He claims women don’t even have hobbies?? How strange. It might be safe to assume this guy must not have much experience with women in general.

@2007Shockwave

2 жыл бұрын

Not even to that point in the video, but I feel you have to be insane to have that sort of take! Don't care which side of the spectrum you are on. Disavow his thoughts from the conservative side.

@bizzzzzzle

2 жыл бұрын

@@2007Shockwave idk, most in early 20s really don’t, they just browse social media, and want to party.

@chanr9531

2 жыл бұрын

“Tell me you’ve never had any meaningful interactions with a women without telling me that”

@skullingtonfx4441

2 жыл бұрын

@@bizzzzzzle literally lies lol

@annakis2795

2 жыл бұрын

@@bizzzzzzle wtf nope

It’s crazy how he’s flipping between complaining that women don’t have passions but then switching to complaining that women have the wrong passions and careers and should just be baby makers

@intermediate212

2 жыл бұрын

Redpill moment

@TonyCox1351

2 жыл бұрын

My favorite was “women are biologically better at raising children” and “why aren’t men getting custody in the divorce”

@kev792

2 жыл бұрын

@@TonyCox1351 The contradiction is crazy 😂😂

@Kim-Yo-jong

Жыл бұрын

You passion shouldn't be your career it should be something that actually makes you happy outside of work. Majority of the time your job isn't going to be that enjoyable especially under capitalism.

@kev792

Жыл бұрын

@@Kim-Yo-jong Your career doesn’t HAVE to be your passion, but you at least have to make sure you like doing what you do, or at least having a lot of fun outside of work if you hate your job. Don’t understand the last part.

"We have a generation of kids raised by nannies". Welcome to most of child reering in wealthy households throughout history.

@ShinyFood

2 жыл бұрын

exactly my thoughts lmao

@plushtrbl6831

2 жыл бұрын

@@panaccoman yes

@KsandrPann

2 жыл бұрын

@@panaccoman yes

@barneystinson2781

2 жыл бұрын

That doesn't mean it is a good thing

@KsandrPann

2 жыл бұрын

@@barneystinson2781 cool. Wasn’t the point of OP’s comment

“They’re lonely, friendless losers grinding their 100th game of league”… ok bud, that was a bit fucking personal

@nicholasjacobs6605

2 жыл бұрын

He's just predicting his future after he's burned all his bridges lol.

@chpgmr1372

2 жыл бұрын

@@nicholasjacobs6605 It already is his life.

@666MaRius9991

2 жыл бұрын

@@nicholasjacobs6605 Torch everything!! 😈

@pogo8050

2 жыл бұрын

@@nicholasjacobs6605 tbf Destiny is set for life so he can do that

@C1umsyJester

2 жыл бұрын

@@pogo8050 facts, once you have that money to live the rest of your life you can choose what you wanna do

I'm all for holding women accountable for bad behavior and holding people up to standards, but this dude is wild. I think he's at a point where he doesnt feel women will appreciate his qualities and has created a "women are trash" armor to keep from being depressed.

@plsdontbanmeagainyoulibtards

2 жыл бұрын

it's severe copium.

@chanr9531

2 жыл бұрын

Yup, man’s gone overboard and now looks like he’s just coping

@bestdjaf7499

2 жыл бұрын

It's not necessary true. For example, age is extremely important. I literally refuse to date. For me, it's mostly stands from the expectations women have for men & female behavior. Just look around. You can't expect anything from a woman. Men on the other hand have to do everything. I have to work like a horse supporting her & I have to entertain her. And I know exactly what will happen, if I get married. I will be working 12 hours a day to make money & massage her & cook & clean.... And she will be complaining that I don't love her & dont spend time with her.... So at some point she will start sleeping around, & one day she will take the kids & leave. And she will accuse me of some sort of emotional/sexual abuse. Dude, just look at the "good" married guys. They look like the abused animals.

@xiqy1959

2 жыл бұрын

Except most of his statements were true. Take his experience or not, there is a reason that more and more men are going their own way or abandoning the west in search of good relationships. Easterners just don’t eat hot chip and lie 😂

@tanotano1176

2 жыл бұрын

@@bestdjaf7499 lmao, I'm just imagining all these created scenarios flash in your head to hold off the feeling of loneliness. "Sorry femoid, but I wont date you, because, after we get married, you will become a nagging leech who will cheat on me with some chad in 12 years, I'll just save me the trouble and be miserable right away, bitch". I really, really hope you're just young.

I like how everything this guy says continually proves further and further that he's just mad and spiteful that every woman thinks he's a loser. Especially when he started raging at the other guy even tho he pretends to not care

@Hooga89

2 жыл бұрын

As much as I don't disagree with this assessment, why is 1 conservative invited to a debate with several liberals/progressives who were clearly hostile at the mere existence of the guy in the first place? As much as the guy has bad arguments and comes across as a dick, it's not like the people he's talking to are being nice people either. They are being very passive-aggressive and condescending stereotypes themselves.

@SirZipper

2 жыл бұрын

@@Hooga89 The dude is making insane claims, anyone normal person would think they're being extremely patient with the dude.

@Hooga89

2 жыл бұрын

@@hatdags102 He didn't though. He came out of the gate using standard conservative talking points, and everyone responded by being awkwardly silent in a very cringe-worthy way, and one guy started to pick a fight immediately by making it personal. The entire "debate" is pathetic all-around, and it isn't just coming from him alone.

@Godsabum

2 жыл бұрын

@@Hooga89 the first thing he said in this clip was some dumb shit about Trans people should be allowed in sports because it'd be "funny". If he got butt hurt because people treated his edge lord teenager grade comment with the derision it deserved, that's on him.

@tarfielarchelone2674

2 жыл бұрын

@@Hooga89 if that makes you feel better fine

The funny thing about these guys is that they’ll swear up and down that being a housewife/mommy is biologically programmed into women, it’s innate and inevitable and just an instrinsic part of their psyche….. while simultaneously having to fight tooth and nail to convince women of this 😂 so how innate can it really be when you have to do the most to convince them of this?? If it’s so inherent to the very atoms of their DNA then why do you have to try to force them to be this way, shouldn’t they just automatically be this way and not need any convincing or coercion?

@randybobandy9828

2 жыл бұрын

Being a man is In our DNA yet we have many deciding they are women...so

@HP-sq2fp

2 жыл бұрын

@@randybobandy9828 being a biological male is in your DNA, trans women are not claiming they are biologically female.

@randybobandy9828

2 жыл бұрын

@@HP-sq2fp lol they sure are pretending

@wisemage0

2 жыл бұрын

I think the idea is that "feminism ruined modern women".

@HOVNA

2 жыл бұрын

I mean it's pretty simple. Women don't just have kids for fun, they are not stupid. The economy makes it hard/risky to have a kid and the isolation puts women away from other children of other friends/family/neighbors. I know it's kind of a meme that getting a child is contagious in a friend group and that's because people often think of children as a time/money burden first, and as a child second. And it's not just a woman thing, it's just more pronounced in women since they are the ones baring the children.

This guy never took care of a baby in his life if he handwaves it away like “take care of them then go have fun lol” like it’s not a 24/7 job?

