍♀️😂🤣

“Caregiving will involve intimacy , and sometimes intimacy will involve caregiving” -- Wow! What an incredibly beautiful outlook on life.

@call_me_cooper

3 жыл бұрын

@Swazzi What on earth are you talking about? I sense zero deception in the way these two share portions of their journey.

@abbychugden6125

3 жыл бұрын

@@call_me_cooper Swazzi is a pot stirrer. He's all over the comments in all of their videos. Pathetic. He has nothing better to do...

@call_me_cooper

3 жыл бұрын

@@abbychugden6125 hahaha I assumed such. Well... I guess... whatever makes the swaz sleep at night 🤷🏻‍♂️

@thatswhatshesaid6326

2 жыл бұрын

I also found this a beautiful statement as well. ❤️

You two are a joy to watch. Being honest with each other brings you closer to each other.

Hi guys I found you both a few weeks ago and think your terrific together. I was a support worker for many years working with a variety of disabilities Including yours Shane. It opened my eyes to many obstacles that people face and the biggest has to be access but thought it was worse her In Scotland but listening to your Mum I realise it's probably worldwide which in this day and age is shocking. I wish you well and every success in your life together. God bless xx

Some people think she's fooling herself. No. She sees everything you see along with everything that you can't see, understand and experience. Mad respect Hannah.

@michaeltrumph121

2 жыл бұрын

She's probably with him for the money, there's no other logical explanation.

@nonaide

2 жыл бұрын

@@michaeltrumph121 Why have you been making comments like this on this video for *9 months?* Incel mentality. Physical appearance is not the most important thing for a lot of people. He seems really funny and fun to be around--that alone is enough for some people. They might also have shared interests. And she also just might be attracted to him--a lot of people are more attracted based on facial features and don't have preferences for body types. If you can't find anyone who wants to be with you, it's probably because you have a shitty personality not because you're short or whatever and aren't rich

@TheFracturedfuture

2 жыл бұрын

@@nonaide The whole looks don't matter and money doesn't matter is all bull shit, money and looks definitely matter, we are biologically programmed to be that way, that's how our species has evolved and survived for so long. A good personality is essential as well but let's not act like looks don't matter at all.

@michaeltrumph121

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheFracturedfuture Well said.

@michaeltrumph121

2 жыл бұрын

@@nonaide _Physical appearance is not the most important thing for a lot of people_ It may not be the most important thing and some people can have partners that aren't exactly a 10 in the looks department, but no sane woman that is as beautiful as her would be with a disabled person like him. _He seems really funny and fun to be around--that alone is enough for some people_ No, that is never enough. You also need physical interaction and sex. The shit you said is for stupid unrealistic movies, not real life. _And she also just might be attracted to him--a lot of people are more attracted based on facial features and don't have preferences for body types_ I never said he should be Brad Pitt beautiful. I could more than understand her being with someone average looking, or even a bit ugly, but not with a disabled person. _If you can't find anyone who wants to be with you, it's probably because you have a shitty personality not because your short or whatever and aren't rich_ I already have someone. But neither me nor her are physically impaired like this guy.

“It wasn’t a fight. I was just like, what’s wrong with you?” 😂😂

Having no boundry between personal and work is what you are blessed with by your commitment to each other!

Love this honesty and forthright approach to people’s honest curiosity. People don’t understand the limitations of different abilities. This helps answer questions without giving TMI.

Shane looks so so good with that hairstyle, he looks like a bad boy lmao

Came from my job bartending and found the interesting part of youtube. This is incredibly inspiring. You see so many dates gone wrong at a bar and bad social interactions, but seeing these videos just reminds me that it's truly your personalities that click at the end of the day and not what you wear, how you look, or all these other non sense factors. At the end of the day we are all human and it's our personalities that connect us.

@Brucelee89896

4 жыл бұрын

well said

@kathymyers7279

4 жыл бұрын

Danimotion however.... she just happens to be a total knockout . Love Shane but he’s a guy wheelchair or not. Just sayin.

@Laura-yc3iv

3 жыл бұрын

thank you for saying that that's mad true!!

@Heeevs

3 жыл бұрын

Great comment man

@yellowdayz1800

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed the bar life can ruin the date life....so true.

