Dating A 20-Year-Old Virgin in the Philippines

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00:00 - 02:00: Introduction to the Topic of Virgins in the Philippines
02:01 - 05:15: Comparing Western and Filipino Views on Virginity
05:16 - 09:30: Financial and Cultural Dynamics Affecting Filipina Virgins
09:31 - 13:00: Personal Stories and Experiences of Dating Filipina Virgins
13:01 - 16:55: Advice for Foreigners Dating Filipina Virgins
Explore the unique cultural dynamics of dating a 20-year-old virgin in the Philippines. This insightful video delves into the traditional values, societal expectations, and personal decisions that lead many Filipinas to remain virgins into their twenties. Learn about the challenges and considerations when dating in the Philippines, especially in conservative, rural areas. Understand the significant differences in dating culture between the West and the Philippines, and how financial and familial influences shape these women's choices. Whether you're curious or planning to date in the Philippines, this video offers valuable perspectives on navigating relationships with respect and understanding.
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  • @Lifebeyondthesea
    @Lifebeyondthesea23 күн бұрын

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  • @laylasmart

    @laylasmart

    13 күн бұрын

    Wait a minute. She can be a virgin and still go down on a man or let him in through her "backdoor" and still be a virgin formally. So, men can never know what she did...

  • @josiah5776
    @josiah577623 күн бұрын

    In the US it is not uncommon for a girl graduating high school having a double-digit body count. My Filipina wife saved herself for marriage. It totally blew my mind. Like Rekay stated, it was totally incomprehensible to me as a Western man. It was not something I was seeking or even on my mind, but it was certainly a very precious gift that she gave to me. It spoke volumes about her character and self-discipline ... and removed any doubts in my mind about committing to her. I trust her completely, which was not the case with Western women. It is a an amazing foundation for a marriage. I was never recreationally dating, so it was a perfect fit.

  • @andrewcarlson2178

    @andrewcarlson2178

    23 күн бұрын

    Spot on and great comment. That first guy creates a very special bond for them, and if a guy handles it correctly, she'll be the most trustworthy woman you've ever met.

  • @josiah5776

    @josiah5776

    23 күн бұрын

    @@andrewcarlson2178 Yes, the bond is amazing. I'd heard some men speaking about it, but I could never conceptualize it until I experienced it myself. Biggest and best foundation for a successful and lasting relationship. Western women loudly scream that it is all about being a controlling man ... its not, and they threw away their best chance a true happiness.

  • @mikelee7972

    @mikelee7972

    22 күн бұрын

    thats awesome. I thnk.....LOL.........you are definitely right about the western woman.....first t ime in seast asia was last year in thailand. i have been there 3 x in the past year. Phillipines for me in jan 25 for a month. cant wait. I do love America and probably wont leave full time but i can def see doing southeast asia 4-5 months of the year. the people , the culture and the cost of living is amazing. Still love America though.

  • @DimitriosSpada

    @DimitriosSpada

    21 күн бұрын

    How long you are married? Gap of age?

  • @Friedolays

    @Friedolays

    6 күн бұрын

    ​@@DimitriosSpada45 year age gap

  • @Rayb48
    @Rayb4823 күн бұрын

    I agree with you 100%. My wife worked 10-12 hours a day 6 days a week. She had never been with anyone. She was a virgin in her late 30’s.

  • @salomonandreoosthuysen6310

    @salomonandreoosthuysen6310

    22 күн бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👌👌😊

  • @pete531

    @pete531

    13 күн бұрын

    i really find that hard to believe

  • @gregjackson-ks1gh

    @gregjackson-ks1gh

    10 күн бұрын

    ​@@pete531 You are thinking like the Westerner you are.

  • @rodneyfernandez5304

    @rodneyfernandez5304

    4 күн бұрын

    Oooo yes and older virgin would be best

  • @dr.winstonsmith
    @dr.winstonsmith22 күн бұрын

    Only marry a virgin, she has demonstrated the self-discipline and morality to make a marriage last. On the other hand, if you’re just looking to mess around, leave the virgins alone, don’t mess them up with false promises by taking advantage of her trusting nature.

  • @johnl9977

    @johnl9977

    17 күн бұрын

    There really is not a hard and fast rule to that unless you are stuck on it. The gal I married was engaged before and he was her first. She was 24 and I was 49. It fell through with him because she did not like his character when he drank, and he liked to drink. I married her and she has really been a wonderful gal, totally faithful going on 15 years now, and we have two daughters. I helped her to become a nurse here. I did have a friend, and he married a gal in her early thirties, and she was a virgin. I know, hard to believe, but that is the girls from the smaller provinces for the most part.

