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  • @johnross1796
    @johnross1796 Жыл бұрын

    I am married to a Filipina for 5 years now and there is a night and day difference between her and western women. I stand in awe of her almost everyday. The love that radiates from this beautiful soul has no comparison.

  • @rosariodelacruz5318

    @rosariodelacruz5318

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm 2+ year's with a Philippines ladyboy And she,, So so so kind .and sweeeet. Great cook and she also looks after mum. .. I'm going to marry her

  • @matteoc7084

    @matteoc7084

    Жыл бұрын

    How's the sex?

  • @zooknutt

    @zooknutt

    9 ай бұрын

    Wife from cebu here with me in US bout 4 years now and my overall grade A.

  • @5107mhobbs

    @5107mhobbs

    8 ай бұрын

    I love my Filipina!!! She is so sweet and so different!!!!

  • @senthilk4916

    @senthilk4916

    7 ай бұрын

    @@rosariodelacruz5318 🤣

  • @arnoldseay9118
    @arnoldseay91182 жыл бұрын

    You got it pretty accurate how western women are. That is why Filipinas and other Asian women are treasured here. Probably most important to me is loyalty. Of course there are cultural differences we need to overcome. Please Filipinas don’t change. We need more of you. Great topic miss Rubeauti. I wonder how many western women watched your video.

  • @johnbobson1557

    @johnbobson1557

    2 жыл бұрын

    Zero! They hate the truth!

  • @Jwl772011
    @Jwl7720112 жыл бұрын

    As a man from the USA and have dated women here and is married to a beautiful Filipina from there. You are 100% right. I also think women from the province are underrated. As my friend dated from the city and had bad luck. So do your self a favor and date from province. Be safe and stay blessed everyone

  • @davidlyding265
    @davidlyding265 Жыл бұрын

    I met my Filipina early this year. I watched for every red flag. She's a breath of fresh air! Everything I ever wanted! She she treats me like a human being! We are engaged! I NEVER want to loose the jewel that found me.

  • @miketurpin4959
    @miketurpin49592 жыл бұрын

    When I met my Filipina for the first time I immediately realized that I have been treated like dirt compared to how my Filipina treated me. I will never date another American woman again because I have my Filipina and I will be marrying her at some point. She's kind hearted loving caring and so sweet and her personality is so amazing to me. She's very attractive and very attentive and I've never had that before. I love the fact that a Filipina is old fashioned cause I am old fashioned as well. In America most women come off as snobby and bitchy. I've had enough of that type of attitude. My Filipina was expecting to ha e sex on the first night I was there and I told her that I'm not that kind of guy. We've been together since 2017 but we just met in person and I wanted to make sure we have a connection before we did anything. We spent a few days together and we had a connection immediately and we knew we had something very special and we made each other fall in love over and over again

  • @MrWaterbugdesign

    @MrWaterbugdesign

    2 жыл бұрын

    I didn't know what femininity was until I chatted with a Filipina for a few minutes. Wow.

  • @retiredinbali9565

    @retiredinbali9565

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup, too many Western woman are snobby and bitchy. Let them grow old by themselves and die alone with their cats. I'm happy for you in finding your Filipina sweetheart.

  • @flinx649

    @flinx649

    2 жыл бұрын

    20 years with mine

  • @kensmile9433

    @kensmile9433

    2 жыл бұрын

    How did you meet her? Was it online first somewhere? The reason I ask is because I want to get to know a filipina before I go over there and don't know where to meet someone nice.

  • @miketurpin4959

    @miketurpin4959

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kensmile9433 she hit me up on Facebook. I was skeptical and watched for every red flag. Just be careful and choose wisely

  • @Kevins-Philippine-Retirement
    @Kevins-Philippine-Retirement2 жыл бұрын

    A very accurate assessment from my experience after almost 3 years married and living here. Even now, she plays with me like when we first met. That keeps the romance going as our love grows deeper.

  • @cjb446
    @cjb4462 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the video and I have to say that at the 14:00 mark to the 14:15 mark of the video, that is the most true statement of them all and a driving force to me getting out of the US when I turn 55 in 2 years. There is no woman more genuine and kind as a filipina.

  • @epbal106

    @epbal106

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @krish6128
    @krish61282 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for reminding me of all the reasons why i appreciate Filipina women and their culture, good video :)

  • @curbsplitter2338
    @curbsplitter23382 жыл бұрын

    For the last 10 years, I would not even consider starting a relationship here where I live. I have dated a few women, Vietnamese and Chinese and it was not too bad but it usually ends the same way. Their old school parents would not approve of our relationship, so that would cause us to part ways. What a shame but that is their culture. I’m just waiting to return to Cebu and start my island adventures. I am ready to visit many islands in the future. Thanks for touching on this subject Rebeauti. I’m ready to explore!

