Opening Up About My Divorce - Three Lessons I've Learned

Skyler Scott, father to quintuplets (Violet, Daisy, Logan, Lincoln & Lily) and 2 boys (Shayden & Landon).
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  • @judyfrietsch6477
    @judyfrietsch64778 ай бұрын

    Skyler. I survived divorce myself. 4 years ago, my husband left after 27 years of marriage and 30 years together for another woman. It took years of therapy. I'm still in therapy.. He left me for a woman outside of the USA. He left the USA, moved to her country and married her. We share a 26 yo daughter and he has a 14 month old son. The biggest things I learned. Therapy is a good. A neutral 3rd party is what I needed. I cried so much I was sick of hearing myself cry. And that's OK. I now realize he gave me the gift of the freedom I didn't know I deserved. I'm still working on my self esteem..There are many days I don't feel like I'm enough...it's a process. This is my first time in my adult life I've had to do it alone. It hasn't been easy...one thing that did make me smile in my healing, the quints...watching them grow up via your vlogs would bring me cheer when I needed it desperately. To anyone going through divorce I used to pray and cry myself to sleep wanting calm not chaos. It took time but I'm here.

  • @christine0418
    @christine04188 ай бұрын

    Skyler , we appreciate you opening up to your followers. It’s clear that you didn’t want the divorce. I believe we were all shocked when this sad devastating news came out. You always seemed so happy and in love. You are a wonderful Dad, son , friend and man. The world needs more Skyler in it. I wish you nothing but the best on your new life journey. Any women that gets to share life with you is a lucky woman. God bless you and your beautiful children. Sending love and hugs from Florida 💙🙏🏻❤

  • @CatherineRozanski1963

    @CatherineRozanski1963

    8 ай бұрын

    My sentiments exactly💗💗💗 Skylar continue doing what you do to get to where you need to be in life, the love you have for all your beautiful children shines through in everything you do & I Thank you for sharing in the great outdoors. Much Love, hugs & total respect for sharing your truth so publicly 🌟💎💖 xXx

  • @denisejohnson2840

    @denisejohnson2840

    8 ай бұрын

    One thing for sure two things for certain it’s always his/hers and the truth. Will never come up with your conclusion on a one sided video.

  • @ceecee824

    @ceecee824

    8 ай бұрын

    @@christine0418I think she did. She is stating she agreed with everything you said and added her thoughts as well 🥰

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    Awww. Thank you so much. Thanks for seeing and hearing me with such a loving and understanding heart. 💛

  • @leonorceballos6108

    @leonorceballos6108

    8 ай бұрын

    Skyler, I saw your parents a couple of weeks ago in STG and thought of telling them how amazing kids they have ( at least you and Shay) but I felt shy to approaching them and making them feel uncomfortable for having a total stranger telling them something they already know. I missed my chance. Thank you for being so humble and honest, sharing this seems still very painful for you, but of course, there is life after divorce! You’ll be more than great!

  • @PlainVanillaGrandmaCarol
    @PlainVanillaGrandmaCarol8 ай бұрын

    This is the most wonderful expression on divorce I have ever watched or read. The most awesome show of respect for your former spouse. The truest thoughts on what feelings some spouses experience. You must write a book. Really. Skylar, your tears at the end brought me to tears and I suspect many will say the same. I am also divorced and a former member so I can imagine somewhat how this has been for you. This old grandma just wants to give you a hug. I love you like a son, and I hate to see you hurt. I'm so grateful you were smart enough to get therapy to help you through this. God has good things... more good things... in store for you.

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you! I feel your hugs. Love you 🤗

  • @lindas6294

    @lindas6294

    8 ай бұрын

    I feel the same. It takes a long time to heal Skylar, just go with what God has given you for now...7 beautiful kids, your health, you have a lovely home, you are a successful vlogger...take it slow Skylar and just focus in on those things. We all love you, much love from Livonia Michigan💙

  • @HomesteadHippie

    @HomesteadHippie

    8 ай бұрын

    This old granny, and great-granny wanted to give him a hug also.

