Divorced at 28 isn’t as bad as staying with someone for decades and being unhappy just for the sake of being married.

@Jazzy869

4 жыл бұрын

GetReal 4Real amen

@TiggysTC

4 жыл бұрын

Preach! 🙌🏾 Ugh!😩😩

@coconochanel7709

4 жыл бұрын

Amen sistah 🙌🏽

@ShameOnU464

4 жыл бұрын

GetReal 4Real Well said

@Spokentruths725

4 жыл бұрын

?? I agree with that as well. Bad move in the long run.

Divorced at 29. Happily Re-married at 38. Love is on the way...

@sxyteesa0890

5 жыл бұрын

That's beautiful!❤❤❤❤❤

@PLTbyCormie

5 жыл бұрын

This is my story too ♥️

@egyptianamericanpatriot1531

5 жыл бұрын

@@PLTbyCormie Bet you drive your man crazy with that attitude of yours.

@kadzo6614

5 жыл бұрын

You don't need to be married to be happy. You can be alone but not lonely.

@Slimm_Sheedah1

5 жыл бұрын

Congratulations!

You will be just fine my love. I got married at 25 to a guy that I had been dating for 5 years. After 18 months of marriage he told me he wanted a divorce as he was not the 'married type'. I had no kids, however i was devastated and depressed by the whole situation. He served me with divorce papers, I signed it and moved on with my life because after all as you said you can't force someone to be with you. I will be 40 in a couple of months, been married to an amazing man for 11 years and have 3 beautiful children. Life is full of challenges and this too shall pass. You will get through this storm and come out stronger than ever! Stay strong beautiful for you and Val. Lots of love Xxx

@shmaylorrr13

4 жыл бұрын

Topsycole I needed to read this. Trying not to lose faith in the future possibilities but right not I’m hurting so badly...

@DaMarraChanel1

4 жыл бұрын

Topsycole thank you so much for this! I needed this encouragement.

@DevelopingHer

3 жыл бұрын

That’s amazing! Truly.

@mikawilliams8900

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this ...

I dont understand how you want to marry/make a baby with someone and then months later say you don't want to be w/ them?? Lame as hell

@annkovacs8027

5 жыл бұрын

He probably met someone at work or has decided on an alternative lifestyle, all that moving and uprooting her and the baby, just to walk away from his family, upsetting making her a divorcée single mother

@shaunaboo961

5 жыл бұрын

It’s more common than most people think. My theory is that people can wake up in the morning and just change their mind about you so stay on top of your health... Mental, Physical, and Spiritual. Our girl will be just fine.

@FAITHM100

5 жыл бұрын

patrice dilliom You have men who are undercover gays and they just want to make a baby and exit!

@HOPE.TheresNoPlaceLikeHomeClub

5 жыл бұрын

Try 6 weeks!! My ex-husband left me for the woman he'd been havin an affair with once our newborn turned 6 weeks old. She couldn't have kids so unbeknownst to me I was the surrogate, baby mama, wife...at 21!!

@kenyawilliamsrealestateage4689

5 жыл бұрын

HOPE, LLC Helping Others Progress Economically Dayum 🤦🏾‍♀️So sorry to hear this. My question because I’m not married and would like to be is would you have expected this from your partner? I feel like we can’t truly know and trust people these days. From addictions to affairs to gambling. People have underlying issues and show us what they want us to see.

Y’all know I’m a baby! And I can’t be at work crying lol so I’m going to check out the comments a little later, but I just want to say I love y’all and thank you guys for the constant love and support ❤️

@dezziefbby

5 жыл бұрын

Lol I’m the same way! Have a great day Alisha and keep your head held high! There is so much for you to explore and learn about yourself and life in 2019! You’re going to prosper. ❤️❤️

@LeLeM.

5 жыл бұрын

We love you and watch the Lord WORK on your behalf!! 😍😘😘

@MzFine1

5 жыл бұрын

AlishaWilliams I’m holding you up in prayer forever! Nothing but the best ahead! Hugs from Chicago!❤️❤️❤️

@EducatedBlackQueen

5 жыл бұрын

Alisha.. you will get through it..I know it's hard to hear but trust me..I'm recently divorced as of last year and I'm 33 with a 10 year old daughter..It has been very hard for me because I was so use to my ex husband taking care of everything..but now it's just me to do it..I am finally feeling free and that is all thanks to God. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here for you girl. I will keep you and your daughter in my prayers. ❤

@ashleyjohnson4009

5 жыл бұрын

Please check your IG DM ma’am !

Always remember that you have made our family proud, Val proud, and God proud❤️ you are so strong and regardless of what has been thrown at you, you’ve stood Tall and remained a beacon of light for us all...even when it was hard. I look up to you and I love you! Now I’m just waiting for that TD&H to come your way❤️😂

@zaneleeashleyy

5 жыл бұрын

Kyra Knox u crazy kyra🤣🤣🤣

@candy1967mh

5 жыл бұрын

Amen to that! 😭I just can't phantom this is happening. Alisha will be just fine. 💞

@allthingsshuntell5320

5 жыл бұрын

Love it!! Something my sister would say😂❤️

@debjb5038

5 жыл бұрын

A sister’s love can never be broken!♥️♥️

@BougainvilleaBabe

5 жыл бұрын

Ma'am!!

Psalm 147:3 (NIV) He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

@cupcake1065

5 жыл бұрын

Miss P K my favourite scripture ☺️

@BriaBarrows

5 жыл бұрын

@@cupcake1065 same

@braydennewman7937

5 жыл бұрын

But it also says in the Bible God opposes divorce

@yourcupoftea5066

4 жыл бұрын

Subbed your channel

@ladyt4062

4 жыл бұрын

Amen!