  • @kingmaafa120

    @kingmaafa120

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow find that kinda interesting because when I was in America 🇺🇸 saw a lot of men with the type of women you spoke of In America 🇺🇸 very popular

  • @curbsplitter2338

    @curbsplitter2338

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kingmaafa120 bad luck for me I guess 😅

  • @kingmaafa120

    @kingmaafa120

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@curbsplitter2338 not really Just ANOTHER DAY & ANOTHER OP FOR A LUCKY 🍀 GOD CHARM TO FALL IN ❤️again Especially in ASIA 😁

  • @ABC-hi3fy
    @ABC-hi3fy2 жыл бұрын

    Western men welcome direct communication.. So it is ok when a woman directly tells me hey I don't find you attractive. I wish more women would say that than making dishonest excuses. What concerns us is when a person demands a lot while they don't bring much to the table while displaying arrogance and extreme entitlements.

  • @troymiller4184

    @troymiller4184

    Жыл бұрын

    na bruz..im not a westernerner im Native Australian..we dont like rude people..they are Disgrace to Father who raised them

  • @lionedheart

    @lionedheart

    Жыл бұрын

    @@troymiller4184 i heard its the same in Australia, Canada, and England.

  • @Murph_.
    @Murph_.2 жыл бұрын

    I thank God for Filipinas every day of my life.

  • @gumdeo

    @gumdeo

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen.

  • @spartuz71
    @spartuz712 жыл бұрын

    The best day of my life is when I meet my Filipina wife for the first time, she is my queen and i would do anything for her because she takes good care of me.

  • @manilamartin1001
    @manilamartin10012 жыл бұрын

    I love the way filipino men raise their daughters. Filipino women are amazing. I get sad that American men believe in raising their daughters as princesses who have so many demands.

  • @robertlouderback1165
    @robertlouderback11652 жыл бұрын

    This video is spot on......I really appreciate the honesty and candid approach to the differences between the two cultures

  • @donaldsvnnh3161
    @donaldsvnnh31612 жыл бұрын

    You touched on mostly all the qualities a sincere, serious man is seeking for in a life partner 🙂. A filipina being old school, old fashioned, traditional, easy going, untainted, wanting basically what a woman naturally wants, appreciate the small kindness, logically see proposal as the next step after dating, and being more marriage focus. Excellent breakdown and irresistible for many good men. Can't see why anyone would be offended because you certainly qualified at the beginning that you wanted to have some fun 😊. I greatly respect you & your culture 🌹.

  • @filipinawanderer255

    @filipinawanderer255

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @bockskarr6626

    @bockskarr6626

    2 жыл бұрын

    Make sure you take those rose colored glasses off sometimes . . . Things are far from perfect over there

  • @donaldsvnnh3161

    @donaldsvnnh3161

    2 жыл бұрын

    🙏

  • @steveharvey6159
    @steveharvey61592 жыл бұрын

    Hi Rubeauti as usual you bring fantastic content! I love your videos and always await your next uploads! Keep up the good information you bring! I am dating a Filipina and have found the qualities in which you have spoken about today! I can hardly wait for her to arrive in the US to live with me! She is 25 years younger and yet we connected in such a beautiful way! She is gentle and quiet and yet encouraging in every way. My concern is that she will deal with a lot of culture shock and home sickness which is totally understandable! I have told her I will support her in every way and every step of the way! She is so loving and caring and nothing compares to her here in the US.

  • @DrDlane

    @DrDlane

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bringing her to the US is a big mistake. But hey, good luck with that.

  • @garrylafferty100

    @garrylafferty100

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm excited bringing my filipin to states i show her video 4 seasons were she will live . She can send money home from a job when they let her work . Home sick can be expected web cam helps I'm also in wide age gap 25 + know her 5 years so i trust her. Bringing them to American will ruin a good Filipina i hear that a lot i dont buy that I'm retired so i can help her every step of the way there is a Philippines organization 30 min from me i have good family friends neighbor who cant wait to meet her who respect my choice

  • @aritst_abroad
    @aritst_abroad2 жыл бұрын

    My Filipina makes me feel like a man she treats me right and is amazing. I am very loyal loving and respectful. My Filipina doesn't like public kissing I am respecting her wishes I can hold hands and hug but only in private I can kiss. I love my Filipina

  • @marc11991199
    @marc119911992 жыл бұрын

    This is a beautiful vid and so true. My Filipino gf is right here with me in London, where I met her, and is the most loving person I have ever met

  • @tanman158
    @tanman1582 жыл бұрын

    I've had many relationships here in the US with American women and they didn't end well. I met a Filipino thru a friend online and it's the BEST thing I've ever done! Happily married for 7 years now. She's AMAZING .