My favorite thing about y’all: your ability to effectively communicate ❤️

I discovered you guys on KZread last night and have been binging your videos ever since! Haha. You are both such wonderful people. Your love, humor, and candor is an absolute inspiration. Thank you for sharing your life so openly. This channel is what the world needs. Sending love from Nashville, Sarah Jane

I love how Shane ended the video with " that leaves more time for intimacy, my libido is raging"

@ginafoster9902

3 жыл бұрын

Me too...so funny

@kathydust5443

3 жыл бұрын

I know right lol 😂😂😂

@bergercookie

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao he had me dying with that lol

My best friend is in a wheelchair due to muscular dystrophy, and he's with a lady that's not only his wife, but also his helper in daily life tasks. Just because you're in a chair doesn't mean you're not deserving of love and things in life that everyone else has and wants. They don't draw a line either, and he does things, but if he needs assistance his wife is there to help him. I love y'alls relationship❤

This is the world we live in now, where we have this stupid perception that everything has to be perfect in some way. When did actually loving and caring about somebody fly out the window is something we have to be more worried about than abled and disabled people being in love with each other. People suck sometimes so much it makes me sad. You guys are great and i am super happy for both of you. Much love from Estonia

I just luv the two of u together and you have a chemistry of wit and softness that goes beyond I'm telling u that this is soul mates when you go past everything else and just love that's precious, it's just beautiful

The way she looks at him its definitely a confirmation of the love and happiness that men give to that woman

My daughter is 28 and has Cerebral Palsy. She is wheelchair bound as well. She married last year and is expecting her first child in February 2021. She has always had a younger appearance than her actual age which caused her to be "babied" by strangers and family alike...so it is still kind of a shock when people find out she is expecting...like duh she's 28 and married...of course they are intimate! I love that you two are being so transparent! There is not enough of this in the world! I'm a big fan!

@Empress2216

3 жыл бұрын

It's wrong to assume that anyone doesn't have sexual feeling or relation BECAUSE they have a disability. There are many asexual people, and many are also married, but saying that they must e asexual because of of a disabilty is wrong. It also assumes that not having sex is a bad thing or unnatural, which can be insulting to many people.

@sophielanemusic

3 жыл бұрын

congratulations on your grandkid !!!! sending so much love for ur family

@Candy102297

3 жыл бұрын

@@sophielanemusic thank you so much! We are very excited and nervous as well! She spends her days with me while her husband works and then she goes home. Though I am a nurse, and know how to care for her, I am trusting God to show me how to help HER be a mother without being the mother for her...if that makes sense. So this will be a learning experience for ALL of us! Thank you for showing your love for others!

@Candy102297

3 жыл бұрын

@@Empress2216 you are so right! Now ...we only need society to understand these things as a whole! Its channels like this that help spread awareness. I LOVE this one in particular as I had two brothers pass from Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy.

@Candy102297

3 жыл бұрын

@Joni G thank you so much!

Great video guys! People are afraid to talk about intimacy so having you two be open and honest is great!

Your relationship is so genuine and sincere, and you guys look so happy together. I really love watching your videos and you guys have really educated me so much about disability and interabled relationships! Love from HK

Shane: "Ok Hannah, Caregiving will begin at 10am and end at 11am, then intimate touching will begin at 11:05am promptly. DO NOT get those confused!" lol

@redsteddi

4 жыл бұрын

I noticed his speech is much better.... prior I would have a hard time understanding some things Shane would say 🤗😹💗

@gamegreed9105

4 жыл бұрын

I found it interesting and fascinating that Hannah immediately said that Shane has a higher sex drive than her I'm not trying to be rude or anything like that but Hannah looks like she's in her thirties and a woman in her thirties starts to have a much higher sex drive than a man in his thirties I don't know if they would feel comfortable talking about it on this channel they want to keep most of their sex life private but I think it's highly educational and appropriate to talk about I'm in question I have for Shane is would he be open to let another man pleasure his spouse if she so desires? That question was not meant to be rude or anything like that is just an honest question. I hope my question will be answered thank you so much.

@amywalsh4006

4 жыл бұрын

That would be extremely damaging to their marriage and to Shane. Probably not a good idea

@gamegreed9105

4 жыл бұрын

@@amywalsh4006 yes it definitely could be extremely damaging to their marriage however there is people that do have those types of relationships and seem to have a happy healthy relationship.

