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@breb9966

6 жыл бұрын

The Doctors j

@zzzroxyzzz

6 жыл бұрын

I'm glad to hear you confirm what depression can do. In the past six months, while trying to find help, I keep being told that the things I have, bipolars, severe anxiety and insomnia, ptst, ocd, are not real illnesses. I keep having my heart broken being told I'm fine, when I have doctor's who are telling me you are not fine, you need special care in certain circumstances, it's people like you who give me hope, it's hard enough dealing with what I'm dealing with, but to have the world around me look at me and say but you look fine, it's breaking my heart each time I hear it. I cry out for help because I don't want to be a statistic, but it's amazing how many people just throw you and what your telling them away. It's been a hard 30 years, an even harder 6 months now that as an adult I'm trying to find help on my own and feel like I need someone to hold my hand, I just have to keep hoping I'll get it.

@cookingqueenb

6 жыл бұрын

Jill Seufert my love, you have a beautiful and strong soul you have courage and I am SURE you are going to get out of this make you life and others life a better place. Remember nothing is impossible and you are here for a reason just try and try to be happy until you feel like happiness is your comfort zone. I believe in you and I know you will make it out and be so fulfilled that everyone will envy you and your personality. Take care. And I love you sis.

@fluffyalpaca2466

6 жыл бұрын

The Doctors nice video

@mariomadrigal8461

6 жыл бұрын

The Doctors :(...

Depression is the cancer of the soul.

@MommaWolf1967

5 жыл бұрын

No it's not you have no idea what mental illness is all about

@clarakoesler4152

5 жыл бұрын

@@MommaWolf1967 its a metaphor calm down

@turkishdelight2013

5 жыл бұрын

Brittany Rozenberg Hollander she’s right depression is the cancer of the soul

@Mel-ky9zs

5 жыл бұрын

That was well said kudos 👏

@ninaplaysroblox3837

5 жыл бұрын

Brittany Rozenberg Hollander r/wooooooooooooooooooooosh

The fact that she used 13 hours of her life to untangle the hair of a 16-year old girl she’s never met makes her a true hero.

@MS-ez6ji

6 жыл бұрын

Twenty Juan Pilots no a true hero is someone who saves someone from getting shot. Not by making her hair better

@christianestrada6992

6 жыл бұрын

Springa13 You really believe that lol does it matter how you save someones life

@abdelhamidalasasfeh4636

6 жыл бұрын

Springa13 well you're just stupid. Depression can lead to suicide and this hero used 13 hours of her life to make her feel better and show her that she's not useless and not kill herself. Use your brain if you have one.

@jillianthecucumber6440

6 жыл бұрын

Springa13 seriously?!

@torimachado945

6 жыл бұрын

Springa13 I think you are a spoiled brat for thinking that some girls have died because they were being bullied and not by killing themselves by the bullies killing them some have dealt with loses of family members some have had incurable diseases and you here talking about how spoiled they are wtf is wrong with you she couldn’t even get out of bed because she felt like she wasn’t worth living and your hear calling her spoiled grow up you self centered ass

“Having depression is like having a body fighting a war to survive with a mind wanting to die”

@sherylg2601

3 жыл бұрын

Tanha U Hii 😄 Just wanted to say if you're suffering from depression, please reach out to someone, including me. Take care

@w-n-cw-n-c923

3 жыл бұрын

Right

@treshepherd7332

3 жыл бұрын

Totally I have depression I understand this

@YogendraSingh-sc7by

3 жыл бұрын

It's really hard to go on

@dagmarbeeke6163

3 жыл бұрын

This is so true.

God bless this woman who is so sentimental about a stranger's feeling...

@joymwendwa6959

3 жыл бұрын

AMEN!

@toniannthomas328

3 жыл бұрын

Ummm this came off weird but sure

@zimzalabim2859

3 жыл бұрын

AMEN!

@TheCelticwaters

3 жыл бұрын

It's called empathy, which is much more deeply felt than sentiment.

@heh.9166

3 жыл бұрын

made me cry 🥺

i HATE that some people think 13 year olds can't have depression because one of my best friends killed herself so please, take that into consideration. Absolutely anyone can have depression.

@niemah

5 жыл бұрын

my little sister was diagnosed with depression at 6 ,depression has no age

@jrw2319

5 жыл бұрын

We're not saying that. We're talking about the people who fake depression for attention

@leofoster87

5 жыл бұрын

@@jrw2319 i agree with you. Like they think they can make it into a trend and be popular for it.

@shadybeashooketh1911

5 жыл бұрын

I've been depressed for as long as I can remember and I have real reasons too. I agree that some kids my age think shit like watching sad spongebob edits and remembering your "boyfriend" who dumped you when you were 8 makes you depressed but a lot of us have genuine illnesses and we just get shunned because of our age.

@jazzmenfox612

5 жыл бұрын

your right there is no age limit. It has been recorded in medical books as young as 2.

THIS. THIS is what depression is. I wish people would stop romanticizing it, depression is not a pretty thing.

@user-bx5rl1js9p

6 жыл бұрын

well i kinda agree, but there are different levels. not every person with depression has it this badly.

@daylightbright7675

6 жыл бұрын

No, no it is not 😧

@user-ny6ng3lk7y

6 жыл бұрын

ValeriAdventures depression is waking up in the morning wishing you didnt. Depression is not planning ahead in life because you think "ill kill myself anyway why even try"

@roxannemapache826

6 жыл бұрын

ValeriAdventures Mmmhmm close but not really. I seem like a really happy person but I severe from severe depression. Been on many different SSRIs and yet struggle with dark thoughts. Not all depression looks like this.

@user-ny6ng3lk7y

6 жыл бұрын

thatsillywanker i've been diagnosed with chronic depression and ptsd so I think I know what i'm talking about k thanks.

