Her mother didn’t come because she didn’t want to take accountability for her part.

@stacymiller5460

6 ай бұрын

Girl I said the same thing

@stacymiller5460

6 ай бұрын

He cldnt he get her on the phone 📞 during the show

@joshipp6439

6 ай бұрын

The mother played a vital key in this scenario

@michaeldlane-gw4ns

6 ай бұрын

Honestly, I was DEEPLY disturbed by the father's response once he received the news, because he seems so DISCONNECTED when he heard the news, such a poor excuse of a father figure.

@Muva2Tymes

6 ай бұрын

That part

I thank the auntie for holding her brother accountable.

@Sabrewood13

6 ай бұрын

She ain’t let up one bit cause she seen it for herself

@callen7403

5 ай бұрын

She held him all his life

@yanskimctall

2 ай бұрын

Because that usually doesn't happen. Sisters RIDE HARD for their brothers!!!

@gcchair7634

Ай бұрын

The aunt is getting on my nerves…she was strong on this stage prior to this she was complicit as well. She is talking over everyone and it’s the young lady’s story.

That Auntie needs to be a counselor. Very well spoken, I love how she frames her responses, and uses logic in a non-threatening way.

@lisaking6400

6 ай бұрын

I said the same thing 😂 she thought she was Iyanla

@tomekadavis6133

6 ай бұрын

@@lisaking6400exactly 😂 I was like damn she host #2

@lioniahilaire3127

3 ай бұрын

Uhhh maybe with some additional training . Specifically trauma

These mothers need to be held accountable for their actions as well! Brainwashing your children isn’t healthy and isn’t right

@bbqlaya3741

6 ай бұрын

how was she brainwashed? aint nobody gon tell a 3 yr old that aint her daddy and it seems like she always knew abt tyrelle....

@wilsontl83

6 ай бұрын

Facts, nobody wanna have that conversation tho

@stacymiller5460

6 ай бұрын

@@wilsontl83 I noticed that!! Your so right

@shermanblack1667

6 ай бұрын

Nope . Women can never do nothing wrong . They are perfect and blameless.

@topshelf6771

5 ай бұрын

Exactly that’s why she didn’t even want to show up!

That girl looks EXACTLY like him

@yolondagordon9689

2 ай бұрын

Exactly!!!! Nose and all.... Beautiful ❤️

I love how Karamo made him take accountability and that he pointed out that the father didn’t even acknowledge her after the result. I was waiting for the dad to get up and embrace her.

She’s angry with him, but is she holding her mom accountable too?

Karamo's emotional intelligence, intuitive awareness, sincerity, and empathy are off the charts -- he's a true gift to humanity! ❤

Karamo pays attention to details He employes analytical skills and psychology in reassuring and caring for his clients . He does a phenomenal job

@shawntesaforeman3484

6 ай бұрын

Regardless of the situation he always tries to show empathy to all sides. I love it

@phyllisfletcher6714

6 ай бұрын

He has a degree in it And he was also a social worker

Auntie is classy n I like the way she stepped off

She's so charming, im glad she healed and good for Karamo to have a tv *wife snd a daddy* 😂😂

Her dad is not taking accountability at all. Thank God for her aunt

Her mother should have been there with her on the show...😢

I’m so happy for her she looks just like her father ❤

Sounds exactly like my story. But my mom left me 😢 my dad stepped up and whole time my mom family was right around the corner.

@PranaChi369

11 күн бұрын

Wow!

why would she expect her aunt to be the one to find her and not her mother take her to him or him go to her its not the aunts fault 🤔

The mother should have been there! If the mother said he wasn’t the father and he not on the birth certificate Tyrelle has no rights and the mother doesn’t have to do a DNA test! The sister is in the middle but she could have did a DNA test as well.. But 30 years ago child custody was different and he had no rights. I hope they can bond together.

When u break up with the women dnt mean break up with your child that's not being a man

I was thinking the same thing. Why didn’t he get up? His sister reacted the way a loving relative would. Shame on him

How can he say that he never left her when he was never there. He couldn’t be a father because he wasn’t ready. He didn’t know how to be a father. Her mom should have sorted it out a long time ago.

What an amazing aunty ❤ so happy it turned out this way so they can now heal & love each other. Gods blessings 🙏🏼this had to be my fav episode!

