I am so encouraged by your comments! I can't respond to each one, but I appreciate you for sharing your struggles with me! I hope you are encouraged by the other comments and you know that you aren't alone in this and there is help if you need it! Stay strong and lean on God! Love you all!❤❤

@paularasmussen9660

Жыл бұрын

I'm so😢 sad . I'm glad that I found you thanks for sharing. Keep up with the great work 👍

@kindersurprisechacha

Жыл бұрын

Je ne te connais pas mais félicitations. Je suis fière de toi. Étant mère de 4 enfants mariée mais avec très peu d'aide. Je te dis bravo et continue dans tes efforts ❤

@MaritzaCruz-qg6ix

Жыл бұрын

You are a very strong woman. Cause simply showing your struggles to the world isnt a easy task. But overcoming through it and making your way out a tremendous effort. You have a beautiful home. I've been there and I know how it feels when your depressed and you try to lift your self up and you can't because you loose strength and energy. And you don't care anymore. Because it's not that you don't want it's that you can't. You feel like your world is upside down and you can't move, and can't talk. You feel sick, like drowning in the middle of the sea. But thank God, you have made it successfully to the point of coming out of it. And I that's great! I wish you the best ❤️

@Cvin-st1rn

Жыл бұрын

😊a

@blessall8856

Жыл бұрын

You did a huge & thorough cleaning of your place! You are so strong!!

If you're here to leave a negative comment, I want to encourage you to show grace to others. If you see someone struggling, instead of insulting them, ask them how you can help them. And if you are unable to be kind or help, then it is best to leave without making the situation worse. Remember, we aren't all going through the same experience in life. All the best to you! ❤

@patsydurham9314

Жыл бұрын

God bless you for having the courage to share. You are an inspiration to me.💕

@evezazzle5974

Жыл бұрын

Lovely human being ❤😘God bless you and heal you

@Lifewithboujeebeauty

Жыл бұрын

Love this cause ppl be rude, mean and unnecessary in my comments so it’s refreshing to know and see ppl are caring and positive

@aishaamer7608

Жыл бұрын

I have just moped and swept my house and right now I have seen your video....I know sometimes life just overwhelming...and we don't want to take little steps....but you did great!

@Edithlane

Жыл бұрын

Nice to have all these positive comments.

I'm a therapist. I just wanted to say how helpful I know videos like this are for clients who are struggling with poor mental health. You've offered *hope* and for people who feel overwhelmed, that's so so important. ❤

@flower77794

Жыл бұрын

Спасибо Thank u!U r right!

@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD

Жыл бұрын

I am one of those searching for hope and inspiration.

@skybabe1959

Жыл бұрын

Always here for anything positive!!!! Have a blessed day!!!!!

@birdy-numnum6321

11 ай бұрын

​@@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD❤🎉

@marshajohnson37

11 ай бұрын

I’m in this state right now and I can’t get out of 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

First timer. I got right up, prompted my phone to listen and cleaned up with you. Listening, cleaning, and crying. I'm proud of you, never alone Thank you! ❤

@chit-chat007

2 ай бұрын

HUGS TO YOU HUN!!! LORD KNOWS THERE ARE SO MANY OF US WITH EITHER MENTAL OR PHYSICAL ILLNESS THAT LEAVES IS JUST LIKE THIS AND WE NEED EACH OTHERS SUPPORT❤ ONE LOVE!

As a fellow mom, I just want to give you a hug. That is a lot for anyone to go through. You're doing it all and holding your family down, Mama. It's ok to struggle, it's ok to try again. I'm rooting for you and anyone else with mental health problems that's reading this!

People who haven't gone through depression don't understand what courage it takes to get better and the progress you have made is fantastic. Don't let other people's negative comments affect you.

I rather watch these than the ones where the moms make their life look so unrealistically perfect...love love love this video it makes me feel so much less alone as a mom! I always thought all moms had their stuff together because of social media which contributed A LOT to my depression.

@Melosmom

6 ай бұрын

Right 😂lol this is real Life

@billiejojefferson2323

3 ай бұрын

Same! We need more realistic videos.

@luismendezvilla2075

2 ай бұрын

This video helps me as a widower father of five of my children it inspires me. My depression sometimes it became normal. I just want to break free of that bar. Thanks to your video I am cleaning and listening to your advice at the same time thank you. I also like your cleaning music vibe.

@twice.supremacy

17 күн бұрын

Its not realistic its the life of someone mentally sick. Its not the norm. Stop founding excuse if you dont have a mental condition

@Momyoutuber

17 сағат бұрын

Yes. This is why I decided to make realistic content

I hadn’t equated my mental health with my cluttered/messy home until fairly recently. Thanks to people like yourself who are brave enough to share their experiences, I realize I’m not just a “slob” or a “freak”, etc. I spent years feeling like there must be something wrong with me in order to struggle so much with the basic things that came so easily to others (or so it appeared from the outside). Much love. Proud of you!!! And thank you so much again! ❤

@mariahedyrieseriese3076

3 ай бұрын

Assistindo voce, sinto um pouco de animo para fazer os meus servicos domesticos ! Conheco muito bem o que e a Depressao !!!

@hellooutthere8956

3 ай бұрын

I had an older woman tell me once the way your house is is where your mind is.

Not being judgemental, but I can't help but notice how beautiful her home is. Gratitude is in order Mama.

This is exactly how depression works. It's hard to pull out of the darkness, you should be very proud of yourself. This is a lot more relatable than you may think. Thank you so much for posting this, you have a lot of strength, you deserve a lot of big hugs for letting us in.

