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It’s just expensive to have kids nowadays. Why take care of a kid when you can’t even take care of yourself? It’s that simple. Edit: Thank you guys for 6.6k likes! I never had this much.

@gumicherryblossom8015

Жыл бұрын

agree, its like rasing children who cant take care of themselves if the person cant do it at all in the first place and there would be no point in going it

@ArchAzrael79

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, and it's not just financially, taking care of kids also have time, emotional and opportunity cost. seems like Old lawmaker in Japan still thinks that family must have male breadwinner and female homemaker. at the same time, they also want to increase workforce but do not want the burden of parenthood come into their industrial system.

@aghali93

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@ernestbaddger9617

Жыл бұрын

You plan to have children, Not just bring Them into the world without a purpose of having a family, If not practice safe sex if you're not ready for Children

@yumiko0017

Жыл бұрын

I agree. I keep hearing, you'll receive "Earned Income Credit"...I'm like "Ok". That earned income credit will not last me a year and this is while I have a job earning under $34K a year. Yes I can apply for more steady income, but so is everyone else. It's competitive.

It takes time and money to raise a child and people have less of both these days. If the government wishes to see more families, the environment needs to support it. Long work hours and less pay is not a recipe for children. In japan, people are shamed for taking too many days off for vacation. How can you take time off for a family?

@atamo4323

Жыл бұрын

When locals working for a foreign company in Japan, the staff usually refuse to go to teleconference (with overseas colleagues) at nighttime or weekends or during holiday/vacation. If they did, they would complain about it. I am quite surprised by it because I thought asians would take it in strides as part of the work culture in asia. Is it because they are working for a foreign company (even when no foreign coworker in the Japan office) that they can show the true human nature instead of the usual Japanese behavior?

@esotericpig

Жыл бұрын

@@atamo4323 Kind of a ridiculous question, because no one (Japanese, American, etc.) should be expected to do what you just said. You kind of have to be an idiot to agree to that. While agreeing to do overtime without pay is quite dumb, this kind of goes to another level. It's probably just the new generation realizing that they don't have to do the stupid things the past generation did anymore.

@svennielsen633

Жыл бұрын

The solution is to make it so beneficial to have children that people prefer it to a low-paying job. Also, daycare should not be the normal solution, it should be an emergency solution. We need to restore the respect for parents, who take care of their own children and raise them well.

@RonLarhz

Жыл бұрын

Problem is also with the suffocating japanese society culture.

@max-cs9ko

Жыл бұрын

Rising feminism is main reason for declining birth rate, any average historian know that even during worst famine scarcity birth rate of most nation had not declined and now even when we all have almost everything, we all know why birth rate is declining. Feminist has brainwashed young girl that they should never get pregnant in any conditions and enjoy materialistic life, western nations are spreading feminism in most Asian nation because they know it's only way to destroy Asian human resource, they already destroyed Japan and korean society, India and China are next in Line

The two gentlemen who spoke at the end nailed it perfectly. For women to want to have children, it's extremely important that the support system allows the women to return back to work easily after child birth. This would mean easily available child care centers, govt school from very early age, reduced working hours for men so that women won't feel they are alone in bringing up the kids, and more holidays per annum so that families can spend time together

@boygenius538_8

Жыл бұрын

if you want to raise the birth rate its better for women to not have to work in the first place, a working man should be able to provide for his family.

@elainev670

Жыл бұрын

@@boygenius538_8 but we don't live in middle ages anymore?

@nineten5397

Жыл бұрын

@@elainev670 middle ages is only a time period it has nothing to do with men should work and women be at home

@nineten5397

Жыл бұрын

@@elainev670 if you are not living in the middle ages then you shouldn't allow Democracy because it's an ancient Greek political concept(not the today republic system only concept) which is adopted in modern era

@winchester1245

Жыл бұрын

@@boygenius538_8 Booooo Women fought for being able to work and sustain themselves because otherwise men abuse them or their superiority over women. When a man KNOWS his woman can't leave or do anything without him, he allows himself to cheat, abuse and do as he pleases. Sorry but we don't want it and here we are, in an Era where birth rates fall and unless womanhood and motherhood are not treated as beneath men, it will continue. Men need to step up and realize they can't tread us as their side characters, their sidekicks and those who are added to their lives as commodity. Just like you we want to live our life, pursue our goals, do things we like and not be your maids. Are men dumb or something? You do realize we are human just like you?

Great interview. Interesting how the younger adults understand the financial, physical and emotional struggle of raising children while the older ones simplify it as the younger generation being self-interested rather than being pragmatic. We aren’t selfish, we’re being realistic with the resources available. Plenty of people would be happy to have children, we aren’t happy to have children live through hardship, resource constraints, and lack of quality time with parents.

@thereisa

Жыл бұрын

@Mr.Beant well said.

@nombi1892

Жыл бұрын

I wish Africans thought this way...no matter how bad things are ! No electricity, terrible education system, no water ,corrupt government, no Jobs ...Africans will have babies !!!!!!!!!!!!! I hate it so much

@adgeifc

Жыл бұрын

You drop this 👑

@nurulikromi6892

Жыл бұрын

Guess how long it took the Japanese government to make such a good environment so that people want to have children

@johnjohnes698

Жыл бұрын

no. you are lying to other people and you are lying to yourself. I bet post WW2 Japaneese were in much harsher codfitions yet they had families and kids. but you are spoilt by the comfort of civilization and are too scsry to loose it. you want an easy comfortable life with little to no hardships.

It's great seeing the juxtaposition between the old lady saying "young people just wanna do things that please them" vs actually hearing the young dudes talking about wanting lively families and not ending their lineage and also explaining incomes are stagnating so they can't.

@nenna95100

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I think a very similar exchange of ideas could happen in my country, Italy, where the population and the birth rate are decreasing aswell.. Older people just don't understand all the various reasons we young people have.. They just think we are spoiled and think only to ourself.. Economical stability is one of the reason also here in my country.. Another very important reason are prospective for the future, also related to climate change and all the stuffs happening in the world in these years.. I really would like to have a kid, but in which kind of world will he/she live? This is what concern me the most.. I'm actually very surprise this topic didn't show up in this interview

@AndthenonedayIbecameanEXO-L

Жыл бұрын

It feels like common notion around the world, where older people say "we just tightened our purses and persevered, young people just want to eat avocado sandwich", when reality is even if you are not having fun out in the streets, the money you would saved up are not enough to buy a house and carry the cost of raising a child, and nothing worse than get into debt and leave it up to your child to carry the debt when they grow up. There is a difference being able to afford pay monthly Netflix and being able to afford the cost of housing and children. So of course people go and have fun instead of moping all sad they can't afford to be homeowners, get married and have kids.

@nenna95100

Жыл бұрын

@@AndthenonedayIbecameanEXO-L This. I wish everyone could understand this, is such a simple concept but most elders ignore it. But actually also some young adults should understand it better, since I see some people at my age having more than one kid despite having not enough money to ensure them a comfortable life.

@ChristopherCricketWallace

Жыл бұрын

old people say that about young people while NOT adapting to a changing world to set them up for success. The old people just want life to stay in the past. Their politics are as if it's still the good old days. THEY are failing the young.

@fundash5124

Жыл бұрын

@@nenna95100 I agree with what you said, I would like to have children but first I would like to be married, but all if I'm married I will be afraid to bring a child into this world with climate change and with people pushing they're negative or wrong ideals on to Children these days.

Who has time for babies when you're overworked, financially stretched, and socially isolated in this ever-connected world?

@aimwilliamson6609

Жыл бұрын

So well said 👏🏻 🙌🏼 👌🏼

@daiishi_kinyoubi

Жыл бұрын

I don't see the lie

@southcoastinventors6583

Жыл бұрын

@@daiishi_kinyoubi Boulder Friday is right.

@sulekha3771

Жыл бұрын

This!!!

@uzumaki1235

Жыл бұрын

Well said

Some old people say that choosing not to have children is "selfish". What's really selfish is having children without thinking of whether you are emotionally mature and have a stable enough life to raise them properly. Also berating or guilt-tripping your own children to quickly make grandchildren is unquestionably selfish.

@yousername16

Жыл бұрын

You know I've always wondered what exactly is selfish about it. There is not one non selfish reason for having a child but at least 100 reasons why it is not selfish for not wanting one. It won't hurt the hypothetical baby not being born.

@lenap4956

Жыл бұрын

The cognitive dissonance is strong with some of these people lol Not wanting children is not being selfish. It's not like the hypothetical child will ever exist anyway so the point is moot

@21Kikoshi

Жыл бұрын

Time for Young ppl to grow the f up

@theultimatereductionist7592

10 ай бұрын

Actively fighting AGAINST efforts to reduce CO2 emissions by reducing burning fossil fuels to reduce Anthropogenic Global Warming (AGW) is SELFISH and EVIL. Eating and thus torturing animals by eating meat when so many plant based proteins exist is SELFISH and EVIL.

@DRPenha

8 ай бұрын

"Properly" humans raising children 2000 years before in extreme conditions is the reason why you exist.

