Daughters Get Brutally Honest with Their Moms | Split Decision

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0:00 - Intro
0:38 - Prompt 1: I feel responsible for your happiness
4:20 - Prompt 2: You have invaded my privacy
12:29 - Prompt 3: I find it hard to be 100% honest with you
15:56 - Prompt 4: There are times I needed you, but didn't want to bother you
27:22 - Prompt 5: You have a bad habit that worries me
28:36 - Prompt 6: You have defined the way I see the world

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  • @Userwe540
    @Userwe540Ай бұрын

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  • @sadafmo7363

    @sadafmo7363

    Ай бұрын

    sponsored by BetterHelp which gave free therapy to IDF soldiers.

  • @Katja-pl3zd

    @Katja-pl3zd

    Ай бұрын

    so real

  • @tramarthomas6105

    @tramarthomas6105

    Ай бұрын

    bangers with 98% of the conversations spliced out

  • @ruaidhrineville2100

    @ruaidhrineville2100

    Ай бұрын

    @@sadafmo7363 That's very nice of them to give it for free. Soldiers suffer some of the most traumatic experiences known to mankind.

  • @axelthegreat3895

    @axelthegreat3895

    Ай бұрын

    @@sadafmo7363yeah they’re overall a shitty company and so is jubilee

  • @francisvevo6010
    @francisvevo6010Ай бұрын

    I couldn’t imagine calling my dad “bestie” knowing that he almost beat my mom to death.

  • @lizzys.7806

    @lizzys.7806

    Ай бұрын

    Agreed. I think beating your child's mother disqualifies you from the "Amazing Father" description. I understand mental health was a part of it, so maybe there's been some healing and forgiveness and all that now that the issues been addressed. But still.. I don't know if I could get past that.

  • @aluminumratmilk5971

    @aluminumratmilk5971

    Ай бұрын

    Truly disturbing

  • @PJOcabin7

    @PJOcabin7

    Ай бұрын

    I is truly traumatising. The fact she had to call 911 yet she still thinks of him as a close person. Nothing could make me forgive that.

  • @kashifibr4606

    @kashifibr4606

    Ай бұрын

    My dad use to beat my mom but now he has stop but still yell at her when he get angry, he use beat me and my siblings often but I have moved out I remember one time my younger brother stole money he beat him till blood coming of of his head but still my mom is with him, I feel like she's scared about what other family members and friends would say

  • @AZWallbreaker

    @AZWallbreaker

    Ай бұрын

    They admitted that he got diagnosed with schizophrenia. Chances are he didn't know he had it during the events they mentioned.

  • @simonsays525
    @simonsays525Ай бұрын

    Hearing that mom say she put privacy blockers on all her kids computers, phones, everything is absolutely CRAZY!! She has serious control issues.

  • @hnlong8531

    @hnlong8531

    Ай бұрын

    Trying to save her from online creeps

  • @Graces_wrldASMR

    @Graces_wrldASMR

    Ай бұрын

    Welp

  • @klz9500

    @klz9500

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah it sounds crazy until the FBI shows up at your door because someone is trying to sex traffick your daughter online.

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    yeah it's a bit much ☹️

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Graces_wrldASMR and it's not easy to make friends or connecting with friends

  • @SkilledTadpole
    @SkilledTadpoleАй бұрын

    Moms admitting to war crimes within the first 10 minutes 🚩

  • @Miss_Kisa94

    @Miss_Kisa94

    Ай бұрын

    Wut?

  • @DChris3

    @DChris3

    Ай бұрын

    All four of them divorced too?? Yo the US seems like a failed state to us outsiders at this point 😂

  • @Miss_Kisa94

    @Miss_Kisa94

    Ай бұрын

    @@DChris3 50% of marriages end in divorce it's nothing new

  • @user-tw5fz8th8k

    @user-tw5fz8th8k

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@DChris3would u rather they stay married and miserable?

  • @userde3511

    @userde3511

    Ай бұрын

    @@user-tw5fz8th8k He prolly is moreso talking about the carefree attitude towards marriage and relationships as a whole over here.

  • @alexrice1870
    @alexrice1870Ай бұрын

    WOW - the mom that called her daughter a b1tch online for people to see is absolutely awful. It's still online with her real name.

  • @Miss_Kisa94

    @Miss_Kisa94

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah seriously

  • @Nateaue

    @Nateaue

    Ай бұрын

    where

  • @nancyjiang3881

    @nancyjiang3881

    Ай бұрын

    @@Nateaue 8:45

  • @ShantayInADay

    @ShantayInADay

    Ай бұрын

    yeah even as clickbait that's effed to exploit ur children that way....

  • @HouseMDaddict

    @HouseMDaddict

    Ай бұрын

    Dude the fact that she didn't take it down after she felt "bad about it" is really not cool. I also think the fact that she used the "mommy blogging" as an "outlet" to make money online and her kid has been clear it's harmful to them that people can still see it, is just really the definition of exploitation

  • @brynnk2518
    @brynnk2518Ай бұрын

    The story about the mom writing a story about her daughter and calling her the b word made me so emotional. The mom should be ashamed of herself and its nothing to laugh about. I'm so glad the other mom asked if her daughter was okay.

  • @Anna-wo9gb

    @Anna-wo9gb

    Ай бұрын

    You can see exactly what kind of parent that mom is. She used her daughter for content and quick clicks and her daughter has to live with forever having that piece follow her. In job searches, relationships, if she has kids. The girl was nervously looking around the room when she shared it and that whole display of a hug… I hope the daughter can heal and find peace

  • @CherryCupcakePie

    @CherryCupcakePie

    Ай бұрын

    AND it infuriates me that the daughter is literally forced to emotionally soothe HER, and she still can’t say sorry or take accountability. It was all ‘maybe I shouldn’t have BUT’ 🙄

  • @sexykllers3

    @sexykllers3

    Ай бұрын

    Totally get ur side but I will admit that her reasoning for writing the article was to show the sides of motherhood and many mothers feel this way at times. Not saying it’s ok to call your daughter a b but she should be able to write her experiences.

  • @nokiablockia7589

    @nokiablockia7589

    Ай бұрын

    @@CherryCupcakePieshe literally says sorry and hugs her and said it haunts her. You are either so chronically online or have your own issues your pushing onto these people if 10 minutes of scree time makes you think you know this entire relationship. You clearly have issues

  • @user-fw5gp2me9b

    @user-fw5gp2me9b

    Ай бұрын

    @@CherryCupcakePie did u even watch the video? ur so chronically online go outside and touch grass. the mom literally apologized to her daughter and hugs her , the daughter clearly loves her mom and said dont worry about it. stop pushing ur issues onto other people.

  • @werkaraperka391
    @werkaraperka391Ай бұрын

    I feel like if I would do this with my mom we would argue and cry

  • @vespera9115

    @vespera9115

    Ай бұрын

    real

  • @riot__grrrrl

    @riot__grrrrl

    Ай бұрын

    same

  • @jesss101

    @jesss101

    Ай бұрын

    lmao every argument with my mom ends with me saying "you're so dismissive" and her saying "no i'm not".... and then me saying "THAT response was dismissive" ....

  • @Katierenee_10

    @Katierenee_10

    Ай бұрын

    My mom would walk off 😂

  • @cityofcresendo121

    @cityofcresendo121

    Ай бұрын

    Same🥲🥲🥲

  • @vespera9115
    @vespera9115Ай бұрын

    not them justifying the privacy prompt...

