As a retired medical professional, I can say the last thing I wanted to do when not at work was come home and take care of more people.

@MerveilleK

4 жыл бұрын

DK Dempcey Knight DK that’s my biggest worry

@abigailsimpson5904

4 жыл бұрын

Woman should stop dating enemployed men.

@sharonjohnson9782

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, I have state troopers and police officers come over all the time and the last thing they want is please don't tell anyone our profession🙏🙂🙂

@sharonjohnson9782

2 жыл бұрын

The shoe makers kids have no shoes☺️🙂

@sharonjohnson9782

2 жыл бұрын

Hey the shoe makers kids have no shoes 👟

I love how Judge Lynn use examples of her experiences with her husband. She’s so down to earth and real and definitely hilarious 😆. Needs her own comedy show too.

@jo-annbastings

Жыл бұрын

Yes! Those are the best to illustrate what she wants to say and to be sure to be understood.

This woman has so much going for her why is she even interested in this guy who has zero going for him!!!

@tatucorreia

5 жыл бұрын

Odd concept...they are compatible! That's why. Not that easy to find in our busy society. He just needs a job which he got. Simple.

@mikkonumminen8741

5 жыл бұрын

She has 4 kids propably a big skank

@michaelj6199

4 жыл бұрын

because he's white

@ashervasher6554

4 жыл бұрын

@Gregory KEROR Davis Raw food 😂😂🖤

@brandonhustleheavy1282

3 жыл бұрын

With 4 kids she get what she gets. I'm sure her kids father(s) probably the same way, she thought having a bottom shelf Brad was gonna change that

As soon as I heard "musician" and saw that bold spot. RUUUUN GIRL

@kattiethomas4687

2 жыл бұрын

That's what happens when you afraid of some random guy leaving you.

@undertalea2638

2 жыл бұрын

Thin when he blows up and starts bring in all that money from the music she's going to look stupid.

@gamerincorporated154

2 жыл бұрын

What the hell is a bold spot?

@lindareed2291

2 жыл бұрын

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

@Amo888

2 жыл бұрын

@@gamerincorporated154 a bald spot of hair they mistyped

He needs to get a job period! He doesn't help around the house, he doesn't bring any money in, so what is he good for? She can honestly do better in my opinion 💁🏾

@ixamxmsright

6 жыл бұрын

Read the update at the end ,he did get a job to help in their relationship.

@lollabailey4109

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly 👏👏👏👏 this is just Rediculous. He is REDICULOUS. And she allows it???

@Michelle-pn9xt

4 жыл бұрын

@DARK POWER Stop clowning. Black men marry women of any race. Every black woman does not have to be married to a black man! He needs to get a job. That has nothing to do with race.

@Michelle-pn9xt

4 жыл бұрын

@DARK POWER You need help I do not have a white daddy. Do you have a problem with black men marrying women who are white or Asian? If he was black, I would also say that he needs a job. All men need to work. If they are stay at home dads, they need to do whatever a stay at home mom would do.

@solennkini4682

4 жыл бұрын

DARK POWER PERIOD.

I like how Judge bring us into her life and the way she admires and talk her husband up you can tell he's a "Real Man" and she loves him to death

@madmemadhouseme4885

Жыл бұрын

She does and she did. My heart hurts for her loss.

@jermainethomas1570

Жыл бұрын

@@madmemadhouseme4885 I was so shocked when she posted about his death

I could never be in a relationship where someone is too stupid to do anything unless they're told. if the refrigerator is enpty, then go grocery shopping. if the trash is full take it out. if your partner works 12-14 hours a day and your at home, then make lunch or dinner. Adults shouldn't have to be told these things.

@mouhamadoudjite3084

6 жыл бұрын

Depends.

@user-ud5ld7hg8t

6 жыл бұрын

True but not everyone utilize common sense. There are some people who were never taught to figure things out on their own someone has always solved their problems for them or always told them what to do next.

@cressidatroylus1522

6 жыл бұрын

Yes but people are supposed to GROW UP at some point. If you still require someone to take care of you you're not an adult so you shouldn't be doing adult things like... procreating for example.

