Do I HAVE TO stay Sober FOREVER??? (Episode 206)

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  • @GettingSoberAgain
    @GettingSoberAgain2 ай бұрын

    Watch>>> What is the Timeline of HEALTH BENEFITS after getting SOBER??? 👇👇👇 kzread.info/dash/bejne/io6m0JeqfMvAdtY.htmlsi=PfxSzhDZrIy2TME0

  • @tomv3999

    @tomv3999

    Ай бұрын

    Yes. That is a good one.

  • @jeffreyjohnmann
    @jeffreyjohnmann2 ай бұрын

    I’m going to stay alcohol free! I’m going to do work to live a life I can be proud of. I’m 250 days sober today!

  • @RobertoLopezH

    @RobertoLopezH

    2 ай бұрын

    Congrats! We must start the sobriety journey at the same time, more or less, cause I'm 260 days sober today.

  • @juliacoggins7292

    @juliacoggins7292

    2 ай бұрын

    238 days for me :) well done on 250 days!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 ай бұрын

    THERES MY GUY JEFF!!!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 ай бұрын

    ROBERTO MY FRIEND!!!

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Keep the positive momentum going! Keep it up Jeffrey!!

  • @deanschanzenbach7506
    @deanschanzenbach75062 ай бұрын

    12 days sober and feeling great

  • @dpwhitaker7088

    @dpwhitaker7088

    2 ай бұрын

    Hang in there!

  • @harvey_weenstain8857

    @harvey_weenstain8857

    2 ай бұрын

    Bro it seriously gets better and better. I haven't drank for almost 9 months and at this point it doesn't even sound appealing to me. I seriously can't believe I ever 'enjoyed' it (I don't think I ever really did). God bless!! Praying for you

  • @mrb6597

    @mrb6597

    2 ай бұрын

    That's great! Try for 13!

  • @kristinreuter8272

    @kristinreuter8272

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm so happy I'm abstaining. I feel so much better. It's like I'm feeling like myself again. People keep telling me I look great and they don't know I quit. It's my energy level. I actually have some!😂

  • @ItsJordynnnnn

    @ItsJordynnnnn

    2 ай бұрын

    Hoping today’s my day 1!

  • @theordinary1175
    @theordinary11752 ай бұрын

    1 month sober today after 20 years drinking. Past 5 years drinking everyday and at work driving all day. How awful is that? I was turning yellow. Feeling great now and lost 1 stone. I will never drink ever again. I'm 43. If you're thinking of stopping that means you need to stop. My relationship with my wife is now on track. You can do it people. I feel like I have been born again. Much love

  • @CatInTheHatSwing

    @CatInTheHatSwing

    2 ай бұрын

    you've got your life back, welcome home

  • @kristinreuter8272

    @kristinreuter8272

    2 ай бұрын

    Outstanding ❤🎉

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Congratulations on embracing sobriety. Keep up the good work. hint for Americans: a stone is about fourteen pounds.

  • @Plan-C

    @Plan-C

    Ай бұрын

    @@gwillis01 Well done.

  • @dpwhitaker7088

    @dpwhitaker7088

    Ай бұрын

    @@Plan-C Excellent!

  • @josephfoster6313
    @josephfoster63132 ай бұрын

    Just over one year sober. Still fat, still depressed. But at least im sober. And that's enough for now.

  • @limolnar

    @limolnar

    2 ай бұрын

    Yeah, at least you're moving forward through sobriety. Congrats!!!!

  • @prometheus1672

    @prometheus1672

    2 ай бұрын

    Congrats on the one year without alcohol! Not having alcohol in your system will make the efforts in other areas of your life more likely to stick and make progress. I’m just a random internet stranger, but I hear you. You’ve already done more than many people who get stuck in alcoholism ever do, so you can take more steps too. Making good choices is a lot like not making bad ones, one day at a time. “I won’t drink today” can become “I will make my bed today”. One day at a time. :)

  • @RobertoLopezH

    @RobertoLopezH

    2 ай бұрын

    Congrats. Keep going! Feel proud of yourself!

  • @kristinreuter8272

    @kristinreuter8272

    2 ай бұрын

    I get it. Stay strong.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 ай бұрын

    I've never seen my abs 🤣

  • @RaySebeela
    @RaySebeela2 ай бұрын

    Today I'm 1 month sober and my sleeping pattern has greatly improved and I'm slowly putting the time and finances I used to invest in alcohol to repairing the damage it did and I'm loving every step of the way.

