We had SO much fun chatting with you ladies! Thank you for your beautiful questions and energy. CJ’s Instagram is @cjmakesphotos. Have an amazing weekend everyone! ❤

@kimboksoon3618

9 ай бұрын

Omg he look so kind

@chanya_ella254

9 ай бұрын

CJ is really incredible with good mindset, you are really lucky awwlexis

your brother gives golden retriever vibes. his wisdom and demeanor is just like the warm sun on a winter morning. we need more men like him in the world. this was so insightful

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Aww yes he totally does! ♥️

@norah4590

5 ай бұрын

OH MY GOD YESSSSSSSS I AGREE

Awwlexis I know you're a woman of Christ, thus can only give advice from that perspective... In reference to your point about ensuring your man is connected to God... I've been dating an atheist for awhile now...and to be honest, he's the most emotionally intellegent and self-aware partner I've ever had... And this is in part due to the fact that he's not grounded by an inflexible/unchangeable regilious doctrine (not to disrespect any religion) but rather by his appreciation of the gift of life. As such, he's very open to learning, growth and change... Holds a very high moral standard and is very respectful of other human beings and their own experience of life. I just wanted to share that, since it seems to not be a very popular opinion or experience. Love your videos, btw! I've learnt so much.

When I was in a deep and dark place in my life, I asked god to send me someone who could see my value and protect me. a week after that, I met my man who is in his healthy muscular energy. He help me to become my best self. And in the meantime, I met you. It so surprised me the fact how beautiful healthy feminine energy and healthy muscular energy are. They complete each other. ❤

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Aww my sweet girl I am so happy to hear this! It is amazing to see how God answers our prayers better than we could ever imagine ♥️

Consistency and discipline 👍🏼 1. Do (show up) 2. Do the right thing 3. Do the right thing, correctly 4. Do the right thing correctly, consistently

He made me realize how low value of a man my ex was. Honestly a part of me is still wondering if it's possible for a low value man to grow with a high value woman but I'm trying to not cling onto the hope that people will change. Thank you so much for this video!! This was super eye-opening seeing what a high value man is

@SolutionOrientedMan

9 ай бұрын

Why was he low value?

Both of you guys are so beautiful and glowing!

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much beautiful ❤

It would be so nice to have siblings who share similar energy and mindset 💛 AND the way u look at him shows how much u adore his thoughts and is proud to have a little one who's so mature.

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

🥰♥️🙏🏽 I feel so blessed

You’re brother was so well spoken and knowledgeable! Has he ever considered a podcast for young men talking on these topics! He seems like he’d be really good at it! . . . Love Your videos Alexis huge fan of your content!! 🫶🏽💕

It’s incredible how just watching these videos changed how i look at man! How I learn to receive and let men be men while Im being a woman!!! Feels so good!! And today I just had the most amazing date with a healthy masculine man that I would never go out with in the past. This videos are such a blessing and I can’t wait to save up for the course ❤ Thank you so much!

I absolutely love this! thank you so much Alexis and CJ 💗

Sooo good ! I’m so happy to have a masculine prospective on your channel definitely a blessing and your so lucky he is your brother !! ❤😢😊

I loved meeting your brother and hearing all of his amazing insight. Thank you for having him on the live!

Only a few minutes in and I am loving this already. So much value! Thank you Alexis and CJ so much for your time.

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much beautiful 🥰

this was great to watch! masculinity and femininity go hand in hand. one cannot exist without the other. amazing content.

It was great to see you with your brother and hear your views on on healthy masculine energy. You definitely touch on some great habits to be aware of when determining how much someone's values will align with your own. Thanks for sharing! All the best, Liz

Thank you so much for bringing your brother and showing us what a Healthy conscious man looks like.