@Theo-vn9hm

2 жыл бұрын

It shouldn't even be a matter of taking care of a baby, I have never taken care of one in my 20 years and all you have to do is observe your parents taking care of younger siblings, aunts or uncles taking care of nephews, or just about anyone to reason yourself to the conclusion that being a good parent is more than just a full time job Unless you're fine with them being raised by cocomelon on an iPad or something like that, and even then you still have shit to do

@yoyohayli

Жыл бұрын

Babies literally spend every waking moment of their lives trying to kill themselves. It's like they fight tooth and nail to find some way to send themselves back to the oblivion from whence they came. If you're not attentive to that kid all the fucking time, you're going to jail and will have one less child.

I don't know much about women but I can't imagine NO woman has any goals beyond having kids and stay home - we'd have higher birth rates if that's the case.

@damiantirado9616

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly and there’s nothing with women not having their only goal to have children

@theloniuspunk383

2 жыл бұрын

they are mostly obedient people and we put them in charge so everything is f'd beyond help now haha

@nunnie768

2 жыл бұрын

@@theloniuspunk383 who's obedient and in charge?

@jayfron6012

2 жыл бұрын

Not to mention both men and women are living in a time where wages are so low compared to the cost of living/rent, that having kids and buying a house is just not in the cards

@TheSupermonkeypants

2 жыл бұрын

@@theloniuspunk383 if you take a shower, get a haircut and go for women in your league, I promise you can lose your virginity.

Imagine complaining about the selection on a dating app, claiming they're unfit and gross while he's unfit and smoking a cig in his own house as if that's not gross? Projection?

@GFTCNJ

2 жыл бұрын

You can both be right.

@Charles-pf7zy

2 жыл бұрын

Yea…. They tend to be like that. Just assume every accusation is a confession of some sorts with those types

@legin777

2 жыл бұрын

He looks like a stand in for The Mighty Mighty Bosstonnes

@jayfron6012

2 жыл бұрын

This is the typical right wing alpha-cel resume. They think women need to submit so much that guys like him can get married

@nullpha

2 жыл бұрын

@@legin777 how dare you disparage Ska like that

Sounds like he doesn't like women being able to take care of themselves, because that makes it difficult for him to get women to want to settle for him.

@ATHTSupply

11 ай бұрын

Hit the nail on the head

I hate it when ppl act like it's awesome to be a trad wife. My mom left her job to take care of me and my brother. It was a pretty shitty job but she really liked it. While I was growing up she would always tell me not to end up like her. To this day anytime I wanna stop studying I remind myself that if I don't study I'll end up having a miserable life. As far as I know a lot of girls have the same fear. If someone chooses to stay at home that's fine but saying women must stay at home is really shitty.

@laurendaryani4893

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I feel the same way. My father refused my mother to go to college or to even work after she worked her ass off helping to put him through college. Would have rather been a latchkey kid because both my parents were working, rather than be a latchkey kid because my mother had a nervous breakdown and left my overbearing father and became heavily involved in drugs. All feminism is to me is women wanting to have equal opportunity to have self-determination and agency over their own futures, whether it's to be a stay-at-home wife and/or mother or a working woman or both. Everything else is pretty much dust.

@Therhyrhy123

Жыл бұрын

@@laurendaryani4893 I have a completely different take on staying at home to raise your babies. I watched my mom take care of us and she loved every minute of it. Although before i was born she and my dad started a business and both of them would go clean houses together until they were able to hire people. But once me and my sister was born she chose to stay home and raise us while my father took care of the business. She never was misrible and to this day she says it was one of the single joys in her life. Working a 9-5 of climbing the corporate latter isnt always what its cracked up to be either and i feel like our culture tells us it is and it is what will make me happy. I did the 9-5 grind for 10 years, all i wanted at that point was to not have to work and settle down and have babies . I watched my mom work hard day in and out to provide the kind life she wanted. Honestly, I think what this comes down to is what you value in life. For my mom it was her kids, for me it will be the same. Tbh either option is fine, i just think it feels different for different people

@amna3625

Жыл бұрын

@@Therhyrhy123 My mom was an educated house wife but started working after my dad died. We needed that from her because we literally got so broke that it was hard to get food on the table. She is a working woman but that doesn't mean her family doesn't come first. It's actually a necessity for some women to work. My sisters are well educated now and working a job. One of my sisters is married and running the house with her husband. My other sister is supporting my mom. And I'm just about to finish my degree and will work a job and maybe get married after a while. So yeah just because a woman is working doesnt mean her family doesn't come first. These red pill dudes are so one dimensional, they don't even consider statistics and how its so necessary for women to work in this present day and age. Unless your husband is rich it's really difficult to meet all expensive especially from where I'm from, the inflation is rising every single day.

@missinterpretation4984

Жыл бұрын

My grandma was an ideal stay at home w 4 kids. She did everything including sewing their clothes. One day, when the kids were age ranges of 10 to 16, he literally drove away and left them with nothing. That’s back when there was no recourse and she put herself through college and got a good job and all her daughters and grand daughters never ended up like that.

@sarahrobertson634

Жыл бұрын

Trad wives are at the mercy of their cheating husbands. Good luck with that, girl!

This guy has clearly never been a father and I’d be surprised if he’s ever had a relationship; he has no clue how it works.

I’ve never heard a more detached childless statement than “You people think raising a child is a chore” 😂

@TonyCox1351

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah raising kids is about 90% chores

@willieboip

2 жыл бұрын

@@TonyCox1351 exactly, anyone who says it’s anything less than that obviously doesn’t have kids or are neglectful af lol

@TonyCox1351

2 жыл бұрын

@@willieboip when the dude said that women have it easy staying home and raising kids I almost fell over. Watching my two boys for 8 hours is 100% more draining than working my office job of 8 hours

@randybobandy9828

2 жыл бұрын

Take a shit Is a chore.

@willieboip

2 жыл бұрын

@@randybobandy9828 I take fiber supplements in the morning before my coffee, I definitely wouldn’t use the word chore for that task

This guy is literally the parody version of a conservative that lefty writers put in movies and TV shows to dunk on. Major Braincels vibes!

@henriklarssen1331

2 жыл бұрын

Iam a conservative in many areas, but i dont wanne have anything to do with that guy.

@jamescampbell8482

2 жыл бұрын

@@henriklarssen1331 Well God bless you for that lol

@iamwritingrightnow8217

2 жыл бұрын

The dude has a severe case of being terminally online. Major Incel „Niceguy“ vibes

@iurivanastacio3081

2 жыл бұрын

Edgelord reddit

@cookiemonsta3350

2 жыл бұрын

That guy is just a regular American conservative inner monologue. The problem is that generation over generation Americans have been bombarded with propaganda. So the regular conservative it's the products of this. You guys are not free of thoughts as you think you are. You have been program since before and after civil war. Basically most conservative positions can be track to Elites greed, Power hungry, mysoginia, racism and revenge(civil war). Inmigración: You can say whatever you want to back you position, but deep down or not so deep it's because they are browns. Assault weapons: A mix of Greedy Elites (lobbying), Power hungry, mysoginistic and male insecurities and the revenge against the government (The old wound of civil war). Abortion and woman bashing: mysoginistic control, male insecurities, power hungry. Welfare/free healthcare/ raise minimum wage opposition, : Lazy brown and black people getting "freebies" (racism). Against Elites interests. Police misconduct/ Abuse: Black and brown control old/new slavery. Power hungry, mysoginistic insecurities, Elite culture (do not question the authority of who is above you) Hate of LGBT: Male insecurities ( closeted or fear of feeling attraction to dress up queers), Racism, hate everyone different. Power hungry of control and make everything to be as your self image.

