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DIVORCE COURT Full Episode: James vs James

Nikki married Brian after many proposals and a baby. Nikki says their relationship has gone downhill ever since they were married because of their tempers and Brian’s distrust.
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  • @mama456100
    @mama4561007 жыл бұрын

    Those poor children have little to no chance with parents like that.

  • @nonilovechild5524
    @nonilovechild55247 жыл бұрын

    His job is going through her phone. Her job is going up side his head Coming to a theatre near you Why Did I Get Married 3

  • @chichichobits1

    @chichichobits1

    7 жыл бұрын

    Noni Lovechild lmao

  • @snoopyluvscena

    @snoopyluvscena

    7 жыл бұрын

    Noni Lovechild 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheCarnivoreSoprano

    @TheCarnivoreSoprano

    7 жыл бұрын

    Noni Lovechild lol

  • @drlovie

    @drlovie

    7 жыл бұрын

    lol!

  • @LeauxNBehold

    @LeauxNBehold

    7 жыл бұрын

    Noni Lovechild I just made the ugliest cackle omg

  • @jacpppp
    @jacpppp7 жыл бұрын

    He has FOUR children from prior relationships. At 26!!! He has FIVE children. Wow wow wow

  • @sirblkalot

    @sirblkalot

    7 жыл бұрын

    I had to go back and see that fact. Wow. 5 kids at 26 but he will quit a job? Wow.

  • @sirblkalot

    @sirblkalot

    7 жыл бұрын

    That's wild.

  • @grneys45

    @grneys45

    6 жыл бұрын

    jacpppp ridiculous

  • @djkingspindoc

    @djkingspindoc

    6 жыл бұрын

    5 children and no means to take care of them.. How do you keep making babies and you are a loser no job having ass

  • @reelin...gettherealpicture9521

    @reelin...gettherealpicture9521

    5 жыл бұрын

    Let me guess, he left them because they all cheated. The Girl Ain't Mine.

  • @maanderson2006
    @maanderson20067 жыл бұрын

    Stupidest thing I ever heard on this show is that she said she quit her job because it was time for him to man up. Are you crazy?! With or without kids, that's a huge NO NO. If he not willing to work, then he got to go but don't be stupid and quit your job

  • @karenjones7794

    @karenjones7794

    Жыл бұрын

    Here here very well said keep ur chedder commun in no matter what

  • @karenjones7794

    @karenjones7794

    Жыл бұрын

    If it's not workin pack an go why do people want to be miserable

  • @ehhh2365
    @ehhh23657 жыл бұрын

    She is absolutely MISERABLE with him. Girl, LEAVE HIM.

  • @asabifatosin1150

    @asabifatosin1150

    5 жыл бұрын

    Martina Dean She doesn’t want to be independent. And, She thinks she got a good catch...

  • @sharonjackson268

    @sharonjackson268

    5 жыл бұрын

    She must enjoy misery, she said she was not separating from her husband because she vowed to remain married to him. Some people u just can't help. I hope they don't kill each other.... Girlbye!

  • @sharonjackson268

    @sharonjackson268

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@asabifatosin1150 poor lil delusional lady...wouldn't recognize a good time if it slapped her across her forehead...

  • @OSMRDucksLIB

    @OSMRDucksLIB

    5 жыл бұрын

    HER!?!? He's the one who needs to run.

  • @troy028

    @troy028

    Жыл бұрын

    She will never find a man better then him. No real man going to want this masculine woman other then just for sex and that it. She will never get a man she wants with how she is as a person because she evil person. She the example to plenty of men to never get married especially to a black women because she masculinit like most black women. This so called woman wants to be a man. Her fake tears are fake like how she a fake woman. She's a man. She's acting like a man. So why would a masculine man want to be with that type of woman that's masculine just like him? She wants to be a man.

  • @bribri0786
    @bribri07867 жыл бұрын

    These collective audience "mmm"s and gasps got me cracking up over here 😂😂😂

  • @sheliapea1387

    @sheliapea1387

    7 жыл бұрын

    Britt Brat it's sad

  • @bribri0786

    @bribri0786

    7 жыл бұрын

    Shelia Pea yeah, they're very dysfunctional...

  • @MartianBlues11

    @MartianBlues11

    7 жыл бұрын

    Lol! The audience was seriously getting live this episode 😂

  • @bford3977

    @bford3977

    7 жыл бұрын

    Britt Brat LOL Folks used to be quiet in the background. We need to bring that back

  • @keridf7614

    @keridf7614

    7 жыл бұрын

    +B Ford looooool

  • @japeavy458
    @japeavy4587 жыл бұрын

    Instead of quitting her job, she should have just dumped him. He's the dead weight.

  • @japeavy458

    @japeavy458

    7 жыл бұрын

    Love don't plays no the bills.

  • @japeavy458

    @japeavy458

    7 жыл бұрын

    I feel like if she actually left, he would kill her, the chilldren, then himself.

  • @coriesmith2633

    @coriesmith2633

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dumbest shit ever

  • @kadams857

    @kadams857

    4 жыл бұрын

    I wonder how the tone would change if he hit her 🤔

  • @rickfox804

    @rickfox804

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@coriesmith2633 yea some of these women in the comments got no man and it shows.

  • @thefinalgrind
    @thefinalgrind5 жыл бұрын

    I couldn't imagine spending every waking minute of my life, letting myself be miserable about someone else.

  • @youngnattymusic
    @youngnattymusic7 жыл бұрын

    When you really love someone, they should bring out the best in you giving you a passionate perspective of the world. not the worst. they are simply not meant for each other .

  • @africangoddess707
    @africangoddess7077 жыл бұрын

    why dont any of these men like to work???????

