Discussion with Esther Perel | JCCSF

Since publishing her first book, Mating in Captivity, an investigation into the fraught topic of married sex, world-renowned relationship expert Esther Perel has travelled the globe speaking about couples’ intimacy - or their lack of it. In her new book, The State of Affairs, she invites us to take a closer look at infidelity to find out what affairs are really about.
Esther Perel is recognized as one of the world's most original and insightful voices on couples and sexuality across cultures. She is a celebrated speaker sought around the globe for her expertise in emotional and erotic intelligence, work-life balance, cross-cultural relations, conflict resolution and identity of modern marriage and family.
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  • @SXHQQSSS
    @SXHQQSSS6 жыл бұрын

    I am halfway through The State of Affairs!!! Fabulous Book and Superb Talk!!

  • @chilo2k
    @chilo2k6 жыл бұрын

    I love @Esther Perel she has a way of communicating that is just very insightfull.

  • @mariamkinen8036
    @mariamkinen80363 жыл бұрын

    Humanity has many faces... Beauty is my religion. Love is a sacrament . Cherish the love

  • @FreeSpirit47
    @FreeSpirit475 жыл бұрын

    She is so eloquent.

  • @lolaispure4296
    @lolaispure42966 жыл бұрын

    Soo insughtful

  • @mariamkinen8036
    @mariamkinen80364 жыл бұрын

    How do we love without the physical prerogative for loving? I feel lost. Without the rev. Thanks. Repeated.

  • @mugbus1
    @mugbus16 жыл бұрын

    hmmm, what if one spouse is a supplicant and the other is an explorer? :(

  • @mariamkinen8036
    @mariamkinen80364 жыл бұрын

    The last instinct that humans have is that of the need to , either stay alive, or increase , as the last resort of leaving a mark of their existence. I think I got this right. Our biological clocks are ticking.....I can n I cannot relate with /to this topic. I 'd Re-pair.

  • @mariamkinen8036
    @mariamkinen80364 жыл бұрын

    It is clear that I be kept captive in prison for financial extortion .I need my voice heard out loud. N clear. Pictures do not act. Wish op. TY. What do bad ppl care if I'm in a lot of pain? Nothing!

  • @RamSadeh
    @RamSadeh6 жыл бұрын

    I’m very disappointed that the cover of “ the other woman “ is non- existing in your lectures, though you mention the chapter in your book dedicated to this.. The pains, trauma, aspirations, findings... Her erotic plot, her Own transgressions in it all- It is all omitted from your otherwise so very interesting n Fresh talks.. shame

  • @lynmagarao1005

    @lynmagarao1005

    6 жыл бұрын

    All the Talks are just tip of the iceberg, if viewers find it interesting and helpful, then they have to dig in by buying the book and read those topics that are sensitive, and may not be always suitable to discuss to conferences because of the limited time.

  • @RamSadeh

    @RamSadeh

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lyn Magarao I bought n read the book..!!

  • @empress_highpriestess3307

    @empress_highpriestess3307

    6 жыл бұрын

    Bar Harris Indeed determining the appropriate content I think in this case is merely because of the coherence of her primary work as a couples therapist; I would love and believe her scope and insight could discuss this " other woman " and the societal and personal effects to great illumination and healing for us all as well..as she said these are ' systemic effects ' whatever role each of us play..

  • @mirandaandrea8215

    @mirandaandrea8215

    6 жыл бұрын

    Empress_ HighPriestess yes I agree !

  • @denisships2861
    @denisships286110 ай бұрын

    Replacing religion with romantic love is one huge human mistake. It comes back again not to modernity or fluctuality but to ancient defiance of the Creator... is screaming I don't need You and your rules; I am my own selfish God. It has been tried in the past it didn't go well

  • @peterjandros2173
    @peterjandros21734 жыл бұрын

    This woman is a menace. Same opening and lecture on myriad Perel videos. Frankly, she talks a good "self-help" game for a faithless middle-aged audience, very entertaining, articulate, but, ultimately, clinical bullshit. Dr. Ruth invented the genre for a television audience of white narcissistic, selfish destroyers, not people who live in the light. Esther Perel's married to a therapist and between them they're cleaning up scamming the pain of others. I'm really not a fan of what she does.

  • @Mazziwa

    @Mazziwa

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think she must have touched a nerve if rather than just saying you do not agree with her points you try to put her down. We are all entitled to have opinions and the same way you think she is a scam I find her interesting and her podcast 'Where do we begin' one of the best that gives insight from couples seeking help themselves about what issues bring instabilities in relationships. To each his own I guess, but personally I'm glad she contributes her own share to this subject. If what you referred to as light (or faithless) is an implication about religion, oh boy that also depends on what religion means to a person. It means very little to people like me so I don't even bother. If it means much to you, why not then refer to religious leaders and counselors so they can counsel from the perspective of religious rules? Best of luck 😊

  • @janeeland4531

    @janeeland4531

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh Peter jealousy will eat you up and spit you out🤣