  • @martypoll
    @martypoll2 жыл бұрын

    I am new to your channel. I like that you were tactful in your comparison between the two cultures. I was married 34 years so never actually dated in the US but this seems to be a fair description of growing up in America.

  • @jasonwhitacre4958
    @jasonwhitacre49582 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful video and very well spoken on the subject Rebeauti. Those are most of the reasons I seek a filipina, and have a trip planned just to take in the culture. I am sure there are some old fashion western ladies that have the same views and treat people as they want to be treated. I believe in being equal with my partner but also want to be let open doors, pay for dinner and going out sometimes and also want to be let to love an be romantic an spontaneous as I see fit making sure she always knows how important and appreciated and special she is. Maybe one day I will find the one God has planned for me, but until then I live my life and be happy and thankful for all I have. Just a few thoughts. Take care and as always cherish the moments ✌

  • @Edward.....
    @Edward.....2 жыл бұрын

    I like the way you carefully phrased things - highlighting the differences without straying too far into "one is better than the other" … these differences are, indeed, the spice of life! Nice video, Rubeauti

  • @johnanderson8096

    @johnanderson8096

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well said!!!

  • @filipinawanderer255

    @filipinawanderer255

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @liberalistbat6352

    @liberalistbat6352

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nah, completely disagree. One is absolutely better than the other.

  • @chuck26241
    @chuck262412 жыл бұрын

    My eyes are blue and I'm not going to change that 🤣😂❤️ TC Ru. Your content will grow your channel. Keep up the great work, shared.

  • @spincube5734
    @spincube57342 жыл бұрын

    Well prepared and presented Ru, thanx !!!!!

  • @Niftynorm1
    @Niftynorm12 жыл бұрын

    I always enjoy how you get to the heart of the issue and are still very nice about the discussion. I think it goes both ways in the west: Men and women can be demanding and rude regarding what they want. I cannot imagine saying something to a persons face because they didn't meet my ideal. Attitude and understanding are what set Filipinas apart from western women and it is so very refreshing. Thank you for a great video.

  • @filipinawanderer255

    @filipinawanderer255

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @RCFSULAW
    @RCFSULAW2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. What most Filipinas do not realize is that foreigners consider Tampo, selosa and hiya immature and if it goes on over a period of time he will break up with her. Especially with hiya as many times it involves multiple lies to save face and the item being covered up is nothing compared to the lying. If she will lie about little things she will lie about big things. Selosa to most foreigners is the same as accusing him of cheating. If a Filipina would do this to me she will get her wish as I will break up and find another Filipina who is open and honest from the onset. That is what is the basis of a beautiful friendship in a relationship which is good communication. And if she is on Facebook leaving comments on other men's profiles or chatting on Messenger she is disrespecting her foreigner. Chismos or gossip is terrible because if the Filipina is discussing her personal life with friends and relatives and the foreigner finds out her will be beyond furious. And lastly, if she expects a foreigner to take care of her family she most likely will find herself looking for another foreigner. Most American women know not to make these mistakes as they know that he will not put up with that garbage. Most of the Western foreigners coming to the Philippines are looking for a beautiful and genuine Filipina. They will respect her family but won't be dating her family. We are not going to play the role of an ATM. However we will treat our Filipina exceptionally well.

  • @edmhie1

    @edmhie1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not if a guy is as old as you. I thought you're just interested in bar girl.

  • @c.a.c.inthespotlight9066
    @c.a.c.inthespotlight9066 Жыл бұрын

    Just found your channel today and immediately subscribed! I am listening to this video and planning to do a reaction video soon. Thanks for sharing your honest opinions.

  • @philiplivingston2776
    @philiplivingston27762 жыл бұрын

    Excellent episode about a controversial subject. I learned a lot! Thank you, Rubeauti♥

  • @MG77740
    @MG777402 жыл бұрын

    100% accurate. Everyone loves Filipino women. I’ve seen a great many successful relationships with Filipina women. They are a dream.

  • @charlessteward1984
    @charlessteward19842 жыл бұрын

    Great insight on this topic I guess we should always choose wisely.