  • @patricialandrum7366

    @patricialandrum7366

    2 ай бұрын

    Mine too

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Keep striving to improve yourself

  • @Questionablethings
    @Questionablethings2 ай бұрын

    I would never have believed it but I am coming up for 1000 days sober, it seems a life time ago I was constantly drunk, feeling like sh*t all the time, not happy but the only person to blame was me. The strange thing was I had no reason to be unhappy but my 'life' revolved around drinking which made be forget why I was unhappy. I know it doesn't make any sense. I have to admit it was hard to stop drinking but just as I decided that something had to change I found Jae and this channel and I cant tell you how much that helped. I cant lie to you and say it was easy to stop, it wasn't, bearing in mind I had been drinking for 20+ years and seriously heavy drinking for the last 5 of those years, we are talking 2 litres of vodka a week. I have never been run over by a car but I can imagine what it was like a couple of weeks of stopping drinking, every part of my body ached........even my hair !!! It took a lot of will power and inner strength but as time passed it got easier, the aching stopped and I started feeling better. These days I still don't sleep well but I don't wake up with a headache, feeling sick and wondering what I did last night and if I had offended anybody. Will I stay sober forever.....................yes. I like the person I am and that feeling for me is priceless.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 ай бұрын

    THE FEELING IS PRICELESS 🤑

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Keep up the good work Things get easier day by day

  • @Joe_Joe_The_HvacMan

    @Joe_Joe_The_HvacMan

    Ай бұрын

    I can so relate! You have inspired this 58yr old to stay the course! 4wks sober and truly loving it!

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    Ай бұрын

    @@Joe_Joe_The_HvacMan Keep up the good work Joe Keep striving to improve yourself

  • @hayleyoesch1313

    @hayleyoesch1313

    Ай бұрын

    Incredible! I hope to make it there one day :)

  • @dpwhitaker7088
    @dpwhitaker70882 ай бұрын

    I'm almost ten months sober and it is day by day. I'm planning on working outdoors today.

  • @limolnar

    @limolnar

    2 ай бұрын

    Woot!

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Congrats on your long sober streak.

  • @RobertoLopezH

    @RobertoLopezH

    2 ай бұрын

    Amazing!

  • @jonesnbones

    @jonesnbones

    Ай бұрын

    I had potted plants left from 2 years ago that finally went in the ground this week. Dirt is good for healing.

  • @jr.6102

    @jr.6102

    Ай бұрын

    Good for you!!!!!

  • @viabler6320
    @viabler63202 ай бұрын

    Day 26 for me. Feeling things I have not felt in years and thought I would never feel again. 😊

  • @kristinreuter8272

    @kristinreuter8272

    2 ай бұрын

    Same! Freedom feels good!

  • @neil_down_south

    @neil_down_south

    2 ай бұрын

    Well done! Don't get complacent, have support plans in place for when things get bumpy. I'm saying this from experience! 👍🏿

  • @viabler6320

    @viabler6320

    2 ай бұрын

    @@neil_down_south thank you Neil!

  • @viabler6320

    @viabler6320

    2 ай бұрын

    @@kristinreuter8272 yes it does feel good 👍

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Keep the positive momentum going! Keep improving

  • @AkS143joyful
    @AkS143joyful2 ай бұрын

    Yesterday I finished school out as a teacher. I took care of my 3 girls and was present. I woke up early this morning and walked, made a great breakfast for my kids and their friends.. and no headaches. I planned a school party still but at a place that has mocktails and food! I am 4 months sober tonight at 9pm

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Keep up the good work AkS

  • @thilehoffer
    @thilehofferАй бұрын

    308 days here. I was drinking 30-40 drinks per week for 25 years. I rarely got hangovers or got blackout drunk, but I was addicted. I drank almost every night. I basically associated everything fun with beer. I have been in counseling and we decided that I need to go one full year before even answering the question of if I could have a drink again. One thing about never drinking is that I’m in control. Alcohol no longer has any power over me. I just wish it wasn’t so damn popular. My wife is hella supportive and doesn’t drink around me but damn the messages to drink from both advertisers and other people on social situations really make it tough. Bottom line is I really really like beer but I don’t want alcohol to have power over my decisions again. Nothing scares me more than the thought of it being 10:00PM on a Wednesday night and I’m getting a drink because I can’t control it. F that! Peace everyone and good luck.

  • @jorgeloya6420
    @jorgeloya64202 ай бұрын

    This message went to the moon and back.. I won't trade sobriety for a hungover and poor decisions anymore.. thanks brother for doing what you do..💯

  • @geraldnelson6645
    @geraldnelson66452 ай бұрын

    As of today I am 43 days sober. Quit cold turkey. I was up to drinking about a 5th EVERYDAY for many years without a day off. I did not think I was going to be able to do it. But you start out by going 1 hr without it to 1 day without and keep going. You can do it.

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Onwards and upwards to new achievements

  • @kristinreuter8272

    @kristinreuter8272

    2 ай бұрын

    YES! ❤

  • @cereal4u

    @cereal4u

    Ай бұрын

    I was doing the same thing bro for 17 years .. until my mental health turned to shit .. I’m not 8 months sober today 🙏

  • @tomv3999
    @tomv3999Ай бұрын

    I have been sober for a few months now. I have done this before; gone several months but then slid back. The difference is this time I do not have a drill sergeant in my head telling me that I can't drink, that I must get through the day, that I must not drink tomorrow. Instead, I have a very simple attitude: I am not drinking today. As for tomorrow? We'll see. It's simple. It takes the pressure off. Gradually, of course, everyday is a little bit better than the previous day. I get good nights of sleep, I get through the day feeling generally very good. When things go south, they don't bother me anywhere near as much. It's worth it. And it's worth it for you to do the same. Just keep following his videos.