  • @dingdongchingchong8659

    @dingdongchingchong8659

    12 күн бұрын

    Msulims do this all the time.

  • @Beeti1

    @Beeti1

    5 күн бұрын

    Marry whoever you like. It shouldn't make any kind of difference if they're a virgin or not.

  • @Leo-yd6ig

    @Leo-yd6ig

    3 күн бұрын

    Virgin or not is mostly irrelevant. My 1st marriage was with a girl who was formerly very promiscuous. It lasted 9 years. Then I married a virgin and that marriage fell apart anyway. She's now promiscuous - catching up on 'lost' time, I guess…

  • @mickie2412
    @mickie241223 күн бұрын

    My filipina wife had just turned 23 when we met and she had never kissed or been intimate with anyone till our wedding night, so definitely not impossible.

  • @antoniogutierrezjr7471

    @antoniogutierrezjr7471

    23 күн бұрын

    Ya there parents taught them to be god fearing that’s why

  • @salomonandreoosthuysen6310

    @salomonandreoosthuysen6310

    22 күн бұрын

    Congratulations to those girls who stood by their parents's Christian upbringing. Well done 👏👏👏

  • @zenymabalhin7124

    @zenymabalhin7124

    18 күн бұрын

    @@adamsty1728 That's correct. I have 4 aunties, 3 of them already died but were still a virgin. They were afraid of men. The last one now is 86 years old. During their time, their parents were so strict so the guys felt scared to court them. That was how I was brought up.

  • @Kamui..

    @Kamui..

    13 күн бұрын

    where to find them ?

  • @Salamander407

    @Salamander407

    12 күн бұрын

    Noice!!!

  • @donbxman7080
    @donbxman708022 күн бұрын

    My filipina wife was 28 when we got married and she was as pure as a new white snow!

  • @gregjackson-ks1gh

    @gregjackson-ks1gh

    10 күн бұрын

    Good for you!

  • @Rebewfloda

    @Rebewfloda

    8 күн бұрын

    😂😂🎉🎉🎉1 from 10 Millions

  • @serdalkaptan

    @serdalkaptan

    3 күн бұрын

    @@Doing_Time It is not about a religion, but about dignity, self discipline, character, and family orientation which makes humans pure or evil.

  • @howardmallisonii503
    @howardmallisonii50323 күн бұрын

    Worst thing that a man can do to a woman is lie. That cuts both ways. Be a Gentleman, not a sucker or worse.

  • @ericg9092

    @ericg9092

    21 күн бұрын

    Exactly.

  • @ArielGonzalez1

    @ArielGonzalez1

    18 күн бұрын

    Facts. Do not become what you always hated (as a man): fuckboys, liars, cheaters, etc...

  • @CyberTronXXX

    @CyberTronXXX

    5 күн бұрын

    True. Same can be said other way too though

  • @colbydee6828
    @colbydee682823 күн бұрын

    This is a great message. If you’re not looking to get married then leave the good girls alone. The west has been destroyed by a complete lack of respect for virtue and decency. You’re going to a far off land to escape this stuff. don’t bring that wretched behavior with you.

  • @randyfocht737

    @randyfocht737

    22 күн бұрын

    Exactly: complete lack of respect for virtue and decency.

  • @DimitriosSpada

    @DimitriosSpada

    21 күн бұрын

    You just say the truth.

  • @mikesolns1364

    @mikesolns1364

    16 күн бұрын

    Simps and betas are ruining the Philippines

  • @anselmodesouza7676

    @anselmodesouza7676

    6 күн бұрын

    @@colbydee6828 VERY GOOD COMMENT

  • @geneauger
    @geneauger22 күн бұрын

    I married a 36-year-old virgin, which is not unusual.

  • @dingdongchingchong8659

    @dingdongchingchong8659

    12 күн бұрын

    50 year old virgin for me here.

  • @ivritasker
    @ivritasker22 күн бұрын

    Just love your transparency. I know that you have come under sharp criticism in the past as a sex fiend, serial predator by those who do not know South East Asian culture. Notwithstanding the above, as a 78 year old who's been round the bloc many times in the last 17 years there, you just opened my eyes. When I thought I knew most of it, you just zapped me by reinforcing my adage "the more you know, the more you know you don't know." I now realize that this is what happened to me on my last trip to Thailand 3 months ago. In her late 30s, she was strongly traditional and moral. We spent 6 hours together. She spoke almost no English. She immediately wanted to take me home to meet her parents. I respected her morality and let her go. But many years ago, the "brother" thing almost happened to me in Cebu City. I had invited a traditional Nuat Thai masseuse back to my hotel. In short, her husband had picked up her phone, called me, and barked out "I kill you". Fortunately for me, I had not yet given her the name of my hotel. On life's journey, one never stops learning. Thank you Reekay.