  • @E46_wagonlover
    @E46_wagonlover2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve never been treated right by the women of my own country. Is one Filipino that I knew from my past treated me how I wanted to be and I developed a crush on her but she was a senior and I was a freshman. My father met the love of his life in a Filipino man and he is the sweetest person I ever met. I went to the Philippines with him and was introduced to his niece and I am happy with her.

  • @biggoonkanye2989
    @biggoonkanye29892 жыл бұрын

    Great vid. Very informative. Thanks

  • @albertjohnson9692
    @albertjohnson96922 жыл бұрын

    Good speech my dear, I watch your videos very often and I enjoy your videos to the last, I wish you all the best.

  • @brianbaxter3913
    @brianbaxter39132 жыл бұрын

    Hi Rebeauti. Looking very lovely as always. Good topic and have to agree with what you are saying. The worse thing is the tampo. It is better to talk about the problem rather then sulk about something. It is how you learn about someone and how you know what they like and don't like. If you just stop talking to your partner you will never solve anything. I do chat to more then one lady there but have made no promises to anyone. For me it is very important to meet in person so you see how you interact with each other when you spend all your time together. And yes they know I chat to more than one and they know why. I have met too many people that are not the same in person as online. You have made some good comparisons between east and west. Each side has to learn the other ones culture and take one day at a time to learn. I have seen a few videos on this topic and everyone says almost the same thing. But it is good to hear different views. Keep smiling and stay safe

  • @WindmillChef
    @WindmillChef2 жыл бұрын

    Very well done Rubi, You said things that need to be said and did in a way that, I believe you didn't really offend anyone.

  • @JColombani1
    @JColombani1 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your views. I enjoyed your talk.

  • @KinteDynasty
    @KinteDynasty2 жыл бұрын

    Nice touch at the end with you just sitting there finishing your drink.

  • @brunosvlog24k
    @brunosvlog24k2 жыл бұрын

    I LISTENED TO THIS VIDEO AND YOUR RELAXING VOICE WHILE DRIVING MY CAR TODAY…THE WHOLE VIDEO. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @timwiebe1453
    @timwiebe1453 Жыл бұрын

    Another well thought out video 👏🏻 you give us hope that there is chance for true love in the Philippines.

  • @Rubeauti

    @Rubeauti

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🤗 I'm so glad you appreciate the video. Love is worth the wait and I'm so happy it's inspiring you. 💛

  • @richbelog2117
    @richbelog21172 жыл бұрын

    Excellent topic and spot on on all phases. After two failed relationships I personally don’t find anything good about western influenced women. Keep up the great work you’re doing a great job.

  • @PresentFocus
    @PresentFocus Жыл бұрын

    I like your comments on loyalty.

  • @JohnSmith-bz9be
    @JohnSmith-bz9be2 жыл бұрын

    Well done Rubeauti. Another fine topic to discuss. :)

  • @samuelbiesecker3930
    @samuelbiesecker3930 Жыл бұрын

    What attracted me to my Filipino woman was she’s family oriented she’s kind she tells you what’s on your mind her mine and yours and she works so hard I love her so much and she believes in teamwork and that’s what I believe that’s what I was looking for I love her so much she’s an incredible woman she works hard as a caregiver across the country❤

  • @serenityssolace
    @serenityssolace2 жыл бұрын

    You were very respectful and don't worry. You didn't offend anyone. If any western woman gets offended with that, then she is the type that would get offended by anything😆 Great video!

  • @Leonard369C
    @Leonard369C2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Rubeauti, thank you for your tactful approach to this topic. I think what account for many of the differences has less to do with east and west and is more the product of advancement, in an advanced society there are conditions that mold the women that do not exist in some developing countries. This can even be seen inside the same country, an example would be the women n in Manila behaves very differently than the women from the province. And women in New York City behave very differently than women from the country parts of Mississippi.

  • @JenGioPhilippineJourney
    @JenGioPhilippineJourney2 жыл бұрын

    I admire the Filipino woman. that's why I married a Filipino woman. she's amazing and wonderful lady and keeps me laughing and happy. Best woman in the world are in the Philippines 🇵🇭 ❤ 💕 ♥ 💖 💙

  • @whyeff21
    @whyeff21 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for letting me know!

  • @scotthummer1319
    @scotthummer13192 жыл бұрын

    Rubeauti so much of what you said is so true. Many American men have given up on finding love it does not exist here. Thank you.

  • @nw1816

    @nw1816

    2 жыл бұрын

    My whole life has been a disaster with american women. From the first woman I ever dated at 18 to now at 58. Found out after 2 weeks the first woman I dated was engaged to be married. That just disgusted me. And from there it's continued in the same manner. They say they love you but a few years later their on to the next guy. Like Rich Cooper says " it not your girl, it's just your turn". I married a Filipina in my mid forties and it lasted 9 years. When she was going thru menopause after about a year she became very jealous because her hair started to fall out and I was accused of cheating on her, it couldn't be further from the truth. Unfortunately, she filed and got her divorce. I sure hope all Filipinas aren't the same way.