@krymyldamacdonald4191

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree. Depression is an invisible monster. Then we are left with the disaster

@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD

Жыл бұрын

It’s THE worst. Literally in a sunken place.

@lifewithkashmeere

6 ай бұрын

depression is hard sometimes by the time you notice that you have it its to late lol

@lmaoroflcopter

6 ай бұрын

Depression is often completely unrecognised until you're so deep in it, it feels like there is no way out. I have messed my entire life up through my apathy and inaction. It took a health condition brought on by my self harm to realise I was depressed. I now go to therapy, but its a long journey and I've yet to make any real progress out of the hole, but the want is almost there. I can taste it. Which when you just wished the hours away is a massive change. You want to change Vs. Just no longer wish to exist;

My apartment is currently in a similar state and has been getting progressively worse for about 2 years now. I felt so alone until I just found your video. My mental health has prevented me from getting back on track in terms of getting everything cleaned and keeping up with it like I used to. I look at the mess and honestly just freeze most days and do nothing. This is so unbelievably inspiring. Getting up now and am going to work on a little bit at a time. Thank you so much for posting this. It took a lot of courage and I truly appreciate you! God bless you! ❤

@solomoon3083

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Just a little bit at a time. That is what I do. I don’t allow it to get hazardously nasty, but things can definitely pile up. We got this. A little bit at a time.

@justphumla3563

11 ай бұрын

You’re not alone mama, you got this, YOU can DO it!❤

@yolandalcheek462

10 ай бұрын

How ? 😢

@kendalcruz7418

9 ай бұрын

It's been about 3 months since you posted this hope you continued the cleaning process and are in a better state of mind❤

@shakyracrafton3566

9 ай бұрын

U got this🥰😍🙌💪❣️

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!!!! Being a single mother is hard and keeping your house up while working adds a whole other level of difficulty to life. Thank you for posting this video. You're doing great.

Finally someone being real and a home that looks like a depressed persons home. My house is an absolute wreck and I didn’t realize I was depressed but I am. I lost my mom in july and that has taken an emotional toll on me. Everything has gotten behind, bills, yard and home. Things I use to be so on top of. Now I’m struggling to get things back right. Thanks for your video!! It helped me feel not so alone. I’m proud of you!!

@GoddessY1968

4 күн бұрын

I'm so sorry for your losing your mom. It takes time to heal. 🫂

No single mom here, but my husband is disabled. Taking care of everything on my own is so exhausting sometimes. Thank you for this video. I felt I was constantly failing, but I'm doing all I can and that is all I need to do! 💪

@emmt1256

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@hopemack7701

Жыл бұрын

Please know that you are doing what you can for your husband, and he appreciates you. It's ok to feel overwhelmed. Take a break regroup. It's a lot, but you got this. God will continue to strengthen you. Give yourself permission to be ok with not being ok. Doing your best is good enough.

@sweetemma8547

Жыл бұрын

Same here 🥹

@MsBrandy76

Жыл бұрын

So thankful to not be alone!

@skybabe1959

Жыл бұрын

Bo! I feel you! I took care of my dad for 15 years. It is backbreaking! Sending love and positivity to you! I see you, you're an angel walking, I beg of u to love yourself! Not enough people like you....look in the mirror and say that!

Thank you for sharing this. I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety years ago. After 14 years of counseling and medication, depression and ptsd (military trauma) is in remission. I’m left to deal with anxiety but with prayer I have conquered this too . 🙏🏽 I know exactly how mental health can effect your home. I can be just like this sometimes. Heavens when my fiancé met me, I didn’t hide what I was facing and he helped me organize and clean my home. I’m so thankful for God’s Grace and blessing. As of date I have 1 junky room and that’s my office but that’s how I found your page. (Typing : You Tube-How to organize your office. ) I shared your video with my fiancé to show him mental health can effect so much of your life. I’m following your journey now 😊

@Maria-ju3kf

5 ай бұрын

I can relate to you, because I have struggle also, my house reflect this. I'm happy to hear that you had someone to help you around the house. I wish, I could get some help, my office is in a mess. Hopefully, I can work on it soon.

@annaknight5111

2 ай бұрын

💜

Thank you. I'm literally in tears. This is a huge problem with me my ENTIRE life & huge source of conflict with my parents. They get enraged & very judgemental but they don't understand & I don't explain it or try to help them to. But videos like this not only help ME understand MYSELF & not think I'm worthless & show myself some grace but I can send it to my dad to better help him try to understand my broken brain.

As someone who struggles with depression and executive dysfunction, I love seeing videos like this.

@sweetcapricorn

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing I never heard of this disorder I had to Google it I have to look into this more ❤

@mistyhines1430

7 ай бұрын

I totally read your comment as erectile dysfunction and had a good laugh. I am bipolar 2 and also suffer from those ADHD tendencies including executive dysfunction and it is such a struggle. Now let me go find my glasses!

As a professional non judgemental cleaner you are definitely not the only one who dealt with this. You are brave and changed ppls lives without even knowing it. You give people strength by living in your truth. Love it and support you 100%. Theres ppl who would never take accountability. Or dont want to. Thank you for the content.

I feel a majority of the time we do not want to admit that we all struggle with mental health issues. I too believed I was just too lazy to get going on cleaning and keeping up with my housework. I have no children. So to those mama's who do it all you are my inspiration. Thank you for sharing your journey. May God continue to bless you always.