  • @Lifebeyondthesea

    @Lifebeyondthesea

    22 күн бұрын

    the criticisms come from adult-toddlers that can't handle topics discussed among adults. these are the same guys who have zero game so they lead with their wallet and date bargirls or prey upon underage girls. they know they are losers, so they hate anyone who has the balls to do it right. they simply aren't up to the task.

  • @DausLifeInTransition
    @DausLifeInTransition4 күн бұрын

    This is 100% accurate. My Filipina was 25 when we met. She’d never had a boyfriend, never kissed a man, never even held hands with the opposite sex! She was from the province, a small isolated island off the coast of Northern Samar. She was saving herself for the man she was going to marry.

  • @wesjohnson-sg2dc
    @wesjohnson-sg2dc23 күн бұрын

    My wife is gorgeous and God fearing. I was her first BF when we found each other online while she was 32..She had basically been a slave to her family since birth..I took her away and the rest is history..

  • @DimitriosSpada

    @DimitriosSpada

    21 күн бұрын

    Before how many years you take her ?

  • @randyfocht737
    @randyfocht73722 күн бұрын

    Good point at 14:00 ! Don't mess with a virgin. This is NOT a game. It's a "human" being's life you could be ruining. AND it's bad Karma. ALSO how are you going to feel in the next world when God asks you how you treated people when you were alive. Get married first and then sex is great! ...and the whole point of sex is to glue you together, AND have children.

  • @NewAdventuresAhead
    @NewAdventuresAhead21 күн бұрын

    I can confirm. Got to know a beautiful, conservative, well-spoken 25-year-old virgin.

  • @keithridlen7122
    @keithridlen712223 күн бұрын

    I went on a 1st date and entered the "talking phase" with 2 different twenty something year old virgins in the Philippines. One (23) one (25) ultimately I decided to pass on both girls because I'm not ready to get married yet. I would feel like a dirtbag for pursuing them and breaking their hearts down the road. I don't need that Karma on my soul. but... It was such a "breath of fresh air" to know that people still have morals in today's corrupt culture. The last time I heard a girl was a virgin in the US, was over 2 decades ago when I was in high school... They're out there guys.

  • @andrewcarlson2178

    @andrewcarlson2178

    23 күн бұрын

    Great character move. It's nice to see guys out there respecting these women.

  • @Flitalidapouet

    @Flitalidapouet

    22 күн бұрын

    Congrats for respecting their paths.

  • @ArielGonzalez1

    @ArielGonzalez1

    18 күн бұрын

    Respect. This is the mature/correct way

  • @pete531

    @pete531

    13 күн бұрын

    God bless you Keith

  • @PipersGrip

    @PipersGrip

    3 күн бұрын

    Did you just ask them? Is that a rude question over there?

  • @bujin5455
    @bujin545523 күн бұрын

    Solid advice. Love the part about the brothers. Definitely something worth giving serious consideration to. You're fooling around in the providences in PH, disappearing and never being heard from again is a serious possibility, and remember, they have the home field advantage.

  • @serdalkaptan

    @serdalkaptan

    3 күн бұрын

    Home field advantage doesn't work very well if you know the alleys well like those irresponsible local jerks who impregnate the girls and disappear. I don't know how to describe those irresponsible selfish creatures.

  • @dannyboy8644
    @dannyboy864422 күн бұрын

    Great video spoken from a real man! I was in a situation when i was younger about 22 and the girl was 21 a virgin. I could have taken her virginity but i knew I was not going to have a serious long term relationship with her. We did not have intercourse because of me. I did not want to be selfish and just thinking about having fun. I told her to save her virginity for the man you believe you will marry. I am 62 , to this day I would not take a women's virginity if i knew it was not going to be a long term relationship with a real opportunity for marriage.

  • @PipersGrip

    @PipersGrip

    3 күн бұрын

    God bless you. I wish more men had that mindset.

  • @hadrianopolis1968
    @hadrianopolis196812 күн бұрын

    I beat you all guys...I'm 56, I just married a 50 yo virgin woman in Mindanao. There is nothing wrong with her, she is petite, slim, pretty looking and very independent and intelligent. She was raised by a very strict illongo father and she grew up not wanting to be a slave wife / mother at home so she stayed away from Filipino men...but then as I understand, she was afraid to grow older and alone and she asked God to send her a good man 👉 Me 👈 😆.

