I used to work with a guy who's ex lied about him molesting her daughter. She had a daughter from a previous relationship. He practically raised the girl. Once they started having problems she brainwashed her daughter into saying that he molested her. He got arrested but nobody who actually knows him believes it. The girl recanted, but not until he'd been in jail for almost a year and had lost his car, job, and everything else. He's now in the process of suing her and she got arrested on a few different charges regarding false statements and obstruction of justice. My old coworker is finally getting his life back on track, I'm happy to report. Nice guy, he didn't deserve all of that bullshit.

@yeet69yearsagoedited48

5 жыл бұрын

I heard a similar story on reddit It’s just sad how everyone never believes the men’s side of the story

@LemonSte

5 жыл бұрын

feel sorry for him and horrible for the girl, she must feel so guilty.

@Javiervs258

5 жыл бұрын

@@LemonSte Well, I guess she is.

@leireifyable

5 жыл бұрын

@@yeet69yearsagoedited48 are you kidding? If this is true, it's a very rare example... Most of the times they never believe the victims or they can't gather enough evidence to send them to jail...

@begobolehsjwjangan2359

5 жыл бұрын

In sharia law, false accusation and false witness is punishable by death at minimum.

"Our kid at three years old told us to stop yelling." Smart kid.

@Leelz247

5 жыл бұрын

My two year old niece has to tell her parents no "lelling!" I hate it.

@aria5614

5 жыл бұрын

@Siobhan Fogarty I'm not saying it is. However, yelling is a clear sign of a break down in communication. After roughly thirty minutes into an argument people tend to repeat the same points and just get louder and louder as they get more frustrated. Ergo, a third party telling the other group not to yell is pretty smart. Kinda wish I did the same as a child.

@doclinny

5 жыл бұрын

I did it for years and it didnt work till I was like 10 f

@dewchamp5716

5 жыл бұрын

@@aria5614 As a child I had to do that quite often. Never really worked though, so I had to stop :/

@eurekamreum5458

5 жыл бұрын

@Siobhan Fogarty I'm sorry but nope, we shouldn't normalize that toxic behaviour (and this is coming from someone whose grandparents had to raise because bio parents yelled at eachother, fought and were generally useless - well, they still are in many ways), just because a lot of people have no emotional intelligence and therefore shitty relationships doesn't mean it's okay for the kids to witness all of their bullshit unfold, even if it's only every now and then. Parents should do better than that.

When she produced a knife on me, and said my daughter would be next. Damn near crushed her wrist until she dropped it and kicked her out. Was genuinely surprised when I filed on grounds of unreasonable behaviour.

@kimberlyjones8152

5 жыл бұрын

Doubt it was a genuine surprise prob just playing dumb

@EdgarFriendlysCivicsTeacher

5 жыл бұрын

@@kimberlyjones8152 you'd be surprised with someone with BPD.

@macdhomhnaill7721

5 жыл бұрын

Wayward Spoon Surprised they didn’t come down on you for squeezing her wrist what with the current “justice” system.

@EdgarFriendlysCivicsTeacher

5 жыл бұрын

@@macdhomhnaill7721 Indeed, as much as I wanted it logged officially I didn't risk getting police involved, fortunately when I brought it up as grounds for divorce she admitted to it, so I still got my divorce without too much grief. Bonus fuckery: when she talked about wanting to drown my daughter to social workers their response was to interview me "what did you do to make her that upset?"

@macdhomhnaill7721

5 жыл бұрын

Wayward Spoon Gah, man. Fuck women and double fuck the system that perpetuates their behavior and then holds you responsible.. Glad you got out okay, man.

The one throwing away the cooked chicken at Thanksgiving is terrible to read. Like why would you even do that?

@VanityDivined

5 жыл бұрын

Kalyka 98 maybe she was jealous that he was being a good parent & wanted to take those points from him

@pizza87760

5 жыл бұрын

I 100% guarantee you he's not telling you the full story on that one.

@ataraxia2894

5 жыл бұрын

pizza87760 an anonymous stranger posts a story. “I 100% guarantee....” sure bruh.

@ghost-facedhindu4275

5 жыл бұрын

To be a vindictive bitch?

@paigethedork9693

5 жыл бұрын

@@pizza87760 yeah it sounds like she was upset over something, but even if he murdered her mother that is not an appropriate reaction, she is punishing her own daughter for an overreaction at best.

"you rob me of solitude, but provide me with no companionship"......COLD!

@felipe96ification

5 жыл бұрын

SMART

@Irene-gq4jr

5 жыл бұрын

@Siobhan Fogarty Succinct and depressingly accurate.

@mx_lei

5 жыл бұрын

@Siobhan Fogarty Referring to boredom. There is a point at which you say to yourself, 'Why am I here? How is this serving me?'

Honestly that father in law who helped out the OP was awesome for taking care of the kids while OP got through the infidelity.

@rowinacamacho6343

5 жыл бұрын

Best father in law.

@rowinacamacho6343

5 жыл бұрын

Also the husband pretty much played chess with his ex. He was 5 steps ahead everytime.

@buca117

5 жыл бұрын

I love stories like that. When people are willing to stand up for what's right instead of family. Any father that's willing to stand by a cheating daughter instead of the loving father of his grandchildren needs to reconsider their moral standing.

@areswalker5647

5 жыл бұрын

he is a great father in law and i bet a great man in general. it would have been even better if together with the kids he invited him too for the night to let him cool off. i'm happy the man left the house before the woman came back because when you're hurt and angry you can say and do things that you'll regret later

@Sensorium19

5 жыл бұрын

Not always of course, but a lot of parents know when their kid isn't going to be the one in the right.

Being falsely accused of molesting a child that you took care of and loved in a parent/child relationship must really be devastating and enraging. I'm a really laid back guy but I'm not sure I'd be able to manage my temper after that. Some people are just straight up devilish.

@jaredjames1989

4 жыл бұрын

hell yeah. i'd snap like O.J. lol

@rbrucerye

4 жыл бұрын

I'm not all that confident that I could successfully resist the urge to carefully plan out and execute that persons murder / disappearance if someone were to have done that to me.

@thegermanfool8953

2 жыл бұрын

Filing a false accusation on someone to that extent should be a life sentence

@Consortiumed

2 жыл бұрын

@@thegermanfool8953 I think that a false accuser should be sentenced to the amount that the victim would've gotten if found guilty.

@thegermanfool8953

2 жыл бұрын

@@Consortiumed they should have to pay a large amount of money as well And there should be a system for people to be identified for making such false accusations we can avoid these people

The day I came home from work to find my perfectly healthy dog had been taken to the kennel and put to sleep.

@kristian6110

5 жыл бұрын

Heath Barrett that should be a crime

@vaprin2019

5 жыл бұрын

@@kristian6110 Killing dogs? Yes, that is a crime in America.

@irlquicksilver

5 жыл бұрын

Oh no...I'm so sorry that happened to you...

@allyjay7395

5 жыл бұрын

That would have ended with me in prison for murder.

@thebackyardbear

5 жыл бұрын

@@allyjay7395 Yeah, that was the mindset I had as well... Happened in 2002, divorce was final in 2003... and I STILL have that urge when I think about it.

Man or woman, gay or straight, when you find someone's cheated on you, end it then and there. The only thing that they'll get better at is hiding the affair and possibly hiding more joint assets.

@arthur3681

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@red0421

5 жыл бұрын

They cheat once, they'll cheat again. It just shows which one of you values the relationship and which one couldn't care less. They'll apologise, swear it won't happen again, but that's only because they don't want to be the "bad guy" to everyone you know. But they will, and they'll expect you to forgive them again, then get angry and confused when you won't.

@ImAviex

5 жыл бұрын

While I say this isn't a terrible mantra to live by. As its safer than trying to give too many chances to people who clearly don't deserve it. I think at the end of the day you should use your own judgment, assuming you can keep an objective level head. Not every single person who cheats is vindictive or has a lack of love for the person they are with. People are complex and we make mistakes and have moments of weakness. You could divorce or break up with someone you might have had a long happy life with simply because they made a mistake in a moment of weakness. I am not saying every cheater should be forgiven, but I also think not everyone who cheats should be condemned for it. It comes down to the circumstances and the individual. Humans aren't perfect.