  • @saurabhsnrg

    @saurabhsnrg

    7 жыл бұрын

    Mimi Cikolata coz welfare for blacks.

  • @Charri33

    @Charri33

    5 жыл бұрын

    He got a job, she’s the one unemployed

  • @tellnolies8530

    @tellnolies8530

    5 жыл бұрын

    women won't let them

  • @wakeup608

    @wakeup608

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @totalmrmeanor7586

    @totalmrmeanor7586

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@saurabhsnrg Welfare for Blacks? Hmmmm?!

  • @jasminej6281
    @jasminej62817 жыл бұрын

    God, I love Judge Lynn Toler. She tells it like it is. She's so good. Edit: I'm an addict here lol

  • @Bedivineminded

    @Bedivineminded

    2 жыл бұрын

    Facts I wish she was my aunty 💙

  • @janetdunn8000

    @janetdunn8000

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Bedivineminded hfhhhgggpggfopgg gf go

  • @dy.2500

    @dy.2500

    Жыл бұрын

    I understand u ...m just there with u🤣

  • @abzal-falaz6813
    @abzal-falaz68137 жыл бұрын

    You can tell he wasn't raised by a proper man smh

  • @wakeup608

    @wakeup608

    5 жыл бұрын

    U got it right

  • @KDanielsDesigns
    @KDanielsDesigns5 жыл бұрын

    After all that Judge Toler told them, they leave right out of there and say they wanna stay together. I’m flabbergasted

  • @unbotheredbklyn2789
    @unbotheredbklyn27897 жыл бұрын

    Toxic relationship.

  • @kattiethomas4687

    @kattiethomas4687

    3 жыл бұрын

    Silly people, no clue about a relationship..

  • @abi_purps3354

    @abi_purps3354

    2 жыл бұрын

    Period.

  • @richardjones3692

    @richardjones3692

    Жыл бұрын

    They really don’t need to be friends much less married

  • @estherkumuyi
    @estherkumuyi7 жыл бұрын

    Mehn this episode is soo sad and depressing to watch. I don't know how people do it. Be in a marriage and be soo unhappy. Might as well have stayed single. Smh

  • @eyejusskant

    @eyejusskant

    7 жыл бұрын

    sooooooooooooooooooooo sad and depressing... lawd.......

  • @gidgethrobowski3860

    @gidgethrobowski3860

    6 жыл бұрын

    Estelleee Agree 100%. Especially when they bring children into the relationship.

  • @apinxade7841

    @apinxade7841

    5 жыл бұрын

    This lady gives women a bad name she is miserable and talks about her man her king in a horrid manner. She has destroyed his self esteem! This is a good man and this 1 woman will give all of us great and good dark skin black women a bad name we will all be defined by this horrid woman!!!I am.so angry at this WOMAN! Mace her husband!!! Hitting a man!! How dare u ???? This man will not leave her and she knows it !!!! For 150 dollars she puts her hand on a man and she cries croc tears!!!! All of a sudden now she's the victim!!!after hitt8ng a man !

  • @caldwell4129

    @caldwell4129

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@apinxade7841 it's the dick.. she mad like she was so miserable but when the judge said separation she said that's her husband. lol ... she just want to do what she wants to do. that guy is not stupid he no something but he just cant put his finger on it.. but he do loves her.

  • @sweetsweet81

    @sweetsweet81

    5 жыл бұрын

    The husband is not innocent by ANY means! He picks at her and picks at her until she explodes, then he looks at her wondering why she exploded. That is what a narcissist does, and he definitely is one! He has no proof she's cheating. She's being secretive because he won't allow her to have friends to talk to. He stays on her constantly simply because he's insecure. I was married to a man just like that for 16 years....and I had to get the hell out!!!

  • @tyedajones7198
    @tyedajones71986 жыл бұрын

    I feel like he grew up abused and unloved!

  • @alyssag.5758

    @alyssag.5758

    4 жыл бұрын

    Maybe. He's so insecure

  • @beb5407

    @beb5407

    3 жыл бұрын

    All those baby mothers I can't see that but I could be right

  • @carenesutton7345
    @carenesutton73456 жыл бұрын

    Why would I quit my job because a guy is not helping? That's so stupid

  • @asabifatosin1150

    @asabifatosin1150

    5 жыл бұрын

    Carene Sutton So very stupid and do irresponsible to her own child/children? She’s a fool.

  • @beverlyhall4578

    @beverlyhall4578

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kick him out. Do not go back. Immaturity is not cute with 5 kids

  • @wildfiregirl1556

    @wildfiregirl1556

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@beverlyhall4578 Without kids its still stupid.

  • @Regalem3
    @Regalem37 жыл бұрын

    This is a volatile mix. His desperation, jealousy, & insecurity coupled with her violent temper and knee jerk reaction to the pressure he applies is dangerous. Someone is going to get seriously hurt in this marriage.

  • @4bfam

    @4bfam

    5 жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @OSMRDucksLIB

    @OSMRDucksLIB

    5 жыл бұрын

    Future Dateline or Snapped episode.

  • @justboycrazy45

    @justboycrazy45

    4 жыл бұрын

    Future episode of Fatal Attraction

  • @beverlyhall4578

    @beverlyhall4578

    3 жыл бұрын

    Walk away before you get jail time lady.

  • @christinamenhennett

    @christinamenhennett

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@OSMRDucksLIB sadly very possible. There was a couple on Paternity Court then Divorce Court fast forward a few years and husband murders wife and shoots his 15 yr old son. Neighbors called 911. He was critically injured but thankfully he survived. Paramedics tried in vain to save her but she was pronounced DOA. Very tragic and in that case husband constantly believed wife was cheating and kids weren't his. Proven wrong on both but he just knew she was and tragically she's dead, he's in prison and the kids lost 2 parents that day.