  • @gregorywatkins4921
    @gregorywatkins492122 күн бұрын

    Excellent advice. Think with your head and your heart, not what is in between your legs. Your advice and insight is always appreciated.

  • @Lifebeyondthesea

    @Lifebeyondthesea

    22 күн бұрын

    Right on

  • @andyswan88
    @andyswan8823 күн бұрын

    Really like the format with you in the corner plus the pictures of girls. Best of both worlds. To me it always has a bit less impact and credibility if I can't see someone's face when they are talking.

  • @andrewcarlson2178
    @andrewcarlson217823 күн бұрын

    Great content. I've found some Eastern European Slavic girls to be the same way, especially the Orthodox ones. If you're going to mess with a virgin, be mature about it. Like Reekay said, there is a special bond with their first, and that's a woman you can fully trust. Be a decent human being and spread good karma.

  • @CS-ox9hn

    @CS-ox9hn

    22 күн бұрын

    Where have you been? Because I know that the rhetoric is very traditional, the reality is usually completely different. Numbers don't lie. Look at the divorce and abortion rates, which are incredibly high in Slavic Orthodox countries. And the trope of the Eastern European gold digger did not come out of nothing. It did not originate in countries like Poland.

  • @claudyvidal3007

    @claudyvidal3007

    21 күн бұрын

    ​@@CS-ox9hna lot beautiful women eastern europe are virgin is just be a winner to find the correct one ❤

  • @PrepperJon
    @PrepperJon22 күн бұрын

    My Filipina wife was absolutely gorgeous in every way, 22 years old and in her 3rd year of college when we got married. She was what she called an “Absolute Virgin” 🎉 She had never done anything before, nothing intimate, no kissing, no holding hands, nothing. She said dating is what you do when looking for a spouse. So why date in high school at all? 😊 Most people, especially in the West, don’t understand how a man feels when he knows his wife saved herself for him. Its not about pride at all. It’s more like it elevates his love for her and he feels that he has a duty to be the absolute best husband possible. Something in him values her in a way that is difficult to explain. I had 15 amazing years with her until she passed from a terminal illness. 😢 Before she passed she made me promise to not go through life alone, meaning she wanted me to remarry. She told me I would have to go to the Philippines to find a wife good enough for a man like me. By the way her parents were from the Philippines but she was American born.

  • @tomriddle6968

    @tomriddle6968

    22 күн бұрын

    That is a heart-wrenching story. God bless her soul.

  • @darienwashington510

    @darienwashington510

    21 күн бұрын

    Sorry for your loss.

  • @climber222

    @climber222

    21 күн бұрын

    Oh mate I'm so sorry. Respect to you both

  • @user-vh4hq2hi4q

    @user-vh4hq2hi4q

    21 күн бұрын

    That's amazing! ❤

  • @Bryster51

    @Bryster51

    9 күн бұрын

    Slow Salute

  • @careysretirementjourney
    @careysretirementjourney10 күн бұрын

    I too met a 22-year-old gorgeous virgin in Bacolod who wanted me to be her first but I didn’t see it ending up in a long-term relationship so I moved on. And then heard that three weeks later she went back online and immediately got her pregnant, but then he left her to go to another city to have another virgin. It’s very sad that there are such dirtbags out there breaking girls hearts. It wrecks it for the many good men coming over to the Philippines.

  • @q7bbq
    @q7bbq20 күн бұрын

    Mostly, once you dated a Filipina, she is expecting to be your GF and once you have a relationship together, she is looking towards a marriage and have children. They don't want a trial-and-error relationship even if sometimes their partner was bad, they will try and work for it to turn into a lasting relationship.

  • @russellrobert6084
    @russellrobert608410 күн бұрын

    That is the way it should be and only after marriage are you to come together in that way!

  • @ehvway
    @ehvway16 күн бұрын

    Great video sir. I keep telling : girls should date to marry! Not something especially girls from the west want to hear. But if you as a woman dream about marriage, save yourself for marriage. The most beautiful wedding gift you can give as a women is your first experience to the man who truly wanted to be with you.

  • @michaelo.5580
    @michaelo.558021 күн бұрын

    Hi I know a very educated woman with a good job she is 36 years old now.Last time we met in may this years she confessed me that she still pure and a virgin.She had boyfriends but never had sex.She is a very beautyful and georgeous girl .I Know that she never would lie to me or talk BS.Now I understand why she is a bit reserved.She is kind of the Boss of her whole family in a town in Mindanao.She intodruce me to the family.I talked with one of her brothers and he told me that I'm the first one who she was bring into the family.So nothing is impossible there!😎👍 By the Way very good advice from you for guy who look not for a woman to marriage!