@Visplight

5 жыл бұрын

@@ImAviex A mistake is forgetting your keys. You don't accidentally create the multiple lies needed to have an affair, nor is it done in a single moment of weakness. It's like saying if he hit you a few times it could be a moment of weakness and you still could have a long happy relationship. Yeah, probably not - and even if they never did it again (they will) the trust is still gone.

@MrFuggleGuggle

5 жыл бұрын

Cheating is how good people get STDs they didn’t ask for, or deserve.

Feeling sad for the guy who made the bench for his ex...

@TobyIsAWoman

5 жыл бұрын

That hurt me.

@o0Theresa0o

5 жыл бұрын

Why? He said that he did "chores" for her. Sounds like she expected him to pull his weight around the house and he wanted cookies for it, and when she didn't give it to him because that's what you do when you live with someone, he got butthurt.

@mrshumancar

5 жыл бұрын

@@o0Theresa0o I understand the chores part, but no way should that be taken for granted by the partner. The thing here is the bench. I'm a hands-on person, when I care about someone I'll make something for them, and the worst thing you want to have is that gift was ignored/unappreciated by the person you intended it to.

@o0Theresa0o

5 жыл бұрын

@@mrshumancar Nah - he started it off saying that he did "chores" for her. You don't do "chores" for your partner - you fucking maintain your own home! He was acting like a child. His bench was a last-stitch effort because she was at her wits end with his bullshit. She wouldn't come home and tell him she's sick of him for no reason (which is when he says she missed the bench). What was she supposed to do? Stop in the midst of telling him she wants a divorce and say "oh, by the way... nice bench"? As if she even noticed it? That story screams nonsense to me.

@h.s.6269

5 жыл бұрын

@@o0Theresa0o You're reaction comes off as heavily female biased, some femnazi bs, jesus... we weren't given any info besides the fact he liked to make her happy by doing chores and that she stopped being appreciative. Someone who puts so many hours of hard labor into crafting an item for someone else does not seem to be the selfish one. Also that isn't done unless it's made with love or they figure they'd be rewarded (like selling it for profit). Personally I'd love for my husband to create thoughtful things and letting me know he is still in love in such ways, it's a beautiful way to express it.

I realized it was time for a divorce when she didn’t complete her Japanese lesson....

@rugalbernstein5913

5 жыл бұрын

Tenno heika banzai, amiright?

@caitthecat

5 жыл бұрын

I was cheating on you, anyway! With memrise! He actually TALKS to me!

@shadowofthehitokiri5787

5 жыл бұрын

Ha!

@seg162

5 жыл бұрын

Did you divorce her from life?

@kimmyseon46

5 жыл бұрын

I wanna type the omae wa thing but I'm too lazy Also please don't kill me you fucker owl it was only one day

>Believes in prayer power! >Does adultry

@davidtucker9498

5 жыл бұрын

To be fair, their son had gotten cancer, possibly died... Her grief was likely immense. Not an excuse for her actions, but I can understand her having a complete lack of any logic whatsoever.

@superawesomejeff

5 жыл бұрын

@@davidtucker9498 there is no amount of grief that will justify fully performing a sexual act with someone outside of your marriage. That is an act of complete betrayal, utter humiliation, and she then poured salt on the wound by blaming her husband. (whom, by the way, is still also in a tremendous amount of grief, which has just been exacerbated).

@mocromo2010

5 жыл бұрын

@@davidtucker9498 How about his grief ya fucking mangina.

@davidtucker9498

5 жыл бұрын

@@superawesomejeff I 100% agree. I'm not excusing her in any way. I simply understand how grief can make you justify things to yourself that make absolutely no coherent sense.

@dx1450

5 жыл бұрын

Just being a good Christian.

The one about the 3 year old telling them to stop yelling... Damn... That broke my heart

@humanrightsadvocate

5 жыл бұрын

In most cases parents don't give a fuck and keep yelling. Or worse.

@cheetopuff8888

5 жыл бұрын

@@humanrightsadvocate yeah, my parents are like that :'))

@elspoek1

5 жыл бұрын

@@humanrightsadvocate Yeah, my sister did it once and my parents just yelled louder, but this time directed at her.

@Pedrosa2541

5 жыл бұрын

@@elspoek1 Deserve a seal for bad parenting.

@elspoek1

5 жыл бұрын

@@Pedrosa2541 Tell me about it. It still took way to long, but they're finally divorced. Thank god

I just don't get how people can lie like that, makes me afraid of loving anybody.

@marlom7882

5 жыл бұрын

LordBummingtonThe3rd don’t

@llbigwave

5 жыл бұрын

For every horrible person that gets all the attention, there are several good people who don't get attention only because they are good and don't cause any problems. These are the people to love.

@IzzySarru

5 жыл бұрын

@Siobhan Fogarty The hatefucking would be legendary.

@TrebTrails

5 жыл бұрын

The juice ain't worth the squeeze. Life is simpler alone :)

@LordBummingtonThe3rd

5 жыл бұрын

@@TrebTrails I don't necessarily like being alone

These make me so sick to see. My grandmother is an abusive narcissist and treats my grandfather like absolute garbage. He won't leave her though cause I think he's afraid of being alone. She also abused my mom and is in general terrible to her family members. Good on these men for getting out while they could. These types of women will never change, only get worse.

@kaydwessie296

5 жыл бұрын

Olivia Peralta We has to cut off my narcissist grandma recently so I relate

@CapitalMort

5 жыл бұрын

Olivia wow its like you're describing my grandmother word for word!

@mukman8151

5 жыл бұрын

Take the advantage and wait 20 years and watch her on her death bed hooked on life support and unplug it to charge your phone

@brendanblanks4438

5 жыл бұрын

My grandpa is clearly terrified of being alone. He had a hard time coping when my grandma was recovering from surgeries. It's sad because she's stuck there and can't do some things because he's simply too old to travel anymore. Anyway, point is that you're very likely right.

@CASH10K

5 жыл бұрын

Whoa that sounds exactly like my grandparents

My mother stated she would choose drugs over me. Her son.

@earthbind83

5 жыл бұрын

Some people are not adult enough to have kids, but still have them anyway. Hope you can have a good life despite that.

@cheesse9yearsand

5 жыл бұрын

your moms ur wife wtf

@LiikeAralleyrace

5 жыл бұрын

This is divorce stories bud

@samuelmmmk181

5 жыл бұрын

That's not mum talking brother. That's the addict in her. Clouds her judgement. She won't be Mother until she stops being an addict. Not sticking up for her, just hope you understand it.

@BenMelluish

5 жыл бұрын

Why was you married to your mum? I would've sorted that little issue first and then dealt with her drug problem.

When, she tried to tell me she wasnt cheating on me during a deployment, and wasnt cheating on me while i was at work, came home early on a friday to find another mans shoes in my house, so then i got her on camera, when i placed mini motion cameras in the house the next week. I didnt wait for her to divorce me, i filed the papers myself, she got a lawyer, i showed the lawyer a copy of the footage. Her defense to the lawyer and the judge was that, i had to cheat on her in a combat zone. When i had no internet and only a sat phone. The judge actually took my side, i was awarded my belongings and she was awarded no alimony. Which is what she was seeking.

@the_headless_horseman9682

5 жыл бұрын

It's crazy that, while she's the one that cheated, your reward for winning in court was not having to give her anything.

@autumnhomer9786

5 жыл бұрын

robert goodman I’m glad you had those cameras. Sorry to hear what you went through.

@johncalabria1607

5 жыл бұрын

Jody got you good mate

@Real_MisterSir

5 жыл бұрын

@@the_headless_horseman9682 Yea he should sue her again for her attempt at actively lying in court with the goal of robbing another person of their rightful belongings as well as mental damage that would follow had she actually won the case. People should not just be allowed to lie to others in court in the hopes of getting a better standing in a situation where they are actually the one who has done wrong. I'm sure there are ways to sue for attempt at damage of mental health and willful robbery attempt of physical belongings.

