I totally agree. My late husband and I worked together to delegate chores. He took out the garbage, mowed the lawn, worked on the cars, and had the career. I cooked, washed dishes, and took care of the childen. It worked well for us, and it sounds like it works well for you two as well. 😊❤

@scherieisho5840

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry for Your Famlies loss🌹

My housemate is Muslim. She lives in a different city due to her job as a doctor. Her husband works from home and the 4 year old son lives with the husband. My housemate goes to visit them whenever she has a weekend off. It works very well for them.

The "ask a scholar " series is so awesome! Thanks for it !🌟

@blackflagarmy9595

2 жыл бұрын

He’s no scholar don’t be fooled!

@aftabansari2010able

11 ай бұрын

Is she a scholar 😅😅😅

Thank you for this. It seems that discussion and agreement of work/housework/care roles is vital regardless of religion.

@Aaliyah_Matyevna

2 жыл бұрын

I hve a question. If a man have prblms financially and trying to find a job can a woman help him financially till that time?

@saniatamanna7763

2 жыл бұрын

@@Aaliyah_Matyevna A woman can help a man financially if she wishes. But it isn't obligated for her to help him in financial work. If she wishes to help , she can do in a halal way ( not doing haram occupation like interest etc)

@Aaliyah_Matyevna

2 жыл бұрын

@@saniatamanna7763 does that imply for husband wife relationship too?

@saniatamanna7763

2 жыл бұрын

@@Aaliyah_Matyevna yes brother. Islam didn't discouraged women from working outside. Nor it discouraged man helping a woman in household work. Our beloved prophet (s.a.w) used to help his wife at home. So from that point a man can help a woman at work if he wishes ( still he have to give financial care) So ofcourse this implys husband wife relationship.

People need to realize that prophet Muhammad saw did all the housework despite having a busy he still did it he said “The best of you are ones that are best to their wives” but if the woman chooses not to work and takes care of the household then her husband should help her as much as he can cause being a stay at home wife or husband is is not a easy job to do and we wouldn’t take it for granted instead we should appreciate them and not let them do all The burden they deserve a break and to relax too but yeah teamwork is the key

@bintbint1316

2 жыл бұрын

A lot of muslim men only ponder about the idea of marrying more then one. Give em a good girl, and he wants 4

@seekingexcellence3236

2 жыл бұрын

There is more work involved in the house then going to a 9-5 job. Women don't get enough credit for running their homes. The pandemic may have helped some men realize what their wives go through daily. If you were to hire someone to do the wive's duties of home upkeep and child rearing, you would have to pay her over $250,000 United States dollar a year. So appreciate your mom, sisters, wives that manage the home.

@ceterisparibus8966

2 жыл бұрын

@@bintbint1316 They have permission to marry 4

@mahmah5897

2 жыл бұрын

So much respect to u for saying that

@mahmah5897

2 жыл бұрын

@@bintbint1316 exactly

Ever since moving in together, my boyfriend and I split chores to the best of our abilities and work schedules. So far, so good. I honestly think that a partnership/marriage works better as long as the responsibilities are well stablished and there's a fair teamwork.

My husband works and I stay at home with our baby daughter, when he comes home he helps me around the house with the things that need to be done alhamdullilah he said that I don’t have to stay home if I want to work, but i love staying with our daughter and watching her grow every day

@whydontyoustfu

2 жыл бұрын

So youre jobless and only job u have is cooking and cleaning which also u cant do without husbabds help

@hummingbird9584

2 жыл бұрын

@@whydontyoustfu Are you that miserable of a person that putting a random person down online for no reason makes you feel better? May God guide you and make you a better human being.

