Debunking the “Kids Do Better With Gay Parents” Study | Ep 770

Today we're discussing a recent study many news outlets have reported on, which looks at the children of same-sex couples and concludes that these children fare the same or better than children of heterosexual couples. We start with some thoughts on "gay marriage" in general from a biblical standpoint, which would hold accurate even if this study were valid. Then we break down the study analysis, which was funded by China (the CCP), and its methodology, which has more than a few glaring issues, and outcomes. We share some studies that have been correctly done, which show that the opposite seems to be true - children of heterosexual couples indeed do fare better by many different metrics. We also share a big show update coming soon!
#news #politics #christianity
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Timecodes:
(00:00) Intro
(00:41) Show update!
(05:16) Gym class analogy
(16:03) Gay parenting analysis / thoughts on "gay marriage"
(26:12) Who did the study
(30:38) Methodology & outcomes
(38:08) Problems with methodology
(43:31) Opposing viewpoints
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Links:
Forbes: "Kids Raised By Same-Sex Parents Fare Same As-Or Better Than-Kids Of Straight Couples, Research Finds" www.forbes.com/sites/robertha...
BMJ Global Health: "Family outcome disparities between sexual minority and heterosexual families: a systematic review and meta-analysis" gh.bmj.com/content/bmjgh/8/3/...
Review of Economics of the Household: "High school graduation rates among children of same-sex households" link.springer.com/article/10....
Cambridge University Press: "Children in three contexts: Family, education and social development" www.cambridge.org/core/journa...
National Library of Medicine: "(How) does it make a difference? Perspectives of adults with lesbian, gay, and bisexual parents" pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18194...
National Library of Medicine: "Adult attachment style dimensions in women who have gay or bisexual fathers" pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19631...
Wiley Online Library: "Same-Sex Parent Families and Children's Academic Achievement" onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/1...
National Library of Medicine: "How different are the adult children of parents who have same-sex relationships? Findings from the New Family Structures Study" pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23017...
SSRN: "Child Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorderv (ADHD) in Same-Sex Parent Families in the United States: Prevalence and Comorbidities" papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.c...
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Debunking the “Kids Do Better With Gay Parents” Study | Ep 770

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  • @mattjohnson5489
    @mattjohnson5489 Жыл бұрын

    I love how the holy Spirit works in your life Allie Beth.

  • @newjerseylion4804

    @newjerseylion4804

    5 ай бұрын

    Holy spirit feels a lot like malice disguise as empathy.

  • @brandonlesco8738
    @brandonlesco8738 Жыл бұрын

    Reminds me of everyone saying "Don't homeschool your kids, they'll turn out weird!!" Meanwhile at the local public school...

  • @gisellewisdomdavey5554

    @gisellewisdomdavey5554

    Жыл бұрын

    RIGHT! 👏🏼

  • @Sarah_Kilmer

    @Sarah_Kilmer

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely!

  • @Joshtapus

    @Joshtapus

    9 ай бұрын

    As a homeschool kid for a couple years, it most definitely makes you weird

  • @montanagirl3835
    @montanagirl3835 Жыл бұрын

    It's interesting that this was funded in part by the CCP. I live in Hong Kong with my family currently and there are things I prefer about the U.S., but I have to say there is far less gender ideology. There's no announcing your pronouns, etc.

  • @B0Ymom
    @B0Ymom Жыл бұрын

    You say people used to be more blunt but that's what I love about you is that you aren't afraid to speak the truth which we know comes from the word of God. All Christians should speak the truth lovingly. I struggle with this because I am often too fearful to speak up. You are an encouragement to me. I pray that your channel gets bigger so you can reach more people.

  • @nicholauscrawford7903
    @nicholauscrawford7903 Жыл бұрын

    Moms and dads do, indeed, bring different and complementary things to the table when it comes to parenting. I find it very toxic when moms in shows (especially sitcoms) expect dad to not just have her back within reason but to parent the exact same way mom does, and even more toxic when the show takes mom's side just because and never lets the father character rein in any of mom's excesses. I would also be calling out vice-versa, except that its just not something I seem to have seen. It's always the female parent that shows seem to side with for some reason provided that the proper complementary parenting isn't being showcased. Thankfully, there are shows which do show proper parenting. There's a reason, multiple reasons in fact, that God made them complimentary and not with one being better than the other!

  • @sharonhoward884

    @sharonhoward884

    Жыл бұрын

    "Proper parenting?" Parenting requires love, patience, compassion, kindness, strength, resilience and selflessness, all of this is not requisite of a gender or combination of genders. Don't confuse fiction with reality. TV show "characters" are exacly that, they are for entertainment not life lessons lol

  • @MR-cb7pe

    @MR-cb7pe

    Жыл бұрын

    King of the Hill is the only show I’ve seen that showed respect for the father.

  • @wiseonwords

    @wiseonwords

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sharonhoward884 - But @Nicholas Crawford is right though, and I suspect you know that. For decades, there's been a concerted effort to minimise or ridicule male figures in sitcoms, films, and other forms of popular entertainment.

  • @jammystarfish
    @jammystarfish Жыл бұрын

    This topic comes pretty close to what it tales to get kicked off youtube but go ahead and say what needs to be said.