  • @kirstiecurling335
    @kirstiecurling3358 ай бұрын

    My first marriage ended in divorce and I was made to feel a failure by my family. Fast forward to today and I have now been married to my true husband (I dont like calling him my second husband!) for 27 years and counting. Everything you say is so correct, but please remember what you are saying applies to you as well. You are raw still, it will come and meantime lean on your family and friends as much as you need to. As others have said, you are amazing parents, you have amazing kids and you are a lovely human. Look after Skyler too! xx

  • @heathermapp1422
    @heathermapp14228 ай бұрын

    I think this is one of my favorite videos you’ve ever made. Thank you so much for your vulnerability and sharing the wisdom you’ve learned. ❤

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    So kind! Thank you so much! 💛

  • @suepeterson163

    @suepeterson163

    8 ай бұрын

    I agree

  • @LkRn09

    @LkRn09

    8 ай бұрын

    I agree as well. Brought tears to my eyes.

  • @arvillamclaughlin998

    @arvillamclaughlin998

    8 ай бұрын

  • @twinzzplusonecanada5499

    @twinzzplusonecanada5499

    8 ай бұрын

    I wholeheartedly agree with you. ❤

  • @kathysnell
    @kathysnell8 ай бұрын

    This was as real as it gets. I'm praying you find "peace that passes all understanding.' From your Baptist friend, who loves Mormon people, too.

  • @TheBibliophilePuzzler
    @TheBibliophilePuzzler8 ай бұрын

    Aaawww Skyler. I did not think I was going to cry, but the ending just broke my heart. Gentle and warm hugs.

  • @dianemcintosh7380
    @dianemcintosh73808 ай бұрын

    I love how you ramble on…..taking a serious subject, making it real, and reminding us that there IS life after divorce. Carry on, sir….❤

  • @DRMTTJ
    @DRMTTJ8 ай бұрын

    This is an awesome post. I was a single Mother MANY years ago but found my special, wonderful, soulmate and we have been married 50+ years. Yes, there is life, wonder life, after divorce. Skyler, your respect and love of Jamie, even though you're no longer married, is so refreshing. People seem to think that you can still love and/or be friends with a former spouse. Yes, you most certainly can. Keep on , keeping on Skyler. Your emotion at the end had me in tears. This is a favorite post.

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you 😊

  • @glennamiles3566
    @glennamiles35668 ай бұрын

    That walk was very illuminating to see and hear. Deprogramming from a religious organization is an overwhelming experience for many without throwing a painful divorce on top of it. Taking advantage of mental health services and being appreciated by the friends you love are all good things. Believing you will survive the pain and experience the joy of living again is the biggest hurdle. Your ability to just appreciate what you have will carry you a long way towards peace and security in your person and demonstrate to the kids that your love for them is unconditional, unending, and enduring. You got this. You have a lot more to give.

  • @laurao8099
    @laurao80998 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Skyler, for being so vulnerable. This is definitely one thing that has not changed about you. I remember when the quints were infants and you were talking about people fasting and praying for your family when Logan's water broke at 21 weeks. Your vulnerability share showed then, and it shows now, and I honestly believe that vulnerability comes as a really good/healthy amount of strength.❤

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    💛🤗

  • @AlishaRichard

    @AlishaRichard

    8 ай бұрын

    I remember praying for Logan and reading the comments from all over the world. That’s when I started watching/praying. It was crazy how many came together. Imagine if we do that for everything all the time. Miracles happen. I was raised strict Catholic, and I no longer go to church, but I definitely have a relationship with god. I’ve seen his work first hand. I full heartedly believe my god loves all and doesn’t discriminate.

  • @candicegirot4822
    @candicegirot48228 ай бұрын

    Thank you Skylar for sharing this with all of us. You are also worthy, kind, and genuine!

  • @ohanasweety
    @ohanasweety8 ай бұрын

    It couldn't have been easy to get to this point that you can speak so openly about your feelings and experiences regarding the divorce. Its wonderful to see that you have been able to heal and grow. Having a major life change yourself and having close family going through major changes isn't easy. It's wonderful that you and your sister have been a great support system for each other.

  • @UteGoldkuhle
    @UteGoldkuhle8 ай бұрын

    As everyone shared here, I was so touched and moved by you sharing your honesty, love, vulnerability, grace and hope! You showed us all the best we can be and our human complexity; you gifted us all with perspectives we all strive for but may not be equipped to achieve. That’s spreading love, Skylar, at its highest! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you 💛💛💛

  • @sharonnivens
    @sharonnivens8 ай бұрын

    I never in a million years thought you and Jamie would divorce but I think you are a wonderful person with a heart of gold. I pray you find happiness again.