  • @tramarthomas6105

    @tramarthomas6105

    Ай бұрын

    yeah it was pretty bad, but i can understand Sarah's responses

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    @@tramarthomas6105she was the best mom there, she seemed caring and she had the best style

  • @madison12302

    @madison12302

    Ай бұрын

    was it that bad? parents need to monitor if creeps are texting them or if their kid is getting bullied or something

  • @tomcat5151

    @tomcat5151

    Ай бұрын

    It's necessary to an extent. As an adult who grew up with the advent of the internet, parents need to be involved.

  • @trinity9471

    @trinity9471

    Ай бұрын

    Oh

  • @amel4382
    @amel4382Ай бұрын

    Calling an abuser ‘bestie’ and ‘the best dad’ is WILD. That poor mother

  • @FROOB202

    @FROOB202

    Ай бұрын

    My speculation is that when she says "he's a great dad but a terrible husband" is code for "he's a great manipulator who has convinced my daughter he's a great dad and I'm too scared to rock the boat".

  • @jesusornothing3231

    @jesusornothing3231

    Ай бұрын

    @@FROOB202or maybe it means he’s a great dad and a horrible husband

  • @hanmira

    @hanmira

    Ай бұрын

    @@jesusornothing3231or both

  • @Zbandsz

    @Zbandsz

    Ай бұрын

    Coming from a dynamic where my father is this way its very complex. The dad and the husband are two different entities. & while they do overlap eliminating the existence of a parent in your life is hard. Especially when they have changed and are working on being a better version of themself. If we cut off our parents for every mistake many of us would not have any interaction with them at all. It hurts us and of course you want to stand in solidarity with your mother and there is resentment that is built when you may learn the things that she went through as a woman. It’s soul crushing but it also would have been soul crushing to be a little girl growing up without a father who showed up for her. It’s hard and I’m still processing the forgiveness for him and mourning the young woman for her. & I’m almost 30

  • @zebethlia

    @zebethlia

    Ай бұрын

    @@Zbandsz weirdo

  • @hesherlobster987
    @hesherlobster987Ай бұрын

    I would really wish someone as therapist would come there and explain to the moms why invading privacy is such a harmful thing to do and the way it affects their trust in the future, and also to validate daughter's feelings. 😢

  • @Ericasentertainments

    @Ericasentertainments

    Ай бұрын

    Agreed!

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    1000 percent agreed!! but they need release of information first if therapists involve

  • @crystaldufour4719

    @crystaldufour4719

    Ай бұрын

    If your mad about invading privacy it’s because they are doing stuff they shouldn’t

  • @Bree0n3

    @Bree0n3

    Ай бұрын

    @@crystaldufour4719so your telling me that you would be ok with your parents checking ur phone everyday just because u have nothing to hide???Everybody deserves privacy

  • @eshaanbhat3732

    @eshaanbhat3732

    Ай бұрын

    @@Bree0n3yes because as a child you don’t have half the info you do as an adult. So yes as many blockers as possible.

  • @justahungryperson
    @justahungrypersonАй бұрын

    Nah you’ve gotta appreciate the host’s ability to manage the situations even when they get really awkward😭 Takahashi my goat 🐐

  • @Planck944

    @Planck944

    Ай бұрын

    And he cute too

  • @MabelRD08

    @MabelRD08

    Ай бұрын

    👆👌💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @Astroduck44

    @Astroduck44

    Ай бұрын

    @@Planck944.

  • @Planck944

    @Planck944

    Ай бұрын

    @@Astroduck44 🤓

  • @Astroduck44

    @Astroduck44

    Ай бұрын

    @@Planck944 👴🏻

  • @itsmj3103
    @itsmj3103Ай бұрын

    How does your dad beat your mom and you're still "besties"?!?!?! I could neverrr and I will never. Whoever lays a finger on my mother is absolutely dead to me forever.

  • @Katierenee_10

    @Katierenee_10

    Ай бұрын

    The love you have for a parent can be crazy sometimes

  • @jadaturner2084

    @jadaturner2084

    Ай бұрын

    THANK YOU!!! I was waiting for someone to speak on it.

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    I once experienced this as a child> my childhood trauma I don't trust my dad after that even though he apologized

  • @user-fw5gp2me9b

    @user-fw5gp2me9b

    Ай бұрын

    ikr i cant also.

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    I rewatched that part now and it sounds like forgiveness there after they learned that the dad has schizophrenia... even though it's not easy to forgive someone who is abusive 😬

  • @junojx
    @junojxАй бұрын

    You can see through Sarah. The run up to her daughter was so performative. And the article’s still up… Who would write something like that regardless of clickbait?🤦‍♀️

  • @viravei

    @viravei

    Ай бұрын

    What’s the articles link?

  • @maddiemaryanne426

    @maddiemaryanne426

    Ай бұрын

    This happened 15 years ago .allot of stuff was different back than. It's messed up but she isnt that person anymore .like what did you do 15 years ago ? What if people still judged you based on who you were back than? Like come on lol

  • @gloriazduran2556

    @gloriazduran2556

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@maddiemaryanne426 Even in the video you can see that her mom still seems unruly. She definitely hasn't changed and she should be criticized rightfully so for making that article. Trying to embarrass or humiliate your daughter online even if it was long ago is pathetic, even more so since it hasn't been taken down.

  • @maddiemaryanne426

    @maddiemaryanne426

    Ай бұрын

    @@gloriazduran2556 she doesn't have the rights too take it down .see you dont even know what's going on .youre walking blind with hatred 😅 grow up. An the story didnt even seem bad if you fully listened. Its a bad mistake .you can recognize it was wrong an also be mature enough too see people grow an change an you dont get to decide that off one video of a whole person like youre weird

  • @tramarthomas6105

    @tramarthomas6105

    Ай бұрын

    another body language expert

  • @jessw02
    @jessw02Ай бұрын

    they skipped over the part where the mom says she has extreme privacy blockers on her childrens devices way too quickly

  • @denarendall

    @denarendall

    Ай бұрын

    She was so quick to admit and didn’t even try to play it down! That surprised me. Definitely an invasion of privacy. I think it’s pretty standard for parents to check on on their kids phones occasionally until a certain point, but monitoring every text, photo, web search, etc, is so intense.

  • @user-bk9fk2tq2z

    @user-bk9fk2tq2z

    Ай бұрын

    It's no big deal.

  • @user-bk9fk2tq2z

    @user-bk9fk2tq2z

    Ай бұрын

    @@denarendall No it isn't intense.

  • @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat
    @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcatАй бұрын

    Can’t that mom just take down or private the blog post? If it’s even effecting her daughter get jobs because she used her real name, that’s not okay!

  • @lakin7878

    @lakin7878

    Ай бұрын

    She mentioned she worked for the LA times so i dont believe she owns the story anymore, so most likely doesnt have the rights to take it down

  • @apple-qx4qi

    @apple-qx4qi

    Ай бұрын

    I think they were joking about the job thing. Also she mentioned in the comments that she did take it down, but other places (like the LA times) wrote about it so she can't take it down from those places.

  • @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat

    @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat

    Ай бұрын

    @@apple-qx4qi Oh thank you so much for explaining!

  • @febrianasutojo3745

    @febrianasutojo3745

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@apple-qx4qiactually it's not a joke, but more like "how if ..."

  • @fernandawritesstories2701

    @fernandawritesstories2701

    Ай бұрын

    It's definitely not easy to find. I searched the title but nothing pops up related to this family. It's probably not as big of an article anymore

  • @lanadellola
    @lanadellolaАй бұрын

    the mother-daughter dynamic is so sacred yet can be so toxic. especially when a mother is envious of her daughter, usually in regards to beauty, opportunity, or her father’s unconditional love.