  • @WCove99

    @WCove99

    Жыл бұрын

    Let's see how long it stays up!

  • @l.c.8798

    @l.c.8798

    Жыл бұрын

    If that's true, every single episode of hers would be removed tbh, I'm surprised many are still up

  • @lyndsaygraham802
    @lyndsaygraham802 Жыл бұрын

    All studies are like this. I've been doing vax research for a decade and all studies are like, Here are all the terrible things that we found happened, but we still recommend it. 👍

  • @FastNCurious88
    @FastNCurious88 Жыл бұрын

    When gaslighting becomes a global weapon of war

  • @pianogal853
    @pianogal853 Жыл бұрын

    About the exercise class, I have found a wonderful Christian instructor who does her class to Christian music. It's my favorite worship time of the week!

  • @roblangsdorf8758
    @roblangsdorf8758 Жыл бұрын

    A friend of mine had a daughter who fell into the homosexual lifestyle and "married" her lover. After a number of years they decided to adopt the child of an out of wedlock mom. That mom gave birth to twin boys. The boys are now teenagers. One of them has decided that he is a she and wears dresses, wigs, and other things to try to look like a teenager girl. I ran into his straight brother a while back. He had a desperate look in his eyes that asked, "Is there anyone out there who can help me deal with this insanity?" Unfortunately it wasn't a place where we could really discuss the issues. He is trapped in a culture that tries to promote strange sexual views and he is having a hard time finding support for being normal. Please pray for both of these brothers.

  • @pridan94

    @pridan94

    Жыл бұрын

    This is so made up

  • @NelidaUtuwatu

    @NelidaUtuwatu

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@leftylibra1534 let me guess. "Made up" but also very good that it's happening, right?

  • @pianogal853

    @pianogal853

    Жыл бұрын

    I pray you get an opportunity to share with him and help him find a sane community

  • @pd26224

    @pd26224

    Жыл бұрын

    You don't fall into the homosexual lifestyle duhhhhhh.

  • @Btx931

    @Btx931

    Жыл бұрын

    Being gay and being trans are two different things. If you are implying it was the lesbian parents who “turned him trans” I can assure you that gay parents don’t expect their kids to be trans. Not do the make them trans.

  • @ebullock1000
    @ebullock1000 Жыл бұрын

    I found during the Cavenaugh trails and was so thankful to find a SAIN opinion. Congrats on 5 years!!

  • @anthonybarber3872
    @anthonybarber3872 Жыл бұрын

    If it takes make and female to make a child, it takes male and female to nurture and raise a child.

  • @sharonhoward884

    @sharonhoward884

    Жыл бұрын

    Wrong

  • @anthonybarber3872

    @anthonybarber3872

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sharonhoward884 What makes you say that?

  • @sharonhoward884

    @sharonhoward884

    Жыл бұрын

    @@anthonybarber3872 It takes XX and XY gametes and a healthy uterus to make a child. The biology that facilitates this process has nothing to do with the propensity or willingness to raise and nurture a child or to parent effectively.

  • @lauragb3677
    @lauragb3677 Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on your new set and the excitement of a Relatable refresh. Thank you for interesting and important content. I appreciate your faith and perspective.

  • @laurarobertson81
    @laurarobertson81 Жыл бұрын

    Your metaphor was perfect!! Thank you!!!

  • @jimd8008
    @jimd8008 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you again for sharing your opinions and beliefs. The perspectives you discuss are thought provoking.

  • @udhav423

    @udhav423

    5 ай бұрын

    She’ll say anything to conform to her confirmation bias

  • @macias7125

    @macias7125

    Ай бұрын

    @@udhav423where? She said nothing but facts

  • @udhav423

    @udhav423

    Ай бұрын

    @@macias7125 you spelled delusions wrong

  • @macias7125

    @macias7125

    Ай бұрын

    @@udhav423 no I didn’t even say the phrase “In your brain”

  • @marcopolo4576
    @marcopolo4576 Жыл бұрын

    As a guy, I really appreciate your intellectual approach too many issues but, you went all girly on me talking about your new studio and the new music and all of that LOL but, keep up the good work Allie

  • @Switzer1234

    @Switzer1234

    Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate your intellectual approach TO (not TOO) many issues. TO: From here to there. Go to the store. TOO: Too much chocolate causes a tummy ache. Don't talk too much.

  • @TeresaDBrown
    @TeresaDBrown Жыл бұрын

    What days and what time are your podcasts ?

  • @TheMrsMegapig
    @TheMrsMegapig Жыл бұрын

    Allie Beth! Some of us don’t do well with change! If millennials can’t answer their phones how can we deal with new set AND new intro music in the same week?!? 😂

  • @jojosherbaladventures8078
    @jojosherbaladventures8078 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video Ally, it's very important. Re your sponsor ad for pressure-point wrist bands: I'm concerned that this is from another religion. It has been my understanding for a while that using these pressure bands is similar to having acupuncture and that that is occult. Just a heads up, something to look into and pray about (although maybe you have already). Best wishes, Joanna

  • @MrPladdy

    @MrPladdy

    Жыл бұрын

    Herbal adventures? Herbs are used in eastern cultures and religions

  • @pianogal853

    @pianogal853

    Жыл бұрын

    Consider that God made our bodies with pressure points, just like electrical systems which we measure with an EKG, etc. Some other religions have taken those facts and made them part of their religious practices. Like natural medicine, we don't have to quit being healthy because so many people have incorporated their religion into their application of natural cures.