"OVER 70 still glamorous" :) divorced. now go and take good care of YOURSELF and be ready for the man GOD has for you and be patient :) hugs connie

@saviourameyaa2574

5 жыл бұрын

Connie Murphy 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@kumbiaros216

4 жыл бұрын

AWWWWW💕💕

@Dime.Society

4 жыл бұрын

Connie Murphy ❤️❤️❤️

@amberlee582

4 жыл бұрын

Connie you're sweet.

@Beencouraged777

4 жыл бұрын

Connie Murphy God is the man, too many focus on “a man” If you can’t be satisfied with him alone you’ll never be ready.

I stomach dropped when this notification came up on my phone. I'm praying for your strength. Love you and Val!!

@pricelessjewel4007

5 жыл бұрын

Sherri' The Mrs. You and I both 😰

@shevonteg

5 жыл бұрын

Literally dropped ...i just didn’t even want to click the link thinking i could ignore it away

This is a message in general. Church attendance, ministry titles ,and lip service doesn't make someone a Christian. Christian singles, please make sure that the person you marry has been born again, is broken and repentant over their sin, fears the Lord and seeks to honor Him in public and in private. A person who truly loves and honors God will honor the covenant that they made. If you fear and reverence God you won't so easily break your covenant because you feel that marriage is no longer for you. Praying for you sis!❤

@Options23

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, and it's important to seek the lord, in regards to marriage, the lord still speaks and he will show us the way, if we seek him. We must truly seek the lord an attain a real knowledge of him. He has the plans for us but sadly many times we want to do our own will. JESUS CHRIST, IS THE WAY, TRUTH, AND LIFE, there is no other way.

@mariac5508

5 жыл бұрын

I loveeee this comment. It definitely made me check myself. Thank God for the Holy spirit and conviction.

@mercedesb9932

5 жыл бұрын

Facts 💯

@prettynpearls1

5 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!!

@Lucianppl

5 жыл бұрын

Great advise learnt this only recently

When you said you tapped into strength you didn’t know you had, I felt that. That’s God

@nicholegrant1764

5 жыл бұрын

Cherie Chantelle Honey!!!

@almajones9447

4 жыл бұрын

*Cherie* *BEEN THERE* ✋

@cynthiac2558

4 жыл бұрын

Cherie Chantelle yes the power of the Holy Spirit

Please know that rejection is God's protection. I was married at 19, baby at 21. Divorced at 23 and remarried at 26. I finished my college degree (2 degrees). Nice home, great job, beautiful family and I am so grateful and humbled by the grace God has shown me. I truly believe that when something is for you, sometimes God has to remove obstacles and that can be a person. Know without a shadow of a doubt everything will work itself out. Take time to hurt and heal. You will find love again! Remember happiness is cyclical but peace is a choice. Choose peace because thats where you will find healing.

@mssocial2093

5 жыл бұрын

d williams Excellent post!! Thank you!!

@tawannawilliams3761

5 жыл бұрын

Love this post. Thanks for sharing your testimony and praise report . Better days are on the horizon and i believe its here for me

@diamond8907

4 жыл бұрын

This is encouraging! How have you coped with having to “share” your child? What has helped you, especially since remarrying?

@AdultentionalOnes

4 жыл бұрын

itsjenuine this question is perfect. i recently broke down to my ex husband and told him im not ready for that

@TruestLovely

4 жыл бұрын

Rejection is Yawehs Protection. That quote is Perfection.

Cortes is really going to miss out on a wonderful ,kind , and supportive woman. His loss

@shaunaboo961

5 жыл бұрын

@@littleblacklawyergermanbla2008 Sadly Im beginning to think this is true

@littleblacklawyergermanbla2008

5 жыл бұрын

@TravelingDiva2018 yes. Own your money own your freedom & spank them that's what I do.

The fact that you sat down and filmed this video with a smile on your face shows just how strong you are. Wow! Please know that this is just the beginning for you. Continue to stay positive and have faith in God and watch how he blesses you. Looking back on this, Valerie is going to be so proud of you. Sending so much love your way. 2019 is your year! You got this girl!

@lovejay3157

5 жыл бұрын

J.LattimoreVlogs beautifully said. GOD BLESS.

@marykguyton1055

5 жыл бұрын

J.LattimoreVlogs Amen. Well Said. God Bless You All.

@watchthisspace-africa3679

5 жыл бұрын

J.LattimoreVlogs you know this Jas! God’s got Alisha, Val (& even Cortez) in the palm of his hands. He’s got you and yours too Jas.

I have noticed in vlogs he looked annoyed all the time. His body language spoke volumes and I didn't want to say it incase people think I'm hating. When u say Cortes don't want to be in the vlogs anymore that was my confirmation. You were trying to make the atmosphere happy in the vlogs and could tell something not right with him. You will be fine hun. Never let a man see you cry. Val will be fine. Grow her up to be strong and give her all your love

@MissaRosa

5 жыл бұрын

I saw it also!

@badgirlclub01

5 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, I saw the same thing but didn’t speak on it because who am I to say anything about a husband n wife. I even thought he seemed abusive. I do agree that he is a good dad but he just seemed so uninterested in his wife but that’s ok ...She will be just fine!

@cookie2585

5 жыл бұрын

Miss K Wilson I saw the same. She’ll be okay. She’s a good woman & mother. She seems like a true sweetheart.

@airrowailes5414

4 жыл бұрын

was he black?

I have a song for you " With Jesus I can make it, with Jesus I can stand.No matter what may come my way, my life is in your hand. Be strong my sister in Christ.