"In whatever career you choose, you can literally save a life." Me as a Mortician 🤔

@tigershenanigans6878

3 жыл бұрын

Tricky one 😅

@adeyosola414

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@findingzaina44

3 жыл бұрын

keep making sure those people r dead we dont want no zombie apocolypse 😭😭 (side note: your goddamn brave, i honestly could never)

@micheledimond

3 жыл бұрын

You can save the heart of the person left behind by treating the deceased with respect and trying to make that person look as presentable as possible for their loved ones. Depression hits those left behind. Having a smooth transition is important. Although I believe you do that each time and maybe don't realize the impact it can have on one's heart and emotions at a difficult time.

@marianaaleman1814

3 жыл бұрын

😅

See honey, life is worth living. If she is watching this honey I was addicted to crack and meth thinking life was worthless as well. I was homeless on the street with no where to go in the winter living outside during blizzards here in Buffalo NY. I got clean and found new motivation for my life. I hope you do as well young lady and get the help you need. I literally was a scum bag who robbed anyone I saw. Now my dad trusts me with his credit card, I take the car, and am financially responsible. Everyone can find hope! Keto going girl!!!!

@CatTigress1

3 жыл бұрын

I am proud of you. You probably know by now what your triggers are, try to avoid that please...I don't want you to fall again. Good job! 🤗

@Sofia-ik3sl

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so so proud of you. I'm trying to get clean from addiction and it can bring you down some dark places. The fact you've picked yourself up from a strong disease and live so amazingly is so wonderful. This comment for real made my whole week. Thanks for commenting it!

@boopbeepbeepboop7

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve never met you but I’m so proud of you!! Keep up the good work, man!

@olgathehornyvampirevegan2413

3 жыл бұрын

💜💜💜💜💜

@helhaj79

3 жыл бұрын

congratulations! this is an amazing story

"She thanked me and that was my BIGGEST tip." - hairdresser 2019

@greenkitty82

4 жыл бұрын

Kita Kal yes gratitude from someone is the greatest payment you will ever have. Nothing will make you feel happier then seeing someone else happy from your own actions.

@kitakal3754

4 жыл бұрын

@@greenkitty82 "Has any one's burden's been lighten today? Because I was willing to share?" Yes, i totally agree with you. I know doing good for someone else is a joy beyond measure. A blessing of love. 💝💯 Merry Christmas! 🎄

@greenkitty82

4 жыл бұрын

Kita Kal thank you! Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones too! 🎄🎅🎁 yes if you want to be happy think about the happiness of others, if you want to be unhappy then remain selfish and think only of yourself. Spread the light and love to all and best wishes for 2020. 🎉

@barbryll8596

4 жыл бұрын

Do what you love, and love what you do!! This hairstylist is clearly in the right profession! ❤️ May she have a happy and successful career!! And I hope the young lady she helped feels better and her depression lifts. 👍😁

@fatiafg5649

3 жыл бұрын

@@greenkitty82 2020 is not the best year

Yep depression can do this. I would go days without brushing my hair brushing my teeth and bathing its rough. No one ever talks about this side of depression

@joannaedssay5988

5 жыл бұрын

I go thru the exact same thing but have a couple of good weeks inbetween.

@huna5923

5 жыл бұрын

Is it depression or lazyness

@Eclipsisse

5 жыл бұрын

This is depression. You don't even care about your hygiene anymore, it's not important. It takes a lot of energy, which you don't even have sometimes. Depression is different depending on the person. People experiment different kind of symptoms and feelings. Please don't say they're being lazy, you're not in their body. I've been depressed for over 12 years, I'm a student, about to graduate and become a teacher, so I don't think I'm lazy :)

@tamradawn1732

5 жыл бұрын

Very true. U get so overwhelmed and have no energy to function. And this shows how bad u really feel, because no way would u do that if u felt better. I almost never went a day in my whole life without a shower until i got very sick with a tumor and I am also very depressed. It is a terrible feeling and a horrible way to live. God bless all of us

@Eclipsisse

5 жыл бұрын

@@MisterKzzt Unfortunately, that can happen. The same way you stop feeding yourself. Those are basics needs, but your brain is clearly not in the mood to do that. Sometimes you simply forget, it feels unimportant. It's very sad.

I’m dealing with this with my 12year old daughter right now. She told me to just shave it. I refused and now I’m working to comb out the Matt’s and save her long hair.

@finnleyfrankie299

3 жыл бұрын

As a kid that's hair is about to this extreme and my own depression is getting awful this is some advice that I really hope u take bc I've been wishing for someone to do this for years. If u get her a therapist please dont ever make her feel like it's a chore bringing her there, dont talk about gas money or how ur tired of driving there bc ir will make her not want to go any more and feel even more like a burden. If she has a breakdown and screams at u please dont yell back, usually its from holding in emotions for days and something as simple as spilling a drink will trigger it. And finally please give them their space but when they leave their room or want to be around family again be kind and act as nothing happened. Also if they are staying in their room for days find something they like (fav chips, ect) and give it to them, it shows u love then and think about them and want her to know shes not alons

@denaahern

3 жыл бұрын

@@finnleyfrankie299 wow you know more about helping people with depression and mental illnesses than most adults! Keep your head up, I was very depressed growing up coz I had really bad self esteem but it gets better trust me. Never give up ❤️

@marialincolnful

3 жыл бұрын

Research Morgellon's Hair symptoms/matting at the root!

@ashnashirodkar

3 жыл бұрын

@@finnleyfrankie299 Along with that, make sure to not pressure her to clean her room, it's very stressful if you can't even get up out of bed

@Peace-ks9ux

3 жыл бұрын

Take a few months off, go travel in a new place, that’ll help.. and never ever complain about how much you have to do for her coz it’ll make her feel worse. Support her all the time, while yourself being strong.

The fact that she used 13 hours of her life to untangle the hair of a 16-year old girl ... not all heroes wear capes

@colleenaustin3292

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah some of them put “capes” on their clients!

@niaranjan7952

3 жыл бұрын

@@colleenaustin3292 😂 👌

@tkd3589

3 жыл бұрын

@@colleenaustin3292 nice one 😂😂

@ShockResistor

10 ай бұрын

I cringed at that over used quote.