I'm so happy she found her father. They deserve the best they need to heal together ❤️

She's beautiful, smart and strong young lady I ever listened her story!

I really don’t like how these men blame everyone else why they couldn’t be around. There should be NOTHING to stop you from being with your child! NOTHING!

@KiloSword

6 ай бұрын

Thats should be true but in this world we living in its just not possible,my dad couldnt come around me and i understand exactly why so dont say that shii

@fresh-eggs

6 ай бұрын

​@@KiloSwordYour father has no excuse.

@Stoneheadass

2 ай бұрын

No one wants to deal with a lifetime of chaos like the mothers want

It's not only the dad fault, I don't know why she is not blaming her mum. It's your mum that was sleeping around while she was in a relationship.

When this 32 old woman says she not blaming her mother.. my jaw dropped. Your mom carried the lie and didn’t handle her business. I understand the aunt because she like she said she was young they didn’t have a blood test. Nobody wants to be disappointing and be attached to a child that’s not there’s. But yet again, she blames everybody, but her mother.

She verbalized her needs very very well. I wish I could be more like that.

I understand that the man did wrong, but the mother is also very wrong for telling the man that she wasn't his child. The mother should have been there to hear it😢

I think Tyrelle was like I told them all along that is why he didn't jump up. I know he was the father he was just too sure

That's one strong and smart lady right there.

Sad that she had to be as strong as she says she is. She deserved better than the trauma that caused her to build the coping strategy of "strong".

I hope dad doesn’t disappoint her but his patterns give me doubts. I really want her to have a dad she can be proud of.

I’m glad she found her father but her anger is misdirected at her aunt. The only people responsible for finding out if you were blood is your mother and father. Although he told the aunt this information, sounds like she might’ve been a pre teen or teenager. What was she supposed to do? Knock on her momma’s door with no proof and stir up shit? Her father was wrong for not trying to confirm her DNA but, in the same breath, her mother sounds like she was playing games. “She’s yours” this week but next week “this ain’t even your child.” It’s trifling hood behavior and she really only has her parents to blame for that missing piece of her life. No one else. I myself am an aunt who has a brother who has several kids that he isn’t taking care of. It becomes A LOT to deal with. The first two of my brother’s kids, we helped pick up the slack. But when you come around with baby 3, 4, 5 etc and he isn’t pitching in financially but expecting his extended family to support HIS kids, it’s way too much. Our family told my brother that if he had any more children we would not be pitching in financially and that he would have to figure it out. Sure enough baby momma number 3 and 4 popped up on our doorsteps with their hands out. We have nothing more to give. When folks are laying down y’all need to start asking yourselves these questions: do I want to pro create with this man/woman? If I do, can I afford these kids if my partner isn’t there? How many kids does my partner currently have? Is he/she a good father/mother to those kids etc? The women my brother impregnated knew he had 2 kids and no job to care for these children yet they decided to have kids with him anyways. At this point, y’all need to figure it out and stop expecting extended family members (who also have their own kids, homes and bills) to help you raise your children. I feel sorry for people like the young lady on the show but folks cannot take away from their own homes and kids because your mother and father are irresponsible. It is what it is 🤷🏾‍♀️ Thank you for coming to my Tedx Talk 😌😂

@mizcatfish5972

6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂Your “Ted Talk” was spot on!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽

@user-yv1cr3ys2u

6 ай бұрын

Karma you are the best “don’t turn red flag green”🤔

@stacymiller5460

6 ай бұрын

❤️

@sherei9530

6 ай бұрын

If we would think about our extended families, we'd make better decisions, socially and financially. Your power is in your family. Dont let anything or anybody including yourself, drive you away from kin.

@taniyajenai5935

6 ай бұрын

Baby, your Ted talk was IT!

As a man he left, but as a concerned father you find out the truth. Stop making excuses.

@RemindMe268

6 ай бұрын

Exactly. As a man, I hate when other men make these lame excuses.

He showed absolutely no emotion when those test results were read….

@truthmatters7298

6 ай бұрын

How are you going to tell someone how to be emotional?