@spritualflared

4 жыл бұрын

Game Greed key word “seem”. Everything that glitters ain’t gold.

This video is more of a tutorial on how to get a girl: wit, kindness, intelligence, compassion, communication, sensitivity, and an amazing sense of humor. Shane really has it all.

@GizzelleBrookes-vs5ec

4 жыл бұрын

💖👏

@olive_99

4 жыл бұрын

I see why she had a crush on him so early

@foxyshazaam3310

4 жыл бұрын

Absolute truth.

@ocodeskamcdbsm

4 жыл бұрын

@GlenOStevensII sad statement. I could say the same for men but I don't and won't tarnish a lot of men for the actions of a very small group of idiots.

@erikshappywife

4 жыл бұрын

@@Anthonycheesman33 my husband is /was broke...totally blind and hearing impaired (deaf without his hearing aids). I had a choice between him and a really nice guy with a whole lot of money...I chose my husband. I loved HIM for his sense of humor, his compassion and personality...I married him 19 years ago. We have been financially poor the entire time, but rich in love. I've never regretted my choice and I pray we are blessed with many more years together. So....money should NEVER be a reason for choosing your life partner.

You two are an amazing couple! You both have engaging and genuine personalities. I love your easy banter and fun-loving conversations.

Love how you both just get each other and bounce jokes off one another, such a wonderful couple ❤️ thank you for making this video and broadening people’s minds 🙌🏼

I have a 9 year old daughter with disabilities. She requires help with every part of daily living. People don't expect me to separate my caregiver role and mom role. I'm expected to do both naturally, which obviously I do. So why would it be any different for you two? Also, if Shane was not disabled when y'all met but became disabled later on, if you left him, people would shame you for leaving him due to his disabilities. However, people have problems accepting that you will date, now marry, him despite his disabilities. It makes absolutely no sense to me. We are all human. And guess what? We are all just one accident, one illness away from being disabled. Treat everyone with respect because in a split second, it could also be you.

@kurtsudheim825

3 жыл бұрын

Being a parent involved caregiver, it's a little extra for you, but still similar whereas as the intimate part of a relationship doesn't come into play for you (not trying too be mean or out you down)

@bosslady1914

3 жыл бұрын

You are SO right, we're all just an accident away from being disables. WOW. humbling to think about. But being a mom = caregiver. literally. Most people don't think a spouse should be a caregiver -- but truly, we are supposed to love and care for our spouse in sickness, and health.

@buchan448

3 жыл бұрын

well said

@JasnaCG

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@Alan-Godden

3 жыл бұрын

Very well said because its the truth, im 51 now but when I was 17 I joined Australian Army jogged long distances did lots of weight training as well as a lot of educational lessons my life was going very well near top of my game achieving all my goals in Military that is and one weekend I went for a motorcycle ride and resulted in the amputation of my R leg below knee plus back injuries, but im happy I trust the Lord and his will for me see there is a reason for everything...

I just can't... your levels of emotional intelligence are really out of this world guys!

Hi. Just recently found you guys on KZread. You are authentic genuine and honest. You also tackle issues that lot's of people wouldn't touch for fear of upsetting people. You guys are a great example of unconditional love one for the other. Don't worry about the nasties of this world and keep at it. Peoples perceptions are only changed by education sometimes one person at a time. Thanks you for what you are doing and know that it does make a difference.

⭐️⭐️⭐️Haha Shane is absolutely hilarious and I love how dry and sarcastic both of your humour is! I have only just discovered your KZread channel today (sending love from New Zealand!) and I am just so happy watching your journey. I have been watching your past videos for about an hour now and wow what a journey you have both had together so far. Hannah you are a selfless, caring and strong woman! And Shane you are just absolutely hilarious and intelligent. Go you guys, I’m so happy I came across one of your videos this morning on Facebook. Keep up with the light hearted joking around together and I’m sure you will have a very fulfilling and enjoyable future together - what an amazing message to all couples out there regardless of situation or ability.