The hairdresser deserves a reward for her kindness( thanks for all the likes)

@rainbowpandasays8851

3 жыл бұрын

She got $1,000 from Paul Mitchell products

@AmazingRebel23

3 жыл бұрын

Dude she got on tv, i think that’s enough

@tourbillon13

3 жыл бұрын

@@AmazingRebel23 Dude, I think that's enough from you... 🙄

@SisileaKim24

3 жыл бұрын

They gave her 1k

@NiamhTu

3 жыл бұрын

Sisilea Chan wow

"in whatever profession you choose, you can literally save a life and give someone hope"

@senisha9976

4 жыл бұрын

:)

@m.m.3238

3 жыл бұрын

Im an Ant breeder....I save Ant everyday. ANT LIVES MATTER (Fist Pump) !!!!!!

@w-n-cw-n-c923

3 жыл бұрын

Right

@valenotero5236

3 жыл бұрын

I literally read this at the same time he said that wtf

@pauldakim1454

3 жыл бұрын

Actually hitmen and mercenaries do the opposite...

The fact that she literally cried for someone whom she barely knows shows how kind hearted she is. Respect for this queen ❤

I hate how depression is so often romanticized as something tragic but beautiful. Depressed isn’t beautiful. It’s so incredibly painful. And it’s so hard to feel happiness or any emotion at all and it’s so painful. The hairdresser is truly a hero.

Schools need to focus on helping kids mental health rather then stressful pointless subjects

@jaydenmann447

5 жыл бұрын

Jessica Lawless it’s life nigga. Get used to it.

@jessicalawless9752

5 жыл бұрын

@@happygofishing7590 true

@iamcreamingbecause1061

5 жыл бұрын

TriztPringl nigga how the fuck is religion stressful and how would learning about why people get depressed make anything better? It doesn’t.

@goead

5 жыл бұрын

Jessica Lawless dumbass

@alannap.5165

5 жыл бұрын

Vien Sawfish how are you supposed to learn when you can’t even function? Students need to be taught how to deal with life before they’re thrown into their futures

"This is a reminder that no matter what career you choose you can still save somebody's life". TRUTH!

@Beaneabean

6 жыл бұрын

Enz Di Cristofaro Im a serial killer. True. I kill people but I could have killed someone that was going to kill someone else!

@bananakiwi8028

6 жыл бұрын

*works at McDonalds* 'hello i am mega depress giv me a burger *gives all of the food*

6 жыл бұрын

Masonry Create a fancy outdoor oven so pizza can be cooked outdoors

@adriangranadino563

6 жыл бұрын

good words 🙏

@adriangranadino563

6 жыл бұрын

wise*

Random fact: Even 8 year olds can be depressed. And some people think they fake it. Edit: hello :D if you think you’re depressed or even have suicidal thoughts, please feel free to get help from a therapist or anyone you trust. Second Edit: Im sorry i cant respond to your replies , but just remember for now that crying is okay. Ive let out my pain multiple times by crying. If you could, shout your pain out. I dont want anyone to have the pain of guilt, stress, or whatever thing that is in your heart.

@vocal.thoughts

4 жыл бұрын

thank you. Some people really don’t understand such a simple concept. They might not be boomers but they sure act like it.

@muntingnoah

4 жыл бұрын

ArTNErD -Nutella 🙏🏻

@goodgirIfaith

4 жыл бұрын

My mom says kids can't be stressed and that just makes me even more anxious like-

@m.m.3238

3 жыл бұрын

I know a 6-week old with severe depression...Ugh!!!! He'd get me so mad!!!!A real faker....

@mindworms5181

3 жыл бұрын

@Margarita Mendez I can't tell if you're joking or not wtf lmao

This hairdresser literally took 13 hours to make her hair look pretty because she didn’t want this girl to feel this hopeless in life. She’s the best hairdresser ever. 🌹❤️💕

@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701

2 жыл бұрын

Not “literally”

@gracey8442

2 жыл бұрын

@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 what’s wrong with that? 😅

That hairstylist is so pure just wow.

@khholious

4 жыл бұрын

Very.

@MieGie45

4 жыл бұрын

So true. ❤

@heh.9166

4 жыл бұрын

yes 🥺 she almost made me cry

@Boudicca165

3 жыл бұрын

@@heh.9166 What a lovely, giving soul the hairdresser has! She's a shining light in our dark world.

@pwallace5359

3 жыл бұрын

I bet her parents are so proud. They raised a decent , loving person.

I hope people realize she (in an instant ) gave up her days pay, and worked her forearms to burning. That is such kindness. And you can hear it in her voice.

@jesuschristitsjasonbourne7993

6 жыл бұрын

Ikr it’s beautiful!

Parents would say “you’re fine, you have nothing to be “sad” about, cheer up, smile more!”

The hairdresser didn't untangle her hair.... She untangled her life♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Who else thougth the hairstylist was the girl? (Because of the same hair)

@Noisy01

5 жыл бұрын

Yep

@vortexgamer1693

5 жыл бұрын

deoxys mewtwo lol

@abigailwilliams8889

5 жыл бұрын

🙋

@aquilagalendez1470

5 жыл бұрын

*me*

@vortexgamer1693

5 жыл бұрын

Aquila Galendez 🤣

Wow, that hairstylist faintly restored my faith in humanity. I'm afraid it's not gonna be long before I lose it.

@ayokubarringer5926

6 жыл бұрын

Akash Iyer calm down people do way nicer things than that.

@ak9sh293

6 жыл бұрын

ayoku barringer In today's world, that is very uncommon my friend.

@female535

6 жыл бұрын

+ayoku barringer ctfu Debbie downer

@emyemyemyyyy

6 жыл бұрын

Akash Iyer No it isn’t, you just hear about the bad more because it’s a better money maker. Promise there’s so much good out there. Make it if you aren’t finding it

@kmjot

6 жыл бұрын

This is so true...

Do you feel that? *Thats the wholesomeness seeping into your soul and reviving your faith in humanity.*

@Cynwale

3 жыл бұрын

Not really, my brain is too smart and know something is wrong here.