@BeTrue05

3 ай бұрын

No we all don’t struggle with mental health issues

I love this video. I just lost my sister two weeks ago and it’s been really tough! I know I’m not lazy but my home has become a little messy! I just did a clean with new video while grieving! When the weight of the world seems like it’s on your shoulders, God is there to lift you up!! God Bless you sister❤️

@Melosmom

6 ай бұрын

Sending some love and light ❤ in your situation. Your not alone

@myieshastyles9344

4 ай бұрын

My condolences beautiful I am in grief myself as I lost my husband in September. I have days I just don't want to do anything. Or days I do a little at a time. Do what feel is good for you as I've been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, depression, anxiety and bipolar. So GOD and my strength as well as my husband get me up. 🙏🏾

@Melosmom

4 ай бұрын

@@myieshastyles9344 sending you some virtual love in your time of grief

First off, I want to address the haters. If you have never suffered with depression, you have NO IDEA what Faith is going through. Until you have walked in her shoes, please be kind. That's the last thing she needs is someone putting her down. Faith, I feel for you, because I have dealt with depression all my life and it's not a good place to be. I want to say personally, you are a wonderful Mother and very truthful. Your boys are so lucky to have a Mommy like you. Since this is an old video, we know that you have come a long way. God bless you and the boys!

@GrandmasCraftyDreams

9 ай бұрын

Totally agree, DEPRESSION doesn’t exempt ANYONE!!! and it will slowly kill you inside 😭

I am a therapist who has also had bouts of depression and I’m just so impressed with your organization abilities and your energy! Good job Faith! You inspire me.❤️

@blessall8856

Жыл бұрын

Don't know where she got the huge energy to clean all that up and do a great job.

I suffer from severe depression and I totally understand how a house can get out of hand. You're an inspiration to me to keep getting my house straightened up and cleaned. So many people don't understand severe depression and what effects it has on a person's life. God bless!

I am a social worker and I cannot express how much this video will help people who struggle with just starting. Your self-awareness and empathy are encouraging. All good things as you go forward.

Girl they were talking about themselves when they called you names. Depression has "look." It affects people differently. The fact that you tackled the mess speaks VOLUMES!!! Keep going! I love your videos! Sometimes it's not your mental health. Sometimes you're just tired and its ok to be tired. Parenthood is work!

@ToyaG86

5 ай бұрын

Tired and busy,so you keep going. Waiting for a day when you won't be tired or busy and can put a good few hours into deep cleaning. Easier said than done.

Fellow single mom here. I accidentally ran across this video, but I no longer believe it was an accident. I am going through the exact same struggle and your video encouraged me so much. Thank you for your raw vulnerability. This video is a breath of fresh air.

@lizbarnes2911

Жыл бұрын

I am encouraged as well!

@GoddessY1968

4 күн бұрын

There are no coincidences. ❤

Thank you for having the courage to post this. May the VAST NUMBER of women you have encouraged through your video dowse the judgmental comments of the FEW. Seeing that "I'm not the only one who struggles with this" was a God-send. Thank you!

Anyone who calls you names is just unhappy with themselves, they are not healthy in the mind, so ignore them. Wanted to see more of the finished clean up ❤

I have a dear friend who is a hoarder. Things got worse after her daughter died a year ago. I am physically unable to do it all. It’s a huge job I can’t tackle alone. The thing is, I’ve seen her house go from bad to totally out of control. I’m trying to gather a few to help get her house in order. She fell a month ago and broke her shoulder and she is 75. This is because she has so much that it’s become unsafe. I wish I could do it all😢 What’s sad is seeing her decline. I feel it’s so important to have your home neat and clean. It changes even your outlook on life. I appreciate anyone who will help others in their time of need. We are to serve others just not ourselves.

I struggled a lot for about 4 years it was a lot of anxiety and depression that turned to Agoraphobia. My parents didnt think I needed to see someone when i asked for help. It took my twin to say “hey i think you need help.” She saved up working three jobs to put me in therapy and it helped me so much. I’m working now and trying my hardest not to slip back into it. A lot is still going on but we just gotta keep going~

@chanyg1013

Жыл бұрын

Stay Encouraged! 💗🙏💗

@rowceo

Жыл бұрын

This is a beautiful story!! Sounds like your twin is an amazing support system. As someone who has had major depressive episodes with lots of agoraphobia it does get sooo much better. Take it one day at a time and remember one day you’ll get the wonderful feeling of having overcome that agoraphobia; as you already have

I want to say I am a single mom of five kids. I have panic attacks, anxiety and bipolar 2 with Manic Depression. And let me tell you I have watch a lot of cleaning and organizing videos and I have never found one I can relate to till now! When I came across your video it’s inspirational and makes me feel a lot less alone! I appreciate your bravery and strength posting this for moms like myself! Your am amazing women 🩷

You're a very strong woman for wanting to help others who are in the same situation. Most normal people have good, bad and horrible days with housekeeping. Depression can cause a freeze in people, others work outside the home with kids and then activities in evenings. Many reasons! You are therapy for many normal, busy people! Be Blessed as you help others and as you help yourself!

Your video saved my day. I’m just pulling out of a dark place and I just wanted to stay in bed and boom my dishes, laundry and my balcony are all done and it feels amazing. Thank you for sharing your story so that I could remember we all struggle.

@marystrenke3050

Жыл бұрын

I am so proud of all who keep persevering. .My best friend allows me to clean her place- just to a point. She's an amazing woman and should never be judged by her housekeeping. I just laugh and say we'll both be in trouble when I can't do it anymore 😂

Depression is real. We was raised not to talk about mental illness. I thank you for sharing. I’m glad that you made it out to be with your children.