This guy is pretty much my tired vision of Conservatives. People delusional enough to want the vision of America shown in 1950's cold war propaganda made reality.

@umangmalik

2 жыл бұрын

imagine having politics so boring that even your unachievable utopia is a suburban culturally void hellscape. Conservatism really is a prison of the mind.

@anti-emo4721

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Most men would actually like that to be a reality, but the problem is they themselves aren't like the men in those commercials!

@MeanStreamFraudCast

2 жыл бұрын

@@cwilliams6884 he is right. Right in the trash.

@jayfron6012

2 жыл бұрын

@@CaliMex96 get ready for a delusional answer

@zambot264

2 жыл бұрын

Look at Japan, China, south Korea. "Left over" women. The future of the US.

Imagine this guy accusing Destiny of having tired ideas lmao

@falseprophet1024

2 жыл бұрын

Imagine thinking the average man lives in his basement and plays league.. lmao..

@onlyeveryone2253

2 жыл бұрын

@@falseprophet1024 I believe he is referring to the avereage grinding poster.

@theloniuspunk383

2 жыл бұрын

that is itself a tired idea "muh 50s housewife" too much tv brain bro

@falseprophet1024

2 жыл бұрын

@@onlyeveryone2253 I dont know what that means. Whats a grinding poster?

@falseprophet1024

2 жыл бұрын

@@onlyeveryone2253 Also that wouldnt make sense in the context. He responded to a comment about women in general. If he is talking about what you claim, then he basically said the average loser is a loser.. not sure what that adds to the convo..

For the life of me I can't figure out why our guy here is having trouble finding a woman

@krombopulos_michael

2 жыл бұрын

It's because all women are just too lousy for him, definitely not that they find anything about him unattractive

@gcfournier3386

2 жыл бұрын

🤣

@MrCmon113

Жыл бұрын

You're spanning the cart before the horse.

@ihanakaunotar2741

Жыл бұрын

Lmaooooo 😂😂😂

The disconnect is just mind numbing with these guys. "If I could just stay home, cook, clean, and raise kids, that sounds great." "You've never had anything in your life that you wanted to accomplish?" "Well of course I do, but they don't. Women don't even have hobbies."

@mickeybeavison1053

2 жыл бұрын

"If I could just stay home, cook, clean, and raise kids, that sounds great." whats wrong with someone saying this? Do you realize most of the world is happy with this, and is how the world has survived up to this point? or do you think we made it through working corporate jobs and ignoring raising children and instilling home values correctly?

@mickeybeavison1053

2 жыл бұрын

Im literally working my a** off, so I can retire and stay home, cook, clean, and raise kids, because that sounds great.

@glitchboard9452

2 жыл бұрын

@@mickeybeavison1053 yeah, there's absolutely 0 issue with wanting that. The issue is the removal of options for people that don't.

@mclazerz8931

2 жыл бұрын

"If could just stay home ..." if you have some kind of income this could be an option. Women dont have to be the default homemaker Also, all women dont desire attention from men. Does he not know about lesbians..?

@glitchboard9452

2 жыл бұрын

@@mclazerz8931 obviously that's just societal corruption. Lesbians don't actually exist, they're just pretending because society told them men are bad.

I'm starting to think these men have these vile thoughts and ideas about women just to keep themselves out of a destructive depression.

@pogo8050

2 жыл бұрын

True. This is a mindset I think one can only develop if you’re shut out of all meaningful social relations

@MrCmon113

Жыл бұрын

It's easier to deal with a personal problem when you make it political/global. Now it's not YOUR wife cheating on YOU, it's all women being trash. It's not personal anymore, you're not alone. It's not so bad that you can't get laid, because women are "low value". A coping mechanism.

by his logic do women who are infertile just have no place in society, "well i'm working to become a pilot but i'm infertile, guess iv'e failed at being a women"

@tatianadaniel3569

Жыл бұрын

Crazy thing is: Infertility is equal between men and women.

I actually never thought people like this existed, I watched some of this live and holy hell I genuinely felt kinda awful, seeing someone so hateful towards my own gender feels weird haha.

@fupoflapo2386

2 жыл бұрын

Where there are woman incels, there are Male incels.

@weliveinasusciety1279

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe if your gender wasn't so promiscuous and so quick to open your legs to any guy online and to obsess over physical pleasure then we wouldn't hate you people. Some introspection would be valid

@GFTCNJ

2 жыл бұрын

Well played

@nathanliteroy9835

2 жыл бұрын

As a gay guy I really wish orientation could be chosen or all people were bisexual or something, because then those misogynistic idiots could start trying to f**k and date each other and other men and encounter the same shit show with slight differences on the other side of the fence, and finally realize that it's not about women. That it's them being miserable f**ks who are afraid of everyone and are afraid of intimacy, so they jump on gender supremacy bandwagon for control and comfort.

@charlesfisher9986

2 жыл бұрын

Anyone have the link to the full vod?

"I care so little about women, that Ill come onto a panel to say how trash they are and how sigma I am" -this guy

The real question is, are these incel men the types of husbands women want? He sounded angry and insane…

@dickdrapper5491

2 жыл бұрын

If this was 1960 he would have a wife and feel much more secure and confident as a man. Today’s modern society crushes guys like him and turn them into incels. If it was 1960 he would Be a different man

@minsugamaxsalt

2 жыл бұрын

@@dickdrapper5491 but isn’t it incel logic that men don’t need women

@laurendaryani4893

2 жыл бұрын

@@dickdrapper5491 Crushes them how?

@tatianadaniel3569

Жыл бұрын

@@dickdrapper5491 if it was 1960, his wife and children would be afraid of him.

@lovejunkie490

Жыл бұрын

@@dickdrapper5491 in the 60´s he would have a low quality woman with no options.

I like how this guy was talking about child raising to Destiny who is a father. "How hard can it be for a single dad?" Destiny: And I took that personally.

@miguelzavaleta1911

2 жыл бұрын

I mean, it's not destiny that raises his kid, it's his ex, but I'm sure he's still aware of the difficulty involved in that.

@juancorzo5081

2 жыл бұрын

Having a son doesn't mean you are a father. Destiny is by no means a father to nobody.

@Shad0wack

2 жыл бұрын

Calling destiny a father is a stretch

@nobobonobo

2 жыл бұрын

Destiny only sees his child every couple of months

@trondadon2527

2 жыл бұрын

Lol the way destiny describes raising children explains why he’s in the situation that he currently in. Bro isn’t with his baby momma and sees his child every few months. Hearing the way he talked about raising children was kinda sad. It’s definitely not easy, but cmon

I always see people like these and am taken aback that they aren't parody.

@DurpenHeimer

2 жыл бұрын

Spending the majority of your life alone, ridded with rejection, lack of self-awareness, and an inability to change will do that to you

@spakentruth

2 жыл бұрын

@@DurpenHeimer right. I'm alone bc it's my choice and being around people make me pretty anxious and drained. I got dilemmas and problems I feel comfortable with solving with less noise and interference

@Shad0wack

2 жыл бұрын

@@DurpenHeimer Speaking from experience?