  • @Terrence915
    @Terrence9157 жыл бұрын

    Getting Physical is a no-no for me. Keep your damn hands to yourself. And going through phones all day bruh is wack. Go do something productive.

  • @MartianBlues11

    @MartianBlues11

    7 жыл бұрын

    It's 100% unacceptable. I don't know why he would stay with a chick who hits him. And his insecurity and needs to go through her phone sounds obnoxious. Idk what these people are doing together. They both seem to be making each other miserable.

  • @Terrence915

    @Terrence915

    7 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! The tic for tac is feeding off each other. Which escalates the foolishness. Going to jail and stuff? Those poor children had to be having all types of anxiety.

  • @MartianBlues11

    @MartianBlues11

    7 жыл бұрын

    Terrence Barnes Seriously. These idiots are adding arrests to their records and constantly paying bail. They are driving their kids crazy. This is so messy.

  • @Terrence915

    @Terrence915

    7 жыл бұрын

    Every time I see an episode of people going through phones I'm like WTF? What miserable life that must be. I couldn't deal with that either. That's a deal breaker. Either you trust me or you don't.

  • @estherkumuyi

    @estherkumuyi

    7 жыл бұрын

    Right ! People got soo much time in their hands. Going through people's phones?! Pitiful !

  • @MsShati21
    @MsShati216 жыл бұрын

    He's weird AF..... He micromanages their marriage. I would leave him. He scares me.

  • @tashawilliams8093

    @tashawilliams8093

    3 жыл бұрын

    He probably was also cheating.

  • @N5Mystique

    @N5Mystique

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah!

  • @islandgirlruby2750

    @islandgirlruby2750

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @chardonnaywalker2487

    @chardonnaywalker2487

    18 күн бұрын

    Facts! Like her reactions are due to his actions.

  • @januaryjones197
    @januaryjones1977 жыл бұрын

    When you get married, your husband/wife should be your right hand. Someone you can trust, someone who you can count on, someone who you can talk to, someone who will be there for you at your lowest, someone who will listen and someone you love enough to forgive because you know they will mess up at some point lol.

  • @tyortiz2151
    @tyortiz21517 жыл бұрын

    They both been having straight face's and haven't smiled one bit 😳

  • @MartianBlues11

    @MartianBlues11

    7 жыл бұрын

    yela Bunny Ty Ortiz Right? They are clearly in a miserable, unhappy relationship. He's harassing her all day long, making her miserable, and she's out here macing him and making him miserable. They don't need to be together.

  • @tonybeckom1109

    @tonybeckom1109

    7 жыл бұрын

    FR, no humor once so ever. It's like they're not even in the same room. I'm looking at 2 miserable human beings who has divorce written all on their faces.

  • @robinwallace1765

    @robinwallace1765

    2 жыл бұрын

    He laughed when she was saying how she works and has been the woman and the man financially. He knows she is telling the truth.

  • @dulcebaez6152
    @dulcebaez61526 жыл бұрын

    They both need to go their separate ways, before someone gets hurt. The children should be able to have a stable environment. They are not ready to play house. Go your separate ways.

  • @patrialibre12
    @patrialibre126 жыл бұрын

    If we got a penny every time a couple cites Facebook as evidence of something... we would be flying a G-7 in style ..

  • @bigshawn1972
    @bigshawn19727 жыл бұрын

    I know I'm wrong, I know I am but when he said: " It hurt"! I died!

  • @JT-mh5hz

    @JT-mh5hz

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me Too!!! I hollered!!😂😂

  • @markhooper6212

    @markhooper6212

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well these are the type of boy-men these women tends to choose to be with now a days . I'm just saying

  • @jennifergajewski4363

    @jennifergajewski4363

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JT-mh5hz p

  • @MsNaj15

    @MsNaj15

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😭

  • @NellyMacharia

    @NellyMacharia

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @paulcooper7295
    @paulcooper72957 жыл бұрын

    She married a weak man, they need to divorce

  • @jamesgibson3716

    @jamesgibson3716

    7 жыл бұрын

    Paul Cooper extremely weak. Why does he feel the need to constantly check on her. His manhood is that weak????

  • @paulcooper7295

    @paulcooper7295

    7 жыл бұрын

    Apparently so James, however , I must say she may have married a week man for a reason. Also at the end of the episode he stated that he was not going to let a man or a woman come between them...very interesting.

  • @korsifenison9548

    @korsifenison9548

    5 жыл бұрын

    Paul Cooper preach preach preach

  • @starisesun7692

    @starisesun7692

    5 жыл бұрын

    A"week man"is a oxymoron

  • @kadams857

    @kadams857

    4 жыл бұрын

    So he's weak because she's violent, yeah right

  • @Terrence915
    @Terrence9157 жыл бұрын

    She has anger issues. May need to seek some counseling. He's not making it any better with his insecurities. She probably needs space away from you bro. You smothering her. She's a beautiful melinated woman so she's going to receive some attention. Be proud of that dude.

  • @lkcjr58

    @lkcjr58

    7 жыл бұрын

    Terrence Barnes 👍🏽

  • @onegreenenvy

    @onegreenenvy

    7 жыл бұрын

    Terrence Barnes nice beard. I like how you appreciate beautiful melinated women.

  • @Terrence915

    @Terrence915

    7 жыл бұрын

    Al James thanks. I love my melinated Queens! I don't care how anybody else feel either. Ain't nothing like her.

  • @eh6333

    @eh6333

    7 жыл бұрын

    I'd have anger issues to if this dude was my husband, seriously church and therapy help but he needs to come to terms with his inability to take care of his family

  • @marcusgarveyhou1877

    @marcusgarveyhou1877

    7 жыл бұрын

    A real man should know if he putting it down or not. It's sad to see more men being more insecure than women. Smh women are keeping 💯 while dudes are running around panicking😏

  • @terryterrific3955
    @terryterrific39557 жыл бұрын

    They don't seem to be having enough fun. It's hard to make a relationship work without having any fun.