Cortez had to move on so a another man can be the man you want Alisha. I’m not saying Cortez wasn’t the man but GOD KNOWS what he is doing ! Bless you and your family

I know you said for us to not to say anything about Cortes, but I’m honestly very disappointed in him. After you moved to a new city for him, supported him while he was continuing his education, and now when it came time to reap the fruits of your labor he decides to give up on your marriage. Alisha you were an amazing supportive wife to him and if he couldn’t see that then he doesn’t deserve you. God has much better in store for you and I can’t wait to see your transformation ❤️

@Sashameplease

5 жыл бұрын

Amina Ali say that!!!! I was thinking the same damn thing

@shantehaigler7767

5 жыл бұрын

This! I thought the same thing and while we don’t know the back story, I can’t help but feel disappointed. I’m sure there were sacrifices on both sides, but they seemed so into each other. I chalked his disappearance on the vlogs due to his not being into social media since he’s not on anything (so it appears). My heart aches for her

@LivingwiththeLongwas

5 жыл бұрын

So true !!

@SoN2MakeuP

5 жыл бұрын

This is proof that you can’t judge a persons life off of the internet . People only show what they want you to know . Take it all with a grain of salt . Im sure there is ALOT we don’t know. But I’m sure we can all pretty much guess ....

@sb6644

5 жыл бұрын

SoN2MakeuP so true! Just because people smile for the camera and seem to have a perfect look fr sometimes can be a cover up! Praying she gets through

I was divorced at 26 and I fought my best I went a year secluding myself from friends and family but I still remained optimistic now I’m with the love of my life so you are going to be fine!!!

@mikawilliams8900

2 жыл бұрын

I needed this ...

@SpiciestBee

2 жыл бұрын

@@mikawilliams8900 you got this girl

I just came across this video and I'm saddened to hear this. It's unfortunate that many treat marriage like a contract and not a covenant. May the Lord bring healing and peace in your life!

@attangi

5 жыл бұрын

britt jay Yeaa it’s so sad. What do u do when one partner wants to divorce u. Especially when u don’t believe in divorce. Those are things we need to ask in this times.

@keneshacurtis3539

5 жыл бұрын

britt jay ib

My mom got a divorce with 2 kids under 2.. a few years later she met my step dad and it was literally the best decision she could’ve ever made for herself and her kids (us). I’m so sorry you’re going through this but it’s a blessing in disguise!!

@fdtirving

5 жыл бұрын

Wow, that's my life right now. I'm 28 with a 2 year old and 1 year old and I just filled for divorce. It's really hard especially thinking about my kids. How did u cope as a little girl?

@KristennDawn

5 жыл бұрын

luvnpeace That was my moms biggest fear as well... she did not want to raise us in a broken family but I can honestly say that was the best thing she could’ve ever done for US ! As a little girl I had a great childhood (my mom, brother and I called ourselves the three amigos lol) We are all extremely close! The main thing I am very grateful for is my mom made it a point to NEVER speak bad about our biological dad (even before she got remarried) & she never allowed anyone around us (like her friends or family) to speak bad about him either.. it made a big difference! I was a complete daddys girl & honestly I was fine! It’s an understandable feeling to be worried but we were great.. my mom has always made sure we had everything we wanted and needed and we will always be grateful!!! She is literally my best friend! I am also so blessed and happy she showed me how to be a strong woman & not stay in an unhealthy relationship.. her leaving with two kids has always made me respect her so much because I remember them fighting, I remember how horrible the energy was in the house.. I know I was young when it happened but we were all sooo sooo soooo much happier when they divorced! I will pray for you and your babies during this process! Y’all will make it through and come out on top.. all of y’all will look back and see this was the best decision you could’ve made (my family talks about it all the time) !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@fdtirving

5 жыл бұрын

Kristenn Dawn thanks so much. You just gave me so much hope. My daughter is a daddy’s girl and she keeps saying “I want daddy” and it makes me really sad. Sometimes I feel like it will be hard to find someone bc who wants a wOman with two kids, but I try to stay positive

@danacarter9147

5 жыл бұрын

@@fdtirving There are many children who grow up have grown up with no father in their lives and they turn out really well. Your daughter doesn't really need a father when she has a mother who provides for her. And furthermore, don't buy into those stereotypes about children being likely to have %£?@ed lives because they grow up with single mothers.

@chhghj4683

4 жыл бұрын

luvnpeace hey I know this is a late response but if your ex wasn’t abusive I think you should allow him to visit ( supervised of course) also try to keep your marriage problems away from the kids also you and your children are good as long as you give them the love of both parents they will be straight

My husband of 9 years married, and 13 years together decided that he wanted a younger woman and no longer wanted to be married. He's giving up full custody ansd my son and i are moving back to the east coast. Hang in there momma.

@nikkinicole901

5 жыл бұрын

❤🙏🙁

I sensed something was wrong with him for a long time. It showed in his body language. He always looked annoyed. TRUST ME SIS, focus on your glowup and find another. He WILL be back, don't fall for it, he failed you. Sending you love.

I know it is hard, but it is better to find out early in life than later. So many women waste time trying to figure out why the person has changed or acting crazy. You should not have to walk on eggshells with no man. These men act like we have to worship them to get along with. Honey, he was blessed to even have you in his life and not the other way around. One day in due season, the Lord will send the right man to you. Everything will be alright...

I'm soooo sorry to hear this... But you always have to look at the bright side so cheers to your new beginning! This thing called life is so crazy and sometimes things don't go as planned because there's an even greater plan. I wish you all the best!

@receecake

5 жыл бұрын

Praying for you. I’ve been in your boat before and the kids give you strength to get through. Stay focused on your daughter and your happiness, the rest will fall in place. I say that because I have been going through some marital issues as well and we have been married for 15 years and have a 11 year old son. Marriage is tough. I’ll be praying you.