The dude that blamed TV 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀 and his friend awkwardly nodding but probably thinking wtf hahAaaaaa

A Japanese friend of mine almost never saw her dad while growing up. Dude went to work, when she woke up in the morning and came home when she was already in bed. Imagine working so hard and then you don't get to see your kids grow up. The Japanese work environment is famous around the world for being killer - why would people even think about having kids...?

@irisang2476

Жыл бұрын

Sad but true.

@sisigs4820

Жыл бұрын

There culture is wayyy to work intensive they literally treat people like robots it's disturbing. If they want to have a future they'd better wake tf up.

@eternalgreenknight

Жыл бұрын

It’s kind of like that in some American office environments too. Perhaps not quite to the extent of Japan… but I know there were plenty of days like that for me where I’d get up, shovel down breakfast, and be out the door before the kids were up- or just as they got up… and get home after dinner when they are getting ready for bed. Made me hate my career. The upside of Covidiocy was telework giving me a little more time with family.

@MrDrgdf

Жыл бұрын

Old joke we hear in India.

@soonersciencenerd383

Жыл бұрын

@@irisang2476 my exact thought....

If a country wants more children and a big workforce, then they need to find a balance to create a way to make that happen!

@sarahrean7174

Жыл бұрын

they open door to strabgers ...

@nguyenvanphu8217

Жыл бұрын

It takes some time

@anantasheshanaga3666

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahrean7174 Bad idea.

@blackman5867

Жыл бұрын

Take germany as an example

@paragongeth5599

Жыл бұрын

They act like they don't know what the problem is but they know exactly what it is. They need to change they're attitude and policies towards work, but they don't want to change they're attitude and policies towards work. So, shouganai i guess. They say its about more women in the work place but thats nonsense scapegoat excuse. Plenty of women around the world have jobs and kids, it can work if they allow it . The Japanese need to change they're attitude towards work or they'll shouganai themselves into oblivion. Its as simple as that.

This problem isn't just prevalent in Japan and South Korea. I'm a woman from Germany and in my mid-twenties. I have a long-term partner and we want to move in together soon, at this moment I live by myself. I really, really want a child or two, however: I leave for work at 8:30am and come back 8:30pm, I have to work 40 hours a week just to sustain myself. After work, my whole body hurts so bad that it's a struggle just to cook and take my nightly showers after work. This month I had to pay some extra bills and I'm left with less than 100€ for groceries even though I already lead a very frugal lifestyle and live in a small apartment. Even with me and my boyfriend moving in together and getting support from the government (~200€ a month/child), we still wouldn't be able to afford it because a bigger apartment would take up most of our income. I'm not the only one in this situation, in fact, most of my friends face similar problems. How tf am I supposed to support a child like this? The government is complaining about the decline in birth rates, but instead of addressing the root cause of this issue, they want more foreign people to come here for work (even if it isn't sure that they'll learn the language and stop relying on government money after settling in). At this point it feels like a huge joke and honestly I'm very angry. I'm sorry that Japan's youth is facing the exact same problem. This is a recipe for disaster, and it's going to wreck this world.

@SilverSentai

Жыл бұрын

The rich assholes could care less and just complain because it looks good

@rajdeepdas272

Жыл бұрын

Meanwhile some corrupt German politician would be a baby making machine like Musk. What good world we live in

@evyrrun2841

Жыл бұрын

Same here in Portugal, housing and amenities sky high, I’m only 18 but I don’t know if I want children solely because I’d probably not be able to give them the comfort and lifestyle they deserve. :(

@user-pn3im5sm7k

Жыл бұрын

As an American its quite tragic to see what America has done to Germany and Japan. These two countries were great before we touched them. Now much like us, they are corporate shells with no soul. The people all have to work to death to just sustain themselves and it gets worse every decade. These governments don't care about us, in Germany they are purposefully replacing Germans with foreign invaders. Before these countries adopted the American economic system their birth rates were way above 2.0+ and could actually raise families. I don't care what anyone says but we should not have intervened in WWII because everything from that point has lead up to this ugly world we live in. People will be quick to bring up mass death but have no issue when Soviets had been killing tens of millions on a much worse scale than Japan or Germany. Or the Chinese who killed millions of their own. Yet we sided with these Satan worshippers. Soviets were doing this for fun during peacetime while the Axis did this only in war time, where massacres etc have been normal since the dawn of time. Many American WW2 veterans regret what they caused. We all thought we were doing the right thing. History always has proven that Japan and Germany have always been highly adaptable and quick to change. I believe in you all!

@rhuyisia8163

Жыл бұрын

Sad ain't it! All people in governments pretend and don't care becos they earn big salaries, have good lives where everything is paid for from people's taxes! All they know is spewing verbal diarrhoea!

For most of human history, people didn't really plan children; they just had them. I'm always dumbfounded when people who didn't choose to have kids ask why young people aren't choosing to have kids. Given the chance, I'm sure many of us would not have been born had our parents had the information we had about the true cost of childrearing and had the science to have sex without pregnancy.

@-lord1754

Жыл бұрын

This is so true. I was planned but im the younger sibling. My mom is the oldest sibling and she wasnt planned and my grandparents had her fresh out of high school.

@jonasastrom7422

8 ай бұрын

So for thousands of years, nobody figured out that sex leads to pregnancy? Is that what you're saying? How come fertility rates didn't drop gradually instead of suddenly? Why didn't they coincide with "information about the true cost of childrearing"? Why are poor africans having so many kids? You clearly don't understand why fertility rates drop or rise

I’m dying at the guy who blamed tv for people not having kids 😂 The older lady that was livid that younger people just seemed to be off enjoying themselves doesn’t seem to realise that the younger generations just don’t want to bring children into the world if they can’t give them everything they need. Younger people are being sensible by not having kids. Just because we can have them doesn’t mean we should.

@georgk1770

Жыл бұрын

the dude with the TV argument seems to also be laughing at himself for saying that right after, could be some sort of japanese comedy after all :D

@shinratensei5305

Жыл бұрын

She may have said this for children who can do it but "who want to live freely"

@ZK-ff2ru

Жыл бұрын

You just proved the old lady's point

@grogsmashrock7240

Жыл бұрын

@@ZK-ff2ru Old ladys point is a bit outdated

@earlysda

Жыл бұрын

lasoob, you just showed why the elderly woman is correct - "if they can't give them everything they need". Maybe they don't NEED hardly anything you think they do.

Lol the dude who said the late night shows on Japanese TV are way too good. That made my day, not sure in which universe he's living in.

@MorwenAncalime

Жыл бұрын

I wonder if he was feeling a little self-conscious about not having a partner and decided to give a silly answer, lol

@LmtButterfly

Жыл бұрын

Japanese never fails to entertain

@kilgoretrout3

Жыл бұрын

He's chuckling afterwards

@josebenardi1554

Жыл бұрын

He does a little trolling.

@Sammy-ls9jk

Жыл бұрын

@@MorwenAncalime haha but the late night TV shows in Japan are really wierd and random

Love that this is being documented. Very uncommon to see an actual Japanese KZreadr taking to the streets vlogging, interviewing real issues and I’m loving it!

Japan is going to be just fine. The thoughtful responses by the people interviewed are indicative of people who are considerate of what kind of future they can give their kids. If EVERYONE thought like this, we would have a much better world. I would be more worried about countries where people have a bunch of kids and don't care for them, abandon them, mistreat them, and then expect someone else to clean up their mess. Japan does not have that problem. They cherish their elderly AND young people, enough to seriously consider the kind of life they can be able to give them BEFORE creating them. It's a healthy mentality. Kudos, Japan.

@DRPenha

8 ай бұрын

A supporter of human race eradication.

@Retrofire-47

6 ай бұрын

Idealistic but myopic. "everything will be fine". if Japan's working class literally disappears you will have a geriatric nation -- and no one to "cherish" them Japan is iconic bc of their insulated -- so strong -- culture.. the purveyors of Japanese culture, new ideas, *always* have been youth. Look at QoL data for unpaired men and women... there is no future for Japan [or anyone else] if a population bust happens

@Panamenya

6 ай бұрын

"...if Japan's working class literally disappears..." Please illustrate how this will happen within the next 50 or even 100 years, with math and data links. Thanks. I am looking forward to your in-depth analysis. @@Retrofire-47

@Retrofire-47

6 ай бұрын

@@Panamenya it won't disappear... it will just be derelict -- and unable to [financially] support the aging population. so not *literally*, my bad idk. i'm not so sure this even matters. Automation is here and a post-scarcity society means crooked population pyramids mean little: upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/06/Population_Pyramids_of_Japan_%28Projections_2065%2CIPSS%29.svg/2560px-Population_Pyramids_of_Japan_%28Projections_2065%2CIPSS%29.svg.png

@Panamenya

6 ай бұрын

" ...if Japan's working class literally disappears" Spoiler alert: That absurd hypothetical scenario you just cooked up will never happen, so your point is moot. @@Retrofire-47

My parents went from telling me and my sisters that babies will ruin our future/they'll throw us out throughout our teenage to college age years, to basically condemning us for not having kids now that we're near our 30s.

@Waterbug1591

Жыл бұрын

coz they realize your eggs are almost all gone in your 30s and that your old age is irreversible.

