Shorty says, "I've only dated outside my race" then proceeds to give advice about how to keep a black woman, if you're a black man. Lol I find that funny.

@malcolmhamilton8706

6 жыл бұрын

Right I thought I was the only one to catch that

@jojosaylor8996

6 жыл бұрын

nevermindme313 why worry about the one female that dont date black men

@BookerT1

6 жыл бұрын

Women have been in denial for a long time and rarely accept the shit they are called out on.

@gregglass4796

6 жыл бұрын

nevermindme313 we

@nigercongo518

6 жыл бұрын

The host was the fool for letting her answer that question. After she just told him she don't date black men in so many words.

Another good note to my fellas I’m 25 got this good game from my OGs “You’ll never loose women chasing money but you’ll always loose money chasing women” fact of life my fellas.

@inphantri

5 жыл бұрын

thats a line from a movie with Chris Rock...i think i love my wife

@blankblank8468

5 жыл бұрын

Ramon Davis possibly I’ve seen the movie . Just saying I was told that as a youngster and I’m 25 now so before the movie came out. But I hear you 👍🏽.

@lobecosc

5 жыл бұрын

I heard that somewhere before and it's true.

@ktv9247

2 жыл бұрын

You still loose it in divorce lol

@tyronejames4187

2 жыл бұрын

Nas

You got a black woman up there talking about she never dated a black man, but has the nerve to give advice for black men to date a black women? I’m surprised non of the other sistas on the panel didn’t question her...

@gregglass4796

6 жыл бұрын

rob mac we are.

@kirkbrown2147

6 жыл бұрын

They won't, girls sometimes stand up for girls. If it was the other way around you would definitely hear it from them.

@computerblue1000

5 жыл бұрын

exactly lol I was thinking the same thing. She shouldn't even be up there.

@albertedmond9134

5 жыл бұрын

Kirk Brown honestly women will attack men but women do the same thing and it’s all good

@justabout6979

5 жыл бұрын

If she was up there talking about how black women need to treat their black man it would be a problemx she never even dated one. But since she is a black woman when she tells black men who to treat black women, its equivalent to her expressing how She wants to be treated because she is a black woman. This is the only reason I could think of why the other women didn't question this or even the dude asking questions🤷🏾‍♀️

Jordan in the yellow dress has never dated black men though...so how did she get a seat at the table? I genuinely don't understand.

@meciagotcha

6 жыл бұрын

Michael Beyene umm is says men not black men

@MikeBeyene

6 жыл бұрын

Camecia Brackens I get it. Strange technicality we don't apply throughout the conversation of the video though. Everyone is def talking about black men...he even asks about interracial dating. Come on now...she explicitly stated white right at the end.

@MikeBeyene

6 жыл бұрын

Someone I know tried to do the same thing, trying to speak on black women who he doesn't even like or date. Sorry, no space for that.

@coreythomas3633

6 жыл бұрын

Michael Beyene I agree

@DaddyFatSzack

6 жыл бұрын

still why does she have a say? We know if this had been a black guy, black women would be riding down like hawks talking shit, but since its a black woman..its okay?

Approaching women these days is like solving a riddle. You have to say the right words, can't be too foward can't be too lenient. I mean its just too many hoops/games to go through just for the basis of just getting the phone number so imagine what it takes to keep her interest. Stress free life for me

@gregglass4796

6 жыл бұрын

DJ APOCALYPTIC ee.

@mrbeendeezel

6 жыл бұрын

DJ APOCALYPTIC you spoke the words out of my mouth....black women are especially complicated....

@srbey3659

6 жыл бұрын

Sickning. And maybe 2 of them got real hair. Real funny sistas

@TopFlightSecurity415

5 жыл бұрын

Thats why I dont even pay them any mind in public , to much stress , women have NOOO idea how difficult it is to approach someone

@jjones0822

5 жыл бұрын

I only date girls that like me first

black women nvr seem to admit their own faults that play into them being single.