  • @lynntoler4923

    @lynntoler4923

    7 жыл бұрын

    That's the part that I don't get ... just hanging on to misery ... can't change ... won't leave.

  • @saharrell02
    @saharrell027 жыл бұрын

    Lawdy... Facebook Facebook Facebook, boy I tell ya social media is going to the demise of 90% all relationships by the year 2020.. Stay woke people!! ☺👍

  • @sm.6105

    @sm.6105

    6 жыл бұрын

    saharrell02 that's because most people can't be responsible and mature when using it.

  • @toxinfreev

    @toxinfreev

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣😅🤣 2020 will ruin us all now ❣️

  • @wildfiregirl1556

    @wildfiregirl1556

    2 жыл бұрын

    Creator is a atheist. Enuf said.

  • @tinaawellington3314

    @tinaawellington3314

    Ай бұрын

    2024 and u were right...

  • @ek-skwi-zitscott3601
    @ek-skwi-zitscott36015 жыл бұрын

    *RED FLAG* She leaves him he is definitely going to stalk her... “You not goin let no man or woman” REALLY.... GIRL 🏃🏾‍♀️ 🤣🤣🤣

  • @rrayeclart7716
    @rrayeclart77167 жыл бұрын

    COMMUNICATE OR EVACUATE😄

  • @mikaelawalker2586

    @mikaelawalker2586

    7 жыл бұрын

    RR Clart Thank You

  • @DominiqueWFabulouslySmart

    @DominiqueWFabulouslySmart

    7 жыл бұрын

    I love this !!!

  • @JasonA123

    @JasonA123

    7 жыл бұрын

    RR Clart ok

  • @teresaj.4103

    @teresaj.4103

    7 жыл бұрын

    RR Clart Right... this is real simple. 👏👏👏👏

  • @stephaniemitchell2880

    @stephaniemitchell2880

    7 жыл бұрын

    RR aye Clart I like that girl you should patent that phrase.

  • @evelyndanvrichardson4403
    @evelyndanvrichardson44037 жыл бұрын

    Give them a divorce Judge Toler

  • @mrsrunmemymoney497
    @mrsrunmemymoney4977 жыл бұрын

    He looks like a broke down Steph Curry

  • @keefewas

    @keefewas

    5 жыл бұрын

    Stephin Fechit 🤬

  • @fenellabinns4006

    @fenellabinns4006

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Kierraburch25

    @Kierraburch25

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @sunflowertulip9346
    @sunflowertulip93467 жыл бұрын

    This is pure dysfunctional indeed. He insecure as hell. WOW

  • @lavidaloca2344
    @lavidaloca23447 жыл бұрын

    Judge "Did you put your hands on him? Wife: "No, I mased him" Me: "Whatttttt!?!"

  • @donnaokafor

    @donnaokafor

    7 жыл бұрын

    La Vida Loca looool. mazed him.

  • @OSMRDucksLIB

    @OSMRDucksLIB

    5 жыл бұрын

    You're both wrong. It's maced.

  • @Dashley725

    @Dashley725

    5 жыл бұрын

    La Vida Loca 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @erieyoung2615

    @erieyoung2615

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 I know right?! Geez Louise!

  • @ivybanks7936
    @ivybanks79363 жыл бұрын

    How can anyone live like this? Clearly, they don't like eachother so move on with your unhappy selves. I'd rather have 2 happy parents apart then deal with 2 parents fighting over stupid things on a daily basis. This is so toxic!

  • @Rainsnowreadysetblow
    @Rainsnowreadysetblow7 жыл бұрын

    I can only imagine how chaotic their household is, especially with her temper. Oh boy.

  • @christinamenhennett

    @christinamenhennett

    2 жыл бұрын

    Her temper and his obsession and lack of empathy. He didn't care a wit that she was crying.

  • @thatsonyou6093

    @thatsonyou6093

    Жыл бұрын

    @@christinamenhennett THIS

  • @thiquechickjones1867
    @thiquechickjones18676 жыл бұрын

    They need to go their separate ways and seek counseling for themselves. Jesus is real ya'll and they need Him.

  • @naediggs4816
    @naediggs48167 жыл бұрын

    Um.... this guy is ***ABUSIVE.*** A flag went off at the start of the episode, the moment he said she scares him. Not that men cannot genuinely fear their female domestic partners, but something about it sounded disingenuous. And I was right. How afraid can he be if he's monitoring her friends, going through her phone, isolating her from friends and family, tracking her every location, _calling up her JOB_ and, as she said, "ruling every aspect of her life," constantly invading her personal space and giving her no sanctity for her personal thoughts and feelings...? Like... wow. That was clearly an attempt to disparage her character and make himself seem like a victim to be emphasized with. He showed himself to be abusive, controlling, manipulative, unfeeling/uncaring, remorseless, self-righteous and selfish. His wife, the woman he chose for the rest of his life and mother of his children, was all but sobbing, and be didn't bat an eye. Even if you think they're wrong, when someone you love cries like that, there's no way you don't feel _something_. He felt *nothing*. He feels justified in everything he does and believes he has the right to everything she has. He put his wife's *bed* and her personal belongings outside of the home he shares with her and his children, on the street for the entire world to see. And he did it over$150. That's *DEEP*. Interesting he has such entitlement over her possessions, when she sys SHE'S the one that's been providing financially, for some time now. He wanted to make the point to "SHOW" her he can take everything from her, in a flash with no problem. He is controlling, abusive, and I believe he's dangerous. Something about his entire demeanor and how he showed no emotion or empathy for someone he's supposed to love is extremely unsettling. That woman needs to take her children and RUN. They are destroying themselves, each other and their children with this mess. Oh, and I'm positive he's cheating, which is why he's so concerned.

