Me and my lady met on fb. She's a beautiful filipina and we've been LDR for 10 years now and still going strong. I visit her every year and soon we will be living together. We are inseparable and we are good to each other.

@bluemenace04

Жыл бұрын

@@Rubeauti yeah. We had a bumpy start but right now we are inseparable and our trust in one another is unbreakable. She knows I won't betray her trust and she knows I won't betray her trust. We decided we are the best match for each other for life and beyond.

@dave-d-grunt

Жыл бұрын

@@Rubeauti my thought too

In regard to foreigners and courting, I can’t speak for every foreigner, but I can tell you how it was for me and my filipina girlfriend. Indeed there was no “courting phase”, because I think foreigners that are actually interested in you see the first few dates more as a “getting to know you” phase. Do I like this girl? Does she like me? Are we getting along? Do we “vibe”? During that phase I don’t think foreigners will put the effort into courting, because they don’t even know yet if they want a relationship with you. And after that the evolution and progression from “I like her” to “I love her” is usually pretty sudden but fluent. One day my now girlfriend was my best friend and the next day she was my girlfriend. But since she’s filipina and I knew she might not understand if I don’t say it out loud, I did ask her to be my girlfriend directly, which I probably wouldn’t do if I was dating back home in Europe. And after that decision to be in a relationship the little sweet things, that you might call courting, started. Lovely dinner dates, flowers, gifts, whispering sweet nothings etc. Once I have a relationship to invest in, I will invest in it with effort. But rarely before I’m even sure whether I like that girl. Filipinos still have that fantasy that big love suddenly happens out of nowhere; somebody that never talked to you before is suddenly eternally smitten and will do everything for you. But that’s usually just a fantasy, because I don’t think you can call that crush “love”. When I’m in love, I will do everything you consider “courting”. But usually not before I’m sure it’s love.

@dddtrump

Жыл бұрын

Same. I had to declare/ ask her to be my girlfriend after months of online chatting.. There was no way I would even declare an "LDR" with her prior to meeting in person. All went well in person and during that time after I asked and made it "official" that we were boyfriend/girlfriend is when the "courting" really began. Prior. we just chatted and vibed well and hoped for the best that in person meeting would happen.. and it would go well.

@BigJay039

Жыл бұрын

As a guy from the US, pretty much the same, but I'm only talking about me. The first few dates ate get to know her. If we click, I ask her to be my gf, and court her. I didn't even realize that I courted until I met (not romantically) a filipina and was talking to her, and she explained courting, and I realized I courted. Too many Western women seem to view courting in a negative light.

@wradak

Жыл бұрын

@@dddtrump Yeah, meeting face to face is really a must. Maybe that can be called courting, that's not a cheap undertaking after all haha

@wradak

Жыл бұрын

@@BigJay039 When my girlfriend first explained courting to me, i was a bit confused. It very much sounded like what I was used to with an innocent middle-school / high-school crush back home. Like a negotiation to get comfortable with the idea of falling in love, but not actually dating haha But yeah, in the west when you're supposed to meet your partner on eyelevel and on equal footing, it is a bit strange to make the men work just for their affection to be heard. Feels like dating a process, not a person. I don't envy filipino men haha In the west i think we simply include all the deeds of courting into our existing relationship, at least if we want to make our women happy lol

@Anthony_in_Bloomington_Indiana

Жыл бұрын

. Please break up your long comment with blank lines. This is a 9th grade, English class skill. 🖊️📋 I have given up on reading comments that are one massive block of text.

The western "hookup" culture will ruin the Philippines. What a shame. I wish Filipina's realized they don't need to be Korean or Western... They are precious and special because they are NOT modern and NOT materialistic and "dtf". WTF!!! So sad to see this happening. Guys, if you're looking for a good Filipina, look in the Provinces.

@user-lv8cv8sv2f

Жыл бұрын

I married a province girl, and she is absolutely the best woman I have ever met.

@byronbolen72

Жыл бұрын

@@user-lv8cv8sv2f same here bro. And congrats. A good Filipina is God’s gift. 💪🏻💪🏻

@ollelindskog4531

Жыл бұрын

This goes for Thailand as well... and probably Cambodia, Vietnam and some other asian countries. The more "westernized" they get, the less I want to go. I love the Thai culture and the genuine Thai people. Their culture is rich and down to earth in many ways and the west has lost their direction.