I actually hide my money from women. I don't want them to know what I have. I try to look like i'm just getting by. I rather the female to like me who I am instead of what I have financially. That's none of her business because she is still a stranger.

@qbnj806

5 жыл бұрын

Richard Jenkins deep

@sheilaorangd1967

5 жыл бұрын

Let me tell you lady I have met so many of you say well I went to a private school or I went to a Catholic school or I went to an all white school and that's all what was around me you are lying my grandson went to Catholic school all his life he's a black man he picked the black woman there was lots of white women in and other races that was non-black but he picked a black woman so stop that BS about that's what was around that's all that was around stop it that's a whole lot of BS that's what you want

@yuhz1m1

5 жыл бұрын

Basically.

@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie

5 жыл бұрын

I agree with you a woman should actually love you for who you are not because your money.

@AdedotunFolarin

4 жыл бұрын

i think that's the best way to know if she really likes u for u.

If I ask you out... I'm paying. But if we go out as friends we're going Dutch

@mysticstrikeforce5957

5 жыл бұрын

yep that's why i think being in the friend zone helps out more now then just asking the lady on a first date cause then you get to see her nasty side more.

If you're throwing around cash trying to impress women, don't be surprised if you attract a gold digger 🤷‍♀️. It is what it is.

So why is the chick in yellow here if she never dated a Black man in her life? She needs to stay on the other side of the fence. And notice how she even cant get White men to commit to her? I thought it was all rainbows and candy on the other side of the fence?

@KingBabaJames

6 жыл бұрын

Cushitic Man she thinks she's too beautiful for a black me. smh we don't want her back lol

@Sinatra292

6 жыл бұрын

Cushitic Man lol right

@brownladyjay0858

6 жыл бұрын

I am all for it she can date whoever she wants and if it’s not black man OK… Good for her

@user-lx4uk5un7s

6 жыл бұрын

This post made me LOL, big time. It's in the details...she said she's only dated outside her race....referenced her private school surroundings, which makes sense. The host says "if you could say something to BLACK men, what would it be?"....she comments, to value her, don't play her, she references fathers and friends...sounds like some deep seated issues from her childhood/adolescence. I don't fault her, but it's more unfortunate and sad than anything else...

@RichardJenkinsFxCreations

6 жыл бұрын

I was going to ask the same thing. She has no experience dating black men so how is her advice worth anything.

The problem is women don't know what they want. They say one thing and want another. Also the majority know that money and material things is the first thing on their mind. The one woman said she's told she looks mean and rude? Well, she does look mean and rude.

@sheambitious29lachelle17

6 жыл бұрын

Jonathan Collins money and material things isn't what all woman want from a man you have to speak on the ratchet and the ones who mothers raised them this way- not all black women are looking for a man to save them!

@localone1597

6 жыл бұрын

Sheambitious29 Lachelle I agree with you. Not all women are like that. Like you said it depends how they're raised. I grew up with two older sister's. They told me at an early age not to spend all my money on women and I never did. So I probably date less then most men. I find out early what a women is about. But you're right there are some good ones.

@sheambitious29lachelle17

6 жыл бұрын

Jonathan Collins thanks for your reply ❤️ don’t give up all hope we are out here waiting

@localone1597

6 жыл бұрын

Sheambitious29 Lachelle Yes, there is. I know because I have dated some great women. Sometimes it takes alittle longer but anything worth it sometimes takes time. You sounf like a good woman. Stay as you are

@curlyjoe5020

6 жыл бұрын

*Jonathan* She LOOKS like a dude with pink hair and a dress. LOL.

“I expect him to pay if he asks me out on a date, if I asked then I would’ve paid” 🙄 ok suuuure like that happens often 😂 with that mentality girls like you will never meet a successful man

If all these gorgeous ladies are single then I'm scared now like wth how???

@KtotheG

7 жыл бұрын

IAMYOURFUTURE Why do women think that men ONLY care about beauty? Beauty gets you in the door, but crazy can get you put out.