@904baybeecakes

6 ай бұрын

He kept saying he didn't need the test because he already knew. Seems like he's just not an emotional person at all

Beautiful young lady. This type of history is ugly & constantly repeating itself. I had the pleasure of mentoring a young lady whose mother would call her very ugly names & wouldn't tell her who her father was. Her mother & the father promised they would never tell until he dies. He died when she was 18 years old. I grew up with both of her parents. I had no idea. Their little secret really damaged their daughter. She's 36 years old and had been through so much. If you're going to enjoy the pleasure, enjoy the consequences. Children deserve so much more. 😮

@laurenhall878

4 ай бұрын

Wow! How incredibly selfish they were. I hope she can eventually heal! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Rejected is hard to heal

I think the father didn’t get up because he knew all along that she was his

Hope Shameka is happy now. Don’t rush into any new relationship. Have fun with your freedom.

Excuses, excuses stop making them- you’ve made them for 32 years. You say” you should have trusted me” .. Just be real with yourself and say you were not there and don’t blame anyone else. Your daughter is willing to forgive you, please be there for her. Stay Blessed🙏😊

You know it’s VERY unfortunate that couples change when children are involved but WOMEN PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE whatever the situation be honest with your children about who their fathers are, allow them to see them regardless if they have moved on, as long as the other person is not harming them, and don’t use your kids as pawns. CHILDREN NEED THEIR FATHERS!!!

I don't know the outcome but I'm wondering why she holding the aunt so accountable. She haven't said anything about her mom allowing her to call some other guy dad for years and not going force him into a dna test.

I don't know if she will ever be able to move forward with her dad and heal. I think she gonna keep rehashing him not being there and he gonna fall back again.

She was being very rude and immature towards the auntie

It's the mother's fault. No mother must not know the father of their child unless they were ' molested '. Period!

@rubyescobedo5750

6 ай бұрын

Well, if their whores and sleeping with multiple men, then the chances of not knowing who the father is. It's increased. There are no good reasons to not know who fathered a child. The only excuse is being violated, like you said. Any other reason is a bad choice. Smh

I’m sorry but is her mom not around anymore ? Because all this misdirected anger towards the aunt don’t make sense . Your mom suppose to be involved with helping you solve this situation because she the reason you are here . Your dad also has a hand in it because he knows if he slept with your mom there’s a possibility simple as that . 🤷🏾‍♀️

I love this man of God @Karamo❤

She has to believe him yet he was never there. How can she believe what she couldn’t see or feel.

The first episode sort of annoyed me, for the simple fact that it’s so many excuses, but not a lot of accountability. She can’t be mad at the aunt nor anybody else but her MOTHER and FATHER, they laid down and conceived you, they made that decision, they are the only ones who owe you any explanation. I’m glad she can heal that part of her, but baby, it ain’t auntie fault.

Chimeka good hearted she deserves better uncle karamo 💯always

I can't stand these adults keeping secrets..it is a generational curse. Start being open, transparent, and honest!! Too much cruddiness...

he did not want her to be his daughter. that is clear as day from his expression

@jackiejohnson5276

Ай бұрын

Exactly 💯

I think all aunties we should be as concerned as she is

Wow that was deep when she said she is ready but her 8 year old self isn't. Koramo you are so bright and I see what you are doing and how you are helping. Trauma is at the root of so many issues, we have to make healing a priority!

If you have a child that lives around the corner that looks just like you, you should have fathered up. If she thought her stepfather was the father for the first three years, sounds like her mother had two potential fathers and chose the wrong one. He should have stepped up. Probably didn't want to pay child support.

My heart was in so much joy to hear her here those words that your are her father & I hope he steps up no more blame game & excuses

I just love this show.. It was great to see the young lady on again at the end. Sending prayers and best wishes. Keep us posted.

I'm glad she had the DNA closure and I hope he comes around more. He reminds me of my brother. In fact looks just like him. My brother was non emotional like him but he love his children. My brother and family had to go through almost the same situation. He impregnated this girl who family had bad blood for generations like the Hatfields & McCoys. Their family murdered some of my relatives and my family murdered some of theirs as well. So her family moved her out of town to give birth and raise her child with other relatives. One day she visited back and her grandparents had my niece in the grocery store. My auntie who didn't not play had to chase them down in the aisle to look at that child. They hurried up and left the store. At the time I didn't know what was happening because I was young. There was a big age gap between me and my brother. My aunt told me that was was your niece and she said it's a damn shame people hold grudges this long.

He didn't get up because she was still beating him up so hard

The baby around the corner…. I love her and the dad

Baby b mad atcha momma

@marygreen8151

6 ай бұрын

Exactly!!!