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    true 🥺

  • @nevehaley3345

    @nevehaley3345

    Ай бұрын

    Unfortunately this is so accurate

  • @ddangerous

    @ddangerous

    Ай бұрын

    It is SO crazy that this is actually more common than other ppl realize

  • @caracarr5089

    @caracarr5089

    Ай бұрын

    Imagine your mom being jealous of 3 out of 5 of her daughters 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @BizQAC

    @BizQAC

    Ай бұрын

    Look up “narcissistic mothers” it’s a whole phenomenon. Probably one of the most toxic mothering types.

  • @sunflowersandsand
    @sunflowersandsandАй бұрын

    The first mom who admitted to putting spyware on all of her kids' devices is out of control. You're looking at her images, texts and browsing history?! That's a massive no no! If I was her daughter I'd want to get out of her household asap. That's too far. Update: Just heard the part when Artista explains that her kids' father beat her so bad that she was almost UNALIVED and the daughter says he's her best friend...each to their own ig but there's no way I could refer to someone who did that as my "bestie".

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    and I also feel sorry for the daughter that it's not easy for her to connect with friends in phone and social media account way😥

  • @user-tw5fz8th8k

    @user-tw5fz8th8k

    Ай бұрын

    My mom did this many times to me and she never did so to my brother. Her idea was that she didn't need to control him, only me cuz girls are "naive" and "need to be controlled and kept pure"

  • @tramarthomas6105

    @tramarthomas6105

    Ай бұрын

    monster parent behavior, but also Jubilee barely gave them any screen time, I wish we could have heard more from them.

  • @Playsch00l

    @Playsch00l

    Ай бұрын

    @@tramarthomas6105 probably means some of their conversation got heated or revealed things they didnt want aired in the ep. happens more often than youd think

  • @Malally2

    @Malally2

    Ай бұрын

    @@mirayoon1992the daughter acts like a psychopath that believes her mom should’ve gone through the abuse just to enable them to be able to afford more expensive, designer clothing. Did you even listen to her talk? Did you even pay attention to how she reacted to her moms recounting of events? Ffs…

  • @jada39748
    @jada39748Ай бұрын

    I don’t understand how someone can be both a really bad partner and an amazing parent. If you’re beating your partner, you’ve failed as a parent.

  • @PHlophe

    @PHlophe

    Ай бұрын

    because partnership and parenthood are different features entirely . i love my eldest child and i hated her mother long after we've separated ( feeling was 100% mutual ) . and er.. we fought a lot ( not just with words ). it is nice to be picture perfect on both fronts but reality is different for some of us.

  • @jada39748

    @jada39748

    Ай бұрын

    @@PHlophe Partnership and parenthood go hand in hand, especially in terms of the environment you are fostering for your child. This environment can set them up to either fail or prosper. Disagreement among partners is normal and fine, but fighting (not just with words) is not. Reality is objective, not relative-in every partnership, it is wrong to be abusive.

  • @kaahfee

    @kaahfee

    Ай бұрын

    The risk of her chosing a partner for herself like her father was to her mother is a great risk. Thats why i agree with you you cant possible see them individually especially if its something she even experienced! Would it be a "only" story of the experience it could have been different(i personally even dont understand it than)

  • @yeseniamendoza5844

    @yeseniamendoza5844

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly …

  • @stephanie_2504

    @stephanie_2504

    Ай бұрын

    @@jada39748 They do not. That’s why so many marriages fail after having a child. You can be an amazing partner and a horrible parent, a horrible partner and a wonderful parent, horrible for both, or great for both. As a child of divorce, not every couple is meant for children, and not every child is meant for parents who are married.

  • @Littlefroggiesasmr
    @LittlefroggiesasmrАй бұрын

    The mum that called her daughter a b!tch online is actually insane the fact that her daughter will have to live with that online for the rest of her life is horrible in my opinion I think that is such a arrogant and irresponsible thing to do as a mother to ur own child……

  • @SipMyCharlatte

    @SipMyCharlatte

    Ай бұрын

    My problem with it was how she chose to respond to her daughter about it. It was very invalidating and a "well it was a past mistake so it doesn't matter" type of angle. Yes mistakes happen, but you never learn from them when you don't take accountability. She never (truly) apologized for the way that affected her life. You can literally hear the loathing behind the "I'm sorry😒"

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    @@SipMyCharlatteher response was pretty wholesome, she seemed remorseful and you can tell they’ve gotten over that, plus she has the best style

  • @Dash2bklyn

    @Dash2bklyn

    Ай бұрын

    The internet and knowledge of it was different when it first rolled out. You have to give that mother grace.

  • @SipMyCharlatte

    @SipMyCharlatte

    Ай бұрын

    @@Dash2bklyn true! Those articles were viewed by moms for the most part until years later.

  • @Eric-gw2tq

    @Eric-gw2tq

    Ай бұрын

    @@Dash2bklyn grace is reserved for people who repent and acknowledge their mistakes.

  • @jonathanoloba7791
    @jonathanoloba7791Ай бұрын

    Dads gotta be next

  • @jaughnekow

    @jaughnekow

    Ай бұрын

    Gonna be awesome

  • @yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256

    @yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256

    Ай бұрын

    Nop never

  • @jesss101

    @jesss101

    Ай бұрын

    emotionally intelligent dads who actually spend time with their kids

  • @jaughnekow

    @jaughnekow

    Ай бұрын

    @@yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256 why?

  • @Planck944

    @Planck944

    Ай бұрын

    @@yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256why

  • @peta9843
    @peta9843Ай бұрын

    Calling your dad your 'bestie’ knowing he nearly beat your mum to death is sickening. I think that daughter needs to reflect on that.

  • @San-jx1zd

    @San-jx1zd

    Ай бұрын

    American house holds by wilding

  • @itisritah
    @itisritahАй бұрын

    The privacy prompt triggered me because my mom always tells me that I'll only have it when I'm in my own home. I'm 19 and moving out for college for that reason.

  • @laurafelicis1895

    @laurafelicis1895

    Ай бұрын

    Well then your mom doesn't seem to know about children's rights (not to mention that you're not even a child anymore) I hope your move will be everything you hope for ❤

  • @omerkarakaya6212

    @omerkarakaya6212

    Ай бұрын

    Nothing to hide nothing to fear

  • @Pee5Ma

    @Pee5Ma

    Ай бұрын

    @@omerkarakaya6212 this is an INCREDIBLY dangerous way of thinking.

  • @ev3635

    @ev3635

    Ай бұрын

    @@omerkarakaya6212not about fear, simply about having privacy. which every human needs

  • @ShantayInADay

    @ShantayInADay

    Ай бұрын

    see, and that's why i like the black mom's approach (granted she is raree) she tried to teach her daughter the lesson but didn't go too far in invading her privacy

  • @AMANDA-jv8fz
    @AMANDA-jv8fzАй бұрын

    The first girl afraid of writing in her journal due to some one reading it, I found out my step father had cameras in all our rooms and a bug on our phones and would listen and watch, I will never be the same, I feel like someone is listening or watching me all the time, like I don't have the ability to be myself even by myself because of this. You need to heal this part of you before it gets out of control. I've been working for years.

  • @sarahgonzalez01

    @sarahgonzalez01

    Ай бұрын

    😢 that is awful! I'm so sorry you experienced that level of intrusion.

  • @MAKEMEASANDWICHES

    @MAKEMEASANDWICHES

    Ай бұрын

    I hate that... I'm so sorry that happened to you. Praying for the best to you ❤️

  • @girlofanimation

    @girlofanimation

    Ай бұрын

    Hopefully he isn't in your family's life anymore. That feels so much more intrusive, that it might also be illegal, depending on how much he's watching. Did he see you changing? There's a law based on a girl whose stepfather was spying on her changing in her room through her webcam years ago. I believe he got arrested after they made the law.