  • @MrVenturadog
    @MrVenturadog2 ай бұрын

    7 months sober, was working in the yard yesterday and can barely move. Not as bad as drinking a bottle of rum, heads not pounding. Getting things done does make me feel better.

  • @kristinreuter8272

    @kristinreuter8272

    2 ай бұрын

    Same here!

  • @bermudarailway

    @bermudarailway

    Ай бұрын

    The expertise will initially cause aches and pains but that is just your body waking up and soon you will be fitter .

  • @ahandlenameismandatory
    @ahandlenameismandatoryАй бұрын

    I still strugle with this question, initially I told myself give it a month, then 2, then 3, now, as long as I have some craving the answer is no...eventually maybe, not today...

  • @quintingoldie9276
    @quintingoldie9276Ай бұрын

    It’s never too late to get sober, 67 years old, 45 years relationship with alcohol. Now 20 months alcohol free

  • @Joe_Joe_The_HvacMan

    @Joe_Joe_The_HvacMan

    Ай бұрын

    58 yrs old with 35yr drinking and now 4wks completely sober. Feels great!

  • @Joe_Joe_The_HvacMan

    @Joe_Joe_The_HvacMan

    Ай бұрын

    now 5 weeks!!

  • @user-vb1ue8ci3q
    @user-vb1ue8ci3qАй бұрын

    Almost six months sober after 42 years of drinking. I never want to experience the shame and guilt, the hungover, the anxiety and depression that goes with drinking. I take it one day at a time and I am super proud of myself.

  • @AnstromNovak-hf7tx
    @AnstromNovak-hf7txАй бұрын

    Instead of having a drink tonight-I watched your amazing video and now, I’m going to read a book! Now that I’ve been alcohol free for two weeks, I’m amazed at how good I feel and how much time I have for my family AND for myself. Thank you for your channel!❤

  • @timhemlin9556
    @timhemlin95562 ай бұрын

    On day 129 with one minor hiccup (which I described in the last video's comment so won't go into here). Today I plan to jog, bake some bread and work in the garden. I like feeling good, sleeping well, getting up early and doing things instead of "planning" to do them. I appreciate you Jae and all the good people on their various stages of progress.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 ай бұрын

    I like your plan for the day, especially the bread 😁😁😁

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Congrats Keep up the good work

  • @kristinreuter8272

    @kristinreuter8272

    2 ай бұрын

    You got this, bro!🎉

  • @tomv3999

    @tomv3999

    Ай бұрын

    Sleeping well is so so so great.

  • @danielpitt7347

    @danielpitt7347

    Ай бұрын

    Im 6/7 months into mine now and I agree we have to put things in place . Early night 9am is my cut if point today 😊up at 6am ready to do it all again . Your definitely on the right track congratulations 🎉🎉🎉

  • @mousetrap335
    @mousetrap3352 ай бұрын

    one month in ..... never in 30 years have i slept so well and got so much work done ....but its hard not to think of a cold one but keep digging deep ..the triggers are demons

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Onwards and upwards to new achievements !! Keep striving to improve yourself

  • @enikobrowm6127
    @enikobrowm61272 ай бұрын

    Thank you Jae. You are a great motivator to stay sober which I have now been for just over three months. Being sober I think alot about what I could have done differently in my 60 years of letting alcohol steal so much of my life. But I am trying hard not to look back and just live in the present and be grateful for everything I have. There are a hundred things I want to do but am starting with getting in better shape. I am learning Qi Gong and started a Tai Chi class with my daughter.

  • @joko09010

    @joko09010

    2 ай бұрын

    That’s so cool!

  • @JRE87
    @JRE872 ай бұрын

    I’ll be 50 days sober tomorrow and after 30 days, I began hanging out with friends again. Alcohol will always be there but I can’t pretend like it won’t be. My friends drink and I’m their DD to get them home safe. Do I miss it? Sure, but some of them mask their pain with it like I used to. I’m confident enough to say no now but I know everyone is different. I hope everyone is learning their strengths and weaknesses in their sobriety journeys and that you all choose what’s best for you ✌🏻

  • @moffatk7948

    @moffatk7948

    Ай бұрын

    Same here. I still hang out with my drinking friends. I now have the will to say no. I will soon say I don't drink period. I now don't leave in fear of being caught drink driving. It's such a relief.

  • @RobertoLopezH
    @RobertoLopezH2 ай бұрын

    I do not have to be sober forever, I want to be sober forever. That's why I only care about this day. Just for today and that makes the journey easier. Looking forward my first year clean of alcohol (September, 1st) and wondering how am I going to celebrate. Something crazy like a party at the beach or a travel with my wife. I am very happy because I am studying for competitive exams to work and who was going to tell me that at my age I would be studying.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 ай бұрын

    You are a shining light in the darkness my friend 🙏🙏🙏

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Onwards and upwards to new achievements!! Keep striving to improve yourself

  • @unquietsky
    @unquietsky2 ай бұрын

    This is day 6 for me, gone 3 years before. Your videos are very relatable and well spoken, always motivate me and remind me of why I always sober up. I'm going for the run today that I'd normally be way to hungover to go on. Thank you for the work you do!