@hanalala3164

Жыл бұрын

@@Waterbug1591 haha kids sux! I hope my eggs dry quicker so I don't have to take birth control anymore

@Waterbug1591

Жыл бұрын

@@hanalala3164 haha then you're reduced to a mere sperm bank from an incubator. 😂😂 Essentially useless to society at that point.

@budthecyborg4575

Жыл бұрын

Bingo. The trend of western culture treating teenage pregnancy as a negative things is a huge problem when giving birth as a teenager is physiologically the best option.

@NB-xu8bl

Жыл бұрын

@@budthecyborg4575 it's the worst option teenage women have higher chances of getting nutrient deficiencies and anemia and higher chances of dropping off education

The greed of most world class business people and politicians has made people around the world cannot afford to have children.

@nocapnobs7845

Жыл бұрын

You got it wrong and even if you were right, who elected these puppets? we did. Time and time again.

@aimwilliamson6609

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely Agree and they are destroying the planet

@thomasgrabkowski8283

Жыл бұрын

Well apparently people in the poorest continent Africa can but not people in the wealthy regions like Europe, North America and East Asia

@marcello7781

Жыл бұрын

​@@thomasgrabkowski8283 Families of wealthy countries could have many kids but they'd find themselves economically broke. As soon as poor countries become wealthy they will experience the same.

@agateslate7939

Жыл бұрын

Isn't it beautiful World without people to suffering?

I do understand a lot of the things they are saying, I have 6 kids myself. A natural son, stepson, and four adopted girls. It was quite hard not having very much support from my own adopted family, I had to relay on friends to help me. Everything being so expensive and even with people for babysitting is so scary even back then, it was quite hard to find someone that can fit your schedule when it comes to work. 5/6 of my kids are all grown up and have kids for themselves, but it's very difficult to expect to do a lot and got told something else that makes it hard to be confident of being a parent. I did it as a single parent for a long time, and I keep on getting told that "You shouldn't be a mom because you dont have a partner to help you..." which made me think I needed one, and which was the worst discussion ever! I love my stepson but not his father, and it made me sad that I had to give up everything because he and 98% of my adopted family told to "give up and have kids with ONE guy...." the influence of other people makes a HUGE part of "Should I raise a kid or not?" That type of question ALWAYS pops up because there isnt a supportive network for money, environmental, and also support groups for parents or even single parents out there. We get slapped with "Single parents cant do it because it's not suitable for the child's health..." But some have that strength to do it for their kid or kids, parenthood is never easy but its rewarding.

This is a topic that relates to the vast majority of the world. One of the main issues is the cost-of-living vs personal income. The cost-of-living is vastly outperforming people's wages. It's far too complicated to start a family in an environment where wages are stagnate (or with little growth) relative to the always increasing price of basic necessities. Furthering the complications are climate change, horrendous education systems, work-life balance and the general state of the world as a whole.

The older generation is out of touch with how much things cost nowadays. Circumstances are different from back then. Also many people don‘t just „take it and get on with it“ anymore. People are making informed decisions knowing that there are many options out there. Nothing wrong with that at all.

@jovpal5685

Жыл бұрын

NOW imagine in 10-20 years from now you would lose probably 1/3 of your work force HOW do you solve that when JAPAN is quite a isolist

@actual_doge3221

Жыл бұрын

Also I think the internet has A LOT to do with it. Over the internet, people have shared their toxic or traumatizing family stories. And when people find out how truly messed uo their family is, there is a fear that they may subject their own children to that toxicity even if it is unintentional. People feel alone, and don't want to give that to their children without good emotional security and financial.

@Limemill

Жыл бұрын

There was some interesting research that showed that actually, all things considered, if you were to buy the same kinds of things and in the same amount as in the 70s, you’d be spending more or less the same percentage of your income. Yeah, education and housing got more expensive, but some things / experiences (think travel) have gotten cheaper. The problem is, people are lured into buying more: more stuff, more tech, more financial instruments, more insurance, more vacations overseas, etc. It’s more of a consumerist vortex supported and exploited by smarter, more targeted ways to advertise things that are driving this perceived feeling of not having enough money for anything. Worse yet, those things and experiences are now considered ‘normal’, so there’s enormous peer pressure to spend this way

@haileymoehlmann9198

Жыл бұрын

@@jovpal5685 I mean the solution is in your question. Japan is quite isolated bc of xenophobia in government and the general population. The answer would be to incentivize immigration to keep fueling the working population.

@jamx_1276

Жыл бұрын

@@actual_doge3221 that doesn't have to do with the internet lol

It’s similar in many countries nowadays. Young people delay marriage, or avoid it altogether. Also, many young people don’t want to have children, and I don’t blame them. Japan is not alone in this trend.

@linkskywalker5417

Жыл бұрын

@Brandon I'd say it's both. By which I mean many millennials and zoomers don't want kids, but even if they did, which some do, they wouldn't be able to afford them without stressing over money and where to live without lashing out at the kids. And yes, they would be massively in debt.

@MCC876

Жыл бұрын

Yes, life is simply too expensive. College cost is crazy, buying a home is out of reach, cars are too high. The list is endless. All of this seems to be controlled by the ones in charge.

@user-sg6ii3eo9i

Жыл бұрын

Here on my country teenage pregnancy still occurs

@emmahas2moms8038

Жыл бұрын

Yeah it's called "Why tf would I sign a contract where the other person is rewarded for screwing me over?"

@SiriProject

Жыл бұрын

The main issue is the housing market, which is artificially kept ultra expensive, sometimes by a few international corpos like Blackstone (probably is in your town, too). If you can't afford independence until your late 30s or early 40s no one will want to raise a child, and that's a rational choice.

“people around me are not having kids so i shouldn’t too” is interesting because people around me (25-30) are having children so i don’t want it 😩 personally i wouldn’t be able to handle the burden of a child, i still feel like a child that just recently gained a little independence (i’m 25)

@nashinashi0114

Жыл бұрын

Japan (as well as many other Asian countries) is extremely big on peer pressure, it's always about caring what others think - in an extremely unhealthy way. What do you think why the majority of people there is doing so miserable lol. Stick out like nail and you'll be hammered down.

@m4tta

Жыл бұрын

same, the more people i see who have kids, the less i want them, because most of those parents seem miserable and have boring lives, they lack an identity.

@TaylorLeeKnow

Жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly. I'm going to be 25 next month and still feel like a kid, I have yet to learn about responsibilities. Not only having a kid but even thinking about marriage gives me nightmares 😹

In the olden days in Japan, marriage was the key to becoming a full-fledged member of society, and children were a must. Today, however, social values have changed dramatically, and Japan has become a society where diverse lifestyles are respected. As a result, I feel that the number of single people is increasing. Another factor is the trend toward late marriages, which has led to an increase in the number of couples who do not have children even if they do get married.

@thinkngskeptic

11 ай бұрын

Women are lied to all over the world about their ability to have children later in life. But women aren't fertile forever.

The old lady is right, young people woke up from reality and realized they need to prioritize their own happiness!

@Nootlest

Жыл бұрын

Selfish generation

@elvinr6207

Жыл бұрын

@@Nootlest Also life is getting more expensive to live on

@ianhomerpura8937

Жыл бұрын

@@Nootlest more like people can't afford to have children even if they want one. Everything is becoming too expensive.

@natutz

Жыл бұрын

@@elvinr6207 not only that, but because of that many people are more depressed, stress and unhappy in general. Why would you bring a child in this world if you yourself can’t even live a happy life

@axios7603

Жыл бұрын

@@Nootlest L post

Well in the past it was 10 times easier to earn family wage and to support a family with just one income. Now that is literally impossible.

@evelynng3521

Жыл бұрын

not just that, womens dont want to get married anymore, marriage sucks. More womens wants to be single mom's.

@OomBako

Жыл бұрын

happens here in Indonesia,, and maybe all around the world right now.

@naughtiousmaximus7853

Жыл бұрын

@@evelynng3521 I wouldnt agree. A lot of women want marriage. The problem is that women just as men are pickier than ever, so people tend to feel like they are settling unless someone is perfect. So this just makes things even shittier.

@ChickensAndGardening

Жыл бұрын

This is true in every industrialized country. But, I believe the main problem is that adult children no longer live with their parents, but rather they move out as soon as feasible, and follow their career to whatever random city. If you live with your parents, or even next door or in the same neighborhood at least, your parents become automatic childcare providers and you can be more free to work, go to school, go out at night etc.

@august_619

Жыл бұрын

@@naughtiousmaximus7853 yeah they want someone who is worth the time and effort. if someone gets their ideal partner then having a family will be easier as both of them want the same thing.

Great, thanks for sharing.

For the same reason the US and Korea arent having kids: ITS TOO EXPENSIVE!!! The cost of living has skyrocketed in the past YEAR. Food is too expensive, Landlords are taking ALL of the affordable houses and charging rent higher than a mortgage with little to no restraint, jobs arent even paying minimum wage by federal standards as well as the workplace stress is burning us out faster than we can blink.

Everyone says it is a financial issue but what I observe is people's changing view on what having a child means to them. People around me with many children view them as a blessing, even if they can barely provide for them, while those without view them as a burden and yet another major responsibility.