@wiredvibe1678

2 жыл бұрын

If you wanted him to be a working productive member of society you should have got him married in his early 20's.

@lotanowo

Жыл бұрын

@@Shad0wack What if he does? Are we not able to recognize our flaws and work towards improving them without someone like you belittling it?

I really appreciate this video. I need to be reminded that as unhinged the left is sometimes, some conservatives are really off the rocks of reality.

@pengwin_

2 жыл бұрын

they're the scum of the earth.

@jamescampbell8482

2 жыл бұрын

Those on the far left spectrum and far right are just mirror opposites of each other. They act and react to one another's craziest positions on things, and then just simmer within their echo chambers. When they need to interact with someone outside their chamber, the crazier positions start to fall in a flurry of "but but...what I meant was"

@randybobandy9828

2 жыл бұрын

I mean ya he's a weirdo but the fringe left is far more prevalent.

@crazycatlady2744

2 жыл бұрын

At least the left's unhinged ideas are internally consistent most of the time. This guy can't even put together a consistent view on gender roles.

@tadas9216

2 жыл бұрын

@@randybobandy9828 More than half of republicans are into qanon, great replacement and other conspiracies. Your numbers are way off my dude.

It's funny this sounds like a guy that doesn't actually know any women. I wonder how he knows the goals and lives of so many so in depth.

I love how these two dudes trashing eachother looks look EXACTLY ALIKE lol

@jamesoleary2476

2 жыл бұрын

It really is uncanny

@ng4logic

2 жыл бұрын

I found it so funny. Like you want them to look like stereotypical conservative or liberal but they look exactly alike. You could not tell which is which.

This dude is absolutely insane.

@TheDolphinTuna

2 жыл бұрын

He unironically has undiagnosed mental illnesses. He’s a lolcow even to people on the right for a reason.

@denverboyd9953

2 жыл бұрын

@@panaccoman clearly meant the red pill guy

@theloniuspunk383

2 жыл бұрын

that's not what that word means he's obviously just at his wits end with low quality females and bad culture, it's true all you can do is laugh and hasten the collapse

@sargeteg5927

2 жыл бұрын

Damn, you attracted the weirdos with that comment.

@theloniuspunk383

2 жыл бұрын

@@sargeteg5927 it's called being free you should try it (SIKE)

I can't lie, hearing that girl's soul just die over the transwomen in sports had me rolling.

Why does every millennial boomer complain about "dating nowadays" it drives me fucking crazy. The only thing that has changed is access, dating has literally always sucked and I hate seeing my peers go down this get off my lawn trajectory

@Samuel-sg2iv

2 жыл бұрын

100% Facts.

@demodiums7216

2 жыл бұрын

online dating has absolutely changed the game

@bearj.4363

2 жыл бұрын

First time in human history males have to have an actual personality and redeeming qualities. Women can own property. Bank accounts. They don't need to be married to be successful and financially independent. They're starting to choose partners based on qualities other than "can they provide financially because I can't do that for myself".

@madratter7031

2 жыл бұрын

@@bearj.4363 noooo now I can't trap a woman into staying with me 😭😭😭

@blondebomber-qo2uy

2 жыл бұрын

@@demodiums7216 in what way besides access, as I said

sad to see beardson still lives in the house with the lead paint

@sigmundsigma6888

2 жыл бұрын

I love you hunter

@Chale1288

2 жыл бұрын

I remember you from some tima ago, were you not a very right wing guy?

@jettdyer7688

2 жыл бұрын

@@Chale1288 He was right-wing. Was.

@666MaRius9991

2 жыл бұрын

@@jettdyer7688 He WAS a grifter and STILL is.

@jettdyer7688

2 жыл бұрын

@@666MaRius9991 Someone who changes their opinion as they mature doesn't make them a grifter.

This man is actually maidenless

Hilarious that he thinks that just because a woman works, it means that her children are being raised by a nanny. *eye roll* I have so many friends with kids where both parents work, and their children are NOT raised by nannies. They go to preschool and get their socialization, and they spend time with grandma and grandpa. And the parents are not absent - they are very obviously present in their children’s lives, help them with homework, etc… just because you work doesn’t mean you don’t have any time for your kids.

@hypovisor

2 жыл бұрын

Hard core agree with this. it can certainly be a privilege but utilizing grandparents, preschool, nannies can be a great way to "have it all". Both parents can work and have successful careers (maybe not THE most demanding careers) and still have lots of quality time with their kids. And if either parent wants to do the stay-at-home parent lifestyle (probably in the early years before kids are in school) they can empower themselves beforehand with solid education and work experience so that jumping back into the work force later is not a huge hurdle

@SaVanityVan

2 жыл бұрын

I really wonder what world this guy lives in that he thinks everyone is raised by nannies, like wtf? Does he come from a wealthy area or something? I grew up in a super poor area where everyone's parents either both worked or they had a single parent household where the parent worked multiple jobs, and the thought of ANYONE having a nanny was laughable, most people couldn't even afford daycare. Older siblings or friends' older kids watched little ones, or they stayed with family or close neighbors/friends. Worst case kids were left alone. I was left alone to care for my younger siblings starting around age 7. This guy has so many wildly disconnected ideas about how people and society functions, I have to wonder if he ever actually leaves his house or talks to real people.

“Housewives are free to do what they want.” This dude wants to pretend the 1950’s didn’t exist. Based.

I can agree that as a woman I am glad I do not have to work. I loved school, loved learning got my CPA, started working and was absolutely miserable in corporate America. Now I am a stay at home wife that does some freelance writing and keeps my house in order. The big difference is being told I HAVE to stay at home vs being given both options and being allowed to choose what suits me. While I think there is a huge narrative from the left that girls have to go and get your bag which I struggled when I realized that is not what I wanted and I felt shame that I did not want a career job. We should have the clear pros and cons of both paths presented and be free make our life decisions accordingly. No way would I want to be a stay at home wife to someone who thinks women have no hobbies, are trash, and seems to just view women as shells of human beings. But for your best friend who sees you as a whole human, appreciates your mind, and supports you in any passions, I’m so happy to support in his growth.

@dante19890

Жыл бұрын

seems like u found a good man who can support you. I think most men who make good money would want a housewife rather than a career women

@sarahrobertson634

Жыл бұрын

@@dante19890 Men who make good money want a different woman twice a week.

@dante19890

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahrobertson634 different side chick yes but they still want a main girl

@sarahrobertson634

Жыл бұрын

@@dante19890 They're not going to get either one from me. If other weak minded females give them that, those dumb girls will see the error of their ways soon enough.

@raf3765

Жыл бұрын

@@dante19890 so they’re slaves to their desires with 0 self control and discipline and have disgusting morals?

Sometimes I just want a tragic villain backstory movie about these guys to understand how and why they end up like this

@chapman2710

Жыл бұрын

He should have said that he don't talk to women at all and he listened on podcasts that putting them down is the way to have sex but he fails greatly at it sir go outside

@ATHTSupply

11 ай бұрын

They have little to no experience with women in any form. So they have preconceived notions about women. What redpill has done is just apply false confirmations to their already absurd preconceived notions … Redpill is disguised with the costume of “male improvement” but nothing profound is ever said. You’re told from damn near elementary school to stay in shape , work hard , etc etc … I’m sure all these men have heard it in their younger years at least once. …

Wow. Just...WOW. That guy was actually fucking nuts. The consistency of him contradicting himself was insane.

