Depersonalisation disorder: Why are some people unable to feel love? BBC News

For people living with depersonalisation disorder the world appears unreal, as if through a haze or fog - or even in 2D. Many are left emotionally numb, unable to feel love. One in 100 people is thought to have the condition, but experts are warning that few medical professionals have heard of it.
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  • @briannabonilla1725
    @briannabonilla17256 жыл бұрын

    I would never wish this disorder on my worst enemy. It's the worst feeling and leaves you feeling lonely and numb.

  • @umaimasaeed8975
    @umaimasaeed89753 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes i get so scared of myself. I feel like i can never love anyone wholeheartedly, not even my parents or my friends or myself.

  • @leoapoldrakowski3304
    @leoapoldrakowski33044 жыл бұрын

    I clicked on this because I was trying to figure out why I can't feel love towards another person

  • @jenniphermariea8976
    @jenniphermariea89766 жыл бұрын

    The music/sound in this video is horrendous and distracting.

  • @KaranPatel-ns3jc
    @KaranPatel-ns3jc3 жыл бұрын

    I feel that I am unable to love anyone anymore..it feels like after waking up I am just acting to be a son, a bf, a friend, a brother with different people.. literally just pretending to be myself..it feels like I am employed by me to act like me.

  • @rafael9921
    @rafael99215 жыл бұрын

    I feel like im in a dream and every second im gonna wakeup but i never wakeup

  • @johnnybrix5308
    @johnnybrix5308 Жыл бұрын

    Anyone ever get scared about relationships because not sure whether your feelings are correct and feels artificial?

  • @Dingleberry_smith
    @Dingleberry_smith6 жыл бұрын

    So much ignorance in the comments, you don't know the pain until you experience it. 2 years of DP for me and counting.

  • @st4rrysy
    @st4rrysy3 жыл бұрын

    i cant feel love for anyone anymore. but like..i know who i love. i just don’t feel it.

  • @velvia7880
    @velvia7880

    DP/DR is a blessing in disguise. It's the beginning of the ego not being the in drivers seat all the time anymore. The ego thinks it's dying. You're not. It's actually a very beautiful thing that is happening. You are waking up. Give yourself time to go though this process. The greatest help I found in my process was this:

  • @sportsnewz5608
    @sportsnewz56082 жыл бұрын

    It starts at any time but usually at early adolescence or early adulthood. It appears as a defence mechanism against severe anxiety, trauma by switching of reality. You know that you love your family but you sort of know it academically rather than feel it.

  • @va_esiahvi
    @va_esiahvi Жыл бұрын

    I always feel like I am no longer human. I am just existing doing role-playing in real life.

  • @Gregory-lu3up
    @Gregory-lu3up6 жыл бұрын

    This is very real, and it is hell. I've had depersonalization disorder since 2004

  • @katelynsmith7084
    @katelynsmith70844 жыл бұрын

    I don’t want to be one of those people that self-diagnose them selfs but I relate to everything in this video 😐

  • @snowflower._.
    @snowflower._. Жыл бұрын

    Waking up and you can just end it all, cause nothing feels real, nothing. It sounds so simple but you have no idea how scary and empty it feels

  • @Ddmm123
    @Ddmm123 Жыл бұрын

    Everyone in this comment section saying you a living with this...holy hell. I had no idea something like this even exists..this is like hell on earth..I am so very sorry and I wish you all to return back to normal asap. Doctors, specialists, scientists where you at??

  • @divinellght
    @divinellght Жыл бұрын

    I’ve had it for almost 2 years. Honestly it was the worse feeling ever waking up everyday having panic attacks, feeling like I was in a dream, looking in the mirror and freaking out. I hope everyone that’s going through this recovers. You will and you can. The gym honestly helps and self care. Keep taking care of yourself and eating healthy foods! Keep surrounding yourself with great people❤

  • @WhiteAfrican78
    @WhiteAfrican78 Жыл бұрын

    I suffered from this for less than a year. It felt as if I was a passenger in my own body. I sometimes stared at my hand and asked "who's hand is this"? Words coming from my mouth....it was me but it didnt really feel like me. It became quite frustrating trying to break out of this bubble.

  • @anteyes6976
    @anteyes6976 Жыл бұрын

    I believe there is a form of this where you can love those close to you but still have an overwhelming feeling like you are never really there with them, even if you want to be. You can be sitting right next to them and be a billion miles away.

  • @galaxi407
    @galaxi4072 жыл бұрын

    I don't love anyone. The concept of love is alien to me. I feel like we're conditioned by society to follow an order, love, marriage, kids, family and friends, but doesn't come naturally to me.