Wow such a great video! You can tell he has a mature mindset in the way he expresses himself, even his mannerisms & the calmness in his voice. Thanks for thinking of us when making this video & showing us a great example ☺️

Love the energies emanating from you both! Thank you so much for this video 🌷💚

What an amazing young man your brother is 👏👍🙏💕Alexis, thank you for having him in the video and for asking all the right questions ❤ I truly enjoy this really wholesome discussion 😊

I love this! it makes me happy to know that there are men doing inner work. ❤

Yeees! You guys are amazing! Thanks for the video!!❤

Omg Alexis this is huge ❤ thank you!

This is a very powerful conversation. CJ's energy is also good. I admire your deliberate efforts towards inner healing. Much love from Kenya.

LOVE THIS...may God continue to bless you both. Thanks for sharing. Big Ups to your brother.

This was such an amazing video!!! Loved it ❤ Let’s have CJ back ☺️

Both of you are glowing!! Also was doing research on this exact topic, so perfect timing!

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Aww thank you so much! 🥰

Aaaaw my love I absolutely love this episode with your brother! Please create more together!😍😍😍🥰🫂♥️

Omg I was actually just thinking of this topic and was gonna ask if you could do a video on this! This is amazing!

That's beautiful to see your relation with your brother❤️

Thank you Alexis and CJ!! I really needed the image of what healthy masculine man is.

I admire your relationship with your siblings! Thank u for having him 😊

One thing i've noticed about your family so far, is that you guys have such wide big beautiful smiles!!! Brings me such bliss haha :D

The best episode ever ❤❤❤ (all are great but this one is my fav) bring him again

Thank you for this! As a guy who stumbled on this channel, I enjoyed this content and needed to hear some of these life tips! Tell your bro to start a channel! We need more faith filled bro content!

I really enjoyed this 💞💞 thank you alexis and cj - i got some great tips and took some great notes ✨️

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

🥰🙏🏽♥️

I am a new subsciber. I just want to say I love your relationship, and the the respect you have for each other. Thank you for your videos. Youre very inspirational

Amazing! Thank you both! 🙌🏻✨

you are both such a genuine and kind people😍

You are both so mature ! U two did a very good job on your inner work, it's inspiring ❤ God bless you

Wonderful video! I hope CJ builds a platform and coaches men with their healthy masculine energy!

Great content and channel! Thank you for creating this!

Wow, not only are you guys beautiful, but radiate this energy that brought me to tears within the first few minutes of the video. Bless you both!!

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Aww thank you so much 🥺♥️

Been waiting for this one!!! 💖 watching now 🥳

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

We are SO happy to bring it to you! Enjoy love! 😘

Thank youuu guys for this absolute amazing vd love uuuu

This is so hopeful that these people like you two really exist

I was called insecure for having a boundary when he had a girl bestfriend that didn’t seem to like me, and routinely flirted and crossed boundaries we had up. He never took the step to reset the boundary. Cleared that up very quickly at 41:23 ❤️

Your brother is really cute, he also seems to have very good energy

Developing divine masculine energy refers not only to men but also women. Now I develop my inner masculine energy so this video is truly helpful, thank you ❤

Thank you so much for this video! It’s amazing !

Love this! Great video you two! The comment about a man joking about certain things definitely made me think, my man has not 'joked', however he did point out a few insecurities and made me feel low value by commenting that 'oh well, but is she a good cook' ? When i made food and it was not up to his standards apparently. As well as other criticising comments, and me brining them up several times made him defensive and annoyed, telling me why do i bring up things of the past. Relationships can be complicated (when not healed properly i think) and I should think about healing myself first as i figured out i apparently am anxiously attached as well. I'll look into healing, so thank you for your videos! Definitely would be nice to see more relationship videos and advice on what to accept in a relationship as a woman, deal breakers, or what not, as i am having a hard time with this and usually tend to just want to forgive a man because i realize everyone is imperfect and has their own wounds and want to be there for them to help them. But I tend to forget myself. May the heavenly Father bless all you do, your radiance is contagious :) Thank you!