@lifewithkashmeere

6 ай бұрын

im so glad she made it out as well with those babies

Mom of four here. (One set of twins) I have anxiety and PTSD…it could easily turn into depression, as I can get overwhelmed. I give myself grace. We all go through the same things regardless to if it’s diagnosed or not. Keep going. Thank you for sharing

For what its worth, Im proud of you. This is what sacrificial love looks like. Doing what needs to be done despite depress. Your children are blessed to have you.

This video made you BRAVE. You shared what a lot of ppl were dealing with during depression and C19. I am sorry that ppl were judgmental and rude. You don't deserve that. Depression is a struggle on its own. Add C19 and being a single parent that magnifies everything by 100. Prayers for your journey, stay strong, and don't listen to negative ppl who have never walked in your shoes. You should be able to look back on this video and see how far you've come. GOD BLESS❤🙏

@stewartshreenan8256

Жыл бұрын

I to suffer from depression. People don't realise how hard it is. Ignore their comments as they never know when it can happen to them. I always put music on to help me through the day. Stay strong and keep on trekking. Xxx❤

@Anyhoo222

Жыл бұрын

Amen!!! I have the same struggles

@chanyg1013

Жыл бұрын

Same here. And I think social media doesn't always help. Sometimes it gives off this impression that everything's perfect & pristine. But the truth is that's not reality. Life has it moments & people go through ups, downs, hardships, etc. Stay Encouraged Everyone! 💗🙏💗

@keahithefieryone8513

Жыл бұрын

​@@stewartshreenan8256 ❤ Fight the Good Fight, you got this!❤

@cUser691

Жыл бұрын

Part of imo is -in some social media- theword “depression”is too casually used. People will say “I’m depressed” or “I have depression because I couldn’t find a parking space at the store.” Some people have clinical, diagnosed severe deep where even medication, close monitoring, and even psychiatric hospitalization might be needed. I applaud this lady and her sharing with others her particular struggle. I wish her well. 🌸🪴🙂

Watching videos like this of people getting their lives back and spreading awareness has helped me with my own battle with mental health issues. I use to not care about my hygiene, cleaning up my space, or even getting out of bed. I tend to be private on my issues but everyone copes differently. I hope you continue to thrive and God bless!

@Ashleyyyy_xx

10 ай бұрын

You got this ❤ sending so much love and hope your way 💗

@deborahcincotta3600

9 ай бұрын

TORI C I TO CANT GET OUT OF BED HOW DID YOU DO IT HOW DID YOU GET UP AND MOTIVATED AND GET MOVEING

@hevy1107

9 ай бұрын

Me too!

@toric3540

8 ай бұрын

@@deborahcincotta3600 for me personally, it was my prayer group that told me I was worth more than letting depression take over. Granted they knew it wouldn’t be easy and would support me no matter what. But hearing someone else say that I’m worth more than my negative tell me and that God loves me more than that. They used my religious beliefs to help me and not condemn me. Plus I’m on the right medications now. Granted everyone is different and I pray for you to find the right way for yourself to feel better

@Melosmom

6 ай бұрын

Sending some love and light ❤ in your situation. Your not alone

This video has given me motivation to fight through my mental issues and get back to my life, didn’t think I could do it. Thank you so much for sharing people don’t realize how hard it can be. Stay strong.

So brave of you sharing what real life can look like! It's easy to believe that all homes are perfectly clean and perfectly decorated when you watch YT-videos and that increases the burden many are carrying. They get thd confirmation that they aren't good enough since their homes are looking perfect. So thank you for sharing and I do believe that many will be helped thanks to you!!!

As a single mom. I love you faith. I struggle with mental health too. Most will understand but if they don't you keep going. There will always be ignorant people. I love your videos because they are real. My son has know idea how he kept me going. He is in College now and I am so proud of us. Proud of you girl.

@suedixon2619

Жыл бұрын

@Lemons Limes loo

@joanaw.1379

Жыл бұрын

I am a single mother too! Believe me, we can do more than we think we can! It’s hard, most of the times I feel overwhelmed. I have the same feelings and concerns you have. You’re not alone! We are together in this journey! You have my heart and my appreciation.

I'm also a single mother of twins and struggling with depression and anxiety...I feel like watching your video I feel like I was listening to myself ...down to going to the gym for hours before the twins, to having the twins and falling off , to being alone .. omggg I'm so happy I found you.. I'm hoping I will find the strength like you did.. please pray for me...

@marigoldbeam5475

10 ай бұрын

I'm praying for you sweetheart. You can and will do it.

I'm proud of you too and this is my first time seeing your video! I just wanna say thank you for posting this video because I'm actually in this EXACT position! I live with my family, and I have my own room. I have been wanting to clean up, but it's just been hard for me to get up out of my bed and clean. I've been extremely tired even when I wanted to clean up. You are so not alone! Thank you and God bless you for posting, sis. I love you and ultimately, Jesus loves you! You're never truly alone and im so happy your video randomly appeared in my feed. Keep going. You never know who needs to see this. Also, I have been in the same boat with giving up. 🥺 People can be ignorant and vicious with their personal attacks. I'm sorry you experienced that, you did not deserve that. 😔 I'm so glad you posted your home! That's a huge step because it's not easy posting your personal belongings on the internet.

You're beautiful brave woman! Anyone, who has not been a single parent who works outside of the home; really don't understand how stressful it really is. I'm proud of you and how far you have come!

