I wish all the husbands' and mother in law's eyes are opened.

All duties are mine even no body is helping me in a single work.. It is like i am a gulam... I will never ever forgive them.. They are torturing me all the time...

MaashaAllahhhh.....!!!!! MAY ALLAH GIVES JANNAH for ppl like You Mufti Menk ... just tearing the filthy mask of culture that most men are wearing just outsourcing their duties towards their parents on the poor girl who is marrying these men... Men should look after their parent and it is not the duty of their wives... it should come naturally for a girl to do as a sadaqa but when things come by force Islamic rules literally breaks

Ameen thank everything that’s has been spoken in this video is exactly what I’m going through

@mitchelleden8016

2 жыл бұрын

instaBlaster.

@miriamhaq7758

2 жыл бұрын

@@mitchelleden8016 sorry?

@adruvitpandit5816

Жыл бұрын

Balgamdulillah!

@elizaa580

Жыл бұрын

Sister you're not alone same goes with 85% women living in south Asian countries

Every home's story!

Assalam Alaikum. Please pray that i start praying. Trying... Jazak Allah.

@proudirish_man6552

3 жыл бұрын

You have to keep trying brother, nothing will change until YOU change

@imranvinoth9466

2 жыл бұрын

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@M6A8U4R5

2 жыл бұрын

Start praying? Hope you accept islam too. If you believe that it’s an order from Allah, why do I need to pray that you start praying. Pray if you are a Muslim, simple. May Allah give you taufeeq, just do wudu and stand up , what stopping you if you are a Muslim ?

Agreed Mufti Menk

True. 💯 This has changed my perspective in so many ways.

Very interesting ma sha Allah 🙏

JazakAllahu khair

Subhan allaah

excellent topic you choose

Mashallah

Superb

Rightly said

28 and my millionaire family gaslights me wherever i want to leave and go get my life together , always threatening that “if I leave ill be on my own”. Thanks muftimenk for shedding light on this crucial topic, i swear many Muslim parents need a lot of preaching too. may God keep us steadfast on the right path Amin.

So true.

Lovely

Alhamudilla

May Allah grant us ease....

Masha Allah please upload the complete part 🙏

@fardin4011

3 жыл бұрын

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Please make dua for my late brother who passed away in the blessed month of Ramadan. May Allah grant him jannatul firdous, forgive and pardon him Ameen. Jazak Allah Khair.

Sawa noo law sawa

Ameen

Duas for children to be regular in salaat.

That is real talk there is no doubt about that Bismillah.

Islam has its own ways - Islam is a complete code of conduct and provides the best guidance in all matters. The best religion in the world is Islam And the word of the Allah Ta'ala bears witness to it; Indeed, the religion in the sight of Allah is Islām. {Surah 3 | Ayah 19}

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Again great topic to discuss. Thanks 🙏 Wait till other channels copy and re upload with different titles 😂

@imranvinoth9466

2 жыл бұрын

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Masha allah i was so confuse about wat am i doing is right or wrong.....now i will be in peace.....subhanallah

@secretmukbanger5683

Жыл бұрын

Do you still live with your inlaws?

Joint family system is doomed for failure... parents need to open their eyes and realise b4 its too late

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Subhanalla, Mashaallah, what a speach but I think we failed, now thinking how to correct our mistake , can someone help us how to correct it cause it is the beginning, and we don't know how much is this gone far with my son and his spouse. Help me, God Bless you.

Pls upload the complete video

I am getting married soon , my sister in law to be we don’t speak cos she thinks it’s haram for us to speak before we are married understandable but she keeps on telling my husband to be does she read salah etc but alhamdulilah I do read salah I’m not perfect a Muslim so I don’t like to show others that I am or judge others … But anyway I get offended by this because I wouldn’t choose a spouse my self ie her brother who doesn’t read salah … anyway I explained to him that she always gives her opinion on everything like how I should dress etc When I tell my husband to be this he becomes very defensive and stops speaking to me for a few days what should I do Please make dua for me in sha Allah

May I know this Noble Person's name? I really love the way he communicates in English.

@anasahmed5871

3 жыл бұрын

Mufti Ismail Menk

@thrivegurus23

3 жыл бұрын

@@anasahmed5871 Thank you so Much .With his image in Google image I got all the information and viewed some videos of him.