  • @littledrummergirl_19

    @littledrummergirl_19

    Жыл бұрын

    There are ways to use medical practices without the ties to eastern religions, like yes avoid things like yoga and reiki etc… but there are needling and pressure point techniques discovered and studied because of eastern medicine but that are now based on medical studies on how it affects the body through muscles and nerves etc… whereas the eastern religious version focuses on energy healing and chakras and stuff, just make sure you’re solidly in the medical version of the treatment and not the energy stuff

  • @brookelynnpaige7828
    @brookelynnpaige7828 Жыл бұрын

    Don't know who you are but thank God for bringing your Chanel to my attention

  • @aaronlevitt6820
    @aaronlevitt6820 Жыл бұрын

    Regarding the brief topic at the beginning, about God's omnipotence on our behalf in all circumstances, it is certainly true for the externals (Matt 28:18; Luke 12:6-7; Rom 8:28). Also, I've heard it preached that we are given the grace we need to get through each day, and that we shouldn't mentally reach into tomorrow's difficulties, because we haven't yet been given tomorrow's grace. (See Matt 6:34.) And Jesus's express permission not to worry is a wonderful thing (vv.25-34). God giving us the grace we need when we need it is how we are able to "do all things through Christ who strengthens" us (Phil 4:13). It's not that we can handle everything, it's that He gives us the ability to handle whatever we need to, whenever we need to. I like to remind myself: "He is always the God of 'enough'." Whatever we're in need of, He'll give us enough of it. He is usually the God of much more than enough, but He is always the God of enough. As He told Paul, "My grace is sufficient for you." (2 Cor 12:9) Even when Job suffered, with everything taken away from him but his life, God was the God of enough. Job not only didn't die, but God later raised him up to a position even beyond his former grace and favor, which had been substantial (Job 1:2-3; 42:10-17).

  • @anjalisartistry870
    @anjalisartistry8707 ай бұрын

    They do or not do. It depends on type of couples. We mustnt demonise gay couples and allow them to make their own decisions. Respecting others sexuality doesnt mean approving them.

  • @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    7 ай бұрын

    You don’t have to respect someone else’s sexuality and you do not have the right to make decisions that influence children and figure generations adversely. It’s not about the adults, it’s about the children.

  • @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    7 ай бұрын

    You don’t have to respect someone else’s sexuality and you do not have the right to make decisions that influence children and figure generations adversely. It’s not about the adults, it’s about the children.

  • @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    7 ай бұрын

    You don’t have to respect someone else’s sexuality and you do not have the right to make decisions that influence children and figure generations adversely. It’s not about the adults, it’s about the children. There is no demonization here, only asking legitimate questions and probing as you should.

  • @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    7 ай бұрын

    You don’t have to respect someone else’s sexuality and you do not have the right to make decisions that influence children and figure generations adversely. It’s not about the adults, it’s about the children. There is no demonization here, only asking legitimate questions and probing as you should.

  • @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    7 ай бұрын

    You don’t have to respect someone else’s sexuality and you do not have the right to make decisions that influence children and figure generations adversely. It’s not about the adults, it’s about the children. There is no demonization here, only asking legitimate questions and probing as you should.

  • @montegtaylor
    @montegtaylor Жыл бұрын

    Keep the hard work going!

  • @lindamaxey3827
    @lindamaxey3827 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the breakdown.🙏🌹

  • @mitramaharaj9696
    @mitramaharaj9696 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you for telling the good news!

  • @chelseamatchett
    @chelseamatchett Жыл бұрын

    It’s same sex “mirage”

  • @mguerramd
    @mguerramd Жыл бұрын

    Why change the tune? To what end? When Clay and Buck changed Rush's intro music from "My City Was Gone" to that horrific noise, it was terrible. The music was awful, but more so the continuity was broken. I'm sure your music will NOT be horrible, but still I would stick with the continuity of it. Your prerogative, of course.

  • @jolieroberts4
    @jolieroberts4 Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, so as a dancer, dance educator, gx instructor/manager, I cannot take a class from an instructor with zero rhythm. It’s much too distracting for me and NO fun.

  • @GratiaPrima_
    @GratiaPrima_ Жыл бұрын

    I love, love Allie’s marriage alliteration. Absolutely, it’s all through scripture and reflective of the gospel. Prayers for eyes to be opened to Chinese absolute propaganda and for children to have what they need and deserve for being raised well. Question, given these biblical facts, what are thoughts about marriage as a sacrament? Obviously, relegating it to the state isn’t any good for society.

  • @Fitz307
    @Fitz307 Жыл бұрын

    The truth is that these kids are being held hostage by perverts, and that they are being mentally, emotionally abused in every single case, because, to poison these poor kids with the horrors of "lgbtq" is the worst thing you can do to them. Real Christians will have to minister to these kids one day.....God help them

  • @gabbyyeargain

    @gabbyyeargain

    Жыл бұрын

    Not every person that is LGBT is a groomer. Just like not every straight person is a groomer even though that most groomers happen to be straight.