Ms. Faith, I've been watching your channel for quite some time. I just want to say you. That you are as beautiful and spiritual as your name! I too raised 2 kids as a single parent. The difference is my adult kids are 9 years apart. You are an absolutely amazing mommy ❤ You take such excellent care of your 2 beautiful little boys 💙 🙏🏽 Please try your best not to allow negativity to break your mental health. You have enough that your dealing with. Managing a household by yourself and everything that comes with it! I am so very proud of mommie ❤ You are amazing and life is lifing. AND IT'S OK!!! Live for you stop caring about what people say. I prays you, your content is so uplifting and motivating. 💪🏾🙏🏽 Faith you are so worth is and you matter so much to us followers 💜 Keep doing what you are doing and just do your best, okay. God bless you and thank for being vulnerable you inspire me so much ❤💪🏾🙏🏽 Ms. Ramona P.S.: LIVE FOR YOU GOD KNOWS YOUR HEART.......

@Karen-ib4jc

Жыл бұрын

LOVE you Faith, and no lazy person could do what you did. You are a beautiful young lady, mom, human being for sharing your liw times it takes so much strength Girl. You did such a great job, most these shows the looks like you eat off floor when they start. I want to someone who keep it real. Praying fir you Girl. 🙏 Jesus loves you and me too. Remember haters always equally zero., nothing times nothing is exactly that nothing be Encouraged .

@arnelabuso8252

Жыл бұрын

Amen

Everyone faces their own challenges in life. Shame on anyone for beating you up…you do an amazing job and be proud of what you have accomplished. Blessings to you and your family.

Thank you for sharing this. When I see my home starting to clutter, I just throw everything away. I don't care what it is. If it's on the floor I throw it in the garbage

I watch you when I’m feeling overwhelmed and don’t want to do anything. You motivate me to keep going through my depression.

I lost my mom a month ago and im a full time nursung student mother of three and i find myself in a similar situation with my house. Everyday i try to do a little bit more and it still doesnt feel good enough. Sometimes we can be our worse critics. So happy for you. Thank you for sharing ❤

@lifewithkashmeere

6 ай бұрын

im sorry for your loss baby prayers

@katieturza8588

6 ай бұрын

@catherineamanda1034 I’m so sorry for your loss. Stay strong. I’ve been a nurse for just over a year, we need you out here. If I can do it, I know you can too!

I proud of you for pulling through ! I am glad that you didn’t delete your videos . Mental health is a real thing and you were brave to speak out and show a real place that you were in . So many people are struggling and a scared to speak about it or even ask for help. You are wonderful person and mother . We all have challenging seasons and you survived a season that could have taken you out !

I’m cleaning while watching this video and everything you said was soothing and helpful. I have the same struggle, where I love a clean house and I do love to clean, but when depression strikes I feel immobilized, and I can’t find the strength to get up and clean.

I was depressed for years and didn't even realize it. I just thought I wasn't feeling well. Not only was I depressed, but I found out that my iron and vitamin D was nearly bottomed out! I slept all day and all night because I had no energy Things got hectic, but I made it out. Thank goodness you made it out, too.

Depression is so very hard to deal with , I suffered for many years with this debilitating illness when my children were young .. I could nt relate to anything and just felt so guilty that I could nt keep my home in order.. I really do feel your pain Faith xxx❤❤

Thank you so much for sharing your TRUTH. When my Mother died I was in a state of depression for 8 years. Looking at your video is a testament that "Jesus Christ" is able to bring you out. We both have the VICTORY!!!! Love your channel ❤ Bountiful blessings to you and your Handsome Boys...

@jacquelinemcqueen

Жыл бұрын

P.S. my home looked like this for 8 years.

@ruru764

Жыл бұрын

Struggling with depression since I lost my mother a year ago, it’s nice to read about life on the other side of grief that you can actually come out of the depression. Because when you are going through it it does feel like this is how I will feel forever. God bless you.

@jacquelinemcqueen

Жыл бұрын

@@ruru764 You have my condolences. Give time, time, you will get through, don't rush, there is NO time limit on grief. My Mom passed in 1990 my depression was 8 years, because of Jesus Christ I came out VICTORIOUSLY!!!! There are still triggers, that's why I must PRAY. Be Blessed. If you want to text, need PRAYER I'm here.

Im late ! But As a person who has battled depression with the same symptoms I understand completely I’m so proud of you for finally taking a stand for yourself and your children! It’s not easy handling everything on your own with babies commend you for allowing us in your world and giving some people of piece of inspiration! ❤️ Love another mother , depresse and, black woman ❤️❤️❤️❤️

You motivated me so much! Thank you. Should do videos also updating your audience about how are you doing. Keep it up ❤

This is reality for so many. There’s such an emphasis on posting the “perfect” life on social media. Real life is not the Pinterest perfect house posts or staged Insta posts. This video is REAL. You should be so proud of yourself! We all need to be real with one another and show kindness and grace. Having the courage to post this video showing your struggles displays such strength💜

So many single moms are over tired and they put all the effort in looking after the kids and maintaining a job for income... so unfortunately something is going to slack, and its always the state of our homes. Just remember as long as your kids are fed and happy and you are slowly making changes for the better - WE ARE PROUD OF YOU!!! There will always be haters but majority are woman that stand with you in the same state. You are strong and beautiful!!!

I’m proud of you! It’s not easy to pull yourself out of a state of depression 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

I am cleaning with you after a period of being so overwhelmed. When you said, "God is not angry with me because I am depressed and feeling hopeless" it filled my heart. Depression can be so heavy and as Christians we feel guilty about how we feel. But God created us and he loves us. Thank you for sharing sister!