@ponti5882

Жыл бұрын

Correct.

@thomasgrabkowski8283

Жыл бұрын

The different views is also why religious people tend to have more children than atheists because religious people tend to view having children as a blessing from god, while atheists are more likely to view it as just another burden out of many things

@bcvc3365

Жыл бұрын

Great point!

@antinataliz9633

Жыл бұрын

it is both a burden and a crime, to have kids.

@max-cs9ko

Жыл бұрын

Rising feminism is main reason for declining birth rate, any average historian know that even during worst famine scarcity birth rate of most nation had not declined and now even when we all have almost everything, we all know why birth rate is declining. Feminist has brainwashed young girl that they should never get pregnant in any conditions and enjoy materialistic life, western nations are spreading feminism in most Asian nation because they know it's only way to destroy Asian human resource, they already destroyed Japan and korean society, India and China are next in Line

People of this generation are more sensible than previous generations. They know it is better to not have children when they can't take care of themselves

@rashaunjones1027

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@maryvampiregirl666

Жыл бұрын

True

@becksketchbook9846

Жыл бұрын

actually this generation have more fun/distraction lifestyle.... that why old generation matured much faster in their young age... this generation even you 30 years im sure mostly not mature yet.... that why they cant take care of themselves...

@rashaunjones1027

Жыл бұрын

@@becksketchbook9846 truth

@jinz0

Жыл бұрын

nobody will take care of them when they are older, it's not like they are maintaining , savagely decreasing rapidly, very sensible

Love this content

My SO and I are happily childfree. We've been together for 17 years. Greetings from Italy!

This issue is common to South Korea, China, and even western countries as well - as their societies became more educated and prosperous their people focused on careers and lifestyles instead of having children. The west "solved" this problem through immigration of new citizens but in East Asian societies, immigration is not generally acceptable for cultural reasons.

@Neven38

Жыл бұрын

West has solved it through taking your engineers, programmers and doctors.

@jalfredprufrock620

Жыл бұрын

The rapid decline in the birth rates of South Korea and Japan can't be fully explained as a natural consequence of industrialization.

@99wilson

Жыл бұрын

@@jalfredprufrock620 Even in the west the people that tend to have many kids are religious. Christians, Muslims and Jews. The majority of Japan is shito or Buddist. Neither of these religions promote babies.

@lordkaiser1404

Жыл бұрын

meanwhile, population in poor countries continue to rise and people blame the government for lack of jobs.

@sarahs.thorpe857

Жыл бұрын

The West didn't solve anything. They just put a ban-aid on the problem

Older gens: “don’t have kids if you can’t afford them!” Younger gens: “ok. We won’t.” Older gens: *throw tantrum

Interesting topic for sure! In Sweden it was normal until the 1900s for a women to have four or five children. After the 1900s the society developed very fast (Education, women's rights, more prosperity etc.) and it was down to two children per women. In Mexico it was seven children per women in the 70s. Today in Mexico, it is down to two children as well. In the future I think it will be the norm to have one or two children. The countries that still are lagging behind is in Africa. Women in these parts of the world are also getting more educated and enter the work force with ease nowadays. It is just a matter of time before they reach the levels of prosperity as developed countries has. The main thing today is that you always have the option to have children or not. If you want children, go for it. If you don't, then so be it. As long as you have the ability to choose your path in life of what you wanna do. There is no right or wrong in your decisions. Older generations did not have the luxury too choose as today's generations. I think though if they would have the possibility, they would have less children or none just as the generations of today.

@ltahoe9257

Жыл бұрын

This hit spot on. I'm American but my family is Mexican. My grandmother had 8 kids. And then there's 19 grand kids in total. The majority of us grand kids are above 30 and out of the 19 grand kids only 4 have 1 kid each. Such a shift!

@ct5766

Жыл бұрын

It’s more complicated than that because the kids you have today will be the ones funding the retirement of your generation and take care of you when you’re old. In many western countries the senior boom is a huge problem, especially as people live longer. If you don’t have children it will have a great impact on how comfortable your last decades will be. I can speak from experience working in the medical field: unless they’re rich, childless old people are by far the most vulnerable. And this is a vicious circle because the older the population gets, the more taxed and pressured to produce are the younger generation which means even less opportunity to afford kids.

nice edit cut. all have good points and the best comments near the end of the video. 12:22 the best one is also the quickest, easiest, and most effective, reduce work hours by force and certainly limit overtime. while the immediate effect is less income, long term, it will level off and companies would have to find more workers. once they ask of more workers, immigration will then move.

Before having a child one should be financially stable, mentally and emotionally prepared. If you can't take care of yourself then it's not yet the time to have a child. I salute those people who think about what future they can give a child before having one. I mean the world today is very stressing what if your child ask you one day why you gave birth to him/her if you can't support them morally, financially and emotionally? what answer can you give?

@earlysda

Жыл бұрын

nnehx, Please read a history book.

@merry6oround144

Жыл бұрын

I wish my parents think like u before giving birth😭😭😭they only thought abt if they could support me financially. All they do after coming home from work is have their eyes glued to the computer for another few hours. Though I grow up enjoying a material life, I can barely hear my parents laugh throughout my whole life. I can’t describe how depressing it is to have no one talks with me and attends to my emotionall well being. Growing up in this dysfunctional family, not only do I find myself having difficulties in communication but also end up spending their hard earned money on therapy sessions and antidepressants…

@djiedragon

Жыл бұрын

@@merry6oround144 i can feel you

@sammayer3332

Жыл бұрын

With the way of thinking, human being is gonna die

@mihotsubaki8892

Жыл бұрын

Welcome to antinatalism

I wish my parents thought more like this before having me. They didn't have financial stability so I grew up hardly eating and living in poverty. I asked them why they had me and they said, "is it wrong for me to want my own child?"

@melissam597

Жыл бұрын

Wow that’s selfish! Hope your life is in a better place now.

@gabgarcia5446

Жыл бұрын

1 child and not financially stable yet? Just 1? That’s good judgement as they knew more than 1 would be very difficult. Consider decisions made by thousands in the US that have 3,4,5 or 6. They live in inner cities and are single parent households. Also many that come across our borders start families immediately. Again 2,3,4,5,6 kids with little financial stability. As compared to the US, those Japanese parents that had just 1 kid are quite responsible

@mayshusakuhanamurasufferli5438

Жыл бұрын

Most ppl are just selfish lmao

@cjnem7243

Жыл бұрын

@@s.taylor2545 in my country they see their children as an investment if they get old their children will take care of them or the reason to get them out of poverty.

@mayshusakuhanamurasufferli5438

Жыл бұрын

@panko hug

They are so polite in how they speak

I'm astonished by the quality of most answers given by almost everyone.

having children for the sole purpose of standing to benefit FROM THEM IN THE FUTURE is so toxic. i was born precisely because my mom wanted financial security in her late years. since the age of 4 i wondered why i was alive and never felt loved the way it should be. everything i was made to do was so i could be successful in the future-- but not for myself; so i could have money to give her. do not do this to your kids.

@bunnyx2819

Жыл бұрын

I don't think it's toxic it probably depends on your mindset and parents. I'm from a family of seven and we are Five girls with no boy except my dad of course. My Mom and Dad Loves us...yes they may yell at us beat us sometimes ( Especially if we f*cked up pretty badly. I'm African and it is not a crime to beat your children so don't start talking to me about "child abuse") My Dad came from a very poor family that had Eight kids, My grandparents worked so hard to train them, My dad was a very intelligent individual and always topped the class. He didn't know if he will be able to go to university but still prepared a lot for the National Exams And got a record breaking result in the entire state! Long story short he got a scholarship to the premiere University of my country and is a well know Pharmacist,Business Consultant and Salesperson. Out of all Eight children my dad was the only one that turned out great. He now takes care of our Diabetic 86 year old grandma by buying her those very expensive medicine to treat her condition and sending her spending money from time to time. If not for my dad she would have died long ago. Because the rest of her so called children couldn't even care less. Anyway I'm saying this story to tell you that your parents don't mean any harm by wanting you to be Economically strong and successful. Even if they are being greedy you still have to help them. After all it doesn't change the fact they went through blood,sweat and tears to raise you. It is after all your OBLIGATION!🙂

@renek2913

Жыл бұрын

@@bunnyx2819 you are wrong. It's never a children's obligation to do whatever their parents want just cus their parents raise them up. By that logic, i can raise a kid and then whack them with a rod till they die cus I took care of them. I dont care, just because it's not considered a crime to beat your children in your country doesn't mean it is not CHILD ABUSE. You can try to sugarcoat however you want but it is what it is. And child abuse is a crime in so many countries even in Asian countries.

@dystopia4755

Жыл бұрын

@@bunnyx2819 the oc comment is actually relatable, ik parents who treat their kids like future investments. Wanting ur kid to succeed vs. wanting to milk money out of them are two different things. There are bad kids, but there are also lots of bad parents and generational trauma. Also, if you think beating up kids is not child abuse then idk what is haha, that's literally the meaning of child abuse but if that's love for you then I won't judge.