@fahey6797

5 жыл бұрын

This definitely did not happen in Commi-fornia. Cheating is irrelevant in this state. I got divorced and the judge did not even want to know the reason. His primary concern was to convince my soon to be X that she divorce rape me to the max.

Once a cheater always a cheater. Never forgive

@Fr0st1989

5 жыл бұрын

A policy that's served me well

@macdhomhnaill7721

5 жыл бұрын

Jimmy Dean Bowl All women are like that.

@Jdb63

5 жыл бұрын

@@macdhomhnaill7721 Na not all. Most though

@macdhomhnaill7721

5 жыл бұрын

Jimmy Dean Bowl You’d be surprised.

@stanpines9011

5 жыл бұрын

@@macdhomhnaill7721 back to r/inceltears with you

My ex wife got pregnant while I was away in the military. I hadn't had sex with get in a year and she was 4-5 months pregnant when I saw her.

@macdhomhnaill7721

5 жыл бұрын

Bradley Taylor Jodie fucked me over too. Most military wives are like that. Hope everything worked alright and you got out unscathed, man.

@glurp2661

5 жыл бұрын

PLEASE tell me you didn’t sign the birth certificate...

@themoleman6806

5 жыл бұрын

@@glurp2661 He knew the kid wasn't his while she was pregnant. I doubt he's that stupid.

@foxceles

5 жыл бұрын

My great uncle was that dumb, was in WW2 and came back to two other kids. Was gone for 4 years :/ Still raised them, wasn't the kids fault.

@punished7030

5 жыл бұрын

@@foxceles but WHY?

These are some good men, Great fathers and husbands. And women literally break their hearts. That makes me sad.

5 жыл бұрын

Probably most women felt just like you do reading other people's stories, as my wife did, but when it's your marriage you'll have a sudden spontaneous personally transplant, I guarantee.

@AdrianaBarron1

5 жыл бұрын

@ I don't think I will. I Watched my parents fight all the time and treat each other like crap. Promised myself I'd never treat my spouse, kids or myself like that. I'll treat whomever I marry with respect, even at times we disagree or aren't getting along. I can assure that.

@ussishkingang7194

5 жыл бұрын

Adriana Barron it goes the other way also

@AdrianaBarron1

5 жыл бұрын

@Tucker Johnson I meant "literally" as in intentionally, knowingly, on purpose, etc. Does nobody know how to read between the lines anymore?

@emridatla3886

5 жыл бұрын

@Tucker Johnson Hmmm, maybe one can literally break a figurative heart?

I know that you never know how marriage will change a person but some of these chicks just blatantly sound nutty from the beginning.

@petitebaje

5 жыл бұрын

sometimes though, marriage doesn't even change the person, they just throw off their mask after the legal I do's. It's scary to think about. Good thing many divorce and escape that crazy. Imagine some people don't o_o.

@taylorwaterman7316

5 жыл бұрын

LOL! You can't change anyone. Marriage changes nothing. I don't get how a piece of paper changes anything. Like restraining orders don't protect anyone. If you marry a crazy bitch, she will still be a crazy bitch, in fact the fact that you put a ring on it shows you are ok with it. It makes her think you are ok with it, and guess what she will do it EVEN WORSE. News flash. It's like you get a job and you are lazy, you are not suddenly get not lazy, you'll still be lazy. Contracts change nothing. It's a mental illness this society has. 'well you are married now' yeah? what does that change? you married an ass hole they don't suddenly turn into a saint.....just not sure why people are so stupid

@19Loken80

5 жыл бұрын

@@taylorwaterman7316 As tyrion said to Jamie "you always knew what she was, but you loved her anyway". It is a profound statement on relationships that almost no one realizes. When you are in that love bubble, you ignore all the crazy shit that should be warning you off. I worked with a woman that was a total bitch and her husband was one of the most genuine people I had ever met. I asked him why he was still with her when she is such a bitch and he said " I still love her". I think about that answer all the time when I see stuff like this. People don't think love be like that, but sometimes it does.

@Jade-ot9rs

5 жыл бұрын

Nazareth It’s quite terrifying really. Being in love with someone who was, deep down, a complete nutty asshole.

@19Loken80

5 жыл бұрын

@@beefar0ni As you said, they who and what that person is they just choose not to believe it. It is that willful Ignorance that hinders their perception of the situation.They love that person and know what they are, but they believe that they can change the negative if they love them enough. I wouldn't say they are idiots, they are just afraid and it takes courage to overcome that fear. The same fear that causes people to stay at bad jobs and horrible towns, the fear of the unknown. What if they never find another person, what if this is the best they can do, and what if they do not deserve better. I have known a lot of abused women and the lack of self confidence is what always kept them from leaving. Courage and bravery are easy to talk about, but are very rarely at the ready when you need them. It can be all that you pointed out and can also be psychological. Some of us are broken by our childhood experiences and the adult models we had or did not have for what relationships should be.

My ex wife called from some casino or club and said "When I get home, that dog had better be gone." My final words to her was "Oh. He will be."

@Tkieron

5 жыл бұрын

more info please.

@jasonterry1959

5 жыл бұрын

@@Tkieron He's saying he left with the dog.

@lesubtil7653

5 жыл бұрын

@@jasonterry1959 or the dog is his wife?

@you_a_noob8295

4 жыл бұрын

Good for you for leaving👍

@Ares-hi2hw

4 жыл бұрын

@@jasonterry1959 he left his own home.

I never realized how bad my previous relationships were until I met my husband. We always put each other first, we are always affectionate toward each other and all of our fights end with "this is stupid we love each other" and we stop fighting and compromise. It makes me really sad to know that some people will never find real love and what they have now is just (like what some of the redditors said) living with a roommate.

@nopeno2120

5 жыл бұрын

Omg that is my relationship with my bon-bon, Buddy the Bunny, aka Skunkerbutt, Floofminster, or Poofball.

@goatfish480

5 жыл бұрын

Eh it's not all that bad. I have an amazing daughter and I have a rat whois pretty sure loves me when I give her goldfish crackers lol

@tomgjgj

5 жыл бұрын

Jesus, thanks for writing that, I was getting really depressed reading the other comments.

@georgestobbart4894

4 жыл бұрын

What a simp

@Ares-hi2hw

4 жыл бұрын

by now you are rich bitch and you got dumb husband happy life.

6:00 incredible father in law. He must have been devastated that his daughter was acting that way.

@Kat-gp6gj

5 жыл бұрын

I thought the same. So impressed with the FIL and also with the husband for being on such good terms with him that he actually called to tell him what was going on.

@Ifritlordofire

5 жыл бұрын

My ex's father, from praising me for helping his BPD and alcoholic daughter, accused me of being a paranoid and manipulative person when we broke up because she was cheating on me with her "friends".

@mocromo2010

5 жыл бұрын

@@Ifritlordofire No wonder his daughter is fucked up.

@Quball87

5 жыл бұрын

IMO I would do the same thing if that was my daughter f**king over her husband. I'd be ashamed and embarrassed.

@simpbeforeusleep

5 жыл бұрын

That is why you don't marry single mothers. That kid is never yours and never will be.

"What's her excuse this time?" Damn...

@robertgraybeard3750

5 жыл бұрын

fawful94 - that one got me, too. Most of these stories are real bummers

@davidtucker9498

5 жыл бұрын

Cheating is always terrible, but this one got to me...

@lo-keyloki9986

5 жыл бұрын

Total respect for the father though. His breaking point was when she affected his kids happiness.

@Xelights

5 жыл бұрын

Think that's bad? Our mom didn't want to pick us up for Christmas, at Dad's, and told us to take public transport (2h instead of 30 min). We said we wouldn't. She thought we were bluffing, so then she spent her first Christmas alone. She was in tears about it. (She moved to the middle of nowhere away from us)

@fawful94

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah... That's nowhere near as bad as what the OP in the video described. Want me to fetch a kleenex for you?