This is so relatable.... i am literally cleaning up my depression mess and listening to this video. I used to be so on top of things and organized until a severe bout of depression hit. I let it get to the point where i was embarrassed and didnt even recognize myself. Thank you for sharing i dont feel so alone anymore. ❤️

I know this state of being all too well. It’s daily and persistent. You are very brave to share this. It needs to be seen. I live in complete isolation. Complete. So sometimes it feels like I am the only one suffering in this way. It is bittersweet to know that I am not “alone.”

@ladycactus110

10 ай бұрын

Living in isolation is my struggle too. Amazing video. Blessings!

@rubytuesday7653

9 ай бұрын

Your not alone. I live in total isolation .

Thank you for this video. I lost my finance unexpectantly and have just finished a three year deep depression. My house looks a lot like yours. Watching you clean up your house has given me the strength to start on my home. Thank you!

Do not be discouraged. You encourage people that even in their darkest times there is hope and there is a light. Continue to do your videos. I also am a mother of twins. I was temporarily a single mom and I know how difficult it can be. Please be encouraged to know that you are actually inspiring and bringing hope to others. In fact, I must say that I like that your videos display a bigger challenge than most homes. I look at on KZread. God bless you. 🙏

12 ish years ago I was a single Mother of 3 going through a divorce... I know and understand EVERYTHING you are saying here. I wish I could have known you and could have been there to help you out ❤ Hope you are doing well 😊 🙏

@marythomson767

Жыл бұрын

I actually just ran across this channel for the first time.

Flybaby methods helped me to keep the worst areas under control. 10 or 15 minutes at a time. I can gather the physical and mental energy that long then do that at least three times a day. Knowing I can rest and then do 15 more minutes in a bit makes it less overwhelming. Good luck everyone here. ❤

@desireewest9136

11 ай бұрын

Thats what I started doing. While I'm waiting for my coffee to brew, I clean up the kitchen. It definitely works alot better than looking at the mess all at once.

@lauramitchell6725

11 ай бұрын

@@desireewest9136 always put my dishes in a sink full of hot,soapy water so that I never have to scrub hard,crusty stuff. So it’s amazing that I usually get everything washed in the three to four minutes while my leftovers are heating in the microwave!(for my next meal)🙌🏻

As someone who has just healed from years of depression, there’s a lot of truth in this video. From a relationship with God to why people with depression keep their homes in a chaotic state. The only thing I want to say, is that the “tips for getting out of depression” would have been a moot point for someone like me. Unfortunately, just trying to do things like get out around people and do hobbies I used to enjoy was making it worse because I still wasn’t enjoying it. I’m glad you talked about God and therapy, because both of those were the number one thing that helped me. I also started going to the chiropractor for a back issue but turns out my neck was compressed on nerves that are directly related to anxiety and depression. Miraculously, after a few sessions I didn’t need medication anymore. Naturally, I began keeping things clean again, moods are stable, and enjoying hobbies again. The body is so connected with mind which are both connected to spirit.

Girl forget the haters! You don’t know how much you’re helping us out with this video. We’re not alone! We’re in this together 🫶🏾🫶🏾

I just stumbled on this video and never leave comments but… Thank you for showing your vulnerability. I can relate so much as a divorced woman with three boys. The awful relationship with my ex and other stresses put me in a dark place and my home reflected that. During Covid I got divorced, was working on teaching certification, teaching online, all while trying to keep my kids focused on online learning. I was a mess. I gained 40 lbs. I felt like I was neglecting my kids.Things are much more peaceful now. I have been organizing, purging items, cleaning. I’m working on the last frontier now- the basement of my 100 year old house. Your video gives my encouragement to finish cleaning out that dark, spider filled area today. On a higher level, I feel a connection that I’m not alone with my chaos and dark thoughts. Thank you.

As someone working to manage depression I can empathise with how hard it is up and down, 3 steps forward and 2 steps back or even 4 steps back sometimes. Even when we start to feel better and have to face the large hump of cleaning, fixing or rebuilding after a depressive episode, just to get to “start”. My thoughts are with you Faith.

You did a fantastic job! I’m so proud of you. 🍾🎊🎉Postpartum depression can be tough. I’m glad you got the help you needed 🙏🏽❤️

Single Mom here wanting to thank you!!! Been cleaning the whole time with your video playing!!! I needed every part of your video. Love your encouraging words & also loved the music!

Hi I have complex PTSD and even to get out of bed and start another day is massive, like u I struggle everyday with battling this. How people can be so rude and post horrible things to u I find so sad. U are doing an amazing job hunny so keep going x Also such a brave thing to do posting your most vulnerable times. Providing support for others and hopefully educating those how are lucky enough to not understand how depression and metal health effects people x U are showing ur babies that life isn't perfect and that is OK as well as a way to come thru it 😊

Thank you for being so authentic and sharing your story. This video touched me on a deep level, because I remember being alone and taking care of my three kids (all under 5 yrs old) while my husband was deployed for a year, and my house looked just like what I am seeing in the beginning of your video. I remember the guilt I felt, but I now look back at the woman I was then and I know she deserved grace, and I know she deserved to be lifted up. We are all beautiful humans just trying to do life the best that we can. Keep your head up, mama, you are doing good!