@ahill4642

3 жыл бұрын

Cynwale Wyl E Rium - Don't fight it, it's okay to let positivity in. ❤️

@ahill4642

3 жыл бұрын

Amen ❤️

@Cynwale

3 жыл бұрын

@@ahill4642 Maybe.

She really spent 13 hours on hair.. Wow.. That makes me happy.

Not all heroes wear capes.

@kyrentrelenberg7019

5 жыл бұрын

Agree

@kennygaming208

5 жыл бұрын

Don't you have to wear a cape to get your hair cut ?

@superFS

5 жыл бұрын

Yes the flash doesn't

@thisismaurice8823

5 жыл бұрын

Some are Barbers.

@dillon8801

5 жыл бұрын

Kennygaming20 yeah the person that gets their hair cut do, sorry to break it to you but the barber doesn’t wear a cape

I don't know why but something's tells me that she had also faced depression in her life....because unless u experience that u don't know the intensity of it

@Itjusthappened0

6 жыл бұрын

Kavya yes, i can see it in her eyes.

@manasama9971

6 жыл бұрын

bububaba yeah same

@bonbon5189

6 жыл бұрын

Very true my friend

@guygardnrr4435

6 жыл бұрын

Yes i think that too cuz she wouldent have cried that much

@subhanallahwabihamdihi5966

6 жыл бұрын

Kavya right, the willingness to help this girl didn’t come out of nowhere.

This lady was so awesome for helping that girl, BUT nobody took time to congratulate the girl who actually was depressed. Nobody took the time to talk about the girl who was going through the hours of pain of yanking. Nobody took the time to call the depressed girl a hero. I wanted to hear them talk about the girl with the knots. How she felt then and how she feels now that her hair is healthy.

@12anti-hero

3 жыл бұрын

I don't think anyone wants to be on TV as depressed, even if it's true. I am glad they didn't mention her name.

@amandadavies..

3 жыл бұрын

No...she probably didn't want to be featured in the discussion. If that had been me I would have said do NOT bring me into this.

@stariadreamtea

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!!!! And the fact the hairdresser is doing the job of family and friends. It makes me angry. People generally make depression about everyone except the depressed person. Good on you for pointing that out.

@Widdekuu91

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sure they were very careful though and talked to her during the procedure. I'm not saying she wasn't a hero or very brave, but I'm fairly sure they talked to her and were very careful and calm about brushing her hair and using conditioner.

@colorbar.s

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!! this is important

How can anyone not feel emotional hearing a young girl say that she feels worthless is heartbreaking. I hope that she left the salon with a boosted self esteem. She was worth those 13 hours.

The stylist 's hair looks like the after picture

@Rapidbeatsofficial

5 жыл бұрын

Oscar Saldivar haha i thought that too

@yourboyjefff8518

5 жыл бұрын

Ye it does I knew too

@kanevenkat8588

5 жыл бұрын

Oscar Saldivar DUDE I THOUGHT THAT TOO!

@bellaweidig558

5 жыл бұрын

200th like

@janasaleh2701

5 жыл бұрын

Oscar Saldivar IKR

A heaven sent hair stylist. Depression is an illness!

@whatisthis9180

6 жыл бұрын

Jasmine Ubah mental illness

@NathanWho

6 жыл бұрын

Heaven ain’t real fool

@Rainykel

6 жыл бұрын

Its a mental illness fam

@morganramos9690

6 жыл бұрын

Naido I mean if the world ends n the only ones that get saved are those who believed in heaven then cool but if the world ends and heaven ain't real we all finna die anyway so might as well believe, fool.

@luminous7440

6 жыл бұрын

Jasmine Ubah dumbass it's a mental illness

This was in my recommended, I got told that no matter how bad my depression was I needed to get up and get on with my day, the world isn’t ending.

@Yoongiluvbot

3 жыл бұрын

Carry on!

This hairstylist has a good soul, she literally spent 13 hours just to make her hair good again, I'm really proud of her.

All these people calling out "fake depressed teenagers"...

@riversf1958

5 жыл бұрын

Well dude this is a real problem

@misssmisssymaria

4 жыл бұрын

Depression is an illness, not a feeling.

@maivaiva1412

4 жыл бұрын

River SF it is far from a "real problem" jfc what is a real problem however is depressed people not seeking for helpp because they think they don't have it bad enough and they just need to suck it up.

@TehMomo_

4 жыл бұрын

@@maivaiva1412 this.

@oonaverse

4 жыл бұрын

maivaiva i read that wrong at first and I though you were telling depressed people to suck it up but I read it again and yeah you are 100% correct

God bless you. You may have saved her life and changed her family and friends life. It's like a ripple in a pond.

@tubulartaeyong252

6 жыл бұрын

God isn’t real

@VampyRagDoll

6 жыл бұрын

Biased bet you feel special for that. 🙄

@lveriss

6 жыл бұрын

Biased god is real*

@bi_anca7554

6 жыл бұрын

Biased bitch we ditent ask for you unless opinion

@daisy6681

6 жыл бұрын

Biased neither are u HAHAHA GET IT FAKE BISH

This is no little thing for a person with depression, this was all for her. This shows so so much love.

I'm literally crying. I wish every helpless teenager fighting depression comes across a beautiful soul like this

When i was depressed i also stopped brushing my hair and teeth, i was showering like once in a week.

@KaRiNa-pj9sb

4 жыл бұрын

If that is you in the pic you are so beautiful, but I know that depression can hit anyone. Hope everything keeps going good with you.

@ninamyte1664

4 жыл бұрын

@@KaRiNa-pj9sb thank you! Yes it can Hit everyone sadly. I'm glad i got help and Do better now

@rebeccalindberg

4 жыл бұрын

Ninamyte Same 😕

@lovemusicnatureartsfoods...

4 жыл бұрын

I was here right this moment for long years but I fight for it and I know I will win through powerful prayer...

@kangyeosang3422

4 жыл бұрын

Ninamyte you are a beautiful girl always remember that 😍😊☺️😌😘

You can tell that hair stylist has thee sweetest most pure heart.