I was told I was not allowed to see my family again. I was going to go see my brother for his birthday (first time in years) Got up, packed my stuff and left. Best thing I ever did

@hughotterson6590

5 жыл бұрын

GOOD. It took me a while to realize my ex was trying to separate me from my family. Abusers love to do that because while friends might be too nice to fight, family usually calls out bullshit immediately

@hughotterson6590

5 жыл бұрын

@Siobhan Fogarty It's actually pretty insidious... It starts off small, and they are often very loving and kind in the beginning. It's a slow, gradual process that you don't even realize is happening, and by the time you do, your self esteem is so low you feel "it's what you deserve". They also tend to attach to people that already have very low self esteem or are very lonely

@The_SmorgMan

5 жыл бұрын

What Hugh said. Govt interference had caused the family ranch to fail, grandpa had just died from cancer. Got kicked out of school and my school housing because I made a mistake on my tax forms. (Apparently lucky I didn’t go to jail) basically was a nickel from being homeless. I remember sitting at a gas station not sure if I should go back to my new place to live because I had a dollar to my name (school and govt took everything) I didn’t think I could make it back to work the next day. I was in an incredibly stressed situation and it got to me Basically the daily complaints of me being a failure and how dare I let my life fall apart. How am I going to provide for her in this situation (we had been dating for a while) She presented several arguments for getting married. One was to move in together and save money. Anyways I caved and we did. I had saved up a little and after listening to her insult my father for a few minutes I said I was going to go visit my brother. She said I wasn’t allowed to go see my family “because was under no circumstances allowed to talk to my mother ever again” I faked an argument to get her to run to the bedroom and cry, then while she was doing whatever I packed all my belongings (fit in one suitcase) got in my pickup and left. Saved all of the death threat voicemails I received. (I doubted she would have tried to carry out the details, but I hoped it would help in a nasty divorce) Divorce went quite smoothly. We went to courthouse signed papers, I was in depth compared to Satan, and I walked out Scott free. I didn’t have to pay her a dime (got lucky I suppose) Granted I’m not an innocent in this story... the failed relationship is just as well half my fault. But I moved on and haven’t looked back. Now I live in the town of my dreams and I am well on my way to working for the company I have wanted to for years. I’m genuinely grateful to bed rid of that. None of what I have now would have been possible

@hughotterson6590

5 жыл бұрын

@@The_SmorgMan I'm glad you made it out clean! Yeah, it's awful, but it's definitely "good" in that it teaches you lessons that would normally take years in a short period of time. Not only that, but helps you recognize the nasty little things so you can warn people about to make the same mistakes.

@emridatla3886

5 жыл бұрын

I once broke up with a girl because her family was so toxic that I would never want to go to any family function had we gotten married. I might have turned into that person trying to separate someone from their family. Why deal with that when you don't have to?

She had a history of cheating, I was young and stupid enough to take her back anyway, and after 9 years of doing everything for her I realized I was lonely. She used me, and while I cared enough to do so much for her, I realized she couldn't lift a finger to show she cared about me. I should have known she didn't when she cheated on me, but I was young and naive enough to think I could find happiness in just caring about her. I realized by staying anchored to her I would never know how it felt to have someone who cared about me, so I cut her loose. The final straw was the last time she pretended to be asleep to get out of giving me a hand cleaning the house for about the 5 millionth time. That was the moment I realized just how much I'd done for her, and how she had never willingly done a single thing for me just because she cared.

@Midnight24435

5 жыл бұрын

It's funny how that one little moment is what defines the final outcome. That one little moment where she decided screw helping you clean the house and she's gonna fake being asleep, and it resulted in her losing the relationship with someone good. Kinda makes you wanna ask her later "Was that fake nap worth it?" but I get that people like that don't change. Hope you're in a better place without her.

5 жыл бұрын

Log onto Reddit and then find The Red Pill. It'll change your entire picture of relationships with women.

Moral of the story: Everyone shows their true colours eventually and people hurt each other. Don't waste your time clinging on because you're only hurting yourself. Accept, learn, move on and allow yourself the chance of being happier ✌

@nopeno2120

5 жыл бұрын

@cullrapists finally, non-binary people have a f*cking chance!

@burnssmith9817

4 жыл бұрын

I really have to take your message to heart. I've seen women get away with soo much and to see guys getting treated like crap infuriates me. I have to tune it all out but it's everywhere. I have to work in an office with 80% females and in my career I have seen nothing but bullying in-fighting, sabotage the worst of the worst all done by women. The men running for the hills to work on smaller teams with other men. I would never have thought I'd be saying the things I have on the forms 2 years ago....what is going on with women?

@zenden6564

4 жыл бұрын

@Dojocho if not all technically fail certainly they had a natural use-by date...

She took our son to visit my mother-in-law across the country. (I couldn't get the time off work) I cleaned our entire house except for her stuff in the bedroom. I asked her to clean the bedroom when she got back. Over a month later, she hadn't even started cleaning and things were getting back to tornado-ville all over the house while I was at work. At this point I was sleeping on the couch because being near her made me angry. Over 3 years of paying her bills and she can't even give the courtesy of tidying up after herself while I work. (She's unemployed) As far as my son knew, I was sleeping on the couch because he could wake me up in the morning and play with me without waking mommy so she could sleep in. Gave me around an hour each morning with my son and without her. I decided to eventually stop taking out the garbage and when she asked "when are you going to take the trash out?" I replied: "When that bedroom gets cleaned" I packed my things and left that day. I get my son every weekend and in the evenings after work so I'm glad I still get plenty of time to see him.

man these types of videos are depressing as hell crushing that one little part of you that maybe marriage could work for some people

@kaputasri

5 жыл бұрын

Not worth it unless you want your world to go up in flames some day. Its a ticking bomb that youll never know when it will blow up.

@positiveecho326

5 жыл бұрын

They do work for some people. Divorce is on the decline.

@vaprin2019

5 жыл бұрын

@@positiveecho326 Divorce is on a decline because more and more people don't want to get married. Thus, the people who DO get married are much more invested in their marriage and are less likely to get divorced.

@jonnyOysters

5 жыл бұрын

@@vaprin2019 right. I was about to say Millenials in general aren't getting married

@pudgeypigeon

5 жыл бұрын

@@positiveecho326 millenials in general aren't getting married AND the expenses of the proceedings need to be acocunted for.

When I realized she was running around with a friend of ours. Had been going on for a few months. Was going to file at that time but found her old cell phone that still retained text messaging. Sat on it for a few months-she and he moved. One week later I served her with papers. She was genuinely hurt and surprised I did that. Best part-her parents didn’t speak to her for months. Then, per the divorce agreement, I refinance the house; it couldn’t be done. I file bankruptcy. Her lawyer wouldn’t return phone calls to work out an agreement. She gets stuck with the mortgage and associated bills. 😂

@StevenSanchezWelding

5 жыл бұрын

John Killey 👏🏾👌🏾👏🏾👍🏾

"you rob me of solitude but provide me with no companionship".

@DD-d6d3

5 жыл бұрын

It's not original lamo

I can't wrap my head around how a person could go behind their friend's back and do shit with there SO. It blows my mind that people can do that to someone they call "friend"

@SlothinGames

5 жыл бұрын

Was in a weird situation back when I was a teen, two of my friends were dating, and while I was messaging the female friend she said that my friend was hitting her. Told her to get the police involved she said she didn't want to, told her to break up with him and she said she didn't want to; I said I'd talk to him about it and she said I couldn't or he'd make it worse. Being the friend on the outside it feels horrible and it really tugs on your heartstrings when someone tells you they're being hurt by a partner and all the logical options to dealing with it get shot down. Kind of makes you keep kicking around your head asking yourself how you can help the person. Little while later, she said she liked me and things heated up from there. Suddenly you've got this person you're worried about and feeling protective of, telling you they're interested in you and it feels like some weird kind of saviour complex love affair going on in your head. We never got to sex but if the opportunity came up I would have done it. Doesn't help that I was very young at the time, I was 17 and impressionable. Nowadays if it came around, I'd like to think I'd be much more firm about telling someone that they involve the police and get out of the relationship, instead of falling into this trap of thinking that I could save a person. Important to note: as the police were never involved, I'm not saying it was certain that she was being abused, nor am I saying that she was lying either. It's Schrodinger's domestic abuse charge essentially. What is certain is that I believed she was being abused at the time. Therefore regardless of whether it's true, I think it's fair to say that if a woman tells you she's being treated badly by your friend and then expresses an interest in you or invites your interest, it's possible that you'll cheat with her if the circumstances and your mindset are a particular way.