@marie-angepaul1348

5 жыл бұрын

God love to you Alisha. I hope you grow strong in faith love and peace.

@kearab4238

5 жыл бұрын

I'm loving all this sisterly love.. Love me some tierra j beauty, kyra Knox and all other supporters.. This is BEAUTIFUL!!

I'm working from home today and stopped what I was doing! Oh sweetheart! God bless you and Cortes! 😭😭 I've been there done that. I wouldn't wish that pain on my worst enemy. The pain is real because you and Cortes committed to be one and now you're tearing the soul apart. God has you Alisha, I promise he does! Mine wasn't mutual either. I cried everyday thinking what did I do wrong!! Finally with the help of my Jesus and scriptures I got through it. Invest in your beautiful daughter and in GOD's timing, your TRUE Boaz will appear before your eyes and amaze you! Your healing is evident, I see it on your face😘. I can speak on it because it happened to me. I am now a happy Newlywed! Take time for you and your baby and continue to pray for Cortes and watch the Lord open SUPERNATURAL doors for you!! Love you sweetheart😘💕💕

@jesheaven7922

5 жыл бұрын

Sorry for your pain been there.Take time to grieve and move on. Stay close to God and He will give you the desires of your heart. Never in a million years thought I would remarry. I took my time and enjoyed singleness even as a single parent. God gives strength.

@Mattielife

5 жыл бұрын

Le-Le M. Hello! Your post was well said. I’ve been with my husband for 36 years, dated 11 years and married for 25. Doing our dating years we broke for about a year and that was very heart breaking. I can imagine being married. I’m praying for both of them.💖

@LeLeM.

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Mattie! Most of us who have been through what Alisha is going through can feel her pain. Praise GOD we all came out stronger once we made it to the other side. GOD bless you Mattie and Happy New Year to you and your family💕

@valsmiles8529

5 жыл бұрын

Le-Le M this was beautiful what you said you got me all teared up! But you are so right though!

@avonnehuggins2122

5 жыл бұрын

Le-Le M, your message was so profound!, this message reached me also, I'm in a similar situation and I trust and believe in God that He will send my boaz....someday!

Awww Alisha. I too am going through a divorce at 28 for a reason that’s super personal and I don’t wanna share with the public but just know you can get through it. Trust me I’ve experienced ALL the emotions. ALL of them!! But us women, lemme tell you God gave us some inhumane powers because I can be crying in the car and walk into work like ain’t nothing wrong. You got this. Praying for you ❤️

@dominiquelauren5579

5 жыл бұрын

Uni praying for you strength! God for you and loves you!!!

@uniciasayles7834

5 жыл бұрын

Dominique Hale Thank you so much. Trust me, at this time it’s needed.

@fdtirving

5 жыл бұрын

I'm 28 going through a divorce as well with two kids. It really sucks 😔

@uniciasayles7834

5 жыл бұрын

luvnpeace trust me when I say, it gets better. I prayed/praying my way through it now. Focus on you and your kids and things will start to look up. No, everyday isn’t all happy and jolly, but I realize that everything happens for a reason and God’s purpose for us is bigger than all this. You will get through it.

@manisymone8622

4 жыл бұрын

Hope you get through it sane and strong.

Alisha there was a disconnect with him as I reflected. He was just not there.I'm so sorry baby girl.I'm literally crying .

Omg. I'm at my desk at work in tears. The video hasn't even started yet... I felt that in my heart alisha. I'm so sorry hunny. Hugs all the way from Michigan ❤❤

@lovejoyful606

5 жыл бұрын

It feels like a lost to me as well I really enjoyed watching this family and Alisha is such a sweetheart and Cortez is such a gentleman...I feel sad for valerie but in reality she'll be fine because it's better when both parents are happy Alisha is already gaining strength back..

@Mattielife

5 жыл бұрын

_ 814 hello! I’m at my desk as well the same way.

@keishac1627

5 жыл бұрын

Mattie Blackmon hey!!! Our girl will be ok!!❤️

That’s what that Holy Spirit will do for you, give you powers to endure things you never thought possible to endure. Prayers for you and your family.

4:39 is a FACT... I tried to make my marriage work at 23 but he was a horrible person and he didn’t want to change and I fasted and everything but God had already showed me that he wasn’t the one so I accepted what God allowed and my life has been much better! Now I know what I want/need in husband #2 ❤️❤️ Sending love to you beautiful!!

Thank you so much for sharing your story! I am recently divorced at 27. I've been feeling so alone. Thank you so much for helping me!

I hate clickbait but I must say I was hoping with everything in me that this was indeed clickbait. I am so sorry you are going through this. No matter what God will get the glory and you absolutely will have joy again. 🙏🏾

@JoyDejaKing

5 жыл бұрын

Skye’s The Limit I was thinking the same thing. I was hoping she was sharing someone else’s story. It breaks my heart it’s her own.

@NaturallyKoilyKuteness78

5 жыл бұрын

Same here....I still can't watch the video without crying for her. That's a different kind of grief to get through...just like losing a loved one only they're not dead. Been there...

This caption got me in tears my heart just fell on the floor ! Nooooooo

@SaintlyIconicSoul

5 жыл бұрын

Fadzai Mangwiro I thought I was the only one 😢

@sandraclarkwoolard4120

5 жыл бұрын

You know God knew your husbands heart, and I believe that’s why He lead you to KZread to start your channels!! He knew you would need all the love and support from us. You are a strong, intelligent, wonderful mom and friend.. I promise you, it’s going to all work out for the Good... keep smiling...

@fatimahshafii8226

5 жыл бұрын

I’m screaming!!!!