@ledesmagabriel7104

4 жыл бұрын

i just see hair

@dashidashie

4 жыл бұрын

@Gabriel Ledesma wtf

@lunchroombologna9617

4 жыл бұрын

Gabriel Ledesma bro she spent 13hours to do her hair, instead of shaving it because she wanted to make her feel better! That’s amazing 💜

@iwonthesitateebltch3319

4 жыл бұрын

@@lunchroombologna9617 13 hours isn't that long trust me.

@lunchroombologna9617

4 жыл бұрын

Lil-Millie l well that doesn’t matter, she didn’t just shave it off which is the amazing part! Most people wouldn’t do that

Having depression is like your mind and body are at a civil war with each other.

@nisthasingh6143

3 жыл бұрын

You described it.... perfectly

You don't need to be a psychologist specifically to help someone with depression.Anyone, in any capacity, can help others . Just the desire to help somebody should be there.A big salute to the lady.

I have depression too, I slept for months to the point where I got bed sores. But my mother kept getting me up to shower and she would bring me food and tell me how much she loved me. I only wish more parents could do that for their children, to understand and still take care of them no matter how much they have given up on themselves. Edit. Its been three years, I went to a therapist every Friday for a year and I am off all my medications. I told my father to his face the damage he caused by abusing me, and he apologized. I didn't just blame him, I told him I knew about his childhood abuse and that it wasn't right to continue it with me. He broke down and that was the first time I saw him cry, we still have a strained friendship but its getting better. I met someone at a place I was working and we are now engaged, we have been together for a year now. I'm still at home repaying my mother for all her kindness and compassion. And I haven't felt depressed in a whole year. I know it's still looming in the back of my head but its quiet now. I can say honestly that I am content with my life. Thank you all for your concerns and care for my wellbeing.

@angelinamartinez5648

6 жыл бұрын

Alaina E. Are you out of bed yet?

@mitchies.1964

6 жыл бұрын

you're lucky, my parents tell me to get over it.

@alainaeastman02

6 жыл бұрын

My father used to beat me black and blue and believed that my depression and anxiety was just a child being rude. I left when I was 16, I have had depression all my life. Being 6 years old and trying to kill myself wasnt ideal specially if your father hates you for it. I am grateful for my mother, I am still working on recovery and getting my life back together, but its a long road and its hard not to jump off of it. Keep moving despite the ignorance, wont bs you saying life will get better but I will say it might get easier.

@touyatodoroki338

6 жыл бұрын

Alaina E. I'm very sorry to hear that

@ak.7006

6 жыл бұрын

Alaina E. I'm very sorry to hear that. I'll support ya to get better :)

Some heroes place a salon cape around those in need.

@Sara11115

6 жыл бұрын

so nicely worded

@paramorefan2138

6 жыл бұрын

Lol truuuuuuuuuuu do

@curseagent

6 жыл бұрын

There was once a person who went around giving homeless people in need new haircuts

@honkeykong9563

6 жыл бұрын

Wow. My first comment to go 1K+ Much thanks to all who made this possible. I’m king of the world, Wooooohooo!

That hairstylist saved that girl’s life, she made her feel that she mattered...sometimes, it takes just a little ray of light in someones life...bless her soul 💕

That hairstylist is a hero she did something beautiful and that's amazing

I thought that the hairdesser was the girl....

@esctea7887

5 жыл бұрын

cmdnwjcjacuwj same ALOENSLDMD

@a_bear

5 жыл бұрын

same

@C0smiccharm

5 жыл бұрын

Omg same until the caption came up

@sherin7498

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@yerrmyla2469

5 жыл бұрын

rkwjnfnqro me tooo😭

*_that hair dresser has such a big heart, God bless her_* 💜💜✨

@elizabethporter2127

5 жыл бұрын

Kim NamJams 💜💜💜

@spxd_er1

5 жыл бұрын

Army 💜

@hamnashariqqq

4 жыл бұрын

@@spxd_er1 wtf, all you bts fans care about is yourself.

@spxd_er1

4 жыл бұрын

@@hamnashariqqq i love how you think i care about myself, thank you

@j.esp0ir877

4 жыл бұрын

@@hamnashariqqq no not all of us are the same and sometimes you gotta care for yourself and love yourself sometimes. But I do agree with what you're TRYING to say is that it's kinda selfish to call out a fan when the situation is serious. But go off I guess

I love the fact that her hair now looks similar to the hairdresser's

She wasted 13 hours of her time to fix a girl’s hair. Most people would shave her hair like she said. But this woman. Chose to fix her hair. What a kind lady. BE MY FRIEND PLEASE

Talk about a woman with a heart of gold! God bless her!

@abraranjum3639

6 жыл бұрын

I like you

@abraranjum3639

6 жыл бұрын

Because you have a big heart for another person

@halieyklaren5254

6 жыл бұрын

Just like Meli yah bc shes from the best state ever.. How cuz Iowa is amazing

@RicardoGarcia-vj9hi

6 жыл бұрын

God isn't real

@nevershoutforeverxx

6 жыл бұрын

Bumpty Likes Blumpkins why does some miserable dipshit always feel the need to make this worthless comment. just watch the video and go

I thought the hair stylist was the depressed teen

@Simon-hn6bi

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@Lav3nd3rForest

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@xxstientalgaming7271

5 жыл бұрын

Plot twist the hairstylist was the teen🤔

@vane3431

5 жыл бұрын

Sadly same

@iwonajedrzejewska1319

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

This is the happiest most hopeful and the purest thing i have ever seen in my entire life.

I’m 11 ex-depression and insomnia sufferer and 2 years ago when I was 9 I started cutting and tried almost 12 failing suicide attempts, but it’s the kind people in this world who brought the old me back and now I’m healthy, fit, enjoying my life and have left the past behind me.