  • @AMANDA-jv8fz

    @AMANDA-jv8fz

    Ай бұрын

    @girlofanimation yes I saw this too, I know they were in our rooms and I always thought other places, there is no way too know, my mom told me and my sister, but know way to prove it now, I've been out of that house since 15 I'm 32 now, Thank you though I appreciate your words. Unfortunately he is in my life he is my little sisters father but I distance myself from him as much as possible.

  • @AMANDA-jv8fz

    @AMANDA-jv8fz

    Ай бұрын

    @MAKEMEASANDWICHES thank you I appreciate that more than you know, I am healing 💖

  • @user-xv1dk1ut4q
    @user-xv1dk1ut4qАй бұрын

    I’m sorry but if my parents ever put spyware on my devices they wouldn’t have a child anymore I think that’s so embarrassing

  • @RaxeOnYT

    @RaxeOnYT

    Ай бұрын

    It's on everything for me and it sucks. They act all high and mighty keeping you "safe."

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    ​​@@RaxeOnYT 🥺💙 same and we need to stay strong as much as we can till we can moveout from parents' home

  • @MissingYouser

    @MissingYouser

    Ай бұрын

    What are you doing that would make it embarrassing?

  • @tramarthomas6105

    @tramarthomas6105

    Ай бұрын

    @@MissingYouser being a growing teenager and child? a parent that does that is cutting their child off from needed social interaction that other children are getting. its creepy, and itll only lead to the child abandoning their parent eventually, not to mention how parent/child relationships like that paints their future relationships. very gross

  • @MissingYouser

    @MissingYouser

    Ай бұрын

    @@tramarthomas6105 Those parents are probably trying to only cut their child off from the bad social interaction which is extremely common. A large amount of school children are either bullies, sexually irresponsible, mentally unstable, substance abusers, or just inappropriate in general. All of those kinds of people want friends and they may be friendly to your child while also getting them wrapped up into bad stuff.

  • @j2oro
    @j2oroАй бұрын

    the last mom and daughter (the ones closest to the camera) have such a sweet relationship, it makes me so happy for them. :) !!

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    Who Sarah? She’s the best plus she’s got a great style

  • @Jeonlyy

    @Jeonlyy

    Ай бұрын

    @@Al-gg4mmRachel and irene

  • @Dreamworksbabe
    @DreamworksbabeАй бұрын

    It makes sense that people want privacy why do parents think that is wild???

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    😓 yeah...

  • @inutukawanamwangelwa8276

    @inutukawanamwangelwa8276

    Ай бұрын

    Fr 😞

  • @iwonthesitatebitch.570

    @iwonthesitatebitch.570

    Ай бұрын

    they think that resentment and discomfort their child feels will dissipate overtime, + they think they own their children so they deserve no privacy, its gross

  • @kino_fuji8296

    @kino_fuji8296

    Ай бұрын

    I get their intentions in keeping their child safe but the whole spying thing with software is insane.

  • @RaxeOnYT

    @RaxeOnYT

    Ай бұрын

    Because no one should have access to every move you make in your own life. That's called being controlling or living vicariously through your child. Your children are your their own people. Constantly monitoring them is dictator like and makes them appreciate you less as a person because they don't even act like they trust you or care about your own rights. This is coming from someone who has parental monitoring on everything. No child should only have the bathroom or shower as a source of privacy.

  • @orbitstayoncereveluv1960
    @orbitstayoncereveluv1960Ай бұрын

    4:53 SPYWARE?! And she said it so proudly too??!! Are you not embarrassed??? Are you not embarrassed, because this is very embarrassing😭💀💀

  • @noraabutbackwards7302
    @noraabutbackwards7302Ай бұрын

    4:53 The way she sounded so proud and kept going on and on

  • @sarahgonzalez01

    @sarahgonzalez01

    Ай бұрын

    Just from watching the video, she's obviously been through a lot and who knows what else she's been through that we haven't seen in the video. It's likely she's lived through several traumatic experiences and is doing what she thinks will help prevent her kids from similar experiences. I don't think it's her trying to be controlling, but a trauma response she likely needs to work through. Just an assumption and obviously not a justification. Hopefully one day they can all get support and heal.

  • @Planck944

    @Planck944

    Ай бұрын

    @@sarahgonzalez01lol is this her burner account?

  • @tramarthomas6105

    @tramarthomas6105

    Ай бұрын

    @@sarahgonzalez01 they barely had screen time, so i dont know how you got that impression. regardless, it doesnt matter if it was her intent

  • @nitsakanungo

    @nitsakanungo

    Ай бұрын

    @@tramarthomas6105 almost being beat to death and having to still have somewhat of a relationship with that person because he's the father of your children (and evidently your daughter's bestie) is pretty damn traumatic... i'd say that's a fair impression given that story alone

  • @XanderL

    @XanderL

    Ай бұрын

    @@sarahgonzalez01 I like that these are the types of comments you find on Jubilee videos. A lot of reflexive stuff, yes, but compassionate and understanding comments like this too.

  • @ExplainedThroughRap
    @ExplainedThroughRapАй бұрын

    My dad nearly beat my mom to death but he's my bestie story feels like it could be its own hour long episode because that was brushed over

  • @BriLovesFood.

    @BriLovesFood.

    Ай бұрын

    time stamp?

  • @lianav4630

    @lianav4630

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@BriLovesFood. Around 26 min

  • @krs9748
    @krs9748Ай бұрын

    Notice how the one mom only thinks about her own feelings. *I* was going through a lot when you needed physical therapy. *I* needed this (public and permanent) outlet to talk about *my* experiences. *I* felt bad about calling you a b1tch. It hurt *me.* Not even mentioning that title.

  • @N_toft

    @N_toft

    Ай бұрын

    I noticed that too! That woman def rubbed me the wrong way.

  • @1234Shir

    @1234Shir

    Ай бұрын

    I really think that mom is a narcissist.

  • @marasgm2831

    @marasgm2831

    Ай бұрын

    Narcissist

  • @sidneylowery1543

    @sidneylowery1543

    Ай бұрын

    Her daughter's reactions were also so jumpy because she's always had to walk on eggshells around her mother.

  • @basiaperry177
    @basiaperry177Ай бұрын

    Izzy’s mom justifies every wrong parental decision she makes. Omg I couldn’t imagine having her as a mom.

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    She seems like a caring mother and she regrets what she did, she’s the best one there and the most stylish

  • @michaelalexander378
    @michaelalexander378Ай бұрын

    the mom in the green dress with her onyx colored hair inspires me, i hope i look like that when i am older. she has such an elegant, cool and caring vibe!

  • @sonyakaye9081

    @sonyakaye9081

    Ай бұрын

    ♥️

  • @queenj.8i895

    @queenj.8i895

    Ай бұрын

    Absolutely. Her daughter will appreciate her more and more over time

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    @@queenj.8i895I’d say Sarah looks the best for her age there plus her style helps her

  • @gracep2910

    @gracep2910

    Ай бұрын

    “onyx-colored” jeez

  • @diana-rz3yo

    @diana-rz3yo

    Ай бұрын

    @@Al-gg4mmwhat’s your deal ? you commented this like 20 times replying to every comment lmao

  • @Floormat212
    @Floormat212Ай бұрын

    Artista: great dad, phenomenal person, won’t say anything bad about him. But he almost beat me to death multiple times…😅What?!?

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    yes that's wrong in so many levels while I think she forgive him for abusing her

  • @masochistic_lele4414

    @masochistic_lele4414

    Ай бұрын

    Where?