@sheambitious29lachelle17

6 жыл бұрын

IAMYOURFUTURE exactly! But I believe that god has my life written already my faith remains

@sheambitious29lachelle17

6 жыл бұрын

Mr Research aka Q I always say that about the men too I men they can't get my attention but can't keep it money and looks ain't nothing if the man can't even be consistent 👎🏽

@arobinson68

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@angelwood5050

6 жыл бұрын

IAMYOURFUTURE Because they are too beautiful to settle. High end men are rare.

WTF is complicated? Either you on the market or you're not. I'd really like to see a show of married black women. We always asking the opinions of black chics no dudes want to keep.

@myrickcarl

6 жыл бұрын

Negusis 85 facts bro

@Ray-uv4sk

6 жыл бұрын

Real talk....

If this show is to encourage black people to intermingle more and have more fruitful relationships...then why do you seem to encourage marrying outside the race.The show invited a lady in yellow who never dated a black guy,yet they are taking about relationships between black couples...very confusing...she should have not been invited.

@TheComedyChord

6 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY what i said, I'm like what in the WORLD u here for! and that lame excuse for not dating black men was pathetic.

The lady that Never dated a black dude has advice for them lol

yeah money get u any girl u want.....simple and plain.

@williamizm3745

4 жыл бұрын

Not true. At all. Unless you are a millionaire money doesnt do shit for you. And even then you see some millionaires who only get hookers. Money doesnt hurt though if you have ither characteristics in place.

@hymnodyhands

3 жыл бұрын

No. This is not 1864. Not every woman is on sale... so you will get what you pay for with that mindset... women broken enough to use themselves and you just for money.

@saints0931

2 жыл бұрын

@@hymnodyhands women are for sale. The asking price may be higher.

i find it odd that the one woman who said she has only dated outside of her race said in answer to the last question about helping black men to navigate through the dating process that she wanted "black men to value her and recognize what they have, but they run game and then they wonder where we went"... this is odd because according to her she's never dated a black man. what is she talking about? if she's only dated non-black men, who is she talking to?

@TheComedyChord

6 жыл бұрын

i was thinking the same thing. she must've lied to get on the show, lmbo.

Yes, dating in NYC is horrible. I also think dating and relationships are different in your late 30's and 40"s.

This is the kind of man that we as men need to be and that black woman should want. The whole idea that he is asking questions to a panel of black, asking good questions, is witty, educated and loves black women is great. He should be somewhat of the standard.

One say approach us, next say don't slide up in my DM, one say the guy needs to pay for a date, one say don't try to impress with money... Sigh

Single, beautiful and over 30? Nah B. Red flags.

@guzmanme21

6 жыл бұрын

Waiting until you are 100% ready with a masters and a down payment for a house is a red flag. No one is ever "ready" for anything. In the meantime a persons "body count" rises.

@KahaHajiMohamed

6 жыл бұрын

How would her body count increase if she wasn't seriously dating in her twenties...I'm not saying she consciously decided to wait until she finished her masters and saved for her downpayment...lol I was saying if you're grinding sometimes you focus on one thing and other areas of your life (ie social life) suffer...lol some of us are not super woman and therefore prioritize ...such is life right.

@guzmanme21

6 жыл бұрын

Typically, if one was seriously dating, you should be locked down and married before 30. If the dude is solid.

@KahaHajiMohamed

6 жыл бұрын

lol! key words being seriously dating...also if the dude is solid! lol Anyways..I think that's the closest thing I can get you to say to get you away from the edge of the unreasonable "30 year old red flag" comment. Quick question: If a guy is single, handsome and over 30 is that a red flag? If yes, what is the biggest concern there? If no, why the double standard?

@guzmanme21

6 жыл бұрын

No, Since from a fertility standpoint, men are fertile until death as long as we eat relatively right. Women have to get really good care of themselves to not have fertility issues past 28. Also our social standing and wealth tends to increase as we get older. Basically we are viable for much longer.