@anasahmed5871

3 жыл бұрын

@@thrivegurus23 you're welcome 😊

@islampeace...

2 жыл бұрын

Give in Charity my Dear Brothers and sisters even is you only have a little because Charity does not decrease wealth not even a little. You will also save your selves by doing so and you will get greatly rewarded for it in the next life. I mean there is like zero negatives and so many positives amazing right? So why not give? The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “There is not a day upon which the servant awakens but that two angels descend. One of them says: O Allah, repay one who spends in charity! The other says: O Allah, destroy one who withholds charity!” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1374 Not giving in Charity will make you end up in regret and destruction Here is some websites I use to give Charity Online 1. the water project 2. launch good 3. islamic relief canada Here are some of benefits in giving in Charity Regularly even just a dollar a day. 1. Charity eases hardships and removes calamities The Prophet (saw) said “Give Charity without delay, for it stands in the way of calamity.” (Tirmidhi) As Muslim, we believe that Allah (swt) has created this life as a test of our faith and loyalty through hardships. Giving Charity during a difficult time shows strong Iman and gratitude to Allah (swt). Only Allah’s (swt) infinite mercy can change a situation and giving Charity is a way of drawing closer to Him. 2. Charity is an investment in this life and hereafter A return on investment is not something you would normally associate with charitable donations. Nonetheless, Allah (swt) promises us that he will increase our wealth, sustenance and bring us success in this life and in the hereafter when we give in Charity. “Indeed, the men who practice charity and the women who practice charity and [they who] have loaned Allah a goodly loan - it will be multiplied for them, and they will have a noble reward.” (Al Hadeed 57: 18) 3. Charity atones our sins The Prophet (saw) said: “Charity extinguishes the sins like water extinguishes a fire.” (Ibn Majah) On the Day of Judgement, every person will be held accountable for their sins, both major and minor. Giving Charity regularly is a simple way of helping to expiate any sins we have committed knowingly, and unknowingly. 4. Charity opens the gates of paradise Only those believers who were charitable and gave Charity in the way of Allah, to their parents, orphans, widows, the sick and the needy will be allowed to enter through the door of Charity , one of 8 gates to Jannah. “But those who feared their Lord will be driven to Paradise in groups until, when they reach it while its gates have been opened and its keepers say, “Peace be upon you; you have become pure; so enter it to abide eternally therein,” (Quran 39:73) 5. Charity offers shade on the Day of Judgement On the Day of Judgement, the burning sun will be right above our heads and everyone will want to sit under the shade of Allah (swt). The person who gives hidden charity is one of the seven who will be offered shade. The Prophet (saw) said: “The believer’s shade on the Day of Resurrection will be his charity.” (Tirmidhi) 6. Charity purifies us Our wealth, no matter how big or small, is a gift from Allah (swt) and can in some cases even be a burden. We are accountable for how we spend it and should try to spend it wisely. Spending our wealth on charity extinguishes worldly desires and attains the reward of the Hereafter. “By no means shall you attain righteousness unless you give (freely) of that which you love. And whatever you spend; indeed, Allah is Knowing of it.” (Al Imraan 3:92) 7. Charity is a way of accepting Dua A Muslim can ask Allah (saw) to accept their Dua by virtue of their good deeds including the Charity they give. An example of this is the Sahih Hadeeth narrated in Muslim and Bukhari, about three people who entered a cave, but their exit was blocked by a fallen rock. They asked Allah (swt) to save them, by the virtue of their good deeds. 8. Charity creates balance and benefits to all of society Charity benefits the whole community and ensures that the most vulnerable, including orphans, widows, the sick and needy, have an equal standing in society. Remember, any act of kindness is Charity , not just money. The Prophet said: “Your smile for your brother is a charity. Your removal of stones, thorns, or bones from the paths of people is a charity. Your guidance of a person who is lost is a charity” (Bukhari). 9. Charity is a way to earn rewards after death. By giving Charity Sadaqah Jariyah in either your name or that of a loved one who has passed on, you can earn continuous rewards now and in the hereafter. Examples of Sadaqah Jariyah include building a well, school, hospital, or masjid. The beauty of Charity Jariyah is that you earn a reward every time it is used, for as long as it is used. The Prophet (saw) said: “When a man dies, his deeds come to an end except for three things: Charity Sadaqah Jariyah (ceaseless charity); a knowledge which is beneficial, or a virtuous descendant who prays for him (for the deceased).” 10. Charity cures illness The Prophet (saw) said “Treat your sick ones with charity.” (Saheeh al-Jaami). It is good to give Charity when a loved one falls ill in order to to help cure disease and avert ill-fate. The Prophet (saw) also said that “Sadaqah appeases the Lord’s anger and averts an evil death.” (Tirmidhi) So my Dear brothers and sisters as you can see giving Charity is a very wise thing to do even if its only a dollar a day so try your best to do so. Charity is the Smartest Investment you will ever Make =)..,..