  • @Cytl-bu3nq

    @Cytl-bu3nq

    Жыл бұрын

    Real Christians? certainly not you Dan. The truth is that you are one of these people who are in a bubble of self righteousness, and it is clear from your own words that you are not a Christian, oh you mat call yourself one but in reality you're skipping the second part of what Jesus said. You shall love tour neighbor as yourself, that means anyone with whom you come into contact. But no you are showing yourself to be a hateful bigot who is only concerned with his own self centered, self righteous view, all the time thinking you are doing God's will.

  • @sharonhoward884

    @sharonhoward884

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds like you might be in need of one of those "real Christians" shame on you.

  • @thesufferingwatcher6073

    @thesufferingwatcher6073

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@gabbyyeargainNaah, thats just groomer propaganda😇😇😇

  • @toolio5268

    @toolio5268

    8 ай бұрын

    @@thesufferingwatcher6073Statistically straight white men are groomers. Doesn’t mean every straight white man you see is gonna molest your kid.

  • @NancyGuerrero-ws3hl
    @NancyGuerrero-ws3hl4 күн бұрын

    Came to your old video to enjoy the nostalgic old intro lol

  • @Nellyjulieth
    @Nellyjulieth Жыл бұрын

    Allie, What do you think about what Steven Lawson said about John MacArthur at the Shepers conference inauguration?

  • @yjk5737

    @yjk5737

    Жыл бұрын

    What did he say?

  • @Yesica1993

    @Yesica1993

    Жыл бұрын

    Which was... what?

  • @GMA_love_you
    @GMA_love_you8 ай бұрын

    This is all bull... Like i said my friends who are a gay couple saved the little girl they adopted who's Christian biological parents abused her. That baby was in the hospital for 5 weeks so dont tell me a woman and man make the best parents. To me it depends on the people themselves.

  • @shaelynnmoon8842
    @shaelynnmoon8842 Жыл бұрын

    March to GODS beat even when everyone around you is off beat

  • @Btx931
    @Btx931 Жыл бұрын

    Every study ever done by any group finds that kids raised by gay or lesbian parents fair better than kids with straight parents. Gay parents also raise kids who are straight at the same rate as straight parents. Gay parents are more likely to do a better job at co parenting if they separate. This has all been true for the last 30 years when studies started. It’s very annoying to straight people who don’t like gay people.

  • @FreddyFazFella1987

    @FreddyFazFella1987

    Жыл бұрын

    Well kids who have two moms do grow up to be more successful than kids with two dads and even straight person

  • @AscendingGoogle123

    @AscendingGoogle123

    10 ай бұрын

    Who conducted said studies though? What ideological/religious backgrounds do they have? Is it possible that the results and the interpretations are a result of bias or a hidden agenda? No scientific study should be taken as absolute truth (a hard thing for liberals to hear since this is your religion) and one should always remain source critical. A reminder that scientific studies were conducted in the 19th century that supposedly "proved" how black people were racially inferior to Whites. Do you think we should take their findings as absolute truths?

  • @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    7 ай бұрын

    I think you missed the point of the video or didn’t watch it entirely…… A lot of those same-sex studies are flawed in methodology, politically charged or skewed toward the researcher’s or funding company’s social biases. This isn’t about “liking” or “disliking” gay people, it’s about the rights of children to have a mother and a father, the sociological effects of marital structures and in terms of Ally’s position, abiding by God’s word. No one mentioned disliking gay people, if anything, telling the truth and not censoring your views to save others feelings is the kindest, most respectful thing you can do. You are projecting your own feelings and insecurities onto other people.

  • @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    7 ай бұрын

    I think you missed the point of the video or didn’t watch it entirely…… A lot of those same-sex studies are flawed in methodology, politically charged or skewed toward the researcher’s or funding company’s social biases. This isn’t about “liking” or “disliking” gay people, it’s about the rights of children to have a mother and a father, the sociological effects of marital structures and in terms of Ally’s position, abiding by God’s word. No one mentioned disliking gay people, if anything, telling the truth and not censoring your views to save others feelings is the kindest, most respectful thing you can do. You are projecting your own feelings and insecurities onto other people.

  • @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    7 ай бұрын

    I think you missed the point of the video or didn’t watch it entirely…… A lot of those same-sex studies are flawed in methodology, politically charged or skewed toward the researcher’s or funding company’s social biases. This isn’t about “liking” or “disliking” gay people, it’s about the rights of children to have a mother and a father, the sociological effects of marital structures and in terms of Ally’s position, abiding by God’s word. No one mentioned disliking gay people, if anything, telling the truth and not censoring your views to save others feelings is the kindest, most respectful thing you can do. You are projecting your own feelings and insecurities onto other people.

  • @DavidMccallister65
    @DavidMccallister65 Жыл бұрын

    It's "VEE-la" Bob Vila 😂

  • @batmanrobin6848
    @batmanrobin6848 Жыл бұрын

    You took way too long to get to the point

  • @YAHheistheWEH777
    @YAHheistheWEH777 Жыл бұрын

    I recently found your channel, Allie. I just wanted to tell you that yours is one of the best Christian channels bringing light to real world issues with a realistic, not to mention *sane* perspective, and I appreciate you. 👏🏻 Thank you so much, Keep up the good work!