  • @debbiedavis265
    @debbiedavis2658 ай бұрын

    Skylar you just made me cry!! Wow you’re such a strong man and you should feel so proud of yourself. Your children are lucky to have such a devoted father and of course Mother. Keep smiling because your smile brightens up anyone’s darkest day. Love and best wishes from Debbie in Bristol uk xx

  • @luisavega8218
    @luisavega82188 ай бұрын

    Skyler, your words, talking about Jamie, being your wife once, and your kids, shows, how much love and God are in your heart truly, i hope you both find happiness

  • @racheltiede9268
    @racheltiede92688 ай бұрын

    I'm crying as I watch this. I went through this myself. 25 years married, happy. Shocked by the divorce and devastated. I cried in the courthouse when the judge was declaring the divorce finalized. I couldn't understand all the people before me smiling big when they're divorces was finalized

  • @Momo_1967
    @Momo_19678 ай бұрын

    Your willingness to share and show your vulnerability is a testament to the work you've done to heal and grow. Thank you for sharing that and keep being courageous!

  • @emmachandler6780
    @emmachandler67808 ай бұрын

    I love your energy and kindness that comes so naturally , the respect you have for jaime is refreshing and very special i wish others held that manner and respect x

  • @valheard7203
    @valheard72038 ай бұрын

    Your open explanations are so refreshing Skylar, and you certainly are a wonderful dad to all your children. Keep on doing what you're doing, because you're doing it right! Life will be good again for you, I feel it! Your children will see to that xx

  • @queendivaamy
    @queendivaamy8 ай бұрын

    Skylar, thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing. Sharing pain and brokeness and healing can help others so much. ❤

  • @cobigenna8782
    @cobigenna87828 ай бұрын

    As the child of a very messy divorce, I wish I could go back in time 15 years and show my parents this video. We obviously don’t see the private moments between you all during this time but even just how positively you both have talked about each other in the last two years of vlogs has been so amazing to see has honestly brought me some healing in my own fears of marriage and divorce in the future. All the love to you and your family 🫶🏼

  • @mjhv287

    @mjhv287

    8 ай бұрын

    Same here. My parents had a messy divorce and they didn’t talk to each other …

  • @martabarreiro6043

    @martabarreiro6043

    8 ай бұрын

    Oh gosh, I second this. It’s hard being a child of divorce but even worse when your parents can’t get along and you’re kind of in the middle bouncing off them and left to clean part of their mess

  • @estebancorral5151

    @estebancorral5151

    8 ай бұрын

    @@martabarreiro6043do not follow in their footsteps. Set high standards for the persons that are in your life. They were failures.

  • @ritawells6426
    @ritawells64268 ай бұрын

    Your awesome Skyler. You made me cry. I have watched you & Jamie since she was in the hospital with the scary thought of loosing these 5 precious children. I will continue watching you & Jamie & all 7 of your children. Thank you for being the great person you are.

  • @tkathiee
    @tkathiee8 ай бұрын

    Everyone's already said it all. I'm in awe at how you are handling this twist in your life. Sending you tons of love and respect. You are so strong and inspirational. Keep your chin up Skylar, the world's your oyster!

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you! It’s yours too! 😁

  • @emilymorris864
    @emilymorris8648 ай бұрын

    You sir are a fine example to your sons and daughters ! The way you speak about and treat their mother is something they will never forget . I hope at the end of your day you feel proud of you because you should! I think there are many beautiful things ahead for you and your kids.❤

  • @camrynzell9731
    @camrynzell97318 ай бұрын

    Your story and the lesson you have learned reminds me a lot of what my mom has gone through after losing my dad.. becoming a widow, having to find a new identity, joy, and for some people, another partner. All of that to say, I absolutely commend you in the way you have handled things, and sharing this story with us. Your platform is a lot greater than you probably even think.. your story is not only going to hit home for those going through divorce, but also people going through their own personal form of grief.. whatever it may be. You have a beautiful family, and I appreciate you for sharing them with us!

  • @karenscott4111
    @karenscott41118 ай бұрын

    I have so much love, admiration and respect for you, Skylar. I’m so sorry for the pain you went through and so thankful to you for sharing the lessons you’ve learned. You are an incredible person. Hugs to you. ❤❤❤

  • @kelleypritchard
    @kelleypritchard8 ай бұрын

    I am so glad you put this video out! So many need to hear this! & Thank you for being so vulnerable!

