It’s the mature black men who knows how to COMMUNICATE for me!!

Duke mentioned the following show topic: "why some men intentionally don't look for high value women". Would love to hear about this!

@kadeshabarnard6320

Жыл бұрын

Yes to this!

I’m in my 20s and it’s so ghettttto lol. You’re constantly drawing lines for ppl that try to lil girl/lil boy you (def family that cared for you as a child and def older coworkers). Whole lotta roommate living situations. Whole lotta thinking you finally know yourself then realizing you’re not even close! Whole lotta being binded to long-term contracts you realized were terrible ideas. Whole lotta ppl giving you advice when they have no history of being successful or proof of expertise (profession) in the area they’re advising. Whole lotta dating ppl your age and ppl older and realizing literally the only difference is salary. Whole lotta learning financial literacy by yourself and own experiences. Whole lotta wanting to be at different places at the same time and never being content with where you decide to be. Your 20s is just a whole bunch of being unstable (school, interning, traveling even when it’s not a good time, commuting for work/odd jobs, moving place to place) and building your foundation. I’m chilling in my 20s but it’s rough. I’m looking forward to a smoother lifestyle in my 30s 🤦🏾‍♀️

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2 жыл бұрын

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@kenchrishell

2 жыл бұрын

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@winnieh834

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss

Omar mentioned that shortie "did not have to lie". Someone mentioned she did not know how to be sneaky because she got caught. I think she did not lie or being sneaky. It seemed like Omar and the young lady were smashing. They had a cordial situation which allowed her freedom to be with other people. He was cool with no-strings attached until he knew she was talking to his teammate as well. Men can never take what they dish out.

@Deettamonique

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly if he really wanted her he would’ve made it clear and asked to be his girlfriend.

The way Omar communicated his likes and dislikes, preferences, etc regarding that massage shows serious maturity. Very dope

Omar’s story about the massage 😂😂😂 Duke was like “Nope.” 😂😂

The fact that I was praying that Jalon found him a boo! I’m so happy for him! He likes somebody, and he enjoyed his trip! I know that’s right 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

For me personally, I hit my peak or that "tunnel" Jalon referenced in my EARLY 20's -- so my dating wasn't as "wild." I don't have any regrets, but I do wish that I didn't put so much pressure on myself and men, and instead just had more fun.

@tutu1399

2 жыл бұрын

Yet I feel like this is women in general. Biological were always going to mature sooner than most men. This is why it isn't as pleasurable for us as it is for them. I am in my early 20's and I feel this wholeheartedly, yet I feel it makes you wise as to what type of man you'd ideally need/want when it comes that time.

@TheNaynay91

2 жыл бұрын

I agree

Young black men who are realistic with a lot of common sense, I really enjoy this podcast. Glad I found y’all

I love the fact these men are very open expressing their preference not to have same sex intimacy that require touching. Good for them for being respectful & honest .

I love y’all energy at the beginning of your vids when dancing/vibing to the intro song

The halftime story😂 Omar: Am I okay for feeling weird Duke: Naaa...it's normal... Jalon: Why?😅 Duke: Bro don't even ask why😂😂😂😂

I’m a 24 years old women and I really enjoy you guys podcast I’ve watched about 7 ep and I’ve enjoyed all of them

The massage story 😭😭😭

Brruh I usually skip the halftime show but it was freaking gold literally had me LAUGHING OUT LOUD!!! 😂😂😂

Welcome back fellas!! Cheers to season 3! 🥃 I like Jalon’s funnel analogy. My point started at the age of 28. I was extremely naive in my early 20’s, but my perspective on dating changed during my late 20’s. I had to really check myself & be honest about why things weren’t working for me. I can definitely see my growth at 34 vs naive 20 something year old me.

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I think people only call you picky when they feel like you’re asking for what you don’t deserve

@AS-tb2mo

2 жыл бұрын

The truth.

@jess_is

2 жыл бұрын

Or better yet, when you're requiring what THEY can't give.

The anthem is back it don’t hit the same without the crew hyping it up!

Also dating is ghetto.🤣💀 Ain’t nothing but trash out here.

I’m 22. I’m definitely having my fun but my fun has always been with intent. I’m not out here wilding out because I never saw the value in doing so and that makes me feel weird at times, but that’s just not me. I do feel like I put too much pressure on myself at times but I’m aware that I do have time. I feel like I know what I want, however, I’m not in a position to give how I want to give in terms of a serious commitment. I’m learning how to maneuver in terms of dating like the video said. I’m learning more about me and when it’s time for commitment I’ll be the best version of myself for my partner.

This was a great conversation, made me reflect on my past relationships in my 20s vs 30s … even just going through a breakup in my 30s with a person who wasn’t flexible and with it my way or nothing at all mentality how immature this person was. But i get def. read through bullshit quicker

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2 жыл бұрын

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This might be your best episode yet. The content was so relatable . Everyone added good talking points and nobody was cutting or letting their ego get in the way

LOVE LOVE YOUR PODCAST!! YOU guys inspire so many !

First time viewing this podcast ... I know Duke from iAmAthleteLA and I actually loved him the most on there. Felt he was being very organic, genuine, and the most vulnerable. I'm so happy to find him on this podcast with equally yoked guys... Instant subscriber ! And great episode .. I just joined the 30 club so great to hear this insight

The Guys are backkkk 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

Another Gem. Great Episode Fellas…The Chemistry Between The 3 Of Y’all Continues To Grow And Get Better And Better On Screen…

For the record Jalon, this is your best hair cut. FYI.