Even as a childfree woman, I know that being a stay at home mother is the most hardest job to do because it's a 24/7 thing, non-stop. When she has kids, her whole life changes 110%. Yes, dads should be more into the kids' lives because of the male role models they need. For the leopard print guy in the middle, I feel terrible if he's married or has kids cause all he's saying is nonsense.

@pizzatime8917

Жыл бұрын

Stay at home mother isn't even necessarily difficult in a vacuum. It's men that undervalue it's difficulty that don't pay enough attention to the kids and don't split enough house responsibilities that make it so much damn harder than it has to be. I think it has been much easier for my mother to be stay at home since my dad was always around and hung out with the family, cooked and did other shit in the house Edit: I meant extremely difficult, not that it isn't difficult at all

@mcdick1621

Жыл бұрын

im almost inclined to become a single raising dad just to prove you wrong lmao.

@debbieakabubbles

Жыл бұрын

@mcdick prove me wrong? How? My brother is a single dad raising his son and now he wondered how our mom raised 4 of us while working

@mcdick1621

Жыл бұрын

@@debbieakabubbles by doing it ezpz.

@debbieakabubbles

Жыл бұрын

@mcdick omg 🤦‍♀️ That is so selfish. Yet they say I'm selfish for saving the environment, you're just a donkey for polluting it and for what? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

i kind of wanted to hear the question: why not let women choose the way they want to live?

@iwannabethekid34xc

2 жыл бұрын

Because women dont know what they want, and you're a gay simp baby if you disagree with this position.

@larryu1997

2 жыл бұрын

Too far.

I'd consider myself politically homeless but I find destiny to be reasonable and a good faith actor despite our disagreements. Keep up the good work.

@tcritt

2 жыл бұрын

If you feel politically homeless online, it's a good sign. Most people online are nuts.

@Reboobed

2 жыл бұрын

I'm a hard line libertarian Marxist but I still appreciate Destiny's desire to research issues to form his opinions on them, rather than just following the tides of everyone around him.

@slumpy1206

2 жыл бұрын

@@Reboobed NICE MEME AHAHAHAHA

@tcritt

2 жыл бұрын

@@Reboobed - hardline libertarian Marxist - appreciates people researching and not just following others My irony meter just exploded

@blackmage665

2 жыл бұрын

It helps when Destiny is one of the few people who will just side with the best arguement for a given topic, he isn't married to any positions, and combine that with not being a moron.

He's so vitriolic oml, can we go back to the ironic misogyny again lmao

“Idk where you get that it’s a magical experience every time mom gets to change another poopy diaper” I’m cracking up🤣 Also, to the other guy, you’d be surprised how many men refuse to actually adhere to the duties as a father. My mans friend has a 6 yr old and he said he never ever changed her diapers, not even once. He said that in response to my man changing our son.. we were both disgusted. The only duty that belongs to the mother alone is birthing and breast feeding.

Red pill dude is the definition of unhinged and insecure. That energy is radiating heavy asf Also not to state the obvious but billions of people (women) having generally more inherent features which promote raising children doesn’t mean we randomly say that’s what they all should do full time as a stay at home mom and force it on them. There are individual genetic traits as well as subtle social differences which would make other options better for them at an individual level.

@AngryReptileKeeper

2 жыл бұрын

"Red pill dude is the definition of unhinged and insecure." I left a relationship with a man who adopted the redpill mindset and spouted things like this guy (and much worse). It was the straw that broke the camel's back. I don't think it was a coincidence that he had always been insecure and unhinged even prior to believing in these things.

@larryu1997

2 жыл бұрын

@@AngryReptileKeeper good for you :)

@drdoomer8553

2 жыл бұрын

@@AngryReptileKeeper good for you 👍

@bustamoveorelse

2 жыл бұрын

Conservative here, I agree with everything you've said there. I just find it weird the "red pill dude" got pushback for saying that women are better at raising kids/more empathetic. That doesnt mean they should HAVE TO or should be pressured into that role, lets not deny as a general rule they do have a certain biological role that makes them better at it

Oh my God he used "grindset" unironically....

@theafflictionvhs17

2 жыл бұрын

_”Grindset”_ aka nonsensical cope to justify why they are un-social weirdos.

@weliveinasusciety1279

2 жыл бұрын

Destiny says "Cope" unironically all the time, which is equally as cringeworthy and you don't say anything about it, lmao. Keep up the bias

@fupoflapo2386

2 жыл бұрын

*Grind set music intensifies*

@christianfox7431

2 жыл бұрын

I forget what the word is, but in Japan they have these (typically guys i think) people who will not leave their homes for a decade at a time and sometimes even longer. They usually have jobs they can do from home and they get shit delivered to them. These people are probably gods to those dumbfuck "grindset" idiots.

@yesman9721

2 жыл бұрын

@@weliveinasusciety1279 True.

-Men want women who have passions and goals yet want women to stay at home to raise kids because they’re biologically wired to do so -Women who have a job/career should stay at home once they have kids. Then when kids get older, they can resume whatever they had going on. Do men not realize how extremely difficult it is to get back into the workforce once you’ve been away for years?? You’re older, have a huge gap on your resume, skills are not up to date, culture in the workplace has vastly changed, etc. It’s so darn difficult - Women that have jobs should contribute 50/50 financially, otherwise they’re gold diggers and only see a man as an atm machine. Yet red pill men do 0% of the house chores. In essence, the woman works 2 jobs yet she still needs to maintain her femininity, be agreeable and allow the man to make all the decisions. Yeah, right… - Women are naturally better at raising kids yet men complain how the court system usually doesn’t grant them custody in case of divorce. Hmm…wonder why… -Men don’t want to get married (ie sign a contract that only benefits one side) yet they want a wife and kids. So if they don’t get married but have kids, they will be born out of wedlock, thus creating single mothers (red pill men supposedly despise single mothers) -Men claim to be happy once they’re old and still single but make fun of older women who supposedly will end up alone with a bunch of cats. Pot calling the kettle black The contradictions are unreal. Men should just marry other men at this point

I've known 3 "Tradcon" wives who weren't like far right or right wing or married to right wing men at all. They landed rich husbands with power careers who insisted they would take care of them but said the kids should have a mom at home and they'll bring home the bread. All their lives turned out the same. They hit 50, their husband cheated on them with somebody hotter and younger, divorced them and they found themselves at age 50 with no skills, no job history, no education and no prospects. At least they got about 50k a year in alimony.

@larryu1997

2 жыл бұрын

They got their freedom from slavery GIGACHAD

@dickdrapper5491

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds worth it. They got to live with a high value man throughout the most important years of their life. It’s not like they won’t be able to find a man to replace their husband, especially if they are hot

"cooking and cleaning takes what, 2 or 3 hours?" > $20 banana moment

@SoldierGeneral64

2 жыл бұрын

Well it depends on the size of the house or apartment. Me microwaving a frozen meal doesn't take long at all ;) lol

@adinakruijssen3056

2 жыл бұрын

@@SoldierGeneral64 gotta factor in grocery shopping time too thoo

@SoldierGeneral64

2 жыл бұрын

@@adinakruijssen3056 When I went shopping I got everything I need for like a month or month in a half. Single bachelor lifestyle means you can be pretty lazy, but sure wasn't eating healthy. Can you say eating peanut butter out of a jar. If I didn't have to eat food that would be nice.