  • @davenguyen1860
    @davenguyen186012 күн бұрын

    you are full of wisdom sir. Very interesting the cultural differences in other countries

  • @sudokuguru
    @sudokuguru22 күн бұрын

    This guys telling the truth, i got cousins like that on both sides of the spectrum.

  • @bryankoziar2867
    @bryankoziar286723 күн бұрын

    Province girls. Many, as they say "single since birth". Some in mid 20's if not older.

  • @pete531
    @pete53113 күн бұрын

    on point, i agree 100% with you advice. canada girl was such an interesting and weird story

  • @NSAKEY
    @NSAKEY22 күн бұрын

    Good advice to recreational daters. I suspect that I was probably Filipino in a previous life. As a western man, 43, and still a virgin, I can relate. Nothing wrong with me, just sacrificed a lot to help my family and always felt that I wanted to wait until I found the right one. People's choices about such things should be respected. I certainly respect a person's willingness and ability to wait. My soon-to-be Filipina wife is the same, and I am grateful, although should would probably accept me either way.

  • @nickbrown.270wsm
    @nickbrown.270wsm21 күн бұрын

    Even older I know of a 30 year old lady that's still a virgin, its just how they are, they save them self's for the man that will marry them.

  • @jamescaiquep3794
    @jamescaiquep379422 күн бұрын

    filipinas can even reach 50's never have a boyfriend. so mid 20's is pretty normal for virgins. its just the way it is because they are conservatives

  • @alanweisner2421
    @alanweisner242122 күн бұрын

    Excellent video. Your a standup guy 💯💯 much respect my friend.

  • @ntech1507
    @ntech150722 күн бұрын

    Your reasons are why i waited to get intimate with my girlfriend, because i did not want to just get intimate and send her on her way. I know it will be difficult to not do but guys should only cross the intimate line with a filipina that is inexperienced if ready to comit for them its not just nothing. Not just intimate if you taking her on dates and taking her places you are giving her experiences that are imprinted on her for the rest of her life. For me any guy who comes to the Phillipines and takes a woman virginity on purpose and knew beforehand she was a virgin should be forced to marry her , because its just wrong to just rob someone of that for your pleasure.

  • @johnkovac4436
    @johnkovac443623 күн бұрын

    Sound advice and on point with young family oriented phillipino

  • @ryno6101
    @ryno610123 күн бұрын

    I hope guys take this to heart , very true words ❤❤

  • @Ben1159a
    @Ben1159a21 күн бұрын

    I agree with you. Don't take something you can't give back. If a good time is all you're after that's found quite easily in the PI.

  • @christaylor7049
    @christaylor704922 күн бұрын

    You are absolutely right, good blog Reekay

  • @tryscience
    @tryscience23 күн бұрын

    it's good advice. why have drama and sadness when you can create happiness and harmony?

  • @reneotter
    @reneotter23 күн бұрын

    Good you are promoting respect for people !

  • @whitneyvalentine6970
    @whitneyvalentine697023 күн бұрын

    Very good advice 👍

  • @donjohnson7505
    @donjohnson750523 күн бұрын

    Excellent video and perfect timing. Can we all say “Lifesaver”…

  • @anselmodesouza7676
    @anselmodesouza76766 күн бұрын

    Many of the Filipino girls are strong in their religious beliefs. This helps them to remain morally sound...

  • @whatever7639
    @whatever763923 күн бұрын

    17-18????!!!! Try 13-14…. When I was in school most girls lost it in 12th grade, summer or 1st year college; yes 17-18--That was another planet called America!!! Today the vast majority of 9th graders have lost it… jus sayin

  • @careystravels

    @careystravels

    22 күн бұрын

    the majority of 9th graders in the states when I was in high school lost their bodies in 6th, 7th, and 8th grade!

  • @bch5513

    @bch5513

    22 күн бұрын

    @@careystravelstalking to my 14 year old son he said MOST of his classmates are NOT virgins. He thinks it is quite unfortunate being a devout Christian... the girls are REALLY after him too. It's sad.

  • @Rustsamurai1
    @Rustsamurai123 күн бұрын

    Good advice.