  • @filipinawanderer255

    @filipinawanderer255

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @duane7033

    @duane7033

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@nw1816 most Filipinas are not like that, they are very loyal to you. I have been married to a Filipina for almost 20 years

  • @yeshuaeltrust844
    @yeshuaeltrust8442 жыл бұрын

    You are very wise for your age ,I applaud you rebeauti ,you are very inchanting as well as lovely 🌹. continue the great work, thx for your education and assistance dear. God bless!

  • @themceastlands
    @themceastlands2 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff, we just subscribed

  • @cbbc4449
    @cbbc44492 жыл бұрын

    Love your videos! Salamat kaayo!

  • @johannvandermerwe4826
    @johannvandermerwe48262 жыл бұрын

    Good points made Rubeauty. I think the single mom crisis, pandemic in a way, is the one issue that I tried to understand better. As a Westerner I accept that but agree that it does lift eyebrows about loyalty, upbringing, morality and so on.... Thank you for interesting points...

  • @kingmaafa120

    @kingmaafa120

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lots of single moms in the 🇵🇭 Check the stats They’re beautiful women them 🇵🇭men not oblivious to that fact

  • @night1961
    @night1961 Жыл бұрын

    Distance is the biggest obstacle in either direction .

  • @Mike-nu4ce
    @Mike-nu4ce2 жыл бұрын

    Your video was spot on. Good Job

  • @disciplekevin1140
    @disciplekevin11402 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for another great video 🌺

  • @renzen4318
    @renzen43182 жыл бұрын

    I commend you for supporting another vlogger, the Filipina Pea

  • @KinteDynasty

    @KinteDynasty

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh I didn't hear My Sweet Pea mentioned, I missed that....

  • @jaytrance4986
    @jaytrance49862 жыл бұрын

    Hello Rubeauti. Nice video. I think you have it right concerning the behavior of western (American) women. Personally I would never consider marrying one of them. One aspect of western men that maybe you might want to explore..... A lot of us find Asian women to more physically attractive than their western counterparts. I think we just are drawn to Asian women because of their beautiful hair, skin tone, and generally petite frames. IE, moth to the flame!!! Maybe you can explore that aspect western men. Salamat Rubeauti for your insight. I follow several filipina vloggers but I find you to be one of my favorites. Be Happy Be Safe.

  • @KinteDynasty
    @KinteDynasty2 жыл бұрын

    I like the videos, keep them up...

  • @RJRussoVids
    @RJRussoVids2 жыл бұрын

    Femininity is such a wonderful quality. It’s sad to watch it become a rare thing here in the US.

  • @cebedojames

    @cebedojames

    2 жыл бұрын

    A lot of women in USA thinks its bad to be Feminine because they think it means they wont be equal with Men. A a lot of feminists dont realize that we were never supposed to be equal! We are different but complementary. Just like the Sun and the Moon. They work together. Imagine the world with Two Suns and Two Moons. It doesn't work!

  • @tomriddle6968

    @tomriddle6968

    Жыл бұрын

    It's an endangered species. I don't think I know even one old fashioned woman

  • @allentolbert8404
    @allentolbert84042 жыл бұрын

    I agree with everything you said great video 🙏 ❤ 🇺🇸 stay safe

  • @talltree8697
    @talltree8697 Жыл бұрын

    There's a big difference there is no need for words it speaks for itself

  • @VistaLatin
    @VistaLatin2 жыл бұрын

    Hello Miss Rubeati, Great topic, as a man who was Married twice, divorced twice in the West, I know a little about Western women...I can actually describe Western women without leaving rude comments, I'd say they all have a "privileged" attitude...what's in it for me?? Unfortunately many of our Western men also display the privileged attitudes...example, when I was about to sign my apartment contract in Dumaguete, the apartment manager asked me one thing..she said "please don't be like the rest of the foreigners who live here, they complain about everything ". She proceeded to explain that sometimes children play in the patio during the day and make noise..well, my apartment is directly across from the patio and I only heard them playing once, wasn't loud, and I could hear only bc my front door was open..case #2, I was walking down the Robinson's mall one day, and noted 5 people whom were not wearing their mask, ALL were foreigners..took a picture sent to my sister in Alaska and told her, this is why we're not liked in many countries..it's our privileged attitude..case# 3, was in a train in Europe, one of those with sleep beds, was around midnight when I was waken by a bunch of drunk Americans being abnoxioouly loud..again I'm American, can do whatever...well our female counterparts are even worse than our men..you can simply go on KZread, and search unruly passengers, and you'll come across thousands of cases....most were women... but you get the picture...that's is the reason I'm retired in the Phillipines... Phew!!, thank you for the opportunity to vent ha, ha, ha...