Wow! You two are like balls of sunshine. You radiate such beautiful energy through the screen - I can only imagine how wonderful you are in real life. 🥰

This conversation put so much into perspective & I loved hearing a man's point of view! You both are glowing! Thank you so so much ❤

That's awesome to hear your both Christians. I am too. I am glad your brother could join today and talk about what makes his masculine energy healthy. Thank you

loved this!

Watching your brother speak made me realize how attractive healthy masculine energy is. I could def feel that from him. And I’ve decided that I’m gonna attract only healthy masculine men from now. Thank you for this video Alexis❤

Thank you for this. Loved it!

This was a great conversation!

Thank you so much this video is amazing ❤thank you for teaching me how to live with love ❤

Hi awwlexis so I've been subscribe to your channel for about a month I think I'm not sure but you really give me inspiration about life with your channel and I'll definitely sign up for you course once I can...I'm a stay at home mom and I do have dreams and goals for myself being a stay at home mom is only temporary for me and listening to you is giving me the confidence to pursue my dreams...but my relationship is kind of holding me back and I'm not someone that speak I'll about my partner but my family just don't understand so I'm a Muslim women I got married at 18 and I've never really been safe and comfortable in my body around him because after marriage he wanted me to change the way I dress and the things I did and I love fashion, make up and things to do with hair styling and I realise I'm afraid of abandonment so I put aside all the things I like and the friends I had but now I feel like I don't recognise myself I'm not the same I'm what he wants me to be even though his not a toxic person but the biggest thing is that I'm far from my feminine energy like my husband doesn't have any discipline I end up doing everything for him and myself and our kids...he never finish anything so I need advice because I'm try to do inner work on myself and I spoke to him many times he says he will help me but just does it for afew days and his back doing what he wants..... please give me any advice that you can and I love what you doing and your journey it's beautiful and you beautiful awwlexis ❤

You are a true star seed and very inspiring. Thank you

Very good video 💖 Interesting to listen💜 Thank you very much ❤

Pleasure to listen you guys❤

Both of your smiles ❤ so beautiful!

I love this! I wish I had this information months ago :')

AHHHHH GIRLIE YOUR HEREEE❤❤❤

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Hello gorgeous!!! 🥰

@AriesIdeas

9 ай бұрын

@@awwlexis could you do a video on how to grow your KZread using feminine energy? I’m desiring to grow my KZread!

The insights from CJ are refreshing. Can you share with us a list of his recommended podcasts? I'm interested to know what he's regularly feeding his mind with 🤔

Alexis, you are radiant. CJ resembles your mom so much. I love the dynamic and bond between you two.

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Aww thank you love 🥰

He seems like a sweetheart! ❤

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Yes he is 🥰

Omg your brother !!!! :)

You both have a really beautiful smile💕

My husband and I are both on our inner work journey, watched this, and really bonded over what you two discussed! Thanks for creating content not just for my feminine energy journey but this for us to connect over as well🌸Sending lots of love and kindness your way. 🤍

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Aww my girl this makes me so happy! Thank you for sharing. I am so happy to hear you both are on your inner work journey. That is beautiful. Sending you lots of love ♥️

Personally I think joking and banter are 43:11 actually vital for a relationship. Being able to laugh together is so important to me. The core of truth you talk about is also playing into this. If they can playfully joke about a quirk or habit I have in a funny way, that doesn't hurt my feelings. I usually find it humourous and fun to laugh about myself. Of course that requires a certain level of confidence and knowing the other person loves you despite or maybe even because of those quirks. And the other person must be able to take a joke as well and laugh about themselves too, not just dish out. Of course, there is a huge difference between mockery/picking on someone and joking. And the limit depends on each person and the relationship I have with them. My best friends for example get to joke about things which would put me off if said from a stranger. So in general I think joking and banter is not only fine, but necessary. But only if everyone involved is okay with it and given that they speak up, if feelings have indeed been hurt. Edit: This does not include body image and insecurities. Those are always off limits. ^-^

Your brother is as adorable as you! Have him back!