@laylas7429

3 жыл бұрын

I’m SO HAPPY FOR YOU...!!! 😃😃😃 Just keep it going, and LOVE YOURSELF “The best days of your life are ahead of you”... Going through these kinds of things, just makes us stronger on the other side.. Remember to LOVE YOURSELF, and LOVE OTHERS... and your whole life will blossom in beautiful ways... ❤️❤️❤️

@Izzii_Bizzii

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, nobody deserves to go through what I felt ✌🏻 stay safe and remember there is alwase a light at the end of the tunnel

@colorbar.s

3 жыл бұрын

Depression doesn't really work like that, it doesn't just disappear with hard work. Either way, good job.

@Izzii_Bizzii

3 жыл бұрын

@@colorbar.s it heals, but you’ll alwase have it with u

@psychanii9768

2 жыл бұрын

i've been depressed since i was 10, but during covid when I was 11 i got diagnosed with depression formally after my father saw my self-harm cuts. i got put in therapy and soon after i got put on meds that i stopped taking back in november. i'm 13 now, and i still have ups and downs sometimes. glad things are good for you

For all of you "calling out teenagers for faking depression": I went through puberty extremely depressed. The only reason I could get out of bed was I was so intensely terrified of being yelled at that it was enough fear to drive me out of bed. Everyone told me I didn't have depression, it's just my age, to man up, etc. So there I was, a young teenage boy, self harming, suicidal, exhausted and sick all the time, unable to bathe consistently or get frequent enough haircuts, feeling all the more pathetic and worthless because of this attitude. I still have depression. Now that I'm older and my self harm and suicidal tendencies became too obvious to ignore, I'm finally believed. But if I'd seen a mental health professional earlier instead of being told it was just normal teenagehood and I was faking it, perhaps it never would've gotten this far. Perhaps I would've kept up with school, perhaps I'd have friends in person. So please don't attack young people for expressing their feelings. Yes it can be annoying when someone's all like "UwU I'm so depressed" when their experience seems mild. You don't know what they're going through deep down, you don't know their lives. Seeking attention online by faking mental illnesses is itself a sign of neglect in the home, is a sign of other disorders aside from the ones they're claiming. If you're a teen- or anyone, really- who feels like you need help and no one is listening, please reach out. Feel free to respond to this comment, too, I can't do much but maybe I can make you feel heard, and if that helps at all? Then I'll be very glad to have done something rather than sitting back claiming other people's problems aren't real simply because on a surface level they're not as bad as my own or as bad as they could be.

@gasstation3837

4 жыл бұрын

you are amazing.

@vaughnhaney7020

4 жыл бұрын

@@gasstation3837 Thank you

@mitt1459

4 жыл бұрын

Wow. Go beat that shit man, 👌👏👏👏

@mitt1459

4 жыл бұрын

Don't give up, people love you

@vaughnhaney7020

4 жыл бұрын

@@mitt1459 Thanks bro, although no one I know in person does haha, I've got my career to work towards

Just reminding people that depression can range from mild to severe, since so many comments are trying to invalidate those people. Just because someone can function in life it doesn't mean they're not depressed and don't have the joy sucked out of every little thing in life.

@redazure9683

5 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah yeah

@Anreii

5 жыл бұрын

@@redazure9683 _Oh yeah yeah_

@rockyrae240

5 жыл бұрын

Anrei thank you

@brendanoutdoors8145

5 жыл бұрын

Oh yea yea

@ruthwheeler1563

5 жыл бұрын

Anrei take this in mind

My daughters struggled badly in her teens it was so hard to get help for her .She is 35 now but then it was so hard to get help eventually after many years she was diagnosed with borderline personality .She is on meds to help but can be very erratic at times and I am always not far to help her . It’s so hard when you have a child that goes through life finding it mentally such a struggle so many ups and downs it’s such a roller coaster .

*That hairstylist better get a raise.*

such a sweet beautiful soul God bless her.

@carolinewebber6016

6 жыл бұрын

Annointed One teehee 666 Likes 😏 lol I’m so immature

@bryannaevans

6 жыл бұрын

1000th like

@airfreshnernews6351

6 жыл бұрын

Annointed One and god Bless you 😀😀😀

@hannah-to9fn

6 жыл бұрын

2400th like!

@Strawberrybutterfliess

6 жыл бұрын

Yea boi Christian

What a sweet lady. This made me cry. 😭💕

@moe4357

6 жыл бұрын

How tf did this shit make u cry

@LiliLili-sw2mi

6 жыл бұрын

+Clorox Bleach well some people have emotions, ever heard of it?

@pesdmsn1239

6 жыл бұрын

Shaina Coleman awww

@ceecee1424

6 жыл бұрын

This is unrelated to the video, but I just wanted to say you're very beautiful (no homo)

@daisyfigueroa8661

6 жыл бұрын

Shaina Coleman I would cry if I was that little girl

These kinds of pure and beautiful gestures make me believe in humanity.

You don't really realize what you're doing to yourself until much later. I never gave it any thought until it was over. I had destroyed myself slowly over time. Too afraid to ask anyone for help. Help that I desperately needed. I needed someone. I let my hair grow and become messy. I darkened my curtains and blocked out the light. I spent less time around friends. I punched my head in frustration until I had large bumps. I screamed on the inside because I was too afraid to shout out loudly because I didn't think anyone would understand and help me. Depression is an awful thing that I wish we didn't have to suffer, but i suppose to be rid of it would mean to get rid of some of the more positive emotions we also can feel when life isn't total hell. I hope everyone who is currently drowning in the darkness finds their way and finds the light once again.

she's not fake at all. what a wonderful lady. God bless her💕

@jesuschristitsjasonbourne7993

6 жыл бұрын

She’s a beautiful lady

13 hours! That's dedication

@harusami5249

5 жыл бұрын

Your total is coming up to $749.99

@lilpup1414

5 жыл бұрын

@@harusami5249 lmao

@loki884

5 жыл бұрын

Harusami 😂😂😂

@Amir7

5 жыл бұрын

2k likes 3 comments ILLUMIMATI

This story brought tears to my eyes most because the stylist is he had such a beautiful heart