  • @andygames4548
    @andygames454819 күн бұрын

    The girl I’m dating For almost 1 year now is 20 years old (I’m 24). She has chosen to remain a virgin because she promised her parents and late grandparents that she wouldn’t give her virginity before marriage. Additionally, she promised and is committed to finishing her education and earning her certificate before getting married. I fully respect and support her in keeping these promises. I even once had to refuse her advances to help her stay true to her commitments (we do participate in some sexual activity, but I’m referring to her actual virginity here). Since that day, she feels confident that I am the one for her. Now, we are patiently waiting for the next 3-5 years until she completes her education and fulfills her promises. While many things can happen in these years and nothing is certain, one thing is clear: I will never stand in the way of her promises to her family. I will actively encourage her to keep and complete them. Overall, I respect her choices and it aligns with what I’m looking for. I’m not seeking pleasure but love and commitment. I may be a bit old-fashioned, even though I’m only 24, but I have no issues with it.

  • @Lifebeyondthesea

    @Lifebeyondthesea

    19 күн бұрын

    it's refreshing to hear this from a person in your generation. i commend you. it gives me a small spark of hope for humanity again.

  • @user-dy5pq7tp7g
    @user-dy5pq7tp7g17 күн бұрын

    Yeah so true Reekay… Thanks for all the great videos and I enjoy your personal stories as well….😊

  • @Lifebeyondthesea

    @Lifebeyondthesea

    17 күн бұрын

    thanks! more on the way. :)

  • @jonnyny2053
    @jonnyny205323 күн бұрын

    @reekay its like a dream come true, its so nice to see you in your videos again, im loving it

  • @michaelorfanos7416
    @michaelorfanos741623 күн бұрын

    100% agree!

  • @maxwellspeedwell2585
    @maxwellspeedwell25854 күн бұрын

    A friend of mine has an age gap of almost forty years. She is still fiercely loyal to him even though he passed about thirteen years ago. In the U.S., wives are trying to jerk the cord to the respirator out of the wall.

  • @Dusty11408
    @Dusty1140822 күн бұрын

    Love these videos. Great info!

  • @Lifebeyondthesea

    @Lifebeyondthesea

    22 күн бұрын

    More to come!

  • @gahmivolka6582
    @gahmivolka658214 күн бұрын

    dang I am loving your advice. Glad I found this channel. It is very insightful

  • @ramonescaba3627
    @ramonescaba362722 күн бұрын

    very accurate explanation, you seem to understand the culture by now, keep up the good work

  • @Lifebeyondthesea

    @Lifebeyondthesea

    22 күн бұрын

    Thanks! 😃

  • @edmondenterprisesgrouphold3782
    @edmondenterprisesgrouphold378212 күн бұрын

    That is very good info thanks

  • @PACIFICBboy
    @PACIFICBboy22 күн бұрын

    Based on what I know about the Philippine’s view on contraception, condoms, birth control, etc; if a chick doesn’t have a kid I would totally believe her if she said she was a virgin or had a super low body count because if she was out there having sex the probability of getting pregnant is high as hell lol.

  • @tomstarzeck7137
    @tomstarzeck713723 күн бұрын

    Very good presentation, after hearing your explanations and the fact that there is no government assistance, it all makes sense.

  • @AnthonyCataldo-ez5ej
    @AnthonyCataldo-ez5ej22 күн бұрын

    I really like the content of this KZread. Expats need to behave honorably.

  • @user-dp4jr5hs8b
    @user-dp4jr5hs8b21 күн бұрын

    Very good advice, Good job

  • @praisedbejesusandmary
    @praisedbejesusandmary2 күн бұрын

    There are plenty of Filipino women who haven’t had any intimate relationships with any man even in their 30’s. They usually come from large but closely-knitted conservative families who live outside Metropolitan cities.

  • @nickd44nj
    @nickd44nj9 күн бұрын

    Yes, I do believe it. My Filipina wife was 28 and never with a man. Prior to meeting her, we had an online friendship. I believe that made our future relationship stronger . Her father sent all the kids to college. The only condition was that there wasn't any dating until after graduation. It wouldn't have mattered to me either way. I was shocked that at the age of 28, and still a virgin. Here in the US, you have chance finding a unicorn 😂.

  • @Lifebeyondthesea

    @Lifebeyondthesea

    8 күн бұрын

    it's a hard thing to believe until one has lived here a few years and dated a lot. but yes, they do exist here in the PH.

  • @ericpowell4350
    @ericpowell435022 күн бұрын

    Phenomenal content!

  • @maxingaroundtheglobe
    @maxingaroundtheglobe23 күн бұрын

    that girl who want you as her bf while she is going to Canada, she is very smart. you are just a back up plan for her hahaha...