  • @ng1309
    @ng13098 ай бұрын

    The content that so many of us who followed your family's journey from the beginning were waiting for... Life changes have a purpose no matter how difficult and challenging and sad it can be... But you got this!! You both are amazing and beautiful humans aside of being wonderful parents to each of your 7 kids. Be proud and continue living surrounded by love (self love too) and keep building inner strength moving forward.

  • @sharronbrauer6116
    @sharronbrauer61168 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing. I is wonderful that you and Jamie are able to put things aside and can co-parent so well. Best wishes to ALL.💕😊

  • @katiemccarthy5349
    @katiemccarthy53498 ай бұрын

    Thank you for opening out and being so honest about your divorce and the lessons you learnt. I think it's so important that we share these things that can really help others not to feel alone on their journey.

  • @mollycule2792
    @mollycule27928 ай бұрын

    I’m crying as you’re crying. Your lessons are what I needed. I’m trying to break the generational trauma for my son. Thank you for sharing friend 💛

  • @shariblanshay6120
    @shariblanshay61208 ай бұрын

    Hope you know how special you are! I'm a child of divorce and I am pretty sure if my father had a kind, gentle friend like you I wouldn't have suffered as much as I have. Thank you for having the bravery to talk about something difficult..

  • @eldavis1311
    @eldavis13118 ай бұрын

    Skyler, you are so beautiful telling us your inner feelings. I felt so bad when you teared up. If you were my son or brother, I’d give you a huge hug. Stay strong Skyler!

  • @kelziebub1
    @kelziebub18 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing and being honest. I have followed you guys since the littles were born. That respect you talk of was so clear. Sometimes things have to end but not for the worse. All seven of your clan are very lucky to have such amazing parents x

  • @crystalmodkins6826
    @crystalmodkins68268 ай бұрын

    I love how respectful and how much love you still have for Jamie, it was beautiful to hear you honor her. I loved your last point on divorce, very true!!! I cried with you at the end, your tears sounded like a small break through!! I pray you, Jamie, and the kids continue to grow and heal❤❤❤

  • @peaceafos112
    @peaceafos1128 ай бұрын

    I really appreciate your honesty and bravery Skylar. People like you are hard to come by. I can tell what kind of person you are, because your light shines through the screen. You (and Violet) are my favorite part about 5 two love being apart of my life. Its really awesome to see you go through such growth and stay positive. So many other youtube families cant say the same. Im glad to vicariously “know” you. Keep up the love and light! Youre doing great.😊

  • @myrnaedmisten599
    @myrnaedmisten5998 ай бұрын

    Skylar, You are a man of depth and wisdom…and fun. Thanks for sharing. Maybe the best vlog you’ve ever made in my opinion. ❤

  • @sandrap3047
    @sandrap30478 ай бұрын

    Love watching your precious family! I commend you & Jamie for being such great co-parents! Still following both of you on your social media platforms! I also commend you on praising Jamie! My parents got a divorce when I was a teen. I never heard my Mom or Dad bad mouth each other. That isn't always the case. You may have had me crying! You are such a great Father Skyler!

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    So kind Sandra! Thank you 😊

  • @HalE14
    @HalE148 ай бұрын

    Very well done video ❤ I was as shocked and sad as everyone else when the news came out that you guys had separated. Thank you for speaking so kindly about Jamie. It means a lot to me when exes can be respectful to each other no matter the reason they’re exes. I truly wish you both the best and want nothing but happiness and healing for you

  • @M.M435
    @M.M4358 ай бұрын

    That was a beautiful testament to life and love and mercy. Our God will not fail you, Skyler.

  • @madelineelliott2279
    @madelineelliott22798 ай бұрын

    Skyler thank you so much for breaking down divorce stigma!! It absolutely can be healing and forward moving🫶🏼 I’m inspired by you. Sending your family lots of love!

  • @tdov7622
    @tdov76228 ай бұрын

    Sending hugs! You have got this! All will be well! 🤗🤗🤗

  • @iknowlinda
    @iknowlinda8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your experience. Many years ago now, my 14 year marriage ended very abruptly and not on my terms. I think of that time as my "dark night of the soul" period. It took me a whole two years before I came through and really found myself again. The best part was that as I worked through things, I found aspects of myself that I hadn't seen in a while, like my sense of humor and a lightness of my spirit. Life here on this planet has such an interesting way of unfolding and teaching us our lessons. I believe it's ultimately all good and I'm grateful to be here. Wishing you all the best on your journey!