The Lady in the center, was very smart, and Spoke great English. Yes connection is rare, but when you find that someone, it is the best feeling ever. I hope that all three of you find that connection, and find the men that truly are the best for you. Dating apps can be tricky, and I have used them for many years, and have gotten heart broken by them. Many were not telling the truth based they were not who they really are, and some are bad feminists here in the US. I truly believe that there are great women out there, and in fact have met a special Filipina, and have had an LDR, for a year, and it gets better all the time. If you are seeing a foreigner, and you both are acting like you want to be exclusive, you never will. You are not going to be someone exclusive, if you are still checking out me, as you are not acting or ready to be with one man, and the foreigner will sense that. 😊😊😊

Dating apps..really just go and bump into someone who is real and chat. The real meeting will give you a chance to talk with a person, sometimes the meeting a stranger could become your partner 😊

@TheTanadu

Жыл бұрын

Press "X" to doubt. Especially introverts, for them apps of this type are salvation to meet someone "similar to them", someone who does not like a crowd of people or unnecessarily outgoing, but needs the "closeness" of someone next to them. So they can know each other and go out of their bubble.

When she said "not even a coffee dude" I fell out 🤣

@sdickinson5234

Жыл бұрын

She still went to his place if she liked his picture.

Starting to sound westernized, must be city pinays

The best dating app is the one that you find your wife or husband on. In my case it was international cupid. She is from the Philippines and I am from the USA.

Hello mis Rubeauti another video that i learn something new about Philippines and relations in general. But you are giving hope to many of us maybe without knowing that, the way you didn't know a lot about this culture and it was obvious from your body language,u and other girls like you out there are really special and precious thanks ❤️..

As I responded to your other video about body count it looks like the Western dating culture has invaded the Philippines and that is sad. Those sites mentioned are hookup apps and very shallow. Swiping right and left is only about looks and rarely based on anything else. Very shallow and very typical western culture based on looks and status and almost nothing on morals, integrity, faithfulness, purity. The stuff that really matters and endures over shallow beauty. I am definitely looking for province girls because this toxic, shallow dating culture is unbearable. The one guest could be my neighbor in the US and it's this I am trying to avoid.

@invisiblerevolution

Жыл бұрын

LoL.... @ "One of the filipina guest basically acts like my neighbor." I give it by 2040.... Filipina women will be totally westernized!

@neilgunns8391

Жыл бұрын

Agreed Sean. Definitely!!!!!

@ophanimangel3143

Жыл бұрын

@@invisiblerevolution Where have you been? They’ve been that way for sometime since we’ve been colonised by USA. However, 20 years ago, the garbage pop culture sowed its seeds into my generation and now the well’s been poisoned.

Me personally, I wouldn't look for a woman on a dating app or be with a woman that has a dating app. You can say and be anything you want on them. The trust she can and will be loyal and faithful would never be there. It's the interaction when meeting in person that lets you see who they are, and the body language can speak much louder than words, and you can see if there is chemistry between the 2 of you. Women do NOT need a "catchy" line when messaging a guy, something simple like "Hello, I saw you on ____ dating app and wanted to get to know you," is all that is needed. My guess (NEVER used a dating app) the guy will go look at your profile; 1st at your picture, if he thinks you're cute, then he'll move to read your profile, if he likes what you say about yourself, he'll reply. If he doesn't like the pic or your profile, he'll either not reply or reply with I'm not interested. It really is that simple for women, guys need the "catchy" lines to separate them from all the other guys. For a Filipina interested in a foreigner, all you have to do is NOT behave in ANY way like a western woman, and you are already on the right path. Watch a few KZread videos from western women and LEARN from them how NOT to behave, these are the women men are FLEEING their own countries to get AWAY from. A foreigner can have a hour long conversation with someone they never met before. If you see one on the street, don't be afraid, shy, or embarrassed to walk up to them and say HI, most foreigners would be happy to stop and talk to you, they really are that friendly and out going. Also, remember most foreigner men are blunt, they don't need to tell a story about their feelings, they stick to facts and logical thinking and get straight to the point, don't take it as them being aggressive, condescending, or argumentative, it's just the way they are and how they talk. I agree, telling a guy you're not looking for anything serious when he is, will instantly make him lose interest, but it is also better to be up front so you aren't wasting either of your time. If you go into a relationship thinking it will fail, you won't put any effort into it and it will fail. You NEED to dig deep into why a relationship failed, so you can learn from YOUR mistake so you don't keep making it. The problem with the "nice" little things a guy does for a lady is when they become expectations, she expects it all the time, and if he doesn't then problems and arguments happen. Those "nice" little things are NOT a measurement of how much he cares, just because he doesn't do it constantly does NOT mean he doesn't care, and when they are done constantly it takes away the special meaning behind them, it becomes just another day another nice thing. They can be a way of showing appreciation to you for what you did for him, if you haven't done anything don't expect appreciation. Manage YOUR EXPECTATIONS, life is NOT a Disney fairy tale inside your head, don't EXPECT something to happen or a specific response/reply in your head and get angry when it doesn't happen, life works in the REAL WORLD.