@adinakruijssen3056

2 жыл бұрын

@@SoldierGeneral64 well yeah, single bachelor life. Not cooking meals for a growing family. But yeah I get u, I was like that in college

@SoldierGeneral64

2 жыл бұрын

@@adinakruijssen3056 honestly when you look up the stats for stuff like child raising the amount of hours is less than you would expect and it is surprisingly top heavy. Most of the hours are early on then decrease over time. Guy in the video is insane though. The stats show more women than men aren't looking for a significant other so by his logic women are "on that grindset" lol

This dude is a content mine. Keep him around lol

@ForkliftChannel

2 жыл бұрын

He’s being replaced

@vicariouschism86

2 жыл бұрын

@@ForkliftChannel Greatly

A below average intelligence man with lacking social experiences tries to talk about social and parental matters. No wonder Destiny and others owned him in the calmest and chill way possible.

@trondadon2527

2 жыл бұрын

Destiny didn’t own him In the raising children discussion. It was actually kinda sad and telling to hear destiny’s perspective, considering he only sees his kid every few months.

@ihanakaunotar2741

Жыл бұрын

@@trondadon2527 you mean now right? You do realize when destiny was with his ex and the kid was young he was probably quite helpful with everything but now that they have broken up and the kid is older it can be a different deal. Plus at least I can appreciate destiny not advocating for his life style while red pillers act like that’s the only way to live.

This guy has an interesting debate strategy... You make yourself immune to ever being strawmanned when you adopt all the worst arguments that would've been strawmen as your actual positions...

@teresazbikowska7094

11 ай бұрын

Sith do that to. I believe conflict is natural and the basis of The Force.

a girl using tinder as a funnel to their only fans.. thats the grindset right there.

The more he talks, the more you can tell that he doesn't have any sort of meaningful relationship with a woman and that he's not a parent/doesn't have friends who are parents

Damn yo who broke this dudes heart

@ihanakaunotar2741

Жыл бұрын

Probably cuz the woman wasn’t just a mindless doll

its easy to say he's trolling but there are entire movements of people that think just like this. Sometimes they're just exposing themselves

@JoeMama-gi1so

2 жыл бұрын

I think he is definitely not trolling I think I think he might be lying to himself.

As a dude who would love to stay home and take care of my son. I don't think it's that crazy. I know a couple guys who got laid off during COVID and stayed that way. After the shock of it, it's working pretty well for them.

@anti-emo4721

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, right! I bet at least one of them will break up! 100%! I have seen this a couple of times, never works out!

@legin777

2 жыл бұрын

@@panaccoman I was waiting for this comment lol. And I was not disappointed 😂

@the_inquisitive_inquisitor

2 жыл бұрын

Once you don't *have* to work for a while it's hard to get yourself to go back to.

@skullingtonfx4441

2 жыл бұрын

@@anti-emo4721 lies

@ogolthorp

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, there are people who are genuinely happy being house-parents. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.

"we need more trans men in sports" "oh well that's very progressive of you" "yeah it's hillarious watching women get beat at their own sport by men" *awkward silence* "errr.......ok" DEAD!

It’s like these red pill ppl are going through the tough realizations of being in your twenties and they are filming the whole internal dialogue. This is called making a fool of one’s self.

He’s not red pill he’s an incel, the “not all men” to wether men do things to attract women gave it away

@brandonwhite562

2 жыл бұрын

He says all women are just seeking attention from men, yet men are not on their grindset in order to find women. I can say the pick up artist culture for men is much larger than it is for women. Men are seen as high value when a they have a harem of women. Women are whores if they talk to more than one man at a time. If a woman is a virgin she has great values and honors her body. If a man is a virgin he is a beta. So how are men not tieing their value to how many women they get.

@ExeErdna

2 жыл бұрын

He's not in incel either he's Black Pilled.

@crazycatlady2744

2 жыл бұрын

It's "not all men" until he implies that men are incapable of empathy. 🤣

@veritasabsoluta4285

2 жыл бұрын

Stop making the word "Incel" meaningless, Incel means someone is Involuntarily Celibate, being a misogynist doesn't mean someone is an incel.

@ExeErdna

2 жыл бұрын

@@veritasabsoluta4285 Thank you, the whole ass term for them is Black Pill and people still go off on that feminist slander on Incels when they're just people that either cannot or unable to have sex. Since people forget there an amount of women that flag as Incel.

I've literally never met a woman

@debordeleur2005

2 жыл бұрын

You've met destiny

@wisemage0

2 жыл бұрын

Based and motherless.

Found this guy out in the weeds. This has to be what the fringe conservatives look like. This dude hasn't touched grass in a long time

@mmeditatio

2 жыл бұрын

he's nick fuentes's second in command.

@sethturnbull554

2 жыл бұрын

He's too busy being on his Sigma grind. you just wouldn't understand because you're a BEEYTAAA

@wamatt2476

2 жыл бұрын

well, he did say he was mowing his lawn this morning....

@Psyshimmer

2 жыл бұрын

@@wamatt2476 and that lawn mowing really frazzled him pre-debate too

@treymanenick88

2 жыл бұрын

as some one who is pretty conservative please don't call this guy conservative he is just a woman hating loser

If anyone wants a laugh, Louis Theroux did a documentary on far-right internet clowns and this guy made an absolute ass out of himself

Wtf this dude legit wants a woman with no goals? Mac Dre said it best in early retirement, "im tryin to find chicks that know the requirements and work towords a pimps early retirement." But you know, by doing their own thing and not just being a burden. Like if your only skill sets are being a home maker, I'm sorry we ain't gonna make it.

Bro to say that men dont seek validation from women today is crazy especially since we had the no bitches meme like 3 weeks ago

17:00 If anyone pulled that tone in a conversation with me, I'd just leave. These types of people are not worth engaging with.

@dmac___

2 жыл бұрын

He’s so brittle 😂

@larryu1997

2 жыл бұрын

Malding

@bRi00917

2 жыл бұрын

That’s how always is, he’s a fragile little child… he runs his mouth constantly and sooner or later he’ll say that to the wrong person one day.

Oh my god.. "maybe there are men who want to raise children but that's an anomaly" Do they really think it has any biological basis?? My dude, it's fucking comfortable and easy to delegate the woman. Plain and simple. Men when they're sick can't even handle to be at home for three days in a row, but somehow the woman needs to spend her entire life like that.

for some context, beardson is the guy that couldnt let louis theroux ask a few low ball questions without throwing a tantrum

@ReddFoxx1562

2 ай бұрын

link? I love Louis!

History doesn't agree with me Beardson: why are we doing history revisionism guys? Doy duh doy Also this guy has almost an incel level of understanding of how parenting and relationships work.

This guy is the final form of “down bad”

I seriously want to believe this guy is a troll cause he's every red pill stereotype imaginable. He's like a cartoon character

@bizznick444joe7

Жыл бұрын

I'm assuming he's playing a character.

Destiny hit on a very fair point about women given a choice, a lot of men are angry that women are choosing not to be their wives. Being a wife just means you have a lot of grunt work "womens work" to do that men don't appreciate. It's weird how obsessed men are with women and what women do, while also having a disdain for women.