  • @antoniogutierrezjr7471

    @antoniogutierrezjr7471

    23 күн бұрын

    I can’t judge I have an uncle. Who was way older marry a young virgin. Who was like 17 and him 40 but this man looks 50 years older than this woman I don’t know bro my family here tho Mexican. Would beat the shit out of a old man doing this

  • @Gweilo60
    @Gweilo6014 күн бұрын

    Good advice

  • @Simplengpinaymorena
    @Simplengpinaymorena14 күн бұрын

    Yes agree but now a days its very rare now to find young pilipina virgin. Am telling the truth

  • @eliseorojas8715
    @eliseorojas871517 күн бұрын

    Hi, i consider this the best, very best recomendation I heard, keep it up my friend, young guys nowadays we have lost good thinking, its all fun.

  • @thomaswheeler5447
    @thomaswheeler544716 күн бұрын

    I know of a 40 year old virgin in the Philippines

  • @donmills2167
    @donmills216723 күн бұрын

    You're, a good man !

  • @vktravellog1242
    @vktravellog124222 күн бұрын

    I must say you picked the right thumbnail 😂

  • @dbell1016
    @dbell101623 күн бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @michaelorfanos7416
    @michaelorfanos741623 күн бұрын

    100% agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Handsome_Ry
    @Handsome_Ry22 күн бұрын

    Great advice Reekay, I agree as much as we westerners want to find and have a virginity. Something we cannot find in the west anymore. To be the one to take her virginity and not commit to her for the rest of your life is dishonorable and makes that guy a total scumbag/Loser. Like you said there are plenty women at bars who will let you sleep with them after showing the a good time

  • @michaelbalicanta6700
    @michaelbalicanta670023 күн бұрын

    Great insights into a subject barely mentioned... Unfortunately, there will be a**holes who will lie just to brag that they got the prize with no concern for the victims.. Similarly to the aunt in your example, I'm supporting 2 students with the same deal... They'll be entering 4th year college this coming semester.. so far so good 🤞

  • @ericg9092
    @ericg909221 күн бұрын

    Great video.

  • @Lifebeyondthesea

    @Lifebeyondthesea

    21 күн бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it

  • @raymondacevedo-padilla9092
    @raymondacevedo-padilla909223 күн бұрын

    That will be with all virgins women. In any country. It's respect to her and her family honor.

  • @PrepperJon
    @PrepperJon22 күн бұрын

    This is my 2nd comment - I am glad to hear the advice to guys who are recreational dating to leave the virgins alone. 👍🏻 Guys who are just trying to put another notch in their belt make me angry in a way that is visceral. 🤬 In the area of the Philippines where I spend my time we keep an eye out for guys like that. There are several of us expats, all former military and/or law enforcement, who together with the local Filipinos have a sort of community watch 😮. We don’t let these “players” get away with anything here. When we see a stranger arrive we make sure they understand the local rules. We all hate how some foreigners think the Philippines and a few other SE Asian countries are their personal brothels or playgrounds. Of course it helps that the local officials and police are part of our group 😅. I did hear one of them mention some pre-dug holes out in the forest 👍🏻. Players beware! 😮

  • @Lifebeyondthesea

    @Lifebeyondthesea

    22 күн бұрын

    we need more that. let the players keep to themselves, leave the decent women alone if the expat is just playing.

  • @28pbtkh23

    @28pbtkh23

    22 күн бұрын

    Like Reekay, I don't like the players either. I met plenty of them when I worked in SE Asia. However, you think you are mighty big with your talk of pre-dug holes in the forest. If that is true then you are a hundred times worse than any player. You don't take the law into your own hands over the matter of a girl being deceived by some low life. It's certainly ok if her brothers knock him about a bit. But it's none of your damned business, and it's plain wrong for anyone to kill over this.

  • @gordondkrbavac6861
    @gordondkrbavac68615 күн бұрын

    ❤Reekay, You are a Good Man❤ Thank you for All your terrific advice about the Philippines, Legend 👍

  • @Lifebeyondthesea

    @Lifebeyondthesea

    5 күн бұрын

    Thanks so much

  • @redstrom_edm
    @redstrom_edm21 күн бұрын

    Good advice. So many women are damaged after too many relationships and impossible to deal with.

  • @mikelee7972
    @mikelee797222 күн бұрын

    well said

  • @michaelschaffer9165
    @michaelschaffer916523 күн бұрын

    Those AI girls are well endowed.

  • @HappyRetiredandhealthy-qk2lg
    @HappyRetiredandhealthy-qk2lg23 күн бұрын

    a good one, thanks, I agree, don't ruin her life.