@Master-of-Soetry

Жыл бұрын

ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING!!!! 👌👍🤩😁

@neilgunns8391

Жыл бұрын

It took a while to read Eric’s War and peace comment, but he’s right on about most of his points. 👍

@ejtaylor73

Жыл бұрын

@@neilgunns8391 @Neil Gunns War and Peace 🤣Sorry Bud, the interview may not have been Gone With The Wind long, but so much was said in it in such a short time that just got rid of the writers block. Hope you have a great day.

@ophanimangel3143

Жыл бұрын

Really? Not all Filipino women are demure and conservative as you make them out to be. I have a distant relative here who married a filipino girl who grew up in the Philippines. When he brought her back here, she showed her true colours, cheated on him with a Canadian guy. I don’t think all Filipino women are the same as each other with values and personality. Please stop generalising us!

@Master-of-Soetry

Жыл бұрын

@@ophanimangel3143 Well said. I have an American Sister-N-Law, an American/Filipina Niece, an American/Filipno Nephew, and an adopted Filipina Niece all living in the Philippines that I help with Financial Support. I have a Brother-N-Law here from Hawaii (half Japanese/half Hawaiian) who fell in love with his Filipina High School Sweetheart born in Hawaii. They married and he worked two jobs for years to put her through College. She was a very pretty young lady and he was a rather handsome young man. She had an incredible body in my opinion, and so did he. They worked out all the time together when he wasn't working and she wasn't studying. He won an Amateur Mr Hawaii Bodybuilding Contest once, and she built her body so nicely that she decided she didn't want kids because she didn't want to mess that beautiful body up! After she graduated she got a job in Computer Engineering w/ a major corp., making over $150K a year!! He quit one of the jobs... She cheated on him with one of their closest married friends! He subsequently divorced her. The cheating friend left her and went back to his wife and kids. She went begging back to my Brother-N-Law, who not only took her back but re-married her!! She subsequently cheated on him again with a married co-worker!! Busted up the co-worker's marriage and became pregnant by the co-worker and had his baby!!! Needless to say, her and my Brother-N-Law divorced a 2nd time!! And that is just ONE Story of many stories of Filipina wretchedness in the United States!!! Do not believe all the hype blowing smoke from KZread!! Quite a few Filipinas are just as Foul as the Foulest of women from any race!!

Hey Rubi - love your content! Was wondering if you could give some advice to Filipinos coming back to the homeland to relocate and date and/or find a long-term relationship? There is definitely a better understanding between the two since language and culture match up much more - but I still feel like a foreigner whenever I am home to visit my lolos/lolas, if that makes sense. Assuming we can speak/understand the language, would it better to date/live in our home provinces? Live in a major city? How easy is it to make friends? Do westernized balikbayan have a difficult time acclimating to the homeland? I couldn't find anyone who could answer these questions and I like how you organize your videos! Hope you can help, if not, still love the channel - keep up the great content. :)

I always learn new things from you, like what DTF means 😀

@neilgunns8391

Жыл бұрын

Glad you didn’t know Rubeauti. 😉 😆

West poisoned the entire planet smh

@Eric-qm5xw

Жыл бұрын

A certain ideology…not necessarily the west.