I think it is groundbreaking almost revolutionary that you both are tactfully addressing the issue of intimacy.people should be educated more on the mistruths regarding disabilities, and wheel chair bound individuals does not mean they do not have ability to be sexual.its a sensitive topic but awesome that you as a couple have brought it to the table front and center,lol .that meaning the conversation ,not anything else.. it shows you both are deeply in love and comfortable enough to try to answer people's questions,so once and for all the mystery is no more!

@codeyhorn2406

3 жыл бұрын

It’s frustrating for me because I don’t feel desired sexually because of my muscular dystrophy an cerebral palsy I think sex needs to be less taboo for ppl with disabilities it really needs to be normalized

@codeyhorn2406

3 жыл бұрын

Katie that’s beautiful I love hearing stuff like that an is difficult for me not to give up hope but ya thank u ❤️

The two of you are AMAZING! I've been a paraplegic for 35 years and I'm rarely inspired. The two of you are such an exception. You truly are "Team Inspiration"!! The two of you are awesome.

I love you guys so much. Thank you for being vulnerable and answering all these crazy invasive questions in such a gentle and kind way. I have learned 100% of what I know about the daily lives of people with disabilities from the two of you. It’s been an amazing blessing. Thanks so much 🥰

@swarm_me641

Жыл бұрын

You should have learned how to get rich and famous by sitting next to disabled guy and laughing at everything he says

@turnupyourlov3

Жыл бұрын

@@swarm_me641 he’s hilarious, it would be hard not to laugh!

You two always bring laughter to my day. Thank you and be blessed

i can see how it makes people unbelievably happy to see y’all together. most people believe someone like shane cant find love in this world

Shane's next book: "Welcome to my Raging Libido." 😏👀

@songbirds3712

4 жыл бұрын

Subtitle: Can You Say Alabama Snake Rider??

@sandraargo8382

4 жыл бұрын

Not interested ...

You both are so open, honest, wholesome, hilarious, intelligent. Beautiful humans, beautiful couple. xx

You guys are hilarious ! I absolutely LOVE your channel ! I love the banter back and forth, how you finish each others’ sentences, and affirm each other ! You guys are a delight to watch !!

Shane needs to keep that hairstyle, it looks really good.

@Alana060310

4 жыл бұрын

Totally agree

@jessicaronan9378

4 жыл бұрын

I agree! Looks great on him.

@juliasmith2619

4 жыл бұрын

YES!

For all the guys that wonder how Shane can pull a girl, look at that guys confidence and how what an interesting person he is. You are the men 🙌🏻💪🏻

@michaeltrumph121

3 жыл бұрын

Get real, he must have money, otherwise no woman would ever look at him.

@leviathandiabolo6296

3 жыл бұрын

@@michaeltrumph121 Agreed. There's some catch here.

@user-nn7dy1rl1w

3 жыл бұрын

if someone can be in relation ship with people like Shane is something i can understand for other people. Personally i would never be in a relation ship with a man like Shane even if he was the most caring person in the world and even if he could have sex with me. NEVER. Of course i could have been friends with such people. No problem at all. I could alse take care such people if they were my relatives. Thats life!

@jozkomrkvicka6877

3 жыл бұрын

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

@Northern85Star

3 жыл бұрын

So interesting, think of all the interesting stuff they do together! Feeding him, taking him to the toilet, putting him in bed, washing him and so on. Very stimulating.

You two love each other & it's such a beautiful thing.👍🥰🧞‍♀️☮🌴

Well admittedly, I would probably be caught off guard to discover that you are a couple. Pleasantly surprised might be a better way of putting it. I know that there is someone for everyone, and it honestly gives me the feels to see you both in such a loving relationship. Hell I know perfectly able bodied people that don't have what you guys share. I appreciate the open conversations you have with all of us in KZread land. Cheers!

When he said “why is she with that baby man” I HOLLERED 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 omg I love this !!!!

@Beetwate305

3 жыл бұрын

I bet you wouldn’t be with a paralyzed dude

@ryancarlson.jeffrey9409

3 жыл бұрын

HOW ARE YOU DOING TODAY. MY NAME IS Ryan. 👨🏽‍🦽👨🏽‍🦽👨🏽‍🦽👨🏽‍🦽👨🏽‍🦽👨🏽‍🦽👨🏽‍🦽🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌺🌺🌺🥰👨🏽‍🦽👨🏽‍🦽

@pattymayocakes

3 жыл бұрын

@@Beetwate305 that's a rude assumption and says a lot about your morals

@nadamessenger

3 жыл бұрын

So did I 🤣

@cosmicegghealing

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

Shane's libido and libido commentary is very much 28 year old guy. Nothing wrong there! LOL

My friend Brian introduced me to these videos. I really appreciate that you are so willing to discuss subjects that it's difficult to get information on. You're also really good at giving the information and you seem super comfortable with everything but I am sure that it is sometimes difficult.