@k-ri2023

6 жыл бұрын

Growing up isn't viewed the same to everyone that's a big part of the problem. For some people just being able to sustain their life with lil assistance from others is growing up

@katarinam2145

6 жыл бұрын

lime light men are often pampered in chores department..so you do have to be a mom sometimes..but is their mothers fault.beeing young mean you have to learn,and they just don't teach them about what needs to be done in the house on daily basis.

So all this time he didn't realise she was stressed out by all the financial burden being on her? He's slow!

@Michelle-pn9xt

4 жыл бұрын

No. He is lazy.

@susannecarolinehoff7847

3 жыл бұрын

No he is not.. He is a MAIL 🙄 most men are like this..

@sirisaacmormont5445

3 жыл бұрын

"MEN! WE DON'T KNOW WHAT WE DID" Family Guy

😣 I'm so tired of these no account dudes making manhood look raggedy. Sometimes you've got to work while you're chasing your dream.......THAT'S MANHOOD!!!!

@madisonboucher9074

5 жыл бұрын

Doward Washington 👏🏻

@asabifatosin1150

5 жыл бұрын

Doward Washington 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@letticecorless5520

4 жыл бұрын

Doward Washington put his ass out!!!

@erinjohnson4273

4 жыл бұрын

Right on

@hotroddaddy-et4xg

4 жыл бұрын

work is the only way to achieve your dreams..he's a lazy bum looking for a free meal ticket

she's beautiful and I love that she's a nurse!

I just love this lady 😍😍😍 The realest woman on tv

@preciousmeraki

7 жыл бұрын

yeesssssssssssssssss

@MsZan2

6 жыл бұрын

OhSoFasHioNablE805 yu r BEAUTIFUL!! 😍

@inethacousin3387

5 жыл бұрын

OhSoFasHioNablE805 she really is! Very much a problem solver

@blackbeauty3599

5 жыл бұрын

Judge Lyn or the lady in green?

@gloryathomas8784

5 жыл бұрын

You with me 😂

I saved this video because to me this woman is so pretty.

@MrsBryant1024

5 жыл бұрын

She is a pretty chocolate lady.

@romishafranks

5 жыл бұрын

I like all 3 comments

@leendaba4771

4 жыл бұрын

She’s utterly gorgeous.

@gailsmith836

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe she's single now.

I’m kinda conflicted. I really feel like the judge took it hella easy on dude.

I never understand how a man can be ok with a woman supporting them. Get a job, help out around the house, don’t be lazy bruh. I watch Divorce court with all these unemployed men and never understand why a woman does this. Smh

She was so well spoken an level headed and he wasn't hot tempered and arrogant. Loved Judge Toler's advice. I wish them the best!

I believe this lady is so beautiful. I came back to the episode just to see her.

So everyone in America wants to become a musician?

@cynthiakila1161

6 жыл бұрын

Ansh Khaneja yeap 😀

@Sadeyo1

5 жыл бұрын

I'm just networking with female on Facebook and everyone I meet. I promise you I didn't cheat on you with any of them. Even if they do call or text me at 2 in the morning. That was my cousin anyway. Even if she did send me a full body nude and I change my password every two days. We break up every month and I have two other baby mamma's you won't hear about until half a year later, but I still love you baby. I want to make this work and I want you there to support my dream. We can go live with your parents when we can't support the bills and I'll tell them how wrong they are and they're only there to break us apart. We have two kids together and the third is on the way. I swear I'll make it better and we can walk down that aisle together. Lets do it for the kids.

@perfectlyflawed1731

5 жыл бұрын

Or an "Entertainer"! Smh, meanwhile the schools are full of children who do not appreciate the importance of Knowledge!

@johnwhite5551

5 жыл бұрын

Being a rapper is different from being an ACTUAL musician. Bet he can't even read an actual note!

@charismahouse1039

4 жыл бұрын

I don't

36 year old rapper come on bro

@BernardBrunu1

7 жыл бұрын

Tone_Setter_Brown Well 2chainz won best Rockie Rapper at age 36

@littlehouseinthebigapple5716

5 жыл бұрын

Tone_Setter_Brown there was. 41 year old one recently!!! 🤯

@onetoone1775

5 жыл бұрын

He is in another world by himself and taking her with him

@BernardBrunu1

5 жыл бұрын

@MandaG L I never said he started at 36

@josephmendy6183

5 жыл бұрын

😄😄

When a black man isn't working and looking to woman to support him, ALL the comments here are negative. Now Its a white man and the comments are..... they look cute together.... like WTF?