SOME men have tried to impress SOME women with money because SOME women won't even look a mans way if he don't have money to spend on her which is absolutely insane! Every grown adult ja responsible for themselves! When two people first meet money shouldn't even be the topic of discussion upfront! Damn! How about what are your dreams and aspirations, where are you from, what school did you attend are you saved ? It's the kind of women men are choosing to be affiliated with! STOP saying alllll women are this way cause they aren't! Women who THINK They a fake celebrity and who watching social too much are the ones with the red flags! And FYI! Allll of us are broke technically!! Because if you went to school you owe student loans and none of us make more than our debt. Smh gotta speak real if we gone speak

@squali1930

4 жыл бұрын

"Are you saved?" I'm not a first date question in my book but definitely something I would want to know.

I love black women because i love myself

Why is the woman who only dates outside of her race answering a question about what to say to black men? I believe the problem is the host on how he questions them and comments. There’s no flare or spark, this could a million plus views if done better. If they read these comments I’ll do tell MadameNoire to contact me

These kinds of conversations require so much more time and attention. 9 minutes ain't enough. Give the people what they want -- give us more!

I wish this was longer. These women are enjoyable to listen to.

No matter what we black men do to try and be right its always something that they are gonna tell their friends that we ain't shit at.Never ever will be able to satisfy 100 %

The Bible says not to give your strength to women. MONEY IS A FORM OF STRENGTH. To survive, To establish, and to provide...STOP GIVING IT TO THESE WOMEN AND DONT SET THEM OVER YOUR SUBSTANCE (PROVERBS 31:3, SIRACH 9:2) STOP SIMPING BROTHAS💪🏾

@Yahkeam

5 жыл бұрын

That's right!

It's simple. Men attract women with what works and one of the MAIN things that work is money. Women have made songs about it, women expect you to have it and all men know how a woman perceives a man without it. It's shallow but it's women

It's all in how a woman presents herself to a man, and how she carries herself. 💋 smooches

@ayanagundy1806

7 жыл бұрын

Mr Research aka Q No sweetheart I'm a woman. 💋 smooches

@ayanagundy1806

7 жыл бұрын

Jay Evans 😘💋 smooches

@meciagotcha

6 жыл бұрын

Vice versa

@HEIRLESSful

6 жыл бұрын

Ayana Gundy That goes for men as well. Smooches back 💋

Y'all need to do a video call black women take accountability. That would be nice.

The correct question should be- "Are women impressed with money?" lol

If you carry yourself cofidently, you should be able to ask a woman to pay for a date. If the date goes bad, it's only fair to pay your part, and let her pay her way, do it politely and firm. That's why you should only date women on your level, if she can't afford a meal in restaurant she likes, why be with her, if there will ever be a chance for a relationship. First dates keep it simple, or go to the park.

If we expect men to value us.. we as women have to value ourselves.. and a man whose discerning with see your value.

These women are full of crap . A lot of women don't even want to look in a man's direction unless he has a lot of money and/or really good looking. That's the reason why they are single.

At this point, we really need to consider, safe polygamy within the black community in order to preserve it.

I have a great job but I don't let any woman know what I make nor tell them exactly what I do. I've always believed if someone is going to love me it'll be for who I am and not for what I have or can give. Otherwise don't want or need them.. I can read a woman immediately and will end the date after a slip up or anything I see or hear that makes me uncomfortable...

over forty years of experience says women are only impressed by money #GiveHerNothing

Yes. Next question. This part @ 2:35-3:01 is not because she's short or small or because we approach you incorrectly. Some women give off the vibe that they are uninterested in conversation at any time. Why waste my time with someone that already in a (I don't have time for you or the shit you're talking about) mindset when you try to spark a conversation?

Impress a woman with your personality, swag, sexual skill, humor, anything except money. They will lose respect for you very quickly.

Soooooooo.. let me get this straight. U want to be valued enough to be courted at a fancy, high-end restaurant but u dont want him to impress u with his money? But u still want him to get the check (hey, it cost a grip to eat out at fancy spots) when it comes and leave a tip for the waiter (yeah, women love 'kind' people). *Sigh*.