  • @divifemtv

    @divifemtv

    6 жыл бұрын

    Very good observation... they both feed each other sick need for abuse and dysfunction but she may very well be in real danger...something very detached and psychotic about him...

  • @sm.6105

    @sm.6105

    6 жыл бұрын

    She's abusive too. I don't care what's going on, don't put your hands on another person because you're angry.

  • @nicky7094

    @nicky7094

    6 жыл бұрын

    Unscorched Earth She did put her hands on him

  • @sweetsweet81

    @sweetsweet81

    5 жыл бұрын

    He is a narcissist through and through

  • @sweetsweet81

    @sweetsweet81

    5 жыл бұрын

    And she is retaliating, which isn't right. Spraying mace in his face doesn't solve anything. It just aggravates the situation.

  • @dinoman4451
    @dinoman44517 жыл бұрын

    I hope these 2 humans watch this video over and over till they get a clue on life. smh

  • @decemberdarling6058
    @decemberdarling60587 жыл бұрын

    A weak, broke, possessive man who expects the woman to carry the load and has 4 outside babies at 26 will make any woman crazy. I don't blame this woman one bit for being angry.

  • @itsme3k

    @itsme3k

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly especially if he is acting like a female.

  • @deena3003
    @deena30037 жыл бұрын

    INSECURE DUDE...SHE NEEDS TO LEAVE HIM FOR A WHILE TO GAIN HER STRENGTH...ITS TAXING DEALING WITH AN INSECURE DUDE

  • @joycelynmalcolmcarr5220

    @joycelynmalcolmcarr5220

    6 жыл бұрын

    JSM and

  • @MsBrownCuteNurse
    @MsBrownCuteNurse7 жыл бұрын

    She's looks like a Kenya Doll

  • @gracesmurugi5591

    @gracesmurugi5591

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wtf

  • @shaunarovinski4081

    @shaunarovinski4081

    5 жыл бұрын

    She really does! I loved my Kenya doll.

  • @denisemanfre9542

    @denisemanfre9542

    5 жыл бұрын

    Born and bred in the USA she's American

  • @brooklyndecember

    @brooklyndecember

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@denisemanfre9542 Kenya is a person you idiot!

  • @meeksluvspink9047

    @meeksluvspink9047

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@brooklyndecember Actually Kenya Dolls is a brand of Black Dolls from the 90's. I use to get them when I was a kid. A simple Google Search will show you some images.

  • @moondustangel889
    @moondustangel8897 жыл бұрын

    This is so annoying. I hate when people are so caught up in their own little insignificant problems that they forget either that they have children or that children learn what they see. You need to get off your phone's and into reality.

  • @stephenbrown5768
    @stephenbrown57687 жыл бұрын

    No physical or psychological violence, end of story! Lord, I feel sorry for these kids!!! How old are these 2 people, 3 & 4?

  • @nonilovechild5524

    @nonilovechild5524

    7 жыл бұрын

    Stephen Brown Adur Rahiem???

  • @hotmama298
    @hotmama2987 жыл бұрын

    I don't see the love in this relationship. Both of them are miserable. They're not getting a divorce so I hope they consider counseling.

  • @alyssag.5758

    @alyssag.5758

    4 жыл бұрын

    No amount of counseling can fix this.

  • @hame4900
    @hame49007 жыл бұрын

    thumbnail- wife crying me - oh shit. this is going to get all kinds of stupid

  • @Terrence915

    @Terrence915

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ham E yep! And it was too😂

  • @MartianBlues11

    @MartianBlues11

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ham E You got what you expected 😂

  • @BK-dv3hh
    @BK-dv3hh6 жыл бұрын

    He doesn’t seem like he’s all there & omg she’s crazy !! What a hot messs

  • @wildfiregirl1556

    @wildfiregirl1556

    2 жыл бұрын

    They are from N.C. enough said.

  • @wynterbreeze1202
    @wynterbreeze12026 жыл бұрын

    I don't feel bad for her at all ! Unfazed by the 😢. She's just as abusive as he is. 2 chaotic people trying to have a healthy relationship that's full of toxicity. They BOTH need to stop the bull crap!

  • @alyssag.5758

    @alyssag.5758

    4 жыл бұрын

    She needs to leave!!!! They are NOT compatible.

  • @jamesgibson3716
    @jamesgibson37167 жыл бұрын

    He comes off as an UBER simp to me.....After all Judge Toler told these 2 at the end, it's like they heard NOTHING...

  • @teresaj.4103

    @teresaj.4103

    7 жыл бұрын

    James Gibson Yep. In one ear...and straight out the others. SMH

  • @shelterlovely
    @shelterlovely7 жыл бұрын

    Been married for three years now and I don't care about what my husband does with his phone as long as he takes care of his responsibility am good.But don't lie to me because I hate liars.

  • @latoshamajors5085
    @latoshamajors50857 жыл бұрын

    This relationship is toxic. She is mad, hurt, and evil. She seems to not have a conscience. She seems very frustrated with life. He is co-dependent and childish. Someone will end up very hurt if this relationship is not dissolved.

  • @johnjohnzeeland7589

    @johnjohnzeeland7589

    6 жыл бұрын

    Latosha Curley this girl is not evil. She's imprisoned and is being held captive. She's in anguish.

  • @josieslater200

    @josieslater200

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@johnjohnzeeland7589 exactly. That's why its always good to watch the entire episode for yourself cause people in the comments have very limited understanding.

