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I am 46 years old and my Filipina fiancée is 28. Nothing wrong with it.

@etfremd

21 күн бұрын

That’s perfect.:.not even an age gap really!

@Rustsamurai1

20 күн бұрын

She's too old.

@windellchapman8397

7 күн бұрын

I m now 71 and my wife of 20 yrs is now 47 .. We re quite happy and we have a gazzillion likes/ dislikes in common !!!! She is a light in any room she enters!!! She had a very good Dad , until he passed away !! Two previous wives had abusive dads and they didnt trust men at all !!!! 😵‍💫

@windellchapman8397

7 күн бұрын

A lovely Filipina that has a genuine smile and personality , cannot be topped by any other race of women !!!!!

The most important thing is keep it to yourself. You already know it will not be acceptable by the West. I have dated a few 20s-something women but I never advertised it to anyone outside my close friend where I live.

@NewAdventuresAhead

20 күн бұрын

There does remain that wonderful option of telling them to go fully eff themselves. 🤣

@gahmivolka6582

14 күн бұрын

It is also insane how if an Older woman goes finds a 20 something boy toy. She is empowered. I have never been able to understand this logic.

@dbuck1964

14 күн бұрын

@@gahmivolka6582it’s because it’s not logical at all. Self-awareness in women is a myth.

Lol! Here in the US, the average 45 year old woman has the maturity of a 14 year old boy so dating a young filipina should be easy. 🤣🤣🤣

In other words. Don't be selfish! Great info. Something to think about when going after young women.

Another thoughtful video, with great advice, thanks Reekay! What you've said before is that many times an age gap relationship is a sort of mentor relationship, and that's really resonated with me, and that's what I'm doing with my girl. I intend to help her develop her entrepreneurial skills in the case that I'm no longer around, so she'll be independent with her own income producing abilities. You're right, we have much more life experience, and we should be willing and eager to share it.

I met & married my filipina when she was in her mid 30s. She had never been married but had 1 child and had worked abroad 4 years to help support that child and her parents before we met. I found d conversation with 20 year olds very silly and conversation with my 30 year old much more realistic and genuine. Her child us a very good kid and never had a father growing up so I got to be daddy again. I have enjoyed that as I was not allowed to be a real father to my biological kid thanks to western divorce processes and her mother playing manipulation games all the time. I find the Filipina women and the. Children are playful but want to learn and know what older western men know. My wife is 25 years younger and she makes me very happy and I am showing her hiw to run my business so she can maintain that income after I am gone. Hopefully that legacy will continue to her child and so on.

@roberthertel5565

21 күн бұрын

Clearly you ended up with the ideal woman , Very glad things are working out very well for you and very nice of you to prepare her for when the time comes when she is without you, let's hope that will be many, many years down the road ! :)

My sister was mad at me for moving in with a 37yo filipina. I can't imagine how she would react if I found a 20's filipina! lol

@jamesloerzel4377

21 күн бұрын

That's unfortunately because modern western women have become toxic... They would rather push their own agenda ahead of your happiness... So I return the favor, and ignore them. How to piss off the vast majority of Western women... Be a man and be happy...

@ericpowell4350

21 күн бұрын

At your age and status, why in the world why would you care what anybody thought of your decisions let alone your sister?

@davefarnsworth3020

21 күн бұрын

I just had a talk with my youngest sister this morning on this very topic.

@etfremd

21 күн бұрын

I’m 57 and found a 20 year old…very sweet…she will be 21 soon and I’ll be 58 in a couple months also…

@JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y

19 күн бұрын

When I was a young 47, I faced the orb of Eros and thought I could make two choices. Be responsible and honor this with marriage (which is forever, right) or I could “passport bro” and FK tradition. These rules we have are all written by the dead. People who came before us with very different circumstances and life challenges. We feel that pressure that “this” is the “right” way to live and navigate life. But “this” is dead in modernity. Things are changing so fast that we really have to make the rules up with fresh boots. Any advice or Shane talk (internal or external) must be discarded or at least measured as inhibition against living the one life God granted us.

Very wise words. Help someone and make a life with them. Don't play around.

The important key here is his stressing long-term relationship..if that's not what you're willing to sign up for, you're better off being upfront that you are just 'dating' because once your intimate, as in most relationships, the dynamics change with a permanent expectation. Take you're time, haste makes waste and babies !