@homeland1128

Жыл бұрын

*T H I S*

@teddybearcloud

Жыл бұрын

@@bunnyx2819 the point of my post was precisely because of the so-called OBLIGATION you highlighted. i want to be filial because i should be raised right that way and out of love for my parents, not because they made me with my only purpose in life being to serve my parents needs.

There's three points that need to be addressed in order for Japanese people to be able to build families: 1) Better life-work balance. (Reduce work hours and put a ban on coerced overtime.) 2) Decrease the cost of living and taxes, and increase salaries. 3) Implement various programs to disincentivize solitary activities and encourage group activities.

@fulty6305

Жыл бұрын

Nah this wont result in it. More liberal working hours and cost of living wont change anything. its a cultural issue rather than a socio economic one. i think the reason japan wants remilitarization is that the government knows that japan is lacking a sense of nationalism. you must also remember japan has a large portion of its population being athiest/agnostic so most of its economic and social development comes from long and massive projects that embrace nationalism/facism. this is the way the world is heading... sad but true... we need a reason to live, a reason to reproduce, a reason to love our country; even if it is all delusion and tribalism...

@Stelmaria38

Жыл бұрын

4) allow women to come back to the workforce and don't expect them to be SAHM.

@AR-rg2en

Жыл бұрын

I agree, but this won’t fix the major issue. People’s mentality. A wide reaching propaganda campaign is needed to shift the next generation’s mindset towards a family oriented conservative mindset. Not an ideal solution, but this is the major issue.

@AR-rg2en

Жыл бұрын

@@fulty6305 yeah this is the major issue.

@febrian6933

Жыл бұрын

With debt to GDP ratio...japan must work hard. Their population is the one who carry the burden of debt. So, first they need to restructurize their debt to GDP ratio.

All of these people, regardless of their opinions, are quite conscious of these issues and articulate as well! That’s great.

It's funny how the senior on 2:20 said all young people do nowadays is have fun. I'd say it ain't just fun when the cost of living has increased so drastically and our generation copes with all the drama just differently, while trying to come to terms with the realities of the day. It's not easy raising a kid when you're on a 9 to 5 especially. So many young people are going through this and it's even harder to fathom when they are misunderstood.

I think this is a problem that most advanced nations will / already face but Japan and Korea are in the forefront. People's priorities are shifting and some are actively choosing not to have kids because they want to live their own life. Besides personal choice, it's just simply too expensive to have kids. Whilst government policies can definitely help support people wanting to have babies, there needs to be a huge societal shift as well - e.g. mum's should not be the sole carer, and companies need to let people take parental leave without pressure / impact to career progression.

@cocaineminor4420

Жыл бұрын

South Korea latest is 5.7 it's not 0.8 no more.

@fundash5124

Жыл бұрын

That is true what you're saying.

@earlysda

Жыл бұрын

It's not too expensive to have kids. Parents expectations of what they want is too high. Look at history when poor people had many children.

@claire4212

Жыл бұрын

@@cocaineminor4420 what's 5.7 and 0.8?

@zariaeda007

Жыл бұрын

@@earlysda It is expensive. Housing is expensive in certain areas. If you can't afford rent then you live on the streets. In poor countries you are allowed to build any sort of housing that you can. You can't do that in a lot of other countries so you have to pay rent or you live on the streets.

That transition on 2:45 is perfect. No hate for that old lady, but her words how young people do nothing but selfishly have fun, and then cut to these 3 young guys talking all serious about economical instability and how people can't provide safe raising conditions for potential children... It's not that people became selfish. People are people no matter what era we live in. What changes is our realities, world around. And world around right now is very, very unstable and unfair for people rising into adulthood.

@roxas4587

Жыл бұрын

why do you think Japan has had such economic growth since the world war, but has such a low birth rate, even less than the world wars & economic collapse? maybe they just have a higher standard of life which isn't sustainable in terms of longevity.

@PandaPanda-lm7vx

Жыл бұрын

@@roxas4587 they do have a higher standard of life... but other countries do, too. for example - the USA - and yet the USA doesn't have nearly the same issue as Japan in terms of births. However, the USA has their own problem of a standard of living that is unsustainable for the environment and the economy.

@roxas4587

Жыл бұрын

@@PandaPanda-lm7vx USA standard of living is much much lower than Japan's believe it or not. maybe countries like Finland could be an example. but not USA.

@el3ndir97

Жыл бұрын

US is not even close to Finland in living standards We haw here heating, clean drinkable running water, internet, schools, etc everywhere even in most backwater town in lapland. Gap is huge US is 3rd world country but whit nukes I haw been living both countries i was shocked how evolved they are

@PandaPanda-lm7vx

Жыл бұрын

@@el3ndir97 USA, by definition, is not a third world country. That statement in itself is false. Whether you’d like to argue the state of civil rights or politics is another issue, or the state of affairs concerning quality of life, but saying the US is a third world country simply isn’t true.

It's a mixture of factors, of course. Global economical crisis, the messy environmental changes, the less overall socialization mixed with anxiety and high expectations, less time to dedicate to themselves and/or to family/friends because of strict/weird work schedules, the wars, the overall worse mental state of people, the controversial impact of social media (in particular in youngsters), the criminality, and the overall uncertainty of the fate of the world. And, on top of that, there are the people like me, who simply want to keep the most time possible for themselves in a world that literally steals it from your hands. And I'm lazy lol

It's always funny to hear older generations comment on us as "selfish" if we don't want to have kids. They were living in a time when there were no other ways, and they had to have kids, which doesn't remotely mean that they are "selfless".

you see men are more obsessed with carrying on their lineage. have u ever heard a woman saying that? why? simply because their last names will be passed down and they feel a sense of accomplishment knowing their golden dna has created a new life? as a woman in my mid 20s im not ready to give up my freedom and happiness and have my life revolve around a crying baby that needs me to feed it every 3-4 hours. cracked bleeding nipples, lack of sleep, no break away from the baby. your life will be changed forever. when the baby becomes a toddler guess who has to bring the child to kindergarten and swimming classes and art classes. i dont want to destroy my body with pregnancy and have lifelong pain when i already cannot handle period pains every month... men talk about having children like its easy because who gives up a career to be the full time caregiver? who has to be around the crying child 24/7? its still traditionally expected that moms should stay at home to take care of the baby. if the parents hire a nanny and the wife goes on to work, people look at them and say, wow what a bad mom, not taking care of her own child.

@teddybearcloud

Жыл бұрын

@@s.taylor2545 all the best and i hope you find a partner that wants to be childfree ❤️

@Waterbug1591

Жыл бұрын

why is it all about you you you you you you? The world doesn't revolve around you that's for sure. Keep having your 20s fun until you hit your 30s and end up being a leftover woman with 90% of your eggs gone you'll regret about your life choices now only caring about your fun.

@mewv3

Жыл бұрын

@@Waterbug1591 lol keep projecting. Why does it bother you what this person wants to do with their life? Also, 'leftover woman'? Are you an idiot? People can have fulfilling lives without having children, it depends on what kind of person you are.

@visibleuser6895

Жыл бұрын

@@Waterbug1591 Give me the reason why

@Waterbug1591

Жыл бұрын

@@visibleuser6895 why what?

Both genders work long hours, no time nor energy nor financial means to get married and make babies. The rampant reliance on social media isn't helping either. Not sure if the old lady's comment is true - that young people just think for themselves. I think that's probably the symptom, not the cause. They need to let out the unprecedented stress.

@RCRDC_handlesarepoopoo

Жыл бұрын

"..that's probably the symptom, not the cause." Spot on. Can't expect people to start families when they can barely support themselves.

@Im-fq1mn

Жыл бұрын

You and your Koreanbos should read the world birth rate data　2021 Japan's birth rate is higher than Spain and Italy.

@MrAnonymousRandom

Жыл бұрын

The old lady is playing a dangerous game by judging the people who are paying for her old age social benefits. If all the young people decided to leave the country, there will be no one to pay into the social safety net.

@hnlpharmd

Жыл бұрын

@@MrAnonymousRandom And I suspect you have a habit of judging older people as well. Indeed, the only "ism" that is acceptable, and even encouraged, nowadays, is ageism, with countless people on social media rooting for boomers and older folks to die on a daily basis. I suspect this know-it-all, prideful spitefulness will bite younger folks in the ass in the end, and I wish them nothing but abject misery and suffering for their hatred of older generations.

@superpenguil

Жыл бұрын

@@hnlpharmd u sound really salty when all he said was about the old lady and not older ppl in general

i don't understand why people are obsessed with keeping up the family line💀 if birth rates lower then so be it we already have 8B people on earth why do you want more people to be born? it's not like the earth is such a great place to live in. It's so shitty i wish i was never born and I'm never bringing another innocent child to suffer either.

I'm just curious: is it a worldwide thing that prices are growing, yet salaries stay the same? I've noticed it in my country for a long time, and hearing that man say something along these lines in this video raised this question for me

The opinion from the younger generation is universal. How can you work on settling down and raising a family of your own if you have hard time taking care of your personal issues plus environment and fast-paced trends. Raising a family involves time, money, and dedication. Know what to prioritize. Do not listen to Musk, that dude is a babymaker. Not all financially successful personalities have a happy life.