I'm a doctor, I specialised in paediatrics. Going through these comments, the main issue here is the fact that most of these kids are seen by counsellors. Not a psychiatrist specialized in child or adolescent care. If the counselor is trained at picking up signs of depression in adults and is now seeing adolescents, they are not trained enough. No offense. Children are not miniature adults and adolescents are not all attention seekers. There are kids who fake an illness, to not do school work or house chores but even that is a sign of an underlying conflict. It's not depression but they do deserve to be heard and loved. Adolescents and young adults suffering from depression should understand one thing. It IS A DISEASE. There might have been a trigger, a few stressors, but now it's a disease, just like heart disease or diabetes. It won't "go away". People keep asking for the cause. Cause was relevant only in the beginning. Now it's a disease and it needs treatment. Treatment isn't "seeing a counsellor" if it's severe enough to cause distress and suicidal thoughts. It needs to be treated with medicines. There are safe and effective medicines. This isn't 80s. We don't lock people up or give horrible drugs to keep you "dull and zombified". You actually get cured, or at least reduce the problems to an extent where you can enjoy the little things in life again. If your child has depression, go see a doctor. Get a proper diagnosis. Make sure if medicines needed or not. If it's manageable with counseling, the doctor will guide you to a psychologist or the specific type of counseling needed. Please do not hesitate. Protect your child's mind NOW just like the way you protected his/her head from a fall when they were kids.

@blue.orangeade

2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!

What a wonderful kind young lady! She has a bright future! 😊

@giselleri

6 жыл бұрын

Delilah Christian ur profile pic scared me

@airfreshnernews6351

6 жыл бұрын

Shelby Shels lol

@giselleri

6 жыл бұрын

England is My city it's like a doll or something I think. And if that's a real child.... I'm TRIGGERED.

@kjcruiser7855

6 жыл бұрын

Shelby Shels that is definitely a doll.. look at its eyes 👀

Who else thinks the school System is broken? Most kids get stressed and depressed from school Omg 16k likes I have the most likes on all of the comments thanks so much🧡🧡🧡

@zatrix7400

5 жыл бұрын

Death Aholics yeah. I got anxiety over school

@katsukibakugou1524

5 жыл бұрын

I got my social anxiety from school and I sweat and get anxious every time I think about school...

@paytonashley9969

5 жыл бұрын

JimmyTheLlama 47 I get anxiety over school and the kids in it

@germimejia7205

5 жыл бұрын

Only the weak do

@iliachachanidze7438

5 жыл бұрын

youre name and comment are little edgy but you can get depression through the school of course.

Everyone's talking about depressed girl's hair. No one is talking bout her depression. Edit: BTW Hair dresser is so kind ❤ May God Bless everyone🙏🙏

She truely does deserve this gift and she's so amazing and you rarely see such people be so kind and compassionate to a stranger, let alone a depressed teen.

omg she is so caring and kind, she needs to be protected

Bless this lovely lady she is a true angel

@Yeezuslover381

6 жыл бұрын

k Dickens lol Momp

Most "hairdressers" would have shaved it or even made it choppy and half assed. She is an angel😇

Once my hair was at this point and my 21 year old older sister took like 6 hours to untangle my hair in a bathtub and some conditioner! I was not depressed it was just quarantine and I had not brushed my hair in months and and had a bun in my hair for months!!!! My sister is very kind and I love her with all my heart!

Some heroes don't wear capes. They put a salon cape on the ones they rescue. This beautiful woman is heaven sent and deserves the world and all the happiness in it.

@profile4856

6 жыл бұрын

Osephinejay Do incest is ok then?

@ipunch-mcpevideosandmore2519

6 жыл бұрын

Teal Rose It's not ok, but you can be whoever you are, it's your choice. You can do incest shit, be a robber, etc.

@rabiakang8945

6 жыл бұрын

Osephinejay omg I thought of that Wattpad story no capesm

Honestly, it's just nice to see good and wholesome people still exist in this world.

@btsbigbanggot7386

6 жыл бұрын

CloudySkies17695 yeah

@kyliedelawyer3420

6 жыл бұрын

And in Iowa too most people would never be that nice

@sostuckonstupid5132

6 жыл бұрын

CloudySkies17695 sister ,,,,,,,,,,,, Amen! 🙏

@avamayfield6648

6 жыл бұрын

I know right? This is the next generation of our race and if they want it to last, they need to make sure we are taken care of..

@bonbon5189

6 жыл бұрын

So true :/

What a lovely girl helping this young vulnerable teen and make her feel good again about herself is heart warming.

The hair stylist is so soft hearted and kind person...our world need kindness....... Love from uk.

Please everyone just remember: Noone can tell you that you're 'not sad enough' to get a little attention. Whenever you feel the need to talk about something, do it.

@flowersforzoe1503

4 жыл бұрын

Louder for the people in the back!! This comment section is filled with "this is what REAL depression looks like" etc etc, but no hun. Just because someone has it worse than you doesn't make your problems and the way you feel invalid.

@Bumblexo

4 жыл бұрын

True

@iwonthesitateebltch3319

4 жыл бұрын

I have tried to tell people and ask to talk to them but then they say I want attention..

@m.m.3238

3 жыл бұрын

What? I CAN .... "Youre just Not SAD enough to get attention....sorry.....put a little more effort into it....a little more gusto". SEE?....I just did. Thank You.

@silverbat5873

3 жыл бұрын

THIS!!!!!! People need to sit down and stop gaslighting people with depression. I'm in my 30s and people have done this to me since my teens, is why I couldn't admit I had depression for so long & was ashamed. Remember you are loved & supported!

I hope the girl she helped is doing better emotionally and mentally. The hairdresser has a heart of gold. For 13 hours, she worked and worked to help ease this girl's depression and boost her confidence. There should be more people like this hairdresser in this world.

Kindness is alive. So much more than apathy. This made my day. Thank you.

She's NOT The Only One! I Get Like This Also When I'm Severely Depressed! It Is A Horrible Illness Depression And Anxiety!!!