@tldevil1954

6 жыл бұрын

Jay and thats 💯

@est.inthe80s

6 жыл бұрын

Somebody help me understand too I'm saying

@NerlandeBeauty

6 жыл бұрын

Jay 💯

@aktionman9188

6 жыл бұрын

Jay real talk my brother life is a b**** sometime

@aktionman9188

6 жыл бұрын

Ruthology Fitness but if that fools who dream come true and the door open for him you jump right back in right .

It’s entirely too many damn “artists” out here that’s unemployed

@cymbolichuman433

2 жыл бұрын

Not everyone will make it in the Music Business. I too live with an aspiring artist...She needs to get his ass out of the house and hire a maid.

Ladies stop taking care of men🤷🏽‍♀️ . It never ends well ijs

I love how fluent Judge Lynn's vocabulary is! She's so well-spoken.

WHY is she financially taking care of this Bum?

@beatriceroberts4859

3 жыл бұрын

Desperate!

@willwebb1934

3 жыл бұрын

Because he’s white

@erinjohnson4273

3 жыл бұрын

I don't care what color someone is, I'm not taking care of a grown ass man

@tonieltaylor7755

3 жыл бұрын

Do y'all actually finish the episode bc .. it clearly said he found a full time job... If it was the other way around and a woman stayed home no one would bat an eye. Let's not be sexist

I just adore this amazing woman! She makes sense of things and explains how the other partner is feeling...what a gift!

you can't be 36 and still be an aspiring artist.

@AndyinMTL

7 жыл бұрын

Muku _ lol true

@ashmoe317

7 жыл бұрын

Naaww u can't let ur age be the reason to give up on your dreams. But i am glad he did get a job to help with the relationship strain.

@karlvella4460

7 жыл бұрын

hes only an aspiring artist because his wife helps him financially. at that age you CANT be an aspiring artist unless this is the case

@2theOmega

6 жыл бұрын

I think you can be 36 and still be an aspiring artist... you just don't need to be a husband or father, and if his priorities were in line before, he wouldn't be 36 and aspiring to do anything. When you become a husband and especially a father, you need a real job because you can't afford to be taking risks.

@smdvisionphotography

6 жыл бұрын

Tell Rick Ross that.

The husband makes a lot of excuses. So far she's a can-do girl and he's a want to do guy. She reminds me of my auntie. So used to taking care of everybody else, but no one to take are of her.

@nigeriapeopleunited539

6 жыл бұрын

lavinder11 my kind of person but at times I want someone to take care of my needs before asking

@gailsmith836

3 жыл бұрын

He's not even a husband

@CMM726

3 жыл бұрын

Codependency is a REAL MENTAL DISORDER!! It doesn’t get the attention as other mental health problems but can be just as harmful and damaging as a drug addiction. I’ve seen codependent have their lives ruined caregiving a narcissist or Addict and having their credit ruined, their jobs lost, familial relationships destroyed.

This was nice. Small fixable problems that can be worked out with ease. At first I was like leave this dude. Broke with no thoughts of changing but that's not a problem for her. She wants to support him but she just wants affection and help around the house.

@jrshakinah

8 жыл бұрын

Lol that don't seem too difficult to pull off. I think he can handle that.

@BernardBethea6339

4 жыл бұрын

You sound just like home a white boy simp

I LOVE the stories that Judge Lynn tells!!!

She needs to drop him FAST! He's bumbin off her for something that may never happen. You can pursue your dream and make money in the process .

I love them together.

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE this episode! I use to give my family a weather report when I had a bad day a work or on my woman issues too. Never wanted to take my frustrations out on my loved ones, so I warned them ahead of time. LOL!!

36 year old aspiring rapper that had to move his studio back to his GF's bedroom who's too lazy to help around the house and needs to at all times be told what to do. Dump the dead weight... you're better off without this additional child-man to take care of.