  • @wjdyr6261
    @wjdyr6261 Жыл бұрын

    It sounds like they're lying with statistics

  • @PrettyBaby293

    @PrettyBaby293

    10 ай бұрын

    I am a woman with lesbian parents and I can tell you guys gay parents can be just as problematic as straight parents…there is not “gay parents raise well minded children” it’s not all of a sudden rainbows and unicorns just because the parents are the same sex.

  • @wjdyr6261

    @wjdyr6261

    10 ай бұрын

    @@PrettyBaby293 children being exposed to homosexuality on any level is detrimental regardless of the child's outcome as an adult.

  • @PrettyBaby293

    @PrettyBaby293

    10 ай бұрын

    @@wjdyr6261 idk about that but I do agree that children need to have role models of both sexes. Men and women are different and some things need to be taught by one or the other. A woman can’t teach a boy certain things a man can and men can’t teach girls certain things a woman can. Mothers and fathers both offer different perspectives and sensuality for their children. A little girl needs her mothers sensual touch.

  • @toolio5268

    @toolio5268

    8 ай бұрын

    @@wjdyr6261It’s not as sexual as much as being straight is

  • @wjdyr6261

    @wjdyr6261

    8 ай бұрын

    @@toolio5268 which means what?

  • @pianogal853
    @pianogal853 Жыл бұрын

    Just the term 'sexual minority' is pejorative. Showing their viewpoint goals right in the title

  • @eliciaeldridge3452
    @eliciaeldridge3452 Жыл бұрын

    Kids do better in stable environment with a family that loves them, I think that much is clear whether the parent's are same sex or not.

  • @user-vm5yk2js6w
    @user-vm5yk2js6w4 ай бұрын

    NATI ONAL LIBR ARY OF MEDI CINE: St udy 20 15: Summary: >>These stu dies reveal that children raised in same-s ex parent families fare just, as well as children raised in different-s ex parent families acr oss a wide spectrum of child well-being measures: aca demic performance, cogn itive development, social development, psychological health, early se xual activity,...

  • @celestialmorpho
    @celestialmorpho7 ай бұрын

    32:50 cohabitating versus marriage

  • @Veronica102788
    @Veronica10278811 ай бұрын

    Wisdom and Common sense . You do not need studies to find out which are best . Everyone is more or less successful than the other person and the choices humans make governs if the balance of the natural order wether those too weak to handle the natural order to ignored it and live a fantasy or strong willed to follow it and embrace reality of its harshships . But the natural order Created me and I live to this day because of the male + female intercourse . Every human here including myself and many others in this comment sections are only breathing air to this day due to male and female relationships . Wether they no longer have both parents condider you would never exist with 2 of the same gender for 2 cannot create you and spermbanks to be created is a VERY poor and week way of life . Granted I feel for those females that are unable to reproduce . Nature is giving but is also so very cruel and I believe in balance of nature even if it means a portion of humaniy must be extinquished to restore common sense and ballance to humanity . Male+Female= Ballance Male+Male=imballance Female+Female= imballance . This is what natural studies show . But if your one of those Book ,or modern science studies then thats just best guesses . Best guesses are based on logical facts Not natural facts and Natural facts overrule and outclass logical facts because its the natural path of life and creating life . I do not believe in logical Facts because they violate what is naturally right . Only natural facts exist and Everything else is a Lie . However Nothing wrong living a lie if people are too weak to embrace the reality of nature . Reality of nature is , Hardships, rejection, conflict , sorrow , failing and much more ! If a person cannot experience this in their lives then they are nerver going to better them selves to become a much greater person of themselves .

  • @natsusatsujinki8342
    @natsusatsujinki834210 ай бұрын

    Matthew 19:12 Christ certainly talked about "homosexuality". If people actually did research on what eunuchs did in society they might have understanding. Then again everyone isn't ready to accept that fact.

  • @nchinth
    @nchinth Жыл бұрын

    if gay parents are better, they should make their own and not pay someone to create babies for them.

  • @rebeccachambers419
    @rebeccachambers419 Жыл бұрын

    It’s sad to me that sin has entered the scientific community. There is nobody you can trust. Not even the church. 😢

  • @missroaches3712

    @missroaches3712

    Жыл бұрын

    Lmao bye-

  • @missroaches3712

    @missroaches3712

    Жыл бұрын

    “Sin” has always been in science. Because science is facts and facts don’t care about your feelings (religion).

  • @pianogal853
    @pianogal853 Жыл бұрын

    I'm glad you went over this. I wasn't even aware of the study, but the liberals in my family will certainly bring it up and I will need to know what it actually says

  • @truthisbeautiful7492
    @truthisbeautiful7492 Жыл бұрын

    16:03 analysis

  • @gravityslave6277
    @gravityslave6277Ай бұрын

    I'm all for following what makes you happy. If that's the lifestyle you choose, fine. If you're not hurting anyone doing it, great. But that's not the case. You're dragging children into your messed up controversial world. You have no idea of how much of a negative impact you are having on this kids developmental growth. These people didn't like coming out under the scrutiny of straight and/or religious parents...what makes you think it's any different for a straight child with same s*x parents??