"you YOU WANNA MAKE THIS PERSONAL I CAN MAKE THIS REALLY FUCKING PERSONAL!!!!!" man this dude is utterly sneeding.

I got a daily wire Matt Walsh ad in the middle of this video. Feels like a weird place to see that ad.

@aninfinateregressionanapot2979

2 жыл бұрын

It's almost like the yt algorithm detects a large crossover between Incel cringe lords and the daily wire...

The fact men work themselves into the ground for their family is the sacrifice men make when it comes to careers

@deeepdale

2 жыл бұрын

lol so what about single guys? what sacrifice do they make?

@tripledigit4835

2 жыл бұрын

But men shouldn’t have to do that. Workers shouldn’t be forced to ‘kill themselves’ for their jobs. Workplaces and Occupations should be better for men and women. Better pay, better working conditions, strong non corrupt union should all be required. If you wanna go further left like I do, that can be up for debate

@tripledigit4835

2 жыл бұрын

@@deeepdale they’re slaves to the dollar. People live to work not work to survive.

@diegoseba12

2 жыл бұрын

And? At least the guy has a job and work experience. The woman in this traditional gender roles scenario has nothing. So god forbid the guy cheats and the 50yo mom with no work experience or studies has to fend for herself.

@deeepdale

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-ze1qk9tg0k ...cool. so what about single guys who don't have to support their family? my question still stands even if they never said anything about it lol.

I mean to be fair you have found the most degenerate conservative in the world.

this guy is chronically online. he just doesn’t understand or experience the social landscape in real life.

Why can't a woman be equivalent but not identical to men? Why can't we grant that women (who perpetuate the species) may have a propensity to be more empathetic? That doesn't exclude women from careers in any way. In fact, It would make them highly valued in some professions. What the fuck is wrong with saying there are differences? Differences obviously dont imply inequality. 2x²-x-15=0 and √9 are equal but not identical. This movement of "compelled homogeneity" is bizarre and will lead to more inequality.

@ExeErdna

2 жыл бұрын

Because people don't think in that advanced math. It's Binary to them, yes and no's, fair and unfair. It's stupid because people end up hurting themselves trying to be "well rounded" and that's not how people live. People are better at finding their niche and sharpening it. "Why should fish climb trees when a bear can still get them?"

@emiroos

2 жыл бұрын

From my perspective as a woman, I have a bit of internalised bitterness towards men in some aspects (though I prefer to think I do my best to seperate my perspectives as ultimately from experiences so, therefore, biased). I interpreted these conflict is about gender expectation and who's more rather get marginalised because of it, from my experience, men just looks had it more easier that they don't have the heavy burden to remind themselves what their gender when taking major decisions in life. There's a constant reminder for me I'm a woman first before considering what to do with my life. How much should I present so couldn't get judged by others especially other women. I see people just casually stereotype women to be generally tone-deaf and emotional so it's easier to not take us seriously compared to you guys. And after all that I see a lot of men mock or tease women, our femininity, for being too sensitive and open with their emotions when our agreed gender expections encouraged that to let it happen, like that negative aspect of women stereotypes didn't build up by keeping women to be focused to be baby carriers/takers in a more conservative society. Finally, have an audacity to have harsh very opinions on women who chose to be sex workers because they tend to get criticised more in other jobs when there's more value in them being a housewife and raise kids.

@ExeErdna

2 жыл бұрын

@@emiroos Most guys are bitter when it comes to women because y'all can damn near get away with murder. People help y'all without asking for anything in return. Which is something men overall don't experience. A lot of men see women living on easy mode due to this new sex worker uptick which is ironic imo. Due to if men told you to do such you wouldn't do it. Yet now sex work is so "lame" even some of the low effort stuff is successful enough to cover them while they also do a normal job. That's due to the conditioning boys and men have when they barely interacted with women. They see a crumb of skin and or parasocial attention they act like fools. Also there's the whole thing that men "need" to be bread winners. Ignoring the economy is so broken because it's still working off of the fact not everybody can work. Yet inflation makes it everybody needs to. This also causes bitterness between the sexes.

"We have an entire generation raised by nannies now." Rousseau in the 18th Century had a big part of his educational treatise dedicated to how mothers should actually breastfeed their kids because it was common to have wet nurses. People with the opportunity to do so will often fob off responsibility, this is nothing new.

@barneystinson2781

2 жыл бұрын

It doesn't make it right though. Poor people (the vast majority in the 18th century) did not have wet nurses

@NikkolasKing

2 жыл бұрын

@@barneystinson2781 Well poor women today don't have nannies, either. My point is just women today are not degenerate or selfish . People of any time will fuck off and do their own thing if they can.

The ending part was great. They both sigh and laugh condescendingly and say Destiny is wrong, then Destiny comes back and confidently explains that he’s in fact not wrong, and then… silence. This is honestly one of the reasons I’m a fan. Because I do this too. I don’t talk out of my ass, if I don’t know something, or I’m not confident in my knowledge of it enough to state it, I won’t. So when I *do* state something, I know I can confidently defend it if challenged.

Imagine that dude trying to tell me that my deep desire to get my psychology degree to become a therapist and help those struggling with mental illness isn't valid and ties back to wanting attention from a man. If that was true I'd have been dedicating my 20s to solely the pursuit of physical attraction, health and getting better at domestic tasks, instead of sacrificing my social life (and more) to academic pursuits. Grow up 😂. Yes, I want a man, i may or may not have kids ones day.. but for now my bf is my best friend that I get to fck and we support eachother through our academic pursuits. Nothing matters more to me than the self actualization of my career and our relationship serves as a support system for each of us pursuing our passions (he's one year away from a psychiatrist, I'm 3 years away from becoming a psychologist/therapist). Having a kid one day is a _maybe_ and would be nice, but it's by no means a main goal - it wouldn't make me happier, I know this - and we're both perfectly content without it happening. I've also meet hundreds of other women in academia with a similar attitude. So, is it true that women in GENERAL might be more likely to want nuclear family SAH life? Maybe yeah, but a general rule that we're coerced into that lifestyle, or setting society up in a way that makes us bound to that, when there's so many women who suffered deeply because of those expectations in the 1950s, is highly unethical, misguided and frankly, juvenile thinking. Kid needs to get out and meet different people, maybe travel a bit.

Conservatives: People should have individual freedom and be able to choose and do whatever they want! Also conservatives: Women should be required to stay at home and raise children

holy crap that opening was spot on. that exact description was me 3 years ago I'm glad things changed, but definitely scary to think I could be stuck in such a morphed view of the world like this dude destiny was talking to

I wish this was 2 hours long. It went by too fast

The one area in that destiny really falls short is his knowledge about young people, which I think is where all of his misconceptions about young people come from. I am in my early twenties and the reality for young adults is that almost every single person has at least a tinder and a bumble, young adults do form many relationships naturally but also utilize dating apps. It's odd to see Destiny say such a dog shit take like "only low-end women/men use dating apps". For older people, this is definitely true, but it's not true across the board for people. I think this really exemplifies Destiny's insane disconnect from young adults once again.

@regisglass5464

2 жыл бұрын

Destiny was saying that an individual looking for a relationship through an app that's exclusively about casual sex is going to fail.