  • @alyssag.5758

    @alyssag.5758

    4 жыл бұрын

    He clearly doesn't trust her, going through her phone and notes. That's no way to live, just bounce.

  • @MartianBlues11
    @MartianBlues117 жыл бұрын

    From the intro alone, I'm annoyed by this episode. If she's "getting physical," then he needs to call the police and lock her ass up. I'm not sure what he's staying for anyway. If he doesn't trust her, why in the world would he stay on top of her "getting physical?" Why are you checking for a chick that's attacking you? Does this dude like misery? Does he like being maced? When women stay with abuse dudes, people call them stupid and tell them to get some self esteem and leave. He needs to leave. And why is she staying with a dude who is going through her phone, accusing her of cheating, and harassing her about it all day? When guys stay with stalker girlfriends who follow and check up on them, people call them stupid! She needs to leave too! The are in a toxic, miserable relationship. They were annoying as hell.

  • @astraybullet5522

    @astraybullet5522

    7 жыл бұрын

    going through her phone?? are you stupid there is no such thing as HER phone, its theres hence teh term partners

  • @ComeAttMeBrooskie

    @ComeAttMeBrooskie

    6 жыл бұрын

    I mean most people don’t want to lock up the mother of their child especially when they’re the ones watching the children she’s getting physical like Judge Lynn said because of what he’s putting her through that’s not really her she can seek counseling before getting locked up don’t try to put children’s mother away before even trying to mend the problem or suggesting counseling or something

  • @LeauxNBehold
    @LeauxNBehold7 жыл бұрын

    She's claiming he can't keep a job but she's unemployed?

  • @Tefahh.c

    @Tefahh.c

    7 жыл бұрын

    Style at Five and she quit her job while she got 3 kids.

  • @LeauxNBehold

    @LeauxNBehold

    7 жыл бұрын

    MamaLuvsHerCub definitely trifling

  • @DaishaSharnay
    @DaishaSharnay3 жыл бұрын

    He looks so sad and lifeless the entire time. I need for my man to gain some confidence and find happiness within himself..

  • @MartianBlues11
    @MartianBlues117 жыл бұрын

    What is up with these insecure people that have been rolling through DC lately. Like, these people stay going through their spouses phones and following them around checking to see if they are cheating. Why would you want to be with someone you don't trust? If you don't trust them, leave them. If you don't want to leave them, trust them.

  • @misskia789
    @misskia7897 жыл бұрын

    Ok something seems off odd bout homeboy I haven't figured it out yet he defiantly is insecure very insecure it's something else both are extremely immature but NAW police n going to jail I'm out DEUCES DIVORCE ASAP they both emotionally unstable doing all that stuff around the children n u never ever leave your employment that's STUPID AF so what he lurking the kids come 1st I can't watch no more im done

  • @teresaj.4103

    @teresaj.4103

    7 жыл бұрын

    Miss KIA I was thinking the same thing.. something is just not right about this dude. I think she needs to leave him before something really bad happens.

  • @alyssag.5758

    @alyssag.5758

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can't believe he put all the stuff out because she wouldn't loan him $150. Wtf?!!!🥴

  • @Sadiejaymeslove

    @Sadiejaymeslove

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just left the older version of this man 3 days ago and I know exactly what you’re seeing. What you’re seeing is the stuff they are not telling, the stuff she isn’t ready to open up about. She better be lucky she isn’t dealing with mine because her anger would have gotten her killed. This guy ain’t too far off

  • @KnottyCeltic
    @KnottyCeltic4 жыл бұрын

    He's like a 'stalker' inside a marriage. Creepy.

  • @jamesgibson3716

    @jamesgibson3716

    4 жыл бұрын

    Straight up. He's a piece of insecure work. No way to live...

  • @PrincessZaire100

    @PrincessZaire100

    4 жыл бұрын

    James Gibson the putting our business on social media would’ve been the end of it

  • @pansieximines4354

    @pansieximines4354

    2 жыл бұрын

    So it's ok to mace him? She's the bully

  • @akstylez_ak5037
    @akstylez_ak50377 жыл бұрын

    I am trying to figure out why is it when a women is putting hands on a man and massing him they both get yelled at. But if it was a man putting hands on the woman and not giving her money he's the one to get fussed out alone. Such double standards. This man mentioned she almost tried to hit him with a car and that was ignored. I think this women been angry waaaaaayyyyyy before him. He may have added to it a bit. But she is angry let her stand in her own wrong doing on her own. No matter what he did she should not be purring hands on him or masing him. Just like man have not reason to put hands on a women even if she violated him and did some dumb shit. They need to separate. All this cop calling on one another is ridiculous. And they should be ashamed

  • @gravestone93

    @gravestone93

    7 жыл бұрын

    Akstylez _ak I think the judge be getting sexist irrationally

  • @_nameful7066

    @_nameful7066

    6 жыл бұрын

    Akstylez _ak If the roles were reversed they would've gotten yelled at both as well,because he made her go crazy with phone checking and she shouldn't have hit him.Double standards like this don't happen very often anymore,only in a few usually really bad cases,fight against those,not some micro-transgressions that may not even be there. Also it was abvious he was the abuser with the emotionless "she scares me",abusers often try to make the abused one look like the abuser and get sympathy.And imagine living with someone like that with all the phone checking,always knowing your location,no job,anyone would've gone crazy.Doesn't excuse her behavior but it wasn't without a reason.

  • @dexterdamonkey
    @dexterdamonkey7 жыл бұрын

    "Save my marriage" no, this marriage is toxic. She deserves a spouse who doesn't micromanage and control every single moment of her life like a prison warden. His behaviour brings out the worst in her, she need someone who brings out the good. He's so cringey. Every single thing he does, every word he says, the way he shrugs and looks away when you expect him to man up but he shoves the responsibility away.