  • @yulfine1688
    @yulfine16884 ай бұрын

    To bad all that studies are gone or give errors though

  • @jamesg3808
    @jamesg3808 Жыл бұрын

    "Children of same-sex parent families are less likely to be straight as adults, research claims." Daily Mail Wait a second! Didn't conservatives used to say this decades ago, which offended gay activists?

  • @Bos_Taurus
    @Bos_Taurus3 ай бұрын

    Lev.20-13 God knows best.

  • @pd26224
    @pd26224 Жыл бұрын

    So are you saying a single mom or dad is bad because they don't have the other parent .get a grip you silly girl..

  • @missroaches3712

    @missroaches3712

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree, it’s not the amount/biological sex of the parents that matters but mostly their approach to parenting and their socioeconomic status.

  • @the_original_bug_god

    @the_original_bug_god

    8 ай бұрын

    yeah only having one parent is definitely worse than having both mom and dad

  • @macias7125

    @macias7125

    Ай бұрын

    It’s bad for the kid

  • @deniseadkins2901
    @deniseadkins2901 Жыл бұрын

    If people are experiencing disfunction then they don't need children. If they can't have children on their own then no one should help them. There is a reason that they can't have children. It's not good for the children.

  • @user-nc3ds5fb2y
    @user-nc3ds5fb2y3 ай бұрын

    Anti-everything, Pro-nothing... God complex.

  • @LouisMorissette
    @LouisMorissette Жыл бұрын

    Im a gay dad and I hate those kind of studies. What are we trying to gain? Just be a good parent and help your parents grow into amazing human beings. Your sexuality is irrelevant.

  • @jamestrotter3162

    @jamestrotter3162

    Жыл бұрын

    Jesus Christ disagrees with you.

  • @LouisMorissette

    @LouisMorissette

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jamestrotter3162 im not religious, so that fine.

  • @jamestrotter3162

    @jamestrotter3162

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LouisMorissette He's not religious either, He's God, and He sets the terms. He defines what true marriage is, and He sys that it's always only between one biological man and one biological woman, and He also says that any other so called " marriage" outside of that is an abomination.

  • @LouisMorissette

    @LouisMorissette

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jamestrotter3162 you realize all your beliefs mean absolutely nothing to me… you are free to believe i am going to hell, if you want, but i really dont care. In my book, i’m simply going to shut down and start decomposing when i die. I live my life being kind and loving to myself and others regardless of what they believe in.

  • @Yesica1993

    @Yesica1993

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LouisMorissette Truth doesn't disappear because you choose to not believe it. Repent of your perversion, while He still grants you breath to do so.

  • @ebonyaddison3021
    @ebonyaddison3021 Жыл бұрын

    You just admitted the truth: LGBT people and gay people are capable of being wonderful parents to their kids; you admitted that you personally know gay couples who are wonderful parents to their kids and they provide emotional, social, and financial support to their kids; you just admitted that someone's sexual orientation has nothing to do with his or her ability to be a good parent to a child. So, logically and rationally, why are you still against gay parenting when you know that gay parenting (and someone's sexual orientation) really doesn't cause more problems in a child compared to heterosexual parenting? I think it's mostly because of your religious beliefs. You have no scientific evidence to support your claim that same-sex parenting is bad for children, so the only real reason you're against gay parenting or gay marriage is all because of your religious beliefs. Your religious beliefs, with no scientific evidence to support your views, are not good reasons to be against gay marriage or gay parenthood.

  • @missroaches3712

    @missroaches3712

    Жыл бұрын

    You are 100% correct. It makes me happy that there are at least some people that can think rationally, critically and reasonably.

  • @AscendingGoogle123

    @AscendingGoogle123

    10 ай бұрын

    @@missroaches3712 A reminder that scientific studies from other societies (Russia, China, Japan etc) often find harmful affects are associated with gay "parenting". Science is not conducted in a vacuum but is always affected by the political and sociocultural context. In our culture, being "homophobic" (a fake word) is one of the most grave offences one can commit thus the reason why there's a false concensus here regarding gay "parenting".

  • @toolio5268

    @toolio5268

    8 ай бұрын

    ⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@AscendingGoogle123You said ”Science is not constructed in a vacum but is also affected by the political and sociocultural context” as a rebuttal to studies on same-sex parenting conducted in western societies, yet go on to say “there’s a reason why these culturally homogenous and conservative societies found harmful effects with people who go against our culture of conformity.” And no, homophobia is a real word describing prejudice against or harboring discriminatory beliefs of homosexuals or anyone a part of the LGBT. New words are made up all the time to describe modern phenomena

  • @AscendingGoogle123

    @AscendingGoogle123

    8 ай бұрын

    @@toolio5268 The point that I am making is that people are absolutely free to choose to believe in valid scientific studies, conducted in a different sociocultural context than ours here in the west, that reveal harmful effects with same sex parenting. People like you need to stop anointing yourself as the sole representatives of "reason" and "intellect" because of your social views while calling everyone else backwards. There are perfectly good reasons as to why a child would do better with a mom and a dad. For example, when the subject is not about contentious same sex politics but rather about paternal/maternal absence, western studies often DO yield harmful effects on children who grow up without their father/mother. Isn't that interesting? Seems like many academics and researchers are able to prove harmful effects of gay adoption when the words "gay" or "LGBT" are not explicitly mentioned...