@fauziakhan887

Жыл бұрын

Mufti Menk is an amazing Scholar who says it as it is

I want this bayaan in Urdu

I also think, living with in laws, should be made haram

@_-FreePalestine-_

4 ай бұрын

You do not get to decide what is haram or halal, That is only the right of Allah SWT. Also, In Islam parents are given the highest form of respect and we have been ordered to take care of them. Specially in their old age and you deem taking care of them should become haram just because you would like for them to abandon their parents? They are just as much his family as you and their children. A spouse who can not respect and show love to their partner's parents is not worth having. How shameful. Imagine if your parents were in need and your spouse denied you from taking care of them which needed you to live with them? I know of spouses who left everything to be with their partner's parents in their old age and they are such a beautiful couple and family, it is how it should be. How low we have come as an ummah to have such little respect for our own and our spouse's parents without whom you would not even have life to begin with.

@ramsiyajafar641

Ай бұрын

@@_-FreePalestine-_u dont know about the torture many women has to endure in in-laws house

Muhammad Qasim's dream August 31, 2022 In this dream I was among some people who listened to me and they asked about my dream. They asked me; "How much time is left before the Day of Judgment? I said to them; “When the war starts, everything will be part of the Third World War and Ghazwatul Hind. After this war, there will be a time of peace. The war will last for about 4 years, and after that a period of peace will last for 7 years.Then after this time, Dajjal (antichrist), Prophet Isa AS and Gog and Magog will come. 🌟please find more about these important dreams of Muhammad Qasim. We are the last generation of this ummah

When we abolish shirk and its forms then Allah will shower his blessings and mercy upon us and uncover His treasures upon us because at the very start Prophet Muhammad PBUH also advised Muslims to avoid shirk and established a society free from shirk. #MuhammadQasimDreams

Please pray for muhammad qasim& for islam

Muhammad Qasim saw this dream on 31st of August 2022, he says: In this dream I am amongst some people who are listening to me and asking questions about my dreams. Muhammad Qasim Dreams

EXTENSION OF FAMILY IS THROUGH MARRIAGE. MARRIAGE, FIRST & FOREMOST INSTITUTION. IN-LAWS are indeed IN LAW OR HAVE RIGHT OVER US TO KEEP THEM @ our home. OUR INHERITANCE & OUR HELP IS REALLY A LAW. ALLAH HAS GIFTED US with WORLDLY things & WE MUST HELP IN- LAWS. Care for our children & in-laws. OUR GRANDCHILDREN are GIFT OF ALLAH. ( not accident). YAA RABB, you gifted us with skills, so we earned. IT IS TO HELP OUR OWN IN-LAWS & grandchildren NOW. RAFI MAINE USA

United nation security counsel 😅😅

Assalamualaikum... This is message from Muhammad Qasim(Pakistani). " The beginning of World War 3 signifies that Qiyamat (The Day of Judgement) is very near. And there isn’t much time left at all, as some people have claimed and said that these events are very far away.”

Then Allah told Muhammad s.a.w that Qasim has built your original Islam in Pakistan, so Muhammad s.a.w became happy after knowing all this and told me through a dream to come to Madina and said that I want to meet you. Muhammad Qasim Dreams

why not posting now?