Seriously? Are you kidding me with this? As far as relationships are concerned, at least in my experience, the majority of black women I have dealt with haven't given me the time of day because I didn't have a big bank account. And those same women have gone out with guys who have a six figure salary and ended up having a lot of problems with that guy, at least that is what I have heard. I, myself, don't flaunt my money to try to impress a woman. I try to impress a woman with conversation, but women nowadays want a guy who has a big bank account, big muscles, etc.

Where these ladies stay at and why are they single? Lol I see a lot of potential.

When they said that black women are the least desire. Then the woman said I desire black women what is she a lesbian? The knock on black women is that they have a jacked up attitude, and many of them carry it as a badge of honor!

My advice to the ladies who use men to pay their bills knowing that they don,t have any interest in perusing a relationship with this man. Please don't do that. The consequence for this will go two ways: you will end with a man who treats you like shit and you are also damaging this man's trust in other women. Please don't hurt people who are good to you.

@KtotheG

6 жыл бұрын

MiMi A If the women aren't interested in those men, then wouldn't they be susceptible to treating them like shit?

@sheambitious29lachelle17

6 жыл бұрын

MiMi A I agree 1000%!! And they are ruining the image of a black woman! Cause not all of us are looking for a hand out

@mimia8388

6 жыл бұрын

Sheambitious29 Lachelle 👍🏾

@Dilenga23

6 жыл бұрын

Sheambitious29 Lachelle idk why you’re bringing race into it since he said ladies not black ladies. Women period who do this should be aware of the consequences. But to OP, you’re argument is flowed since they wouldn’t settle for a guy who doesn’t do that in the first place.

This is a question for women who won't date you unless you got money... "Love don't pay the bills." Remember this statement? The things women look for and need can be viewed differently by the opposite sex. What makes it hard to have a faithful relationship is the people who don't want a one on one LTR... Then it becomes socially popular... Men and women both has to take responsibility for their role in this tango of love.

“Do you think you’re snippy ?” 😂😂😂 **pauses

@workingonmyself

3 жыл бұрын

Right!?!

@lildel7698

2 жыл бұрын

Snippy and short hair that’s a big fat no

Here's my Analysis: TL:DR : Most women have no clue what they want and refuse to acknowledge their flaws. First: Note that all these women are single. The one guy is married. At 1:12 She says there's too many options for men, but statistics show the average women has several more options than the average man. In fact, 50% of married women have a back up man waiting in the wings if their current marriage fails. Think about that for a second and while you do that think of how many times a woman has approached you in the street for your number. At 1:33 This woman says monogamy is important and you can't spread your energy around. However, women are 4 times as likely to have multiple men around at a moments notice and trade up for a better partner. At 1:53 the host asks if they prefer monogamy in the dating scene. ALL OF THEM SAY NO. Completely contradicting what one of them said just 20 seconds ago. If dating was monogamous these women wouldn't be able to branch swing. Why have one sexual partner when you can have as many as you want? At 2:03 The lady just proved my last point by saying she wants to have options. At 2:13 This woman wants you to know everything she likes to make the first date enjoyable. The last time I checked, dating was the process of figuring out what both people liked. In addition to that she wants you to pamper her, pulling out her chair, holding the door, etc. She also doesn't want to pay for her own meals on this date. She wants you to not only potentially waste your time, but also waste your money as well. This is all for her entertainment. It's a wonder that she's single. At 2:42 This woman says that she is constantly viewed as mean, rude, and angry. While she completely admits that she can get "snippy" she rationalizes the behavior because of her short height and it shouldn't be taken seriously. Now that I look at her while explaining it she actually does look rude and angry. The next woman says she's gotten it her whole life and that she considers herself approachable but you have to do it the "right" way. I guess you need to be a mind reader. At 4:07 This woman admits she left a good man for someone else, despite her wanting a good man. She blames it on age, but the fact is that she and many other women would continue this behavior even in their older years. They will continue to trade up until they see that the men they want are no longer interested and will settle for the good guy. She further goes on to say that you attract what you think about, it's just that female nature is designed to jump to the next best thing. All women have this inherent trait regardless of age, race, or beliefs. She tries to deflect this fact by blaming the men for thinking a certain way. At 4:50 She says a man will use money to impress women. That is true, because most women react to men who have money. In addition to that we indoctrinate our children to follow suit. How many times we told our daughters to marry a doctor, or make sure he has money. How many times do we tell our sons that they can't get a girl without a job or money. Men in general should never present their wealth to women at all, it's a waste of time and resource. At 6:00 The lady says that she doesn't listen to anything anyone has to say. Statistically it is true that Black women are least desirable.So what this woman is saying even if the statement is true she will disregard it and live in her own would. As long as she has "great energy" she's going to bring in great men despite still being single. At 7:04 The women are fine with dating outside their race, but when asked how they feel about black men going outside their race they have an issue with it. They claim that black men flaunt the women, but the reality is all men regardless of race will flaunt their women if they have merit. A woman that is good to her man will be worshiped, I think any man here can agree with this statement. It's not that they are flaunting a different race, it's that they are flaunting a higher quality of woman and it strikes a nerve. At 8:00 This woman wants men in all kind of relationships to value black women, but when the shoe is on the other foot it doesn't apply. Black men have been under sever scrutiny by many people but their biggest critics are the women that are suppose to stand by them. How can Black women demand being valued when they can't value Black men? You get what you put in. Most black men will never forget where they came from but if they have moved on and progressed chances are they will never return.