Love Love Judge Lynn. Been watching her for two days now love her take, advice, humor insight everything to include hair and make up. She is EPIC

The comments are hilarious. Where are the white men ain't shit posts?

@GirlyEnglishGamer

8 жыл бұрын

I know right....All the women are saying that they're "cute" ....😑

@dwill2476

8 жыл бұрын

So you're trying to tell me that white guys aren't doing the same thing?

@GirlyEnglishGamer

8 жыл бұрын

+no name that's not what the OP meant...They're referring to black women who constantly lust over white men but are constantly belittling black men.

@dwill2476

8 жыл бұрын

Thank you sister. I appreciate your support. I love your picture.

@dwill2476

8 жыл бұрын

Go ahead, be my guest and become like Sheba.

I'm very pleased with these two. I feel that they genuinely love each other, and really are truly, about doing what it takes to stay together. They're great. And I'm glad this ep ended they it did.

Yes Judge Lynn!! Exactly!! This was a big problem in my household w/ my husband! Like why do I have to be the one to look around see what needs to be done and do it. You live here too. The work to be done is in front of your eyeballs too!!! Do stuff w/o me having to tell you like I'm your mama!!!! Every. Single. Time!!!! Dang!!! LOL!!!

I know I said their marriage made no sense, but they're sweet together and they're trying to be good for each other. Sweet.

@kaylaflava

7 жыл бұрын

I think it speaks a lot to them that they both state repeatedly that they don't want to hurt the other ones' feelings. Typically couples on this show are so vindictive.

Nick needs to get a job.

@RDCFemmes

8 жыл бұрын

Tnx

There is something wrong here. He needs to make his own money and stop depending on this woman. She needs to get a guy who is working and can bring the right things to the table. Too desperate.

@drlovie

8 жыл бұрын

Lol u r so invested on this comment as if it were you...perhaps it is. If anyone (man or woman) is supporting and living with a physically-abled person who doesn't contribute to the household is desperate... esp a woman. He doesn't cook or do most of the housework when he is at home. Nothing is peaches and cream, however, when do ppl make boundaries? To be nurse and work all day just to come home to a man who doesn't do anything is a waste of time. She can do better.

@hangtyme765

8 жыл бұрын

+Drlovie - ✌🏿️😁👌🏼👍😘😎. (Not sure if I did it right, but I'm using emojis now).

@hangtyme765

8 жыл бұрын

*Drlovie -- Don't know why my emojis don't have color. Oh well, back to the drawing board.

@drlovie

8 жыл бұрын

Lol HangTyme! Pls let me know how I can send you a message

@hangtyme765

8 жыл бұрын

+Drlovie -- I gave you my e-mail address when we were talking about "chatting". I forgot what thread it was on. It's still tatedarick@yahoo.com. And I've introduced myself again.

Another inspiring rapper.....go freaking figure!!!

He’s doing song and dance right now. I can’t 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥🔥

I damn near threw up watching this episode. I could barely make it through this case. Her willingness to take care of him is sickening, not to mention DESPERATE.

I think the earth shifted and some dude fell on their head. ' Cause do you really need to come in national tv fir someone to tell you to get a job and take care of yourwoman?

This brought smiles to my face I love it when a couple confess their love for one another and set out to make it work. I miss Judge Lynn she is awesome. I just can't see why she is no longer on the show. Staying up till 2am is not a option for me to watch the new judge on divorce court that is the time it comes on in my area.

I really love judge but she wasn't fare to her in this case like honestly

@AlphaHarmonious

4 жыл бұрын

Ralik Smith Exactly. 💯

@masoodismybaby

3 жыл бұрын

Fair*

Gosh, Judge Toler is beautiful! Her audiobook lets you in on who she is and what’s she’s gone through as well. Hopefully I can be cool as a cucumber like her one day.

@RosalynnAnne

2 жыл бұрын

I definitely strive to be like that

Good for them. One of the most pleasant couples on this show.

@unbotheredbklyn2789

8 жыл бұрын

Link Z I am not making excuses for this man. I just stated they were a pleasant couple. Meaning good chemistry or complement one another. Yes they have their flaws and have to work on it. But she didn't say he disrespected her in any way. He just needed to contribute which according to the update...he is.