  • @cindyporter1148
    @cindyporter11488 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing! Your a great Daddy! You are truly an inspiration! I hope this chapter is your best one!❤🙏

  • @LJ13222
    @LJ132228 ай бұрын

    Beautiful video. I hope you and your family, your kids, your dear sister and all can live your best lives 🩷 so very inspiring. I can’t imagine the mental gymnastics it takes to take a step back and really examine everything that’s been engrained into your entire life. I’ve followed since babies were still in the NICU and have always enjoyed how you frame things. Sending all the best Skyler 🩵🩷

  • @DoctorJoanieTool
    @DoctorJoanieTool8 ай бұрын

    Wow. Without doubt my favorite video of yours from the beginning. I ended with tears, too. You are an amazing human being and my goodness are those children fortunate to have a father like you. Beautiful video. I am so glad that your world is opening up and things are getting better. I wish only peace, love and happiness for you. ☮️❤️🌷

  • @kathrynhaigh1815
    @kathrynhaigh18158 ай бұрын

    The fact you have this much self awareness so soon after your divorce is a credit to you Skylar, especially given the pain you have endured during this period. Divorce is the biggest journey of self discovery, it's been 10 years for me and while hard I have learnt who I truly am. I live in the UK and am the same age, also have ADHD and a single parent. The journey whilst massively challenging has given me a strength and awareness I would never have had should I have stayed married. Certainly not always easy but while I'm not religious I do feel that we are destined to take certain paths. Like you i would never have dreamt I would be a single mother/parent but I am moving forward ❤ thank you for sharing, it's a real comfort to know other are on the same path

  • @Ooglehonk
    @Ooglehonk8 ай бұрын

    So amazing to see two people love, respect and support one another even after a divorce. SO beautiful for your children to have two parents who love them and love each other without any hated and hurt between one another

  • @user-mp4zs2by9m
    @user-mp4zs2by9m8 ай бұрын

    I see you & I hear you Skylar. So much pain, so much truth & so much hope. Thank you so much for sharing such a life giving message. ❤️

  • @aprilphillips3404
    @aprilphillips34048 ай бұрын

    Your tears at the end choked me up

  • @SnailWhales
    @SnailWhales8 ай бұрын

    Skylar as someone who was also raised in the LDS church and then left and also went through a divorce, I completely understand your perspectives and all you’re going through. Thanks for being so genuine! Funny thing, I saw your friend Kyle at a grocery store the other night and then Jamie at a store a few nights later. So surprising for me. I don’t know any of you but recognized them from the vlog. 😂 Hang in there!

  • @Amy-uk4km
    @Amy-uk4km8 ай бұрын

    Sharing your experience is a gift, someone out there is watching this and gathering strength.

  • @twinzzplusonecanada5499

    @twinzzplusonecanada5499

    8 ай бұрын

    Absolutely the truth!!! ❤

  • @sallygoede4765
    @sallygoede47658 ай бұрын

    Love you Skyler for the from-the-heart talk. So many people need to hear that time heals, that they are worth it and that they are not alone. Thank you. xx

  • @tracybell7904
    @tracybell79048 ай бұрын

    Man him choking up at the end and showing such vulnerability was absolutely heartbreaking but yet so refreshing at the same time!! The respect you have for the mother of your children after divorce is something that’s rarely seen anymore so thank you for letting others going through the same thing know it’s ok not to be ok!!! ❤🙏 Love this video so much and love love the bond you have with all of your precious kids!❤💙

  • @sharlapaup4399
    @sharlapaup43998 ай бұрын

    Beautiful scenery and to open up and let your feelings out!! Enjoy finding your future as we all 🙏🙏🙏🙏 for you and Jamie and family❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @joannecanetti7481
    @joannecanetti74818 ай бұрын

    Thank you Skylar that was beautifully put. I have to say it been there done that. It still brings a tear to my eye, but moving forward it what we must do, especially when kids are involved. You’re a very special man hope you know that.😊

  • @robertapainter7681
    @robertapainter76818 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your story. The car wreck analogy is spot on! Your positive learnings were inspiring.

  • @wendicrotchett6201
    @wendicrotchett62018 ай бұрын

    Absolutely loved this video! Your vulnerability is obvious and the things you shared are relatable. I’ve loved watching your journey, with Jamie, and though this transitionary time. Your kids are incredible and you’re doing great! Looking forward to what adventures you continue to have!