God bless you, Faith! I am a bipolar Christian trying to get back on track after a very long depressive episode. I have a Christian therapist and a great new psychiatrist, plus the support of 5 beautiful Christian friends. For years I've memorized scripture, learned how God designed us to be relational and support each other teachers , not to isolate, etc. But I have been frozen and unable to start cleaning for months, and my house is worse than yours. I was doing better going to bed at 10, getting up at 6:30, meds adjustments, etc., gone back to escaping through Audible thrillers and staying up all night, taking seroquel during the day to make me sleepy and escape, etc. I was a 74-year-old healthy, joyful, Spirit-filled Christian, never married with no children. And here you are a single mom, trusting God, fighting the good fight, willing to use the trials God has allowed in your life to help and motivate others, even at the risk of condemnation, even threats, by others who have no idea what you've gone through. Though I'm exhausted from staying up last night and was so dreading updating my therapist on my total lack of progress, but you have given me hope again. Praying that Jesus gives you a profound felt experience of His pleasure with you, of using the gifts He gave you to help others. ☝️👑✝️🥰🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🙌👐

Yasssss sis. To the Yah be the glory. A season for everything. There is definitely a connection between mental state and cleanliness trust me. I clean daily do detach and refresh even if its hoovering the stairs and passage. Washing up and ironing is also therapeutic. Hhis too shall pass only one way left to go and thats up. Wave goodbye to those former things. A new you is birthed, stronger than ever. One day at a time babygirl. I love you and will pray for you. Big up yourself you did real good, and I know after you finished your thought process and mind was cleaner too❤❤

Watching from the sunny Bahamas. Just wanted to say that your videos are the most realistic cleaning video’s I’ve ever seen on KZread. Keep going and keep posting, take care.

@terribrantley9875

Жыл бұрын

Amen!!

Thank you for sharing about your struggles with mental health. I'm struggling myself and fighting to come out on the positive side of it.

@vlijterconsuella6642

Жыл бұрын

❤

@vlijterconsuella6642

Жыл бұрын

❤❤🎉

@emmanuelwithpatrodegast

Жыл бұрын

You’re so brave to admit it. Please make sure to get the help that you need. You are so worth it ❤

@chanyg1013

Жыл бұрын

Stay Encouraged! 💗🙏💗

@alicialove2811

Жыл бұрын

​@Lemons Limes thankk you so much for asking,.I'm definitely in a much better place with the help of therapy

You're not alone sis. I have severe mental illness. Cleaning and personal hygiene are very difficult for me. You've inspired me to do some cleaning tonight. Thank you :)

You are a great Mother! This video is a blessing to many single moms who experience depression and burn out. This video was posted at the right divine time! Keep doing God’s work love.

Hello, Faith! My name is Gabrielle, I have been silently watching and admiring your videos for about 2 yrs now. I think it's finally time I speak up. Please know that you are not alone, not at all. I too, can relate to your words and the challenges you face. Life is hard. Parenting is hard. Single Parenting is even harder. I too am a single mother of 2 school age kiddos, been raising them alone since birth with the help of daycare and whenever a friend or relative can be available for support. I understand how much we sacrifice and endure to keep things afloat. Please know that I personally am on your side. I'm sorry for the negative comments that were said to you. We are so quick to judge another, but we are better when we support one another. You're doing a wonderful job. I'm often blown away at how well you hold it down and especially at the amazing meals you cook! I aspire to be such a cook and wish I had the talent you do. I too, have struggled with depression, anxiety, thoughts of hopelessness throughout my lifetime, I go through cycles of it and at times I feel overwhelmed. Sometimes things even feel frightening. I can relate to how you feel. Please remember you are beautiful and you are not alone. Thank you for your courage to speak up on a subject so difficult to speak about. I too, often feel stuck, embarrassed and ashamed to openly admit the struggles I feel. Thank you for being braver than I. Yes, I believe too that faith gets us through the darkest times. I believe that is how I'm still here and why I'm still going. Can't imagine anything else could be the cause. Surrendering to our Creator sometimes feels unnatural, but it's amazing the difference we feel and see in our lives, when we admit our hurt and turn it over to Him. Thanks also for sharing your faith! From one mother to another, know you are loved, not overlooked and appreciated. ❤

@pamelaarias5586

Жыл бұрын

Sorry accidentally hit the thumbs down strolling through the comments.

So very brave of you to post this video. I applaud you for taking such a risk. As a long time sufferer of depression I fully appreciate how quickly things can spiral down. It takes all we have just to wake up and tend to the high priorities like kids and work. No, you're not lazy, you're exhausted with existing. I know your joy when the black wave finally subsides and you finally feel a little alive again. A good day is having a proper shower. A fantastic day is having enough energy to clean the floors. Stay amazing - you're message is making a difference.

I loved watching your house transform from home of a relatable struggling mom to equally relatable cozy home! I think we’ve all been there to some extent. Great start to my day thanks for the boost.

Thank you, today i got up after two weeks being sick, a week of migraine and being on my period and i was just stuck in a slump. Your vid helped me to get up and clean my house ❤

Thanks for sharing ur testimony. I'm a single mom of 3. Ages 18, 10, and 6. Depression is REAL. Your mental is everything. I'm glad you and the twins are doing well. Keep up the good work, Faith. In life, we're either going through something or coming out of something. Thanks for the inspirational message ❤

I am a single woman that lives with family and I'm still struggling to keep up with just about anything due to depression. The fact that you're a single mom taking care of her children, working and still getting your place tidied up is just incredible to me! Honestly you're basically superwoman! May God bless you and keep you and your little ones❤

Honestly i love videos like this that actually show what some people homes look like this. We all have our days were we are too busy or too depressed to clean but videos like these help motivate other people to clean.