@mndsph4530

Жыл бұрын

@Jase oh my, talking about irresponsible, selfish parents that drag their own children into their own misery and turning these children into their safety net and emotional punching bag, this hits home for me

@renek2913

Жыл бұрын

Elon musk is a nutcase. What does he know when he comes from a rich family and able to afford an army of nannies to look after his kids. Seeing how one of his children wanting to cut ties with him just proves how shitty of a parent he is.

@actual_doge3221

Жыл бұрын

@@mndsph4530 It hits home for many MANY people over the internet who have learned that that is not the normal thing to expect. When they find out their family is messed up they dont want to make children, it is the very last thing they want.

@missmimi6817

Жыл бұрын

Elon is a mogul with shitloads of cash and thinks is his job to populate earth. The man is smart only when it comes to making money nothing more. Stop listening to him

@starryburst863

Жыл бұрын

Didn't one of Musk's kids literally disown him? Like, genuinely stops considering him as a father? I mean if he wants to be a baby factory then go for it - but it's clear that he's not exactly a good dad and his opinions should not be taken as a rule. Like, say what you want about Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg, and Bill Gates - their kids seem to have a good relationship with their parents.

Dude, this problem is not only showing in Japan, it's a global thing, just that Japan is feeling it more now. This generation don't want kids they can't provide for, i for one won't even think of kids if I'm not financially stable. I'll be so heartbroken if my kid comes to me saying they want to take ballet class and I'm like " i can't afford it so watch KZread videos". Thinking of that short dialogue even breaks my heart.

@clark2501

Жыл бұрын

@visitor _t there needs to be a balance though. Not having 5+ kids and opting for 2-4 is better considering the odds are high they’ll all make it to adulthood. However people are more and more having 2 or less kids, which is at or below replacement level, for a multitude of reasons. Eventually, we’re gonna run into a situation where a majority of the population is too old to work/work efficiently and there aren’t enough younger people to sustain them. It’ll lead to the economy being even worse than it already is, if not a total collapse.

@CS-et4fs

Жыл бұрын

They feel more because they are more well educated, considerate and responsible. Whereas America teen for example, pop a baby out on a daily basic to a point that they create laws to prevent abortion. Im not specifically attack America, just happen to be the most popular country. The problem is that the world is overpopulate. Not enough resources to let everyone live a good life, so we have to compete against each other very badly

@Gr8fulSunflowr

Жыл бұрын

​@@CS-et4fsUS birth rates are down right now too actually, due to the same issues of wage stagnation vs the cost of living, and the abortion bans are because of the rise in ultra-conservative religious policymakers following Trump, not because of "teens popping out babies every day". Teen birth rates have been declining in the US since 1991 and reached historic lows in 2022 actually. The far-right is destroying the US in many different ways currently, and overturning our right to reproductive healthcare is just one small part of it.

@theultimatereductionist7592

10 ай бұрын

​ @Random17Game Stop talking about people CHOOSING to breed and force death and hardship and suffering onto their children as though it is ANYONE's or ANYTHING's responsibility BUT THEIR OWN. Culture nationalism are NO excuse. PHYSICAL CONSEQUENCES are deterministic. What people CHOOSE to do - POLITICS -- is NOT.

@Retrofire-47

6 ай бұрын

[controversial take] maybe the old philosophy of giving ur child all these fancy gifts/services is now being outmoded? arguably throughout human history the father would teach the son skills, or the son would be self-taught through experience. Why do you need a ballot class? get her some tap shoes and teach her yourself?? rhetorical

As an 18 year old living in japan it's a lot of pressure for younger generations to raise a kid when you have a lot of things to pay and got nothing to earn ,i work 6 days a week and barely living my life freely . I also agree to not have children on my own i barely saw my dad growing up he's workaholic, seeing my self having kids doesn't suit me at all since i want my kid to have a mom who's always present i hope japan would be a country who puts happiness first instead of a life we don't want for ourselves as a half japanese i always struggle if i should leave my country or i shouldn't because if i stay in japan i'll be working my life away

All these comments gives me a lot of hope for japan's future tbh. I don't the world we'll be out of babies, Japan is no exception. But hearing people wanting to Japan to be global and have even less working hours is just a good sign they're actually willing to make a change from within. It's time to open up frontier and let more foreigners to live there with more easier policies.

Perhaps Elon Musk should tell his CEO friends to start paying people more and stop working them to death here and in Japan. It's the economics.

@destro5451

Жыл бұрын

Then how will he go Mars?

@fasameijer794

Жыл бұрын

@@destro5451 😅😅😅😅😅😅

@chaitanyavarada6737

Жыл бұрын

Perhaps he could start with his own company

@phantomplex

Жыл бұрын

It is not so simple. There is a problem called inflation and mismatch. I remember that Nike wanted to increase the salary of its foreign workers and the governments of those countries sent them letters so that it would not be like that, "a worker cannot earn more than a doctor, that will generate a labor imbalance", and it is true. Because if they slowed down the pace of work, they would lose competitiveness in globalization. It's a pretty complicated problem tbh.

@jowsonjgong8303

Жыл бұрын

@@phantomplex do you have a source?

"The young people today , all they do is have fun" I think it's just that many became educated and we think of what future we can give the child. I mean there is no perfect parents but the youths nowadays are aware of what is happening, the social problems that the Government does not even give a solution, especially here in my country.

@user-hy9hi1cm4s

Жыл бұрын

Those parents who give birth to children without considering their ability to provide a better life for them, are "having fun", literally, ln their beds. Birth control needs self control, while cream pieing does not.

@hydrazine799

Жыл бұрын

The old lady is out of touch with the current situation the youths are facing.

@arigabou

Жыл бұрын

No in fact its because japanese until about like the age of 18-19, they live in a environment thats not realistic. Schools dont allow any kind of self expression or whatever. You would think 19 is an age of adult, but thats really not the case here.

@yellowbeez93

Жыл бұрын

"I *think* it's just that many became educated" The problem here is, you're using your opinion to claim about something that you don't have evidence to. Many became educated? Every kids goes to school, there's no such thing as "many/less are educated". What would make sense is the LEVEL of education one goes through or how much they are able to understand certain things in life.

@kojot8973

Жыл бұрын

in what you invest your time is what you have

All valid points of view. I agree with the last glasses wearing gent, finances are one thing but the work culture in Japan is very strict and though productivity is needful for viability in competitive markets, family life is also important. Folks in government may need to reasses and create new initiatives to the work culture lest the immigrant workforce follow the same work habits and they may not also want to have kids due to economic and social factors. ところで、日本が恋しいしてるんで、戻りたい

Having children is a commitment both finically and time. There are a lot of variables to look at but at the end it comes down to if you’re willing to face that uncertainty. Your going to feel like you dont have enough to raise a child, your going to feel like your not being a good parent or partner. I think their government and their current society has to do a lot with it… In the West, we also have this issue, even tho we’re not as far down the birth rate as Japan because immigration helps to boost our number but eventually their both rates will go down because how we have structured family law, work life balance, wages and so on… Aside from developing countries, all developed countries share this concern… We shouldn’t treat Japan as the odd ball and put most of the issues on young men and women when their environment is vastly different from prior generations

Work culture in japan NEEDS to change, I know the government has stepped in to force people to take vacation but they need to do more. They really need to force companies to stop over working people to death. They need to limit workhours to 50-60 hours a week and also step in help couples afford housing! The salary and housing cost is bad in Japan.

@Aerex12

Жыл бұрын

If only Japan will drop the Bushido mindeset I dont think that is going to happen.

@Lancorian

Жыл бұрын

Lol, they should reduce it to 40 a week. Every extra working hour should be compensated by extra payment or by extra free time.

@renek2913

Жыл бұрын

@what I don't think korea is dropping their senority system any time soon

@nd8644

Жыл бұрын

@what what happened with this pilot story ?

@dr.livesey7595

Жыл бұрын

And then how do you support the older Population? They want us to do the same stuff in Germany. The older generation didnt have enough children and now the goverment is advocating the smaller Younger Population needs to Work more to Support the older generation

People say birth rate like they’re not considering that it’s actually women who have to suffer a great deal to carry, birth and breast feed babies - is it possible that women would like to focus on themselves alone and enjoy the one life they get without baby anchors tied around them.

@renek2913

Жыл бұрын

@@s.taylor2545 always the men who think a women sole's purpose is to bear a child for them. Good thing I decided to stay childfree

@unatco6554

Жыл бұрын

your ancestors werent selfish women who thought about happy hour and new shoes instead of creating families and taking care of them. You will enjoy it until your mid 30s (if you arent there already) and then start coping as you will likely have to depend on cats and boxed wine to keep you sane. Then when you get old who will look after you? All important questions to ask yourself. You wont be a young woman forever.