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Dajjal's face was cruel and when he walks it seemed like no one can stand before him. He seems like a normal man to me but he had many magical powers. #MuhammadQasimDreams

Good ahead not loo

Gen21.19 mathew12.42 dutt4.15 revaluation 4.7 God bless you Jesus with all liveing creatures 🕉 worthy of worship Revalation4.7 lion young bull face of a man and eagl worthy of worship Ezekiel 🕉

And Pakistan attacked in such a way that no one could stop them.After defeating both superpowers Pakistan became a superpower.#MuhammadQasimDreams

If only people will talk about those topic a little more those topics are really less spoken

I Stay in different country . But MIL expects me to call her after every 3-4 days(which i do) though She never calls me to ask about my wellbeing but only when i call her. Didn't call me to wish on first eid after my marriage only texted.Then She wished only my husband on call and told him why she(i.e me) didn't call her to which i got annoyed since she should be the one to wish me bcoz it was eid in our country not theirs how illogical is this!. Next day we woke up a bit late and it was eid in my in laws country so she called me in morning and i didnt pick the call i was in bathroom then she called n shouted my husband that why we didnt wish her they argued then she cut the call. Then bit later when i called her she declined my call 2 times. Then in evening she called my husband and talked to him nicely but didn't talk to me. She just only wants me to call her ask her about wellbeing and doesn't bother to call me i also away from my own parents and country. she even told my husband that should i bow down to ur wife(i.e me) she thinks if shes calling me shes bowing down my feet How narrow-minded and arrogant!

They ask me how much time is left before Qiyamah (The Day of Judgement). I say to them, “When the wars (conflict) begin, which will all be part of World War 3 and Ghazwa tul Hind, Muhammad Qasim Dreams

Before this war Allah جل جلالهconveyed the news of my dreams to the Army chief of Pakistan and Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم also gave him the witness of my dreams that Qasim is not lying to anyone regarding his dreams and his dreams are true and they are from Allah. #MuhammadQasimDreams

Right now while watching this video I wanted to make this video, my watsup status... But it would be just my wish.. because I know that I ve to go back to same home where is so called joint family is, where they blame me every day for even those things that I can't even think of... And hit me .. and abuse me.. whenever I said I wanted to live separate my husband always said ..OK u stay to ur mother house for few days and I vl arrange separate house... but just a dream... I ve to go back to the same house... coz no one their allow him do so.... The same will happen again..... All the responsibilities are on my husband... and my 2 DEWAR ( brother in law) and 2 nand ( sister in law) just want their ease... I can't tell shortly all... They just know abt rights not the duties... And I always think that when this all vl finish... 10 years aren't enough? When Allah tala will listen me..?? When ever a little way I saw ,, that got closed even before I become happy

@mahseenaaktermeem7973

Жыл бұрын

Try to live on your own. You manage a separate house/apartment. If there is any financial problems, try to earn by yourself. Once you're separate, your husband will soon follow you.

@mohidfakhar7968

Жыл бұрын

I try this also.. but in vain... I went to my mother's house... but all the responsibilities came to my parents... and they are old... Then later on my husband bring me back.. 3 times this happened... and behind this all long long stories... I can't do anything with my 2 children... Can u believe that I did M.Com plus LLB... With this education I can do any job or practice.. I ve to start my career and in start I need time to settle... then what abt my children responsibilities.. who will take.. again I ve to go to my parents... and they can't take any responsibility... they are old enough

@mahseenaaktermeem7973

Жыл бұрын

@@mohidfakhar7968 I must say you have married a coward and stupid. Who does not know who to prioritize when it is needed. His brother and sister won't come to help him when her in trouble. His own family ( wife and children) will be there always with him. Once you are married you'll have your own circle. You have leave your old circle because that's your parents circle not yours. In your circle you have your wife/husband and children. Your husband will suffer in future for not knowing this and prioritizing his own family. Your children will grow up seeing how miserablly they are treating you. If they grow good they'll surely take your side someday. But let me tell you one thing. Your children will also marry and create their own circle. Please don't hope from them(your children) much either. Your problem needs to solve by only you. Only you can help yourself. Remember that bad influence can harm your children's mental health. It is better to divorce him and start over. So that your children grow healthy. I am sure if you divorce, your husband will have to pay some money for his children according to law. Please don't ruin your children 's mental growth! I wish you luck sister!