  • @thesweetprince

    @thesweetprince

    Ай бұрын

    Day 6 buddies!

  • @unquietsky

    @unquietsky

    22 күн бұрын

    Day 43 now, something like that

  • @garrybuxton4483
    @garrybuxton4483Ай бұрын

    5 weeks today 🎉 I'm feeling so much better. I lost my family because of my drinking. I have a new partner now. I've tried to get sober so many times but now I've realised I have to forgive myself and the best way to move forward is to improve myself. I can't change the past but I can change my future,to be a good person. To be sober. I've replaced drinking with Fitness. I may never see my children ever again but I will be the man they wanted me to be. I'm finally happy.

  • @Joe_Joe_The_HvacMan

    @Joe_Joe_The_HvacMan

    Ай бұрын

    I’m not sure the situation but I would not lose hope in restoring your relationship with your kids. You stay strong and don’t give up reaching back out to them. It’s OK if they don’t believe you but you stay honest. I’m in a similar situation but not as severe. But my kids don’t believe I’m staying sober just because I’ve said it over and over before. I don’t blame them. Time will be the proof and I am committed for the long haul! 🙏

  • @danielpitt7347

    @danielpitt7347

    Ай бұрын

    😭 congratulations on your journey. Never give up on your relationship on your children, I have overcame a drug problem and cross addiction to alcohol I believe anything is possible if you make changes in any area of life . 🙏

  • @timburton9514
    @timburton95142 ай бұрын

    I’m almost 5 months sober. I still have crazy dreams/nightmares, anxiety, depression…. I’m told this will get better. 🙏🏻

  • @RobertoLopezH

    @RobertoLopezH

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm close to my nine month and sometimes I dream that I am drinking. It's terrible but it's only my mind remebering that I'm doing well. And yes, this gets better, much more than you can expect!

  • @mr.chambers4823
    @mr.chambers48232 ай бұрын

    2 months here I'm never going back

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Keep striving to improve yourself

  • @piccochr
    @piccochr2 ай бұрын

    3 days until I reach 100 days! Then 20 more until 4 months! Great video! Your enthusiasm is infectious and allows me to keep pushing on!

  • @2tpilot
    @2tpilot2 ай бұрын

    Day 6 on my second attempt at sobriety. Great reminder of who I want to be, thank you for the motivation!

  • @moffatk7948

    @moffatk7948

    Ай бұрын

    Still early days. Take one day or week at a time. Where there's a will there's a way.

  • @moffatk7948

    @moffatk7948

    Ай бұрын

    I'm about 120 days, for me, I'm done with alcohol. Good luck to those that still indulge in ethanol.

  • @kristinreuter8272
    @kristinreuter82722 ай бұрын

    88 days! ❤

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    Keep up the good work Kristin

  • @jesselovesyah
    @jesselovesyah2 ай бұрын

    Had another relapse and convinced myself that i could have drinks once a month. What BS. I ended up doing everything I’ve been trying to stay away from. My morels just disappear when i am drunk. 🙃 I got 12 days and joined a group called celebrate recovery. So heres to trying again. ☕️ Off to the gym!

  • @kristinreuter8272

    @kristinreuter8272

    Ай бұрын

    I've heard good things about CR! Good for you 👍

  • @moffatk7948

    @moffatk7948

    Ай бұрын

    Good luck, long as you still have the will to start over again you will eventually succeed.

  • @daverobbins1579
    @daverobbins15792 ай бұрын

    Hey everyone currently 23 day's sober it's a long weekend here in Canada and I'm going to my parent's to help with some chores there's gonna be drinking going on and usually I'm in the center of it, this time I plan on being sober and coming back home tonight, I have a date tomorrow and if I show up hungover and looking like crap I'm sure it won't go well? Stay strong everyone and waking up on a Saturday without a hangover is worth not drinking the night before, thank Jae another great video

  • @Reign1134
    @Reign11342 ай бұрын

    Just hit my 90 days this past week and your videos really helped during the rough spots.

  • @enjoy1ife
    @enjoy1ifeАй бұрын

    Im at day 20, after 25 years of drinking, the past year drinking daily, and “falling asleep” on the couch nearly every night. Your videos are my daily motivation, and joirnal prompt, reminding me why its all worth it. I feel like i can easily be sober today, but I forget sometimes that im planning on a forever sober future for myself when i envision future events. i hope to still be sober on future events, like the holidays with my family, who love to drink, or travels with friends, who like to drink. So far, ive been successful drinking sodas or mocktails at social events, and felt great.

  • @kenczerwinski6365
    @kenczerwinski63652 ай бұрын

    2 weeks alcohol free, and accepted job offer out of state…new adventures await and in sobriety I am facing my karma.

  • @nextlevelsuki
    @nextlevelsukiАй бұрын

    Day 139 SOBER and PROUD!!🙌🏽💪🏽🔥

  • @joko09010
    @joko090102 ай бұрын

    I get to go ride my beautiful horses. Then I’ll take a walk on the beach trail with my son and say a prayer for all of us, especially for those who are still suffering. Day 320. 💪🏻 💜

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    Ай бұрын

    Congrats on a good horse ride. Have fun with your son.