@jennevamadison3803

2 жыл бұрын

@@unbotheredbklyn2789 Living off a woman with kids is disrespectful. It's disrespectful to the kids, her and even himself.

Well, at least this season finally has a show that's believable and relatively pleasant to watch. Some of the earlier shows this month were all-day plane crashes. This couple spoke and presented themselves as mature educated people who could accept constructive criticism and rational thought.

The judge gave great advice and i could see both people taking it in and understanding it. This episode made me happy because of it.

Get a job!!! If he was a brotha judge would definitely be on him about employment. No job, No drive, lazy around the house. If he was black she wouldn't put up with it. She can definitely do better Period!!! He can't handle, nor does he deserve all the beautiful Mocha.

Damn! the Judge Is always the most Reasonable person ive ever seen. i love how she can see two sides of everything and not only focus on the female perspective but see the guys as well. Cause that story she told @11:53 was so true for many guys. If most guys are focused on something else like whatever hobby they have, they usually think that the girl is fine with whatever shes doing too if she doesnt say anything. If they arent directly paying attention to her and hear nothing they think nothings wrong. So when they explode for something he didnt do that she never asked its frustrating for both sides. Plus Its interesting how in her example she pointed out her own communication issue. Cause the Judge even did the classic roundabout thing too where instead of addressing him directly. She gave him a small hint at the situation instead and also kinda tried to start a fight instead of telling him just plainly to "help he out." Its a great thing that she realized that and hopefully others do too. But it is still true that guys should try not to have tunnel vision and pay attention when she needs help or is upset.

Lol, yes, I tell my husband if I am feeling a bit pissy. Most men are lovely people, they just want to know what they need to do but most women wont say what they need. If I feel mad at the world I tell my husband so he knows its not his fault, it prevents arguments and miss understandings.

First of all the Man is suppose to be the provider for his family and the woman is the help mate. Ladies know your worth! Love yourself...💕

This is one of my favorite episodes! Not only was the Judge's advice on point, the. couple took her advice and made things better. He got a job and she makes an effort to communicate peacefully. I love it!!! 😍😍😍

Yes, its like she has 5 kids instead of 4

😄😃I'm happy for this couple, and judge LynnToler is gifted and highly favored.

Sooooooo.........what is it about him?! What is he bringin to the relationship?! Mmmmmh... I couldn't do it.

I am so happy Nick went on to get a job after leaving the show because I could see he didn't want Briana to leave him. I was really rooting for this couple and glad there is a happy ending.

I love this couple with the exception that he needs to work. When you love someone deeply, you care for them, you feel their pain. All those people who wants to become a musician lives out of women’s money. Ladies need to know what they getting into instead of complaining later.

Yes ladies learn, the whole concept of the mind reading man is a fantasy. Example, wife drives by fastfood, asks husband if he is thirsty. Husband says no keeps on driving. They get home, she is poed and locks him out. He later finds out that she was hungry but wanted him to ask if she was hungry. He told her if you're hungry you say Im hungry please stop at the restaurant

@serious7179

8 жыл бұрын

As a wife, I have to agree -- you're right... I had to learn this concept the hard way, but I get it. I now just tell him what I want instead of waiting for him to read my mind.

@pcarebear1

8 жыл бұрын

The weather report is an awesome concept! I'm definitely going to remember this...actually I use this with my dad and it works with him :D With my mom after I've had a hard work day, not so much.

@October3074

8 жыл бұрын

I'm a woman and I hear of this utter bs often; that is immature, psychotic behavior. I've always let a man know what I want and like up front.

@October3074

8 жыл бұрын

+serious just out of curiosity, why did you used to do that before?

@serious7179

8 жыл бұрын

October3074 Just the way a lot of us women (not all) think and communicate, nothing more, nothing less. I'm not doing it anymore, let me tell you... And he's learned to communicate better as well.

This was a good one. Hope Nick can figure out how to reach his dreams while keeping his family together! I like this Team!

They are gonna be ok. Both are very self aware and seem to be willing to make personal adjustments for the other. Glad he got a job. You can hustle while you chase your dreams. Its scary being the primary earner. Especially for women because we have been hardwired to believe there is a problem if we make more than our mate.

He is using her for a free ride.