@TheSquareOnes

5 жыл бұрын

@@SlothinGames Following that logic though, wouldn't you also stop being the friend of the person you believe to be committing domestic abuse? So at that point you wouldn't be betraying a friend, you'd just be hooking up with a cheater (which is arguably a neutral act, they're the one breaking their commitment and not you). I can't imagine truly believing that someone was a wife beater and still being their friend, even if you feel like you can't bring it up that's still a relationship that is getting dropped like a rock.

@SlothinGames

5 жыл бұрын

@@TheSquareOnes it's a good question. I still considered the guy a friend, perhaps a little bit similar to the way someone might still feel love for someone abusing them; be it a partner, friend, family etc. I felt a mix of feeling sadness and anger towards the guy, which was sucky because I knew him to be capable of being kind and caring on other occasions which I really liked about him. Essentially, it became what I thought was an awkward friendship, I had a lot of mixed feelings and I couldn't bring up the negative ones with him so they were bubbling inside of my head.

@SlothinGames

5 жыл бұрын

@@TheSquareOnes it's like you want to drag him outside, and hit him in the face, and tell him to get his life together. That said, I grew up in a family where my parents were emotionally abusive to each other, and the same with their later partners; for long periods of time as well. Perhaps I picked up quite a passive attitude and some level of trait agreeableness; would explain a lot for me because I've been quite the person for not enforcing boundaries well in general

For me, it was one day when I spent 2 hours cooking him a 3 course dinner, served it and he couldn't even put his phone down for a while to enjoy the meal with me. Then he pointed out that I forgot to serve drinks .... and I said I'm exhausted I just spent 9 hours working (he was unemployed at the time) then 2 hours on my feet making your dinner and I just want to eat and relax. So he walked into the kitchen, poured HIMSELF and ONLY himself a drink and sat back down to continue eating his food while playing games on his phone, giving me the silent treatment for making him get up and pour his own drink. Never said thank you or anything. He never did anything nice for me even though I took really good care of him. It's the moment I started wondering what am I actually getting out of this relationship and realised the answer was nothing.

@latefordinner4513

5 жыл бұрын

Good riddance. He sounds like an immature fool

@shambolicrhetoric6143

5 жыл бұрын

@Siobhan Fogarty It couldn't. It was 6 years of him treating me this way and my asking for him to make effort. This was simply the moment I finally stopped looking at our relationship with rose-covered glasses on, decided my wants/needs are just as important as his and began having self-respect. Thankfully, I haven't had contact with that man in over 3 years. Life is amazing now.

@shambolicrhetoric6143

5 жыл бұрын

@@latefordinner4513 Yes very much so! Thank you. Much happier now :)

@veritasabsoluta4285

5 жыл бұрын

Are you gay?

5 жыл бұрын

@Siobhan Fogarty: "No offense, but this seems like something that could be worked out." You're a fuck'n idiot.

Man this is sad stuff, even sadder when children are involved.

@MastaSmack

5 жыл бұрын

Yup, I decided years ago that the madness ends with me...no children.

@nihilismistheonlyway4680

5 жыл бұрын

Always said you can get married... get divorced never ever have to see em again or even think about them but have kids and you’re literally stuck dealing with them for the REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!! Oh man if I could only kick “young me” ass!!!! 🤬🤬🤬

@georgelucas8287

5 жыл бұрын

People who do shit like that with kids involved are the scum of the earth.

The bench and beach one hit hardest. I've yet to marry but I'd like to think that my s/o will make an effort to see and experience things I'm passionate about (even just once) and will notice the culmination of the little things I do. Not wanting to do something so innocent that your partner wants you to see and experience to understand where they're coming from shows a huge lack of interest in them. I'm all for having your thing that you do away from them to maintain some balance and space but if they ask you and it's harmless/ not something you fear, why wouldn't you want to go and do it?

@WorkingClassZombie

5 жыл бұрын

Never marry. Focus on bettering yourself instead. Work out, eat healthy, do fun and enjoyable activities, have hobbies, save 25% or more of your take home pay. Live life on your terms, not the terms of a shrill harpy who has no sexual market value past 30.

@macdhomhnaill7721

5 жыл бұрын

TheOxbobxo Women will never show that kind of interest in you. I’m sorry, it’s hard coming to terms that they’re just wired differently. They don’t have it in them to care about anything that doesn’t benefit them. You’re better off going to the beach with a beer than trying to connect with someone who will only go with you if they get something out of it.

@AwesomeNinjaXD

5 жыл бұрын

Don't listen to these guys ^

@macdhomhnaill7721

5 жыл бұрын

The Awesome Ninja Brilliant rebuttal.

@AwesomeNinjaXD

5 жыл бұрын

@@macdhomhnaill7721 A rebuttal is a counterargument. I'm not arguing.

6:30 **cue Ross voice** " WE WERE ON A BREAK "

@Predated2

5 жыл бұрын

Well, if they agreed on being fully seperated, then yeah, they were on a break. If they agreed to live seperately to figure things out, they were not. Girls in general take the term "seperate" more into the direction as "I can fuck whoever I want without consequences". I even remember an old story on reddit about a guy and a girl who were together for 7 years, but decided to have some alone time for 2 months to figure out their lives. The other girl took it as being able to sleep around and ended up having 25 different guys in 2 months time. She then was shocked that the guy didnt want to continue their relationship, so as a counter offer, the guy offered to be able to sleep with 10 random girls whenever he was in a position to do so, as she didnt act through their agreement. She called him selfish and broke up after that. I know cheating isnt based on gender, but its very clear that when the relationship isnt serious, the guys tend to cheat where if the relationship is serious, the girls tend to cheat. Neither of them is right, but I generally feel that if a relationship isnt exactly serious for prolonged time, the partner might look for something more serious being a bit more logical(be it guy or girl).

@once.upon.a.time.

5 жыл бұрын

YO I JUST WATCHED THIS EPISODE LIKE 20 MINUTES AGO I AM *SHOOK*

@thetute59

5 жыл бұрын

@@Predated2The story doesnt go into any detail about that detail, so its just speculations. I think a couple has to define what one can and what one cannot do on a break. Theres nothing written in stone, no laws. Thats why people should talk about shit to make sure its okay for both parties.

@Predated2

5 жыл бұрын

@@thetute59 Well, I started with the "if they agreed", which is why the first part was ofcouse speculation. The rest of the comment was basically giving another example and as far as my knowledge goes, why girls generally seem to be less loyal in serious relationships and guys generally seem to be less loyal in less serious relationships. And yeah, communication is key to any relationship, but to be fair, if they didnt make a certain thing clear what is and isnt allowed, the other party should always inform if they could. Having sex or even making out with someone else while seperated is something that should be important enough to mention before actually doing it. I mean, making out can happen as soon as there is a click, ofcourse, but having sex most oftenly requires a secluded area already. Which only spontaeneously happens if you are already alone with someone in a room, but at that point you already know your feelings and should discuss it first.

@mahmoudsiddique

5 жыл бұрын

Best comment of 2019 so far.

I take a large part of ownership for my marriage failing, but not all of it. Things like "Hey, we'll talk about this after folks who were vising / staying with us leave", then after company left, I asked her if we could talk about the issue now "What, that is in the past. That was like 4 days ago..." F me. Or she would become an interrogator. I kid you not, the simplest of mundane tasks where bombarded with questions - I had to justify EVERYTHING: "Why did you go into the bathroom?" "Um, because I had to take a dump." The final straw was we were eating out, and I asked her to pass the salt. "Why?" Now mind you, she didnt make the food, didnt know anyone who did, it wasnt salty... she literally questioned EVERY frigging thing. I finally had had it, and I said: "Oh, its really neat, hon,. I read in my men's health magazine, that if you put a salt shaker up your butthole, you could.... BECAUSE I WANT TO PUT SALT ON MY FOOD YOU F'ING BITCH. WHY THE HELL ELSE WOULD I ASK FOR THE SALT!!!!" I mean, I could see, if it was in the middle of the day, and I came barging in the door, sweating profusely, covered in blood, and Im gripping my arm and I yell "Honey, Quick! Wheres the salt?!?!"" THEN I can see her questioning that. But if youre at a table with your spouse eating, and they ask you to pass the salt, common sense should prevail there. Asked for a divorce (surprisingly, THAT didnt produce a million questions like the salt shaker did lol) and things have been phenomenal. Im the happiest Ive ever been, and she actually is super nice to me. We split with our stuff (she made WAY more money than me, and we didnt have any kids so it was simply a walk away with what we came with). I feel bad cause my friends are dealing with horrible ex'es, and my ex wife is like the best... wife ever LOL. Its a shame we had to divorce for her to become an awesome wife LOL!