I love this show.

Once again they are in denial

Man I need to move to NYC or ATL, DC, CHI. I love the sistas. Being a techie on the west coast no sistas

@II-pt9rk

5 жыл бұрын

Roo ClickNet and you're going to get played like a game in Nintendo

@hymnodyhands

3 жыл бұрын

We are actually here... but indeed, our people are sparse in number. Try Oakland and Hayward if you are in NorCal ... Sacramento and Elk Grove a little further north, Gilroy a little further south.

They all need 10 more years to mature and start seeing things moe reasonably. Unfortunately it will be too late for most of them by then

I wish people would stop using statements to justify why they date outside of their race like ‘there were no black men/ women in my area, my school etc..I was one of 10 black girls in my school, I was raised in a predominantly white area, I’ve worked in mostly white offices but I’m 43 and have only ever dated black men. I’ve found places where they are plus there’s online. Most people who date outside of their race have a preference for that race or negative baggage about their own race but won’t always say that. It’s just inauthentic to use the reason that there wasn’t any black people around come on!

The better question is... do black women like broke men? SMH

@MrThekidisback

7 жыл бұрын

No

@rachelsweets

7 жыл бұрын

Carlton Banks lmao

@uToobviewer2

7 жыл бұрын

Carlton Banks As a humble broke black man I do see a lot of broke baby daddies so some do. Glad to see a female panel though been waiting for this.

@ce9416

7 жыл бұрын

My ex fiance was a broke black man trying to go back to school. I offered to have him live in my house and help pay for his schooling but he was too proud to accept it. By the time he was willing I was not in the mindset to do so due to his stubbornness and stupidity. In my opinion it's not about being broke it's about having ambition and goals. If he has that and he's willing to put in the work sure. But nobody wants to be broke for the rest of their life.

@meciagotcha

6 жыл бұрын

I've dated one never made him feel bad for being broke but once he decided to do something with his life and started making money he didn't t return the favor when it came down to me being broke

Fellas go MGTOW it's the best option!

If you are a woman impressed by money, you're shallow. If you're a woman impressed by stability. You're a good woman. If you're a woman impressed by a man who treats you well, is considerate, dominant, yet sensitive, and speaks life INTO YOU... you are a wife.