@farneciamiller4772

6 ай бұрын

YES!

@taniyajenai5935

6 ай бұрын

!!!!

@alyviabryant7132

6 ай бұрын

Um no! She needs to be mad at both her Mom and Dad.

When the results came in he just sat there like….and

Awwww!! Both episodes were wholesome and the last one almost made me tear up 🥲

Kylar kept on referring to him as DAD even before the results

I love Karamo😂 great ending to that daughter father situation

I like the update this girl deserves so much better.

He knew that was his daughter.... and did nothing. He claimed the son, but not her. This is the weirdest case I've ever heard. This man could have had all his sisters and her cousins embracing her. Jesus

He's full of it, he knew that was his daughter. If he wanted to see her, he could've went to court to fight for visitation and make a real effort, instead of excuses. He's a deadbeat.

I hope he do what he says. Glad she found her dad.

Auntie needs to leave the stage and let father and daughter talk.....

@alyviabryant7132

6 ай бұрын

She did! 😂

Woo I like the end.ill tell my Dad he eill beat u up 😅she truly missed it.Thx karamo

I fine the pain this girl had

Tyrell is still learning to express his emotions.

This guy wason here before arguing with his 34 y.o. gay son over how he was treated by his father.Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois

If the mom said his were not the father, how did he get a picture?

second story he wanted a green card

@angelaburse6485

6 ай бұрын

I said the same thing

@jackiejohnson5276

Ай бұрын

Exactly 💯

The auntie is being placed with a lot more responsibility than the father… it doesn’t make sense why she should be the main one talking about it and trying to get through it.. it’s not we its him… he did it, he chose that

Karamo 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

Her mom is responsible for all this! She cant be mad as she is the cause of this! She should draw some her emotions and anger to her mom😮

Let's see dna test results

He didn't look thrilled when the results were read.

I love ❤️ this one. 🎉

The gentleman is right he was pushed away by your mum

If the mom tells you ain’t the father go on about your business

I’m so happy for her and I got very emotional (in both positive and less positive ways while in my own healing process) when she said “I wanna be able to say- ima call my daddy and he gon’ beat you up!” I couldn’t feel that hit me any harder than it did. Getting this kind of closure and sense of a true fatherly figure and shoulder to lean on, is a dream and seeing this happen for someone else gives my own inner child a bit of healing and I hope more people get to have this kind of closure for themselves.

They so beautiful ❤😂

the lady at the end is so pretty

LET THE MAN SPEAK!!!

Well it’s nobody’s issue but the daddy mama and daughter the auntie’s didn’t birth her

@prtdiva

6 ай бұрын

Facts. That’s between you, your momma and daddy.

He already knew, she looks just like him

I think dad didn't respond because the AUNT was between them, hugging his daughter for a long while he watched. If she wasn't sitting between them he would have hugged her.

Tyrelle is the perfect example, of a deadbeat father!!!!!!

It’s her mammy fault and she refuse too come

@jackiejohnson5276

Ай бұрын

Exactly 💯

The mother needs to take accountability too and she needs to take out her anger towards her as well because as a woman, why don’t you know who’s your baby father is and not want to be sure ….

It was a different time and when a woman tells a man that the chuld is not his what is he supposed to do? Its different for black men when the police are called. Forcing his way into a situation can be deadly. I feel for the young lady but her mom told him she wasn't his!

This is ridiculous. That man had ZERO, ABSOLUTELY no rights to assert himself. He wasn't on the birth certificate, mom said he wasn't the father, so save all that anger & accountability for Mom. Mom was the one sleeping with 2 friends.

Nobody listening to the gentelmam...he said the mkther said he was not the father

The Auntie didn't lay down with them, and it wasn't her responsibility to reach out. She couldn't make her brother do anything, and she didn't have to take care of her! Sorry not sorry!

You are a good woman cause girl I could never forgive a man and his family for abandoning me. They are so cold-blooded stayed right around the corner from you. You don't need them tell them give you the picture that was worth more then them being involved in your life sad

@Keithdagang

6 ай бұрын

They are are not cold blooded people

You can't be mad @ auntee and dad is one ginormous excuse😮 maybe he feels guilty for sleeping with his friend's girl. I learned that I'm an aunt from a DNA Test 2yrs ago. Has to be one of my brothers.anyway, I extended the olive branch but never heard from her