@brendanblanks4438

5 жыл бұрын

I was pretty bad at staying on top of communication, and I had problems with motivation from a combination of mental issues. Point being, she wasn't entirely at fault. However, she certainly didn't help matters. She would accuse me of treating her like she was my mom, even though in many cases I was taking care of her responsibilities for her. She would get snippy and passive aggressive when my mental issues rear'd their ugly heads (turned out later I had been depressed for like a decade). However, the straw for me was after we'd been struggling for a while. I at one point heard a song on the radio by her favorite artist and texted her to say it'd reminded me of her. She snapped back that I should know who her favorite artist is. That wasn't the straw itself, but it heavily informed it. A few months later, during the holidays, I emailed her (I was away at college) to ask her about availability so we could talk, like we both wanted to, about our relationship and to try and fix things because we both still loved each other (I think I was in denial at that point). I asked how I could best accommodate her schedule while still appeasing my boss who expected me back early to set up for the new semester. I kid you not, she actually had the audacity to accuse me of not listening to her when I directly referenced her earlier communications which stated clearly that she'd be available on the date in question. She would not be available. On top of which, she then accused me of trying to sound inconsiderate. She'd been emotionally abusive and manipulative in the past, but it was at that very moment, when I was most hoping to reconcile and heal things, that the whole "lie" fell apart. I was enraged, and I wrote the angriest thing I have ever said in my entire life. I never sent it. Instead, I sent it, and all our correspondence for over half a year to my god mother who was a lawyer. Another lawyer had papers written up a month later. I never spoke to her after that email, and I still haven't, though I did try once to just see how she was doing. She had her friend cut me off entirely after passing a biting remark through them. I stopped missing her after that.

@Biskawow

5 жыл бұрын

I'd just see it as an opportunity to make up a sarcastic comment every time she asks a stupid question

@tellurye

5 жыл бұрын

@@Biskawow Oh believe me, I did. I started answering her with outlandish claims, or I would tack on nonsensical things at the end like "according to the prophecy". But after about 10 years of that (mind you NO sex), it got old. Got a girl now, and Im f'ing like I was in my 20's again LOL.

@Biskawow

5 жыл бұрын

@@tellurye happy ending!

Jokes on you, I’ve never even married

@redditresponds3916

5 жыл бұрын

Give it a few years

@-lord1754

5 жыл бұрын

Dont. Dont get married

@The_SmorgMan

5 жыл бұрын

Don’t do it Wafflz. Date if you want to. Just fight like hell to keep your Independence, and don’t be afraid to dump her

5 жыл бұрын

From the other side I can concur you are correct Sir.

@someguyfromtheinternet5102

5 жыл бұрын

I said growing up i was never going to get married. Ended up in holy matrimony. Twice. Lol Im still married in mexico but my marriage in the states....its donzoe. I love my wife back in mexico but she can not come to the US. Unless she becomes a citizen or something.

This was something that happened to some other people in my local area years ago. The woman in the relationship (not sure if they were married or just shacked up together) went and murdered a guy and left something of her boyfriend's/husband's at the crime scene. I think it might have been his wallet. What she didn't realize was that the guy she was trying to frame was in jail the whole time for a relatively minor offense. I think she basically convicted herself by calling the cops on him claiming she thought maybe her guy was going to murder some other guy and making that phone call before the body had been discovered.

@azizmesned4537

5 жыл бұрын

Gewgulkan Suhckitt holy fuck thats nuts

@mangas368

5 жыл бұрын

Pretty sure her boyfriend had few criminal record's so she chose him as escape goat from the beginning just to take revenge on someone who hurt her in the past.

@Shreendg

5 жыл бұрын

Gone girl gone wrong.

00:44 "...you rob me of solitude but provide me with no companionship." Wow that pretty much sums up every romantic relationship I've ever had... all three of them :-(

@Upsettingtooth

5 жыл бұрын

Yep same here.

@Biskawow

5 жыл бұрын

maybe its you, not them?

Not my story but a friends. His marriage was already failing so his SO in her migthy wisdom decided to tell him she was pregnant with his child. That made him stay a couple of months until he discovered she lied. She ofc made excuses like "I tried to save our marriage, you'd leave otherwise". What's more disgusting is that he had a job opportunity offered to him that was a no-brainer but he declined because of the child. He left then and there, cut all contacts with her. I'm friends with her sister and from what I know to this day this b-word is convinced that my friend was an a-hole for leaving. Not her lying about a child, ruining his work opportunity and manipulating him - he was evil for leaving her. Some people...

@user-zu5um2vo4w

5 жыл бұрын

So you can say asshole but not bitch?😂

@Artem2034

5 жыл бұрын

@@user-zu5um2vo4w Oh well. I try to be polite and then kind of forget myself. :D

@user-zu5um2vo4w

5 жыл бұрын

@@Artem2034 ok haha😅

@Artem2034

5 жыл бұрын

@Flying Cat He did left and I'm happy to say that later he found an amazing woman who doesn't treat him like some dog who needs to be on a leash all the time. They also have a child and already expecting second one.

@veritasabsoluta4285

5 жыл бұрын

"a-hole" "b-word", too afraid to offend mommy?

"You deny me solitude yet provide no companionship" Damn

@tachyontee3877

5 жыл бұрын

I want a t-shirt with that printed on it.

That one with the guy calling home from serving on Christmas and being blown off makes me so sad. 😢

@QED_

4 жыл бұрын

@Pink Magic Ali thanks

Damn the last dude with the beer and watching the ocean is my kinda guy. Just heading out to a remote area, sitting and chilling with cold drinks and enjoying the view. I'd have made that a yearly trip... just me and him having a quiet moment together. Lowkey I was hoping he didn't go there to that spot and find his wife with another man or at least in that town with some other dude. Glad it was just a moment of epiphany that he had and realized it was best to move on with his life. Hope he's happy now.

@ianmay9372

4 жыл бұрын

I was looking for someone to comment on the last story. That one hit me the hardest, because I've experienced that sickening feeling of slowly growing dissatisfaction that at first you can't help but blame on yourself... and yet for this man it required no anger, no eureka or epiphany. Just a reminder of what happiness is and how easy it can be to forget it's true value.

My first wife was emotionally abusive, and sometimes physically, years of it just beat me down until I was nothing and she still uses the kids to try and control me.... I am still dealing with trust issues with women but my current fiance knows how she was and is and has witnessed what she does first hand..... I have to practically beg to see my children and even when we first divorced they were young too young to say if they wanted to see me or not well she would deny me seeing them on the grounds they didnt want to see me.... Every day its painful not being there for my kids like I should and want to but I know they are getting old enough to see her for who she is and will soon be old enough make the decision to live where they want.

@hughotterson6590

5 жыл бұрын

I hope you do better every day. Good luck!

@animeartist888

5 жыл бұрын

Hang in there. As a child of a mother who stabbed her husband in the back and still won custody- They still think of you. They still miss you. Once they're old enough to be going out on their own, contact them directly to try to get to see them. Invite them to pizza or a fair. And if they invite you somewhere, especially to a school or sporting event, jump through every hoop in your way to be there, even for just a minute. And if they ask what happened between you and your ex, don't lie or cover it up. I don't care how young and innocent they seem- they want the truth. They deserve the truth. And they're far less likely to believe their mother is a good person if they hear your perspective.

@slappy8941

5 жыл бұрын

You need someone who does dirty deeds done dirt cheap.

@Midnight24435

5 жыл бұрын

Fate (or karma or whatever) has a way of dealing with people like that. Just be patient and watch. Hang in there for the long haul, you got this. One day at a time, one step at a time, one minute at a time.