@Mattielife

5 жыл бұрын

Fadzai Mangwiro Same here.😔

@NephiLove

5 жыл бұрын

Fadzai Mangwiro same here 😔

Before even watching the video I want you to know ( & I'm sure you know) that God's got you. He is your rock and your fortress & it doesn't matter what comes your way, you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. My prayers are with you and your family. Hugs beautiful! XO

@jamillahhardy2925

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@shannyisaacs

5 жыл бұрын

Well said

@brittanyw280

5 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@dodohlicious8451

5 жыл бұрын

Happy to see you here give encouragement, thanks and amen, missing your vlogs

I went through a divorce with a 1 year old. I finalized my divorce last year. My daughter is 2.5 now. Just like you, I believe in the sanctity of marriage. Grandparents married 60 years, parents married almost 50 years. I fasted and prayed and fought as well. Some things are better left Gone sad but true. Stay strong and positive as much as possible during this journey. Feel free to reach out to for advice. Sending prayers to you and your family🙏🏾💓

@diamond8907

4 жыл бұрын

Tiffany Chanell Thank you for sharing this. How have you coped with having to “share” your child via coparenting? What has helped you have peace?

@MomsMoneyMindset

8 ай бұрын

@@diamond8907I’m so sorry I’m just seeing this. My kiddo is 7 years old now 😅 Coparenting is a daily, weekly, monthly, yearly and so on process. Some days are better than others. Thankfully, God gives us grace to do what’s needed for our kiddos and for ourselves. Also, the other parent is the child’s parent as well. As long as the child is safe in the other parent’s presence, it’s best for the child to spend time with both parents and have a healthy relationship with both the mom and dad, even if the marriage didn’t work. 🙏🏾💕

I respect you Alisha and how you've opened up to us because you really didn't have too. But I am mad at Cortez like really

@MrsFreeThinker

5 жыл бұрын

I’m angry at him like she’s my sister. 😡👊🏽 all she’s gone though with him & a beautiful Baby now !!! You want out! 😭😭💔

Reading the title made my heart sank. I'm so sorry this has happened.

@Mattielife

5 жыл бұрын

Heemi30 I felt the same way. 😔

@tinab612

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

You got this! You’re smart, beautiful, a great mom, and you have a positive energy. This has to be hard to share. You’re brave and strong. I wish you the best 💕

When he said he didnt want to be on camera anymore........we should have known

@ladybug2006

5 жыл бұрын

Mimijonez78 I agree. I was wondering what that was about.

@kendraallen8037

5 жыл бұрын

Omg yes I was thinking the Something, but I try not to think negative.

@yolandaautrey-keen7499

5 жыл бұрын

When was this

@dollfacee1978

5 жыл бұрын

@@yolandaautrey-keen7499 about 5 mths ago

@yolandaautrey-keen7499

5 жыл бұрын

@@dollfacee1978 wow I wonder what happened

You are a very mature person and thank you for sharing this very personal journey...you are a beautiful person

This comes even more as a shock because you guys looked like such a genuine and cute couple. I don't usually follow family channels cause they are all so extra, but ya'll put me in a happy mood at all times. Wow....I just pray for your peace and serenity in the future. To the beautiful Valerie as well...

@fatimahshafii8226

5 жыл бұрын

Viviozza My jaw dropped and I still can’t believe it

@viviozza6838

5 жыл бұрын

@@fatimahshafii8226 Yes same, I don't even know them and I got teary eyed...a true shock

@joshie19922

5 жыл бұрын

Genuine love doesn’t mean problems doesn’t exist. Sometimes things just doesn’t work out.

@kyshawilson6339

5 жыл бұрын

This hurts us all😣

@TheBabyfaceBeauty

5 жыл бұрын

@@kyshawilson6339 yes, Im sad and I dont usually get that way.

Who is back here after watching her video talking about her new home and how it's exactly a year to her divorce and she is striving- watch God's work .

Spend this time reinventing yourself. Be specific in your prayer life and watch God move. You’ll experience peace and strength like never before. Straighten out your crown and keep it moving. Amen.

Proverbs 8:28 Read it daily. It’s the scripture that got me through some of the toughest times in my life. Gods plan for your life is greater than you could ever think or imagine. Trust GOD with your broken heart & watch him elevate your life in ways you never dreamed possible. What hurts now will help you later❤️

@mercedesatl03

5 жыл бұрын

GlamLife82 * ok can I just copy your whole reply and save it for hard times! ❤️

@thisnaturalgirlislocd

5 жыл бұрын

Amen! Thank you for this!

@RosieRenewedInChrist

5 жыл бұрын

Did you mean Romans 8:28? "And I know that all things work together for the good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." I'm praying against the plans of the devourer. May the holy spirit intercede and intercept on behalf of this family.

@GlamLife_

5 жыл бұрын

minnifield_wifey1 Lol copy away

@GlamLife_

5 жыл бұрын

thisnaturalgirlisdope ❤️ You’re very welcome hun

LAWD JESUS ANYTHING BUT THIS LORD!!!

@AllThingsJadene

5 жыл бұрын

Sasha Go ikr I was in shambles seeing the title

I can’t say that I am shocked because he seemed very hard to deal with just watching the videos. I couldn’t watch many videos because of his attitude and your followers urged me to keep watching. Glad that I did. I do want to offer a suggestion that on your social media IG especially that you no lash out at peoples comments who were genuinely concerned by your post. Wish you well in 2019

Wow Alisha I was not expecting to hear this at all! I want to commend you on recording this video so gracefully and standing strong in your faith! I pray that you continue to grow in your spirit and tap into those strengths God is revealing to you. I pray that you and Cortez come to a level of healing that promotes positive coparenting and respect for one another. Sending much love and hugs your way sweetie. Keep pushing keep growing. When God brings you this low it’s because He’s going to build you up past where you were before! ❤️❤️❤️

Alisha, you are going to be more than ok. You are going to be better. You are beautiful. You are smart. You have Jesus in your heart. You will be the light in the dark. Be encouraged. Stay encouraged.