  • @johnbobson1557

    @johnbobson1557

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bang on Ernie...

  • @starshine4550
    @starshine4550 Жыл бұрын

    Very well said ...ma'am

  • @thebg8774
    @thebg87742 жыл бұрын

    All the points you made are valid... and it has only gotten worse in the last 20 years... I lived in the Philippines for 11 months in 1982. I loved the people and especially the beautiful women. ;) I knew when I got on the plane to go back to the west that I had been "ruined" for life (😂). What I mean is that after experiencing how a Filapina treats her "man" going back to the west was going to be very dissapointing... If was, however now I am planning my return (to stay) and am excited to live in a place where women respect who they are AND who you are and life can once again be an exciting and rewarding journey... See you soon! 😎#theBaldGorilla

  • @m5dragontechsavvy399
    @m5dragontechsavvy399 Жыл бұрын

    Phillipine's greatest asset are its mothers and women, followed by gorgeous pristine beaches! Everything else just gets in the way of enjoying them. "Be like Water"....is actually practised there!

  • @Ilovedthephilippines
    @Ilovedthephilippines2 жыл бұрын

    Trust me everything you said was correct 100%

  • @derekrobbins6800
    @derekrobbins68002 жыл бұрын

    Great video....your English is impeccable, where did you learn to such a high standard?

  • @martypoll
    @martypoll2 жыл бұрын

    I have to say my first experience with tampo, the Thai version of it, was a total surprise to me. I never heard of anything like it in the US.

  • @richardsteinbergmakingknives
    @richardsteinbergmakingknives2 жыл бұрын

    Great video! My LDR of two years is waiting for me. As soon as the Covid Vax requirement is dropped I'll be on the next plane. I am looking forward to starting a manufacturing business out there and settling down with my Filipina family.

  • @richardsteinbergmakingknives

    @richardsteinbergmakingknives

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fastasashark6988 Well thanks for those encouraging words fish. But in reality, elements of the government and media have been very vocal, in the last two weeks, regarding dropping all the covid restrictions to bring back tourism. Money is a huge motivator for the new president. Also, everyone is clearly not vaccinated, there or anywhere. A vast percentage of the population has refused to get vaxed. They are not as subordinated as people in the west believe. My opinion of course...

  • @jamesvreeland2632
    @jamesvreeland26322 жыл бұрын

    Again a very enjoyable and informative episode. Every man in the world should be lucky enough to have a pinay g/f or wife. It is so true that filipino women are more feminine, age better and not nearly as moody as western women. If a had to choose the greatest attribute a Pinay possesses I would promptly reply ' Filipino women are less confrontational than western women'. They don't care who can shout the loudest or whose fault it is or who wins the dispute. I wish I had discovered filipino women so many years ago. The only disagreements I have with my lovely Pinay Princess fiance is when I want to spend money on her but she won't let me. I AM TRULY BLESSED.

  • @phaetorherkan1057
    @phaetorherkan10578 ай бұрын

    Excellent statement! Tradition is our basis, always current, just like the "old school". Without these foundations, people are disorientated and often unstable until they find the right place in their lives. This is not granted to everyone...

  • @Fire2Hot911
    @Fire2Hot9112 жыл бұрын

    Great job on all your videos

  • @talltree4252
    @talltree42522 жыл бұрын

    True in experience I've been with African , American, Australian,new Zealand, European, Asian, and I can seriously mention so many topics behaviours culture relationship politics about input output extraction benifits sex attitude racism facts intimacy dreams adventure travel you name it ...but the problem is that the truth is offensive even how you put it in wording so I can only tell you this the warning signs are there it's how you use your insight precautions that prevalence adaptation leads to a life of contentment because all women look at how you carry yourself how you invest your money how you respond towards them I will not mention the difference between their origin backgrounds and mind set because it's a high risk factors that may be offended..it's self explanatory it speaks for itself that is the best answer to write.

  • @hdcordes6299
    @hdcordes62992 жыл бұрын

    It is not that you are not "equal". It is just there are 2 different roles in a relationship. I have responsibilities and duties to you as a man just as you have a role and responsibilities as a woman. The problem is too many western women are not being women because they are busy trying to prove how good of a man they can be.