  • @Malally2

    @Malally2

    Ай бұрын

    @@masochistic_lele4414 26:44

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    Sarah was the best mom here, and most stylish one

  • @peytonrodgers1916

    @peytonrodgers1916

    Ай бұрын

    @@Al-gg4mmis she paying you to write these comments? 😭 no one is even mentioning Sarah

  • @scarlettjudson5420
    @scarlettjudson5420Ай бұрын

    i relate a lot to izzy’s relationship with her mom. izzy is so strong for forgiving her mom and still trying to have a relationship with her even after those invasions of privacy. her mom is definitely projecting her youngest sibling trauma and i wouldn’t be surprised if she hasn’t processed that still

  • @DGen7

    @DGen7

    Ай бұрын

    Moms should definitely be going through their kids phones until they move out or become an adult

  • @nenievitasari1147

    @nenievitasari1147

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@DGen7if thats how u do it its fine, personally as someone whose phone has never been looked through.. i would do things like age restrictions for apps, teach them toxic or bad friends ane dealing with it, stranger danger and teach them how to deal with certain things in life. Its always great to give a safe space and privacy for them

  • @HenriCobbs

    @HenriCobbs

    Ай бұрын

    well, It's not that big of a deal and it's way in the past.

  • @rose-gl4io

    @rose-gl4io

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@HenriCobbs even if it was the past it's still on the internet.....

  • @HenriCobbs

    @HenriCobbs

    Ай бұрын

    @@rose-gl4io Yeah, that's how the internet works. Many people regret the things they've put on the internet. Also, the internet and blogging were new when her mom did that. Also, it's just me, but I don't see anything wrong with it. Maybe it's my sense of humour, but it wouldn't be a big deal if my mom did that. The article is also pretty hidden, it doesn't even show up unless you dig for it. So, yeah it's in the past and we are in the present.

  • @icewallowkome
    @icewallowkomeАй бұрын

    id never look at my dad the same if he almost beats my mother to death

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    same

  • @peachy__pg
    @peachy__pgАй бұрын

    i love heather and sonya talking about therapy, i really want my mom to talk to a therapist too

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    As asian American, that would be hard for me with mom since mom scoffed at some of my decisions. I sense my mom doesn't want to get in trouble with my therapist while my parents doesn't accept alot of my decisions as an adult 😓

  • @AlignWithJesus

    @AlignWithJesus

    Ай бұрын

    Bruhhhh, believe it or not, not everyone needs a therapist

  • @sentientkarma444

    @sentientkarma444

    Ай бұрын

    @@AlignWithJesus but therapy is an outlet, everybody needs an outlet + it’s a great way to receive diff perspectives/tools!!!! self awareness + critical thinking is so important

  • @FizzyStilz
    @FizzyStilzАй бұрын

    Jubilee, please thoroughly review any sponsorships you take. Better Help has been known to be incredibly harmful and toxic!! Edit: y’all please stop fighting in the replies 😭

  • @Johan590

    @Johan590

    Ай бұрын

    provide evidence?

  • @sadafmo7363

    @sadafmo7363

    Ай бұрын

    Plus they give free therapy to IDF soldiers

  • @im_theodore

    @im_theodore

    Ай бұрын

    Just like Jubilee itself lmao

  • @bummer7736

    @bummer7736

    Ай бұрын

    @@Johan590 go look it up bruh. its a well known fact.

  • @Veronika-vy5ou

    @Veronika-vy5ou

    Ай бұрын

    @@bummer7736do you know similar ones?

  • @MAKEMEASANDWICHES
    @MAKEMEASANDWICHESАй бұрын

    Bro. The mom that wrote that article about her daughter didn't really stick well with me. Like yeah, that past is in the past, but it's STILL going to be there and be on the Internet. Not to mention, it will stay with her daughter, Izzy, for a long time. It will be that one thing that's in the back of her mind. How would **you** feel if your mother wrote an article about you, titled, "My daughter's a b***h"?

  • @juste.une.mouche

    @juste.une.mouche

    Ай бұрын

    My problem is mostly that it was super long ago and she still doesn't look actually sorry. The hug really gave me the ick lol

  • @Jays-ug9bd

    @Jays-ug9bd

    Ай бұрын

    i feel so bad for the daughter im usually not the softie type but she really seems psychologically abusive and manipulative

  • @HenriCobbs

    @HenriCobbs

    Ай бұрын

    because it's not that deep and they've worked it out. She already apologized and is very sorry about it.

  • @ghostie7790
    @ghostie7790Ай бұрын

    Can't believe they all said they can be 100% honest with each other.. I def can't say that

  • @preciousc432

    @preciousc432

    Ай бұрын

    Yes I found that so surprising! Tho Heather seemed to be hinting at kinda/not fully but getting there

  • @Umlaland

    @Umlaland

    Ай бұрын

    Yea I can’t say that either with both parents.

  • @Malally2

    @Malally2

    Ай бұрын

    Because they’re lying, ask them to share bank info and they’ll politely decline

  • @bnadira212

    @bnadira212

    Ай бұрын

    Same

  • @PeteyPistolDee03
    @PeteyPistolDee03Ай бұрын

    Whew, when that daughter who called her dad “bestie” really sits back and thinks about what she saw her mother go through… Lord have mercy. At least she has her mother to help her through.

  • @PHlophe

    @PHlophe

    Ай бұрын

    he probably had a separate loving relationship with her and has probably turned his life around.

  • @AmiriHipHop
    @AmiriHipHopАй бұрын

    I'm very surprised that Jubliee didn't upload this last Sunday when it was Mother's Day.

  • @Lord_Submissive

    @Lord_Submissive

    Ай бұрын

    Honestly

  • @axelthegreat3895

    @axelthegreat3895

    Ай бұрын

    they had to secure that betterhelp sponsorship. jubilee keep outdoing themselves with their shitty behaviour

  • @summerm4911

    @summerm4911

    Ай бұрын

    probably after what they did for international women's day

  • @avelasoyingwa
    @avelasoyingwaАй бұрын

    Mama in the Green dress serving Body!

  • @sonyakaye9081

    @sonyakaye9081

    Ай бұрын

    ♥️

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    @@sonyakaye9081you looked stunning in your outfit! But I think Sarah look even more spectacular in her outfit

  • @yogaqueen1527

    @yogaqueen1527

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@sonyakaye9081where is your dress from?

  • @itsyagirl6077

    @itsyagirl6077

    Күн бұрын

    @@Al-gg4mmAre you Sarah?? Because you’re commenting under every person complimenting Sonya like a jealous Karen. Sonya looked a trillion times better than Sarah plus she’s a way better mother. She’s also not youthful at all so stop lying. Weirdo.

  • @LydiaYisehak
    @LydiaYisehakАй бұрын

    Taia’s mom put her through so much oh myyy 😭

  • @PHlophe

    @PHlophe

    Ай бұрын

    Lidia, when Taia grows a bit older she'll realize the depth of it it wont be pretty

  • @Val-xx
    @Val-xxАй бұрын

    Seeing other moms always makes me appreciate mine more bc Spyware is absolutely incredibly insane 😭

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    my parents never do this either while they invade my privacy in a different way

  • @faitharco5721
    @faitharco5721Ай бұрын

    Listening to lizzy not liking her mother blogging about her as a child bc now that info is out there for literally EVERYONE to see & she couldn’t consent to it bc she was a CHILD- no wonder many influencers are deciding to not show their children online!! Privacy is a key part in allowing children to grow up safely

  • @Maya-oz1xx
    @Maya-oz1xxАй бұрын

    Irene and Rachel have such a healthy relationship ❤

  • @MabelRD08

    @MabelRD08

    Ай бұрын

    I loved how real and elocuent they both were.