Interesting conversations. I haven't tried dating apps yet. I plan to visit the Philippines soon. 😁❤

I don't like online dating. Waste time. I prefer meeting women in real life. Kind regards from Germany.

@Eric-qm5xw

Жыл бұрын

I actually find online dating to be productive as I can weed out all the ladies before say having a coffee, you’ll know if she’s educated..working etc. Also you’ll see numerous pictures before you meet in the flesh, then you’ll see if you truly have chemistry.

iF YOU HAVE WESTERN FEATURES, show respect and have some money to spend. Then you will do well dating here in the Philippines. Being an American is a plus

@Eric-qm5xw

Жыл бұрын

Even better English lol 😂

It’s the woman’s responsibility to ask the guy what are we.

If I didn't know better you could convince me that the middle woman was from the west, they sound one for one the same and that is disconcerting to say the least. It baffles me that Flilipina's think they need to adopt the more depraved parts of western culture to be appealing, when the exact opposite is true and its traditional culture and morals that makes them far more appealing to western guys which is sorely lacking in the west, I'd be willing to bet my bottom dollar if you ask most of the guys that go there, that very depraved culture is the exact thing they are trying to get away from. Call me a old soul or whatever but I find dating apps sketchy at best and downright malicious at worst, would much rather meet face to face rather than through a screen, at least with face to face you can see what your getting partially and there is less smokescreens to hide behind.

@neilgunns8391

Жыл бұрын

It seems like I’m agreeing with a lot of comments….including this one.

Very interesting 👌 have fun miss beautiful s

Hello. I am a tall blue eyed British man living here in Davao with a Filipina partner for a long time. From my experience the Filipina women here want you to be friendly but if you have a Filipina partner. Keep yourself for your partner.

What sports equipment would be most appropriate for your home town kids ? Softball and bat ? Soccer ball? Frisbee? I want to do a test to see what works best for a group of kids.

As a foreign guy, I personally have never asked a lady to be my girlfriend. I'll let her bring up the "what are we?" conversation. 👍

Hello I am a married man but my wife can’t have children. In one of your videos. You were asking questions regarding multiple wives. You stated that Muslins can have multiple wives. You also stated that certain tribes in the Philippines practice polygamy. Can you do a video about the tribe. Can you interview people from that tribe?

Interesting how non-Western women will match with an attractive man on a dating app and NOT message the guy because they think he's "too handsome" or his job is "too good." It's as if non-Western women have a reasonable idea of how attractive they themselves are and what they bring to the table. Compare that to Western women, who all think they're perfect 10s and only deserve Chad.

Why does the girl in the middle seem like an American woman? Seems like Manila would be a really bad place to meet someone. Is Cebu this bad too?

@ophanimangel3143

Жыл бұрын

Cebu is like Manila. Anywhere that is filled with metropolitan and not in mud huts is like this.

@annajaxon

Жыл бұрын

ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴡᴀᴛᴄʜɪɴɢ. 👍 sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ✍️…….⤴️ 📈📝𝑻𝒆𝒍𝒆𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒎♱𝟷 𝟾 𝟶 𝟹 𝟸 𝟸 𝟶 𝟷 𝟾 𝟼 𝟸↩️⤴️

Foreign men for the win ❤️😍

How can I approach a woman from your country? …I am very shy and afraid of rejection 😔😢😊😅

Honey child, where are you finding all these beautiful girls? Ooh la la. Love me some Pilipinas!!!

its hard to believe them , especially. when talking about dating , what about dating in person,?

Breaking news .. if ya meet the right guy ..ya will be ready. Slowly slowly…a serious relationship will show commitment and reliability.

Can the girl in the middle be my tour guide! I feel her n I would vibe well haha.

The experienced guys ask them if they are DTF because most of them are and it screens out the ones who are a pain in the ass.