She got 4 Kids? a man who is willing to stick by her n her kids?... oh my, it could be worse guys... marriage ain't an object you just use and throw away when broken ...they must work at it..!

@nicolesonatural5743

7 жыл бұрын

Hell he is one of her kids he doesn't have a job lol

Judge Lynn Toler should write a book about the roles & behavior needed for a healthy relationship 🌺

@winstonraymond841

3 жыл бұрын

She did, more than once!

LMAO THE MAN AT 3:43😂😂😂

is like everybody shacking up..most episode is people living together

I actually like this couple and i feel like they can really make it work they just need to communicate with each other better

The big thing that I see in these divorce court shows, is that you never know what happens behind closed doors.

A beautiful and graceful woman. Finally a guy that isn't a serial cheater. Hmm I wonder why, I wonder what the variable is here??

@dwill2476

8 жыл бұрын

Just a lazy bum

@konige-tochteru.9295

6 жыл бұрын

Brilliant comment 😁I’m wondering myself

@ericbrooks939

6 жыл бұрын

I've seen several shows where Black men weren't cheating. Get your anti-BLACK ass off this page!

@romishafranks

5 жыл бұрын

It damned sure isn't color. Sit your ass in the corner

I see potential in them both. He needs to get a job, even things out.

binge watching judge shows....so much awesome 😊 I can't decide who I like better, judy or toler

Mr. Benker is really listening and absorbing what Judge Toler is saying. He's got this.

he is a grown ass man I shouldn't have to tell him to do anything if he see something wrong and should fix it just like if I see something wrong I should fix it I love divorce but today the judge is talking nonsense

Maybe only the second truly happy ending I’ve seen on DC! Yay. Thank you.

Wait... that "weather report" advice is genius. I'm definitely taking that under advisement.

I love this couple they seems so humble

I'm glad he got a job. Good luck to them

This couple is beautiful. communicate and make it happen. both of you deserve to be happy. good luck

At that age... good luck with that skittles.

You working long hard hours for four kids so you don't need a fifth. He needs to work and do his dream.

Always an inspiring HIP HOP artist

Judge Lynn is so on point regarding men and communication it's astonishing.

There is no age limit for aspirations BUT you should always make sure that you have a stable job so that you can support your household AND your dreams. No spouse should have to struggle alone unless a sickness is involved

What a great episode. No one's trashy or guttersnipe like. Reasonable people who just needed a bit of help to get them forward. I live for Judge's stories. She's got some good ones.

AND IT ENDED WITH A KISS. NOT MUCH TO ADD. KEEP IT MOVING GUYS, THEY'RE GOING TO BE FINE!

Aww, I really loved this episode.

4 KIDS? that body still looks good///////she a keeper

She is so beautiful!!! Edit: I hope this relationship was not based on crazed fetish because they are so not compatible... the man need to grow up!!!!

Solomon v Benker: she resembles Dave Chapelle, a smart lady, he should boldly approach & inquire if he thinks she’s frustrated, he...GET A JOB!! And y’all come together in some communication, conversation, laughter, play dates, share some affections, and then fireworks 💥

Briana is a cutie. Love that hair, it looks great on her. Goes well with her body type, and that dark chocolate skin.

Run to the other side but get a bum

@VintageAfro91

8 жыл бұрын

exactly my first thought seeing the intro smdh

@bamnjphoto

8 жыл бұрын

She know dammed well she wouldn't support no struggling black male rapper having 4 kids from a previous relationship. SMDH

@VintageAfro91

8 жыл бұрын

B Money yep hypocrisy at its finest

@malibizzy4u

8 жыл бұрын

lol

@GirlyEnglishGamer

8 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Awws that cute hug and kiss at end so romantic.

I really liked them together. I hope they made it.

I love this judge 👩🏾‍⚖️😍

I doubt if she would except a broke down unemployed aspiring rapper black man

@wildfiregirl1556

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

I love the Judge. She is wise. I wish I had her books.

Articulate. Lot of men you don't tell them they don't know. We don't ask, we will ask our friends before the man we lay next to every time. Communication is key.

He loves her and it's so obvious. Good luck to them

I feel personally that you still have to contribute to the house while you are chasing your dreams that's only fair 💯