  • @imkhithamacanda8771

    @imkhithamacanda8771

    Ай бұрын

    My favorite mom/daughter pair

  • @Motivationtosuccess-qs7ih

    @Motivationtosuccess-qs7ih

    Ай бұрын

    True ❤️ 👍

  • @danielarivera6723
    @danielarivera6723Ай бұрын

    Me screaming no when Irene asked if she should talk to her child about her divorce. Like as someone who has gone through my parents divorcing when I was an adult, I wish more than anything that they would leave me out of it. Of course there’s levels to honesty, but keep that between you and your friends. The stress it puts on your child sucks

  • @FROOB202

    @FROOB202

    Ай бұрын

    Agreed, they should suffer in silence and then hear their child calling the guy who nearly ended them "bestie"

  • @boadecia1433

    @boadecia1433

    Ай бұрын

    I would have appreciated some discussion when my parents decided to divorce. My parents basically spoke to us for 3 minutes: "We're getting divorced. Don't be upset, this has nothing to do with you. Stop crying. Go to your room."

  • @jesseb5710

    @jesseb5710

    Ай бұрын

    @@FROOB202 so trauma dump on your child and let them suffer with you?

  • @MRFUCKOFF202

    @MRFUCKOFF202

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@jesseb5710 Humans are not dichotomous. Learn how to give and take and be a family.

  • @Carols989

    @Carols989

    Ай бұрын

    ah... nothing better than being parentified as a teen because of your parents rocky relationship. I know way, way too much about my mom's sex life now

  • @Telliott17
    @Telliott17Ай бұрын

    Why did you skip the mom's responses to the bad habits prompt?

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    yeah, i was wondering about that maybe it's too private to share

  • @Moondragon1821

    @Moondragon1821

    Ай бұрын

    I'd assume it's about drugs or alcohol and they wouldn't necessarily want that out in public.

  • @anhu92

    @anhu92

    Ай бұрын

    probably about boys/sex/alcohol/drugs

  • @monikaedithschulz6986

    @monikaedithschulz6986

    Ай бұрын

    substance (ab)use, I guess.

  • @OfficialFae
    @OfficialFaeАй бұрын

    I had to pause when she said "black people never think about owning people. That's my baby." powerful! Wish I could share an experience like this with my mom

  • @shinigami1176
    @shinigami1176Ай бұрын

    Rachel and irene was match made in heaven

  • @MabelRD08

    @MabelRD08

    Ай бұрын

    💯💯💯💯💯💜💕💜💕💜💕

  • @Elizabeth-vc5tz
    @Elizabeth-vc5tzАй бұрын

    Jubilee, I am kindy requesting a "extended/unseen scenes" portion of this vid. There are some answers that I would love to hear that were not included.

  • @toyyatoy
    @toyyatoyАй бұрын

    My mom had no boundaries. Went through diaries. Put hidden recording devices around the house, went through my phone that I bought, while I was working full time, buying my own groceries and school supplies then used photos I had as blackmail. Now she knows nothing of my life as she is not in it.

  • @ChaseBurns-kc7xg

    @ChaseBurns-kc7xg

    Ай бұрын

    how abt u tell the full story as to why she did that. its never for no reason

  • @NiMissNi

    @NiMissNi

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@ChaseBurns-kc7xgway to victim blame. Why is your response to her privacy being constantly violated, what did she do to make her mon violate it?

  • @chitowncubby27

    @chitowncubby27

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@NiMissNithat's easy my house my rules. She choses to leave the mom out of her life. Again we don't know the full story.

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    she's too controlling 🥺💙 I want to have a moveout home to avoid conflicts with my parents cause they don't accept alot of my decisions as an adult

  • @helllaaathiccc5292

    @helllaaathiccc5292

    Ай бұрын

    Wow. Shame shame shame on you for having first thoughts like that. Yes that happens for no reason, parents (a lot of them) are and can be toxic af. Speaking from experience. So do your reaserach first bud. ​@@ChaseBurns-kc7xg

  • @jadesimone_
    @jadesimone_Ай бұрын

    what’s a sorry gon do? that article still there for everyone & their mother to see 😭😭

  • @jadesimone_

    @jadesimone_

    Ай бұрын

    izzy’s mom is weird af😬

  • @nenievitasari1147

    @nenievitasari1147

    Ай бұрын

    I really hope izzy is like an adult and living in a different home or sum.. or else the car ride would be so akward and i can tell by izzys mom's strares (personal expirience) after she talked about certain things she was NOT HAPPY

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    She seemed like the best mother there, plus she had the best style

  • @HenriCobbs

    @HenriCobbs

    Ай бұрын

    @@jadesimone_ you shouldn't judge someone you don't know on something they did a long time ago. Calling someone's mom weird is disrespectful.

  • @katherines3641
    @katherines3641Ай бұрын

    i feel really bad for izzy, i think that article situation is really crazy and she seems super sweet so she probably doesn’t want to not have a relationship with her mom

  • @daphneh9612
    @daphneh9612Ай бұрын

    the mum in the green dress is so cool

  • @j_me

    @j_me

    Ай бұрын

    And the one in the green shirt is nasty LOL

  • @user-jw9zc5rf4s

    @user-jw9zc5rf4s

    Ай бұрын

    Yep, she's extremely manipulative and disgusting, she goes in for the hug as a get out of jail free card pretending to be emotional about the situation, when her eyes don't have a single ounce of regret. Just social acceptance pr.​@@j_me

  • @iwonthesitatebitch.570

    @iwonthesitatebitch.570

    Ай бұрын

    dude she totally beat on her kids in the past and was side eyeing her daughter to keep quiet abt it lmfaoo

  • @Planck944

    @Planck944

    Ай бұрын

    @@j_meagreed

  • @omotayosatuyi252

    @omotayosatuyi252

    Ай бұрын

    No really she wrote an article about her daughter which is incredibly weird

  • @rye5086
    @rye5086Ай бұрын

    Need to do this with Dads + Sons/Daughters and Moms and sons too!

  • @kennyyuen1600
    @kennyyuen1600Ай бұрын

    Daughter: she called me a btch Mom: context matters Proceeds to explain the context that didnt change anyones perspective 😂😂

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    She was probably the best mom there and most stylish

  • @user_proton
    @user_protonАй бұрын

    Cries with asian/Indian parents😂😂😂 If I answer any of this honestly- I would have to face a flying chappal!!

  • @jaughnekow

    @jaughnekow

    Ай бұрын

    Africans too 😂😂😂

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    As korean American, it would be hard for me as well. When I told mom that my parents doesn't accept alot of my decisions as an adult, she scoffed.. ☹️ my parents have dementia

  • @dr.mikelitoris

    @dr.mikelitoris

    Ай бұрын

    I’m sorry your parent is too immature to accept honesty. Must be pretty frustrating

  • @ziporahanaa

    @ziporahanaa

    Ай бұрын

    me with my chinese parents, i can def relate to this🥲

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@ziporahanaa 🥺💙

  • @Planck944
    @Planck944Ай бұрын

    Sonya. I repeat. You are a great mother

  • @sonyakaye9081

    @sonyakaye9081

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you ♥️🙏🏿

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    She is but I think Sarah was a better mother and she overall had a better relationship with

  • @yeseniamendoza5844

    @yeseniamendoza5844

    Ай бұрын

    She didn’t used to be but she changed

  • @viravei
    @viraveiАй бұрын

    Sonya is giving me mother theresa vibes I feel like I could tell her all my secrets and she’s so pretty omg

  • @melissaterblanche1598
    @melissaterblanche1598Ай бұрын

    Irene, thank you for being you. Rachel is lucky to have you and she sure shows how grateful she is ❤

  • @tiernyjasmine8678
    @tiernyjasmine8678Ай бұрын

    5:10 that is way too far. Number 1 way to ruin trust

  • @tramarthomas6105

    @tramarthomas6105

    Ай бұрын

    a lot of people dont deserve to be parents. they view them more as property rather than growing people

  • @yrollam16
    @yrollam16Ай бұрын

    I’m glad heather brought up how her mom is totally doing the hate the sin love the sinner thing.