  • @joko09010

    @joko09010

    Ай бұрын

    @@gwillis01 Thank you so much! 💕

  • @limolnar
    @limolnar2 ай бұрын

    Thank you thank you thank you for sharing your wisdom. We can see ourselves in your journey. What an inspiration!

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 ай бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏THANK YOU for your positivity today!!!

  • @jeffsoly1972
    @jeffsoly19722 ай бұрын

    30 days in here 😊 let's all stay strong guys and gals ... even though we are not together physically we can still support each other by praying.

  • @mgrandison1
    @mgrandison12 ай бұрын

    Day 27 and counting. Thanks for the content, inspiration, and community.

  • @SubaruJeff444
    @SubaruJeff444Ай бұрын

    Proudly sober 433 days, I go to some AA meetings and I listen to this channel alot, I have found something that works for me. I say my prayers and meditate every day. Thank my higher power for being sober yesterday and ask for the strength to do it all over today. Believe in yourself, but most of all. Find what works for YOU to stay Sober. And remember 'You are Loved'

  • @sambromley7394
    @sambromley7394Ай бұрын

    3 month's ago I finally got myself out of a bad living situation and distanced myself from some toxic roommates and into a new house, 2 months ago I finished the hardest semester of school ive ever taken and aced the class and got my electricians license which ive been pursuing for almost 6 years, and 1 month ago I finally made the decision to get sober, im still fairly early on in my sobriety journey and ive had what feels like a thousand attempts prior but it feels like a switch was flipped in my head this time. If i could accomplish what I did while being a "functional alcoholic" for years, now i think how far can I go sober. It hasnt been easy still, the first week was hell but now i feel like a new person. My sleep is incredible, my bond with my young son is much stronger, my productivity is much higher and im not as depressed and angry anymore. I feel free again.

  • @godsgirl7353
    @godsgirl73532 ай бұрын

    Decades long Weekend Warrior but using distractions/cooking/cleaning/music etc. The apt, walls may get washed today Lol Struggling but not giving up. This feeling shall pass I just have to stay in the saddle today !!!!! You can too😊 Ride it out because it will leave sooner than later. Bad Habit Saturday doesn't have to rule the day😊 today.

  • @johncesare2931
    @johncesare2931Ай бұрын

    I'm trying.... AGAIN!! I had 35 days sober, then I drank on my birthday, May 5th, then on this past Sunday, then yesterday! So today is DAY 1. I need your support!! Thanks everyone ❤

  • @lenkahairsalon9482

    @lenkahairsalon9482

    Ай бұрын

    You have my support 💪🏻 remember how much you want to change your life and pick up the videos from here what resonates with you the old ones are as great as the new ones !!!

  • @benjamintrahin9571
    @benjamintrahin95712 ай бұрын

    Jae my man, you have no idea how much I needed this video today! Getting chills. Just got 7 months sober last week. I never, never imagined I could be here right now. Feeling so much gratitude right now. I'm getting ready to head to a friends baby shower today. When I was drinking, I probably would have skipped or made up some excuse because I was too hung over. But now, I GET to go. Thank you Jae, and thank you to everyone here. I see you. Ben

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 ай бұрын

    👁️I SEE YOUUUUU👁️

  • @LemonPerez
    @LemonPerez2 ай бұрын

    Thank you brother 🙏

  • @derekhath380
    @derekhath3802 ай бұрын

    Thanks for video Jae! Stoked to be sober. Day 506. Definitely don't want to go back to daily or any drinking ever. Still doing morning zoom/in-person AA meeting, daily AA Mastery Journal, eating way better, making sleep a priority as well as consistently working out. Really can't remember feeling any better. I drank since age 13'ish until rehab at age 55. Also was able, thanks to applying same 12 step program to quit Copenhagen and Marlboros... did that for 43 years and nicotine-free day 112 today. The biggest key for me is surrendering every part of my life to Jesus and praying that His will be done instead of mine and to help some and harm none if possible.

  • @mowolf2620
    @mowolf26202 ай бұрын

    I tried drinking again in 2019 after close to 6 years of sobriety. Steered me down pretty much the same path I was on before that and it cost me another 4 years. But I learned a lot about myself along the way, especially since I decided to live my life sober (...again) 8-9 months ago. Now I'm even more determined to keeping myself on track. Seeing what alcohol does to people in my private life as well as my job as a social worker really helps, too in a weird way. I guess I needed to experience all that stuff one more time after a 6-year-long break, I really hope you don't!

  • @ganeshasharanam3317
    @ganeshasharanam3317Ай бұрын

    Today is day 1. I'm going to do yoga in the morning, then I'm gonna go to the gym. Gonna do some drumming, play video games, eat healthy and practice some duolingo

  • @RinoSchiavoCampo
    @RinoSchiavoCampoАй бұрын

    Coming here, I am reminded of the misery that was my drinking. Society discourages our openly sharing these things, while drinking is commonly and openly shared. That is where we can feel alone and possibly that we are unnecessarily depriving ourselves of a "good time". Coming here, to AA and other alcohol recovery spaces brings me back to reality. It pulls the curtain back to show me I am absolutely not alone and absolutely not wasting my time recovering from this very real injury. 34 years of drinking, 201 days alcohol fee. Thank you Jae for all you do!