@valtyme7340

5 жыл бұрын

I so agree luv you and Val sending prayers and luv your way🙏Hugs & 💋 Valerie

@imanamusic2011

5 жыл бұрын

I agree. *Kennicia Brennan* - This is such a powerful message. Alisha and Val are blessed & highly favored!

@Thefifteenthroute

5 жыл бұрын

Powerful!!!!

@honeywest39j95

5 жыл бұрын

Kennicia....wow...you sound just like my mom saying this...God bless you and Ms. Alisha🙏🙏

I knew it!! I'm crying like a baby because . . .I've been watching F O R E V E R!!! In my mind you're like my big cousin and this makes me sad!!! Even though this makes me sad. It makes me happier to see that you are in a better place because months ago, I can remember how stressed and full of anxiety you were!!! I can see you are in a much better place and I thank God for that!!!! You're a wonderful mom and a wonderful women!!! This is just a speed bump. . .I Promise everything will be okay!!! Love you girl❤

I was divorced in October I agree one person cannot keep a marriage together. I was from a two parent great upbringing while he never had male to show him how to be a man and head of household aka a leader. I left my husband after realizing that he would always put us second or third in his life. I realized in counseling a person will not change if they do not believe they are doing something wrong . By the time he got it together and wanted to come back I was no longer in love with him While we are great friends and often laugh and hold hands I know we are at two different places in our life. I grew up and was forced to take the role he did not want as a provider and leader (he did work but I made sure everything got done while working and going to school ) Going through a divorce is like losing a best friend it’s heart breaking. You will be ok Sis Cry if you need to scream if you need to and pull it together for your child/children. My Ex is an great dad just not a great spouse. I am a firm believer that I will love again and meet my souls mate he was not it but I did learn a lot during the 7 years we were married

@diamond8907

4 жыл бұрын

Cee Ivy Thank you for sharing this. How have you coped with having to “share” your child - coparenting? What has helped you have peace?

I got diagnosed with cancer at 39. My husband left and divorced me at 44. I lost the house. Healed (from cancer and heartbreak) and started dating again at 46. Met my current husband at 47. God is faithful because I tried EVERYTHING to make my first marriage work. My 2 kids are thriving, we have a new home built in 2018. I could never imagine being this happy when I was going through. I can’t wait to see how things work out in YOUR favor. Your attitude towards your ex is key. Like you, I never spoke ill of him publicly. Awesome things await you that you can’t even imagine or dream!❤

B R A V E ! Thank you for sharing your life I don’t take that for granted. You didn’t even have to share but you were courageous and generous enough to do so. This is going to bless a lot of people and the best is YET to come mama! God bless you, baby girl has the best parents, and God’s got you sis. STRENGTH is already here ✌🏾♥️

I saw this at work on my lunch and had to hold back the tears. My daughter is 14 now and experienced this when she was 18 mos. I went through all of the same emotions and you will persevere! Today him and I are great friends and coparent well. Actually spent Christmas eve with his family and his girlfriend. I will be praying for your strength. There are times I am glad my daughter was little and didn't have to share in the emotions that come with rebuilding. Be blessed!

I have watched this 4 times in disbelief... Your strength is unmatched. You’re so beautiful and strong . My prayers are with you and baby Val. To watch ur journey with helping in him through school and starting motherhood all the same time and still be unwavering... I loved seeing you guys together but HIS LOST!! Much love to you 💝

Almost a year later and my heart still hurts for you. What a coward he was. But it's his loss

@tinab612

4 жыл бұрын

Yep! But look at how far she's come in that time! She's truly blessed and glowing now and moving to Houston! God is so good!!!

I am so sorry. I too was married young and divorced by 29 after being with my ex for almost 10 years. I know all the feelings you are going through and I want to give you a hug so bad and let you know it’s gonna be okay. I promise it will take a while to adjust but it will open your mind to so much and you will persevere over it all, may you continue to be covered by love and Gods abundance of blessings. I loved watching your family and it honestly gave me hope that I would meet someone new and have the family I always wanted but I think it’s important for us all to realize we have to take care of ourselves first and be the best we can be because man will continue to let us down time and time again but God will always be there! Praying for you and your family!!!

Oh sorry to hear that but not shocked..when he no longer appeared in your video.praying for you much love..your are a beautiful person....it's his lost wow!!

My mom was divorced before she had me. She doesn’t talk about it often but she says it was a blessing. So many amazing things and people will enter your life. You will be so loved, honored and fulfilled by a wonderful man. Speaking it into existence for you ❤️

I’m 28 and recently separated from my husband because of his narcissist and toxic behavior. We were married for 2 years and I noticed I lost a lot of myself and the things and career I worked so hard for. I don’t have any close friends so this is really hard to go through. I just pray I get through it with God.

@jla4christ

Жыл бұрын

I feel this..Im asking God for strength

@jla4christ

Жыл бұрын

Are you able to message me? please..I need someone who can relate as well

@miamantello5348

7 ай бұрын

This is exactly like my story. And in a different country with everyone so far away. It's still hard but we gotta trust the process. I'm with you all.