Woah. “What have I done today to prepare her for when I’m gone?” Beautiful moon right there ❤ And yea, she may change her mind and you may change your mind. Love fades like tears in the rain. There are no guarantees FACT and so an older western man can’t become trapped by imagination or hope as a younger man without a 1000 miles of pain and disappointment. I don’t know man. Great talk today. I’m just in the place (post divorce) where I know two things are true. We have an infinite potential for love but like that old song goes “I tried so hard, and got so far, but in the end it doesn’t even matter.” It’s going to be an interesting year. I’m 61 and I did the math for retirement at 62 vs just keep going and going. Both options are fine on a spreadsheet. But damn is it boring here in America. An empty bed wasn’t on my radar and I don’t think I can endure that when one option exists.

@Lifebeyondthesea

19 күн бұрын

to me.. when i looked at the math for retirement (i'm also 61)... i came to the conclusion, "more money by waiting is nice.. but tomorrow is promised to no one." i'll be starting my benefits when i turn 62. with $1500/month.. you can easily start a whole new life in the PH. have some backup money for medical emergency of course.

This man keeps it real. I dated several Filipinos and this man is telling him the truth 100% but also know that female nature is female nature.

Very helpful discussion and thoughts as always Reekay. Thank you .

This is a very valuable video, this applies to all age gap relationships worldwide as well

A good MAN is like a father to his woman. Guide protect and provide was of life, not necessarily Money but all things .

Truth!💯

Thanks Reekay for passing on your life experiences in the Philippines

The best is to date a filipina between 20-24! I agree with Reekay absolutely,I am above 60 and have one 😊

@stedye

15 күн бұрын

62 and my girl is 23 , in her last year of college. I Agree with you 100%

You do this well

Thank you.

So well said!

That’s great mate - your a decent man

Spot on! Brilliant Rekay. I agree 100 percent.

well said, good information. Men is the provider in the east and women is the giver.

Do you have any videos about about owning property, or house, land, condos, for foreigners?

@Lifebeyondthesea

20 күн бұрын

here's the link; kzread.info/dash/bejne/pp9klZaQZ9avlqQ.html

6:45 💚

Sounds to me being a good dad would be a good practice for this kind of relationship.

I wouldn’t ask her to give up her dream of having a baby, being a little selfish if I’m asking her to give up her most fertile years of her life just because i want to date / relationship/ marry a very young woman. If I go into a relationship/ marriage, that is a fundamental part of it, bearing offspring, anything else is just pandering to my desires, if I don’t want kids I’ll grab a post wall woman that cannot have kids and “ blast away “ without worrying. But ( for me) if I tell a young woman I love her, then I have to give her everything she wants ( within my power) . Mentor her ? Yes plan for her future without me when I die? Yes but also give her something more, a human being that looks like the both of us, so my legacy lives on with the woman I love

@OffTheGridHomesteadCostaRica

20 күн бұрын

You the man! I wish more men thought the same way...unfortunately...most are selfish. Just saying.

@JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y

19 күн бұрын

Thanks man! I’m thinking of going over there next year and it’s the one thing holding me back. I’m kind of trying to ignore it because it’s so powerful that it’s giving me inertia. I can just stay here, be comfortable, work, retire in 10 years and then sip lemonade on the porch until I die. Sounds bad but can’t I just fill the void with consumerism

Good thoughts.

Waiting a year to get married doesn't work for me. I am a 73 year old widower( married to a Chinese for 51 years) who is Christian. I am committed to no sexual relations outside of marriage. I am moving to Thailand not the Philippines. I hope to marry a lady 3 to 6 months after meeting her.

25 or younger to me is a little girl. I like a WOMAN...

@USA_to_Asia_in_2024

21 күн бұрын

25 or older to me is a used up girl. I like a woman with purity.

@buzuxi

20 күн бұрын

Under 25 (presuming age gap of 20+ years) can work if you are living in the Philippines, but if you are looking to bring her back definitely over 25 and have a frank discussion of expectations.

Can they travel outside of their country? This is of utmost value, the man may need to travel with his female friend somewhere.

@Lifebeyondthesea

9 күн бұрын

they can, but will need an interview to avoid being 'off-loaded'.

Oh. YMMV but -- Caveat Lector: THEY'RE INSATIABLE.

5:34 so she brought nothing to the table?

I guess the second timeline would work for a much older man. He can marry a much younger filipina love and mentor her and when he passed away she is still young enough to have a child/family she can, but with the years of teaching her how to live and, hopefully manage the money the man left her. A wiw win for all.