Men impress women with money because it works. Women want stability and for a lot of women , money is a major part of providing stability. If a women just lets a man pay her Rent and she knows she isn’t interested , she is a manipulator. She knows full well that the man is providing that rent to show her that he is willing to provide and that he is beyond serious about her.

You could sound as intelligent as you want but the truth is, most women see a man as a insurance policy.

@srbey3659

5 жыл бұрын

Sad to see dating is one big 'hood" rat race. Same attitudes keep them single still dating and on shows like this.

@kirkbrown2147

5 жыл бұрын

@@srbey3659 they'll be in their 40s and still wondering why they're single. These are the same kind of girls who only pay attention to very attractive guys. They don't even look at average guys so they judge all guys based on the very attractive guys who treats them badly.

The question that these ladies should be asking is, "are women impressed by money?"

Bless.. I’m Dominican.and I live here in USA..in my country there are many black women..and I want to say that I have many friends who were coworkers .. and black women are very beautiful and special...if you have a your girlfriend or your wife..you must love them.. take care of them..go out with her .. vacationar together and share your money with her..because that woman is your girlfriend and your wife..many times we men .. we only look for the women or the girlfriend when we convert..but when we have to share our money with them..we invent thousands of stories.not to share our money with our partner ..we just want them to give us pleasure. That they take care of the children..that they make you meals and that they take care of the house .. I m one of those who say that women are not only for that..black women is a beautiful woman..you just have to understand them and look at her pretty heart..

soon as she said giving energy, im like yhea i think we good being single

2:26 Im gay but i think going Dutch is a big DO on the first date. A first date is a chance to get to know someone, if it fails then the man has waisted money.

because y'all always talk about how you want a provider. It costs money to do that.

This is probally the dumbest question of the decade. Of course men try to impress women with money. And guess what? It usually works. Do women try to impress men with their looks?

So many misleading informations here. Those women probably rejected a few dozens men in their lifetime already who tried to get to know them, but still complaining about black men not approaching them so they can reject them even more. Those women are fairly attractive, they shouldn’t have any problem getting men.

I don't need to go outside my race there is enough variety in black women

I can't stop laughing the black woman in the yellow dress hasn't dated a black man but is leading the panel in the discussion.😂😂😂then she's telling the women she wants to be valued. Lastly since when are we limited to only date the people we went to high school with 🤣🤣🤣 Man my stomach hurts....

They wonder why they get old and grey and then accept whatever from men and end up settling anyway. Smh

Trickster, Gestures & Jokers. Comes to my mind for a reason. I cant seem to pinpoint

I thoroughly enjoyed this video. But we definitely need this conversation to be had with Black Men & Black Women together! Salute Fam!✊🏿👊🏿

Beautiful group of of women ❤️

@kirkbrown2147

6 жыл бұрын

What's beautiful other than the make ups?

@ITech2005

5 жыл бұрын

To be a good wife you have be more than just pretty. Being pretty will attract a man but it will never make him stay.

"I'm very approachable, if you approach me the right way"..... what?

@symonelewis1690

3 жыл бұрын

She is basically saying that she wants to be approached respectfully, and she won't tolerate anything less than that.

If a man doesn't have money then these women say "he's a broke ass nigga"

All these women are single as good as they look ... clearly there’s an underlying problem here

I Wish more black woman saw things from the other side of the spectrum, black men are also faced with the same issues they talk about regarding dating.

"Do your research"??? These women kill me. They know good and well if a man came to them with a whole lot of knowledge about who they are and what they do they would scream at them and call them a stalker. SMH

Dear God Almighy, I thank you for the black woman i have in my life. She's truly a unicorn lol.

@tonyjones1560

3 жыл бұрын

IKR...20+ years over here. If I woke up single tomorrow (God forbid) I'd either be on some "pump and dump" game or become a monk. Becoming a monk looks like the better option.

It's no parade going on. That stuff is in your head. Society has confused you'll into thinking what truly matters. And Black man just want a woman who gonna want him for who he is and not what his title is. This is why you'll get left standing. You'll have so many wants in a relationship that other races don't. Look in the mirror and ask her what's really important to her and the man she wants to have for her life.