@papitrapstar1575

Жыл бұрын

@@whydontyoustfu stop hating on her u feminist, ur probably single n can't even keep a husband loool

I love your videos!! You helped me learn a lot of new things about our beautiful religion

If two are working, both should chip in with the chores and cooking. Working as a team is important

So basically it comes down to the people involved with each other. That’s pretty good advice for everyone. Thanks 😊

@ScrotumCat

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like y’all would make pretty good relationship counselors. If it’s something you’re interested in making, i would enjoy a longer q&a video of some FAQs. I feel like you guys set such good examples for people, especially when you talk about making mistakes or not being perfect. I feel like I am the queen of mistakes sometimes and I can’t tell you how many videos of yours made me smile, helped me figure out a way to account for myself, or just make me feel better about not being perfect. (Sorry. Ik that was a bit off topic) 💜

If ever I find someone and we decide to get married, we’re going to go see your husband for pre-marital counselling! #couplegoals

@altheaequatorin1179

2 жыл бұрын

Her husband is a counselor/psychologist? :0

Yes! Agreed! And ty for sharing your thoughts!

I Absolutely love what You do keep the Great work

@Aaliyah_Matyevna

2 жыл бұрын

I hve a question. If a man have prblms financially and trying to find a job can a woman help him financially till that time?

So good communication and doing what works for you.

Excellent answer🥰

💯☪️❤️totally agree! Your hijab is beautiful!

Nice 👍

What about a woman who wants to work full time, split the housework 50/50 but doesn’t want to contribute in any way financially to the household?

@aleatar

2 жыл бұрын

It is a fact that a woman can keep all her earnings to herself, and only if she wants to, she can give it to the husband, but she's not obligated. And in general, a woman can have any noble job, AS LONG as she still has the time to take care of her family. Even if she's not strongly obligated to cook and clean, so is not the husband, he doesn't have to either, but the chores have to be done nonetheless, to keep the house clean and stomachs full. Spouses are supposed to love each other, therefore it shouldn't be a problem for each of them to commit to each other's happiness, otherwise, why are you even married? I'm a woman, and I personally wouldn't understand a woman described in your situation - that hardly seems fair. What about the children? Because in this case both husband and wife ARE obligated to meet all their needs. And let's be honest, by nature children need their mother's attention a lil bit more than their father's (at the very least, from birth and until they're a couple of years old). Anyhow, as mentioned, all of this has to be discussed before marriage, not after, so, if necessary, you could call the whole marriage off beforehand, if you don't agree with the conditions.

@bintbint1316

2 жыл бұрын

@@aleatar I know, but this isnt how it plays out in the muslim community, in fact your butthurt brothers like Mohammad Hijab react to this type of scenario with comments like "She wants the rights of Islam and the west"

@Aaliyah_Matyevna

2 жыл бұрын

I hve a question. If a man have prblms financially and trying to find a job can a woman help him financially till that time?

@hopebby3750

2 жыл бұрын

@@Aaliyah_Matyevna it’s her choice and she can be rewarded for it

@aleatar

2 жыл бұрын

@@bintbint1316 that's the thing, it should NOT matter how someone else does something. People are flawed, they can do things the right way, or they can practice their own thing regardless of what their Holy scripture teaches them. E.g., every country has legislation, and even tho, every single one forbids people to rob and kill, all of the countries still have robbers and murderers. So you must not look at how people follow the law, but you look at the law itself. I have the law - the Quran, and the commentaries to the law - Sunnah. And I follow it. I don't care how others interpret the Quran and Sunnah (without legitimate proof to support their opinions or claims), nor can I control it anyway, people have their free will to perceive things however they like. I can only control who can be around ME, like my potential spouse, for example.

I often hear Muslim women stating proudly that the husband alone has to provide for the family. A woman keeps all money to herself. I think you have talked about that too Ninja Mommy. How does that work if he does the housework and she goes to work? Or if they split work/ household?