Missed the weekly videos! Happy you guys are back ❤️

So happy y’all are back!! Congratulations on the new studio!🥳🥳🥳

Such great space first of all, and the narrative was super well conducted as being in my early 30's I got so much discernment and wisdom from it. Excited for the season

The way I smiled knowing season 3 has begun!!! The massage story had me weakkkk!! Overall great conversation gentlemen 🙌🏾

Massages really depend on the intention on why you are there because sometimes people go there for the right reasons and some not so much

So glad to have y’all back! It was a pleasure meeting Duke and Omar at the Wizkid concert in LA. I was nervous and had more to say but I truly appreciate you guys advice and it’s helped me so much this year. Keep it up 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Welcome back I’m so excited for y’all growth

Welcome back guys ❤️❤️👏🏿👏🏿

I loved the episode! Keep up the vibes gents

I looovvee thessee guuyyss!!!!💓 it's Omar's excitement at the beginning of this video😂

Yayyyyyyyyyyy, y’all back!!!!!!

Happy you guys are back!!! I’m putting everyone on to this podcast 🥃🥃🥃

Loved this💙🙌🏽👑Thank you for sharing a mans perspective on dating and love. Very insightful

First time, discovering these guys and I really enjoyed the conversation. As a woman, I truly appreciate the honesty and that's why I treasure my male friends. We have great conversations when we check in with one another. We learn so much from a male perspective n from a female perspective. I totally agree with Omar's feelings about the massage too. It's all about comfortability for a person. And that's so true dating in your 20's, 30's & 40's is so different n that's because as humans we're constantly evolving and hopefully maturing. Thanks for your transparency guys! ♥️

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2 жыл бұрын

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Quality!

JAY over there with the shoulders 😂😂😂

Great job guys!

Great episode to start off the season.

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2 жыл бұрын

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I agree dating at 30 it’s more whole for me, the people you meet are more grounded and know what they want and you can see thru the BS if it’s casual even easier to agree on. That’s true what duke said at 27 I woke up one day and say no will stop certain things, my last lady made me realize lots of things of myself. 🤕

24 and although y’all make the content for the fellas it’s what I need!!! Haha happy y’all back.

I missed u guys….great episode ❤️

Welcome back fellas!!

Solid, good brothers!

The guys are back!!!

The gang is back!!!!!!

This was a realllly good conversation!

Great advice

So much knowledge as always from these guys

@seetheinvisiblestuff

2 жыл бұрын

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I just love y’all 😩

“ BODIED MY NAILS!” 🤣 JAY drop dudes info in the description box 🤣

Missed y’all 👌🏾

My big brothers are back!!

These guys good.

Silly for not being picky! 💯

Aaaaayyyyye!!

27:22 😂😂😂

Man I missed this intro and OK Jalon with the tan.

🥃🥃🥃 yezzir

missed y’all!

I got soo happy when I saw this notification ☺️☺️☺️

No sirrrrr. Not me lol

I think dating apps have become more popular and accepted with younger people, I’m 21 and just about every single person I know is on a dating app or has been on a dating app in recent years. I think it really depends on where you live, your age, what you’re looking for, and your availability of dating options. It makes sense Duke wouldn’t need one because he’s a well known athlete I’m sure he has options, but I think they’re a good tool like anything else.

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If you weren’t that serious, why was she obligated to tell you who or what she’s doing when you’re not together?! 😂 These men 🤦🏿‍♀️ Now if she were to ask him who he was screwing when they were not together, he would’ve been bothered.

@KillaCam2534

2 жыл бұрын

It’s the principle. It’s the fact that she was dealing with someone on his team lol that’s wild

@vbm2119

2 жыл бұрын

@@KillaCam2534 There is no principle. You guys clearly don't know the difference between principle & foolishness. It was simply fair game. She's grown & if he wanted her to be obligated to him, then he should've communicated. You can't get mad at a woman for having options whether on his team or not 🤷🏿‍♀️

@KillaCam2534

2 жыл бұрын

@@vbm2119 bra was not mad tho lol. Like I stated before, that shit was just wild for her to be dating someone on his team. Kinda made here look messy in a sense. But let that been a woman telling a similar story about a man dating someone else at her workplace…but if women want to be like that these days let ‘em be. Too many of women be screaming out how they queens but don’t live by those standards.

I’ve gotten a massage from a man before. But I thought of it like my physical therapist in college when I hurt my hip. I got a sports message tho so it’s different. I’ve never got a sensual massage like that, ever. So I can’t say how I’d feel. Just cuz I went into the session thinking it was going to be painful cuz it’s a sports massage.

Welcome back, family!

How can I get this song on iTunes 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

I am just now watching this episode. Who was the teammate shortie went to see Omar?

Story time halftime Is 🔥 , personally I’m on the same page as duke, I need a woman’s touch to relax, I couldn’t receive a massage from a man

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I agree with Duke, my answer is no…hell no!

is you is or is you ain't really that picky in real life lol Duke be gut checking 🤣

Aye, we back! ✊🏾

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Absolutely not letting a guy massage me. Like they said, I wouldn’t be able to relax. If another guy is cool with it, there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s just not cool with me.

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@seetheinvisiblestuff

2 жыл бұрын

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No I’m not cool w it 😭

I took my guy on a couples massage and I had a guy and he had a woman, but my masseuse wasn't doing anything inappropriate.

I am a woman and I always request a woman I can't have a men... I feel awkward so I get it

Y’all dead ass wrong 😂. A professional is a professional I request a male because they have bigger hands and tend to apply stronger pressure. How’s it any different than the AT in the training room rubbing you out real quick 😂

dub. i wouldn't do it

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Is Jalon a capricorn, Taurus or Cancer 😂

@winnieh834

2 жыл бұрын

Also, as a female, I have not been comfortable with male RMTs, only females for me ; porn has ruined massage therapy for women and male RMTs imo

no

I've always gotten massages from women

Nope .

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