  • @bogleinc
    @bogleinc2 ай бұрын

    You need to post more often.. whenever I’m about to slip I look for a video … you do great stuff!

  • @Plan-C
    @Plan-CАй бұрын

    Thank you Jae. I am 143 days free today. You have helped me massively. May God bless you. All the best.

  • @kerrymeadows
    @kerrymeadowsАй бұрын

    There is nothing like the peace you get with sobriety. I never want to have another hangover as long as I live and I had them every day. I’m almost 8 years sober. Sometimes not drinking at the beginning feels very boring but in reality , it’s serenity. I’m married to a heavy drinker so it can be done even in difficult circumstances. One of the most important things is to change EVERYTHING. Those drinking friends are not your friends.and You have zero business being in a bar. After the dust settles, start exercising and filling the empty time. God will help you if you do your part.

  • @ironbertress6091
    @ironbertress6091Ай бұрын

    58 days. Started with just trying to see if I could go 10 days. That was my goal. 10 days. Just testing myself. Day 3 was hard, day 8 was hard. Then I completed day 10! I did it! Felt great, friends were perplexed, so I just kept going. I come here to this channel to read how everyone is doing and it helps to spur me on. Hang in there everyone! We got this!!!

  • @thosebabyeyes316
    @thosebabyeyes316Ай бұрын

    One of my friends told me that early on in her sobriety, anytime she would get an alcohol craving, she would just say, “hurray! I don’t have to be a slave to that poison anymore! I’m free from that prison!” How beautifully simple. I hear this message wholeheartedly, sir. Once you break free from that poison prison, why in the world would you want to go “back to where you came from”?

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    Ай бұрын

    Your friend has a great strategy!

  • @tracypo7234
    @tracypo7234Ай бұрын

    I'm treating this like getting over a bad relationship. I don't regret the good times, I reflect on the bad times and I'm committed to not getting into another bad relationship again. By working on myself, I make myself stronger against falling in love with the wrong drink. It's taken me half the time of my past relationship, to "get over it", so I'm using that as an arbitrary goal. 💪 ...pick Bears, not beers?! 🤪😄

  • @lenkahairsalon9482

    @lenkahairsalon9482

    Ай бұрын

    that’s an awesome and very innovative approach 👍🏻

  • @user-iv9xm3vd8p
    @user-iv9xm3vd8pАй бұрын

    "You don't have stay sober forever, you just have to stay sober today." I loved this wisdom ❤

  • @MichaelSmith-yr9td
    @MichaelSmith-yr9tdАй бұрын

    463 days sober today and it’s going to be the last I’m giving in.

  • @iniko_A
    @iniko_A2 ай бұрын

    138 days! 🎉 One day at a time...

  • @lenkahairsalon9482
    @lenkahairsalon9482Ай бұрын

    2 Years for me thanks to this man’s easy approach. The real reason I quit alcohol was my micro biome… and yes I wanted to shed a few pounds. I didn’t hit rock bottom and had very successful professional life as well as amazing marriage. I “planed “ to try “THIS” for a month… but find out I feel like a superwoman with energy of a teenager and passion for life I used to have, happier than ever. I helped so many others to discover sober life magic just by being an example. And NO I am not turning my train back 🤣

  • @alismoon7538
    @alismoon7538Ай бұрын

    Almost 2 months sober. All glory to God. 14 lbs down and excited for my gym session later today. Thank you Jesus.

  • @jesamoore8555
    @jesamoore8555Ай бұрын

    I’m 83 days*** (thanks Jae!) alcohol sober and 12 days totally sober sticking to it. Initially I used cannabis to wean myself off alcohol- which was okay- but I promised myself I’d only use one cart then be done. I actually didn’t even finish the cart before I threw it away. Today my friend offered me another one and I denied. I hated the brain fog that was developing again. Summer is tough to not drink- my first one. I’ve loved the patio drink and smoke after work on a nice day but alas, I can do better for myself! Today I’m going to bike ride to a new kava place. I’m struggling a bit with sugar and I’m also motivated to watch my spending… it’s a lot, but I’m patient, I’m persistent. I really want this improved trajectory for my life! It isn’t a goal, it’s a trajectory- a life style (Atomic Habits). We can do this!!❤

  • @S.P.E.N.C.E
    @S.P.E.N.C.EАй бұрын

    27 days sober!! I feel amazing

  • @Forwardslashhug
    @ForwardslashhugАй бұрын

    For me, I do. At least in regards to alcohol I just can NOT get back into it. Ive tried, and failed in the past. I built up bad habits in the past AND it's just a very destructive substance so there's seemingly no chance of being able to "manage" it for me and the risk in "trying" again is so high its not even close to being an option for me. I just...sooner or later ..use it for everything from "I feel a bit bored" to celebration to mourning....and then I am back in that addictive loop again. There's plenty of cool shit to do in this world beside alcohol it just took me a while to realize that ..and to see alcohol for the highly advertised garbage it really is at the end of the day. Every single month I see a post in my sober circles about someone who is in a life threatening condition as a result of alcohol abuse. Every year I hear about another death in the sober community near me due to a relapse or organ failure. The writing is on the wall to me. Whatever choices you make...take care of yourself and don't abuse your body! You deserve better than that for sure!!