What an amazing stylist. I hope her career soars. 💕💐

@kcmn0089

6 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@okaythen7039

6 жыл бұрын

Why did I read that as "I hope her cancer soars"

@rachaelm7084

6 жыл бұрын

Carla Greig 😂

@myrnapagan7436

6 жыл бұрын

Or his

@myrnapagan7436

6 жыл бұрын

Nvm

what a sweet heart

@littlebigkicker

6 жыл бұрын

+Matt Smith no

@EI_Greko

6 жыл бұрын

Laura yes

It's good that some understand that depression isn't sadness. It's not easy to get out of. It robs you of every feeling and leaves you as a shell of a human being. It's like your soul has left, but your body is still there, existing, and for what? All of the things you loved and cared about most are simply irrelevant. You don't care anymore and you can't figure out how to care. It takes something like this to help catch your footing. The best advice I ever received as a patient was to do one thing for myself every day no matter how small that makes me feel prettier/better about myself. If taking a shower was too daunting (and it's extremely exhausting as someone with multiple chronic illnesses and depression) try to put on a clean, pretty shirt. If changing clothes was too much to handle, put on some earrings. If not earrings, put on some chap stick. Any little thing every day helps get you back into motion and helps to prevent you from falling back to rock bottom.

I have fought depression and understand what she was feeling, but it's great that you did this for her ,you are a wonderful person to have helped her ,may you always shine as as the Angel you are

And I cry when I get home from the hair dresser when the style is just remotely different from how I expected...

@causeofmyserendipity8562

5 жыл бұрын

Ravioli Ravioli, give me a reason to live that's totally normal

@mileyw0056

5 жыл бұрын

Mhm

@user-sk9bx8st5o

5 жыл бұрын

happend to me I was crying sm like bish if I say I want my hair like that make it like that lmao

@simarillion666

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@allyisawesome842

5 жыл бұрын

Mine is different than I expected, it was better! But then the next day it is back to a weird state. Man, those hair dressers are magical

I suffer from chronic depression. The worst thing about it is when people use it to move ahead of you instead of helping you.

@stevethorn9156

6 жыл бұрын

It becomes worse when they actually know something about you and depression. They start to irritate you, bit by bit, to the extend of making you go berserk. ..and aha, when you do THAT, everything that you've strived for will fall apart.

@JagexNub

6 жыл бұрын

Steve Thorn I go through the same thing, stay strong though Steve! We love you.

@Yumyumhoneybun

6 жыл бұрын

Steve Thorn That's a demon you need deliverance

@l1meloves575

6 жыл бұрын

Very true!! That's truly relatable.

@rhyleefitch867

6 жыл бұрын

I know I remember back in 6th grade one of my friends made up this story about how she talked me through it and she ended up getting so much praise and she only did that to get attention and that’s what I realy don’t understand about people these days and how the think so obliviously

I got my cry for the night 😭 what an amazing human being this hair stylist is! Makes my heart warm and fuzzy and I pray for the young teen as well as the hairstylist! Here's to brighter more joyful days ahead for u ladies!♡

What a lovely young lady, the empathy she felt for her client was remarkable, and I’m sure she helped with her self esteem 👏

Depression sucks at any age...I'm 59, and know first hand what depression is like...giving up on friends, family, and my business...what a wonderful thing she did for that girl..we all need something or someone in our life

@myopinion6328

6 жыл бұрын

Type 99 Why? Are u going to tell me u care or life gets better, or don't give up...

@myopinion6328

6 жыл бұрын

Type 99 I've heard all of the words of wisdom...some of us are just wired differently...some of us are just biding our time...

@dustpan458

6 жыл бұрын

My Opinion yeah. The thing is sometimes life doesn't get as good as you want it to. It might get better and it might not, that's the gamble of life. Good luck my friend and i hope ur situation improves

@babycakes8434

6 жыл бұрын

sgt.pepper lonelyhearts Recently I heard someone say "have no expectations"💝The more you expect, the more disappointed you are if it doesn't happen💝💝💝

@sarahs.fromgummersbachgerm4863

6 жыл бұрын

My Opinion hello My Name is Sarah. Im from germany. But if you need someone to talk i would take time for you. Greetings

Please understand the difference between “I am depressed.” and “I have depression.” Everyone can feel depressed, it’s natural to feel down sometime in life. Depression, on the other hand, is not a single emotion, it’s a whole, complicated state of mind. Either way, depressed people and people diagnosed with depression can both have an internet hug from me❤️ the amount or seriousness of someone’s sadness doesn’t really determine the fact that they all deserve some kind of consolation

@ed6090

5 жыл бұрын

• feigh • thank you. i have been personally diagnosed and im going through a lot right now so to 1. have someone agree with me and 2. be supported helps. 💕

@cinder6091

5 жыл бұрын

But what is I do have depression lol I wasn’t diagnosed by a professional or anything but just me lol

@ed6090

5 жыл бұрын

ItsCrazyLaffle then you don’t have depression. you may think you do, but you don’t medically have it until you’re diagnosed.

@cinder6091

5 жыл бұрын

こんにちはTM but I thought of death :/ idk

@ed6090

5 жыл бұрын

ItsCrazyLaffle yes, but that doesn’t mean you have depression.

What a lovely young woman! I hope her career is thriving and her life is full of happiness, and I hope the girl she helped has gotten treatment for her depression and is now living her best life.

I'm so touched by her empathy and care for this poor, depressed girl. 🥲❤️ Bravo!! 👏👏👏✨️✨️ We need more people like this in the world ❤️

Awww stylist has an amazing heart 💖God bless her.

@jesuschristitsjasonbourne7993

6 жыл бұрын

She’s so kind!

13 hours?! That hairstylist is the real MVP!

@alida8837

5 жыл бұрын

It’s not that long my hair just tangles itself and it takes about 10-15 hours so I only brush my hair once a month(I know a month seems a lot)

@riverdalefan3125

5 жыл бұрын

lolo ikr 😂

@Alienpromqueen

5 жыл бұрын

Bruh try being black getting braids 😭

People like this still exists and that's a big joy to the world. And also I wanna say, instead of saying that we need more people like this, let us try and be that ourselves. Let us live every second of our lives without a single hesitation to help people, care and show kindness ❤️