Love your video

Amazing video

Hi guys from Oklahoma

I agree 100%

If the husband is obligated to financially provide for her wife even if she earns herself in the same way a wife is obligated to take care of her husband which may include cooking and cleaning even if she is a working woman...and helping your wife is a sunnah at ur free times u should definitely do it

Majority of the scholars have agreed that it's not compulsory for a woman to do household works..if she refuses it's wajib for the man to arrange food.. But some scholars disagree..they talk about Fatima (R) asma binte abu bakr and so on..they used to do household works..so it's compulsory but I think it doesn't mean women have an obligation because even the prophet used to do household works. That doesn't make it obligatory for the men..so why will it be obligatory for the women ? Quran and Hadith clearly says about the obligations..the men are responsible for providing food, not raw materials and asking his wife to cook.. I think it's Sunnah..but not obligatory

@afshanusman9333

2 жыл бұрын

The fact that Hazrat Mohammed (S.A.W.W.) did his own work AND helped his wives too even though he had Eleven wives is a lesson for all men and women. We talk about Seerat e Tayyaba, that we should follow his lead in everything.. this is the best example of household work distribution.. otherwise if a man has 11 wives then why would he still work? To show us that a man should..

@afshanusman9333

2 жыл бұрын

@@DontOpenThisChannel obey is not equivalent to doing ALL the work by herself.. please don't mix these two. Yes a woman should obey her husband. Husbands should love their wives, do their OWN work and share their household work like Hazrat Mohammed (S.A.W.W) did himself.

@teamshcherbakova702

2 жыл бұрын

@@afshanusman9333 the husband can "command the wife to do all the house work tho, and the woman would have to obey

@marzanyusha9165

2 жыл бұрын

@@teamshcherbakova702 well in this case he will never be able to be a good husband.. "The best of you is the one who is best to his wife" If a husband misuses the power given to him by Allah SWT, he will be sinful..there are so many verses in the Quran saying be kind to women.. Islam teaches to be good, compassionate and kind to women..if husband asks his wife to do all the house works against her will, definitely this isn't kind treatment...he is misusing his power..he isn't a good man to his wife as well as Allah..if the wife does these things against her wish and performs other religious duties properly, allah will grant her jannah inshallah When a woman pray five times, observes fast, guards her chastity and obeys her husband the 8 doors of paradise will open for her.. To sum up, if you pressurize someone to do something against her wish which isn't even an obligation you will be the LOSER..a wife will enter paradise by only fulfilling 4 duties.. it's easy for her.. We must think about our permanent life.. actions must be taken thinking about afterlife consequences..this life is just a mirage

@aabiryani8433

2 жыл бұрын

@@teamshcherbakova702 Well if he says obey then obey But remember akhi You just kicked the nest of bees You wanna know why You HAVE to fulfil your wife's wishes as well You buying her clothes giving her money to take care of her self Take care of her financially Etc etc Women have rights to Shell clean brother but remember she's gonna make you pay islamically a wife is allowed to demand money from her husband for breastfeeding your child (someone correct me if I'm wrong here ) Etc A spiteful women is dangerous No one likes being ordered around So unless your willing to deal with it and make her obey you against her desire or free will I recommend you choose those words wisely when addressing your wife to "obey" you Obey and she will obey within reason But Oppression is haram even within a marriage Treat her or expect her to be your maid Shell treat you like a bank account money making machine You ok with this dynamic then go for it akhi Only way to solve that issue is Communication Communication Communication Honestly they should teach that in schools Its not WHAT you say akhi It comes down to HOW you say it Men have all the cards in there hands They just don't know how to play them properly Love loyalty respect and attention Thats all a GOD fearing and dignified women usually asks for You give her that then she's yours

Sir, looks soo innocent.

Did we have to take permission before a haircut. lots of love from India ❤️

Salam alaykom Ninja Mommy ! A question has been in my mind for a while now : it’s about rings etc, as a muslim woman, are we allowed to wear jewelry outside or is it considered a temptation ? Thanks !

@maryamkidwai2543

2 жыл бұрын

Yep u can with modesty and jewellery that comes outside awrah is totally fine like rings

I love your videos and you both seem like such nice people! I may be wrong but I think Muslims not allowed to listen to music with instruments right? So i was wondering if you go out to a shopping center for example that has music playing, how do you deal with that?