I have run into really nice guys who are older (my age, 40s 50s) who have been hurt by women and can't let go and get beyond that. They find a great woman and push her away because he is stuck in not being able to let go of the one who hurt him. Some have not tried to grow from it and others seem to be running from growth and dive into a bottle of alcohol and become functional alcoholics. They may even be achievers. It's sad, especially when I like the sensitive men but not the sensitive men who are broken not trying to fix themselves. I want a masculine man who is always learning and working on bettering himself and also has a sensitive side.

It would be nice if you together collaborate and add him into some part of your training program ❤ As well would be nice if your brother would be doing same thing, but just for man. We need more like him and more ladies like you 💜

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

This is a wonderful idea thank you ♥️

VERY interesting vidéo Thank u so much!🤭🥰

What a lovely man ❤

This video has to go viral👌🏽Being good to each other no matter how they hate is what my religion Islam teaches,and you will always be at peace and it’s really good to hear from you too

Love both of y'all perspective! I think it is great that you are talking about this important topic. I do have a thought that I would like to suggest. I think guys have a real issue with this feminine energy, we have been raised to be the man, the protector, and the deffender. I think that some of these things like showing emotion and really the middle of the connection isn't really either energy. I conceder it just part of the human experience. This is how I feel, think about it for a little while and maybe you can do a response either chat or show. Thank you for your consideration.

Love, can you share with us your book's recommendations? Iv been trying to read more and i love your content so much i would love to be inspire from the same self help books❤

Im watching this video for the second time!

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Aww hello Ewa! 🤗

@ewawisz4671

9 ай бұрын

@@awwlexis hiii

Thank you!!!

New subscriber, Seeing ur videos and its strange how i m so much in my masculine energy, i just wanted to be wanted feel powerfull and thought only seductive women can keep men for long but its opposite, after betryals and hearing from college i became dark feminine whereas i was so light feminie as a kid.... Somewhere my dark feminie didnt go that well for my relationships bcz that always feared left off bcz it always knew light feminine is a keeper

Does CJ have a KZread channel? I would seriously subscribe because both of you are so knowledgeable and intelligent

@awwlexis

9 ай бұрын

Aww you are sweet! He does not at the moment but I will share if he ever makes one ♥️

What inner work/limiting belief do we have to let go of to attract the ideal relationship?

Hey Alexis, could you go a video on feminine energy on dates / dating ?

Girl I’m so happy for you

Hi Alexis. I am in a healthy relationship now and we are the happiest we have ever been. When we first got together though he did some horrible things that are just unforgivable. I keep telling myself that he has changed because he truly has and he is a better man but I can’t help but feel resentment due to the pain he caused me. A year ago I was not the women I am today I was very insecure and did not have any back bone to leave him. But every time I remember something he did I wish I did leave because he did not deserve me. I am just not sure what to do anymore. He does everything to care for me and spoil me every day and I keep remembering this horrible side of him.

@apollofateh324

6 ай бұрын

Have you tried couple's therapy? That might help~

Yes!! Thank you for highlighting that!! Not T*te or B*dden podcasts!! 😂

Hi Alexis, I am interested to know what your opinion of the working class man is as a provider man. You talk a lot about business men and entrepreneurs running their own businesses etc where i come from men are predominantly in jobs where getting your hands dirty type of work is required such as farmers, arborists, fishermen , hunter gatherer types. My question being if a man is not a business man what is your opinion of their masculine energy if they may not be providing as much financially but more in terms of food on the table from nature, wood for the fire, water from the river etc.

Hey Alexis, I really wanna have a conversation with you is there any possible way we can talk about some issues i need your opinion on?❤️

What a man!

Sex, morality, justice, fairness, promises made- these are topics/subjects that involve deep philosophy and requires a strict moral code. A moral code that might come from religion or for some from his inner self.

imagine having him as a husband and having Lexis as a sister in law 😯

Has he been told he looks like Lucas Scott from one tree hill

Clone him, please. 😂❤

ah I feel so stuck

...and he's super cute.

OMG! You guys look like twins 😅