@somabalestra1131

Жыл бұрын

I think he meant men who are socially awkward. Plus there is a stat that says that percentage of male and female accounts on Tindr there is kind of off. Only 21% are women and It's decreasing each year. It seems that less and less women are into online dating.

great stuff!

Did this video get cut short? Seems like it stops mid way through the conversation.

So nobody pushed back on the stereotype that black fathers are non existent? Tells me everything I need to know about this panel

@beane6426

2 жыл бұрын

I mean you can assume that. At the same time, if they’d stopped to address every stupid thing this guy said they’d have been there all day. The weirdo’s tangents were tangents of tangents of tangents.

@aryzen2781

2 жыл бұрын

vast majority are non existent. just because it offends you doesnt mean its not true.

@aryzen2781

2 жыл бұрын

@@beane6426 majority are non existent.

@cliftongibson9456

2 жыл бұрын

@@beane6426 they literally was on his ass about everything else that he said. The truth is this stereotype is believed by most people that’s why there’s no pushback on it.

@beane6426

2 жыл бұрын

@@cliftongibson9456 I’m pretty sure I’ve heard at least Destiny (I don’t recognize any of the other people on the panel) mention in a prior debate that most Black fathers aren’t absent parents.

PSA: Wolfenstein - New Order is free on Epic Games Store this week

@RedH3

2 жыл бұрын

Good game. It's sequel is absolute trash though.

I'm clicking away from this because of people who aren't adult enough not to talk over each other to shut the other guy up.

When a guy says women don't have hobbies it's because they don't care about the things women find interesting. A lot of women I know are really into gardening and crochet, for example. But because it's not videogames men don't see it as worthwhile

This beardson guy seems pretty adrift and sad, no wonder he did a 2hr argument defending Nick jf.

Also, @Destiny is just wrong about the family court take. Women win 90% (yes, 90%.. not 0.1% or whatever) of ALL custody court cases, however the lady was correct that such cases do not always go to court as 90% (yes, I know, the same number again) of all custody issues are settled out of court without a judge's ruling. 51% of the time both parents agree the mother should be the custodial parent. Also the number of custodial father's went up almost 10% since 2014 as well, as more states have increasingly become less mother-focused in their rulings. Which by the way, many states straight up WILL NOT award a father custody.

@AkaiKnight

2 жыл бұрын

Part of the reason fathers don’t fight in court has to do with court costs too

@GildedPoo

2 жыл бұрын

@@0doublezero0 I am a single father myself. I was lucky that the mother didn't get a lawyer, and despite that I had to dish out $2,500 because the plaintiff has to pay for all of it... and although that is on the cheap end, I had to dish that out all at once before the case even started. Lucky for me, this only happened because a good friend loaned me the money. Me winning was ultimately luck. There's a lot on this topic Destiny is completely skipping over.. I like Destiny, but he needs to research this topic more.

@GildedPoo

2 жыл бұрын

If you are married and had kids with your spouse, you can go into serious debt and fast. Imagine your ex wife taking half your stuff and income for her alimony after you lose a divorce case and pay off your lawyer, and then on top of that you have to now pay for a completely different lawyer to file for custody, having to dish out even more for that new lawyer in the hopes you win custody but don't, thus now you're having to pay both alimony and more child support than you would have if you just settled the custody case out of court.

@GildedPoo

2 жыл бұрын

Like yeah, it's pretty fucked up that men can literally go broke for many years, or even become homeless, over this crap. Men are often forced to either concede to the mother, or literally struggle to survive for many years after if they lose a custody case. Telling men they're abandoning their kids when they're faced with near-impossible odds of success is insane. Women have the clear advantage because women are almost never the plaintiff in these cases, and as a result have to pay little-to-nothing to win.

@magicdragon9621

2 жыл бұрын

But a dad shouldn't give up on his kid over a failed court system. It's totally not right, but our culture promoting men fighting for custody and never giving up is essential.

A housemom is not a fulltime job for a normal family with 2 kids. Lets take FOOD: You don't have to cook your kids pancakes every morning. They can eat porrible/bread etc. that takes almost no preperation and by the age of 4+ or so, they can put stuff on their own bread and make their own lunch that way as well, add 1 or 2 fruits and you're done. At lunch, the man and the kids for most of their years, are at work/school, so lunch is often only for yourself. The only shared meal that's nice for a housemom to make in my view is diner, because that's when everyone is home and making diner doesn't have to cost more than an hour. SCHOOL: Your kid between the age of 3 and 16+ is at school for 5-8 hours a day and house maintenance/diner/laundry does not cost 5-8 hours a day for a normal family with 2 kids. No one can argue against this. Therefor, being a housemom is not a fulltime job. KIDS CAN ENTERTAIN THEMSELVES AS WELL: When I was home as an 8 year old, I did homework by myself and played by myself or with my neighboorhood friends, or my brother/ sister. Did not need my parents for any of that. I went on bikerides and walks with my parents, but they would've done that anyway even without me. Sometimes mom OR dad played with me but that was maybe like half an hour every day. My brother and sister were raised the same way. We didn't need our parents every hour because we learned to keep ourselves busy, playing with Lego, making drawings, listening to music, playing outside, playing on the Commodore64 etc. We were not raised to be dependent on our parents for our entertainment. The amount of time you spend with your kids - how much you handhold them, is a choice and not always a necessity. ALL IN ALL: Housemoms with 2 kids can have quite some hours a day to persue their own hobbies, especially when both kids are at school. My mom did a lot of handcrafting, gardening and book reading.

What drives men to be successful is to provide a good living for his family. That’s how it’s been for generations

@tb8654

10 ай бұрын

You said something very obvious, where was it suggested that men typically want to be successful for other reasons?

Destiny described beardson to a T with the "average man has no friends or partner" take, wonder if he even knew it lmao

@viktorsarajs195

2 жыл бұрын

He has friends, Nick Fuentes and Baked Alaska.

Why did it end when it was getting good? Did it end after that?

Some men hate women, but are still attracted to them. It’s that simple. Honestly, that’s basically the summary of the whole video/ this guys way of thinking.

The irony of the ad under this being for bumble is not lost on me 🤣😂🤣😂

I agree with this guys take on women being more biologically designed for childcare however the awesome part of being human is that we are the only species able to go against biology with any success and there's nothing wrong with embracing that.

@ogzombieblunt4626

2 жыл бұрын

Excrpt if you go against biology on a large scale there are negative externalities like women not going into STEM as often. This has been well documented where more egalitarian nations see women deferring to traditional gender norms in terms of education and jobs acquired.

@blindeagleace3629

2 жыл бұрын

@@ogzombieblunt4626 I doubt that. That study have been under a lot of scrutiny.

@iwannabethekid34xc

2 жыл бұрын

@@blindeagleace3629 You cant live your life only believing in studies, son, some day you're gonna have to actually go out in the real world and yknow, experience it for yourself.

@admaanhason7410

2 жыл бұрын

@@sukamedik9739 such as?

@stacycarlton2056

2 жыл бұрын

@@iwannabethekid34xc soooo instead of structured data u want anecdotal evidence only gotten by the ppl u meet. That strays away from the scientific method of proof which is why historically anecdotal evidence has been based off of emotion and is not necessarily fact I.E just because u experience it that doesn’t make it the norm