  • @user-iu3wf7xp1u
    @user-iu3wf7xp1uАй бұрын

    I want to stay sober forever because alcohol doesn‘t do anything positive. Sobriety is wonderful and a lot of fun. Actually 2 months sober now, I am becoming the person I want to be. Thank you Jay for the encouragement. Lilith from Germany

  • @Kevizhere
    @KevizhereАй бұрын

    I drank for 20 years and have been sober now for 18 months. I choose feeling better for a better life, so I will choose to stay sober!

  • @cmf2009thorn
    @cmf2009thornАй бұрын

    A great video which really hit home today, the sun was out, day off work and I got tempted! But then I remembered TODAY I M NOT DRINKING and I filled my day with some positivity and then this video popped up 😊 to reinforce my sober journey. Just passsd 204 days sober and I could write a book on how I ve changed for the better and what I can now do compared to what I used to be like pre sobriety. It hasnt been easy, everyday is a gift and a challenge. Stick with it everyone! If becoming sober is good for you thats great, if not thats great too. And lastly thanks Jae...again 😊

  • @dpwhitaker7088
    @dpwhitaker7088Ай бұрын

    Today I am 10 months sober! My comment to the community is you give me the inspiration to keep going! Thanks everyone.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    Ай бұрын

    Let's GOOOOOOO!!!

  • @megafarad4933
    @megafarad4933Ай бұрын

    I needed to hear the part about the lying, cheating, and hopelessness. I found that almost everything bad about me was when I decided to drink.

  • @Fredfred14
    @Fredfred142 ай бұрын

    These comments are so inspiring! Congratulations to you all for doing so well, and I want to live a AF life too, I'm just not doing very good with getting there. Thank you for this channel. I am learning a lot.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    2 ай бұрын

    Your blessings are right around the corner, you just need to meet them halfway 😉

  • @gwillis01

    @gwillis01

    2 ай бұрын

    We are all imperfect. The restart is more important than the stumble.

  • @coreyponder5296
    @coreyponder5296Ай бұрын

    Man I appreciate this video. I was.just questioning my sobriety I've got 3 months and I was just thinking I could just have one but then this video popped up. Thanks brother

  • @sunset33533
    @sunset33533Ай бұрын

    That meditation book called 30 Days to Sobriety by Harper Daniels helped a lot, as well as The Easy Way by Carr. The sober life is a thousand times better than the alternative.

  • @rja9784
    @rja9784Ай бұрын

    I plan to pray, study The Bible and love my wife more than I did yesterday

  • @stanmiles7637
    @stanmiles7637Ай бұрын

    Jae, thank you for your daily support. I am 137 days sober. Not my first time (...again), but this time I have you and my trust in God for daily motivation and, what a difference this time! You have been so helpful with this, and I thank you.

  • @nelsonMEXICAN
    @nelsonMEXICANАй бұрын

    Being sober and starting to be healthy made me more grateful for what I have. Being able to have a safe space with a comfortable bed where I can sleep with the peaceful sound of my A/C while there are people out there who don't even have that.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    Ай бұрын

    AAAAAAAAMEN! People really don't understand what a LUXURY it is to be able to climate control your home. My family is from the Philippines. We had to get water from a well, and heat up the water on the stove if we wanted warm water for bathing. #grateful

  • @anjaxtv
    @anjaxtv26 күн бұрын

    I don't have to, but I want to. I want nothing to do with that poison. Before I used to think "how can I go a full life without drinking?" Now the thought of even ONE drink gives me anxiety. Thank you for all you do. This channel has helped me immensely 💖💕🩵

  • @debbieomalley3451
    @debbieomalley3451Ай бұрын

    Still going strong at 277 days sober and still have that unopened 12 pack of White Claw in my fridge for just a tad longer than the number of my days sober. This was an excellent video Jae. Keep them coming!!

  • @Nemo71340
    @Nemo71340Ай бұрын

    Every time I’d go back to drinking I’d feel terrible, I couldn’t drink without feeling crappy once I turned like 30. So now I don’t even think about it, the alcohol buzz truly isn’t worth the 2-3 day hangover and purposely making myself sick.

  • @Astral_Dusk
    @Astral_DuskАй бұрын

    I'm convinced that the real healing is ascending beyond "how long do I need to stay sober" to "I'm happily sober" I've found a massive benefit to incorporating blended veggies + plant protein powders for the sober journey. A boost in wellbeing that will likely surprise most if they haven't really tried it out. I upped my protein dramatically to about over 70% of my bodyweight in grams from r mostly plant based proteins and it feels like a night and day shift in my overall wellbeing. A game changer. I'm curious if there's science behind this strategy to sobriety, feels beyond just supportive but transformative.