I invite everyone for quran recitation thank you💔🌷🌹🌺🌷

Bismelahi rahman rahim may allah grand us all forgifnes end grand us good healt end a long life end good tidings in this world end they next end grand us good healt end a long life end good tidings in this world end they next end grand us good healt end a long life end good tidings in this world end they next end grand us all forgifnes end save ours beloved famelie end parents from they puneshment of they grave end puneshment of jehanam end grand us good healt end a long life end good tidings in this world end they next end grand us all forgifnes end grand us all jhena el fardous bidoen hisab allahuma ma amin ya rabi alhalameen sadaga Allah oul hadim allahuma ma amin

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Abolishing Shirk and its practices is the only way to Allah SWT’s rehma. Prophet Muhammad SAW also warned us of Shirk and its forms 1400 years ago. Muhammad Qasim has seen this as a warning to the Muslim ummah in his dreams.

Yeah kon c zamanay ki batein ker rahay hein jo itnay khanay rooz banwatay hein bahu say ..... aur bahu bhi sab kuch bana dayti hay .... honestly ab tu bahu apnay shor ko bana ker na day 😂....

@ammarahmed363

3 жыл бұрын

Ek shaks ka experience generalize nai ha k sab ese hi hon

@prettygeniuses3464

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly now a days more daughter in laws are like this when evr inlaws come they made saddist and angriest face dont talk at all ... telling inlaws u r never welcome at there sons home. Thats what happen when u actually give space

@ammarahmed363

3 жыл бұрын

@@prettygeniuses3464 kisi had tk theek ha but isme bhi betay ne jb tk izzat na ki apne waliden ki tb tk bahu bhi nai karti And vice versa

I hate joint family .... I am living in a hell

May the Messiah who is the only Allah, Issah of Nazareth bless and his mother Miriam (btw - not the same Miriam as the sister of Moses - yikes - see book of Mormon and other similar heretical pseudepigrapha for similar painful giveaways ) who bore Issah who alone is Allah’s Word and is fully Allah doesn’t make mistakes ) intercede that the Father may through and with Son by the Holy Spirt heal all Muslims and Muslim families and bring them home out of error to the Triune Allah who created them, died for their sins and who sent Allah the Holy Spirit (and not a warlord who married children) as a comforter for them!

What happen to inlaws who give space to inlaws I tell u they are never welcome to there sons /brother home .the lady of the house dont talk at all ... if husband sister visit once in a year the she makes angeriest face all the time Cook most tasteless food and ask her nand to eat all three days same food and leave her home as earliest aspossible.... honestly what wrong with the young girls now a days why cant u welcome husbands parents siblings nicely??? On the vice versa she is best to her parents and siblings .... so sad realities now a days

@mahseenaaktermeem7973

Жыл бұрын

There's a saying "give respect, take respect". I think some of this is lacking from your side that's why she's acting like this.

@saadia4210

3 ай бұрын

​@mahseenaaktermeem7973 some daughter I. Laws even if u give respect they r taught by mums thar hate in laws.

he is a wahhabi and not an appropriate teacher. :) sufism is part of Islam and it is undeniable. does he have a lecture on Hz Ghazali or Hz Rabbani, these important personalities of the Islamic tradition? of course not. you google and you find out immediately, just FYI. don t risk your iman for one man, Nouman Ali Khan is also a deceiver like him.

@uaejourneys1494

Жыл бұрын

Lol you are of those men whose parents control their wife in an abusive manner. MAY ALLAH S.W.T guide you InshAllah Ameen.

*FREE HOLIDAY* I've found this holiday destination that I need to share with you. I can go for however long I want as many times as I want and my husband never come with me. (that's called independence). I don't don't pay a penny for accommodation, food and there's even a chauffeur. I just put my feet up as there's a creche for my kids a child minder and even a bodyguard and security to take care of my kids and myself. No cleaning, no cooking, there's a maid who does all of this. There's free wifi if I want to spend endless hours sharing pics and videos on my phone. Whenever I go there I see my Mum and Dad (who are elderly) being pampered and they never seem to ask me to do anything. My kids call their their son and daughter in law uncle and aunt and I just thought this man and woman were volunteers working in this holiday resort. Everytime I go the menu changes - they must have a full time chef. I've just come back after a weeks' stay and will be there again next weekend. -- Sincere advice to not contribute towards divorce, marital discord and family breakdown: When you visit/stay over at your parents house, please be mindful that your silent brother and silent sister in law are also trying to have stability to maintain and raise their family.

Abolishing Shirk and its practices is the only way to Allah SWT’s rehma. Prophet Muhammad SAW also warned us of Shirk and its forms 1400 years ago. Muhammad Qasim has seen this as a warning to the Muslim ummah in his dreams.