@renek2913

Жыл бұрын

@@unatco6554 so your idea of having kids is just so you have someone taking care of you? Even more selfish

@parodyofgreatness2829

Жыл бұрын

@@unatco6554 Terrible reasoning for having children. And not even a true issue anymore. Younger generations usually tend to take better care of themselves through healthy diets, exercise and a more active life altogether. We will age slower and better than our parents and grandparents. Of course there are diseases and other unexpected factors that could affect mobility and lucidity, but even for those who have children it's not a guarantee that they will take care of you. Take good care of yourself, invest your money wisely and hope for the best. There will also be plenty of older childless friends to support each other. I will not make children expecting them to be nurses and caretakers, that's preposterous.

@kainightshade5033

Жыл бұрын

@@s.taylor2545 LOL yeah. Men and older people always have the surprised Pikachu face whenever a woman says she doesn't want children. I am not against having kids but I will not raise them in lowkey shitty conditions like I was just for the sake of it. Whenever I have kids, I want to provide them with the very best I can. And I'm finishing Medical school first. Like, no question 😂

I believe that instead of living individually if they cohabitate with their family it would solve a lot of problems like your parents can take care of your child and several people working together can make the household financially stable.

@hnlpharmd

Жыл бұрын

A lot of Japanese young people do this anyway, which really pokes a hole in the finance/child care excuse so many give. It's clearly about wanting to continue an adolescent-like existence of minimal responsibility.

@hanalala3164

Жыл бұрын

@@hnlpharmd yeah it's great. I wanna live like an adolescent 4ever

There’s one of many reasons first the “lost generation”, a generation of people didn’t get a career job due to a recession, that in turn made the age gap in the work force significant and the way the Japanese structure work they couldn’t just reapply. There has been a increase in laziness in Japan mainly the males where they are just shut ins. The education to a career job transition is way to strict and overwhelming in all Asian countries. Living expenses everywhere are increasing due to Covid. There’s many more but that’ll be a bit too much

People blaming feminism when feminism is the least popular thing in ASIA.

@paochongloi596

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂🤭🤭🤭🤭 WAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAH 賛成です!

@merc2796

Жыл бұрын

70% of the men in Japanese are more feminine than West what are you saying

@missingno88

Жыл бұрын

feminism is the reason why women have to go into the workforce now, salaries and higher cost of living also mean men cant be the sole bread earners which has exacerbated things

@cheeryberrie

5 ай бұрын

​@@missingno88 then earn more, the reason women work nowadays is due to feminism AND the fact that males are too poor to afford anything let alone a house. Yet they expect women to be housewife to males

What’s weird is that many countries are moving toward this kind of situation if they already aren’t in one. Everything gets more expensive but power to purchase does not rise enough to match it. People can’t afford to buy a house or have children but they have enough to let themselves have fun and enjoy the present.

@Umeshukitsune

Жыл бұрын

Preach.

@Retrofire-47

6 ай бұрын

Post-scarcity is coming... ppl in the vid are talkin' bout "labor". The age of automation is here - no more labor [soon]. Then no more resource scarcity, money is passé. Maybe u get credits. arguably this "population bust" is an omen of change. research population demographics and no one really knows what happens after the post-industrial phase

Nice video

i think being financially stable has something to do with it, but also working long hours has something to do with it. having lived and worked in corporate japan for 2 years, work hours were demanding and provided little time to socialize or to have any "me time". i can see why younger generations are having less children. but i don't think japan will ever not exist. even though birth rates are lower than death rates, there will probably still be enough births to keep japan going.

Money and stable jobs are just two of the major problems in decreased births. This problem is not exclusive to Japan. The U.S., S. Korea and others face the same problem.

From rising food prices and living expenses to a worsening climate and more droughts occurring throughout the world, who in their right mind would want to bring more children into this world?

@koenvanwijk2605

Жыл бұрын

I think not having any kids can be detrimental to you. Humans thrive on long term goals, if you have nothing to pursue life will become boring. And boredom can lead to substance abuse and a whole range of nasty things. But if you have a really big goal set out for you, then I guess that can give fulfillment as well.

@lizzie7929

Жыл бұрын

Yes, that's a concern

@g_c6668

Жыл бұрын

@@koenvanwijk2605 using kids for motivation, for a purpose in life, or to avoid life being detrimental to you is ethically dubious. The less children the better the quality of life for those children (earth's resources are finite), and the slower climate change will happen etc

@koenvanwijk2605

Жыл бұрын

@@g_c6668 Not saying it is the reason to have kids. But having kids will give you and those around you purpose, to deny that is just bad faith. What are you doing about climate change to have a positive impact? Aside from telling people to stop having kids.

@g_c6668

Жыл бұрын

@@koenvanwijk2605 There's not much I can do about climate change, I don't have the solution to turn it around. I am not having kids to suffer the consequences of climate change though. I love my potential kids too much to do that.

It's not just Japanese, other countries as well. I have one kid and I don't want anymore. He is so sweet and adorable, and also very time consuming. If I can't provide the best, I won't give birth. I choose to devote my time and attention to my child. People kept talking me into have a second child and I told them straight No No No. They finally take no after so many years. It's not their business, because they won't contribute any financial to my family. People can talk talk talk, when it comes to money, everyone runs away. Plus, if I have more children, we can't travel everywhere we want. Back then, I remember people get shamed for just being pregnant.

I feel having or not having kids is an end result of questions that need to be asked starting with do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend and if not are you actively looking and if not...why not?

That grandma is savage 😆

@pahis1248

Жыл бұрын

I´v kind of have this talk with my mom in Finland many times XD

It's the same issue in Korea and China, where women are expected to be the main caregiver. So imagine both boys and girls going through the same education system and putting in decade of hard work to gain all the knowledge and aspiration. Then when it comes to creating a family, women face voices telling them their options are either be a worker and a main caregiver, or let go entirely their decade(s) of hard work to be a SAHP (if they WANT to be one, good for them). They also end up losing financial independence etc. Childcare options are also scarce. Nothing is fair in life, but upon hearing that unfair future, not everyone will be willing to jump onboard.

@fundash5124

Жыл бұрын

My country is poor but a lot of young people are having children and that is causing my country to be overpopulated and it's also causing my country to have brain drain and woman are not staying home and taking care of the children they are working same as the father taking care of the children. That is the main problem people want the mothers to stay home only and take care of the children they want them to give up their careers and people will not or do not want to do that.

@shinratensei5305

Жыл бұрын

These so-called countries are defined as "developed countries", but I think the developed country should be called a developed country both economically and socially. It is absurd to call a country where women are still in the second place developed

@therealgrimreaper68

Жыл бұрын

With today's living costs, only the very wealthy can afford single parent income. Even if women want to be SAHM, they might be able to do that financially.

@rockyshocks101

Жыл бұрын

Yes, 100% agree. Even in the US, this is an issue. With more female college grads and yet they're also expected to be the main caregiver.

@arnavnandedkar3080

Жыл бұрын

@@rockyshocks101 women are expected to be the caregivers because it is biological. We are mammals and in 99 percent of the mammalian species the male is the hunter and the female is the caregiver. People hate it but it's the truth.

that old lady said the truth.

Japan is very crowded, it's about the size of California with 3 times the people, it can stand to decrease in population, plus their birthrate isn't great but it's not disastrous like it is in Korea. If they want to improve rates they need to have more remote work so that people can live in more rural areas. It's completely understandable why people in a place like Tokyo lose the desire to have kids, it's like living in that Rat Utopia experiment. People need space!

I'm always amazed by elders who accuse us of being selfish when their greed has ruined the environment and the economy for future generations, the most astoundingly selfish act of all. Edit: by greed I mean elders have overwhelmingly voted for policies that conserve their generation's wealth at the cost of educational and environmental policies such as renewable energy, housing, immigration and wealth redistribution that benefit future generations. Japan in particular has a HUGE problem with this; politicians ignore the progressive youth to appease the conservative, rapidly ageing population that keeps them in power. The world they have prepared for us sucks.

@cris_here

Жыл бұрын

Do you mean greed in deciding to have children? Bc what makes elders greedy?

@gogogolyra1340

Жыл бұрын

Huh? I thought the youngsters are the consumerist

@AjaySingh-hr6nb

Жыл бұрын

You know almost all the infrastructure and technology we have is because of them, you can't blame any generation, they did the best they could.

@kathybradbury

Жыл бұрын

People tend to become politically conservative as they age (grow in wisdom). Many struggled to provide when their children were young, but hard physical labor was the norm. The younger generation is culturally separated from the land, and lacks basic living skills people had to have to survive 50 years ago. Your idea of “wealth redistribution” and blaming the “older generation” for “ruining the earth” shows you lack insight. There are just a few very wealthy families who own most of the corporations today. THEY are the ones bribing our politicians, polluting, and hoarding resources. Wake up.

@earlysda

Жыл бұрын

G J sounds bitter that the elderly lady was correct in her analysis of the younger generation.

Can't speak to Japan personally, but where I'm from a house needs to be a million+ $$$, wages are from the 1970's, and corporations matter to politicians more than the people who voted them in!

@jimimased1894

Жыл бұрын

aussie

@merry_christmas

Жыл бұрын

Dutch. Same here.

Oppeye... nice, gotta buy that shirt when I visit Japan

Why bring child in this unhappy world ?

