Disorganized Attachment and Friendships: How to make better friendships
Welcome back to The Attachment Project’s series: All About Attachment! Video 10, Disorganized Attachment and Friendships, delves into the world of friendships and how a disorganized attachment style affects these important relationships.
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Attachment Theory: How Childhood Affects Relationships - • Attachment Theory: How...
Insecure Attachment Style: What It Means To Be Insecurely Attached - • Insecure Attachment: W...
Disorganized Attachment Style: How It Forms and Common Signs - • Disorganized Attachmen...
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Anxious: www.attachmentproject.com/blo...
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Timestamps:
00:00-00:45 Introduction
00:45-03:31 Traits of Disorganized Attachment in Friendships
03:31-03:45 Sensitive Content
03:45-04:23 Why You Behave This Way
04:23-04:55 Dig Deeper
Пікірлер: 6
Very informative. Thank you
Imagine your attachment style as a quirky recipe for friendship soup. Some days, you throw in too many ingredients, making it too spicy, and other times, you forget to add any flavor at all. 🍲
Just one thing I don’t find it hard to trust but more like, I trust too easily; then I get manipulated sometimes and sometimes I get disappointed because I start overly committing to the friendship and I expect the same from them but they don’t have the same attachment to me like I do to them… and so… manier times due to this one sided commitment we just drift apart & friendships end ; or the “bestie” just turns into an acquaintance
I have dyslexia, I said to myself: "I HAVE detached art teacher friends, but I didn't know that was a 'thing'."
All of this!
I did the quiz abd mine came vack secure when i am disorganised. So.e questio s were difficumt to answer because it was not asking the riggt questions such as am i afraid people will not live me or feel for me as i do them and i answered no becuase i dont love people easily and i dont get close to people even though i. Hella friendly so its i.possible for someone to not love.like or like me as much i i do them cos theirs should be more than mine