  • @Everyones_Friend_Buddy
    @Everyones_Friend_BuddyАй бұрын

    Rachel & Irene has a beautiful nd strong mom daughter bond :) nd the best one so far among most of others in the video...

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    No I’d say Sarah is the best mom in this and the one with the best style

  • @crisp_rat

    @crisp_rat

    Ай бұрын

    @@Al-gg4mmSarah is that you

  • @tafe-3022

    @tafe-3022

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@crisp_rat I've seen all of her comments on this video so far, I think she is either the mother Sarah or her daughter

  • @fryeesaucee
    @fryeesauceeАй бұрын

    the fact that artista didn't talk poorly about her ex husband toward her kids is sooooo mature and important. so many parents who split up act so negatively and toxic toward one another, and it shows a lot of strength to go through a bad relationship and not put it on your kids. MAD RESPECT for her.

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    Sarah was the best mom here and the most stylish

  • @tiktokvirals4864

    @tiktokvirals4864

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Al-gg4mmdude shutup

  • @Daniscorner1738
    @Daniscorner1738Ай бұрын

    Izy is such a forgiving daughter, so sweet.

  • @PHlophe

    @PHlophe

    Ай бұрын

    its because she is still super young. give it 5 years when her brain has re-examined the toxicity .

  • @peppariddle6897
    @peppariddle6897Ай бұрын

    not finished yet so dont come at me but that mum with the green dress is such a cutie

  • @Planck944

    @Planck944

    Ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    I’d say Sarah the one with the green shirt looks the best for her age and has a cool style

  • @calvin013
    @calvin013Ай бұрын

    Izzy - the answer to your mom's passive aggressive bull$#!t question of "how often?".... is "too often". Sarah is going to have to do some serious digging out for me to have any respect for her and I'm only 7m in. Dude... you need to set boundaries.

  • @melissaterblanche1598
    @melissaterblanche1598Ай бұрын

    Sarah, there's so much I want to say but I'll say this instead, take responsibility and be a mother. To Izzy, I hope you heal honey ♡ you deserve more

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    The way she’s dressed, she’s probably going through a mid life crises

  • @fairyberry444

    @fairyberry444

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Al-gg4mm You've replied to a large proportion of the comments under this video and all you comments are about Sarah. I'm fully convinced that you are Sarah at this point tbh. You're outing yourself.

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    @@fairyberry444 no she’s actually paying me to do this

  • @peytonrodgers1916

    @peytonrodgers1916

    Ай бұрын

    @@Al-gg4mmwhat lol I thought you thought she had the best style?

  • @42shwetapaudel5
    @42shwetapaudel5Ай бұрын

    Whoever came up with this concept, amazing

  • @-Mochi_Rose-
    @-Mochi_Rose-Ай бұрын

    If me and my mother do this, I'd end up in tears :/

  • @Ericasentertainments

    @Ericasentertainments

    Ай бұрын

    I’d end up in jail 🤣

  • @-Mochi_Rose-

    @-Mochi_Rose-

    Ай бұрын

    @everythinger1ca lmao what could you have possibly done that could land you in jail, I'm kinda concerned 😳

  • @JBUHJBUH

    @JBUHJBUH

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@-Mochi_Rose- Think they may be joking about how they *would* respond to hearing about what they'd done?

  • @chrystianaw8256

    @chrystianaw8256

    13 күн бұрын

    Fr

  • @milkyway9729
    @milkyway9729Ай бұрын

    poor izzy. there are still emotions in every sentence she said. i hope she’s fully healed…

  • @reprobate000
    @reprobate000Ай бұрын

    Ok but the way the mom that wrote the article switched things to where the daughter was the one hugging and telling her it was ok at the end? Dude what

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    She seemed remorseful for what she did, she’s probably the best mom there, and most stylish

  • @preciousc432
    @preciousc432Ай бұрын

    Lowkey I can respect Sonya for wanting to remain true to her beliefs while also wanting to embrace her daughter heather even when the things heather does may go against it

  • @queenj.8i895

    @queenj.8i895

    Ай бұрын

    High key for me

  • @heyspeckle8782

    @heyspeckle8782

    Ай бұрын

    if your beliefs are homophobic, that's nothing to respect tho

  • @Bitcoin_5765

    @Bitcoin_5765

    Ай бұрын

    @@heyspeckle8782no frrr. These ppl are brain dead

  • @thisname6738
    @thisname6738Ай бұрын

    After listening to the abuse Artista experienced with her husband tbh it makes sense she went into control over drive with her kids. Not healthy or okay, but it makes sense.

  • @nateofthewild5225
    @nateofthewild52259 күн бұрын

    I think a mothers and sons episode would hit! Momma’s Boys are common for a reason. There is very much struggles within that dynamic too!

  • @19nightsky91
    @19nightsky91Ай бұрын

    heather is annoying "I hate my mom reading my messages..... at 6 I was going to go off with a stranger" GIRLL GIMMIE THAT DAMN PHONE

  • @saigie3908

    @saigie3908

    Ай бұрын

    Y am I laughing so hard at this comment 😭😭

  • @taehyungoppa7208

    @taehyungoppa7208

    Ай бұрын

    I agree ☝️

  • @Nadiaworld8019

    @Nadiaworld8019

    Ай бұрын

    😂😅

  • @alexrice1870
    @alexrice1870Ай бұрын

    I skip Jubilee ads and sponsors until they actually address their bad behavior and apologize with actionable steps going forward to establish what expectations are for their staff. Love you, mean it.

  • @angiev406

    @angiev406

    Ай бұрын

    What?

  • @Random_Being1

    @Random_Being1

    Ай бұрын

    Could you explain this?

  • @babyshanker488

    @babyshanker488

    Ай бұрын

    Did I miss something??

  • @hearvaxe

    @hearvaxe

    Ай бұрын

    I just skip them because they’re boring

  • @alexrice1870

    @alexrice1870

    Ай бұрын

    @Random_Being1 there's a lot going on behind the scenes that they never address like attacking black creators (Aba and Preach) then trying to strike their channel down with false copyright claims on the same exact content Jubilee will celebrate and encourage from white creators. They've never given Thoraya credit for her video formats and they've never invited her on to host. The people they promote and work with are no different from the people they're ignoring or attacking except for their race. Even when it comes to followers Jubilee works with smaller and bigger creators BUT only white and Asian. They've worked with PewDiePie, Cody Ko, Nut, and Gen on things they've attacked Aba and Preach for while copying Thorayas secrets series with no credit or even allowing her to host an episode.

  • @kbaum.design6233
    @kbaum.design6233Ай бұрын

    I would love to watch a mini TV series on this story of mother’s and daughter’s. Loved this group and loved all of the rich emotions this took me through. Thanks Jubilee!

  • @anikabaker2661
    @anikabaker2661Ай бұрын

    I relate alot to Taia and Artista. I also grew up in a home where domestic abuse was happening and we had to leave home alot, but my mom really wanted us to have a two parent home. My dad eventually got disgnosed with bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and ptsd and once he got the help he needed it did get a lot better and they’re both amazing parents to this day. ❤

  • @Psyren27

    @Psyren27

    Ай бұрын

    That's amazing 💜 so glad your dad was able to get help too. Noone deserves to suffer abuse from someone they love. But we were young and he had an undiagnosed mental illness and was overlooked by healthcare professionals. Sad that people who just need help, often go so long before receiving diagnosis's that can explain and get much needed treatment. Taia's Dad is so much better on his medication and I'm grateful he got the help he needed so he could be there for the kids when they were older.