  • @joeyhoney1
    @joeyhoney18 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing these parts of your story with us. I have gone through divorce, thought I had handled everything, then started writing a book about this experience. I t has been incredibly cathartic, and very surprising. There were many emotions that I had buried, and the writing helped me bring focus and to work through those emotions. You are right in saying that it is not easy, and also right in that we are not alone, and there is life after divorce. I think you are doing so well and you continue to be a great dad to all your kids! You’ve got this, Skyler!! Warm regards from 🇨🇦Calgary, Alberta🇨🇦

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you ❤️🇨🇦

  • @joannainperth
    @joannainperth8 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing Skyler. I went through an unexpected, traumatic and devastating separation and divorce about the same time as you. Most people that knew us were shocked. I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said. And these were some good reminders for me to hear. Wishing you and the kids and Jamie all the healing in this rough patch of life. I hope you receive all the grace you need from your loved ones. Best wishes from Perth Australia.

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    Thanks you! Sending love and best wishes. ❤️🇦🇺

  • @PatriciaPattison
    @PatriciaPattison8 ай бұрын

    You have helped many people by the conversation you have in this video. There is still love and family… just not together in the original family as initially conceived. Both of you are wonderful people. I enjoy following all of your channels. You are a wonderful person and a winner in all your roles in life. Thank you for being in this world. Sincerely! A fan!

  • @believingisseeing777
    @believingisseeing7778 ай бұрын

    You're so loved! ❤ thank you for being you and bringing such joy to my world over the years

  • @daniellesavaria9920
    @daniellesavaria99208 ай бұрын

    I look forward to seeing you and your beautiful children flourish through life 💙🩵🩵💗🩵💗🩵💗

  • @elizabeththorson5184
    @elizabeththorson51848 ай бұрын

    I respect and admire you, Skyler. Thank you. You’ve got this.

  • @nancymcdonough4373
    @nancymcdonough43738 ай бұрын

    Bless your heart Skyler! Thank you for sharing your lessons learned and I sincerely hope you continue going forward in a positive way. You have the most awesome children and you can see their love for both of you.

  • @azutmom68
    @azutmom688 ай бұрын

    I met my hubby. Three weeks we ran off got married. 50 years and in 2019 he passed. I’m so blessed to have him for my eternal partner. Life was hard. You do what’s good for you in life. ❤

  • @sarahscharber5559

    @sarahscharber5559

    8 ай бұрын

    I met my husband and 6 months later we were married. I have no regrets.

  • @rachelanne268

    @rachelanne268

    8 ай бұрын

    Life is hard either way, good for you for staying.

  • @cjhoward409

    @cjhoward409

    8 ай бұрын

    I met my hubby and 4 months later we eloped to Vegas. We’ve been happily married now almost 30 YEARS 😊

  • @jaime4890
    @jaime48908 ай бұрын

    This was a tough one. Thank you so much for sharing. The “you are worth it” brought tears to my eyes. Skyler I want you to know you are worth it too! Spreading love and encouragement all around. ❤️

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! 😊

  • @BrendaSmith09
    @BrendaSmith098 ай бұрын

    We love you Skyler and family. God will definitely heal your wounds and restore your broken heart. Thank you for sharing your life with us and for also making us laugh with your awesome personality. ❤

  • @kerrypapworth1526
    @kerrypapworth15268 ай бұрын

    Thank you for being so open and vulnerable Skylar. Love to you all from Australia. 💕💕

  • @darlenekinsler9794
    @darlenekinsler97948 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing! Continued healing to you! Your lessons may help others! Be well!

  • @joyrebstein
    @joyrebstein7 ай бұрын

    A divorce is the death of your plans and hopes for the future. You grieve for what is lost, but it definitely can be forward moving. Thanks for sharing.

  • @laidell9374
    @laidell93748 ай бұрын

    Sending you virtual hug. It takes so much strength and courage to show vulnerability specially from men. You are an inspiration. ❤

  • @bkm2797

    @bkm2797

    8 ай бұрын

    That he is!

  • @juliemcquaid6066
    @juliemcquaid60668 ай бұрын

    You are brave and so strong. What a wonderful person and father you are. Love the openness of this vlog, thank you for sharing ❤

  • @chelseywickham650
    @chelseywickham6508 ай бұрын

    Sending you love. This is a healing journey and coming from a trauma background, understanding it and doing work to process and heal, it’s so worth it.