  • @krakerjak3

    @krakerjak3

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @johncrouch1772
    @johncrouch17722 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing.

  • @rdually
    @rdually2 жыл бұрын

    You are right on the money, 100%

  • @stewy4158
    @stewy41582 жыл бұрын

    Your comments on the western women is spot on 👍 , I remember that show that is how I get treated 👎, I usually just smile and walk away.

  • @BarryFerguson33
    @BarryFerguson332 жыл бұрын

    One thing you forgot to mention is what happens to Filipinas when they come to the west. They seem to become too westernized. That’s what happened to me. I brought my wife here back in the 1990’s and she became just like American women. She was all about the money and being selfish. It’s kind of funny because I’ve been around Filipino people for the past 30 years and I’ve seen how beautiful the Filipina is and I never saw that in my wife. This is why I am coming to the Philippines. You are definitely right about the differences between Filipinas and western women. This was a very good video and I can see just what a beautiful person you are. Im hoping to meet a nice Filipina who exhibits those great attributes and will treat me the way I would treat her. Love your channel. I always look forward to your insights. Take care and be well.

  • @longbeach225

    @longbeach225

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Con Descending Its true. 95% of the time tis starts when she meets a crazy feminist.

  • @CindysBisvlog

    @CindysBisvlog

    Жыл бұрын

    She is not genuine in the beggining ,because normal genuine filipina dont get easily influence by others ,or culture simple as that

  • @12B4Christ

    @12B4Christ

    Жыл бұрын

    How would Rebeauti know how to answer your point? She didn't forget, she doesn't live in the west to understand how the west influences conservative foreigners. We know its true, but you can't expect her to answer something she hasn't witnessed from our side...

  • @davidgalbraith7367
    @davidgalbraith7367 Жыл бұрын

    well done, thank you.

  • @outdoorswithbobbymayo5763
    @outdoorswithbobbymayo5763 Жыл бұрын

    You make me wish I would have moved to the Philippines a long time ago. Seems like the perfect place to me.

  • @jefferysilzer6413
    @jefferysilzer64132 жыл бұрын

    Always a true view of what one can expect!! Love you bunches sweetheart!!❣

  • @andylondon9635
    @andylondon96352 жыл бұрын

    Good video thank you x

  • @steekohoopdy4201
    @steekohoopdy4201 Жыл бұрын

    When westerners marry each other it is still often two individuals, let's say two Kobe Bryant's on the same team. When a westerner marrys a Filipina it's more Like Jordan and Pippen, working together for a common goal. I believe this is reflected in the divorce statistics

  • @jlawrence0181
    @jlawrence01812 жыл бұрын

    Two comments: 1) How is tampo that much different from "the silent treatment" that most Western guys get when their wives are not happy. I will admit that there is generally less drama and theatrics involved. 2) A lot of YOUR image of Western women comes from reality and other TV shows or from divorces guys who have run off to the Philippines. If you knew more happily married American couples, you might have a different view of things. Filipinas on KZread especially seem to think that they are the only ones with strong families values. Honestly, many of the family values practiced by many families stem from their Catholic beliefs and are not that much different from those of Catholics across the world.

  • @longbeach225

    @longbeach225

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hmmmm? According to stats divorce rate is 50% in the US and women are likely to initiate a divorce at a rate of 70% which is high. Also if a woman makes more than a man she is likely to divorce her man. While this does not apply to everyone in America, but it does apply to a majority. Very few marriage are able to sustain in America. If a man falls on financial hard times, divorce is likely as well. What she said about the woman meeting up a man at bar is pretty accurate. Its well known among men if an attractive man hits on a woman its called flirting while a man that is average looking is called harassment, hence the disrespect. So Rubeauti assessment on western relations between man and woman is pretty correct. Yes Filipinos have a strong culture definitely more stronger than American culture. In the US, people will ditch their Thanksgiving dinner with family early to go line up at Walmart a for a $ 200 dollar TV for Black Friday. Doesn't sound like we have strong culture or family values here.

  • @therealmvp232

    @therealmvp232

    Жыл бұрын

    @@longbeach225 Philippines would have a high divorce rate to if they could do it.. they just start new relationships with other people while still legally married

  • @Ian-iu2tl
    @Ian-iu2tl Жыл бұрын

    Feminism...yep...the scourge of western society. The first question I asked my Filipina "Are you a feminist?" the answer was quick and concise..."NO" But tampo...yeah...that's another hurdle for me... it comes when you least expect it and you have to be an empath to read the mind of your Fiipina...a fair trade off for all the good that comes with a fine Filipina. Life is good, so let's keep it that way.