  • @Joe_Joe_The_HvacMan
    @Joe_Joe_The_HvacManАй бұрын

    I am very excited to say that I’m on my four weeks and one day sober! I took it seriously six months ago and have been up and down but more up than down and now great sober streak! I have no intentions of going back to drinking ethanol! Sleep is better, I am more productive, definitely more money in my pocket! and I’m able to be the version of myself that I believe God made me to be and that everybody else enjoys me being! Thank you Jay for your videos and yes it is possible to have a better life without alcohol! I thank God for the strength and that He has never left me.

  • @younghem
    @younghemАй бұрын

    Tired of being in pain and throwing away days to recover from alcohol 8 days sober and I’m done .

  • @lenkahairsalon9482

    @lenkahairsalon9482

    Ай бұрын

    First week was the hardest for me !!! You are amazing don’t give up 💪🏻

  • @pippaboyd88
    @pippaboyd882 ай бұрын

    Great video as always im nearly at 150 days and is has flown by. Its the end of the day here in the uk and i exercised for three hours with a ninety minute hike in the forest and saw some lovely birds of prey. The motto of just not drinking today is great. It is definitely getting easier as time goes on and your videos always help. Thank you!

  • @Catz1972
    @Catz1972Ай бұрын

    In a week I will be 11 months sober. I wrote on your channel when I had been sober for 2 days. I was scared and excited, but you offered kind words and encouragement. Thank you so much for that

  • @jonesnbones
    @jonesnbonesАй бұрын

    I feel blessed to wake up sober and alive. I made the right decision last year even if it was a rocky start. Camping without whiskey and beer is still good fun.

  • @logannixon231
    @logannixon231Ай бұрын

    Day number 44 and I willl never look back I’m so happy to be here I wish everyone a safe day and a sober day god bless

  • @Scott_Shafner
    @Scott_ShafnerАй бұрын

    5 months & 12 days no alcohol. It’s been getting harder lately so I returned to this video.

  • @brigittelee9730
    @brigittelee9730Ай бұрын

    I’m going to celebrate my twin daughters’ graduation from high school tomorrow without alcohol and I’m so excited 🎉

  • @taxoffender
    @taxoffenderАй бұрын

    220 days in and I feel great!

  • @scottjaffin3691
    @scottjaffin36918 күн бұрын

    Thanks Jae. It will be 3 years Oct 18. Your videos were critical to my success the first year when I marked every day on the calendar and watched your vids twice a day. Seeing your bloated and sad face on your day one…and your lean, and happy face after 30 days proved your health claims and inspired me. And knowing that you quit, failed, and were trying again made you very relatable. Thanks again.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    23 сағат бұрын

    😭🫂👉😁 KEEP US UPDATED ON YOUR 3 YEARS 🙏

  • @rodriguezpedro01
    @rodriguezpedro012 ай бұрын

    7 months now sober...I'm sober today one day at time

  • @fortythreenorth2518
    @fortythreenorth2518Ай бұрын

    Sometimes I feel like I'm just taking up space. Like I'm a burden on the planet and my existence has no meaning other than working, drinking and sleeping.

  • @GettingSoberAgain

    @GettingSoberAgain

    Ай бұрын

    One of the main reasons to quit drinking ✅

  • @lucyloose6727
    @lucyloose6727Ай бұрын

    Dang what’s the question??? Of course sober life is now just a lifestyle for me. Never heard anyone say they hated quit drinking 👍

  • @mrJohnDesiderio
    @mrJohnDesiderio2 ай бұрын

    Preproduction prep for my next short film. 172 days sober. Sober forever !

  • @millriverfarm
    @millriverfarm5 күн бұрын

    Going to bed sober is the best

  • @davidmacevoy5842
    @davidmacevoy58422 ай бұрын

    I caved yesterday 😔. I have to start over again. I pray it sticks this time

  • @moffatk7948

    @moffatk7948

    Ай бұрын

    Good luck.

  • @enjoy1ife

    @enjoy1ife

    Ай бұрын

    I really appreciated when Jae said you don’t have to go back to zero of you have a misstep. Your countdown just has an asterisk. Consider your average. Keep on going, you still have momentum!

  • @brucegold5046
    @brucegold5046Ай бұрын

    These Videos always help me from slipping back into my old habits---and remind me what I escaped from.

  • @louilind4300
    @louilind4300Ай бұрын

    288 days today. At new years I promised myself minimum 1 year of staying sober. I'm not an alcoholic yet I drank too much. The one year is coming up and I noticed it bothers me. I feel like I soon will have to make a choice again. If I go back to drinking it would be almost never but with everyone around me drinking a lot I think that might not be realistic. Think I'm having real doubts for the first time since stopping. I quit with a temporary time in mind but I might just keep it going that way. Yeah why not. Next goal. Staying sober until I graduate my masters.

  • @stepha3003
    @stepha3003Ай бұрын

    Goodness, thank you for this!! I feel like my brain got a massage & reset for the weekend, your words are very healing and inspiring!! Your approachable demeanor and realistic words are helpful more than you know - sending you heartfelt thanks, Jae!!!

  • @kevinmitchell1151
    @kevinmitchell1151Ай бұрын

    I know it sounds silly, but I cannot bring myself to stop drinking because it is so hard to fall asleep. But then again, when I have a week off of work, I still can't bring myself to stop either. I wish I could do it.

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