  • @rheajoy4039
    @rheajoy40398 ай бұрын

    Very touching video. Love how you speak about Jamie. Would love to learn more about your Mormon journey.

  • @Grumpynannyella
    @Grumpynannyella8 ай бұрын

    You and Jamie are both wonderful people. I’m sure this divorce was painful for both of you. I so respect that both of you talk so lovingly about the other. How hard it must have been for Skyler to have to step away from his faith and for Jamie to hold onto her faith. Life is so hard, and it’s always difficult to know what’s right. You both are making it work, and your children reflect what wonderful parents you are. I hope the days ahead are easy for all of you!

  • @sabrinahotchkiss9578
    @sabrinahotchkiss95788 ай бұрын

    Skylar, thank you for being so vulnerable with us. I can't imagine the emotions you and everyone have been feeling. Though coming from a divorced family myself, I can empathize with what the kids must be feeling. Sending love, hugs and prayers from Kitchener, Ontario, Canada

  • @vickyguy8903
    @vickyguy89038 ай бұрын

    Hugs and hugs! Keep the smile close at hand, but the "feels" too. I love the flogs and always hope each of you have peace and understanding of all you both were, are and will be.

  • @meherenow
    @meherenow8 ай бұрын

    So many people wanted an explanation but you didn’t owe anyone one. Thanks for sharing in your own way, in your own time frame and from your heart. Much respect to you ❤

  • @ace6285

    @ace6285

    8 ай бұрын

    It’s not about owing. It’s about a community that grew up over hours and hours of watching and cheering everyone on and deriving pleasure and value in life from the shared experience. People feel deeply attached to this family and just like you want to know what is going on with non virtual loved ones, out of concern and hopes for them, many people, myself included felt very sad and didn’t want the connection to be severed.

  • @JennSafari

    @JennSafari

    8 ай бұрын

    ​​@@ace6285Watching a family on social media that you personally don't know entitles you to nothing. They don't owe any of us explanation for anything that happens in their lives. Just like we don't owe anyone explanation of ours..they aren't any different..also it's called being respectful of their boundaries. Nothing they do personally or otherwise has anything to do with us viewers..it has no effect on our lives. It's their life.😊

  • @meherenow

    @meherenow

    8 ай бұрын

    @@ace6285 vlogging is a virtual journal and the author gets to choose what they include just like any creator makes the choices over their body of work. As the viewer or reader you accept those choices. It’s also about personal boundaries between a persons public self and private one. Even though they make some of their life public , they also have the right to decide what they want to keep private, often because our lives effect others and isn’t always just our own story to tell

  • @geniereiman1089
    @geniereiman10898 ай бұрын

    When I got divorced now 7 years ago, it was the hardest thing I've ever done. We had been married 35 years. My children were grown, but it was still hard on all of us. Yes, there is life after divorce and in my case a much happier and fulfilling life. I have dated a bit, but cannot see ever getting married again. You are still young, Skylar, and I am sure as time passes you will be ready to build a new relationship.

  • @JC-du6sn

    @JC-du6sn

    8 ай бұрын

    Look up Within Heaven's Gates by Rebecca Springer 😇

  • @23jayaz
    @23jayaz8 ай бұрын

    I remembered one of your previos vlog about the first time you discussed about the divorce. That and this one is why I am a fan of you and your family. The way you show your vulnerability and your honesty is very refreshing. My 9 year relationship ended a few months ago and I didnt know how I was going to make it. I am getting there. I dont know where you are from healing but know that it will get better soon. There is no way but up. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and raw honesty. This is why I love watching your vlogs.

  • @nantinee9
    @nantinee98 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story and the life lessons you’ve learned about divorce. I wish you and your family well.

  • @jfro3685
    @jfro36858 ай бұрын

    Sending healing prayers to you and your beautiful family. I found with co-parenting, including my ex in everything (holiday’s & birthday’s w/ both families) helped my children heal knowing we’re always going to be a family (wether mom & dad are together… team Vogl forever) ... My ex is still my friend and I thank him everyday for our beautiful, now adult kiddo’s. Thank you for sharing your journey to a healthy co-parenting team.

  • @bethmeredith
    @bethmeredith8 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing that from your heart, I feel it may help many..been there so I can relate. Wishing you all great success in all your future endeavors and whatever the next chapters hold.