  • @tvstarks
    @tvstarks2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Rubeauti! About 99% of what you said I believe is true about western women :-) I always enjoy your content and your company in your videos. You are very intelligent and sincere… And I like your values very much. I'm sure you get asked this all the time, but I will take a risk anyway. Are you already dating someone or have a husband? Keep up the great work! I pray for you all the best :-)

  • @jimtwotowns931

    @jimtwotowns931

    Жыл бұрын

    Rubeauti is the kind of girl that every single man want as a forever partner...a dream girl for every man

  • @raethdarkflame1292
    @raethdarkflame12922 жыл бұрын

    My last trip there a few months ago, I was surprised to get compliments about my green eyes. Here, I get told that it’s too bad they aren’t as bright as they used to be.

  • @walterperry4565
    @walterperry45652 жыл бұрын

    How are they different physically, like up here and down there?

  • @Altaire7
    @Altaire72 жыл бұрын

    The issue you talked about where Filipinas don't like confrontation and just go tampo is very real and a real problem. Westerners are used to being able to address and discuss problems. At least in my experience my filipina will just not talk about anything when I bring up an issue. So I have to choose whether to just drop it or break up. It eventually led to me breaking up. Now she's back and talking as if there's no issue at all and we're still together😐 I'm like uh no, the issue is still there sweetie and still needs to be dealt with...

  • @GUITARTIME2024

    @GUITARTIME2024

    2 жыл бұрын

    You didn't stick to the breakup. She doesn't respect you. You have to be the leader and go no contact, because she's not a proper partner. Sack up.

  • @stephenmitchell7915
    @stephenmitchell79152 жыл бұрын

    Within the past week or so, I saw a story on Yahoo news, about a woman that was suing a man in court for not meeting her expectations on a date! I did not read it, but the summary mentioned that the judge did not think she understood much about the law. Where Filipina get competitive is with each other! How many times have you (a fellow Filipina) approached a couple on the street and the Filipina grabs the man's hand and makes it clear that he is taken!

  • @MrAce1dawg
    @MrAce1dawg2 жыл бұрын

    awesome video nice breakdown of the differences. and if i could be a genie i would definitely want to be turned into that straw lol just a little humor

  • @ronnalscammahorn8002
    @ronnalscammahorn8002 Жыл бұрын

    Dear lady 🌹 conversation rules the nation , don't sugarcoat don't be shy , be straight forward and up front . Anything less is unfair to yourself and others .

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti32862 жыл бұрын

    The Filipina Loyalty part is Great because I am the same way!! and that I don't want to talk to any other Women and I Tell that her that the Jealously Part is OK!! For Both of Our Protection as long as it doesn't affect my Christian Sister Friends!!!

  • @charleshueckstaedt5064
    @charleshueckstaedt50642 жыл бұрын

    salamat.....................

  • @gailmaplesden7380
    @gailmaplesden73802 жыл бұрын

    You are absolutely correct in your assessment and as women get older they expect more when in fact they have already lost what any man is looking for in a woman. As women age they loose value and as men age they gain value in what a relationship is for which is family. In the old days men didn't marry until they were established and had a home to bring their wife to and not their parents home . Often times they married a much younger women who could give them a large family. American women wait until they are established to start their families but quite often they wait to long and then have issues and troubled children with handicaps . Western men are tired of it and are looking for a woman with the values that they grew up with.

  • @brunosvlog24k
    @brunosvlog24k2 жыл бұрын

    PLEASE DO A VIDEO ON FIL-AM’s! (Filipino-Americans) 🇵🇭 🇺🇸

  • @dobspatto4830
    @dobspatto48302 жыл бұрын

    If I met a Filipino like yourself I would be very happy. 😍❤️. Dobspato England

  • @Roadglide59
    @Roadglide592 жыл бұрын

    The way that you avoid controversy and avoid hurting any feelings, is an exact mirror image of why we seek Filipina wives. You are sensitive and caring. Thank you for another enlightened video.

  • @filipinawanderer255

    @filipinawanderer255

    2 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/qKNsvMZmZc2xYdY.html

  • @Dropshipping102

    @Dropshipping102

    2 жыл бұрын

    She nailed it exactly

  • @duffydieu122
    @duffydieu122 Жыл бұрын

    you were spot on about western woman ,,, I stopped dating 5 years ago and just started talking to a filipino lady ,,, and I mean a real lady ........ its so refreshing

  • @cryptocurrencychat
    @cryptocurrencychat2 жыл бұрын

    I love it when you play with your hair..ito ay maganda