Yes. I dont like it when a man does that. Makes me think he is trying to hide something. And only a rat gets impressed by cheese.

So she pretty much finished by saying nice people finish last lol😂😂 5:45

Of course we do, we will use any and everything that works to win YOU AND YOUR APPROVAL. including our intellect, experiences, notoriety, confidence, helpfulness, thoughtfulness, athleticism, expertise, what ever floats your boat. Jay-z said it in the power of the P-U. its the reason we get hair cuts, dress fly, cop the best rides.

I USED TO BE A REAL NICE DUDE, Until I kept running into selfish Women, Now I'm a Dog Ass Nigga who's respectful at the same time.

Lol..., I know a lot of good guys with money... But their wives/Girlfriends treats them like pure shit...

The woman in red on the far left is so beautiful and carries herself with confidence ❤️ really loved what she had to say

how is sis in the yellow, giving advice about dating black men when she's 28 and has never dated a black man?

I don't care where someone went to school in the US. You can go date anyone that you want to. In 2018, people are not restricted to date whoever happens to be sitting next to them in a classroom. Period. That is the most ridiculous excuse i have ever heard.

None of this made any sense. There was no resounding facts a blackman can take away, to help further understand the immediate needs of black females. It is however evident, all women are individual and requires different things. The confusion is that modern women want men with traditional values, which directly conflicts with the inequality feminist have been fighting against. The movie "Hitch" staring Will Smith was a great example of how unapproachable most women are, especially black women whom are facing smaller number on eligible men on a similar level. Never settling, is the keyword, thus black women are running out the clock until the game is over.

Who in their right mind would marry ANY of these predators? They don't accept or want monogamy in a dating relationship! They want everything their way. That isnt reality.

I Love My Black Queens but how's Jordan going to say value us but she ONLY dates outside of our race. That's one of the most hypocritical things I've ever heard.

This is what I notice about interracial dating: black males don’t boast they have a white female, but black females ensure a black male knows she has a white male by either dominating him or being “very” submissive....

The one chick who does not date black men is whining that black men don't value her. What the f**k?!?

I've been off the market for a minute cause I'm married but I haven't been away long enough not to call bs when I see it. What a woman says in a forum like this about the men they are interested in and how they want to be approached and treated are seldom their reality. Usually they speak in theory on their best images of themselves but in reality they are not honest. When a woman is over 30 and not involved it's usually because she's A) Holding quality men to an unrealistic standard and dismiss them as boring but give the dog that only wants ass all of their emotional currency and get upset when it's not returned or B) Not valuing herself to the point of understanding who she is and what she wants but listening to her female influences of what to do and constantly choosing the wrong men for them. Both scenarios results in the woman having a skewed view on men in general based on their small pool of suitors that leads to bad talk about men being this or that. What they aren't saying is I don't know what I can offer a man outside of my peach and by the time I realize what I'm doing wrong, I have kids and bad credit hoping a nice guy I passed up in the past will be willing to save me. Men can do better in how they present themselves to women I'll be the first to admit but women have to do better in how they receive men cause a man will always follow a woman's script on how she wants to be treated because we want to be with you just as much as you want to be with us

My mother is black and I love my mother so obviously I love black women

"Nice"Guys complain that women dont appreciate respect. Women complain that men they want dont want them lol.

ofcourse we do allot of men think woman will only appreciate them for their money not for their personality or even appearances

Jordan is gorgeous

Umm 😐 am I the only who cut off the video when she stated “I am 28 years old and have never had my rent paid”. I am 21 years old and I NEVER want a man to pay my rent especially if we are only dating. Money doesn’t impress me and I feel like as a woman I am always supposed to have with or without a man. So that would make me uncomfortable if a man wants to pay my rent

Great video

"Value us", I really felt that comment. As stated by Malcolm X, black women are the most disrespect and unprotected. Shout out to all text beautiful women on the panel sharing their full and authentic selves with us.