Alisha, please accept this virtual hug!! I am truly sorry. This hurts because u have been a friend in my head. We have both been married for 3 years, were pregnant at the same time and had our daughters close together...also we both trust the Lord as our Savior. The reason that u are able to smile is only the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, he will continue to guard your heart and your mind in Christ Jesus. I know you won’t discuss your issues but did you both try counseling? (I’m sure between both your families this was suggested already). I’m so angry but your very disposition is an example of your faith in God and Him working within you. My only word of suggestion is wait before you sign papers. Tell him you will sign after 7 months. Pray and Fast that God will turn Cortez’ heart back to you. Stay quiet, don’t fight, beg or plead for him or be more than needed to him. Only discuss Val and let God do the rest. I am praying for you and your Williams Way Family . ❤️

@Em-Abena

5 жыл бұрын

The greatest advice so far. Alisha please keep praying this is the work of the devil. No marriage is perfect but with God all things are possible. I love you 3 & I pray it works out. My heart is really broken.

@bubblesMA

5 жыл бұрын

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@cakebaker2011

5 жыл бұрын

@@bubblesMA Yes! This move is only for the saved mature woman. ❤ I love you to life sis.

@pccc145

5 жыл бұрын

Melissa Vassell Amen, sis. I’ll be praying along with you for her.

@luanneroberts9344

5 жыл бұрын

I like this advice Melissa. She should wait as long as possible to sign the papers and not discuss the divorce at all. Only talk about Sweet Val

Ah, man. I was hoping that this was some sort of storytime or something. You are SO right, you can NOT force someone to want to be in a relationship or to want a marriage. If it will work, you BOTH have to fight for it. If not, you'd be doing more harm than good. Praying for you and your daughter. Everything WILL be ok, God will get you through this. *hugs*

still cant believe it! Women, please be very careful who you marry and have children with.

@daisyyall6781

5 жыл бұрын

amaka1 honestly you can’t avoid it with these men ☹️. Even the so called good ones let you down.

@amaka1

5 жыл бұрын

JRC Y’all I see what you are saying but I do believe there are always warning signs that sometimes we women choose to ignore and think it will get better. Love is blind

@daisyyall6781

5 жыл бұрын

amaka1 so true!

@gamegirl85

4 жыл бұрын

amaka1 sometimes there isn’t anything to look into till u married and have kids then there is a problem

@gamegirl85

4 жыл бұрын

amaka1 sometimes there isn’t anything to look into till u married and have kids then there is a problem

I didn’t expect to hear this.. My heart goes out to you! Stay strong! Praying for you! 🙏🏽💕

I'm sorry to watch this video but the way your handling the situation speaks volumes to the type of woman you are. I will keep all of you in my prayers. One day at a time as this won't always be. ❤❤❤

The spirit of divorce was so heavy in 2018! 😢 and it was from the men

@gmanungo2244

5 жыл бұрын

omg yes!!!

@pkmelody3

5 жыл бұрын

They gon run out there and meet who the devil had waiting on them 😄

@yahsdaughter5039

5 жыл бұрын

patrice dilliom omg yes they just meeting a bunch of witches smh

@littleblacklawyergermanbla2008

5 жыл бұрын

Men live BITCHES

@ebonywooten4278

5 жыл бұрын

Valencia Wooten You are absolutely Right! In 2018 my husband and I were in the divorce process, papers filled out and all. Although it didn’t happen it was definitely about to. Btw you and I have the same last name (Wooten- my married name) lol

Wow - I absolutely appreciate your candor -- you didn't have to share, but you did -- and I think that's a testament to your character. Believe that your strength will transfer to Val and she will appreciate you for it. You are such a great mommy -- and girl, you are wonderfully made! Stay encouraged.

I've been with you since that gorge perm rod tutorial on short hair about a year ago. You have such a beautiful light about you. You are definitely loved sis!! We're here with you and for you!!

Ive been here since the gender reveal..This is so heartbreaking 😔

My heart dropped in my stomach! I'm so sorry. Praying for you and your family!

Hey love, I was 26 when I divorced. I was scared of divorce and blamed myself but in reality it was him. He was abusive physically mentally and spiritually. It’s not easy BUT God will always bring you through. Sending lots of ❤️ and 🤗

God is going to bless you for being so respectful of Cortez and despite the circumstance wanting him to prosper. You are showing the grace of God. My prayers to you and God bless you and your family☺❤!

@christinewarren8134

4 жыл бұрын

Girl i love this. Because right now I am trying everything to stay proper in my situation which is similar to Alisha

Wow. I knew something wasn't right when you were making excuses as to why he was so absent in videos and even when he were in the videos he seem so uninterested. I am praying for your family! You are strong and God will continue to give you peace that surpasses all understanding. (Philippians 4:7) Hang in there sis!!

@karenwatson5053

5 жыл бұрын

KindlyKim right

@MissaRosa

5 жыл бұрын

I've been noticing that also.

This is heartbreaking and I can't imagine how this has hurt you 😔 However, I am proud of how you have kept pressing on. My prayers are with you and Valerie. 💓

Hearing this just breaks my heart and is so shocking, wow. You're amazing for opening up and sharing this with us because you didn't have to. You seem to really be at a place of peace and healing. Take all the time you need. Everything will be just fine! Thanks for sharing❤💔💜

You my friend are the definition of a strong beautiful woman!!!!!!!! I can’t wait to see what God has in store for you and Val ❤️❤️ praying for you two! God’s got a beautiful plan❤️❤️❤️

I just watched this. First off YOU definitely deserve love. You are an amazing woman and mother please do not doubt that. Of course, everything will be okay with God's help and guidance along with time. Both of you all of the best parents for Valerie God chose you all to bring her into the world. Will continue to keep you in my prayers 2019 will be the year of unexpected blessings. Much love ❤

Thanks for being Soo transparent. I know it's hard to talk about.

@starlettehandy9241

5 жыл бұрын

Hello, My name is Starlette. I have been there. It takes time, but as you look back, you will see how God is with you and always will be. You are beautiful! Just trust in God's plan for your life. You are awesome! Thank you for sharing. Definitely praying for you.