@amiable97

2 жыл бұрын

she made a video about that before i believe saying she doesnt actively listen to it but at times you get into situations where she hears music and just tries to ignore it. also keep in mind that for the music matter there is a difference in opinion. many believe it only isnt allowed if it is used as a distraction or encourages haram stuff like drugs. thats why you can also find muslim musicians.

@ceterisparibus8966

2 жыл бұрын

@@amiable97 Used as a distraction?

@amiable97

2 жыл бұрын

@@ceterisparibus8966 yea it's about long-term distraction. Basically anything can be that, like binge watching series instead of dealing with issues at hand. But also getting lost in music for a prolonged time. Many things can turn into addictions after all and in Islam we try to minimize those so they don't have a negative impact on the rest of our lives. I don't know if distraction is the best word for it English isn't my first language, so sorry for the confusion.

Wait I have a question so if a woman who wears a hijab and I’m sorry idk how to spell the other one but if they get injured on there face to wear they need to take it off do they get a female doctor or does a male doctor do it? If that makes sense

@ichinihq

2 жыл бұрын

Yes you can take off the hijab /niqab for medical reasons

@booktok4241

2 жыл бұрын

@@ichinihq okay thank you that makes sense I am really interested in this religion and I want to know it better

@ichinihq

2 жыл бұрын

@@booktok4241 haha your welcome

It sounds like my ideal partnership of "let's be honest and play to our strengths" Gender roles take a backseat when you work together with your partner and tackle life as a team. Maybe I am a mess at dishes but can do drawings to make us money and vacuum like a pro. I feel like a good marriage has lots of love and admiration, but also a realistic account and division of life skills and the willingness to do them.

Sister can you address on sea foods that are halal in islam

Hi Ninja Mommy ⭐ I have a question for you see the school I go to has 2 Muslim girls and both of them wear hijab and I want to wear hijab like all of them because I recently reverted to Islam but my mom is against it and she refuses to by me hijab or any type of modest clothing or even let me visit the masjid or mosque and even pray Salah I really don't know what to do I have problems in praying Salah and feel like I made the wrong choice by reverting to Islam Please give me advice ⭐⭐

@Ashiqsyed1

2 жыл бұрын

You have taken right choice.Jannah is not easy to get..You have to face problems you have to work hard you have to strive in the path of Islam.Don't listen to your mother on the basis of religion..Just do Your compulsory acts of Islam without knowing to your mom 👍 and help to your mom in cooking and explain the religion of Islam to your mother

@aleatar

2 жыл бұрын

No-no, don't think that it's a wrong choice, sister, on the contrary, it's the most right choice you can ever make. Allah says in the Quran (and it's mentioned in numerous hadiths) that you have to behave the best towards your parents, and, according to Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, three times more - towards your mother, AS LONG AS it doesn't go against Allah's rules. And hijab and salah are one of them. Allah is above all, since He created everything, and He created you AND your mother, so in this case, you actually have to disobey your mother, BUT do it in the kindest way possible, try to explain to her how important this is. Tell her about how the Quran obligates us to be the best towards our parents, and how Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, said to all of us that paradise lies beneath our mother's feet, so tell her that if you disobey Allah and His Prophet, that means that you also cannot be kind towards your own mother. If she still won't listen, then pray in secret. Verily, Allah forgives everyone who's being forced to do or not to do anything.

@Aaliyah_Matyevna

2 жыл бұрын

I hve a question. If a man have prblms financially and trying to find a job can a woman help him financially till that time?