Very proud of you ma’am. We all experience bad days. Take care of yourself. You’ll be ok! Check your comments you are loved ♾️❤. I lost my apartment in 2016 to spiritual attacks and schizophrenia. This video makes me feel better. I can say you’re wise to have made it this far. You don’t know how messy life can be with who you allow into your space. A messy home is better than a messy spirit. You have one mind, one peace, and one God. You are well. God bless you.

OMG....and I thought I was the only one struggling with severe depression.....Thank you for sharing 🥰

From someone who battled depression and anxiety as well… I’m proud of you! 🥰🥰💪🏾

So many of our homes look just like this and many of us would never have the courage to share the journey- you dont know how much it helps to clean along with you in this. Thank you for being real and showing a lived in home and helping with motivation to clean. I work just one job and pregnant with my first I can’t imagine having two kids and two jobs.. you are a super woman for many reasons! God bless you and your family Ma ❤

My room was horrible and I’m currently in the process of moving and vids like these help so much thank you !!

I’m proud of you for posting this. No one can understand what the mental health struggles are unless they have had to fight through it. It’s hard being a mama and having two jobs at that! I remember seeing this at least a year ago and was so happy to see the before, during, and after from this cleanup. It was and still is very satisfying to see. Thank you for sharing.

The courage it took to share this video is so inspiring! You showed amazing perserverance getting your home back in order! Thank you for being vulnerable and real, there needs to be more of this on social media to continue normalizing mental health struggles and seeking help to work through them. I am so sorry people showed you judgement and hatred when you needed compassion and empathy. Two powerful quotes that I strive to live by......... "Don't be so busy pointing a finger at others that you fail to notice 3 of your fingers pointing back at you." "The purpose of life is to help others. If you can't help them, at the very least don't hurt them." To anyone struggling, know that you are loved, you are needed, you are important, you matter, and you are here for a reason. Sending lots love & light! ❤

@wisdom8264

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for these encouraging words.

@jennmahoney2857

Жыл бұрын

@@wisdom8264 you're welcome 😊

I have never had the idea to search one of these videos to help get me pumped up to tackle the simple cleaning that has been haunting me for what seems like weeks. My brain sees it as a huge impossible monster that will always overcome me no matter what I do. I Love how your house was reasonably messy and not just a few pieces of clothes here and there. This is how so many more people live than the average person thinks. And it's viewed with such shame and stigma. Thank you for being brave and kind enough to open your home to me. I love the tone and softens yet strength in your voice. For the first time in my whole 38 years, I cleaned and didn't feel completely alone or judged by the person accompanying me. The music and references to the Word of God were wonderful little surprises that told me I had found a nice little home for myself. You my friend, just changed my life. I truly mean that. You upped the game and may have just opened the huge door for me to be able to start taking my life back, in turn , bettering my children's lives, for which I could never thank you enough. God Bless you Sister in Christ, and may you have a wonderful and Blessed day with your babies ❤

I’ve watched this video several times of the course since it’s been posted. I have bipolar disorder and my depression was severe. My house is in a state of disaster. Everyday waking up to a house like this is daunting. You’re video has helped my to start cleaning today. Thank you! ❤

Hi Faith, I, too, have suffered from mental health, depression from the living conditions of high rent, which has taken everything I had, savings, 99% of my credit. plus threats and bullying from my new landlord, from last Oct. 2022. I live in a seedy neighbor (getting worse every day) and a real dump of an apartment. I stayed, trying to work out my schooling, for a degree. Schooling keeps my sanity, I love my class; it's IT career. Presently, I hope to get DES for rental assistance. While the landlord assistants, saw the condition of my apartment, now I'm in deep trouble. I have changed, I'm not depressed any longer, I don't have kids, I have realize that being depressed can really effect everything. I'm hanging in here, praying, believing in myself. Good luck Faith, I really like your spirit from the beginning. I know what you are going through, or have gone through. Please help the rest of us, whose is in the same boat. ❤❤ Amen!

@starrjohnson1327

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like my landlord. In 2020 the were helping people with rental assistance. Not anymore. My complex has been bought twice! Now the rent is up but we have no security officers and they tow cars all the time. The act they are just hungry for money

@tabathia7633

Жыл бұрын

@@starrjohnson1327 I think we live in the same apart. complex, but I don't think so. So, Starr, are you making plans to improve, in otherwords, move out? Starr, you have got to have faith, whether you believe in that or not. I have asked in miracles, and at the last minute have gotten them. Also, I 'm going to seek counseling. I'm on medicare, so I can get this. I think you should too, either thru, free, or church. And, yes landlords are hungry for money, but this will all come back to them, in bad ways. Please reply thru this network for further contact. You sound like you are a very confident person, and believe you are. Please contact me. Good LUck, I'm pulling for you! 😊😊

I struggle to keep my house clean. I suffer from depression and anxiety disorder, and I don't have any family or anyone to help keep it clean, but I try to tidy, but sometimes it is hard

My place looks like this and I'm by myself.When depression kicks in it , people don't understand how hard it really is.All you can do it take one day at a time,one room at a time.I do sit down and make out (to do) list for each room.Slow and sure.Remember to love yourself.❤

I just came across your video today 7/22/2023 for the first time and I have got to get out more and stop laying around playing my puzzle games. I have gotten so relaxed and need to focus on self care more and letting go of old clothes, shoes, documents etc. It is time to get my life in order. I donot claim depression but I know that it is there. I donot like being around a lot of people. I love being all by myself. Thank you for sharing your story and I wish you a lifetime of good health, love, peace and prosperity. 😊❤️🙏🏼💪