I met my Filipina on a dating site, things have gone well, very well we've been married now for about 4 years. I get the feeling that a lot of Filipino women would like to be with white men. Could be wrong maybe I'm a little prejudiced cuz I am a white man, LOL

@ophanimangel3143

Жыл бұрын

Don’t generalise. I’m Filipino woman and even my own female cousins back home haven’t gone out to marry white guys. So no, not all women there are into white guys just because. And not all white guys who visit in the country are even good looking or great in personality. There are women there with actual standards so they don’t just pick one for their skin colour alone.

@walkingboss

Жыл бұрын

@@ophanimangel3143 I never said all women eant foriegners. But, for all the time I've been there, I have had a lot of women ask me, what dating sights they should go on to meet white men...

Usually you say goodbye at the end of your videos 😔

Province girls are also influenced by Facebook and the internet in general, but they are still a better choice than the city girls. It is all about economics when it comes to older foreigners and younger Filipinas. The province girls will only earn less than 10,000 P per month so if you give them that as a personal allowance, plus pay all the cost of living expenses you can find one who is happy and willing to stay home and focus on you. You manage and budget your money but don't be a cheap Charlie. Learn how to say NO NO NO AND NO BUT DO IT IN A LOVING AND GENTLE WAY.

@Eric-qm5xw

Жыл бұрын

A modern city girl generally will not go with older unattractive foreigners, they know there worth …province girls are looking for stability at any price. Unfortunately you’ll get the older foreigners taking advantage which is particularly sad.

@ophanimangel3143

Жыл бұрын

In my opinion? Province girls are the worst! There are plenty of decent educated city girls who would not settle with an old man with a bad history, especially divorced types. There are many province girls that are hardly conservative, they only are more submissive to any rich looking man because that is their only means to survive. They’re also the types with more likely becoming single mothers.

@Eric-qm5xw

Жыл бұрын

@@ophanimangel3143 It’s a tough call, the province girls are trying to survive for themselves and their families. Unfortunately the pressure exerted by Filipino poorer families can be intense. This is why it certainly an lead to complications down the line in Eurasian relationship. Your less likely to have this problem with a modern city girl as the attitude is very different. Suffice to say for the most part Filipina’s are beautiful souls, I’m blessed to have my partner.

@grandpapeteswordsofwisdom7114

Жыл бұрын

@@Eric-qm5xw Modern city girls are too much like western women. They don't want old expats.

11:00 I can’t speak for all Americans, yet for traditional Southern men courtship is pretty straightforward. There’s no such thing as “online dating” 🫣 it’s just “online friendships” 💯 until an in-person meeting happens. The first in-person connection will be the determining factor. If the sparks are right, the man will simply say something like, “will you be mine?” If the answer is yes, then that’s when courtship starts 🫰🫡 if the man wants you to be his, having never actually met you in-person 😬 automatic red flag 🚩 If he has confidence issues and can’t be straightforward, I believe that to be a major red flag 🚩

I would not want to be chosen for superficial features like race, height, looks, or money. It might get you the numbers but not for long-term meaningful relationships.

@jibril2473

Жыл бұрын

It’s the nature of all women to choose the best of any race. Women have always been true eugenists

@ShredzZ

Жыл бұрын

You can’t change nature. It’s same as man prefer younger girl that is feminine and fit instead of 🐋

@vince1012

Жыл бұрын

@Bob you're right. 99% of women do that. I don't settle for the 99%.

@Eric-qm5xw

Жыл бұрын

@@vince1012 Lol your presumption is your in that 1%…the 1% women are just that …beautiful, intelligent etc. And this 1% know it, their value ..hence they will pick by natural selection…all the virtues that give them the best looking kids with their best life possible.

@vince1012

Жыл бұрын

@@Eric-qm5xw you're making the presumption. In this framework, we're only talking about the 1% who are not superficial (and actually uses their brain) and putting aside all other (very competitive) metrics.

When is our date Rubeauti =o

@aquatikdawn3082

Жыл бұрын

@@Rubeauti I'll take that as a no

10:08 “Covid restrictions”😳⁉️ PH still has that⁉️😨😱

My favorite filipina blocked me?? but we still text ? Nope,,,,,,I can't understand either ? I just remind her the malls are full of beautiful Filipinas 😍 🤩 ❤️ not a problem 🌍🏝🏜🏖🗽

Less than 7% of Filipinos marry a foreign spouse.