  • @hangtyme765

    @hangtyme765

    7 жыл бұрын

    dexterdamonkey -- Stupid analysis, burger brain!!!!! She doesn't deserve a spouse at all. Just like he doesn't deserve a spouse. They're both immature and angry. If you're not gonna blame her for his shortcomings, don't blame him for hers.

  • @dexterdamonkey

    @dexterdamonkey

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hang Tyme wow. your reply reveals more about you than i think you'd like. hope you grow up a little before you get a serious relationship and hurt someone permanently.

  • @hangtyme765

    @hangtyme765

    7 жыл бұрын

    dexterdamonkey Sorry friend. I had just lost $700.00 at the casino when I posted that comment. I was still pissed off.

  • @dexterdamonkey

    @dexterdamonkey

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hang Tyme yeah. that's not reassuring.... hope your finances get better tho :/

  • @dexterdamonkey

    @dexterdamonkey

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hang Tyme again, not reassuring. (and losing 700 is not good financing, as a general rule, regardless what your net worth is, especially with a game of chance.)

  • @boikoboramatebele6522
    @boikoboramatebele65227 жыл бұрын

    Marriage is not for 20 something year olds... Why bother? Gosh

  • @alyssag.5758

    @alyssag.5758

    4 жыл бұрын

    My grandparents got married in their 20s and were together til death. This isn't about age. These people are not compatible. He's insecure, nagging, and she's ready to snap.

  • @Ty.S93

    @Ty.S93

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@alyssag.5758 Most of our grandparents did but that was a completely different time and our ancestors definitely went through A HEEP but chose to stick it out and some women didn’t have a choice

  • @drlovie
    @drlovie7 жыл бұрын

    Who asked them to get married? Who asked them to have kids? Why have children while having low paying jobs?

  • @Chee235

    @Chee235

    7 жыл бұрын

    drlovie you are right. Only rich people and middle class human beings should have the natural right to have children!

  • @drlovie

    @drlovie

    7 жыл бұрын

    thank you :)

  • @drlovie

    @drlovie

    7 жыл бұрын

    thank you ;)

  • @rosej5029

    @rosej5029

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don’t you mean educated people?

  • @kathysaladeen7862
    @kathysaladeen78626 жыл бұрын

    She is the man in the relationship

  • @alyssag.5758

    @alyssag.5758

    4 жыл бұрын

    Facts, he's going through her phone. Normally its the woman doing that 🤣🤣 I've never heard of men going through a phone.

  • @Chee235
    @Chee2357 жыл бұрын

    These people are unhealthy for each other. At least separate for a while and work on yourselves. Date each other. Then come together again and create a better environment for your children.

  • @johnjohnzeeland7589

    @johnjohnzeeland7589

    6 жыл бұрын

    Myshalala best statement on here!

  • @alyssag.5758

    @alyssag.5758

    4 жыл бұрын

    They do not need to have anything to do with each other

  • @ForestvilleOppa
    @ForestvilleOppa7 жыл бұрын

    Brian, the face of insecurity. It comes from within.

  • @mikenonhuman1335
    @mikenonhuman13357 жыл бұрын

    Facebook is always gonna start a problem.... leave fb alone when u get on a real relationship

  • @grneys45

    @grneys45

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mike Non human true

  • @beb5407

    @beb5407

    3 жыл бұрын

    If Facebook has that power to end a relationship that is serious 🧐🤔🥺

  • @beb5407
    @beb54073 жыл бұрын

    Love love love Judge Lynn Toler 🗣️ She is the best judge EVER 📢

  • @kardiair2
    @kardiair26 жыл бұрын

    ur best revenge is ur paper. 💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰B said it best. How dare u quit a job.

  • @TheNaphisa03
    @TheNaphisa034 жыл бұрын

    He is insecure and potentially crazy by this demeanor. She feels stuck with him....he could be a killer if she tries to leave.

  • @fatgumd.vinsmoke7237

    @fatgumd.vinsmoke7237

    3 жыл бұрын

    If anything she’s the killer 😂

  • @gamerincorporated154

    @gamerincorporated154

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fatgumd.vinsmoke7237 Right. That was a dumb assessment

  • @christinamenhennett

    @christinamenhennett

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fatgumd.vinsmoke7237 well she's angry and he's obsessed. Very volatile situation.

  • @ayefo7800
    @ayefo78004 жыл бұрын

    I don't feel bad for either of these "adults". If she is that miserable, she needs to walk. If he is that paranoid, he needs to leave. No one wants to be pro-active; just re-active. I feel bad for those children. Have to deal with two parents who can't handle their emotions. Absolute shame.

  • @Belizean31279
    @Belizean312797 жыл бұрын

    I agree with the Judge they need to separate and get counseling. But oh girl don't think so. Otherwise she goin snap one day and regret it and say she she should've listened to the Judge and separate from her husband and got herself and he get himself together. Smh

  • @Alexz_Archivz
    @Alexz_Archivz7 жыл бұрын

    LMAO!!! @19:27 He said he wont let no other man OR WOMAN step into this and take his position in the relationship... dude got serious trust issues!

  • @madelinejohnson5203
    @madelinejohnson52036 жыл бұрын

    His insecurities...Her anger issues...neither has a job. 5 children...my condolences to the saddest family ever...damn.

  • @wildfiregirl1556

    @wildfiregirl1556

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lmao.

  • @keishaford2727
    @keishaford27272 жыл бұрын

    One time I was so mad at my husband, I also threw his phone out the moving car window but then I remembered Judge Toler talking about the stupid tax. Man he was so lucky I watch divorce court, because his phone was about to grow wings LOL

  • @shelterlovely
    @shelterlovely7 жыл бұрын

    This two will be back on divorce court again if they don't take the judge advice.