@arunshankars8398

Жыл бұрын

Yes, why bring a new life into an already overpopulated, polluted, uncertain world? And I shudder to think what will happen if the baby is sick in some way. Better to be child free and retire by 40 than slog till sixty. 😂

This was very interesting, I didn't know this was happening in Japan. The interviewees gave answers that were well rounded on the birth rate situation such as economic, individual, and social aspects. I agree with the economy aspect of it, you can't just increase one thing without increasing (or decreasing) the other. Very informative, Nice Job👍

I love the street interviews with every people. Keep this up. Thank you! 👏🏼

I've heard recently that overworked is one of the problems that Japanese are facing. Absolutely, it can be considered as one of the factors for this, beside house pricing or prices, financial stability or secured job and more.

People are finally free to decide against having children without being constantly judged by society, their parents, etc. And that's a good thing, because there is absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting children for whatever reason.

@zeynepzeynep1571

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, I really needed to hear this today🙌🏻 Even you can't escape society's or parents's judgement...

@snorkchop8134

Жыл бұрын

@@zeynepzeynep1571 It's OK not to. Having children is a choice. I understand this as a Christian. God leaves it as a choice that is not imposed upon us. Some people have children who shouldn't and end up unhappy... then the children are miserable, too. That's not fair.

@zeynepzeynep1571

Жыл бұрын

@@snorkchop8134 You're absolutely right! but sometimes I wonder if I think too much, other people not give a second thought, they're getting married or having children easily. I had a difficult childhood and I don't like children that much, but it doesn't get easier to be judged CONSTANTLY by anyone and everyone. Thank you darling❤

@snorkchop8134

Жыл бұрын

@@zeynepzeynep1571 It's true that some people don't give these things a second thought, and that's actually pretty dangerous. My grandma and grandpa didn't give it a second thought either. They didn't listen to God's will or timing. They weren't meant to be together, hated each other, abused my mom and aunt. There were times my mom was near starvation because they never had any food, let alone clothes or soap, and my grandparents didn't care. God never intended that life for my mom... or my grandparents. People act like you should just throw caution to the wind and do whatever seems OK. Please don't listen to them. It's a bad idea. Trust me, you are most definitely not thinking too much. If you are meant to, you'll know deep down inside. If you ever decide you want to, remember in that case that if you came to God through Christ, and waited on His timing, He would provide and have a specific plan for it, so that you wouldn't have to do it the wrong way. If you decide to never have kids, that's fine. There's more to this life than that! :) I hope you're well!

@zeynepzeynep1571

Жыл бұрын

@@snorkchop8134 I'm so sorry they had to go through this that's terrible! Thank you so much again your wise words dear, means a lot... ❤

As a person with kids, what the guy in 3:25 is saying, is absolutely correct. Better quality than quantity. We don't want the next generation to be like "the bubbles in the sea", so many yet so easily washed away.

@Polymerata

Жыл бұрын

And be popped And be forgotten on the Data Books

I am a Korean woman. My opinion on this issue is that if you get married and have a child, both men and women have a harder life. You should spend a lot of your time and money on your child. And in Korea, when raising a child, you have to raise it in many competitions. In addition, if I raise a child, the pressure to raise it really well makes me think that I am not qualified to have a child. In the media, a rich couple comes out and raises their children in luxury, and I think that's a bad influence on Korea's fertility rate. I compare myself to others and think about whether I deserve to have a child or if I can make the child happy. In the past, men worked for money and women worked at home and raised children. But these days, most women work in society, too. In Europe, even if men and women work together, childcare welfare is very good, so it does not adversely affect the fertility rate. And Europe has less competition for child education than East Asia. The government should create a society and welfare where people will not worry about having children

@southcoastinventors6583

Жыл бұрын

Move to the US if you want a easy life many young people here are allergic. There always room for more.

@phantomapprentice6749

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so open about this.

@SiriProject

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you, but here in Europe there's also a very bad fertility rate because housing is ultra expensive and wages are low.

@tammy2234

Жыл бұрын

유럽에 안살아봐서 모르는거 같은데 출산률 하락은 유럽 미국 포함 모든 나라들의 골칫거리입니다

@user-pt9zn1lo6l

Жыл бұрын

@@tammy2234 프랑스 같은 나라는 출산율이 한국의 두배더라구요. 더 찾아보니 이민자들 덕이라는 말이 있네요. 유럽 국가가 육아복지면에서 한국보다 더 좋은 건 맞는 말이라 단순 통계를 보고 이야기한 건 맞아요. 그쪽 말이 맞는 부분도 있지만 안살아봐서 모르겠지만 이란 말은 좀 웃기게 들리네요.반대로 그 나라에 산다고 해서 모든 걸 다 아는 것도 아닌데 말이죠.

Honestly, those 3 dudes hit the nail on the head. It's the same in my country, and I would imagine it's the same in a lot of others as well. Where I am from, single people can barely support themselves even with their family's support. Wages are so god damn low that even people with degrees like architects have to work secondary jobs like uber. Jobs are becoming more demanding as well. You have to do the job of 3 other people for a fraction of the pay. Employers have zero respect for you and your privacy\off time. They demand your attention even after work hours. Working overtime is the new norm, even though companies don't say it, it's implied. Jobs feel like slavery these days.

Fewer birth rate will lead to less competition for getting a job and house price declining (less demand of house in the future), which are good for young future generation

6:03 where the dude says he's the only child and doesn't want to end his family lineage. Me also being the only child, I always think with the powers I have, I should definitely end my part of the family lineage 😂😂

@Phoenixxxxxxxxy

Жыл бұрын

Hahahaha

@heybear7271

Жыл бұрын

lolooolllloooool

That lady saying that young people just want to have fun is so detached from the reality… how is barely making a living with bleak future prospects considered fun. Not to mention a lot of people nowadays deal with psychological issues. Older generation messed up and are a still blaming younger people who have to bear responsibility for the problems older generation generated

As a 38 years old guy/uncle I am exactly what the old lady says but I am from different Era where everything was cheap and all the cars I love when I was teenager is affordable but I don't think it is the same for youngsters nowdays hobbies are getting more expensive and the average pay is almost the same as 2002 or nearer I still think these youngsters still had time. For me it is the people near my age that aren't really contributing the birthrate because we get all the good thing i mean for example I am maybe 37 and single but I got couple houses and 4 cars it just shows that people at my era can take full advantage of our time and just enjoy ourself lol

Very intresting too see. In sweden We have many different ekonomic help to get more children born. We also have large immigration to Sweden from middle East and afrika. That have caused some problems. Such as criminality. And some do not work after many years i our contry.

Due to high cost of caring for children. From pregnancy until college

It's the same everywhere. Due to the labor market, for your child to have a good life they need to go to college and that's expensive. Since people have moved off the farm into cities, kids are not a source of labor but instead an economic drag on the household. Parents also need to sock away a large amount for retirement. Japan should treat this as a national security issue. If as a nation they can get their birth rate up, they will be much better off than their Korean and Chinese neighbors.

@linkskywalker5417

Жыл бұрын

Here's the problem... It's not just the quantity, but also the quality of the next generation that matters. Do we want jerks and bitches for the next generation of mankind? Will people not just pass on their values onto kids just because it's their values? Why should the next generation become obsessed with the darkness when the light that is Jesus Christ will guide them?

@JWPanimation

Жыл бұрын

@@BrendanRaymondKoroKoro agree, that the politicians serve their corporate and industrial patrons. And those captains of industry keep driving us towards something that may soon not even need us.

@josebenardi1554

Жыл бұрын

@@linkskywalker5417 wtf

@linkskywalker5417

Жыл бұрын

@@josebenardi1554 What do you mean?

@blagoevski336

Жыл бұрын

@@linkskywalker5417 no

Meanwhile people in the Philippines keep making babies, without even thinking if they can really raise it especially on the financial aspect. They'll just say, every child is a blessing from God. Which is just plain bs.

@leefromnyc

Жыл бұрын

It's more to the citizen quality, a developed countries will have the same issues like Indonesia, Pakistan & India. Prosperous countries tend to have lower birth rate because they know it's something not easy to introduce another human to this filthy world.

“people are too busy watching night shows to have babies” LMAOOOO 🤣🤣 bless this dude

One of the best street interviews I’ve seen you guys do in a while. I hope it goes viral. ⚡️⚡️

@southcoastinventors6583

Жыл бұрын

I hope not they might close down Japan again, I want to go there next year.

This isn't complicated: super expensive to have a kid + labor markets around the world are more competitive than ever + expected to work extreme hours = people aren't stupid In the absolute best case scenario, the average worker (at least in the United States) can be expected to slave away until they're 62 years of age and hopefully the combination of the money they've saved and social security will sustain them in retirement. In the worst case scenario, you have people working forever, never able to retire and in many, MANY cases, unable to afford the rent where they live anymore and being therefore kicked out. Salaries haven't kept up with inflation one bit, so why would people continue to have kids?

I particularly enjoy listening and watching Japanese people, especially the younger generation since they communicate with intelligence and a sense of meaning. I don't discount the wisdom of the elderly, but to say something like, "Look at the young people today, all they do is have some fun," implies that we are being selfish or something, as opposed to acknowledging that raising children is not always simple.