@May.we.all.have.guidance

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome Sis! 🌺😊🌺 Lol 😂 there's ABSOLUTELY no way you've made the wrong choice. I mean really? Allah s.w.t saw you and chose you and guided you and gave you the best of treasures and guess what? He hasn't left you still. He's right there when you need Him. So just ask Him for the way out of any difficult spot. Speak to Him even if it's just complaints. Ask Him for advice and watch as He send you people who'll manage to say just the right thing 💞 Wishing you lots of love. Salamualaikum wrwb 🌺☺️🌺

@den.kahraman

2 жыл бұрын

Asselamu aleykum sister. I was in the same conditions with you for 1.5 years or more (plus my dad is also against these things) and for all this time I prayed in my room and wear my hijab secretly by putting it in my bag and wearing it after I went to street (finding a place to make up my hijab) and prayed for my parents hidayah and for fulfilling my obligations. Alhamdulillah, in a few months I will be moving out from my parents' house (for my job) and I will be independent and not have to keep secrets anymore. Plus my mother accepted that I want to wear this way now. Believe me, you made a great decision by reverting and Allah hears our duas and helps us. Sometimes I was even thinking "god, now I will not be able to pray or wear hijab because of this bad luck" etc etc but still hoping and trusting Allah and doing my best and in those times, suddenly some things came out from nowhere and opened a way for me to be able to pray or wear hijab in that condition. They were like miracles for me and I felt so obvious that Allah is with me and sending me those helps. Just firmly believe in him and do your best and rest will follow inshaAllah. Allah is the best of the planners and he rewards for all the burdens we had to go through. I will pray for you and stay safe! 🙋🏻‍♀️🌺💞

Hey, I have a question. When you die, do you get buried with your niqab on or is the coffin closed or what? Love from India ❤️

@amiable97

2 жыл бұрын

muslims get burried in a white cloth covering everything but the face if i remember correctly, esentially i believe she said that she would let her direct family members be the first to throw in the dirt on top of her as to cover her face

Thank you for your videos. I live in the Caribbean where the temperature is usually high 80s or 90s so it’s always very hot. I’ve never personally seen a woman with a niqab (sorry if I misspelled it) so I wonder if Muslim women in hot climates can dress differently or how do you manage the heat with so many layers on? Honestly curious is someone cares to answer.

@lunaa2926

2 жыл бұрын

Heey I live in a suuper hot area, in summer it can reach to 48 degree Celsius and the coolest it gets in winter is 23 So its HOT And im a niqabi I wear light colors and cool fabrics mostly of cotton and try to walk under shade. I feel the way i dress protects my skin from burning cuz the sun ray can literally fry you hahahaha I don't feel that hot my body got used to it but in the not so cold winter i get sooo sick from the cool breeze. I don't think i will ever survive living in a cold snowy country lol

@TheSimaralynn

2 жыл бұрын

@@lunaa2926 thank you for responding. I was truly curious. 😊

@nuraisha4917

2 жыл бұрын

The niqab, according to the opinion I follow, is not mandatory. And you don't need to wear that many layers of clothes. You just have to wear a dress and a hijab that isn't transparent and doesn't make the shape of your body figure obvious.

Where you guys are learning this from yasir qadhi?

I hve a question. If a man have prblms financially and trying to find a job can a woman help him financially till that time?

@aleatar

2 жыл бұрын

She definitely can help if she wants to. And if the husband has problems doing his duty and it's out of his control, then he shouldn't be at fault. Islam has a general rule that in times of need everything forbidden can become permissible until said need disappears, and people who can't do what they're obligated to for reasons beyond their control are forgiven until they gain control back.

Well, I have a question, isn't wearing colors in public considered as "Tabaruj"???

just curious, are men required to have a beard?

@den.kahraman

2 жыл бұрын

It is not permissable for a man to shave his beard, so yes if he is capable of growing biologically.

@ceterisparibus8966

2 жыл бұрын

@@den.kahraman What if it is unattractive?