  • @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    @AnonymousC-lm6tc

    7 ай бұрын

    I think you missed the point of the video or didn’t watch it entirely…… A lot of those same-sex studies are flawed in methodology, politically charged or skewed toward the researcher’s or funding company’s social biases. This isn’t about “liking” or “disliking” gay people, it’s about the rights of children to have a mother and a father, the sociological effects of marital structures and in terms of Ally’s position, abiding by God’s word. No one mentioned disliking gay people, if anything, telling the truth and not censoring your views to save others feelings is the kindest, most respectful thing you can do. You are projecting your own feelings and insecurities onto other people. Allie stated that a gay person can be a good mom or dad, BUT they can’t mimic the nurturing or parental styles of the opposite sex that balance out a child. Her attempts to meet the other side are not an admission of having incorrect views or a sign of surrendering her core beliefs, but a way of bridging gaps and trying to have a productive conversation. If you could stop being defensive and recognize that others have the right to their opinions perhaps you could think about the situation more clearly.

  • @ShilohXE
    @ShilohXE10 ай бұрын

    Get a grip, worry about actual abusive households 🗣

  • @lauraalmasan3930
    @lauraalmasan3930 Жыл бұрын

    Soddom and Gomorrah is here

  • @DavidMccallister65
    @DavidMccallister65 Жыл бұрын

    Their methodology was obviously flawed. Plus, how could they analyze the wellbeing of children in homes with gay parents without including all the studies that show the detrimental effects of children growing up without fathers and or without mothers? Those obviously relate to the topic. Also, I grew up with my high school sweetheart from kindergarten and we were a couple from freshmen year until after graduation and she grew up the entire time with "two moms". She was the middle child and had an older brother and a younger brother and it may be anecdotal but I saw firsthand the negative effects that it had on all of them. There are too many things to list but it definitely hurt them. Her oldest brother actually ended up struggling with same sex attraction and depression and ended up hanging himself in 2010😔 Not blaming his mother for his death but his childhood definitely had a negative effect on his emotional and mental wellbeing. Boys and girls BOTH need their mother and their father.

  • @DaddyZhong.

    @DaddyZhong.

    Жыл бұрын

    The studies regarding missing mothers and fathers isn’t about gender lmfao. It’s a condemnation of single parent households and a celebration of two parent households.

  • @DavidMccallister65

    @DavidMccallister65

    Жыл бұрын

    @@DaddyZhong. careful you'll show your ignorance. Even your beloved Obama and other far left socialists have cited these irrefutable studies and statistics

  • @toolio5268

    @toolio5268

    8 ай бұрын

    Because single parent homes where parents leave have an emotional impact on the parents that could effect the parenting style and even the child’s mental health. Being gay doesn’t mean you have a scarring loss to the family and have to raise your child with depression. Plus there’s probably a LOT more to the kid’s suicide story other than “struggling with same sex attraction.” Maybe he was bullied? Harassed? Maybe the Moms were just bad people?

  • @brandoncameron2686
    @brandoncameron2686 Жыл бұрын

    I think all 50 states allow gay parents to adopt now. I think Florida was one of the last hold outs. I don’t think we’re going backwards on this issue. You have to be in very good financial shape to adopt kids. So if there’s one thing that they’re going to get is a financially stable home to prevent them from being in poverty and maybe turning to crime and living off welfare. At least gay parents provide a financially stable home.

  • @AscendingGoogle123

    @AscendingGoogle123

    10 ай бұрын

    "I don't think we're going backwards on this issue" lol, I imagine that was what people in Weimar Germany thought while doing cocaine in gay clubs and attending drag performances in Berlin during the 1920s. Contemporary values can turn on a dime.

  • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
    @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Жыл бұрын

    Taught Kindergarten 20+ years, including kids who had same sex parents. They were brattier. That is all. Not smarter. Not more compassionate. Just sleep deprived and bratty.

  • @loreebrew38
    @loreebrew38 Жыл бұрын

    I agree with most of what you say Allie, but you made an oxymoron statement. You say you know same sex parents who are great, wonderful parents who love their children very much. The fact that they are same sex parents, alone makes them bad parents. It's wrong and shows evil as good to those kids. Even if it seems they've grown up "normal" and seeming well adjusted, knowing God and His plan for all humans, it is destructive even in seemingly good same sex parent households.

  • @sharonhoward884

    @sharonhoward884

    Жыл бұрын

    Parents, straight, gay or single, don't or shouldn't be teaching their children what is right or wrong as far as who they choose to love, it's nothing to do with parenting. Same sex parents are not evil or destructive. I am not a same sex parents, I am a single parent whose husband chose a good time over his children and his wife. Our "same sex" parenting didn't result in a happy, loving, stable home. It resulted in trauma, hardship, loss, grief and struggle. My same sex male parent friends however, have been together 31 years & raised 3 wonderful children, an engineer, a teacher & a speech pathologist. All amazing young adults with the absolute best parents it was possible to have. They weren't "seemingly" good, they were and are much more than that. The character qualities that give a child a chance to grow up as a well-adjusted adult have absolutely nothing to do with what's inside the underwear of their parents.