  • @ummsafia1600
    @ummsafia16008 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. You are helping people more than you know 💖

  • @julieloveshockey10486
    @julieloveshockey104868 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story. You have been so very blessed with Jamie and the children as we’ve been blessed that you share your family with us. So looking forward to watching you all grow

  • @tanyarome6103
    @tanyarome61038 ай бұрын

    I'm going through a divorce right now and we were married 19 years. I needed to hear your words and I thank you for sharing. Things will get better. My boys and I will get through it and we will come out the other side.

  • @ngs5554

    @ngs5554

    8 ай бұрын

    Big hugs ❤

  • @dedub4068
    @dedub40688 ай бұрын

    Skyler, appreciate you being open with us. Sending much love and respect from 🇨🇦

  • @annatiarec
    @annatiarec8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your journey! I so appreciate your heart for your family and for being real! Well Done! Praying for you and your family!

  • @stephaniebirch1337
    @stephaniebirch13378 ай бұрын

    I don’t usually comment, but I really appreciated your honesty and vulnerability. Leaving the church is a hard thing to do. I can only imagine how much harder it was to also experience the end of your marriage at the same time. I wish you all the best. I hope that you both can continue to support each other as you co-parent and raise your children.

  • @catherinemassa846

    @catherinemassa846

    8 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @hf110510
    @hf1105108 ай бұрын

    Skyler - I was blindsided by a divorce, with a family I adored. A car accident is a perfect example. There was days I was not sure I could pull though. I am 3 years in and life DOES go on. Your perspective is so refreshing and raw. Thank you! Sending blessings your way.

  • @JC-du6sn

    @JC-du6sn

    8 ай бұрын

    Look up Within Heaven's Gates by Rebecca Springer 😇

  • @bluebirdie35
    @bluebirdie358 ай бұрын

    Skylar, a very emotional vlog. I wanted to give you a hug at the end. I also love how although you were alone in this video, you made it feel like the quints were there, planning playtime. I hope your moving forward and healing continues 🤗

  • @mina5391
    @mina53918 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for opening up! We love you! I hope you feel loved and not alone! I'm kind of going through different yet totaly similar experiences right now and I just questioned everything and I was so worried about being judged and your video and the way it is made even with the music gives me a feeling that life is just so beautiful! We are not alone and I hope you felt that on your hike. Everyone has to figure out an own way and I just wish you the best! You are so funny and creative and I know you always liked to make videos and you do so well, this video was really like a journey and life really is a journey! Learning and figuring out the right way never really ends! Your kids are so lucky to have such respectfull parents and a father who is so into how theire playing and learning works and who really takes part of it! Please feel hugged! 😊❤

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the love and the hug 💛🤗

  • @kimyoung3628
    @kimyoung36288 ай бұрын

    This was a really special video. Not only were you vulnerable and honest with us nameless faceless watchers but we also saw some incredible US scenery. Thanks for your courage and thanks for sharing. I know some people say you will find happiness again I guess meaning another relationship but to me it seems like you have found some happiness and contentment in a situation you never thought you would have to contemplate. Peace is such a valuable thing. Lots of love from Australia

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this comment, and thank you for watching. It’s been a steep road the past few years, but I’m grateful to be exactly where I am. I’ve learned that happiness begins by finding peace, love, and acceptance within. Thanks again for your kindness. Visiting Australia is toward the top of my bucket list. Sending love and best wishes! ❤️🇦🇺

  • @hannahscakecreations
    @hannahscakecreations8 ай бұрын

    That made me tear up…I am going through a divorce too and I agree with you 100 percent Skyler! Thank you for being transparent and encouraging ❤️ 🎶 Keeeeep mooooving forward! 🎶

  • @letsgofather

    @letsgofather

    8 ай бұрын

    Hang in there my friend! Let’s both keep swimming. Things get better one day at a time. Sending best wishes!

  • @cynthiagreenhill5283
    @cynthiagreenhill52838 ай бұрын

    The younger you looks just like your brother. Such a raw , honest video. Glad you're now doing well. Best dad ever.

  • @user-hd6vr7nk3v
    @user-hd6vr7nk3v8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I’m happy to see you found yourself! That is the most important thing. You have a beautiful soul and a beautiful family.

  • @donnataylor3506
    @donnataylor35068 ай бұрын

    Sending you and your family love and prayers. I wish you to be surrounded by love and kindness. ❤❤