@BeastGotClipped

2 жыл бұрын

@@den.kahraman it is sunnah to grow beard it is not compulsory

@saacidcabdiweli

Жыл бұрын

​@@ceterisparibus8966 unattractive? What do you mean? He is commanded by the prophet to grow his beards not follow what women are attracted to it

Who cares what his thoughts are on that? What does Islamic ruling say? Women, stay home, cover yourself

yes, they do, HAVE TO😅😅😅

@CertaintySafety.12

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏 The fuqaha’ differed regarding the obligation of the wife to serve her husband. The majority of the scholars are went that she is not obligated to do that, and some scholars are of the view that it is obligatory. The majority of the Maalikis, Abu Thawr, Abu Bakr bin Abi Shaybah and Abu Ishaq al-Jawzjani are of the view that the woman must serve her husband in the inner work that is customarily done by the wife doing the same; For the story of Ali and Fatima, may God be pleased with her, as the Prophet, [may God’s prayers and peace be upon him,] decreed that his daughter Fatimah be required to serve the house, and Ali on the work outside the house, and for a hadith: That she be moved from a red mountain to a black mountain, and from a black mountain to a red mountain, her rail would have been [her right] to do so.” Al-Juzjani said: This is his obedience to that which has no benefit, so how about his livelihood? 💜💙🖤💚💛

Can Muslims move to non Muslim countries?

@MsLoverPower

2 жыл бұрын

They do all the time 🤣

@ichinihq

2 жыл бұрын

Yes

All your husband is going to say is hear and obey so u just cook for me.

Is smoking in Islam allowed?

@stopcheckingmyusernamesimp4434

2 жыл бұрын

No, harming yourself is a major sin.

@Jenna-lr4wj

2 жыл бұрын

@@stopcheckingmyusernamesimp4434 thank you

@ceterisparibus8966

2 жыл бұрын

@@stopcheckingmyusernamesimp4434 Really? Then, how come the wife is obligated to obey the husband?

@stopcheckingmyusernamesimp4434

2 жыл бұрын

@@ceterisparibus8966 excuse me?

A scholar in my country also said... Women do better in cooking & cleaning than man.. Women multitasks and men can only focus on one thing at a time.. men does better working outside finding money.. do you agree? 😄

@jenna23967

2 жыл бұрын

No. It's mainly because women from a young age are taught to do all these stuff and are also expected to do housework in many places of the world. Cooking and cleaning is a basic survival skill that everyone needs to learn and do regardless of gender.

@teamshcherbakova702

2 жыл бұрын

Actually most professional chefs are men so that arguement that women are inherently better at cooking is just wrong. Not saying men are better because there are more male pro chefs tho, that probably has more to do with the fact that women aren't employed as chefs at big restaurents as much as men. But the point is that men can definitely be great cooks. It's just that women are usually expected to learn cooking whereas guys don't really try to learn that.

@ceterisparibus8966

2 жыл бұрын

What's his proof?

Hi

First 🥇

@afshanusman9333

2 жыл бұрын

Haha then m 2nd.. where's my medal 🤷😂

@cinnamonroll3082

2 жыл бұрын

@@afshanusman9333(☉｡☉)!→🥈 here you go

Omg if a scholar from one of the most conservative religions says that couples should communicate, then misogyny has no place in this world. Thank you ninja Momy

man also doesnt have to!!

@aabiryani8433

2 жыл бұрын

Your telling me you've made it this far in life without taking care of your own mess You don't know basic life skills You dunno how to feed your self Tidy up after your self You know the basic human life skill 🤨

@ceterisparibus8966

2 жыл бұрын

@@aabiryani8433 Why do we have to do these things within life?

These are not even important questions that people ask about islam at all. Ninja mommy if you have the courage, Ask your husband about the verse in Quran that says that a wife should obey her husband and the husband has the right to beat her to submission if she dont obey and why isn't this the other way, cause what if the husband doesn't obey, can the wife beat him to submission😂. Why did allah gave permission to beat the wife to the husband but not the other way around as well. "Lets start talking about islam, not random knowledge of every common people"

@den.kahraman

2 жыл бұрын

Do you think a woman can beat a man anyway? And did you read the hadith that basically says "how can you sleep in the same bed after hitting your wife" (not word to word but same meaning)? Or did you search about in which way or after which disobedient acts it is permissable to hit? Do you know the word 'zulm' which Allah forbids and will punish the subject who does that? It is not sadistic as you think but yet you bring it out. I want to believe that you are tricked to this thoughts by bad intention or not knowledgeable people.