  • @loreebrew38

    @loreebrew38

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sharonhoward884 You're right, it isn't what's in their pants but what's in their heart's. A gay couple raising children do not have what's best for the children in their heart's. They have a selfishness that goes against Christ and no matter how "normal" they all seem, loving and of good character or living a life the world says is success, they are disobeying their creator and causing the children to follow or accept a life contrary to God's righteousness. Even if they seem to live a life well lived here on earth, how is it acceptable to God if it leads to their eternity in hell?

  • @geigercourtier
    @geigercourtier9 ай бұрын

    As a grandchild of same sex grandmothers, I can tell you I wish she never came out and died a better mother. All her possessions went to someone I’m not related to not had or could have any children with her. My families equity went to some sexual fetish when she died as far as I’m concerned.

  • @shadows1199
    @shadows119916 күн бұрын

    Nice delusions, anyway 0/10 ragebait

  • @mattjohnson5489
    @mattjohnson5489 Жыл бұрын

    Love your hair in a bun.

  • @cubnbooty
    @cubnbooty11 ай бұрын

    I'm not a Christian, but I believe that children are not better off with homosexual parents. Children need a mother and a father. End of story.

  • @lauraalmasan3930
    @lauraalmasan3930 Жыл бұрын

    I think we need to stop using the word gay. Gay means happy. As long as we use their words, we are not on the offensive, fighting for righteousness. The correct words are sodomy and homosexuality.

  • @rvastrik
    @rvastrikАй бұрын

    What a person is like as a parent depends on personal characteristics, not sexual orientation.

  • @sean9448
    @sean9448 Жыл бұрын

    Why do you always cover your legs with a blanket?

  • @Yesica1993

    @Yesica1993

    Жыл бұрын

    Maybe she's cold. Why do you care? LOL!

  • @l.c.8798

    @l.c.8798

    Жыл бұрын

    I think the studio is just really cold.

  • @rs82302
    @rs82302 Жыл бұрын

    As someone that's Gay and very right leaning who cares whether a child's parents is a straight couple or gay couple? There's no reason a gay couple would be better parents then a straight couple and same way the other way around. As long as a child has a stable home with two parents that prioritize and love them more then anything then who cares?

  • @chattown09

    @chattown09

    Жыл бұрын

    Just to understand your argument, whatever I do is ok, as long as it doesn’t affect you?

  • @Bexbecgood

    @Bexbecgood

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m lesbian and right winged too. I agree 100%. I also believe children should have stand up role models of both sexes no matter what the sex of the parents. My wife and I will never be a strong male role model for our future children. We will lean on our friends that share our values to be those male role models for our future children. I disagree when same sex parents state things like “our children don’t need a father they have us!” Or vice versa. It’s selfish.

  • @GratiaPrima_

    @GratiaPrima_

    Жыл бұрын

    Maybe listen to the episode. And many more Allie has done on this. Children need a mother and a father for their best chance. Of course there are people raised fine otherwise, but we’re talking statistically… there’s no question what we should be incentivizing.

  • @rs82302

    @rs82302

    Жыл бұрын

    @@GratiaPrima_ Tell that to my Biological straight parents who did nothing but smoke crack in a car with me until I was finally saved by being put into foster care. Am I better off in that because I have a mom and a dad rather then if I had two Men or Women that just wanted to have a family and actually give a damn? I understand Allie's point of view and maybe "statistically" she's right but not everything is so black and white as the right and left likes to make it. The truth is I know a lot of straight parents that should've never had the opportunity to be parents. I also know a lot of good straight parents. I know one gay couple that should've never become parents. And I also know about 5 other gay couples that have a very healthy family with children that love them more then anything and I doubt would agree with Allie's assessment that their lives would be better if they had a mom and a dad. If a child is being fed, clothed, housed, loved, and any necessities then why does it need to be your version of an ideal family? If I could've chosen to be with a healthy gay couple then what I was in I'd chose the gay couple 1000× times over. Sorry a Mom and a Dad did nothing for my life. Gay couples are not the problem. Bad parents are the problem.

  • @rs82302

    @rs82302

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gisellewisdomdavey5554 and this is the kind of thing that gives the radical left tons of ammunition. I grew up in a very Christian home that condemned being gay so I very much understand your point of view and considered killing myself because of what an awful sinner I was and how I was gay because I couldn't find God. and what radical Christians don't understand is that it's not something you can change. They're supposed to be a religion of love and acceptance but if you aren't the way Christians say you're suppose to be then they condemn you and say you're sick and going to hell and change your ways. Remember when Jesus sat with the sinners instead of people who followed him? That's because he wanted to convert sinners with love and acceptance. Not hate and telling them they're sick and wrong. Even if the Bible says being gay is wrong (which it does I'm not arguing that) then why don't people just accept me as I am when it's something I can't change? It's something I felt for as long as I can remember so clearly God created me that way. Why would God make my life so hard by wiring my mind to be gay? It might be easy for someone straight to just tell me to convert try dating girls or whatever but I'd tell them to try being gay and see how natural it feels to them. That is how natural being straight is for me. Again I understand your views because I grew up around it. I just think you should practice what you preach and try showing love instead of disgust.