  • @abcmaya
    @abcmaya22 күн бұрын

    Yeah. Here in america that's very hard to imagine. But I have sister in laws who are surprisingly attractive in their mid 30's late 20's who are still single never had a boyfriend and are still virgins.

  • @dennisb7930
    @dennisb793023 күн бұрын

    I have met the same but they aren’t very open n distinct about there’re desire n plans 🙂

  • @golfrick007
    @golfrick00713 күн бұрын

    My wife was 23 when we met so yes it's true.

  • @MrTomherzog
    @MrTomherzog12 күн бұрын

    Thank you for the intelligent and nicely articulated video. Who was the cute girl in the shots behind you? I was in the Philippines for a month and I never met a young woman who looked THAT good. Maybe I went to the wrong places?

  • @RyanshawMe
    @RyanshawMe11 күн бұрын

    I waited until marriage - but never found a girl who did. This is promising at least hah

  • @neilhay2155
    @neilhay215523 күн бұрын

    Really good advice, especialy for there. They are very old school in their ways, and yes their family is very close too. My lady was like that and she was 40 years. If all you want is sex, go to the red light places and don't play with a young girls heart. They all talk too, so going to another town wont help you escape either. My ladies family treated me like honered family from the start, and yes, i got the Aunties talk (interview 😁😄😃😉) at the table too, along with her younger lady cousiens too. But within minutes they all had to have photots with me and were so genuine with how they talked to me, I really felt like they were family already. Yes, I had already decided to marry her too if all went well, I just didn't say or hint at that. Now I really feel I won the lottory with my lady, and my family love her as much as I do too.

  • @eoleol4750
    @eoleol47503 күн бұрын

    They are like that in America. They told my nephew it's okay to date their sister but if anything happened. He would have to marry her. At that point, he backed off.

  • @blockaderunner
    @blockaderunner23 күн бұрын

    I never asked but I had a hunch with my wife who I married before sex. I believe it's so important and what has destroyed the West.

  • @LADETROIT
    @LADETROIT16 күн бұрын

    True

  • @maxwellspeedwell2585
    @maxwellspeedwell25855 күн бұрын

    …the story continues with the friend of a friend. She went home, threw her self on the bed, and told all her male relatives that he had raped her. He took off running and trying to stay one island ahead of all the relatives who were after him. If he tries to leave, he will be picked up at the airport. If he does make it to the US, he will be picked up at the airport and extradited. If caught and tried, he will be sent to prison. He’s a large man, but there could be many men in one cell, and you gotta sleep sometime. It would be a death sentence.

  • @harrycarson2119
    @harrycarson211914 күн бұрын

    I HOPING GOD WILL BLESS ME WITH ONE OF THEM ! I FOUND OUT MOST WOMAN OVER THERE HAVE CHILDREN BUT I DO LOVE CHILDREN

  • @dannyestrada8572
    @dannyestrada857213 күн бұрын

    She is only sweet 20 years old. Never been kiss, never been touch. All she needs is candy, ice cream, teddy bear and lollipop

  • @themacker894
    @themacker89423 күн бұрын

    LOL! You missed your chance to have an LDR with a girl living in Canada. J Edit: Great point about the family stepping in.

  • @Dutchy-1168
    @Dutchy-116823 күн бұрын

    A dream ‼️‼️

  • @theblackboxpodcastshow1791
    @theblackboxpodcastshow179122 күн бұрын

    I wouldn’t do that, my intention to move to the Philippines is for another adventure in my life and hopefully meet someone to spend the remaining years I have left to be a great person and hopefully a great husband. I want to be that person that my wife’s family comes to visit when I’m gone ( on All Saints’ Day) . 😊😊

  • @josephcmcauliffe1706
    @josephcmcauliffe170620 күн бұрын

    Unfortunately the right nice guy will be hard to find now days

  • @daxmac3691
    @daxmac369115 күн бұрын

    Pinays/Pinoys rarely use the word VIRGIN. To indicate no experience Pinoys use the Spanish word "innosente". Or MORE politely....Do YOU have a SERIOUS Pinoy boyfriend before? If yes then ask what age? If she does have serious Pinoy BF B4....then ask Do you have CANO (foreigner) BF B4? If yes say "what country is he from?" Don't ask these Questions when you see INK or Piercings. YouRwelcome

  • @duffydieu122
    @duffydieu12223 күн бұрын

    last year i found 2 women over 30 that were both vary good looking and had never been kissed... both wanted a GOOD guy and were not just looking to play around ,,

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