@akaza1343

2 жыл бұрын

@@den.kahraman look in the Quran it clearly says that allah is perfectly clear with his revelations. So if you look at the verse that says a man can beat his wife to submission if she disobeys him. (This is as clear as it gets) Then people like you come and say "well did you read the hadiths that were written by several several scholars with differing idea of islam centuries after Muhammad died" If allah is perfectly clear with his revelations, why do you people go around adding new meanings to a straight forward verse. Moreover, why do you people give more importance to endless hadiths written almost a century after Muhammad died. If you agree that allah was perfectly clear with his revelations then dont add new meanings to a straight forward Quran verse. And If you dont agree with allahs clear revelations then i dont think you are a Muslim. But if you are gonna have double standards such as agreeing with allahs clarity in messages and yet also agrees with adding new meanings to the pre existing verses. Then its a miracle. The miracle of reinterpretation and hypocrisy.

@akaza1343

2 жыл бұрын

@@den.kahraman you also said can a women beat her man. Well obviously yeah if allah allows then the husband must not resist. If he does resist hell awaits him. So if allah allowed women to beat her husband. I dont think the husband has much of a choice but to obey

@ceterisparibus8966

2 жыл бұрын

@@den.kahraman What do you mean by your last sentence?

@faridakhalifa5275

2 жыл бұрын

Firstly, I'd like people to understand that the Arabic language is a language of many words; for example I know 4 different words in Arabic that translate to the word 'Horse' and the words pretty, cute, nice, gorgeous may all translate to the word 'Beautiful' in one of the languages. The word ضرب in general translates to 'beating', because there is no better one-word translation for it, but originally this word was used to mean 'tapping her in a strong manner' (now you see why the word beating was used instead) and this indicates that the husband should try to make his wife aware of her actions as the verse says “Men shall carefully protect and maintain women because God has granted each (party) some superior characteristics over the other (party), and because they (men) spend out of their possessions (to maintain women). Thus righteous women are obedient (to God) and guard themselves in the absence of witnesses in return for God’s protection. If they further disobey, give them advice/say kind words to them, and if they further disobey leave them alone in the bed, and let them dwell (there alone), (if they further refuse to obey أضربوهن ('tap her in a light manner'). Then if they willingly obey you, do not seek another way against them. God is Exalted, Great.” (an-Nisa 4:34)” What you were asking was in regard to 'women who DON'T guard themselves in the absence of witnesses in return for God's protection.' At the time of the prophet his companions used to use a something like a tooth pick to draw the wife's attention as a form of tapping. And I will say this again in case you might not have understood me the word ضرب has different meanings this was how it was mostly used nowadays we use it more often to mean beating. "The best among you is the one who is the best towards his wife" Said the Prophet (Pbuh) When muslims pray do 'Salah' we always say the verses in Arabic as the meaning of the verse is more accurate if said in the Arabic language than if it's translated. And no one in the marital relationship has the right beat the other. Lastly the hadiths (quotes quoting the prophet) were memorized by the prophet's companions long ago but scholars have been able to track and trace most of them and today they know the people who said these quotes and whom they said them to, therefore according to the reliability of these Hadiths scholars make decisions. Anyways Allah knows best

I still want to see ur face

@qwertz666

2 жыл бұрын

Keep dreaming

@jasonmulhaz4662

2 жыл бұрын

Ain't stoppin'

@qwertz666

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasonmulhaz4662 If you wanna see her face then marry her xD

@jasonmulhaz4662

2 жыл бұрын

I am a lesbian but I won't quit until I see it. You can't make me bud

@qwertz666

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasonmulhaz4662 You know it's disrespectful towards her. It's her own decision if she will show you her face. How would you feel if someone will keep telling you that he/she wants to see you naked?