@roniekaunderwood5091

5 жыл бұрын

It wasn't transparent but...

@me67980

5 жыл бұрын

@@roniekaunderwood5091 You need to focus on your own life. She shared enough you don't need to know every detail about what went on in her marriage.

@roniekaunderwood5091

5 жыл бұрын

@@me67980 who said I'm not focused on my own life... she said transparent but it really wasn't... I didn't say I needed to know or anything... I just said it wasn't transparent period

@honeywest39j95

5 жыл бұрын

@@me67980 true...

I just watched the one year old video of you 2 together.... I am dumbfounded. Something is just not right with your spouse.....please keep praying for strength, keep loving your little girl....later much later looking at "his" life, you will understand this was God's way of protecting you and your child. Trust in the Lord that this was best. 😍 your subscriber always.

This is exactly where I was emotionally 5 yrs ago as I was dealing with divorcing my husband of 12 yrs. It wasn't what I ever wanted or thought I'd go through. Trust me you're going to be OK. Baby is going to be OK. Focus on creating a new normal for you two. Trust me everything's going to fall into place and when you're ready, the right man will come along .

I’m so sorry for you and your family, but God knew this was going to happen. I pray that you stay strong for Valerie. The enemy will have you thinking it’s you, but it’s not you. Can’t make someone happy when they are not happy. Everything will work out for you. My prayers are with you.❤️❤️❤️

My heart just dropped. I am so sorry Alisha

Married at 41 divorced at 45. But I'm ok because I know THE RIGHT ONE IS ON THEEEEEEE WAY. KEEP PUSHING SIS YOU GOT THIS

Divorced at 28 but thanks be to God am happily married to my God sent 🥰 at 33 When the time is right,the right one will come And don’t give up on God while waiting

@tawannawilliams3761

5 жыл бұрын

Amen thanks for sharing your praisw report

@FABOL1801

3 жыл бұрын

This is really encouraging, as I’ve file for divorce at 30. I’m hopeful that God will give me, the right one.

Omg I haven't watched the video but the title makes me shocked

I felt something was wrong when he didn’t want to appear in the vlogs anymore. I hate this so much Alisha 😢 I will still pray for you guys & your happiness ♥️

Listen...thank you so much for sharing! I watched my mom go through a divorce with my father and it was rough! I see so much strength in you while presenting this video to the world. Just know that God is with you and is pleased with you! I have so much respect for you!

You are so strong and so beautiful! Praying for you during this time. Many blessings are coming your way!! ❤️

I'm sad and suprised as the same time. This was totally unexpected given the love ya'll displayed as a happy, young, black couple. I personally think people generally need to take marriage more seriously and know it's more than just a walk in the park and it takes two to keep the journey going. I wish you all the best Alisha. Much love hun. God has you covered.

Alisha I admire your courage! ❤️ God bless you because this couldn’t have been easy to do. You never know what a person is going through. Just know that because God lives, we can face tomorrow. God bless you and Miss Valerie 🙏🏾💕

Based on what your saying it sounds like he is having an affair. Statistically it's over in two years he will be back. So look for that because you are a beautiful woman. He thinks he has found a new love but God is real.

@shaunaboo961

5 жыл бұрын

This is a true statement... 18-24 months. I don’t know what happened between the two of them but I do know that Alesha and Val deserves the very best

@SittingPRETTY727

4 жыл бұрын

How do you know the signs of an affair?

Two years after this video and you are flourishing. This is a wonderfully living testimony that God will use our bad situations to elevate us.

OMGoodness! Stay encouraged! The joy of the Lord is your strength and God has presented you to a chapter in your life to make you stronger! I’ve been there! My marriage was tested, we started the divorce but God said no! I will be praying for you all! We make decisions but God always has the last word!

Unfortunately, Cortez checked out a long time ago, however God will continue to give you the strength that you need. Please please please see a good therapist, not a church therapist but a licensed professional therapist and see her/him as long as needed. Some days you will need to cry and be angry, which is all normal. Please do not embrace false guilt, it’s not your fault that he never really loved you like a husband should love his wife. I hope he gets the help that he needs as well. Grace and peace.

@jayjeystic

5 жыл бұрын

AMEN!

@twilli

5 жыл бұрын

Amen not a church therapist, I repeat

@hippiegoddesshealer6063

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed!!!

I kissed a frog too and we divorced more than 7 years ago but now happily married to a good man now. It’s a process because you are mourning the death of a relationship. The self doubt, pity, lack of self worth are all apart of the process. Those feelings will come but let them leave as well. You seem like you’re in good spirits, keeping G’d first so good things will come.

I'm so proud of you!!!! I honestly was rooting for the both of you. I can imagine being in a one sided relationship but a one sided marriage, not sure I can. I cannot even begin to imagine how you must have been feeling. I'm happy you are in control of your emotions. You will be fine, certainly will and your life partner will find you!

Girl I'm sending you tight hugs. When this popped up on my TL I literally stopped everything. I thought this was click bait for sure. Everything will absolutely be OK for you, Valerie and even Cortes. Thank you for sharing and i'm wishing you an abundantly blessed year of transition.

Alisha I love your spirit! Your a beautiful person inside and out. You are going to continue shine like the diamond you are and rise like the Queen that God made you to be. I will be praying for you and your family. I normally watch on the TV and not able comment. Big hugs Alisha!

You’re very brave and courageous for this video! You’re a beautiful person, inside & out! And yes, you WILL be okay. Praying for you and your sweet girl!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

You’re in my prayers!! It took me over a year to get over my heart break so I know what you’re going through... Time heals all wounds!!!!!!!!