  • @lucyrider9361
    @lucyrider93615 жыл бұрын

    Lol she gets physical with him and they're from Angrier, NC. 😂🤜🏾

  • @beb5407

    @beb5407

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 they are cursed

  • @wildfiregirl1556

    @wildfiregirl1556

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@beb5407 Lol. No sister.

  • @TheRAH1
    @TheRAH12 жыл бұрын

    She’s STUNNING. Waaaaaaaaay out of his league and deep down he knows it. That’s why he’s so insecure.

  • @wildfiregirl1556

    @wildfiregirl1556

    2 жыл бұрын

    Doubt it.

  • @omgmazin
    @omgmazin5 жыл бұрын

    This is by far the worst relationship that I've seen on divorce court😩

  • @maureen_momo
    @maureen_momo7 жыл бұрын

    The reactions from the audience was so extra this episode😂😂😂😂 "ooohhh" "aaahhh" lol

  • @gracewangari5105
    @gracewangari51056 жыл бұрын

    Such a sad life.

  • @kmx4202
    @kmx42027 жыл бұрын

    love how when a woman does something that's physically mentally or emotionally abusive that people laugh and chalk it up to nothing let a man do the same thing and they're berating him also why is it acceptable for her to act out of control but he needs to maintain control at all times I mean we all human but damn and one day what's going to happen if she's going to lose her temper and kill someone innocent on the road so if I was homeboy I'd leave her alone

  • @christinamenhennett

    @christinamenhennett

    2 жыл бұрын

    She caught it from Judge Toler over her actions and temper.

  • @vievievie3863
    @vievievie38632 жыл бұрын

    The way he has his lip turned up is everything loool.

  • @nikkiknowship-hop1466
    @nikkiknowship-hop14667 жыл бұрын

    Daaammnnnn the Judge went all the way off. She did a fantastic job with the advice and reading them. Just Amazing!

  • @kerrywhite5253
    @kerrywhite52536 жыл бұрын

    These 2 have no reason being in a relationship!They are toxic to one another and should be in deep therapy sessions.!!

  • @TheNAUGHTYNOOK2
    @TheNAUGHTYNOOK27 жыл бұрын

    Time apart will be good for this couple, they need to learn how to love &respect each other again

  • @treyparker3775
    @treyparker37755 жыл бұрын

    They are both crazy as hell

  • @OSMRDucksLIB
    @OSMRDucksLIB5 жыл бұрын

    If someone tries to run you over with a car, you require anger management & if they refuse, you bounce. Period. You do NOT put your children & your own life in danger for any kind of "love".

  • @stephaniemitchell2880
    @stephaniemitchell28807 жыл бұрын

    she is so pretty she can do alot better than him.

  • @mrs.thomas524

    @mrs.thomas524

    5 жыл бұрын

    And he knows it.

  • @wildfiregirl1556

    @wildfiregirl1556

    2 жыл бұрын

    No she can't.

  • @stockinganarchy4551
    @stockinganarchy45517 жыл бұрын

    Nikki is beautiful

  • @tashawilliams8093
    @tashawilliams80933 жыл бұрын

    The single life feels so good. There's no way I would've ever married him.

  • @jaxx1352
    @jaxx13522 жыл бұрын

    When she cried it broke my heart!! 🥺🥺🥺

  • @mrspaceforever
    @mrspaceforever7 жыл бұрын

    A HOT MESS!!

  • @nataliebrady7565
    @nataliebrady75654 жыл бұрын

    Sweetheart he is controlling and insecure u will never be happy y'all mind as well split

  • @tellnolies8530
    @tellnolies85305 жыл бұрын

    unemployed, cheating, 5 kids, physical abuse, who will tear up their own car?? ... bye Felicia

  • @sharonjackson268
    @sharonjackson2685 жыл бұрын

    He's controlling, an Ms. James ain't having that... I don't blame u Ms. James. He doesn't have the right to try to reprogram her. They both need to run from one another. Girl ruuuunnnnnn.....

  • @teraillesane4368
    @teraillesane43687 жыл бұрын

    Such a heartbreaking marriage. They both have issues that's toxic to the marriage. Both have made boneheaded decisions that has contributed to the failure to the marriage. I hope that they can fix it for the sake of the children.

  • @shaihasani6859

    @shaihasani6859

    2 жыл бұрын

    Fix this? You kidding

  • @LeauxNBehold
    @LeauxNBehold7 жыл бұрын

    She might have ptsd

  • @BN-hy1nd
    @BN-hy1nd2 жыл бұрын

    As someone of African descent, I I steer away from the police in the UK. How can these two choose the police as the first port of call when they are not happy. How stupid!!!

  • @krispricediy8421
    @krispricediy84213 жыл бұрын

    You came on national television to stay in the same situation with the same toxic man? You’re ok with continuing to put your kids through this?

  • @wildfiregirl1556

    @wildfiregirl1556

    2 жыл бұрын

    Apparently. They got kids they might as well make it work.

  • @DeviancyBehavir
    @DeviancyBehavir7 жыл бұрын

    They definitely need to go to counseling. To constantly be nagging someone about who this person is, how they know them, are you cheating? Fuck that shit, I'd dip and dip with the quickness, he's helping make her crazy on those issues alone. She's not any prize either, because she's doing dumbshit herself, but a lot of it is a response to his insecurities and not being able to trust her, they're basically feeding off each other and it's not going to end well until they get it together. This is how you hear about murder suicides happening in relationships. He's obsessing over a possibility instead of just living in the reality and dealing with what's going on and trying to secure his family. Why people would stay in a situation where there's nothing but misery astounds me. I'd be single and happy any day of the week.