@adrenalinex4

4 жыл бұрын

n u getting married again? lmao wtf is wrong with u.

Some of these make me think that issues with communication started long before these actual events took place.

I’m really happy a year into my marriage, but A thought that crossed my mind was, “how happy were these people a year into their marriage”

Lots of awful stories here, and I feel for all the guys and kids involved. Mine was kind of similar to some of the stories in the video because it wasn't a really huge thing, but it was the final straw that pushed me over the edge. Things had not been good between us for several years, pretty much since the day I said I wanted to pursue financial independence instead of pissing away money on stupid stuff. "We" made great progress, even paid off the mortgage, but "she" kept running up bills behind my back. The final straw was when she lost her job, six months before she would have been vested in a pension plan. It's important to note that she lost her job for failing to meet the same goal over and over and over. She had been orally admonished, reprimanded, suspended, suspended again, and finally fired over the course of about five years. To me, that was a clear sign that she did not understand the basic connection between actions and consequences, and her problems were much deeper than not being good at handling money. I told her that she had a right to duck up her own life, but I had the equal right to refuse to go with her.

Why am I watching this, it's just making me paranoid

5 жыл бұрын

@JoeRingo118 Most people haven't had the opportunity that's all.

@JeremyHolovacs

5 жыл бұрын

It's not paranoia if there's a decent chance of it happening...

@alanbolton7803

5 жыл бұрын

It should!! For example, almost 50% of marriages end in divorce in the UK, and almost always men get the short end of the stick.

@mocromo2010

5 жыл бұрын

@@alanbolton7803 It's 3/4th in general over the world. And in 90% of the cases, it's the women divorcing the men, not vice-versa.

@alanbolton7803

5 жыл бұрын

@@mocromo2010 that's what I said man "men getting the short end of the stick."

You rob me of solitude but provide no companionship. Damn, well said.

1:55 had me a little upset because he's serving the country and just wants to check in on her and the girl just at him for interrupting.

@drfye

5 жыл бұрын

The Americans call them "dependa's" if I am not mistaken.

@tachyontee3877

5 жыл бұрын

@@drfye dependapotamuses, yes. I never even had a steady relationship while on active duty. Nope. I know what goes on when you're away.

@drfye

5 жыл бұрын

@@tachyontee3877 When your in the military , does not matter which country mostly, don't marry. Wait till your out. The general population is 50% divorce if not worse. I am pretty sure the military population is doing worse .

@firstnamelastname6699

5 жыл бұрын

@@Biskawow you sound like the girlfriend

@Biskawow

5 жыл бұрын

@@firstnamelastname6699 you sound like a moron

First reason why divorce happens? Marriage

@-lord1754

5 жыл бұрын

MGTOW

I was replaced with alcohol and violence.

@k1ngmackdaddy447

5 жыл бұрын

I was replaced with pills and meth Gets better though

@Ares-hi2hw

4 жыл бұрын

lol.

I had to tell her: "Honey, you're dead. I wanna divorce."

@VanityDivined

5 жыл бұрын

Tails is disappointed in your recent decisions wow I’m sorry for your loss

@ghost-facedhindu4275

5 жыл бұрын

Don't give the bitch an advanced warning of any sort, be it divorce or a bullet.

@michaelbell3952

5 жыл бұрын

I think I got the flower pot reference

@punished7030

5 жыл бұрын

@@ghost-facedhindu4275 woah take it down a notch doom slayer or you might rip someones head off

5 жыл бұрын

@@punished7030 He's right though. As a guy, on an even playing field in divorce court you are at an extreme disadvantage so may as well get a head start.

The last one honestly scares me, it’s just so quiet and subtle. I would hate to ever get to that point with my significant other. I’m the type of person to literally never give up on something important to me especially relationships but having it hit me like that I know we would have to fix it somehow because I couldn’t keep living unsatisfied.

4:00 I think that woman was getting ready to divorce him, but realized that she couldn't actually take his house in the divorce (assuming he inherited it before they married). But if he sold that house and bought another one while they were married, it would be hers. I've also seen women get expensive cosmetic surgery at their husband's expense just before divorcing him. I even know one woman who persuaded her husband to get a vasectomy and then divorced him. He might have deserved it. I don't know.

@Taongcc

5 жыл бұрын

how old was the hsuband? i feel bad for this dude

@gewgulkansuhckitt9086

5 жыл бұрын

@@Taongcc I'm guessing you're talking about the vasectomy guy. He was in his 20's. I don't think he had any children yet.

@jacobp.2024

5 жыл бұрын

Sterilization as a punishment at minimum is barely below execution, and for some it's above it.

@annez475

5 жыл бұрын

Vasectomy can be undone fairly easily. If the guy doesn't know that I hope you get the chance to tell him so he can have kids should he wish.

Gillette does not support this video.

@emridatla3886

5 жыл бұрын

You have now been reported to Gillette for reconditioning.

I believe the national daily school curriculum for young men should go as follows: 09:00 Math 10:00 English 11:00 Science 13:00 P.E. 14:00 Hypergamy

Not that I've given up on women are anything but videos like these are Making MGTOW look more attractive.

@masonreppeto882

5 жыл бұрын

@Jason Poole I'm actually a supporter of MGTOW but I didn't want to get hate so I made my self seem sort of neutral. also lol kzread.info/dash/bejne/iJaZ19urYJnKfdI.html

@abinyxx

5 жыл бұрын

Honestly not all women are like this, even if MGTOW followers deny it. There are awful men and awful women, but as long as you don't let yourself be manipulated, you will be fine. Humans are humans. We NEED to stop hating each other based on gender divide.

@abinyxx

5 жыл бұрын

Let me put it into perspective. I'm a woman, I've been brutally raped and cheated on, yet I'm not giving up on all men, because that would be silly.

@jellybeans9283

5 жыл бұрын

Join us comrade

@masonreppeto882

5 жыл бұрын

@@abinyxx This is exactly why I didn't want to say anything

I've never been in a relationship before but hearing these cheating stories really makes me worry. How can someone start cheating after being married for years? Another thing I don't understand is that they beg for forgiveness, but they are going to cheat again anyway, so what's the point?

@macdhomhnaill7721

5 жыл бұрын

Tommy3500 A woman is always looking for something better, doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together. Don’t get married, it isn’t worth it. Women will ruin you and leave you with nothing for making the mistake of assuming they are capable of caring like you are.

@ahsokatano6361

5 жыл бұрын

Take everything this person said, change the gender from women to men, add a pinch of salt to both explanations and voila! An explanation as to why people cheat. They are basically just selfish.

@macdhomhnaill7721

5 жыл бұрын

Ahsoka Tano Except when reversed, nothing I said applies. Men don’t practice hypergamy. Let’s not forget alimony, child support, no fault divorce, the fact that a woman who worked for nothing can make off with most of your shit when she’s the one who initiated the divorce after committing infidelity. Bias in courts, the system is rigged to benefit women at the expense of men. A woman cheats because she has everything to gain. Does ANY of this apply to men? Lol No. no it does not and to claim that it’s the same if you just reverse it is both intellectually dishonest and plain delusional. But of course those who have everything in their favor refuse to admit that’s the case... that’s very, very typical of women in particular.

This whole video is ducking insane, quack quack 🦆

@KleinerGrenadier

5 жыл бұрын

Noice 🦆🦆🦆 🦆🦆🦆Quack Quack

2:37 happens with most marriages at some point. If you learn to work through those times things always turn up better then they were before. My wife and I have gone through it. A few times at that. But we've always promised each other that we'd never give up and home life is sooo good. It takes years of compromise and communication if you want your soul mate. It rarely happens on a whim. I'm 32. My wife and I dated in high school, split around college, got back together after a chance meeting a few years later. We've had bad times, anyone would but, if neither of you are cheaters and are stubborn enough about sticking it through, you can both mold each other into exactly what you've always wanted in a partner.

5 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately I married a woman who seems to have more missed the memo when the creator was handing out things like self awareness, humility, grace and personal responsibility. So the noble interactions you describe weren't even a realistic prospect.