  • @leahgarcia5727
    @leahgarcia5727Ай бұрын

    As a girl, it’s so confusing to see my mom pick random guys over her own kids. I have no idea what love is supposed to look like, how to act like a lady etc, I had to learn it all on my own.

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    that's called arranged marriage yeah, it's unfair. Let kids find their own love

  • @JBUHJBUH

    @JBUHJBUH

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@mirayoon1992 wait what?

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    @@JBUHJBUH maybe I misread but arranged marriage is parents choose romantic partners for their kids instead of kids choose romantic partners for themselves

  • @leahgarcia5727

    @leahgarcia5727

    Ай бұрын

    @@mirayoon1992 are you slow? My mom is just a hoe lmao, she cheated on my dad and he took custody of us while she slept around 😭

  • @chantel01c
    @chantel01cАй бұрын

    As someone who lost their mom 3 years ago at 23 I really needed to hear a lot of what these moms said. People always agree the obvious and the emotional connection that their child is their mom’s baby, but my mom was my baby. She was my best friend and was forever in my corner. These girls were great

  • @glitzyyy3535
    @glitzyyy35359 күн бұрын

    the last pair is the one the others should look upto

  • @scion2245ify
    @scion2245ifyАй бұрын

    I want to see all combinations of this: Fathers and sons, Dads and Daughters, Moms and sons, etc 😢😢

  • @sophia-vs6yv
    @sophia-vs6yvАй бұрын

    10:50 dang that’s crazy I can’t imagine having a mom like that

  • @mirayoon1992
    @mirayoon1992Ай бұрын

    artista looking at every daughter's email/snapchat is 😬

  • @Planck944

    @Planck944

    Ай бұрын

    She weird and so controlling

  • @thethinkingcat870
    @thethinkingcat870Ай бұрын

    I wasn't allowed to have social media as a kid without my parents, also being able to access it whenever. It was told to me that they could check it. I do not think it's unreasonable for parents to check that and to monitor their child's exposure to things online. I do think it's unreasonable to put spyware on your families items. That's wild.

  • @mirayoon1992

    @mirayoon1992

    Ай бұрын

    agree 🥺

  • @emilychiasson5290

    @emilychiasson5290

    Ай бұрын

    Having an open and honest dialogue about doing this is totally fine, then the child knows that's what you intend to do. Doing it behind their back is a whole other story and breaks that trust between parent and child

  • @coolguy3183
    @coolguy3183Ай бұрын

    Sonya seems like such a real one

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    So does Sarah and she’s got style

  • @victoriaweasley7807

    @victoriaweasley7807

    Ай бұрын

    I agree

  • @idk-kx9dl

    @idk-kx9dl

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Al-gg4mm Are you Sarah or something? You are complementing her in sooo many comments and defending her

  • @nayarcool
    @nayarcoolАй бұрын

    This was the best one in this concept series so far.

  • @madyhatter17
    @madyhatter17Ай бұрын

    I hope they'll do a video on Fathers and Sons

  • @madyhatter17

    @madyhatter17

    Ай бұрын

    (and maybe a mix of dad to daughter, mom to son, non binary folk, etc.)

  • @futuswag593

    @futuswag593

    Ай бұрын

    Non binary? Wtf​@@madyhatter17

  • @drwill439
    @drwill439Ай бұрын

    Ms. Sonya reminds me so much of my own mother. It takes a lot of strength and love to embrace certain differences, and i hope that journey doesn't stop!

  • @leafamaya165
    @leafamaya165Ай бұрын

    As someone from the same generation as these girls and who had a mom who invaded my privacy, now that I’m older and I’m thinking about having my own kids and thinking about all the scary things that have happened to me on the internet and just with my cell phone, I don’t blame my mom as much anymore. And I will probably have a level of monitoring on my own children, because you can teach your child over and over stranger danger but just like the girl in this video curiosity got the best of her and she was going to meet a random stranger. If anyone sits here and thinks “my child would never do that” you are wrong. Children have to have the privacy invaded to a certain level to ensure their safety.

  • @chitowncubby27

    @chitowncubby27

    Ай бұрын

    Glad someone understands this concept

  • @Sophia-angel

    @Sophia-angel

    Ай бұрын

    When I was underage I had someone say they will come get me and help me etc when I wasn’t getting along with my family. They kept pressuring me and manipulated me into it , I don’t blame parents who don’t give children privacy

  • @arachnid33

    @arachnid33

    24 күн бұрын

    Yes I grew up with online chats in middle school and cell phones in high school. Now I am a parent and I read everything my preteen does online. Everything. I knew too many kids my age whose parents were completely clueless what they were doing online.

  • @lissandrafreljord7913
    @lissandrafreljord7913Ай бұрын

    Now I wanna see "Daughter-in-Laws Finally Open Up to their Mother-in-Laws"

  • @PHlophe

    @PHlophe

    Ай бұрын

    police need to be hired

  • @nateofthewild5225

    @nateofthewild5225

    9 күн бұрын

    Would not go well for so many 😅 Daughter-in-laws don’t have to have the filters that the sons do. They’ve also heard the deep side of childhood from those husbands.

  • @fryeesaucee
    @fryeesauceeАй бұрын

    taja's mom literally looks like she could be her twin sister. artista aged like fine wine...i cannot believe thats her mom omg.

  • @petalnoir
    @petalnoirАй бұрын

    KING KOT TAKAHASHI BACK AT IT AGAIN

  • @mgooding8
    @mgooding8Ай бұрын

    Dang it, Irene! You’re gonna make me cry!!

  • @_Cetarial
    @_CetarialАй бұрын

    If mom and I got brutally honest with eachother, we would never speak again.

  • @jesss101
    @jesss101Ай бұрын

    my toxic trait is wanting to find that blog

  • @viravei

    @viravei

    Ай бұрын

    Lmk if you do

  • @LittleAsian_

    @LittleAsian_

    Ай бұрын

    nooo 🤣

  • @taehyungoppa7208

    @taehyungoppa7208

    Ай бұрын

    Lol 😂

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    She deleted it, she seemed like the best mom there and she had the best style

  • @tafe-3022

    @tafe-3022

    Ай бұрын

    @@Al-gg4mm I've seen all your comments on this video so far, I think you are either the mother Sarah or her daughter

  • @redgrape3
    @redgrape3Ай бұрын

    "that's my favorite word disown, because black people never think about owning people" - a queen.

  • @iwonthesitatebitch.570

    @iwonthesitatebitch.570

    Ай бұрын

    but black pppl do that all the time lmfao, parents think they own their children, the men think they own their women,,,

  • @sonyakaye9081

    @sonyakaye9081

    Ай бұрын

    ♥️

  • @chitowncubby27

    @chitowncubby27

    Ай бұрын

    Which is a terrible statement but she meant it in the best way possible.

  • @tentrickspony8925

    @tentrickspony8925

    Ай бұрын

    It's literally taking it outta context and making it about skin colour...also I'm blekk and where I come from, blekk peeple get stolen by other blekk peeple and then ensleived or unalived for body parts ...it's there in history that blekk peeple owned sleives too!

  • @chynawhite7940
    @chynawhite7940Ай бұрын

    I love heather and Sonya’s relationship. They’re growing 🥰

  • @Al-gg4mm

    @Al-gg4mm

    Ай бұрын

    I thought Sarah and Izzy had the best relationship plus Sarah seemed like a down to earth mom, plus she had the best style

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