I really appreciate you guys being so open! Especially about such a private topic but I have always wondered some of the same things other people have regarding people with disabilities so watching this video really helped to open my eyes so thank you both for being so honest❤

I am very happy to see you both! I am partially disabled and spent most of my life doing what I loved. Then my Injury took it all away....what was left was my core that I never truly built until I had to. I think if more people would reflect inside instead of judging the world on the outside it would be a amazing place.

Literally my favorite couple on the internet. Not because of the whole interabled thing but because your relationship is so HEALTHY and MATURE! You are going to be amazing partners and have a strong future together. You're communication rocks! You're the best example of what a healthy relationship looks like ❤❤❤

@tessan613

4 жыл бұрын

So true 🤩

@barneyblue7355

4 жыл бұрын

What they let you see in these videos is so healthy and mature. People have to understand that this isn’t real life. They have problems too, just like everyone else

@amitycat1109

4 жыл бұрын

@@barneyblue7355 True but you dont have to be so "glass half empty" ... As influencers they are showing a stable healthy relationship. Don't be so doubtful.

@nkosazanacele4711

4 жыл бұрын

...and funny😂💛

@barneyblue7355

4 жыл бұрын

nessy termini yeah but it would be more related if they at least talked about some of there issues instead of zero, which isn’t real

I am an OT working at a Children's Hospital with kids and teens with muscle diseases. Your both so well spoken, funny and entertaining. Thank you so much for reminding people that kids with disabilities grow up to be adults that have relationships that include sex and that is totally normal.

You two are really so cute together. I appreciate the information you share. I imagine it helps a lot of people and I know it brings more understanding for me. Well done.

*THE ALABAMA SNAKERIDER!!* 🤠🐍 - I'm almost spat out my drink when Shane said that

@ikencali.

3 жыл бұрын

Searching now

@daijmosley

3 жыл бұрын

@Amy Kawaii lmao i wanted to, but i'm scared.

@davidkeevil5151

3 жыл бұрын

Lmfao

@laurykristensen6239

3 жыл бұрын

I'm guessing he invented it? Seems like a really creative kinda person. But if anyone finds out? For purely educational purposes of course

@juliewinkler9203

3 жыл бұрын

@@laurykristensen6239 it is real, just Google it🤣🤣

Thank you for adding the subtitles, English is not my first language so that's really helpful! And thank you for talking about sexuality this way. I feel it is completely necessary for us as a society to help each other living sexual intimacy as a deep encounter with another person... an encouter that includes communication, tenderness, humour, etc., besides libido, which is also important, of course, but there's so much more! Usually, we are told about 'sex stories' like if the people involved were machines rather than human beings. So thank you a lot. This is important and generous.

Who couldn’t fall in love with these two? I think everyone would love to have the real love they share💕

@jerrywilcox9890

Жыл бұрын

@@awesomeone2979 that's right there is why you are a lowlife

Y’all are funny! Interesting learning about your lives together. Love that you found each other bc your personalities go together so well

I’m a first time watcher... how refreshing, I admire you guy’s relationship...great communication, and genuine caring, it’s very easy to see..

First Intimacy Video: -tiptoes gently around things- This Intimacy Video: So, Alabama Snake Rider.

@kschneider8649

4 жыл бұрын

I'm glad they stopped tip-toeing.

@sarahmurphy8030

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@brigitteperez6656

4 жыл бұрын

😳😂😂😂 hilarious!

@sabrisil91

4 жыл бұрын

What is an Alabama snake rider lol?...

@lydia-bn9448

4 жыл бұрын

I don’t get it pls explain 😂

I have no idea why this came up on my watch list- but I’m happy it did !!! You two are amazing ♥️

Shane is an inspiration for all of us

@ayokay123

Жыл бұрын

And so is she.