If man works women have to take care about house, it's sunnah for man to help her with that. If both works they can share their houseworks. And I understand what's wrong in fact that women should do housework, cooking and such things? it's not first time when you sister speak about things and said women doesn't have to do it in Islam, and your are happy because of that. It's good thing in Islam, wives for prophet did this and women will get reward if she do it. It's natural that man os obligated to get for Family money, house, food, clothes and such things so women should take care for his house. We follow this what Quran and Sunnah says not west Standards of life and their understanding of "women's freedom"

@valenciasaintilus9573

2 жыл бұрын

Oh please 🙄

@parapetdoniczka5165

2 жыл бұрын

@@valenciasaintilus9573 what? Where is you problem sister?

@aabiryani8433

2 жыл бұрын

The problem isn't cooking and cleaning The problem is the attitude lack of respect appreciation and basically treated like a maid You give a women love trust loyalty attention and respect no women in her right frame of mind would turn down from obeying her husband Unfortunately some males (refuse to call them men ) let this right get to there heads and think there some Prince whose decended from heaven And treat the women as if she's a slave a maid and not a wife Honestly this generally something common in South Asian cultures

@ceterisparibus8966

2 жыл бұрын

@@parapetdoniczka5165 What if Western individuals spoke about YOUR way of life? You're mad about women's freedom? Are you this mad about men's freedom?

@parapetdoniczka5165

2 жыл бұрын

@@ceterisparibus8966 I am muslim and I follow Islamic rulers and I say only this what Islam says.

Don't tell men they have to provide. It's up to everyone's personal choice.

@Khadijah_time

2 жыл бұрын

In Islam, there are rules for BOTH men and women to abide too. So it doesn’t matter what people think or not. Of course there are ways that can be adjusted for both parties depending on preferences within religious guidelines. But rules are put forth for reasons beyond what’s on the surface.

@umbra014

2 жыл бұрын

@@Khadijah_time In Islam, it depends on the agreements before marriage. My words are clear. It's up to no one to tell a man what to do.

@Khadijah_time

2 жыл бұрын

@@umbra014 In Islam, it depends on the RULES of the religion for BOTH men and women first & foremost. I never said your words were not clear. And I covered the rest when I said “Of course there are ways that can be adjusted for both parties depending on preferences within religious guidelines”. Also, to be clear, our feelings one way or the other has absolutely nothing to do with anything when it pertains to religious matters.

@umbra014

2 жыл бұрын

@@Khadijah_time Say that to people who claim hijab is a woman's choice.

@Aaliyah_Matyevna

2 жыл бұрын

I hve a question. If a man have prblms financially and trying to find a job can a woman help him financially till that time?

There are several verses in the Qur'an about hijab. There are reasons for that. One of those verses says that you should not show off. This is probably one of the things he wears hijab. That 's exactly what you do. That is, it can be said that an infidel woman or any other religion that lives somewhere is more chaste(عفیف) than you. Okay, ninja clown ?!😅(kidding🙂)

@bintbint1316

2 жыл бұрын

Just shut your clown mouth

@azerill1173

2 жыл бұрын

@@bintbint1316 Why ?! 🙂 Is the truth so painful for you?! 🙂

@bintbint1316

2 жыл бұрын

@@azerill1173 youre passive aggressive, just say it as it is. Even wearing cloths below the ankle is fine for men if its not dome with the INTENTION of pride. "It can be said that an infidel women is more chaste then you"- disgusting. Watch and wash your dirty mouth. May Allah Guide you

@azerill1173

2 жыл бұрын

@@bintbint1316 We have a cause and a disability. For example, someone wears a hijab so that he does not sin, but someone who wears a hijab and commits adultery with that hijab !! What is the use? What matters is the disability, not the cause. The CAUSE is to do the DISABILITIES. You can not say Bismillah and slaughter a pig and then eat it !!! Yes, there are many women who are infidels or of any other religion who are more chaste, and this is a fact. I see the disability, not the cause. May ALLAH give you a little wisdom🙂🙏

@vloggermum

2 жыл бұрын

But ninja mommy isn't an infidel