@nightfighter7452

5 жыл бұрын

I wish a nigga would "mold me"

5 жыл бұрын

Zach, you're a limp dicked, weak kneed blue pill fool.

When I came to the house with a facial laceration that required stitches and she told me it could wait until she finished feeding the cats. She had 14 cats.

Watching this educationally 😂

I need more info about the Turkey incident

@DemitriusX666

5 жыл бұрын

You can't save the turkey. It's gone...

@punished7030

5 жыл бұрын

@@DemitriusX666 just like the country heyooo

"You rob me of solitude but give me no companionship" describes every relationship I've ever been in

In all honesty, some of these people should have known better. Love makes you blind, etc. But never forgive a cheater. It's not even the fact they had sex with someone else; the betrayal of trust. That can just never be healed. Also, these solidify my belief to never get married. Too much paperwork going in; too much emotional pain going out.

I was confused what ducking meant. At 4 mins in, I realized it was censorship. Then all the previous stories made sense.

I like hearing the guy side of relationships in these posts lately. I don't feel like this gets enough light. Tbh I'm not really interested in hearing the other side, though i know both are laced heavily with animosity. I just feel like i overheard so many things about the wife, or girlfriend that just keeps going on. I don't need to see the same side every day. Edit: I think that this statement will also represent what is being seen in this post, but there doesn't seem to be a lot of communication in many of these posts. Sometimes people have different languages that they show love, and it misses people without them knowing. I'm sure there is a lot more in these situations, but if this helps anyone still in a current struggle, i wish the best. Communication is huge.

@roderickwhitehead

5 жыл бұрын

You should sub to Stefan Molyneux... plenty of horror stories... just, the call-in videos can run for 90 minutes and are best consumed at 2x speed.

@freppie_

5 жыл бұрын

Some stories, are in my opinion also guys giving up on a small reasons. Or matters otherwise then love'n honesty

@elanjacobs1

5 жыл бұрын

​@@freppie_ You need to understand that these "small reasons" do not happen on their own, they are the last straw after what is often years of small thing after small thing that build up to become a big thing. I saw it happen with my dad and step-mum. And it's not always small things either, but it just takes that last little bit to break everything.

@Ayimii

5 жыл бұрын

There are definitely those who end a relationship for something not worthy of the reaction. It is not typically not fair to the other party. I believe it should be a moral obligation to at least notify your partner. For a lot of these, if not all, it was a realization that something HAS been going on. The people had it in their thoughts prior to the break up. This was just the cap placed on the top that ended up being the final push, after trying previously in the relationship. I'm not saying what was done was right, as i always feel there could be a better alternative, but it's just the final thing. Not everything leading up to it. :)

@freppie_

5 жыл бұрын

@@elanjacobs1 ofc. But then u should have paid attention before the relationship spend alot of time together so u know those lil things. And also u choose to be loyal to a person who is imperfect. And there will not always be a balance in a relation or marriage. Tho it should be a thing u strive for. U should also be able to forgive.

I so felt the last one. Be with someone that appreciates you enough to do the things you love together even if they're not as crazy about them

My ex of 17 years walked out on me because she said I was way to nice , and she grew out of it got with a trashy dude and treated her like shit and now texts me how she thinks about everything I used to do with her and for her , yea she misses me and I’m a way better person in my life now

These women sound unstable, I apologize on behalf of all these women. Congratulations on getting out.

Human life should be enjoyed to the fullest. It should be the greatest ride ever. Why waste your precious time with a complete an utter waste called marriage.

You have another subscriber with this eye opening material. I am glad I NEVER have fell for the marriage trap, and my heart goes out to those that had to experience such devastating womxn.

I like seeing that some people in their can actually be adults about it and not childish, petty shit. Glad to see not everyone makes me lose faith in humanity.

I'm Christian so the first one had me pause for a good minute, wow just wow.

@Ares-hi2hw

4 жыл бұрын

even christe said him self if you find women cheating you can divorce.

These stories are pretty ducked up.

People who cheat: WHY?? It's one action I just CANNOT understand.

@snowfrosty1

4 жыл бұрын

It's actually real easy to understand tbh. No offense but you're likely just a really ignorant, naive and sheltered 'Western' individual. If you're a 20-50 year old male then I pity you, since your chances of being physically+emotionally+mentally 'abused' are higher than usual.

Wow! There are some CRAZY ladies out there... why GET married if you really don’t want to be?

The one about cheating and then manipulation about "Oh, I'm suicidal" has happened to me before. So glad I didn't marry that person.

@emridatla3886

5 жыл бұрын

I am a big believer of calling a suicide hotline, because if it's manipulation but the person is so emotionally ill-equipped and are legitimately suicidal then they get a chance to get help and through that help you can make a clean break, but if they aren't legitimately suicidal then they learn real quick that you're a person that won't stand for being bs'ed.

When this behavior can come from someone who's professed their love for you at the alter, Im amazed that people can still go through with marriage knowing how often it fails. Love is blind.

The silent treatment is the favorite narc weapon. A week of silent treatment for forgetting milk, holy shit, that's fucked up.

Never get married. Once she thinks she's got you locked down for good, the true person comes out.

Not married but my ex girlfriend and I were engaged. We had a great dating period and the best first date I ever had. After a quick proposal that wasn’t planned (arcade plastic ring and all) all she wanted was a ring. We couldn’t see each other for a few days because distance but every time I was with her she begged for a diamond ring. I was not financially set but I tried my best to save money for it. Then after deciding to move 8 hours away (after getting engaged) and still begging for a ring I had to end it. Afterwards she accused me of cheating with another ex, raping her, and vocally assaulting her. Obviously not true at all but she almost took it to the police.

You know i know theres 2 sides to every story but god damn these a pretty convincing being 1 sided

im so thankful i decided to click on this video. my parents are going through a divorce and don't know that i know about it. i was sad, angry, and confused because i didn't understand anything and why they decided to do so. but in watching this video, it made me open my eyes and understand everything. thank you.

that one about how divorce doesn’t always signify something horrible and destructive, that sometimes people just have “a different kind of love.”

3:00 "Putana" 😂😂😂😂

Sex robots/Androids can't get here soon enough

@Ares-hi2hw

4 жыл бұрын

if this continue yes this might be case Robot wife.

The mindfuck thing about this is that every single other side of the story of these articles would have probably written their view of each story in a just as naturally right type of way

Doode I'm new here lol and in the beginning I thought that I accidentally opened Netflix 🤣

When I came to the realisation that she only wanted me so she could have kids and never work again. I was a means to an end. She was going to college to get a masters degree in whatever the hell, and had no plans to use it. I, on the other hand, was former military with a high school diploma and not much more... She expected me to work my 12 hour shift job that I had at the time, and get a college degree at the same time, so that I could eventually get a job that made at least 6 figures to support her and eventually two or more kids. She said if I didn't eventually get a job that paid 6 figures, that she was going to leave me anyway. So, I eventually said fuck you and get out. There's so much more... But I'm sure no one wants to read about 800 pages on KZread lol.

@DeadBoyHK1

4 жыл бұрын

Forever Alone Guy I could honestly care less lol.

That bench story was just so sad. I hope I will never take the love I'm shown for granted.

@miamazingness

5 жыл бұрын

@Outdoors Bushman I'm sure it helps to make an effort, in the very least.

“Cold turkey” 😂🤣🤣😭😂🤣🤣

Damn, that “What’s her excuse this time?” holy fuck, the amount of emption that kid must’ve felt when saying that.

"You rob me of solitude but provide me with no companionship." This is why I have no interest in long-term commitments.

@MrChaosAdam

5 жыл бұрын

So basically boredom? :D

am i poisoning my mind with videos like this or am i learning to save myself from terrible heartbreak and headaches of marriages?

@agricolaregs

5 жыл бұрын

The end is near Nor woman. Just saying.

@georgestobbart4894

4 жыл бұрын

No woman no cry

When my 4 year old daughter told me mommy took her to see AP's boat , she showed me where and I got out of the car with my 2 year old son in my left arm and holding my daughters hand with my right and watch my wife come around the corner of the house on AP's back , riding piggyback and laughing....till she saw us.

That's taking cold turkey to a whole new level.