@Ddog785

Жыл бұрын

is that really a true statistic????

@nolaone23

Жыл бұрын

So that still leaves millions of girls for the taking.. Also the percentage could be changed for the right people.

@BigJay039

Жыл бұрын

So Westerners aren't a threat.😉 I'm guessing that includes people from other parts of Asia too?

@hanglee5586

Жыл бұрын

@@nolaone23 most people marry people who stares cultural identities and shared economic status.

@hanglee5586

Жыл бұрын

@@BigJay039 more Asian in Asia marry Filipinos because of the close geographical area.

how to find a Filipina use Facebook got me one from Biliran island married her there in 2019 now she here with me in Atlanta Georgia ❤❤❤

Dear Rubeauti, We do have courting in the States, but just either most guys don't do it or the women actually don't know how to react as ladies so it has faded away greatly. Also, it is mostly a trait of country boys or what you would call province guys.

HOL’UP… wait a sec. Is “getting coffee” a Filipina euphemism for hooking up? Have i been missing out?

great information, girl in the middle very annoying i want to hear more from the 1st girl you can see she wants it say lots but is cut off constantly.

😎🤩✌️

If I wasn't already married to my perfect Filipina, those two girls might be in trouble... ;)

I hope this video is not generalising that ALL pinay want foreigner over pinoy. All my cousins back home have been married to other filipino men - decent men too. For me, I would marry someone who shares closely with my values, interests and beliefs. Skin colour is not as important for me.

at least turn on the ELEKTREK PAN!

As for me I never needed to explain courting to Will he did it on his own ,the effort and everything I truly appreciate it . I never felt so loved like the way he made me feel . Him being my bf is beyond amazing. He is such a dream . And I didn't meet him through a dating site . 6 feet tall auburn hair perfect pink lips ,hard working and amazing personality but sadly we didn't end up together due to religious reasons on my side of the equation. Thing is once you start dating foreign men for some reason you can't go back to locals

Cut outfit beauti.

Do not bring back the girl with pink pillow.

Tinder no no no

I saw that the US military is coming back to the Philippines. There’s gonna be thousands of single Filipina moms in a short time. I’d bet my life on that. These guys won’t be looking to settle down….only to have a good time. ESPECIALLY a certain group of them. You’ll see. Be careful any Filipinas that see this comment.

@neilgunns8391

Жыл бұрын

If you don’t think what I’m saying is true all you need to do is look at the inner city of every single city in the USA. 100% true and a sad fact.

@bipolaraquatics

10 ай бұрын

​@@neilgunns83918o percent of divorces are filed by women in usa

This the reason why filipino man be lonely in 2035 because filipina women don't like filipino man anymore that is the sad reality of filipino men today like in asian men in america

The girl in the middle sounds very experience in dating and too westernized....I find her to be one of those most popular in the dating app...sorry she's a red flag 🚩 for me.

Awwww ☹️ these ladies won't be a BFF? 😂🤡

I think women in the Philippines will be westernized soon. It’s only a matter of time.

of course they do you want that $$$$

@Eric-qm5xw

Жыл бұрын

Just like men want the most gorgeous girl possible …it’s a trade.

"DTF"...Dating to Fornication

Ganda Ganda propaganda diba?

Pinoys I feel bad for y'all. Your girls don't even want you guys. That must hurt

Focus on finding a good man, not a top 10% man. Focus on having a husband and children, and NOT your career. Your value is in youth, beauty, and fertility. The clock runs out.

@Eric-qm5xw

Жыл бұрын

A good man can also be in the 10%

@kvnndvn

Жыл бұрын

@@Eric-qm5xw Absolutely! The spirit and intent was to convey that women need to not over look good men just because they are your daily guys (such as myself).

cackling HENS🐔🐔🐔

those are not the right girls to ask Beauti.. come on lol

The young lady in the middle is very intelligent. Unfortunately, she is also becoming very westernized. She is developing traits that men are shying away from.

@DarrenNevares

Жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with a westernized woman lol

@KINSEY1956

Жыл бұрын

@@DarrenNevares you are very correct sir, nothing wrong with westernized women if you want to live a lonely miserable penniless life